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Follow ppl (push pull legs) and eat a fuckton of healthy foods. Also sleep for 7-8 hours, go to bed and wake up at the same time. Oh and most importantly, be patient
/r/seduction04/07/18 09:26 AM
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This is common advice that I have been hearing a lot and I am very aware that it might work. But I am very lazy and I kinda hate my self for it. The therapist says its depression that drains a lot of energy but I dont know. I dont think my depression is that severe to do so. Anyway, thanks. I know the stinging feeling is normal but it lasts for quite a while and it is quite intense in the beginning. Im experiencing Suicidal thoughts and these are no joke, they scare me the fuck out.
/r/seduction03/07/18 11:25 PM
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I actually have shown aggressive dominance from time to time but I only showed it, I wasnt feeling it. And this worked just enough to not to get bullied and create a decent social circle. I just never had a strong ‘frame’ (dont know how to describe it, read it somewhere) and you are probably aware of the problems that goes along with a weak frame. It aint that severe for me but I still feel ‘weak’ and it fucks me up from time to time. Maybe I should add that I have been intimidated by people fro…
/r/seduction03/07/18 11:20 PM
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Apparently I do not. And I am still having a hard time figuring out how to get my self to love my self.
/r/seduction03/07/18 11:07 PM
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I live in europe, sueing isnt as ridiculous as in america hahahah but you’re right though
/r/seduction03/07/18 05:25 PM
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I subconsciously embrace my masculinity alteady but thanks for pointing that out I will be more aware of doing it because it does seem to create more interest in her. As for martial arts, I’ve been considering it for a long time. Idk when I start
/r/seduction03/07/18 05:11 PM
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Its also like this over here in Europe
/r/seduction03/07/18 05:00 PM
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Im proud of my body, It looks better than 99% of the guys I see on the beach and I am not exaggerating. Unfortunately due to depression I am losing muscle mass by massive loss of appetite that I’ve experienced lately. Im attending university next year, which almost none of my friends are able to do here in the Netherlands. Im keeping my self busy with women to gain experience, stepping out of the comfortzone often. It sometimes works but I still havent learned how to deal with rejection. It stin…
/r/seduction03/07/18 04:57 PM
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but, are you a virgin? I respect your choice but if you were a virgin that would've been a risky decision (confidence etc. may drop soon, it happens to the best of us at the most random times)
/r/seduction23/05/18 11:30 AM
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Thank you for your advice, #2 sounds appealing but I already do it kinda like this. How do you actually get the conversation to be a bit more intimate for the first time?
/r/seduction10/05/18 01:07 AM
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What are some realistic expectations?
/r/seduction29/03/18 05:56 PM
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I can't finish through PIV sex (deathgrip) so it shouldnt be a problem.
/r/seduction29/03/18 10:50 AM
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I usually wear a connie so that should be np
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:16 AM
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If I manage to get us all three in one spot I cant screw it up since they both like to have sex on drugs and drugs lowers/removes inhibitions.
/r/seduction29/03/18 08:15 AM
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I was stressing too much about momentum. All the things you listed in the bottom of your comment are present in my situation. Thank you.
/r/seduction05/03/18 11:22 PM
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Snapchat could replace the whats app conversations, I think?
/r/seduction05/03/18 07:45 PM
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Snapchat is really really helpfull to keep momentum going. You can just only send 1 or 2 snaps a day (streak) to a girl for weeks without calling/messaging her and not break the momentum.
/r/seduction05/03/18 07:44 PM
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I do know that guys prefer texting rather than calling. And ofcourse there are almost always other guys texting the same girl. So it makes sense that calling is a lot more effective than texting as long as you dont put too much pressure and keep it light. I think its necessary to use snapchat aswell if you're not gonna text much.
/r/seduction05/03/18 07:40 PM
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Im not really that good at calling either but I do know that girls enjoy calling a lot more than usual texting. The girl I am 'dating' with right now told me that her previous boyfriends never liked to call. I do have some kind of phone anxiety though. Especislly when I have to call work or people that I dont know I always get anxious and just start sweating and fucking up my words.
/r/seduction05/03/18 07:37 PM
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I have a question: I have a fwb who is interested in doing a threesome with me and a girlfriend of hers. She thinks her girlfriend would be interested in it too but she is afraid that she might cancel the date at last minute (she knows her for several years and she does that occasionally) How should I deal with this situation? Or is it better to not do anything at all?
/r/seduction19/02/18 12:00 PM
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Thanks, very helpfull.
/r/seduction07/02/18 01:57 AM
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I did look up on 2 of my mates and they kill it in the texting game. They get really good looking girls aswell, and they arent even that attractive themselves. I havent said that I was good at pick up, I have tried like 6 approaches, all of them were in the past year. I just have a hard time bonding with a person (I have the same with male friends) through text. I did a lot of dating apps and stuff like that when I was 16-17 and realised that that shit didnt work like at all. Then I just said fu…
/r/seduction06/02/18 08:37 PM
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Im already doing that and honestly, it sounds like a good idea but I dont think younger girls my age 17-20y/o like that approach, they usually prefer to play games and such. They seek romance because thats what makes them feel good, and I cant give that to them through text.
/r/seduction06/02/18 06:59 PM
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Then you have to be casual and not needy over text. Well, this is exactly my problem. I think I am coming of as needy when most of the interaction comes from my side. It feels needy when its only me asking when's the next time we'll meet.
/r/seduction06/02/18 05:39 PM
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Thanks.
/r/seduction19/01/18 12:32 AM
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Where did I say that I spend a lot of time on my phone? I am a pretty busy person and she knows that because during the day I often reply really slow, sometimes intentionally.
/r/seduction19/01/18 12:32 AM
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This is good that you're talking about sex, but you've gotta turn it up further. Don't just say "yeah I like doggy, and reverse cowgirl", say "I would make you do doggy, and then reverse cowgirl, with me". Make it about you and her. I didnt do that actually. Thank you. This is imo the answer I was looking for. Generally, be covert, not overt. DON'T say "Yeah I'm so horny I want to fuck your pussy so hard" (unless things have REALLY already steamed up). That would sound cringey as fuck lol Instea…
/r/seduction19/01/18 12:26 AM
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Yeah I've been using whatsapp already. The only thing that would help me is the smirk emoji but even then it feels just cringey. Sending memes to become sexual or recording your voice sounds a bit... odd... Snapchat can be a solution though.
/r/seduction18/01/18 02:55 PM
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Im not a big fan of calling becuase my connection absolutely sucks where I live. Half the time I cant hear the person who's calling me or the other way around. I know that a lot of people get sexual through messages. I just dont know how to make it not cringe worthy
/r/seduction18/01/18 02:13 PM
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This one's good OP
/r/seduction31/12/17 01:45 PM
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Also after a one night stand? I still only know her since last saturday
/r/seduction20/12/17 12:12 AM
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I was actually planning on doing it tomorrow but now I realise that I have actually slept with her already, I dont actually think its really necessary anymore.
/r/seduction19/12/17 11:36 PM
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Yeah the main reason why I'm happy is because of the reassurance it basically gave me instead of self doubt.
/r/seduction19/12/17 11:34 PM
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I was actually planning on doing it tomorrow but now I realise that I have actually slept with her already, I dont actually think its really necessary anymore.
/r/seduction19/12/17 11:33 PM
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I would like to know man, what's it called?
/r/seduction19/12/17 11:28 PM
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Can you give me some examples that worked for you?
/r/seduction19/12/17 06:42 PM
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I should also say that right now Im doing a push and pull method and its working very well. Again, thanks.
/r/seduction19/12/17 12:04 PM
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Yeah dude its just basic common sense. Girls dont like to be asked. Girls dont want a guy asking them politely and timidley if they want to dance. I mean, you're not going to ask a girl if she wants to have sex with you. You need to make the girl to want to have sex with you. Same goes with dancing. I do believe that approaching a random girl from the back is not really a good idea, I would personally approach a girl from the front and dance with her because then she sees me coming. Small talk l…
/r/seduction19/12/17 11:28 AM
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I kinda have the opposite problem. I dont know to approach but I know how to get intimate with a girl. My advice could be taken with a grain of salt because I only have been intimate with 2 girls (both 17y old aswel) so that means Im (19y) little inexperienced. Flirting is actually having a normal conversation while showing that you are sexually interested in her. You do this by touching/eye contact/talking. You should talk to her like she is your friend, so you have confidence in what you say. …
/r/seduction19/12/17 10:40 AM
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But dont talk too much, this is where I believe a lot of guys tend to mess up. They talk way to much and always respond immediately, this makes you look like someone who has nothing better to do and has way to much time on their hands. I would even go as far as ignoring them for a day or so after a couple days of texting so that they think of me even more. Works very good.
/r/seduction10/09/17 09:59 PM
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Thanks, any tips if it doesnt flow well? And for location? I've heard the guy say that we could have a drink at his home since his parents are not home for like 2 weeks or so. That means he is homealone. Could that be a better place instead of a quiet bar?
/r/seduction07/09/17 12:52 PM
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What if they're too shy? Can I stimulate some magic between them? If so, how?
/r/seduction07/09/17 12:50 PM
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Oh boy... I am 18 years old and I am not a virgin but I was just so lucky enough to gain a girlfriend and have sex and all without any effort because the girl was just mad crazy. But still I fucking feel like a virgin because I have never approached a girl!!! While you are a virgin and I am not, I fucking wish I was you though. You have already WAY more experience than me. Keep fucking going. You've already done the hard part multiple times. REMEMBER it can only get better from here on. I doubt …
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:35 PM
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Yeah I really wanna know that
/r/seduction12/04/17 01:32 PM
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