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1

The Chad move is pay for the whole thing
/r/seduction31/10/22 07:45 PM
1

Be mista steal yo girl whoaaa oooaa oaaa mista steal yo girl. I stole my girl from a marine overseas. Been together 12 years aaaayyyyyeeee 🤙
/r/seduction24/10/22 09:37 PM
4

Just go talk to him. God damn social media is toxic. It’s ruining you damn kids. Or do the oldskool giggle in the corner and have your friend go tell him you think he’s cute.
/r/seduction24/10/22 09:35 PM
13

Nah, but once this girl was dragging her feet with me and I called her up and was like -“I just went on a bad date. What’s up? Wanna watch a movie or something?” Been together like 12 years now.
/r/seduction18/10/22 09:24 PM
5

This sub is just here to encourage guys to do what you said you were going to do.
/r/seduction15/10/22 01:50 PM
1

I’ve had 3 strokes trying to read this. Edit: I get it now
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:23 PM
1

Incels everywhere lurking to offer their shit takes any opportunity they can. Misogyny.
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:21 PM
1

That’s not really accurate. Being an incel comes with the toxic idea that you are somehow owed sex regardless of how disgusting you are or bad your personality is. Incels named themselves. The term is toxic in and of itself. It’s the idea that they are owed sex without effort and that if you are able to get sex you’re some kind of “normie” and that makes you “bad” or whatever. And it’s like no dude, put down the yugioh cards and get with the program. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was 19. I …
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:19 PM
24

It’s just that this sub has been overrun by incels, and if you bring it up the thread gets locked and everyone gets a warning. This is not the same sub it was like 3-4 years ago. It’s gotten really pathetic.
/r/seduction08/10/22 08:21 PM
3

Can confirm got my girlfriend this way
/r/seduction04/10/22 09:17 PM
3

You’re getting downvoted but it’s true most people is not all people.
/r/seduction03/10/22 09:12 PM
11

Yup.
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:32 PM
95

That’s called maturing, and developing standards, and not putting pussy on a pedestal. When you’re young the first breakup is the worst your guts feel torn out. Then you do it several more times and it’s less of a big deal. That doesn’t mean you can’t bond Jesus.
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:26 PM
1

Plus if you tell women you don’t use social media when you meet them you can keep your frame and they think it’s interesting. Like any fuckin slob can make an Instagram profile, it’s not unique. But to say, “nah text me, I don’t really mess around with social media” they will be like “wh wh whaaaat?” And it gives you more opportunity to assert your ability to make conscious choices.
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:05 PM
14

Your presence and a phone number to text is all you need to prove you’re human.
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:01 PM
2

It will work the guys will hate you bad with a smile though.
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:39 PM
5

Lol -yes he was wrong. But seriously, with your last line? It’s no wonder Reddit has no friends… everything’s a red flag here, no room for growth or compromise.
/r/seduction27/08/22 01:49 PM
4

You can’t have a jinx 3 hours after the fact! This is a society!
/r/seduction26/08/22 09:57 PM
1

How is this a jinx? I must know.
/r/seduction26/08/22 08:47 PM
27

What color grain of salt should I take?
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:10 PM
1

Google the term : lesbian bed death … you’ll find pages on pages on pages
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:12 PM
1

Studies have shown that eventually there is no sex in lesbian relationships.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:14 PM
2

Lol I’m honestly so glad women are actually pretty chill about sex…. It’s us guys that are total psychos, if we calm down for like 5 seconds and listen to women, suddenly everything becomes so much easier.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:09 PM
1

Ok, let’s see some sources. Cite em.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:04 PM
2

You do this, while cuddlefish text your girl
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:22 PM
5

They’re gonna learn somewhere. You at least seem respectful. Give them an experience that won’t turn them off men. I met my partner after I had graduated, she was a freshman in one of my former professors classes. I was borrowing something from him and was like, “who is that?” And he gave me shit and ran me off but later introduced us. 12 years in October.
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:41 PM
1

Lol bro, that ain’t me. But lots of them post stock photos of a wristwatch, or guy tying a tie, or a lambo, and something like “success it’s building an empire from nothing” #nodaysoff etc shart etc.. It’s very in line with getting king and queen decals for the doors of your Acura…. That shit needs to go yo, so lame. It’s 2022, that’s not self-improvement.
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:43 AM
1

Build, conquer, push their limits, leave legacies- these are pop bullshit buzzwords. We don’t need more “positive male role models” that preach this shit, because it’s toxic and ridiculous. Just be curious about life, you don’t need someone to tell you how to be a man, search inward.
/r/seduction11/08/22 12:11 AM
3

She’s into you and you’re gonna blow it.
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:57 PM
1

Ah yes, women, the monolith.
/r/seduction08/08/22 12:18 PM
3

Says some guy that gets no play. OooooK.
/r/seduction08/08/22 01:27 AM
2

See, I can do this through a computer screen. Metaverse better watch out, comin in hot.
/r/seduction08/08/22 01:26 AM
10

I could hitch ye to a plow I reckon.
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:02 PM
26

I mean what can I say, I got it like that. “You have beautiful breasts, you’re making me so horny”. I could do this for hours.
/r/seduction07/08/22 10:01 PM
68

“Your breasts are amazing”
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:29 PM
10

Lol the “black pill” doesn’t exist outside the internet. Like wtf even is that? No one knows offline.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:00 PM
4

Gay bars are safe spaces for queer people and by extension generally safer for women. Clubs full of goons (like some of the guys that hang around this subreddit) are fucking annoying for women if they just want to drink, dance, and have fun with friends. Here’s the thing though… at some point in the night, the drinking, dancing, and having fun with friends leads to generally sociability, merry making, and hornyness. Combine that with an already sexually liberated environment and you have a perfe…
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:58 PM
23

Nuke this sub from orbit.
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:14 PM
1

What a pathetic thread of uncreative idiots. It’s a perfect example of everything wrong with the sub.
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:13 PM
8

Y’all don’t get women at all.
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:10 PM
14

Lol op just woke the fuck up. Women go to gay bars, dance, drink, get horny, but there’s no dick for them. It’s always been a perfect place for pick up. No competition, and you don’t look like a knuckle dragging bigot if you’re there. But I wouldn’t go alone or with a group of straight guys, or you will look like a knuckle dragging bigot.
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:52 AM
0

Doesn’t sound like a great environment for pickup TBH. Tourists,crowded,pushy,strict
/r/seduction02/08/22 08:17 PM
0

They’re more interested in the fact that you’re clean and have a sense of style and personality than what you look like. It’s all social/emotional with women. Same goes for men too though….We think women look like shit in ugly clothes with their hair messed up and no makeup on. A 5 can turn to a 10 reallll quick.
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:38 PM
0

A lot
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:40 PM
0

Projection- in its malignant forms, is a defense mechanism in which the ego defends itself against disowned and highly negative parts of the self by denying their existence in themselves and attributing them to others, breeding misunderstanding and causing untold interpersonal damage. This is you right now. Shut the fuck up.
/r/seduction08/07/22 11:25 PM
1

This is “seduction” not “dating advice”. Doesn’t matter what you value them for, but thinking women are shallow for not liking you for your personality when your personality is shit, is incel thinking.
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:11 PM
0

Beat it, take the L.
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:05 PM
1

None of these motherfuckers value women for their personalities so what is your point? Women should value men for their personality and men should????? Oh yeah ooopse you forgot none of these guys want to seduce unemployed uggo women either because it’s almost as though your personality is directly tied to your behavior! Who’d have thunk?
/r/seduction08/07/22 08:47 PM
4

One of the few in here that are.
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:02 PM
9

This is legit an incel sub now. So many women that these fucking guys wouldn’t even glance at if they weren’t wearing makeup. It’s a circlejerk of teenage virgins having a pity party for themselves in here, pathetic. News flash, no one wants to date your shitty personality. If you work on your looks, your financial situation, and your inner self - holy shit amazing your personality improves! Wow! Shocker! You mean women don’t like you for your personality when all you do is organize yu-gi-oh car…
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:14 PM
2

He don’t care.
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:35 PM
0

I think too many guys are trying for the wrong thing and ending up with the wrong type woman. Just find some cute chick, no one extravagant. A sleeper. You can never tell what a woman looks like nude, some super hot ones, pancake boobs, some plain Jane, perky bombshell apple ass- just destroy your ego, desire to show off and smash.
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:07 AM
4

Your last paragraph is everything. The internet has tons of fake BS on it my dude. Those “rich” kids aren’t the only people getting laid. Also, adjust your standards.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:05 PM
1

It doesn’t require you to get off the toilet. It’s the lowest.
/r/seduction20/06/22 07:51 PM
56

Repeat after me. “App game is the lowest form of game”
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:12 PM
3

Cause you look like a doofus
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:18 PM
11

Was friends with a former professor, went to return something I had borrowed from him, saw her in his class and was like, “damn who is that?” and he gave me some minor shit and ran me off. Couple weeks later I was working with him in another area of the building and she came in and he waved her over and introduced us. Game on.
/r/seduction18/06/22 08:31 PM
2

1) Because a woman’s sexuality is not solely based on looks, it’s based on safety as well. 2) what experience?
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:15 PM
7

Because it’s dehumanizing and women can sniff that shit out immediately, they aren’t here for it. You might be ready to sleep with her based on a how she looks, but she’s going to use that date with you to decide whether you’re worth sleeping with or not.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:58 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction07/05/22 01:11 PM
3

Would antidepressants help with depression? 🤔
/r/seduction25/04/22 01:45 PM
2

All you have shown us here are your own bad qualities. And you did say “who I’m sure are dumb”. Is this a troll?
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:53 PM
2

What makes them dumber than you? Seems like they’ve figured some things out. Intelligence is multiple.
/r/seduction16/04/22 01:40 PM
1

That’s not really about leagues though. It’s about class. Leagues don’t exist within class, but beyond that, lifestyle differs too much to maintain a relationship. You could bang a super hot person though if they were broke.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:45 PM
1

I don’t know why you’d compare yourself to an nfl star, you wouldn’t even run in the same circles where you could meet those women…. Or they’re total thots or call girls which anyone could pull.
/r/seduction13/04/22 11:19 PM
27

God this sub has fallen
/r/seduction12/04/22 11:16 PM
4

Because most folks issue here is that they have some form or social anxiety or communication disorder
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:44 PM
1

Will all one night stands include choking, slapping, and spitting in your mouth…? Hmmmmmmmmm. No.
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:29 PM
-6

I was hoping you’d explain
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:15 PM
-2

Username checks out?
/r/seduction06/04/22 04:42 PM
0

You’re 21 - you’re not high value lol
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:17 PM
10

This is the new incel sub
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:09 PM
3

No one has ever acted anyway, other than intrigued, to find out I don’t use Instagram, Snapchat, or Facebook. Instead of faking high value - you can work to attain it.
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:03 PM
1

Do what you want, but it’s not real social proof like what OP did.
/r/seduction23/03/22 10:23 PM
9

But not as quality
/r/seduction23/03/22 12:50 PM
4

Have a thick girl and see if you come back
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:04 PM
4

🧐
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:36 AM
-1

Marines are chodes I Jody their girls on the Reggie.
/r/seduction17/03/22 11:31 AM
6

OP is 17
/r/seduction12/03/22 06:11 PM
2

I could have batted in a higher league than I realized at that time.
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:18 PM
6

Only works on guys
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:27 PM
-14

What a chode take.
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:38 PM
2

They go to gay bars to avoid annoying toxic guys. It’s not that they’re not open to being hit on, especially once they’re drinking and dancing with hot gay guys… they then get horny and look for something to take home.. it’s simple really. Unless you’re toxic gigachadbroski.
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:24 PM
5

Point three: no straight dick
/r/seduction31/01/22 10:05 PM
7

Gay bars are the best place to do pickup. (If you’re not a total social mutant) Tons of straight girls, horny as hell by midnight, and no straight dick in sight.
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:38 PM
8

No argument there
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:35 PM
10

It has turned into incels and women… one group thinks women can’t be seduced. The other group thinks that they’re super easy to seduce.
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:26 PM
5

I mean cool, whatever, but the advice women give in here is generally hot garbage.
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:25 PM
2

Suck that pussy or dick enthusiastically.
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:06 PM
2

This is just just go ask this is ridiculous he will say yes
/r/seduction14/01/22 10:59 PM
0

(Unrealistic) sex
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:03 PM
4

I feel like you and OP can stop calling yourselves “short kings”…..it’s fuckin weird, is this a thing in the short community?
/r/seduction09/01/22 03:00 PM
1

In response to your question- yes. This generation is so fucking terrified of embarrassment that they don’t even understand ethics/morality or the law.
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:03 PM
1

You’re an idiot and you don’t understand the law. Plenty of places in the US where you can date someone underage if you’re within 4 years of their age.
/r/seduction07/01/22 03:58 PM
16

😙🤌🏻
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:32 PM
5

Damn- bunch of legal experts in here.
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:23 PM
2

Do you draw AOC in your notebook with big superwoman tiddies? 🤣 and you’re a Viking with a big throbbing mace. “Oh geese daddy, don’t hurt my constituents” ahhhhhhhhhhhhhahaaa this fucking guy Do you own a vaporated, black, pinstripe fedora by any chance? Are you familiar with r/mallninjashit ?
/r/seduction05/01/22 03:37 AM
2

It is! It’s so bad. 🤣
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:10 PM
2

This shit is drying my hypothetical pussy sooo fast Edit: still listening Omg the AOC part! It gets political…. Hooo boy this is some sad shit. Exactly what she was talking about fuckin hell aaaaahh you’re literally describing a rape fantasy with AOC. You’re literally the guys she was describing omg And with the music and you clicking around on that fucking rpg ahahaha this is some cringey neckbeardy shit my guy fuck
/r/seduction04/01/22 10:03 PM
2

You will be fine. Don’t do all the makeup from your blonde pic it’s too much. Stop making the duck face.
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:42 PM
1

Honestly bro- yes you should say something. You can just make her think she’s a fuck rag after a month. Even if you’re not trying to be with her. Like everybody has Covid right now- I have Covid and most people are gonna have it by the end of the month.
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:10 PM
-5

That doesn’t even make any sense.
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:03 PM
1

Ok thanks, but you lost me at nod and big smile. I’ve never seen anyone do that. Then again, you’re also on a seduction forum.
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:38 PM
4

Yo- on the topic of eye contact. I’ve never had much problem pulling, but something that always eluded me was eye contact. Could you break down eye contact for us? I feel like a lot of guides are really vague on this. Like, “if she maintains eye contact with you …” like what if we’re in conversation? Does that count? How many casual glances are enough? 1? Do we need a smile? How can you tell if it’s an accident or intentional? Etc. Any insight would be valuable to us all I’m sure.
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:07 PM
2

Just strike up convo. No guy will turn it down if you’re cute. Make him think he’s chasing you. See how far that gets. And if he isn’t direct and you feel it, turn it up a notch. He is probably just trying to be respectful to you because it’s your workout. Don’t worry about the friendzone. It doesn’t really exist for guys, unless they’re not attracted.
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:01 PM
0

-probably some incel…..
/r/seduction03/01/22 07:28 PM
4

Exactly. Which is why we should take this entire thread with a grain of salt.
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:22 PM
3

So you’re suggesting that we can just interpret anyones behavior at any time to mean whatever we want? Spread that info around as though it’s fact, and then wait for people to prove their innocence, even though nothing has happened? That’s the definition of slander, since we’re playing fucking dictionary. Should we get the teacher up in here and ask?
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:17 PM
4

Am I supposed to just jump on this bandwagon and play suppose with this person when I have literally no idea what is actually going? Everyone just automatically jumps to the creepy teacher conclusion. For all we know OP has significant mental health concerns and everyone’s just feeding into their delusions. We literally don’t know.
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:12 PM
0

I’m not extremist and I don’t think you’re an extremist…I think you’re a dumb kid.
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:01 PM
1

I think you answered your own question.
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:59 PM
18

As a HS teacher. HS students blow everything out of proportion. Not that creepy teachers don’t exist. But are you sure you’re not the one creeping? Like why post this here of all places?
/r/seduction03/01/22 02:30 PM
0

I’m NoT a FaSCi I jUSt rEpeAt EVeRYthInG ThEY sAy! Stfu and get bent
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:30 AM
1

Imagine thinking you could pretend to not be some transparently quasi-libertarian bad faith moron and that people would actually believe you had an original thought in your head and weren’t just some 4th gen trickle down Tucker Carlson ball hair.
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:24 AM
0

I dunno, you do a lot of cultural criticism in material and comp sci work? Or is it mostly rednecks and neckbeards?
/r/seduction03/01/22 12:12 AM
0

I know “critical theory” is real, I have a master’s… this is what happens in academia. It’s called thinking. It’s how ideas are applied and synthesized.
/r/seduction02/01/22 11:22 PM
0

There were a lot of independents storming the capitol screaming about “CRT” and “cultural Marxism”… thinking celebs drink babies blood…looked like mad max: furry road up in there. They all bought into right wing made up culture war boogy man bullshit … whether it’s race, or gender….doesn’t matter, it’s all the same crap. You’re what’s called a useful idiot - think you’re a free thinker but just parrot the same made up crap… no wonder you have a problem with “critical theory” … it requires you to…
/r/seduction02/01/22 10:34 PM
1

Who (that anyone takes seriously) uses the phrase “beta simp”? … have your balls dropped yet?
/r/seduction02/01/22 07:20 PM
0

These are also regurgitated right wing talking points. It’s just crap you wouldn’t have thought about if people weren’t actively weaponizing it against pussyless losers. Algorithms are driving you to think white men are under attack. I guess we will see how deep the rabbit hole goes, maybe we’ll see you on the US capitol steps in 2024. Lay off the Peterson, Shapiro, etc. crap rots your brain, turns you into an incel.
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:50 AM
0

So you’re brainwashed into thinking everything has to be described as a military action. Some chodes thinking men have become less masculine because women spoke out about sexual assault? That’s what you think war is? It’s fantasy kid stuff.
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:02 AM
1

It’s always when you aren’t calibrated though and shoot your shot without getting IOIs c’mon child… I’ve been a creep, you’ve been a creep, we’ve all been creeps.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:40 PM
2

People are out doing pickup. The only way they are coming across as creeps is if they are creeps….If they aren’t looking for IOIs and are just swinging blindly (which is 90% of losers like yous problem)… Me too movement was about women not liking to be sexually assaulted… you take issue with that?
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:14 PM
3

If one of those shitty truck graphics of a flaming skull with half a thin blue line flag for a face and a vaguely tribal motif could sign up for a Reddit account… it would make comments like yours.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:10 PM
5

Because it’s just regurgitated right wing “social war” talking point bullshit. If you can’t do pickup without coming across as a creep, well, you can’t do pickup.
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:37 PM
1

Literally you did
/r/seduction29/12/21 07:36 PM
1

Correlation is not causation
/r/seduction29/12/21 07:32 PM
2

“I just love flakey people” said no one ever
/r/seduction29/12/21 05:35 PM
11

The homelessness?
/r/seduction26/12/21 12:48 PM
-16

31 with 5 kids? Lol what a loser
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:47 PM
5

Ignorance is bliss. Lots of folks happy with themselves that really shouldn’t be.
/r/seduction14/12/21 01:32 PM
2

Yup 👍
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:09 PM
10

Hot egg
/r/seduction14/11/21 03:01 PM
17

I could probably pull this line off.
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:46 PM
3

Agreed. Anyone who thinks pickup is a science instead of an art is a pussyless fool.
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:31 PM
28

Women do not like when you use this line.
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:30 PM
1

Just get etymotics cheap easy dependable
/r/seduction30/10/21 12:54 AM
18

For those saying -“it won’t make you feel better” or “why?” Etc. This is a seduction sub, not a self-help sub. Self-help only in that it helps you to bang more. Maybe you find some peace along the way, maybe you don’t, but it’s not your place to judge OP. Don’t project your bullshit onto other people. OP wants to bang, why do you all have to try to psychologically dissect them? Maybe banging a lot of chicks would make OP happy.
/r/seduction25/10/21 03:50 PM
12

Etymotics Ear plugs … you should wear them in the club anyway and no one cares if you do, in fact it looks like you give a shit about your future.
/r/seduction24/10/21 02:04 AM
23

“I make eye contact- and look away” ……so you’re a pussy
/r/seduction23/10/21 05:30 PM
7

Just start dating children you simp
/r/seduction23/10/21 04:22 PM
1

True.
/r/seduction22/10/21 10:51 PM
23

This is the answer.
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:11 PM
2

It’s incorrect because the real reason is that women subconsciously see social media as a feminine past time. If you have a curated feed they think you care too much about what people think and chances are they’re correct.
/r/seduction18/10/21 09:10 PM
1

Just do most fucking in the day
/r/seduction16/10/21 08:51 PM
2

A fine size for a pussy
/r/seduction16/10/21 01:38 PM
1

Tell me how?
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:30 PM
-6

Being attractive (for both men and women) is 90% clothes, grooming, and posture.
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:29 PM
-3

You’re an incel, just stating facts
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:19 AM
2

You are.
/r/seduction22/09/21 12:40 PM
1

Pay cover, enter club
/r/seduction22/09/21 12:38 PM
1

It’s also because (in reality) it’s an act, and your friends will dog you for inauthenticity, but realistically you aren’t going to approach a girl in the same way you talk to guys you’ve known forever.
/r/seduction22/09/21 12:30 PM
49

If you think anyone “belongs” to you, you’ve already fucked up…also, no one is just going to come to you. It’s a dance.
/r/seduction22/09/21 08:27 AM
42

Nice sentiment but this ain’t it
/r/seduction22/09/21 08:00 AM
1

We’ve got Shakespeare over here people. TLDR no one cares.
/r/seduction08/09/21 11:29 PM
1

Ok, you’re in the UK we get it my guy. Admit you’re butthurt because you may never get to drive.
/r/seduction08/09/21 09:20 PM
1

C’mon guy, just admit that you’re butthurt that you’re an adult with no drivers license.
/r/seduction08/09/21 09:09 PM
1

Ok well break a leg. You should tone the confidence down a little though.
/r/seduction08/09/21 09:06 PM
0

Lives with parents, no car, goes to community college - wtf is observably true about that? Lol
/r/seduction08/09/21 07:40 AM
3

Spoiler: it wasn’t the truth. It was an overly simplified mess.
/r/seduction13/08/21 03:03 PM
2

Late 40s …. The world is different…
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:56 PM
2

Dig in 👅 🙇‍♂️
/r/seduction13/08/21 09:08 AM
2

You want sex on the first date? Like the first date you’ve ever been on? Yikes.
/r/seduction06/08/21 02:43 PM
66

Honestly just flirting a little, but keeping it within the realm of plausible deniability
/r/seduction03/08/21 10:45 PM
44

Are you me? I’m in this same situation right now… I’m older than you but she’s early 50s
/r/seduction03/08/21 10:19 PM
2

It goes both ways, there are gonna be women that you don’t feel chemistry with. It’s just different for guys because we confuse attraction with chemistry and we are the ones that are expected to approach.
/r/seduction03/08/21 03:27 PM
2

Honestly this is spitting truth and something that naturals do subconsciously. For instance- my girl has to “match” me before we can leave the house. Like if we are running to the store to grab ingredients or something and she comes out in a hoodie and I’m wearing a collared shirt, one of us is changing clothes. It makes women comfortable for the aesthetics to “work”, men aren’t as picky about weird pairings as long as the girl is sexy, that’s why women can get away with being awkward weirdos…I …
/r/seduction02/08/21 09:49 PM
2

This is your life right now jesus.
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:24 AM
17

I guess cause I don’t wanna feel like I’m fucking my daughter?
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:57 PM
1

Lol so stupid you sound like Tony Robbins
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:08 PM
9

Honestly fucking 20 year olds shouldn’t be the metric. The older I get (35) the less I’m interested in fucking 20 year olds.
/r/seduction30/07/21 04:17 PM
2

Bruh this isn’t your porno time. Go to an erotica sub.
/r/seduction30/07/21 03:56 PM
6

Dig in 👅 🙇
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:31 AM
22

It’s not even just about looking like the man, it’s about actually being the man
/r/seduction29/07/21 10:33 PM
4

This sub is full of people that think too much and act too little…this is just more of that.
/r/seduction27/07/21 04:48 PM
1

People that go to the gym are attracted to other people that go to the gym… shocker. The biggest issue I see with this post is the assumption that we all want to date and are attracted to the same people for the same reasons, which is not even remotely true. My partner left a ripped marine for me because we have good conversations and laugh a lot together, that was 10 years ago…. If you are shallow, you will attract shallow.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:53 PM
5

What’re you gonna bust?
/r/seduction11/07/21 07:46 PM
0

This has nothing to do with seduction. You’ve pulled two girls now basically.
/r/seduction05/07/21 02:54 PM
1

No…no
/r/seduction03/07/21 02:40 PM
0

Just saying - she doesn’t owe him shit and crying about it online isn’t gonna change that.
/r/seduction06/06/21 03:24 AM
0

So she should be forced to get to know this guy? Maybe this possessiveness is what she was trying to mitigate.
/r/seduction05/06/21 05:43 PM
12

She’s bringing her entire life’s experience to the table (you do as well). Maybe she has significant trauma around her family and the idea of you would be too painful and close to her experience. Maybe her entire life has been her family telling her, “why don’t you just find a nice Indian man and settle down?” Maybe shes decided that the risk of inviting certain aspects of your culture into her life is not worth the reward of finding out if you’re compatible. To be fair, on some level you feel t…
/r/seduction05/06/21 01:50 PM
14

Doesn’t make her shallow necessarily- there could be a ton of reasons that that’s a deal breaker for her.
/r/seduction05/06/21 11:56 AM
4

You have no control over this - all relationships should start as casual with a mutual understanding of sex and consent and etc. you can’t control if you end up wanting a relationship with that person, it just happens if it happens.
/r/seduction31/05/21 04:33 PM
1

That’s more than I do but yeah probably
/r/seduction30/05/21 05:47 PM
1

You grow tf up
/r/seduction30/05/21 05:47 PM
1

You may be surprised at the response you get from your scar- I have a scar on my face and get a lot of positive energy from it.
/r/seduction30/05/21 11:43 AM
4

Word.
/r/seduction29/05/21 06:27 PM
6

Yeah I mean you do you...if you keep it clean it’s all good, but if you slack it just becomes one more ugly thing to look at. The key is maintenance- if you can’t - gotta shave it off.
/r/seduction29/05/21 06:27 PM
1

When I was a kid soap gave me acne...when I switched to washing my face with just water I stopped getting acne.
/r/seduction29/05/21 06:11 PM
15

Honestly just shaving your face will work. I don’t think there’s much to gain from facial hair if you keep your head hair sharp.
/r/seduction29/05/21 06:08 PM
11

Considering you’re just wandering around asking people for directions, why not just take the pressure of pickup off the table and say, “today I will not attempt any pickup” and then just wander around practicing talking to people.
/r/seduction12/05/21 09:35 PM
2

Off topic- save it for your safe space
/r/seduction25/04/21 11:46 PM
1

Why would someone “probably hate” yoga?
/r/seduction15/04/21 08:52 PM
1

Like I said it’s typical- dates aren’t checking out because of stigma, but because its boring.
/r/seduction15/04/21 03:51 AM
1

Please stop
/r/seduction14/04/21 07:22 PM
9

I’m passionate about my horse feces collection. I’ll bring it when we meet.
/r/seduction14/04/21 04:40 PM
41

Yes....also - you can have more than one hobby... also- while gaming is a hobby, it’s pretty typical and I think most dates hear the word “game” and they’ve already checked out.
/r/seduction14/04/21 01:56 PM
6

Lower empathy to attract women- spoken like a true icarus bane
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:41 AM
2

This is total crap.
/r/seduction30/03/21 02:28 PM
1

I don’t even think it’s about doing extra shit, my girl texted me the other day and was like “thank you for being a good partner” and I said “why? What’d I do?” And she responded, “nothing, you help out with dishes and laundry- my coworkers are complaining about their husbands golfing and not helping around the house”... I just do that shit because we both work and I don’t want to live in filth, same as if I lived with a roommate.
/r/seduction27/03/21 04:00 PM
5

That’s not at all what your OG comment communicates
/r/seduction27/03/21 12:19 PM
6

Viewing women as equal is putting them on a pedestal? Oooooooooo brother
/r/seduction27/03/21 12:03 PM
1

You’re 19 not 234 months k
/r/seduction03/02/21 11:25 PM
2

Therapy
/r/seduction26/01/21 09:15 AM
4

This is the most valuable response/post on this entire sub, it deserves a sticky.
/r/seduction26/01/21 09:10 AM
1

Sometimes you mention approaching women, sometimes you mention approaching girls. Without making any judgement, I think it would be beneficial to define for yourself how you differentiate, or are you speaking interchangeably?
/r/seduction26/01/21 09:07 AM
1

I was at home while a group of friends were out at a bar, I called one of my buddies that was there and he said one of the girls they were with was talking about me. I told him to put her on, and then told her to come over after she left the bar.
/r/seduction18/01/21 08:30 AM
14

I would suggest learning punctuation, it will make you more desirable to the other members of the human race that are allowing you to remain on this planet.
/r/seduction18/01/21 08:22 AM
32

So what have we learned from game dragon today kids? When a woman says “we’re not having sex”, the proper response is “oh, of course we are”.
/r/seduction18/01/21 08:17 AM
19

Or lives in a cheap area, they exist (probably not in a place that uses the prefix uni) I lived alone from 18 on
/r/seduction18/01/21 08:14 AM
1

It all makes sense now
/r/seduction30/12/20 03:26 PM
1

Could it be possible that someone born into money might know more about it by nature of having it? Like, I couldn’t tell you a thing about trust funds, or IRAs, or investment - but I’m sure there are people born into money that could, because that’s the world they live in. As far as pickup goes, I’m what people call a “natural”, I can’t tell you how to get women as easily as I can tell you the things guys screw up. I can see a guy across a bar and go from shoes, to posture, to haircut and tell i…
/r/seduction28/12/20 10:36 PM
2

I’m going to end this now because you are fragile and angry. Everything doesn’t have to be a debate.
/r/seduction28/12/20 06:37 PM
1

Negs are just one tool. If all you do is neg, you will be seen as a tool. If you think because you can catch or bat that means you’re good at baseball, you are wrong. - Besides a lot of high quality women are not here for that neg shit anymore.
/r/seduction28/12/20 05:09 PM
0

Not true.
/r/seduction28/12/20 04:58 PM
4

Negs don’t work if you don’t have the social foundation to make them work. A lot of folks here don’t have the basics of living in a society down - game is not formulaic it’s holistic. People come here thinking they can follow certain directions without doing the self-work, they want to cut corners and “game” women. There is no “game”, the game is making yourself desirable and then going out and proving why you are.
/r/seduction28/12/20 04:55 PM
6

It’s a pandemic
/r/seduction27/12/20 10:01 PM
2

Penguin Pete
/r/seduction23/12/20 03:28 AM
5

Yes - they hate self-improvement so they come here to complain about how everyone’s wrong, nothing works, and women are evil. No one said anything they do makes sense
/r/seduction22/12/20 05:43 PM
1

Tldr don’t care
/r/seduction21/12/20 03:31 PM
12

I don’t want to be a mod, but we gotta do something about these incels.... they’re multiplying at a pretty rapid rate and spreading bad info.
/r/seduction21/12/20 02:25 PM
0

We can read the shit you post on Reddit and see which groups you’re a common contributor to. This isn’t a place for you, the majority of posts here are about self improvement, not blaming women for your problems. I am sorry they shut down r/incel I know it’s hard to lose your friends like that.
/r/seduction21/12/20 02:16 PM
-1

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_marriage_in_the_United_States#U.S._States “Hurr durr I don’t know facts but I talk out my ass” - You
/r/seduction20/12/20 07:28 PM
1

You’re leaving out the history of sexual violence perpetrated against women.....you know, how women were (and still are in some circumstances) sold to their future husbands families, or how child brides are a thing, or how sex trafficking is a thing, or how women are assaulted in the workplace ala Harvey Weinstein and Matt Lauer, or how legislators attempt to take away rape victims right to safe abortion, or or or or etc etc etc on and on and on. And the fact that you think that’s somehow a “bot…
/r/seduction20/12/20 02:08 PM
1

None of what you said has to do with a woman’s fear of sexual violence which is what this thread is about... to say “women don’t know how to behave either”, shows exactly how you feel about women and exactly why you have issues with them.
/r/seduction20/12/20 01:51 PM
-4

This sub is full of incels.
/r/seduction19/12/20 02:56 PM
1

Women want -1)clean 2)kind 3)safe 4)fun Women don’t want- 1) dirt 2)desperation 3)danger 4)boredom
/r/seduction19/12/20 01:20 PM
-11

“Based on my limited experience, I’ve concluded it couldn’t possibly be my fault”, wrote the fiction author.
/r/seduction19/12/20 01:16 PM
33

how is babby formed? How girl get pragnent?
/r/seduction14/12/20 09:46 PM
2

I think this sub has largely turned into r/incels lite.
/r/seduction19/11/20 09:48 PM
-9

Truth
/r/seduction13/11/20 08:40 AM
2

Same, I do it a lot, especially if a good dj is playing. it’s not weird at all. Learn to dance and not be a creep and you’re golden.
/r/seduction01/10/20 09:02 PM
7

Yes
/r/seduction25/09/20 05:44 AM
6

This isn’t how cologne works.....you have to suit it to yourself.....if it weren’t so covidy you could go shop and flirt with the girl selling it, have her help you pick...
/r/seduction29/07/20 07:31 PM
2

Total bullshit
/r/seduction06/05/20 04:13 PM
26

That’s because you don’t think you’re attractive (your words) so you don’t act attractively. This is the inner game people always talk about.
/r/seduction06/05/20 12:22 AM
4

But you can put in effort and not be 300lbs... not easy, but not impossible
/r/seduction22/04/20 06:27 PM
1

You’re sending hours on reddit doing that- not being productive
/r/seduction12/04/20 09:21 PM
1

Is this Opposite Day?
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:53 PM
1

Spoken like a true incel. The whole post is about bettering ones self to attract women, and the comments are all, “no! That’s not true! It doesn’t work!”
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:11 PM
3

By the responses here...this is the new incel subreddit....
/r/seduction17/03/20 02:44 AM
1

Yeah nowadays
/r/seduction20/12/19 05:53 PM
2

Great post OP- but this thread and community is sad, you all are too pessimistic to attract women.
/r/seduction10/06/19 04:31 PM
1

I’ll eat yo box .....boom
/r/seduction28/05/19 09:28 PM
1

“I guess because you’re in it” .... The “I guess” is to show that you hesitated to show your dick but then rethought it- it decenters the interaction in that it feels like an unprepared line...then you have to be prepared for the second shit test that will inevitably come next. I know this makes no sense . To compliment someone on their dress and then the compliment is not about the dress, but it was never about the dress, and she already knew that during the small talk.
/r/seduction22/05/19 04:12 PM
1

Time to have a talk with brother and get real about pussy...cause if he ever decides to quit gaming and get some himself he’s gonna need you on his side as well....I think you need to call house meeting.
/r/seduction22/05/19 04:03 PM
-2

I don’t understand your comment about blue balls...are you sure that’s what you mean? Secondly, the “I don’t feel cute” is a huge red flag to me because you will fall for this girl once she puts out, then you’ll get stuck with her, then her insecurity will crop up again, and you’ll wish you’d never met.
/r/seduction29/03/19 07:28 PM
1

Guy stops chasing the D is able to get women.
/r/seduction02/02/19 04:48 PM
2

I think about myself all the time... shiiiii mind blownnn
/r/seduction29/01/19 09:50 AM
2

This is more r/depression material
/r/seduction18/01/19 09:11 PM
1

Disagree... I clog multi blade razors and end up throwing them away
/r/seduction16/01/19 10:47 PM
5

Switch to safety razor, better shave, cheaper
/r/seduction16/01/19 06:17 PM
55

Favorite line from this, “I was fucking new and existing girls.” I know it’s just poor phrasing but I couldn’t help but laugh.
/r/seduction14/01/19 10:03 AM
2

He’s shit at free associating...negging is not free association. Edit: well, it’s not, it’s a planned routine. A bit. You end up using the same tired lines. Also, you can’t neg high quality women in 2018, they’ve upped their game.
/r/seduction06/12/18 11:02 PM
10

Ok
/r/seduction30/11/18 11:08 PM
15

Try this with men: hey man wanna take me out?
/r/seduction30/11/18 09:31 PM
0

Damn that’s pretty clever
/r/seduction21/11/18 11:46 PM
-6

I think there’s an important lesson in how having standards forces you to become more high value... if you’re fucking young and dumb, you’re not going to achieve your fullest potential... Sorta like fapping 30 times a day, temperance is important
/r/seduction21/11/18 08:11 PM
-23

Emphasis on the word “girl”. I’m more into women personally.
/r/seduction21/11/18 07:50 PM
29

If I find out she’s listening to Tekashi 69 I don’t even want to hit it... drama follows stupidity
/r/seduction21/11/18 07:33 PM
-14

You sound like an incel
/r/seduction20/11/18 08:42 AM
2

I’m 33 I’ve been with like 15 women in my life. Current partner for 8 years. I don’t think I’ve ever formally asked a girl out.
/r/seduction16/11/18 08:39 AM
2

Honestly doesn’t matter, A. you’ll just be sad and always regret not asking, B. will eventually stop hanging out cause friends don’t last forever, or C. end up getting together... so any way you look at it no pressure.
/r/seduction31/10/18 08:22 AM
–

Honestly if you just define yourself by a diagnosis and have already relegated yourself to the pile that has nothing to offer women, you should just stay home and jack off... Now if you want to realize you're more than a diagnosis (I'm going to argue you probably aren't the only person with autism in here) and you want to find the value you have to offer women, then you're in the right place....
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:56 AM
2

They're already here...
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:50 PM
8

The incels have migrated...fahhhk
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:49 PM
4

These two things are not mutually exclusive. There are tons of attractive women with good personalities.
/r/seduction04/08/18 02:59 PM
1

Sidebar
/r/seduction05/04/18 02:17 AM
2

THAT is flirting. Thank you.
/r/seduction23/03/18 08:42 PM
35

That's not flirting...
/r/seduction17/03/18 03:53 PM
11

So is this sub finally fully saturated with pessimists?
/r/seduction12/03/18 04:08 PM
1

I used to like skinny women... then I had some sex with a thick girl... never been able to go back
/r/seduction01/11/17 08:09 PM
2

Self-sabotage, if he convinces himself of this nonsense he has an easy out to avoid self improvement.
/r/seduction03/09/17 07:53 PM
3

What a crock of shit... come talk to me when you've been with your girl 6 years and she's sitting around in sweats farting on you
/r/seduction18/08/17 10:16 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction19/05/17 04:08 AM
1

Pimp
/r/seduction19/05/17 04:07 AM
3

Do some shrooms, you'll be scared for a little while but then remind yourself you're not gonna die and all is well.
/r/seduction13/05/17 06:09 PM
3

Word mushrooms totally expanded my world view and made me step back and go "damn... it's really not all about me is it?" Everyone should experience psychedelics at least once
/r/seduction13/05/17 06:08 PM
3

I was a freshman in college when I lost my virginity which was way after all my friends... didn't expect it to happen but it did, find you a good girl who's into abstinence garbage like go to a church youth thing or something... they will fuck, trust me on this. And once it's over you'll be like "shit, no big deal" once I fucked fucking was super easy like the floodgates being opened up.
/r/seduction13/05/17 06:06 PM
25

Exactly. A short douche at that.
/r/seduction05/05/17 01:53 PM
5

Create hardship in your life? Lol ... nah I got enough of that dog
/r/seduction28/03/17 06:30 PM
2

You are a bitch
/r/seduction04/03/17 06:30 PM
1

Which is also not the specific phrasing I used. You're the Ben Carson type of brain doc aren't you?
/r/seduction14/02/17 05:00 PM
1

And yet, it's basically the same advice you gave.
/r/seduction14/02/17 04:29 PM
-1

Just say "I'm a rocket scientist, no really I work at blank in the blank lab, I can't really talk about it in a way that won't bore you though, so let's talk about something else"
/r/seduction14/02/17 02:23 PM
3

This is the line
/r/seduction14/02/17 01:54 AM
3

Just you two and a bottle sounds kinda scary, you have to have something interesting to do, or someone else around otherwise I feel like it's a bad first appearance.
/r/seduction13/02/17 11:25 PM
1

Chill the fuck out dude....jesus
/r/seduction13/02/17 11:24 PM
2

I did a little digging and I'm gonna help you out. Stop with the bootleg clothes. Women don't care if you wear designer clothes, especially if you just wear them for the name. Honestly they'd rather your clothes just fit and are clean. They don't like gaudy shit on guys because you look like a freshly 20 yr old homo (no offense to any lgbtq+ people) Stop talking about how you're not used to hanging out in places that aren't "rooftop bars" etc. etc. that may be your circumstance but it's not impr…
/r/seduction31/01/17 10:50 PM
1

You sound like a knob.
/r/seduction31/01/17 10:35 PM
1

Being a "yes man" means you're willing to say yes to her selfish desires, but If she's trying to ask you to salsa because she wants to get to know you better or thinks it's something you'd both enjoy, then that's just saying "yes" (which is in my opinion good). If she's just trying to get you to stop at the store or run her errands then that's when you become a "yes man" door mat. It's really about the other persons intent.
/r/seduction27/01/17 07:44 PM
3

...
/r/seduction19/01/17 02:09 PM
6

A beer pong table brings a totally different ambiance than "chill", in the traditional meaning. bear in mind it comes with lots of trash: spilled drinks, solo cups, beer cases, stepped on pong balls, cigarette butts, blunt ash. Which is then followed by paper towel, broom/dust pan combo, black trash bags, broken cheap furniture, air freshener. These things come hand in hand and always seem to be within a close visual and olfactory proximity.
/r/seduction18/11/16 09:29 PM
1

"I have met quite a few girls who were flirty but had boyfriends. None have ever dropped their boyfriend for another guy." You mean you right? The "another guy" is you. Because I disagree wholeheartedly.
/r/seduction18/11/16 08:22 PM
1

That shit turns me off too. I was sitting at a bar talking to one of my college profs and his boyfriend, and the girl I was sleeping with was super drunk and came up behind me and ran her fingers up the back of my head and said (whispered very loudly) "I want you to fuck the shit out of me". I ignored her and she ended up leaving with someone else. I never fucked her again. Edit: especially awkward because my prof and his partner were there.
/r/seduction18/11/16 06:00 PM
79

Weed
/r/seduction18/11/16 05:56 PM
20

She's just one of those slow boilers. She wants to know you're super into her before she cheats. Branch swingers, they won't let go of one branch until they have hold of another.
/r/seduction18/11/16 05:55 PM
2

ll bean t shirts are awesome. My granny and mom buy them for me at xmas, because they swear by them.
/r/seduction18/11/16 05:53 PM
1

https://youtu.be/1WbOrY9PoIs
/r/seduction18/11/16 05:50 PM
66

Shoulda stuck with it, my girl didn't give the best blows but now she's amazing.
/r/seduction10/11/16 10:06 PM
2

Means I just bounced and never talked to her
/r/seduction08/11/16 04:56 PM
0

They don't need you. See it's a convoluted paradox.
/r/seduction08/11/16 12:02 AM
6

I just know from personal experience that being invited out by a woman with her group of friends is a huge fucking turn off, and kind of disrespectful to be honest. Make your intentions known.
/r/seduction07/11/16 11:38 PM
3

Oh yeah, I talked to a girl at a bar recently, totally had her on lock, and she was soooooo fucking boring I just couldn't.
/r/seduction07/11/16 11:30 PM
11

You sound like a terrible date. Sorry. Edit: what's with all the white knight downvote bullshit? Does anything about this date sound fun to any guy on this sub that's actually ever been on a date? Be honest.. no, it sounds like a bunch of game playing and ego propping.
/r/seduction07/11/16 11:28 PM
1

Yeah you gotta seduce both in that situation
/r/seduction07/11/16 11:19 PM
2

You're so low value you not only take the time to insult her, you turn to reddit for advice.
/r/seduction07/11/16 11:19 PM
0

You NEED to rephrase that if you're to expect anything. They don't care about your NEEDS. It's your job to take care of theirs. Smdh.
/r/seduction07/11/16 11:17 PM
1

Yeah great, but I read expecting something. And it was just like "ok here is what I did" there was no point in this field report.
/r/seduction31/10/16 08:55 PM
2

You speak truth, this was a painful read.
/r/seduction31/10/16 07:50 PM
0

Hey, stop following me around to different threads, it's just annoying. You're a loser man. I'm sorry for that, but you can change.
/r/seduction20/10/16 05:12 PM
1

Good job buddy. It means she's horny because she's repressed.
/r/seduction20/10/16 04:24 AM
-1

A fucking stallion? A sexual god.. 😂 No, I'm actually a man. Imagine a woman read this; you'd be so embarrassed.
/r/seduction20/10/16 04:20 AM
2

It means you wish it meant something. And it may, or may not. Does it?
/r/seduction20/10/16 04:14 AM
2

Chai her up.... get it? Get it?! Ahahahshhshshahzhabzbahahaj!
/r/seduction14/10/16 06:15 PM
2

No, dude from 50 shades of grey is super rich. Like a billionaire. His kink only turns women on because he's mysterious and powerful. If you aren't any of those things, which it's impossible to fake, that narrative isn't going to work. It's fantasy, they don't want it as reality.
/r/seduction13/10/16 06:26 PM
1

Um yeah pretty much
/r/seduction13/10/16 03:15 AM
1

That shit works yo
/r/seduction13/10/16 03:12 AM
1

Yeah and why would you want to fuck her after that anyway?
/r/seduction03/09/16 03:30 AM
2

Thanks, anything else to share? Can we do an "Im a girl AMA?"
/r/seduction03/09/16 03:25 AM
1

They become the same guy.
/r/seduction03/09/16 02:57 AM
4

Frats are cesspools. Frat guys are literally the "basic bitches" of the college world.
/r/seduction03/09/16 02:54 AM
4

Fortunately.
/r/seduction03/09/16 02:53 AM
1

Yes, I've noticed a lot of people in general have trouble making eye contact. Well you're in luck because you're realizing sooner rather than never.
/r/seduction03/09/16 02:50 AM
3

No, just commenting on society.
/r/seduction30/08/16 07:41 PM
2

Yeah, I also hate that everyone's constantly wearing headphones now.
/r/seduction30/08/16 07:16 PM
3

She tried that hug though, and his penis ran away. Funny but not funny, I feel for dude, he's gotta get back in it before it's too late.
/r/seduction30/08/16 07:14 PM
1

Uh huh.
/r/seduction30/08/16 07:07 PM
-1

Dude has a video on seduction tips you can learn from trump. Haha. Pass.
/r/seduction30/08/16 12:19 PM
3

I can game in the Hardee's parking lot at the off ramp on I-68 gtfo
/r/seduction30/08/16 05:40 AM
1

You're just feeling like you're lesser when it's really just a matter of A) you may just be completely wrong about what's going on or B) she just prefers him and it has nothing to do with you, someone else will probably prefer you over him.
/r/seduction28/08/16 06:49 PM
2

Maybe he's full of it maybe he's not, maybe he'll end up shooting himself in the foot maybe he'll get her, maybe she's having fun with him, maybe she's holding out for you. You can never really tell, but no matter what you have to remember that attraction varies, you could do all the right things and be the more physically or even mentally attractive guy but she may just end up preferring him, and that's ok because people's attraction varies. I know I'm not always attracted to the same women as …
/r/seduction28/08/16 05:59 PM
1

I'd have got her snap chat these young women don't even text anymore
/r/seduction26/08/16 09:57 PM
1

Ok good luck
/r/seduction26/08/16 09:50 PM
8

She told you what she wants and its incongruent with what you want. Explain that that's not what you want. Next.
/r/seduction26/08/16 04:43 PM
0

Maybe you ask dumb questions
/r/seduction26/08/16 04:40 PM
8

Oh whoa is me, nice guy who can never get the girl. Maybe you're not a nice guy? Seems like you've made up your mind that this guy is a jerk because he has what you want. Maybe you're actually a little bitch, but your perception is that you're a nice guy. It's ok to be a nice guy, but being a "nice guy" just means you're an inauthentic pussy.
/r/seduction26/08/16 04:37 PM
1

Ideally for who? If you knock at the wrong time you run the risk of her coming to the door in her sweatpants and being pissed at you for seeing her outside of the context she set up for you. Women hate to answer the door for people they aren't expecting. Trust me. Best leave a note, if she wants you it'll add to your mystique, if not, well barging in unexpectedly is surely not going to help either way.
/r/seduction26/08/16 04:10 PM
0

If you're struggling and you already know she's down. Maybe you're boring, or she is?
/r/seduction26/08/16 02:49 PM
2

Lost my virginity at 19, she was sexy as hell, carried on with her for the next 2 years. I lived in a dorm with 3 other guys (single rooms) at the time, all of which were cooler than me and in my mind at the time should have been getting more play (but they weren't). Breaking that seal worked, once you get it it's like a flood gate opening. I get the feeling your anxiety of not being on the time table you've created in your mind is getting to you. Just let it happen and don't worry. After that y…
/r/seduction26/08/16 02:36 PM
2

You're not getting quality like that, and he already knows this girl, she's not just some random person at a bar.
/r/seduction26/08/16 02:27 PM
2

Use the bike in your pickup not as an added bonus they find out about once you start dating.
/r/seduction26/08/16 02:17 PM
1

I would drop by and leave a playful handwritten note with your number telling her to text you. Do it occasionally throughout the "relationship" as a cute thing. Women love cute things. Hell I love cute things.
/r/seduction25/08/16 04:17 PM
1

This! I think 🤔
/r/seduction25/08/16 04:13 PM
10

Yes! What the literal fuck.
/r/seduction25/08/16 03:59 PM
4

You aren't trying to be friends with girls you don't want to fuck though, see your problem. You're being led around by your dick and being the nice guy because you're caring too much about what she thinks, far more than a male friend, because you explicitly want to fuck.
/r/seduction25/08/16 03:57 PM
1

Looks are more about presentation than anything else. I've seen/been with a fair amount of women that look completely different when showered, dressed, hair done. It's the same for guys, you should go out and look at the average guy you see on the street and then try to not be that guy. Edit: just saw the picture you posted- you have plenty of potential. I would find a nice beard trim that works for you better, or shave completely, the scruff look doesn't work for you. Clean up your eyebrows a l…
/r/seduction25/08/16 03:45 PM
1

Calling someone beta makes it sound like you study seduction, because who the fuck talks about alphas and betas other than people that study seduction; And there is nothing more beta than making it obvious you're practicing at being alpha, as opposed to just being alpha naturally.
/r/seduction16/08/16 07:49 PM
1

Well, she's working at chipotle, so she's currently miserable, and then you walked up and were an obnoxious douche. Who wants to fuck their brother anyway? Terrible.
/r/seduction12/08/16 08:33 PM
1

It's easier
/r/seduction12/08/16 08:31 PM
1

Spin girls not women
/r/seduction12/08/16 08:29 PM
1

I like the part where you're teaching English and you "sleeped" somewhere
/r/seduction12/08/16 08:27 PM
1

Learn sarcasm better.
/r/seduction12/08/16 08:19 PM
5

My girlfriends ex texted her "hi" late one night. She knew exactly what he was up to and showed me the text and said, "I'm not even gonna go there, I know exactly what he wants, can you believe this crap?" Basically women don't want to be used as cum rags, shocker I know. If it were me, I'd open with an apology and you may get somewhere but don't hold your breath.
/r/seduction09/08/16 01:41 PM
3

I disagree if you nod or something to recognize their personhood, or say wassup? Acknowledgement immediately can keep people from stabbing you.
/r/seduction09/08/16 01:24 PM
1

At 16 nothing you say is cool. So say whatever you want.
/r/seduction28/07/16 02:14 PM
4

Dude, I know you think this is good advice, but it's not. This is for picking up 13 yr olds.
/r/seduction26/07/16 02:21 PM
1

Start paying more attention to other guys. Realize that a vast majority of them are not attractive or well dressed. Start studying what other guys do, and say in everyday life, watch their interactions with other people. Start people watching in general, and really break down how interpersonal works, then study how people behave when more people are in a group. Then do the opposite of everything cringeworthy.
/r/seduction08/06/16 12:29 AM
2

Honestly you're not getting quality with techniques like that though.
/r/seduction08/06/16 12:15 AM
3

"I don't want to pay for something I could easily get for free" Obviously not that easy, ever think maybe you have some delusions?
/r/seduction06/06/16 08:29 PM
1

I've been in two LTRs currently in one, both came from senarios like this. Be aware though, you're 29, she's 22- just have fun. Cause that age gap is annnnnoying especially in you're 20-30 range.
/r/seduction06/06/16 08:26 PM
1

I'm guessing you're Chris Anderson, damn I'm good, so you tryna get some coffee?
/r/seduction06/06/16 08:22 PM
2

Half the people on here are doing this because they exhibit some of those traits, just pay attention.
/r/seduction06/06/16 08:19 PM
1

I read an interesting article about the lack of decent men in Silicon Valley. Basically the woman said when it came time for dates they all wanted to talk about work work work and they were bro-ish and immature, but felt entitled because they had great software gigs. Not saying this is you but don't let yourself fall into that trap when you do land that good job. Beyond "hey I work for Google" no one really cares what you do with analytics or marketing or any of the other corporate bs. Just a he…
/r/seduction06/06/16 01:23 PM
1

32 days sober is not far enough into recovery to be forming new relationships sexual or otherwise. Get yourself to a meeting, get yourself clean.
/r/seduction31/05/16 01:41 PM
2

Dude it's not the bed, I've fucked in some weird places
/r/seduction12/05/16 01:09 AM
1

Well did it happen?! Inquiring minds want to know
/r/seduction10/05/16 11:01 AM
1

Not smooth lol
/r/seduction10/05/16 10:56 AM
2

Dude you're in Austin, you should have no trouble. If you play video games just stop (nothing against them but some people suffer addiction and feel self loathing, any time you feel like sitting around, get up, force yourself to shower, get dressed and go outside. It's warm in Austin so you can go out anytime day or night usually. And then start talking to people. Force yourself to talk to people as uncomfortable as that may sound, and not just women. All people. Peace.
/r/seduction10/05/16 10:46 AM
0

Black jeans look stupid, go for dark blue.
/r/seduction10/05/16 10:32 AM
2

This is the social media generation, they don't know how to have a convo, game is going to have to evolve exponentially over the next 10 years.
/r/seduction10/05/16 10:27 AM
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