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Honestly, the sex isn't worth the "read my text. See! I told him i had a bf. We got drunk and he took advantage of me". Abort. Either that, or OP doesnt attract her and she's trying to avoid an awkward situation with a friendzonie.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:54 PM
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They wouldn't act entitled if that strategy didnt work.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:48 PM
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Nah. Always date up. Hot girls are self conscious too. Just cuz the body is an 8 doesnt mean her self value isnt a 6. Dating down is a waste of time. I always feel bad when i see a much more attractive than myslef guy in a mall with his bitchy 6.5 gf telling him off. Waste of potential.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 10:24 PM
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I've always felt this way. No matter how down in the dumps i may get about my appearance, i am always grateful i wasnt born ugly and female. I truely feel bad for them. Some unnatractive women 4's-6's have an entitled attitude to them to try and boost their perceived attractiveness and self esteem (which is doable with online dating thirsty men). But the 1's-3's, born with effed up facial features, inflated to obesity but their dumbass mothers at a young age, bad skin/teeth/etc....man i feel sor…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 09:43 PM
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What might end up happening is you'll continue to date women, looking for a relationship that works, and they'll krep letting you down as you say. But i wouldn't settle while you are young. Settle for that 3 green flags 1 red girl when you're much ilder and more experienced with recognizing "well, this is as good as it gets". Ut until then, dont deprive yourself from the opportunity to meet more women who potentially work well with you. You were right in not reacting impulsively. I wouldnt even …
/r/askTRP22/01/17 02:58 PM
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Then eat at only a 500 defiict. Its still porgress. Not cutting st all because of excuses wont get you anywhere. Also, start lifting. Also, 1 hour of elliptical before bed should add another 500 deficit. No excuses bro or you wont get anywhere
/r/askTRP22/01/17 02:10 PM
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How extreme does the advice of "just next her" sound to you? What is it you feel you NEED from this woman? An LTR which leads to marriage? What is it that you are afraid of losing? I'm of the opinion that "if you feel you have to train her then you've already fucked up". She either is or isnt ltr material. You might be too close to the situation to wee clearly. Some might say there's the option of demoting her to plate, but that often is poorly executed by guys here and they just end up continui…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 02:00 PM
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Also acrively trying will help motivate you to lose weight, or rather, not fucking cheat on your diet. It's easier to justify cheating when you have little social pressure because you can tell yourself "this only delays my weight loss by a bit". And its a slippery slope. In my experience, the less you socialise (or game), the less serious you cam get about achieving your fitness goals.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 04:34 AM
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You need to lose weight asap. Wasting time on any other "strategies" is mental masturbation. Get the weight down now. Its 99% of the reason you arent currently getting laid and you know it. Once that is done with you can come back here and start discussing strategies. Not that you will need them though since your boost in confidence will be enough to float you by then.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 12:13 PM
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That response is breaking frame. Just next.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 11:52 AM
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He will attract the mentally unstable and then complain all women are batshit
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 11:03 AM
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Unless you are deaf, you're supposed to listen for the songs changing
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 10:36 AM
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Honestly, the super like button is ultra sensitive. Im used to speed swiping because i can instantly tell if im attracted or not. I always seem to super like and you can't undo it. A better example of what you are describing os how women leave no bio on tinder for plausable deniability: "omg i cant believe facebook made an account for me. Im in a relationship. I didnt do it" or "just looking for friends"....on a hookup app.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:42 PM
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No matter how hard you try, your life will always be imperfect. Accept it. Enjoy it despite knowing that
/r/askTRP28/11/16 02:24 AM
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Think of life as a good time, not a long time. you seem to still be infatuatied with the unicorm ideal. "She doesnt have 'it' you guys!". There is no it. Im not saying to settle down. Just enjoy life day to day. today is the only garuntee you have (with a conscious acjnowledgement that tomorrow is coming). Date whoever and dont put this much thought into it. Stay safe and protect your assets against gold diggers. apart from that, you should be enjoying the good women out there. enjoy your life.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 02:10 AM
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First thing I would do is discuss your likely outcome from a divorce with a lawyer. The biggest reason for men fearing divorce are the legal implications. You dont have kids. Meaning this might all be easier for you. But im not a lawyer. Not are any of the internet bros on here. So consult with a profession to give you the reality of your situation. Since you actually got married, there might be financial implications. Since you dont have kids, there might not be any. Which reduces this issue to…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 02:03 AM
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Second try: Were you beta AF back when you were with this ex? Did she basically do/say stuff that would be considered abuse if the genders were reversed? She may have so much affect on you because she did back then when you were together. If she was a good gf and just left bc she felt she could do better, then maybe that feeling of not being good enough for her really cut deep. If she was a psycho bitch (usually what i guess the case is) and pretty much fu ked you up mentally in the past, that s…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:48 AM
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For like 3 generations tops then you're a nothing burger on peoples radar unless u cure cancer. Even at that, you still wont matter. Not saying it to be a downer. Nihlism can be positive too. Why I'm saying this to you is because i hope you arent sacrificing yoir personal satisfactionc in life to pursue an ideal that may not work out and ultimately does not matter. Just do what u think u need to to enjoy your life. Make yoir choices cautiously.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:43 AM
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I've found that attractive people can go pretty far on life with people only treating them nice. Maybe Pitt was lucky and thus not jaded about women. Or maybe he just believed she was the real deal. I honestly never know if i will be able to go back to actually feelimg adoration for a woman. Tis sad, bro
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:40 AM
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First time i heard that. I dont think im crazy. Not to women anyway. Am i mentally healthy? No. But it's personal issues like eating disorders, depression, body dismorphia. In contrast, crazy women throw tantrums directed at you and try and make your life hell ir you don't bend to their will, and threaten to acuse you of shit if you leave them. I dont think i attract crazy because i am, just think its low smv and self esteem.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:38 AM
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Post had no detail.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 02:32 AM
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To add to his point that most older single men are loser and not RP, The majority of married older men are happier because the unhappy ones got divorced!!!
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:51 PM
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The problem with beta marriages is that people (either guys or women or both) treat it like a tenure. They "just need to find someone to marry and settled down with" (read: someone i can guilt into putting up with me letting loose so i don't have to put in as much effort improving myself anymore). People today wanna get married so they can give up and let themselves go. Two people can PROBABLY have a good marriage if they continue down their path of self improvement. And you can probably avoid f…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:49 PM
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Not if it's free.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:44 PM
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Dunno what you should do within your job. But start applying to other ones ASAP. Worst case, you have a head start on your job hunt. Best case, you keep your job or find a better one. Good luck
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:43 PM
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It doesnt work in reverse unless you become significantly more attractive overnight. The only way tou can do that is ditch her, dedicate you life to becoming more attractive over a year, see her shock at how much you've changed, and see if that makes her want to fuck you (if she forgets about hownshe used to own you in the past). That's a shit ton of effort. And i garuntee you that if you followed through with it, you would be so busy fucking other women youd forget all about her. Whenever you'r…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 11:34 PM
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Acquire money. Spend it at a fertility clinic. Consider the cost worth it for never having to go through a divorce rape and getting to keep your kid no matter what.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 11:28 PM
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My sister and father are emotionally nuts. But my mother is a sweet woman. So far I'm 2/3 for crazy LTRs. I don't like those stats. I do not want to become like my sister and father. Although i know it's in me (the 2 LTRs brought it out of me a few times and i deeply regret stooping to their level). I always felt fortunate to be raised with such a shitty sister in that it set me up early on in life knowing that many women can be that way and to avoid them.... But it seems so far that I've been f…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 10:39 PM
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You're still butthurt. Doing that is breaking frame. You are showing you're upset. That you can't control your emotions. But hey if that's what you want to do tonight, i can't stop you.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 10:33 PM
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I prefer to build something that means something. Forget the hookups. I meant good luck with accomplishing that with your unicorn.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 10:31 PM
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Pm
/r/askTRP13/10/16 09:24 PM
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What should I do? Do I reply or just let her get a good taste of her own medicine? Lol. That will show her man!! /s In all seriousness, these are the potential reasons in my view: She was anxious to run into a guy she was flirting with while having a bf 1b. She prefered the safety of texting rather than being seen in public with u Autism What should u do? I believe that maintaining frame in this scenario is to not show you are butthurt about it. Pretend u dont care that she "oopsies! I brain far…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 09:23 PM
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It is only possible to accept that you are currently week if, everyday, you are working on strengthening yourself.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 09:10 PM
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I think your family life has seriously bruised your self esteem. Definately shouldn't be feeling down given your position in life. Your family has somehow fucked up your sense of value. You may need to pursue opportunities far away from them.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 08:01 PM
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What's been working for me is scheduling my breaks for when it's appropriate. Eg: buddy is coming into town to chill with me. Gonna take the entire weekend off. Better buckle down and finish all my work on the weekdays. This is the first weekend in a while i didn't use productively. Eg of what not to do: i have a lot of work on my plate but have a reasonable schedule to follow to get it all done. Instead of sticking to the game plan, i impulsively say fuck it and go out/break my diet/get high wi…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 07:51 PM
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You need to develop abundance mentality even for your social circle. If they are shitty, you dont need them. Focus on yourself. You can always meet new people and make new friends if you are a person worth respecting (Social Market Value).
/r/askTRP13/10/16 06:55 PM
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Text when you feel like it. Dont when you cant or dont want to. Dont overthink shit. Just stay commited to continuing to be the man you want to be.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:51 PM
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That's still shitting where you eat tho. I would take your advice a step further and say to only use them and their friends as social proof: social media pics of you socializing, events, and mayyyyybe a hookup with someone visiting from out of town. One wrong move and you could lose your good setup
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:48 PM
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Are you are you peak natural genetic limit physique-wise? No? Just lazy? Then you dont deserve (personally) to risk all the bullshit side effects of taking steroids. Get to genetic limit first. Not your half-assed limit.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:44 PM
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It's a shit test. But also a red flag. Shouls have never promoted her to anything more than a plate. Dont text her all butthurt about how she's bothering you with her behavior. Just drop the ltr. Consider her a plate. If she leaves, then good. Sounds like a chick who wants to have her cake and fuck it too.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:42 PM
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Dude. Not ltr worthy. Move on. Most like the only reason you havent is your lack of abundance mentality - likely due to an smv that could use some work.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:39 PM
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We all know that feeling from our pasts. My best guess at why they have that effect on us is because we are not proud of ourselves as an individual. We know we are flawed. That we could improve but are too lazy to. When a hot chick shows interest in us, it challenges our low self esteem: "if only i could get with her i would know im attractive" Avoid hee. Focus on yourself. Look in the mirror. Take photos of yourself. Do you like the person you see? Or do you see someone not worth respecting. So…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:35 PM
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However, I don't really resonate with casual sex, hook ups, etcs. It's meaningless to me and I prefer to build something that means something. You are still disillusioned. Pill is caught in your throat.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:29 PM
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There are plenty of attractive people who will be fully competent. Interview based on qualifications while keeping (secretly) in mind that the attractiveness of an employee (read: presentableness) subliminally influences a customer's decision. Do not hire an incompetent hot chick because it couldnhirt your business, especially if it's obvious to people why you picked her.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:27 PM
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"If that's what you want, i understand. I enjoyed spending time with you."
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:19 PM
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I spent a year doing strong lifts, guided by a strongman trainer, and went back to see my old friends in the summer: "yo man, i see you lost weight, you should lift weights, i think you'd look sick with some muscle. 3 months of doing a bro split: "holy shit man you've been working out. Don't get caught up in the circlejerk battle of which training programs are best. They all have their merit. Be honest with what your goals are and choose one based on that. If you wanna look like a bro, do a bro …
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:16 PM
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You lack confidence and are using your conclusion that "I'm just not as smart as other people" as a reason to hold yourself back. I'm not saying you should push yourself to get a PhD or anything. Stick to what you feel confident in. But most of your lack of confidence is likely due to shitty people surroundimg you making you feel low about yourself so they can feel better about themselves. Does this resonate with you?
/r/askTRP13/10/16 05:10 PM
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My father spent a week in a his military base jail for refusing to follow an order from his superior officer. He tried to get him to do a personal errand for him: pick up his daughter from college using the base's jeep and drop her home. He refused because it was muslim country where it's already technically illeagal to be alone with a nonrelative woman, it was technically illeagal to perform the errand on military time and eith their jeep, but mostly because he did not want to get nailed with s…
/r/MGTOW13/10/16 03:29 AM
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recently became exclusive You just became her plate. Congratulations.
/r/askTRP13/10/16 02:29 AM
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Middle east is riddled with women hunting for beta bux and thinkvthey have high smv because their only other competition are prostitutes.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 09:10 PM
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Many guys here call their dry spell a monk mode.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 09:08 PM
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Try and have a good time. If she's part of your social circle, try not to shit all over your dinner plate.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 09:04 PM
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Do whatever is best for your career.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:56 PM
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Sometimes pushing. Sometimes pulling.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:49 PM
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Dont fap. Who cares if you nut early by accident? Just enjoy it and fuck again after a snack. Enjoy yourself. Dont worry about her judgement of your performance.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:18 AM
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You can make way more money with a vagina by getting married. Hookers definately are not high smv.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:17 AM
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So? Just wrap it up. She's a plate. You don't own her. You rent.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:07 AM
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Really focus on lifting at this age. I dont think men should go to uni until theyre 21 with good muscle on them. Plus you'll know what u want to do
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:05 AM
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When disrespecting is involved, isn't it more dignified to just next? Edit: women will deny their plate status and try and manipulate a salvage job
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:00 AM
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You sound like my dad. To be fair, ive never checked out the married red sub. But i don't really want to put myself in that position ever.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:59 AM
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Dude. If its not now, she will try to pull this later. Prioritize YOUR life. Not hers.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:57 AM
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Lmfao. Yeah dude. Plate or next her. Sorry.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:57 AM
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When a chick throws an illogical argument at you for the sake of stirring shit up for no good reason other than they are bipolar as fuck and all-round a displeasure to spend time with. ...holly fuck. That came from a dark place...
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:38 AM
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Powerful men don't care to belittle. It's not a morality thing. Belittling is weak. You gonna make fun of the handicapped next?
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:37 AM
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I know that fit middle easterners fuck whoever from clubs (logistics are their biggest issue tho since they all love with their parents til forever) but then have virgin hijabi's set up to marry them by their mom's and aunts. Indians have it the worse because "their women " slut around then pull the post wall shaming their men into marrying them. Best case scenario for an indian is to white wash the fuck out of himself and forget his "culture" that does NOT apply in the west at all.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:35 AM
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Women arent complicated. Focus on becoming the most attractive you can and they become quite easy actually.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:32 AM
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Does a warm shower hurt, or can i do my thing in the warm water (shave, etc) then switch it to cold for 60 seconds and jump out?
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:30 AM
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Every girl ive slept with almost whispered to me as if it was some kinky secret: "i.....i like se-....i like rough sex.." biggest smirk ever
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:28 AM
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when i get married What? Fancy your luck better than B Pitt do ya?
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:26 AM
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Woah...
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:25 AM
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Hey man Lotta advice here. Marriage seems to be a tricky aubjecr if you've already gone down that path. My only advice is to rough it out. Keep progressing in your path of self improvement. The dread SHOULD change her tune once you're undeniably more attractive to her. I think that right now she recognises that you are beginning to advance yourselfnout of her league and this is a last ditch attempt to stop you before it's too late. Try and tough it out. This lazy attempt from her to stop you sho…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:23 AM
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I honestly feel bad for the guys who got married on this sub. My father doesn't understand why im so against marriage. To him, legacy is everything. I told him i agree but I'll go become a single father through a fertility clinic when i can afford it before i ever get married. He thinks that "you just need to pick the right woman". He thinks he has it all figured out because my mom is a decent human being. He doesnt know that his success in marriage is a fluke: He married a canadian Ukrainian wo…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:15 AM
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I have a feeling she hasnt been light enough to pick up for a few years.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:05 AM
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You shouldn't be upset. But, since you are, juat next. She's obviously trying to get an ltr out of you. You probably are withholding details from us and basically are treating her like a new gf instead of a plate. You definately are more attached to her than you should be a plate. In your case, yes. Next.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:10 PM
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Collect proof that she's stalking you. If it continues, a cease and desist (sp?) would be a first step. If it doesnt, lawyer up. But that proof matters. She sounds crazy. Meaning she could easily spew lies about you if go the legal route. So protect yourself.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:08 PM
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Want an example of a current true rp leader: V. Putin.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:02 PM
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So did hitler.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:01 PM
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The best way to overcome this backsliding habit is to force yourself to never break your daily errands (gym, work, studying) ESPECIALLY on a day you have sex. It's easy to tell yourself you deserve a break adlfter sex: break today from lifting, break from obeying your diet ("i deserve this now! Gotta refuel, amiright?"), putting of your responsibilities. Once you teach yourself that sex does not give you a day off from carving out the man you want to become, you will break the association betwee…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:55 PM
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You can go from dad bod to naturally fit-looking on steroids. Plenty of lazy men do that. But it's a dumb reason to expose yourself to the side effects of steroids. IMO, steroids should only be used if your HIGH-PAYING job depends on it: athlete, bodybuilder, actor. Doing it for purely aesthetic reasons is personal. But hopping on roids while you're still a skinnyfat chubster is downright retarded.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:46 PM
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Honestly, there is no need to confront her. She'll lie anyway. Simply proving to yourself that your gf is cheating on you should be enough to break up with her silently. What I just realised is that because she is a live-in gf, she may have similar rights to that of a wife. Which complicates things... Here in Canada, common law applies when u live together. My real estate lawyer was extremely firm with me when explaining how I cannot let any gf live with me, nor can I impregnate a girl who has s…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 01:38 AM
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She will likely claim someone stole her photos. Tell him anyway. If he/you smart, you could create a fake account with a hot guys photos and IM her. Get her talking to prove that its her. Eg: get her to decribe where she's from, what she's majoring in, what she likes to do/eat, what kind of work she does. Simply using photos of a profile is not enough to get cheating women to admit. They will hamster away and pull a "i cant believe you dont trust me!" line to turn it around on him.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:22 PM
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If you are good at following direction and need to be told what to do, then sure. Not all men like carving their own paths. It's too anxiety inducing. The army provides a structure that is similar to high school. Do everything we tell you and you will succeed. Also, must have no issues with lots of jogging. You wont last with knee problems.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:18 PM
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There are many things you should do to lose weight. However, if there is one thing that you, specifically, need to commit yourself to as a first step, it's this: download myfitness pal. Log EVERY SINGLE THING YOU PUT IN YOUR MOUTH. You don't even need to start with dieting. You dont need to educate yourself on nutrition. If you are feeling helpless and confused as to why you keep gaining weight back, it's because during those periods of weight gain, you are being IGNORANT to the calories you are…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:14 PM
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I dont think OP might misread into your post. Lift: YES. Always. But you cannot continue the same eating habits and expect to lose weight. However, liftimg SHOULD psychologically make you want to eat healthier to see better reaults to match all your hard work.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:05 PM
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The key implication here being that by 30 you are financially stable with disposable cash and time.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 06:09 PM
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I think that emotionally unstable people have high-seeking behaviour. That includes promiscuity, since sex is just another high.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 06:05 PM
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It's very true that, despite having having dated wonderful women for a few weeks at a time that were very interested in an ltr with me, I broke up with them a few months in. Instead, i have LTR'd very cruel women. Maybe I'm lookimg for a self-fulfilling prophecy? Maybe i spend too much time here on trp reading about the nastiest of the nasty people out there in the world (cheaters, liars, people stealimg your children away from you) that i default to picking women with those attributes. Hindsigh…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 10:28 PM
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What? No. Physical attraction is related but mostly seperate from being attracted to a man's earning potential. Older women set their "standards" to be men who can provide because when they were younger and dated hot guys with lower earnings it never paid off well for them. It's a classic line to tell a woman you arent interested in an ltr with that you "arent thinking about kids because you cant afford them". Men confident in their attractiveness dont need to feel ashamed if their career isn't …
/r/askTRP09/10/16 10:15 PM
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Raise your fucking SMV, OP! You are clinging to a bad relationship out of lack of alternatives.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 09:09 PM
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Personally, i think that if you consider a woman, in your own opinion, to be under a 5, then you shouldn't get invloved with her. Think about it... Under %50 is a fail. It should be a dealbreaker. If it isn't, then it's because you are desperate. If you're desperate, your smv is low. Raise your smv. Better to feel pressure now and improve yourself than lower your standards to below what you are happy with. It's on YOU to deserve the right to fool around with a >HB5.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 09:04 PM
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And yet i garuntee you she's fucked unemployed, directionless men in the past.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 09:00 PM
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Out of my 3 past LTRs, 2 of them were the type to divorce rape. One of them actually TOLD me she would,...in a matter of words. She used the example of "i want a ring!! (4 months into knowing her). And it needs to be at least $3000". "But what if we break up?" " then i get to keep it". " but why wouldn't i get it back to return to the store?" "Because it's your punishment for not listening to me". Realized she didnt respect me very much to have the nerve to not even keep her selfish ways a secre…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 08:47 PM
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I dont know what THE advice is since im a single 25 year old. But my best guess is: Invest in yourself: start with health. Always be working towards being in the best shape of your life. Don't let excuses get in the way. Without solid health, you won't last long in any capacity (work stress, relationships, life span). If you have a dead bedroom situation, 90% of the time it's because you allowed yourself to fall out of shape. Can you blame a woman for not wanting to be guilted into shitty sex wi…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:59 PM
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I'd love to have a daughter. I'd treat a boy or a girl exactly the same. I don't believe you can control exactly how your child turns out. All you can do is try and guide them the best you can. They will always end up forming their own opinions about the world which may differ from yours. At the end of the day, you just want them to live happy lives, right? I would love to be in a loving marriage. I just don't think this is the right era for it. There's a lot of inequality between the sexes. In …
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:38 PM
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Blowjobs are a sexual act bro. Same pleasure to the man Same risk of STDs. Dont kid yourself. She as much of a hoe as any other nonmuslim. She tricked you into thinking her pussy was higher up on the pedestal than other women. You got played.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:00 PM
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This is the correct answer. For some reason i have a strong innate desire to have children. But i definately dont want the risk of having a wife. So I've decided, when i can afford it, to go through a fertility clinic and raise my child on my own. Fuck marriage. It was for when people never slept around. Modern marriage is product of marketing and nothing else. There are no women with family values. With honour. Maybe a few unicorns here and there, but good luck finding those.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:56 PM
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Only tone it back if you feel your are putting too much energy into women rather than other achievements you desire in life.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:52 PM
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This advice minus the "wait it out" part. You properly included the essential part of needing to lift and eat properly to gain masculinity. But, to noobs (like me when i was 17), all i would hear from your advice is to "wait it out" and I'd filter out the other advice. Definately forget about waiting. You EARN masculinity in the gym. Start lifting NOW. Today. Get a trainer for the first 3 months to instill a lifelong habit of proper form. Age will not magically make you fill out. I felt the need…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:49 PM
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You made a mistake. You've learned better for next time. Move forward. I once had 3 plates on the go (first time in my entire fucking life that followed trp properly). The beta part of me really liked the HB9. Probably the most attractive woman I've slept with. She assured me for 2 weeks that she was really into me and wanted something more. So the veta part of me wanted to "do things right" and i texted my other 2 plates (HB6 and HB8) that it was over. 2 days later i get the dump text from HB9.…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:44 PM
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Soft next. She may come back to you looking to mend things. But strictly keep her as a plate and nothing more. The ltr is over. Don't break frame by getting pissed off and lecturing her. She'll never accept logic. Youd be wasting you time. Just be polite and firm that you arent available anymore for the ltr. Fill your time with self improvement and meeting new people You won't care in 3 months.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:39 PM
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Hairclubs are overpriced wigs. I tried them. Never felt so beta in my life. Less attractive and confident is a much better choice than falsely more attractive with crippling body image issues IMO
/r/askTRP09/10/16 05:35 PM
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What!? Those are desinged for post-wall women to find a beta bux....
/r/askTRP09/10/16 03:49 PM
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Probably helps her with homework and notes
/r/askTRP09/10/16 01:45 PM
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Online dating worked for me, but it was very hard to maintain my status that reeled them all in. At the time, i was in peak physical form, had an incredibly impressive sounding career, huge social network (by my standards)..but as soon as you meet some life setbacks ( unemployment, injury, depression), you're nothing yo those tyoes and of women. Go outside. Be social. Meet new men and women at the appropriate settings. Practice well-roundedness. Practice speaking with attractive women out of you…
/r/askTRP09/10/16 01:00 PM
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Typically you should try to meet up within a few days of matching. If they ignore you, soft next. Don't keep messaging them desperately.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:39 PM
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Or even avoid friends and family and just unload on a counsellor. Paid not to judge or spread rumours. It's sad, but it's the only sure way to keep your problems to yourself.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:29 PM
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With the minority of attractive women who do follow the traditional dating model (usually because of strict expectations from a large family with a non-western heritage), even THEY don't care about the man's sexual history. They honestly dont care about the double standard as long as they're head over heals for the guy. It probably makes them more attracted that he's fucked around whole they weren't. I have experience dating a muslim chick that didn't care that i drank or had fucked around. And …
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:09 PM
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Brah, cant you tell? He's alpha as fuck. He only comes here to ask questions ironically and tell us he's superior.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 10:54 PM
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In my opinion, conservative girls are the best because they're super worried about catching STD's from you and sometimes ask for the both of you to go thru testing before fucking raw dog (with contraception obviously). They are slower to get into bed with, but you can actually enjoy the sex and not feel lile youre giving yourself aids everytime. Slutty girls are good to go within the first 3 dates. But when you get the "you don't need to use a condom. Im on the pill/IUD" line, there is a 90% cha…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 10:13 PM
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Do what YOU want.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 10:04 PM
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I should move to Iowa
/r/askTRP08/10/16 10:01 PM
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Text message receipt. Good point.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 09:56 PM
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Oh. Never thought of that..... Actually, come to think of it, i probably did myself NO favours in the past when i "acted beta" to break up with crazy.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 07:08 PM
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The education bubble is eauivalent to the housing bubble. Society pushed for everyone to buy houses saying that it was the best investment to make in your life, and look what happened. University degrees are not what they used to be. Do not go inyo massive debt for them. Especially if you dont know what you want to do. My advice is to focus on getting work experience, lifting, educating yourself on what you are interested, commanding control over your personal finances first. Until you are 20. T…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:58 PM
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What is amplifying?
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:46 PM
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Havent met anyone i click with yet.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:45 PM
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Being healthy means occasionally taking diet breaks. But not constantly as you said
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:41 PM
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You are too emotionally invested. You will learn to expect the flakeyness of women in their 20s. Just te Akes experience.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:40 PM
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The beta plan is much better.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:38 PM
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Maybe ask about consentual threesomes. You seem to think there is a catch to her request. Only do what you are comfortable with.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:34 PM
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Dude. Why are you worried? She's not ltr material. Accept it and move on. You are likely only worried because you feel you have no alternative options than her. That's weakness. Strengthen yourself. Open up your options by raising your smv
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:32 PM
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You're not a sexual interest of hers at all. Accept it. Tutor professionally. Look elsewhere to get laid. Edit: and up your SMV. Dont even bother approaching unless you're at least a 6.5. Your success relies on you.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 01:22 PM
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Not in my experience. The 1st years with the highest GPA's go into electrical and mech. Electrical being the nerdier of the 2. Women flooded chemical eng a long time ago, and they are now flooding civil. Reasoning being that there is less complex math and ingenuity required to do well in those fields (more soft skills than technical skills). But to be honest, that doesn't mean chem and civil are substandard. For example, i chose electrical. Got a high gpa. But with no passiom to do hands-on tech…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 01:02 PM
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Mech is fine. You just must have some talent. Can't half ass your way to the top. If you are mediocre, you'll stagnate
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 02:31 AM
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Trp could be a respected field in sociology if it didn't have have so many beta internet trolls representing it.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 02:08 PM
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Real men value other real men. There is no coupon voucher for our respect based on your skin looking like ours.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 02:06 PM
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FOCUSING on your life because it's the one that matters
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:56 AM
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Do you only receive blowjobs with a condom on as well? Bc if not, you're kidding yourself.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 09:20 PM
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Could you get laid? Yes Is approaching women now before you are "ready" gonna hurt? No. It will help yoir motivation in the gym/kitchen and help your avoid cheating on your diet. If you were to adopt the mentality that you are going to wait, then you may become complacent...ive been there. I say start approaching now. The pressure will help you progress fitnesswise and being overweight right now while meeting women may be a godsend. It may help filter out extra cunty chicks (the self-conscious H…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 07:39 PM
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Could you provide an example of amplifying?
/r/askTRP02/10/16 08:44 PM
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Dude. Decide if she's a plate or a gf. I can tell u right now she's not worth investing in. So just agree with her desires to be casual and keep doing you. Nothing has changed in your life but having a plate. If it falls it falls
/r/askTRP02/10/16 08:43 PM
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Only time I've been accused of being gay was from women I later slept with. Have fun with it. Play it off with a smile.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 08:40 PM
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Personal trainer for the first 3 months. It's a good investment in practicing good form and discipline.... with lifting, you will want to start dieting properly because you'll start to want to see better and better results with all the work you're doing In the gym.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 08:17 PM
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I told myself that a few times in life. Fucked a few women I would not want to be caught out in public with (moped). But even after finishing sex, I felt disgusted with myself. Like I violated myself by going through with it. My thoughts were: " I should have just focused on upping my SMV until finding an 8-10....used it as motovation. Instead I risked stds for a lousy (somewhat disgusting) lay" Plus, in my experience, 8-10s are much nicer people to spend time with. They don't have a "omg, am I …
/r/askTRP02/10/16 08:13 PM
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Here is my theory: You aren't actually attracted to those girls. Yes, physically you'd fuck them. But you aren't attracted to their personalities because, naturally, they are a nightmare to date. You would much rather date an HB 7-10 who isn't trashy and actually comes from a good background. The reason you say you are attracted to these trashy women instead is BECAUSE THEY ARE EASY TO SLEEP WITH. They sleep with men much easier and that includes you. Also, they probably prefer your personality …
/r/askTRP02/10/16 08:00 PM
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Agreed
/r/askTRP01/10/16 05:41 PM
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Your plan to marry a unicorn from back home is exactly what OP from this story thought he was doing.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 08:31 AM
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what's funny is TRP is this young, hip subreddit with a majority of north america users, and all we see in our theories is how eastern, less politically correct theories a polish grandmother could lay on you in 3 minutes were true all along. Ask any elder outside North America and Europe and they will drop TRP truths on you unapologetically. Maybe just North America and some of Europe. But still. It seems that it is just US that aren't taught this shit by society. Everywhere else it is common kn…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 02:23 PM
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Ok, but daughters fucking red pillers increases their chances of getting pregnant by an absent father, completely tanking their SMV as a single mother.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 02:18 PM
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I always thought i sacrificed a social lofe for schoolwork. But in reality, i sacrificed a social life for staying home yo masturbate, eat shit good tbat gave me a shit body, and watch tv. But i always justified it as "i work hard to get good marks. I have no other free time" Even now, i justify with "im an introvert". When really i am a lazy shitbag who doesnt go out because he has a shit body. I was prtfectly fine going out and socializing when i had a good body at diferent times in my life. I…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 01:20 PM
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Good point. What i meant to ask is if women with small social social circles (introvert who cherrishes few relationships over an attention whoring extraverted woman) are more LTR worthy. Edit: furthermore, i find that it is easier to isolate a woman who doesnt have an army of cockblocking, attention giving people (orbiters, fat annoying best friend, etc) in her life. With an introverted woman, she likely doesnt seek out validation from multiple sources. She also has very few nonsense people in h…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 12:08 AM
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Once i shittalked a girl to my friend on whatsapp and somehow both screencapped it and send it to her. I was drunk. Just ignore it. Play it down.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:38 PM
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Meh. Stay on his good side and maybe there will be an inheritance in it for you. Think of him as a networking connection. Sorry you didnt have a dad though.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:36 PM
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Men have longer sexual careers. Men's youth and appearance is not as important as a female's. Female youth is gone by 30 in most cases, except for the genetically gifted. That's why they are such cunts in their 20s: it's the highlight of their entire lives. Men can have multiple partners easily and have children with them if they wanted to with little investment. Women with children can barely get dates. Men have more socially acceptable vices to partake in if they choose. If women do it, they a…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:34 PM
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desperate or drunk Yes, but sadly also this: If they have slept with enough men that never showed them respect or affection and finally have "learned their lesson" and want a "nice guy to settle down with". But by that point, you dont want their used up bodies touching you.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:24 PM
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I wouldn't do this myself, but do u wanna post a pic of yourself of an internet doppelganger so we can see if its all in your head or you're truely fucked. And btw, you can be alpha bucks as well. Some guys are just ugly. But confidence and success (money) will always matter more. So what if i woman sleeps with you because she thinks you are successful? You earned it. It's a component of your smv. The only tbing that would make you a beta bux provider is if you let her get her hands on your mone…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:22 PM
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Female birth control HAS reduced female pickiness for having sex. However, for settling down, everything you said has remained the same. So they get to have their cake and eat it too. Thanks, Science!
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:18 PM
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I am guilty of falling back into beta ways in LTRs with terrible women as well. For your iwn sake, your best move is to next her and rebuild youself.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:16 PM
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How non amoral of you
/r/askTRP28/06/16 01:11 AM
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I do care bro. I am in a similar position. Maybe worse. I essentially let my gf break up with me and place me in the beta orbiter position. My justification for putting up with it is that i lost frame extremely poorly once during an argument and i said (true) things about her and her family. Essentially ive been putting on a clean (beta) face these paat 3 weeks because I do not think that breaking up with her on poor terms is wise since i lost frame so poorly and said things (VIA TEXT) that can …
/r/askTRP28/06/16 01:07 AM
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You "messed up" by communicating too much. I only communicate when i want a crazy ex to let go of me and move on.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 06:18 PM
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It not all about pussy i guess. This sub seems to be heavily geared towards those placing value in themselves by getting laid. I do agree that getting laid is both enjoyable and a good sign you are doing well for yourself (since seduction involves being healthy in a well-rounded way). I think MGTOW is something i need next in my life. I dont want women to be the source of my motivation to get up and work on myself. But that high from good sex was such good motivation. Im not sure what else can r…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 05:02 PM
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I need to next my ex really fast. Only issue remaining is my psn account is logged in at her place.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 04:07 PM
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Oh yeah. I knew was nothing to do. I did cut him out. Just a disappointing story. And this place was the only one i could share. Some people are only kind to other out of weakness. If they had power, they would no longer treat others well. I guess he was an example. Ultimately, i dont think he fully grasped trp, despite appearing to. But oh well, that's his problem.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 12:14 PM
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There's not much OP can do but increase his SMV. Lift more, get stronger, become that of higher status. To leave guys like this in the dust behind him as he exits the stratosphere. What do you think?
/r/askTRP24/06/16 12:10 PM
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What he's saying is you failed by playing into middle school antics. Have you ever heard of the motherly advice when someone is bothering you at school to "just ignore them. They're only bothering you because they're jealous. And when you show them you're upset they'll keep bothering you. Just ignore them"
/r/askTRP24/06/16 03:49 AM
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I want to correct my advice a bit as well. IF YOU ARE NOT UNDER THE ONEITIS SPELL, you don't have to distance yourself from her either. She's an asset. Social proof that attractive women can be a part of your life. She will help a bit with the preselection process. I put that disclaimer in huge fucking caps because i was in that orbiter position as well (almost all of us have). My buddy suggested i soft next her but use her as social proof. He was right. I could have used her. Used is a strong w…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 12:35 AM
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Could you elaborate more on compliance testing?
/r/askTRP23/06/16 03:13 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP23/06/16 01:54 PM
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The best thing you can do is start dating other women. You don't have to next your friend because you're frustrated she's not attrscted to you. But you do have to distance yourself from the beta orbiter position you seem to still be quite firmly placed in. Sorry bro.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 01:54 PM
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True. I always did well as the mysterious lone wolf. But that ia ruined when you share too much about yourself and your story isnt all that cool.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 01:51 PM
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Change departments? Come on. OP shouldn't run away from his goals cuz he's being bullied. Short term: there's nothing he can do but maintain frame and protect himself legally. Long term: lift. Lift. Develops friendships with good people other than these eurofags. Lift.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 01:50 PM
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Yeah. But it also shows he cares. Thr story shouldnt matter to him, at least to his gf. She intentionally placed a shit test on the table. He didnt pass by maintaining frame. He sorta passed but reacted emotionally. Not the best outcome. But alsocdoesnt matter in the long run. He can always next her if things dont work out. Abundance man.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 01:45 PM
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Play the field outside arranged just to expand your options Go for college educated but very family oriented. Meaning her family kept her busy within the family. She needs to have seen college girls broken tradition in college and slutted it up and disliked that image and lifestyle. Going any younger is stupid because she will basically be a child may want to rebel at some point while you are married. 22 - 25 is beautiful. Do t go older or they're jaded. You are interviewing the family, not just…
/r/askTRP22/06/16 02:02 AM
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YES My father always told me that staying on top is much more work than reaching the top. I think burnout was a reason/excuse i used to fall back down to a lower state in life. I have been told this countless times by my father, but it really is: "life is a marathon, not a sprint".
/r/askTRP21/06/16 09:06 PM
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I was gonna tell OP it doesn't matter. But i like your answer better.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 08:33 PM
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I find forcing myself to live in the moment, often outside my confort zone, when i find myself realising I'm detached just works. Like most things in life (for me) it all comes down to bucking up and forcing myself to just do it.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 08:32 PM
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The real issue is that a man never learns the answer to that until he's already had a bad experience or 4.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 08:30 PM
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Options: Next her Or If you are so certain she is in to you, figure out alone time with her without it being a date. If she consistently wants to spend time with you alone, then it will develope naturally. If she doesnt, then dude she's only using your recent improvement to boost her ego because she knows you're into her. Nexting a girl shouldn't be sucj a big deal. But i get that you are only human.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 08:27 PM
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forget about women until Yeah pretty much. I'm in the same position as OP and it's not that i think my lack of employement will severely hurt my odds of getting laid, but that women are definately less of a priority at this stage in my life. I'm better off putting my time to better use. Lifting and determining my career path.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 08:24 PM
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I learned this the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:19 PM
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Aw man. You scared him into deleting his post. I wanted to see how dumb it was.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:18 PM
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The thing is, with those examples tou provided, they guys may suffer from having a smaller pool of women in the future unless they secure their finances for later when they are older and cannot rely on yourhful looks. Just an opinion. Counter argument welcome.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:14 PM
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When you are out of shape it screws up your sense of well being... it's like being sick all the time only you did it to yourself Oh my god yes. I backslid very far after making so much progress on trp. I went from feeling like a god to feeling so fucking ashamed and terrible. It all had tk do with fitness. I remember trying to hamster it being about "bro, i have depression now. I canr help it. Society needs to understand it's not my fault ive let myself go". But really it was my fucking health t…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 06:42 AM
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Yeah. OP is giving a guide on how not to be butthurt from a simple conversation by avoiding it altogether. She wants to tell you how you're not good enough for her? Excellent. Give her that closure she needs to move on so you don't have to worry about her beinf scorned and coming after you in some crazy bitch way that could inpact your family or career (sorry if I've lost all you non-crazy girl dating guys). Just node and agree. Even pretend to be upset about it. Shed a tear if you can. Letting …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 06:21 AM
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True. And thanks
/r/askTRP20/06/16 04:37 AM
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Dude. Ignore her. Everything else is a mistake.
/r/askTRP18/06/16 01:52 PM
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Yeah If you care then dont do it
/r/askTRP17/06/16 05:00 PM
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Nihlistic view: it doesnt matter what you do. I did this and i challenge you to do the same. Play into her game. Respond. Respond like a blue piller would. Talk about your life and give a good response like you would for a good male friend. Then watch how she doesnt reciprocate equally. You'll realise instantly she didnt actually give a fuck about catching up. She just wanted to check and see that you still care about her enough to share and be friendly. It's like a red pill sanity check. Predic…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:03 PM
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She's looking for validation. Wants to know you're on good terms. Do you care?
/r/askTRP17/06/16 02:15 PM
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I started recording my calls and sendimg voice messages (no chance of reviewing it before it sends) to figure out how shittily i was talking
/r/askTRP17/06/16 05:13 AM
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I think my new reason for needing to keep in shape and on top in everything in life is the fucking depression i get when i put myself in such a low and vulnerable position. Depression fucking KILLS people. I have no clue how i went from a new girl every month sucking my dick to fucking wishing i could kill myself just because of the simple detail that i was now in an LTR with a shitty woman and let myself go so far. And that depression thinking of "oh my god i have let myself slip so far" only l…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:24 AM
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This was a great post man. Thanks for referring me to it.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 04:15 AM
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I agree
/r/askTRP17/06/16 03:52 AM
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I do want it for myself, now. I barely evem think women are worth the trouble anymore. Despite a healthy sex drive, i stopped caring for seducing them. And yet now i still want to be my best self, for myself. So I might finally be coming around, psychologically, towards my best self.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 03:51 AM
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I feel the same way about linked in.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 03:18 PM
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Near quebec: issue ive found is language. Dont know French. Northern cities: ive been there. It's been changing over the past couple years. The white girls have stayed the same. But the natives have become more integral in the cities. Mostly men i think tho. What i have found is farm cities are key to fine white ass. Large cities surrounded by lots of smaller farm cities. Basically the closer you go to toronto, the more ethnic it gets. Only bad if you have a strong preference for white girls.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 09:39 PM
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This isnt even a trp worthy post. More like one for legal advice. Dude is living in danger by not doing anything. He could be next. Im not even exaggerating.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 06:29 AM
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I dont have fb anymore either, but, first off, you can limit what a person you add can see from your profile. Second, I never added personal stuff to my profile. You would never be able to find out who i dated or where i was at any time. I just casually uploaded a few pics i liked when it was a special occasion you want to tag your friends in and thats it. Facebook is what you make of it. Most people share way too much. But i find that the level of privacy a person has on fb is directly proporti…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 02:16 AM
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Problem is when you want children as a legacy. Need a woman for that. Only example of a true alpha i know who worked around that was C. Ronaldo. He paid half a million to hire a fertility clinic to give him a child in the only fool-proof way to conceive a child with absolutely no legal mother. If you make an aggreement with a women to carry your child and make her sign paperwork relinquishing all rights to the child, that can grt thrown out very easily in court. If pay one woman to donste an egg…
/r/askTRP09/06/16 11:27 PM
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Personally i found it more important to add them on Facebook so i could see their nonflattering photos people tagged them in. Tinder photos, like Instagram, are all cherry picked and not representative of what they actually look like. FB saved me from lots of wasted time. Additional tip: girls with tinder photos that seem average were ALL way hotter in real life. My theory is that average girls with low self esteem put a lot more time into getting the pictures juuuust right. While hot hot girls …
/r/askTRP09/06/16 11:18 PM
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Better answer: Doesnt matter. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 11:13 PM
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Two sides. Acting alpha: you arent supposed to come off as overly trying to act alpha. Act normal, but when you get shit tested, just stay calm and maintain frame. Sometimes when i see guys at bars or parties overly trying to act alpha i cringe hard. A friend of mine who i introduced to trp really absorbed it all up. He already was an advanced lifter, he just didn't dress well or groom properly, and he also had a fat-boy complex where he felt he was still unattractive, so he never approached gir…
/r/askTRP09/06/16 11:09 PM
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Yeah I'd take it as a complement. No need to rough up your looks just because you dont wanna attract gays.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 10:54 PM
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Same thing happened to me. I burned out after 6 months of success. And relapsed to MUCH more beta behavior than i ever had to begin with. I got out of shape (badly), dropped all my plates, LTR'd a post-wall psycho who was 7 years older than me (wtf) and slipped into a huge depression. Developed a drug dependancy. I can't give any advice about avoiding burnout. All i can say is that allowing yourself to burn out and just quit everything will lead to a terrible terrible life. I still havent recove…
/r/askTRP09/06/16 10:52 PM
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"My wife is clearly capable of murder. What do you think i should do guyyyyyyyz?"
/r/askTRP09/06/16 10:46 PM
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If its not too late i would take those birds to a vet for examination and tell them what your wife did. She'll get charged for animal cruelty. Way better defense in court to whatever psychotic story she might make up about you.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 10:45 PM
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I'm close to you're say of thinking now, minus the religeosness. What i realised was that spinning plates for the sake of sex was just as bad as having some sort of other high-seeking addiction like drugs or alcoholism. Sex became my new porn/masturbation addiction. The only different was spinning plates forced me to polish my SMV and maximise it. Maximizing my smv because i want sex is logical, but also dumb. I should have always wanted to be physically fit. Its a stronf character trait... To d…
/r/askTRP08/06/16 05:44 PM
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I guess i have no choice but to keep jugging along. I guess i was getting tired of always seeing red flags and discouraged that that's all i would keep finding in the future. I guess eventually I'll find someone with the least red flags, but i worry it will always feel like a concession.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 05:28 PM
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I've almost settled on this concept: If, in my lifetime i can't find a woman who ticks every box, i may accept a woman who's riden the CC if she Is disease free Demonstrates good qualities for raising children (submissive and nurturing), and Has superb genetics (mental and physical) 1, then i am safe physically 2, she will serve well as a wife and mother 3, will provide kids with great genetics that will have advantages in life over others I've ALMOST made this my new "settling" plan. The conces…
/r/askTRP08/06/16 05:22 PM
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Good tip
/r/askTRP08/06/16 05:08 PM
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I did. I was banging 60-40 splits of 8s and 5s. I always regret the 5s as not worth it. Had a rare 9 in there. But just because a girls body is an 8, doesnt mean her personality is tolerable. In my experience, 5s are no better. So i quit 5s because there was no point. I realised i had the same success with 8s. I dont think looks affect personality so i stopped hooking up with unattractive girls altogether. 8s and the rare 9 were just as easy to get in bed so i questioned why i would bother with …
/r/askTRP08/06/16 01:40 AM
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Caution: Some women dont actually enjoy the sex amd only put up with sexual favours in order to win you over in an LTR. The sex usually dries up after marriage or sooner. Now i know what you mean. That her being a bit prudish is a plus. But there is a reason she is prudish. Its up to you to decide if it's because she secretly has a low sex drive or is dropping wet for you but doest want to compromise ber morals. You mentioned frequent blowjobs. During those, do yoh get her off as well? If you do…
/r/askTRP08/06/16 01:00 AM
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True. There were times in my life that i only had money because i inherited it. I didn't consider having it an achievement. But its all the same to them.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 09:22 AM
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My ex was pretty obvious like this as well. She told her current bf who was an orbiter ready to let her cry on hos shoulder when i dumped her that "i am only with you for your future earning potential". Meanwhile, she's keeping her options open by chatting up all her exes.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 09:17 AM
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You talking about non-whites? God this sub has become shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:27 AM
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I agree But she gets 18 years of child support. At least in canada. There are online calculators. And to be honest, it's pretty affordable. Almost too affordable. CS payments in canada are pretty ok. Its alimony that will get you. But that doesn't matter unless you were dum enough to cohabitate with someone you never wanted a future with (i.e. didnt want a commonlaw marriage with)
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:26 AM
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Start right now. Not tomorrow. Good luck
/r/askTRP25/06/15 08:08 PM
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Dont listen to ppl on the internet. You'll figure it out. You'll know what to do when you do. Theres no guide to success booklet in life. Trp cunts are definitely not ppl to aspire to be. TRP has good beginner lessons like "get healthy and dont be a doormat" but once you've learned those its useless coming back here. Maybe head over to a more relevant sub like askmen or personalfinance related ones
/r/askTRP25/06/15 08:05 PM
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Yeah, the key thing is to become a person who does stuff out in public and doesnt just come home and watch tv. Hard to make the change but pays off
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:57 PM
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And shortened lifespan
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:52 PM
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Orals kill the liver
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:50 PM
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Nah. Dont do that yet. Get multiple second opinions before anything illeagal
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:40 PM
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Dont know why this is downvoted. If she fools around with him then gets caught for cheating, she could be the type to lie about wanting it.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:31 PM
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Forget her.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:27 PM
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Gotta look young yourself as well
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:25 PM
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Shes just not into you
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:22 PM
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When i wanna break up with a girl i tell her about depression. If it turns her off, OK. If she stays and is supportive, maybe she's a good fit for u after all. Dont lead with it tho. Wait til uve been ltr for a bit
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:21 PM
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Everyone here is right. They seeked validation. U gave it by responding. The fact that two girls did it to u should just enforce AWALT theory.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:11 PM
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Red pill needs a make over. More of this being a better person stuff. And less of the "fuck that dumb old bitch sucked my cock when i refused to let her pick the tv channel" bs. It sends a bad message to the youth that come here because they are lost and, in my opinion, keeps them stuck in the anger phase for much too long. Life is about more than slaying pussy you would never LTR with...although ppl start with that pursuit because it raises self esteem.....initially
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 12:57 AM
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This whole post was fucked up. Real AFs would not be on this sub. Period. Fuck me
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 10:20 AM
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"Maybe we could schedule a lunch meeting June 15th. Please RSVP my doodle poll. Regards, Boyfriend"
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 04:50 AM
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She's probably just a typical virgin afraid of the pump and dump. It's a natural fear. May even be indicative of a red pill women. But hey now, i know that's wishful thinking.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 04:48 AM
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Nice. Also, great careers and great business success is rare to be achieved by men as well, and also costs them sacrifices. But its easier for those guys to spend a tiny amount of time dating outside their busy work life to get a wife and family since, for now, women are programmed to hold that attribute very highly when selecting an LTR mate, so good point.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 03:59 AM
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Not disagreeing. Just talking about the laziness trap u can get into when you are comfortable in life. It's a fault of mine i gotta fix.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:06 AM
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There is no handbook on guaranteeing a happy life. Pursuing a bit of each (nabbing a good LTR, and building a career) at least hedges your bets. Also, ive noticed anyway that women who only have careers arent in the top %age of attractiveness anyway. So really, you cant blame them for doing what they're doing. They're surviving.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:04 AM
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Yea they can man. Single women with decent jobs arent single because their careers got in the way. That's just an excuse they tell themselves and other other people. Its usually their cunty personality that got in the way. Ive seen plenty of well rounded family women with good jobs. Meet better women.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 12:55 AM
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It is important. But it doesnt quite make up for the fact that they spent their prime LTR investment phase doing something/one else.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 04:59 PM
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Mayyyybe their professional accomplishments could be an indication of how they are responsible and not the partying slutty type (to indicste theyd make good mothers)..... As in, they are at least a run above the average bar sluy waitress.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 04:55 PM
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Easy there bud. Dont make the same mistake as them. Men have a prime as well. Dont fool yourself. I'd say its 25-35where you have thw best combination of looks and money. If u want a family life, I'd go after it then. If u thu k u just want to get laid casually, then sure u have til ur dick stops working, but trust me, shallow sex gets old. You'll want something more substantial and u have a reasonabe time frame to achieve it within.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 04:52 PM
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We as men probably do the same with regards to fitness. "I like really fit girls therefore I must get very fit. I personally want to get get fit. But when it comes to dating, the validation I get from banging hot women males me complacent and not care anymore. I feel like robert boratheon, the fat king.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 04:47 PM
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Sounds like the perfect opportunity for you to have the college experience now.... Maybe even drag it out with internships in between years. Best of all worlds
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 09:09 AM
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Easier for the girl to lose interest in u than deal with a crazy....
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 09:05 AM
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I am tall, but my dad is short and also a high earner. Every one of mg girlfriends comment that he's really attractive - in looks and personality.... In my entire life as his son, i have never heard a single word mentioned about his height. Not a single word. Not even a light joke or anything by anyone. Ive only heard things like "your dads so cool. Your so lucky to have your dad. Your father is a great man. Oh wow he has a cool job!". Point is that you are focusing too much on height. Yes. It m…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 09:02 AM
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Two things: 1) are you sure you want to get a second degree with such a high earning job already? Or are u wealthy by blood? Doesnt matter. Do what u want in the end. 2) i can relate to your comment about post wall dating. Forst off, u just said the girl u have a date with diesnt look good at all.... So dont go on the date! If ur not interested its a waste of your time. I also personally want to have an ltr with someone my age or younger, ut my last two were with 30 y.o.'s. I promised myself tha…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 08:50 AM
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I promise you, with time, you will look back at this post and smile. We all have a starting point. lift and eat healthy, make sure your are CONSISTENT. Not once in a while. Not one week on, one week maybe but im busy. Consistency! I find that lifting solves most guys attractiveness problem. You can learn all the pickup tricks in the book, but having a matured lifters body will help turn the boy into the man. Then women come on autopilot and you think of it less. forget about the girl. Future you…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 08:40 AM
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my accomplishments more substantial I feel really bad when women think that their professional development and other things matter to men... Its mostly attractiveness that matter. And i dont hate women. I see them as human beings with the same rights as anyone to feel happiness in life. Some truely dont know that their best chances of getting into a successful LTR is to get serious in their prime. They've simply believed too much bad advice from others of "oh dont worry about marriage yet. Youre…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 08:02 AM
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Because he doesn't want to
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 07:45 AM
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I seriously don't get this obsession with frats. Parties, sex, and some community service stuff: OK, cool. But for the most part, wouldn't being in a frat where you are ordered around to do shit be distracting towards your academics? I lived in a rez (optional in Canada), and I will admit that not living there would have made me miss out a shit ton. But I see all the benefits of frats in it, without being some upper-year's work bitch.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 09:00 AM
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Kudos to you for waking up so early to work out on your day off. There are lots of things you can do with your down time. Some people might say hobbies, and thats fine and all. Hell. You don't have to do anything productive and just relax - your earned it. But if its just that you don't want to want to keep living the lone wolf lifestyle, then I definitely recommend getting social. You don't have to meet girls for the sake of finding the one you're into. Just figure out ways to bond with/meet ne…
/r/askTRP07/04/15 07:23 PM
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I always get fatter with a chick. I know its terrible. It usually takes being single to get my ass into gear again, but I'm currently getting back into shape with a gf. As long as I don't bitch about myself nonstop to her, she won't notice (love goggles). If you want a pure TRP explanation: you dread game is weak. She has no fear of losing you and thus is comfortable enough to gain weight. Maybe you are too nice and smothering. I'm not saying don't be nice anymore. Just dread better
/r/askTRP07/04/15 11:57 AM
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What you did by entertaining her was nice. Saying you had to go early should have been enough of a signal to her that you're not interested. NC from here. If you wanna be a super nice guy you can text her saying you're not interested: I started out dating like that but then now I just NC whenever I want and say fuck it. You adapt to the way ppl treat you after a while
/r/askTRP07/04/15 11:43 AM
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It kinda makes you a master at spotting their selfie techniques to make themselves better looking eh? I grew up with an older sister so I had a head start at knowing who to avoid, but holly shit, fuck Instagram filters
/r/askTRP07/04/15 11:40 AM
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Hey man, haha this is a unique problem is having too many women wanna sleep with you, but I can understand what you mean now although I've never been in your shoes. I knew a guy who was naturally very good looking. Women would call him Handsome Andy because there were a few Andy's in the workplace. One of those. You may be too. My point is, that one day I was trying to get them into online dating and gave the advice that usually works for all guys. For eg: "dude, just swipe yes on everyone. Ask …
/r/askTRP07/04/15 11:34 AM
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Dude, just flake and stop chatting with her. Do update us with other things where you stand up for yourself in your life tho
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:20 AM
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TRP has great logic. Its just unpopular because of the terminology used. I personally came here, like many others, an angry young man who had just freshly been scorned by a woman. The hate speech was on par with my emotions at the time, so I kept coming back. At the same time, I was learning valuable lessons about life and what our expectations should be when dealing with women or anyone for that matter. "Don't be a beta bitch" applies to being taken advantage of by a girl as much as it does to …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:13 AM
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I just don't know how I can find a better girl. See dude. That's exactly the reason you have onitis. She's not perfect. Nor will she ever be into you (harsh, I know). But you HAVE to believe that you are worth more than being some chick's reject... I believe in you. Now go be the man you've always envisioned.
/r/seduction25/12/14 04:02 AM
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Wouldn't wealth help tho? In my BP days, I wasn't terribly BP all the time. In fact, I'm sometimes proud of myself for having my own strong beliefs about women and relationships that ended up lining up with TRP (thanks to having a fucking RP role model father). But anyway, I noticed that perceived wealth helped me get laid. I'm not saying it's satisfying to get laid because a girl is trying to turn u into BB, as opposed to them fuckimg u because they find u sexy, but sex is ae . no? Please expla…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 11:19 PM
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You can look at the first post I ever made on this account and feel firsthand the cringey experience we all have had. I was thinking of deleting it for a while, but i will keep it up on the off change I have a comeback story like yours. Thanks for sharing bro. And stay vigilant to not fall back into bad habits. It can happen to any of us. So stay on top of your game and keep being the man you want to be.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 11:01 PM
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But say you are a man who cares about having children eventually, as a sort if a legacy that you are proud of. How do you go about not suffering the negatives of traditional marriage.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 03:55 PM
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Thanks man. I needed that.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 08:34 PM
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Makes sense. Thanks. I trust this sub more than any other.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 06:23 PM
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Tinder shouldn't require that much effort in terms of creativity. This was my guide: Me: reference to her bio or just guess what she does for a living and sound sincere Her: omg good guess or im passionate in such and such Me: relatable reply Her: boring reply Me: suggest a meetup within 3 days If she stopa talking to u after that then whatever, she never would have. Usually the ones who reply agree. Especially of u suggest an interesting place and time. Thins out the herd to whos avtually inter…
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My father wants to get me hitched to any woman from his home country. There, cooking and cleaning are fundamentals in the life of any women (educated or not, working or not). So almost a trp dream right? I think your parents trying to get you hitched to a "better" family is a beta way of thinking and i would caution listening to them. You shouldn't be looking for a woman who dominant and unfeminine. That's such a waste of opportunity. Sure, you may find a woman who is a CEO and also a pleasure t…
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Insuting those weaker than you isnt alpha. It is usually behavior middle of the pack people do. Every notice how only smaller weak dogs bark at others? Larger alpha ones dont give a fuck about the presence of weaker dogs. They aren't threatened.
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By that logic: Life is like renting. You die anyway and all you had were experiences. You don't own anything you take with you to the grave.
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Well, no one is stopping you. I have a strong feeling if you go through with it you will be super anxious the whole time worrying about sides (which will occur). I have a buddy that went on a cycle and he said "its not worth it. You feel amazing while on and invincible. You see amazing strength gains but then lose it all anyway after PCT, which sucks. Everything feels tense in tour body and you're nervous wondering if you're gonna be ok or have a heart attack any second. Not worth it dude." Then…
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If you marry a women with a higher income than you, are you safe?
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What specifically is your goal? Are you under the oneitis spell right now or can you compartmentalise your friendship with her?
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