I read that you should stay away from single mothers so I want to know if I am making any mistakes.

I met this older lady in my Spanish meetup group. She seemed into me (always left at the same time as me and asked me to walk her to the subway). I get her number and she is super responsive. So eventually I ask her out. We go to a museum (I know not a great date -- better to plan for later at night). I was taken off guard, she showed up with her daughter. I don't care I just want to check out the museum and take pictures.

I end up having a great time. I got to spend like 5 hours speaking Spanish (even did a tour in Spanish). Fuck yes!

We text for a while it is clear that she is post wall and looking for a BB to take care of her and her child. I have no interest. Looking at her facebook, it is clear that she use to be a 9/10. She sends me a pic of her old BF/chad that was literally some kind of professional wrestler. And the other Chad, the father, runs some kind of company that hosts events and parties. I feel very Beta in comparison -- software engineer with stable normal job.

Next she sends me shit saying I should cook for her and other beta crap. I tell her that I want women that cooks, and the she is of no use to me since she can't.

I mostly avoid her after this point. But later I decide to hang out with her and her daughter again. I really do like spending time with native Spanish speakers. A lot! Also, I think I can make more Hispanic friends through her over time? The meetup groups kind of suck for getting to speak Spanish -- it's all like a shitty first date -- same boring questions. with her we walk into a cafe and the person actually
attends to me in Spanish!

I know that sex wise she is a dead end, but what do you think about spending time with her to keep practicing Spanish? I use to have lots of latin friends back in Texas -- I think I can drop her when I make better Hispanic friends. I never pay for her shit so it's not a resource drain or anything.