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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 91 | We (TRP) lost that one. | Red Pill Theory | En_sigma | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 02:19 PM |
| 48 | Aren't they gonna show his wife? | En_sigma | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/02/16 02:18 PM | |
| 30 | Red Pill Family - The Right Wife | En_sigma | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/14 02:28 PM | |
| 16 | Red Pill Family - The Right Wife II | En_sigma | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/14 01:50 PM | |
| 11 | They EXPECT your provisioning in the same regard that they expect the sun to come up. | En_sigma | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/15 02:58 PM | |
| 10 | Would You Die For Her? | En_sigma | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/10/14 04:44 PM | |
| 9 | Loyalty Tests | En_sigma | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/14 08:50 PM | |
| 6 | Mine has read a book or something. | En_sigma | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/15 02:02 PM | |
| 2 | Watching a couple of movies from The Duke "it's a man's world" | En_sigma | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/06/15 01:01 PM | |
| 0 | Two observations on a cross country trip | Field Report | En_sigma | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/14 05:52 PM |
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| 1 | [FR] Fathers DayI'm good. Turned my 12X8 shed into a woodshop and been working away. A couple of Saturdays ago, the wife had been out with the daughter and The Boy had been inside the house. When the wife got home she came to speak with me in the shed, pretty soon, here comes the daughter, and just a couple minutes later The Boy steps in. Instead of being in the 2300+ square foot house, every one of them was crowded into my shed wanting to talk to me AFTER BEING AWAY FOR A GRAND THREE HOURS. I still read the su… | /r/askMRP | 12/07/18 11:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Fathers DayYes, I am still alive.... My father passed as well and he also lived a thousand miles away. He would not care if I ever showed up at his grave - but only because that is who he was, not because there was any animosity. Father's day consisted of me getting a hand drawn card from my son, and a drawing tablet drawing of me as Thor from my daughter. The boy also got me a gift card to Home Depot and my daughter found a band saw at a church garage sale. Wife asked me to just buy whichever tool I wante… | /r/askMRP | 11/07/18 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Enter Chadupvoted...cuz I laughed... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/17 05:40 PM |
| 1 | And so my journey must beginI barely have time for my main - having an alt would be waaaay too much investment. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | And so my journey must beginI read some, but I normally don't have anything to add that has not already been covered. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/17 05:31 PM |
| 1 | And so my journey must beginThis is true, but when you velcro a SAR to the bottom of her car's driver seat in order to catch conversations you are not party to - that will not be admissible. And also needs to be kept quiet. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/17 05:30 PM |
| 11 | And so my journey must begin(yes, I am still alive) If she is a SAHM, you need to un-entangle your finances / bills. You need her off of your bank account and online bills and if she is not on officially on those accounts, make sure the passwords are secure. The old advice about consulting several of the best divorce attorneys in your area so that she cannot use those is still good advice. Sound Activated Recorders (SAR) are not admissible as evidence (and their existence should be Top Secret), but they can give you direct… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/10/17 01:54 PM |
| 2 | An email from the wifeHA! Gold. Genius points if you say "Drinks" instead of "Dinner" and when she asks who you say, "You don't know her." "HER?!?!?" "She's a feminist friend. We talked about positions...she said your's is wrong."" This is where she resembles Doc Brown's train with the door blowing off of the boiler, rivets shooting off the engine and the stack blowing red smoke....makes me chuckle thinking about it... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/05/17 06:46 PM |
| 16 | An email from the wifeFirst glance, I would reply with, "Gay." Since you are already neck deep in doing-crap-you-shouldn't (namely marrying a feminist lawyer), I would remind you that you cannot use logic with women. Stop trying to. Lastly, this is a stupid thing to argue over - even though you are married to a feminist. I tend to sacrifice a night or two to the god of frustration when faced with these types of arguments... Her: Feminism means this! Me (with half of a grin) ....feminism ought to be fixing my dinner..… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/17 07:51 PM |
| 1 | FR: "None for me, Thanks""can you rub my calf for me?" "sure, let me just drape it over my elbow...and just for symmetry, let's just get that other one over my other elbow...." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/04/17 09:24 PM |
| 2 | X-post from r/LifeProTips Stress Mgmt Lessons from a USAF fighter pilotdestroying something with a shotgun (not taking a life, of course, idiot) or emptying several magazines of your favorite M4/handgun/tec-9 is the best way to relieve stress. If you have never emptied a shotgun from the hip, you really ought to try it. Zen has nothing on firepower. Pro Tip. Hollering FUUUUUUUUU******* YOOOOOOUUUU!!!! while doing it reduces your desire to yell it at the boss for about a week. Remember, when you get to the point where you seriously consider strangling her - losing h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/03/17 04:16 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The Emotional Rollercoasterokay, this is why I don't post much. Cuz I can't see how anything you did helped. If my wife screamed "don't you dare" about anything I was planning on doing, you can be dammed sure I would do it. If she screamed that she would be driving into a wall cuz she was mad? The bank on third looks like it has pretty solid walls, and it should be closed by now. Or maybe, no, take my car, it is almost out of gas anyway and yours is full. Of course when the lights came on for me, I flat out told her I was… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/17 02:23 PM |
| 1 | The Ship Is On Course - But Not Sure Who Should CrewI have an adopted brother as well. He is a flat-out drunk. Not a guy that really, really likes drinking, just a raging, destroy the house, danger to himself and and those around him drunk. That is the one I can't afford to be around. The brother mentioned in my original reply, no, I have not shook him yet. BUT I also can't stop myself. He is tilting at the windmill everytime I turn around and swears that I am a fool when I point it out to him. My normal line when he starts to explain, is DON"T!.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/16 11:48 PM |
| 3 | The Ship Is On Course - But Not Sure Who Should CrewWhen I told my brother the constant schmoochy-whoochy baby talk with his FIRST wife was going to cause her to hate him, he told me I was an idiot. A month or two after his divorce, I was running the grill at a family gathering and he stands next to me for like 10 minutes not saying a word, until he mutters, "looks like you were right about that." Ya think?!? She actually said the words, "you aren't man enough for me...." Mic drop I asked him if his current wife was charging him rent since she st… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/07/16 03:08 PM |
| 1 | About shared DNA and "altruism"My kids are...less than fortunate in the genetic lottery. Their paternal GM is Lucifer's Daughter, and maternal GM seems to have had a nervous breakdown. Either side seems to prefer the "wounded bird" grandchildren. When you look up "wounded bird" in the dictionary, it might not define it as: drugged out, tatted up, lazy, criminals that are either getting assaulted or getting arrested for domestic violence. Poor wounded birds. EDIT: (SAVED TO SOON) The lone oak that remains standing after a clea… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/07/16 02:23 PM |
| 2 | To marry or not to marry? An ancient perspectiveI am plodding towards 25 years of bliss. There has never been uttered an utterance more true. I post, sparingly, at MRP because I think I can give a helpful, slightly different perspective, but my general position is that you are trying to A&A, hold frame and pass shat tests so often from the same female that you cannot (sensibly) next...that a married man must needs remind himself regularly that he is not in the hate stage anymore. The best news? With today's ability to "plan your golden years,… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/16 07:17 PM |
| 1 | FR: I DGAF but, my wife does.I swear they are all friggin nuts. At best, that is bi-polar. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/06/16 11:40 PM |
| 1 | [Update] "Main Event coming up tonight"Throwing the helm over and backing down on leeward prop can still only change direction a limited amount at a time. Especially with the forward momentum OP seems to have. Like you said, he will get there. OP, I do things different enough that I don't post much in order to not rock the boat. I don't necessarily hide anger at injustice. If answer B is drowning her in a toilet filled with your waste, then go with A - leave the house. But understand that the level of anger that drives you to serious… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/06/16 08:39 PM |
| 6 | [RP Theory] How do you make a woman feel desired without showing neediness?Yeaaaaaah.....this don't feel like something a guy would write.... So hot you can't help it? Sounds like needy to me. Cuz I just take what I want, even if I wake her up by flat out tearing her panties. Though, if I do it too often then she starts talking about how bad I want her...which leads down the wrong path. I usually answer that talk with, "Meh...I had a piss-boner. And since I was gonna have to get up anyway...." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/05/16 02:00 PM |
| 1 | [Update] Chimpanzees move into the savanna..I think the disturbance in the force that you are sensing is the gulf between alpha and sigma. And you are right, I don't like this game at all. BUT if I gotta play a game, I am going to own the damn meta. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/16 04:20 PM |
| 3 | [Update] Chimpanzees move into the savanna..I mean that her (every her) life model is based around the "you're too dumb to catch on to this" model. Tom Cruise (in whichever movie) once said, "You...complete...me." (Holy frack, did he just say that? HOLY FRACK are those TEARS in her eyes?!? HOLY FRACK WHERE IS THE EJECT BUTTON ON THIS REMOTE?!?!?!?) Jack Nicholson, in "As Good As It Gets," told Helen Hunt, "You make me want to be a better man." She melts, of course(YEESH!), and these are examples of women who so appreciate the fact that yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/16 02:01 PM |
| 3 | [Update] Chimpanzees move into the savanna..In my experience (your mileage may vary), a lot of women have idealized the high school boyfriend and the feelings he gave her younger self. In this case he would be a "situational" alpha in that he could give her the endorphin dump that pushes her off of the rails. In my opinion it is part of the haze that allows the big lazy one's to think that they are still attractive. He played into that, he had prior confirmed tingles, and that was all it took for her to fool herself into thinking he was a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/16 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't dread game work even more on mothers?Sorry, work and life got in the way. I have found a couple other references to Lucifer's Daughters, like in Rollo's "The Death of Rollo," and Vox Day's "Beware of Lucifer's Daughters" at alphagameplan. Most of what I can find is in regards to dealing with potential plates and even LTRs....BUT I can't find the article that explained it best in regards to your own mother being a Lucifer's Daughter. While you can infer a few of the problems faced by trying to dread a psychopath, the article was exc… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/05/16 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Shouldn't dread game work even more on mothers?I have two words for you: Lucifer's Daughter. Too many here know that term all too well. Nothing can change them. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/16 06:12 PM |
| 3 | [Update] Chimpanzees move into the savanna..This is why there is lingering anger. They won't LET you get past the anger. If I have to ask you to stop blowing up the family and wise the frack up, then you are not smart enough to NOT do it again in the future and I don't want you. The fact that you think I am dumb enough to take you back after 4 years of high-school-Chad pounding (she was testing the waters to see if you would take her back) shows me that while you still have no attraction to me, you do find my resources/comfortable living … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/05/16 06:09 PM |
| 1 | I would not marry again.If I known that I would beat so many odds I would have bought a lottery ticket instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | I would not marry again.It was kind of a perfect crap storm. If there can be one. There used to be a commercial where two announcers from a baseball game were commenting on how the umpire could remain so calm with a team manager going full ballistic in his face. The commercial then cut to the umpire at home trying to eat dinner and his wife was doing an identical rant in his ear. That is how it was for years, without the yelling (even blue pill I had never allowed that). I never apologized for anything, but I never sto… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/16 03:27 PM |
| 7 | I would not marry again.I am an approved member of the MRP - Married 25 ish years and together for 27ish years. I was 21 and she was 18 when we married. Many moons ago. There are a couple of things about my wife that I have not seen elsewhere (unicorn alert). She does not swear. Ever. I have never heard one (real) cuss word fly. Even before we started going to church, she just does not curse. It is the rarest (oddest) thing. Her mother does, her grandmother does, but she does not. In her teen years she got up and made … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 02:49 PM |
| 1 | FR MRP, Menopause and LoLibidoWe did not change from our original fast food diet at first either. We just added the juicing - and we still saw results. All juicing boils down to is getting your recommended daily allowance of fresh vegetables. It's just easier than sitting down and chewing all of that stuff raw. And it is in your system quicker without the fiber to slow the digesting. Once you clean out your system (can take over a year), then the processed stuff tastes fake. I can't chew most gum, or drink most sodas because… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/04/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | FR MRP, Menopause and LoLibidoJuicing is part of captaining. I researched what was causing the health problems, and found a way to fix them. No one in the family was getting anywhere near what they needed in natural vitamins, minerals, enzymes, phytochemicals, bioflavonoids, etc. - and no one was doing it because it is hard to do (and fast food was easier and tasted better). When I started, the only organic we could find was in Whole Paycheck...so we went with conventional then did a lot of washing and peeling. The science w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/04/16 05:07 PM |
| 0 | FR MRP, Menopause and LoLibidoI have said it before, but I have been juicing vegetables for a while now and it really has had a large positive impact on her cycle. I honestly don't know when it happens and have stopped tracking it altogether. Also greatly eased up on my daughter's cycle. I drink juice for breakfast and lunch, but the rest of my family only drink it in the morning and my kids sometimes eat breakfast after drinking it. Recipe goes like this: cucumbers, celery, pineapple, lacinato kale, spinach, carrots. That i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/04/16 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Starting again.You are not the prize in your marriage. Outcome Independence is severely lacking. If everything up to and including divorce is not on the table, then she will charge your boundary every time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/16 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Porn star Bree Olson hits the wall, cries that nobody respects her or wants her anymore.Wow...I did not recognize her and still don't she could be one of a million women, but something set off alarms watching her. She is not an ugly girl, but there was a problem I could not quite grasp... It was her eyes - they did not change when she smiled briefly, to when she was this side of sobbing, to just speaking to the camera. Text book dead inside. That might be damaging to a child. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Porn star Bree Olson hits the wall, cries that nobody respects her or wants her anymore.That is now at the top of the list...right next to "pull tab to open." | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Some small questions, refining the FrameThanks - while I read every day, I post infrequently cuz yall got it covered and the lack of value-added posts makes it hard to spot a flair! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/16 01:02 PM |
| 6 | Some small questions, refining the FrameIMHO this is a not-so-subtle reminder that she is in charge. It is similar to the telling you to do things that you were already going to do tactic. And while that may explain it better, any response is in her frame. So like everyone has said, there is no good response because anything you say IN RESPONSE TO HER STATEMENT will be either in her frame or butthurt denial. I like to flip it on her. I completely ignore her statement and say something like, "Did you wear that shirt so that I could see… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/04/16 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Shit Test via email. I win because I'm the boss and she knows it.Your surprise is understandable, but what you need to grasp is that this sub is about solid results. Your FR is more like celebrating a kid that "graduated" kindergarten. They wear robes and get their diploma and Mom and Gramma are beaming...Dad has to take the morning off from work and sit with the unwashed masses...It's kind of like that. And like moving from kindergarten to first grade, little things like properly answering communication need to happen - but they are not really moving the nee… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/04/16 01:54 PM |
| 2 | We (TRP) lost that one.I agree. I am not saying that the perfect relationship ever existed. Statistically speaking it had to happen by accident somewhere, I suppose. I am also not saying that we lost the war when women were allowed to vote, or suffrage showed up, or when they had to work factories in war time or when they discovered talk shows. I AM saying that the blue pill ideal has existed in every recorded point in history - perhaps from the very start. The guy who harnessed fire probably thought his genes would l… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 09:00 PM |
| 15 | We (TRP) lost that one.I've said many times that TRP is not honorable or fixing the problem, but the problem cannot be fixed. Plus, I am married 20+ to the snowiest flake that ever fell from heaven. When the wind blows wrong you tack, when there is not enough sunlight to grow you chop down trees. There is no fixing hypergamy. Take the world as it is. Change what you can, but don't waste effort on what should be. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 02:50 PM |
| 5 | FR: Itty Bitty experiment by the new guyAh, shark week...my old friend. I chuckle every time I see your name. I have not read much of the side bar. Rollo and Dalrock, I read regularly. If Saving The Best is not in Rollo's books, then find it on his blog. It's golden. The lack of reading is why my posts are scarce - AND I FULLY RECOMMEND READING THE SIDE BAR - but I CAN say that like lifting the gains can be small at first and then you get newbie-like big gains and she notices and THE MAIN EVENT shows up. EDIT: Your experiment caused a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/03/16 01:01 PM |
| 2 | JadedAgreed. I am not angry at garbage, nor do I blame it, for stinking. When you realize what your wife is (and also AWALT), and how she works, you have anger at having to go through so much for so long simply because you were trying to do what is "right." Even if you think you are over it, the state of women will disgust you for a while. Eventually, the pressure from backed up sperm will press against your logic nerve and you will be riding that bike down the mountainside with death at every turn a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/03/16 04:06 PM |
| 2 | LTR: I Think I Need To Miss YouMy version is: RUUUUUUNNNNN!!!!! Dey all bes crazy and you burned this bridge good!!! Make sure you find a method of BC you can handle in the future and save yourself grief. Condoms break, I get it, but I have never NOT known when it happened. It's like that Star Wars commercial where he says, "For years you have only seen Star Wars on the small screen...." It aint a mystery. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/03/16 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Wife just found out her best friend from college has been cheated on by her Alpha husbandBWAAA-HAHAHA! We have a weiner! I mean winner. This would earn the ugh! slap on the arm. So...win | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/03/16 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Married friends?Don't forget Lifetime Movie Network, Soap Operas, and Hallmark Channel! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/03/16 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Married Christian learning the ways of AlphaAlso married young and also going on 25 years. When my preacher is out, he asks me to fill in for him. When a friend's church was without a preacher, I filled in for several weeks. I am back-up for my Sunday school teacher and if we have a function at the office, they ask me to bless the food. And this morning, after hugging my daughter good bye, I walked out onto the back porch to leave for work and in passing, said to my wife, "She is not wearing a bra again, you need to talk to her." My wife … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/02/16 02:37 PM |
| 5 | Not married but, LTR issues, was wondering if anyone could help...Mansplaining....its what we do here.... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/02/16 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Not married but, LTR issues, was wondering if anyone could help...I am replying to myself (shameful, I know) only to separate these two thought streams. Because (by this time in my life) this would be flat out unacceptable to me and I don't care if I expressly made it a boundary or not. We both know what is going on here. In my experience, anything less than maximum dread is equal to the Latin "butthurtious maximus." Outcome Independence in its raw, unadulterated form. There are three times in my marriage (going on 25 years), that my wife has crossed that line… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/16 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Not married but, LTR issues, was wondering if anyone could help...You mean like saying, "Hey, saw that awesome picture of you on SnapChat! I was thinking we could buy a blinking neon "OPEN FOR BUSINESS" sign to help get things moving along. What do you think - front lawn or bedroom window?" and then laugh at her. I call it "Agree and Amplify with sprinkling of A$$hole followed by a nice Humiliation Sorbet." EDIT: If you want to go heavier on the A$$hole Sprinkles (ought to trademark that one), then you can go with "what do you think - front lawn or bedroom win… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/16 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Aren't they gonna show his wife?I stand corrected | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/02/16 04:24 PM |
| 7 | Aren't they gonna show his wife?I am going to guess that nobody's wife or daughters commented on how handsome Peyton is or how lucky his wife is because he is obviously a catch. Even though the odds of getting to where he is are slim - even slimmer considering his age and his history of injuries. No matter how you look or if you rescue orphans from burning buildings every other day, in the end it is the type of woman you choose to associate with that women notice. If I can look like her, I can be a (insert any man who gets nat… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/02/16 03:24 PM |
| 7 | Aren't they gonna show his wife?Back when Martha Stewart went to prison, when she came out she was wearing some kind of hand-knitted poncho-like thing made with a very specific yarn. I know this because I read the article detailing how the yarn maker had sold out of the yarn within hours and had enough back orders to keep them busy for 6 months or more. Yarn. And she was in prison. Makes no difference to them, she was on TV!!!! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/02/16 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Aren't they gonna show his wife?Nobody is more shocked than me, brother. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/02/16 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Quick focus postIf you get the chance, read Pill Scout's (www.pillscout.com) review of some lighter-weight nootropic supplements. I stack this http://www.powdercity.com/products/l-theanine-caffeine-capsules with this http://www.powdercity.com/products/artichoke-extract-forskolin-stack and get some solid results without suddenly deciphering cold fusion. Helps with my focus and drive. I think the L-theanine is the major player, but I have not experimented with removing the artichoke extract from the stack yet. He… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/02/16 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Maintain MRP's Standard9 comments so far and only one upvote...make that two... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/16 04:22 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Her response to OI after Hard "No"I would also counsel leaving but as an overall change to your behavior. Computer hobbies are great, but outdoor (or at least outside of your home) are necessary for being a better man. It helps you focus on being an individual and accomplishing things (masculine things) on your own and shows your wife that you are not tied down. (she has you pegged - unhinge her) One of my hobbies is hunting and there are few things that can compare to the look on her face when you wash blood off of your hands i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/12/15 05:32 PM |
| 3 | FR Shark week shenanigansDick, meet dread. Dread, this is Dick....yall should be friends. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/15 03:13 PM |
| 5 | The ignore game? How do you handle when she ignores you?Ive always said that the silent treatment was my favorite time. "Hey Dear Wife, can you do that impression of a cold wind blowing through my tomb?......yeah....that's the one...that is great!" EDIT Remembered one...She gets mad and my reaction is to make her so mad that it burns out the nerve endings in that part of her brain - cuz her being mad when she has no cause is funny to me. I go into some of my best comedy at that point. She has almost learned - now when she shows up mad, I just say, "O… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/11/15 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Race to the Top 2: Electric Boogaloo (The Red Pill Guide for Minorities)Did not even read. Upvoted for the boogaloo reference. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 02:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] unsolicited blowjob: 1st in a long timedeleted | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/10/15 04:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My Presence is ValuedSo southern that we are still fighting for our flag. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 03:23 PM |
| 4 | [FR] My Presence is ValuedEven crappy Dads are missed by their children. When they are small you are pretty much everything if you spend even a small amount of time with them. I have a couple of friends that work a lot or are gone for other reasons that I eventually ask if they can see how much "your kids miss you?" One friend works his butt off at a second job on Saturday and when his son got old enough he brought him along because he needed the help. It is not a cool job and they are both busting their butts, but when … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/15 02:40 PM |
| -1 | [FR] Wife asked me to make dinner for her...Yeah, chief, none of us do. But we did not search out MRP to brag on how shiny a horn our unicorn has, or how her poop smells like roses. You need to internalize that testing, both large and small, never stops. Ever. She may not be doing it consciously like when we rub up on their behinds, but small test accumulate, or snowball if you will, and then your ounce of prevention does not count for anything. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 06:22 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Wife asked me to make dinner for her...Pay attention to how she frames the question and then frame your answer accordingly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 06:12 PM |
| 2 | I used to hate PMSThe ol' standby....kitchen sink.....I juice, I don't make a smoothie out of the vegetables but I do make a fruit smoothie for desert or a snack for the kids - back to the juice - cucumbers, cranberries, celery, lacinato kale, apples, spinach, carrots. Put in as many dark leafy greens as you can stand. They seem to be the kicker in helping OP type situations. Fruit smoothie just seems to make em happier...for a while...EDIT: I use the Vitamix. I have not found a blender that does a better job of … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | I used to hate PMSI have been juicing vegetables for a while now. Wife's shark week lasts about a day. Got my daughter juicing over the last few months and the spousal unit reports that the daughter's has reduced by half. While both make the house more livable, I was really just aiming at the wife. Any usable advice here would be look into juicing vegetables...even if you just add it to your normal diet, it helps in a couple of important ways. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/15 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Shit test from the wife due to dread game??Not a lot to work with here - how long have you been working TRP, back story on relationship, etc. - but in context I think you did fine. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/09/15 01:12 PM |
| 3 | So whats our endgame?It is about making YOUR life better. She will be happier too, but women are made happy by the most illogical of things, so all you need worry about is what is going to make your life better. There are countless numbers of women (who can actually do math) that run the numbers and estimate when they can afford to live on their own after cashing in on half (or more) of your life's work and divorce you to begin their cat collection. Personally, I am convinced that women never take all the intangible… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/15 12:50 PM |
| 2 | Stoic Impasse. [Am I on the right track?]If she lasts a couple of weeks, then your dread is so weak she does not see it. And for some reason your weak dread ends when she apologizes. That is her dreading you, not the other way around. She needs you for something, gives you a fake apology, you break, she gets what she needs and puts you back on silent. That is a tough one to break, but you need to decide to either break her silence through scaring the crap out of her (clean your guns at the dinner table, sharpen your scariest knife whil… | /r/askMRP | 12/08/15 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Shit Test of the Weekend - Car InspectionI agree. I have no idea why the two of your are together. MRP deals with it because we promised to - LTR does not get that promise so there is no reason to deal with it. You are buying yourself trouble when there are better fish out there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/08/15 03:44 PM |
| 3 | How has MRP changed your work life?This is why it changes very little for most men. Just like putting on the THEY LIVE glasses - it's freakin everywhere. And unless you are Rowdy Randy and bent on tearing it all down, the best you can hope for is to not fall for the beta traps. For those not in sales, it just means that you have it worse. Mostly because you cannot laugh outright at the bluepills when they get a smack down from the top of the pedestal. You have to hope your office has a door to close so you can hold it in till the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/07/15 01:02 PM |
| 8 | The shifting wallOne more reason us old married men still read TRP sites. It puts names to stuff we already knew existed. This goes along side the fact that we are hearing from every corner of the globe and AWALT really is a thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 01:45 PM |
| 84 | Had a date with a gorgeous, Redpill textbook, wall approaching ex party girl. Admits to a 50 partner count.I've been married over 20 years (to the snowiest snowflake that ever flaked snow!!) but this is the version I give my son. Don't do, son, I know WE did it, but things are different now. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | My Morning UppercutNot so much. It is true that women think they won if they lock you down. The one that posted her conquest of Edelman, she was bragging that she won because he chose her. When the carousel riders post their trophy athlete bangs, it is just that - I won! I did it! I got one to choose meeeeee!!!! One of the problems with those posts is that the "women" no longer care what the particular conquest thinks - they can post intimate details that (pre-bang) the same women would not have before his choice … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/07/15 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Experience with menopause?Coconut oil. Your new totes bestie... Get her nutrition in order. We have juiced (vegetables) every day for almost a year now and I cannot tell when shark week happens. (she is early fourtys but showing early signs of crab-o-pause. Like sweats) The pill helps regulate the estrogen. Your other totes bestie. Mine got off the pill after my vasectomy and was mean as a snake. Made her an appointment with her dr. office the next day. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/15 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Funny/Awkward story from this weekend.By the time I was 14 my grandparents could not tell me from my father when they called the house (back when the house phone was the only phone). When my kids were little, I put them to sleep by humming while holding them. The bass soothed them and the vibration coming from my chest did not hurt either. The bass in a man's voice can be comforting, but it also can command attention. The outlaws joke (now) about me saying "that aint gonna happen" and when they do they try and mimic my voice. They d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/15 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Wife kind of freaking out, anyone ever dealt with this?I think that gave me a small stroke laughing so hard. Only one better is the one that Heartise puts up sometimes where she runs so hard on her wheel that she trips and makes 3 full rotations around the wheel before she is thrown off onto her back...where she lays there for a second trying to figure out what happened. These are such a spot-on analogy of female thought process that it kills me every time. EDIT: As for OP I can only second what is being said so far. Do not talk to her about what yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/07/15 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Sex with wife has become non existent and I feel trapped!Yeah, cuz everything is simple everywhere EXCEPT the UK. Your problem is you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/15 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Wife checklist advice pleaseSeconded. It is a fool's game. I dated her two years before I shot myself in the foot. She is ok now, but it has always been - and always will be - a daily shat test-o-rama. Having said that, if you are are dead set on driving off the cliff, then you need to give it more time. 6 months is not enough for all of the crap tide to roll in on marital bliss cove. If she gives the speech like the woman in the beginning of Red River then things MAY be headed in the right direction. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/07/15 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Help! Wife Sabotaging My Diet Shit TestSeconded...44 married 23. It don't stop. Even if they are really good wives - mine would not let me go to work this morning without making a delivery - they still do it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/15 02:10 PM |
| 11 | trying to fix DBBest advise, DO NOT SEND AN ANGRY EMAIL. The term is butthurt and you don't want to be that guy. Nobody likes butthurt. And the tingles are actively repelled by them (butthurts). Second best advise, see a lawyer. If you cannot see yourself moving out, yay for you. But SEE A LAWYER AND KNOW WHAT YOU WOULD BE IN FOR. Don't know your state or its laws, but moving in with a person may be considered married in some. Thirdly, you need to shock the daylights out of the pool and kill all the green compl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/06/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Sexually selfish wifeThe Dice Man has a line about "who's doing the banging here?" Red flag like a cartoon rake to the face on that one. That was a challenge to you and your position as Captain. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/06/15 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Entitled daughtersmakes a blue rainbow | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/06/15 07:19 PM |
| 1 | How to handle this exchange?yes and that would be the last I would think about it | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/06/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How to handle this exchange?Me: Hunh...I never ask the cute girl her name. Doesn't normally come up... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/15 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Leading by example backfireShe don't like you. If you are the butler and she does not care that you are working while she is sitting, and she has no desire to take care of you, she don't like you. You were a slob who married a slob. Now you expect her to jump up and clean because you do. That is not who she is, she is a slob. You can't throw the helm over on a slob and make June Cleaver out of her. You need to improve yourself to the point that she realizes that she is being left behind. If you want to clean, then clean, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/15 12:54 PM |
| 1 | How to confront passive aggressive behavior?If she can get herself and the kids up and dressed and fed and out of the house before you WAKE UP (?) then you are not paying attention. Expect the unexpected and if hugging your kids is that important (and it is) then be aware of her stupidity and you can anticipate it. When this stuff happens, get out of bed and hug your kids goodbye and then swat her butt and tell her you want steak for dinner. And then roomate her at dinner. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/15 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Watching a couple of movies from The Duke "it's a man's world"Yeah. He paddles his wife in McLintock too. And helps a young man paddle his (John wayne's) daughter when she really ends up needing it | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/06/15 02:22 PM |
| 8 | From no talking to snoopingvoice activated recorder in the house and if you can swing it, in her car. At the least you will know what is rushing down hill at you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/06/15 12:40 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Accidental dread became too muchIf a man feels perfectly fine about going to jail, losing his stuff and starting over with a record, go ahead and match intensity and rearrange her face so that from that day forward she is reminded daily. But after that all you got is an 8x10 cell and a couple of thousand of permanent MALE companionship for years. Always Be Recording. They push you into confrontation and then call the cops. The cops are ALWAYS on her side - UNLESS you have video/audio evidence. And then they are only 50% on her… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/06/15 05:35 PM |
| 6 | THE WALLWife goggles have saved more women from poverty than all of the programs ever invented. Beer goggles, however, are not so beneficial. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/05/15 03:47 PM |
| 22 | It's Official: Fellatio Is A " Benefit-Provisioning mate retention strategy" and " mate retention behavior" for women.I try to get out, but she sucks me back in... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/05/15 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Mother's DayI got the same sermon. Quotes include: "I don't know why when only one parent brings their kids to church, it is the mother." Well, preacher, sermons like this one are an excellent example why men don't want to come to church. Your inability to understand only adds fuel. Bonus points for those who can see that he frames her only reason for coming to church is for salvation and not family pressure, social event, or the fact that your church tells her she is right and her husband is wrong. " Why i… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/15 12:44 PM |
| 2 | NSFW - Intimate QueryThat is the risk you took when you married a woman that is fine with abortion. Whether you are or not makes no difference, but if you married a woman who was a cheater, you should not be surprised if she cheats. Same with abortion, voting differently than you, what she finds appropriate to teach your kids....it goes on. You have more / bigger problems to deal with. EDIT: lemme flesh that out more. It is going to be nigh impossible to get her into your frame if she kills every kid you get past th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/05/15 07:21 PM |
| 2 | For Fathers and Future FathersYou are fighting for two hours every night what the teachers plant for 8 hours every day. If you think that is a winning battle or that teaching them one thing at night and then encouraging them to learn something completely different during the day is a better way, then more power to you. Colleges offer dual enrollment classes for high-school kids, there are language, art, theatre, 4H (both ag and weapon), biology lab, etc. for all ages and some places have a home school group where Moms get to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/15 03:38 PM |
| 4 | For Fathers and Future FathersMy daughter made first grade in a private school and we decided to home school them. Private school only means you pay more for the same problems public school has. I took the cable out of their bedrooms recently and no phones or computers in there either. I get to see more of them and I see what it is that they are watching. We (me and my kids) have regular discussions about what words mean and why it is important to know not only what people are saying but what they are not saying. I am not sa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/15 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Question From an Unplugged Divorce GuyAnd let us not forget she went uppy-downy on X number (more than you know) of fellers in the mean time. I am not sure if the official position is 3x like over at TRP but she is lying about the number in some fashion. I don't care if she is one of those angels from the Axe commercial - you are buying yourself trouble. EDIT: Having read through OPs other replies here, I would add that if you can get her back in town without marriage, that would be the optimal situation. Kids close to you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/04/15 06:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to put downs?Ah...don't feel bad...my girlfriends can't do it either.... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/15 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else ever turn the wife down?nothing gives them quite the same shock as the word "no." And that kind of cold water down that back is some "resetting" gold. She would get used to it....still chuckling.... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/04/15 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Mine has read a book or something.Thanks for the reply - I will look for the book. If she hasn't read it, maybe she will mysteriously find it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/04/15 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Mine has read a book or something.Yeah, let's hope I don't screw this up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/15 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Mine has read a book or something.This is looking more and more like the answer. And no I did not ask her, cuz I am totally afraid of the jinx... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/15 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Mine has read a book or something.All of the advice I have written before is about how I make ME happy. HER being happy is not something I expected. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/15 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Mine has read a book or something.That was my first thought - affair. SAHM who home schools, you would wonder when she had the time, but it aint unheard of. I have been watching though. Nothing unusual in her patterns, the kids have not mentioned anything out of the ordinary, dinner still on the table when I get home, house, laundry, finances are the same, so if she is having an affair then she is some kind of secret agent ninja. She is very sensitive to my mood and not wanting to upset me. It is possible she saw something in a … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/15 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Mine has read a book or something.You know, Professor, I would actually be willing to call you right and just go with this one if...well, do you remember the cartoon where Yosemite Sam was tossed into the lions den and suddenly it's all roaring, claws, fangs and teeth in a whirlwind and him on top of it all whacking them with a stick until he makes it out and then stands there for a second wide-eyed and panting? For the first 15 years of marriage that was me leaving for work in the morning. To go from that all the way to having … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/15 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Mine has read a book or something.middle teens. We are talking about colleges, but she should not be worried about that right now. We have had a few conversations in the last year when she was chaffing against being led. I used overt dread some but it also got to the point where I basically said, "the church can hate me, but we don't HAVE to be married. If you want to go it alone, I am good with it." And for about an hour I thought I was free. But then I caught her adding it all up and I swear I heard the click of the lightbulb.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/15 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Mine has read a book or something.We are not large denoms. A good Sunday is 30 people including kids. The devotional would be fundamental in nature and I am leaning towards it...Hate reading those things but I guess I am going to have to. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/15 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Texting frequency, trying to improveHolly CARP?!?!? 3 DAYS?!?!? My wife would have called whatever the equivalent of the police is where you are if she had not spoken with me for a single day. My wife also emulates my text style sometimes. Most of her texts to me are answered with "k." When she starts answering my questions with "k," I just shake my head, roll my eyes and utter Al Swearingen's famous "loopy c*nt." It just looks snarky (an exclusively woman trait (or it should be)). To be honest, and it may be just me, the lack of … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/04/15 01:42 PM |
| 8 | BP friend found out his wife cheated on him. Classic example of branch-swinging. What advice would you give?I would not stay either. There would not be another time that I looked at her without seeing a tramp. Not only because a used woman is less attractive to me, but also the disrespect she has for her vows, and the fact that she thinks so little of you that she does not even need to apologize for it. Or tell you, but speaks freely of it with her friends? Nah. She is a leech. You gave him good advice though. Blue Pillers might not take it, but even before I knew about the manosphere I had more digni… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/04/15 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Very Early Main Event?So she took it back? If it is still on the dresser get it. You paid for it, gave it away, it was returned, it is yours. Pawn it and you are that much closer to the life-sized Millennium Falcon you have always wanted. (read a couple of your other posts...you may want to ease up on the star wars preoccupation....) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/04/15 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Very Early Main Event?Yep. My ring now. Room Mate Take control of the divorce actions. Don't "let her do it if she wants" - know what you are in for and get the best deal you can by being out ahead of the train. EDIT: That means she has no clue if the ring is still in your possession or pawned or sold or flushed or made into a new ring - she just gave her ring away and if she respects it that little, she does not get it back until she reaches full on "good wife" status. Double EDIT: Some people just go to the nuclear… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/04/15 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Field report, dread night results and question on gifting.No. Do not reward anything until you are where you want to be. When you reward her you are indicating that you are happy with this level of relations. And you aint happy yet. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/04/15 01:25 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else's SO do this?The big bottomed do-do dances her dizzying dance....while the male largely ignores her.... Love me some Attenborough. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/04/15 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else's SO do this?See - now that is funny. I'm going to guess that the downvotes don't understand you - ought you explain? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/04/15 08:17 PM |
| 6 | Does anyone else's SO do this?That is an old tactic used by women without a lot of brain power. The idea is to tell you to do something that you have already decided to do in order to condition you to do what she says without thinking about it in the future. It is that simple. You have the average AWALT at home. Congrats. The prescription (as in most situations) is dread. Silence. Go dark. No conversations until she figures out how to talk to you - which is quite enjoyable. The world can be an interesting place when you have… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/04/15 01:07 PM |
| 4 | Did I pick the wrong time to start?This. Tommy has the right of it. You can always go back when you hold the cards, but when she throws you to the wolves that will be the end of it. Always be recording. Sounds blue but it will cover your hinds quarters when the feces contacts the air conditioner. You are being a good husband and being a good Dad. Nice job. Just don't be a chump on top of it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/04/15 12:58 PM |
| 4 | Have any of you guys had a threesome with your partner and another female?Never been there - but was offered to be the second guy. Sorry, I have a hard time keeping a hard time when I am staring at naked dudes... The couple eventually got married and then....wait for it....divorced. 3 kids later. Not saying that it doesn't work for somebody somewhere, but I have never seen it work in the long run. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/04/15 06:49 PM |
| 1 | 1 month in, i just punched a hole thru a door.all of which can be done after the ultimatum | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/03/15 02:15 PM |
| 6 | 1 month in, i just punched a hole thru a door.Men are pretty simple really. We have a sense of right and wrong and we understand the necessity of standing for what is right. Carl in "Slingblade" executed a plan, knowing full well the consequences, because he knew it needed to be done. I am not advocating you put a lawnmower blade through your wife's head for throwing a toy. Cuz...some might see that as heavy handed. My point is that your wife has passed the agree and amplify stage. Of all of the steps that had the community up in arms last … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/03/15 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Even your daughters will reject you...In the old version of Red Dawn, the Colonel tells one of the soldiers that "all that hate is going to burn you up" and the soldier just smiles and replies, "keeps me warm." Anger can be useful and it is reasonable to be angry at this kind of foolishness. The entire universe agrees that you are not supposed to be a cuckold. It is the truth. When you see a kid who has no father (or a crappy one) and step in to fill the void, noble as it may seem, realize that no good deed goes unpunished. In this … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/03/15 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Male Ego in "Betas in Waiting"I'll bite. The male ego IS the red pill. I am more important than anything. What I want for me trumps what any woman thinks I owe her. That is the red pill. MRP is slightly different in that we (married men) are sacrificing portions of our money, time, security, and lives if necessary for not just a woman, but one we promised to stay with and any children we sire. Your ego takes a back seat and, frequently, a beating. That is part of the sacrifice. Particular to the mentioned post, the man in th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/03/15 04:46 PM |
| 2 | The Real Pussy Pass for Shoveling Snow, or Tinder Girl Gets Chumps to Dig Out Her CarYou are only a chump if you think that the very same women, AFTER YOU SERVED YOUR PURPOSE, would even piss on you if you were on fire. They think you are textbook chumpy, but if you are a self aware, by-choice chump then that is your prerogative. Altruism is a male trait. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 05:40 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Men, don't let your wives raise your boys.Women cannot teach boys to be men. That was a saying I had way before I discovered the manosphere. I have seen too many women treating their sons and daughters exactly the same - actual quote, "junior, go get me a plug! It's looking like a crime scene in the bathroom!" What young boy needs to hear that from his mom? She was proud to relate that story. "I'm going to teach my sons how to treat a lady!" You mean in case they ever meet one? Single moms are the bain of society, not the heros. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/15 12:36 PM |
| 6 | Advice on things to do with the family/Wife..Doing fun stuff with Dad is top of the line leadership. They get to see you interact with people outside of the family, they get to see you handle situations that arise and they get to know you better. And who doesn't want to get to know me better? Everyone should. When it is not cold or raining (less often in the spring) we either throw the football or have batting practice, or catching practice. I bought a pitching machine so we can cover the outfield. We have started making movies recently so… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/03/15 01:33 PM |
| 1 | FR: Tonight started out rough, but good frame pulled it through.HA! Few people make me laugh. Nice job. I was actually replying to both you and OP in that post. The confusion is understandable. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/03/15 01:22 PM |
| 0 | I believe the term is "nuclear"I'll let you know if I get there. There is no end to any of this and it is often repeated. I see it all day every day, in every interaction with her. When she is too happy I get suspicious. In The Firm, Wilfred Brimley's character says, "I get paid to be suspicious when I've got nothing to be suspicious about." It pays to be aware of the game. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/03/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | FR: Tonight started out rough, but good frame pulled it through.uh...no. I have never spun a plate in my life. Have slept with other guys girlfriends, but since marriage there has not even been a close call. The first point I make here is that women think we are afraid of their anger. Not only am I not afraid of her anger, I will make her so angry that her hamster burns flat up. I might not hear from her for a week cuz anger at that level changes the chemical make up in the brain. But like the Prof says, BOTH OF US actually live there and either she burns do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/03/15 02:57 PM |
| 1 | FR: Tonight started out rough, but good frame pulled it through.Now you've gone and made me cry | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/03/15 02:29 PM |
| 1 | FR: Tonight started out rough, but good frame pulled it through.First two sentences lead me to believe that you don't understand solipsism nor hypergamy. Second two sentences might teach her to think about the future before she carps on you. Last sentence leads me to believe you are delusional. You compromised. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/15 09:45 PM |
| 1 | FR: Tonight started out rough, but good frame pulled it through.This is my life and she is along for the ride. If dark triad leaves a sour taste in your mouth, maybe that sweet blue pill will wash it away. If you are worried about being pals with her, bending to her will would certainly work out better. RP is gaming your wife. Plain old fun of it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/15 09:42 PM |
| 2 | FR: Tonight started out rough, but good frame pulled it through.I would have made her juuuuust a little more mad and made her late for what ever she needed to go to. Same with not doing the uppy-downy because she had to get up early. She is on your schedule not the reverse. I don't offer a thing until she has to suck it up and either initiate conversation or the back rubbing happens. And trust me, she will eventually initiate because women can only do the silent treatment if it seems to be effecting us. When mine wants to break her silence I stop her right a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/15 04:05 PM |
| 4 | I believe the term is "nuclear"Your father dying is a heavy and completely raw time in your life. Especially if it was while he was (relatively) young and it was not expected. The best, and maybe only, thing a wife can do for you is behave like a concerned person. We don't need sympathy in the form of her telling me it is alright to cry (cuz we know it is not alright to do that), but it makes things a lot less stressful if they can be a freakin human being for a little while. Guys normally joke through pain. We even make fun … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/15 03:51 PM |
| 12 | I believe the term is "nuclear"My father died a year and a half ago. We argued almost every time we saw each other, but it was father-son stuff and each knew that the other loved them. It was really tough when he died. I was at his bedside when he went into arrest. A couple of minutes before, he had taken my hands and told me he loved me very much. I bunge up even now. Been married over 20 years, so I am fortunate enough to have a wife that has learned what I need her to do in these times. I normally have everything covered, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/15 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Stuck between my separated wife with 3 yrs old and my parentsIt sounds like you ventured too far into no-man's-land on the girlfriend scale. She is far too crazy for her (probably) low hotness score. Your situation is why we don't do that. Here is the advice - she is already burning bridges, she does not care to have you back. Stomp her toes. This is where you put your foot down and tell her how it will be from here on out. AND STICK WITH IT. You no longer need to worry about the relationship, she checked out loooong ago. Mom seems ok (untie the apron str… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/15 02:13 PM |
| 3 | how do you deal with the prospects of illness?Grab your illness by the cahones. Had the flu a couple of years ago and I was so weak I could not move. Good ol wifey took care of me a couple of days...and then came down with it. Her mother comes to help out...by then end of the day she comes down with it. Who sucks it up and takes care of everyone? The enigma sigma. Do you think either gave a rats backside? Nope. Just like providing for the entire family yourself, don't do it for the praise. Cuz a mouse could starve on the praise you will get… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/02/15 09:30 PM |
| 3 | I am an Aplha married to a strong feministNumber 4. She can talk all day to the wall for all I care, but it aint gonna be me. If you are letting her yap at you all day, you aint no natural alpha. You are around too much. Stop being around. Numbers 1 and 3. If she wants to discuss red pill tell her you are learning how to better handle your plates. Or you can tell her that after divorce you are planning on becoming a PUA. Every time she asks about TRP you piss her off. Hate is not the opposite of love. Outcome independence seems like you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/02/15 01:35 PM |
| 3 | They EXPECT your provisioning in the same regard that they expect the sun to come up.It should not bother you, but those who run blindly into the romantic fog of trinket buying should take note that trinkets will get you the opposite of love - indifference. If you want to see her smile, bully for you. Buy her a trinket. But be aware that while she might smile for a moment, quick as a wink she will be as sober as the trap door sound in Hang Em' High and you just worked your junk off for a trinket that got you a smile. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/15 06:35 PM |
| 2 | They EXPECT your provisioning in the same regard that they expect the sun to come up.This really should have been a pre-Valentine's day post...come to think of it, we really should have those every year prior to any major expectation of financing holiday. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/02/15 05:15 PM |
| 9 | Might be The Main Event tonight.here is my advice. dont ever be excited about a conversation with a woman. Any woman. None of them are done hamstering, any resetting done tonight will need to be reset a hundred times a hundred during your LTR. Decide to live your life and get the work done that needs to be done. Be happy to be a guy living a guys life. Be happy with yourself. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/15 09:15 PM |
| 6 | "Why women leave the men they love" by author W. HamsterI would disagree. Women know exactly what they want....MORE! You never fill that hole up....so to speak.... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Your attention is like oxygen to her.she cried three separate times before I let up on her last time. The final time she had asked permission to cuddle with me while I was watching TV in bed. I told she could as long as she was quiet and did not block the TV. She started the crying while her head was on my chest and I told her she was blocking the TV and if she was not quiet she would have to get off of me. Woke up the next morning (still dark) to the smell of her bringing me my favorite warm, fresh baked muffins in bed - promising… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/15 07:17 PM |
| 5 | Your attention is like oxygen to her.I can only add a few things to this post, but I think they may be important. Marriage 2.0 is not great for men, but nothing ever has been. If you want to try it, do so young and don't have kids for the first ten years. If she is going to put the screws to you, make sure that all you lose is your money. We can always make more because we are men and our labor is valuable even if nothing else we can offer is valued by society. Also, you can easily earn less and live off less as a single man. Not t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/02/15 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Seeking feedback on my latest shit testThis is the essence of why men don't like the red pill. It is so illogical. i would still balk at it if I had not seen it work so many times. When women allow themselves to be governed by primal feelings instead of applying logical temperance, then those women (AWALT) are completely vulnerable to anyone who knows 1) EXACTLY what they are letting themselves be controlled by and 2) how to manipulate that control. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/02/15 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Seeking feedback on my latest shit testI don't know. Her tone and the fact that she finished might mean that she was a little turned on. The slap was a little more exciting to her...perhaps... Either way I would have had a big ol handfull of her hair in one hand, pinned her with the other and finished as violently as I felt like. And I would bet money that she would have cuddled like a parasite for the next 30 minutes. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/02/15 04:21 PM |
| 47 | Game Show Moment of Truth: Woman displays AWALT and destroys marriage beyond repair.The video's comments are hilarious. Retards. As for the video - a woman that burns down everything for money (the whole while purporting that she is HAPPY to be getting all of this off of her chest) should tell you all not to get married. I am married, mostly happily (cuz AWALT), and when my wife asked my son what field he was thinking about and to keep in mind that it would need to be something that would allow him to support a wife and family...I laughed and told him not to worry about that pa… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Day Two UpdateThis one is tops for a reason. While I understand that YOU should not be going nuclear, SHE ALREADY IS. You gotta respond somehow when they are nuclear like that - and not responding is your response. IF and ONLY IF YOU HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE (and I am talking face to face here, NOT over text) respond with "if that is what you want." AND THEN LEAVE TO DO THAT REALLY COOL THING YOU HAD PLANNED ANYWAY. Otherwise, go dark (radio silent) until the next time you see her - no calls, no text, no email, n… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/02/15 02:18 PM |
| 3 | 4 Month Status ReportThe lightest form of dread is her realizing you could be happier without her. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/01/15 02:08 PM |
| 9 | Tiny Little FRTo be honest, she likes the red boxers better than these yellow ones, but I told her you are a terrible house keeper and she will just have to wait until you get off your lazy backside. She calls me "slammin' hot" not sexy. I don't need to try EDIT: You did fine. All of the above are for next time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/01/15 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Small survey of the married lads here.No divorce and nothing bad on the horizon (nothing worse anyway) Never been - I have been married for 23+ Would not trade my wife and kids for the world - but...and I tell this to all my young friends...Marriage is like a hot bath, once you have been in it a while, it aint so hot anymore. My life is exactly how I would have it be. Since my wife does not have a twin. It would make a threesome more plausible... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/01/15 07:13 PM |
| 73 | Sports team captain, ripped, good looking, glittering military career, new job as a stockbroker - STILL BLUE PILL ... dumpedThere is an old joke about women in an elevator and each floor has a more perfect version of man and they just keep going to the next floor to see what more there is - and here OP goes giving us a better joke. She had homey all nailed down and figured out. Now she wants to see if she can reach juuuuuust a little higher next time. I had an ex call me once blubbering about how horrible her current victim is and once I understood what she was saying - she was so unintelligible that I had to wait un… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Happy to see I am not the only one in this TRP boat.I'm with the Professor on this one. She needs to be gone. Yesterday. You have an absolute mountain on top of you and you are thinking about digging out from under it with a teaspoon. She is lying, cheating and has zero respect for you as a person. And zero remorse about it. For the sake of the boys?!? So they can watch their father get dumped on and then watch him take it like a dope? Would not be happening on my watch. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/01/15 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Hamstering about a guy raising his SMVSHE may not be attracted to muscles but I would bet she is attracted to a man that other women are attracted to. Only if she can prove that she can pin down highly sought after game. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/15 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Help with Dread GameI leave for dread. And go dark besides, no text or phone calls. Dread works well when you take the kids with you but not her. Mine love me to death (and who wouldn't?), and both go out of their way to spend time with me. Kids would rather ignore a beta schmuck Dad, but cool Dad is a lot of fun and does cool stuff. Which sounds a lot like what women want and when everybody likes you but her her hamster poops out dread. So when you leave, pick something you can do with them. When the kids have mor… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/15 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Follow upShe is trying to show you how bad off you will be when you two are divorced. Embrace the divorce and live your life without her. And have a ton of fun doing it. You would not initiate conversations with her if you were divorced - so stop doing that. It shows that you miss her and is feeding her agenda. Stop missing her - there are a ton of things you could be doing and would be doing if you were single. Show her that the divorce play was the wrong play because you would be so freakin happy if sh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/15 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with a combined shit test/loyalty test?Major shat test. Not loyalty at all. First, my job is important and this may help me - at the least it will keep my current position flowing smoothly. (for a woman not giving sex after making you wait for three years she should be less demanding. You are out of college and working and not getting any? Mine would go off like Shaggy and Scooby on the end of that runaway fire hose... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gAj-2guyVfE ) Second, and you can fudge this one, you don't know what I have planned… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/15 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Secondary explosions [update of Nuclear shit test]I can't tell you that all of my answers will be well received, but I can tell you that all of the answers come from MY concrete base. Each man will eventually reach a place in his life where he says, "That is enough. I am doing what I feel is right and I don't care who does not like it." Doing what YOU feel is right is the concrete foundation of your life from that day on. A man can venture out and help others, or try to please others, and he may well succeed, but if those ventures turn sour the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/15 02:09 PM |
| 2 | A new bigger generation of beta's?What boy WANTS to go to school? Even when they learn to enjoy the social aspect of it, what boy wants to be made to sit quietly and pay attention - by then it ends up being a means to an end. Girls....and maybe hanging out with the guys. When guys get together we don't sit quietly listening to one another. We play sports, or watch sports or work...etc.... School is torture and little boys have to be pushed into it. Dad is out killing the mastodon, mom has to push him off to school. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/15 09:34 PM |
| 6 | red pill wife during illness?You can't red pill drugs. TRP was born out of predictable AWALT patterns that are observable over time. Your wife is skittering all over the spectrum and knowing what to apply is tricky at best and it sounds like you could push her over the edge at worst. Your Red Pill Role here is to take charge on the research - food sensitivities, b12 deficiency, etc. and ways she can be made comfortable enough to make a stab at her life being normal. She knows she is out of control but she is doing it anyway… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/15 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Secondary explosions [update of Nuclear shit test]Her grievances will never change. They are programmed by society and her female family and her girlfriends. Then reinforced by her beta male family. And now here you go being the strong SOB that breaks her charge every time and she don't like it. All labor is tiring. Otherwise we would call it a fun hobby. The good news here is that as a man you can shoulder more than she can throw. It is less tiring if you can internalize that if she were to not speak to you for a week (which sounds like angels… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/15 02:10 PM |
| 8 | When (if ever) do you get angry with your wife?No reason to be angry at her. She does not have that kind of control over me. If divorce were to happen out of the blue, it might surprise me but it would not make me angry. I would cut her out like cancer and move on. It is more like disappointment. Not wah, this sucks, but more like the times she shoots herself in the foot and then looks up at me and says, "HA! How do you like them apples?!?!?!?" I have time, effort and treasure invested and when she does things that ruin that but ultimately h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/01/15 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Best response to "we don't have enough in common" test?You are right...I like all the attention I am getting from women who want me, you like bitching about marrying the perfect guy. I like hot girls who dress sexy, you like dressing like...well....that.... I like women who smile at me, you like walking around looking like that old man puppet from that comedy show. I think you need a guy who is frumpy, dumpy and grumpy so that yall can be the perfect match! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/15 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Your Girlfriend WILL Cheat On You! Unless...I'm here for the same reason but my views are different from yours. There was a post over on TRP about how sex with married women is amoral and its ok to have morals but don't push them on anyone else. I'm here because if that is true then an man that believes that sex with my wife is amoral is pushing that upon me. If it is not right in one direction, then in this case it is not right in the other. I only offer advice on stuff I have figured out. To do otherwise is guesswork. Last word is: abje… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/15 07:13 PM |
| 3 | A Wife Who's Always Late: Shit TestI concur. Sounds like she is the alpha here spending time with her friends and you are fretting over dinner. She can't complain about no dinner if she can't find it in herself to get home on time. No test - she has you pegged as her *itch. Good luck untangling that - but I would start with serious dread. [EDIT: and by "serious dread" I mean don't be there when she finally rolls in. Be at the gym or at the bar or anywhere else you want to be.] The kids might miss Daddy for a week, but they do tha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/15 06:53 PM |
| 5 | Your Girlfriend WILL Cheat On You! Unless...Your powers are weak, old man. I have been married 20+ and the only thing I get angry over is her trying to talk coupons over the game. Our differences stem from our positions on female morality. This is a common dichotomy throughout the 'sphere in that I am not the first, nor the last to have a problem with "Rollo's Rules." There are many posts that take on the fact that women do have moral agency, rationality, responsibility, and accountability. To deny that they have these things is to make t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/15 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Your Girlfriend WILL Cheat On You! Unless...You are feeding the If-She-Cheats-Its-Cuz-Of-You farce. You will never be king alpha, and on the off chance that you used these methods and became the richest, strongest, famous-est most exciting guy she will ever meet? Do you really think that would stop her? I will speak to Normal Joe...glean some essential knowledge from this site. There are things spoken here that WILL change your life. Should you improve yourself? Yeah, don't be the social retard with bad hygiene, eating your buggers in the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Your Girlfriend WILL Cheat On You! Unless...What women value changes from minute to minute. I get to live every freakin second of my life uncomfortable? How about I actually think about my self? Yay...nother chance to dance like a monkey or jump through a hoop like a dog. Live for what you want. The rest will sort itself out. Always a bigger value. Always a bigger alpha. Somehow the top alpha gets to cheat with all the married women within a 50 mile radius. Try to beat that guy and maybe you can save your marriage. No thanks | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/15 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with this shit testYeah....I usually give her the "nope" when she asks if I did things. Even if I have - it is not her place to ask if it is done. She forgets stuff, I forget stuff...unless it is life or death finance stuff, no big deal. You fibbed about something that was easy to verify. If you are going to fib, get better at it. And for the love of mayonaisse, you repeated "you're not the boss of me!" twice. You are officially a child. Lying poorly and stomping your feet is not red pill. Tell her no, Ill get to … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/15 09:17 PM |
| 3 | RP's working for me, having a blast!Grin. You know what? YOU'RE RIGHT! I'm so wrong I don't even deserve to be out here shopping anymore. I am going straight home and watch the game. That'll teach me! Then take out your keys and walk to the car smiling and muttering, I should be ashamed of myself, what kind of husband am I, no more shopping for me until I learn how to act! NOOOOPE! Don't try and talk me out of it! I am HORRID and I deserve my punishment! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/14 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Mothers-in-Law: How's yours? How do you deal?I should flesh out "cheap labor." Be the guy that helps without having to be asked. I was on the hwy a couple of months back and a poorly made wood splitter being pulled by a truck broke loose. Now I have eight feet of I-beam, welded to a rear axle, spraying hydrolic fluid, doing end-overs in my lane. Stopped with about a hand-width of space from my family-laden SUV. The guy behind me stopped and hopped out and stood in the hwy stopping traffic while me and the bone-head who owned the splitter w… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/14 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Our relationship is already really red pill, should I (23 f) introduce my fiance (23 m) to trp?You wanna make the world a better place? Take a look at yourself and make that change. Michael Jackson (RIP you creepy, talented bugger) Funkadelic said - Free your mind and your a** will follow. (though I am not calling your significant other an a** or anything) The point that is being made, and this is the answer we tend to give all women, is that every once in a while YOU have to change how YOU handle him in order for him to change how he handles you. TRP is MEN changing ourselves in order to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/14 01:59 PM |
| 2 | I know this is a test, but I am having a hell of a time figuring this one out.She just told you that you don't matter enough around here to tell her to step up. Maybe if you made 100k. NEVER LET HER SET THE BET. Even if you win, she wins. EDIT: And your wife is clearly evil. Keep an eye on the financials. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/14 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Mothers-in-Law: How's yours? How do you deal?My father and grandfather both instilled the idea of being cheap labor. I will help where I am needed, but not as the door mat. Strong captains make a strong fleet. Know what the fellow captains in your fleet will need ahead of time and fill that need with such quality that it surprises them. I have always felt that my mission as captain is that of furthering my crew by leading them in such a way that when they launch their own craft they can navigate this crap storm being confident in their abi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/12/14 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Can we establish a clear objective for this sub? Are we a safe place for men to discuss marriage or should we move over to /r/trp?The sub has changed in the short time I have been subscribed. I believe the problem is inherent within an open sub that seeks diversity. keyboard alphas, SJWs, covert subscribers that have no interest in the survival of the sub. If you're not alpha, I don't hate you, but you don't have any reason to downvote anything on a board that was created for something you don't like. Create your own sub and make your case. Women, got a question, ask away. BUT understand that there are no white knights her… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/14 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Can we establish a clear objective for this sub? Are we a safe place for men to discuss marriage or should we move over to /r/trp?Gonna second Ny here. The downvote is glaring proof of the problem of SJW, neckbeard, white knight and female participation. There is no reason for that comment to be downvoted when the same sentiment has been expressed repeatedly over several blogs within the manosphere. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/12/14 01:41 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on gifts? Ideas for good gifts?it's tougher on me because if I want something, no matter the time of year, I get it. So this time of year it is all about the kids. She is the same way, but she normally does not want anything anyway. If I want something, I mention it. This year I mentioned it by sending her an email with a link to the mini-sd card I wanted. Not subtle. I am getting her a book that she wanted, but also a shirt and sweater combination she can wear to church and show off...the woman aint hurting for anything. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/14 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Marriage Monday - 12/15/14My man the Christmas Oak. I don't like mine enough for three days (unless they own nice hunting property) but props to ya. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Need help with wifes mother awkward situationMy answer is getting down-voted quickly (for which, I care not), so this might only be seen by you, dear cegh, but I am going to throw some next-level wall of text at you. I am going to answer in a way that differs from the normal Reddit format. Like FB, the design of this forum is that of brevity, which fits today's culture in that having the attention span of a gnat is normal and even desirable. It is not. So when people can say don't be a jerk on a forum spawned from "Chicks dig jerks," or wh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/12/14 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Trp lingoDalrock 16 commandments of poon Rollo Tommassim- Rational Male | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/14 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Need help with wifes mother awkward situationIf she wants to make nice, let her, but I would not make that first step. She ended it with cussing you, let her figure out that she was wrong. Marital bliss is great. But you let Mom in law walk over you once and she will do it every time. Stop it at the stupid stuff so she is aware of her hurdles when she thinks about trying the really dumb stuff. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/14 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Need help with wifes mother awkward situationHer house, she wants to be rude, then that is her choice. She wants to play clink Nazi, more power to her. You do not have to be there though, that is part of being a host. Understanding your guest's participation is not required. If you are not a good host, your guests don't need to stay - or come back. You are not being a jerk by not clinking a glass. That is stupid. If a person cannot keep a civil tongue, you do not need to sit there and take abuse for such a foolish and trivial matter. Being… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/14 06:41 PM |
| 1 | So I need to introduce MRP into my marriage but...I am not sure if this is a real post, but I am willing to suspend disbelief at this point. You can't fix this long distance. All of this will have to wait until you get back. If you wanted mr fix it, you should have married mr fix it. You cannot make a man learn that stuff - He is a Marine so he has talent in something, but not all of us are McGyver. If you don't feel right directing him in the bedroom, tell him how hot it is when he does x. And a woman screaming "HARDER!" in the right voice wil… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/12/14 04:46 PM |
| 8 | (Daily) [UPDATE] The neverending narrative of the headstrong hamsterSounds like you found your weak spot. Better hope she doesn't. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/12/14 06:43 PM |
| 8 | (Daily) [UPDATE] The neverending narrative of the headstrong hamsterNAH. She wants the narrative. No way. Pulling the moves and then shutting it down WILL NOT HAPPEN EVER AGAIN. That was dirty, underhanded and disrespectful. She'll get respect when she deserves respect. As soon as you responded with email she says you have time to email. So it is time you stopped doing that. She is going to hammer away until you respond, be tougher, no matter what. When she complains you are not responding, and then dumps all over you when you respond, it is time to respond less… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/12/14 04:37 PM |
| 3 | I game I like to play...If you have the right relationship, those kinds of games can be fun. Especially when you are across the crowded room and she texts you to get her something and you catch her eye and waggle your eyebrows at her and she get the look like she wants to punch you in the arm. Then she looks around carefully and points them in your direction. Games between a husband and wife (and just a few friends on the internet) are part of a good relationship. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/14 06:35 PM |
| 3 | [UPDATE] The continuing saga of the headstrong hamster.This. Imagine you told her that you would come get her out of the hole she dug herself, but first she would have to have sex with you. When things got this bad I stopped answering her calls. And when she said, "I hate it when you ignore me!" I shrugged and said, "imagine how it will be when we don't live together." Scary and awful, but the point needs to be made. BUT the advice already given is sound - Rome was not built in a day. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/12/14 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Loyalty TestsIf your wife is not the type of women you feel like standing up for, do it anyway in this particular situation. Even if you are not on speaking terms with your wife - as long as she hears you do it. In the same way that they remember that thing you said that one time and use it in an argument three years later, they will remember you stood up on her side between your Mom and your wife. Not that I care about points, but standing up in this situation will put off loyalty tests for a good while. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/14 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Loyalty TestsI've three different kinds of simplicity. The one year my kids went to private school the first time we had a parent teacher conference for my son his female teacher said that he was a great kid but sometimes when she was standing by his desk he put his hand on her butt...at this point my wife and the teacher are looking at me. I smiled and said, "I guess he likes you." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/14 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Loyalty TestsMeh, not typical, but you do have to have a mix when you are married. Nuclear sure changes the landscape quickly, but at least you can rebuild the landscape the way you want it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/14 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Loyalty TestsI clearly wrote that I did not yell. You wrote that I did. it aint me, chief. This was more of a post describing the existence. Promise I'll give more examples when I see em. I did not go into details on the loyalty test because I can't AND it was already a wall of text AND the only thing pertinent to the subject was the fact that I was reacting to a situation that I had second hand knowledge of - and the second hand knowledge came through my wife. The polar reactions here are I take her word or… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/14 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Loyalty TestsNot eloquent enough? That is what those tests are. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/14 01:45 PM |
| 9 | How does Red Pill respond to massage requestsIn front of the kids - Me first. You aint done yet. You missed over here. You call that massage? Alone - sure take your clothes off. EDIT: this is my condition. Good luck warding me off when you are naked, by the way I say all of that in order to discourage the "on demand" treatment. But when she has a need, like when I see her neck stiff, I rub sometimes without being asked. And I am pretty good at getting out catches and knots, if I do say so myself. She does not have the strength to get them … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/14 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Can someone explain to me the difference (if any) in how fapping everyday causes testosterone loss but sex every day doesn't?I think it is less interest in dealing with women when you have hot ones on a screen begging you to give it to them that is the main point. If you don't "shake hands with the unemployed" as often, you are more likely to approach the living, breathing, warm, soft ones. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/14 09:00 PM |
| 3 | how to deal with the "red week" when asking for intimacy is "beta"It's Shark Week around here. And if you are doing it right, things may slow down when she is cramping like she has Ebola, but otherwise, if your attraction is up, business as usual. If she is using it as an excuse, then you have to increase your attraction to her. Though I call it Shark Week for a reason. Sometimes it is better to go to deer camp that week. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/14 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Denying wife cuddling and affection when she's been "not in the mood" for several days.Yeah, no interest in me, no interest in being around you. I can have a lot of fun without her. DO NOT sit on the couch (even if there is a game on) so that she knows exactly where you are and exactly what you are doing. Go watch the game at single homey's house. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/14 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Denying wife cuddling and affection when she's been "not in the mood" for several days.Dude, there is fishing, hunting, exercise, shooting guns, hiking, camping, dirt bike riding, and yall got a gym somewhere, sports bar game watching, soup up the hot rod and tare-ass around town have a blast and do it without her. Come back grinning and don't tell her why when she asks. Tell her if she wants to join you next time she will have to be a whole lot nicer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/12/14 07:22 PM |
| 6 | What's wrong with dating single moms?Wasn't it complete before she got rid of the Dad? I am not looking for "Instant Family - Just Add Dad!!" I am looking for MY family. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Successful Men in LTRs: how did you meet your SO and keep her loyal?Nope. One time before me - not just a bunch with one guy - ONCE before me. And it took him a year of talking her into it. Using RP terms, he had a bunch going and wanted to add her to the harem. Next time she saw him he was with another girl and she was devastated. Swore off men. Met me a week later. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 03:16 PM |
| 9 | Successful Men in LTRs: how did you meet your SO and keep her loyal?I was out with a buddy walking through a mall. We walked past where she was working, I made an amusing comment to her. We walked a few more steps and he said watch this and turned around and got her number. The next night (roomates) he calls her. She asks for me. Year later I ask for her hand, she agrees. Felt as easy peeing in the shower. Her mother says she needs to wait, so she tells me we need to change our plans. I tell her, you are not marrying your mother, you are marrying me and you are … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/14 02:45 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The Grinch arrives earlyMan, I would have been all agree and amplify and thrown out every single thing that looked like Christmas. WEEEEEEEEEEE!!!! Then told her not to forget the tooth money. But I think you did well. Scarce is A answer. When they say that aint the way, then you know you are on the right track. Shark week is supposed to be starting soon at my house too, but with the juicing and nutrition scheduling that we are on, the duration has reduced drastically. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/14 08:22 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Fill your wife with lust.No, it does not. It means that a man should not accept lower quality affection just because it may be the only affection he will get. This is referred to as "outcome independence." And rewarding a wife's less than enthusiastic behavior only encourages more. I would not call her on it, I would just show disinterest in accepting the peck, but the logic is sound. She will try and call you on it and that is fine because we want them off beta game. You need to break through this repetitive shat test … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/14 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Fiancé discretion issuesI Went through several stages. Weight loss was the major contributor, but then juicing the right stuff (red cabbage, beets, celery, pomegranate) and the right supplements (B12) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/14 01:42 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Fill your wife with lust.Yeah, this is closer. Spurning the ones she would give is also startling to them. So when she makes kissy face don't go in on it. Women are all about making us lean into them. Don't do that even with kissing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/14 09:10 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Fill your wife with lust.It ends up pretty good in the last book, but the "big last scene" that Jordan had in his mind from the beginning is a little anti-climatic. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/14 09:04 PM |
| 16 | [FR] Fill your wife with lust.I honestly mean no offense, but she is not hot for you. Or not hot enough. Yet. Keep working on bettering yourself. Make yourself scarce. I have employed several nights in a row after work not coming home til I know she will be in bed and leaving early in the morning. And going dark. No matter what, when she texts or calls, you are too busy to talk. When you show back up, lead off with your "fancy footwork" and see how that works. If it don't work once keep it up because she will get to the "I d… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/14 08:07 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Fill your wife with lust.There was a quote from a fictional series I read. The Wheel of Time. Not red pill, in fact rather beta, but I like the writing style. Dance with a woman and she will forgive you. Dance well and she will forgive anything. I don't dance. But if you substitute kissing for dancing, I think you will be a whole lot closer to the truth anyway. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/14 08:02 PM |
| 8 | Fiancé discretion issuesAsk her flat out if she is doing it, let her lie to your face (and take note of how easily she will do it) and then tell her good because if I catch you doing that, or if I catch you lying to my face it is over. AND DON"T MARRY A WOMAN WHO TALKS ABOUT THAT STUFF TO EX_LOVERS...OR TALKS TO HER EX LOVERS!!!!!! EDIT: I have had the same type problem in the past and I can tell you I found a solution real quick. Last thing - you don't need to marry a foreign woman who stays up late drinking and phoni… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/14 02:30 PM |
| 8 | An ongoing success storyI wish I knew how many hours of my life I have spent reading the manosphere. Some of it is garbage, but after some fine sifting you can find nuggets of truth just about everywhere. Some use the this power to enjoy the decline. I just use it to enjoy my insignificant (to everyone else) life. I am happy with being married and that is all that matters. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/14 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Been lurking trp for a bit, however I'm completely new to mrp... Where the hell do I begin? Is there some sort of outline? Before getting married to this chic I was set in my alpha ways... however, I feel myself slipping and lord knows I don't want that. Any help?And don't forget to read dalrock. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/14 02:18 PM |
| 8 | Conversation, firmness/sternness taken defensively.I tell her, very simply, that I am not being mean at all, I am telling her how it is so that there are no mistakes on either of our parts. But if me singing it will make you feel better about it, then I can throw a little jig together, jazz hands and all, but that wont change the words. And it aint how you are saying it. It is what you are saying that she is unhappy about. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/12/14 02:15 PM |
| 4 | Just swallowed the pill: Nervous but determined. {long}Read Dalrock too. He has some extremely valuable insight that will help you navigate the minefield and explain what is happening and why. You have read some, and established a small amount of dread and have so far seen the good results ( uh-oh...what the frak is this....). She noticed a change and suddenly when she crooks her finger you don't jump. It will start with her wondering what is wrong and will morph into her chasing if you start small and build gradually. Keep doing those things that k… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/12/14 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Did I do this right? Shit test.Going to shamelessly reply to myself here (again) and say that the very first thing she will do is try to derail you. We can't afford it, we make our decisions together, then I will do xyz....blah, blah, blah. This is her trying to see if you are bluffing. (I knew he was too much of a pu***). DO NOT BACK DOWN. When she caterwauls about the money saying we can't afford it, shrug and calmly say, "maybe and maybe not." Then go back to watching the videos/ doing research. When she says we make decis… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/14 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Did I do this right? Shit test.how about going to a bike shop to look at a new motorcycle? Or the sporting goods store to looks at guns. Both of those things strike fear (and tingles) in wives. And it makes her wonder what you are thinking. New skis if you are in that climate, a fourwheeler if you are in the desert, a surfboard if you are on the coast. Dude, there are literally dozens of cool, tingly, free stuff to start on. Gives you a chance to shop for what gathers the most tingles. You hit on 4 of those things inside of t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/14 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Just wanted to say.I'll tell you, I was just as frustrated as the next man. I had no clue as to why the things that I was doing were working and so angry at the shat tests. I was the same as yall. I had been reading Vox through WND and had seen the Alpha Game link a million times and one time, when work was particularly slow, I clicked on it. HOLY CRAP?!?!? THERE IS A WHOLE FREAKIN COMMUNITY OF GUYS THAT KNOW ABOUT THIS CRAP!!!! All of us were aware of the "chicks dig jerks" meme, but some of us were not willing t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/12/14 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Great start, but losing momentumGolden. At 41 she does not want to see another divorce and she needs to see that she is real fortunate to have locked you down when she did. Finding examples of post wall divorcee's that are having a tough time of it should not be hard to find. Weave that into conversation subtly. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/14 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Is marriage counseling a good idea? I feel like I know the answer but...Saw this over the weekend and have not had a second to respond to it. Not that I am needed but my ought-2 is worth anybody else's I guess. As many have already stated, MC is about making you both completely equal. Which is not possible and only twists your relationship more out of shape. And will NOT make your wife happy. Except for when she holds the therapist's opinion over your head for the rest of your days. THAT will make her slightly happy. Society is equal to what the therapist will say. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/11/14 01:36 PM |
| 3 | FR: 10 week progress reportyep, when that happens the confetti shoots into the air, party horns.....just don't get caught up in it. And yes, the relationship never arrives at the fairy tale "I love her and she loves me." Never. From here on out you are telling her you are going to love me the way I want to be loved. Not literally, of course (gasp) but that is how your mindset will need to be. I gave her the 50/50 shot she wanted and she stunk up the room, now we do this my way. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/11/14 04:17 PM |
| 5 | This is a story about how AWALT.I don't know, I get the impression she is telling him that it may happen in the future, she would never tell him, but she would feel REALLY bad about it. She is just another "the past doesn't matter" bone-head and "don't judge me!" Nope. Bad judgement, no honesty, not taking responsibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Tips for avoiding the starfish?If what you are saying is that even if her heart-throb, perfect celebrity showed up even he would not get through the rationalizations, then there aint a soul on this board that can help you. My point being there is a threshold to get past here and you are not. My other point was not to pattern your sex life after TV it was to plant the idea in her head that there are other ways of having sex. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/11/14 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Beta behaviors as a reward for good behaviourMine does a whoooole lotta stuff right. Therefore, she can run the finances and I check, just like any good captain, with what she is doing when I need money for a larger than normal need/want. When everything is going right, she gets whatever piddly thing she wants - new book, out to dinner and I think we are getting a couple of new kitchen appliances before the Thanksgiving gathering so that she looks better for her family. These are no huge things, just day-to-day, make her life smoother and … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/14 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Tips for avoiding the starfish?For whatever reason, she is not turned on enough. When her brain is swimming in hump juice there is no stopping it. "Meh, I'll let ya more often" definitely shows her attraction is still too low. Maybe you are way too early to be getting that kind of attraction. It does not turn on like a switch with many women. Some are slower. Sometimes you throw comparison dread around. Where you are watching whatever TV show and they "get busy" you say, "Wow....she is not just laying there...hunh...you think… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/11/14 09:43 PM |
| 3 | [MRP Theory] The Main EventYou held all the cards because you would be fine on your own. Boil down every explosion and you will find that sentence. This is the essence of dread, of outcome independence and it is the essence of the red pill. They HATE that you will be fine on your own, without them. You do not need what she has to offer and that turns the tables from every other beta orbiter she has ever known (before marriage). She cannot string you along with smiles and winks and arm pats, so she goes to the big gun - sh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/14 01:49 PM |
| 1 | How does Pregnancy affect Sex Rank?IMHO a normally deranged, non-pregnant, low-level chaos woman is predictable and red pill men can manage that level of chaos. Pregnant women are unpredictable, and it is hard to manage the pregnant level of chaos. Take what I say with a grain of salt. Men on this board have never met your wife and only you are faced with that particular brand of crazy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/11/14 01:47 PM |
| 1 | She won't back downIn your situation, I would say Christmas is right around the corner and laptops are in the 250 range right now and the iPad was at least 400. She can look for a job after Christmas. Take the holidays off. I don't believe the iPad problem. I use them for just about everything from remote desktop top to VPN to server maintenance in a pinch. They are just as easy as a laptop - maybe you could get her a cheap blue-tooth keyboard. Just "hers" means trouble. The desire to spend "our" money, which she … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/11/14 01:32 PM |
| 2 | How does Pregnancy affect Sex Rank?Aint read the book. But, good NIGHT, that thing sounds complicated. Since you are a good father to several kids, you know that women freak out when they are pregnant. Happy, sad, horny, cold all at the same time. It is like God's warning to men. Applying all of this to a pregnant woman is asking to have your berries blown off while you are sleeping. A pregnant hamster all hopped up on estrogen and then negged and dreaded then DHV'ed equals rabid hamster and I can't even begin to guess at what th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/14 08:34 PM |
| 2 | She won't back downshe can say it's ours when she contributes. "Ours" does not mean void of responsibility. Do yall not have a computer at home? If you do I would wonder where this new found desire for a laptop comes from. Make your stand and hold the line. No more dates - if she cannot act like an adult, don't waste your time and money taking a spoiled brat out to dinner. How does she even do that? Do you drive separate vehicles? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/14 08:24 PM |
| 10 | Another man gave my wife his phone number... how do I approach this situation?dread....since you did not respond she don't know what you are thinking and it got the hamster spooked. NEVER EVER SHOW A WOMAN THESE THREADS | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/14 08:17 PM |
| 4 | Another man gave my wife his phone number... how do I approach this situation?Just one? If I had to send you mine we would go over our bandwidth limit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/14 07:10 PM |
| 1 | To acknowledge or not?I say things like, "Great job! My first wife never cleaned the house...I finally had to get rid of her..." Only married once. They love the back-handed compliments. They just don't know it yet. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/14 05:00 PM |
| 10 | [FR] Shit Test? She talks as if I said the opposite of what I said.Ah...no...I usually go bigger than that. My amplify is more amplified. Her: duuuuuhhh derrrrr Me: You said I could bang your sister Her: ?!?!?!?!?!?! Me: No, I like this game, it's fun! Like when you begged me for...geez, how did you term it?....oh, yeah! "Backdoor loving" you called it! I mean, you're dirtier than I thought, but I think I can get used to the dirty talk...let's hear some more!" I tend to amplify to the obscene because it accomplishes more than one objective. HER: What are you do… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/14 02:25 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Shit Test? She talks as if I said the opposite of what I said.only so long I can listen to the hamster before I interrupt. Mine also used to just say anything and assume it was true because she said it. I pushed the issue once or twice and she admitted not even remembering what she said. I think it is a young woman thing where they are not used to being held accountable for what they do or say. Marriage is a way different life for both of you and I think this is (oddly enough) part of the process. I just started making stuff up to and say, "this is a fun g… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/11/14 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Trouble at a PartyWhile I could not see myself doing that at a party because it would kill the whole party atmosphere for me, I agree she needs to be made aware that husband knows exactly what is going on what exactly she is doing/risking | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Trouble at a PartyYou can assume the confrontation will happen then. Because a man pulling that right in front of you will ignore your playfulness or outright dismiss you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/14 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Trouble at a PartyI agree here. After 15 years of investment to think that she has every right to flirt just because its in woman's nature is giving them an out they don't deserve. Like saying she neglected my kids because she was chasing an alpha. Women have moral responsibilty to not follow random impulses in the same way that men don't get to shake them by the neck when they illogically hamster at them. Women don't get to drink and drive, they don't get to murder, they don't get to rob banks, because they have… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/14 07:36 PM |
| 7 | Trouble at a PartyOk, lemme start by saying that I don't think RPB is wrong, on the contrary I think he may be a genius as I would never have thought of going this route. There are a couple of reasons why (and I think you may have a larger problem) First, I don't go to those kinds of parties anymore. I find that the only thing that goes on is "drunken tom-foolery" up to and including some dumb jack-ass flirting with my wife in front of me. And since I don't drink, and therefore don't get drunk, these kinds of par… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/11/14 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Is there anything wrong with being a sigma?i'll respond with my comments from the original post 'Sigma is intolerant of the hypocritical human interactions that are required to be suffered in order to "belong" to the group. Alpha enjoys and indeed masters those interactions into servicing his goals. Beta aint figured out which way is up." Nothing wrong with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 09:31 PM |
| 1 | FR: I'm officially "that guy" Orbiters hateNow I need a new keyboard. Cuz I puked on this one. Always nice to see the hits from yesterday. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 03:22 PM |
| 4 | "You're not getting any tonight."I think you did ok here. There is some give and take in the marriage red pill, but you need to caveman it the next couple of times in order to set the universe back in order. She needs to be chasing you more than you giving her the infrequent chase treats. What you experienced was one of those Titanic, "I'M KING OF THE WORLD!!!" rides where SHE played the Leo part. My wife was insecure about her butt too and women are not the problem solvers of the relationship, so you have to do a little leg wo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/11/14 01:52 PM |
| 2 | how do you approach wife's weight issues?Bought a high quality juicer this year and have stopped going out to eat completely. I am no health-freak (yet), but she received the best dr's review ever after I switched us over. If you aint getting there the way you want, then take the helm, skipper. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/11/14 01:28 PM |
| 2 | When a captain breaks frameI hear sex soothes the savage beast... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/11/14 05:34 PM |
| 5 | Has your wife's response to suggestive jokes has changed since red pill?This has been a definite change since the turnaround. I joke with her, she jokes with me - and then you see the slightly startled look as if she can't believe she just said that. But with TRP comes a different level of comfort. Not that she is comfortable with your BP beta self, but comfortable being married to a man that makes her hot enough to openly say those things. And the fact that she actually likes those things she is saying and is openly communicating that she likes those things that "g… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/10/14 03:27 PM |
| 8 | Would You Die For Her?There are a lot of guys here on the edge of divorce and are thinking that maybe they should not have married her. I have been there too, and dying for something that is killing you is not as easy a decision as you think. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/10/14 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Gah feel like I'm backslidingPuh. The whole world is online - you can do the shopping in no time flat and some of the time have free shipping to your office (not home) AND gift-wrapped. Have the receipts sent to your office email. Have her take what she has already bought back, tell her to give you the money, and when she asks what it is that you bought, tell if she wanted to know she should have done the shopping. That is calling her bluff instead of stomping out. When you disappear, it is calmly, with a spring in your ste… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/10/14 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Family - The Right Wife IIyeah, originally I was talking about Jesse's "not having felt that way before" statement and how rare it is that, if you are self aware Red Pill enough, you feel that DNA tug. That kind of oneitis. But other women being jealous of your wife for what she has in you definitely helps | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/14 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Sharing your resources with your SO.When the captain is calm in 30 foot rollers, then the crew will follow his orders and help him keep the ship afloat because they believe he has a plan. In the movie The Kingdom of Heaven, Saladin says to Guy Lusignan, "A king does not kill a king. Were you not close enough to a great king to learn this?" Learning is major benefit of being close to a strong person. A wife can certainly benefit from the resource too. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/14 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Am I doing it right?Red Pill is nigh impossible when you have a fear of divorce hanging over your head. You are experiencing the frustration of holding a bottle of nitro glycerin while she is taking wild kicks at your nuts. I am rooting for you, though. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/14 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Am I doing it right?I, too, have a one strike rule. And if it is trickle truth it ends up being a half strike rule. I am not on RPMarried because I need to fix my marriage. I was not cheated on (that I know of) but the massive shat tests coupled with that odd ability to just say anything like if she said it, then it must be true, was really destroying our family. I fixed it a couple of years ago and I came here to figure out why what I did worked, because this stuff should not work. Basically, they are all crazy. Y… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/14 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Family - The Right Wife IIYou are right on never being 100%, but as with most decisions in life, I have gleaned as much as I could and made the best decision I could. Sometimes that takes some drawn out contemplation. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/14 04:36 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill Family - The Right Wife IIIIIIEEEEEEE!!!! ONEITUS!!!!!!! The dreaded one-itus....yet another reason Red Pill Marriage is different. One-Itus is encouraged. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/10/14 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill Family - The Right Wifeyeah, I am the typical husband in that I listen about half the time. IMHO you have to let em ramble. Nobody loves to hear a woman talk more than she does. That is why they gabble on with each other like they do. I am pretty sure they only listen to each other half the time too. My wife and her mother talk almost every day. When my father was alive we could sit in the same room for hours and never say a word - and we had a great relationship!! Soon as you find that woman that talks about cool stu… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/14 05:50 PM |
| 8 | Reminder: 50/50 chance the red pill saves your marriage. The other outcome is divorceThis is truth. While some readers might think we are "OK" with divorce and assume we mean thumbs up, divorce is just great by me, more likely it is meant in the context that divorce was coming either way. If I stayed beta schlub and she eventually got disgusted enough and divorced me, or forced a divorce by cheating on me, or conversely, she cannot stand the fact that I can no longer be the emotional toilet that she craps all over and divorces me. None of us got married hoping for divorce. Quite… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/14 01:37 PM |
| 5 | CompromisedI am not good at spotting trolls. Or I am unproven, anyway. BUT Un-mirror or get another user ID. It aint that hard. Sure seems to have going dark down pat NOW for some reason. Troll or not, you can always learn from situations. As for take-aways....few things turn on a dime, so you have to pick your battles (understanding there are battles - plural - it is not one fell swoop). Make your stand in a single area - money, food, church, etc - but make sure you are unshakable in that area. She cannot… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/10/14 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Help - advice neededSSSSSHHAAAAAAATTTTT TEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSTTTTTTT Just in case, pin that on your man wall. When they give you that much attitude THAT is the time to act. Control your spending? This is when you look at the clock, and if there is time, tell her we are going to the bank to get separate accounts right now. When she squawks out that getting her own account means she would have to go to work, you tell her that is right and you better make as much as me because as of right now you don't touch my money. And… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/10/14 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Whatever you're doing, OWN IT!one point for "heh" | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/10/14 02:00 PM |
| 2 | A question about drivingI know you have all been waiting for me....no?...hunh.... I drive. Period. She gets in a snit and tells me we are not going somewhere I want to go and I would get out at the next light and take a cab home and get my car. I drive because when I say this is what we are doing it gets done. I would not want my wife to change my plans because she has the keys. Plus, I can't stand how she drives - when I am in the car. She is very responsible, over safe, extremely cautious....and that is what I want h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/10/14 01:13 PM |
| 1 | First venture back into Alpha-hood. Would appreciate some advice ASAPthat is a good point too | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/14 05:07 PM |
| 2 | First venture back into Alpha-hood. Would appreciate some advice ASAPI'll have to disagree here too (my karma is going to stink) - her taking your stuff and locking you out of it is not a symptom, it is a problem. When they lock you out of the house nobody thinks it is a symptom. That is a problem Same with taking your car and not letting you use it. Computers are smaller than cars and houses, I get that, but if you let the smaller stuff go eventually the bigger stuff follows. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/14 03:21 PM |
| 1 | First venture back into Alpha-hood. Would appreciate some advice ASAPAs I understand it, it was his computer. When they start commandeering your stuff and then locking you out of it and telling you no?... you put a quick and clear end to that. I share my stuff. Kids, wife - they can use whatever I have if they treat it right. When my kids hesitate to give me their phone (that I have bought and am paying for monthly service) then I know something bad is happening and they really don't want me to know. Maybe wife aint doing anything bad, maybe she just thinks he is… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/14 03:17 PM |
| 2 | First venture back into Alpha-hood. Would appreciate some advice ASAPPartially agreeing with you here, but I will say that I do spot checks because no one knows better than me that I can be fooled and caught by surprise. King Alpha does not make you fool-proof, we are still human. Having said that, I don't ever remember to check on the wife's computer. She leaves hers running and no password and I leave mine running - she has my password. When I do actually remember to do so, and find the time to go through everything, I am never surprised (yet). If she gives any… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/14 03:11 PM |
| 2 | It's on - 10 days in, and it's workingdid not sound like a lot of comfort the old way. It may feel illogical to have to act this way, but it is how the world works. It also sucks that I have to work instead of fish/hunt/ hang out with the kids. This is how you will live. Don't feel bad for taking the red pill, feel bad for the ones that keep taking the blue pill every time they can. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/14 01:23 PM |
| 2 | First venture back into Alpha-hood. Would appreciate some advice ASAPK I am late on this. If it is your computer and she password protects it, buy a new hard drive, destroy hers and password protect your computer (or reformat the hard drive). I don't care what it ruins of her plans - it aint like she needs the transcripts from 3 year old pre-school. If she wants computer for herself, she has to ask nicely. You want to use MY computer, then you have to share. I have like 5 laptops, 3 tablets, and a pc at the house. They aint hard to come by. BUT if she is playing … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/10/14 01:09 PM |
| 3 | I want LTR perspective from you guys, [xpost from askTRP] - LTR Disrespected meJump right in with "those are mine and not to be shown to anyone else...." Mine would not be happy with slutty fool either, but then I am 44 and I don't care if she blows up. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/10/14 07:20 PM |
| 3 | I want LTR perspective from you guys, [xpost from askTRP] - LTR Disrespected meStill a 5 crazy - but inside the acceptable level | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/10/14 06:38 PM |
| 5 | I want LTR perspective from you guys, [xpost from askTRP] - LTR Disrespected meGoing to go with the Count here. Women and drinking in LTR makes for tough times. Add the "certain circles" and you are asking for a lot of these. She is young - blah, blah, blah, women mature faster, she is still young. Outbursts like this are part of her feeling her way. If you plan on keeping her she needs to know that her handling of the situation is detrimental to your LTR. Dont tell her that her actions are unacceptable. (I have never seen a woman respond to that statement with a Spock-log… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/10/14 06:34 PM |
| 6 | One of the best RP Theories "women who are less promiscuous traditionally make better partners" Fuck me TOO trueMade me LOL in my office...now they wonder what I am up to. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 05:44 PM |
| -10 | 1995: Monica Lewinsky chooses to voluntarily suck president Clinton's dick nine times in the Oval Office of the White House. 2014: Monica Lewinsky gives a speech about how she is "a victim"I believe she got what she deserved - president got what he deserved and nothing was out of proportion | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 02:57 PM |
| 4 | Even after marriage, you have to maintain frame and be on guard for shit tests.We are a traditional lot who cannot see the benefit for ourselves, for our offspring, nor for society at large in letting bastard children fend for themselves with the dregs of humanity for a mother and a rotating door of dirtbags for fathers. We do have that odd quirk. I would hate for a kid to be raised by a redit board. As helpful as this board has been, it is not the same as having a strong father teach you the exact same thing. Edit : 44 married 23 | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 02:45 PM |
| -6 | 1995: Monica Lewinsky chooses to voluntarily suck president Clinton's dick nine times in the Oval Office of the White House. 2014: Monica Lewinsky gives a speech about how she is "a victim"So suffering the consequences of your thoughtless actions makes you a victim? Not sure you understand the term in its context here. OP, and women as a whole, are using a context of innocent victim and you are changing it to a technical classification in a simple exchange of actions. Lewinsky was not an innocent victim, she had full knowledge of the public nature, cultural significance, and media sensationalizing of the position of POTUS and still chose to do what she did and then tell folks abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 02:35 PM |
| 2 | [FR] It's All About the PowerYeah, I am always the first one ready and back when my kids needed help getting ready IF she was behind I would help them get ready. Aint nothing to kids really. BUUUUUUUT the second time she was behind, I got the kids ready and left without her. Some women are ok with that - mine was not. All I said when she freaked out over being left was get up earlier. You have to remember that dread works with her being outside the family too. And whatever it is you are doing for her. Stop doing it. Don't c… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/10/14 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Even after marriage, you have to maintain frame and be on guard for shit tests.Nuking the family, yes. An option of last resort because it damages everyone involved - nobody gets out unscathed and it should not be taken lightly even in the smallest sense. BUT If she thinks you are afraid of it, then she will use it. It is the axe she will hold over your neck, it is the threat point, that while it might not be spoken, is present in every ultimatum. That the threat is present is not lost on your kids, they learn how to deal with threats by watching their father deal with thr… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 12:41 PM |
| 5 | Even after marriage, you have to maintain frame and be on guard for shit tests.You have to go in with the mindset that you WILL lose your stuff. ANd a smart man once said, "We have the technology, we can rebuild him." If you are ok with losing all of your stuff, and IMHO a shot at a family is worth more than stuff, then you are also ok with the nuclear option. If she can see you cringe like a scolded puppy when she brings it to bear, then she knows she has the power and will wield it like she shats lightning, pisses fire and spits .50 cal. If you are not chasing her, or be… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 07:14 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The moon is my enemyAh, Shark Week. Aint it grand. "So now after 10 years of being able to talk to you like this, we can't anymore?" The whole fight, make up crap is something they seem to look forward to during shark week. Good job giving her the time she needed to figure out she was wrong. "WE can't" No, princess, YOU can, I just refuse to participate any longer. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/14 04:28 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Still better to shut your mouth and reevaluate, even when you may be wrong.Just remember, for this to work you have to use a lot of base in your voice. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/14 03:54 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Still better to shut your mouth and reevaluate, even when you may be wrong.YOUR discomfort?!?!? Do you know how hard it is to hold back this much raw sexual power??? I got rabid bears fighting starving lions and the only thing holding them back is the huge swinging set of brass! You're lucky I don't pin you to the couch, my arse glow blue and you get Godzilla nuclear breath type sex right now!!! Including the Godzilla scream!! So much amplify she can't even hear the hamster. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/10/14 03:00 PM |
| 3 | So frustrated over petty shit testsWhen it gets this petty, you need to be more a-hole. You cannot be frustrated at her tests. Wives shat test their husbands like husbands grab their wives boobs - because we can. They like rubbing up against your intellectual frame like you like rubbing against their physical frame. They want to feel your dominance, your security and your confidence like you want to feel their soft lady parts. That is all there is to it. And when she gets all petty and ripping you, you say "gosh...the women at th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/10/14 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Slow day , horror tale recountingI agree, divorce is a big negative - but sometimes there is no other choice. And this is coming from a guy that does not even listen to the radio - I listen to taped sermons to and from work. BUT SOMETIMES THERE IS NO OTHER CHOICE. Be the best man you know how to but be able to recognize that the ship is going down. One of the quals I had to pass early on in each station was Officer Of the Day (OOD) duty. Part of it is going through verbal testing where they ask how you would respond in certain … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/14 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Use your flair!I got a master's and I totally missed it....stupid 4th tier school..... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/14 03:59 PM |
| 1 | To dread, or not to dreadGoing to shamelessly reply to myself here and flesh out the captain's role in this situation a little more. As the captain, you are the one that makes the world what it is. Some will say that is selfish or conceited or self-aggrandizing, but the reality is that when you asked her to marry you, you invited her into YOUR WORLD. Yes, it is our life together, but when you are the captain, you have (not just the opportunity) responsibility to LEAD. This is where we are going and this is why - insert … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/14 01:43 PM |
| 4 | To dread, or not to dreadGoing to have to agree with McGill here. You need to be the captain NOW and shape the world so she figures out that if she is the first officer, then she is a crappy one. And to further McGill's point, dread is not just absence (though that works) it is about what happens when SHE is absent. For a jealous wife, going on a girls weekend seems short sighted. She needs to know that lots of girls like to be around when guys are off doing cool things. The main point being she is missing out when she … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/10/14 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Wife went physical when I stood my ground.you are clueless and of no value to this board. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/14 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Wife cheating/about to cheatBurners are a problem, not doubt about it. But she does not seem smart enough to hide a burner that well. Women cant just leave it in the truck like we can and get back to who ever might text. Women HAVE to be looking at them all the time. Not sure if their bank account is joint. As I wrote before, if I am being completely open even about finances, then she should be too. If me and my wife had separate accounts I think her head would explode. But that does help them understand who is bringing wh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/14 06:07 PM |
| 2 | [FR] How to have an argument and hold frame like a bossIt is phenomenal the ability they have to not see their own stupidity. She says goodbye and then waits...and then keeps talking like nothing happened. This stuff frightens the daylights out of me when I think about what she is capable of doing. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/14 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Wife cheating/about to cheatBeen cheated on with girlfriends before and it stopped right then and there. No matter if they were sorta sad, really sad or devastated. It. Was. Done. I could no longer look them in the eyes. You are a...different... man than me. Not worse, not better, just something I could not do. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/14 05:44 PM |
| 9 | Wife cheating/about to cheatRelying on anyone's moral character in this day and age will get you sunk in a hurry. There are basically two schools of thought single guys around here have - though they should in no way be thought of as limited to single guys. Married guys cheat with married women all the time. First you have the idea that if the act is imminent, then you might as well get in front of it. The idea purports that all guys deserve as much as they can get, they are the alpha dog after all, and if she is throwing … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/14 05:36 PM |
| 3 | This weekend I fucked up and I'm not sure where.Good captains know that having a first officer capable of (right headed) independent thought is valuable. Getting a box on her own is small potatoes. You would not have been a failure. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/14 03:20 PM |
| 7 | This weekend I fucked up and I'm not sure where.I am guessing that this is a place where the wait staff does NOT come to the table. If it was, I would say finish eating and tell the wait staff that you need a box. If it is a place where you have to ask for one yourself, tell her you are finishing eating, then we will get the box. She sounds like a woman that will just give the exasperated sigh, stomp over and get the box anyways. All that matters is that you took the time to finish eating. That is your frame. Getting the box can be shown as b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/14 03:11 PM |
| 5 | This weekend I fucked up and I'm not sure where.nope should have finished eating. If she was so worried about being rude she should not be rude to the man she lives with. Unless she don't give a rats backside about said man. If that is the case, we have found our problem. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/14 02:32 PM |
| 1 | I think I actually passed a shit test!Bonus points if no contact for the entire day. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/14 02:30 PM |
| 4 | Wife went physical when I stood my ground.That is exactly right. I was acting like an a-hole. And while it is easy for a retard, like yourself, to assume that this was an isolated incident, it was part of a (at that point) 10-year pattern - as was mentioned. So, use those tears of angst to polish your shiny armor, gallant knight, and continue tilting at the windmill of reality astride your trusty blue steed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/10/14 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Curious how you would have handled this situationDont think I could do a moratorium and I am 40+....though it does get easier as you get older. I do see the benefits, I do see how it can change things, but I still don't think I could do it. It is not a strict policy, but I try not to make a habit of having the sex I don't really enjoy. And certainly don't have the sex she dangles in front of me or sex that she would try and control me with. The only time she ever tried that she was early in the marriage. There was something that she really wan… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/14 03:44 PM |
| 4 | 15:1 on Hardmode Part II - Fuck this shit, it's my turn nowThis. You are setting an awfully high hurdle for her. Infidelity by itself is insurmountable for a lot of women. Add ultimatums and no communication and you are painting a cash and prizes bulls-eye on your berries. Looking forward to how it is going so far. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/14 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Wife went physical when I stood my ground.Yup. it is essential to be able to remind her. And the difference between men and women here is that fact that men have to clean up our own messes. We don't have a fall back plan. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/14 03:12 PM |
| 5 | First Post - Please Read.yes, cuz nawalt. This reddit exists to show that the world has changed. The Red Pill means you are now aware of how the world really is - you are still humming along on the blue pill. We have the term unicorn for a reason | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/14 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Wife went physical when I stood my ground.No, Officer, YOU don't understand, this is MY safe haven!!!! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/14 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Wife went physical when I stood my ground.Still going to go with dread. She will use the daughter to re initiate contact - a text that sweet little daughter is missing her Daddy, blah, blah, blah. It is like they all use the same script. Her being older than you does not help - women tend to think they know more because they are older. Mine is 3 years younger than me and I think that is the generally accepted age space. She used to think she knew more than me until I let her go with her plans a few times and she ended up coming to me to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/10/14 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Wife went physical when I stood my ground.There is not a win in that situation. Though, I would probably laugh at her if my wife ever did that. You have not given much to go on here - how long have you been married, how old, kids, divorce - but she sounds above-average loony. You may be headed for separation. I would keep my aloofness dialed up and disappear for a while (hours - maybe in time for the late news). Not telling her where and not answering her calls/texts. She needs some time away to figure out how it works with you out of t… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/10/14 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The road block!IMHO if she does not say it on her own she does not mean it. And if she DOES say it on her own, she might not even mean it then. If you have to lead her to it, it means little or nothing. You will never have the perfect relationship. As a man, you need to understand that going in. You have thrown the helm over to correct your course, but it takes time for the ship to right itself. While there have been a few frank discussions, I have never made her tell me where she wants our marriage to go. I h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/10/14 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Diligently applying TRP to marriage. Everything has drastically improved... except the sex. Could it be the birth control?and she bought the clear shower curtain - by the way.. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/14 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Diligently applying TRP to marriage. Everything has drastically improved... except the sex. Could it be the birth control?Side note : I have never in my life expressed that I need to bang something. All my life, if I was not getting it, I moved on. Sort of the same thing with my wife all these years - when we weren't we just weren't. I cannot for the life of me see myself telling her something like that. Maybe that is for you, but be ok if it aint. I also don't text her the words, "thinking of you." I may, however, text her the words, "coconut oil" but nothing else. When were at the store and she asked what color s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/14 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Rookie mistake. How would you handle it?If the "other options" aren't there, then you are missing something in your leadership. Might be attraction, might be the sexual energy, but whatever, she is not seeing you in whatever light she needs to see you in to generate options. I like to keep the sexual energy buzzing at all times, even if it is at really low levels. I growled at her in church about a week ago. REALLY quietly - not like a lion roaring for dinner at the zoo, but just the quietest growl that was barely audible to her and h… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/14 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Diligently applying TRP to marriage. Everything has drastically improved... except the sex. Could it be the birth control?ok, Ima try to say this without being too graphic. Sometimes this place ends up being Penthouse Forums and that just looks bad for us. I have been married for 23 years next month. It was tough for me at times too. BUUUT what I have found is that cavemanning a little even when sex simply cannot happen right away (kids are awake, family is over, etc) primes for the action later. Example: I was getting socks out of the drawer the other day (dresser is beside the bed) turned around and caught her be… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/10/14 12:46 PM |
| 7 | 4chan user gets a taste of female hypergamyand quickly replace the plate so you don't have to do that crap every time you go out. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Looking for advice/ input on my situation.Your daughter needs to see what a RP man is and how he lives his life. Make good on your vows and straighten this out. You found out that you cant just throw the helm over and reverse one engine and still avoid the iceberg. You got damage, but if you are smart, it is fixable. As of right now I am the only comment, so I can't say whether anyone else will advise divorce, but I cannot. Not with kids. This is why it is RP on HARD MODE. BUT if you truly have options, her subtly wondering about those … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/14 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Should I allow benign bossiness?One of the techniques a woman will employ in order to bend you to her will is to ask you to do things you were already doing. For outsiders, it looks like you are following orders. Like the frog in the hot water, she will attempt to incrementally increase the pressure of her will until you jump when she whispers hop. I will say that they are outright happiest when you are NOT serving them. In answer to the original question, find a reason to delay the action for a while. If you are up and she wa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/14 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Classic shit-test ... how do you respond.Well...I'm not sure "girlfriend" is the right description....personal acrobat? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/09/14 12:47 PM |
| 1 | What does TRD say to do when your wife is already asleep?Point here was that the ol' uppy-downy is sacred. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/14 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Using Red Pill to Reconcile?Don't be "hurt" by what she is doing, stand firm on it being wrong. Butt-hurt generates zero tingles. She got what she needed from you and is moving on. Degree completed, the female moves out of the protective cocoon supplied by her provider and seeks excitement in the bright new world. They say that the best revenge is living better. Maybe that is true, but if you want her to realize her mistake, (and have chance at seeing her grovel) then you have to live better. Make her see that SHE was hold… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/09/14 01:55 PM |
| 5 | E.M.S.T. P7 Always be alertSo, you are saying you have internalized nothing and you are basically playing with dynamite to see if you can get it to work right. Battle knowledge - If you can't hold the ground you have taken with blood, you should not try. It is a waste of materials and leaves you weaker for the next battle. You regressed back to the "this should all be smooth sailing - me and my best girl just a-walking on the sunset beach" fallacy. The beach has landmines and your best girl carries a club for when you get… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/09/14 01:08 PM |
| 3 | E.M.S.T. P6 Possibly too much success.We never closed the factory (but we did lay off all the workers). I was not down more than a week. As long as you make friends with the ice bag until the swelling is gone, and don't catch a straight kick to the berries, a week is all you should have to worry about. Can't tell the difference on volume. Now you get to wait to see if the rabbit dies. Ah....youth.... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/09/14 07:43 PM |
| 4 | What does TRD say to do when your wife is already asleep?have you tried cuddling your boner up to her backside? That single maneuver has started and finished many a battle. I wake mine up in the middle of the night all the time - might have done it more when we were first married.. If she refuses, you have deeper problems. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/14 05:46 PM |
| 2 | How to past this test?Damn right she is!! Young and firm, no flab and her smile don't look like a snarl!! she rarely asks that one anymore - and since she doesn't I bring it up at those odd silent times...hey, do you remember that hot chick you wanted me to look at?.... EDIT: to say, if you aint having a blast when they ask those questions you have not been married long enough. When people hear I have been married almost 23 years and the say wow, that is great, I tell them marriage is like a hot bath...once you have … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/14 08:04 PM |
| 2 | E.M.S.T. P5 The good, bad and dreadly.Another good reason for separate accounts. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/14 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Ready to take stepsI think that this advice is not given as much here because as "the Red Pill on Hard," we may not have that choice. If there are kids involved "blowing up the marriage" is less of an opportunity. Also some men have strong convictions on keeping their word - the word they gave to God and family. Neither may apply in this situation - I don't know OP from Adam. And I don't mean to say that no one should divorce ever. I am just saying that wielding that kind of nuclear option is really last resort. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/14 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Ready to take stepsRead up on frame, and the difference between fitness and shyt tests. Because that will be your life for a while. And the test really never go away. But if your frame is something like "I am leading, you are coming with me," then stick with that no matter if she refuses at first. Her refusing at first is almost certain and when that happens, you may (initially) spend part of your time without her, but if you hold frame she will eventually come along with you on whatever physical/financial/familia… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/09/14 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Do BP men cheat?Short answer, yes. Statistically, there will be an opportunity and the man will take it. Longer answer is - there is a LOT less chance for it to happen and when an affair does rear its ugly head, it is with a low-scoring female. I have a ton of anecdotal evidence from people I know, and usually when you see who they had an affair it ends up being someone who is less attractive (in a yikes-sort-of-way ) and you have to wonder what they were thinking. The larger section of married betas don't have… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/09/14 01:01 PM |
| 5 | Swallowed trp. Ready to take back control of finances, need advice.Time to right the ship. She has had her shot at managing the money that YOU make. Being "fair" got you into debt. She was warned that the course correction was coming, throw the helm over. One of the things you learn quickly on an actual ship is making everything secure so that when the rogue wave shows up, you don't get clobbered by the dishes flying off of the shelves. In other words, when the waste matter contacts the air circulation unit, you will be expected to clean it up - save yourself s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/14 04:55 PM |
| 1 | My first officer second-guesses my every step...If you are going out, don't suggest just go. If she asks where you are going, you say dinner. If she gets huffy and says WHERE?!? then you say I am going to xyz and if you keep it up I am eating alone. Most of the time I just pull in to where we are going and she gets the picture. EDIT: and I swear she is happier when I do it this way. Your wife needs a leader not a co-captain. EDIT AGAIN: I appreciate good food, so when I pick the place we eat good. My kids know it and so does she, they rarely … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/14 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Best ways to reward wife for good behavior?Mine does that everyday. This year I took a day off from work and took her shopping for her birthday. Get what you want ( we went to about 15 stores Victoria's Secret included), we'll eat what you want ( I still ended up vetoing her choice and we ate what I wanted - and she was happy to do it), got her some ice cream, then that night I grilled some top of the line steak and shrimp (which I am awesome at). What you are describing is everyday, chore-type stuff. Don't reward it everyday, but make s… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/14 01:40 PM |
| 1 | "Go Fuck Yourself" she says...Mine told me - with an irate baboon look in her eye - YOUR VOICE IS PISSING ME OFF! Made her call the doctor the first thing in the morning and get her estrogen checked. Back on the pill and she is back to being the sweet wife I married. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/14 01:30 PM |
| 1 | The presence of men in your social circle who've banged your girlfriend - share your opinionsIf he is in the circle and the two have contact, then she should mention that the two of them have a history. I know most of the wisdom shared here is that women are on the carousel and every man should get in line, but I am not a big fan of going behind that many other guys. I understand, even 20+ years ago, finding a woman who had not been with anyone else to marry was next to impossible. The likely scenario of you eventually looking at your buddy as he is smirking at your girl while thinking … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 01:16 PM |
| 5 | Food for thought-- If an alpha male is one who maximizes his reproductive success than what is an alpha female? Alphafux betabux seems pretty "successful" in terms of maximizing a women's reproductive potentialThe only way this (AFBB) is a viable plan is if the male desire for purity (among other things) is ignored. In a vacuum, the AFBB plan is viable. On the ground, men don't want to be the "settled for" guy, the chump, the buyer of used, worn out or calloused goods. Men want women to be their joy. Sounds odd to say it, but we enjoy women, and if we gotta spend our lives with one (and we aint really gotta) we want her to be enjoyable. That is why so many dipsticks marry the "experienced" girl - they… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/14 01:31 PM |
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