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Metapsyflux/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 03:33 PM
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Red Pill Theorypsyflux/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 10:41 AM
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Blue Pill Examplepsyflux/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 08:45 PM
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New password time... Even if you "never told her" or she "never even had a chance to..."
/r/MGTOW11/02/18 01:55 PM
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"It's the same guy! You knew so it doesn't count! Why are you being so mean!?!!"
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 12:57 PM
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my last two girlfriends put me through hell. One cheated on me while she was away on holiday, and another became a depressed psycho bitch that loved to start drama. It really started to affect my life and my studies. This right here is a completely rational statement of explanation to anyone who asks. nothing more needs to be said.
/r/MGTOW16/09/17 10:36 PM
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Whoresey Sawse
/r/MGTOW15/06/17 10:37 PM
1

Treat her like a 4 and find a dozen more.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 02:39 PM
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You're not truly in monk mode if a girl showing the slightest bit of interest throws your whole plan off course. There are a hundred more just like her, you lack abundance mentality. Hit it if you can, but don't take your eyes off the prize.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 06:22 PM
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http://hundredpushups.com/ http://www.twohundredsitups.com/ http://www.twohundredsquats.com/
/r/askTRP13/01/17 06:16 PM
3

r\divorce
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:44 AM
2

TRP is not for you.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:32 AM
1

I speak to three people I went to high school with on a bi-monthly basis...one of them is my brother. Disregard the social aspect and focus on your studies. You're not going to form any lasting relationships with anyone in +/-18 months. Take that time and spend it improving yourself either in the gym or intellectually.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 12:47 PM
1

Mine waited until three weeks before the end of deployment.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 12:07 AM
1

Demote to reserve plate status...start swiping right.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 07:10 PM
1

Once you get on a roll you'll start see there's always another one just like her...always another five just like her...always another ten...another twenty...another hundred...and the sooner you realize AWALT the easier it is.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 07:08 PM
3

I can't even count the number of plate-furnished steak dinners I've received on this approach.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 06:56 PM
2

Take an international vacation... Russia or Korea would be my suggestions... Then come back and laugh your ass off about ever having considered what you just proposed.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 09:52 PM
3

Yep...easy...don't ever live together. No binding ties makes it easier to come and go as you please.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 06:58 PM
16

Some guys are perfectly happy spending all day at the driving range, just don't lose it when someone asks you to actually play.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 06:56 PM
5

I have urged her to get into more of a fit lifestyle for health reasons, and she did not like the idea, stating she is comfortable the way she is. She's fat...will get fatter...nothing you do or say will change her mind...won't do anything on her own to change...good luck.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 06:21 PM
1

Yes, but not overnight. As you're tested the more practiced and polished your frame the higher your SMV will be perceived. Read both the post and comments in the sidebar link: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3iix64/frame/
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:21 AM
5

Enlist in the military, problem solved.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 12:23 PM
6

I don't think she could do much as far as getting me in trouble. Wrong. If you enjoy the stability of your academic career don't send dick pics.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 12:24 AM
9

First, I can't figure out why you're allowing a 20 year old dictate the terms and conditions of your sex life. Secondly, she's nexting you on her terms, believe it.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 12:20 AM
5

Diet: 16:8 IF with protein pulsing Lift: Maintain current plan Cardio:20/20 split of 20min HIIT treadmill sprints followed by 20 minutes on Stairmaster.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 04:37 PM
1

Been there, done this... Start every workout with 20 minutes on the stairmaster (moderate pace) This will address your lack of lower body vascularity and indirectly target your waist..
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:42 PM
2

Buy a BMW key and decent watch.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 10:44 PM
2

Some men hear the term "hard next" here and believe its necessary to completely nuke the situation which usually just ends up looking like a complete loss of frame. "Soft next" typically allows you to step back from the situation while maintaining frame and without making yourself look like a complete knob. As you stated you'd love to leave the door open for future encounters so in this case a soft next would be best...just don't spend anymore precious time or energy thinking about her or you'll…
/r/askTRP10/11/16 01:32 PM
3

Plates break. Soft next, go find 10 more just like her.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 12:24 PM
1

Initiate dread...and if that doesn't do it then hard next. Your time is important. Don't let her treat you like it isn't.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:23 PM
7

I am still in love but don't think she is. That's the smartest thing you've said so far. Now wake up and smell the coffee.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 06:20 PM
2

His hamster says "exclusive fwb"...but anyway
/r/askTRP27/10/16 11:27 AM
1

She's hearing about her friends rides on the CC and has decided she's done sitting on the sidelines. She's gonna blow Chad in a bathroom at a party this weekend (Hint: you ain't Chad) Don't waste your valuable time. Skip the visit, make other plans, lose the drama, hard next.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 10:32 AM
4

So the girl is about a 6 Why would you put in so much effort for a 6?
/r/askTRP24/10/16 01:24 PM
2

AWALT regardless.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 08:05 PM
2

The waitress never looks at me first, rarely chats me up compared to everyone else, etc. Waitresses and bartenders have always been a special breed. For whatever reason they're under the impression you should be compensating them for their time and company rather than just fetching your beverage. If they know they can double a shitty tip with a smile and some cleavage then they will. Maybe they ignore you because you tip like shit? Waitstaff are only there for your money and DGAF about you, I su…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:49 AM
2

And what do you get in return from her? Hope? More to the point, are you getting what you want from her in return? Since you're asking here the answer is obviously "no". You're well on your way to being just another one of her orbiters. Instead of being her emotional tampon be genuine about your motives and ideas of where you think things should be headed. You are a limited-time offer and if she won't there are certainly others that will. If she's in any way vague or noncommittal in her response…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:40 AM
1

I don't want to get married This is a conversation you need to have ASAP. There will be no "right moment" and there will be no "better time". If you don't want to be married now you won't want to be married later. Its up to you to save yourself, no one here can do it for you. Take the loss, take the pain, better to do it now than later while there's still time.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 02:35 PM
2

She enjoys wasting your valuable time. Go no contact. You owe her nothing the least of which is closure.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:26 PM
1

Soft next. One of those taco places isn't worth the energy or the effort.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:22 PM
3

Abundance mentality - Next her Scarcity mentality - You're still beta after all
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:20 PM
2

Not necessarily self deprecating. I would suggest that you recognize that your decision to not to get married is going to result in the disappointment (in some form) of every woman you're ever going to be with for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 04:03 PM
0

"Why disappoint a hundred girls all at once when I can do it on an individual basis instead?"
/r/askTRP03/10/16 03:39 PM
1

Urgency of departure. Idiot kid kicked out of the house with nowhere to go. College wasn't in the cards until I had my shit together and someone else was picking up the tab.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 11:22 PM
1

If you really don't know, join the military (Go Navy), you'll be in and out before you know it. Start researching veteran's benefits your state offers as far as free college tuition. Illinois gave me a full scholarship when I got out.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:03 PM
1

There's a reason they call fake tits +2's...
/r/askTRP23/09/16 05:21 PM
16

Well for starters you're 21 and still believe in unicorns. That's going to come around to kick you in the balls. Secondly, regardless of your decision now you will always have the element of "what could've been" rolling around in the back of your head. You need to break yourself from that type of thinking as it only serves to second-guess your decision making process. As it stands the odds aren't in your favor so you'd better be damn sure of what you're getting yourself into and the ramification…
/r/askTRP23/09/16 05:12 PM
0

She's very responsible, but her parents trump all. You know what's gonna be great? When she starts going to them for advice once you're married. Never mind how she keeps things all pent up inside rather than communicating like a normal human being. I'm guessing you two don't live together. That's a good thing, now's your chance... Next.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 02:54 PM
1

Anyone thinking about leaving school to "work out and man up" probably isn't post-grad material anyway.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 02:47 PM
1

My go to is non-descriptive stomach problems. Most people seem to understand that. You could maintain the visual by drinking tonic and lime...nobody will know any better.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 10:47 AM
0

Bad call. Unless you're failing out there's no reason to prolong the agony of your academic career. Remember, C's get degrees. Do what you have to do now so you can do what you want to do later.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 10:42 AM
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End the relationship. She also tries to blame the lack of sexual desire to not meeting her emotional needs and doing all that frilly sweet shit. You aren't her idea of Chad and you never will be. The above already shows her perception of your shortcomings to be the contributing factor. AKA its your fault and always will be. If you were her ideal man I promise you that your satisfactions would always be at the top of her list regardless of how inconveniencing it would be for her. Now since you've…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 10:45 AM
1

Leave town ASAP, reboot your life.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 12:05 PM
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Keep the situation strictly professional by limiting your availability to specific times during the week and only locations where work is to be done. Avoid social media communications. Decline any meetings at personal dwellings...even if "everyone else will be there", its a trap.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 12:03 PM
1

Streamline. Per your indication that you don't understand your class material the only two items you should be allowing for is school and work at least until your exams are complete. Everything else is now qualified as "Extras", yes, even lifting. If you can admit to having issues with your class work and then even consider "Extras" participation an option right now you deserve your fate.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 05:09 PM
2

So move on... Say no
/r/askTRP10/09/16 01:03 AM
2

Text? What text?
/r/askTRP10/09/16 12:59 AM
4

You can't. It's like the perfect steak, a great cigar, or specific scotch. I recommend you consider relocating to South Korea and never look back.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 10:36 AM
2

You're not coming back from this one. In time it will serve as a lesson learned on why breaking frame is the cardinal sin. "Accept her friendship" by never talking to her again. You'll be doing yourself a favor.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:57 PM
16

You're being played for a fool. Move out of their reach. Decline all requests.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:32 PM
3

I guarantee while you're here trying to save a "dead" bedroom she's busy watching her single friends social media feeds having the time of their lives and starting to wonder what it will be like to have her turn. The hamster is always, always spinning. I've been there. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. And wrap it up...the last thing you need in your situation right now is a souvenir.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 11:47 AM
3

I believe all women are destined to ride the CC before settling down. My opinion is anyone trying to lock down a woman barely in her 20s is blind to this. You need to internalize the fact that she is not "The One". she has room to grow Not with you. Bonus RP opinion: I'm guessing by age you were likely her first and she also doesn't blow you on a regular basis. Speaking from personal experience, get out while you still can.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 11:14 AM
1

I can't quit due to my contract Them if they're so unhappy with you that they can buy out your contract and be done with you. Otherwise keep your head down, do your time, and stop being such an emotional little bitch.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 04:43 PM
5

Yep. You've already been there, fucked that...go audition some new talent.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:54 PM
7

Perhaps if she's on the Forbes 500. But beyond that, no, there's a reason she's an ex.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:40 PM
6

She looks like a 5-6 but the behavior as you've described it makes her a 3-4...she's bringing absolutely nothing to the table. Stop hamstering, aim higher.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 10:50 AM
7

My friend told me she was gonna do it. (he's dating her best friend so her best friend told him) She already broke up with you. Unless you think it was some kind of accident... Go no contact, block her, ignore her, deny closure. You don't owe her a thing.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:07 PM
3

Good job on keeping her entertained until Chad gets there. Your reply should be:
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:47 PM
1

IDGAF-Wash-rinse-repeat
/r/askTRP20/08/16 04:25 PM
1

Will it give you magic powers? No, but its still worth doing for a month.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 12:58 AM
2

Play her game. "Well at least bring me something to eat." In the mean time get dressed and pack a gym bag. If she brings food, fantastic, eat dinner and then show her the door because you made other plans to go out. If she refuses tell her to meet you somewhere for food instead, wait 20 minutes and send her a text saying you can't make it. Leave the stereo on loud enough to hear through the door, hit the gym for an hour. More often than not they're already waiting at the door when I get home.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:18 PM
1

Demote to plate #1, carry on.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 04:50 PM
3

Yes. Annual donations to Shriner's, St. Jude's, and Project Linus. Do I walk around wearing a t-shirt? No, but I'll suggest any of the three to anyone who feels like they could be doing more.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 03:05 PM
1

Seeing Chad = Fuck you! Being Chad = Fuck yeah!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 12:27 PM
3

I have respectable SMV in real life This translates to "I don't need an app to get women"
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:09 AM
2

That bad feeling is a normal response as you've (likely) always been told something along the lines of "when two people love each other very much". As a result you believe the lack of emotional connection somehow makes sex wrong. More sex, more often...its the only way to deprogram the Disney from your brain.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:00 AM
2

If by "get rid of him" you mean take the personal initiative to grow up enough to stop depending on your father to provide you with a rent-free living arrangement then by all means yes..."get rid of him".
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:24 PM
1

How much of Hollywood is full of this? 100% of it. Don't take your social cues from any mass marketed product/media.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 10:15 AM
13

Recently got back together with an ex. Step 1: Don't do that. Step 2: If you do that, undo that.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 06:16 PM
1

Take the Intermittent Fasting (IF) approach. By reducing your intake window to 1/3 of the day (16 hour fast) you can reduce your weight without really exercising. "Eat less, exercise less" Disclaimer - The weight will come off but you'll end up "skinny fat" and very weak. You should reconsider not exercising.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 10:23 AM
1

Next time just skip directly to ---> lol "women"
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:58 PM
3

Bad news: You let yourself be brought into her frame way too easily. Good news: Your turn is almost over.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:38 PM
59

none of us have interest in each other Not true because: he was putting half of the total bill
/r/askTRP21/07/16 10:17 AM
0

Nice Strawman... OP's problem is that the girl continues to lie to him over and over again. She won't stop because he doesn't seem to be able to give her up.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 06:12 PM
1

Protein, Ibuprofen, and water.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 12:25 PM
2

I take it you've not heard the phrase "cum dumpster". High partner count is the reddest flag there is.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:46 AM
1

Location is your issue it seems. I've always made it a point to be within 15-20 minutes of both my workplace and my gym. Cost free solution: Nix the hobby (especially if its gaming in lieu of sleep) and commute directly to the gym after work.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 10:48 AM
1

Bulgaria Aqva... Combined with a favorite "sport" or "fresh" antiperspirant... This has been my go to combo for years. Keeps them guessing because I refuse to divulge what I'm wearing. Keeps them jumping on me like I'm a stack of fresh laundry.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 08:55 AM
1

What are you doing with your savings? Go talk to a financial planner, put your money to work for you rather than just letting it sit.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 10:20 AM
1

Relocate to another bank ASAP.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 05:38 PM
3

You're focusing on what you believe women will want from you (money) when what you should be focused on self-improvement and making yourself happy first. Go back and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 05:37 PM
1

She now isn't spending her free time with me, is instead with the cheating friend, and is now saying she wants to get her own house and already looked at one without telling me. You're at the point in the relationship where you've agreed to a number things where now she no longer feels the need to consult you on decisions as she already "knows" what you're thinking. Shit can go sideways real fast. Maintain frame, focus on your kids, don't fool yourself by thinking that you can't abandon a sinkin…
/r/askTRP06/07/16 03:01 PM
1

I'll give it a shot this weekend, thanks!
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 02:18 AM
1

On that french press, I suggest doing some research on cold brew coffee. I got hooked back in February and never looked back. Mixes well with chocolate protein powder.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 11:00 PM
5

Lets lay it out straight: You're 22, you don't know shit about what you can and can't do. You were getting laid but now you're not because of a book. Your special snowflake is making you miserable. Your suffering will end as soon as you end it. What you need to do: Stop letting others make decisions for you Find a gym and get some self-esteem Exit your comfort zone ASAP Embrace AWALT
/r/askTRP28/06/16 12:25 PM
3

https://www.iflyworld.com/chicago-naperville/
/r/askTRP27/06/16 02:04 PM
1

Your hamster seems to be spinning and making you give a fuck, stop that shit.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 12:03 AM
2

A few years back I nexted a plate as a result of her desire for "written rules". I heard several weeks later that her new boyfriend's life was being made absolutely miserable due to having broken a few rules. I suggest you negotiate your way out of the written rules situation as they will only be used against you and won't likely apply to her anyway. If as a couple you can't negotiate your way through this situation you should take this as a solid indication that your relationship is already doo…
/r/askTRP25/06/16 11:46 PM
13

She has literally spent the past three months subconsciously comparing you to Tim. The booze loosened her tongue and the truth fell out. Better sooner than later I say. Hard next. Spend your newfound free time and money at the gym.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 05:47 PM
1

Norfolk/Va Beach vet here...you're correct. The navy town female mindset had/has them avoiding squids at all costs. (Unless you wanna be Jody, beware the UCMJ) Crashing on the couch is fine from a cash perspective but its probably time to stop running around without options. Next time you go up get a hotel for the weekend, see if your mindset changes.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 12:07 PM
1

Anything you can do for 12 weeks as far as furthering your career? Certifications? Training? Change of employer? As stated before: goal-centric structured distraction
/r/askTRP13/06/16 08:07 PM
1

I lift regularly Or skipping workouts Stop bullshitting yourself...get back into the gym and set goals. Get on a legitimate 12-week program. At this point a goal-centric structured distraction is going to be your best friend. Say no to drugs.
/r/askTRP13/06/16 10:00 AM
-5

Too late. You were honest and now it will come back to bite you. Practice writing with a pen and paper over summer vacation so they'll stop calling you "Laptop Looney" behind your back.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 10:30 AM
1

You can make pushups more difficult with a little bit of imagination...elevate your feet on a chair...lift one foot off the ground...slow your descent to 5+ seconds...maybe some one handed pushups...the list is virtually endless. Once you get your strength up you can graduate to handstand pushups.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 07:49 PM
1

This works both ways (men and women), avoid at all costs especially when the woman is the interested party.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 02:57 PM
1

Yes. Follow a 40-rep scheme (8-8-6-5-4-4-3-2) four times a week. Don't forget to eat an extra 500 cals per day, preferably clean proteins. High carb off days, low carb training days.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 10:26 AM
1

Summertime...she's looking for a ride on the carousel. No closure or explanations necessary on your part, next her now and avoid all the upcoming drama.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:33 PM
2

Are you being offered/given additional compensation for the personal training with customers?
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:19 PM
1

Take a week...take two...decompress and get your footing. Pro tip: Don't make any major decisions, changes, or over-extensions during the time off.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 05:17 PM
2

Wardobe maintenance - Ironing, sewing, shining shoes, etc.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 12:16 PM
5

saying that she doesn't want to be my LTR anymore Time for you to get the fuck outta there. The last thing you should be doing is validating her shitty behavior towards you by indulging it. Hard-fucking-NEXT
/r/askTRP06/06/16 05:38 PM
1

"Walking the dog" Maybe I finish of another certification. Maybe I pull a few consulting gigs on the side for some extra cash. Maybe I drop some cash into some high risk action. It all focuses around sticking it out there for the betterment and improving the situation of Numero Uno. Focusing on genuine priorities reduces the time I spend thinking about whatever trivial action goes on in the bedroom. Realize its all just dime a dozen and instead expand your perception of abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 10:25 AM
1

If OP was anywhere but NYC I might agree. Global pass to 36 locations...if he can't get laid there he won't get laid anywhere. No, no hookups.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 03:50 PM
1

Exploit the resource while you can. Start reading up on "abundance mentality".
/r/askTRP03/06/16 03:41 PM
1

I suggest you start working out at Equinox, you'll see plenty of examples.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 11:10 AM
1

Every day/week/month there is some new thing that is everyone's fault but hers. Sounds like no matter how you swing it you're just another addition to the list of people to blame.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 10:59 AM
3

Lift, today. No gym? Pushups, situps, and running. Check out /r/bodyweightfitness Play football...make grades...socialize two grades up.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 01:27 PM
1

Far different. They're primary purpose for being there is to focus on removing the cash directly from your hand and lining their own pockets. Display solid frame and high SMV. Pro tip: Headed to Magaluf: Daiquiri Palace
/r/askTRP02/06/16 01:15 PM
-1

He makes me super happy. This should have been the end of the discussion. The fact of the matter is you're not going to find any one person on the planet who will ever be as devoted to you as your dog is, but apparently that counts for nothing and he'll be too much of an inconvenience. Start researching no-kill shelters so your "best friend" can live out the rest of his days wondering why you abandoned him. Asshole.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 11:14 AM
1

This last category is full of short women, by the way. Rabid Chihuahua Syndrome
/r/askTRP31/05/16 05:31 PM
1

No sleepovers. Keep a few toothbrushes on hand as departing gifts. Any static/deviation dictates that you find another plate that's less clingy. Let them initiate contact. Logistic responses only. Make no extended plans. As far as she's concerned you're out of town.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 03:03 PM
1

You're 22... You don't know shit, haven't seen shit, and (probably) don't have shit. GTFO now before she "accidentally" locks you down and fucks your life.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:33 PM
1

Just got flaked on for tonight... Didn't respond to the text, not going to.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 12:09 AM
1

I just got back from a dedicated birthday weekend in Vegas, F-closed 3/3...it was selfish of him to make me dedicate all that time but somehow I managed. Stop being a bitch and get your friend laid for his birthday.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 12:03 AM
2

Nuke the bridge, "contact" the friend
/r/askTRP26/05/16 09:13 PM
0

"Just me and my pal Johnny Walker"
/r/askTRP26/05/16 12:59 PM
1

Plates...have enough to start a volleyball team.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 05:35 PM
1

She's hit a dry spell...for reasons she cannot explain she's no longer getting her way...nothing seems to work anymore...paying for her own drinks is a foreign concept...its only an extra 25lbs... Hamster: "Captain, we're approaching what seems to be some sort of wall...we'd better turn around and go back to when life was easier"
/r/askTRP25/05/16 10:13 AM
3

If your diet sucks there's really no exercise regimen that will benefit you more than any other. Garbage in, garbage out. TL;DR: Focus on improving the overall quality of your diet to maximize your ROI.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 10:08 AM
5

Frame...you have none. I suggest you work on that once you're in between jobs.
/r/askTRP25/05/16 10:02 AM
1

Maximize the effectiveness of your time on the treadmill using a combination of intervals followed up with steady state cardio. Example: Set the treadmill to max incline at a walking pace...walk 30 seconds, rest 30 seconds. After 30 minutes of intervals cut the incline back to your normal setting and walk 30 minutes straight.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 01:42 PM
2

Check out GLO's "Freak Parade" post yesterday over in TRP...you might have to hit his /u page to find the submission.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 10:57 AM
1

It generally revolves around the volume of validation they receive. Low(er) levels can keep their sense of reality (somewhat) in check where you can see that a surge or constant stream of validation (usually via fb/ig/twitter) results in the emergence of an "I can do no wrong" goddess complex. Its why some women start to lose their shit whenever they've been deprived of their phone for extended periods of time.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 10:55 AM
1

Find a gradual incline/hill and walk it once or twice daily. Its often said that if you require cardio then your diet sucks. I'll second the suggestion someone else made with /r/keto...its a great way to get off your first 100lbs.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 10:36 AM
3

We're not in a LTR cause she will be leaving in a couple of months What you want is soon to be irrelevant, keep her in the rotation but start recruiting for the a open position in your staring lineup.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 10:33 AM
5

Regardless of relationship status you always keep two in the kitty. Don't fall for that "grieving time" bullshit either...you know, the one where she throws the guilt trip/shit test at you for not waiting to find another plate because your LTR with her "Must not have meant that much." You've got your scenarios confused. If the likelihood of cheating is so certain in your mind, why would you even consider prolonging the inevitable?
/r/askTRP24/05/16 10:31 AM
2

Start with Episode 1 and complete the series.... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LPq7CyHqQ2I
/r/askTRP23/05/16 05:30 PM
1

Are you saying you retreat to your room at 6pm on a Friday only to emerge Monday morning for your first class?
/r/askTRP23/05/16 11:11 AM
2

"Hamster"...continue spinning as #1 plate.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 10:58 AM
4

Fun fact: Most of the blondes you know probably aren't actually blondes. Any behavior they exhibit is just something they got from one of several bottles (usually hair color or shitty vodka)
/r/askTRP23/05/16 10:55 AM
1

As you're aware of issues with your current SMV then the obvious choice is to increase it. Incorporate some gym time into your routine and work off some of that excess energy. forget about the whole thing and just focus on myself Exactly.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 10:51 AM
3

Pot brownies...they won't know what hit them.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 10:12 AM
1

All this...and throw in some ZMA and some Tribulus for good measure.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:05 AM
6

Do Talk FORD: Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams Don't talk RAPE: Religion, Abortion, Politics, Economics Also, don't rape anyone.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 02:02 AM
1

It doesn't hurt.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:45 PM
27

You can get a kilo of pure, uncut creatine on Amazon for about $19 + shipping (Easily a six month supply) Skip sharing with a friend and put the money you save towards eggs, chicken, and beef.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:36 PM
4

You were together for 5 years...its over and now she's rationalizing the results in such a light that it absolves her from any responsibility. You should thank her in a few years. Maintain radio silence until then.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:32 PM
1

Reverse flyes...Barbell Ab Rollouts...overhead pressses...barbell high pulls...shrugs to failure...
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:11 PM
2

What should I do to forget her? Move out of your parent's house.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 02:02 PM
2

Keep the phrase "Upwardly Mobile" in your career path decision making. Don't let your age dictate your limitations - see Mark Zuckerberg
/r/askTRP12/05/16 12:07 PM
2

Except you admitted that now you suck so its time for a change. Transition into dev team management now, ascend into the executive realm later.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 11:49 AM
1

I live with her and her family You do whatever you can to get yourself away from that situation. I am 19, I have no idea what I want to do with my life Is school an option? If not then consider the military, totally worked for me.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 05:36 PM
-3

I'm sure OP's ultimate goal is to make sure he locks down that hesitant, prudish, starfishy poon. My advise stands, Next.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 04:25 PM
-6

She does like sex Just not with you. Next
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:51 PM
1

Pregnancy is one of those things that "just happens" too...You're circling the drain, you just don't know it yet. Seriously dude, if you want a serious relationship then by all means have one. Otherwise get a maid. Preferably one that blows you, cleans, gets paid, and then leaves.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 02:11 PM
2

"now it's not the time, I have too much going on" So you're saying she makes $175k a year? She does have a full-time job and college at the same time Oh, so it's more like $22k a year... How should I confront her? Should I give her an ultimatum? She might resent me for it... Stop putting her first...this is your life you're playing with. She's just about to move in with me. Not if you're smart.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:00 AM
1

Are you Tom Cruise? Probably not.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 10:53 AM
10

Say nothing, let the hamster spin. Also, she's an ex for a reason...no reason to go down that path again, history will just repeat itself.
/r/askTRP07/05/16 06:36 PM
1

What's your go-to attire when going out?
/r/askTRP06/05/16 03:24 PM
1

Start lifting asap with plans to join the football team. It grants you an entry-level pass into the established social hierarchy. Check out the Khan Academy on algebra. Learn algebra in a few weeks and then spend your entire year having a good time while not worrying about making grades. https://www.khanacademy.org/signup
/r/askTRP06/05/16 10:38 AM
1

"No, You're so busy I'd hate to cut into your personal hygiene time. Spring is here and I know how girls refuse to shave their legs during the winter months." I guarantee she'll be more than willing to prove otherwise next week. Boom, instant kino.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 10:25 AM
2

this bitch has something about her knives Make the knives disappear until your shit reappears. Deny any knowledge of their whereabouts. Proceed to have the "You're not my real Mom" episode in front of Dad. Imply she may have killed her first five husbands with said knives.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 03:50 PM
0

Anything i'm missing? Yeah, remember this quote as it will come out of her mouth at one point or another: "I feel like I missed the chance to be out on my own and experience the real world"
/r/askTRP05/05/16 03:38 PM
1

Its not yours, its just your turn.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 01:17 PM
1

GTFO - Join the Navy, don't look back.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 01:16 PM
3

Myers Briggs is about as useful as "What's your sign?"
/r/askTRP04/05/16 12:01 PM
3

And regardless of being "head over heels" she moved anyway? Reality check: You're her safety net until Chad swoops in and she's your "one in the kitty". LDR rarely work out...get your abundance mentality on, start spinning plates so that when the inevitable happens it'll be an afterthought.
/r/askTRP04/05/16 11:55 AM
1

How are the allergens in your area? I once relocated to Virginia from Chicago and suffered from similar exhaustion.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 03:27 PM
1

"You're still gonna make me sandwiches though right?" It's a problem. Next.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 10:16 AM
1

Yes, but only if you tell her to make the orbiter drop her off and pick her up from your place.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 10:06 AM
3

Next. Go find five more.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 10:02 AM
1

Check out The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. Get the audio version, should take you only 2-3 days to listen to during your work commute.
/r/askTRP03/05/16 10:00 AM
2

Unfortunately its time to next her. As to your parents, express your distaste for their actions: "Well, we WERE an official thing. I wish you would have asked me. The last thing I want to do is to put the family business in a position where it could be subject to a lawsuit. So thanks for taking my feelings into consideration but in the interests of protecting the family business I'm going to stop seeing her." Not that you actually care...this is just a rare opportunity where you can turn the tab…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 10:29 AM
2

to go on fun dates where guys take me to the city and feed me and try to impress me Embrace abundance mentality...Next
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:57 AM
1

Cardio first thing in the morning...breakfast...chill out...healthy lunch...lift in the afternoons...healthy dinner...don't stay up all night playing video games. Since you're just starting to lift I'll go ahead and suggest either StrongLifts or Ice Cream Fitness (both 5x5 beginner plans) Plan on going out for football.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:46 AM
1

is there any way of revolutionizing my appearance towards the people around me? Summer is coming...start now and dedicate the time off from school to two-a-day workouts all summer. You'll be a changed man on the first day of school.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 05:53 PM
2

Consider a soft next / avoiding her for a while. Second this. The last thing you need is mental tension in an already stressful scenario.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 02:40 PM
2

Animal Pak
/r/askTRP20/04/16 08:45 PM
2

"someone, but not THE one" It should come as no surprise that she's already written you off, gird your loins.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 06:06 PM
2

Got business cards? Take a few, put your number on the back. Reserve for just that occasion
/r/askTRP14/04/16 12:48 PM
6

Nice hamster you got there...If you're stepping out common sense dictates it be someone your girlfriend doesn't know.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 04:51 PM
5

Cut the date short, go no contact. Repeat as necessary, three-strikes rule applies.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 01:30 PM
1

I have no idea what he plans to do. Now would be a good time to man up and start talking to him about it. He's already placed himself in a bad position by fraternizing with the help.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 10:21 AM
3

Don't, maintain frame, soft next. Her using work as an excuse so far ahead of time is a pretty solid sign she's not interested. Pro Tip: RSVP yourself and an unnamed +1. If you can't find a woman interested in a spontaneous wedding date invite between now and then you're not approaching enough.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 10:11 AM
2

48 Laws of Power...time for you to do some reading
/r/askTRP12/04/16 01:58 PM
8

So that it meant something Wrong. it's to narrow down who knocked her up. At this point her credibility is 100% shot. It will be better for you in the long run to not place an ounce of belief in anything that comes out of her mouth.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 10:51 AM
1

Over-eager to please at every turn.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:58 PM
2

Doesn't make a bit difference if you're loading up on pizza and sugar laden fruits in the mean time.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:15 PM
16

The urge to fuck-off and do nothing is strong at that age, but your current earnings situation shouldn't be so easily disregarded. The problem with unions is that they have long, vindictive memories. Stepping out now could put a spot on your record that won't be so easily erased. I would suggest a series of weekend travel breaks for relocation research in order to improve your career. Also, get with an investment/financial planner to discuss early retirement goals. Find out what it would take to…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 01:24 PM
1

You can't negotiate attraction...and neither can they.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 01:16 PM
3

Sorry, nope. Yale: http://dailycaller.com/2015/11/06/yale-student-shrieks-at-prof-for-denying-her-safe-space-video/ Harvard: http://twitchy.com/2016/03/31/harvard-student-disturbs-classroom-safe-space-with-bible-verse/ Princeton: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/grade-point/wp/2015/12/04/princeton-protesters-why-we-need-safe-spaces-and-why-honoring-woodrow-wilson-is-spitting-in-our-faces/ Even the precious Ivy League isn't safe...
/r/askTRP11/04/16 12:28 AM
0

I'll remember to not use any big words around you.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 03:26 PM
3

If she doesn't want to be in your friendzone she won't be...but don't expect her to have the highest opinion of you once your intentions become clear. Pro tip: Your scholastic social status evaporates the day you graduate so don't spend more time on it than necessary.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 03:23 PM
3

Neither of those. Meet up, hook up, peace out. You keep a plate for a reason...and one reason only. Once that reason disappears so do they.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 12:08 PM
1

she's 19 That's the reason. Stop wasting your time trying to derive logic from hamster inspired chaos. Remember, she's not yours, its just your turn. AWALT
/r/askTRP08/04/16 10:35 AM
5

This is a question I'm always on the lookout for. When asked its usually due to the fact that something has gone sideways and she's gauging my reaction. It could be unbroken LMR, it could be flaking, it might even be that she wants a less sexual relationship. What I know for sure is that she's trying to measure exactly how much shit I'm willing to put up with. What you're looking for in your particular case is: "No, I'm fine." I guarantee these three words will spin her hamster like a turbo char…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 10:21 AM
3

Leave now and take the lesson with you. Remove said pussy from pedestal.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 06:06 PM
15

She thinks that I am that kind of a person who has his shit sorted And the minute you prove otherwise she'll be looking for the next branch.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 06:05 PM
2

Bang two or more (if possible) of his female friends, watch him implode from a distance.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 03:55 PM
1

he was a fat neckbeard So maybe just another orbiter...but she still went to see him. Its your time, waste it as you see fit.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 01:13 PM
2

I'm going out to see Z (her ex) but I told my parents I was with you guys "Thanks buddy!!! What would I do without a friend like you" Answer: She'd find some other sucker to be her alibi while she's out on her mission to blow Chad. It wasn't a shit test, you're in the friend zone...stop wasting your time and energy...Hard next
/r/askTRP07/04/16 10:21 AM
1

I basically said this tonight Did go in with a plan to throw yourself directly into orbit or are you just genuinely fucked up? What she said was the direct result of what you said, there's no coming back from it.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 10:15 AM
17

Lets review your current situation: On any given night you could be balls deep in her throat but thanks her bad decisions you'd rather surf Reddit and finish your evening by jacking off into a sock. Last night you came here for advice, here's some now: Never pass up a good thing.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 10:07 AM
1

I see a lot of posts here that tend to confuse dread with push/pull and they all end up just pushing...what exactly are you doing?
/r/askTRP06/04/16 10:54 AM
1

Money - Save at least 10% of everything you earn. Invest another 10% and then allocate another 10% for career enhancement/learning/certification/etc. Martial arts has that aura about it but ensuring a six-figure salary in your early 20s will take you much further in all areas of personal improvement.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 10:50 AM
4

Here's a direct quote from your post history: I'm not trying to win her back, because i don't want to be in the old relationship (hence why i stopped it) Take your bipolar ass back to the gym.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 10:41 AM
1

How do I find out, in the quickest way possible, how prudent she is going to be with me without investing too much of money and energy? Set personal limits on your investment (time/cash/energy). Don't count on any quantum leaps in her sexual evolution.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 10:32 AM
1

I'll spare you my "raised in a different era" monologue. I've had approximately one pregnancy scare in my lifetime...it was enough to convince me that pregnancy and AIDS/HIV/STDs had the exact same potential when it came to ruining lives, namely mine. Take personal responsibility. Wrap it up, get yourself checked out annually and as necessary (Why not start now?) This is one situation where a little effort goes a long way in enhancing several areas of your life.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 10:28 AM
1

Go radio silent for a week.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 04:45 PM
1

No tingles...at all. Why are you with someone that doesn't want to be with you?
/r/askTRP04/04/16 03:47 PM
3

Find a larger gym/community rec center with an intramural sports program. It'll give you something physical to do during the week and open up the possibility for weekend socialization.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 02:02 PM
1

Current cut: 60 minute HIIT/Seady state cardio session every other day. 1800 calorie daily intake. Hanging knee raises, hanging oblique crunches, dragon flags on decline bench, and swiss ball rollouts.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 10:55 AM
1

If you absolutely must use the elliptical, research the Tabata protocol. Otherwise reduce your caloric intake to 1500cal per day and begin a 2x daily HIIT/SS cardio routine.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 02:19 PM
1

What should i do to convey i have changed? Flake (before she does), go to the gym instead.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 02:16 PM
1

I am 5'10" decent muscular build (but not ripped) Game over. Go find a 12-week program...FOLLOW IT RELIGIOUSLY...the only person you're accountable to is yourself so if you half-ass it and come out with no results there'll be no one else to blame.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:20 PM
1

You're trying to navigate your way into some form of genetic desire here...don't. First and foremost, if you're already fucking her on a regular basis its by pre-selection and that's all you need to know. If she's fucking you on a schedule there's probably another reason. How do you track your ltr/plate's ovulation period to know when she is the horniest and when exactly does it occur? Your actual question/intent should be "How will I know when to avoid fucking her so I don't fall into her baby …
/r/askTRP31/03/16 11:07 AM
2

Sell them, burn them, use them...whatever. You already gave them to her and she gave them back. You can sell them to her, but regardless you should use this as an opportunity to teach her the price of rejection. if she bitches about it She's your ex. She lost that privilege when she got rid of you. You should've cut direct communications with her by now anyway.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 10:58 AM
1

pretty with nice tits and thats it Like you, I'm all about the tits....but you can get the same thing in a grocery store on Tuesday afternoon. Its not some uncommon commodity. Get beyond this. She wants your help? "Show me your tits"...if her answer is no, your answer is no.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 10:51 AM
2

When you limit sex to specific locations you're removing spontaneity from the act. It becomes boring for all parties involved. Answer: No sex in a bed...do it anywhere and everywhere else.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 10:33 AM
1

You don't tell them shit, you find a gym and go off radar as of right now. After being a walking, talking emotional tampon for however many years this has been going on you don't owe them a thing. In a few weeks they'll have new betas to kick around and you'll be that guy they say they used to be really close to.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:58 PM
1

Enjoy your turn. She's 21...eventually she'll pull some shit and you'll remember AWALT...don't do anything stupid in the mean time like buy a ring or put her on the lease.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:49 PM
4

Say nothing, maintain frame at all costs.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 01:35 PM
1

This is what they mean when they say abundance mentality. If you feel that your options are lacking then its up to you to do whatever you can to improve your odds.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 01:26 PM
8

I told her that her butt looks nice and how my workout program is for her when I see her. Beta Level: 90% My flight is not refundable. Lesson learned
/r/askTRP26/03/16 02:37 PM
2

I recently purposely got fired from my mediocre entry-level job in order to get employment insurance benefits and 8 months of freedom. he's telling people we both know that I'm "sponging off the government because he's too lazy to get a job." Well he's not wrong. He snaps me throughout the day of him talking shit to his coworkers about me. He doesn't intend to be spiteful, he's just talking shit and poking fun which we all do Sounds like you're a little sensitive about your newfound situation, m…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 05:34 PM
0

Hambeast talks all the time about all the freaky kinky sex stuff they do Between that and all the literal shit talk, this one is into scat...tell your gf to google it and then be thankful you're not so "open".
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:27 PM
7

Made difficult by your own inflexibility. Study hard, you probably won't have a job for much longer.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:01 PM
2

If they approach, and if you made your intentions clear in the first place, "I was interested, you were not, end of story." Hard next. If this is a hypothetical situation you concocted in your mind you should stop feeding your hamster and find a gym.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 05:52 PM
1

Employ the FORD technique.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 05:46 PM
17

Should I workout for a year or two before even thinking about relationships? You should workout, period.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 05:45 PM
1

"Cute but not knockout" sparring partner for months...I'd say you recruit her as your new wing-man instead.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 05:40 PM
6

It's readily apparent that the friction here is about her happiness and a seemingly complete disregard for your happiness. Keep that in mind as getting her back to "100%" is going to require you abandoning the overall improvements you've gained in the past 3 months. Bonus: This bump in the road will likely be held over your head as a situation that you caused and will bind you into a state of eternal BP apology. You're going to gain 60lbs and get cheated on.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 10:58 AM
3

No, but AWALT.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:36 PM
1

Maintain the 50/50 split for all costs, keep receipts. Get her name on the lease to ensure financial liability in case she decides to split. If you're hung up on keeping that which is yours then by all means pay for it, keep the receipt, put high ticket items on your renter's insurance policy. Bonus tip: If you're already starting with a breakup in mind why are you even considering this option? Unicorns don't exist, AWALT, use protection, etc.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:15 PM
1

Because $9 a month is a motherfucker...
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:06 PM
1

Would HIIT be better than normal cardio for this? My personal preference/opinion on cardio is to do HIIT followed by Steady State as described here. To close my workout I set a timer do core work (planks, side planks, ball crunches, ball roll-outs, glute bridges, etc) for 15 minutes without stopping. Find a TDEE calculator, identify your deficit, and get an app to start counting your daily calories. Actively avoid anything containing refined sugar.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 02:15 PM
4

Huge likelihood. Do a ton of cardio, change your diet, stop jacking off, and in 30 days you'll be back to your old self.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 03:23 PM
6

I have gained weight and haven't been working out nearly as much, so I'm going to follow that lead. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:29 PM
1

Metropolitan bars, emerging artist concerts, fun runs (5/10k), and LA Fitness.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:08 PM
1

Try to bang her in the changing room. If she goes for it, awesome. If she doesn't she'll never want to take you shopping again. Win/Win
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:03 PM
13

I recall an older TRP post explained in detail how a woman's phone is her validation machine. The poster also went on to explain how the lack of this machine (through loss/misplacement/dead battery) was a near trauma level event to those who have become so dependent upon the validation provided by every beep or sound it makes. To them you're nothing more than a reliable source for making that beep or sound happen. Moreover you're investing your time and energy on something that isn't providing y…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 11:44 AM
1

Plot twist - OP is an Art Major
/r/askTRP09/03/16 07:06 PM
1

several of my close guy friends The good news is you've got your groomsmen picked out. The bad news is you still think she's yours when in reality its just your turn. Don't get too attached.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:59 PM
3

I want to know what this is and why she is this way. She gets off on what she thinks is her controlling you. I'm surprised you're not telling us about the barrage of shit tests she gives you during the rest of the week. You're in her orbit dude, AWALT.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:56 PM
1

What does this mean? You probably tend to talk too much which in turn pushes them outside of your frame rather than drawing them in. Give us your most memorable/recent example.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 01:54 AM
3

Maintain frame. Hard next.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 06:32 PM
3

Go get a hammer...smash your right pinky toe and then smash your left big toe. Which hurts more?
/r/askTRP02/03/16 11:19 AM
1

Time to start building a home gym.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 11:39 AM
6

Facebook is social media for old people, seriously its the new AOL. Looking for social proof...Instagram. Not feeling camera ready? Get off the internet and into the gym.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 11:51 AM
2

Get the fuck out. Focus more time on the Lyft. You've been debating this for some time...pull the trigger.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 07:00 PM
1

Can you make the same money working for Lyft right now? How long can you sustain that until the real estate gig kicks off?
/r/askTRP25/02/16 06:48 PM
6

Are you married to her? Is she pregnant? Do you have some kind of verbal contract going on? No. The only strings I see here are the ones your hamster has begun weaving into your rope of blossoming oneitis.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 06:15 PM
5

Take a picture of her...send it...say nothing
/r/askTRP25/02/16 04:19 PM
1

First rule...
/r/askTRP23/02/16 02:34 PM
3

he even saved me from (probably) getting arrested on more than one occasion This is what's referred to as "a solid". Rick did you a solid now do him one back and leave that shit alone.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 11:40 AM
2

Both. Find out what your state provides you as a veteran in so far as college tuition. Did four years and returned home to a full ride at any state school. At the same time the GI bill was sending me $2k+ monthly checks which I used to cover rent/car/booze/etc. Yes, I was older than 99% of everyone at my grade level, but I also had my shit straight and was already trained in several areas of IT which is how I made grades without trying.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 11:22 AM
1

Find someone to quit with. Make a $100 bet....for thirty days, first one to smoke loses, but if the other smokes you break even. Either way if you stay quit you win.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 12:16 AM
1

Check out the ZMA, Vitamin D, Tribulus stack. I do a 60 minute HIIT/SSC cardio routine five times a week. No problems to report.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 11:15 AM
1

Put the phone down before you fuck up. Your hamster is spinning out of control. The next time you text her should be for logistics only.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 01:27 AM
1

Which is why i mentioned matching your macros to your daily calories. For a beginner proper dieting alone can be the boost you're looking for in your workouts.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 06:18 PM
1

Its your combined 1rm bench, squat, and deadlift equaling 1000lbs or more.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 06:06 PM
0

Are you in the 1000lb club? No? Do SL again. Target your core - hanging leg/knee raises until you can't. Something beneficial - match your macros to your daily calorie requirements.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 05:50 PM
1

You should be grateful that she decided to wave that giant red flag in your face and hard next.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 02:34 PM
1

Also consider throwing some tribulus in on that...great stack.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 12:21 PM
2

So is coming to asktrp for advice on a situation like this.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 04:36 PM
4

Ignore the date, game the friend.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 02:35 PM
1

Two whole months? Change your phone number.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 02:31 PM
3

If a theoretical (yet probable) situation is causing your hamster to spin up like this then she's not LTR material. Demote from LTR to Plate #1.
/r/askTRP14/02/16 05:05 PM
2

For starters get down to 235 before you do anything else. Check out rketo and cardio like a motherfucker.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 10:17 PM
-1

Go back to school...get your JD or MBA.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 12:35 PM
2

Got that, but after two months outta nowhere it should work just fine.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 12:06 AM
5

"Who is this?"
/r/askTRP12/02/16 06:37 PM
2

I plan on calling her tomorrow and being unaware of being deleted. Why even waste time on this? She's not interested. NEXT
/r/askTRP12/02/16 06:28 PM
2

No response, soft next. Approach women tonight until you have at least 3 numbers.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 06:26 PM
2

Hamster much?
/r/askTRP12/02/16 11:37 AM
1

8 Tablespoons of peanut butter every day will give you an additional 750 calories in your diet. I prefer it on either celery or apples.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 11:22 AM
1

That's not sexting, that's "Put some effort into it"
/r/askTRP11/02/16 02:27 PM
5

Stop acting like Facebook costs money. Make an account, upload some pictures, never use it.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 02:19 PM
16

About 3 years ago I met an older guy who I consider to be the epitome of MGOTW. Self-employed, highly skilled, and always exhibits a true IDGAF attitude. I consider us to be friends but its no exaggeration that if he thought it necessary, he could tell me to go fuck myself and never give me a second thought for the remainder of his life. Frame by the ton...truly unshakable. His level of mental clarity is nothing short of astonishing. He decides what he wants, identifies the process, measures ste…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 01:02 PM
1

What should I do? You lack abundance mentality. By having multiple plates on the hook at any given time you can prevent yourself from laser focusing on a single girl to avoid bitch mode reversion.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 12:44 PM
1

Agree to it. Ignore the date, seduce the friend. Don't pay for anything.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:24 PM
3

Cut the cord now. Residual emotions are inevitable but you'll be less distracted and more capable of complete focus when you start medical school.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:18 PM
18

she's even told me to cum inside her so we can start a family She's tired of military life overseas and you're the quickest way out.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 01:29 PM
0

"You do not give me tingles, move along..."
/r/askTRP10/02/16 12:13 PM
3

So i ask her wtf we were supposed to hangout. Specifically there. Never ask...
/r/askTRP10/02/16 12:12 PM
0

Anything you do to make her phone beep is unnecessary validation.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 12:12 PM
2

"Have you thought about having your cheeks done?"
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:13 PM
2

You have reliable income, put in your notice. Use whatever time you've gained to seek alternative employment. "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice..."
/r/askTRP08/02/16 06:52 PM
2

I'm sure she can get along just fine without the endless benefits of a 16 year old matchmaker/pimp.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 04:26 PM
2

her aura of happiness is pleasant for my bouts with depression. I feel like she can actually help me! Sounds like you've got a blossoming case of onitis. Be careful that unicorn doesn't trample your fragile ego.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 01:22 PM
1

how I am the only one she wants for the rest of her life. Get that Disney nonsense out of your head right now. The only part of you that's "the rest of your life" is that you were her first and nothing more. Inevitably she'll find someone that will make her wish you weren't. Guilt is the heroin of Catholics and ideologists...embrace the fact that you were both too young and stupid to accept any responsibility for your actions.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 12:21 PM
9

I did not bang this chick yet. Get this through your head now: You will never "bang" this chick. Through some chance alignment of celestial bodies and emotional erosion you may at some point find yourself involved in the most awkward, elbowy, uncomfortable starfished interpretation of intercourse imaginable, but it will never qualify as "banging". After four months of no intercourse and dutch dating you've passively set the overall tone for the relationship. It's irrelevant as to whether she's a…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 12:10 PM
3

You're wasting the perfect dual dread/SMV opportunities. Text: "Can't talk, i'm with someone" Girl: "Who's texting you?" You: "A girl from work trying to get my attention" Kill two birds with one stone.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:27 PM
1

He has a history of making really dumb decisions and acting like a 12 year old (slob, constantly forgets stuff, has no life plan, doesn't really ever think about anything, always does shit half assed) Leave it alone, he'll fuck it up himself.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 12:24 PM
1

I've got a lesbian couple trying to manipulate me into knocking em up Two women...two children...two separate child support payments... Not too bright this one.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 04:52 PM
0

i forced her Enjoy the incoming "rape" accusation...
/r/askTRP02/02/16 04:45 PM
7

No tingles...Next.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 04:44 PM
2

when I talk to him about it, he does nothing. As he does nothing, the behavior will persist. She sets the tone and he allows the bad elements to go unchecked. "she's normal today" He's consciously aware of her less than becoming behaviors and continues to do nothing to stop it which in RP terms means her behavior is ultimately his fault. He's doing his best to avoid confrontation at all costs. The next time she throws a tantrum make sure that you immediately tell your friend that you hope he has…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 04:40 PM
1

And in terms of extremes your current situation ultimately brings it down to just those two. Good luck.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 04:14 PM
3

I am in a fortunate position because I am on a full ride scholarship No brainer...beast mode...internships...finish school...48 laws of power. http://i.imgur.com/WPUk0s5.png
/r/askTRP29/01/16 12:01 PM
29

Sitting around obsessing over the things you don't have usually leads to one of two conditions: depression or motivation. Choose one, don't look back.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 11:34 AM
21

You're hamstering about her ability to climax with you and now you've tricked yourself into letting it be your only source of validation. You're not a woman, stop that shit. Its not up to you to whether or not she can suppress her own thought processes enough to enjoy herself properly. Anyone (and I mean anyone) who can't get worked up enough after 20-30 minutes isn't focusing on it anyway...she's probably playing starfish by minute 17 and thinking about what to cook for dinner tomorrow around m…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 11:20 AM
9

Congratulations, you maintained good frame and gave them no more attention/effort than necessary. I wager they'll avoid any interaction with you from this point forward.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 11:40 AM
3

Do your parents allow you to leave the house in the morning if your bed isn't made? What are they holding over your head? Tuition payments? Keeping you in the will? I advise you to abandon your life, go join the Navy ASAP.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 11:35 AM
3

All of the above. She is not trustworthy, she's "proven it" a few times in the past. Apparently proving you were the right guy involved multiple dudes in her mouth. She probably came over afterward and kissed you with coffee and dick on her breath. Once a cheater, always a cheater. And stop taking advice on women from your mother...ALL Women Are Like That (AWALT)
/r/askTRP25/01/16 11:24 AM
1

Bingo
/r/askTRP21/01/16 01:02 PM
1

Learn to live by a budget that allows you to save/invest no less than 15% of your income.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 01:01 PM
1

Time to quit the bedtime porn...
/r/askTRP21/01/16 12:27 PM
2

You're already one foot into the friend zone. Time to make your intentions clearer.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 12:24 PM
1

But what if she has an amazing date, and refuses the action? Just walk out forever this time? Hamster much? No contact, 1 week minimum. Just disappear on her...hit the gym. She's branch swinging while running an effective dread game on you.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 12:19 PM
1

Women don't love you, they love what you do for them or how you make them feel. Once you demonstrate yourself incapable of providing those constant levels of that feeling they're looking for the next branch.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 11:34 AM
1

And yet you've stated several times you really have no desire to change so why should anyone bother? Heres a bone: Go for a walk...every day, 60 minutes long at least...you'll be doing more to help yourself than anything you could possibly read here.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 04:39 PM
1

I cannot be moved to want to better myself Next
/r/askTRP17/01/16 04:05 PM
2

I tried to kill myself over her /thread
/r/askTRP14/01/16 06:58 PM
4

using you as her free personal trainer Pronoboneo?
/r/askTRP14/01/16 02:21 PM
3

Eleventy will do the trick.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 11:09 AM
-1

What the fuck does this have to do with TRP?
/r/askTRP12/01/16 07:04 PM
0

$1000 right now? Physical gold coins. Don't fall for that paper certificate nonsense. I prefer quarter ounce Krugerrands.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 11:35 AM
2

the friend of an ex There's a certain level of expertise you'll require prior to gaming a group of friends. Having trouble with this base-level shit testing leaves me inclined to believe that you're far from ready for that kind of action. FYI - She's likely contacted your ex and given a full report about how she blew you off. Your ex has already prepared her for your next futile attempt. If she were remotely into you she would've already made it apparent. Next.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:28 PM
4

Go no-contact...I started in 1995 and never looked back. The holidays had little more to offer than a free meal and shitty behavior. Currently I maintain a healthy relationship with my parents and siblings but beyond that I only show up for (most) funerals.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 06:56 PM
1

D3 content per egg is listed as 41iu...and Milk is around 115iu...so if you're interested in just food, you're going to be doing quite a bit of eating. I personally don't need or want the extra calories. I take it year round. In regards to my before/after experience with D3 as to how it alleviates my S.A.D. symptoms during the winter months I'd have to say that D3 has found a permanent place in my must-have supplements catalog.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 03:05 PM
3

5000IU of D3 daily. Look into tanning once or twice a month.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 01:55 PM
2

I have a lot of "shit that needs to get done" and I'm looking for articles/RP threads about how to keep my head in the game. Visualize yourself standing in front of an overflowing toilet. Are you going to run out to the internet for a youtube video on how to make it stop? Not likely. Yet you're here fucking off on reddit actively looking for the means to prevent you from doing any actual work. Stop being your own worst enemy and go make yourself up an anti-priority list - things that you often f…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 02:49 PM
3

Bill Gates has skills, but breaking the $1 billion mark is probably what got him laid in the first place. My personal definition of "better" hobbies are those which are both enjoyable and lucrative. If you can find one that fits that criteria then you should probably pursue it.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:26 PM
6

I didn't get rid of my hobbies, I simply outgrew them. No need to go nuclear.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:07 PM
1

Bingo. Don't provide the closure her hamster so desperately craves, let that motherfucker spin. Bonus points: Find yourself a new plate by EOM. She'll forever lose her shit at the thought of having been replaced so quick and easily.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 10:09 PM
2

Swing over to the keto sub for a jump start on this kind of diet. Caveat: Its full of thin skins...I suggest lurking only.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 03:09 PM
26

"If only we knew who the mother was."
/r/askTRP01/01/16 10:30 PM
1

If you're absolutely intent on it..."We have a preexisting condition, It doesn't count as cheating." However, if this whole thing is a problem because "What about the prom?" Get the fuck outta here. You're BP as they come. I know you think you're all about your current gf because you've been pre-programmed to believe the typical Disney bullshit since you were in diapers. And at the same time your exposure to the real world is limited so that HB9 status is defined via your limited options. In the…
/r/askTRP31/12/15 11:26 AM
2

How do I get over this feeling? I call it "Grey Goose" Edit: Do not talk about the new Star Wars
/r/askTRP31/12/15 11:05 AM
1

"Musky"...definitely a word I'd use for it. I wonder if pumpkin extract would be an option during a cut.
/r/askTRP31/12/15 11:01 AM
2

6 months need it or not.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 05:30 PM
0

Next
/r/askTRP30/12/15 05:15 PM
6

we cuddled...we kissed...I asked her if this was a one time thing Way to go Captain Beta. And the red flag is that she only came twice over the course of a few hours and wasn't willing to reciprocate. Wild guess here, but I think you lost her somewhere around: "it will work next time"
/r/askTRP30/12/15 01:54 PM
1

https://www.t-nation.com/diet-fat-loss/shredded-in-6-days Up yourself to 3 gallons...avoid carbs...ignore the protein pulsing...2x a day sessions of 60min cardio.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 01:46 PM
1

2nd on the Maca root but I suggest you get the capsules. Maca's flavor profile is an uninvited guest in any protein shake.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 12:40 PM
2

At some point in the past few years triclosan had been removed from facial care products while still being kept in some toothpastes. It has since been restored. My current brand is Noxema Ultimate Clear.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 12:16 AM
6

she gives me an absolute fuck ton of IOIs. or She doesn't know who I am. Which is it?
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:26 PM
1

Any cleanser with triclosan has always done the job for me.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:25 PM
1

You're 22 and she's a "few years younger" than you. Next thing you'll be telling us is that she still lives at home with her parents. Call me paranoid but I smell jail bait. To date you've wasted two months and likely have nothing to show for it but a smaller bank account. Something isn't adding up, Hard Next.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:07 PM
7

With live music and a dance floor. About 6 months ago a coworker was retiring. Plans were made and had the night ending at a local hotel/bar/club...it was nothing short of Candyland.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 12:25 PM
1

There's a thread over on TRP right now: https://archive.is/XMrNm Social media is the fastest way to be drawn into the female frame. Avoid it.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 01:41 AM
1

Video for reference...
/r/askTRP22/12/15 09:12 PM
1

I can talk for like 3-4 minutes then they give me the I'm a creep look Have you tried inserting a few questions into the mix instead of talking about yourself so much? In any situation the best approach is always to get people to open up to you. Having a few good questions during your opener to anyone allows you to stretch your current 3-4 minute window across a much longer amount of time.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:27 PM
1

Pick your career path now and start working towards it now. Ten years from now your high school popularity is gonna mean fuck all anywhere other than your high school reunion.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 04:12 PM
2

some very incriminating things about me So you're going to prison if she talks?
/r/askTRP20/12/15 02:37 PM
7

"Friends"...fuck 'em
/r/askTRP20/12/15 12:29 AM
1

You say to them: "Misery loves company huh?" Ignore that shit and get back to plate spinning.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 07:28 PM
1

Personally I prefer cash.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 06:20 PM
1

What would you do in my position? Shut the fuck up Do as you're told Get the fuck out
/r/askTRP16/12/15 04:03 PM
2

The thing you need to learn first and foremost is outcome independence. Secondly, if she's "never looked as happy" she's probably in the midst of her CC ride. AWALT...meaning she'll inevitably get bored of your nice guy routine. Thirdly, accept that the odds are against you and you will fuck it up. Abundance mentality, there are 3.2 billion more fish where she came from.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 03:08 PM
6

Judging by the bullshit posts I've seen in the past 72 hours they probably took a well deserved weekend off.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 11:44 AM
3

I will now always think what a shame it was that Bruce Lee actually worked out...he could've been one of the greats.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 05:55 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oVCwqip8BrQ
/r/askTRP10/12/15 03:08 PM
1

Plate it.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:49 PM
2

Soft nexting someone who behaves like she does doesn't serve any purpose but to keep the false hope alive in OP's mind. She's been this way for 1.5 months...her decision was made weeks ago, he just hasn't accepted it. A hard next is the end of a relationship in any form. You just delete her from your life. You don't even bother telling her, no loss of frame. Keeping this one around serves no purpose whatsoever.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:38 PM
5

After a month and a half? Dude, that's a lot of time and energy he just wasted for zero ROI.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:27 PM
9

"Orbit me" Hard next.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:19 PM
11

Its a fuckin cup of coffee...
/r/askTRP09/12/15 07:23 PM
1

Develop a clear idea of what it is you want to do with your life and identify the path/steps you need to take to get there. (Hint: taking a few summers off is not an option unless you're waiting to move out of your parents house when you're 30) Going to college? Develop a set of habits that will keep you there (lift a lot, drink a little, smoke none) Get some internships together Not going to college? Get your ass into the military. You're in a position to waste several years of your life withou…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 01:38 PM
2

I see you've employed approximately ZERO logistic value in this. Where's the meet up? Where's the intent? Where's the alpha? Congratulations on helping her pass the time between the one and two word responses shes getting from Chad.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 11:32 AM
1

Because when you get their number it becomes a situation where its on you to initiate contact and at that point you're auditioning for their time and interest. AKA you give them control - bad move. I've always found that giving them my number is the fastest way to separate the weak from the willing. And if they don't call it leaves me with several opening options if and when I see them again.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 11:25 AM
1

For reference, see "Alpha Widow"
/r/askTRP01/12/15 11:18 AM
1

No...most D cups can learn how to separate a man from his 7-digit bank account.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 11:16 AM
7

Go no contact =/= Maintain frame You saw a toothbrush and your hamster is now spinning out of control. GTFO before you do some stupid bullshit like: leave with my cum dripping out of her pussy Oh wait, she probably told you she's on the pill right? Be sure to let us know how that works out for you.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 11:11 AM
1

Because its new.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 12:23 PM
3

Good job on the fitness facet, sounds like you're on the right track. I think you're missing the purpose of monk mode which is to develop disciplined habits and not complete seclusion. Unfortunately losing even another 100lbs won't make a difference if you're socially retarded. Now is your time to train in outcome independence. Make those cold-approaches, put yourself out there. As you become more OI your AA levels will become near nonexistent. No chance to get a girl Nobody bags HB9s on Day 1. …
/r/askTRP27/11/15 12:23 PM
1

Textbook branch swinging.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 12:11 PM
3

Get Tina to tell your ex you tried sleeping with her. (Better yet, just bang Tina) Tina will quit her role as the advocate for your ex. Once your ex hears about your interest in Tina she'll completely avoid you or hamster herself back into your bed. Either way the current behavior will cease. You can stop being distracted by her bullshit and get back to the matter of sorting your shit out so you can go after better prospects.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 07:05 PM
3

As always, reading the sidebar material is a must. There's a huge red flag in your post that you seem to be glossing over: she broke up with her boyfriend, because she didn't want to be in a relationship She's wants to ride the CC...you just happened to be the first. Her hamster has attached a stigma to you that says she can do so much better because you were low effort. If this is the same girl you referenced in your post yesterday then its easy to see you're orbiting. In answer to your questio…
/r/askTRP25/11/15 11:36 AM
1

hormone pills to manage prolactin levels Red flag - She's trying to get pregnant NOW. Suggest you do some research.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 02:42 PM
4

Nothing wrong with it so long as you're making progress towards the goal of no longer requiring it to function.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 12:38 PM
-1

As a society we can't deny the existence of depression or mental illness. I just don't think its possible that it occurs at nearly the levels at which we're led to believe. My issue with it is the growing likelihood with which a person is believed to be suffering from some sort of mental defect or disease. Over the past three decades they've seemingly lowered the bar at which someone is labeled with Aspergers or Autism. Its also the easiest path to absolve them of responsibility for their action…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 12:32 PM
1

AA doesn't work like that.
/r/askTRP22/11/15 02:30 AM
7

Spin the hamster...radio silence
/r/askTRP20/11/15 06:39 PM
1

Welcome to her orbit... Soft next, demonstrate SMV, hope for the best but move on.
/r/askTRP18/11/15 05:42 PM
-2

"Its true...once she fingered my ass and then made me smell them I just knew I couldn't keep up with her."
/r/askTRP17/11/15 06:43 PM
3

Concur...but as with all internet sources you'll have to sift through the garbage to find what it is you're looking for.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 03:24 PM
1

First and foremost: Start applying for internships. It pains me to hear about so many people running around with a degree but without experience. I know it sucks not getting paid but having those line items on a resume actually does count for something. Don't worry about the direction of your career when asked, just tell them you're a business major. Second: Find yourself something to do outside of home and school. The gym counts a bit but not if you're not capitalizing on the networking potenti…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 03:22 PM
2

Zerohedge is my go to.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 12:38 PM
2

initiates a text conversation almost every other day But you respond because the sex is "fire"...which is really because its easy to get. Your situation sounds dangerously like you're becoming content with what you've got. Your ex is your ex for a reason you'll do well to remind yourself why.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 11:20 AM
1

Her exact words were 'I don't think we'll be friends in the near future, I mean the way you came at me was terrifying.' This person does not want to be friends. Move on.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 03:16 PM
1

I highly disagree with this approach. A gym membership will always be the most inexpensive option for you to network, socialize, and pass your down time. Well worth a couple dollars a day, but if you insist: Leave the hotel room as often as possible...walk, jog, sprint, fucking skip if you have to. Read the following sites as the workouts can be done basically anywhere. https://gmb.io/handstand/ http://www.hundredpushups.com/ http://www.twohundredsitups.com/ http://www.twohundredsquats.com/
/r/askTRP10/11/15 11:28 AM
1

You got it.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 07:25 PM
1

There are two books after that one...read them both and turn it around on her.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 07:17 PM
1

Yeah, congrats on the new luggage.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 07:01 PM
1

Go into the main TRP sub and search "heir", it'll be the first item.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 06:28 PM
2

Just noticed that one myself. Here's a link to the thread... https://archive.is/Di9m2
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:05 PM
3

It sounds like you're already on the path of knowing what to look out for. Check out the story below... http://www.redditlog.com/snapshots/1207481
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:01 PM
7

Expect nothing less from her after the entire afternoon's worth of free validation you provided. Those one-word answers drove her hamster to perceive you as going from hot to cold. If she's destined to be nothing then continue treat her accordingly.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 03:43 PM
1

I've been known to throw this one out there... http://media.giphy.com/media/rKjtLERCXPEs/giphy.gif
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:46 PM
2

And you're only referring to one day...The overall point I was trying to make is that it adds up over the course of a lifetime.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 01:23 PM
7

Aside of the part where you're not wasting hours upon hours sitting around literally playing with yourself?
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:57 PM
2

How exactly are you getting these concussions?
/r/askTRP04/11/15 09:27 PM
1

Don't erase that...
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:40 PM
3

They're too stupid to be a real threat. Strength in numbers. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEbNOcWDO8g
/r/askTRP04/11/15 01:08 PM
2

Well, after taking time to read your full story I can say with no reservation that the drama you mention was self-induced. You tried to play alpha but abandoned it for some beta nonsense. Waste no further time on this one as it will result in her filing an order of protection and stalking charges.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 12:58 PM
2

she's now kind of an ugo and she's now fast approaching that wall Just imagine how happy you'll be once she's "accidentally" knocked up and only calls you for that monthly child support. This isn't BP, this is sentimental retardation.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 11:53 AM
3

I don't think OP has the stones for it.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:44 AM
1

I shouldn't care, but I do. The only thing you should care about is that you let yourself get played twice in one night Two days is more than plenty of notice that she'll need to find her own ride. Unless you're taking her to an abortion clinic, next.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 11:20 AM
1

An ongoing myth in the armed forces is that they're always putting something in the food during basic training. During my time in my DI was quoted as saying: "You're going through one of the most stressful things you've ever experienced. Of course you can't get it up. I eat the exact same food as you do...if there was anything in there that stopped me from fucking my wife 4 times a week one or more of you worthless pieces of shit would already be dead." If going on vacation and getting a little …
/r/askTRP29/10/15 05:28 PM
1

Every day is good...but throw in some variety. Check out item 1...
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 11:00 AM
1

Just a thought: Incorporate some kind of facial cleansing/meditative process to offset your #2. Make sure whatever cleanser you're using has Triclosan, you won't have anything left to squeeze.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:57 AM
1

Cutting out as much processed sugar as possible was huge for me. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:54 AM
2

I start this move with the dumbbells in the "up" position...huge increase on time under tension. Also, alternate between standard and hammer grips.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 01:31 PM
2

To expand...small talk can be made with the F.O.R.D. approach: Family Occupation Recreation Dreams Avoid R.A.P.E: Religion Abortion Politics Economics You should be able to navigate your way through just about any social situation.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 02:39 PM
2

I'm the goofy kid and I make a lot of gay jokes aswell. I say what's on my mind You have no frame and it's detrimental to your standing. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 01:14 PM
1

http://www.hundredpushups.com/
/r/askTRP21/10/15 03:49 PM
2

I start by texting either "hey" or "you have great taste in men". Half don't respond. The other half I start texting generic stuff and in 4-5 texts I suggest we go out and ask for their number. Try not using anything but emotes...let them fill in the blanks with what they think they want to see without you having to regurgitate a bunch of "generic stuff".
/r/askTRP19/10/15 05:19 PM
1

http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:33 PM
4

Sit next to her friend. Ask her about her friend.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:14 PM
1

aside from being a proper disease and causing discomfort every now and then, it's harmless Sure...and so long as you don't mind having random sores and blisters on your dick. PASS
/r/askTRP15/10/15 05:48 PM
5

"Totally!"...then radio silence Go with your other options.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 05:41 PM
2

I never want to be an adult and contribute anything useful to this crumbling shitbed we call American society. Relocate to Budapest, they have everything you're looking for.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 01:25 AM
1

"Drugs?"
/r/askTRP12/10/15 03:27 PM
1

Are you rich? No? Get rich.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 03:22 PM
1

They don't grant any credit hours for having lost your virginity before getting there, so you'll be starting out at the same level as everyone else regardless. Seriously though, get to the gym, develop good habits. It will be advantageous in the sense that you'll already be as experienced if not more so than the other individuals who start going there due to lack of socialization options. I've made far better friends through my time in the gym than any other location largely due to the abundance…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 03:19 PM
1

You'd be attempting to climb a social hierarchy that has been in the works since High School Day 1. Its an incredible amount of energy to waste on something that will be pointless the day after graduation. Start lifting and get yourself academically poised to graduate and go on to college.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 11:20 AM
1

ZMA at night...20oz of water before I even take a leak. Your body has gone hours without fluids... you're always dehydrated.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 12:48 PM
1

is this friendship over? From what I'm hearing it was never mutual. Write it off as a loss. I also suspect you have friends you hold in much higher regard...make them the gold standard the next time you go throwing the word "Friendship" around.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 11:26 AM
2

becoming more slovenly This leads me to suspect that you're also rockin' the casual appearance approach. Time to clean up your act...make an effort to look better than you do now (for yourself, not her)...hit the gym more. Hopefully she'll follow suit but if not at least you'll hit the ground running.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 11:20 AM
1

Do your thing...just do it without them around. Give them your field reports, notch your bedpost, laugh at their failures, lift.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:57 PM
1

every morning she's required to send me a pic of her outfit I check all her text and make sure she isn't talking to anyone The good news is you can look forward to her hating you like an overbearing father. I feel like I'm messing it up some how Trying to lock down a girl who's about to get in line for the CC, that's how.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:22 PM
1

Sounds like she got a better offer...make her come to you or not at all.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 10:54 AM
1

I don't want to be the pathetic friendzoned guy who continues to talk to a girl just in case she ends up giving him some pity sex some day. Dude, you already are that guy. Spoiler alert: There will never be any sex involved, ever. As others have said, go radio silent. She has nothing to offer you and her actions say so.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 10:49 AM
0

How is this related to TRP?
/r/askTRP08/10/15 10:30 AM
1

Everything you listed as wanting to do should be thought of as "important"...as it stands, it isn't important enough. Who exactly do you think decides that?
/r/askTRP06/10/15 06:10 PM
1

48 Laws of Power
/r/askTRP05/10/15 05:22 PM
1

part of me wants to hold on to her for a bit longer And she probably senses your inner beta coming out which is why she's done. Hard next.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 10:16 AM
8

She said why don't we elevate to long talk then? Your mistake was not taking her home soon enough to use your own bathroom. I sent her a friend request today but she still hasn't accepted it. Edit: Awesome...you friend-zoned yourself.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 10:20 PM
1

I've mixed Bvlgari Aqva and any "sport" or "fresh" aerosol deodorant for the past decade...I don't go a week without a girl asking what I'm wearing. "Nothing. Why do you ask?"
/r/askTRP04/10/15 08:40 PM
2

Use this recipe 3x daily in addition to breakfast, lunch, and dinner. In a blender for at least 60 seconds: 2 scoops protein 2 tbsp peanut butter 1 banana 1/2 cup raw oats Edit: It's about 680 calories per serving
/r/askTRP01/10/15 11:19 AM
2

Vice is just another media company, just like Resignation Media, and especially like Gawker Media. Their sole purpose is to be a profit generation machine powered by clickbait articles written by penny-per-word freelance/guest journalists. Disregard, find a better source for your information.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 10:48 AM
2

Too late for dread. It was over when he brought the "cheese, blueberries and other delicious stuff" followed up with "How was your day?"
/r/askTRP29/09/15 04:15 PM
2

No need for theory, she's obviously paying enough attention to the situation to see it for what it is.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:29 PM
2

Your assessment of her need for validation is spot on. However, as you've described it she's realizing you've plated her and it doesn't sit well with the hamster. "the only reason you want to see me is to fuck, and if that doesnt happn within 20 mins you just move on to the next" Carry on, you're doing it right.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:22 PM
0

Respond right away and you end up looking like a needy little bitch. Let the hamster spin, maintain frame, make her come to you.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:16 PM
2

"A LOT. Hey are you leaving soon? Kayla's coming over and she always cooks breakfast in the morning...don't wanna fuck that up in case she sees you."
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:03 PM
1

(I'm currently jobless (with a strong option being in the pipeline), homeless (will come with the job) and fitless (no excuse) Exactly what about you is RP?
/r/askTRP28/09/15 10:56 AM
28

Six weeks from now you'll be laughing at how they're busy clogging the shower drains by hand and you've got a solid FWB. Here's a better question: Why do you care what anyone else thinks?
/r/askTRP28/09/15 10:45 AM
5

This game isn't new, I guarantee you're one of the 20-30 matches she's trying to line up for the same night. Next.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 06:46 PM
0

She's not a single mom Yes, yes she is. Chicks with kids become a reality as you get older Not if you don't accept them as valid options.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 06:34 PM
6

Note: Don't take your ZMA in conjunction with any products containing calcium.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 04:29 PM
8

I have a pool of about 500-800 people. You mean those people you went to school with? They stop being relevant the minute you stop believing they are. At your age the diameter of your true social circle extends about 35ft in any direction from the center of your bedroom.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 06:05 PM
3

Keep your gear ready to go...when she hits the snooze button you hit the road.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 04:30 PM
1

There's an ROK graphic on this. Search "girls 1-10 scale"
/r/askTRP09/09/15 10:22 AM
1

Nope....if money is what you care about go DDS then on to Endodontist. Average salary is north of $200k.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 03:07 PM
2

If not thats ok, just wanted to throw it out there. She gave you an out, keep it real civil and worse case you end up with a potential source of intel and a "fan for life".
/r/askTRP31/08/15 06:28 PM
1

My biggest struggle is remaining faithful now. With my high SMV, temptation is around every corner. You've been playing on easy mode for so long that your relationship no longer interests you. What's the point if there's no "struggle" right? Find a hobby, start a company, become self-employed, retire at 50. Do something genuinely challenging. Trust me when I tell you there are far more rewarding things to do than chasing skirts. Also, from the sidebar: The grass is greener on the other side Unle…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 10:47 AM
2

Admittedly this comes across as somewhat vapid, let me elaborate. The intent is for the OP to have a nuclear option of his own since the wife's comfort test of choice is the divorce argument. I always find that anyone threatening to pull that trigger without any real intent is simply asking to be on the receiving end. Having divorce paperwork ready at a moments notice has several benefits: Models the wife's perception - OP builds the foundation for his perceived frame. Regardless of any minor de…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 11:15 AM
3

Confiscate the ring. Tell her she'll get it back when she's proven herself worthy. Send her on the trip alone. Limit your response to calls or texts...her hamster will start spinning like a centrifuge. She'll ask for the ring back when she gets home.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 11:09 AM
2

Unless she's enroute, you have plenty of time to say "Something came up, can't make it, so sorry." Has she mentioned you taking her back to the airport yet? (Hint: She already expects you will)
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 10:25 AM
12

Fuck that squatter shit, unless they're shelling out extra cash for that spot its open season.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 10:16 AM
8

The house is in my name and I pay all the bills except the gas. http://www.pods.com/Moving.aspx
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 11:59 AM
9

"I do to protect myself from an abuser." Her mind is made up. At this point she's processing all of your past behaviors and painting herself as the victim. It's only a matter of time before whoever she vents to convinces her that she truly is a victim and that steps need to be taken. Once upon a time my uncle came home from work to find two police cruisers and four officers waiting for him in his driveway. He was presented with an order of protection barring him from entering the house without a…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 12:12 PM
14

Want to know the secret to planning a great disney vacation? Get someone else to do it for you. I go through AAA for anything travel related. It's the closest thing you'll find to a PA these days.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 02:03 PM
1

we will be seperating our accounts. Right about now is when you need to run a credit check to identify anything she may have hidden (credit cards/personal loans) Yes its a pain in the balls but worth it if something is found. If she's throwing around the nuclear option and blowing cash at that rate she's probably made her decision and likely talking to her divorced friends to help formulate a plan to divorce-rape.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 11:19 AM
8

I'll bite... "Whoa, nice breath yuckmouth" Let me guess, she eats your pizza and the leftovers for lunch the next day. Stop somewhere to have dinner alone. Eating dinner without her is like having a coupon for 50% off. Exactly. Laundry day should include both yours and the child's, nothing more. Assuming she brushed her teeth? Find and point out another ass "Damn, I bet she'd like it." She acts like a child, treat her accordingly. Silent treatment = Permission for another meal out alone. Bonus: …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 11:40 AM
2

There's 3.5 million people in America alone. 318 million actually...which is good considering 158 million of them are female and 75% are over the age of 20.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 01:05 PM
3

And if there's not a "For Sale" sign on her old car by now you're doing it wrong. Wait, let me guess...we can't sell it because it isn't paid off yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 11:40 AM
5

Dick move on your part for not helping her out. Maybe not...from the outside it reads: His wife asks him to do something she knows he dislikes, to inconvenience himself on her behalf, to purposely impact his work performance, and to risk a bit of fallout from his boss all in the name of something that isn't truly important but in her mind it is because it's about her (just a bit of solipsism there) Accommodating her request wasn't the issue. Waiting until the last minute to spring it on him was …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/15 03:41 PM
38

This is what's referred to as choreplay. You think of it as "asking" when in reality it's begging for sex...bad move.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/15 11:28 AM
10

All I can think of is that her selfishness put my mothers life at risk. Except... I spent over an hour arguing So no, it wasn't your wife's fault, it was yours. You allowed an argument to go on for over an hour when you knew your mother needed you. Had you maintained frame and walked out your mother (probably) wouldn't have been injured. Keep this in mind next time you allow a hamster run game on you.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 03:25 PM
3

I know it hurts my social outcomes tremendously. Your frame is non-existent and your "straight shooting" is probably viewed more like a child having a temper tantrum. Fix that shit. http://www.returnofkings.com/29943/the-essence-of-frame-control
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 01:37 PM
1

Outbursts like punching holes in doors do nothing but serve to destroy what little frame you had. You're going to be reminded of that incident for many months and years from now (AWALT) Make sure it serves to remind you of how important it is that you maintain a strong frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 01:52 PM
1

Someone's already pushing it... https://twitter.com/MikeDamanskis/status/565410387378860033
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 01:12 PM
5

my response to the flake is usually something like “just got free. See you at 8.” Followed a few minutes later by, “sorry wrong text. Cool, some other time” Haven't even finished reading the FR...anyone who insists on texting should take note: this is fucking gold.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:16 AM
2

Page 3 Girls were my gateway drug.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 06:38 PM
3

http://www.redditlog.com/snapshots/1460385
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 05:06 PM
2

"People do it everyday, they talk to themselves... they see themselves as they'd like to be, they don't have the courage you have, to just run with it."
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:53 AM
5

/r/ketogains Lots of direction over there if you're so inclined...
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:34 AM
1

Short list: Choose your goal - Bulk up or slim down? Check your diet - It's 65% of your results (seriously) Find an 8-week plan and stick to it - It's possible to have gym ADD
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 11:57 AM
1

"Actually it's a medical condition...the symptoms include hypertrophy, symmetry, higher tissue density, and increased muscle contraction rates. There are some treatment protocols but I'd end up taking 25 years off my life."
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 11:53 AM
5

On September 17, 1967, The Doors gave a memorable performance of "Light My Fire" on The Ed Sullivan Show. According to Ray Manzarek, network executives asked that the word "higher" be removed in favor of "better". The group appeared to acquiesce, but performed the song in its original form, because either they had never intended to comply with the request or Jim Morrison was nervous and forgot to make the change (Manzarek has given conflicting accounts). Either way, "higher" was sung out on nati…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:23 PM
1

It does happen...always police your brass.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:19 PM
3

My personality needs a shit ton of work Because you want to be "a nice guy with a great personality?" No, this is a subconscious need for approval. Get over it ASAP, you're not out there to make friends. Instead, take a critical look at any weaknesses in your frame. Perception is reality. Sometimes you don't even need to say anything. There have been several FRs in the past few months wherein silence has produced positive results.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 11:32 AM
9

Gotta disagree with you on that one. Highly educated and working multiple jobs at any given time to the tune of 6-figures, that woman holds her own. She was earning about $120k/yr more than he was during his time as a US Senator. Pretty easy to see who the woman in that relationship was prior to the presidential election.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 10:43 AM
7

Stick with her now and you can be divorced by 29 and have the alimony all paid off by 33. Sorry, child support payments can and will last well into your mid-40s if you expect the kids to go to college. This whole process should take just long enough to trade off for another post-wall divorcee with 2-4 kids that you can support into your twilight years. You're going to die of either a stress-induced heart attack or a self-inflicted gunshot wound while pondering how it is that you've only slept wi…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:28 PM
1

Because if you fuck up, or she rejects you, big deal you'll probably never see her again. You've answered your own question. Your world right now is very small and you need to expand it. Exit your current locale as often as possible. Since you have a means of transportation go to the nearest major city and explore. Go places where your high school people aren't. Look into running a 5k or a 10k. Why? Because 5k and 10k runs attract fitness conscious women (score!) More importantly, it automatical…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 11:23 AM
56

"Hey, try not to suck any dick on your way through the parking lot!"
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 03:27 PM
2

Of course...after that getting a divorce is like a refund on your wedding dress investment.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 02:41 PM
3

I'm 6'2" and 160lbs Shoulda waited for Steak and a BJ Day...
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 05:38 PM
5

a 6 to a 5 1/2 depending on who you ask You're telling the story so I'm going with "6". There must have been at least one thing attractive about her given the notch. Common sense dictates that if you found yourself on the better side of this bell curve, and depending on your tastes, that 6 can turn 7 and in my book 7's are plates. I was in and out in 20 minutes with a 10 dollar bar tab and a notch. NEVER let a lack of difficulty stop you from gaining experience and having a good time. Take the w…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:09 AM
7

Fuck, I'm in Ohiosays everyone every morning
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 01:02 PM
2

There are 3.5 billion women out there, don't fixate on one Nominated for Quote of The Day
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 01:49 PM
1

Beat me to it... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_Bilzerian
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 01:32 PM
1

So much frame... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NjR0fqSzcpc
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 01:27 PM
8

Don't believe the hype, daddy had money... This dude is a heartbeat away from heart attack #4...coke and 'roids don't mix.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 10:35 AM
7

Has he spoken to you about this? [-] wellrestediam -5 Points 18:05:13, 26 July Early on he did. But I think he eventually leaned I wasn't going to do it. And that lesson learned was "This restaurant doesn't serve steak...I'll just have to go to that place across town any time I want a steak." Once you realize what you want isn't on the menu you'll find yourself looking for a new place to eat. This is human nature at work, call it an addiction, call it a need, call it whatever you think best desc…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 04:34 PM
2

Somehow people forgot about the 2 Live Crew.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 03:15 PM
14

You just DNA'd the potential "crime scene".
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 02:51 PM
2

Me: "If you wanna meet up, then find me at the end of the night and you'll come home with me. If I give you my number then you'll just leave and forget about texting me." C: "So you're not joking and you're actually not going to give me your number?" Me: "Nope, not happening." This is a staple behavior...gets the same reaction every single time, good job.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 11:29 AM
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