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If it takes this long for you to even "see" there's conflict in your marriage, you have issues She thinks i have been ignoring her and ignoring the issue when in reality i am choosing not to engage her while she locks herself in the bedroom and calls me an abuser. I went to a licensed marriage and family therapist twice a month for the year of 2014. I invited her on multiple occasions, even offered to pay for her to see a personal counseling. Her response was always, "i dont need help. You need …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 05:40 AM
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I've never hit her but I've surely pushed her away when she was hitting me. Last year she hit me hard and kicked me in the genitals and I told her if she ever hit me again I would call the police on her. We haven't had any physical abuse since then.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 06:07 AM
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wow. i must be so naive. When you say "freedom" what do you mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 07:07 AM
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we have no children. we are joint signers of the home and the vehicle. that is it. What can she take from me? I do make the money because she refuses to get a full-time job. But, i just want the cat.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 06:25 AM
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Truth is (Since i can be true here because its the internet and noone knows me) there is a combination of psychosocial-medical problems. I believe deep in my heart that my wife wants to be a loving woman but she doesnt know how. With that said, years of a sexless marriage has stacked bitterness. Sex physically hurts her She doesnt have libido She has chronic fatigue syndrome But i think the most devastating out of her psycho-social problems is that she feels dirty and guilty after sex. To which …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 06:24 AM
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i agree that i would rather encourage my wife to act like an adult than to discourage her by shamming or embarrassing her. My ideal approach would be to just flat out say I feel that you are acting like a child and having a tantrum by locking yourself in the room and not eating. If or when you want to converse and have a relationship let me know. Until then, i have a couple movies i want to watch and some books to read. Asta!
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 02:45 AM
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OI what is OI?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 10:12 PM
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You are throwing a temper tantrum. That's too bad. I was planning to invite you to go to dinner and a movie but since you want to lock yourself up im going to go enjoy this time myself. I hope you enjoy being alone while i am having fun. See you!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 09:41 PM
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Valid argument and i see where your stance is! Thank you for unpacking the thought process
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 09:36 PM
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That is what ive been doing. Reading sidebar (NNMNG) and ignoring her behavior. With that said, if she wants to engage in conversation, i would not ignore her, but i am choosing not to engage in her manipulation. Which, i feel, are two different but appropriate actions.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 08:50 PM
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i think i would rather just be calm and steady. Stay the course.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/15 08:35 PM
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Dalroc where do i start? The blog goes back to 2010.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 06:49 PM
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Finished chapter two last night. Called my father who has serious NICE GUY SYNDROME. Going to give him a copy tonight and we'll read it together. Time to become empowered!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 06:22 PM
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Of course. I have access to her bank account and pull up the statements if i need to.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 06:20 PM
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Honestly, I can't even fathom my wife using the account to be insidious. The more I've read today the more I believe it's my issues of control than trust. I want her to do everything my way because I have control issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 07:40 AM
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I've never read deadbedroom or subscribed to it
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 10:27 PM
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On the lines of "owning my own crap" would it be reasonable to apologize for cursing and raising my voice in the context of "real men don't need to yell or intimidate for power"?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 06:14 PM
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thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 05:23 PM
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Thank you. Ive been reading the side bar and just purchased the first book no more mister nice guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 04:55 PM
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