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Field Reportprojectmale/r/seduction21/11/24 05:07 PM
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Fundamentals projectmale/r/seduction21/11/24 05:03 PM
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Fundamentals projectmale/r/seduction01/10/24 08:43 PM
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Field Reportprojectmale/r/seduction23/10/24 02:02 PM
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I never dinner date with someone I’ve not been out with before (from online). If it’s someone I’ve met and there’s a vibe, sure. Dinner date is fun and shows you like her (I pay)
/r/seduction09/12/25 08:36 PM
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You’ve explained why dinner dates are awful in your post.. because they are a free dinner, and women might go just for that. Save dinner dates for further down the line. And save your cash while you do.
/r/seduction09/12/25 08:06 PM
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No script. All improv. Just an overall goal of intro / get to know her / be interested / see where it leads
/r/seduction20/01/25 09:30 PM
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Texting is for children. I talk.
/r/seduction20/01/25 05:21 PM
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Fuck age limits. What is this? High school?? Just don’t be cringe and creepy and you’re good to go no matter how old you are.
/r/seduction20/01/25 08:26 AM
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What does ‘leave you on seen’ mean?
/r/seduction10/01/25 11:56 PM
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Amen
/r/seduction28/12/24 11:08 PM
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I definitely feel not worthy. All the mistakes I’ve made in my life, my under achievements, comparing to others… it makes me doubt myself and therefore stains my attitude with negativity. Women can smell it. Need to love myself for who I am and what I’ve achieved and the goodness in me.
/r/seduction28/12/24 01:14 PM
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Do NOT upload pro photos on a dating app.
/r/seduction27/12/24 05:38 PM
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I love this post. Thank you
/r/seduction07/12/24 02:42 PM
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I think alls fair in love and war. You’ll inevitably like one girl more than the other, and the girls SHOULD know this and be able to handle it. At some point make it obvious you’re more interested in one, see how the other reacts. I think it’s a great way to show you’re a good guy, by involving them BOTH the whole time, but ask the one you like for a number at the end.
/r/seduction07/12/24 11:03 AM
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Some you win some you lose. Don’t sweat it, shake it off and move on. If this one was bad, chances are the next one will be better. Anything you can learn from the negative experience it’s important, don’t waste it.
/r/seduction07/12/24 09:05 AM
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I’m a newbie to the whole cold approach thing and I try not to have any rules, just guidelines that I give myself for various situations, and more than anything I pay attention to the woman and the vibe I’m getting all the time I’m interacting with her. Ive cold approached in the street, on public transport, at bars and at events. There is no right or wrong place, it’s vibe dependent. If you’re respectful and don’t come across as an oblivious asshole, you’ll be fine. Some you win, some you lose.…
/r/seduction07/12/24 08:59 AM
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Good job. Lots of negative comments here, but I say well done - you found what works for you and it gives you confidence boosters and self esteem. Keep going!!
/r/seduction06/12/24 11:41 PM
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Don’t be afraid, don’t think, just do it. If he’s a nice guy it won’t matter what you say. It’s what happens AFTER the intro that matters.
/r/seduction05/12/24 09:37 AM
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True!
/r/seduction04/12/24 11:32 PM
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Bollocks. It just depends how often and when in the day. Nothing wrong with a little text banter, can even build some nice sexual tension or anticipation before your next date. Just don’t get into any conversations, keep it fun, keep it light and wait for the real face to face to get into it with her.
/r/seduction03/12/24 11:04 PM
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Ok I scrolled down waiting to read reasons to leave because you only described great things about her. Your reasons to leave need to be discussed carefully and kindly with her. Needing more time is not a terrible request as long as it’s for the right reasons. As for being a step dad, that’s not your responsibility and you shouldn’t expect to be anything other than a great partner to her. If you love her then you’ll be ok with the kids I’m sure, even if you’re clunky with it. They will help you t…
/r/seduction26/11/24 12:20 AM
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I quit online dating because i knew I couldn’t represent myself authentically and well enough. I’m not just a profile, I’m a real human being with depth and substance. People see what they want to see online. It’s sad that dating has come to this. My advice is quit online dating asap and live your life fully in the real world
/r/seduction26/11/24 12:10 AM
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I never lie
/r/seduction24/11/24 10:24 AM
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Half your age? This sounds really encouraging but may I ask how you deal with that mentally? Are you looking to just have fun so it doesn’t bother you and you don’t hold back? Or do you stop yourself approaching women who seem too young for anything serious? Would love to know how you reconcile age difference because it’s kinda holding me back (similar age to you)
/r/seduction23/11/24 01:24 PM
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Probably both. I found here irritating to be honest, she kept interrupting me a LOT, and hardly asked me anything about me or my life. Was quite one way. That’s what you get when you have a date with a total random person! Was fun though and we graciously went our own ways. Fuck online dating. This is so much more fun
/r/seduction23/11/24 01:22 PM
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This is where preparation and research comes in. Make sure you always have a few ideas on what to say, ready to go, already worked on what you’re comfortable with and what YOU would feel comfortable saying not anyone else. Has to be your words not anyone else’s. But yes - I’m talking about avoiding overthinking. Act on impulse. The longer you wait, the less likely you’ll do it
/r/seduction23/11/24 08:05 AM
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She responded really well. Big smile, shy. Flattered.
/r/seduction22/11/24 06:01 PM
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Europe. Why?
/r/seduction22/11/24 06:00 PM
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Agreed
/r/seduction22/11/24 02:03 PM
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“Excuse me, sorry to bother you. We just passed each other in the street and I thought you were really cute, wanted to meet you. How’s your day going so far?”…
/r/seduction22/11/24 10:23 AM
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Love this
/r/seduction22/11/24 09:44 AM
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Love this
/r/seduction22/11/24 12:15 AM
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Totally understand. Do you just know he’s into your looks, even if he compliments on your shoes or asks you where you got your jacket etc? Or even just strikes up a convo about the weather??
/r/seduction21/11/24 10:47 PM
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Thanks for the replies. I have complimented a girl on her looks and it’s always been well received, I’ve gotten dates from it. So I’m puzzled that some of you think it’s not a good idea. I think if it’s delivered in a friendly casual manner, it won’t be taken badly. Plus of course if she likes you, then it will be fine. I guess the warning for complimenting on looks is that it comes across as cliched and vacuous, and a sign that this is all a man is interested in. I would never leave it at looks…
/r/seduction21/11/24 10:24 PM
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Ignore the people who tell you sex won’t be as good in your 30s. That’s utter bullshit. You’re way too young to be worried about this. Get out there, your 20s will be amazing!!!!
/r/seduction21/11/24 04:51 PM
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I have both. It’s a case of maturity. I have found that immature women cling to a sense of victimhood, whereas mature women understand the nuances and complexities of gender politics. Trying to discuss such things with immature women is impossible so I don’t bother any more.
/r/MensRights21/11/24 08:02 AM
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This. Sometimes I ignore, sometimes I give them both barrels and let them know how I feel. Nothing is wrong, nothing is right. You have no obligation other than be true to yourself
/r/seduction21/11/24 12:13 AM
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Wait long enough to not appear desperate but not too long to appear indifferent. I’d say text the next day, set up a date within the week
/r/seduction28/10/24 11:28 AM
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Replace rejection with pride, gratitude, optimism, humility, resolve, courage and respect
/r/seduction27/10/24 07:02 AM
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Rejection is just a state of mind
/r/seduction26/10/24 10:04 PM
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I’m trying!
/r/seduction26/10/24 08:10 AM
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I’ll definitely talk to other people on a bus if the circumstances / opportunity is there. I’ll just amend my follow up actions.
/r/seduction25/10/24 06:25 PM
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Ha. Nah. Was too busy trying to get over how awkward it felt talking to her! But glad I did, even if I went the creepy route afterwards. I’m learning as I go..
/r/seduction25/10/24 07:19 AM
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Bingo. Nothing happened. No idea if she blocked me, I’ve moved on. Next!
/r/seduction24/10/24 11:13 PM
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🤷‍♂️meh. No harm done.
/r/seduction24/10/24 11:13 PM
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You’re right. It sounds super lame, I dunno I guess I was taking a big chance. Nothing to lose. I doubt I’ll ever see her again.
/r/seduction24/10/24 11:12 PM
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Ha I guess so!
/r/seduction24/10/24 11:12 PM
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Cold approach is when you see someone in the world and go and talk to them. Has nothing to do with a feed. And I wouldn’t exactly call what I did stalking. That’s harsh
/r/seduction24/10/24 07:04 AM
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It’s perfectly normal dude. Just gotta get used to that feeling. It will get easier but at the same time you need that feeling to indicate she is someone you want. Otherwise it won’t mean anything. Face your fears!
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:46 PM
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Can you be clearer in your opinion about this? Genuinely after reactions if you have one! Thanks
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:44 PM
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Wise words my friend. My lesson here is… take the window of opportunity or say goodbye forever. Actually pretty good motivation for making the move, we will never see these women again! It’s now or never.
/r/seduction23/10/24 05:57 PM
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I guess the general message is ‘read the room!’. I actually did this the other day with someone else (forgot to mention) and she replied so you never know. I definitely haven’t been creepy about it, but that doesn’t mean it’s not inherently creepy. I guess that’s what I’m trying to understand.
/r/seduction23/10/24 05:55 PM
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There was no IOD, she asked me questions etc. honestly it was a very pleasant chat. The only thing I could say was a possible IOD was her getting off IF it wasn’t her stop. But no way of knowing. It seemed genuine. To add, I would have followed up with a date request but she got off! Lol
/r/seduction23/10/24 04:44 PM
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Damn. Oh well. Thanks for your opinion, lesson learned
/r/seduction23/10/24 04:24 PM
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I guess I thought she might have actually liked it?!?! Weird I guess. Oh well. I am learning about this all the time
/r/seduction23/10/24 04:24 PM
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To be honest I don’t really care if she thinks I’m a creep or not. I’m not a creep, I was just being opportunistic. I doubt I’ll ever see her again. But if the general opinion is creepy, I’ll avoid that in future.
/r/seduction23/10/24 04:23 PM
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Yeah got her name and her profession so her insta was an instant find. I can forgive myself for being creepy once, but if that’s the general opinion, I definitely won’t do that again!
/r/seduction23/10/24 04:22 PM
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Yeah good points thanks. This is all new to me so I can totally see what you’re saying. She gave off a friendly vibe and we had a nice little chat, but I can see what you mean, they are on the spot. I guess I wasn’t sure if it was a creepy move or if she would actually like it if she was interested but was shy or something. Oh well. No harm done. My message wasn’t creepy that’s for sure, so hopefully she wasn’t too weirded out and just put it down to another guy trying his luck. Are you saying p…
/r/seduction23/10/24 04:21 PM
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Yes!! Just stop thinking and fall into it. You may end up on your arse but you will learn each time
/r/seduction21/10/24 10:41 PM
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I’m trying to approach a woman once a day. It HAS to become comfortable for me and right now I fucking hate it! But it’s getting easier with every opportunity I take. Don’t think… talk!
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:36 PM
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That’s what I’ve been thinking. But women don’t seem very receptive to a smile. It’s usually head down. Or straight ahead. It’s like they just don’t wanna be bothered by guys
/r/seduction01/10/24 10:07 PM
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Let’s see how many of these dates end up as an actual relationship. Getting dates is not the problem with online dating, it’s the progression to a relationship that is very unlikely to happen.
/r/seduction01/10/24 06:25 AM
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Please try. Any ideas at all? What comes to mind?
/r/seduction30/09/24 06:15 AM
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There’s a lot here.. let me start by asking a simple question to understand more.. why do you want a girlfriend?
/r/seduction29/09/24 07:31 PM
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What a lovely comment. Thank you
/r/MensRights29/09/24 07:29 PM
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There’s no excuse. You punch, you’re guilty.
/r/MensRights29/09/24 08:09 AM
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You believe they’re you’re only option but trust me friend, you will face your fears if you remove the apps. Ask yourself… why can’t you speak to women out in the real world? Why don’t you meet women you like while you’re living your life, are you scared? Confidence issues? Self esteem? Etc. Start working on yourself but it starts with killing the apps. They are a defence mechanism. Trust me.
/r/seduction29/09/24 08:07 AM
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Ditch the apps. Speak to real women and show up to life. Don’t hide on the phone.
/r/seduction29/09/24 07:14 AM
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‘Ick’ is just an excuse women give for giving up easily and dropping a guy when they can’t be arsed to try harder. ‘Ick’ has become acceptable among women, it’s pathetic
/r/MensRights04/08/24 06:46 AM
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You sir... are awesome. Pat on the back from me. Good luck with the relationship, have fun!
/r/seduction18/02/20 08:21 AM
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Just play as a woman and you’re all set.
/r/MensRights24/12/19 10:09 AM
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Convicted of what?
/r/MensRights13/10/19 10:53 AM
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I’m still suspicious of this case. Found guilty of what? It’s easy to get swept up in the hysteria that’s all, and this guy sounds especially hysterical.
/r/MensRights13/10/19 10:35 AM
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Oh my god calm down. You all sound hysterical, and talk like the UK is a person. Was e arrested or not?? Seems like the REAL story is that she made the complaint which is I agree, bonkers.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 11:28 AM
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What do you expect from people who can’t think for themselves. That’s religion folks.
/r/MensRights28/09/19 10:32 AM
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Perhaps another thing to try is do stuff that will be worth talking about when she comes back. You will of course want to hear all about her holiday, but you want to tell her about stuff you’ve been up to also! Get busy enjoying your own life while she enjoys hers.
/r/seduction28/05/19 07:16 AM
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What a great start! Think of a relationship like a story. Keep writing it. There’s no right or wrong. Don’t panic. If she keeps sending you photos and stays in touch then you will definitely get another chance to see her again. One rule of advice - let her reach it to you. You don’t want to be hounding her or disrupting her holiday. Let her learn what a respectful guy you are who has his own life and is not needy. Also... give her the chance to miss you. Being apart will give you the chance to g…
/r/seduction27/05/19 09:56 AM
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