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I was depressed constantly back in 2014 until I found TRP. the ideas put forth on the sub gave me a sense of understanding and more importantly a sense of purpose, something to start with, because like you I hated myself and didn't know what to do with me. I started working out, going to bed early, I got my first one night stand the first week. I just took a chance and it paid off. I'm currently in an ltr. It's important for you to start taking the physical steps towards betterment as they'll pr…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:53 PM
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When a man and a woman meet for a date sex is always the underlying implication of said meeting. You don't have to bring it up, it's an overkill to do so. The issue isn't that she has the wrong idea, it's that you have the wrong idea. You'll get more mileage if you approach a date with the intention of having fun. If you're meeting it means she's interested, just hold frame and game her right.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:36 PM
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Number 3 implies I am a separate thing from my thoughts. Whence does consciousness arise? From where there is no consciousness, from where there is no control. What use is it to tell someone to rid themselves of one delusion but supplant him with another.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 11:41 PM
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Fucking girls in the ass and getting blowjobs was considered a mental illness? Or does that definition only cover for homosexuals?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 08:26 PM
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Fucking girls in the ass and getting blowjobs was considered a mental illness? Or does that definition only cover for homosexuals?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/18 08:26 PM
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Early on, one of the most useful things I picked up on this site was Rollos "Your friend menstruation" post. Women run like clockwork, just by their mennstrual cycle you can predict weeks in advance how a lapse in your frame will affect her behavior. I just want to add that while Machiavellian principles are important, unless you have well developed social skills they are difficult to employ. Reading the prince and the 48 laws was good for understanding but reading how to win friends and influen…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 03:39 AM
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Sigma v. Alpha debate. OP is taking the stance of the former without realizing it. Alpha is a consumer position. But what an alpha can do a sigma should be capable of doing as well. Otherwise you get a situation like the comments have mentioned, the intention with which you go is what matters.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 01:46 PM
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This shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone who's swallowed the pill. Men are expected to be the "rock" in the relationship ( it's an indicator of a good mate to women, but in sexual strategy it only matters because it produces tingles.) Not only that but think about it for a second, this dude is being accused of being a predator and people tend to go with the worst possible outcome. In their minds he's already guilty, assuming he was crying fake tears would be an incredibly disgusting act to sw…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 08:29 PM
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This whole fiasco really goes to show just how much of a thankless job you and the rest of the endorsed contributors are doing here. Sometimes I wonder if a cap on membership or an intense screening process might help this sub turn a redder shade of purple.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 05:33 PM
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Just as a heads up, you won't be able to micromanage all the different aspects of yourself to make yourself alpha. You're only making yourself susceptible to neurotic thoughts. You gotta simplify. I made my own "diagram" or "checklist" Internal Aspects Fundamentals 無 (Enlightenment, Ultimate reality, Truth) Chaos (Human interpretation of truth) Big Five Behavioral aspects. Openness to experience Conscientiousness Extraversion Agreeableness Neuroticism Dark Triad Psychopathy (Supplement with Stoi…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 12:55 AM
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I've been out of the loop from TRP for a while and have on my off time watched quite a lot of Petersons videos. I agree with TRP in that he's promoting a losing battle, but I would really like to see an open dialogue from Peterson himself with this community, particularly with Rollo.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 12:13 AM
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There's a reason the first agreement of the book "The Four Agreements" is to be impeccable with your words, or why Zen masters say to discard conceptual thought. Words are what divide us from the outside world, they have the capacity to bring us either heaven or hell.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 08:41 PM
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The modern woman is so possesed that the possibility of them “coming back around” is silly to consider. Only when men at large expose their ugly side will feminism lose its grasp on society.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 01:17 AM
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Cut the suffering at the root. I'm going to suggest reading The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. The Red Pill is not really in the business of providing anything besides the hard cold truth.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 05:09 PM
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Maybe it's time to start asking who you are from the perspective of Zen literature.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 05:38 PM
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This post could not have been more coincidental. I was mirin my gains last night and realized that this new ppl routine I'm following is lacking in ab workouts. It's the fastest routine I've done, literally an hour if I slept right. Gonna add them abs
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 02:39 PM
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Wtf is going on in this thread. This place used to showcase Triad personality traits and the amorality of sexual success.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 09:55 PM
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I'm having a hard time finding the practicality in this post. The only way to kill the weakness in your heart is to kill the dream, and accept the ugly reality. How can you preach this when neither your father nor the red pill could save you, when it took a swing at your ego to wake you up? The flawed individual cannot know how to do the right thing, otherwise he wouldn't be flawed. Meaningful change is not a voluntary effort, we are changed because our experiences bring it out. I agree that "pr…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 06:55 PM
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So you admit your advice is not only useless but explicitly against TRP rules. TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options. Anyone who does not share that goal will be banned the instant we detect them. •Write anything in here that sets some other goal (moralizing, showing off, political agenda, etc) above that goal? Banned.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 09:45 PM
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"How can you expect me to trust you when you wont even tell me who sent you those texts? I thought you loved me, why wont you tell me the truth?"
/r/askTRP19/01/18 08:56 PM
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I wonder, under what pretenses would you advise a man into an LTR if not for the primary purpose of having a steady income of pussy? When you don't delude yourself into thinking that the bitch you're spending your time on is there for any other reason than to make your life more entertaining, or easier (if she's good), then you should have no qualms about manipulating her into a relationship even if it means lying to her about your commitment. If you can't accept the reality that sexual strategy…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 08:40 PM
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[{(Money + Status) x Looks} x Game] / Perceptual SMV x Logistics
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 04:12 PM
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And you're a religious nut job with an ego made of glass go pacify your mind, tell me when you've met face to face with Zhaozhou
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 02:17 AM
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Mind pacification is not meditation nor does it lead to enlightenment.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 02:00 AM
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Focusing on breath isn't meditation in its true sense either. (Dhyana) If you confuse concentration in your breathing as the absence of thought you are already deluded. The mind is never at rest, anyone who tells you otherwise is misguided or lying.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/18 06:24 PM
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You guys already pretty much started it with the trp.red groups, but when you first announced that you were going to launch an app for men to communicate, one of the ideas that came to my head was to use this as a tool for accountability. There are lot of guys here that would benefit from 1on1 communication with others in the same boat, but in order for progress to be made the conversations involved must not revolve around further Rp exchange. That's what this forum is for. Instead have a place …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 04:08 PM
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Pursuing peace is also attachment, thus suffering.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 12:25 PM
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But the key point in Buddhism is that nothing can be changed. You are not the thinker of thoughts, the feeler of feelings: the ego -is- illusory. Consciousness arises from the depths of ourselves in which there is no awareness. Nirvana means to "blow out" exhale, let go, and life comes rushing back in. The more you hold on to yourself the harder you strangulate.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 01:53 PM
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I suffer tremendously from the issues you have detailed here, particularly the incessant toiling I have with myself on a biweekly basis; where I'm either feeling on the right track for a while or as though I'm wasting away. Presently I'm on the downhill side of things, I'm tired, late for work, masturbate habitually, and all around disconnected. It's a drag just to write this down, but I know I need help and I'm willing to try anything at this point. I just wrote down this post in a notebook and…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 04:50 PM
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I would only be inclined to take these measures if I had some heavier investment in a woman, if say I was married or had a kid(s). But with my LTR of one year, what would be the point? She provides sex on a day to day basis, she buys me gifts, she wants to be with me all the time, she offers to pay for her own shit, she dreads hard when I'm not present etc. Things may change in the future, and that's okay. Because I will never allow any love I develop for her to obfuscate the duplicitous serpent…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:16 PM
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Depends on what your girl knows about you, and what she thinks she knows. As you saw, doing things out of the ordinary is key. Downloading a social media app I've never used before, telling her I'm "busy tomorrow", even school is a source of dread for my girl. It really depends on her imagination, but doing things solo particularly in social settings is enough to kick-start her hamster.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 09:50 PM
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You're a fucking mess. You invite a bitch over knowing full well that you'd deliberately shattered your frame, you gossiped with her about who you slept with, you failed so many shit tests to the point where she's telling you to get tested for STDs. And what's really funny is instead of concerning yourself about whether or not you might actually have an STD you're more worried about whether some dumb college slut still wants you? From what you've told us here you can hardly handle yourself, much…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 09:36 PM
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I've been listening to George Long's version from Librivox.org, it's pretty good. I have it downloaded on my phone so I listen to it between commutes.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 09:02 PM
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Why is this getting thumbed down? You're entirely correct, financial stability in and of itself is only good for generating "provider value" in women. However, Using your money to live an awesome lifestyle is a different story, and said lifestyles usually attract women. Some men invest in sociability instead of money, but just like money it opens doors.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 10:07 PM
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"You must never give in to despair. Allow yourself to slip down that road and you surrender to your lowest instincts. In the darkest times, hope is something you give yourself. That is the meaning of inner strength." -Uncle Iroh
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 09:05 PM
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If you've been doing ICF 5x5 for 9 months are you considered intermediate? I'm starting 5/3/1 on january. I have a chart and everything.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 09:48 PM
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Ad hominem and literally zero counter arguments. This is how adults interact?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 09:47 PM
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Have you read Principia Discordia? From wiki: Both order and disorder are man made concepts and are artificial divisions of pure chaos, which is a level deeper than is the level of distinction making... ...We look at the world through windows on which have been drawn grids (concepts). Different philosophies use different grids. A culture is a group of people with rather similar grids. Through a window we view chaos, and relate it to the points on our grid, and thereby understand it. The order is…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 05:01 PM
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if you want her to view you as a beta go for it never apologize, it is the act of admitting a weakness, weakness is unattractive to women.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 05:54 PM
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If making Spanish speaking friends was your objective you wouldn't have bothered making a post about this woman, because clearly you'd know that was your objective. In reality though you're just hamstering. You want to get close to fucking this lady all while telling yourself that you're doing it for some ulterior motive. Sin embargo, si quieres hablar con alguein, you podria usar la practica.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 04:10 AM
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Just because you're in an LTR with a girl doesn't mean you're allowed to develop oneities, which you have, really fucking bad. Stop talking/thinking about her, if she wants to cheat she will, women are hypergamous when chad shows his cock and the stars aline she'll hamster herself into cheating. Welcome to reality of LTRs, yes they're a joke. So manipulate and squeeze out whatever value you can from her now, because she will. Withdraw your presence (emotionally/physically) Focus on yourself, lif…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 03:52 AM
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I will sometimes find myself slipping into that haze of nurture with my ltr, but either she, this community, or I myself will remind me the error in indulging such emotions. The pill is bitter, and every time you slip you have to taste it once again, but without it I could not enjoy those moments as consistently as I do. The problem is not enjoying the intimacy, the problem is coupling the enjoyment with the realization that it's not reciprocal. When you willingly withdraw from the feelings, I b…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 03:33 AM
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It would be an act of manipulation on her part. The hierarchy of love is true, the sooner you abandon the yearning for motherly love the better off you are. Or, at the very least do not seek it from women who might potentially view you as a sexual partner.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 06:02 PM
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The less you need it the better off you are, this is the key principle behind abundance mentality and outcome independence, to rely only on yourself for your happiness. You are human, and thus a social animal; at a base level we all desire validation from external forces. It's the reason we compete socially, physically. I don't have the answer to your question, but I share your sentiment.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 03:12 PM
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I'm an artist This is the first thing you did wrong. when it was time to drop her off, she pouted and wanted to keep the conversation going. I agreed... Allowed her to gain territory. She asked to hang out again but this time at my place More territory, entering her frame. LMR at escalation, needed to give her plausible deniability. "i was just feeling like why am I settling for someone I can't even vocalize my feelings for. Because I just want someone to be there for me. that's not good for me.…
/r/askTRP29/11/15 04:48 PM
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Relationships are transactional. Men desire sex Women desire commitment Who in this situation is giving but not receiving? She's using you, you need to escalate for sexual intimacy, if she refueses withdraw your presence, which is validation for her. No sex, not deal.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 04:50 PM
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Fear, fear's a powerful thing. I mean it's got a lot of firepower. If you can figure out a way to wrestle that fear to push you from behind rather than to stand in front of you, that's very powerful. I always felt that I had to work harder than the next guy, just to do as well as the next guy. And to do better than the next guy, I had to just kill. And you know, to a certain extent, that's still with me in how I work, you know, I just... go in -Jimmy Lovine Your post reminded me of that. Perhaps…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 04:04 PM
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I was confused by your use of the word rejection, I see we are talking about the same thing. I meant to say that she's not entirely uninterested, simply that the interest is for his orbiting qualities.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 06:15 PM
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Not so fast, this is strategic placement on the girls part. I don't remember which post, perhaps on asktrp or the main subreddit, but if I recall correctly several members extrapolated on the situation OP is facing. This girl is placing OP near her social circle for a reason. It could be that she's chasing a chad, but wants to keep OP close by just in case her attempts don't work out. If she wanted absolutely nothing to do with him she would have shot him down. It's up to OP to decide whether or…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 05:44 PM
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I think here would be the ideal place to put it. Give it a go.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 05:15 PM
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Why don't you consider typing out a post about it detailing, if you can, the various lessons you learned pertaining to TRP principles. This will help you get those feelings out of your system and allow other members to provide specific advice. The second thing you should do is focus on yourself. Try keeping busy, exercise, read books, work do something productive to keep your mind off the pain.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 03:48 PM
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You get pissed because you have a feeling of ownership. You don't. It's a shit-test on her part. She's overtly exhibiting these behaviors to determine your level of interest. The less interested/affect you are the more you exhibit... ABUNDANCE MENTALITY. I.E.: A man with options I.E. an Alpha male. In other words, void your interests, affection, money and any other valuable asset you provide to this hoe. Send her home, ignore her, find some other slut, let the dread boil up and when she contacts…
/r/askTRP18/11/15 08:24 PM
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You're absolutely 100% fucking right! Two months ago I was reading two Books, the Hot Gates (book about Spartans) and How to Win Friends and Influence People. And those books really hit something home for me, male camaraderie is the best way to achieve male excellence. When you don't have any father figure to discipline you, a good friend who has his shit together can help you straighten yourself out. The very first principle in the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is don't critici…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 01:31 PM
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Thanks for the suggestions. To clarify I started doing workouts at home watching Mike Chang's videos when I was still in highschool for about year, when I finally joined TRP on October of last year I was convinced to start lifting via routine to see real progress. I signed up for a gym and I chose ICF because it's an easy routine for me to follow, I used to go on and off at the beginning, but I've been sticking to the program for 7-8 months now. What I'd like is to bulk up a bit more, I'm short …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 08:28 PM
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To men who still have not realized the true nature of women. The Red Pill is liberating. Women are duplicitous by nature, fish 'em, fuck 'em, and release them. "Accept the fact that the bitch belongs to the world."
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 03:02 AM
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For anyone looking for some material "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a good book, it's been helping me in my social life with every chapter I read. It's all very simple stuff. And thank you by the way to the people who suggested it. It's amazing how basic this stuff is Don't criticize, condemn, or complain. Give honest and sincere appreciation. Arouse in others an eager want. Smile genuinely. Remember their names. etc. etc.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 02:47 AM
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"What is evil won, is evil lost."
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 08:30 PM
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On the bright side his cheating whore of a wife is dead.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 03:03 PM
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The universe saw it fit to veil women with the guise of beauty; beneath the flesh one can discover only the hideous, remorseless, duplicitous, serpentine monstrosity coiled within.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 02:14 PM
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This is extremely reactionary and a good example of what losing frame looks like.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:04 AM
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Yes feminism. I may have jumped the gun in saying that we ignore it altogether, but it's not our central line of focus when approaching our reality through the red pill lenses. Feminism is part of sexual strategy after all.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 04:01 AM
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You are a perfect example of this Men and women are not and cannot be equal. MRAs don't get this. MRA's attempt to combat feminism using logic, while TRP ignores it altogether and focuses primarily on teaching it's members how to exploit the current social environment by understanding the dynamics of sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:25 AM
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Considering our size maybe she was trying to lure our newer members/lurkers. Assuming others outside of our community stumble upon it perhaps it will serve as free advertisement. But there's no way anything of value is coming out of that vacuous self-absorbed cunt.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 03:00 AM
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Wtf. She basically said "Yeah maybe I'll interview you once I get more money wink wink, oh and yeah I'm bandwagonning on the red pills popularity to sell my own 'journey' blah blah blah me me me me me."
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 02:27 AM
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After having had three kids and spending so much time with her? I could not abandon her, unless she was unfaithful to me. Your father needs to introspect very deeply to understand that he is, as all men are, the gate keeper of his relationship. Any dissatisfaction he feels is his own doing. If his family matters at all to him he will buckle up and do everything in his power to maintain it, but he can only do that when he prioritizes his own happiness first. I believe that even though he is burde…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 08:10 PM
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Actions speak louder than words. It doesn't matter if you maintain emotional composure if your actions indicate the opposite. Women are good at deciphering body language and power cues. "here's a bottle of water, I think it's time you leave." The bottle of water is another gesture of concern. "you shouldn't try to meet up other guys when you're on a date with me." "I'm jealous that some other guy has your attention." You called her out by saying this, and explained the reasoning behind your acti…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 04:24 PM
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I suspect that this is all your fathers fault. What hobbies does your dad have? How does he spend his free time? Women are a reflection of their men. They submit to their ambitions and desires. In the book How to Win Friends and Influence People, I learned in one of the chapters that people do things mainly, if not solely to feel a sense of importance. And more specifically in your case: People sometimes become invalids in order to win sympathy and attention, and get a feeling of importance. Con…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 03:58 PM
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The phone call, the resistance, the period, and the lack of interest. All shit tests. She wanted you to see these signals to see how you'd react. While her proliferative period (part of her menstrual cycle where she wants alpha cock) begins about a week after her menses(blood), sex is still on the table while the blood flows. That means that during this time she will shit test you anytime you signal beta behavior. Like /u/vandaalen said, you showed too much interest too early, she lost attractio…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 03:20 PM
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Do yourself a favor and Google Rollo's article "Your Friend Menstruation" and after you've read it track her cycle. My LTR functions like clockwork because of it. Follicular phase: Menses & Proliferative (Alpha period) This is the time I'm met with great reciprocation to my overt, dominant, sexual advances. No shit tests or excuses as long as I maintain frame and display the alpha qualities she finds attractive. If she resists during this time it's because A. you lost/have no frame B. she sees y…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 04:15 PM
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They believe the thrashing sharks will draw the attention of men already shoulder-deep into the water. Let us hope we have enough rafts to hold them all.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:40 PM
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I believe only a strong sense of community will preserve us. But TRP preaches narcissism and the exploitation of others for personal gain. TRP is like a group of strangers helping each other up into the crows nest of a sinking ship whereupon they watch as the whole of it is swallowed by the sea. Some will do whatever it takes to stay afloat, even if it means selling out the men who helped them for a life jacket or two, maybe even a spot on a lifeboat.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 04:25 AM
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TRP teaches men how to loot society's corpse, not sustain it. To "enjoy the decline" through amoral truths. Eventually some will enjoy the decline at our expense as well.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 08:54 PM
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What is gwarp, baby don't hurt me
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 05:44 PM
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9 months with her, sex every day, it's been a growing process. I've learned lots of valuable information about behavior to the point where I have a chart calculating when and how she's more likely to behave in certain ways, how I influence these behaviors with my own, and the course of actions I need to take in order to get what I want from her. All of this is thanks to the members of this community, Rollo being a main one. Seen many theories fall into place. The red flags are there, but you hav…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 02:49 PM
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Could you suggest any specific readings?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:59 PM
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You're young, your inexperienced, your brain isn't fully developed, you will make poor or no decisions. If your parents aren't on top of you, which I suspect they aren't, you will have a rough time organizing yourself. When I first joined TRP one of the things that stuck with me the most was this saying: "Motivation is the product of action, not the other way around." You can't think about it, you just have to get up off your ass and do it, whatever it is, maybe cleaning your room, writing down …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:56 PM
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I'm short, and I don't gain easily. I've started scarfing down any food I can at any point I'm not feeling like I'm about to burst. I've managed to gain some weight so I must be doing something right.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:27 PM
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I have acne scars and get pimples everytime I don't sleep well. I'm thinking about getting laser skin resurfacing, but maybe I should try a facial.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 06:00 PM
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Reading your shit is hilarious and incredibly insightful. I wish I could see it enacted though. Like what your facial expression looks like, your tone of voice, posture, etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 06:08 PM
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"There's only one way you're getting 150 from me, and it involves more than just hands."
/r/askTRP24/08/15 05:56 PM
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If you believe in the standards set by feminized western societies, wherein self-victimization and weaknesses are glorified sure. But TRP follows a standard of objective truth, and upholds men to their masculinity. We know that men who are weak are valueless. In reality that man is the true victim, his nature likely sabotaged from an early age, it will lead him to ruination. From there he'll either find the pill in one shape or form, or he'll live the rest of his life in misery from shattered de…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 01:44 PM
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get job, work, work more, make money, save it, see doctor, get fixed, work out, move forward
/r/askTRP21/08/15 06:30 PM
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I have the opposite problem. I don't eat enough
/r/askTRP21/08/15 03:45 PM
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She said a short while ago that she hangs out in groups where she is the only girl a lot of the time, which caught my attention. It's a power-play, she knows you know this is shady. Which is why she told you, to get that delicious reaction out of you. Pull away. Build dread. You are the man, gatekeeper of the relationship. Her behavior insults this precious gift you are offering her, a gift in which you stand more to lose. For monogamous relationships to work a man must sacrifice his sexual impe…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:09 PM
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Day 15: Went to bed at 11:00 woke up at 7:00. Slept 8ish hours. Day 16: Went to bed at 11:30 woke up at 8:40. Time slept 8-ish hours.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 06:46 PM
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I've done something similar when dealing with my girl, but instead of four I just split her in two. Her Feminine Nature: Shit-tests, Hypergamy, Childishness, Hamstering Her Machiavellian Nature: Manipulation, Powerplays, Deceit There's a lot of overlap between her Machiavellian machinations and Female imperatives. The way her desires work and the methods she uses to acquire them blend together perfectly. I like your compartmentalization, it helps break down her motives even further.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 06:12 PM
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Day 14: Went to bed at 11:00 but could not fall asleep. Woke up several times at 2, 3, and 4. Ate too much, drank my protein shake and I think it congested my nose. Throat hurt when I breathed. Time slept: No clue, I'm tired, but at least I woke up outside of a REM cycle so my mind isn't sluggish.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:25 PM
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Day 13: Went to bed at 11:12 woke up at 8:16. Time slept: 8.5 hours.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:27 PM
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Day 12: Went to bed at 12:00ish, woke up at 7:40. Time slept 7ish
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 06:54 PM
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Day 11: Went to bed at 11:00, woke up at 8:20. Time slept: ~8hrs
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 06:54 PM
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You could snoop around and try to figure it out, though that's kind of pathetic imo. And then what do you plan on doing if she actually did cheat? Confront her? No, that's some grade A beta shit. You could dump her without an explanation and go no-contact. Thereafter If she really wants you back you could plate her. Or just start pulling away now, stop spending as much time with her. Start seeing other girls, watch as the dread settles in.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 07:19 PM
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This is why LTRs are such a joke. Stop worrying man, if she wants to cheat on you behind your back she'll find a way. I personally don't believe men and women can be friends, with maybe only minor exceptions. I've made that perfectly clear with my bitch, if she starts seeings other guys, that's fine by me. Go ahead, but don't get mad when I start seeing other bitches. And if that's what our relationship devolves to then I'll terminate it on the spot. On the flip side, if she's cool with that the…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 06:49 PM
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I don't understand a single thing in this thread.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 05:17 PM
1

Kendrick Lamar, pretty much every album. He spits a lot of RP truth.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 03:36 PM
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Your behavior indicates beta inclinations. Betas incite utilitarian interests in women, not sexual attraction. She's probably young, into the hook-up culture, and thus is definitely not interested in settling for a guy she perceives is beta. So she's turning you into an orbiter. You will serve only as a validation battery to make her feel good. The "Maybe" is a powerplay, and the fact that you felt it means you understand. "Maybe" means "You're more invested in me than I am in you, I suspect you…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 03:18 PM
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Day 10: Went to bed at 11:30, woke up at 8:20. Time Slept: ~8hrs.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 03:54 PM
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Day 9: Went to bed at 1:50 woke up at 9:30. Got 7.5-8 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 02:30 AM
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Day 8: Went to sleep at 1:50 woke up at 10:00. Got 8ish hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 02:29 AM
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Day 7: Went to bed at 11:20 woke up at 8:00. Time slept: ~8 hours.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 05:08 PM
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Day 6: Went to bed at 12:30, woke up up at 10:00 on the dot. Got 9 to 10 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 03:02 AM
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Day 5: Went to bed at 11:00 woke up at 8:30. Got around 8.5 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 03:01 AM
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Day 4: Got to bed at 12:00 woke up at 9:00. Time slept: ~9hours
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 02:48 AM
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Day 3: Went to sleep at 11:20 woke up at 8:40. Time Slept: ~8hrs
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:47 PM
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Day 2: Went to sleep at 3:00 woke up at 10:00. Time Slept: 7hrs
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 01:43 PM
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Day 1: I got 10 hours of sleep.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 02:12 PM
3

Did it come off like that? I intended that to sound apologetic, not dismissive. It's a little embarrassing to admit that even though I apparently own a book on dominance, here I am ignorantly asking suggestions.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 06:56 PM
1

I actually own that book, never got around to read it haha thanks though
/r/askTRP31/07/15 06:33 PM
1

Don't know if you're familiar with this but perhaps you can use it as a tool. http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-text-girl
/r/askTRP31/07/15 05:42 PM
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Op I started the same time as you, started reading in October of last year and got into it in November. I too have not gone through the anger phase. But my life is a thousand times better than it was for the last two years.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:30 PM
1

Consider me a subscriber.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:59 PM
1

Do I have to buy a shirt?
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:51 PM
3

Zeparic will take part in this challenge!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:16 PM
2

Do you think it would be a bad idea, or even feasible, for TRP to take a more rigorous, more involved, approach at teaching it's members theory? One including timed intervals for learning, tests, and maybe even pairing members together so that they can bounce ideas off each other and have someone more personal (still maintaining anonymity) to critique their progress? Like a penpal? I'm not saying we should subject everyone to this sort of regiment, but rather to create it as a tool for the membe…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 03:52 PM
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"Women are stupid." -Her
/r/askTRP29/07/15 07:19 PM
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If he's getting sex out of her there's no point to next. Especially if he has no proof. He should demote her to a plate and start fucking other bitches.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 06:33 PM
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If you've been with her for less than a year I would strongly advise against it. What you should do is expect the worst in her, AWALT right? So let's assume you go through her shit and find out she's cheating on you. What are you planning to do, confront her? Here's why you shouldn't. If you confront her what you're revealing is the following: You're an insecure beta. You care way too much about her. (Which is manipulability for her to use against you.) But assuming you did find out, and she was…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 06:31 PM
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Step 1: Create time you’re going to be minimizing your time contribution to social obligations and junk activities. Cut out video games, tv, internet, porn, masturbation, drinking, shitty friends and any other masturbatory activity. This will be hard and it will take a while. Focus all your efforts into deconstructing these habits Step 2: Isolation & Introspection When you've finally freed yourself enough time, find a nice quiet room with a desk, a park bench, the beach, your car, or any seclude…
/r/askTRP23/07/15 03:50 PM
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What he means by indirect is that you need to create plausible deniability for her (an excuse she'll use to avoid being considered a whore). This girl is safe-guarding her supposed, near-virginal, reputation. She may or may not have had the number of partners she claims, but that's not important. What's important is that she cares about what you and others think about her. And here's why By not pushing for sex and giving concern to her "readiness", you have already qualified yourself as a potent…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 06:37 PM
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Stop asking yourself what she wants, or what she's ready for. What you want is to slay some fucking poon, yeah? If you start tiptoeing around for the sake of emotional satiation from the get-go you'll develop oneities. You are a man, she is a woman. Your sexual imperative is to fuck bitches, her sexual imperative is to lock down a worthy man. The longer you spend not fucking her the more you're losing. That said, she wont give you the sex. A worthy man takes what's his. If you're new to this set…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 04:55 PM
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OP, if you're losing frame you need to re-establish control over you emotions. Deal with his shit tests like you would any other. If this guy is of no threat to you, learn to laugh at his idiocy, be the bigger man as you said. And once you are the bigger man, if this behavior of his continues challenge him. But you need to control your frame before you can control this situation. Your reputation is the most valuable thing, if you act defensive you will come off as weak. Let go of your ego.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 04:38 PM
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That's one way to go about it, but it's important to consider OP's demeanor when confronting the dude. If OP is losing his composure under the pressure of this guys shit-tests and is visibly irritated, to confront him on the matter would only make him look bad. However, if OP were laughing it off, AAing, and acting cool about it, he could bring up the suggestion with a big confident grin on his face.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 04:36 PM
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Your example is a good demonstration of what happens when you break the second rule of Tomassi. Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. The single most disastrous AFC move a man can make is to OVERTLY describe past sexual experiences and/or give a number (accurate or not) to how many women he’s been with prior to the one he’s with. This …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:38 PM
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In a system that not only creates, but also encourages an environment for dishonesty, from where does one muster the delusion of righteousness? When those who wrong you are as much a puppet as you, how can you blame them for taking advantage? When you've finally and truly acknowledged the principles behind the red pill, you understand that the only people who win from this magnitude of drama are the manipulators.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 05:30 AM
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Once you understand the reality of sexual strategy the actions of these hackers seems akin to that of children. The weak and bitter child holding an arm outstretched from behind his mother's skirt, pointing vehemently in accusation at those he believes are responsible for his despair.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 05:09 AM
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Both situations warrant the use of plausible deniability. In the day, make it clear what the interaction is about. (ex. Hi, I was going to the pharmacy and noticed you are ____. ) If your true intentions are to have tea and crumpets over a nice chat sure. But the fact of the matter is that you're using disarming kindness to place yourself in a situation to have sex with this woman. With selective honesty you create a power source for her hamster to spin on and at the same time a cover from accus…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:33 PM
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In reality I had talked to many women Around the same place? Day game is a strategy that revolves around plausible deniability. You're deliberately being "polite and nice" to avoid rousing suspicions of sexual interest. Now it may be that your aesthetics work against you as others have said, perhaps you give off the creep vibe. And if that's the case you should actually consider who's watching you even more.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 03:27 PM
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As much as I appreciate the advice you and everyone else is providing, I'm not in any way confused about that issue. The details I gave were meant to highlight the means by which I came upon that realization. My actual question lies at the bottom When you strip away emotions, everyone is moved by power and pragmatic influences. Understanding this, how does one define friendship?
/r/askTRP13/07/15 08:41 PM
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The matter of my friends is long past, I was reflecting on the how of it and found myself asking what it means to have friends. I haven't finished the 48 laws, whenever I read a new chapter I find it difficult to apply the laws into my own life.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 06:57 PM
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You want my opinion? I think you're only here for the validation stroke. You've underlined your problem, great. You plan to enter monk mode, fantastic. But you want my opinion, why? Even though you could probably find the answer to everything you need to know using the search box or the side bar, I would still try to answer any specific questions you had. But that's not what you want. You want a validation stroke for the fact that you understand what needs to be done. “How we live is so differen…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 06:00 PM
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To save myself the trouble of writing this a third time https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3901g7/how_the_fuck_do_you_distinguish_a_shittest_from_a/ Yes, comfort tests require a degree of beta behavior. Comfort tests are more often manifested during her Luteal phase(Her period) where she feels ugly/insecure, and is trying to make sure that the Alpha male she selected for reproduction wont abandon her after getting her pregnant. (As high testosterone males are likely to do.) Comfort tests a…
/r/askTRP10/07/15 07:45 PM
1

K sounds too passive aggressive to me, No worries implies you care about her worries, I'd go with Alright or silence
/r/askTRP10/07/15 07:40 PM
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If it's any consolation your brain isn't even fully developed yet. You'll be making poor decisions for a while, it's all part of learning. But you found TRP, you will learn and you will grow.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 07:35 PM
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It's a deliciously bold powerplay. To be overt with power is truly the most satisfying experience.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 07:24 PM
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She is telling you exactly what she needs from you right now with her communication. No she's not. Take nothing she says at face-value Her: Even though you're a dick now I thought of u cause I'm standing in the spot I first met you when you were nice. Her: I miss you the old you "You're SMV is higher than mine so I'm going ahead and starting a conversation with you, because I still remember when I could manipulate you. Maybe I still can." "Now that your worth more I really miss being able to man…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 07:02 PM
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If it feels wrong, make someone else do it. And then take the credit. Use selective honesty, never reveal your intentions. Don't be so eager to demonstrate your prowess, make others work for you. Expect the worst in everyone. etc etc
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 05:58 PM
1

Someone should make a Japanese Red Pill. They're people who seem to take things to extremes. I wonder what they would do if given our knowledge. I wouldn't be surprised if something like this existed over there.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 03:11 PM
1

Nothing. Take advantage of who you can and enjoy the decline. Besides, if you have to ask that question you're in no position to be making significant changes anyway. Your indignation will pass.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 07:42 PM
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Effectively? If men are getting bent for having a reputation of fucking women then your country is in a critically feminized state.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 03:05 AM
1

male whore lmao
/r/askTRP01/07/15 06:41 PM
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It's a laughably ineffective Machiavellian tactic. His dad thinks "If I make her believe our break up will make me depressed and ill, then she wont leave me." When in actuality it shows A.) His inability to handle her shit tests and his emotions. B.) His manipulability which she obviously has no desire for since he's not a worthy man. In other words it confirms her suspicions of him being a Beta faggot.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 06:28 PM
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Should a Sigma find himself amongst an Alpha it would be only incidental. I can't imagine an Alpha would permit the presence of someone capable of superseding him, even if they had no intention of actually doing so. Likewise the Sigma would not waste his time in such a fruitless encounter.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 05:33 PM
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Good job. You helped your dad in more ways than one.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:10 PM
1

...and maybe the only thing about TRP that I disagree with is this strange worship of damaged, evil people... "Psychopathy is held up as an exemplar of a clinical disorder which brings about personality traits that facilitate goal acquisition. It is through this lens we look at psychopathy pragmatically as merely a means to an end, a form of self-empowerment. " -IllimitableMan Just to clarify, those who actually take an in-depth interest in Dark Triad personalities seek to emulate the bold, unhi…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:48 PM
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Damn, this comment section is incredibly disappointing. I hope those taking offense at OP's post are either newbies or trolls. If there's anyone who's spent at least two months here and they're taking opposition against the attitudes portrayed by OP, I suggest they delete their account or stop posting altogether. You are not ready to be giving an opinion.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:39 PM
2

So what do you think helped more your looks or your game?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:37 PM
3

Some things you might want to consider internalizing. Habits -Mannerisms -Posture -Tonality -Eye contact -Assertiveness/Dominance -Meditation Skills -Amused Mastery -Power Talk -Dread/Game/Machiavellianism Philosophy -Stoicism
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:18 PM
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Google: Gatsby's Tinder Guide
/r/askTRP23/06/15 03:32 PM
1

You're full of shit. Anyone with the wherewithal who seriously considers undergoing steroid treatment will undoubtedly investigate the risks themselves, perform the required analyses, and from there conclude whether or not it's for them. Not leave it up to some post on TRP. What you're actually doing is hamstering your fear-fueled indecision under the guise of help in an attempt to dissuade others from even considering it and validating your stance on the matter.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 02:57 PM
1

But unlike female birthcontrol it's not something you want to tell your partner you're on.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 03:13 PM
1

Don't suppose you know any other sites that might be of use?
/r/askTRP16/06/15 08:21 PM
1

Is bp any good? They all look like fake ads.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 07:55 PM
1

The only reason someone might think the risks for sleeping with a married woman are minimal is if they have analyzed the situation and concluded that they have control over, and/or the agency to deal, with the outcome. But personally, unless there's something to gain besides sexual release I wouldn't consider such an exchange to yield any true value. eDIT: Actually I take it back, sex is valuable in and of itself, but its like you said the reward has to surpass the risks.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 04:24 PM
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In the paragraph where you address the question regarding whether or not to sleep with a married woman, you state that one should consider weighing the potential value vs the potential harm. How do you define value in that instance? Gratification, validation perhaps? Or are you making a point that there is no value and thus sleeping with a married woman is a pointless endeavor? Or perhaps you mean to say that depending on the resources or utility you can obtain from sleeping with a woman you obt…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 03:06 PM
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You're right in saying that it comes off as braggy, in fact now that I think about it it's better to just respond with an "Alright" or radio silence. BUT! Taking a girl can work if the other female you decide to take is someone she knows. And to clarify one thing, when girls try to make guys jealous it only makes the guy more distant, when guys try to make a girl jealous it works.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 02:24 PM
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Not necessarily emotional detachment, but trying to diminish her attraction for him. Women don't like the idea of being left by a man worth something, so she's trying to make him out to be a beta. You might have failed the shit test btw OP, in telling her that you find it insulting you showed weakness. "We're not going to have sex." Translation: "I'm denying you sex, what are you gonna do about it?" "I find it insulting that you think I want to have sex when I just wanted to see you before I lef…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:57 PM
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She may not stop you there and then, she might even wait a day before contacting you. Only IF she really wants you. If she doesn't, don't feel bad about it. It means she was just using you for validation at the exchange of nothing. Your time is precious, you got to make her understand that. But more importantly, you have to understand that. You could die tomorrow.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:24 PM
1

As someone well-versed in Machiavellian understanding, when interacting with people do you have any particular internal process for sizing them up? Like a checklist, or a routine if you will, that you take into consideration before employing Machiavellian tactics?
/r/askTRP15/06/15 07:56 PM
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What she's really saying: "I don't know if I feel like going" So you got to make her feel like going. I learned a very important piece of information about this type of shit test. If it's in person, and you're intimate with her, lift her up spin her around and repeat "let's go ___!" If not, do as /u/americnleprchaun said. Btw it's a powerplay. This is what she's also saying "I'm defying your decision to go to ___, what are you gonna do about it?" To which you can AA "Alright, I'll just go by mys…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 06:32 PM
1

As a Floridian myself I also extend that courtesy to my passengers.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 06:07 PM
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Dread game. If she likes you she wont want you to leave. My chick did the same thing, on the third day I said "Alright, I'm leaving." Got up and left, don't remember how it went down but I got my dick sucked.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:35 PM
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I think it's time for you to step back and take a critical look at yourself. How messed up do you think your priorities are when you have to ask a group of strangers on the internet to validate your masturbatory habits? There's a reason TRP endorses cutting out masturbation and porn.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 04:28 PM
4

If I had to listen to music it would be something that's going to get me pumped and help me get through something. Music exacerbates and changes our mood very dramatically, if you listen closely you'll find that the majority of music is completely ridden with BP messages, some subtle others not so much. Imagine what being constantly exposed, (or for some people bombarded) with subtle messages alluding to the blue pill condition does? Not all music is bad, most of it is. At the end though I see i…
/r/askTRP15/06/15 03:47 PM
1

On that topic, by any chance do you have any tips for maintaining morale around women when your SMV is shit? I'm a broke college kid working minimum wage, I'm short and not very attractive besides a somewhat in shape body. But all things considered what really hinders me is my lack of confidence. Without even the right mental disposition I have nothing to offer to women.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 02:51 PM
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I saw your posts in regards to this a few weeks(months?) ago, and I tried employing your tactics. I had already quit listening to music when I first discovered TRP, but when I saw your post I thought wth and decided to go a bit more radical. I don't even turn on the AC in my car anymore.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 02:28 PM
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Try submitting your question to asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 04:01 PM
1

When did TRP become open discourse for trivial life questions? There are a fuckton of threads lately that should be addressed to ASKTRP, or removed altogether. Does anyone read the sidebar anymore?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 03:59 PM
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Sounds like you failed that shit test. She wants to move back to her country? kthxbye. But the way you described it her actions sound more like a bluff. "Let me see how he reacts when I tell him I'm leaving." Cue OPs childish tantrum. "Wow he's not as alpha as I thought he was." And you lost more chance at pussy. Even if she was actually going to leave getting upset only makes you look like a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 06:19 PM
1

You could, and depending on your circumstances it may be the best course of action. However, if you maintain frame and she follows your lead you shouldn't have a problem, but if you drop your guard too much and too often, if you become weak and subscribe to the fairy-tail ideal of relationships you will come face to face with the force of nature that is the female imperative. A force that only Men; strong, powerful, masculine men, are able to endure. And then will you truly understand why a plac…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 04:20 AM
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Would you have me dump her? She provides sex and utility. Would you have me confront her? That would make me look like an angry beta. The best thing I could do is rectify myself and learn the means by which I'm being manipulated. If she cheats on me it reflects more on me than her, because at the end of the day AWALT. But then this has already been stated in this comment section.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 02:33 PM
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What good is the affection of a lesser man? Affection from a man she perceives is valuable is validation. I use affection and validation interchangeably. I agree with you however, too much of it and you come off as desperate. But to clarify, I don't act affectionate in order to keep her or even intentionally. I genuinely feel it towards her after a while, and eventually it's used against me.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 06:18 PM
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Yes, comfort tests require a degree of beta behavior. Comfort tests are more often manifested during her Luteal phase(Her period) where she feels ugly/insecure, and is trying to make sure that the Alpha male she selected for reproduction wont abandon her after getting her pregnant. (As high testosterone males are likely to do.) Comfort tests are outlined by insecurity and vulnerability sometimes disguised as a yearning for affection. You must respond to these with MINIMAL beta behavior, always h…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 02:49 PM
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Equally a powerful invoker as an infectious agent. Subtly feeding and perpetuating the misconceptions and lies you have been incepted with. Music is masturbatory and does nothing but exacerbate the beta condition.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:21 AM
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Considering there's so much that still needs to be done stopping now just to congratulate myself seems masturbatory. Instead I think I'll give anyone who reads this comment my own insight on how to achieve some forward momentum for a path of success. Remember, until the day you drop dead your SMV will always be the thing you need to focus on. Looks, Money, Status, these things are what life is about, it's what happiness and self-fulfillment revolve around. Consider dividing up your internal goal…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:08 AM
1

As a Cuban man myself I don't know why any Cuban would even consider marrying a western woman. Unless he acculturated we're brought up like most Hispanics, on traditional values and close-nit family structures. Just seems more work imo, not surprised it ended like it did for him.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 01:18 PM
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How would one go about invoking states of things like motivation, demotivation, interest and disinterest? I cannot just imagine myself into those, they require influences or amplifiers. I think there needs to be a distinction between Simple States(Joy/Sadness, Anger/Calmness, Neutrality, etc.) and Complex States(Motivation/Passivity, Vengeance/Forgiveness, Confidence/Insecurity, etc.) which are products of different, simpler, states and influences.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 07:23 PM
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Just being nitpicky about this particular thing, but isn't it better not to connote the influences of positive/negative to emotional states? I understand you were probably using the terms to facilitate the concept of polarity and the shifting therein. But in regards to anger, for instance, as it was discussed a few days ago(it's an emotion typically regarded as negative) however it can in-fact be a very useful source of energy not pertaining to any negativity what so ever. Maybe I'm just arguing…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 06:00 PM
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Go to TRP main page. View side bar. Shit Tests 101. Memorize them and then apply at appropriate time. You will suck at first, you might slip and respond in a beta fashion. But don't sweat it, learning applicable techniques is an effective way to emulate an alpha demeanor until you internalize it.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 02:18 PM
3

Reminded me of this: https://youtu.be/NcKbROLQCoo I am now mad as hell.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 02:42 AM
2

Add: Vocal exercises every morning Followed by stretching Maintain a clean environment More important than not jerking off is not watching porn. Bonus: Take cold showers You need to be more radical if you want to see true improvement. Less moderation. More restrictions. Corner your beta self in your mind, nurture the alpha in that space, and once you've assumed the mind of an alpha kill what's left of your old self. For instance, only use alcohol in social occasions or not at all. And even then …
/r/askTRP08/05/15 03:18 PM
1

The idea behind what you said is sound: fix what you can in terms of presentation. But one important thing I believe needs to be mentioned, and it's not at all a new concept to TRP, is the disposition of not giving a fuck. Now let me be clear here. I'm not advocating that we should engage in some feel-good acceptance circlejerk when we find ourselves hindered by a personal flaw. However, just as it is important to acknowledge and do everything in our power to fix the things we can, we must learn…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 05:42 PM
1

I think you need to spend less time on fictional realities and focus more on this one. The whole concept behind RP is to break free from these false ideals and delusions that we've either been set-up for or that we've placed ourselves in. The idea is not to "transcend beyond our current place" as you put it, but to understand that we are still subject to our primitive natures, and with said understanding we can accommodate ourselves within the true reality of things. Even the most Alpha triad CE…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 09:44 PM
1

You were doing great until the last line.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 03:44 PM
1

Even as a short guy it's not impossible, or even unlikely for you to hook up with a girl if you're game is tight and your perceived SMV (beyond the factor of height) is solid. It also helps if your actual SMV is good. Know your worth, if you want the best you gotta work for it.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 02:54 AM
3

Got me a little teary eyed.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:04 PM
6

You have three options, in order from the best option to the worst: 1. Learn how to dance 2. Wing it 3. Don't dance Last month I attended my gfs sister's wedding. From the moment I was invited I knew that we would have to dance, and like you I have no fucking idea how to dance, so I quickly asked myself the question "Am I going to be that guy who out of fear of looking like an idiot wont have fun?" Fuck no! I drank 5 Bacardi on the rocks and hit that dance floor, I danced to everything from sals…
/r/askTRP22/04/15 06:03 PM
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Maybe Emotional Intelligence is not the appropriate term for it but women are undeniably more inclined to subscribe to beliefs which resonate with their emotions rather than any tangible reason behind it. Think about the supposed "6th sense" or "women's intuition" which women are often said to posses, or how they're more likely to be superstitious than men. These are manifestation of women's ability(or inability) to operate, not with logic, but with emotions. When I first swallowed the pill I th…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 06:29 PM
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First of all, you're worrying about this one particular chick way too much, almost onitis level. Second, if she's doing that to you it either means she's not really that interested, which means dread game doesn't work on her anyway, OR she's trying to use your same tactic against you. Which doesn't work, women don't understand that kind of behavior only drives men away.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 04:33 PM
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5'3
/r/askTRP17/04/15 02:32 PM
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You're getting downvoted but I agree with you wholeheartedly. We are the opposing team, life is always an us vs them. Anyone who read The Way of Men knows this is the truth, this is how men operate.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 10:08 PM
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This kind of behavior needs to be worked on gradually. Being busy is typically the best way to overcome it I've found. Think about the times when you're not feeling like this, they're usually the times when you're actually doing something. Lift, read, study something interesting hang out with friends. If you keep improving yourself you'll slowly come out of it.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 06:45 PM
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I myself wouldn't know what to say in this situation But I do know this -Don't act defensive -Don't try to clarify It'll just make her think you're lying to cover your ass and it'll make you look beta. Maybe you could go with an AA & Pressure flip: "That's strange, how does he expect to get in your pants when he told you his plan?" Plausible deniability, you're not admitting what was said but you're also not denying. The truth is he has no chance, by doing this you're pressure flipping that shit…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 06:06 PM
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Shit Test 101 No.6 Commanding respect is especially important for the kind of testing where they're just being an annoyance and generally disrespectful. IMO disrespect should not be tolerated and needs to be nipped in the bud, and is an important way to maintain frame control. You simply need to be firm and treat her like a father would to their child who's being disrespectful. You don't get angry, you just call her on the behavior and let her know clearly that you won't stand for it. In a way t…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:32 PM
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You're not going to get in her pants without showing commitment unless she's ratchet as fuck or your game is fucking tight. Two kids means she's probably looking for a provider. I say steer clear.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 04:27 PM
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I didn't downvote you if that's what you're asking. And I got what you were saying, but I wanted to clarify why it may not be the smartest idea to compliment a chick when she's basically asking for it. But I thought your post was actually pretty good, I wouldn't know what to say to the first shit test.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 01:25 PM
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My SMV and some deeply rooted beta tendencies. I keep telling myself that I'm just experimenting with her but truth is I'm comfortable, which might be me hamstering from entering the dating pool out of fear of rejection according to Rollo.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 04:19 AM
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I'm from Miami and while I wish I could offer you some advice I honestly can't. Clubs and beaches are our main thing.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 03:43 AM
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Misread the post, this is your best bet or something along those lines.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 09:00 PM
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It has a bit of everything, it's active, it's not expensive if you're not being a tryhard and you get to show off any skills you have. Don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself, do the things you'd never do. I even went on the dance dance revolution game lol
/r/askTRP13/04/15 08:44 PM
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I took my girl to Dave n Busters on our first date. They have food, bar, arcade, pool tables. I was gonna take her to the movies but I did some research on trp game and they suggested otherwise
/r/askTRP13/04/15 08:36 PM
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On the second one I don't tell her she's pretty, that to me seems like succumbing to her frame/fishing for attention unless she's on her period. I tell her when I'm honestly impressed by her outfit or when she's naked, especially when she's naked. Not often though.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 08:22 PM
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Shit tests are something she's more likely to do during her ovulation phase (she's trying to determine and prevent getting impregnated by your potentially inferior male genes) during her luteal phase (her period) she feels ugly and dirty and self-consious so her tests are typically for comfort. If the link I'm about to share doesn't work google The Rational Male: Your Friend Menstruation. http://therationalmale.com/2012/09/25/your-friend-menstruation/ Basically if you figure out her cycle you ga…
/r/askTRP13/04/15 08:13 PM
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One day you'll look back to this post and realize just how wrong your state of mind was. There are no tips or tricks to get back on the horse. When you fall and find yourself facedown on the dirt you'll look up and find yourself with two questions: Can I ever get back on? or How long will it take me to get back on? And unless you're drawing your last breath you should know which of those two questions needs answering. Once you get used to falling and getting back on you'll realize that it's all …
/r/askTRP13/04/15 04:57 PM
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Good job dude! I remember when I had anxiety to go to public places. This place saved me.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 06:12 PM
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Your game is shit dude, bragging about your supposed prowess is very un-alpha and you don't seem to have even a remote understanding of powertalk.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 06:01 PM
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This post made me think. My gf doesn't care that I watch porn, nor would I if she did, however we have sex every day. I think she doesn't mind because I've made a point that the day she stops providing sex for me I will fuck other women. Maybe she thinks as long as I jerk off and don't fuck other women then porn is ok. Also what does it mean if she masturbates predominantly to lesbian porn. I think I could get her into a threesome.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:57 PM
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Take this and any questions you have to AskTRP Read the side bar and unplug completely, invest in books such as No More Mr. Nice Guy(Make this one a priority and read ASAP), The Rational Male (Also important), The Way of Men, The 48 Laws of Power, Models, Bang, etc. Study and develop frame, powertalk, and game. Frame: Posture, tonality, mannerisms, stoicism, resolution. Learn to lead and stand up for yourself. Powertalk: The subtle language used by sociopaths and powerplayers. Game: Determine wh…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 07:20 PM
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"Somethin' filled up My heart with nothin', Someone told me not to cry. Now that I'm older, My heart's colder, And I can see that it's a lie. Children wake up, Hold your mistake up, Before they turn the summer into dust. If the children don't grow up, Our bodies get bigger but our hearts get torn up. We're just a million little god's causin' rain storms turnin' every good thing to rust. I guess we'll just have to adjust." Arcade Fire - Wake Up Lyrics Your post just reminded me of this. This song…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:22 PM
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So I roll over, go back to watching TV. She starts trying to snuggle up to me, so I tell her no. Naturally, she starts pouting and rolls over to her side. So I decide to get up, leave the room for about 20 minutes. Make sure you're not the one being passive aggressive. Don't show signs of discomfort or anger, always keep calm. If she keeps ignoring you applying dread game might work for your situation, leave the house for a few hours or so without consulting her. Go to the bar, go shopping, get …
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:07 PM
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