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metapsychosythe/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/23 04:23 PM
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The red pill tells you if you grind enough for your own success and are toxic enough to others you can have all the women you want. The blue pill tells you that if you grind enough for other people's success and are toxic enough to yourself that one day if you're really lucky some woman somewhere may take some sort of interest in you. And you should worship the ground she walks on for this. Not really much of a competition. However I do notice more and more men concluding that women aren't worth…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/24 03:31 PM
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I imagine most of us who would post stuff like that are doing the mentally healthy thing and minimizing time on reddit. Lord knows I am.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/24 02:55 PM
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I am a 'nearest horizontal surface' person. But I am aware of this, and work to be patient with myself and others because of it since it's a fairly sub-optimal way to live life lol.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 01:22 AM
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Another great example of this. I have long hair, my partner for 7 years had hair of varying lengths, never once did I hear a single complaint about a head hair, no matter how much of it we swept and vaccumed up, how much of it got stuck in our food, filters, eh, bodily crevices, or even how often we had to snake the drain (which she did, to her full credit she was not afraid to get her hands dirty and I'll always love her for it.) Nary a word. But God forbid I miss a single centimeter-long beard…
/r/MensRights13/05/24 01:18 AM
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'Counterclaim'. Huh. It's almost like there's, somehow, more than one experience involved here. Wild that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/24 03:49 PM
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It's projection. I can't find it because mobile but someone posted a study that found the majority of women surveyed admitted they would rape a man if they thought they had a good chance. And that they found the notion of raping men to be empowering. Male sexuality it like that because basically no society has ever seriously accommodated male sexual needs. You're just given an endless list of demands and taboos and told it's literally the only way to happiness.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/24 03:15 PM
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Reminds me of a study that demonstrated a direct positive correlation between level of homophobia in men and how attractive women found them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/24 10:21 PM
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By these numbers that means bears also attack and rape men less than women do, and are also incapable of leveraging the Women are Wonderful effect to evade legal consequences....and aren't capable of false SA allegations since they can't talk. Fuck guys. I think the solution to the dating crisis might actually be bears.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:49 PM
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At this point they're just pressing their own heads to ground with a flip-flop on their hand demanding to know why no one's saved them yet.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 04:26 PM
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Because the intersectional writers and researchers choose not to explain it adequately.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/24 03:48 PM
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My man, there is plenty of leftist authoritarianism out there. And saying 'authoritarianism isn't leftist' is just like saying 'conservatives don't produce dictators because we value personal responsibility.'
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/24 03:10 PM
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Homie I do not give a fuck if she's feminist, Marxist, white nationalist, Buddhist or whatever combination of adjectives. That is abusive behavior. It's a method of partner control, constantly enforce guilt and keep them constantly reacting to you. Either by constantly holding a few passed things over your head or by inventing new ones on the spot. Radicalism is wayyyyyy more about personality type than ideology, and so is abusive behavior.
/r/MensRights19/04/24 02:40 PM
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You know, my response was exactly the same as theirs when I thought about the question in reverse. "At least if the bear mauled me I wouldn't be charged with animal abuse because of 'muh power dynamics'."
/r/MensRights12/04/24 02:46 PM
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I'll sound it from the rooftops yet again. The worst of it is tiktok. It's like digital lead poisoning, it degrades your ability to think coherently and basically always leaves you emotionally primed for radicalizing content. It's also 80% women, and it really just seems like any online platform with a majority female user base produces a lot of sexism regardless of intent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/24 03:10 PM
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It's a lazy generalization. But it's one that a lot of people base their entire identity around for like 100 years, so there's just a century's worth of cope hanging on to it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/24 02:50 PM
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I'll bet anything and everything you can directly correlate the rise of radicalism among women with the increasing usage and prevalence of tiktok. That shit is evil.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/24 02:57 PM
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It's pretty fucking bleak that I saw the headline and was a little relieved because I immediately knew it was the UK. God damn good luck over there lads.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/24 06:03 PM
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I've heard him be somewhat critical of buzzfeed feminism articles and that's about it. I really just think it's the same old 'blame old white men and anyone who kind of looks like them' racket, every other not-right-wing-psycho youtuber's been doing for 10 years. We're just finally at a point where you can't just say 'fuck old white men' and get a 30 minute standing ovation for being stunning and brave like in 2016.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/24 10:23 PM
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As far as a decent channel outlining men's issues and what to do about them in an academic way, I don't think there is one. The market for non-psychotic pro-male content is still so dry all you have to do to attract a following is sound concerned or call out abusive women on tiktok. The said, here's a few of my reccomendations. Burger Kreig: I avoid his content about men like the plague. He's basically an avatar of /menslib. All he can do is tell you to blame the patriarchy in an empathetic tone…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/24 03:46 PM
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Almost everything was a full day job before automation. That's why it kicks so much ass.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 03:28 PM
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Okay there wasn't a fucking patent system back in the day dude, the only way inventions spread was 'stealing'. Also the only one who lied to you about Columbus was Adam Ruins Everything. (By Everything he meant historical literacy apparently.)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/24 03:17 PM
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Because Patriarchy. Everything that's not explicitly labled with a big pink 'FOR WOMEN' somewhere on it is explicitly for men. Because the whole world is just one big system to make women feel bad and men feel good. So if you're not paying enough verbal homanage to women you're supporting men at the expense of women. Because Patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/03/24 03:39 PM
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So it seems like the only thing standing in the way of uprooting the only real attempt to make men safer in the past 50 years is whether trans people get their preferred sports team. God I love the patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/03/24 03:22 PM
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Why weren't they already doing that?
/r/MensRights04/03/24 04:38 PM
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The studies I've seen all show that Being below average weight is one of the most unattractive traits men can have as it makes you seem less masculine.
/r/MensRights04/03/24 03:35 PM
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Most men in my city seem to have heard of them by now amazingly. The thing is, it's also apparent if you're hot enough that women will ignore any number of red flags and shitty reviews. So the men all think they're hot enough for the reviews not to matter because they all know at least one woman who ignored the page's verdict for a Chad and got burned. I don't think they're going anywhere anytime soon?
/r/MensRights03/03/24 03:45 PM
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Got a link?
/r/MensRights03/03/24 03:31 PM
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I personally don't believe a society can have intentions in and of itself. But there are certainly influential actors who would admit to something like it, through the lense of their perspective.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/24 09:50 PM
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Ask the monkeys man
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/02/24 11:57 PM
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I think you could chalk a lot of that to society conditioning girls to be afraid of, literally everything. They grow up seeing and hearing their 'ladylike' peers literally scream and run from things they just think are ugly (bugs, rats, frogs) hearing from every corner about the evil men waiting in the shadows, (or they're your softball coach, or your dad), to snatch you away and do awful things to you just because you're a pretty girl. And it only gets more intense as they get older.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/24 06:42 PM
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I mean I'm sure if you polled Republicans the majority of them would say that racism is real, but they'll insist that they're not racist and that any racist thing they say do is totally not racist because they're not racist. I imagine you'll get kind of the same effect here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/24 03:07 PM
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Another fun fact about FGM. It's growing DESPITE efforts of local patriarchs and the UN to stamp it out. The UN's been incredibly frustrated that these chiefs and family heads can't just Patriarchy all the women in their communities into line, but they have little to no control over that sphere of village life. Girls are even walking miles away to other villages to have it done of their own accord, then bringing the practice back. Then there's this...creature. https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/24 06:08 PM
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A lot of it is utterly psychotic 'mental health' content in the womanosphere. My recent ex stumbled across a new channel that taught her that kicking in a door screaming a song from has-been hotel or just burping loudly enough to scare birds off of the porch at 8 AM isn't her being incredibly obnoxious. My family (who let us move in short notice after our rental house failed inspection) and I are abusing her by being slightly annoyed. Because SHE shouldn't ever have to feel like she's "too much"…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/24 05:50 PM
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Some of it could be cultural, the UK seems to come up in this sub every week for some horrible shit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/24 04:21 PM
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I wonder if it'll get amended to include rape And what kind of legal precedent that would set for the status of male rape victims legally.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/24 03:53 PM
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I think that's like saying you're not supposed to take violent conservative rhetoric seriously or personally. Most people do want you to, unless they suffer some sort of negative consequences then obviously everything's gone too far and everyone's taking everything too seriously. But yeah the victories of men's advocacy in the last 50 years pretty much begins and ends at convincing a large minority of the population that men are capable of a full emotional range.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/24 04:10 PM
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Because conservatism's only identity for like 20 years is just 'not """""liberal"""".' So anytime one of them sees a large group of people dissatisfied about anything without a conservative sticker it just goes into the mental ammo depo until it no longer gets clicks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 03:33 PM
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Fuck paying for childbirth the whole point is it's not my kid and I shouldn't have to pay for it. What. The FUCK. Is so hard about that.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 04:52 PM
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Unexpected by who exactly?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/24 05:04 PM
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Wow. The problem really has just gotten exponentially worse hasn't it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/24 04:26 PM
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Wait for VR and sex robots to completely destroy the sex market so that people will only interact with each other because they want non-sexual stimulus.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 06:16 PM
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And I feel sorry for you. It leaves very little time and no energy for any other form of joy.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 04:07 PM
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I've been saying fuck fatherhood since I can remember and have generally been written off as a left-wing weirdo. Nice to see all of you catching up.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 05:42 PM
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Well, that was 15 mins of my life I'll never get back. They just kept going in circles around the fact that it's objectively harmful as fuck but most people don't see it as appropriate to intervene in someone else's desicion-making at that level no matter how harmful it is. Also the blue hair dye really did damage Destiny's brain. I had entirely forgotten what it was like to hear him have a not-awful take on something.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/24 05:29 PM
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Damn, imagine if this movie had any intent behind it besides making money off of furries
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/24 04:06 PM
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Frankly an enormous amount of sex work, especially prostitution, makes a lot of its money on emotionally exploiting mentally ill people via parasocial relationships, and I think properly ensuring client safety will probably be invasive and expensive enough to make it unviable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 04:47 PM
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They still think you're stupid, they just say 'bless your heart.'
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/24 04:33 PM
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I mean, obviously not, because those people OP cited who were actively, well, being activists and influencing society in the name of feminism aren't the real feminists right?
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/24 04:53 PM
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This post having 5 comments while a Screencap of a sexist tweet having 80 is everything I hate about this sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/23 03:57 PM
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Well if you believe the world is built on an explicitly sexist and exploitative system that oppresses men in favor of women, and you're trying to put women level with the top men, then yeah I expect you to be sexist and oppressive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/23 03:54 PM
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I mean, that is a way some people, some of the time, talk about some sex. I honestly think sex being mostly about domination is one of those sentiments that's more common to women that gets projected onto men and run with due to the lack of care for the male experience in social sciences.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/23 04:59 PM
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The core thing we're all discussing here is that it's still acceptable and not worth comment for a woman to be a dependent. Whereas the same has never been true for men in general. Most of the women I've known in my life lived with their parents until they moved in with their partner, most of the men I know couldn't get a partner UNTIL they moved out. Another important factor is that when you've got someone covering your bills you've got plenty of time and energy to date/be a PUA/THOT, but we ex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/23 04:57 PM
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Honestly I think that's a relic of a more patriarchal time that's kind of accidentally been preserved due to the rise of the 'any comment you have about a woman's personality is misogyny' culture. The lack of serious negative media representation means the perception of these traits has largely stayed the same for the last 100-odd years.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/23 04:46 PM
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Or we can focus more on getting ambitious women to climb the hierarchy themselves instead of simply attaching themselves to someone who's already put the work in. Which, making a culture that celebrates cooperative men will probably celebrate women's contributions more too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/23 04:38 PM
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That is entirely my bad I was thinking of "The future is female" which is from some dumb 70's T-shirt apparently campaign apparently. https://medium.com/items/research-spotlight-the-radical-story-behind-the-famous-the-future-is-female-graphic-t-shirt-accdbbe37b65 Now excuse me while I find what quote I had it confused with
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/23 11:51 PM
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I was at a BLM protest where I pointed out to a few people in convo that police violence was a major issue for men. It went poorly. People started trying to loot so I gtfo'd. Since then I've just kept it to private convos. There's just not enough of us to accomplish anything in the street except getting laughed at.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/23 04:33 PM
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I mean...we know that. It's been discussed to death everywhere on the internet that's not in the cult. But like the conservatives, they're completely entrenched and we've basically gotta wait on them to die and hope their kids think they're cringe.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/23 04:23 PM
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It's a quote from a eugenics conference in the early 20th century. Let them out themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/23 04:16 PM
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The effeminization angle is usually just a way of denying the sexuality of men who don't live up to mainstream standards of attractiveness. That's why the male model for a dress is usually some skinny guy with a big nose instead of gigachad. The attention of Unattractive men is inherently threatening so a lot of women would rather just pretend that they're gay or just another woman.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/23 04:12 PM
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I will be at work unfortunately but I will check out the podcast
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/23 12:47 PM
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They've changed it lately so that men can message first but you have to choose from a prefabricated list of compliments.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/23 04:35 PM
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Male attention is already demonized. Buuuuut it's still confirmation that you're attractive and, therefore, social status. So you frame yourself as the victim, maybe you genuinely believe that all of the contact and attention is unwanted, doesn't matter. Now you're attractive, and a victim of the patriarchy, and a girl boss because you get attention but are an asshole about it. So either you get to see yourself as Cardi B or some true crime documentary subject, which are like the two dominant cu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/23 04:32 PM
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Start archiving and have a beer in celebration.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/23 03:56 PM
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Enough to keep me out out of them basically all the time. Some of that's conditioning. Some of that is burnout on discussing and advocating for issues that, frankly, are improving at a crawl or actively getting worse in direct response to people trying to improve them. Some of that is the ever shrinking population of teenage edgelords. No. But it's an easy Segway into misogyny. No. But it's an easy Segway into misogyny. Yes. Just like most people on this sub would say it's misandry to Blanket st…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/23 03:24 PM
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Well I'm not sure where these numbers are from so I don't know if they're in any way accurate or if they're just a result of veeeeeery specific definitions. But I imagine you'll see a major drop in female deaths if men are given an option to leave a marriage without it costing them half their mortal possessions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/23 02:54 PM
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Frankly I'm surprised the kid didn't get saddled with child support.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/10/23 04:13 PM
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A lot of it is the result of a lot of really vapid, basic people who probably thought a suffragette was a pastry all the way through high school learning about tumblr "empowerment", i.e. self validation. When you're perfect and beautiful and slay just the way you are kweeeeeen, then all of your extremely basic trend chasing you were already doing anyways is an empowering expression of your identity (especially if you spend money on it); Then anyone who in any way comes off as vaguely invalidatin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/10/23 04:19 PM
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"Strong, independent women." Is a fun way to refer to mentally ill old women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/23 02:52 PM
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Hasan Piker is just about the worst case of toxic masculinity I can think of that's under 35. Honestly He's just a gen Z Donald Trump. A loud, jaw-droppingly spoiled bully who lords every single bit of his purchased influence over his "working class andy" audience while spewing the most politically illiterate half-takes this side of the republican party (Russia will never invade guys NATO are the real imperialists/ CCP was totally justified in destroying Tibet). While at the same time staging ph…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/10/23 04:36 PM
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Even if the tweet is facetious what it's demonstrating is called The Empathy Gap and you can depress yourself reading about it and its causes to your heart's content.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/23 09:00 PM
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I think most men would be better suited letting go of traditional relationship expectations altogether. The modern heteronormative 'Relationship' is just a mutated and degraded form of the Household, which primarily existed as a unit of taxation to begin with. But most men, like most women, want to keep the aspects of gender norms that they like while ignoring the ones they don't. In conclusion: Fuck bitches get experiences.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/23 03:22 PM
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I mean in theory you can support other ethnicities while not wanting mixing. In practice...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 02:43 PM
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I thought more women would be on board with it frankly, that's pretty much an open and shut child support case.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 02:39 PM
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That line advocating for University discplinary hearings not being quasi-legal was interesting. "it ignores the educational purpose of school discipline" I.E. It impedes the school's ability to make an example for how it handles its undesirables. I'd just like to know what, in their minds, keeps those dastardly men from clogging up the system with bad-faith accusations, especially since presumably they'd all get preferential treatment from the patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/23 06:49 PM
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You don't think going from legally segregated and objectively shittier army units, businesses, public services, etc. To being able to say shitty stuff about the largest and most politically powerful racial demographic in the country with no significant fear of legal or wider social reprisal is significantly less racist? Like I get the bigotry pendulum has swung too far in a lot of spaces but keep some perspective man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/23 06:27 AM
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Bisexual nonmonogamous guy: functionally speaking I am straight and monogamous because I got sick of the misandry perforating the nonmonogamy scene where I live. My partner is receptive, but she has a lot of issues with guilt and existential anxiety so it's not going to do anything but make her day worse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/23 02:31 PM
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Reads like a standard college SA investigation to me, what makes this one worthy of a lawsuit besides a potential red state judge who may be lenient to 'own the libs'?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/23 02:23 PM
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Those are still, relatively speaking, cushy jobs compared to the career paths commonly pushed on men. There is just no equivalent to 12 hours of ball busting labor in the hot sun in clothes that get less breathable the hotter it is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/23 04:23 PM
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It's also worth noting that psychology and psychiatry are both female-dominated fields and that gender studies classes are usually required for the degree paths as far as I know. So the fields tend to look at these things through a certain lense.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/23 04:17 PM
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Fuck man. That's incredibly sad to read and I wish I had more to say, but cultural changes usually far outlast the political context that initially caused them. I think people's lives will be impacted positively by the time and effort you put in long after the "CuLtUrE wAr" has moved on to some fresh battleground. I have to ask though, how much of the shift in tone and message over the last few years do you think has been the result of deliberate activism on the part of the political lesbians an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/23 03:04 PM
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Because feminists constantly push the idea that your fellow women are your only source of help and support because the men just want to fuck you. If you point out the existence of female sexual traffickers it undermines that artificial feeling of safety among women because now you have to watch out for the "wolf in sheep's clothing." And it degrades the United front a lot of these activist types try to build. Male victims are also explicitly cut out of the public speaking circuit that a lot of S…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/23 02:39 PM
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Something something equality looks like discrimination.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/23 02:48 PM
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So once again, men being systematically squeezed out of education is women's fault and we need to bootstrap up so that they don't feel the need to lower their sky-high dating standards. I swear to fucking god we try so hard to avoid topics about the "D" word and it's all that ever comes up in regards to men's issues. Also you could probably use a lot of words to describe young college women who just tried a mildly to moderately competitive dating scene, and "humbled" is never one of them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/23 02:42 PM
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It sounds like your teacher is making wildly sexist and offensive remarks that need to be reported boyo.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/23 02:02 PM
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You know what? In the interest of not dragging the comments standards any further down than we have, you got me sport, I forgot a word in a book title, have a karma.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/23 06:57 PM
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I read "The Jewish Question" but no one ever wants to talk about that one. Weird.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/23 02:01 PM
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No homie, like cis-girls want to transition into being trans-men. I'll go dig around for it when I'm on my laptop but I've seen a few articles talking about the extreme turn around in gender ratios trying to transition since trans TikTok took off. Who knows, maybe some of them will actually try living as a man and gain some empathy instead of wearing a flatbill on tiktok.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/23 04:31 PM
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Because it's full of women and men who don't conform to conventional masculinity. Conventional masculinity makes them feel threatened so they retreat to their places where they feel safe and in control and exert that control as harshly as they can. You can see a very similar behavior from conservative men when a bunch of women tried to join the Proud Boys a few years back.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/23 04:25 PM
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I think the main reason the news cycle has picked it up lately is because middle-aged female academics seem to have a disproportionate voice in the media and a lot of them are having issues marrying up because of a shortage of men with prestigious degrees, and the men who have them don't seem to be in any hurry to settle down. It seems like psychology today had the basic dignity to take down their article but dozens of shitty legacy news copied and pasted it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/23 04:15 PM
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Why would they? Academia is harder and harder for men to get into, these fields get more and more radicalized by the year, and, most importantly, the pay is crap for most of them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/23 03:32 PM
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Fuck yeah OP. That is genuinely the best thing I've seen posted to this sub in months. I will say though. You marched with the simplest, most inoffensive pro-male message any of us could really think of. All that sign said was that men are deserving of basic human empathy. Which very few people who aren't eyeball-deep in post-tumblr internet culture are going to disagree with as a general statement. However I think aspects of our message really are taking hold in a much more old-school grassroot…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/23 03:30 PM
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Holy fuck. Can you pin a post from another sub? That was the single most elucidating reddit thread I have ever read in my short life and it should be required reading for the sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/23 04:46 PM
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If you've never read anything about what people like Henry Caville and Jason Momoa are contractually obligated to do before they can so much as appear on camera shirtless you should. I made a whole big ass comment on the types of women that go for skinny men, based on experience. Tl;Dr: most of them are predators who see non-traditionally attractive body types as easy prey, (kind of like back in the early 2010's when you had those PUA types who claimed to specialize in fat women.) The others cla…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/08/23 03:46 PM
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I mean you are absolutely preaching to choir here, but this sort of content is part of the emotional engagement cycle of social media so it may be necessary for the sub to have the activity necessary to grow. You could try posting it to another sub, maybe use a throwaway so they don't know you post here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 10:14 PM
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No you didn't but that wasn't precisely the point of the slide.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 05:19 PM
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I have always said there is only one problem that women want men to have, and it's in every single shitty piece of female-gaze dominated media: He has to be lonely because it's isolating to be so much better than everyone else and it can only be cured by a painfully bland woman.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 04:53 PM
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Lack of finances. Lack of purpose. Lack of a sense of opportunity in life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/23 02:42 PM
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So, in conclusion, it depends.
/r/MalePsychology15/08/23 02:05 PM
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Frankly, most women suck at foreplay too. It's commonly conceived of something that should be done to them for their benefit. See OP.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/23 04:12 PM
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Speaking as someone who's only overcome crippling thirst in the past two years. Most Men kind of have to believe that basically all women are sexual goddesses because otherwise it's pretty much impossible to justify the damn-near Herculean efforts you go through to get one. Also don't men average like, six sexual partners over the course of their entire lives? How the fuck would we know?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/23 04:10 PM
1

While you're not wrong about there being a market for "vanilla" guys who are "safe" and "stable", it's exactly like the market for "tradwives": the people shopping have some really fucked up notions of what those things are and are not the people you want to go home with. I am commonly pigeonholed as someone who's 'nice' and 'safe' in the context of dating, despite my increasing efforts to be otherwise, And I have noticed the people looking for a "safe" partner fall into several categories. Emot…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/23 03:50 PM
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Frankly I think a lot of the Feminist complex over sexualization and objectification comes from a common desire for free emotional labor from strangers. I just notice this consistent running theme from women I know of them basically wanting men whom they've just met to douse them in all the reinforcement and gratification they """deserve""" but lack in life, but they don't want said man to think that they're sexy, they don't want said man to have his own problems and certainly don't want said ma…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/23 04:07 PM
6

People with moderate/centrist positions are much less likely to participate at all, the backlash is the majority view of the people who actually bother to pay some attention and participate. You can court the average idiot all you want but you can't make them vote. Also if you're here and/or watching shoeonhead proud misandry as the internet's default position was normalized for you a long time ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/23 03:20 PM
12

Well, I'm glad you had that experience. I've been rejected a lot, I mean A LOT, from the time I was 13 to the time I was like 21 I had resolved to ask out 1-2 women a week and one guy a year (I lived in the south so that pool was slim). Rejected by every single one. The guys were always really nice about it, the straight women were a mixed bag: one or two were very gracious and left me feeling a lot better about myself than before I'd approached them, one or two physically spat on me, but it was…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/23 03:12 PM
1

Well, I have been on my county's income based mental health list for a year, and there are more names I front of mine now than when I initially got on it, my girl got into hers by hanging in the lobby and jumping into a slot after someone cancelled, but I'm currently in a different state that has to use cancelled slots for inpatients. So betterhelp it is. Eventually. Yay. Not exactly a horror story but how do you have them if you never make it into therapy?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/23 02:23 PM
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Thanks for the reply and I may just be blind but I'm not seeing anything here that corroborates your statement. There's a bullet point about how women are almost twice as likely to engage in P.A. behaviors, but that seems to be almost the opposite of what you were saying.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/23 10:04 PM
1

So what's your source for men being more likely to weaponize children than women?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/23 05:23 PM
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I think proper organized activism is still a long ways off unfortunately, this is reddit so 99% of the people here would rather bitch about a problem than do anything. Which this also hold true for reddit's feminist and/or women's communities; for every one post with some helpful insight or talking about a non profit there are literally hundreds of "Every man needs to be put in a camp because I know every one that sees me on the street views me as an object that they could rape and there's nothi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/23 03:55 PM
9

The psychology field is something like 80% women qa
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/23 02:54 PM
2

Because the Right has Andrew Tate: who tells you that the feminists are wrong and you can have every juvenile power fantasy you've ever wanted if you just buy his stuff. The Left has us: who tells you that the feminists are wrong but that they have a century's worth of academic and cultural entrenchment and that all of it stands directly in the way of a steep uphill battle that will only see incredibly incremental gains, if any, for at least the next decade and is always at risk of being stomped…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 09:47 PM
5

Yes they are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 04:25 PM
5

Millions of factors went into human social developments, the primary ones were climate and desease. Nature doesn't care as much about gender roles as we do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 02:39 PM
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Well he's a man, so any claims he makes about the kids are inherently less credible to the vast majority of people. There is probably plenty of documentation of him utterly showing his ass in regards to his relationship with his wife and children, so the whole thing's probably going to be fairly open and shut, and he'll go join the extremely problematic side of r/mensrights. If someone does attempt to get a social media mob after you, do not directly address it. Do not engage with it. Any engage…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 08:06 PM
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Damn, the horseshoe is just bending all the way back to ancient Greece now. The dadvocate (unfortunately) said it best: "women have 17 methods of contraception, men have, at best, 2.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 07:50 PM
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I think it's time for me to leave these communities behind. Misandry is more popular and profitable than ever, nothing is being done, nothing I do is making a difference. And seeing all this shit just go pretty much completely unchallenged or resolved is just bad for my mental health. Good luck gentlemen.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/23 03:29 PM
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Specifically black straight men. Since statistics are perfect and don't discriminate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 02:44 AM
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Putting it shortly. No. Rape culture is not a thing. EVERYONE IS TERRIFIED OF SHARING THEIR SEXUAL ASSAULT EXPERIENCE. EVERYONE IS AFRAID THAT THEY WON'T BE BELIEVED. She was probably born in 2005 and is stuck in the TikTok neotankie pipeline. Passed a point all you can do is wait for them to slide out of the bottom.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 05:43 PM
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FGM is also largely practiced in areas that lack any sort of decent sanitation at all, and is also increasingly done covertly as more and more groups attempt to clamp down on the practice, because even tribal patriarchs have trouble telling women what to do with other women's bodies.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/07/23 07:36 PM
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Psypost and Psychology Today have all the credibility of The Huffington Post at this point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/23 03:50 PM
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I genuinely hope that society advances enough that we can one day look at articles like this and laugh like we do for those victorian newspaper articles about female hysteria.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/23 12:14 AM
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Frankly the only things I see like that are tradcon grifts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 01:17 PM
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That would be partially because you're preaching to a bunch of redditors who are infamously apathetic. And partially because you can't make people care with facts, facts only help if they care in the first place. The straw never breaks the camel's back if they just drop the entire load in the sand.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/23 04:35 PM
1

It's also not our job to dismantle the one that's been painstakingly established for the last 50 years.
/r/MalePsychology10/07/23 07:10 PM
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I put a lot of that manosphere crap in the same basket as conservative talk radio or those 'female rage' tiktokers. They need you to feel awful so that you keep watching and they keep making money. They don't give a single fuck about anything else, they have their angle and they know if they fuck it up too much they'll lose views. So they just tell you everything's awful and no one cares about you to keep you scared and isolated and glued to your screen. But yeah when women acknowledge your exis…
/r/MenSupportMen04/07/23 03:38 PM
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I think it's the same as the predatory bot accounts designed to lure you off-site and squeeze you for money. And we see exactly how well Tinder's on that.
/r/MenSupportMen27/06/23 05:40 AM
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And when have good study construction and strong results ever been necessary in gender studies?
/r/MalePsychology26/06/23 02:25 PM
3

That Rice University document was probably the most depressing thing all month. I cannot imagine potentially catching herpes from someone, being told by the school that I should've educated someone who was shown in documented evidence to be more knowledgeable than me in the effects of herpes. Being BANNED FROM CAMPUS UNTIL I RELEASE MY LAWYER WHILE UNDER INVESTIGATION. Then watching Rice just let this student go one to knowingly have unprotected sex with herpes after stating her intent to keep h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/23 03:34 PM
1

Does tildes already have a male advocates type community or this the digital Oregon trail for us?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/23 02:46 PM
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There is a reason gay couples are usually ranked the happiest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/23 05:00 PM
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That's.....a much better reaction than I would expect from the likes of r/science. It only takes a, what is that, maybe 6-to-1 casualty ratio? Edit: my bad it's like 4-to-1.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/23 04:26 PM
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Personally I think this whole presentation would be better if it was focused a little more on the various ways in which the term 'toxic masculinity' is thrown around, compare it to how 'female hysteria' was bandied about in the late 1800's. Sure it's a little played out in these spaces but I think it's much more likely to catch the attention of some normie than an emotional appeal to how badly we're making men feel about themselves. Like, shitty as it is to say, if appealing to the well-being of…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/23 02:21 AM
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As a liberal, yes and no. On the surface they hate each other and have nothing in common. In practice a lot of the founding texts were written by assholes who hadn't touched grass, even by standards of the time, in months and who based enormous amounts of their writing on shit about early human society that they just made up at the time. (Like how Marx insists the Russian peasant communes are this eternal, ancient construct existing before and outside the monarchy. They were put in place by the …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 04:13 PM
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You do what every other belief does, you stick around, refuse to be stomped out, and broadcast your message as loudly as you can to the next generation as soon as you can. Because people very rarely change their minds because better information comes along, most of them hold the same old opinions they've had since they were 14 until they die. If you want your ideas out there you have to go with younger people so that by the time they're old enough to have their voices heard they've internalized …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 04:00 PM
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I feel like dating platforms are going to die on this hill too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/23 04:12 PM
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You have to be careful anyways because everyone, and I mean everyone, has been extensively conditioned not just to be dismissive of any attempt at male group advocacy, but to be actively hostile towards it. And as all of reddit knows, when confronted with contradicting info most people just dig deeper into their chosen ideology, and they get fucking mean. This can result in what I call 'flash radicalization', where someone who's been passively consuming ideological propaganda, such as male hate …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/23 04:55 PM
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Well OP, I think you're right in that if a society lost 90% of it's men it would grind to a halt. But that's because 25-40% of it's population and an enormous amount of the workforce just evaporated. However, plenty of societies have existed with a population between 60 and 80% female, much of this due to war, in fact, and As someone mentioned below; across the entire human race only about 25-40% of men have reproduced as opposed to something like 80% of the women. And we all know the infamous t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/23 04:03 PM
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There's 'Redo of the Healer' which is an anime basically centering on that premise. It's uh, controversial.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/05/23 02:50 PM
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Well 'nice guy' generally just means 'this guy's not acting out of accord with society but I don't like him and want others not to like him.'
/r/MenSupportMen18/05/23 02:45 PM
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Not anymore than every man is a misogynistic Andrew Tate disciple. Always remember that people who do a lot of posting and commenting on reddit are disproportionately lacking in hobbies and social connections regardless of what you see in screenshotted tweets. Therefore you are very unlikely to meet these people in real life because they're too busy posting on reddit about how outside is dangerous and everyone hates them.
/r/MenSupportMen10/05/23 11:40 PM
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No such thing as an ideal role model. Maybe back before he got super famous sure, but he's been warped into a grotesque parody of he pre-2015 self like everyone else who's terminally online and post-coma he just flew off the rails.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/23 05:39 PM
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I'd be curious at the study she got the 20% figure from, American studies usually put it higher.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/04/23 05:26 PM
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Well for the last 15 years or so I've been hearing far-right-alt-right-andrew-tate-super-maga-patriarchy is on the verge of violently overthrowing the government and literally creating the handmaid's tale. So maybe they'll get on that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 03:55 PM
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At one point the guy mad good content but he's either gone mask-off or been pipelined. Ignore it, the less views he has, he less reach he'll get, and the less cleaning up of his shitty ideas we'll have to do later.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/23 03:51 PM
1

What does reddit even count as misandry?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/23 10:36 PM
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Social media is in general toxic as fuck and there are much better things to spend your time on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/23 10:23 PM
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You can't stop the merchandise train OP, just change the context around it.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/04/23 02:13 AM
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This just in. Men who own sex toys aren't just lying in wait to sexually assault someone. More at 11.
/r/MalePsychology03/04/23 03:53 PM
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Just remember reddit and the internet in general has usage demographics that lean towards poor social skills and a lack of touch with the outside world. So less of that in your life is always better.
/r/MenSupportMen31/03/23 01:48 AM
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Beeee careful about volunteering with stuff to meet people, a lot of the time others can tell when you're there mostly to socialize and they will associate it with predatory behavior.
/r/MenSupportMen30/03/23 10:19 PM
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Hey getting into a fight is still going about your life
/r/EverydayMisandry24/03/23 03:24 AM
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I guess the UK thinks no one will notice them becoming a police state if they just target the men first?
/r/EverydayMisandry16/03/23 04:42 PM
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I'm sure it's out there, but if you've filed a complaint against a female coworker and you were believed and action was taken then you probably don't have a need for a community like this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/23 04:30 PM
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It sounds like we need better therapists
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/23 04:16 PM
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And honestly almost none of the methods are 'less messy', a pill overdose has a decent chance of covering a whole room in puke and blood, let alone slitting your wrists. I think a lot of them are just viewed as more peaceful or even romantic; see how 13 Reasons Why treated wrist slitting vs a gunshot to the face.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/23 04:05 PM
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They know, but most governments would rather cut the service and save money instead of drawing more people into a service that really doesn't create any economic or political capital for the politicians
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/23 01:36 AM
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He's part of the problem as well, if someone accuses you of something like that you can't just shrug it off and forgive them, that's just demonstrating that there's no consequences for that kind of behavior even at a personal level.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/03/23 04:18 AM
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My partner, who is currently dragging herself out of bed at 7 A.M. on her off day and the heaviest day of her cycle to take me to work since my car exploded, is the absolute light of my life and as cheesy as it is I would not be half the person I am without her. She also got me into vegetables, which needed to happen. Badly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/23 01:15 PM
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Because it's for a mainstream audience that also means it has to be ground down into a palatable grey paste for the general masses in order to keep a profit margin.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/23 03:00 AM
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I would argue a lot of men, and women, but this is a men's issue subreddit, have a lot of their free time and energy sponged up by predatory media and parasocial personalities who are only trying to distract them from their issues for monetary gain.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/23 02:56 AM
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Reeeeaaally hate to ring this bell again but, In my lifetime of experience being "borderline underweight" (BMI on the lower end of healthy in country with a 30+% obesity rate) it's dating that'll really fuck you up. It's honestly a lot like what you'll read about obese women dealing with: your primary candidates are predatory opportunists who assume you have no standards because you don't qualify as conventionally attractive, and people who fetishize your body, and never in a fun way. And the fe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/23 02:08 AM
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Andrew Tate's popularity rose exactly BECAUSE of all the anti-male content. Society and social media ToS both frown on any negativity towards women as a group, so only the most extreme have enough dedication get their voices out there to a large general audience. Being rich and falsely accused on the news once also helps.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/02/23 11:55 PM
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I don't think that stating your political/philosophical viewpoint is necessarily 'bringing politics into it' or trying head off an attack per se, you used a convenient tag to give us a basic idea of your general outlook and provide some context to your emotional reaction. Reddit's just made us all too cynical
/r/MenSupportMen12/02/23 03:02 AM
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I would seriously caution against letting interactions like this inform your idea of how people think of men too much. The Venn diagram overlap between Rihanna fans, redditors, and people who've touched grass in the last decade is incredibly small. I would, however, highly recommend you head over to r/leftwingmaleadvocates and check out their required reading if you'd like to educate yourself on the issues men face. Fair warning we're a bunch of Debbie Downers a lot of the time but I find that t…
/r/MenSupportMen12/02/23 02:58 AM
6

Didn't they also publish that article about how the original spiderman actor was too thin?
/r/EverydayMisandry09/02/23 04:42 PM
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You were not in the wrong in any form or fashion, neither of you made any moves towards exclusivity, she felt entitled to it based on your gender. I would have that episode on every one of her social media profiles, hell you might get local news to run a short piece, lord knows they would if the situation was reversed. What she did was absolutely shameful and she should be shamed accordingly
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/23 04:26 PM
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I wonder if her responses to the #metoo movement affected how the writers chose to portray her sex tape link
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/23 03:18 AM
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I've been on this soapbox at lot lately but I'm jumping on it again. I think male activism really needs to start attempting to turn men away from conventional dating and romance as a means of life fulfillment. I can't find it and I'm mad but I read an interesting, if shittily worded, article called something along the lines of 'what single men can learn from black women' or some such nonsense. But the point of it was black women have been single at much higher rates than the rest of the female p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 08:15 PM
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Also real life dating just seems to be getting more dangerous for men in a lot of ways. I was at a concert last year with my partner and an only slightly drunk woman grabbed me by the back of my hair as I walked by her group of friends. All I got for a warning was an 'I like your hair'. And that's just my personal experience. I spent several months working as a street vendor in an American city that caters very hard to bachelorette events, and 'girl's trips' and some of the harassment that goes …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 06:28 PM
5

Are you, by chance, a man?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 06:24 PM
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It's objectification but they're definitely not abstract objects. Porn stars have some of the most active and passionate followings on the internet. Which personally I think is a much bigger issue in practice than some vague notion of objectification.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 01:49 AM
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It depends on how they're worn. During the late victorian age, I believe, it became very fashionable among women the get the most ridiculously thin waste that you could, which is where you get the stories of women not being able to breathe and crushing their organs etc. Honestly the ones without the steel ribs make a wonderful support for your back. Especially if you're a bit stacked up top. Buuuuuuuuut it's way easier to latch onto the shocking shit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 01:41 AM
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That would be internalized misandry, not misogyny, but the internet passionately argues that misandry doesn't exist so that's an understandable mistake.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 01:37 AM
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Dunno who's down voting but they're fucking clowns. I wish you the best of luck in your struggle friend.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/23 07:09 PM
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Frankly I think this is the biggest stumbling block to male activism and men's personal health and well-being in general. Society has conditioned men to view not getting a monogamous partner as the ultimate personal failure, and no one's interested in trying combat the narrative because they don't want to end up single. Yes I am calling for the male advocate equivalent of the crazy feminist cat/dog person.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/23 04:16 PM
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You know, I can't really recall the last time I saw the term 'equality' or any synonym as part of any American activist rhetoric outside of male activism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/23 10:08 PM
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Absolutely agree, although I think some part of the process you're going through is to minimize the amount of kids essentially smuggled into citizenship.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/23 03:57 PM
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What makes you think they wouldn't? The APA isn't exactly reliant on advertisers, if it did get visibility there's nothing to stop them from riding out the storm.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/23 04:30 PM
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Basically the article is extremely wishy-washy on whether or not men actually have issues, but SOMETHING has to be done before we all turn into violent MAGA terrorists. Personally I think this is just going to be another gaggle of activists finger wagging men for thinking they have problems and telling boys that they're immature and inferior for not wanting to sit in a desk for 8 hours.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/23 04:09 PM
5

Well bare minimum Psychology Today does.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/23 05:15 PM
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Among the many, many reasons I will never be a father. That and a partner who will leave the trash bag in the middle of the kitchen at 2 A.M. because she noticed that it was almost full and it needed to go out right then, but she's not going to do it because it's cold.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/23 05:09 PM
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Are Strauss's numbers on male sexual assault prevalence as good as his numbers on domestic violence prevalence? If not I'd leave his quote out because that is a giant generalization that has been cast into doubt almost as much as domestic violence rates.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/23 11:46 PM
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I think it's required to overcome the empathy gap and get legitimacy for the movement by giving it a female face for the public to feel bad for, but I think the meat and bones of the movement needs to be by men and for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/23 05:11 PM
20

Hey man none of them can fight either lol
/r/EverydayMisandry30/12/22 06:17 AM
6

When you suddenly remember you're in Eastern Europe.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/12/22 03:18 PM
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I mean the average for a cat is closer to 12 so you absolutely did a wonderful job as a cat owner. Adopting a senior cat for your first one is also a really commendable move and I think your cat was incredibly lucky you picked them out.
/r/MenSupportMen09/12/22 04:48 AM
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Every accusation is a confession
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/22 12:50 AM
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Personally I prefer it that way. It's the main issue discussed on every other men's subreddit and basically everyone agrees that it's bad, it's only going to get worse, and there's nothing to be done about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/22 12:49 AM
11

I believe there is a line in the oldest hymn in the world that goes something like, May the mothers be kind to their daughters May the young men do what's expected of them. So it's obviously a very old notion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/22 04:34 PM
1

I mean, they're right. The trial coverage has absolutely promoted fundamental misunderstandings about domestic violence. It was just their trial coverage.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/22 07:01 PM
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Worked as a 'technical writer' (long story) for my GF's heavy machine operator's union, they're on the diversity train with everyone else for the most part. They're just floundering way harder because the senior ranks are full of fat vaccine-denying alcoholics who spout increasingly unhinged conspiracies with no possibility of significant backlash. In my very limited personal experience.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/22 01:32 PM
10

So what do unmarried men vote?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/22 07:14 PM
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I believe the U.N. also judges countries without a 5 year lifespan gap between men and women to be 'unequal', so I imagine there would be some amount of diplomatic fallout if a country really started to put some effort in on it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/22 04:51 PM
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No one gets activism points from me for acknowledging the elephant in the room.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/22 12:36 PM
2

Well my dud I can promise you transitioning to being a man is not the easy way out of anything lol. Is it too mean to tell them you're transitioning to get away from lesbians?
/r/EverydayMisandry01/11/22 04:28 PM
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Those three boys you're referring too are The Scottsboro Boys and their story is a truly heinous one, I'd say more but you should absolutely read about it yourselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/22 04:15 PM
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R/mensrights will turn you into the thing they claim to hate most, besides feminism. A hateful radical. For every post with even the slightest bit of helpful insight there's about 50 that are either pure ragebait or just someone wallowing in self-pity. Granted, I don't know exactly where to find any particularly inspiring or upbeat conversations about men's issues, but r/leftwingmaleadvocates tries to keep things constructive at least.
/r/MenSupportMen25/10/22 11:55 PM
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Your friend is a feminist, not a therapist (I'm assuming), so take her at her word on it like you'd take her word on wiring your house. However if your insurance covers mental health then an evaluation by a professional would do you some good.
/r/MenSupportMen25/10/22 03:57 AM
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Hank Green is just trying to cling to relevance since most of his audience aged into Hasanabi and he never really got a new crop.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/10/22 05:15 PM
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That's...frankly an incredible burden on you and your kids. I wish you the best of luck getting them out of that situation.
/r/MenSupportMen11/10/22 04:50 PM
5

If it's lack of sexual access an escort makes a great birthday present to yourself.
/r/MenSupportMen06/10/22 10:01 PM
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Maybe she just needs to be a better listener
/r/PussyPassDenied30/09/22 03:21 AM
5

And Estonia will extradite anyone trying to escape this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/22 02:59 AM
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Personally I think you're taking the right tact, straight-out attacking Patriarchy theory pretty much limits your audience to about 4 subreddits. And one of the strengths of these slideshows is that they're easily digestible to a more mainstream audience because they don't typically go against what they've already been told. That being said I do think more focus on how Patriarchy theory is completely unfalsifiable would go over comparatively well in a lot of online circles
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/22 09:30 PM
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Is feminism changing? No. Absolutely not. But between the Amber Heard trial and her lawyer saying anyone who thought she was guilty was complicit in wife beating, Will Smith assaulting a man on stage and wrecking his already falling career for a wife that's done nothing but mock and abuse him to cheers and adulation of hollywood, hell even the scandal that propelled Andrew Tate to notoriety, there's a lot of juicy content for the enterprising youtuber out there. Also I frankly I think the last f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/09/22 05:29 PM
9

Sex workers and hotel rooms are much cheaper than apartments. Pretty unhappy isn't great, but all forms of social media are filled to the brim with people who are absolutely fucking miserable because of their relationships if you can stomach that kind of pick-me-up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/09/22 02:26 AM
5

I mean it's a decent read. That drop in partners after 2006 is stark, is that when the recession started?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/22 06:20 PM
-17

I think it being mandatory for every single birth is probably a lot more money and paperwork than it's worth personally. Also I think OP genuinely underestimates the number of men who don't particularly care who fathered their kid, and the number of men who just genuinely don't want to know: There are plenty of ugly realities to face without adding the prevalence of paternity fraud on top of them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/22 11:32 PM
25

Oftentimes nudity is used to embarrass or emasculate male characters for comedic affect, literally stripping them down and making vulnerable so the audience can laugh at them. Thor Love and Thunder is a good example of both sexual objectification and demeaning nudity in the trial scene.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 02:43 PM
3

Be the best you can be OP, don't forget to periodically check for parasites.
/r/MenSupportMen20/08/22 05:37 PM
1

I think in the common mind E.D.= dick don't work, regardless of the reason. Personally I've got a pet hypothesis that a significant chunk of male 'E.D.' is just them being with a partner who's not arousing them much at the time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/22 03:44 PM
1

If you already feel like you don't have as many opportunities as you should I would stay away from dating apps in general. They are lovingly hand-crafted to make you feel like you have to pay money to get people to notice you and that's obviously not what you want. I'd also advise you to reconsider your stance on 'Meaningless hookups'. Because frankly, most relationships are also meaningless wastes of time. Unless you believe that every experience helps build you towards being a better person, b…
/r/MenSupportMen09/08/22 01:55 AM
3

I think the economy's gonna be pretty fucking tight for the next few years. But homie I really think you should keep ploughing ahead and doing your own thing. If you live in an area where people appreciate your abilities like they say they do there will be other offers, but you may only get around to this one shot for yourself.
/r/MenSupportMen09/08/22 01:48 AM
0

Reminds me of a survey about dating age preferences. Women's tastes aged as they did as they continued to look for people better able to connect with and provide for them. Men like 21 year olds.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/07/22 05:27 PM
5

Any 'men-oriented' group or sub is generally under a large microscope by admins, the media, and the general internet populace because most people draw no distinction between male solidarity and patriarchy. So they moderate very heavily in order not to get a reputation, and honestly lonely assholes on the internet will clog up every avenue of communication they're allowed too. Women and women-oriented groups don't have the same stigma, and complaining about men has basically no stigma at all, shi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/22 07:46 PM
39

Well damn look at you go while the rest of us sit around and bitch about Roe V. Wade lol. Idk about Canadian police culture but the police as a resource for abused men is prooobably too optimistic for the time being. The support group is a great idea, I do worry about getting enough men into them to justify it to the bureaucrats frankly. Watch out for administrative foot draggers and keep up the good work, it's genuinely inspirational.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/22 04:57 PM
19

Personally I think it was a painful but necessary step on the path to actual legislation protecting people's reproductive rights, even at the time Roe v. Wade was written specifically how it was so as to avoid questions of 'paper abortions' for 'deadbeat dads'. So maybe once people run out of shitty handmaiden's tale memes to post the conversation can start fresh.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/22 02:25 PM
3

Contrapoints brought them up too after a rambling post about how we all need to be on guard against internalized misogyny and our natural prejudice against 'bitchy blondes'
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/22 06:53 PM
3

So is divorce more costly for women because they're paying their own bills now?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/22 04:10 PM
3

Man even when I lived in a town of 8000 people in the soul of overbearing American southeastern politeness random strangers walking down the street didn't smile and nod at me lol. People have places to be and generally don't have time for stangers. Thinking about the moral panic all the time is just bad for your heart.
/r/MenSupportMen21/05/22 05:43 PM
2

Okay I could really get behind this statement when I was a teenager in the early 2010's. Because yeah, everyone deserves a base level of 'respect' without the implicit threat of escalation should they not receive it. And for all the moaning we do on this sub disciplining your wife was still a thing in the southeast in the 1980's. However as with literally all of these slogans, they are lovingly handcrafted by and for people who view introspection as an attack by a malicious outside force, and so…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/22 06:04 PM
3

I honestly think the comparison to female hysteria has a lot more potential.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/22 08:24 PM
1

'Moralization of the commodification of emotional labor' Wanna unpack that one for us troglodytes chief?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/22 04:12 PM
1

Yeah what does that stand for? Don't keep up with the discourse much anymore
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/22 04:41 PM
30

Time for a male psychiatrist my dude.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/22 06:18 PM
20

But how can you engage in a string of unstable short-term partnerships without a decent number of people who consider you attractive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/22 02:07 AM
7

Well I'd put those examples in the 'asshole' category rather than the 'defensive' one, and the answer to dealing with those is to report them and move on with your day. Don't take it personally if their first question is if you're a bot or a prostitute, some people get a lot of them and some of the bots have decent scripts. Personally I've found a weird meme reply to be the fastest way for someone to convince me they're not a bot. Whole sentence responses go a long way. Not with perfect grammar …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/22 06:51 PM
39

I like how they feely admit that the 'social armor' IS fucking up men but that's it's necessary because going without it MIGHT lead to assault, which is also the general argument for open firearm carry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/22 11:29 AM
1

Remind me! 3pm April 16, 2022
/r/PussyPassDenied29/03/22 09:10 AM
44

Isn't this the same woman who roasted him to tears on her own show and made it into such a laughing stock Will Smith became a literal meme?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/22 03:42 PM
2

These are generally the same people who think they would've been glorious freedom fighters or martyrs if they'd been German in WWII as well. Stupid people saying stupid things about situations they don't understand.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/22 07:13 PM
17

I'm fairly sure that in America the only way to get rid of parental responsibility in the legal sense is to have a judge find you completely unfit to be a parent. And any jackass is fit enough for child support.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/02/22 07:44 PM
27

The only thing that's going to heal that sort of perception on your part in counseling or some sort of therapy Imho. My short answer to your question is that they're boring. The squeaky wheel is the wheel that gets the attention. And in a largely monogamous society with an ever-increasing pressure on men in general to be monogamous the men who claim to be naturally monogamous are not the squeaky wheels.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/22 01:01 PM
4

I'm supposed to believe this terrified woman shared a bus stop with a strange man without a word for months and didn't make a post about how weird he is?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/22 07:15 PM
-3

Personally I think you're falling into the trap of trivializing 'having a baby' to a ridiculous extent. I don't think you're going to find anyone on this sub in favor of state-imposed child support as a general policy, and you're certainly not going to find that here. But on the flipside of that, pregnancy and childbirth are massive burdens on the body that cause both short term symptoms and lifelong changes that basically impossible to predict with any certainty. And attempting to compel someon…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/21 09:00 PM
2

In my experience these men, like most of us, do not have any real conception as men as a social class, so they view basically every issue affecting every male the same way the liberatarians no one likes view poverty: as exclusively the result of deliberate personal choices, which, like with those libertarians no one likes, conveniently excuses them from having to care about said problems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/21 11:25 PM
3

Well, the childfree part of me is excited at least.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/21 05:42 AM
0

Fucking someone is a great way to catch anything they may have so I'm not suuuuper surprised it took running water, antibiotics, AND contraception before society really kicked it into gear with sexual freedom.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/21 06:24 AM
2

I think even in the comments people are pointing out that men have facial hair which tends to pull them down, I guess our author there doesn't have that problem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/21 06:58 PM
2

There's basically never any benefits to being an advocate of something unpopular. That's why people like martyrdom
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/21 06:16 PM
44

There's a movie called The Tall Man with a somewhat similar premise.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/19 07:45 PM
10

It's like 9 kinds of fucked that breitbart of all places is the only place reporting it.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/08/18 04:41 PM
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