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| 1 | How to converse as a duo | provin1327 | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 03:43 AM |
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| 2 | Solo game tonightJust go... | /r/seduction | 22/05/16 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Can get number consistently, have trouble getting followup, help!Dont go for the number, go for the date. It sounds like you are gaming in a night club/bar scene. You have the skills to take these girls home but you aren't, you're wanting a number and a follow up but they may be in the wrong setting for that. Are you trying to set up a date before getting a number? If you get the number, use it only as a simple, quick means to set up the date. Also, are they investing before you get their number? Are you flirting with girls long enough for them to ask a quest… | /r/seduction | 22/05/16 11:23 PM |
| 2 | How to keep a conversation going?F.O.R.D Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams. Ask and talk about those things. Dont just ask questions, spin off jokes, respond with creative answers and observations | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 04:53 PM |
| 4 | Put this in perspective: Getting 3 to 5 numbers a weekDon't measure numbers, measure approaches, dates and lays. Getting a number doesn't mean shit. It's the process of using the number to set up a date and further interaction, thats what you want to measure. | /r/seduction | 14/05/16 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Advice for male struggling with holding conversationBy listing your problems you've already done half the work! You know you get self absorbed, you know you suck at reading body language, and you know you suck at keeping the convo going. Now write that all down and work on it, focus on it! Joke more, dont go straight into question mode. Make a joke or reference about what she is wearing, holding, etc. This stuff isnt canned, its natural and therefor difficult Catch yourself talking too much and shut it down. Read more body language | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 12:38 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach without anxiety.As a follow up to point 2, do some reading on shit tests. It sounds like right now you'll fail them if they ever come up. | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 01:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach without anxiety.Good work, here are my armchair thoughts. You should have approached her with a joke or something clever about what she was writing at the podium. "No no no that's all wrong, the steak goes to table 1, not table 6" When she responded with "I have a boyfriend" you could have flirted with her a bit about it. "Can't you talk to other people without his permission" Or, "On a scale of 1-10, how serious is it? "like 8 or 9" "That's fine, my cutoff is 11 so we're good". Or just straight up ignore that … | /r/seduction | 08/05/16 08:02 PM |
| 3 | How to get back into the game after a rough breakup?It sounds to me like you answered your question 3 years ago, you need to dive straight back in. Stop sitting around thinking about the break up, its done. You and you alone got over your break up anxiety through cold day approach, just start doing that. Dont let rejection be "too much" but rather focus on the fact that you actually dove straight in again. Progress came last time, it will come again. | /r/seduction | 05/05/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Girls losing interest after 2nd date + kiss?Some huge assumptions in the replies but writing this out has helped me examine some flaws. I think /u/eARgZm has it right, too much texting, always initiating, not enough time | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Advice on girls who respond to messages late?Really with any girl unless it's a friend that you casually text with. This rule is especially true when you pick up and number close. Check out this post on text game it sums it up pretty well. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Advice on girls who respond to messages late?She's busy or she's testing if you're needy, and it sounds like you are. Text should only be used to set up a date and that should happen in 5-6 texts total. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Walking eye contactI am practicing the exact same thing right now. What has helped me is to not listen as actively to what the other person is saying (if it's small talk) and instead telling myself "eye contact, hold, she just broke, now you break. Make contact again" It sounds very silly but it will become natural, it is so important, and most of all you will feel their attraction, just from strong, confident eye contact! | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 05:27 AM |
| 3 | What are good techniques for picking up girls when walking dogs?Take the attention off of the dog and onto you. The dog is a perfect opener, everyone likes them but it is easy to focus on the friendly fluffy dog. Open with the dog then move the conversation to "so what are you up to on this perfect day?" Keep the conversation going from there without looking at or petting the dog. I was just in this position the other day and the convo ended early because I put the attention back onto the dog, mistake. Yes you could think of a few lines like "he must like yo… | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Walking eye contactI am in the same position as you. Just try and remind yourself daily to make and hold eye contact. Don't ferrociously stare people down, just make it, and hold it. When you break first it shows insecurity and shyness. It is a good idea to make eye contact before approaching, at least in a school/university setting that you are describing. It just helps to set you up in a way. Trust me, once you start making and holding eye contact you will feel a huge surge of confidence and positive reaction/bo… | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 05:09 AM |
| 2 | any girls here? how do you feel about guys with acneNo, you're not a dick, nobody likes acne and we can all agree it is unsightly. It sounds like you have already taken action to improve your acne but it hasn't cleared up yet and you're a bit worried. It will clear up and the dermatologist will find what works for you. The saying "if you look good you feel good" is true, and it applies to acne. Be patient, it will clear up quick and you will feel a boost of confidence. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Having an insanely hard time getting laid in college, in my final semester and a virgin, what can I do to change that?True but it is much, much, much easier during the day. This article explains it pretty well Tl;dr you cant "meet" girls at bars, there are tons of drunk dudes around, girls are expecting it, and they flake more | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Having an insanely hard time getting laid in college, in my final semester and a virgin, what can I do to change that?Forget the bar scene, daygame is the key You say you are good at cold approach, well then what? Are you getting numbers? Are you persistant? Are you going after all girls or just opening to ones giving you IOI's? We need more info Get in shape | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Going solo, have plan in mind, end up sitting aloneI have returned with some updates. Recently, because of the articles and responses I have read on seddit I have started being much more social. I talk to people I normally wouldn't really notice. I maintain eye contact during conversations, stand up straight, feel more confident, and in general am looking around and going out more. I got a number from a cute girl in one of my classes. I also made an attempt at a cold open during the day but my timing was off and she ended up leaving. Mini win fo… | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I ran some experiments.. Has anybody noticed College girls not very interested in dating?Post is pure gold. I am slowly starting to realize that night game is worthless (for me anyways) and day game is where it's at. I wish I would have realized this years ago. | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Apparently I sound old, thoughts?If you saw IOI's and were flirting it sounds like you failed her shit test | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Going solo, have plan in mind, end up sitting aloneUpdate: I have returned but things did not go as planned. My origional idea was to head out solo tonight, that didn't happen. My roommate saw me just as I was leaving and asked to tag along. We ended up going to a dead bar and staying there for a while with his friends. I finally split off from him but was too drunk and ultimately ended up going home. However, since my first post I have been much more social in general, talking to people at the store, making convo when I would usually just pass … | /r/seduction | 12/09/15 07:35 AM |
| 1 | How DO you use kino on a date (sexually)?True, this seems rock solid! | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Lost the girl, but learned so much!Bullet points #2 and #3 are so damn important, good work pointing thise out | /r/seduction | 09/09/15 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Going solo, have plan in mind, end up sitting aloneI tried meet up, it was good but I only went to one, haven't been able to make any others. Great advice about going out to treat myself, not just trolling for people. I will keep that in mind and I think it will make things go smoother | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Going solo, have plan in mind, end up sitting aloneDo you mean when you go out with friends you just end up talking to them? I understand that, you are comfortable with them and already have plenty of things to talk about. Sometimes this gives me social motivation and momentum, other times it kills the buzz because my friends are even more introverted and worried about looking silly than I am. Make sense? I cant believe the amount of responses already. Great advice people. I should be going out Friday, maybe solo, but I will for sure report back… | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 07:40 PM |
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