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[–]DoomerToChad 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can always make the first move if he won't. You could ask him to spot you or something.
[–]jayjonas1996 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If both of you are on your own in the gym the ask him for help with some equipment. Ask him if he’s trying to bulk up or lose weight, like what kind of goal he’s after or just working out to stay fit. Which you can lead to asking about his gym routine and which machines he uses, ask him about diet maybe.
All this will probably establish you as a friend you both can wavs hii to each time you spot each other at gym. From there you can ask to workout together, or get more personal (depending on your confidence) to ask about him and his life and even out for drinks.
Hope this helps.
[–]tractorinballs 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just strike up convo. No guy will turn it down if you’re cute. Make him think he’s chasing you. See how far that gets. And if he isn’t direct and you feel it, turn it up a notch. He is probably just trying to be respectful to you because it’s your workout. Don’t worry about the friendzone. It doesn’t really exist for guys, unless they’re not attracted.
[–]PartyRelation4151 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask for a favor is a winner, ask him to tell you if your doing a work out right is even a better winner and if you want a relationship don't ask him to check your form out while you squat, instead ask about dumbell bench press, then ask him what he works on in the gym etc. Now you have a boyfriend and live happily ever after, now the fun stuff if you want a one night stand and have a fat ass assuming you do ask him to spot you on your squats😉 😜
[–]wakawah 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask him about whatever workout he his doing and what muscle group it builds. If he is interested he will try to show you and give you some pointers. If he isn't he will cut it short and get back to working out. You will know trust me
[–]Alextryingforgrate 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wait for him after the gym and go talk to him. A lot of people dont like being bothered when they are working out. So just wait near the door grab a drink or something or prolong your work out so you Just happen to be leaving at the same time.
[–]i_love_crazy_hobos 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just make some indirect comment to him about his workout or his outfit or his anything or anything at all not even to do with him.
Just get some kind of conversation started. If you can’t then at least give him some eye contact that is going to give him an idea.
If he doesn’t do anything then forget about him. Go out to the club where guys come and talk to you more.
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