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| 2 | Cant use tinder anymore.That's fair. I try to be as objective as I can. And I don't really know how to solve that. I suspect things will just get worse as we get older. But hopefully there'll be some peace when we're 6 feet under 🤷♂️. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Cant use tinder anymore.This is gonna sound very edgy. It's very counter intuitive. But try to think about what you are doing when you create a new child. You are creating a version of you that will live probably live an unsatisfying life like most of us who's only real purpose for their existence is to be another employee in the economy. This kid will have anxieties, they'll have to figure out what to do with their life, and they may have a very difficult time dating just like you are right now. And it seems really li… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Take a little break from your thoughtloopI'm sorry you took it this way. I'm not trying to say this is a panacaea of some kind. It's just in this whole sphere of "something is wrong(with me/society) and I have trouble in my romantic/sexual life", people seem to get into these thought loops and become very bitter and keep the bitterness going by finding things to get resentful at. Dating/sex is terrible for a lot of us. And it just sucks that these things that are so important to our wellbeing are not being met. All I'm saying is take a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Question for FDS ladies: What is your definition of HVM exactly?Wait. Why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenCould you send me some of these articles and any anecdotes you may have? Much appreciated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenReducing male sexual urge would have zero impact because of the following reason. The trouble between the sexes is not about sexual urges, it’s about a toxic feminist mindset that constantly ignores female bad behavior and focuses entirely on male bad behavior. Sexual desires have nothing to do with it. Don't you see how if you truly don't have men needing women. IF men don't NEED. Not want. NEED to have sex with women. A lot of the tensions and the balance of power will go in the other directio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenI think we will unfortunately need to let it crash and burn before changes happen. We need a generation of women who will live through modern man-hating feminism and get out of the other side with no men to get something to change. But even then I don't see it changing. I hope science can come in to help fix these problems in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThe only thing that really matters is suffering. There is no reason for suffering to exist. We're in the system and we're trying to find post-hoc reasons for suffering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 01:07 AM |
| 2 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenNo I havenot. I'm slowly going through random parts of the bible old and new. I'm reading the NIV because it seems very readable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/20 01:06 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenOh lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThat is one lucky motherfucker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenI think we're fooled by our psychology to think that conscious life is much better than it actually is. Life is meaningless. The suffering that occurs in life has no purpose. It's better never to have been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenSame here. Let's hope an asteroid wipes out life before that happens. But in the meantime. I'm trying to find ways to make people's lives a bit more bearable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenWhat if we found a way to not play the game. Would you still want to join? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 06:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenI'm good. I've just given up. I'm trying to find hobbies to occupy the time. And I'm trying to red pill all my male friends who are having trouble in dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenHuman beings have a sex drive. We're not rational beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenFair. If the red pill raged guy going his own way who keeps talking about how evil women are is not representative, then maybe I don't know enough about the movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenabsolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 03:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenBut I'm trying to help the women. I'm specifically not trying to not make men who exist who need to be desirable to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 03:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThe sex drive causes a lot of suffering in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenI'm not defending women or shitting on men. I'm just trying to think of ways that men can lower their need for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThat's fine. But why do they complain non-stop about women. By trying to get away from women, they are still caring about women. Look at pretty much all the posts on mgtow places they tend to be about how bad women are. That means that these guys are thinking about women and searching for how bad women are all the time. You see what I'm getting at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 02:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenSome guys are unattractive irrespective of their families. Those are the people I'm looking at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 3 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenNot yet. I want to go through Schopenhauer first. But it's definitely on my bucket-list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 08:59 AM |
| 2 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenis an individual's ability to choose the person they are intimate (emotionally, sexually, etc) with not a good thing? No I'm saying that the person who's rejected can suffer a lot. Sexual Frustration, low-self esteem, depression, etc. People say that sex won't solve these people's problems, since these guys are just after power. But this is just a failure of understanding. I remember the sense of relief of this burden and stress and relaxation and frustration that I feel whenever I have sex afte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 08:56 AM |
| 2 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenHold on. I'm not saying this is men's faults. This just is. It's a problem and I'm trying to find a way to solve it. Forcing women to be more attracted to men doesn't work. Maybe it could work if we created pills for women that made them more attracted to average men. My point with commission vs omission is to say that whether it's right or wrong, we tend to see acts of commission as worse than acts of omission. I'm trying to think out loud here. Just look at these two scenarios. One is a girl w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 07:26 AM |
| 5 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThis is a difficult thing for most people to truly accept. We're probably hardwired to be more optimistic about life that it merits. But because of how well atheism is spreading and how little people believe in religion, the hope that religions used to provide in the face of suffering of life is working less and less. People are directionless in ways we haven't seen in a long time and their faith in the project of "Life" in general seems to be crumbling. God is dead, the message is slowly spread… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 06:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenDo women really oppose the further development of sex robots? I haven't come across anything to indicate that. Maybe there is. I'm just not aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 06:32 AM |
| 3 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenI'm just saying that life is suffering and not worth starting. Life is a curse and not really a blessing. It's not that I hate human beings somehow. It's just that life is meaningless, full of suffering and not worth starting. My point is just to say that the purported horror at human life going extinct is not something I share when people worry that human beings won't reproduce if men are less attracted to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 06:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenSometimes they will even betray their own children for men they deem sufficiently awe-inspiring. These things happen less than we think. For sure women are very very attracted to confidence and men who are high on the status hierarchy(which they and other sometimes confuse with scumbaggery). But my point is just that there is an imbalance of attraction between the sexes. Men want women way more than women want men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 06:26 AM |
| 4 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThe 80% thing is fairly easy to believe. Most women don't really choose men, they settle for the men they end up with because they can't get attractive men who can commit. All the studies I've seen regarding physical attraction on dating sites show that women find most men way below average in attractiveness. It's just unfortunate but it's a fact. Most men are not attractive to women. And with the rise of dating apps, decay of social skills, 0 tolerance for office relationships, etc. there's jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 06:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenSure it's a lot to do with power. But it needs some level of attraction to get to that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 06:01 AM |
| 2 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenYeah Sex Dolls and Legalizing Prostitution are sorely needed and would definitely help. Are women really complaining about men not approaching or is this us projecting our hurt from women's rejection and wanting women to get hurt by guys not approaching them. Is there any evidence of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 05:59 AM |
| 2 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThe issue to me seems to be that men's power over women is explicit and women's power over men is implicit. A lot of women in this society are allowed to get away with murder. And they have the state behind them in many instances. I'm not condoning the actions of those women. But what women do to is what they're not doing. They have unrealistic standards for men. Many only sleep with attractive men and cry "where are all the good men" when those attractive men dump them. They use men as an ATMs.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 05:56 AM |
| 2 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenVery true. We're simultaneously surrounded by people and yet lonely. This is not how we're supposed to live in the least bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 05:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenI wish marriage was the answer. And that just doesn't work. Look at any traditional societies or pre sexual revolution west. It's was not good enough for women which is why we're here. We're trying to find a way forward by synthesizing the old and the new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 05:44 AM |
| 6 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenFair but still not the same. You don't see women spending $20 a month to get pictures of guys on OnlyFans. That's just not a thing that's happening at any detectable rate at all. They tend to think of these men more emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 05:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThat's the first good idea that addressed the question. I think this would be a great way to reduce a lot of this stress. There is still a lot of stigma against being gay. Obviously being gay isn't a choice, but if more sexually fluid people who would just think of themselves as straight could have sex with other guys that would be a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 05:38 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenI have to admit that that's fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 05:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenI'm trying to reduce the frustrations of being a man. To not have to suffer as much because of how much sex we need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 05:34 AM |
| 3 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenTry to not take it personally and see where I'm coming from. It's a hard thing to do. We're hardwired to believe that we need to survive. It seems so natural. But try to think about it. What good reason is there for creating a new life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 05:33 AM |
| 5 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenPeople can't fuck people who they aren't attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThank you. Many younger these days don't even bother for their own well-being. I honestly don't blame them. God is Dead. Life is meaningless. Religion isn't giving people the assurance that it once did. We live in an age that is increasingly Nihilistic without any purpose or future. It's hard to not give up and start to row a boat while you're in the middle of the ocean if you can't see land in any direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:43 AM |
| 3 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenWe can try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:37 AM |
| 6 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThat's not true at all. There are some people of both sexes(but mostly men) who aren't attractive to anyone at all. Life isn't fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:37 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThat's the problem. The guys who can have sex do this. And the guys who can't have sex don't do this(at least they think so in their head). There's something about power and weakness that makes weak people think that they would be better if only they had power. All of us are partly good and evil. We can't ever be satisfied with what we have. It seems built in to our biology. Satisfaction is not a great trait to have if you want to reproduce the species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to women👍. Hope it all works out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:14 AM |
| 6 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenAlso to your previous quote from Ecclesiastes check out r/antinatalism You're preaching to the choir here. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenWell then that should be good enough for you. Move on, work on loving one another, and if it becomes a problem, I hope you have the courage to tackle it in a non-judgmental way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenActually use this for audio: https://www.biblegateway.com/audio/suchet/nivuk/Eccl.1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenIf you don't want to read it, here's an audio version of it. I love the reader: https://www.biblegateway.com/audio/purevoice/niv/Eccl.1 And here's the text version: https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ecclesiastes%201&version=NIV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/20 12:00 AM |
| 24 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenI'm not religious in at all. I love the book of Ecclesiastes in the Bible. Everybody (religious or not) should read it. Especially if you're drawn to more Pessimistic Philosophies. It's one of the most beautiful nihilistic works, and it always makes me scratch my head thinking how the fuck did this make it into the Bible. Here's a link to it. It's very short. Only 12 Chapters(more like 12 pages) https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ecclesiastes%201&version=NIV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenLooking at it, it's probably not responsible of me to give counselling on this topic when I don't know anything about you, your husband or your situation at all. We all need some level of privacy and space in a relationship and trying to be totally open with each other is impossible. He may just be a guy who don't have the same level of libido I had and still do have. Some guys do have lower libidos. It's fairly conclusive now that men today have significantly lower levels of testosterone than i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 11:47 PM |
| 3 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenYes. And lack of motivation and ambition and depression as well. But we should want the one and not the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 11:22 PM |
| 3 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenMaybe he's worried about how you will judge him if he says something like: "What I look for is 'Asian Gangbang' or 'Anal Cumpilation'." If he knows you'll flip out if he's too honest, he won't talk about it. I don't know about your specific relationship, so I shouldn't speak about it. But I'm just telling you about my own experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 11:21 PM |
| 7 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenWith the amount of porn young guys are watching and have watched, their sex drives have been overstimulated. I’m around the same age and I know mine was for a long time before I stopped watching porn all together. The level of stimulation that I needed to get off started getting more and more intense. Just a girl fingering herself became threesomes became gang bangs and it got to a point where just one guy and one girl having sex couldn’t get me off. If I was you I’d have a talk with him and hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 7 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenMen tend to lose their libido as they grow older and as they become "domesticated" and in a stable relationship. And porn is also sublimating a lot of that desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 11:04 PM |
| 3 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenExactly. Then these men can truly be free of their sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 10:56 PM |
| 12 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenWhat you're failing to understand is the level of insanity that the sex drive creates in men vs. women. I have sisters and female friends and no matter how much I explain it, they don't seem to really understand it. At around 14-15 me and my friends started to notice girls. And it started becoming very very obsessed with this need. You're basically horny all the time. You start viewing almost all your self worth on the sexual status hierarchy. You want to be like the guys with girls. What comes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 10:54 PM |
| 5 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenWhy do men simp for women and women not simp for men? The different sex drives. No one chooses their sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 10:33 PM |
| 30 | CMV: To solve the relations between the genders, we need to think of ways for men to reduce their attraction to womenThat's not really a problem for me. I go back to The Book of Ecclesiastes in the Bible: I saw the tears of the oppressed—and they have no comforter; power was on the side of their oppressors—and they have no comforter. And I declared that the dead, who had already died, are happier than the living, who are still alive. But better than both is the one who has never been born, who has not seen the evil that is done under the sun. --Ecclesiastes 4:1-3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Crazy idea: Create monasteries for IncelsAll life is precious, whether others treat it that way or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Crazy idea: Create monasteries for IncelsThat I cannot abide by. We don't push problems under a rug. We need to confront it head on, deal with the challenges, and find solutions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Crazy idea: Create monasteries for IncelsFor your sake I won't try to prove it. I hope you live life in empathy towards others but not in an existential crisis at the horror that free will is an illusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Crazy idea: Create monasteries for IncelsRegarding free will - Look at this when you have time. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aAnlBW5INYg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Crazy idea: Create monasteries for IncelsThat cruel and inhuman. If you had the genetics and environment of an incel. You would be an incel. Neither you nor incels have free will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Crazy idea: Create monasteries for IncelsBut this isn't shuffling them out of sight, out of mind. This is a national recognition that this is an existential human problem, and to find a role for these people in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsI know this is a bit of a late reply :) May I ask how my analysis is wrong? I'm genuinely curious about your opinions on this subject since you're a mod on FDS? What am I missing in my analysis? To summarize my points: There's about as many women as men in our society There are specific features that make men attractive to women and vice versa(irrespective of characteristics) Women are very picky. Men are much less picky, but are more thirsty and willing to "spread the seed" so to speak In terms… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsI'm very split on TRP. Because the language for how they describe women is very dehumanizing. But for a man who's lost out on the experience on being with a girl/woman, it is incredibly helpful. It allows you to detach from your hurt and gives you a real pathway out not just with girls, but with other guys. The message of: "Here is a real description of women's nature, here's why you're not getting laid, Accept that life isn't fair, and here's some concrete things to do to make your life better"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 03:56 PM |
| 7 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsI think you're absolutely right about how dehumanizing it is. I like a lot of what's said on /r/TheRedPill, and I've benefited a lot from it and grown as a man. But the constant vilification is what gets to me. I understand the anger phase. I went through the anger phase. I don't understand things like calling an FWB a "Plate". Like a plate, that's it. This think you are having intimate sex with is not a human being, it's a plate. And if your plate breaks, get another plate. I get how that kind … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsIf you have more to say. Keep going, I'm interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsI see what you're trying to say. But don't forget, there are more women in the dating market than men because of desirability of women vs men. You're competing for the same few men. I see women reinforce each other as Queens worthy of good men in FDS. But there is no inherent fairness in life. Some people are okay with being alone. Most of us are just not built that way. So if the supply of desirable men is low and you want a partner, what are you willing to do to get him? That's the issue that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsFor those of you who believe that empathy is just weakness and a foolish thing to do because of the prisoner's dilemma, take a look at this: https://ncase.me/trust/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsOn the phone. I met my SO online and I was not genuinely attracted to him until the first phone call. Maybe that could be a better dating app. Video or Audio only. No texting. You match with people, one of you has to video call the other within a day. So you're actually talking to each other and see each other's faces. But keep it real, it'll probably turn into chat roulette(with guys flashing their dicks)really quickly. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsI'm surprised by how many of the solutions you've outlined have been entertained by me. Specifically 2, 4, 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsYes. But you're dealing with human beings with monkey brains. The human beings that when they have something big like an Exam to study for, procrastinate. You need hope to really be motivated to try. And if you're an undesired ethnicity, height, etc. and you see outside that the people in relationships don't look like you. It's easy to give up. Change is very hard. If you've never had female attention by the time you're 25, it's hard to change your ways. You are literally fighting your mind. Thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Modern Dating is a Problem of Systemswomen are not instantly attracted to a photo of a man. Very few men are going to elicit immediate visceral attraction because women are not designed that way. I understand what you're saying. But what you're missing is the problem in the system. The mediums of communication between men and women do 2 things: 1) Because so much of dating is online, there is this illusion of choice that a lot of women have. If you're getting attention from lots of attractive guys on places like Tinder, you'll tend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsThere are objective and subjective ways to show that we don't have free will. Scientifically, there's experiments where people are told to make a decision, and we can know to a high level of certainty what they will do BEFORE they've decided to do it. Take a look at the Benjamin Libet experiment if you want more info on this. But you can see this subjectively. Here's a game you can play to prove to yourself you don't have free will. Pick a city, any city in the world............ Done??? OK. Now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsMaybe some of the guys with the description above will find love. But most won't and will live the rest of their lives alone. Give me a concrete example of an action where you have free will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 06:07 PM |
| 9 | Modern Dating is a Problem of SystemsI'm not arguing against that. I'm sure there's some women in the world who can like a guy who is 5'5", without muscles, short, bald, ugly face, weak, shy, awkward, and introverted. But I'm talking about the whole bell curve of humanity in their millions and millions and millions. Maybe some of the guys with the description above will find love. But most won't and will live the rest of their lives alone. We're all playing with statistics. And the statistics say for guys to increase their chance t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/20 05:54 PM |
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