Jealousy

AlfredApple · 2016-10-11T12:56:03+00:00

my plates need to be committed to me entirely

Yeah, no they don't. They can, should and will fuck others if they are not getting what they need from you.

Redycha · 2016-10-11T16:19:11+00:00

The idea behind having plates is that you are not exclusive. Expecting them to be exclusive to you despite you not being exclusive to them does NOT work UNLESS you are a top 5% super-Alpha guy. Judging by your problem here, you are not that guy and so if you expect this from a plate you will either be lied to or disappointed by women repeatedly.

You should re-read the side bar, you have misunderstood several key points on the nature of women.

Jealousy is a tough one to deal with, most of us have had to deal with it at some point. In your case you may be over-investing emotionally with your plates and thus you may need to cut down on the non-fucking time you spend with them. Another fix may also be to increase the number of plates you have, if you still experience jealousy then spinning plates may simply not be for you.

psyflux · 2016-10-11T15:20:08+00:00

Abundance mentality - Next her

Scarcity mentality - You're still beta after all

Bigblackbuck73 · 2016-10-11T13:03:35+00:00

Plates are plates. Sometimes you neglect one and it stops spinning and drops, but it probably dropped because you were working on getting another one spinning up to speed.

My response would have been, "You were willing to do anything, so you swallowed another guy's cock? How did you think that was going to work out for you?" She is playing you plain and simple, if you take her back she knows you are a pushover and she can do what she wants.

TLDR; Next her and find another.

BluntMFer · 2016-10-11T16:27:52+00:00

Next her to avoid further issues.

jimmAo · 2016-10-11T12:43:37+00:00

fuck her if u want and then hard next

JamesSkepp · 2016-10-11T17:44:04+00:00

One of my plates banged another dude after I told her I didn't love her.

It's almost as bad as saying "I love you". It removes ambiguity and the "thrill of uncertanity".

my plates need to be committed to me entirely or else I just can't handle the jealousy.

Common requirement, not realistic. Understand that you're plating her, but she is fucking other dudes too. That's how plates work.

What course of action do you guys think I should take?

Work on jelousy. Find out what causes it. Start with checking if you compare yourself to other men your plates get attention from or do you have a probelm with fucking a girl that has a boyfriend.

Besides, AlfredApple's comment is spot on. Plates are not for exclusivity, on both sides.

Title	Jealousy
Author	ThinkPinkEugene
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	October 11, 2016 12:22 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/56xpiz/jealousy/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/jealousy.75873 https://theredarchive.com/post/75873

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