See my previous post if you are interested in the background.

Last time we left off my wife locks herself in the bedroom whenever i am home. This past weekend i had off and she was not home, probably at her mother's house, i did not ask. I have sort of been an emotional wreck with other life stress including finishing grad school and attempting to publish a paper this summer. I took monday off which i would usually have worked.

Guess what? Assuming i would be at work, my wife came home. But not only came home, she came home with groceries! As she always does, she does the grocery shopping for the family. I am sure she was not expecting me to be home, but, whatever, i had stuff to finish. I got the brakes replaced in the car and went out to watch the new avengers movie whilst i wait.

That night, i unlock the bedroom door, because, it's my room, and i am going to sleep in my my bed. I say out loud, "you know, you dont need to lock the door." She gets out of bed, looks at me and says, "I do to protect myself from an abuser." I just stared at her, no emotion, no reaction. Then, i shrugged and started to brush my teeth.

Tonight, i get home after a long day and i wanted to look up a previous article that i was reading so i opened my History from my internet browser.

Guess what?!

The wife sniffed through my email, specifically opening the ones that were personal messages from a gaming forum where i try to sell accounts. Not only, but also reading personal emails between me and my best friend. What's best, she found links i sent to my friend to Dalrock's website and opened up some pages from his. I doubt she read anything. She even found the email i sent to my father about reading "No more Mr Nice Guy."

Is she going crazy or just looking for some sort of adultery?

Edit: Is it worth shooting a text like, "did you find anything you were looking for when you searched through my email, game accounts, and browser history?"