On a date, or even during pick up. I've opened, they're interested, things get going but it seems like I am the one who is asking the questions, pulling the convo out, making connections and jokes, etc. Even with pauses and lead ins for her, often times I cant get these girls to actually have a two way convo. They aren't giving me the cold shoulder or negative body language, they just dont seem interested enough to ask me questions. Any advice? Half way through I start gazing off into the distance, I lose interest because they cant hold a conversation or pull anything out of me