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October 26, 2014
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Title Compromised
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Upvotes 5
Comments 9
Date October 26, 2014 2:22 PM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2kdce7/compromised/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/compromised.202915
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[–]En_sigma 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I am not good at spotting trolls. Or I am unproven, anyway.

BUT

Un-mirror or get another user ID. It aint that hard. Sure seems to have going dark down pat NOW for some reason. Troll or not, you can always learn from situations.

As for take-aways....few things turn on a dime, so you have to pick your battles (understanding there are battles - plural - it is not one fell swoop). Make your stand in a single area - money, food, church, etc - but make sure you are unshakable in that area. She cannot break you down in that area. Then grow from there. You can't go from a couch potato stay-at-home, subservient schlub to a dread-ridden, gym dweller who disappears and goes dark when she makes a peep in a day. You have to know your wife and how much she can handle at once.

As some have said, this truth is an acme dynamite kit. You only handle it when you are sure of what you are doing. Mishandling of this information can literally blow up in your face and destroy everything you own - taking out your family, possessions, and your life as you know it in the explosion. So calling yourself King Alpha and slinging your brand new set of shiny brass gear over your shoulder and telling her how it is going to be will absolutely not work.

If you are implementing these things into your life after you have been married some time, realize that "THE TALK" will eventually come. It will be inevitable at some time - but don't start there. If you are brand new to marriage, or are a lurker who is nearing the chopping block, have the talk sooner than later. If the talk scares your lovely bride off, well then you just saved yourself years of getting kicked in the berries. Congrats. Otherwise, you just saved your marriage. Congrats.

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[–]IWillHandleIt 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I would say the big takeaway here is EASE INTO IT. And don't try this stuff before you're ready. He's still weak deep down, and he's not fooling her. The guys who think this is a quick fix and jump right into it whole-hog seem to always mess it up, because they don't get it. It's like they're taking an old car with a bad engine and repainting the thing, thinking it'll run great after the paint job. Then some of them will say, "This red pill stuff doesn't work," when they had no idea what they were even doing.

So some bad things I see here are that he engaged in a text argument. He turned the positive of dissapearing for a while into not really disappearing, and then demanding an apology. Also adds a wrinkle that he left a bunch of kids in the care of a pregnant woman thus playing into some victimhood. She did text she thought she was going into contractions at one point which he didn't buy.

Yes, all those are signs of weakness. I would add don't refuse to sleep in your own bed. I had no idea she was pregnant, and yes, I think you do need to give a pregnant woman a little more leeway.

Also, I think people need to get a grip on their technology. I'm a tech guy and this whole idea of mirroring everything to "the cloud" concerns me. People sign up for shit and they don't even know what it does.

[–]Drews123 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you completely. RP works wonders pretty quickly but its easy to get into the mindset of "I'm invincible! I can do anything with this" but it is a learning process and that is why I am so happy I found this subreddit. A place like this were we can ask questions, get input from others that have been through the same thing we are going through is invaluable and I am so thankful for it. I come to this subreddit to catch up before I browse anything else on Reddit :)

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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree re: probably not a troll. What benefit would this troll have derived from the interactions here? I can think of none (and I am a reformed troll myself - in fact, I pioneered the youtube troll comment of "Fake" back in youtube's early days. But I digress... ;)

I think this guy was overzealous - with 3 kids and a pregnant wife, you're just not in the right position to make such a sudden change.

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