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I thought exactly then same then I saw your comment. "RUSHING OR DRAGGING?" SMACK
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 03:19 PM
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Reminds me of Dead Poets Society. "Charlie: Hey, how'd it go? Did you read it to her? Knox: Yeah. Pitts: What'd she say? Knox: Nothing. Charlie: Nothing. What do you mean, nothing? Knox: Nothing. But I did it!"
/r/seduction30/10/15 10:41 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. Having had this experience, how would you broach the subject differently in future?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:32 PM
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The result of the thread I'm sure would have been the same without the tokenistic question at the end.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 09:48 PM
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Why doesn't it go well? What's the typical response?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:58 PM
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She told me this after she realised there was no possible way that anything could ever happen. It was more her telling me her overall dating strategy with men.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:50 PM
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How can you possibly know that from my post?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:49 PM
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I didn't point it out in plain terms at the time. I wasn't really prepared to hear that. I just told her my position, which, at the time (before I created this thread), was that, if I decided to pay for anything it was because I chose to and that I did not want or expect anything in return. I've since adjusted my philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:49 PM
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I don't know, man. If it's unwavering persistence that you should pay then yes but it's definitely worth trying to put them in their place and see how they respond. It's a great opportunity to solidify yourself as a lover in her eyes. What do you think?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:58 PM
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So, you're saying TRP is like a poncho?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:55 PM
1

In your personal experience, what are a few of these queues? I understand it can just be a general vibe you get, but are there any specific things that come to mind (beyond the obvious IOIs listed on every PU website)?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:54 PM
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She must really care about the guy... I mean, she obviously couldn't bear the thought of losing attraction for him if she had to buy her own fucking ice cream.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:00 PM
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You don't need to just pay for yourself. If you did that every time you went to the bar that would get very awkward. Just do rounds. Get the first one (you can frame it as a reward for something good she did) then you can do the opposite for round two. She should get the idea quickly. Bon courage.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:07 AM
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Serious question: Why not just tell her where you want to eat? Then, unless she has a reasonable objection, that's where you will eat. Is there a benefit to making her feel like she's making the decision for such a trivial thing as restaurant choice?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 10:56 AM
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At least some women own it and sit there without flinching, with a blank look on their face, while TBPers rise up to 'handle business'. You're right, it's a charade that is just ridiculous when you examine it for what it is. I think doing the opposite of what you've done while plugged in is not a bad strategy, at all.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 10:07 PM
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Yeah, credit wasn't the right word.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:17 PM
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This is very true. I often find they'll describe a provider because that's what they've been conditioned to want. Typically, they can't even describe what they truly want but damn they'll be able to feel it when it's in front of them.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:10 PM
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Save money and cause vagina tingles? Can't argue with that.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:04 PM
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Agreed. The key is to be the guy who triggers her 'vagina tingles' (credit: /u/SkorchZang) and not her vocal chords.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:02 PM
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I thought so. What she wants from the guy she has categorised as a provider is one thing, what she truly craves from the guy she categorises as the lover is something completely different.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 08:58 PM
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I think that's an important concept. I suppose it's the old 'actions speak louder than words' thing. I will consciously practice this from now on. Thanks for your comment.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:55 PM
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This is a very well balanced and succint response. Thanks for your contribution.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 06:49 PM
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Yes, not always always, but I think if she has any doubts that you're a leader then making a bold move will more often than not increase her attraction for you, thus inplicitly garnering consent in proportion to the boldness of your move. Of course, it has to be done right but generally wouldn't you say that women's response to a bold action which communicates your desire for her will carry with it enough power to overcome any reservations she had before?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 08:25 AM
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Yeah, never too late to learn!
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 08:22 AM
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What makes that so? Can you elaborate a little? What does work for you?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 08:14 AM
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Yes, a quote that stayed with me that ties into this thinking is "better to be too sexually aggressive than too sexually passive".
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 08:13 AM
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Thank you. I would love to see a video on your YouTube series on the tenets of leadership in daily life (and perhaps expanding into the realm of sexual relationships).
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 05:33 PM
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Just wanted to thank you both for this excellent discussion. I have been reading along and took a lot from it. What are the most efficient and effective ways of internalising this kind of thing? Of course, practicing, but when you're at home, for example, do you read it every day? Mentally visualise?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 05:22 PM
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Thanks for this. Do you accept any 'no' whatsoever? Often 'no' is not a challenge of your leadership, she just needs to be able to justify the experience in the moment so that afterwards she can tell herself that 'it just happened'. It's tokenistic. In that case, would you still next?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 03:45 PM
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She just needs to be able to justify giving you her number. Her: "Why???" You: "Well, I'm enjoying our conversation, but wouldn't it be better to talk on the phone like normal people? ;)"
/r/askTRP25/08/15 03:27 PM
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The first half of your comment actually confirms my recent thoughts. As soon as you make 'going for the kiss' an objective, you immediately remove all sponteneity and authenticity from it. Great addition regarding the 'No' and something that ties in very closely with the the thoughts I shared.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 03:20 PM
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If she asks why then it's not a clever line you need, it's more investment from her.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 02:13 PM
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Thank you for the feedback, my friend. Never thought of it as a self-empowerment thing but it makes a lot of sense. While I'm good with having a relaxed, funny and teasing vibe, I think I need to work on charging that vibe with more sexuality. The reason I didn't act on the 'let's get a bottle' is that she said it in more of a 'I hope he doesn't get the wrong impression' way than a 'I can't believe I'm doing this' way. Though I really could be wrong but it was just my instinct. Fizzling out is d…
/r/seduction18/07/15 09:07 AM
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No problem. It was a pleasure to watch and so a pleasure to share. I wish more people could appreciate the philosophy of this exceptional man!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 10:00 PM
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Absolutely. I have a pocket version which I often take with me on trips. I return to the lessons in that book often and have tried to internalise them over the years. If you need any motivation to learn more about what Marcus Aurelius wrote in Meditations then this lecture (5 parts) is a great start. https://youtu.be/nLD09Qa3kMk?list=PL860E6C2164FCD8B9
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 06:05 PM
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Recommended reading, if only for a very digestible primer on most of the topics listed in the post.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 11:56 AM
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Solid advice bro. Upvoted.
/r/seduction21/12/13 10:19 PM
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I know why you're hesitant, but it kinda looks uncool if you aren't game to chill with her friend. Just go with it. Maybe she is showing you off to her best friend or something, or needs to feel more comfortable like you said.
/r/seduction21/12/13 10:15 PM
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Yep, don't give her a reason to lose attraction. If it doesn't amplify the sexual tension, silence is golden.
/r/seduction21/12/13 09:59 PM
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"Yeah, it is. Because if you were, you would be in so much trouble." Didn't give this much thought but it's playful, flirty and intriguing. Also sets up her response. "What trouble?!"
/r/seduction21/12/13 09:56 PM
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