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a total slut, this is known by the whole university. Let's call her Susan Wold you make a girl like susan your girlfriend? No. Should I keep fucking both of them? Only if you want to never make H your LTR
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:28 AM
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She was asleep.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 05:47 AM
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When you go to the main sub on a desktop, it's the bar of information about the sub on the right hand side of the screen. If you are on mobile, I think you can access it by going into the information about the sub menu. There are many summaries and easy to approach version of that information. Search the main sub for some different angles of digesting all the information in a way that is best for you.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 06:52 AM
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If she is not interested in you sexually then you need to move on. At the TRP core is trying to tell guys that there is no strategy in pining after a girl that is not interested in you because you are uninteresting. Having said that, do not start your journey of becoming an interesting person because you want to impress her, or any other woman for that matter. Just learn that the type of girl she is, doesn't go for the type of guy you are, at the moment.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 04:53 AM
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(some fucking eggplant peach emoji shit) Hahaha not the first time that's been used in the boys chat. Solution is simple, go radio silent as soon as she puts up the ASD. If she is leading with shit like "What if I told you my pussy is so wet rn" then going cold, she is just leading you on so that you make her feel sexy by clambering over the possibility of her body. Stop being so thirsty and put your phone away as soon as she backs out of the deal.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 04:49 AM
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Yeah it's just hormones and a lack of experience. You think she is better than all the other girls because you don't know, or probably can't see, her flaws; because oxytocin. What is stopping you getting to know her?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 04:01 AM
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How old is she and how long ago were these ons?
/r/askTRP20/04/17 03:56 AM
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is this irrational? And pathetic.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 01:00 AM
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It will take a lot longer for your brain to readjust than a week. Keep cutting back and report back in 6 months.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:57 AM
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in the past month or so Mate, it takes years to realign your life after taking the pill. Relax, keep learning and you'll figure it out.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:20 AM
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Ignore him. Make a statement to gym management about this incident so it's on record, rinse and repeat until he is banned.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:19 AM
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Engineering and working overseas in shitty countries for big oil. Within 10 years you are buying your 2nd apartment with cash.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:15 AM
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You can call it one-itis Yes. i look at this situation like,"if i cant keep this amazing 10/10 person as a friend at least, i've failed at improving my life" The thing is, you can't keep her in your life as a friend as you are sexually attracted to her and we both know that is not going away anytime soon. Even if you commit to going back to just friends we both know that deep down you want her naked on her back. You know that option a) is the right choice but it's the harder choice which is why …
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:12 AM
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This bothers me to a point because she didn't tell me that she was going out how "dominant" I am You're getting butthurt because a girl has a life and things to do away from playing on a social media app with a random guy she is receiving bucket loads of validation from for very little effort. Either it's a scam or she's just a normal girl with other things going on in her life. Stop stressing over a girl that is barely a plate and find something else to focus on.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:08 AM
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I can see what you are saying and agree with most of it. For arguments sake, what is your opinion on the fact that she is giving up her name and that could be just as important to her? Let's say you didn't really care much for marriage but because the country you live in gives just as many rights to de-facto relationships as married ones, getting married is really just so she can have "the day".
/r/askTRP11/04/17 11:06 PM
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I am 100% for her taking your name if you are going to have kids (single family unit and all that), but if you have decided to remain child-free, what is the argument then? Obvious answer is don't get married if you're not planning on having kids, but lets leave that one to the side for arguments sake. Side discussion, what are your thoughts about you both creating a new last name from scratch?
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:52 PM
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I had a harness on.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:44 PM
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Do not give me an open minded bullshit answer like... Aka don't tell me something I don't want to hear because I had a brief read of the main sub and this shit looks hard and will require a lot of work; please provide shortcuts.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:43 PM
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For most guys it's the same as the appeal of driving an Audi R8. Media makes it look great, people rave about how good it is and it's out of reach of a lot of men. Yes it's an amazing car and would be fun to thrash it but in the end it's just a car and there is heaps more fun and accomplishment to be had in the world. Don't get me wrong, sex is great but when you get to a point where it's available to you when you want it, you quickly realise the pursuit shouldn't have been that hard. There are …
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:08 AM
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"As my probation officer, do I need to report all my sexual activity to you daily or at the end of my sentence?" But seriously, with holding sex as a punishment is not a healthy sign of a relationship. Having said that, you can't expect your LTR to want to have sex with you when she's pissed off at you. Is she using the probation line as a colloquial way of telling you that you fucked up?
/r/askTRP04/04/17 01:01 AM
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and she never texted me. A few things here. a) you want something you can't have, b) you might have chatted around since but she is probably a quality girl so she stands out c) you have limited options when it comes to other quality girls and doubt your ability to get them. Realise that this girl does not find you attractive so have some respect for yourself and stop pining over her. You need to go on some dates with other girls so that you realise that the qualities you find so attractive in he…
/r/askTRP04/04/17 12:56 AM
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standard female A successful female. Whilst you might not like it, if a girl can convince a guy to provide for her without giving up sex, she is winning.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 12:50 AM
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Get some mates.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 12:29 AM
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Ignore.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 12:28 AM
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Stop thinking she is always out to get you. Remember she is emotional and needs love, she tests you to make sure you're a good partner and if she is convinced of that then she will open up and show she needs support from you. Plenty of posts in the main sub on this.
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:09 PM
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Giving a fuck what other people think about your personal taste in music says an awful lot about you. the weeknd is rp af though
/r/askTRP08/03/17 10:05 PM
1

Read Starting Strength by Rippetoe. Download the 5x5 Stronglift app and read the dev's site.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 06:54 AM
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I had one date tell me she was date raped and woke up in a hospital on our first date. Another tell me she has a kid with a guy who's in and out of jail. They could be 10s and you should still walk away.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:49 AM
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Start with luke warm showers. If you live in an area that receives snow or freezing temps, it's unreasonably to just turn the cold water on. Make sure the water is on the cooler side of warm and over months get cooler and cooler.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:39 AM
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He sounds like her was an orbiter to her. She was probably attracted to his maturity and possible high value. She strung him along by hanging out and being super friendly to him while she rode other cock. I wouldn't be too worried, your LTR having orbiters is a good thing. In your conversations try and frame him as a beta i.e. use terms like cute, sweet, nice, friendly etc. It's no secret that she has this guy along for the ride so that if you or her next fun guy doesn't work out to be a long te…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:24 AM
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Keep nexting and dating more girls. The only way to find gold is to sift through the rubble. Obviously go looking in gold mines and not rubbish tips though.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:19 AM
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That sounds alright. Basically you want it to seem that they wanted to keep you on just couldn't at the time.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 12:17 AM
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Got into an argument with this girl The fallout of this is the only way you will learn not to do it again.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:21 PM
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Reward good behaviour and punish bad behaviour. She makes you a coffee? Tell her she's sexy. She sighs and picks up some clothes lying around before you go to bed? Give her a massage. She leaves plates in the sink? Clean them in front of her and give her the cold shoulder until she leaves. Says you should order out when you ask her what she's good at cooking? Make her pay and barely touch it (sneak in a two scoop shake when she's not looking obviously). Is my SMV not high enough for them to thin…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:20 PM
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There is a strong chance that this will not come up as it should already be in your resume. Interviews are usually filled with questions like "tell us about a time when x happened and how you handled it". Obviously use your experience in the internship to answer those questions as it sounds like it would be relevant to the future position. Avoid telling them the whole story as they probably don't even care and you will just sound like you are making excuses if you try and bring it up. If they do…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:14 PM
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What he said.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 06:36 AM
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Talk to girls you don't want to have sex with. Practice makes perfect, then when you are talking to a girl you may want to have sex with later, it will all come naturally to you as you are used to the shit tests and mannerisms girls all have.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 06:35 AM
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Since I'm getting sex from other sources Having sex with escorts does not count. Paying women to be interested in you will damage your ability to measure your own value and where you need to improve. Your interactions with them are staged and fake, not matter how real they feel to you. You need to talk to women, regardless of how difficult it may be for you.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 06:34 AM
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American Crew Fiber.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:46 AM
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At some point I put my hands on her wrists while she googled something for us. After a few seconds she responded with "get your hands off me", as if I'm a creep. Well spotted by her, what the fuck were you doing? Why would you just reach out and put your hands on someone's wrists while they were using their phone? You have lost it with this one, the brother thing confirms it as she is moving you into orbit. Next.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:45 AM
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Talk less than him and most people in the room. Don't try and impress him. Talk less.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:21 AM
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What are you studying? Do you want to scrape for links and hits as a career?
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:17 AM
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Get them to talk about their favourite subject, themselves. Plenty of articles on the net about active listening, learn how to do it.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:14 AM
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This gets sent around when people ask about numbers but it's all subjective mate. My 9 could be your 7 and your "10" could be my 8. Don't get hung up on numbers, it's really just a way to she was very hot or just alright.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:11 AM
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I didn't need to chat with Here is your problem. You view every interaction with a girl as a precursor to sex and because sex is such a huge effort to get to from the first interaction, you avoid the interaction.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:06 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3xpegq/corporateland_how_to_kill_it_in_your_job_interview/
/r/askTRP19/01/17 05:03 AM
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4 hour body and Starting Strength for gym and diet. No More Nice Guy, 48 Laws, Superior Man, Models.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 06:59 AM
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I honestly don't understand guys that get worried about their LTRs going out without them. Unless you think her safety is in question, she should be able to go out whenever she sees fit. If she sucks a dick at the club then you should have been providing her a better dick yourself.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 06:02 AM
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I guarantee Kelso didn't just do nothing for that to happen, no matter what he tells you. Prob hours of intranet IM or watercooler chat you are not aware of. Start chatting to girls. Eventually you will click with one and she will pursue you. If you don't talk to them they are never going to know that you want her to give you her number.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 05:59 AM
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but I'm not willing to put in the hard work. No sympathy.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 05:57 AM
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Stop looking for a pigeon hole to put yourself in. You've obviously thought long and hard about this and understand the concepts. It's time to start putting your energy into achieving goals in your life instead of making sure you have the correct labels on everything first.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 05:55 AM
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Great idea. Dress the same way someone in their mid-20s would dress (e.g. don't be afraid to throw on a flat cap), keep your facial hair short and be chill. You're confidence will mean all the girls in their 20s will be drawn to you over the fumbling 23yo guy.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 05:49 AM
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You're the only person that cares as much as you do about your reputation. Everyone else is too busy worrying about what people think about them to worry about you.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 05:48 AM
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You will move past the hate stage and it will get better. It takes time and is a slow progress. Get rid of negative influences in your life and seek positive ones. It won't happen over night but it will happen.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 05:45 AM
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There are plenty of us 30+ that lift 3 times a week, every week and are just fine. If you have bad pain then either your form/technique is wrong or you have a medical issue.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 05:43 AM
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TL;DR... OP uses dating app that relies on physical attraction to match people together. OP is not physically attractive enough for a girl he matched with. Claims he is outcome independent but is clearly not. OP gets butthurt over one girl not liking him. Mate, get over it. One girl didn't like what she saw. There are about a million more. Stop trying to justify yourself and your failure to us, accept that you had a bad night and move on. PS, that girl sounds like a class-A bitch; you are better…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 05:40 AM
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From now on when you see a hot girl, you are only allowed to look at her for 1 second then you must look away and not look at her again. You need to train your brain to treat them as any other human you glance over. Next time you have an opportunity to talk to a girl, like when you are both waiting for a coffee, talk to her. You need to rewire your brain to learn that they are not that special, they are just other humans that look different to you.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 05:33 AM
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It's no surprise most of the regular contributors in the main sub have post histories in the_donald as well.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:56 AM
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I would give him a link to an affiliated site, one of the ones in the main sub sidebar. Link to a specific article and say something like hey, this popped up in my fb feed, what do you think about it? See what his reaction is, then say when you were searching for more shit like it you found this thing called the red pill.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:56 AM
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Porn probably did. It has given you false expectations of sex and more importantly interacting with women. Stop watching it. So basically just chat 'em up with no expectations and include flirting if to spice things up, but never move past that? Yes, during monk mode. You should be completely focused on improving yourself and building your value. However, realise that part of improving yourself is being able to easily interact with men and women. Chat to a variety of people, hot babes, older guy…
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:53 AM
1

This?
/r/askTRP10/11/16 06:49 AM
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Genital mutilation. If you teach the boy how to clean his dick and there are literally no benefits of cutting him.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 06:04 AM
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Be the reason other people enjoy themselves at a party. Listen to people, make sure they are drinking, have a good playlist ready to go, get the pizza order done.. all effortlessly. Basically you need to get to a point where people think back as to what made the last party good and you pop up. You don't need to be the crazy guy doing shots or keg stands, you just need to be able to have a positive influence. Preparation is key.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 05:12 AM
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How else do you completely collapse free healthcare systems and force a privatised one? Bring in a tonne of poor unhealthly people.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 05:09 AM
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What do you think AWALT means?
/r/askTRP09/11/16 05:07 AM
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She is trying to impress you remember. Just have a good time and don't worship the ground she walks on.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 05:06 AM
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Just because you know now TRP exists, doesn't mean you can instantly stop being attracted to someone. It's completely normal to meet another human, spend time together and want to spend more time together with them because they make your life better in more than one way. The trick to it all is knowing how to manage those feelings, why it's beneficial to do so and understanding her side of the relationship. If you are doing all that then you are going to be fine and just enjoy the fact that you f…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 02:15 AM
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You put in more effort, she puts in less because that turns her off. This makes you want her even more. Works vice versa too. You start putting in less effort and she will want you more.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 02:08 AM
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Great idea. You are 20. Give yourself 12 months before you consider trying to fuck a girl. You need to get to a point where you can be proud of that 20kg you dropped and call it a win. Whatever you do, do not stop talking to girls during monk mode. You need to get comfortable chatting to girls without worrying about what she will think about your left nut when you are banging her. Just get used to chatting to, flirting with and walking away from hot girls. When you realise you have the authority…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 02:06 AM
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If you are willing to work hard, would you get that entry level job and stud part time in something that you enjoy and is useful? You need to get rid of the debt but at the same time, plan longer term in setting up a skill set that sees you get jobs you enjoy and that can take you places. I would leverage your looks and status into career progression. Get a job at a larger firm and start reading books that teach you about office power plays and influencing upwards. Assuming you are a good lookin…
/r/askTRP09/11/16 02:01 AM
1

What was wrong with our previous answers?
/r/askTRP09/11/16 01:54 AM
1

Engineering.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 01:52 AM
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A lot of guys say spinning plates as a way to describe them talking to other girls. If you are sleeping with others and you still like this one girl, maybe you simply like her and an LTR would benefit your life. We call out oneitis when guys are so focused on one girl they forget the options they have. If you have options and are able to pursue them and still value this one girl over them, what's stopping you from starting an LTR with her?
/r/askTRP09/11/16 01:50 AM
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I'll want to keep a conversation going As soon as she figures this out, you have no chance of getting in her pants. is it ever ok to text again if she doesn't reply Never. some guidelines you use when snap chatting women? Don't do it at your computer desk. Go and do something interesting and send her snaps of you doing it.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:38 AM
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naturals athletically We are not naturally athletic. We maintain a strict diet and do one more set than everyone else even though it hurts.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:36 AM
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I'm too uncoordinated for physical sports Find something that you are good at. It's too easy to cop out like that and resort to vidya and pron. This is the main difference between the Chads and the rest. The Chads get up at 5am on Sat morning and practice the fuck out of whatever they choose to do. You have had about 3 hours sleep at this point because you were deep in youtube at 2 am. Want to be top dog, realise that it's fucking hard work and stop complaining girls ignore you because you aren'…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:35 AM
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I'm spinning plates Expand on this.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:31 AM
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Is there a more efficient way that isn't condom usage? Get a second job for the child support payments.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:29 AM
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I get where you are coming from, I have been there as that's the way I was raised. TRP helps you realise that you need to shift your priorities toward yourself however it is possible to remain altruistic, you just need to manage the balance. I suggest reading, if you haven't already, the basics like No More Mr Nice Guy and 48 Laws of Power. They are relevant to harnessing your energy towards more productive behaviours. There is no point anyone telling you how to modify your behaviours, you need …
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:28 AM
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Find a contributor you resonate with and PM them. Most of the guys here will communicate over text but very few will do it without anonymity.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:21 AM
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You might need to give her some books to read so you can have sufficiently intelligent conversations.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:19 AM
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Assume you are her intention and speak on her behalf about yourself. E.g. "obviously you want to jump me but you should know I'm not that type of guy". "I'm just here to have a fun quiet night and don't need to be getting hit on the whole time, control yourself". Obviously these don't work if you are attractive enough to have people potentially say this about you. The reason it works is it gives you plausible deniability and communicates what you are thinking at the same time. Also, be outcome i…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:26 AM
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Models by Manson.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:24 AM
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2-3 vodka sodas per night and just nurse them for a while. No sugar and will give you a mild buzz. Just stay disciplined and know when to stop.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:23 AM
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Tell them the truth. You are interested in continuing to see them but don't want a relationship right now. Plenty of girls are happy to just have someone to fuck as well.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:18 AM
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Just hang out with girls and spin plates that have no problem putting pics of the two of you on social media.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:17 AM
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It's nothing outrageous or dramatic. It's what all old people say when they get asked for advice to younger generations. You only have one life, make the most of it, take risks, have fun and do what fulfils you.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:15 AM
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Keep reading and you will work it all out.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:12 AM
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Stage 4. Almost there mate.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 06:45 AM
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There is though. You are afraid of what people will think of you so you pretend to drink. Maybe alright when you were 16 and trying to pretend you were drinking when you couldn't get booze, but not ok now. Either get a normal water or nothing if you are going to drink water.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 05:15 AM
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Best part of your post is that you realise you have a problem and want to fix it. Many people lack that level of self awareness and just continue on in life being sour and bitter. It's a self-esteem issue. You doubt yourself so when someone reinforces that the cycle intensifies. Build your self confidence so you know deep down that you either tried your best, accept your flaws and are keen to improve in time. Don't sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff. Look at the bigger picture. Who …
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:40 AM
1

I love a sour but if you are watching your diet you need to drop the sugary drinks if you are drinking regularly. Vodka sodas don't taste as nice as a sour, scotch and dry or a rum and coke but you need to be making sacrifices to keep your machinist thing going on.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:33 AM
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"I jutz want to fuck girlz" kind of book with the techniques etc Wrong sub.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:25 AM
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Research the phases or stages of TRP in the main sub. It's a process similar to grieving.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:24 AM
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Next.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:20 AM
2

Vodka or gin + soda water with fresh lime. 2-3 drinks per night max unless there is good reason to get fucked up.
/r/askTRP04/11/16 04:18 AM
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Texted a bit for a week or so. Flirted, Phone Sex. Here is your problem. She already pidgeon-holed you during the week as an orbiter that can give her sweet sweet attention and validation. You then come out with the red panty line... yeah no. Or she's busy, who knows.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 07:02 AM
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"skullfucker, you called me something the other night and I am upset about it". You run off. Right.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:12 AM
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Red flags galore. How thirsty for sex are you that you can't see a crazy girl for what she is. She says she wants to suck your dick but won't kiss you, or suck your dick. Is she worth the trouble?
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:11 AM
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That was hard to read. You probably already know that all signs are pointing to her assuming she is simply putting you into orbit. However, let's assume the best and say this girl likes you. Go to the art exhibit, flirt, push/pull etc. At the end of the date you must go for a kiss. I don't give a shit how nervous you are, that is the only way to find out what this girl thinks of you. If she is attracted to you, she will kiss back. If she shies away, it's time to move on mate. Well done for havin…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:07 AM
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Propose to your roommate some ground rules regarding non-residents staying over and being in the apartment. Try and refer or align with any rules that your dorm/apartment may have if it's managed by the college. Talk about things like, noise, cleanliness, financial contributions, shared living area/bathroom use. This is going to be a very tactical conversation since he will immediately want to be defensive if he sees you as attacking his gf. Make sure you are purely seen as looking out for the a…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 03:53 AM
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I could've called her something else I don't fucking know What did she confront you about?
/r/askTRP03/11/16 03:47 AM
2

Date/meet 100 women, not just several before you give up on a quality girl.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 03:05 AM
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"Yes." You will hurt her, accept that. She will get over it way faster than you can imagine.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 03:04 AM
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I feel like I blew it tonight but not doing it. Yep. She sounds like she wants you to make a move. Make it. How can I change my behaviors around her to seem like less of a pussy and more of a man? Stick around and read more.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 03:03 AM
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Tell her friends she mentioned suicide, you need that baton passed on so it doesn't fall on you if she does it. Apart from that, yes, unfollow, block, unsubscribe, delete, ignore.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 03:02 AM
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(I actually asked this question earlier today but didn't phrase it well) I actually asked this question earlier today but didn't like the answers so I'm trying again. Can you even comprehend how pathetic you sound coming to a place for men and whining about how a girl is not paying you attention and your feelings are hurt?
/r/askTRP03/11/16 03:01 AM
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r/The_Fraternity
/r/askTRP03/11/16 02:23 AM
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What do you guys think I should do if we engage in a conversation about her state of depression Let her talk about them but don't offer any reason or solution. Just listen and let her be. why? Don't try to solve a woman's problems for they are her own and not yours.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 02:20 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2pb4fs/everything_you_need_to_know_about_shit_tests/
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:59 PM
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Beast Mode playlist by Spotify Latino
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:39 PM
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Are you writing a rom com script and need more ideas? But seriously, hundreds of thousands of men all over the world fuck women they don't like every day; you'll survive.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:36 PM
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I wouldn't write off the feminist flag so quickly, as controversial as that sounds around here. Many girls who are quality women will say they are a feminist as they want equal rights and don't like things like genital mutilation. Obviously if they are a nutbag 3rd wave slacktivist, next her, but there are a few girls who still acknowledge gender roles and simply want persecution due to being a female to be stamped out. I'd focus more on a lack of a strong father figure, hair colours/tats (or ot…
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:23 PM
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You sound like a great guy.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:12 PM
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Get her talking about her, it's her favourite subject.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:10 PM
1

it's a genetic problem lol
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:09 PM
1

I was being a smart ass, basically saying that it's not hard to write a numbered list of things you want to get done. Cross them out when you are done.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 11:27 AM
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She has far more insecurities and thoughts racing through her head as you, stop thinking that you talking to her is going to be the biggest thing that has happened to her.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 04:11 AM
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I'd replace the skin routine with the oil cleanse method outlined in detail in r/skincareaddiction. Other than that, on point reply; OP do this.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 04:06 AM
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Pick up a pen and write some letters and numbers See 1. Don't forget to talk to as many girls as possible during monk mode. Have 0 intention of sleeping with them or getting a number or seeing them again. Just have a conversation.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 04:05 AM
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The only way to find out what will bring you the most amount of fun is to get out there and give things a go. Like adrenaline rushes? Check out the GoPro or Red Bull channels and do as many things on there as you can. You might have a thing for hang-gliding and after going tandem, buy your own gear and race hang-gliders for fun. Go sailing as a deck hand. Love it? Buy a Laser and start racing. Go to the go-kart track; become an F1 driver. You have years and years to figure this out. Start now!
/r/askTRP02/11/16 04:03 AM
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Work to get money. Money gets me experiences. Experiences bring me knowledge, enjoyment, fulfillment. Once you get to a point where you have kicked most of your goals, you then turn to improving the lives of others which is a very satisfying endeavour. Each to their own though.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 04:00 AM
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Fair enough, just as long as you are chilling every now and then. Nothing wrong with a few casual drinks as social lubricant. You can be fit, go to parties and still come out alright. Enough with the genetics bs, people who say genetics is what you need don't know the meaning of hard work and discipline. Get lasik when your optometrist says you should. Usually its when you are 40+, until then, use contacts or glasses. Read this before you start hair growth meds.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 03:56 AM
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Why not just talk to the friend instead? Have a conversation with both of them, then at the end of it, get the girl you like's number saying you wish you could spend more time talking to her next time.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:21 AM
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Tattoos and earrings will impress the people you don't want to impress, don't bother. Why don't you drink or do drugs? You mentioned tall 5 times in your reply. You really need to accept your height and get over it. Dwelling on something that literally cannot be changed is going to get you no where in life. Focus on your hair, skin, teeth, fashion and earning potential. This is a long game. You can be just as successful as these guys you seem to worship if you focus on areas of your life you can…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:19 AM
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The diet where you tell yourself something and you stick to your word. Write yourself a contract, set yourself some solid short term and long term goals. There are no shortcuts when it comes to facing the demons in your life, it's going to be hard work, you are going to be tempted, feel like shit and want to give up. When you don't give up and you see it through, the pride you will feel will make it all worth it. Simplify your diet. Chicken, broccoli, eggs, beans, veggies, beef, oats etc. Learn …
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:15 AM
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Either stop responding to her or set up a date and say you'll need her number in case something comes up. If you think you have impressed her to the point of her wanting to have sex with you and she is not giving you her phone number... you haven't really impressed her.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:11 AM
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Just discovered red pill Don't stress, you can't just roll in and then be top dog immediately. Stick around and things will become a bit more natural. The best way to regain her interest is to show her you are losing interest in her. If she still doesn't bite, you lost her, next and find another girl.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:09 AM
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So how do you separate this need so that it doesn't manifest as "oneitis" or the mood swings you get when you don't have someone in your life? Abundance mentality. Or getting over the tediousness of attracting a quality girl, courting her, and then in the end it may or may not work out. Then you start over. Acknowledge it's hard work, put you head down and work at it.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:06 AM
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Only LTRs should be giving comfort tests mate; plates don't get comfort from you.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:05 AM
2

"Your g-string is probably 3 sizes too small" But seriously, you acknowledge it's a lame story so next time don't tell it. Get her to tell a lame story and you will be "so easy to talk to".
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:03 AM
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There is a reason why voting polls are designed so your vote is private. Also, there is a reason people say never talk about religion or politics in polite conversation.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 05:01 AM
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Incredible shit test. "I want you to be the happiest you can be". Walk out and don't talk to her for 72 hours. I'd recommend never talking to her again because of the level of disrespect she has shown you but we'll wait until your relationship gets worse before we start telling you what you really need to hear.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:23 AM
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1200lb combined powerlift, wants to start roids. Now I've heard everything. Mate, roids are def not your answer. Accept your height, you can't change it. What about you is "not good looking"? What can you change?
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:21 AM
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because they're finally noticed by a decent guy? No, at 30 they know they are exponentially losing value in the dating market and need to find a man to lock down. They are being noticed less and less by decent guys would would much rather a girl in her early 20s. If you were a 35 yo man, had a property portfolio, great job and looked like 7 or 8 out of 10, would you want to be with a 31 yo or a 24 yo, assuming they were both as pleasant to be around?
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:12 AM
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Check post history before replying; this guy doesn't deserve your time.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:08 AM
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Jane probably wanted to have sex with a man (you) on Friday night, you didn't let her. Jane doesn't like it when a guy is more interested in her than she is in him. This turns her off said guy. Jane's life is ruled by emotions and what her girlfriends tell her, don't try and logically interpret her behaviours. I think she might like you but doesn't like how you are behaving. Consider giving her the sex she probably wants and ensure that she doesn't think you like her all that much and are less s…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:06 AM
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All experiences make you a better and more rounded person. I don't agree with the "doesn't truly know who he is" part but loving someone and then not loving them anymore is an important life experience.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 02:56 AM
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She wants to know why you want her to come over, be honest and tell her. Plenty of advice in r/trpGame and the main sub on dating apps and sites.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 12:02 AM
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Contributors, read this and the rest of his submission history before you give this guy time. If you're going to give the whole "but validation is bad fer u bruh, u needs to nots cares what others think abouts you breh", don't waste your time, not going to read and you're getting ignored cuck! Once again, I repeat myself, don't waste your time with a lecture on how validation is bad, not going to listen so don't waste your fucking time and just answer the god damn question.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:58 PM
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Be someone who deserves to be invested in. Doesn't matter how good you think your text game and strategy is, if she doesn't find you attractive, valuable or interesting, why on earth would she want to invest in you. Stop trying to strategise on how to trick a girl into being interested in you and become interesting. Yes it will take years and will be fucking hard work but it's the only foolproof way to do it. Simply use the 2:3 rule if you want to manage the attention you give her. Give her 2 te…
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:55 PM
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Sexual history and dick size questions (on the very rare occasions they come up) are not real questions and a purely shit/fitness tests. From men or women, they don't really want to know the answers, they are just seeing how you are going to respond to the question. Perfect opportunities to practice your agree and amplify and pressure flip tactics.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:51 PM
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Read up on flight, fight or freeze. All instinctual reactions to high stress situations.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:46 PM
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<28 years old, sex. >28 years old, relationship.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 11:45 PM
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Tell the school you are leaving because of their error. Leave and give the startup 100%. Pursue the high risk option, you are 21 and if nothing else, this will give you great life experiences and stories to tell friends for decades to come.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:50 PM
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in her late thirties. She asked me out at work. Tr-tr-triple red flag alert. You're doing LTR on extreme hard mode. Find someone else.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:28 AM
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I'd still ignore until she reschedules though. Or wait until OP wants another date and give her 48hrs notice.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 10:24 AM
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u/machimus we got another one. The accounts appear to be legit, maybe there is a TRP article needed for this phenomena!
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:02 AM
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Write a half page speech covering things that you have appreciated in the relationship, how you have changed and a couple of reasons why you can no longer be her partner. Go to her place or a quiet public place, key is you need to be able to leave soon after you read it to her. Read it to her. Listen to her response for 5-10mins. Tell her there is nothing else you can say. Leave. The only reason I tell guys to write it down is that they often get sidetracked when her emotions kick in and the tea…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 08:00 AM
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Research the stages/phases of swallowing the pill. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1x0gln/the_five_stages_of_red_pill_and_how_to_read_rtrp/ You will soon see how great a quality partner can be, the challenge then is to find her!
/r/askTRP27/10/16 07:56 AM
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As long as it comes across as there being no better option to write on and you scribble your mobile number on the back, it's great. Gives you value from your profession.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:57 AM
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As soon as you acknowledge it's all in your head and shift your thinking toward sex, you'll start enjoying yourself. You are putting too much pressure on the both of you to perform how you think you should perform, i.e. like pornstars. Sex should be you calling the shots, reading her body, laughing at mistakes, talking when necessary and everyone having fun. As soon as you start stressing about something, you miss the point of two people being naked together. Try giving each other an oil massage…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:55 AM
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Is the practice only solution? It's the best one. How to Talk to Anyone and How to Win Friends and Influence People are two books that teach you many things about conversations and getting out of them what you want.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:51 AM
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Seems to be about 5-6 accounts all with the same theme this week.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:49 AM
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I'm saying you should be confident. From what you have said about yourself you have every right to be a confident guy and continue to succeed. Your language is full of self-doubt, putting yourself down and confusion. It's time to change that and bask in your achievements in life!
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:48 AM
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lounge-style clubs with a diverse age range. I want to party hard, hit the bars and nightclubs, and get hammered/wasted Pick one.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:45 AM
1

Then you cannot be friends with them. If you are wondering why you can't be a nice friendly guy to a girl and then expect to get laid, you obviously haven't be here very long. Go back to the main sub and read more.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:33 AM
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have genuine self confidence now Doesn't sound like it. You need to chill out and realise you have nothing to gain thinking the way you do. Even the top 10% guys occasionally think the way you are but we are quicker to shut it down and ignore it because it gets you nowhere. Whatever happened in your past that is making you unable to love yourself and be confident that you are doing alright needs to be dealt with. Have a look around and see yourself doing better than the majority of the world's p…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:31 AM
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Just don't call it TRP and everyone will love it.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:26 AM
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Keep trying!
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:25 AM
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Women as friends are a real asset. They boost your social value, usually have friends they can introduce you to, and can be fun to go out with socially. As long as you don't want to fuck the ones you call friends, it's all good. Sounds like you have it sorted with managing your plates and continuing to search for a quality girl to have an LTR with. All the best.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:24 AM
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Great to hear your journey has been mostly positive so far. Make sure you stay positive and don't get tied down by some of the negativity found in the community. Keep reading and lifting!
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:21 AM
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The only 30+ guys in nightclubs are the owners or seedy guys leering from the side waiting until the lights come up to pounce. Most of us are either at the pub having a few beers and talking shit or at someone's house standing around a BBQ debating how many times you should turn the steak.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:19 AM
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Fix your attitude mate. No one is going to help you if you talk shit and ignore advice already given.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:13 AM
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The only reason you would delete exs photos is if you are having a hard time moving on or if you get a new LTR.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 04:11 AM
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Don't go to a club to pick up girls.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:54 AM
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I'm not particularly attracted to her romantically. She's a great friend. The sex is fine. Tell her this. Won't be an easy conversation but you will be surprised how many girls are up for the same thing. You are wasting your time, and hers, being in a relationship with someone you don't see a future with.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 02:53 AM
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If you have never ridden a bike and you want to ride a bike, what do you start doing? Practice riding a bike. You are going to fuck up to start with, it's going to hurt and you are going to be awkward as fuck. However if you do it often enough, laugh at yourself, be disciplined and set yourself goals, you will be backflipping in no time. In other words, start chatting to girls, going on dates, hanging out with groups of people, etc. Keep in your mind the whole time that they are humans to and ar…
/r/askTRP27/10/16 12:46 AM
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I then ask her if she's looking for a FWB relationship You fucked up trying to define it. This is literally on the asktrp sidebar: https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/274
/r/askTRP27/10/16 12:37 AM
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No. Find the advice yourself... https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4radyp/collected_advice_and_methods_for_beginners/ https://www.reddit.com/r/trpgame/
/r/askTRP27/10/16 12:35 AM
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If she has a car, tell her to meet somewhere halfway. If not, just drive. Kiss her as you get back to the car. You can either have a handsy ride home or get into the back seat.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:37 PM
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Consume as much information as you can from the main sub. Top posts, comments, sidebar, related blogs. As you take on the information you will simply modify how you behave to a level you are comfortable with. There is no cookie-cutter TRP man. The best way is to attempt to know 100% what TRP is and then decide what % of it you will use in your life.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:32 PM
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r/TheRedPill
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:26 PM
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Repost: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/59hl4b/manliness/
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:24 PM
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Answers are the same as a year ago mate. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3qizix/guys_in_here_that_missed_out_on_love_and_sex/
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:21 PM
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I made a thread about this already but I was kind of flustered when I made it so it wasn't great. No, you just didn't like the answers so you are giving it another shot to try and get someone to give you an easier solution.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:19 PM
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You have oneitis for this girl. Option 1 is pathetic. Option 2 is pathetic too. All she is doing is shit testing you by dolling herself up and trying to make you jealous. You fucked up majorly by "accidentally" screenshotting as you told her it was working. Text her, "hey after your hot date, see if you can find someone for our threesome we talked about." You need to let her know you dgaf about her going on a date and that all you need her for is sexual satisfaction.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:17 PM
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Ignore.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:10 PM
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"I'm not really good with commitment". You're not lying and if you say it with a cheeky grin you will be inferring you have had many girls. Last girl I went on a date with, she cut me off and said she only saw me as a friend nothing more. Funny thing is a year later shes still single and desperate! This tells me many things. Your game sucks, you need to work on your appearance and your game sucks. mid 20s ... late in the dating game Hahahaha.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:10 PM
1

So just ask, is it ok to send topless pics to chicks? We don't need to see your body, that's what our no-homo insta feeds full of ripped men for inspo are for.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 11:00 PM
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Further to this, if you must eat fruits, eat them whole. The fibre in the fruit will occasionally offset the damage the -ose is doing. Use fruit as a dessert treat or a reward, not part of your regular diet.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 10:59 PM
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Sure why not? Get him over for a BBQ with the rest of the guys. Show him what he is up against and banter him into submission.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 10:56 PM
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The thing with LDRs, especially when it is early in the relationship, is that when you are on the phone and together, you are putting your very best foot forward. You never really see any negatives in the person, not only because of the oxy but because it's not that much effort to hide it when you talk or see each other. Re 1) I cant really comment as I don't know your dynamic. Being comforting and displaying "beta" traits in a relationship (necessary) that is new and LDR is god-tier hard mode t…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 10:54 PM
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6 days ago and she hasn't contacted you? Nothing to lose except dignity. I would next, but we all know you are going to hit her up anyway!
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:34 AM
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NGO / aid programs. Start working for a company or department locally and you will likely get posted abroad soon enough. Or try and get a job in your government's foreign affairs division and get into diplomacy.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:31 AM
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Whatever floats your boat!
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:28 AM
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The two comments already have made good points. Further to them, as long as you are proud of your actions, stand by them. The people that cut you down because of them are only doing it because they are jealous or just upset at their own shitty lives. The people that hear that gossip and see through the negatively will be impressed by your resilience in the face of obvious shit talk.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:27 AM
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You came to asktrp to get validation? Def scraping the bottom of the barrel there mate.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:25 AM
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Don't get lost in the logistics. You actually want to be sexually satisfied so you should probably do the same to your plate/LTR if you want to be consistently that way.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:23 AM
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No sugar, absolute minimum white carbs and fruit, high protein, lots of veggies, plenty of water. Brisk walk 30 mins a day. Start beginner level r/bodyweightfitness routine or preferably, lift. You need to replace fat volume with muscle volume.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:20 AM
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Can we do another time? I would take this as a sign of interest, she is just looking for leadership. Go back with 'sure, let me know when you're free' or 'all good, how about next Friday at 8'.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 07:18 AM
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Very poor. You completely missed my point, please read my reply again. Next time he texts, ask her "hey who's that?", then as you would a new friend of hers enter a calm conversation with an interested tone... what's his name, how do you know each other, you should invite him and his wife over etc.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:33 AM
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They are humans, why do I need to choose to love or hate them if I don't know them? If I had to choose an emotion that women regularly invoke in me, I would say amusement.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:28 AM
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I love my mother and my LTR, the rest amuse me.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:22 AM
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We've been to a date ... failed a bit escalating ... I made sure to run some tight dread on her Yeah, that's probably not dread game. It's worrying that you are planning an LTR with a girl you have been on one date with and haven't slept with. Shows a clear lack of abundance and will be sure to cloud your judgement and make you appear way to keen to her. Having said that, you seem to be level headed enough since you are already recognising some major red flags, e.g. no father figure. My advice i…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:20 AM
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All girls love attention. Most girls know that when they are in an LTR, they politely shut down attention from other men, as validating as it is. Your girl does not realise that whilst it feels good to get attention from another man, it is not appropriate. Don't get me wrong, this is not always the "sup bb, wanna fuk" attention. This can be emotional tampon attention. Some guys out there are so desperate for female attention they will send their kid pics to them, ask about their day, listen to t…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:14 AM
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2 possibilities. 1) she is insecure and worried that you are going to cheat on her or leave her for another girl. 2) she is projecting onto you what she is thinking about herself as she is lying, aka guilty conscience. From what you have written, I am going with 1). A girl being involved with a guy that exhibits alpha behaviours and can't be there to ensure he isn't doing what many alphas do (fuck many girls), will worry and think the worst. I don't condone LDRs so I can't offer any useful advic…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 03:46 AM
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All comes down to abundance mentality; if you don't care that you never see her again, she will want to see you again. I say I'll go do stuff with her tomorrow but then SS says she's busy. Ball is now in her court. Don't contact her until she reaches out asking to see you again.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 03:35 AM
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The real benefits come years down the track as you stop worrying about whether or not your are doing it right. You just naturally conduct yourself in a masculine fashion, are unapologetic by nature and can instantly read situations and react without having to wonder, what would TRP do? You are TRP.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 03:33 AM
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You dated 3 girls, all of which cheated on you with other girls? Ha.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 03:29 AM
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ended up having a long conversation as she wasn't about to just leave my car lol, what did I tell you!? Downgrading an LTR to a plate is never easy and I am not sure why guys choose to do this as it only creates more drama and maintenance in the future. It is clear that the girl is merely sacrificing what she really wants now in hopes she can get it later. Why is she staying the night? Next time she is coming over, tell her before she even gets there that she cannot stay the night. Why? You are …
/r/askTRP26/10/16 03:27 AM
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Audiobooks, brain training apps (for kids if you are struggling), educational yt vids, docos, classic movies (so you get references in social events), learn to cook.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:26 AM
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"You'd need two hands I reckon"
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:24 AM
2

Forget it. People have done far worse and everyone forgot about it and moved on.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:23 AM
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this guy is pretty pathetic and insecure - he's overweight and unambitious - a typical bully from the movies This is all it is. He has a shitty life and wants to make other people's lives shitty as well. Remain stoic, acknowledge (in your own mind) why he is acting and saying the things that he is and ignore them. If you don't want to be mates with him, start distancing yourself and end the friendship. If you want to remain friends, touch base with him every now and then and ask him how he's goi…
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:22 AM
1

Girls cheat because the man they are with is not fulfilling their sexual needs. 3 exs cheated? Is the problem them or you and your choices in life?
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:16 AM
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It's hard, especially with your brother, to let people fall. Best thing you can do is to be a strong example he can follow and be there when he does fall with support. Don't try and preach and convert him, simply ask him about his life and show him (through actions) what a better life looks like in you.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:13 AM
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Completely normal. Even the most confident man has his doubts about himself. The trick is to realise that everyone is in the same boat and barely knows what they're doing in life. You're going to be alright mate, chin up.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:10 AM
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More reading: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/59ecgc/how_many_of_you_actually_dont_look_forward_to/
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:06 AM
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My bad, hard to keep track sometimes.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:05 AM
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Coming to TRP to ask if you should smash a single mum. Do you even read the main sub?
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:01 AM
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girl I went on one date with, it fizzled out, but we remained friends in class She has no sexual attraction to you and thus does not give a fuck about the physical state that you are in. This is the same as your mate showing off his modified WRX, you don't care for Subaru's and you telling him "it looks cool man".
/r/askTRP26/10/16 12:00 AM
1

Let's say you need a gaming system to be happy for the rest of your life. If your bank account was being magically halved every month and there was no way for you to put more money in it, wouldn't you want to buy a new PC asap before you ran out of money?
/r/askTRP25/10/16 11:58 PM
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But then I would reply a lot more ignoring wut
/r/askTRP25/10/16 11:52 PM
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More reading: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/598f50/what_is_the_best_way_to_get_over_all_the_rage_and/ https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/598wsp/what_does_an_amazing_life_in_your_30s_look_like/ https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/59eagi/guys_in_their_30s_on_trp_how_difficult_would_it/
/r/askTRP25/10/16 11:50 PM
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I think it's ingrained in me. Just like smoking is ingrained in others, right? Evaluate your life more carefully. What life experiences have you encountered that could have bought on this kink? What life experiences have you not yet had that makes you think this is what you actually need? If you want to enjoy the fruits of TRP you need to realise that letting a girl treat you like shit is not going to do you any favours. Honestly, put the dom thing on the back burner. Travel as much as you can. …
/r/askTRP25/10/16 07:15 AM
5

She ends up at a guys apartment later that night and I have to go pick her up. First things first, delete her from your life, permanently. I'd stay in the nice area since you are about to work for an accounting firm and probably need as many good things going in your life as possible to escape your job. Stay minimal and keep your eye out for better rooms if the money turns out to be too much of a strain. Evaluate your spending elsewhere and see where you can tighten up.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:04 AM
5

Pretty sure Tinder is socially acceptable. Just be cool on it and ensure you are not thirsty when dealing with the girls. Heck, I'd even start chatting to one girl and then go cold. If she tells her friends that she got radio silenced by you on Tinder, your SMV goes through the roof.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 05:58 AM
12

The first few months of any relationship overdoses your body with oxytocin; you are going through withdrawals.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 05:56 AM
1

IllimitableMan write a lot about this, go read his stuff.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 05:55 AM
1

Again, you sound really switched on, well done. Houseshare is when you share a house with other people, usually of a similar age to you. Great way to get new social circles, usually heap of fun, cheaper than living alone and most importantly teaches you great negotiation, compromise and valuable life skills. Plus, if you find a cool houseshare, you might be able to let people from couchsurfing stay and then you have plenty of girls to sleep with. Win win.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 05:54 AM
1

Do you have to be a super model look alike to get girls coming over for casual sex? Yes.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:13 AM
1

Won't affect earning potential. It just makes it harder to take girls home. You sound like you're on the right track. Keep learning about managing your finances so you can get your own place soon enough; consider houseshare.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:13 AM
3

10 years of study, learning, working, discipline, sacrifice, maintenance etc. all start paying off. Money, body, assets, mind are on point, hopefully your game is there to back them up.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:10 AM
1

Did your bed smell like parmesan cheese?
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:08 AM
9

I missed the question.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:06 AM
2

Can you make a risque joke or sexual innuendo and she laughs? You have high SMV. Does she look for an exit? Keep working on yourself.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 04:04 AM
2

First issue: Have you read the "CorporateLand" series of posts. There is heaps of information about work places in the main sub. Change your search terms around and look harder. Also, read 48 Laws of Power, it is very relevant to what you are going through. Navigating and succeeding in the workplace is not easy, this is why there are so many shitkickers going nowhere. Second: It's not so much self-esteem, but confidence. It's all about confidence. If you are confident enough your esteem will fol…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:16 AM
4

It's in your head. You are not relaxed. You're too concerned about what's going on. Is she enjoying herself? Am I acting like a cool pornstar? Either that or you are fucking a limp starfish which is not providing you with the visual and audible stimulation you need.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:08 AM
3

Do you have more than one account? https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/597ywf/i_missed_out_on_all_the_fun_with_women_in_my/
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:06 AM
1

Everyone has different wants and interests.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:04 AM
9

They are not necessarily gossiping about you, they are merely prioritising. All it means is that scrolling fb/insta is currently more interesting than talking to you.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:03 AM
1

If you can get hard by touching yourself then you don't have erectile dysfunction, you have performance anxiety. Worrying about it makes it worse. Focus on building your self-confidence, not giving a fuck what girls think about your junk and enjoying being with a girl will take care of it.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:01 AM
3

Stop worrying about what your dick is doing, there are far more important things you can be deliberating about.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:49 AM
1

Men shit test other men too. Learn how to handle them and banter back.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:48 AM
2

You never mentioned mates. You need a group of men in your life you can enjoy things with.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:47 AM
1

As well as machimus point, my repeatable point is: you made her think that you are more interested in her than she is in you. This dries up pussy quicker than a shamwow on mild condensation.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:46 AM
2

Agile 8 lower body warm up routine, YT it.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:43 AM
3

What I really want in life are tons of friends, tons of sex with lots of different women, to be perceived as the guy who gets laid a lot, have access to the best parties, and enjoy all of the hedonism We all do mate. It's just that some of us are willing to work harder than you are to get there. Oh and hot tip: constantly posting questions on an online forum on how to make friends will not work. You need to stand up from your PC and go out and meet people, face to face, irl.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:42 AM
1

r/bodyweightfitness
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:41 AM
3

This is a classic case of a girl being insecure and not wanting to become someone all her gfs (and you) look down on. The simple solution here is to build strong trust between you and her in the bedroom. She needs to know that a) anything that happens in the bedroom, stays in there and b) you won't look down on her afterwards. Sit her down, without referencing your desires (yet), and tell her you want to establish boundaries whereby you both agree that whatever you both do in bed, or on the kitc…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:39 AM
5

You need to break up with her. Go to her place or out somewhere as you will want to get up and leave when you have done the deed. Tell her you want to see her and ensure that the break up is the only reason you are seeing each other, i.e. don't watch a movie and the break up. Be a fucking man about it. Sit down, look at her and tell her that it's not working out and you don't think you should continue to be together. You've been together a few months. Think about the guys that do this to their w…
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:28 AM
1

Engineering degree minimum then get some work experience at home. Major in a field that interests you. Get work experience that shows you can also manage teams of under performers.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 12:24 AM
1

This and time. You will stop thinking about her in the future, just give it time and stay strong.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 05:28 AM
1

Usually yes, extractors. Basically, if there is a developing country that has a tonne of stuff developed countries want/need, there will be opportunities for educated men to make money.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 02:23 AM
1

Stop talking to her.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:36 AM
27

No fat chicks.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:33 AM
5

Stop focusing on banging chicks. The pressure of the end goal is stopping you from talking to them as you are already 7 steps ahead in your mind. Just go out a few nights and chat to girls with no intentions so you are more relaxed around them.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:33 AM
1

It's great. You have so much more confidence just from looking in the mirror. Job openings happen, invites increase, no one questions you and girls will let you get away with saying anything. Keep at it mate. I was you once. The eating was the hardest part but it is possible.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:31 AM
1

I just bought BF1, FIFA 17 and Forza Horizon 3. I love them all equally but I will get over this oxytocin high that I am on an realise their flaws soon enough, probably end up playing one more than the others and then eventually trade them all in.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:29 AM
2

As "autistic" as your post sounds, I think you are on the right path to break down some barriers you obviously have in talking to girls. Things to consider, already mentioned in comments, strippers show interest in you purely to get money from you. Don't read into them as they are all for show. You should be focusing on your conversation skills with friendly banter, getting the girl to talk about herself, teasing her, not letting her get away with any bs and being abundant. This means talking to…
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:25 AM
2

There is a middle ground to the two descriptions you mention. More so the latter as you want to have great conversation skills. Game is simply the ability to demonstrate your value to the girl and make her think you are something she wants/needs. Stop thinking of it as a list of techniques but more of a set of tools you can call on when you are having a casual conversation.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:15 AM
1

Be more attractive.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:12 AM
3

There is a massive difference between seeing some advertising and sitting in-front of a screen watching people have sex. Do this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3qkwt4/nonothingnovember_2015_challenge/ next month.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:51 AM
1

Cool.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:47 AM
1

If it does happen, ignore it and go offline for a while. All storms pass and as long as you don't fight it, everyone forgets and moves on.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:14 AM
1

No one will identify as RP as it would be a career killer. You can speak RP truths and be praised as insightful but you can't label it as such.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:12 AM
1

My assumption was that she probably didn't even want a date to begin with and made a lame ass excuse Yes. When she flakes on Saturday and doesn't offer an alternative date (like she did with Friday) you will learn a valuable lesson. The correct response to her giving the family dinner excuse was to say "All good, see you round" and walk off. If she wanted to actually date you she would run after you and ask you if you're free on Sat.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:07 AM
11

Follow the money.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:06 AM
1

Your sample size is small. Go travelling or something, your obsession with this will disappear when you realise what a non-issue it is in the scheme of things.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:04 AM
6

Not everyone has the drive and/or ability to do what you are doing. Why do you think there are so many average, boring people in this world?
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:03 AM
2

Not a shit test, just a shitty person. Confront her. Get him to ask her why she took his labelled item out of the fridge and onto his desk.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 01:02 AM
2

No hacks, just need to have more discipline. There's no escaping the fact that being a successful man is very hard work. In my years mentoring younger men I have seen many burnt out by trying to fix everything at once and then get discouraged in 3-6months time when they are not spinning 10s and on 6 figures. You need to realise that it takes time to develop the discipline you need to make difficult changes in your life; also, that those changes take years to reap benefits. Start getting the dopa…
/r/askTRP21/10/16 12:59 AM
1

RP tells us not to waste our time on women You can invest time, money and effort into women as long as you are getting the appropriate benefit out of them. Remember the rule about dealing with girls, never let them think you are more interested in them than they are in you. Give her 2/3 the level of attention that she is currently giving you and see what happens.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 11:02 PM
2

Nope, the only want you can guarantee no kids is condoms or anal. Have you experimented with different brands? The super thin ones that fit well on your old fella are not the worst, just need to find a brand and style that suits you. Remember, length is not the issue, comfort in doms is all about girth.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 10:59 PM
1

Practice mate. There is no set path on how to close a girl or have a successful relationship. The best part is, you have a great toolkit (TRP) so you know how the game works. Next step is developing the confidence to carry out actions that you would perceive as high risk, e.g. making a move to kiss her, telling her you want to take her home, getting naked together. As soon as you realise these are not high risk, you get to the next level.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 10:56 PM
2

Surely there is plenty of analysis of how Buzzfeed got to where it is now. Originally a joke listicle site who probably now has a seat in the White House briefing room. If you are solo, I would start with a Facebook page and see how you go with developing stories that have a high "shareability" rank. I.e. rip interesting stories from established sites, use a news bot to extract and rehash 3-4 paragraphs, then you create a new headline and thumbnail and repost (credit the original article to avoi…
/r/askTRP20/10/16 10:18 PM
3

Mate, if you have a quality plate and you are developing feelings for her, have you considered starting an LTR with her? You know what oneitis is, your abundance mentality has to be somewhat decent if you have 3 girls on the spin at the same time, you're going to be fine. Remember, it's all about what you want. If you want to spend more time with this girl, you can.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 10:10 PM
1

Keep in mind he is a comedian. You couldn't take a bit from most comedians and emulate it in real life, they were ultimately jokes. Use Patrice to see the fundamental truths in the world. He speaks a lot of truth as themes to his jokes. Might sound obvious, I just don't want you making a joke about how long it would take a girl to be classified as missing if you thought she was hot.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 10:05 PM
3

8 hours of sleep? Meditate in the morning? House clean and tidy? Get some friends mate.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 09:54 PM
1

Organise a meet up. Over a drink catch up and chat. Mention casually during that conversation that you are at a point in your life where you don't want a relationship, you're just enjoying carefree fun. If she continues to show positive signs then close the deal. Have your fun for as long as you want. When you want to next, tell her that you enjoyed it but don't see it working out. If anyone asks, tell them that it just didn't work out.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 09:52 PM
1

If you just want sex then you shouldn't be in an LTR. It's much easier to spin plates and not have to worry about anything else in their lives. You are literally asking me for sexual strategy which is what TRP is all about. I think you should spend more time reading recommended texts in the main sub.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 09:55 PM
2

48 Laws of Power. How to Win Friends and Influence People.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:23 PM
2

Slow down mate. One step at a time. No wonder you are getting disheartened. How about for the next 6 months, focus on your diet (4-hour body), developing a solid and committed gym routine (Stronglifts 5x5 is good) and getting your clothing, hair and grooming up to scratch (basic wardrobe posts on r/malefashionadvice, go to a hip male barber and ask for advice inc eyebrows and beard, make sure your skin is in it's best condition via r/skincareaddiction). In your spare time, work through the sideb…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 01:21 PM
1

What are you trying to change or accomplish?
/r/askTRP19/10/16 12:06 PM
2

Parroting conversation technique. Google it.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 12:05 PM
1

Your job is to enable her to take control and do something. You should only be helping people who want to help themselves. Provide her with resources to find new jobs, go shopping and buy clean healthy food, develop and easy gym program for her, offer to cook so she can touch up her resume.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 12:03 PM
2

Don't get ahead of yourself and burn out worrying about what position you are going to fuck them in. Just go on a couple of dates and have fun mate. Chances are 80% are going to flake so just focus on setting up dates with 1 or 2 and go and meet up with a girl.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 11:59 AM
2

Dress like someone from r/malefashionadvice, get your hair done by a barber around lunch time that day and get him to style it, walk tall, confident and have your chest out. Read up on designers, other shows, agencies, models that might be there. Basically you want to come across as someone that belongs there, doesn't want to give too much away but knows enough about the industry for these attention thirsty girls to think that if they impress you, their careers might be better off.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 11:57 AM
2

But it ultimately ended because I wasn't "romantic enough". Are you sure it didn't end because she was no longer attracted to you? This sounds suspiciously like you misunderstanding how this all works. Please elaborate as to what happened during the break up. What behaviours were you exhibiting, what were her actions?
/r/askTRP19/10/16 11:54 AM
2

Just say No thank you to your wife. If you haven't already, explain to her that you are putting yourself on a diet and have strict rules as to what you can and cannot eat. Then, when she tries to keep you from reaching your goals*, you have a legitimate reason to say no. *She is doing this for 2 reasons, quicklogaccount got one of them correct: the betafication of their men. Then you have her wanting to make her lack of effort and discipline justified by keeping you on the same page as her. Grab…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 11:50 AM
9

I could ignore her Yes. If I shoot her a text next time telling her to fuck off if she doesn't follow through it shows investment on my side. Don't do this. How do I get a clear answer out of her You might not. If she is flaking on a direct text like the being home at 3 then she is probably just not going to come over. She wants to be wanted and she is using her sexuality to get you to want her, e.g. teasing. I never get into her girl drama behavior since I genuinely don't care enough to convinc…
/r/askTRP19/10/16 11:45 AM
1

Shaking hands with a woman when you are introduced to them by a mutual friend is completely normal. Your OP suggested you were approaching women cold and holding your hand out as you opened them. My first reply stands as to why this is being received negatively by the women. I am not suggesting it's a big step for me (or you) with regards to shaking a woman's hand, I was trying to give you insight as to how a woman feels or would perceive such an overt attempt to touch them when they don't know …
/r/askTRP19/10/16 11:38 AM
6

Cold approach asking for physical contact requires very high levels of attraction from her toward you. If you are not a 8+ male, don't put your hand out, it's creepy and potentially threatening. If a homeless woman with sores on her hand approached you with her hand out and introduces herself, would you shake it? You underestimate the disdain women have for obviously thirsty, unattractive, desperate men.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 01:07 PM
1

Go and lift.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 01:04 PM
1

asking "who the fuck did she think she was talking to me like that, etc. I destroyed her! I put her in her place lol, cute. You failed the fuck out of her shit test. Back to the drawing board mate. What's my next step? Don't stop talking to girls, but brush up on your identification of shit tests and how to handle them.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 01:02 PM
2

Covertly bring up the topic, or ask a question about, whether or not most guys are attracted to feminine women. Don't overtly suggest she is not, just act curious about whether or not in 2016, the more feminine a woman is, the higher chance she has of finding a long term partner. These girls are usually single and confused as to why their strong independent natures are not getting them the Chad they want.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 12:59 PM
8

Finally found comfort in the fact that what I was thinking all these years was right and ok to think.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 12:57 PM
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I still, deep down, want to have a girl I can open up to and count on for support. Until you are willing to fix yourself, none of us can help. You know what needs to change but it's hard so you come here asking for the easy option. There isn't one, the sooner you realise this is a hard life and get some real mates to support you, you will rinse and repeat with the next girl and write the same post in a couple of years.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 12:56 PM
2

There is plenty of info about this in the main sub and r/purplepilldebate Check out the recommended blogs as well, this is a well covered topic.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:49 AM
0

Buy them new or use better dish washing detergent.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:47 AM
3

2/7 is the weekend. Pursuing hobbies and meeting women is kind of fruitless. Most women who show up at these hobbies or events are with boyfriends or some guy already part of that group You're telling yourself that as justification as to why you are not talking to more of them.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:46 AM
1

Why try and be more approachable? Isn't the surefire way meet girls be receivable? You should be approaching them (shows confidence) and if you tick all their prerequisites on a) not being a creep b) being attractive, you will not have to deal with their instinctual guard and get chatting.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:45 AM
3

"Hey you left my number in my phone, we should meet up so I can give it back."
/r/askTRP13/10/16 08:43 AM
1

You need to know that you are the best but let everyone else struggle to figure it out.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 08:42 AM
-1

Is she a busy girl?
/r/askTRP13/10/16 08:42 AM
1

r/fitness r/bodybuilding r/weightlifting
/r/askTRP13/10/16 08:35 AM
13

she's 30 Read up on a phenomena called The Wall. She is hitting it and knows it. She doesn't want to fuck around with boys anymore, she wants a man that wants to stick around for more than just sex because she knows her options are running out. Denying you sex is a way for her to ensure that you will provide more than just a dick to her in the relationship she is seeking. This is a very typical play by an aging woman. Stick around the main sub and you'll learn all about it.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 08:32 AM
7

How do you deal with an attention whore? Like this... i just ask her over to watch a movie at my place or wait til the weekend and hit her up for a booty call or invite her to a party.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:54 AM
3

Yeah just shit tests in response to you meeting your ex. Ignore. If you are sure she won't cheat.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:51 AM
1

You're over thinking, just do it. People have done far worse and nobody gave two fucks.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:50 AM
6

Diagnosis: oneitis. Cure: lift, hang out with mates and talk to more women.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:48 AM
8

Check your posture, resting face, hair, skin and eyebrow maintenance, clothing. You do realise that the whole waitress/girl looking and smiling across the room is really only in TV and movies right? Most girls are far to insecure to put themselves out there like that.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 04:47 AM
2

As long as English is common (e.g. not Japan or France) you should be OK being single lingual. Find some big companies that are operating in a country you would be interested in, check their websites for a careers page and drop your resume and covering letter into someone. In the cover letter say that you are willing to relocate. Keep in mind it's not easy to get these positions since it costs them so much to relocate you. They usually hire inhouse with proven candidates.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:54 AM
1

That is great advice. I will start doing this as well. With the public speaking thing, I highly recommend an open mic for comedy or poetry. Doesn't matter if you are any good, they are very forgiving environments. The challenge is stepping up and being willing to completely fail in front of a crowd.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:50 AM
1

$250k package to manage logistics at a mine site somewhere in Africa or South America. Big companies will pay exorbitant amounts of money to highly skilled men who are willing to take on risk and move to a developing country. Clock in 20 years with them and you are retiring at 50.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 11:47 AM
2

Hi u/ImNewToTheUS I spend a lot of time on asktrp and have seen the whole 'delete your account/posts and then ask the same questions again because you didn't like the answers given' trick before. I am disappointed you needed to delete your account and posts because of my comment. I wish you all the best in your journey. Please take heed of the advice you have been given already.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:16 AM
5

I'll TL;DR for other repliers... I'm an immature 19 year old that thinks my shit doesn't stink. I'm confused as to why the alpha behaviours/characteristics of my male friends mean they get regular pussy. I haven't read very much TRP content as I say a lot of things that could be easily explained with basic TRP wisdom. Basically, why can't I get HB10s on my dick and then end up with a unicorn whilst acting like a special blue pill snowflake?
/r/askTRP12/10/16 03:37 AM
1

You just need to harness it. Building robots is incredibly complicated to someone who is not an engineer. Once you build a few Arduino kits you understand it's not that bad. Practice makes perfect. Don't leave your intelligence behind, just realise you need to learn some new things.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 03:26 AM
3

Yes, it is wrong. Read 48 Laws of Power.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 03:22 AM
1

Find a career that can make you good money anywhere in the world. Eventually you will realise that living in the same city for extended periods of time is not what it's all about. There are many adventures to be had around the world and a shit tonne of money if you are skilled and willing to travel. /fek wrong comment box.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 02:55 AM
2

Before you reply, check OPs submission history. A lot of this has been covered in his previous, and many, asktrp posts over the past 3 weeks. Some guys just can't be helped through an online forum and need to be left to fend for themselves.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 02:48 AM
2

Humble brag much? Fuck the hottest girl being honest with her from the very start that you are not looking for a relationship and it's casual. Keep her around as long as you like. Next her and when the next girl asks about her, just say things didn't work out.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 02:41 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/571l4d/whats_the_greatest_practical/d8o6xx5
/r/askTRP12/10/16 02:33 AM
3

Just checked his history, fair point. OP, stop asking if you are not going to take our advice.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 02:31 AM
1

Good advice. OP, time is the only thing that will allow the feelings you have for her to disappear. Everything else will just suppress until then. You're going to be alright. You will find someone better and she will be a distant memory in a few years, trust me.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 02:30 AM
1

:)
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:55 AM
0

3 times a week. ~1.5hrs per session. Cardio on your rest day. Read Starting Strength by Rippetoe and 4-Hour Body by Ferris.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:41 AM
2

imagine, having to fake never having weaknesses, fears or insecurities sounds exhausting Welcome to being a man. I bask in the challenge this presents me. I love the weight of mine and her problems on my shoulders because when I carry them successfully, I know I am stronger because of it. why would you even bother? Because she enhances my life. We share all the positive things in the world together. I support her through her challenges and get rewarded when I see her overcome them. We love each …
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:37 AM
7

1 month contracts. When I notice I am getting addicted to something or something is getting in the way, I will cut it from my life for 1 month. At the beginning of the month I will physically write myself a contract and sign it. I will then stop drinking/gaming/redditting/TVing etc. Maximum 2 afflictions per month to keep it manageable. The sense of accomplishment is great. I always do whatever I was doing less after the month is up. Builds my dedication to sticking to my word. Teaches me discip…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:31 AM
2

sometimes I ignore her. Fuck texting. Nice. After he leaves, she's trying to shit test me by saying stuff like "I love that guy! He's such a sweetie!" Next time, transition him into a beta orbiter in her mind. Agree with her and say he's like a little puppy and that his actions are cute etc. She says "I'll have to see what I'm doing" Sounds like she has post-ASD. Even if it's not her first time, for her to say that means that she is pretty new to the game (or an outright liar). She feels like a …
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:23 AM
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shes also insecure which is where I'm confused Don't be, the hotter they are, the more insecure they are. Depending on your attractiveness to her, you may have already started orbiting her, in her eyes. It sounds like she is after validation and attention from you. E.g. instead of moving seats or stop talking to you, she jokes to you about you invading her privacy. You haven't mentioned you are attracted to her so I would use this as a great opportunity to learn about girls. Get talking to her a…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:15 AM
1

Will they mellow out? Yes, post break up drama, hurt, awkwardness always takes time. Maintain frame and friendliness, especially around your ex to show that you are ok with the situation. Absolutely friendzone her and do not consider hooking up with her again.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:08 AM
1

retire around 35 and travel the world. If you claim this and say that you "truly have the skills" to be a successful business owner then you will not want to retire at 35. Choose a career path that is easily transferable around the world, regardless of language, culture or how developed the place is. You can then move as you please, easily gaining employment on your terms to countries that excite you. E.g. engineer, medical, logistics, consulting, accounting etc.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:06 AM
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It's a long game. You need to spend years establishing your frame, laying boundaries, setting standards. You will get a lot of tears and frustration but if you are going to be with her for the rest of your life (that's the plan), then whats a year or two of hard mode at the beginning for easy mode later on?
/r/askTRP11/10/16 01:47 PM
-1

Don't be rude.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 01:45 PM
8

Surely there is a better sub than here to ask that question.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 01:44 PM
2

Exciting times. First off, relax on the hotel. You need to meet up with this girl sober and vibe her out. Last thing you need to be doing is developing oneitis for a crazy chick. Throw out the weekend date on Thurs and go to a nice bar or something. Not sure where you are from but Sunday sessions are usually good. This way you have an out (can't get drunk on school night) and it's an afternoon affair. If she is cool, kiss her, move your hands around and then say bye. If you are both into it, you…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 01:42 PM
8

my plates need to be committed to me entirely Yeah, no they don't. They can, should and will fuck others if they are not getting what they need from you.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:56 PM
2

He is projecting onto you.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 11:46 AM
1

TRP is a great way to show you how the world really works, not just the women/sex side of things. Plenty of book, article and post recommendations in the main sub. Time to start learning how tough the world is and how to survive and succeed in it.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 11:42 AM
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No one said you can't talk to your LTR about things that matter to you; you should. You shouldn't talk to your LTR, and women in general, about weaknesses, fears, insecurities, anger... general negative emotions and situations. That is what close male friends are for. Talk to your LTR about things that motivate, excite, honour, interest, confuse you etc. TRP seems to think women are just for sex You clearly haven't been here very long, keep reading mate.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 11:40 AM
3

Wait until you need to manage males older than you. God-tier shit test mode.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:37 AM
1

If it's not a physical looks thing, your behaviour might be too full on, loud or obnoxious. Did you ask them what's so intimidating about yourself?
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:59 AM
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Assuming your boss and coworker at male, it is standard shit testing in the work place. They are seeing how you handle banter and thus are placing your in the pecking order. All men will shit test each other when they meet and are getting to know each other to see how they stack up in the alpha hierarchy. Read up on shit tests and 48 laws and you will be fine.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:56 AM
5

she might try to just weasel her way out with vague answers. This is where the silence comes in. Just look into her eyes and wait. She will keep talking.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:53 AM
1

Shake your world up. Move cities, go travelling to a developing country, do a stand up routine and an open mic/poetry slam. You need to challenge yourself so you can finally see that it's not that big of a deal after you do it.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:32 AM
4

As with the vast majority of angry people, guy has a shitty life, forget about him. You have better things to worry about. Get your essay in and then look into doing something about your assigned car spot to protect your car.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:30 AM
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They still text, fb, snap, etc Unacceptable. Wait until she gets home, ask about her trip and then casually say "And how was John?". Body language is everything here. Pay close attention to changes she makes, blushing, shifting etc. Might be worth reading up on it beforehand. When/If she asks how you know about John, just casually say you heard he was in town, shift the focus immediately back on her and ask how he is again, what did you guys get up to, go anywhere nice etc. Important: Silence is…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:27 AM
1

Lesson learned. Find her on campus asap and open with a hi and a comment about the dinner. "Hey, how's it going?" "Well thanks" "How good was the steak the other night?" Also, ensure you aren't putting pussy on a pedestal and getting oneitis for this chick. Nothing will make you choke harder than thinking this girl is any more than another human who is just as insecure as you are.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 02:47 AM
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She said she'll still get tacos with me Actions>words Having said that, consider working on your tact. There is a halfway ground between what you said and what she suggested. I would have asked not told her that you were wanting to stay over. "If I get out early enough tomorrow, you should come with me to get tacos at X" (This states that you are going regardless and she should join) "Ok i'll go if you wanna do that" "Great, all good if I crash at yours? Tacos are my aphrodisiac."
/r/askTRP11/10/16 02:34 AM
2

There are heaps of reasons a girl's menstruation cycle can change.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 02:18 AM
3

Hobbies, sports teams, work friends, housemates.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 02:16 AM
2

Say hi.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 02:10 AM
2

it seems guys here have their lives pretty much sorted out Lol. No one does mate. It's just the top dogs are better at making it look that way than everyone else. Trust me, we are all just making it up as we go. You already know the solutions to your problems, just in case... Wake up in the afternoon after going to sleep late. Go to bed at 22:00, wake up at 6:00 or 7:00 Play games Regulate your video game usage. Eat some junk food Simplify your diet to easy to prepare, high protein meals. back t…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 02:10 AM
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She sounds like she genuinely wants to help you out but doesn't have the resources to be as nice as she wants to be. Evaluate your attitude toward her and probably others.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:56 AM
2

I am not willing to spend time sarging in the streets or hitting clubs He's not saying to do that. Statistically speaking, at some point each day you will be standing near a girl. Requiring almost no effort you say hi, comment on something around you, ask if you can take her out sometime.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:34 AM
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Don't forget when you are texting them. If you are hitting them up at 10am and they are busy at work, or 6pm and they are out with friends, they see your text and since you are currently a fairly low priority in their lives tell themselves they will get back to you later. Meanwhile her phone gets hit with 30+ texts and you disappear into her inbox. Always consider what she is doing and what her emotional state is when you text.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:30 AM
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I'd stay away from the option of plating/dating her but by all means stick around for the show. Talk to her about her "suitor" and husband and allow her to show you how women think.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:27 AM
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Write yourself a contract saying that you will not watch any online videos for 1 month. Sign it. Stick to the contract as strong as you would stick to your word to another man. A man's word is his life. After 1 month you will realise how much of a waste of time it is and you won't go back as often.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:24 AM
1

Keep in mind that monk mode does not mean avoid women. It just means not trying to get with them. Continue chatting and flirting but never have an intention to do any more. You need to learn what it's like to walk away from a girl after impressing her; real power there.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:22 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/56e917/the_red_pill_movie_review/
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:21 AM
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Tough truth but it's the truth. OP, we've all been there the first time we went to a strip club. Strippers and especially escorts/prostitutes are adept at making you feel the way you are now. If you have the money, keep seeing her and practising your game. If your money is needed elsewhere, next her or prove us wrong and stop paying.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:19 AM
1

Well yes but more so that you know what to do in the bedroom and it becomes really enjoyable instead of awkward and polite.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 12:10 AM
2

It's so much better (30+)
/r/askTRP10/10/16 08:11 AM
1

That Netflix and chill guy was pretty funny a few years ago. Simply and a great way to drop innuendos with plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 08:00 AM
1

Just because something is not a problem for you doesn't mean it isn't front and centre on the problem list for others. Everyone is at different stages, if you cbf helping then simply don't.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 07:59 AM
2

Prob nothing to do with your sexual performance. She might be busy.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 03:10 AM
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They even kind of look similar depending on the right angle. If you are still at this stage, you need to take a break from dating for a while. Keep up the flirting, chatting, fucking but do not spend any time building new romantic relationships with girls. Your problem is that you are still too dependent on women and relationships with women. You need to know what's it's like to stand on your own feet and not need a girl to be in your life to be content. Turn your focus elsewhere for a year or t…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 03:09 AM
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Fake accounts put there by the site owner; controlled by a real person. It's good for business.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 03:06 AM
4

there exist certain women out there who are especially adept at seeing past the smokescreens we put out there? Yep, you just met an intelligent, confident, likely well-traveled woman. Take her on a date, she sounds like fun.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 03:07 AM
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sometimes she gets on her phone too much during our get together time. Ask "what's so important?". She will then need to look you in the face and tell you that whatever menial shit she is looking at is more important than spending time with her partner. Or just start talking to her about something or, better still, ask her a question that gets her talking about something completely unrelated, "how's that project you are working on going?", "what's the best holiday you've been on?" etc. Basically…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 03:03 AM
1

If there was an easy way to answer this, there would be far less failed relationships in the world. When she does something wrong or exhibits poor behaviour, try withdrawing from the situation. Use silence, short answers and ask sincere questions about why she is behaving the way she is. It's important to not allow yourself to enter a negative emotional state (angry, upset, hurt) and simply be neutral. I usually go with a confused facade as to me it makes no sense the way she is behaving. Commen…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:50 AM
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You've got a long and hard path ahead of you mate. Don't give up, I can absolutely guarantee you if you give this a solid shot, in 12 months time you won't recognise yourself and will love life magnitudes more than you do now.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:31 AM
2

You did nothing wrong, you have simply surpassed a level that many guys will never get close to reaching. You have realised that pussy is not the end goal and there are far better things you can accomplish in life than having sex with a woman. Well done. Time to start chasing 10s, models, celebrities, sisters etc.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:29 AM
1

This is a common problem and it sounds like you are level headed enough to fix it. Basically you need to give yourself a break from TRP and focus on being a team mate to your LTR. The fact that you have been here for 1.5 years tells me you get it and now just need top ups (/theredpill/top/month). The whole going on break thing, blocking her, "barking orders" stuff is not healthy. Remember the captain and first mate analogy. You are both sailing the same ship. You are at the helm leading the ship…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:27 AM
2

You can give yourself a bit of the hot tap. It still needs to be cold but let's be honest, you need to be in there long enough to clean yourself properly; if it's painful you will leave early or skip.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:17 AM
2

Do not use minox or other topical creams like mentioned already. Just go clean shaven until you can rock a stubble. It is absolutely not worth risking side effects for the low chance of more hair. You won't believe me now but trust me mate, there are more important things you need to be worrying about than your facial hair.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:12 AM
1

Learn how to learn yourself. With the internet, there should be no reason you need to go to a job skills program.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:10 AM
1

He's white and I'm Indian ftr Harsh reality of the world mate. You might be a top bloke but unfortunately the girls are judging you from their experiences with other Indians (in the news too). Your game needs to be so tight to get past their preconceptions of the typical Indian male.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:09 AM
2

You already named them all; I like Joe Rogan too.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:06 AM
2

You are doing nothing wrong. As long as you are clear with her that you do not want a committed relationship with her, she can do whatever she wants to try and lock you down. It's standard behaviour for a girl to do this sort of stuff to someone they want to lock down. The guilt just means you are a good person and have empathy for her, all good. Keep honest with her in the sense that you are only casual and have no plans to have a relationship or gf. You don't need to tell her about your other …
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:05 AM
2

If you have worked there for 2+ years it's time for you to change companies or consider starting your own business. If your boss doesn't appreciate your work and upper management can't see your efforts past your boss's sabotage attempts then you have a career ceiling in place. Move on.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:01 AM
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If you're not trolling, you need to evaluate your life carefully.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 11:58 PM
1

Gyms, hobby groups, sports teams. It's a lot harder to make good male friends as there is nothing like school or uni forcing you to hang out for hours everyday. Make an effort and don't wait to be invited out, invite people out yourself.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 11:57 PM
2

You need to figure out what it is to be a man. You should be your brother's role model in life. Don't use aspergers or whatever you want to call it as an excuse. You have fucked up so far, it's time to fix it. It will take years but it's your duty for yourself and your bro. Be a man and someone you are both proud of.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 11:55 PM
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Tough break mate. Blocking her on all socials is a great move. Change your phone notification tones as well. Nothing but time will help you truly get over her. Try and start talking and meeting new girls asap. Keep your mind busy on anything but her. Learn from the mistakes you made in this relationship. You're gonna be alright.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 11:53 PM
1

If you don't want to leave, maybe she is quality LTR material or a great plate, if you keen failing shit tests she will lose attraction toward you and/or treat you worse because she respects you less. Sure, keep walking away when you want, but it can be time consuming getting another girl. Much more efficient to lay the boundaries you expect early for a lower maintenance relationship in the future.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 11:50 PM
2

Indulge in beta bucks behaviors It just makes it harder for you in the long term.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:52 AM
4

I'd tell Chad to review his diet and drinking habits. Trim his underarm hair to a number 1 on the clippers. Stop using aluminium in his deodorant (or stop using it altogether). Research why you sweat and why you smell. Try alternatives and give them a solid chance to prove themselves. Or don't go clubbing and meet girls where you won't be perspiring like a mofo.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:51 AM
3

Honestly, let go of your preconceptions about style. Realise that guys in the inspo albums/instagram/models etc are the ones getting pussy. If you dress like the guys that are getting the likes on insta, you will get looks on the street. Push your limits.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:49 AM
3

I usually use inspiration albums on /malefashionadvice to get a broad idea of what is going on for the season coming up. Same with /malehairadvice however they usually link to sites that have collections like 'top haircuts of 2016' or something like that. If you focus on individuals you run the risk of losing your own style, looking at a large range of guys means you can get a general theme to work with when looking at your own wardrobe/style.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 04:57 AM
1

Expose yourself to those situations more. The more your mind and body experiences something, the better your subcon will be at dealing with it immediately.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 03:51 AM
1

Lower your standards if you are so keen to bed a girl. Ugly girls are always keener to have sex with anyone they can.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:16 AM
1

If you are also fucking her, of course it's not considered porn.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:15 AM
2

Never going to happen mate. How does anyone here know that you are not an SJW with a camera waiting to ruin our lives? Best bet is to find some new mates and hope they are good blokes.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:14 AM
4

My LTR and I are invested in each other. No sunk costs going on because it keeps getting better and better. If, for whatever reason, she stops making my life more enjoyable than what it would be without her, I can walk. Until then, it's great being with someone that you love.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 09:00 AM
4

You have completely missed the point. Lifting does not fix your desire to be with a woman, it is meant to take your mind off them. Having a woman as a goal when you lift is ridiculous. The only way to get over a fear is to confront it and continuously do what it is you fear. For both points, stop whining that this is hard. Of course it's hard, if it wasn't everyone would be doing it. It seems like you just found TRP and don't really understand it. This is not a quick fix, it's a long term change…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:47 AM
5

Australia and NZ are not perfect but far better than US and Canada if you want a western lifestyle.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:43 AM
1

/r/Im14AndIsThisAlpha/
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:40 AM
1

"Likewise" is the correct answer. The read between the lines here is that she is realising she is settling for you as her options are drying up; she might have been hotter back in the day. Shitty thing to say as she is admitting a lack of attraction. Would be interesting to know why she is now with you. Have you improved or has she declined?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:21 AM
2

Wtf is a dread test? This is not dread game.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:19 AM
-2

Friendzone her.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:17 AM
1

Can you get your employer to pay for it and study part time? If you haven't asked, I would bring it up in your next review.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:16 AM
1

Exactly, I'm not sure OP realises that training in MMA doesn't mean jumping in a cage with a seasoned fighter.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:15 AM
-1

"I'm too good at picking up to let anyone down." Ignore the babies part.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 11:48 AM
1

Abundance mentality. As soon as you truly don't care if she walks away or you need to walk away, you will relax and enjoy the interaction.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:48 AM
1

r/malefashionadvice
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:47 AM
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She's smart.
/r/askTRP24/08/16 07:13 AM
1

am worried Yeah worried about being rejected and being a bad kisser. The only option here is to take the plunge and go for it. Laugh it off if it goes badly. Honestly, how else can you see yourself getting better at something if you are not doing it regularly? I'm left to almost invite myself Prob cause you keep on walking away from girls that are interested in you; it's rude mate.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 10:45 AM
10

Sounds like a lovely girl.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 10:42 AM
2

Try some of the many apps available and get some comfy ear/headphones.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 10:40 AM
3

We say that because no matter your SMV, without game you will never get laid. Your SMV determines the quality of lay you can consistently achieve. You're really not making any sense at this point so I'm done here.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 09:00 AM
1

You're going through the stages. Stick around, it gets better mate.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 08:55 AM
4

You are asking what younger girls look for in older guys and when you are told you hamster away and deny it because it doesn't suit you. When it comes to money we are not saying you should pay for everything; money is an easy way to demonstrate you have your life on track and succeeding. It also buys yourself clothes, cars, holidays and a bachelor pad; all of which raise your SMV. I am fit enough lol, obviously not.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 07:46 AM
0

This. Girls in their early twenties at liking pics on instagram of guys in their 30s all the time. Get to a point that you look as close to those guys as you can, have the paycheck to boot and those negatives will turn positive. I am a poor example for demonstrative smv Honestly, what do you expect? These girls believe they can have whoever they want. Why would they go for the guy that is moping around, unfit and poor?
/r/askTRP21/08/16 07:04 AM
3

What is she honestly going to do? As long as you tactfully avert her advances, no girl in her right mind would start proclaiming that you rejected her and therefore need to gtfo. She will be too embarrassed that she can't get a guy she wants. Play around with her, be hard to get, don't be alone with her, basically everything a girl would do to a guy that is chasing her that she is not interested in. You didn't kiss her? Want to get to know her better, don't want to ruin a good thing, don't want …
/r/askTRP21/08/16 05:33 AM
2

4) Friendzone the girl who invited you. Make friends with her friends. A few months later, after your value has been demonstrated to your new circle has been established, hit on whoever you want. Stop thinking that girls have a special power or pass when it comes to social stuff. Think of it this way, you have a big social circle and invited a girl along. You were keen on the girl and didn't know that the girl didn't like you and wanted to fuck your mate. She would come along, be friendly to you…
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:29 AM
1

There are millions of girls out there and you think you can safely say 9/10 of the ones you are interested in are taken or psycho. a lot of girls i would like to get to know but i just feel like i will get rejected. You are creating excuses because you are scared to talk to these girls. Don't come here asking for an easy way to meet your unicorn or find solace in a life of not talking to girls because you are afraid of rejection. Honestly, listen to yourself, it's pathetic.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:24 AM
1

Completely normal mate. Make a choice, do you want this girl? If yes, ask her out and make it very clear it is a date and you have intentions with her. Is she keen? Sweet. Does she flake with no alternate date? Does she say anything about being friends? Move on. Don't want the girl? Get a grip and control yourself. You made a decision, have some goddamn discipline and stick to it. My prediction, she was just being friendly and still does not see you as a sexual possibility and simply genuinely w…
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:22 AM
3

In my experience, the only reason a girl doesn't want to give a guy a bj is if she is not that into him or he doesn't wash/trim properly and it's a swampy mess down there and she gets PTSD thinking about it.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:38 AM
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Ask a lot of questions, seem genuinely confused about the bs answer and ask more. Be tactful and don't drag it out. All you can do is get other to think about what's being said.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:00 AM
1

Tell her to start masturbating or find some vids on the female orgasm and send them to her. Be conscious of the context in which you send them though, make sure she's in bed alone and hopefully a few reds in.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:15 AM
1

How am I not supposed to be butthurt at finding out my girl is an alpha widow? By being a man about it and working harder towards being a better man. Also, I think you used your usual account, careful with that.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:14 AM
1

You need to purge her from your life. Change your phone's background and notification. Unfollow/block her from all socials. Delete all messages, pics, vids, emails. Throw out photos, gifts etc. Usually its about 2 months for every year you were together until it starts getting better. The fact that you are where you are at means that you are still being reminded about her from things. Started thinking about her? What did you just see or hear? Can you discard that thing? Time will take care of it…
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:41 AM
1

Plenty of posts in the main sub about the phases of taking the red pill.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:30 AM
2

despite my RP background lol. Imagine you used to date Miranda Kerr. Then she dumped you but you still fucked around until she started ignoring you and fucking another guy. You got butthurt but still wank over her and are proud as fuck you tapped it. A guy like Chad is like an emotional celebrity to a girl. The only person butthurt about what he did to her is you mate. Calm down and don't arc up when someone takes the time to listen to you and then says something you don't want to hear.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:26 AM
0

Yes. In a big way. You're problem seems to be that you are not approaching and meeting enough new girls to be able to say you are also doing ok with girls. Cut gym back to 3x a week and find some interests/hobbies that expand your social circle.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:16 AM
2

We can only hope she's as good at it as you are then.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:14 AM
2

should I remain friends and continue to better myself with TRP, whilst forgetting about the girl? Yes.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:13 AM
2

If it's not natural you need to learn how to. Have you read How to Talk to Anyone - Lowndes.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:12 AM
3

"Walk me to the bar then" "Let's meet at X then walk to my apartment for cool down stretching"
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:11 AM
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Absolutely piss-weak mate. This girl used like a guy and now she is with you. You have such low confidence you are willing to betray her trust and check her phone and then cry to her when you find out there might be a better guy out there than you and your new, seemingly cool, gf took his dick a few times in the past. Grow the fuck up.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:09 AM
3

Ignore her. Start doing it yourself. If she sees any value in you she will scramble to take over.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:01 PM
4

Even if you don't succeed it's impressive to men and women you gave it a shot. Plus, pitching is a great skill to use in conversation when you need to get a lot of info across in a short amount of time in order to get them to start talking about themselves again.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:04 AM
4

For the same reason they watch any show or movie targeted at women, they use it to fantasize. About what they could be and who they could get. Also it's entertaining watching the best of the best do their thing.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 11:03 AM
1

Maybe it's the lingering programming from my Christian upbringing and blue-pill parental structure that I've yet to debug, but I continually feel a desire to revert to my old goals: finding that one, special person who I can "just be myself" around. You need to read more content. This is possible but your current trajectory won't get you there successfully. You need to increase your knowledge about how all this works. Then you will understand how to get to where you want to be without expecting …
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:59 AM
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Search books in the main sub, this has been covered many times.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:56 AM
3

So, I apply dread by letting her know I'm seeing some other women. This is not dread. Read more. I think I need to stoke her interest in me again but I don't know Do this by showing less interest in her. Cancel the date tomorrow by telling her something came up. Ignore all contact for 24hrs after this, longer if she does not contact you a few times. Set up a date in 4-5 days time, make it short and as physical as logistics allow. She needs to think your interest in her is waning and you have oth…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:56 AM
2

This is the absolute correct answer, well said lanky32. ♂
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:51 AM
4

I've been a musician in metal bands my whole life. Unfortunately your line of work attracts low quality women. Are you attempting to meet girls that are not at concerts or meeting you because of your work? Tough break, literally, with your mcl and father. Most of us in our late 20s and early 30s have had some sort of injury and pushed through. I did my acl a few years ago and it's a memory now. Sucked at the time but got through it. The father thing is rough, keep your mates close and chat to th…
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:49 AM
3

she's told me in the past that if she wasnt with me she would probably be with this one guy friend who is in their circle I would next immediately if an LTR said this to me. Deal breaker. Also, she knows you are more into her than she is into you which is why she is so uninterested in you. If you are going to keep this idiot around, ramp up your dread game in a big way, give her more radio silence, cold shoulders and generally withdraw and start looking for other options. You also sound like you…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:24 AM
1

Ensure your diet is good as there is no point lifting if you are not eating enough calories and protein. Check out Stronglifts or Fierce 5. Careful with the social media culling. You need to be able to connect to people and show your value to a wide audience. Make sure you are disciplined enough to not let it rule your life but realise it's potential before you discard it. Check r/skincareaddiction (oil cleansing method), r/malefashionadvice (inspiration albums), r/malehairadvice (figure out wha…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:18 AM
1

Dread game.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:11 AM
3

Read up on branch swinging. Rich expats are a dime a dozen. She found a better one. Probably time he finds a local wife.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:11 AM
6

Talk less. Never apologise, literally don't say the word "sorry" unless you actually fucked up and need to sincerely apologise. Smile less so that your smiles become more valuable when you do smile at someone. Don't get into conversations about religion or politics. Grow stubble. Find a hobby that works your hands to get callouses. Shave your head. Get a scar from your chin to neck. Sleeve tattoo. Buy a Harley. Punch a wall.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:09 AM
2

You have to get comfortable enough to talk to her during sex. Close to coming? Pull out, let her know and do something else for a while. She close to coming? Tell her to tell you what to do. Sex is fun and funny, don't take it so seriously, make sure you are in control and she won't even notice any lack of performance because she is too busy being impressed with you managing the situation.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 06:45 AM
1

If it doesn't come naturally, which it seems it doesn't, you need to learn how it all works. How To Win Friends, How to Talk to Anyone etc are great books on how it works. Relax and as you become a better person as a whole you will be able to see how the game works from the outside it, like Neo when he sees green and stops the bullets. At that point you just enjoy socialising and let anything that happens just happen.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:15 AM
3

Smile and say hi, you just friendzoned her.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:12 AM
1

The rest of reddit is better suited to help mate.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:50 PM
3

Your social skills are stunted if this is your outlook on social groups.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:48 PM
2

Surely there are forums dedicated to finding people who share common interests in your area. No one will reply here for fear of doxxing.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:47 PM
1

Her place is probably a mess and she cbf cleaning up in order for you to come over. Or she needs to put on makeup because she looks like shit right now.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:46 PM
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Mate, your mum just died. You can collapse into your LTRs arms and bawl your eyes out, it's part of the process. Get the tears out of your system, get your shit together and figure out what to do next.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:45 PM
2

She found someone better or lost interest or both.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:43 PM
1

Tldr, put your head down, do your job and smile at them if you look at each other.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:42 PM
2

I care too much what they think and am putting too much thought into this. Yep. Wasn't a shit test. She was just noticing she was perspiring and instead of being called out or people silently noticing, she dealt with it upfront. A simple joking "gross" would have sufficed. When you got called out by HB8 I would have just ignored as she was lying and looking for attention. See 3. It seems like your SMV is low enough for a comment like "Don't look at me" to come out. If she thought you were hot sh…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 12:20 AM
1

Don't invest in any apartment buildings near coastlines, especially ground and 1st floors. Stay away from the equator in general. Invest in water companies, e.g. purification. Don't leave the oven on if you are not using it. Keep on reading and learning about our climate, the environment and pollution so that if it comes up in conversation you don't talk shit.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:45 AM
1

Leg day every day. Hit the gym 3x a week and squat every time you are in the gym.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:37 AM
1

Welcome mate. Explore the main sub, read the side bar material and digest top/year top/all time posts and their comments when you have time. It will take about 8-12 months for it all to fully make sense. Stick around and you'll be fine. First things first, drop the weight and lift some weights.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:36 AM
1

Right so you are saying you are confident she is happy with her sex life with you? She should be looking forward to having sex with you to escape her seemingly shitty work life. 14 hour days seems unreasonable to sustain for 6 months, also possible illegal if you are a westerner. You should make plans with her to change this as it won't work out well for either of you.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 06:33 AM
3

I took 2 years. Worked full time one year locally, working holiday overseas the other. Had a blast. On 6 figures now.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:32 AM
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"I hope my side chick doesn't feel the same way" I got hard reading this. Perfect. Seriously though, she simply isn't sexually attracted to you anymore. Either your body has deteriorated or you are boring in the sack. Look at it from her point of view. She likes sex. She used to like sex with you. She doesn't like sex with you now. She wants to like sex with you (assumedly since she's complaining to you about it). Mate, it's your fault she is not enjoying sex with you. Do something about it.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:30 AM
2

I'd say that's a good sign. You had definitely want to make a sexual move next time she is over to "cuddle" though or she won't see you as a potential sexual partner anymore.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:26 AM
2

Be the guy that solves problems for the person that can promote you. Learn excel, figure out a solution to a business problem he is experiencing and pitch it, get on a project he is leading. You should be smart enough to do you job in a few hours each day, spend the rest of the day working out ways to impress people above you. Dress the way your supervisors dress. Be tall and good looking. Go to every social event that your bosses go to, e.g. happy hour. You don't have to speak to them, they jus…
/r/askTRP27/07/16 03:47 AM
1

You are dangerously close to having her think you like her more than she likes you. Quickest way to dry up pussy is for them to think you are keener. Cool off, stop texting, ignore her for a while, cancel a date; she'll come running.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 03:39 AM
1

This and eat more protein, lots more.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 03:36 AM
5

been better to put my hand on her back and whisper in her ear something like "isn't it cute how hard they try?" Why walk away after this? It would have been a great move and kept you in the game.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 03:35 AM
3

She either wants to fuck or gain another orbiter because her source of validation has dried up now that she has married him. There's only one way to find out...
/r/askTRP27/07/16 03:33 AM
1

No.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 03:32 AM
3

You know what you need to do but it's hard so you came here to try and get an easier solution. All the best mate.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 03:29 AM
2

Why would it break? If she finds out and says something just say that you didn't think it mattered if she knew or not.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:20 AM
3

ME: I like chess, poker and apples to apples. So what are ya doing today? This is where you went wrong. Should have proposed a meet up to play one of the games aforementioned; given a date, time and location. Try and salvage it now with a date to a place where you can play one of her fave games. Be specific and if she rejects with no alternate offer, next.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:16 AM
1

I'd stick with your mates. Then focus on networking after matches, assuming you all go out for beers after playing.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:12 AM
2

Change ringtone, notification tone, background on your phone. Delete all pics, texts etc. Unfollow/block on all socials; you can stay friends if you need to for diplomatic reasons, just get her out of your feed. Time is the only answer after you do all the above. Keep you mind busy doing other things, including chatting to new girls.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:10 AM
1

Online dating, pokemon go groups, speed dating.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:07 AM
1

Learn some discipline.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:06 AM
1

Also stop trying to pick up in clubs, how can you talk over music that loud. Your height puts you at a physical disadvantage so meet girls where you can talk and charm them.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:06 AM
1

Your version of a great person might not be the same as what your parents' version is. Also, if they have shitty lives, they might need to take it out on someone and you happen to be around. Having said that, you were doing some stupid shit. Your mum probably didn't need to see that vid and you lost frame over something menial. You're young and your behaviour is expected however I think you are doing better than most 16 year olds. Respect your parents, realise you are not always right and use th…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:04 AM
4

I'd want him to be my brother that's for sure. Also.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:59 AM
3

Research: preselection
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:56 AM
1

I don't think a month of radio silence and avoidance is going to help. Do you have a choice? Either stop dating or mysteriously go radio silent and then hit them up in 6 weeks. They will just assume you met someone else. I am sure you will survive not banging a chick for 6 weeks mate.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:12 AM
1

I've never had a profile picture on any of my social media accounts before due to me not being active there and honestly not really caring about them. That's a lie, it's because you have had no confidence or poor body image issues. Read these posts.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:10 AM
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Facebook search 'pokemon go your city'
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:07 AM
4

Close your mouth, no one is going to baby feed you here. Try harder.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:05 AM
1

Did you even try to read anything in the main sub?
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:01 AM
1

Girls on OS trips are the easiest lays in the world, literally. Think about it, 2 girlfriends do their "omg yoorup trip lol" and all they want is instagram shots, crazy stories and validation. The only disadvantage you are going to have is that it will be more comfortable and less risky to chill with your sister instead of being forced to go and chat to those girls over there. Are you and your sister close enough for you to tell her you want her to wing for you and help you approach girls? If no…
/r/askTRP23/07/16 11:56 PM
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Well done mate, I reckon you handled that well. She knows ... I'm into her. This is where I think you are going wrong and I think you already know it too. Need to make sure she thinks you are less interested in her than she is in you. Give her some radio silence for a few days, when she reaches out be busy and say you'll get back to her. If you have nothing else happening next weekend, throw her a line. Either go just drinks or tell her to come over and make it clear what you want. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 11:51 PM
2

Plenty of funny opening liners littered across buzzfeed-esque sites. Get some inspiration there, don't take yourself seriously and forget trying to get to know them over messaging. 2-3 messages in you should be arranging a meet up.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 11:46 PM
2

Guilt or she's satisfied. Louis CK does a great bit about how a girl who has been fucked well will roll over and not want any more of you compared to a girl who hasn't been satisfied. Prob guilt.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 11:44 PM
3

Research power talk.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:53 AM
1

Brilliant.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 01:26 AM
2

You are the same as probably 80% of 16yos out there mate, don't stress. (except for the no wanking bit) Figure out how to wank, start chatting to girls so you get comfortable around them, eventually you will find a girl that will want to touch your dick, let her do it.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 01:24 AM
2

I assume it's the right idea to just keep going out and finding more though? See, you got there in the end.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 01:18 AM
4

Instead of calling her a slut, call her by her actual name. Honestly mate, what sort of answer were you looking for here? She's a human being, treat her like one.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 01:17 AM
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Wait until she confirms she will be moving to another country, knowing that you have no intention of staying with her, then end it. Throw out lines like, you need to make your own decisions, don't let me hold you back, education is important etc.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:26 PM
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If you have a small social circle then it's going to be hard to get people to come over without some serious incentives. You also want to give people more than a week's notice. Plenty of sites dedicated to help you throw a party.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:23 PM
5

https://www.reddit.com/user/OccamsUsername/submitted/ Read all parts.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:17 PM
3

Switch back to a Nokia 3310.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:16 PM
1

You got it sorted mate, good luck.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:15 PM
5

My advice is to end it but that's not what you came here for. She's your gf so you need to call at least once a weekend. Keep the texts sexual and the pics regular. Keep your socials full of you having fun and innocently hanging with other girls (make sure you are being tagged and not posting content yourself though) to keep the dread strong. The best way to keep her attracted is for her to believe you are attractive to the girls around you (pre-selection) and for her friends to see pics/hear st…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:13 PM
1

Was a stretch, the point I was trying to make was keeping your ideology/world view to yourself for the sake of not unnecessarily rocking the boat. We all hear, see or experience pussy passes everyday, sometimes it's not worth trying to right every wrong.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:07 PM
4

Massive shit test. a) Ignore (my recommendation) as this show abundance and that you are not intimidated by other men. b) Amplify. Ask her out and tell her to bring the band member and a few of his groupies so you can all have a crazy night.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 07:44 AM
2

Lead by example.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 07:40 AM
1

Its obvious she just likes the attention and has no inclinations to cheat with you. Yes. OP, she is using you for validation and attention when you are around her because you make her feel good and help pass the time; even though you seem to think you are not... I'm not giving her validation She doesn't reply to your texts for the same reason you wouldn't reply to an uncool, fat, ugly landwhale who is texting you. Low priority, not interested. Move on.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 07:39 AM
1

Pokemon Go subreddits and Facebook groups.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 07:36 AM
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She's in a shitty mood because she's sunburnt. Don't expect to be able to be playful 24/7 with someone you are in an LTR with. Learn the difference between shit tests and comfort tests.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 07:35 AM
2

I spent half of it pining over a girl and the rest not really doing anything memorable and fun. Forget the girls and focus on fun and learning. Start reading the guides on bodybuilding.com for programs; focus on a clean low carb, no sugar, high protein diet; head to /malefashionadvice and /malehairadvice and learn how to look good. Honestly your best bet being so young is to try and enjoy yourself, don't take girls seriously (they don't even know what they are doing), try and find some good mate…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 07:34 AM
2

Depends how much you want to keep being friends with these people. A simple olive branch could be something like "Hey guys, drinks at bar X tomorrow night? First round is on me!" would be an icebreaker and show that you are willing to chip in to make things ok again. Consider PMing the girl that cried, "Hey didn't mean for you to get upset the other night. Are you ok?". Contact at least someone and try to make amends. It's pretty obvious they are going to be talking about the situation and yours…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:46 AM
2

Pomodoro Technique. Focus on discipline, not motivation to complete a task.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:40 AM
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I've seen her twice You can't get this worked up over someone you barely know mate. She is offering options for you to go and hang out, take them, work on the cooking thing later. As long as you are getting what you want out of it, I assume sex, what's the problem what you do before hand? Oh and go dancing with her.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:39 AM
2

Put on sunnies and keep your head still.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:35 AM
2

Gym 3x a week. Read books and posts from main sub. Build an FPV quadcopter, download Pokemon Go and meet up with others playing it in your area, realise you are a fucking doctor and should be smart enough to figure these things out yourself.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:34 AM
2

Mate, when a girl tells you she is not interested in you anymore, man the fuck up and say goodbye to her. One of two things will happen. She will try to come back or you both simply move on with your lives and thank christ you didn't marry or have kids. If she tries to come back most men here would advise to keep her out of your life, I agree. The most you should do is plate her and continue to see other girls. Keeping a girl as an LTR who has rejected you is a huge red flag and guarantees you n…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:31 AM
1

I have no defence experience but fwiw if I had my time again I would have joined the defence force straight out of high school. Just for a few years and learnt a trade.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:26 AM
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Tough break mate. Whilst you were in the right, sometimes you need to cop one on the chin for the bigger picture. It's all well and good for us on TRP to tell people that the way society is currently functioning is wrong but that's just not how it works in practice sometimes. Imagine you are at a friend's place and they ask you to say grace before a formal meal and you're an atheist. Is it worth making a big deal in front of the parents or do you just bow your head and say thanks for the food an…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:22 AM
1

Learn to bargain hunt: https://www.cheapies.nz/deals/countdown.co.nz
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:27 AM
4

Excellent response. The ♂ bot is broken but you deserve it. Further to this, another reason she would be seeing other guys is because she is not getting everything she needs from you. Granted she could be mate seeking and throwing a large net, or damaged, but if she is just a "free spirited girl" that doesn't want commitment right now, why else would she have more than one male sexual partner? If she is pushing for commitment from you, she sees you as her best option and either wants to have you…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:40 AM
1

She is scared she will lose a friends so she tells him what he wants to hear in order to beta him or keep him a a friend. So she says yes and makes a stupid story about what had happened. She lies in order to keep him as an orbitor. Am I right? Yes. I would go radio silent until she reaches out. Tell her you want her to come over or whatever because you want to have sex. When she says something like, I don't want to lose what we have or doesn't half sex with friends, tell her you have enough fri…
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:34 AM
2

You handled it very well by walking off imo but other guys would say you should have made more of an effort to close. Let her cool off and keep on doing what ever you have been doing over the past 2 months, it seems to be working.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:30 AM
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Yes, plenty of LTR advice on the main sub. Trick is to date plenty of girls so a) you figure out what you want from a partner b) you don't think you are missing out when you do settle down c) you find a quality partner and not just the first girl to sit in the cubicle next to you at work.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:28 AM
1

There is no TRP approach, this is basic human functioning.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:45 AM
1

how I can crush oneitis The only way is to know that you have options elsewhere and that there is no way any one girl is all that special; plenty out there just like her and better.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:43 AM
2

Sounds adventurous. Hypothetically if you responded with the good or bad line and she said bad, what would the adventure date entail?
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:26 AM
11

Yeah, occasionally I hang these things from my ears across my nose.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:25 AM
1

Figure out the difference between comfort testing and fitness/shit testing.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:23 AM
1

Chanel Allure Homme Sport has gotten me the most complements.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:21 AM
2

time is all it takes You already answered your own question. Whilst it helps I don't agree with some of the guys on here that prescribe "fucking heaps of girls" to get over that girl. You just need to give it time and get on with your life with anything else. Other girls, hobbies, study, work, whatever. Make sure you do the basics like unfollow her on socials, change your ringtones and notifications, delete photos etc. Once you realise the benefits of not being obsessed with a particular girl yo…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:16 AM
2

Sort the main sub by top all time and work through them. Then play with the URL and figure out how to set date ranges using UTC/Unix timestamps and search the top of 3 month date ranges going back through time. On a much more important note, you need to realise that there is no set "framework" to be found. The whole point of TRP is to let you know how things work and for you to then figure out what works for you. Essentially they same core shit has been repeating over and over here and in the ma…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:11 AM
1

Research and understand "abundance mentality" and "oneitis". What you are going through is common and can be overcome. As soon as you get to the point that you genuinely do not care what happens to a relationship you have with a plate, you will be in a much better place.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:06 AM
2

From my experience, weddings are nothing like the move "Wedding Crashers" where you rock up and bed your choice of girls. Might just be my age but most people at the weddings I go to are already married, have a kid or engaged. All the girls that are single are busy hanging out with the group of friends they know because weddings are full of "friend groups", i.e. work friends, school friends, church friends etc. Having said all that, I have MC'd a few weddings and it was my job to go and talk to …
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:03 AM
2

use this as an opportunity to practice and gain some confidence If you think that will help, yes. If you don't want to have sex with her, don't.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:56 AM
7

Buy some good disposable razors, learn how to maintain them so they stay sharp, use them. If you don't have the genes, you don't have a beard, simple.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:55 AM
3

Don't say that, please. What is the "adventure"?
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:53 AM
2

Jed from The West Wing. If you have the looks and asshole sorted, you need to learn how to handle the power people will expect from you.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:28 PM
2

Have you even read any TRP content? Literally the first link in the FAQ sidebar: https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/260
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:19 PM
3

How is this not obvious? "Hey Trav, I'm taking Tiffany out tomorrow night for a drink, that cool with you?" or less overt/offensive "Hey mate, what are your thoughts on me asking Tiff out for a drink tomorrow night?" I'm not Trav but if one of my mates came to me like that about a plate I had, I would say yes even if I wanted to keep spinning her, just to see what she would say. If she said yes, I would next her and say congrats to my mate for being a better option than me. If she said no, my eg…
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:17 PM
2

Why aren't you making progress? It's hard and you're not disciplined enough to make sacrifices and stick to your decisions. If you set a goal to do something 3x a week, say workout, and you don't do it, why would that be? No one is too busy to put aside 3 hours a week for something. It's because it's easier to sit on your computer chair and complain about how hard it is to be a successful man than to lay out some short term and long term goals and try and achieve them.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:09 PM
1

Fwiw I agree with mackX here. You need to get your body in good shape and read. Mr nice guy is a start but you need to learn about social dynamics and how much you are screwing yourself with your behaviour. 50 Laws of Power, How to talk to anyone (Lowndes), How to make friends and influence people (Carnegie) would be a good start.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:03 PM
1

I usually recommend the 4 hour body book if you want guidance on a high protein diet. Ferris outlines some good suggestions for regular meals and the mindset you need for mass gain when in the gym.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 09:58 PM
1

Yes, focusing your energy to other things will definitely help. If you are bored then thinking about wanking, porn and women is an easy distraction or go to. How old are you?
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:28 AM
2

I am very suspicious of why these people are acting the way they are to you? It's very rare that people vilify someone for no reason, especially to the level they are in this example. Are you sure your behaviour over the past few years hasn't made you a target? Are you overweight? Do you act out to gain attention or as a reaction to awkward situations? Do you have rare interests in music, fashion, hobbies? Are you mean to others, even though you may think they deserve it?
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:27 AM
3

Get a second job.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:22 AM
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No, you shouldn't try and get a gf now, that is the last thing you need. You need to figure out a way to get to a place where you can say you have some good pictures of yourself for dating apps. E.g. sort out your body, fashion and life activities. I'm holding back on berating you for being a whiny bitch because you sound like one. Getting a girl is not easy, succeeding in life is not easy, getting a great job is not easy, being a fucking man is not easy. Stop complaining about having a home to …
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:20 AM
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Not sure if I missed something but I don't agree with any of the commenters here. This is text book shit testing which you have passed well in all cases. This girl is not your LTR, you seem to be enjoying her company and you have a good dynamic. She tries to make you jealous with the boss thing, doesn't sound like she did anything with him (not in an LTR so who cares) and then went home. She is leaving her job and someone paid for her drinks all night (assuming because she was a good employee) s…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:09 AM
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Y probably knows K really well since he's dating her sister. Having said that, it's J's fault for dating a girl that thinks that behaviour is acceptable and not setting boundaries early on in the relationship.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:04 AM
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When you approach in day game, immediately let the girl know when you will be leaving her alone so her guard is down. E.g. waiting for a coffee to be made: "hey mind if I chat to you until my coffee is ready, it's lonely on the other side of the cafe". This let's the girl know even before she knows anything about you that you will leave in 2 mins. This is important as all girls have a guard up for strangers talking to them. If she ends up liking you then obviously she will stick around and encou…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 07:00 AM
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If the bench has a bar then you can do everything in Stronglifts 5x5 except for squats and heavy overhead presses. Sub the squats for kettle bell swings. Also, wrong sub.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 06:57 AM
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Sports teams, speed dating nights (or just online dating in general), music festivals (chilled/folk type ones where you can sit around and chat and not jump around near the stage), group fitness classes (especially those ones that are in parks where you partner up with people), learn to dance lessons. It's not hard to think of places where women and men will be that have a mutual interest, sounds like you just don't want to put in the hard yards to make it happen.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 06:54 AM
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Give it time mate, you'll laugh about this in a year. For now, try and act in a way that you would be proud of in a years time given that you will not be getting back with this girl and will eventually forget about her. It's all good mate, just relax. There is far more important things going on in the world to devote your time and energy to this. Time will make it better, it's a hard slog but you'll get there.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 06:53 AM
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Check out 50 Laws of Power, it's relevant here. You need to get to a point that other people can't modify your view of yourself. E.g. if a bloke started calling me names at the pub I would just smile and walk away. Doesn't matter what he says, I know he's only doing it because his life is shit. If it's an action that I control, then I always try and behave in a way that gives myself respect and dignity. E.g. don't get blackout drunk, don't tattoo my face.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 07:54 AM
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Learn some excel on the side. The "excel guy" at work is always being asked for favours and the big bosses love him because he can fix old sheets and make their lives easier. Great way to get your foot in the general managers door or his radar. Look at eLearning platforms as they are taking off. Building and modifying LMSs (learning management systems) is going to be important as more companies let people train and learn out of the office.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 07:48 AM
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Not a shit test, sounds like an LMR (last minute resistance). Plenty of info on them here and in the main sub. "Yeah I know, you've been calling me AFoundingFather for a while and that's not my name" "What about a e i and o?"
/r/askTRP29/06/16 07:44 AM
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Adding this one to the pile of "why you don't fuck girls at work" examples.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 07:41 AM
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Decade long goals will mean you are thinking about skills, career and family. If you want to travel, stay childfree and not live in the one place for the rest of your life, make sure you consider a career and skillset that can be applied anywhere in the world, e.g. engineer, accountant, doctor.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 07:40 AM
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Top answer. Assuming you are going there simply to root his daughter as you are not in a relationship, I would be polite and minimise contact with them. You are dangerously close to upgrading this relationship by meeting the parents but we understand it's a necessary step if a girl you are casually sleeping with lives with her parents.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 07:37 AM
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Not sure you really understand what blackmail means. Regardless, don't enter their frames. If they confront you, ignore and be amused. They have every right to tell your girl what they want and your girl can do what she wants. If they bring it to you, tell them it's none of their business and walk away.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 07:35 AM
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Models by Manson gets a good rap but honestly just get out there and talk to girls. Even if it's not with the goal of fucking them, chatting and flirting with women is magnitudes more effective at showing you how it all works.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:56 PM
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Sounds good to me. Tell her where you want to meet up again, and when.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:53 PM
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If you were to explain why, what would you be saying?
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:45 PM
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Remember that most women have the same or less confidence than you when it comes to approaching. Rejection is far more scary to them than it is to you. How much of an effort it is to say hi and ask for some tips on how to curl in the squat rack?
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:44 PM
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Did I read correctly that she has a kid with this guy and she has been his plate for 11 years and they still talk... about sex. She is a good women No, she is not. She is a train wreck and a very low quality woman. If you had read anything in the main sub you would already know the answer is to break up with her and get her out of your life. But... You don't want to because you are scared to be alone, have few other options or are afraid to hurt her so you come here to beg for another answer tha…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:39 PM
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But the truth is- men have a mechanism to develop Oneitis and our psychological mechanisms were formed by evolution. You do not understand evolution or have been told incorrect information.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:29 PM
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Stronglifts 5x5 app, cut out white carbs and sugar from your diet and eat heaps of protein rich foods. futianze is right about money planning. Figure out what skill set you should invest in to earn good coin. Understand budgeting, investing and superannuation/pensions. Grab a few of the commonly recommended books around here and read them. Your Money or Your Life by Vicki Robins is good for money stuff and 50 Laws of Power is good for getting your head around how the big boys play games in busin…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:27 PM
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Cut back to wanking every second day, research 'deathgrip' and make sure you are not doing it, stop caffeine and excessive alcohol before sex (a couple of drinks is ok to relax). Main issue for you is your head and you freaking yourself out by focusing on coming. Stop thinking about the end goal and just enjoy the moment. Plenty of posts here, in the main sub and on the internet about performance anxiety, read them. If you are concerned about prostate then see a doc and get an exam. You usually …
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:22 PM
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hey, what show did you prepared tonight? Stop asking and start telling. "hey, I want to see you bent over the lounge when I get home tonight" OR She is not sending you many nudes as she doesn't have a positive body image and is self conscious. If you think she has a cracking body, tell her and when she does send you a lingerie or nude pic, reinforce this positive behaviour by bringing home flowers or giving her a massage when you get home. Obviously also tell her that she's hot. If she doesn't d…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:17 PM
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I'm pro choice because rape conceptions and accidents shouldn't be carried to term if the women doesn't want it to. Yes, it's terrible if a women uses it as a form of contraception but just avoid women like that. Also, your brother's 19yo daughter had an abortion after accidentally falling pregnant and he's upset because "he wants grandkids"? What a selfish dickhead. Tell him it's his fault she is not educated enough about safe sex and good decision making behaviours.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:12 PM
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Both the commenters are saying to compete with yourself and not compare yourself to others. Fuck that. You should compete with him, compete with the ripped guy on instagram, compete with Arnie. Channel the frustration you are experience into a positive drive to be bigger than him. Finished a session with him? Go home and tear down your muscles even more. Find better supplements to build back up quicker. Research different workout plans. DIET BETTER THAN HIM. Having a mate going to the gym with y…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:06 PM
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Whilst you may think yourself "smarter" it's better to remain quiet and be thought a fool than speak and confirm it. Who cares if an aunt thinks you're an idiot, you probably are in her eyes since she has a different frame of reference as to measure wisdom. Yes, a lot of older people are idiots but they have 20+ years of life experience on you, don't think that just because you have read some atheist blogs, understand basic astronomy or can built a script to automate something you are smarter th…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:00 PM
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Stress? If you have no issues coming when you masturbate alone then it's all in your head and you are giving yourself performance anxiety. How old are you?
/r/askTRP28/06/16 09:55 PM
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Yes, why not? Why would a girl immediately get your 100% commitment when you barely know her. As long as you want. Remember, women control sex, men control commitment. How? You tell her.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 09:54 PM
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Sports teams, speed dating nights (or just online dating in general), music festivals (chilled/folk type ones where you can sit around and chat and not jump around near the stage), group fitness classes (especially those ones that are in parks where you partner up with people), learn to dance lessons. It's not hard to think of places where women and men will be that have a mutual interest, sounds like you just don't want to put in the hard yards to make it happen.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:49 AM
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I accidentally recorded myself speaking about using TRP to get my girlfriend and you would not believe it but somehow I sent it to her. Hahahaha, you made your bed.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:42 AM
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She's better off without you. Get your shit together and stop being a cunt.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:41 AM
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You sound like you'd be a blast at parties. Just enjoy it mate, you'll figure out how to manage your time and women soon enough.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:40 AM
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Exactly. Also, no one is saying "become an olympic lifter or bodybuilder". Majority of us can only spend enough time in the gym to get to a football player's physique, if that.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:37 AM
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What he said
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:35 AM
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/malefashionadvice
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:32 AM
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Bill Burr
/r/askTRP27/06/16 08:02 AM
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Surely a bodybuilding sub would be a better resource for this?
/r/askTRP27/06/16 08:01 AM
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Nexting her is breaking out of orbit. Anything more is seeking some sort of revenge for using you and that is a failure on your end. If you realise you fucked up and there is no call for compensation, move on. Side note, you do realise you can be friends with girls you don't want to have sex with right? If you simply want to be friends with her then go have a beer with her. If you have an end goal of fucking her then either make a move or next.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 08:00 AM
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Anything sponsored by Red Bull.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 07:37 AM
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I ride a long-distance rodebike This is not a high SMV hobby. I enjoy painting Not really Sunbathing. what? Fashion. Your dress sense should appear effortless but look great. Saying that you love fashion is not impressive to a women. Looking great in a tailored suit is impressive.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 07:36 AM
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I disagree, I love orbiters. They take care of jobs I don't want to do with my LTR, e.g. validating, boring movies, shopping trips.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 07:34 AM
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This summer has been full of self improvement, theory reading, and pursuing my goals and interests in an attempt to heighten my SMV (I believe it has been rising). Lifting? You are on the right track with regards to the reading as you need to change your mindset but the only way people, especially girls, will give you a second change is if you change your appearance. You need to look like a new man for them to accept you behaving like one as genuine. Get a better wardrobe too.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 07:26 AM
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I think he raises some decent points.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 07:24 AM
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The only way to deal with orbiters is to emphasise their pathetic nature to your LTR/plate. Be amused at their actions and placate them to be "cute". In your case I would consider going the next level and commenting on how sad it is that the male friend needs to try and touch her for the obvious reason he can't get any physical action from his own gf. Remember, you need to frame him as the wanting party in the interaction, it shouldn't even cross your mind that your gf is enjoying his touch beca…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 07:22 AM
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You are who you hang around. If these guys are successful in areas you want to be successful in, keep them close.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 07:11 AM
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Wait until you have another job lined up or better still until you start said job, then ask her out. The trick to getting girls you work with is to demonstrate your value and how you are out of their reach while you are working together so they perceive you as a guy that is hard to get. Then when you leave you have your pick.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 07:09 AM
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If you find someone's answers resonate with you, PM them and ask for guidance. Worst that can happen is they say no.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 11:09 PM
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4-Hour Body, read it. 5x5 Stronglifts app, download it.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 11:05 PM
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Try and get a pdf copy of 4-Hour Body. There is a chapter in it "How to gain 2.4st (15.4kg) in 28 days". Plenty of tips for diet and exercises for rapid muscle growth. Requires huge amounts of discipline but it's doable. After seeing your pics, read the whole book asap. You need to completely cut white carbs and sugar from your diet immediately.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 11:04 PM
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her being stunned by (possibly?) first relationship with a non-beta Very possible. Other options could be an incredibly low self esteem and self worth which means she does not want to risk being alone or having her value drop when you leave her. Or she could just have a great father or male role model that has shown her how to behave around high value males and she's a high value girl. Remember that anything under 6 months means there is heaps of oxy and domamine flowing so she is blind to your …
/r/askTRP22/06/16 10:58 PM
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Completely normal. What's happening is you are only seeing the positives in the work or crossfit (wtf btw) girl and you know all the negatives of your gf. Your brain doesn't include the fact that she is probably crazier than your gf (if she's hotter), has an ugly vagina or chews with her mouth open. Occasionally I pretend that I don't know my gf when we are out socialising and I realise I would definitely be hitting on her since she's always in the top 10% of the girls in the room. Yes there are…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 10:54 PM
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Research the company. And do more than just go to our homepage. Listen to the last few earnings calls, and read the last few 10-Qs. I mean, don’t bother if you don’t really give a shit about the gig, but nobody does this, so when someone says, “I listened to the last earnings call, and I was impressed/blown away/scared shitless by…” Use this at the end when they ask if you have any questions. It's a great move and you want to leave on a note that says, I know your company/industry and I can make…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 10:48 PM
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1% of guys on asktrp can admit this even though 99% know it. You're gonna make it.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 10:45 PM
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This except make sure you tell one of her gfs about the suicide thing. You want plausible deniability for your conscience and to make sure she gets help she needs from someone that is not you.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 10:43 PM
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Read Sex God Method for position ideas. Don't be afraid to give instructions and move her around, they love you being in control. Usually something like, "I want you...", will get the point across. E.g. I want you on all fours so I can take you from behind, I want you ride me while I check out your amazing ass". Next level is simply stating what you are going to do as you are moving her body. E.g. I'm going to take you from behind. Have fun!
/r/askTRP22/06/16 10:39 PM
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having a bunch of unanswered messages asking you out is a form of pre-slection over media Never thought of it this way, I agree. This is backed up by the fact that they are commenting on your professional work, not a topless selfie. You are asking for validation on your skills not aesthetics so ignoring an advance is legit.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 10:36 PM
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Was about to respond with help because, holy fuck, you need it. Then I checked your post history. You need to go back to square one, get some knowledge from the main sub and have a close look at your life. All of your answers are waiting for you, I just think you either don't like them or it's too hard to swallow.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 08:05 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 07:56 AM
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Figure out where you want to stand with him and behave accordingly. Do you want to remain friends with this guy? No? When he calls let him know that you are busy or not available. Yes? Stop complaining about him treating you like shit. He might not even know he is doing it. Girls (and guys like your mate) will subconsciously drop someone low on their priorities and simply use them when they need them because they view that person with such low regard it doesn't cross their mind they are screwing…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:38 AM
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As long as you call them out playfully, it's a good move. Just let them know that you realise the game that they are playing and are amused by it. LTR worthiness is obvious when it happens, keep on dating and you will eventually figure it out.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:34 AM
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I'm not focusing on girls for these next two months I'm not focusing on fucking girls for these next two months however I will still be chatting to them at every opportunity I get so that I learn about basic male/female interaction so that when I do want to start fucking it won't be a big deal to talk to them. FTFY
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:31 AM
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If you want to be a woman and be feminine, TRP is probably not for you. Try /redpillwomen
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:29 AM
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A mate of yours stops talking to you because you didn't get a job? lol, he wasn't a mate, he was just using you. He doesn't respect you or look up to you, he just wanted a place to crash and someone to listen to him because no one else would. Honestly, replace the male pronouns referring to your mate with female ones and you have a classic orbiter relationship, not a male friendship.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:26 AM
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Fair enough, I guess fb still provides me value outside the noise so I haven't deleted it in a tantrum like rage.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:21 AM
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Lack of appetite is hard but it comes down to your commitment to a new body and your ability to discipline yourself. Stronglift is accessible to everyone. The main focus is form and technique, simply lower the weights and don't increase them until you can do it safely; then start the program officially. Compliment the lifting with body weight fitness (great subreddit for that) and yoga. Your muscles will ache and injury is likely when you are starting out. BWF is good for building stabilisation …
/r/askTRP06/06/16 12:41 PM
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If you enter an LTR with a woman, you will need to start managing your "alpha" and "beta" actions and behaviours toward her. The trick is, and it's not easy, to balance them just right so you remain the captain and keep the tingles. Reading: 1, 2, 3.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:38 PM
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Ok so don't use a question mark and change the syntax.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:27 PM
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Ok so don't use a question mark and change the syntax.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:27 PM
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Well done on the diet change, especially the sodas. Keep up the sugar (and sweetener) free decision making. Grab the 4 Hour Body book and read it. It has plenty of information on how to efficiently gain weight using a high protein diet, which is what you need. Seriously, read the book. You need to figure out how you can simply start consuming much more protein without being discouraged as weight gain is hard. Once you are regularly consuming meals/snacks/shakes with high protein you need to star…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:25 PM
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Not my story but it could take years, especially if you need to fix physical attraction as well. Remember, monk mode only means not trying to have sex, doesn't mean not talking to plenty of girls so you get used to female interaction and learn about how socialising with women actually works. All the best mate.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 12:15 PM
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Are you a bird? Is this girl your mother?
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:50 AM
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You need to start working on caring less what other people say and think about you; it will stunt you socially. Focus more on measuring people's feedback when you interact with them. When you crack a joke, be sarcastic etc. do people look to exit the conversation or avoid you afterwards or do they look to continue or seek you out later. You sound young, which is good as this takes years.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:45 AM
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Dude wrote 48 Laws, what do you think?
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:39 AM
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grab drinks somewhere near by my place and suggest to hangout on the patio for drinks etc?
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:38 AM
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It's like with the DVD you have in your stash. You never watch it because you know it'll always be there. But if you didn't have it but the movie was on TV, you'd make time for it. Gold.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:36 AM
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Not really. The only thing that changes is your response. Got a massive bitch calling you out in front of people? Try a pressure flip to put her in her place or simply ignore her; everyone else is thinking the same thing. Got a nice girl testing you in private? Have some fun and amplify.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:33 AM
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"Hey, you put your number in my phone last week. Want to meet up at that cash machine for another date this Friday night? I hear the receipts are really good" Yes cheesy, if you don't like it just anything that reminds her how you have her number and that you want to see her again.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:29 AM
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Why would you waste your time replying to something like this? You are dishing out decent replies here lately. Don't feed the trolls by acknowledging this sort of childishness.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:40 PM
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You are getting upset at a woman for being a woman. You laid your boundaries clearly and moved on from it. If/when you have kids and they slip up are you going to sit up all night and stress about one of them telling a fib? Move on.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:39 PM
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Hook, line and sinker!
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:35 PM
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the smallest "error" in dating can easily become cause for a breakup. I accept this. Don't, because it is not true. You own a PS4, a high value console. The PSN goes down one night, the next day a digital download throws an error and won't launch, then a 14yo kid tells you he fucked your mother over game chat. Do you throw out your PS4? No, you know it's otherwise a decent gaming console and are willing to accept the occasional fuck up because you have invested in it and assume it will give you …
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:31 PM
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Can't remember if you were OP since the original post has been deleted. Just want to make sure you understand when I said "fuck off" I wasn't telling you to leave, I was referring to your attitude in that it needs to leave. You are welcome here and I hope that you sort your shit out and grow as a man. noFunny's reply to your comment is pretty good. It's another good summary of the strength of TRP concepts.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:19 PM
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They just didn't like you. Either change who you are to appease those type of girls, or date more girls until you find a few that like you. If you apply for jobs and keep getting rejected, either you are applying for the wrong jobs or you are not good enough to work at the places you are applying at.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:54 AM
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Translation: I have oneitis for this girl, I am being as blue pill as I possibly can and for some reason this girl does not want to fuck me. How can I continue to ignore everything TRP says and yet still get in a sexual relationship with this girl for 2 months. Honestly mate, fuck off. You claim to have "taken TRP" but obviously you wrapped it in a condom and shat it out a few days later. Have another long read of what TRP is all about and you will be able to answer your own question as to what …
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:50 AM
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ignore her and wait for her to come round? And if she doesn't, next her. Text book example here of what happens when you display unattractive qualities. You already know the answer to your problems but you don't like it so you came here hoping someone would sprinkle some magic dust on your fuck up. Lesson learned, move on.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:42 AM
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Could it be that they are thinking you are more interested in them than they are in you?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:39 AM
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Stop using it as an excuse. The only way to get better is practice and experience. Why is it uncomfortable when there are more people? Why not just use online dating to meet girls?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:38 AM
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I had a blast in my 20s and freaked out when I turned 30. Now I laugh at what I thought was a good time in my 20s as my 30s are magnitudes better. Money, wisdom and experience keep making things easier and more enjoyable. You'll be fine mate.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:36 AM
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Fix your online dating profile and game. Find hobbies and sports that are unisex or even primarily female. All this post has is excuses. It's not easy otherwise everyone would be doing it.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:33 AM
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whoosh
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:30 AM
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taking what I read with a grain of salt Yes. This is a user generated forum, people have bad days, people change, people are miscommunicated. Take what is relevant to you but do not ignore advice just because it is hard or uncomfortable. There is no strict guide which is the beauty of TRP, it's simply a source of knowledge you can use to see how the world works and use it to make changes in your life that make your life better.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:51 AM
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Less guaranteed and the power to stop pregnancy leaves you.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:23 AM
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If you both want to fuck, fuck. If one of you does not want to fuck, don't fuck.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:11 AM
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Textwalls without paragraph breaks will be deleted without notice. I'm expecting this to get deleted but before it does just needed to say that you sound like a dickhead and that girl deserves to never see you again. Sort your shit out before you damage anyone else.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:08 AM
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you know neither that I suck at talking to chicks nor that I'm constantly pushing for fucking. False on both accounts. it's just been constant rejection and disappointment desiring sex is a tough one to get over. Pick one.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 01:03 AM
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go out and try something Best advice but it's too hard and there is no script or formula so it never gets done. Also, rejection is too hard as it hurts.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:59 AM
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Yeah, Vasiliy knows what he is talking about.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:58 AM
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It's just anxiety. When you are putting on the condom your mind starts racing about things like you being awkward putting it on, she might not like it with a condom, are you taking too long etc. All completely normal. You don't need Cialis or Viagra, you need to address the break in momentum when you stop for a condom so that it is less of a break or it's not as bigger deal as it currently is. Keep the dirty talk going, get head while you fuss with the wrapper, get her to touch herself, anything…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:56 AM
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being single certainly gets lonely, and desiring sex is a tough one to get over. Stop equating the two. The main reason you suck at talking to girls is your social abilities are being clouded by you constantly calculating and wondering how/when/if you are going to fuck her. Do the monk mode thing but know that monk mode is about not fucking girls, you still need to talk to them regularly. You think top F1 drivers just jumped in an F1 car and ended up on the podium? No they started by learning ab…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:51 AM
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Fucken tough position to be in mate, sorry to hear about it. I'm not going to tell you to do either but just let you know that I reckon you will be alright either way. If you give the mutt away then you will know he will be well cared for. If you keep him, yes it will be a struggle but I am sure you will enjoy his company. Ultimately, as it is with bringing a woman or child into your life, you need to decide if it is going to improve your quality of life. Can you build a life that is going to be…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:41 AM
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I'd be interested to know how old you are and how many >3mnth LTRs you have had. Never read or heard about the 3% man book, synopsis sounds a bit too PUA to me. It sounds like you are young and fairly inexperienced when it comes to actually interacting with women. Yes, LTRs require work. Yes, they have their ups and downs. However if you find a quality girl and you are a catch and a half in her eyes, it's usually a pretty good thing. It sounds like you just need a few plates and some solid bros …
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:36 AM
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You don't want to tell anyone/everyone what happened, just make it clear to the girl that you remember if/when she contacts you. If she says you said you didn't remember, just say you were trying to be discreet.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 07:29 AM
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Don't boast about your sex life to girls, period. Only divulge info to your close mates who you know are trustworthy. Even then, only do it for a laugh and not to try and impress them. Girls are far more interested in someone who is private about their sex life as it keeps them guessing. Someone who is actually good in bed and has many notches would never reveal this as they don't need to try and validate themselves that way. Keep telling stories, just not the bedroom ones.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 07:27 AM
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You won't need to pay for them, relax. Create a doc on your PC and try and remember everything that happened that night and the next day. Document people (witnesses), times, locations etc. Having it written down will mean you will be able to recall details very easily if you ever need to talk about it. Her knowing that you have full recollection of the night, as well as people to back up your story means she will be less likely to tell lies if she was considering that.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 07:24 AM
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deal with it. Would you speak like that to a high value guy who is giving you his time? No. Check your attitude. I have started working out at the gym, eating healthier, cleaned up my clothing style, saving money, looking for a new better job Great to hear, keep it up mate. I am also not the type of guy that thinks all women are emotionless robots None of us think that either. we talk about sex ALOT which I learned here is a good thing. Only if it ends up with you actually having sex. If you are…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 06:07 AM
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im thinking of just setting up a date rather than have a text conversation Yes, read.. You are doing more harm than good to your cause.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:55 AM
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Good luck mate.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:40 AM
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This is askTRP, not Yahoo Answers.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:40 AM
1

Why are you wanting to chat to this girl? Tell her where you want her to meet you, done.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:34 AM
1

eat anything in sight Read 4 hour body for some diet tips to go with the 5x5.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:32 AM
1

Research how professional mentors work and once you know enough about how the process goes, approach him and ask if he can be your professional mentor. Have something like a 1 page brief outlining what it will involve (assuming he is time-poor and doesn't know already).
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:31 AM
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You can't see it now but any man that has broken up with a girl will tell you that in time it will all be ok. Take solace in the fact that in 5 years time you will be laughing at her for leaving you and enjoying the fruits of your labour in getting this exam done. Figure out what is going to be of more value to your life right now, giving energy to some chick that doesn't think you are what she needs or an exam that will lay the way for success and the opportunities for 20 chicks in the future.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:29 AM
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I like to think as myself as a somewhat smart person Stop speaking like that. You are not "smart" if all you have to talk about with girls is tech and school. You can impress your teachers with that attitude but not women. I blank out and have no idea what to talk about. Stop thinking you are responsible for thinking about what to talk about. "How to win friends and influence people" book will help you maintain conversations about things the other person wants to talk about.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:26 AM
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What should I have done when she started talking? Like I said, it all depends on what you want. If you want to just plate her, politely tell her that you have somewhere else to be and that she should bounce this off one of her gfs. Radio silent until you see her again and then figure out a way to let her know that you have plenty of "just friends" already and you are not looking for another one with her. Maybe waiting all this time has affected my chances I'd say yes but 2 weeks has passed since…
/r/askTRP13/05/16 05:21 AM
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owning my masculinity Yeah, nah that's not what you're doing. You're just being a dickhead. Nothing we say here is going to matter because you're still going through the stage in life that you have all the answers. I encourage you to keep reading and learning and when you grow up you will have the knowledge on how to actually be successful.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 08:14 AM
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This would cause a lot of unnecessary drama in my life if I just drop her immediately. There is absolutely nothing wrong with breaking up with a girl. People date and people break up. Do it politely and simply state you are not feeling it and don't see a future. To be honest, I really liked this girl. I thought I had a future with her. Search the main sub for the term 'oneitis'. You cannot let yourself think like this. You will ruin your life by holding onto girls because you want a certain futu…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 08:11 AM
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TRP is amoral, e.g. I accepted that in the man/woman dynamic women are the first mate and I am the captain This only applies to LTRs. I feel that if I don't withdraw my attention the moment she discloses that she's engaged that I operate under scarcity mindset. That I behave as if there aren't tons of hot and hotter than her women out there who aren't engaged and I just have to fuck this one Correct. Make your mind up about how you feel about fucking women who are in a relationship. Settle on wh…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:20 AM
1

Ask someone to buy you a lottery ticket.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:03 AM
1

Yep, sex always has awkward moments and mishaps. Just laugh them off and get on with it.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 06:58 AM
1

Of course they are not. There are plenty of interesting women who have cool hobbies, look at any woman sponsored by Red Bull. Yes they do. Yes you can and should. No they don't, that's why the guy will help out or they get a nanny. It seems as if you surface read some of the posts and haven't really understood anything about what TRP is all about. omen I know don't think about getting a domineering, buff, emotional rock type of guy When did you invent mind reading, that sounds useful. Why don't …
/r/askTRP26/04/16 06:54 AM
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she starts talking about her life and some problems she's having. I don't act as a shoulder for her to cry on. You do realise that the saying doesn't mean literally crying on your shoulder. Her talking about problems is crying on your shoulder. You are currently definitely in her friendzone and you need to very quickly attempt to move out of it if you want a chance with plating or dating this girl. If you want to plate her, you don't need to listen to any of her problems. If you want to date her…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 06:50 AM
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Let me get this straight... you are dating a prostitute who started dating one of her clients, after he began stalking her. What? She told me that she was a virgin, which was a big surprise to me since she seemed to be very experienced. This girl is very unlikely to be a virgin and a "sweet girl". going out for the past 2 months said she loves me Here is what's going on here mate. This girl has had a pretty fucked up run with selling her body to a range of men. She has realised that this is not …
/r/askTRP26/04/16 06:45 AM
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I'm pretty much still an awkward beta acting like an alpha. You'd be surprised how many top tier guys are in the same boat. Majority of people who seem to have their shit sorted are just making it up as they go. Stop doubting yourself, you sound like you are doing well, keep it up.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 06:33 AM
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Evidence. I'm pretty sure I read about an app where you can get them to give consent beforehand, this is obviously lame and will ruin the mood. Best alternatives is to get as many texts, Whatsapp, IM, email, messages etc. as you can leading up to the event. Make sure your intentions are clear enough on the night, not hard to do since your best strategy when it comes to closing is to be direct. Recording is another option but I wouldn't advocate making amateur porn, especially without her consent…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 06:29 AM
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You say "goofy", I say unpredictable. The definition is the same and if the behaviour is working, who cares what word you use to describe it?
/r/askTRP26/04/16 02:01 AM
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What else can you do if these guys are more dominating and have higher social value? Think of a guy that you know is at the top of his game and a real alpha, would you behave toward him the same way that these guys behave toward you? Probably not. If they are insecure then their best strategy to stay on top of the pecking order is to push other guys down, which is what they are doing to you. If they see their tactics are working, they will continue. Your best bet is to never let their comments b…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 01:57 AM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 01:51 AM
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I did miss that. I take it back OP, move on.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 09:39 AM
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Think what you want about her, obviously no one here in the comments is going to convince you otherwise. Just don't let your delusions allow you to make life-long decisions before the oxytocin wears off in a couple of years. Go ahead and start dating her, just don't stop reading TRP content so that when the red flags and flaws appear you don't ignore them because you have sunked costs, are meant to be married with kids or are too scared to be single. Just realised you said she's your student. Ne…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 04:21 AM
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So then stop. One of the first and biggest steps in the TRP journey is self-discipline. Sign yourself a written contract if you need to but this should be easy to commit to in the scheme of things. It's probably so attractive to you because it's a novelty and 'forbidden' in your mind. Give it time and the fad will pass.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 04:16 AM
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I didn't have her before, and I don't now, so I guess there really isn't anything lost, just a wave that needs to pass by. You have the right attitude, you'll be fine mate.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 04:14 AM
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"Hey what's up" I sent afterwards. Mistake. She confirmed this. "Sorry I'm working then - maybe another time." Soft next unfortunately mate. If the girl doesn't propose a new date/time she is brushing you off. Time to move on. Your message asking her out in the first place was on point. JimFury has a good suggestion about softening it a bit but the location and date/time is essential when lining up a date. I don't agree with his strategy about flaking though. If a girl wants to see you, she will…
/r/askTRP23/04/16 04:13 AM
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PMing you.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 06:30 AM
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"Isn't there a name for women who offer to trade with men for sexual services?" I'd turn that offer down as anything sexual isn't up for trade in my opinion, it's offered with no strings. I'd probably step up my massage game starting a couple of weeks from that comment though. The only reason she is saying something like that is she wants to be touched by you more and knows that a bj is something you want.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 06:21 AM
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I love it when guys hit on my LTR, saves me the trouble of telling her she's hot. If they succeed and convince her that they would be a better partner than I am, my bad for not being the best option she thinks she has. Not sure about the second question, I have no concerns about her ever doing anything more than accepting a compliment politely.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:20 AM
1

Do you want to stop watching cuck porn?
/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:15 AM
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She said I'm going to my place. "Cool, let's go then". Not sure about the lazy boy situation. Surely the easiest answer is to just tell her "Come and sit next to me." "Why?" "Because I come and sit with you, things will move quicker than what I'm comfortable with" You need to quickly make it clear your intentions and if she does not reciprocate your mood, tell her you think it's best she left because you both are not on the same page as to what was going on here.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:12 AM
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There is nothing wrong with being friends with a girl, if you don't want to fuck her. You do want to fuck this girl, so you can't just be friends. Normally the answer here is to tell her something along the lines of, 'I have plenty of friends and don't need another one', but that won't work because you are in a small group of friends. If you can afford to push her completely out of your life, do so. Be polite and just tell her that you are attracted to her and don't want to be friends anymore. I…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:07 AM
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First, accept your height. The sooner you get over it, the sooner you can let the banter roll of your back. Second, men shit test each other constantly and, more often than not it, is not malicious; it is just banter to check the status of everyone in the room. If someone has a verbal dig at you and you get hurt and become aggressive, everyone knows you are a weak man. Don't think of it as bullying, think of it as a test that is easy to pass. All you have to do is laugh along with it as it doesn…
/r/askTRP22/04/16 04:59 AM
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just act like I forgot and never bring it up She has already forgotten mate, move on.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 04:50 AM
1

You shouldn't have replied to her offer to hook up next fall. Maybe then text her next fall.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 04:49 AM
1

Think of it like not letting her get away with anything just because she is a girl, hot or not. You would be surprised the amount of things us guys glance over because we either don't want to offend and are too focused on impressing them. I don't like like to think about "negging" because guys get it wrong so often and just insult people. Just keep an eye, and ear, out for little slip ups you can be playful with. The best ones is when you can be self-deprecating along with it. E.g. at a cafe in …
/r/askTRP22/04/16 04:47 AM
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It's up to you. Do you want to be constantly texting this girl? Best thing about a plate is, you set the rules.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 12:03 AM
0

Name, city, age at the top Small mission statement of 3-4 lines explaining what your ambitions in a career is. Tailor this to each company you apply for so it aligns with their strategic goals. Work experience. Fuck off the dot points. Replace with Problem, Solution, Outcome; ~3 lines each. Choose one "real life" example from each place you have worked at and describe it. Make sure they show off skills that are relevant to the position you are applying for. Lie if you need to but make sure you w…
/r/askTRP21/04/16 11:57 PM
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Trust your gut. or she really wants me because I ve been acting aloof and disinterested. Likely this but where's the fun in that? Half the excitement is the chase. If you are not into her then next her, doesn't sound like she is going to be worth your time.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 11:44 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/t9yRP.jpg
/r/askTRP21/04/16 11:40 PM
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On most scales she's a 7, but to me she's a 10. Search 'oneitis' in the main sub, you have been diagnosed. Text her to meet up but get it out of your head that she is the one, just get to know her and don't let your dick convince you to lock someone down just because you have put her pussy on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 11:37 PM
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Yep, it's never worth the hassle.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 11:32 PM
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Further reading.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 11:31 PM
1

Replace flirt with talk then. The intention is to instigate a "what's going on?" from his girl. All he has to do is pay substantially more attention to the new girl for this to work.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 11:25 PM
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"Hey I don't want to double book myself, are we still on for tomorrow night?"
/r/askTRP21/04/16 10:05 AM
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1. You have good text game and are using it well, don't doubt yourself. If she doesn't reply, find something else to do. Just realised you texted the meet up details in the morning. A key rule of text game is always consider the context in which she is reading your texts. If it's late at night and she is tucked up in bed, lonely, she is going to be keen as. If she reads your text in the morning, during peak hour, before her morning coffee, she will hate you as much as she is hating life at that …
/r/askTRP21/04/16 07:12 AM
1

Caltrate Plus Minerals You get your vit D, Mg, Zn, Cu and Mn.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 06:41 AM
1

Didn't a post like this just get deleted earlier today?
/r/askTRP21/04/16 06:36 AM
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FB/Instagram should only be used for social proof. If you don't have a good body, hang out with babes or lead an interesting life, you don't need it. If you are convinced that plates are going to check your fb as a resume, set one up with some decent pics and moderate who can post to your timeline or tag you.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 06:21 AM
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A few hours after the group interaction, ask her a question on fb about a topic of conversation that was had, e.g. "Hey, what was the name of that cafe John was raving about earlier today?". She answers and then you ask for #.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 06:18 AM
2

Well said. ♂ Further to this, many people are conditioned that taboo subjects cannot be discussed or at least if they are, they must fall in line with the politically correct party line. E.g. Was out the other night and obesity got brought up. I flat out said that obesity was disgusting, limited dating potential and showed a lack of impulse control (no fat people at our table btw, I'm not that insensitive). Almost everyone started displaying uncomfortable body language and went quiet so I cooled…
/r/askTRP21/04/16 06:15 AM
2

Keep in mind that a lot of the posts on TRP are regarding women in the US. Whilst this narrative is similar for a lot of the western world, it is not the same. Do not use TRP to paint a picture of all girls. Realise that there are billions of them out there, which means there is plenty of quality to be found.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 06:08 AM
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A few things I think about on smiling. Always delay the smile when meeting/seeing someone. If they see that they are the reason the smile starts and spreads across your face, they get the full effect of the smile. A smug, shit-eating grin when fielding shit tests is essential; has to be subtle though. It is meant to disarm whoever is testing you so they realise that you are not entering their frame.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 06:05 AM
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The fuck? You need to go back to basics mate, your are overreacting to everything. It seems your key problem here is a severe lack of self-esteem and confidence. You caused the problems last night, you propagated the seemingly non-issue into an actual issue, you pushed people away by not being a man about trivial shit. Time for you to grow the fuck up and learn what being a man is all about; you are acting like a child.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:33 AM
2

The general concepts of attraction, SMV, game are the same for all women. The general view toward women on TRP is primarily toward women from the US.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:35 AM
2

Fuck what a mess, you need to get this girl out of your life. Stop talking to her and about her immediately. There is nothing more pathetic than a guy sobbing about his insecurities to girls, or anyone really. The bigger you make this, the bigger it is going to get. If your ex is actually lying then you should not be worried about her accusations, just calmly deny them and move on. Your erratic, emotional, desperate behaviour only serves to back up her story. If people see you as someone in cont…
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:33 AM
1

Why do you think the girl said what she did? That one night I got really drunk and but despite that I didn't do anything to anyone I was just complaining and broke down. Expand on this.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:10 AM
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Say yes to the friend coming and then flirt with the friend. If your girl pulls you up on it, act surprised and say that you just assumed she was setting you up with her friend because she thinks you're such a great guy.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:31 PM
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There is too much of a train wreck here for anyone in askTRP to help you. You need to completely change your life and attitude. Red Pill seems like the right place for me. Yes it is. Head over to the main subreddit, read the sidebar and read at least the top 50 posts from all time including comments. You have a long way to go but you have taken the first step towards reclaiming yourself as a man. It's going to be a long journey but if you commit to it, you can eventually be the man you want to b…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:00 PM
1

Sounds like you have your goals in check, well done for having such a strong resolve on where your future is. I worry that you will burn yourself out if you are so focused on one thing and ignore other aspects of your life. You should practice moderation in other areas you see a potential distraction, e.g. sex. If the opportunity comes up, hook up with the girl and enjoy yourself and then be proud of the fact that you are able to continue to focus on your primary goal. All the best mate.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:53 PM
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Lifting, eating, reading, talking, grooming. All will have small/subtle effects but they will pay dividends, trust me keep at it. Why give up on gaming? If you really enjoy it, don't stop just regulate. Use it as a reward or a chill out. Going out on your own? Why? Keep trying new hobbies, you have plenty of time to find your thing. I can almost guarantee that if you looked at your like in October and then now, you would get whiplash with the changes that you have made (assuming you are doing al…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:45 PM
1

when I do have someone to talk to, I don't want to spend time with them. Find new people to talk to. I get what you are saying and often want to leave social events with new people as soon as I can. Occasionally I will meet new people I click with and want to hang out all night. Like dating, it's just a numbers game, the more people you meet the more chance you have in finding someone you click with and enjoy spending a lot of time with.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:40 PM
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Being a man is life on hard mode, chin up mate.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:36 PM
1

Sure.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:35 PM
1

I would plan the location, e.g. mini golf, beforehand so there is no umming and ahhing. If you are not sure what sort of date it will be , figure out where you are meeting and do a location search on TA. Then when you meet up, chat and vibe out what you want to do then "Oh hey, I heard there is a great cafe with cronuts around the corner, let's check it out". Knowing cool and popular spots off the top of your head shows some solid value as it infers you are in the know. She doesn't have to know …
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:34 PM
1

Accept and be happy with yourself.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:29 PM
2

Haha, thanks for the compliment. Responding to a shit test as if the tester was a child is the whole point. If you respond "strongly" you enter a defensive frame and lose. You were butt hurt by her banter and showed it.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 10:27 PM
1

Start here.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 06:52 AM
1

I am not really sure what you are asking here. You want advice on how you can focus on one task for an extended period of time?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 06:48 AM
1

30+ with a girl ~25.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 06:45 AM
1

Google, Tripadvisor and every city in the world has some sort of a what's on website these days. It doesn't take much effort to appear effortless mate, do your homework.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 06:44 AM
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Haha, this is a very typical problem in young guys, don't stress. At least you know what oneitis is and the concept of pussy on a pedestal so you're already ahead of 99% of the mail population. A few points to think about: Doesn't matter how hot a girl is, there is a guy out there that is sick of dealing with her shit. The hotter they are, the crazier they are. Make-up is a miracle worker.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 06:41 AM
5

That is not "dread game". If she blocked you over something like that then you just avoided a crazy chick. If you help someone out like you did and they block you out because of a short message, there are redder flags that are going to pop up later. Just leave it for now, pretend you didn't notice the fb and see what it's like the next time you bump into her.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 06:32 AM
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Water off a ducks back; use it as an exercise to build your tolerance and patience. When a friend invites me to go to church, I don't go there and get enraged adults are singing about their imaginary friend and giving thousands of dollars to a corrupt system; I just chill, meet new friendly people and eat good food. You should consider it a weakness that something so trivial is invoking such a negative emotional response from you and work on fixing it!
/r/askTRP20/04/16 06:27 AM
10

Why are you bedding all these girls? You do realise you don't have to sleep with a plethora of women if you don't really want to.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 06:20 AM
3

Location was a huge fuck up, why didn't you have a few plans up your sleeve?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 05:07 AM
8

It wasn't a neg. "What's negging? I was making a sexual innuendo about your ability to handle a large dick"
/r/askTRP20/04/16 05:05 AM
2

Nothing to worry about mate, it sounds like you're doing fine. What are you planning on studying?
/r/askTRP20/04/16 05:03 AM
2

Ask her a question about something you talked about. E.g. 'Hey what was the name of that band you lost your virginity to with those 4 guys in Hawaii?'
/r/askTRP20/04/16 05:01 AM
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Haha, she's a keeper what a great shit stirrer. Agree and amplify or a pressure flip would have been the better response here, you fkd up majorly. Some responses I would have gone with... "Same sort of attention you get in a bikini top then?" "Speaking of which, can you help pop the hard to reach ones this weekend?" "Zits? I talked to the doc and he said they were actually just incredibly defined muscles showing through."
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:58 AM
3

Are they paying for the psych sessions? If yes, just go and chat to them; doesn't hurt to get things off your chest. If no, tell them you appreciate their concern but won't be going.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 04:49 AM
2

TRP is about sexual strategy and these days to get your foot in the door of a girls bedroom, it's advantageous to have muscles and money to get your foot in the door. I agree it is not a holistic solution but a majority of the guys that come here want to get their dicks wet so they lap up those sort of posts. Once they realise that bedding girls isn't the be all and end all, they can shift their focus to actually succeeding as a man. Try telling a horny 20 year old that business networking, powe…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:48 AM
2

Mark Manson and Nick Notas are good starting points.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:34 AM
4

Making Friends and Influencing People *"How to Win Friends and Influence People"
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:32 AM
5

go to a club talk to people You don't go to a club to meet new people. Instead of showing people you have a broad knowledge and talking about different topics, try listening for a bit. Observe how people interact in big groups and try and get people to talk about topics that interest them. Grab the book, "how to win friends and influence people" by Carnegie and read it twice.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:31 AM
1

Agree to a point. There is nothing wrong with having women as friends as long as you have absolutely no intention of ever fucking them. You also need to assume no confidence in what you tell them; gossip rules over loyalty. But yeah, in the end they are humans and there is nothing wrong with chilling with any human if you enjoy their company.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:26 AM
1

If she knows that and still offers up her body then she is merely keeping the provider around.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:08 AM
0

Plenty of posts on this in the main sub.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:04 AM
5

if this isn't a possibility then let me know. The one and only reason this can never happen is if we were to regularly meet up, some SJW might start posting, get invited, come along, find out names, photograph, film etc and then post to social media. The last thing any of us need is trying to explain why our faces are in a feminist website's article exposing TRP. Your best bet is just to meet as many new blokes as you can through sporting teams, hobby groups and other events/places men gather wi…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 12:03 AM
3

No, friendzoning a girl requires very little effort and being social with someone in a group setting even less. Why are you hung up on how she feels? It's all about your effort here.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:57 PM
2

Only when you realise what you are doing here is the reason you are not slaying chicks will you be able to be successful with girls.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:56 PM
5

Flex. If she was wearing a mini and you asked her to bend over and pick something up in front of you and she laughed and walked off, what would your reaction be? If she asks for tingles, give them to her.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:53 PM
3

Lol then why are you so keen to keyboard argue with strangers on the internet? If you were truly confident then that pathetic exchange you had with stickterror and TheDonald would not have happened. You came to asktrp to be validated because you are not getting enough validation from girls. Ask yourself when you will be happy with yourself so you can stop worry about what people think of you and enjoy life.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:50 PM
3

You can't stay with this girl. Knuckle down some medium to long term plans to get rid of your debt, move out and start paying child support. In the mean time, do all the usual stuff with regards to getting yourself in shape mentally and physically. If you must live with this girl, it is better that she admires you and not despises you. If you are fat and playing vidya all night, she will be constantly on your back about the little shit. If you are fit, social, busy etc. she will have nothing mea…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:36 PM
2

Yep, the only time you should bring it up is if she is a plate and you think she is also plating you. If you want her to stop fucking other guys you can either up your game so she doesn't need to, or you tell her you want to be exclusive. Dread game will take care of the "conquered" feelings.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:28 PM
5

I reckon the two blokes who have responded have never had an LTR. How can you just quietly downgrade someone you are in a relationship to a plate through actions? She is your girlfriend, not a stray cat. OP, sit her down and tell her that you are no longer in a position to be in a relationship with anyone at the moment, or something to that effect. She needs to know that all the trimmings of an LTR are no longer on the table. If you don't have this clear conversation, you are going to have a lot…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:25 PM
1

tried to jump out of her car I guess... M: I gotta go, I'll talk to you later Wait 20 minutes call her back... M: Also, I want to tell you I care about you and want you in my life You tried to jump out of a car? You need to sort yourself out as a priority. You are letting emotions make decisions for you which is never a good thing. Also, playing phone games and acting lovey dovey is for teenage girls. You need to figure out what you actually want in life and then check if she fits in with that. …
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:19 PM
1

No easy solution to this. You have to set yourself long term goals and commit to them. As long as you truly want to become better, you won't convince yourself to do anything. I found that physically writing myself a contract and signing it helped. I am a strong believer that a man is his word. If I sign myself a contract, I must stick to my own word.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:08 PM
2

Some people like it. Get a cheap no-brand one from eBay to see if it's for you.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 07:15 AM
8

ex still communicating Sigh.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 05:34 AM
3

Get a part time job that will surround you with a new, wide social circle and go to a community college and study something you will enjoy and will pay dividends. Pro tip: engineering will allow you to travel, make coin and hang out with other men.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 05:32 AM
1

I'm not kidding. It's just that it sounded like you were saying that skin colour does not make any difference on SMV.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 05:29 AM
3

Kilo. You are what you lift.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 05:28 AM
2

Haha, this popped up when I image searched how to kiss; step 4 mate. I have big hands so back of neck is probably not for everyone!
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:37 AM
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Put yourself in her shoes... She is going to a festival with a few girlfriends and possibly a handful of betas. She is not looking for love, she just wants to look good, have a good time and make some memories. Now, if you are good looking/ripped then her hooking up with her makes her look good. Beside that, you need to figure out how you will be improving her day. If you cannot make her day even more fun or give her an experience that will make a memory she can retell for months afterwards, why…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:31 AM
2

How important is flossing? Google it, it's essential. I have never however, held her head. Am i supposed to cup it? Back of the neck with your thumb in front of her ear. Gives you control of the intensity and puts you in charge of the kiss. You can then pull her head to the side when you go for the neck.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:21 AM
1

Well said. OP, join a sports team. Find a sport like cricket that involves a lot of standing and sitting around, low impact and where you can get to know your team mates. You need mates.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:17 AM
1

It's frustrating to see how the color of his skin is getting him more IOI's that should, on paper, be evenly split between us. What paper is this?
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:36 AM
1

Notepad and pen. Write a to-do list that has very specific tasks that are doable in a small amount of time. Cross them off as you do them. If you have a large task, e.g. redesign the layout of your room, break it down to smaller tasks. E.g. Pick up everything from the flooor Vacuum floor Put away all clothes Tidy desk Empty bookshelf onto desk, move bookshelf and replace books This way you will not be put off by large tasks as you can do almost anything on the list in 20-30mins. You also get a n…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:31 AM
2

Lick the back of you hand, wait for it to dry and smell it. Do you floss a couple of times a week? Have you checked you are brushing properly (YouTube)? Do you use a tongue scraper? Easiest way to make sure you are not going overboard with tongue or anything else is just copy what she is doing. Having said that you need to also be in control with regards to holding her head, moving to her neck, stopping for some eye locking, pulling her back in. They like it when you are in control but not every…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:26 AM
2

Someone like Archer would be a decent example. It's an exaggerated character but the take home message is that he doesn't treat them like special snowflakes. Regardless of whether or not they are babes or not, they get the same lip service.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:19 AM
1

The West Wing up until season 5.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:19 AM
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Short answer here is on point. Also ask about the father at the earliest appropriate moment. Good father figure = quality girl (usually). If she talks shit about her dad or says he is not around, red flag.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:19 AM
1

Just a part of life that a wife and kids are a boost in any males' career. It allows you to join a club/in-group of sorts.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:19 AM
2

On top of all the other contributors, I would add keep on quitting. If you slip up don't give up, just try and quit again. It gets easier each time so don't stop quitting!
/r/askTRP19/04/16 02:50 AM
2

What is your debt situation like?
/r/askTRP19/04/16 02:40 AM
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