Going on 16 here. Not sure if my situation is very common but I can't seem to find answers searching posts and google. My sexual education was very limited in younger schooling years. NEVER talked about sex to parents/friends/etc. However, when I was younger I went through the typical discovery of getting horny when I saw pictures of hot girls. I would get horny frequently back when i was 12/13. However I had almost no knowledge of sex whatsoever, didn't even know what masturbation was, so I never did anything with it.

Over time I started becoming uncomfortable with sexuality, ranging from sex jokes to talking about girls in general. I wasn't embarrassed about sexuality, just growing up I've done everything I can to hide and suppress it. In my mind I have sexual thoughts/desires but I haven't physically felt sexual desire in a very long time. Don't randomly get hard anymore.

Now at almost 16 I have never even ever masturbated. I have tried in the past, porn or not, it just doesn't do anything for me. I have a healthy lifestyle, eat really well, started lifting, get outside a lot, no video games, not a lot of sitting, etc. I also go out a lot more and have lost my anxiety for the most part. In addition I can get hard and have wet dreams so I am pretty sure the problem is not physical.

From what I've seen so far it is becoming common to have repressed sexuality. However I can't find any consensus on how to fix this problem. Not sure if this is the type of thing you have to see a therapist for. I really want to feel in touch with my sexual side again and I'm not quite sure how to bring it out, and am looking for any advice.

TLDR I have never even masturbated, my sexuality is repressed and I can't seem to bring it out