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| 11 | [FR] First date with a girl from tinder | puafridaythrowaway | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 02:10 AM |
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| 0 | Does anyone have success with flirting on first dates from online dating?Just say something that can be interpreted as related to the conversation and also as something sexual. Here is an example: her: my friends got me a cake because [...] me: great, bring me some tomorow her: no, it's mine :P me: so, you are going to eat it whole? her: yeah me: http://pix.iemoji.com/images/emoji/apple/ios-9/256/smirking-face.png You could adjust by sending the emoji before getting an answer or changing it to something more explicit like "are we still talking about cake?" Another wa… | /r/seduction | 26/07/17 05:08 AM |
| 0 | Does anyone have success with flirting on first dates from online dating?You can tell her you like something from her pics, jokingly say it will be hard for you not to kiss her on first sight or make sexual innuendos. I could go through my own texts for specific examples, but these are all in spanish | /r/seduction | 26/07/17 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have success with flirting on first dates from online dating?I start flirting before the first date. I will try to greet her with a kiss and f close at the end of the date if possible. I can't find a reason not to show my intentions | /r/seduction | 26/07/17 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Moving on from Tinder to what?Tinder is for meeting strangers, right? what is the problem with her friends thinking whatever about you if you aren't gonna meet them ever. | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | [VIRGIN NEEDS HELP] I have no idea how to make the next move when we are sitting really closely on a couch.So, you two were alone and she wanted you to kiss her. You are overthinking this. Let her know what are about to do, there are lot of ways: * saying clearly "give me a kiss" * having her looking at you and grabbing her face * stoping talking and just maintaining eye contact for a few seconds * interrupting whatever she is saying asking her to shut up, as if you were about to say something really important And then, just go for it. Don't wait for her to kiss you, don't even do that thing where yo… | /r/seduction | 12/04/17 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if my date went well?I thought it was the perfect moment to tell her that I really like her, and when I said that she smiled but didn't say anything in return Next time demostrate, don't tell. If you like her and you think she likes you, go for a kiss. Again since there was no parking I had to stop in the middle off the street to drop her off so there was no hug or kiss goodbye Not that important, but if this happens again you can kiss her inside the car. What if she takes a little longer to get out? somebody in ano… | /r/seduction | 21/01/17 08:07 PM |
| 2 | 24 year old virgin considering going to a escortIf I do end up with a girl and she finds out that I'm a virgin then she will think that I'm weird and leave me. Why do you care? Maybe she doesn't notice. Maybe she doesn't care. The worst? she notices and cares and you go fucking another girl. I had sex for the first time at 22. The first woman didn't notice, I think. The second time was with a friend. It was very weird and none of us came. You know what? we kept dating and she wanted to be my gf. I doesn't matter if you are a virgin. On the ot… | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 01:11 AM |
| 6 | Let my failure be a lesson: If you don't escalate in the first couple of dates, she'll think you're not attracted to her.So she is saying she was down to kiss you and you think it's over? You should have answered something like "I don't wanna be your friend, let's see each other this saturday so you can get your kiss" | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 01:56 PM |
| 1 | I know it is situation-dependent, but normally do you go for a kiss on (after) the first date if you only want sex?Kiss them in the first date. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4l356e/fr_first_date_with_a_girl_from_tinder/ | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Reddit, i need your help. All my learning has lead to this.NEXT! Sorry Pal. This girl aint interested in being more than friends. Go find other women and go no contact with this chick. She's using you for attention. We don't know this. I was in the opposite side of this earlier this year. Was dating a girl who wanted to be my gf but I just wanted a fwb. She got into a relationship with another guy, ended it a few months later and we are seeing eachother again. @OP: are you ok with the way things are now or do you only want a relationship? maybe you can … | /r/seduction | 22/11/16 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Making a move in the car?Kissing inside a car works the same as elsewhere. After that, you should be touching her, first in the face and neck, then waist, ass, etc. Girls get hot when you touch them, so she will let you keep escalating and maybe she will touch you. If not, when you feel it's a good moment, you can take her hand and place it on your crotch | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 11:11 PM |
| -1 | Is it possible to get a girlfriend without being social or interesting?Why do you want your girlfriend to be someome who will settle for a guy like that? there are better girls | /r/seduction | 15/09/16 03:09 AM |
| 1 | IMPORTANT nightclub questionI'm afraid I can't give you a detailed explanation as I live in south america and clubs are probably different. Even the ones I go to can be totally different, in one you can just put your hand in the back of the girl and start grinding and in another one a few km from there that's probably a bad idea. I usually dance between half and two songs, stare at her lips or eyes and go for a kiss. Lots of times it doesn't work but it doesn't matter. You can talk and you should do it to take her home, bu… | /r/seduction | 04/07/16 05:55 PM |
| 3 | IMPORTANT nightclub questionIf she is dancin, why would she suddenly want to sit down? how would you notice it? if she doesn't want to sit down you just keep dancing with her forever? Also, don't buy her a drink, fuck that. Only buy drinks to friends or dates, not some random chick who has done nothing to deserve it. | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 01:08 AM |
| 5 | I still can't wrap my head around the result of fucking a girl who was a complete stranger a short time agoSo, you see a good looking girl and want to fuck her, right? You imagine how kissing her lips would feel, you fanatize about touching all her body, etc. It's normal and it happens to everyone. The same happens to girls. They love sex the same way you do and would love to fuck that good looking stranger. Maybe that guy is you, maybe don't but without approaching you'll never know. | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I 'make the move' for the first kiss with a girl?This is the easier way. Also, you might want to do it earlier. If you kiss her in front of her house, she will probably enter after it ends. If you kiss her in the middle of the date, you have the rest of it to escalate and also you both will be more relaxed. | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Should I text this girl?Women want to be pursued, if you wait for them to ask you out, you are doing it wrong. Also, maybe she isn't interested enough to put that much effort into you but she is willing to accept an invitation. Just ask her out again and see what happens, you have nothing to lose. | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Guys with car but no house, how do you close?So you go from kissing to "hey, let's fuck in the back seat"? You should be escalating into that. Start by kissing her, then touch her ass over her pants, touch her tits over her shirt, then go under her shirt, kiss her clevage, suck her nipples, touch her ass under her pants, rub her pussy, finger her, etc. She may be the one suggesting the back seat if you do it right. | /r/seduction | 15/06/16 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Overwhelmed! How to keep up with multiple datesPay attention to what you tell them. I've told a story twice to the same girl, or worse, asume I already told it when I didn't. Once got a "no, you didn't tell me that story, it must have been another of your girls" and started being more careful | /r/seduction | 06/06/16 04:07 AM |
| 3 | [Question] How to approach & pick up girls at a concert/festival?Well, I like to invite girls to smoke weed as a date plan. Add some music and a beer and you can't go wrong. | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 01:33 AM |
| 1 | What's the point?It's hard to think that ANY amount of pushing my comfort zone would lead me to sex or romance. Maybe, I don't know. What I know is you will get nothing if you just stay there waiting for something to happen by itself like in a romantic comedy | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Trouble finding a place to have sexIf you two already had sex or if you know she wants to, just stop the car in a dark place, start making out and after a while say "let's go to the back seat" | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 05:06 AM |
| 2 | What's the point?This is my wallpaper https://media.licdn.com/mpr/mpr/AAEAAQAAAAAAAAKmAAAAJDliMTM2NGUzLTQxMDMtNGMzNy05NGM1LTRiZTZkYWMyOWZiOA.jpg Now, about your original question: Having sex feels better than masturbating. Masturbating is great when you don't have time or just want to stay at home, but you can't kiss or spank the girl in your screen. Do I really have to tell you that sex feels good? Also, going on dates and meeting new people is fun. Don't you like meeting new friends? It's the same, but you get… | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 03:30 AM |
| 1 | How much time after she goes online should one wait?throw 3 dice, add up the sum and wait that many minutes "each time" what? | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Blind datesI did that once and she was uglier than in pictures, so we talked for a while and I went home. It felt the same as a date with a girl from tinder. | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 02:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First date with a girl from tinder"You are pretty. Next time I will give you two kisses: one for that day and the one I owe you" or something along these lines. Basically, I avoided giving a real answer while seting it up for the next encounter. | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 10:04 PM |
| 2 | How to end first dates if there's bad logistics?Escalate as much as possible Now, let's try to fix the logistics part. I'm guessing you don't have a car, but if you have one, you can always park it in some dark street and have sex inside. You could rent a room in a hotel or airbnb, it will be costly but you can probably pay it and it will be really confortable and fun. Another option is to get the girls ready and then tell them you don't have a place. Maybe they do and want to invite you there. | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 12:42 AM |
| 1 | What's your tolerance level pursuing women?There are a lot of variables. For example, how much I'm interested in her, how much time I've invested, her being or not really busy (if I know she works two jobs, I'm ok if she doesn't text be back sometimes) and how much she tries to give an alternative (like, if I propose a few dates and she can't go but is offering other options, that's a big plus). If she is not interested and I didn't put much effort, I don't push it that much. | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Do you need a big bed for dating?Some pictures may be nsfw I'm not sure if this is real I only have a twin bed. And I really can't imagine how two people would fit in that Like this: http://www.gettyimages.com/detail/photo/young-couple-sharing-single-bed-dog-asleep-on-other-royalty-free-image/122342960 https://www.haikudesigns.com/assets/images/misc/facebook/b-dream3.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/1a/2a/76/1a2a7673b668b6896830296430b474c3.jpg http://40.media.tumblr.com/389e6de40f2dba627ff5d7be0e51ba44/tumblr_mk2x… | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 02:20 AM |
| 2 | I didn't walk her to the train. Should I apologize?So, you are getting advice from two people who don't try to seduce women? Doesn't sound like a great idea. Listen to them, but don't do everythin they say. I wouldn't bring it up. Just treat it as something normal, expected and without the need of being addressed, because it is You could have walked her there, but because you wanted, not because she did. You didn't want to do it an it's ok. Maybe she will get mad, we can't know. Also, maybe those who get mad that easy aren't worth yout time. | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 02:02 AM |
| 1 | 29F never getting second dates from guysThe other was awhile back and we had some back and forth via text for a few weeks but it never materialized into anything he is still texting me on an almost daily basis but we haven’t hung out again Do these guys know you want to see them again? or are you hoping for things just to happen? Just text them "hey, are you free tomorrow? let's have a beer" or something along these lines. Don't worry about the job, it sounds interesting, I would love to listen to you telling histories of cuting peopl… | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Did your success with girls skyrocket after losing your v-card?So, at age 22 I lost my virginity to some woman from tinder. A week or two after that I had my first real kiss with a girl I had liked for yeas. Then had sex with her a week after that. Now, a few months later, the way I interact with women has improved a lot. I learned to be forward. I learned that getting out of my confort zone has big rewards. I learned women want sex just like me. | /r/seduction | 10/05/16 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Chick hitting on me, didn't know what to doMaybe you could have danced and then kiss her without talking. Next time an attractive girl wants to dance with you, just dance with her. | /r/seduction | 02/05/16 02:54 AM |
| 1 | My game is good, but I can't go for the kissfor some reason I either forget to go for a kiss or I'm just nervous Don't lie to yourself. Are you really forgetting? sounds like you are chickening out. If it's obvious she is attracted to you and you are attracted to her, just fucking do it. I've talked about it a few days ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4e6bc7/i_dont_know_what_to_do/d1y28gy It will get easier after you do it once | /r/seduction | 20/04/16 12:57 AM |
| 1 | What was the moment when you realized you had come pretty far?I see that group every weekend. It's just no all the weekend anymore | /r/seduction | 19/04/16 10:52 PM |
| 2 | What was the moment when you realized you had come pretty far?When my friends started saying I don't spend all the time with them anymore because I'm busy dating different girls. | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Should I let a girl schedule a date whenever she has time?This. If you leave her the decision of telling you when she wants to meet, you have the risk of she never doing it. Maybe she calls another guy first, maybe she has anxiety, or maybe she doesn't care that much about you yet. | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 03:51 AM |
| 1 | I don't know what to do...This happened 8 months ago and I still see her. Invited a friend to my house to drink a beer. I knew she was into me but I didn't had the balls to do anything until that day. We drank that beer and were on the couch watching tv and talking. There was one of those moments when people look at each other and it's kinda intimate, like this. So, I was terrified of kissing a girl. What if she doesn't want it and gets mad? what if she never talks to me again? what if I'm a bad kisser?. I thought she ca… | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 03:32 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/14/16What if you wait and she doesn't want to go out with you anymore because you waited too much? Be the guy with the cool scar. Watch any movie about badass guys with scars and you will notice bitches love them. Work on your acne, but do it to look better and have more girls in the future, not to look good for this one. | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 04:02 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/14/16I usually try to do that or go for nudes to get her thinking sexually of me, but there have been many cases where she didn't want any of that but I kept texting her just because she was fun. After a while, I turned the conversation sexually and, a few times, got a date. Other girl got a boyfriend and sent me her friends number and a few just shared nudes but nothing more. So, yeah, go hard fast, but texting for a while (1 week to many months for me) can work. | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 03:51 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/14/16I was talking about this with a girl a few days ago. We agreeded it's a bad spot for a first date because we want to talk and see each other. Do you want to watch a movie? call that girl you have known for a while and really watch the movie. For the first date I like going to a park, you both talk a lot and sit together and it's easy to transition into a kiss. | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 03:39 AM |
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