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Question For Womenpsych0ticmonk/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:30 PM
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Debatepsych0ticmonk/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:07 PM
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Question For Womenpsych0ticmonk/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:37 PM
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question for women: do you think dating is a competition for men? should men compete for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:57 PM
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that's an awful comment and doesn't belong. I would recommend report it on here: np.reddit.com/report
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:40 PM
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Can you name the subreddit? Can you see if the comment survived?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 01:12 AM
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Reddit will give a shit when its a man making threats or is on the news and making them feel bad. One of the regulars here got drugged. Police arrest the woman and find out she got her info off a specific subreddit. Subreddit is still up despite police contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:50 AM
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We will see what happens with this mod search. I wonder if me throwing a shit fit in daily I caused.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:26 PM
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I’m talking about this subreddit. Not sure which one you’re referring to. It goes against the rules so much that the only that happens is a mod will delete that message and the woman is free to make more threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 11:25 PM
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women on here will make threats of direct physical harm to men. what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:58 PM
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supposedly they are a male red pill user to be a mod but we are to see what comes of this really. yeah the only thing that happens is the comment gets deleted by the mod and that's it. no warning even.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:54 PM
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possibly but I think a lot of these women have had negative experiences with men and is viewing these men as indicative of how all men will behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:52 PM
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I do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:29 PM
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Ironic given you stopped reading in middle of sentences
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:26 PM
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there is a popular phrase here "average women do not want the average man", this is frequently said by women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:51 PM
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i am talking about surgery statistics and risks associated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:49 PM
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aren't height surgeries one of the most riskiest surgeries you can get in terms of the percentage you may die during or from complications after? women on reddit are simply trying to get men killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:40 PM
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5 years ago I was sexually assaulted by a woman, nothing happened to the case because the police refused to investigate. the reason? i was a guy. they explicitly stated that. that was only 5 years ago, I doubt that things have really changed since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:31 PM
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you literally minimized and dismissed him being a victim of a crime. reminds me of when you told the resident sugar dater that it wasn't a shame he didn't die from being drugged.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:26 PM
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yeah I was accused by one of using an alt because they couldn't find any modmail from me. when I showed multiple screenshots of my modmail but all reports were ignored. quickly changed their message removing the false allegation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:17 PM
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You aren't allowed to do that now according to the mods. If you disagree or don't believe, open a modmail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:09 PM
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I think you misunderstood what I said and I know precisely why and the solution is simple. You stopped reading in the middle of the sentence. Read everything I wrote and then respond, that's a good solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:59 PM
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you should really go back and reread what I wrote because your response is in no way coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:11 PM
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if you are biting people during a blowjob that's assault. do not commit assault that's your solution. the fact I have to even explain this is to you is not a good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 04:10 PM
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this reminds me of MGTOW or whatever their called.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:53 PM
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the solution is that you do not assault people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:47 PM
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you could do that or apply common sense and logic like I suggested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:45 PM
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That’s pretty bad logic. Here is how it falls apart: you’re black and in the Jim Crow era in the South. Is the problem A) the systematic racism B) you You would probably pick B but that’s a highly simplistic view of things. It doesn’t look at the nuance or details. It’s a lazy retort that quickly falls on its face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:54 PM
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those are things that can be understood and worked on. the result is this woman decides to communicate in a way that makes the person they're the problem in a way that cannot be addressed. say physical looks (within reason) scenario 2 is just a copy of scenario 1 really. its fine if someone did X and did not like it. What the issue is, this is not an issue with Partner A, an issue with partner B and not an issue with partner C.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:33 PM
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absolutely no other possible option as we all know women are angels and are perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:21 PM
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not really if you actually consider the words. if everyone mistreating you is the problem, how does that logic apply in historical settings. If it falters then the logic wasn't valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:02 PM
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Problem is that Trump is a malignant narcissistic, this is hardly what the average person is, behaves or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:59 PM
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My point was to simply demonstrate the issues with your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:57 PM
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i disagree that this is a good measure of "value"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:45 PM
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If everyone’s rejecting him, he’s the problem. tell this to any black person living in the Jim Crow era in the South
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:43 PM
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no that isn't but then again that guy isn't make any effort to ensure he is doing his best. the problem in america is that a man do everything right and still not have any success simply because he is "average".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:05 AM
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You guys thinking Trump was truly desired by his wives is hilarious. Even his first wife said sleeping with him felt like SA. OP never mentioned Trump. you literally created a straw man. That's just what guys tell themselves to not admit they're just unlikable How do you know what the reason is? A lot of men are simply invisible to most men, so even if he is this unlikable it still requires to talk and spend time with the person. he can be the biggest piece of shit in the world but if he is invi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:02 AM
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You're right they are the minority. What you are missing, is that this isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:56 AM
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these are things women throughout this subreddit echoed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 01:56 AM
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this is a claim that has been repeatedly made by several women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:27 AM
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since i messed up with my earlier comment I will write it: if the average woman has no interest in the average man, why would the above average man have interest in this average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:16 AM
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is this an actual attempt to fix the moderation team or is this just a weird mod joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:15 AM
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I screwed up and didn’t type correct. My question is why the above average man have any interest in average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:56 PM
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I never said that the average woman is interested in the average man. In fact said the opposite based on what other women wrote in comments throughout the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:51 PM
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Yeah but men here are mostly likely average themselves. The only few men who said they’re above average were mostly blue pill with one red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:49 PM
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Why wouldn’t the average woman want the above average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:43 PM
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Question for women: How true is it that the average woman isn’t interested in the average man? If you think it’s true why would the above average man have any interest in an average woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 08:19 PM
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lol, why do all this? just be honest and say it is to judge the guy's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:38 PM
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there is a guy in this subreddit that got drugged by a woman and the women here retorted it is a shame he wasn't robbed or killed outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 01:01 AM
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this comment exudes "manifesting"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:10 PM
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your earlier comment says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:04 PM
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do they? https://archive.is/3vg9Y
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:56 PM
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like what? often times I see women make nasty comments about single men who express any sort of negative emotion which they defend just like you defend. https://archive.is/48MVF women can openly say they hate men, others would encourage more hatred of men. yet these kinds of comments aren't seen as bad according to women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:55 PM
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is there anyway to make her look even more degenerate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:43 AM
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https://archive.is/hcw7O
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:43 AM
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another one is pulling a Trump move and declaring all evidence given to be fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:18 PM
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i posted evidence, your response was to act like trump and say everything is fake news. it's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:15 PM
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it's been deboonked well that settles that huh, no need to actually post anything. well let's play your game, your comment has been deboinked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:11 PM
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nobody is? you are certainly are and are trying to minify the tolerance society gives towards violent women and pushing the narrative that women are the eternal victims. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-are-more-violent-says-study-622388.html https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/digital-world-real-world/202302/research-casts-doubt-on-male-centred-theories-of-aggression yet studies are showing women are just as violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:07 PM
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No, it is just human nature: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:05 PM
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And while we’re at it let’s not forget which figures have the largest following online and which co the two translate to actual irl violence ;) i guess men being drugged by women isn't considered violence by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:03 PM
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holy shit, it is the same thing! are you even capable of ever saying men have it as rough as women? pink pill flair probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:02 PM
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i agree with you but I am still pushing back on your statement earlier, women aren't above this neither. if our human brains weren't wired to procreate then we wouldn't have gotten past the stone age and just died out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 02:00 PM
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I love the desperation in your comment. TwoX is a subreddit that regularly is featured on Reddit's front page. Acting as if it is some tiny irrelevant subreddit is something else. Girls Dinner Diaries had a post about a woman gloating about being abusive girlfriend. Another one was talking about how she is winning in life by taking advantage of men financially. <image> there are lots of openly femcel subreddits, more that aren't as open as this. there is r slash diabla that is private but they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:58 PM
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there is a significant tolerance towards toxic, violent and problematic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:46 PM
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hatred of men is pretty common amongst women: https://archive.is/48MVF there is simply a significant bias and leeway given to women so they are able to write something that is objectively incel like and people won't take issue with it but if a man does they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:36 PM
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there is evidence? post the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:32 PM
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yes https://www.nytimes.com/2026/05/22/style/modern-love-men-hide-your-cats.html https://www.cosmopolitan.com/relationships/a43594245/guys-with-cats-less-dateable/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:28 PM
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well his strategy was simply not announcing his intentions, the equivalent is a woman using a man for a free nice dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:09 PM
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he owes her a relationship if she has sex with him? women here already defend lying about the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:48 AM
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There was a guy here who announced he will start pumping and dumping women. Very quickly devolved into people threatening him with direct physical harm and calling him a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:10 PM
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Lisa Sonni is this person. Who exactly is she that makes her credible? Cause looking at the videos she posted she sounds like the now dead shit stain “Coach Red Pill”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:01 PM
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I don’t think it’s fair to expect men to be kind to women here when the women act like the most terminally online people you ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 09:59 PM
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yeah but that doesn't invalidate what he says neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:07 PM
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but she doesn't and I am speaking as a straight man. if the choice was between this psycho and some pig I would choose nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:13 PM
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I am sure there are some retards that would date her. Always bet on some retard existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:12 PM
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correction, there is only one male who behaves mostly like a woman. long inactive mods don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:10 PM
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you called men who pump and dump rapists. you of all people do not need any context whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 04:37 PM
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as someone who did stick my dick in crazy, let me tell you, don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:06 PM
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leverage for what? I already posted a poll that has women responding with difficulties, in fact responding with more difficulties than men according to PEW. If women want to lull themselves into believing that they can successfully leverage this somehow that's just going to blow up in their face. the only winners here are the top 10% of men. the women are left unhappy and with the same mentality as incels do. i don't think women are winning anything here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:31 PM
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"my preference are fit women" that's the literal quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:52 AM
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I don't believe this thing about women being content while single. Happily single women don't talk about men like incels talk about women. I also believe that this is all masked by the "women are wonderful" effect and just the overall nature to stomach vile behavior and attitudes from women is higher than it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:39 AM
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can you explain to me why I get called an incel for saying I have a preference towards fit women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:20 AM
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I made a post a while back asking women some question. regardless several posted about their female friends turning into misandrists due to abuse from the men. i do not think women are winning anything here. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/nearly-half-of-u-s-adults-say-dating-has-gotten-harder-for-most-people-in-the-last-10-years/ if women had this happen to them then they wouldn't also be reporting difficulty like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:06 AM
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this is just such bad framing, at least the comment above you was honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:58 AM
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i am addressing, it is so stupid i think you are a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:56 AM
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how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:38 AM
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no, horse shoe theory is dead right. i didn't give you any definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:30 AM
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I am aware. It is called "horseshoe theory" this is why I confused you with MAGA, they love Russia too. Communism is responsible for massacres throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:23 AM
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so her running away and not paying for her meal leaving me with the bill was not a criminal act in your eyes. amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:13 AM
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oh my bad, so a fascist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:11 AM
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dude. you support the pedo in chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:08 AM
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absolutely not. i am just unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:07 AM
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i committed one crime. you are the one who tried to push it into several because you have an axe to grind
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:06 AM
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please, go ahead, report it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:56 AM
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it was nothing like 20 some bucks and the portion was good. it could have been a dollar i would have still nuked this bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:54 AM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:32 AM
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profile comments are locked so I can't find where they posted last and tell them off. next time I see they pop up, I will go after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:13 AM
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BBQ sandwich. it was good, the place is effectively a hole but they are my customer so I know the kitchen inside and out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:11 AM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:07 AM
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She didn't have much, the other thing I managed is to get her banned from Chase cause I reported her as a scammer and had people come in and make false claims as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:02 AM
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I once spent nearly two months fully demolishing a woman's life, I managed to get her banned by Uber and Lyft, banned her from DoorDash, I left no stone unturned, got her kicked from her research team which ultimately forced her to leave the country. The whole thing was because of a singular date which she clearly used me for a free meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:50 AM
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No, never heard of it. Then again I do not see subreddits with posts “I hate women” and comments that encourage the hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:36 AM
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Sure. The guy just gets a bad deal. The problem you are missing is the guy is paying for the woman here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:36 AM
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again you saying this as a response to someone telling you they're in distress. go ahead, post the link to that comment and i will personally tell this person off and call them a moron. it will earn me a ban, I do not care. post the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:23 AM
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Again you are missing the point, the point or the issue is that men are spending money on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:19 AM
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Let me back up. Because you are telling me you will make a determination on an issue that has no evidence because no one investigated. That makes no sense. If you mean you will discuss with the rest of the mods if making repeat accusations that cannot be proven or disproven against someone is considered witch hunting that's another thing but again that's not very clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:18 AM
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given the fact that a lot of women here talk like the most vile incels you can imagine it isn't really much to doubt their claims of being "happily married" and it isn't like I have seen women defend lying as "manifesting" something. personally, I am not sure cause I certainly met men who are dickless who hate men, hate themselves for being a man and will put up with whatever abuse these women will inflict on them. I am not even trying to be mean here, this is my genuine belief on 99% of women o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:15 AM
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You don't have proof because no one bothered to look into it. Not sure what you are going to vote on when there is proof established. But again if simply commenting on someone saying X and telling them "wait you told me Y before" is considered "witch hunting" then I expect that repeatedly making a claim that cannot be proved or disproved should fall into it. otherwise mods are doing what the accusation against them currently is and that is running defense for a select few users.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:10 AM
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like this? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1up76zu/comment/ovy3agq/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:05 AM
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let me rephrase I got called an incel for saying "I like women who are of healthy weight" what is your take on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:04 AM
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I got called an incel for saying I do not like obese women. what's your take on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:03 AM
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Yes I do when it is on a consistent basis. That literally witch hunting behavior. Especially since posting comments that reveal another user's hypocritical stance is considered "witch hunting" That wouldn't be clear on that link alone which is why a DM or ModMail opened by a mod to look into this further would have been appropriate but was not done.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:46 PM
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are you responding to the correct comment? what the fuck is this response? a user made a comment admitting to a campaign of harassment against me. fuck the modmail, you have a comment posted directly there. nothing was done, no questions were asked, nothing at all. that's the issue, you guys don't do shit against certain users because you have created a policy where those users are exempt from the rules. as far as modmail goes, well you admitted to seeing the may 30th earlier so clearly you do s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:35 PM
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Not sure how responding to someone claiming to be suffering with "let me tell you how you're a piece of shit for being a man" wouldn't lead to them shutting down. There is a woman in this subreddit that works as a therapist, I also seen that same woman tell two men to kill themselves. and now you have an explanation as to why your point is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:26 PM
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and I am telling you that it is bullshit. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1uq6o6r/comment/owd3b4w/?force-legacy-sct=1 here is an example. one of my harassers who makes the same accusation frequently and sometimes multiple times a day popped in: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1uq6o6r/comment/owce5y9/ but suddenly she is struck blind, deaf and dumb and cannot see the comment above me when I pinged her. i did open a modmail against that user and that user even a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:19 PM
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my modmail was simple, I am being harassed by user X and here is a link to the last comment I got as I was writing the modmail. there was no interaction, no context, no nothing. I sent the modmail out and got no response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:03 PM
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May and early June. it all stopped June 4th. As I said in another comment, I am not the only one making this complaint. Others have as well. The comment was "you're a pathetic piece of shit, it is a shame you continue to walk this earth". This same comment was posted multiple times in multiple of my comments. You telling me that you need the full context to see if the comment violated any rules is really hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:39 PM
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just to add, this isn't just me. Other men have stated the same issue, one even reported getting a direct threat physical harm, only for that comment to be deleted only for the offending user to come back later that day and make the exact same comment again. it is pretty evident when this is happening and that the real policy is to simply have certain users above any rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:34 PM
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You are missing the bigger problem: I was inundated with a user mass commenting on all my comments with slurs, personal attacks and wishes that harm would come to me. when you were notified of it, you guys did nothing. it was not until the next day did they move from this subreddit and started in other subreddits did Reddit just ban the whole account. but let me reiterate, the issue was that you were given an incident and chose to do nothing. is that what your policy and guidelines say? if a ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:27 PM
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i doubt that especially since another mod can see it. not that it takes much time you can just scroll up and see the comments above me and if you needed more information could have asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:18 PM
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i know you guys did nothing because the user's comments were never dealt with and when I wrote that I was being spammed by that same person. so drop the "it's our policy" because it is a lazy cover for I was being actively harassed and you guys chose to side with the harasser. https://preview.redd.it/aap04nvmx2ch1.png?width=436&format=png&auto=webp&s=7de8d4a5e630a1759440a321f2ff4c125c50bc09 cause when you guys do something right, you communicate it and there is nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:10 PM
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you know what else is basic etiquette? responding to user reports and modmail. common sense should have clued you into the fact if I am making a public spectacle its because no other forms of communication are working. quit the bs. no one promised you to pay you. i know this for a fact because I used to mod other subs before. one of my harassers even popped in this whole thread. did you do anything about that? nope. so this whole "im just a humble janitor" is just ridiculous and tired. but when …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:04 PM
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cool. I posted multiple modmails to which there was no response. the one you are referring to was also ignored: <image> Is the ignoring going to be chalked up to a Reddit technical issue too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:00 PM
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shrodiners modmail. one mod says that they have 0 modmail from me completely. I sent this today as you can see as in 07/08/2026.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:52 PM
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I did it! I called the cops on the LGBTQ whatever organization. Finally, criminal trespassing, battery on LEO. Thankful I didn’t have to clean any brains in the office after calling the murderous pd
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:26 PM
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Aside from MAGA I don’t think men have this mentality anymore especially when we are in the midst of “looksmaxxing”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:20 PM
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The only functional difference between these two is one guy is stupid and is thinking he is dating for love when in reality he is temu sugar dating and the other guy is realistic and understands that he isn’t buying love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 08:13 PM
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That’s literally the same mechanic. Left swipe = reject Right swipe = like
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:58 PM
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Most likely Reddit admins since the subreddit facilitates harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:28 PM
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Cool. I do. And it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:24 PM
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Your baseless and repeated accusations are harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:17 PM
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The guys being stupid to think temu grade sugar dating is a way to get real love isn’t relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:15 PM
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Literally what I said no difference is one is a bigger sucker than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:09 PM
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u/beautyloser since you said you say you’re here to help. are you going to help me with this harasser? I have an open modmail against this user as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:02 PM
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Your differentiator here is how explicit this is. Ultimately the guy is having to spend money regardless. Only difference is one guy being a sucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:56 PM
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They also left the offending comment intact and deleted my comment bringing the matter to attention of the mods while also warning me. Here they wrote how they’re trying to “help” me and then made false insulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:53 PM
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You’re splitting hairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:48 PM
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Facilitating harassment isn’t permitted by Reddit rules and that’s what the mods of this subreddit are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:38 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:37 PM
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I am sorry to hear you are stuck in your office since January. Totally explains the “lost” modmail. You deleted my comment and gave me a warning while ignoring the offending comment and the proceeded to make the same insinuation as the offender. So how are you helping me exactly? I do not care about your excuses. I do not care about convenient tech issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:37 PM
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Again you’re ignoring the fact that women are turning real dating into sugar dating. Regardless a victim is a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:28 PM
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I was told about this: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/requests/new?ticket_form_id=19300233728916 apparently you can fill out this form to report subreddit moderators for facilitating harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:21 PM
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tell her to write you an email.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:17 PM
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the issue isn't even that, the rules are selectively enforced or often times abused to justify. i seen literal threats of physical harm being made against men, those comments get deleted silently and whenever the person who initially made those comments realizes they were deleted they just come back and post them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:12 PM
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and more <image> absolutely none of them were responded to. let me guess, these weren't received?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:03 PM
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here are some more: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:02 PM
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I am amused that one of the mods chose to respond. i mean they respond with lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:01 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1uq6o6r/comment/owbzpwc/?context=1 let me guess, no reports, no modmail no thing as well right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:01 PM
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<image> is it a requirement for moderators of this subreddit to be liars?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:00 PM
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i am telling you it isn't relevant how many people especially terminally online women agree with you given the fact I seen women post really hateful and vile things on here and get applauded by other women. i only referred to "dickless men" aka blue pill because often times that is brought in as a defense "but it's not just women who agree with me, some men too!" yeah, men who hate other men. there is no nerve, I am simply explaining to you why everything you posted is meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:51 PM
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update, apparently you deleted my comment but not the person who is harassing me. modmail is still not responded. i have blocked my harasser. this is just comical now. mods are literally siding with my harasser cause she is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:47 PM
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No, it is when it is a constant campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:45 PM
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guess what? I do all of that already. nothing is done. no modmail is responded to, comment reports are ignored
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:44 PM
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A few things to address: If we are discussing male vs female victims, the "format" isn't relevant. We are discussing victims. Real dating has already started to become much like sugar dating. When I was dating it was a regular occurrence women will hit me up for money and I would be told by other women both online and offline how I should have financially helped these. I already posted the study which you ignored: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1uqy00i/comment/owbqqe7/?force-l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:43 PM
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to add to this we are discussing how women are bigger victims then men. I already posted the study where it shows women being initiators of violence so the dating "format" isn't really relevant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:39 PM
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it doesn't matter how many women will agree with you or how many dickless men agree with you. i seen posts on twox talking about how OP hates men and doesn't register them as actual human being just meaty ATMs and all the women agreeing. Do you think that somehow changes it from being a vile disgusting post and the people involved being other than vile and disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:36 PM
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Despite the "no blocking" rule, I am going to start blocking those that harass and threaten me. Already had one I reported. absolutely no value in this sub if mods are going to permit users to harass but then prevent you from blocking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:34 PM
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we have another harasser u/LeaneGenova u/GridReXX u/-TheGreasyPole- u/wtknight u/Slipthe u/Maffioze u/Ainsleygz u/ZealousidealBug4859 u/Excellent_Badger123 u/chamomilecloud are you guys going to step in and deal with this person who is harassing me?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:32 PM
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Why not? When I was dating it was a common theme to have women hit me up for money. Women told me both online and offline I should have given these women money to prove I was serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:28 PM
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That you just spam inane comments? Yeah everyone knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:24 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1854883/ Women initiate more violence than men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:16 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1854883/ Again no. You cannot admit to women instigating more violence, men being drugged or robbed or shot at as victims but then say it all is nothing compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:16 PM
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Spamming doesn’t make you or them right.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:15 PM
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Women instigate more violence: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1854883/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:14 PM
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I am sorry but I disagree. Anyone including men who are drugged are victims of violence being perpetrated against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:09 PM
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There are a few subreddits dedicated to sugar dating. There are discord and forums too. Regular posts by men telling their stories about weapons being pulled on them, them being drugged, etc. I am suspecting that this is more of men aren’t reporting being victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:08 PM
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So being shocked pikachu at my comment makes no logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:04 PM
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You literally wrote that men have less physical danger in your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:00 PM
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Except you did. You posted a link that referenced old studies. The same exact thing you lambasted others for. Are you allergic to accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:55 PM
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I already posted this but men do get targeted if it is believed that they have money
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:51 PM
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It wasn’t a gotcha. It was exposing you as a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:48 PM
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There is a regular guy in here who got drugged twice. Granted these were sugar dates but still he was a victim despite being a man and perpetrator was a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:46 PM
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Only excuses that you call explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:44 PM
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Be a man. Hold yourself accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:30 PM
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I do not care for whatever inane excuses you come up with to avoid being accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:27 PM
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It’s pathetic to set a standard that you fail to meet yourself. Be a man, hold yourself accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:23 PM
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You demand evidence from men but balk when they demand it back from you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:23 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ftr0aAixMm Not only that but the user demands others provide recent studies but bends over backwards to excuse themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:22 PM
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Interesting fact that you cannot hold yourself to the same standards you hold others to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:20 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ftr0aAixMm You should hold yourself to the same standards you hold others to. Post a recent study.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:12 PM
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The link references materials over a decade old, sometimes longer depending on the reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:07 PM
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Considering your comment history I am thrilled that you won’t have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:05 PM
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Better question was to ask what you do to express this love. That would have been a valid question asking for proof. You have asked plenty of times for links to different conversations and posts. When I pointed out that mods now consider this “witch hunting” you went off on me even though I offered to DM you the links. You insisted I provide them in the public.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:04 PM
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the only making excuses is you. you make a claim and are asked to provide evidence for said claim. you cannot therefore your claim is void.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:40 PM
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me? no. bring receipts. too many times you make claims but never provide any proof or evidence of anything. I want to understand the particulars of this individual and their dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:29 PM
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bring receipts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:19 PM
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Would you do the same for men against dating single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:34 PM
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it was a lot better when the mods were more fair but over time many became active, others left and others were bullied into leaving. now those that remain openly stated that they do not care to moderate fairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:06 PM
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hinge totally has a swiping mechanic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:31 PM
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no one is going to run you a personal study on this topic. rather than bend over backwards to defend women, maybe you can express some sympathy towards the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:41 AM
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hungry, family didn't wait to have dinner with me and so now no dinner for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:28 AM
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i am hungry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:17 AM
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ok then your advice is pointless to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 03:03 AM
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you misunderstood what I said. in my experience most women are going after the top 10% of men if not fewer. Simply not being ugly isn't good enough. Being average isn't good enough. Unless you are in that 10% then you are going to have a rough time as a guy online or offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:37 AM
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From everything I have seen and experienced first hand, this isn't the case. Women will hold out for the special tingles regardless. Most men do not appear to meet these tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:33 AM
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The answer is hold women accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:51 PM
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they never said anything about online dating ruining things, in fact they said online dating is probably the better option for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:33 PM
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The thing is for men, nothing is great. Online dating is just another shitty option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 11:25 PM
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if men look better in person then women wouldn't be holding out for those few male profiles that give them the tingles, especially since after speaking with lots of women seems like their attraction level is largely based on interacting with the guy and his personality, which is great except again women aren't interacting with men who do not meet this rare instant physical attraction. I take issue with your "become a regular" suggestion. unlike most "long term investment" advice you at least com…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:26 PM
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Additionally, while there may be hot guys competing with you at bars, the whole "personality" thing makes another huge difference. Those guys may look better on Instagram, but in person many will quickly prove themselves intolerable, especially when the liquor is really flowing. so the hot guy turns out to be an asshole and the woman is not interested in anyone. So, the other two-thirds are in person? https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1908630116#sec-1 this is nearly 10 year old data though b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:08 PM
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men are largely reporting that their interactions offline mirror the responses that they get from women online which is not interested mostly. i believe this was a vogue podcast but the two women who were hosting the podcast admitted how they find very few men attractive enough in all of their interactions in a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:00 PM
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it is a lie that is spread because the alternative would be to say women in America have incredibly high shallow standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:53 PM
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disdain for them is what id ecourage. I hate men. Men are vile trash and worthless. that's hilarious you read this and don't see the issue. "your incel forum" sorry but I am not an incel. but that is the point, anything actual incel related isn't posted on reddit or if it is, it is taken down quickly or the offending subreddit gets banned. not seeing the forest for the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:08 PM
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reddit overlooks a lot of unhinged women: https://archive.is/48MVF if a man would have posted something like this, they would have shut down the subreddit entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:06 PM
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It feels like toxic female behaviors are overlooked or supported whereas same toxic behaviors but from men are scorned: https://archive.is/48MVF
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:24 PM
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i find it funny women will still empathatically deny that this is happening: https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1uoj5vc/im_dying_alone_and_thats_okay/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:21 PM
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New subreddit rule, apparently posting links of certain women being hypocritical and holding contradictory opinions falls under “witch hunting”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:49 PM
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you're the one crying! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:15 PM
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and the mask slips off. it is hilarious you think this is an "incel" subreddit despite the rules of subreddit banning incel and carve out for femcels. women are telling men to kill themselves and posting threats. bye felicia
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:09 PM
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We? who is this we. You aren't a physicist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:17 PM
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there is no edgelord. men do not expect women to ever help them. if anything might take advantage of the situation. getting shocked that this is now being thrown back at you is odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:20 AM
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I don't care, either mods enforce no witch hunting/harassment rule or I am just going to block my harasser. Simply deleting comments and allowing that person to make the same comment elsewhere is just ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:47 AM
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I do not think men should help women so I don't know what your point here is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:43 AM
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there are only two women I have met that I know would help, my girlfriend and my mom. No one else would ever help me not even previous girlfriends. 99.99% of women has been my experience will not help or may even take advantage like steal something. just in this post a woman give me the same spiel only to then start calling me slurs. women don't practice what they preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 04:23 AM
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if you actually want to stand by it then you should do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:48 AM
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you called me an asshole. which compared to your message of "well women will help you" is comical. my opinions are based on my experiences which you are just communicating don't matter at all and I should trust someone like you to help me. yeah I don't believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:40 AM
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nope, those were 2 victims of his. others were via different methods. also using a man that was considered highly attractive in his time isn't helping your case any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:34 AM
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u/Excellent_Badger123 u/wtknight u/milquetoastmf u/beautyloser u/chamomilecloud u/GridReXX So this is one of those users that have a habit of harassing me. Repeatedly spamming me. Either you permit me to block this user or you enforce your own rules against witch hunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:27 AM
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I have been here for a long time and women lie on here in spades. more often than men from what I seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:22 AM
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i do not appreciate the personal attacks. yup, it's all women, other than my mom and girlfriend my experience with women has been like this. i am not going to proclaim women act like .01% in my experience. and here is another example, no women called that woman out that I just told you about. but that's besides the point, this is just silly internet squabble on shit tier subreddit on a shit tier social media platform. you cannot expect men to hold a different view when this is all they experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:38 AM
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amazing it wasn't a casket.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:23 AM
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when i had to change a tire on the expressway, a drunk woman came by only to wreck it. that was my only interaction with a woman coming into my vicinity when I needed help. i don't expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:22 AM
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i came across a comment in this thread with a woman saying something the same as you. apparently sometime before she told a guy that he should not expect women to help him. so as I see it, women will say the "right" thing but never practice it in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:14 AM
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sorry you think equality is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:11 AM
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yeah I do, I tell them don't be stupid and intervene because if it were them, they won't be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:05 AM
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you know how many women intervened in my cases? 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:04 AM
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hold your fellow women accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:03 AM
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sure but how does cancel out men helping?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:02 AM
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nothing in your comment included women intervening to help men. this is why men check out from helping women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:55 AM
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it is pretty clear to me. i don't know why you're confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:54 AM
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your significant other shouldn't be starting shit in the first place and forcing the man to intervene before violence starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:54 AM
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good, way it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:52 AM
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this is the exact same treatment men can expect from women, so women should learn to expect it in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:46 AM
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I do not understand these women. Any intervening would result in you getting hurt. That aside, What Would You Do? showed reactions of women, they cheered on women assaulting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:41 AM
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being a fellow human means making a decision that is best for yourself which would be to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:38 AM
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cool, i don't know why you're sharing this with me. I don't care. i am just pointing out that your definition of loser is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:33 AM
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I did not call them losers. A guy not being 6’3” doesn’t make him a loser. Sorry you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 11:11 PM
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I’m sorry but how are they losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:36 PM
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You realize you just created a defense for passport bros right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 05:30 PM
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Sexual exploitation? You can charge your words all you want but won’t make it true. For it to be sexual exploitation you need to have additional verified details.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:07 PM
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you can whine about passport bros, call them suckers but at the end of the day these are men who wouldn't have a snowball's chance in hell to get attention from women in their home country.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:55 PM
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nope, that's actually what I did before and it was deleted and I was warned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:14 AM
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and what exactly did you learn about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:53 PM
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how did you learn about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:45 PM
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I can't link shit in anymore cause that's "witch hunting" or whatever and I don't care to really start dealing with the rules. u/wtknight here is a mod that took down my post and told me to paraphrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:44 PM
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but you do know what skinheads are and their ideology. you would know this because you went to school.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:40 PM
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it has happened and on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:38 PM
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according to you, you have no knowledge of them, their experiences, lives, etc but you denounce them nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:38 PM
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Why do women defend ghosting as a “better” answer than just reject the person but then call men who ghost them rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:19 PM
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completely irrelevant and invalid response. you can't justify a current behavior based on your opinion of some hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:42 PM
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no, most men don't deal with a vast sea of options and therefore have more realistic approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:31 PM
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Well I made a post asking women this question and the answers were there is none.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:27 PM
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Then when the men go there they are questioned as to what the fuck they’re doing bothering women. I got this response when I mentioned bars and clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:41 PM
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Let’s watch them not respond to your comment together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:37 PM
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My girlfriend told me yesterday about a woman she met. They went to get dinner together and at the end the woman ended up attempting yo get a guy to pay for the bill. She said she does this often, she will flirt with them, promise them a date and give them a fake number.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:28 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1ugm26g/comment/ou1aa10/ you make requests for sources only to run off when provided them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:15 PM
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do you have any response or was the whole request for a source more of an attempt to "win" the discussion rather than actually engage in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:13 PM
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what is your source?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:10 PM
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no this is false
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:08 PM
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none of those places are acceptable. hell you even contradicted yourself by once again bringing up bars. hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 02:07 PM
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say where men can meet women. jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:45 PM
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they're not, women can out perform men on certain aspects but overall both men and women have strengths and weaknesses that results in them having intelligence that is more of a mixed bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:42 PM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/371879829\_Physical\_and\_psychosocial\_correlates\_of\_facial\_attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:29 AM
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When you apply the 80/20 study this becomes a lot more problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:57 PM
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Why don’t you just say it rather than dance around it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 11:56 PM
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There is no imagination when you’re reading what other men wrote and talking to other men about their experiences in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:20 PM
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Ok so then it is nowhere cause women will go in groups even for singles events
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:48 PM
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ok but women mainly go to these places in groups as is. effectively this comes to once in a blue moon, a woman will go on her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:31 PM
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there is one person who told what they happened other examples are ones I pulled from throughout reddit. before you ask for links, I have posted links and even screenshots only to be bonked by mods telling me I can only paraphrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:28 PM
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you completely mangled what I said in order to justify vomiting up this response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:46 PM
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this is some desperate attempt at posting rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:13 PM
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Cause there is a deluge of men here who have shared stories of them approaching women and then getting rejected or even ejected from the establishment itself only to be blamed by the women here. Unfortunately there is specificity as to what they done wrong and most of the women are open in explaining that they do not know despite assigning blame on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 05:33 PM
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Then what is the point of bars and clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:58 PM
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I am simply pointing out the contradiction in what you wrote. Men should only approach new women if they have somehow already established a connection with that woman prior. In other words they must accomplish step 2 before accomplishing step 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:49 PM
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The question was when is it ok to initially approach women. Your response, it is ok to initially approach women after you established contact and had positive interactions. not very hard to see the catch 22 pitfall here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 04:08 PM
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We have had a rash of a female teachers getting caught with student recently. We know that women exhibit just as much violence as men though through different forms https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/digital-world-real-world/202302/research-casts-doubt-on-male-centred-theories-of-aggression Go ahead criticize.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:38 AM
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No, I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 03:36 AM
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Like you refuse to criticize women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:48 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:47 PM
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an example would be "I would love to date you but right now I am having some financial difficulty and trying to pay some stuff off. This has been weighing on me immensely and because of that I cannot date anyone. If you help me, this will change"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:46 PM
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ok but you also a week ago said that you do not see any value in friendships with men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:36 PM
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OP let me ask you this: what are you going to do to reach out and help men yourself? cause until now every single one of your posts and comments has been to target and relentlessly shit on men. even repeatedly to the point it became a farce posting that balloon youtube video.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:24 PM
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want to explain why women were proud to be fat? that ended with the glp-1 drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:17 PM
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all you did was completely twist the narrative in an attempt to justify your abhorrent comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:35 AM
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Genuine abusers aren’t going to make a Reddit post admitting to their abuse. If anything they will mitigate, hide and obfuscate. Regardless we can infer based on what they wrote how they feel and their attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:23 AM
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i will not be addressing strawman arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:56 PM
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there is a difference between ignoring red flags and someone making an active campaign to deceive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:55 PM
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cause women will call out random men on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:54 PM
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what is your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:40 PM
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but why don't women ever call other women out on this subreddit? this conversation i am talking about happened in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:39 PM
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most men do understand rejection and take rejection as what it is, rejection. but that assumes that the woman rejecting him makes it clear. there are plenty of women that do not make it clear and depending on the woman they may give a non-answer to planting false hope or outright lying to extract whatever benefits she can from the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:38 PM
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one of the most common advice from women to men is that they should first befriend the women. recognizing that the guy has feelings, a woman would hold a relationship like a carrot that this guy is supposed to reach after performing several tasks. there is no chance he will have a relationship but she doesn't tell him that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:36 PM
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how so? deception and being deceived isn't really about boundaries weak or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:32 PM
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Getting cancelled on at the last minute repeatedly with no plans or intent to reschedule is effectively a no. when I was younger, I had run into this. When I took it to mean no, I was lambasted by women and then ultimately by the woman who did this to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 02:19 PM
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i am not not going to bolster your argument lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:34 PM
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"are we dating the same guy" facebook group isn't really vetting though. I have gotten access to them using a fake account, i would get drunk and then would be posting nonsense. pretty sure I ended a dozen relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 08:54 PM
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> NerdWallet disclaims, expressly and impliedly, all warranties of any kind, including those of merchantability and fitness for a particular purpose or whether the article’s information is accurate, reliable or free of errors. amazing source
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:10 PM
1

what are those things that you are looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:16 PM
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this was their comment: Don’t have expectations for wives being super domestic I don't think she is very interested in doing most work. their account history is interesting. they want to be a stay at home mom, but they also want to be childless. the husband is primary earner but he does all the cooking and cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 09:16 PM
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It doesn’t apply to men since this is a point women are pushing. It’s nonsensical and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:54 PM
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You missed OP’s main point. They’re approaching dating as a combat sport where the goal is to make men doormats for OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 06:42 PM
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the only arguments that they have are manipulative ones that groomers employ when seeking out victims. women keep talking about this while ignoring the historical context, which is when this was common women were considered only a step above the furniture in your house.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:24 PM
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when you are using the same tactics groomers use, then no, it isn't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:14 PM
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no, what you are engaging in is grooming behavior. it isn't normal psychological behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:40 PM
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Cause it is the exact same type of argument, manipulative behavior that groomers use on their victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:26 PM
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It’s not human psychology to dictate to others what their preferences are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:21 PM
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I am sorry but who are you to dictate someone else's preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:03 PM
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This whole post reads like something you expect on one of those incel forums. weird and creepy. it is just arguing that men should accept conditions were they are very likely to be taken advantage of. it is disturbing to read to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:51 PM
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based on what you wrote, sounds like you want an ATM machine than a human partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 01:48 PM
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Not a mind game at all, I genuinely am in fear of these people. Well there was a guy who recalled going to a bar with a wing woman, the wing woman suggest he talk to one girl who promptly rejects him and then immediately reports him to security to get him kicked out. nothing in his recollection had suggested he did anything wrong but he just simply came across one of those women that are insulted if someone that they perceive to be ugly approaches them. nonetheless, every single woman who respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:02 AM
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told them, they send different people. can't keep the door locked, impractical because we need people to come in to make deliveries. we own the building. there is a sign, they ignore it. but again here you are setting a double standard, one where acting on a fear is ok and one acting on a fear is not ok. i am not justifying killing these people, i am saying i need fear for my safety when they're around and need them removed immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:49 AM
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I’m not interested in stalking anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:09 AM
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I am not. I find these people genuine threats. Only reason I haven’t called is my police department is extra murderous and are again in the news for shooting a suicidal person through a closed door.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:08 AM
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Why not? I fear for my safety when they’re around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:03 AM
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Why are you so interested in people’s physical location?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:03 AM
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They’re a regular. They tend to find pretty crazy and dangerous women, post about it which causes other women to come out and defend these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:57 PM
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I do not know any of the people that represent gay oriented organizations. As I asked someone else, should I call my police department? I should.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:53 PM
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If the argument is that blue pill ideology itself doesn’t hate men it is funny that all those are flared blue pill hate men even the blue pill men themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:40 PM
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Subreddit rules against “witch hunting” prevent me from naming names. You need to spend time here and in main discussion to see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:37 PM
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Way to ignore the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:33 PM
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I been shot by a woman. So women are equally psychotic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:30 PM
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No one is arguing. Proceeds to argue. Hilarious The only one who doesn’t understand boundaries is you. I do not owe you any explanation as to why I’m threatened by these people. Fact you are actively working to demean me and tell my own personal safety is completely and totally irrelevant is on another level of monstrous behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:29 PM
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You lack understanding of boundaries by demeaning me for wanting to call the police on the organization representatives. You literally did all of this in this comment chain. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:25 PM
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Ghosting isn’t saying no. “Hey I didn’t feel any spark” is more then sufficient. Randomly ghosting? That’s an ass move.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:25 PM
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You don’t know? Good for you. These women are on this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:24 PM
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Except I didn’t say anything like that. What I said these women lie about being rape victims in order to extract more money from under the guise that this goes to therapy. In reality this is just a scam. I know for a fact someone posted screenshots of a private subreddit that is dedicated to this type of behavior and you were part of that conversation in the main discussion thread. So you saying this is entirely mythical is wild when you were given evidence is wild. Trevor Bauer was falsely accu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:22 PM
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what is remarkable is that you dismiss my own safety concerns. it isn't strange, I have interactions with people that are part of the same community and as a way to give you an example I said why don't I treat these people like imminent threats to my safety since that's the mindset you are pushing here. you should read what everyone else here written, that ghosting people just because you feel like it is perfectly acceptable because the potential ability for the other person to become dangerous.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:40 PM
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people can be a lot of things but are they? would you like to be treated like you have done something wrong when you haven't?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:30 PM
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I have been concerned ever since I been shot by one. grocery, i would go to customer service and call police. height and weight are irrelevant when someone has a weapon. though it is irrelevant, treating as if everyone is threatening you isn't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:23 PM
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that depends, are you being approached while you're alone in a dark alley or in a club? because women on here have said that approaching women in at clubs and bars isn't acceptable and it is appropriate to get security and/or police involved. your example is hilarious. if you are genuinely in fear of someone why would you act towards them in a way that will set them off? why not gently reject them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:17 PM
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stop hiding your profile and I will search. way to ignore the second paragraph I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:44 PM
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What I wrote was: If I view them as potential threats to my safety then no, I do not see them as peaceful and you insist that these people are peaceful. clearly that's not the case because I wrote that I do not feel safe. You are telling me that my feelings are invalid. that my fears for safety are not valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:43 PM
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can't search comments on a locked down profile. also ghosting is communicating a "no" it is doing so in a much harsher way than just saying "no, thanks", "i don't feel a spark" etc. justifying ghosting on the basis that the person might turn around and behave in a dangerously when their behavior until now hasn't reflected that is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:40 PM
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you are the one defending ghosting people on the basis of potential threat. this isn't based on any actual threatening behavior it is just something you said "well this potentially can happen so why take the risk".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:28 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/digital-world-real-world/202302/research-casts-doubt-on-male-centred-theories-of-aggression Also women are also very aggressive, depends on how you view it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:16 PM
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strangers who are homeless and approach you for money usually are people with substance abuse issues and giving them more money fuels an addiction. this is the main issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:12 PM
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I am more decent than you by miles.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:11 PM
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Being polite is unlikely to cause aggression ironic for you to say this given that OP is justifying ghosting men that women go on dates with and decide they aren't interested. a lot of people work from the office or they have kids so the schedule is pretty flexible so at times I am alone. if that's the day when they come by I will call the police.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:10 PM
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I never said I did, unfortunately a lot of homeless people suffer from addiction problems and giving them money would mean fueling this addiction. there are some people who do hang out around some of my customers and I know that these people are down on their luck and yes, I always give them money every time I see them. It isn't much as it is 4 people. I also do this because I lived in poverty as a child, actually sleeping on sand in the park. So this is a deep fear I have and if I can help I ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:02 PM
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We are talking about women who use "fear for safety" as a shield for their shitty behavior. if someone says that they fear for their safety and that is in of itself a valid justification then everything is justified. women are justifying ghosting men on the potential basis on threatening behavior. which is odd because I unknowingly came into contact with some extremely violent people and my approach wasn't to ghost them. women are also justifying drugging and robbing men because they feared the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:58 PM
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If I view them as potential threats to my safety then no, I do not see them as peaceful and yes then calling in the police to deal with the threat is the most acceptable situation. there is a difference between ghosting someone and giving them a novel of an explanation. good talk, i will call the cops next time one of those individuals from the organization shows up next.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:48 PM
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You didn’t read anything OP wrote. They’re defending ghosting. No one asked for a book length explanation. There is a world of difference between ghosting and giving them a speech like explanation. If an organization comes to ask for my money, I find this act to be a threat to my safety why shouldn’t I call the cops? What if I don’t want to tell them no, but instead prefer to have the cops remove them from my property?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:13 PM
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Oh my bad. A woman who lies about being a rape victim and needing money for therapy was simply trying to get the guy to go away. It’s so obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:06 PM
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yeah you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:02 PM
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Ghosting is the worst way to dump someone without taking effort and energy to be an asshole. Is an also a way to set someone unstable off if safety is a genuine way. So I don’t believe this whole fear of safety thing. Fear for safety has been excused as an excuse to justify drugging and robbing men. I also know women don’t like ghosting because they labeled a guy who did that a rapist since he had sex with the woman and ghosted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:01 PM
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As I said to another person in this thread. If I was to use this logic I should be calling the police and press for criminal trespass against the LGBTQ organization cause I fear for my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:51 PM
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I fear for my life therefore I reject someone in the worst way possible. I fear for my life therefore I drugged and robbed the man. Literally the same justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:32 PM
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Whenever people mention things being “owed” or not are more often than not trying to justify sociopathic behavior. You aren’t required to be a decent human being. You’re right on that. It’s ironic you would comment. My office regularly has people from some LGBTQ and other gay oriented organizations come to our office and ask for support and donations despite having posted notice. We kindly reject them rather than call the cops on them. Maybe I should start doing that according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:29 PM
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Fearing for safety has been used to justify drugging and robbing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:13 PM
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Being a decent human being involves doing things that aren’t needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:00 PM
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When I dated I always felt better when I got rejected with a reason rather than ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:58 PM
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You can create any excuse you want when you catastrophize everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:55 PM
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Honestly if you want to treat everyone as psychotic you might as well just be a hermit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:53 PM
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So lying, deceiving, manipulation and defrauding men is ok because some shit heel bothered you in a grocery store once. Interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 06:51 PM
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In shape or form is your comment a rational, logical response to anything I wrote. Anyways, I hold no expectation that you would ever change your behavior even though I am not the only one to point out the weird and bizarre behavior of yours. I simply pity you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:52 PM
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common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:38 PM
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no such thing as "bigger losers" once a person decides to act like a loser, they're a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:28 PM
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hard simping for a gender is loser behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:24 PM
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what do you think of men being able to drop financial responsibility for any child a woman decides to give birth to knowing the man is opposed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:03 PM
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simping for any gender is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:00 PM
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you have no answer, what a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:12 PM
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are you allergic to holding women accountable even to a tiny degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:06 PM
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Because so many guys Why should people put up with my shitty attitude? Because too many guys here you go, the places where you extrapolated this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:19 PM
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same can be said about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:54 PM
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and your opinion on the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:14 PM
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I have, which is why your comment is silly. you could legitimately say that these women's view points don't represent the majority, aren't accurate but you outright dismiss OP's claims as if he is talking about bigfoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:13 PM
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this assumes whatever action a woman takes is the right one, no matter what. it's flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:40 PM
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do you normally write sentences using the Boggle game?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:12 PM
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where did they?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:11 PM
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ok. u/wtknight can you clarify the witch hunting rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:15 PM
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Hey sounds like something you can ask the mods about instead of telling people to kill themselves on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:21 PM
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Heritage is shit but they do link sources to their claims. The Title IX policy changes came in the midst of MeToo movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:52 PM
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Can't, sub rules prevents me from giving links because that is considered "witch hunting" take it up with the mods of this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:47 PM
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yes plenty of times. you would think that cognitive dissonance would be rare but it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:24 PM
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Read what the phrase “beating around the bush” means and you’ll have your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:54 AM
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I’m not projecting. I’m just not beating around the bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:48 AM
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And I’m still a human being typing the words out. Well sub human being according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:34 AM
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of course you view me as sub-human. would be shocked if you considered me a human being lol. your self awareness is on par with neo nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:19 AM
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it is "bluntness" or "autism" your personality has traits that you behave like an asshole to other people. you are trying to shove this off either being blunt or autistic or both when it is just a character flaw that you should take responsibility for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:57 AM
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same logic makes andrew tate a philosopher.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:51 AM
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hilarious, hateful video is now "educational". and andrew tate is a professor and researcher.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:41 AM
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what a joke. you are in a post talking about a video and you were asked to condemn. you refused to do that and instead brought something completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:22 AM
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you still haven't condemned what this woman said.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:10 AM
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cool then your comment is literally worthless and pointless. you excuse people disliking you based on autism when the real culprit is your own personality. take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:14 PM
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As someone who is autistic I find this insulting. Your issues conversing is related to your own personality not autism. I seen enough of your comments to be able to gauge and state this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 10:13 PM
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you are generating excuses for this woman, saying she was attempting to make a point that she was never making. all of this in order to avoid saying the obvious, what this woman said is abhorrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:43 PM
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interesting point to note that you do not condemn the message of this video at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:42 PM
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ok but you also said that it is on men to do this not women before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:53 PM
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Basically what women tell men on this subreddit daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 08:31 PM
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this is lillith, they repost the same thing over and over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:56 PM
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you don't speak the truth, your comments are just barely above irrelevant and meaningless white noise. above you made a post about statistics but when asked for a source you cowered. all your comments is just mangled babble attempting to work as propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:51 PM
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women suck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:56 PM
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this isn't bait, they threw in the whole fishing rod
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:42 PM
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hitler also explained in his book why we should exterminate all jews doesn't make it right or sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:21 PM
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i am very impressed, this is some beyond gold medal level mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:40 PM
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not sure why you're defending hateful behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:35 AM
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you bend over backwards to shit on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:17 PM
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the women of reddit do not reflect all women but the women of reddit are some of the most vile people you can imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:54 PM
2

it is, that's the meaning of the strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:47 PM
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Other women would and have. But that’s really besides the point. You are criticizing men’s appearance when many men do put in maximum effort already. Regardless your comment does nothing but fuel harm. Do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:43 PM
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https://www.uhhospitals.org/blog/articles/2025/10/bigorexia-surges-more-teen-boys-battle-body-obsession https://www.statnews.com/2024/12/19/muscle-dysmorphia-rising-in-young-men-fueled-by-social-media/ you are literally fueling body dysmorphia in men. I seen men say how they were dressed to the 9s for a date only for the woman to show up in dirty sweat clothes only for women with your mindset attack him for even criticizing this woman's appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:37 PM
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are users with "TOP 1% COMMENTATOR" capable of making a comment that isn't unhinged?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:29 PM
2

veiled misandry and then women complain about misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:22 PM
1

it isn't broken, this is a user issue on your end.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:21 PM
1

right here: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1thm8pl/comment/omod859/?context=1
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:18 PM
1

i just said, your own comments admitting to drug addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:13 PM
2

Based on your comments and self admission of drug addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:06 PM
2

Sorry for confusing what drug you are addicted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:01 PM
2

All I wished was a speedy recovery to your drug addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:46 PM
3

I will leave it to you for the nitty gritty details of drug addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:51 PM
3

I don’t. Then I hope you get over your meth addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:48 PM
2

I hope you recover from your crack addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:35 PM
-2

the very comments you make is the evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:21 PM
-5

only one lying is you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:16 PM
-2

the top commentator lift and lurk does not believe misandry exists or is real. the irony of your comment is quite thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:12 PM
1

easily can find angry posts by women talking in anger about men and how there are nothing but assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:02 PM
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it is amazing how ignorant a comment can be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:55 PM
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why are you asking us? ask the strawman you created.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:31 PM
1

"market value" is ridiculous because the basis of it is that the market is never wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:45 AM
0

and you do you understand your cognitive dissonance is impressive, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:35 AM
-3

impressive cognitive dissonance you are exhibiting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 01:33 AM
5

Every time I went through the trouble of finding posts and links they were just dismissed as individual examples but not a reflection of a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:07 PM
2

women on this sub and all over reddit say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:54 PM
0

there is no double standards in my post, you are the one attempting to establish one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:04 PM
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what is the point of this subreddit if it is nothing but endless trolls?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:00 PM
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Men on here call every woman “ugly” considering the personalities the women here exhibit, can you blame them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:00 PM
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<image> What do you mean I can’t just mow women down?!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:40 AM
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Do you have a source for 90% men have options?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:44 PM
1

https://np.reddit.com/r/MemeVideos/s/MuWCY47XMS 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:28 PM
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you attacked someone else and i am not baiting. i am requesting mods provide a public answer why they permit clearly rule breaking comments to exist from certain users.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:41 AM
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u/Able_Donut2654 u/wtknight u/Ainsleygz u/leosandlattes u/Excellent_Badger123 u/GridReXX this user has made multiple personal attacks against multiple people. if not every other comment is a personal attack. despite all the reports nothing is done. why are personal attacks which are violations of the sub's rules being permitted by this user?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:35 AM
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want to explain why comments calling me a drug addict are permitted? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1t6lyk5/comment/oknguf3/?context=3 is it because some users have special exemptions from the rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:19 AM
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in DMs i had with her she did hint at the fact that the other mods were playing favorites to the point were the behavior was in some gray area it was a clear rule violation that they decided to ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:56 PM
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it is funny because they will delete your comment that you made 2 or 3 hours ago and then say this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:54 PM
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i have been on reddit for a while, long enough to be in the days where they had a policy against hate speech with an exemption of white men. only reason reddit itself removed that was when they decided to go the IPO route.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:51 PM
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women can post death threats and wishes of death to men and get away. i have to dig up that comment I reported and even pinged all the active mods on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:49 PM
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i have seen some men get death threats and despite actually pinging wtknight about it, they taken no action. the response later to me was I should have filed a report, no shit, i did everything modmail, report and even ping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:48 PM
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there are only 3 mods active, there used to be 4 before the other 3 harassed her into deleting her reddit account entirely. unfortunately that was also the only mod that actually cared about ensuring equality in the community and would take action against both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:46 PM
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I do not give a shit about the opinions of a trump supporter. go back to r slash conservative and stay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:32 PM
1

so what? do you have a point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:31 PM
4

there are a massive amount of sociopathic and evil women here though, i think this is an important part to highlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:57 PM
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Yes victim, sorry you do not believe men can't be victims and causing you to "guffaw". denying my experience is precisely what you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:15 PM
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what do you mean who? the mods of this subreddit. that's who.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:32 PM
2

it isn't coercion. it is communication. it is very immature to jump to "coercion" when the guy is pointing out inequitable behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:23 PM
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don't believe sexual incompatibility is a crazy reason to break up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:21 PM
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it appears that moderators of this subreddit have designated several users as above the rules. harassing, abuse, threats are all permitted from these users. once you block them, that's when mods will step in. modmail, reports and even pinging mods on the rule breaking comments nothing is done. there was a mod here for a bit that was fair but they bullied them out apparently so they deleted their account and left. sub is going to shit very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:08 PM
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i got warned by wtknight for attacking blue pill women. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1t6lyk5/comment/oknguf3/?context=3 apparently calling me a drug addict is permitted though as long as it is done by the exempted users. comment was reported by the way and nothing was done. i liked this sub better before you guys kicked out the other mod. after that it became clear a specific set of users are exempt from the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:24 PM
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the comment was reported, nothing was done. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1t6lyk5/comment/oknguf3/?context=3 you were pinged and nothing was done. it is incredibly obvious you guys just have some carve outs for users that exempt them from the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:20 PM
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fact that you have to ask speaks even more to who you are as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:54 AM
1

really? you allow users to call me drug addict though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:52 AM
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a woman can express her preferences and even if it is a list that outgrows the list Santa Claus has women will applaud her. a guy having a preference, a single one and immediately he gets attacked. no wonder why blue pill and pink pill are seen as the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:23 AM
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Ok so you are just looking at boomers and gen x and saying that these guys dating means that the forming patterns is nothing. dating apps are the most popular way couples meet now. dating apps aren't generating women with such attitudes into existence. these women already exist and they will continue to exist without the existence of dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:10 PM
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Most men are 6’3 with 10/10 looks they are not and they still date. what? A lot of struggling men don’t really do “everything right” here is an example you can find on reddit. plenty of men struggle on dating apps, they do not get matches. when they post their profiles and even at times the messages they do get there is nothing that they are doing wrong. it is also at the very early stages so unless the person is a genuine psycho they most likely aren't going to do anything wrong by default. acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:08 PM
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what stops him is that he isn't 6'3" man with 10/10 looks. that's the whole premise, he has done nothing wrong, everything right and at his best ability. you're just taking words and treating them like buzzwords with no real meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:55 PM
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what is this guy's responsibility if he's done nothing wrong? explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:48 PM
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this is the same show where one man walked on and immediately all the women popped their balloons, after he described who he is and what he does one requested a new balloon and was given one. which is insane and makes this show garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:37 PM
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why are women like this? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1ta4xtq/comment/olaxzdx/?context=1 they insist men must be "accountable" in situations where they have done nothing wrong and yet cannot even specify what this "accountability" even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:19 PM
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you're part of the problem honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:37 AM
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please point out what accountability he is supposed to accept when he hasn't done anything wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:17 AM
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you're going on a crusade against the notion of "male victims" because for some reason it is extremely triggering for you. we are talking about men who are stuck between no relationship at all and potentially the option of a woman who is going to be abusive to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:16 AM
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victim of circumstance can also be a substitute. anyways, it isn't my responsibility to teach you these things. not sure why you are trying to push this "men can't be victims" crusade but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:12 AM
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There are women on here who told men to die. I see 0 pushback on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:44 PM
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If things don’t go well for someone we say they’re a victim of their environment. This isn’t just specific to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:07 PM
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if he isn't doing anything wrong then he is the victim of his environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:56 PM
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it is already developed in the minds of mature people. this isn't some new concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:56 PM
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women cannot accept responsibility 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:27 PM
5

basically you want to insist that this guy is to blame even if you cannot point out what's he is doing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:27 PM
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plenty of men are doing their best and despite their best efforts are having difficult in getting the attention of women. telling such men that they need to be accountable and self-aware is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:49 PM
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imagine defaulting to "women are blameless"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:03 PM
3

Hard simping for genders is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:06 AM
5

Plenty of women use men for free dinners and drinks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:57 PM
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Do you hold women to the same criticism?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:40 PM
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there is no game, you wrote something stupid, acknowledge it was stupid and retract it. I am autistic too which is why I make a point of carefully selecting my words and if I make a mistake and say something that others misunderstand me i apologize and reframe what I meant. it's called taking accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:09 PM
1

The key word is “no one”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 04:36 PM
0

Sure Noone is doing that 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:29 PM
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Your claim that women cannot ever be evil,mean or wrong is rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:21 PM
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u/wtknight there it is. admission that this user is making personal attacks and calling me a drug addict. Lift_and_lurk: you do not care for evidence. The request for evidence isn’t really a request for evidence. There are two responses No evidence: you cannot prove your claim! Evidence provided: these are just randos so it doesn’t matter You are notorious like that. I am not sure why you need evidence of some women being vile. Only pink pill people are under the belief no woman can do any wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:02 PM
1

Are you inferring I’m a drug addict with the image?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:52 PM
1

I have been Reddit enough to have seen this happen. I have seen some comments directed towards him on this sub too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:49 PM
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You don’t think offering advice in hopes that they take it and are harmed or even killed by it is in itself an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:42 PM
2

Ok so you’re not having a conversation with me. You’re just being angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:03 PM
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you are telling me if your guy friend who dates nothing but the most attractive strippers and constantly complains about those women having issues with drugs, stealing his money or things you wouldn't say anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:44 AM
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how do you know? you aren't a man. you do not have the life experiences of a man. you are just being dismissive along with being snarky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:42 AM
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you aren't their friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:36 AM
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But they are complaining. So where is that line for you from reasonable to unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:38 PM
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desperate disgusting women out there sure but I haven't seen such women want to date those said men. or prostitutes to clarify, prostitutes don't get paid to "date" they just say "date" as some way to get around cops. so I don't really see this as a valid option for men looking to have a relationship/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:29 PM
0

I literally quoted you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:27 PM
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You contradicted yourself here. When a man says, "she must be hot and chill", that tells me he's superficial. Right there, you drew the line between acceptable and superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:17 PM
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I think it depends on the relationship. If it was my friend and I see them complain and struggle, I would tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:16 PM
-3

A substantial amount of men, simply don't have options. When they do it is often a choice between two evils.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:44 PM
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I never suggested getting upset with the person. There is a difference between giving them constructive feedback even if it is criticism and becoming upset with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:43 PM
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Ok, so there is no line for you that they can cross, is that the correct understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:40 PM
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Ok but that's not really answering the question of the post. Where does it go from reasonable pickiness and reasonable frustration to where it goes too superficial, picky, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:39 PM
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Hard disagree, attacking someone's sexuality isn't acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 10:19 PM
2

Hateful rant. Just report.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:23 AM
2

Just a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:23 AM
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This subreddit is infested with so many femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:00 PM
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sure but mostly they are and most women go after even knowing how they really are. forget red flags, some of these guys have air horns and women will act like they're deaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:05 AM
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what do women think of this? Here’s one that confused me. See if any of you could make heads or tails of it: There was this girl years ago that lived across the hall from me at my apartment complex. She was very extroverted and friendly, but I didn’t read that as a sign of attraction because she was a former sorority girl and they tend to be like that. Either way, we became good friends. I took care of her once when she was sick, we’d watch movies, etc. Then, one day, she texted me when she was …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:14 AM
3

Then you don't need a woman. That's the point. is this you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:32 PM
4

ok so your argument is just a roundabout way to be against dating overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:10 PM
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I live independently though, plenty of men do. the thing about your comment is that attempts to twist the narrative and vilify men who want regular relationships but struggle to get them because they can barely even manage to get attention of women let alone long enough to arrange a date. because simply saying men have it tough isn't an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:01 PM
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<image> yes "must be adults"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 01:34 PM
0

Ok, that's your opinion but if this is something that does not harm you but may help someone else then why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:58 AM
1

does giving someone you don't feel is "entitled" to a message would harm you in some way?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:00 PM
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wasting the attention of people wanting only to hookup except that she's not really doing that. at most her advice would be good for one's own mental health and weed out some people that aren't really into you and aren't all that interested in meeting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 10:32 PM
1

You haven’t? There are several on this sub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:02 PM
6

You’re literally talking about Eliot Rodger lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:58 PM
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sometimes lol Women have no idea what rape by deception is. They have the idea that regret sex is rape too. When in reality rape by deception is a very niche thing: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_by_deception
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:43 PM
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Your OP talks about extremes and then compares those extremes to the norm as if they aren’t extremes. Makes sense? Hence your whole OP is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:40 PM
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i seen enough women on here make one claim and I see something completely different later.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:22 PM
4

recording a tiktok video while driving, amazing work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:20 PM
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you provide vague traits that can be healthy and normal when they are kept in balance and become unhealthy and problematic when taken to the extreme. your examples are the extreme. your entire premise is just taking things to the extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:19 PM
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and how can you prove that they lied and didn't change their mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:10 PM
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that is the counter, your entire premise is built on pointing to the most extreme. that's not a valid premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:09 PM
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can you prove that they lied?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:57 PM
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you have done nothing but taken the most extreme examples and then used it to justify repugnant behavior towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:55 PM
-5

do you downplay misogynistic comments too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:40 PM
-3

let's not downplay misandrist comments
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:18 PM
2

consistency is seen through their comments not their immediate responses. I have seen people on this sub claim to have X, Y, Z stances in order to avoid looking like hypocrites and their comments showed them to be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:17 PM
2

Sounds like you’re ready to hunt men who go overseas to date down with crossbow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 03:04 PM
4

Jesus. Yeah you haven’t even read anything I wrote. Literally nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:57 PM
1

In the US it is a completely different situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:54 PM
1

Did you read anything I wrote? Like what is this response?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:53 PM
0

You’re just painting yourself out to be a hypocrite with these comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:50 PM
4

That explains it. The whole height thing is fairly recent and only a US thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:48 PM
4

are you from the US?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:28 PM
2

Wrong. Men who struggle do not want their struggles dismissed as nonsense, they do not to be told that they are doing things wrong when they are making their best effort. They aren't looking to force women to date them, they just the bullshit to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:27 PM
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I once made a post on this subreddit asking women if and when they would tell other women their standards are over the top and is causing them their dating issues. Even if that woman is a long term friend, even if that friend is turning into a misandrist, femcel whatever most women would not say anything. In fact others outright said they would support toxic mindsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 04:41 PM
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maybe not rape but physical violence yes. the thing is men aren't reporting this physical violence to the authorities due to shame from women like you. if men do vent, they are dismissed as "whiny" by again, women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:48 PM
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what are you telling him is a bunch of nonsense. imagine trying to navigate a discussion when the person is laying out trash?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:41 PM
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80/20 study. they had responses from men asking them to rank women, their ratings follow a normal bell curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:33 PM
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Why do I need to have a personal connection? In Harlem a 15 year old girl had her head stomped on for refusing to give a guy her phone number. I don’t live there or know these people, do I need to in order to say that guy needs to be in prison for a long time? As far as you go, I seen you dismiss, be snarky and outright trollish to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:35 PM
9

The conversation established you hate men. It was hours long. Not interested in rehashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:34 PM
8

You do in fact hate men, not going to rehash this argument already. you can rehash it on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:12 PM
8

a few things: I am not struggling, I am in a relationship. I wasn't talking about you but about blue pillers in general On that note, in general blue pillers tend to be dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:10 PM
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a lot of blue pillers on here outright hate men but aren't really willing to say it like the pink pillers do. their comments are often geared towards dismissing a guy's struggles more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:58 PM
6

There are a lot of bad therapists but also therapy doesn’t always work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:34 PM
0

You missed the point or intentionally avoided it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:14 PM
2

that and also the fact that PPD women simply hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 01:23 PM
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A majority of single males surveyed reported fear as the main reason they do not approach women for dates in person. Fear of rejection and fear of social consequences were the two most common responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:43 PM
2

the absolute seething hatred that is emanating from this comment is something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:22 PM
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I goofed on the source. It’s pew research https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/nearly-half-of-u-s-adults-say-dating-has-gotten-harder-for-most-people-in-the-last-10-years/#:~:text=According%20to%20a%20Pew%20Research%20Center%20survey%2C,is%20a%20reason%20dating%20has%20gotten%20harder**
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 03:48 AM
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there is, Gallup runs a poll asking men and women how is dating for them. They have been a rise of dissatisfaction from both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:22 PM
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again you are weirdly extremely defensive over a very common sense thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:16 PM
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this is a very weird comment to make. the topic is discussing reasons why women increasingly women are staying single. no one mentioned doing anything to stop these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:27 PM
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I have asked women on here before as to what standards if any would be unrealistic and all of them said there is no such thing as unrealistic. give me specifics because i am not going with the mob mentality to burn OP at the stake.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:04 AM
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sounds more like you need a reason to be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:19 AM
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ask him what means before taking issue with it. it is a pretty vague statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:02 AM
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why would I want to date someone who is masculine? why are you acting as if feminine woman is some horrific thing? are feminine awful to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:55 PM
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loyal, virgin, has realistic standards, does not shit-test, does not have a public social media presence, and is ultimately feminine. aside from the virgin and social media. i don't see any other issues with their standards. please explain how loyalty or not constantly testing their significant others isn't good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:39 PM
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How about you get how hard life is for BOTH of us. However, I think I can successfully argue it is more complicated for women and there is more at stake for us in a relationship. you can't even feign the equating you preach, that is hilarious. idk what was the goal with your comment honestly given the fact you undermine it yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:57 PM
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the program you listed is one to keep kids from joining gangs primarily. honestly, it comes down to things like if a guy shares a difficult experience he will be lambasted for it and blamed. this is really what they are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:20 PM
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if it was someone else asking that question you would have a point. historically if that person is asking a question it is so they can respond to whatever answer you give as one being snarky, dismissive and mocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:14 PM
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Can you DM me the username? Cause I think we are talking about two different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:59 PM
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Are you shaming men for not being gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:20 PM
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It’s like the take accountability. They pretend not to know when but when you try to explain they just dismiss it. Even if their comments violate rules of the sub, mods won’t step in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:39 PM
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Idk I think a few people on here definitely belong zoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:06 PM
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I think it’s worse, you shouldn’t verify if the child a woman claims to be yours is actually yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:55 PM
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Yeah very weird argument
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:51 PM
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It’s not off topic nor is it disingenuous. You probably sense what my point is and too scared to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:11 PM
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You can’t muster a response?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:44 PM
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I have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:04 PM
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you're not dating the whole world, not dating children, not dating the elderly. you are dating within your locale, so 8 billion doesn't even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:03 PM
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Spy X Family is pretty good too, Fullmetal Alchemist, Ghost in the Shell SAC 1 & 2
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:05 AM
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I am sorry but there are multiple SAW movies. Your complaints have no bearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:03 AM
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nice try mod
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:44 AM
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when your dad wanted a girl <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:42 AM
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it is the topic of this thread. that women will large set of men based on very superficial trait. I am not going bring clown doctors in this. go see a shrink.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 02:19 AM
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that's because women see unattractive men as subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:05 AM
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If you do not understand human emotions, talk to a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:02 AM
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You think it is normal to reject 99% of your dating pool based on just one superficial trait? It is common sense. But you will need to see an actual therapist to get this advice. There is no "trust me", I can't secretly record doctor sessions for you, sorry to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:00 AM
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How did you read that and came away with me saying women were dating strippers when I clearly said it was a guy dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 12:48 AM
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I have no idea what you are even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:29 PM
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Yeah sorry I am not going to be recording therapists without their knowledge or consent. The only therapists that put out videos on youtube are clowns. If you are interested, go to a therapist and ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:29 PM
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Again not cogent to what I am talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:24 PM
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I don’t care. I am just having a discussion here to pass the time cause I’m bored. Why do women keep thinking I have some deep regard for these topics. I am just having conversations, stating my opinion and that’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:24 PM
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Respond to what I am actually saying and that is; wiping out 99% of the potential dating pool on a singular superficial trait is extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:23 PM
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Post what exactly? The office of a psychologist?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:21 PM
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Psychologists. At least ones that aren’t clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:05 PM
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What are you even talking about? at this point it sounds like you’re shaking a magic 8 ball for your responses. They’re not cogent at all. Human nature means people have a hard time holding themselves in critical view. It’s natural, normal behavior that people strive to counteract.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:04 PM
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If a guy dates only strippers, prostitutes, pornstars and complains about his girlfriend’s poor mental health, abusive and unstable tendencies, them using him for money, substance abuse issues, stealing from him, cheating on him. Who’s at fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:48 PM
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You didn’t read the remaining. You admitted you just stopped at that sentence the definition of cherry pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:43 PM
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The world isn’t black and white like you make it out to be where you either find everyone attractive or only 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:42 PM
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It’s basic human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:41 PM
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Did you never have sex ed when younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:38 PM
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Extremely? Here is one in this thread. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ You can’t throw a rock and not hit these people. They’re everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:36 PM
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lol. It’s not healthy. Schizophrenic people will never admit they’re sick, they won’t take their meds, they’ll justify
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:35 PM
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lol. It’s not healthy. Schizophrenic people will never admit they’re sick, they won’t take their meds, they’ll justify their behavior and hallucinations as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:35 PM
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Your comment makes sense if there is some benefit to make these comments. Either ad revenue or get additional subscribers. Such a thing doesn’t exist on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:32 PM
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Not seeing or not noticing isn’t a better stance. It’s the SAME question of whether ignorance is truly blissful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:41 PM
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Keep reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:27 PM
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I do not think normalizing extremist stances is a healthy thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:27 PM
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I do not think normalizing extreme stances is a healthy thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:26 PM
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There are women on this subreddit alone that push the number to 1%. Multiple women did defend this 5% number as normal too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:25 PM
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Why are you shifting goalposts? You said there were no women complaining about no "good men" left. I posted proof now you are saying you personally weren't saying? Women doesn't mean just you alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:24 PM
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80/20 study says that men have normal attraction levels to women, whereas women have extremely right shifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:18 PM
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I am aware of those websites but their statistics calculations are not correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:17 PM
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How does me not being attracted to 99% of men cause any issues/problems? There is a GQ magazine podcast where the women described their dating lives and were complaining. Specifically how they find so few men attractive enough to try and get to know further for potential dating only to find out that they are having to compete with a lot of other women. I do not know why usually women approach dating as if they are grocery shopping, there is competition and very few women in my experience acknowl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:16 PM
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it does, they are studies out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:12 PM
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Compatible is a valid response but only if you're honest. I seen women sugar coat highly superficial standards as "compatibility" before so I always take such claims with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:11 PM
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I never said they hate men, they certainly complain about no "good men" being left.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:05 PM
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right... how is it my girlfriend managing to come across these women? https://np.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/1nj1tw4/where_are_all_the_good_men_and_i_mean_the_men/ https://np.reddit.com/r/LifeAdvice/comments/1im2f4l/where_are_yall_finding_good_men/ you can find these women on reddit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:01 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/1nj1tw4/where_are_all_the_good_men_and_i_mean_the_men/ https://np.reddit.com/r/LifeAdvice/comments/1im2f4l/where_are_yall_finding_good_men/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:58 PM
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I do not view unattractive people as subhuman, women see unattractive men as subhuman and that was I was illustrating in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:57 PM
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I do not know your particular situation but in every instance I personally had with a woman or that my girlfriend has neither of us saw any honesty from them. I do not think most women are even able to honestly reflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:59 PM
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Ok so whining people are people you don’t like. Women who complain about there no longer being any good men aren’t whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:58 PM
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two things I have seen some fat monster lowers her standards slightly so instead of going after male supermodels they go one run down to above average men, they get rejected and go back to male supermodels. option two, fat monster gets burnt by male supermodel and refers to him after as shrek. in other words, there was no "realistic standards" ever being applied.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:42 PM
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there are unhappy women, not sure where you got the idea they are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:31 PM
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my girlfriend routinely meets new women who complain about dating. she has a reddit account but doesn't use it as much and is more out and about, maybe that's the difference. Having more experience in the world would widen your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:30 PM
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when you don't find any man attractive other than the top tier everyone else looks like subhuman to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:27 PM
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do you tell this to women who say "there are no good men left?"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:24 PM
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Until that dating pool is whining about women not finding most of them attractive. it is social commentary, not whining. twisting it and calling it "whining" when it is just social commentary on a discussion subreddit is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:22 PM
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this is just cope honestly, the number of times I have seen the crux of women's dating issues being related to her focusing on only the top tier men is very significant and they always say the same thing like you do cause the ugly guy didn't offer to pay her rent (actual example)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:14 PM
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dates top tier men, gets burnt, blames all men. classic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:53 PM
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Again I am not. You are missing the point. Sugar dating the canary for showing how dating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:46 AM
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I am not shutting anything down. I am simply saying my comments are just that social commentary. Nothing deep like you think it is and no most women in America are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:45 AM
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No, I didn’t see it before it got deleted Yes, I read it before it got deleted. Just wanted to figure out without regurgitating the whole thing up. To your points above, that post addressed it. Sugar dating has always been known pretty women dating old ugly men because they’re paid to do so. Which makes sense it is true. They also said that the issue is with new women entering and this is confirmed by women that did this for a while they’re not happy because a lot of these are simply pissing men…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:19 AM
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It doesn’t. I have a girlfriend anyways. I am simply having a discussion the literal point of this sub at least in theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:00 AM
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I met such women. My girlfriend has met such women and she will be the first one to tell you they aren’t the rarity you think it is. My friends seen such women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:55 AM
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these women aren't knowingly engaging in casual sex, that's the point you are missing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:46 AM
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how do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:41 AM
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you didn't specify that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:40 AM
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simple, have you read it before they deleted it, yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:37 AM
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It does matter, can you answer my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:14 AM
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Oh it goes well beyond 3 or even dozens. A lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:35 AM
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The energy is there. If you’re whining it makes whatever they’re saying as meaningless and pointless and should just shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:34 AM
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I have no idea of what you are talking about. You are dismissing men complaining about being mistreated as "whining" do you see these women as "whining" about this guy's behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:20 AM
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I never called this woman stupid or anything. Why do you mangle and reframe my question and accuse me of things I never put out there? I simply wanted this person to answer my question and clarify what is desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:01 AM
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Did you ever read that post?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:44 PM
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Where I read women complaining about this guy? This subreddit where this guy announced his intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:41 PM
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Allow me to clarify. What I mean is that a lot of women say that their standards aren't "top tier" men. One recent example is when my girlfriend went to hang out with her close friend who brought another friend over. Just for clarity, let's call my girlfriend A, my girlfriend's friend B and B's friend C. A and C never met but B and C have been friends. Anyways, C complained to A how difficult it has been dating and how even with C's extremely low standards. A asked so what are those standards an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:40 PM
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the relevance is that there are women complaining but you aren't telling them to shut up. why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:31 PM
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attractive that's a vague term. it can be everything from average appearance to model looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:28 PM
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they’re not going to date Henry Cavill in real life I do not know. There was a post here but I think mods deleted it about how women are showing up on sugar dating expecting men to be very conventionally attractive. considering how many men struggle to even get attention from women, I do believe a lot of women are locked into this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:21 PM
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there is a guy here lying to women about wanting a long term relationship only for him to pump and dump them. women complained, are you going to tell those women to shut up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 11:19 PM
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You can throw in plastic surgery in there. It isn't a healthy option nor an option I would ever recommend anyone take.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:53 PM
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fuck churches
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:44 PM
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Stupid or not. You can answer it. So please go ahead, answer it. shes probably already had men like that having a short relationship before the guy dumps or cheats on her or simply just having sex with isn't a barometer of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:39 PM
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A guy isn't respectable because he had something traumatic happen to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:35 PM
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There is a difference between settle and compromise. Compromise denotes a willing acceptance and growth that maybe you do not need the 6'5" male model because they most likely will be very superficial and not treat you well. Settling is negative, forced acceptance of something, the person isn't happy. “raw animalistic attraction” and “betabuxx” yeah, just look at r slash relationships and r slash deadbedrooms. Women communicate to these men that they are "lesser" in their eyes by mistreating the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:30 PM
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So do you think that a woman initially wanting to only date 6'5" with model looks billionaires to dating average height men that aren't billionaires a sign of desperation?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:23 PM
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A lot of them don’t and become angry, bitter female version of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:08 PM
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Men’s negative experiences do not always stem from childhood. You simply inserted that as a justification to be dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:06 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:35 PM
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You’re just confirming you made it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:35 PM
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No one said anything about childhood. You made that up as a justification for your dismissiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:13 PM
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I will not explain to you human emotions. Ask a doctor for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:13 PM
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I am not going to sit here and explain to you human emotions, feelings, etc. seek a therapist to explain that to you or go outside and interact with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:42 PM
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You being dismissive and playing oppression Olympics while accusing me of lacking empathy is peak irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:42 PM
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How did you read what I wrote and come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:26 PM
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Why offer sympathy for women but not for men when both had awful things done to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:50 PM
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Explaination as to why you’re being seen as a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:22 PM
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No one is asking you to take responsibility. Just acknowledge their insecurity and not dismiss it and try to make them feel better. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:22 PM
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It depends on what they say and what you observe. How do you ultimately know? You don’t know as with everything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:12 PM
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Someone being insecure doesn’t always mean being cruel to you. Not sure how someone not feeling secure about themselves, worried about certain aspects of them and being depressed is being cruel to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:06 PM
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I already explained it, it shows you holding hypocritical views.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:45 PM
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So no one should be sensitive about anyone’s traumas?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:35 PM
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You get upset at men wronging women but do not get upset at women wronging men. That is hypocrisy. Not sure where you got the middle school aspect from.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:32 PM
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You were one of the several women upset at a guy here planning on lying to women about wanting a long term relationship in order to pump and dump them though and attacked men who were dismissive for being dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 04:25 PM
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You were upset at the guy saying he will lie to women about wanting a long term relationship when in reality he was going to just pump and dump them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:33 PM
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I think your comment is being overly dismissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:33 PM
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I disagree. My girlfriend often times loses her friends because she goes against groupthink.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:16 PM
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If they need validation isn’t that a sign that people were cruel to them about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:16 PM
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This isn’t just women centric subs, but subreddits run by women or substantial amount of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:11 PM
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I do think this is why we are seeing the continued inflation of standards when it comes to physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:52 PM
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why do you have very little empathy towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 02:50 PM
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There is none, it is the woman's response that's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 12:04 AM
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women: https://np.reddit.com/r/Nicegirls/comments/1ri53eb/hi_honey_im_home_do_you_think_free_will_truly/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:20 PM
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Why are you so angry and bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 01:06 AM
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No I wouldn’t? But I will say that women like you are pretty rare. I have went on dates with dumpy and obese women only for them to make nonstop complaints about me not being more attractive even though I’m a healthy weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:28 PM
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I have seen it being the reason some men struggle so it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:20 PM
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They will never respond to you because those are the men these neet women aren’t interested in, neet men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:46 PM
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How would they take accountability for being short below 6’?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:39 PM
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OP knows this is the truth which is why they ignored you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:45 PM
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Tell that to the woman who called me short
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:44 PM
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Yeah I can see it cause I know plenty of men who have better personalities than me but struggle with dating cause they aren’t 6’ for example. Even though I am 6’1” I had women tell me I am too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:14 PM
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I do not think American men going overseas to date are automatically predators or bad men. It could be that they struggle with dating due to no fault on their own especially given the ever inflating standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:59 PM
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That’s not the question I asked. You lopped off half of my question and answered the latter part.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:08 PM
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Can you answer my question as I asked and not twist it into something I did not ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:02 PM
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Cool but this doesn’t apply to men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:33 PM
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Given that men are being rejected over not being 6'3" with physical looks of a model and if these men go over sees do you still feel bad for the local women? EDIT: I see you downvoted me but do you have an answer to my question at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:27 PM
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You can make this comment apply to literally every single post and comment. The whole point of this subreddit is to have a discussion. Now there are comments asking why are you trying to even converse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:50 PM
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Men do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:31 PM
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Then why even date if you’re content? Do not date at all ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:55 PM
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That's just mental confusion. You broke up and are in the process of healing. That's a completely different situation entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:33 PM
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The deception that she is going with him on a genuine date rather than just going to have dinner with no actual interest in the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:18 PM
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I do not understand what point you're trying to make here. Either a woman is content with being single and isn't wanting to date or a woman is making efforts to date. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:17 PM
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Do you ask the same thing from people who donated to those who falsely claimed to have cancer? Lies, fraud, deception, they all exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:22 PM
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unless you are able to acknowledge the reality and give some sympathy towards and issue criticism towards women then you can't engage in conversations about dating in earnest. you need to be able to accept and appreciate challenges from all sides otherwise you're just pushing some strange propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:03 PM
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it is a real thing, my girlfriend ended friendships with women because they have a habit of using men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:55 PM
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any woman who finds those things sufficient wouldn't be actively dating. a man would have to actively work to convince her to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:26 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:39 PM
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comment history, half asleep still. all your comments often times just simply hate men. i have no respect who hate men or women or other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:11 PM
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your whole comment statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:08 PM
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I do not respect you here, yous hould leave then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:54 PM
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whatever you say
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:58 AM
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every single one of your comments discussing men is tinged with hate towards men. sometimes it is overt and sometimes it is couched. I am not going to sit here and post dozens and dozens of links.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:56 AM
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My comment is in English, you can understand it if you actually read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:51 AM
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yeah you're pretty sex repressed, more shocking is how you are married given your litany of comments just hating men or maybe your husband is one of those self hating weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:46 AM
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No she’s Mexican but lives here in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:41 PM
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I have yet to see you make a comment that isn’t simping for women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:08 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 06:08 PM
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My girlfriend says that women on this subreddit are as toxic as incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:48 PM
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This sub is stupid, even ragebaiting, shitposting subs have more use than this sub. There is nothing here than a bunch of *cels bitching at each other constantly, it is so stupid not even funny just sad and depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:59 PM
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You realize all of these conversations are public right? Not sure why you think rewriting history would help here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:55 PM
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There is a guy here who intends to get casual sex by deceiving women into thinking he wants a long term relationship. Women do nothing but complain, though they claim by complaining they’re trying to help somehow. So I doubt what you write.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:41 PM
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I will continue
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:14 PM
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I do not care what you have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:13 PM
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Now you’re launching personal attacks. I’m done with this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:02 PM
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that's your opinion, nothing more. it is relevant. a guy wants casual sex, all options to get it didn't work. this is his new approach to help himself in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:36 PM
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the guy isn't wrong for doing what he is doing if he feels that it is his only option. if you feel there is another one, propose it, otherwise it is just women whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:26 PM
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lol no they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:03 PM
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i simply said help, i made no comparison, you did for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:12 PM
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how do you mean? most recently here there was a guy who said the only way he imagines he can get casual sex is by deceiving women into thinking he is interested in a long term relationship only to pump and dump them. women complain about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:28 AM
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ok then why do women get upset at men for doing things to solve their own problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:24 AM
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No, you bully them, they threaten you, you bully them more. I bypassed your profile hiding
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:05 AM
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you read all that and this was your response?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:53 AM
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probably cause you bully them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:46 AM
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Women can't get mad at men implementing dishonesty as a strategy in obtaining what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:00 AM
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who is calling for violence against women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:52 AM
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just for clarity you would say to her "they reap what they sow", correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:29 PM
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Yeah idc why people get into toxic mindsets. I think they reap what they sow if they choose to behave that way let's do a thought experiment if a woman goes into sex work, experiences very bad instances with men, violence, etc. as a result her mindset becomes toxic. do you feel the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:31 PM
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I love bullying Makes sense given that you are an active member of IncelTears. They need to be called out for their horrible toxic beliefs If a man holds a belief that you feel is toxic. Do you think bullying them is the way to change their mind or is that just going to further push them into that mindset? The spoiler here is that it will make everything much worse. If you want to stop the toxicity from men, you are better off approaching and asking them why they hold such views. Often times it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:04 PM
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Why do you think? Do you think people are rushing to help others who display toxicity and meanness? People aren't rushing to help anyone. People usually go into toxic mindsets because of bad experiences or lack of options that work for them. Do you think bullying the autistic Mexican man and telling him to end his own life is going to make him more positive? But I will say that those who respond to toxic people with more toxicity, they aren't any better. So again why are you expecting people to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:59 PM
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I am speaking about Reddit in general not just this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:53 PM
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Sexist comments like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:52 PM
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I don't. This isn't about me, hell I got a girlfriend. I am simply reflecting on what I see online.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:52 PM
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A woman telling a man, if the both of them lived in the same city, they could meet publicly and she could help him is no longer a promise?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:51 PM
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Telling someone to off themselves because they are autistic doesn't strike me as pushing against misogyny but go off queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:47 PM
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They say "I do not want help"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:46 PM
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You are incorrect in that regard. My post is about those subreddits and what I seen happen there. A few days ago my girlfriend sent me a link to a post that she was in that was datingoverthirty, where an autistic guy from Mexico posted. Everyone on there immediately dog-pilled on him for being autistic with a few comments telling him to end his own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:46 PM
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I am not talking about the red pill at all nor do I support men listening to the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:44 PM
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I have been here long enough to see that this is a wide spread issue, my girlfriend is on Reddit too but to a lesser extent and she has seen plenty of examples. One our famous or infamous regulars here has a bad idea on what he should do but the responses he has received only convince him to further go down that road rather keep him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:56 PM
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I have met a handful and I mean you can count them on one hand of women who genuinely are decent human being and do not perform mental gymnastics and other bullshit behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:42 PM
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Nothing, I just wanted an honest admission rather than further mental gymnastics that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:34 PM
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A lot of women on Reddit are just hateful individuals that attempt to disguise it through performative actions and weird justifications. Failing to realize that it is very clear to see their true face underneath the mask that they portray.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:21 PM
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You need to keep in mind humans are social creatures, so relationships are things that most people have a natural desire for cause if we didn't then we as a species would have died out long ago. Yes, women aren't forced into marriages of convenience but this isn't the great era of singledom and prosperity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:12 PM
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This is just a word salad that in no shape or form is a coherent response to what I have written.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:17 PM
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that gut is hypnotically weird, it is as if he is pregnant. dating apps shouldn't permit this behavior ideally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:11 PM
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if that experience is nothing but rejection there will not be confidence, that's just the logical conclusion. most men who lack confidence also have experienced nothing but rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:08 PM
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no sex till marriage then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:16 PM
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lol what? it doesn't concern you? it impacts you, it concerns you very much. as the other guy said, it is like employers expecting new hires to have the experience without ever providing any training.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:15 PM
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true but I also wonder how do these women determine this guy's skill. I have a feeling that they can't and they just lie that this is the important factor and not physical looks but in actuality they just go for the most attractive men, these men do not bother with pleasuring the women because they have a laundry list of options and women are left displeased.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:33 PM
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give me the links
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:30 PM
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I am not a university researcher. do you have evidence that it is a small percentage of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:12 PM
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how do women expect a man to know how to please a woman without experience and guidance? cause I have seen a lot of women who are open to casual sex stipulate that the guy must know how to be good in bed. seems like a chicken or egg situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:06 PM
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I could have sworn you said you find 99% of all men to be disgustingly ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:04 PM
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well they aren't going into relationships with the men that necessarily meet their expectations 100%, they become incredibly abusive and manipulative which they are weirdly very proud about and then the guy snaps and breaks up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:03 PM
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they are constantly in and out of relationships. so they can obtain a relationship but they cannot maintain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:36 PM
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sure but my point is that these women aren't isolated rare, they are pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:12 PM
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Who knows honestly, the few people i known to use coke turned out to be real degenerates. That used to be the case but my point is the beauty standards men need to meet seem to continue to increase, years ago it started with 6'0" now it is 6'3" and I already see women set the standard at 6'5". I do not think men who find themselves with difficulty dating cause these don't meet these standards are exploitive of women overseas. One woman my girlfriend was friends with for a while before dropping h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:40 PM
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he did lmao https://np.reddit.com/r/Kitchenchads/comments/1qunufr/comment/o3bivlu/ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1qw1cmb/comment/o3p5n4r/ looks like a heavy coke user too, yikes https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1ot68rs/comment/no2vxxf/ was in france too yeah pretty big hypocrite honestly. don't agree with their point, don't think men being rejected in the US for not being 6'3" male model are going out to other countries and getting women because of economic e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:46 PM
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Blue pill flaired users tend to have incredibly misandrist views. I do not think this definition is up to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:19 PM
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Why is it cringe?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:15 PM
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Do women really care if men who struggle dating in the US go overseas to find wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:10 PM
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Because you asked a question and simply didn't believe the women's claims automatically. I do not vote but I did upvote you just now. Women on Reddit tend to lie a lot. Keep also in mind that whenever a woman says or does something repugnant, these same women will dismiss it as "rage bait" cause it is the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:58 PM
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The only thing I can think of is his new approach of wanting to lie to women about being interested in long term relationships in order to pump and dump them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:49 PM
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What happened to everything online being rage bait? Or that does not apply because the subject here now is a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:48 PM
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Probably their intention to make their comments read like it was written by a Neo Nazi.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:43 PM
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My girlfriend has friends who introduce her to other women who complain about dating and more often than not these women have these standards minus the six pack thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:16 PM
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Feel free to actually read my comments before you respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:56 PM
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It isn't a joke, it is a meme because it is so prevalent. My girlfriend mingles with a lot of women, a lot of those women aren't happy dating wise but often times they actually have these requirements. Even in my earlier posts I have had some women admit that they have seen other women including their own friends dismiss men for not being the meme 6'3".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:21 PM
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Alot less expectation on men. I disagree with you on this given that the 6-6-6 meme is a US thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:15 PM
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I made a post about singles events and how the experience for men is the same as on dating apps that includes sloppy overweight women rejecting 200 men and crying about how there are no attractive men. While lurking in women's subs I also noticed plenty of women complaining about men trying to befriend them in hobby groups or classes. OP has made the comments multiple times how they ended up getting a lifetime ban from a club for attempting to talk to a woman, presumably with one of these friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:13 PM
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I think they meant something else, it is a complete saga.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:07 PM
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I’d argue there are
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:03 PM
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80/20 study says women find most men ugly so this opinion has no merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 09:18 PM
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incels? no. reddit has a very strong anti-incel policy. I do think what they mean are femcels which reddit definitively turns a blind eye on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 08:52 PM
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How did he know? In the post it is pretty clear he had to press the truth out of her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:32 PM
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This is what men are afraid of: https://np.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/s/VrMR9TgxhB
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:28 PM
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Younger men, are staying single for longer, staying virgins for longer, older men are also staying single for longer when they exit a relationship before finding a new one. In other words, men across the board generally speaking are struggling with dating. These same issues aren't reflected with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:09 PM
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My girlfriend has described how some of her friends of friends would show her various photos of men that were described as "ugly" when they were just average looking. Women's judgments of looks aren't usually seen as reliable cause of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:42 PM
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introduce them to the guy who is on here looking to dupe women looking for long term relationships then 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 04:39 PM
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I do not know how to answer this, it is like asking to explain how something having water on it makes it wet. Just read your own comments. I do not know what else to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:11 PM
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The current data shows more men staying single and virgins for much longer. this trend doesn't apply for women. We aren't seeing a gender disparity like we see in China where there is simply more men than women. The common sense conclusion is that women are increasingly focusing on the most conventionally attractive men; men that are in high competition. So women who compare themselves to exes are probably feeling insecurity because they consciously or subconsciously realize that the men they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:03 PM
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are you high? that's not a defense. Cause women aren't monolithic disregarded. this isn't a valid response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:54 PM
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several points: if this video was done by a man I guarantee that you wouldn't be talking about this being rage bait. that's how bloopies work. rage bait isn't relevant. even if what this woman said was simply to garner views and isn't what she actually believe, which we do not know there is a substantial amount of women that do subscribe to this. women that my girlfriend has met and gotten into fights with because she doesn't agree with this type of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:32 PM
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bloopie is anyone who is blue pilled. these are individuals that claim they simply oppose red pill when in reality they just hate men, that includes the male bloopies too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:29 PM
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<image> ackchyually there is a difference here you aren't seeing despite it being the exact same scenario. that's you, that's what you are doing right now. this is why every single conversation with women on here makes me lose hope in humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:22 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:19 PM
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my post was not gender specific, it stated if a straight woman responds then the roles are flipped from what if a straight man was to respond. I simply expanded the scope of the scenario to receive answers from both men and women on this. The exclusivity part was my fault. I failed to add it in the body of the text and should have. well this woman would strongly disagree with you: https://npreddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1qvnnus/comment/o3jliof/?context=1
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:15 PM
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funny thing about that, when men do it, bloopies still go up in arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:13 PM
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you want to give a response of some kind I can respond to there chief?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:12 PM
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Bloopie thought process: Bad woman: This is fake, ragebait. Bad man: Men are scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:01 PM
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this is a deliberate twisting of the narrative in order to try and establish an coherent argument but in reality it is nothing but bad faith. Men simply do not want to receive lesser treatment than other men. If a woman wants to take it slow, that's fine as long as she takes it slow with everyone. But if she is simply going to pick and choose who she takes it slow depending on how attractive various men are to her, then that's where men and I have seen women when the scenario is flipped would ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:59 PM
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Yeah I recognize my mistake in not putting exclusivity in the body of the post. But yeah the situation is exclusive dating, that's what happened in one instance that I witnessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:48 PM
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so by the virtue of agreeing a girl exclusively and take it slow he should have somehow known she is going to maintain a FWB with another guy? you got enraged at the guy pretending to want a LTR in order to get casual sex can easily say the woman should have known just like the guy should have known.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:07 PM
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even several women here pointed out that this is just cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:22 PM
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it was just posted last night, you can easily find it. exclusively dating implies monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:02 PM
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I posted a hypothetical scenario in which a guy is "exclusively" dating a woman who is going slow with him, delaying sex that is. Simultaneously she is having an active FWB arrangement. Some women defended the woman and said the man had no right to complain and leaving the relationship would mean he is insecure and pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:01 PM
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no, I am not. but hey maybe you also think that men you do not agree with deserve to die or deserve to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:58 PM
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well he wasn't told and him leaving was presented as some an act by a pathetic insecure lowly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:52 PM
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I had several women tell me how a woman exclusively dating a guy and making him wait while at the same time having a FWB arrangement is perfectly fine and he should be ok with it otherwise he hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:36 PM
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Same goes for women, as I said in another post yesterday, each time I speak with women on this sub, I find it harder to sympathize with women. The entitlement, the lack of sympathy, the lack of absolute humanity is stark.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:33 PM
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yeah that was my fault i should have specified exclusivity. yes, they are calling boyfriend/girlfriend depending on who is answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:00 AM
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every time I have a conversation with a woman on this sub I find it harder to sympathize with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:39 AM
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well yes there is. you are exclusively dating someone while having sex with someone else, to add the person you are dating you are not having sex with and instead insisting on taking things slow. that's cheating but even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:38 AM
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again all you're doing is spinning shitty behavior of women and trying to create a defense. this type of mentality is why men like him. I am calling it a double standard because that's what it is. You have no ability to hold women to account. You just make excuses and hairsplitting. It is very immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:31 AM
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This woman is dating this man exclusively but taking it slow, not having sex with him. At the same time she is relieving her sexual energy by having an active FWB. If the roles were flipped and you were dating a guy doing this (or i guess woman if you are homosexual) would you accept this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:28 AM
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that's not at all what is happening here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:53 AM
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A person not having sex with someone they don’t want to have sex with isn’t shitty. that's not what is happening here and you know it. these people aren't refusing to have sex with them. they are simply wanting for these men to jump through more hoops before sex. all you are attempting to do is obfuscate that this is a clear double standard which you are defending and double standards aren't kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:51 AM
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The reason for this question is because I have seen a few years back a guy get into a relationship that became exclusive only to find out she had a FWB after 8 months dating. She attempted to justify it as just an FWB. The whole thing was a shit show at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:37 AM
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nope, just asking. cause the only time I seen it happen, a few women defended it. so I wanted to ask more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:31 AM
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let's cut through the bullshit, double standards aren't kind nor fair. while you are asking someone to be kind and fair, you are also defending the opposite behavior. i will make one distinction I do not agree with these tactics but as a man I can certainly understand where these men come from because I at one point was there mentally too. but here is the thing, I am willing to call shitty behavior whether it is done by men or women whereas you apparently will only call out shitty behavior by me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:28 AM
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your comment doesn't warrant that kind of response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:13 AM
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women who want casual sex only want casual sex with the most attractive men and will make other men wait. you find that fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:12 AM
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they just respond with OK 👍 did you expect them to propose to you or something? one even said to me im gay lool this is the internet, if you aren't called gay, then you are probably not on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:09 AM
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no https://streamable.com/s49e7j
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 02:06 AM
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no, she's actively exclusively dating and taking it slow while maintaining an active fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:30 AM
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yes, they are hooking up with FWB/FB and they are exclusive dating/seeing this person they are going slow with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:15 PM
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fuck buddies aren't dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:57 PM
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you can date people one at a time and no one else. fuck buddies aren't dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:51 PM
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I should have added this, but this is dating that is already exclusive they just want to postpone sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:48 PM
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I will need to revise my question, I went in with the assumption they are exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:23 PM
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Those who do not see a delay in sex as a problem, would you be accepting and continue dating a person who delays sex with you but continues to maintain a friends with benefits or fuck buddy arrangement with another person as a means to relieve sexual energy? Would you wait for them to be ready for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:39 PM
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your comment is incredibly bad faith. it completely disregards the realities of what happens and what I written.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 08:20 PM
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ah ok, so you are admitting you are putting words in their mouth, lying that they claimed to be experts but now admit that the claim was manufactured by you. ok. this is why i just mostly ignore everything you write and would recommend anyone who want to retain their sanity to do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:54 PM
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ok so you are unable to provide a quote to anyone claiming to be an expert despite your initial claim. in other words, you are simply making bullshit claims and ask people to debunk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:47 PM
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i read it and i am asking you for a quote to who claimed that they're an expert. please provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:44 PM
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can you give me a quote where someone claimed to be an expert or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:38 PM
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who claimed to be an expert. please quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:28 PM
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excuses and more excuses. I don't care what your excuses are for twisting narratives. those men 99% of the time are simply talking out of their asses without any knowledge of the background or context of the 4B movement. so you can either educate them on it and give them information in a non-hostile way or you can ignore them. if you educate them and they still say the same thing, then they are retarded and can be dismissed. take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:18 PM
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your question is stupid. ask a better question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:17 PM
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irrelevant, you are responding to a guy and being dismissive. that's all you do. it is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:05 PM
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No I did not. I specifically said that the women issues happening in Korea and Japan are valid unlike the issues that radfems in America claim. I explicitly validated the issues women in Japan and Korea. But no you twisted the narrative for some weird reason. But I am done, this argument is stupid. I refuse to engage with people like this. This is just beyond the pale. It is just intellectual dishonesty at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:04 PM
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every single one of your comments dismisses and diminishes men. if a guy wants something you always respond as if it is the stupidest most vile thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:58 PM
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Reminds me of these two photos back when Reddit permitted incel subs not like only where only femcel subs are allowed and IncelTears had a offline meetup and the incel sub countered with their own. IncelTears were a bunch of overweight women with pink, blue and purple hair whereas the incel sub had mainly average looking guys with a handful really nerdy ones. The comparison is hilarious honestly. Looks aside, Reddit women are very hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:30 PM
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right well that's why women are checking out of the societies there or going abroad where there is more freedom. considering the fact I seen women everywhere even on this sub, openly say how they do not see men who are below 6'3" as even human or find 99.99% of all men to be unattractive I see familiarties, in that men are being rejected in the US just like women are being rejected in Korea and Japan. If you want to attack men in America for the shit Korean or Japanese men do to women, go ahead …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:27 PM
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what are you talking about? 4B is a Korean thing. There is a lot of pushback there. Japan has its own unique problems but that comes from its hyper conservative society causing both men and women to experience severe dating anxiety and overall social anxiety. but that is straying from my point and that point is, you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:11 PM
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you can easily by bypass this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:16 PM
0

a lot of these just become misandrist over time. it is the skinner simpsons meme in the works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:16 PM
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where did I say anything about subjugation? please quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:32 AM
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Never mentioned oppression, I simply said it won't be a healthy functional society.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:31 AM
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look at the statistics of men, increasing numbers of men are remaining single and virgins for longer. this isn't the case with women. how do you explain that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:30 AM
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no, that's not it. there is nothing about bullying struggling men or giving them garbage "advice" that is so vague or it makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:03 AM
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those things you listed I know several men who do and they have no luck and struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:02 AM
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This isn't just to Reddit or online but I seen this exact same attitudes, behaviors and believes echo in offline spaces too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:54 AM
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the thing here and maybe I need to rewrite this but the behaviors are reflected in offline interactions too just the same from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:53 AM
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weird, just really weird
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:50 AM
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Is this a troll post or are women this genuinely retarded? Cause they are this retarded, we give them access to guns, voting and driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:38 PM
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well you would need to understand why they are doing something, if they are doing something you deem bad then offer them an alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:55 PM
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That’s the only way to interpret your initial short comment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:36 PM
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I can agree with that but I am saying that your original comment if he is a good person he will get casual sex is wrong. He tried that and it didn’t work therefore he is going with this option.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:17 PM
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How so? You are saying if a man experiences negative things it is because he must be a bad person. Comment OP has tried for several years to get casual sex but hasn't been successful. Your argument is his lack of success must be because he is a bad person. That makes 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:58 PM
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Yup that’s why I used it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:46 PM
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I didn't watch it, I suspect a lot of people don't watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:45 PM
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no true Scotsman fallacy logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:42 PM
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Your logic here is pretty faulty. As he specified in another comment chain on this post, he tried going the honesty route for about 10 years or so with no results. I know other men with the same type of experiences as well. They can do their best, be the best they are and get nothing. According to your own logic that shouldn't happen but it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:28 PM
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What video? What are you talking about? Are you even responding to the correct comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:27 PM
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to give valid critiques you need to need to understand the context and circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:08 PM
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putting the personal attack aside, what makes you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:16 PM
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pretty sure they tried it and didn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:48 PM
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I do not know who is "most people" but there is a difference, some men are victims of circumstances and others are their own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:35 PM
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no, there is a distinction. an important one. you are free to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:50 PM
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I do not feel like that term applies here. PPBs are men who have issues that they do not want to work on. This is a sliver of men, sort of people who are criminals and go elsewhere because law has eyes on them in their own country.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:38 PM
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since that's the case, I can't really fault men for leaving the country and finding women elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:28 PM
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that's fine, you can tell yourself whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:41 AM
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ok so you would accept a man treating you differently because they find you less attractive because as a man, I will tell you, men do this just like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:35 AM
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would you accept men treating you differently because they see you as less attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:22 AM
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you didn't give examples, you gave opinions on your coworkers. by just judging your comments here I would take it you have an intense hatred of men so I am not going to give your opinion of these men any weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 10:25 PM
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supposed to but never are. is this your first time being on reddit or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:18 PM
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it is written by reddit mods, it is garbage as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:03 PM
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Of course it is an extraordinary claim, you are positing that men here all have something so deeply wrong with them which is why they are having issues dating. Claims like this require knowledge of these individuals, if not seeing them interact at the very least asking them questions but women especially you haven't done any of that. If we look at various data points we are seeing trends in America dating that men are not dating for longer and staying virgins for longer as well. Women aren't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:47 PM
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that requires having options, something that men mostly do not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:24 PM
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I simply took what you said here: spends a good amount of his time lashing out at women or showing extreme hostility when talking about them and made it about women: spends a good amount of her time lashing out at men or showing extreme hostility when talking about them and your response was to deflect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:23 AM
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Ok I am guessing you’re some really weird troll for your sake at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:41 PM
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stop shooting the messenger and go shake the women who actually said what I simply regurgitated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:30 PM
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well ain't this hilarious. why is it you can't seem to give a proper response honestly? you think running away is proof of capacity to argue in good faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:01 PM
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lol this is the most woman answer ever. you realize the issue here is the lack of balance right? your suggestion is the same problem but in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:58 PM
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I am saying your claim of this: Aka a more passive responsive libido as opposed to a more compulsive libido. doesn't exist for majority, it is basically discussing a statistical outlier. what are you talking about? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1qs3dq9/comment/o2u3a4j/ and you completely avoided my response. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:20 PM
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there is a thread asking women what would they change about dating apps. a lot of women responded how they want to know more about a man, how he interacts, etc before going on dates with him. so what the comment above stated is something that needs to happen if women are to get the knowledge that they wish without going on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:01 PM
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what are you malding about? the 80/20 result was that 80% of the women found only 20% of the men attractive and placed main focus on the 20%. Using the men out side of the 20% as backup options which they oftne times didn't need cause women have a 74% likelihood of a match result. so what that comment did was simply lie about the findings of the study. that's what bloopies do, lie and twist things. you can also just use your own head without even reading the study. if women were truly unique sno…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:54 PM
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It is bloopie shit. Not an actual response.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:49 PM
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I’m not misguided by anything. Women aren’t Demi sexual. It’s just a cover for women who don’t want to own the 80/20 label.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:48 PM
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It does cause this stat isn’t just for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:36 PM
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That’s a femcel belief
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:36 PM
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It doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:28 PM
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then explain 80/20
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:06 PM
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well that's just silly, if she wants a second opinion valid and good idea but to pay for the visit only to ignore is well silly. better just not to go then and save the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:54 AM
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As several men posted here, approaching women is like walking in a mine field. Approach the wrong girl and she will be making a 9-1-1 call cause a guy she doesn’t find attractive approached her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:43 PM
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The company talks about some AI, not sure how they shoved that in here but this doesn’t sound like a very thought out idea and more likely got funding cause it uses AI somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:33 PM
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Despite OP being OP I feel like a lot of women simply get off on rejecting men. Creating a whole business plan around this though is a strange idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:23 PM
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Yeah and? You simply are attempting to carve out a massive chunk of the discussion. Is it because you already know what he said and it isn’t ground breaking information for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:15 PM
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What do you think women don't understand, account for, blind about? this was your question, if you do not want answers then do not make posts asking questions. if you want to control responses, specify what responses you will accept. the answer is valid, women have no idea what dating is for men and how arbitrary standards that are increasing to unrealistic levels is problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:57 PM
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they might as well just said "k, thx don't care"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:53 PM
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you do not understand why an increasing number of women are focusing on a smaller and smaller pool of the same men is going to make things harder for the rest of the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:52 PM
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who?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:50 PM
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cause this woman is stuck on men who do not respect her or treat her properly. either she isn't telling the therapist everything, so that they can advise her better or the therapist is a quack. there is also that option she just isn't listening but I would imagine a good enough therapist would severe the patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:06 PM
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if women are only finding 10% of the most conventionally attractive and you're saying that's not picky enough? single while it lasts? why can't women opt to be single for life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:04 PM
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if they aren't finding anyone or are complaining that's a good indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:03 PM
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i don't think who they're seeing is a real therapist or someone who shouldn't have the license to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:57 AM
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by that logic women that gather regurarly and talk like incels but about men are also unhappy, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:53 AM
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better yet, never approach
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:42 AM
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can you actually answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:16 AM
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https://www.business-standard.com/article/pti-stories/unattractive-women-more-likely-to-cheat-study-118021400477_1.html it is a business article but the university research is real, though finding a non-pay walled isn't quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:57 AM
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so nothing, you are just making claims to defend your own position. alright this is just boring now. take care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:50 AM
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so what? they have the right to their opinion and it is pretty common where the man is wronged by a woman for women to try and defend the woman even if tacitly by doubting what happened. if that's how they want to respond by supporting, so be it. that's enough of an answer to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:46 AM
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there is no aggression at all. i am simply explaining that currently it is pretty supported to get offended at men approaching and taking extreme response and lashing out at them for approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:36 AM
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source on that they are just as likely to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:30 AM
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probably not. what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:08 AM
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correct. trying to date an attractive person is going to come with competition. attractive people who have a lot of attention tend to also "play the field" or so they say. whereas the fat guy doesn't have that. there is also the development of the personality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:07 AM
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in what way? women aren't normally attracted to fat man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:00 AM
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you said you want to be approached but now a days lashing out at men for this is pretty supported. it is not exactly safe especially if they risk lifetime banishment, etc. i do not see any reason for him to lie. if he was in the wrong then he can simply never talk about it and no one would really know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:59 PM
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there was a guy who posted about trying to approach a girl at a club, only to be cut off mid sentence and rejected. few minutes later security comes over and bans him for life cause that girl complained.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:34 PM
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Then that’s why they’re useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:22 PM
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At least there is confirmation women talk to each other in extremes too as annoying such discussions are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:22 PM
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You’re completely ignoring the knock on effects of dating a highly conventionally attractive man bs a fat man who isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 11:21 PM
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How exactly is the guy a slut if he isn’t successful? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:02 PM
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My girlfriend had a friend that was younger but when I first saw her I honestly thought she was actually 10 years older. She isn’t unattractive per se but she’s a 35 years old woman that looks 45. But her standards are insane. She struggles to find attractive men while living in New York City. It’s nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:00 PM
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There is a big difference among all options including just saying to someone unhappy that they shouldn’t be focusing on finding the most conventionally attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:57 PM
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Or she can go to therapy and become more level headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:53 PM
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There are several nonfat men here who struggle to even get an opportunity to interact with women. So your claim is very dubious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:48 PM
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I mean this scenario very common honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:05 PM
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how does she respond? did she take the advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:39 PM
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your comment is pretty rare, most women here are more interested in simply either ignoring this entirely or encouraging it even if it leads to unhappiness. the other thing in your example that is a bit concern, what if the man doesn't want kids? having to date someone with kids as an alternative to not being alone is a shitty place to find yourself in. from my perspective I seen women tell men to drop fairly important standards even if it means placing themselves in potentially dangerous situati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:39 PM
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The thing with “looksmatching” is that a lot of women will overrate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:06 PM
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Even if it’s a friend of yours that is always complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:46 PM
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Define attractive. Cause there is the attractive definition where only 10% of men are attractive then there is the normal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:42 PM
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Yes it is. I only went on this tangent cause of the comment. Would you say the same about women manipulating a man to get his money’?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 06:41 PM
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Again the question isn’t about you. He is focusing on other women. Women that may have sex thinking they’ll get something in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:56 PM
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Well you’re not answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:42 PM
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What? I was asking if you would condone or condemn his behavior. His goal is to get sex without actually spending money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:22 PM
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This question is going to sound out of left field but there is a point so if you can bear with me. Do you think men who speak poorly of women, maybe something like incels almost are happy if they claim to be happy? I am not really how to describe a man like that without invoking that term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:20 PM
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I have a girlfriend so it isn’t relevant to me personally. I am curious to see where women draw the line if they draw it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:16 PM
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There was a post from a guy wanting to use gold diggers for casual sex, aka pumping and dumping them. What would you say to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:15 PM
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This isn’t answering the question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:05 PM
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you took a shit post of a comment in a shit post of a post as a serious assertion than the shit post that it is. that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:43 PM
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I hide mine because too many crazies have followed me around harassing me. not like you need to see comments on my profile since we are both regulars here enough to remember which ones tend to say what.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:36 PM
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I'm a smart, independent woman this line reminds me of American Dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:35 PM
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my girlfriend is studying to be a doctor so she ends up in contact with a lot of other medical professionals. it is scary the amount of retards are in the medical field and how many of them are phd holders.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:32 PM
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I do not know, I certainly know plenty women with mindsets like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:03 PM
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People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones. Look at your own comments first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:56 PM
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Yeah! They should know better. All women are equal bimbos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:52 PM
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Why not date a man who has a trade job such as an electrician or plumber?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:50 PM
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That's all on the assumption that women pick their sex partners based on a special criteria it's not an assumption when it is an established fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:36 PM
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do you think women contribute to dating difficulties and if so how?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:24 PM
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at this point you're not even really responding to what i am writing so i will just move along
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:15 PM
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bypass: https://archive.is/4DQt5
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:13 PM
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I am not, I am telling you to read statistics properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:08 PM
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look at the newer generations and the patterns. dating has become more difficult, fewer people are dating, people aren't getting their first relationships until they're older.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:02 PM
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I hate being a man i burst out laughing reading this. leave it to a blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:59 AM
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ppd women in a nutshell <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:53 AM
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I do not think anyone is paying them. I just think they are femcels.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:33 PM
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Men aren't exactly immune to bad messages. While women aren't sending crude sexual messages to men they are sending messages hitting them up for money if you put aside the general spam of trying to get tiktok/instagram followers or onlyfans subscribers. since online, platforms tend not to be active in moderation so there is a sense of freedom to do all kinds of things without much consequence. where in offline there are consequences, even for men who don't do anything wrong like that one guy who…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:32 PM
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No, but you hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:39 PM
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How so what? I do not understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:34 PM
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he doesn't go ape shit over any breakup, just one where he was wronged.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:24 AM
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i know of one guy from work, really nice dude unless he has a bad breakup, like being cheated on or whatever. he will incinerate that person's life, they are like tornadoes horrifying but entrancing. jekyll and hyde, I have had him help me out more than other colleague so it is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:50 AM
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the number of women on this sub that outright despise men is quite high, even the women that pretend to care about women cannot uphold that facade. had a conversation with someone and I said to them that their advice was not actionable as it was so vague. in another post it was revealed they hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:40 AM
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What? Dating itself shallow. Do you think dating apps created a new behavior of dating? It’s just a reflection of how people will behave online or offline.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:25 AM
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I was hunting prostitutes with a crossbow like any other normal adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:23 AM
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i do not understand this topic is the solution to this is to shove women into traffic or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:06 PM
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The mask fell. Going from not wanting to advocate for men to femcel rhetoric is quite the jump.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:53 PM
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Well the reason is that you aren’t as attractive. It’s not a good reason but it’s a reason. M
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:47 PM
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You wouldn’t accept different treatment from a guy because you’re not as attractive as an ex but you don’t see that as a double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:36 PM
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Really? Ok. You don’t think a woman having sex immediately with a guy because he’s an attractive and then deciding to withhold sex from another guy cause he’s less attractive isn’t a double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:23 PM
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My point is that you really can’t get upset for a guy not being able to get casual sex. People do not want double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:19 PM
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For the first question let me add a clarification. His reason for this difference in treatment isn’t because of previous experiences. It is simply because those women were more attractive than you. It does not mean you’re ugly. You’re just not as attractive in comparison. Does that change your answer or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:56 PM
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I have two questions for you: 1) would you accept a relationship with a man that puts in less effort with you than his previous relationships? 2) are you going to stop saying men should advocate for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:44 PM
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I do not understand the connection. Either at his age people are not interested in hooking up or there is no platform period. Please explain how those are related. Both can be valid answers separately but you are combing them and I do not understand. Your original comment said you stopped interaction with him because he asked you that question. Clearly there was something about it that upset you. Putting effort into a romantic relationship makes sense if you want a romantic relationship I again …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:08 PM
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Responding to the wrong comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:53 PM
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The question, why did you get upset at him asking if there was any app or platform where people who are interested in hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:35 PM
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You still haven’t answered my question. Well if you don’t want assumptions then don’t be vague in your suggestions. The only one entitled is you. You feel like you need to be praised as an advocate for men when in reality it is so vague it isn’t actionable. Worse if they do try to act on it, they can find themselves with way more problems. But you do not care. You feel you’re entitled to praise nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 06:28 PM
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What exactly is upsetting to you about that question? I seen your comments and I can tell you they’re not very helpful. Focusing on women that can be in nursing homes is gross and placing yourself in the areas of children can get you labeled as a pedophile. There is a recent out of Atlanta where a man sat in jail because he was accused of being a pedophile when in reality he protected the kid from falling off a mobility scooter. I do not know if your intention was to give bad advice that would h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:58 PM
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Maybe? I do not know. Why do you think I have personal insight into the lives of Redditors?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 05:22 PM
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I think it’s clear. They’re going to target gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:59 PM
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how do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:21 AM
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if your advice was anything but crap then he would have had matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:21 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:19 AM
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you do not think giving alternative options would dissuade?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:13 AM
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no, it came from women and these profiles had lengthy posts and activity in subreddits that you would expect women to frequent. the very first one to link me that website was a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:13 AM
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I can because I seen how people react. I will make an alt, let it age a day so reddit doesn't shadowban it thinking it is a spam bot and make the post and post the link in the general megathread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:11 AM
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can you answer the question? if you are concerned what do you think is the best response to dissuade OP? threats of physical violence, name calling and slurs, abuse or alternative options?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:08 AM
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Oh well a few years ago when I was having some dating difficulties I asked for help. Only responses I ever got was abuse, name calling and calls for me to commit suicide. Even got a link to a website where it provides detailed instructions on various suicide methods sent to me multiple times. r slash dating, relationship_advice, relationships is where I posted and received these lovely and helpful responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:05 AM
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I can guarantee that if I make an alt, make a similar post but as a man, that I will get same abuse and at least 1 threat of physical harm. Me personally? You can be concerned about something because it is a negative effect on society in general and not want it to happen. Now if you do not care either way, that's fine too but then again I wonder why be vitriolic if you do not care?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:02 AM
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oh you're concerned? ok so if you are concerned what do you think is the best response to dissuade OP? threats of physical violence, name calling and slurs, abuse or alternative options?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:59 PM
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Let me ask you this, men going out and doing what OP suggested, is that a concern for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:57 PM
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I can guarantee you that a guy making a similar post will get the same responses that OP got yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:53 PM
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this isn't someone just breaking down and venting. it is someone who causes their own misery and any sort of reflection of the fact that they caused all this is downvoted. let me ask you a question, does the notion of OP going out there and doing what he said is a concern for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:51 PM
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There were 2. Not sure why you think any abusive responses are warranted. There is irony in calling OP childish while defending behavior that you would expect on a COD game with 12 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:48 PM
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why do you say it is "stupid". I say it is unethical and shouldn't be done. Acting like “well you coddle treat them like spoiled babies or else” isn’t realistic. It’s also a mild threat. that's a stupid take, a threat? do you get threatened by your own shadow too or something? why is the woman getting support for rejecting 200 men? why the only comment to ask her if perhaps she's being too picky got downvoted massively. Why do you feel like that is healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:40 PM
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no nothing is full proof but then again if your advice had any truth to it, he would have had some sort of success rather than none at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:36 PM
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to create a comparison. a woman made a post about rejecting 200 men simply based on physical looks and was breaking down. the response she received were adulation, coddling, support despite her being the cause of her own issues. the guy from yesterday, after 4 years of being honest and trying to accomplish things the honest and right way broke down and for that received threats of physical harm and abuse. the responses received are night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:33 PM
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the consequences are what women whine about here, misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:28 PM
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yeah maybe it was a mistake thinking that this was a more open space.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:27 PM
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like who? a therapist isn't going to help your dating life. they aren't going to be a wingwoman. they aren't going to give you suggestions on where you can find women for casual sex. that's just not their job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:27 PM
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Only to turn around and whine about incels and gender wars and misogyny. It is some of the most retarded mentalities gather here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:25 PM
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no I am not. I am saying people's responses of threatening physical violence isn't going to dissuade someone like OOP. A better approach is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:23 PM
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ok ill bite, he was himself for 4 years and that turned out with nothing. why is that? if your advice is so full proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:21 PM
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yeah but when you're in a shitty place mentally because you are struggling with relationships and the last place you can ask for help acts like it is 4chan that's still going to have knock on effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:20 PM
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do you want more incels? cause doing this is how you get more incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:19 PM
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Why are you angry? You're the one who promised to help only to turn around reveal you were just lying and trolling. I thought you were drunk or high or mentally ill because of how the conversation was going. Where you were forgetting details like the fact that OOP there did not ever match with any women. So your criticism of him not telling women he was interested in casual was just bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 11:12 PM
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I’ll say it and I’ll say it again if they accuse me of being misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 10:15 PM
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what happened to your fool proof advice of "just be yourself"? seems like that devolved into "get therapy and get over yourself". what happened there?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:56 PM
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Then those women are literal retards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:51 PM
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well acktually the PHP.ini file can change places from distro to distro. that being said I get what you are saying but I am saying that even this there still needs to be a bit more. Yes there is a lot more unpredictability when it comes to humans but I am saying that it is a bit necessary for some additional specifics to begin in order for the advice to be actionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:20 PM
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The woman above though I do not think is mentally well or just posts here whenever they're under the influence of either drugs or alcohol. Look at their exchange with OP. They don't seem to be able to understand the specifics of what he has tried, didn't try. They said that they were only partially honest when they had put they want causal sex in their bio and not have the conversation with the women. Somehow glossing over the fact that OP never matched with women to be able to have this convers…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:17 PM
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but again your advice is more specific on the type of women but you aren't really saying were he can find them or even find women who would be open to this. what you suggested is pretty obvious. the real challenge is not just searching but knowing where to search. I disagree that giving more information is hand holding. I will give you an example from my work which is tech support. sometimes when you spin up an application that uses PHP programming language you would need to make certain setting…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:06 PM
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I think this is just a continuation from yesterday so in that case I think they have been trying to work on a social group but it isn't really turning into a success as they envisioned since it is just men who know other men. that what they said yesterday. So for the sake of being fair they have been working on a social group it is just isn't working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 09:00 PM
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I am of the mindset of if I am going to help someone I will help them full throttle or I do not help them at all. I feel like it is worse to partially help. isnt there an app where I can get casual sex? I mean today everything is online, so that's a valid question in my opinion. I seen some blue pill guy else describe this a while back but their whole plan was that it would take 5 years to develop the relationship before you can even ask. That sounds incredibly long.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:48 PM
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Well the thing with "find widows" it is a bit vague. It isn't as vague as the woman who said "just find women willing to have casual sex" but it is still vague. if you don't want to help, that's more than ok but if you are going to offer advice it should be more actionable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:14 PM
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