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puapsyche/r/seduction07/09/12 08:06 PM
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puapsyche/r/seduction26/10/11 01:54 AM
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"This girl should be scared to death that you will walk out on her." This is absolutely beautiful. Something critically important to keep up in mind. It should not be, it should never be the other way around.
/r/seduction03/01/13 05:56 PM
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I think the exact type of Value Game he's discussing that stemmed from the Mystery Method is what can be counterproductive. For example, negs. People don't like to use negs any more, but negs were a way to 'disarm' high quality women who, if you're the type to rank women by numbers, are high 9s and 10s, who are used to droves and droves of men coming in and complimenting them. A well placed neg here or there would do wonders for equalizing value for the two of you. However, 'negging' 6s and 7s d…
/r/seduction23/11/12 03:28 AM
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As direct and overwhelming as this may seem, this is definitely useful in the fact that you have a 'dont really give a damn' mentality. You cannot be reliant on whether this girl says yes or no to you. You can't hinge too much on what she thinks of you. An approach like this would work. Maybe not as brusque, maybe not as direct, and the delivery definitely matters. Walk up to her, smile, and say "Come to dinner with me tonight", or a variation thereof. Or don't give her a choice and do as nomdea…
/r/seduction20/09/12 02:11 PM
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Think about it this way. You are YOU. That's why she's into you.
/r/seduction20/09/12 02:08 PM
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This is pickup in a high-level nutshell, and Dorman has done a very good job explaining and condensing, but realistically, you wouldn't get past all this even if you've got some experience behind you. If things go perfectly, this is what might happen, but from my point of view you might not quite be at that stage yet. To simplify, just go up and have some conversation with these girls, and do what the community calls DHV - Demonstrate Higher Value. Tell a story where you've inserted slight (but …
/r/seduction19/09/12 11:36 PM
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This is fantastic, and definitely true. I met a lot of people in my first few weeks and it was fantastic, and I forgot about 70+% of them. But I knew them and they knew me, and people knew that I knew practically everyone. For the first three years of college I had a different main social group every year (which isn't necessarily a good thing, and definitely wasn't at some times). I started spending more time with different people, and that's how it happened. Sure, it does happen more slowly tha…
/r/seduction08/09/12 03:17 AM
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am I fucked No way. Just because you didn't build up at the beginning doesn't mean you're fucked, it just means it's a little harder. It's still no problem- go out and meet people! Doesn't matter when. If you're cool, it won't matter at all. how do I break into them? This comes with meeting everybody. Not just trying to go out and meet the cool guys and trying to be part of their circle, but meeting everybody. Sometimes if you try too hard, you will fail- don't try too hard. Just be. Be yourself…
/r/seduction08/09/12 03:16 AM
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It's the same way you get friendzoned, I suppose. Talk to people. DHV them. It's not so much convincing them that you're an interesting person to talk to and hang out with, but letting them SEE that you are a such a person. People want to be around people of equal or higher value. Let them see that you are one such person.
/r/seduction01/09/12 01:06 PM
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What I've discovered is, your problems don't go away when you learn from the community- you just start to get different problems, ones that start to involve more and more women. But you're the man you thought you could never be, and that should be damn well worth something-not even just for getting confidence to be social around women, but for life overall.
/r/seduction31/08/12 12:03 PM
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It's really not about the money, it's about the fact they had to pay it. And no, nobody complains when that happens, because it's not called women's insurance. Having a center that only services female students and then forcing male students to pay for it is a bit unjustified.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 10:15 PM
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While we're on this, a good mattress pad. Like, a GOOD one. Your bed will swarm with girls.
/r/seduction19/08/12 03:06 AM
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THIS. You can't lose it now- any emotional connection that you built up between the two of you at that moment will leak if you give it too much time. Keep the emotional momentum going. See her again, do something fun, build on it and give her a reason to like you for the person you are.
/r/seduction19/08/12 12:16 AM
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This is true. Reaction time is huge. It's the same reason why when you stop a car, to calculate the distance traveled you have to factor in how far the car travels in the time it takes you to react and step on the gas pedal.
/r/seduction08/08/12 10:41 PM
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Or lack thereof.
/r/seduction15/07/12 04:00 PM
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No. Mr. Double Fisted is right. You want to get to know this girl because you know YOU want to be with her, not because what other people think. FUCK what other people think, you want to be with this girl and you want to let her know how awesome you are. You compliment her only when you MEAN it. I can't remember what source it was from, but I remember someone writing about people asking "how do I execute a compliment"... You don't. This is not some scientific experiment, although many times it m…
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:35 PM
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Unfortunately, if she's had anything to drink, they can pin that as rape. It's not necessarily a bad thing to do if you're sober and she's had something to drink to refrain from sex. Gentlemanly, in its own way.
/r/seduction19/03/12 02:43 AM
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You've got the wrong idea about this, period. While it's very easy to make judgments on your character based on your response to this man, I'm going to withdraw from that. All I'm going to say is, everyone has to start somewhere.
/r/seduction19/03/12 02:39 AM
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I... I think I got something in my eye...
/r/seduction18/03/12 04:35 PM
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This. She handed it to you, it's up to you to make it into something. Don't worry about saying any certain thing, don't worry about having the right stages here or there, just HAVE FUN and KINO. That's literally it. It'll feel right if you do it right, just assume attraction and HAVE FUN. You're both interested in one another, you don't really need a seduction community to tell you what's right in that case, because the two of you can just feel it and go along with it.
/r/seduction18/03/12 04:35 PM
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True enough.
/r/seduction14/02/12 06:00 PM
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That's because it practically exists already. Women call it 'day to day life'. And Cosmo.
/r/seduction14/02/12 05:54 PM
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THIS. This is completely right. Most of the time you'll be talking to a lot of girls and you won't feel the need to continue after you've reached a certain point. Not to worry- one of these days you're going to meet someone who is going to challenge you. Who is going to be unlike most girls you've met before. This girl will kindle your interest, and make you more curious than any other girl you've met, and that's when you'll feel it- addiction to something other than the chase.
/r/seduction06/02/12 07:05 AM
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OP, I have a suggestion for you. Forget Mystery, forget all the terminology, forget acting like you are the center of the universe, forget being an alpha male. TRYING to act like all this is what gives the 'pick-up' community a bad name- the douchebags out there who wait to 'execute the technique of giving a compliment' etc. etc. A lot of sleazy assholes give the 'pick-up artist' name the negative name that society sees it as. That's why a lot of men who are good with women keep on saying "you'r…
/r/seduction17/01/12 10:05 PM
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Bro, I think you mad.
/r/seduction11/01/12 04:30 PM
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There are a lot of people out there who would take one look at your post and go "god dammit man that's not whats its about dude its supposed to be a happy healthy thing its ok to care about her sometimes man you got it all wrong youre just being a douche" Fuck all of them. You're right.
/r/seduction23/12/11 05:22 PM
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The key is to stop caring so much. If you stop focusing on what people think of every little action you do, suddenly, things don't matter so much to you anymore, and you can just focus on YOU having fun and enjoying yourself and you won't appear so uptight about things.
/r/seduction19/12/11 02:55 PM
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How many times when you're walking down the street do you think "God I can't talk to anyone that would be so weird"? How many times has a stranger talked to you in a situation like that? How many times did you find that as weird as you would have expected? Also, it says something that an attractive person walking up to you and talking to you out of the blue is a lot more acceptable than an unattractive person walking up to you and saying the exact same thing in the exact same way.
/r/seduction18/12/11 05:03 PM
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Believe me, I've got picky standards and I've learned to get over the one-itis. You HAVE to believe there is someone else. You have to talk to other girls. The validation you get from them will serve to alleviate the one-itis.
/r/seduction05/12/11 05:26 AM
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This. What you need to learn right now is one of the huge obstacles of learning pickup, and that's learning how to 'next' a girl. You may or may not have heard about the concepts of one-itis or GFTOW, but I'll go over them real quick here. One-itis is when you get stuck on one girl in particular and don't realize that there are probably fifty more of these girls who will make you feel the exact same way. GFTOW is, when you have one-itis, you should go out and Go Fuck Ten Other Women, and then se…
/r/seduction04/12/11 09:29 PM
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It makes you less afraid. Like the other guy posted, it teaches you not to put women on a pedestal. Definitely a learning experience, teaches you that women are human too.
/r/seduction15/11/11 06:21 PM
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breakup sex someone let me know what this marvelous thing is.
/r/seduction07/11/11 03:28 AM
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OK, I miscommunicated that one- making jokes when you're trying to be funny usually doesn't work.
/r/seduction04/11/11 05:15 PM
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The problem is that if you go up to a random girl you've never talked to before and you're like "I like your shoes", sometimes it's really easy to tell that you're just looking to start a convo. It's like Mystery said: "I like your shoes." "No you don't, you're attracted to me." So if she's not that into you at first, that might be a problem. Also, this is something that's bothered me for a while, and they mentioned it in Conquer Your Campus. "When do I execute a compliment..." Compliments aren'…
/r/seduction04/11/11 04:37 PM
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I am playing this right now. Upvote for you.
/r/seduction25/10/11 07:57 PM
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My heart. It reaches out painfully for this guy.
/r/seduction19/10/11 03:21 PM
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I can fap to this.
/r/seduction05/10/11 07:41 PM
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Oh of course! But my argument is that while the person honestly believes that they're helping, they're not. When your friend has to say "hey blah blah blah thinks you're cute" it gets some people to say "well... why didn't he tell me himself..?"
/r/seduction29/09/11 04:23 AM
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No offense to you, but it didn't seem in your text that you've actually tried to physically move further to initiate sex. Am I wrong? Perhaps she just needs to be guided through every step...
/r/seduction29/09/11 02:19 AM
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Thank you. I have to agree with you, no matter what situation it is or how you react this is almost a DLV when someone does this to you. Your frame could say that you obviously do not need someone else to middle-school style that shit and say the girl's cute, but when someone does it anyway it's just annoying.
/r/seduction29/09/11 02:02 AM
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This is very nice. You almost cause her to forget it consciously, but remember it unconsciously- quite the bonus.
/r/seduction29/09/11 02:00 AM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction29/09/11 01:59 AM
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^ This. In the beginning, it works so well to just focus on NOT DLVing.
/r/seduction27/09/11 05:22 PM
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Thank you for being mature. But what if she's NOT bored as hell with him and is actually very happy? Picture this. OP makes a move. She rejects it. They now have to live together. And since girls practically share everything, the other flatmates will PROBABLY be on the other girls' side. Risk-reward.
/r/seduction21/09/11 02:46 PM
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Just focus on having fun. seriously, this should be a cardinal rule somewhere. Don't focus too much of meeting someone, just focus on having fun. Things will come to you.
/r/seduction21/09/11 02:37 PM
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Protein before you drink (like meat or whatnot), also, try never to mix with energy drinks.
/r/seduction21/09/11 02:32 PM
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IMO, fuck fraternities. You can live without them.
/r/seduction21/09/11 02:31 PM
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edit: this guy deletes his posts because he didn't know who was responding to him? and I get downvoted? tsk.
/r/seduction21/09/11 02:28 PM
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Kudos on having the balls to do this, but this could have really turned out to be creeper-ish... sounds like you got to the sex part real fast...
/r/seduction20/09/11 07:36 PM
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I've shat where I've eaten before (Not literally, mind you) but it was kept very casual. Then again, my work was kind of ... different
/r/seduction14/09/11 01:53 AM
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Don't. Seriously. Just, don't.
/r/seduction14/09/11 01:19 AM
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GFTOW.
/r/seduction07/09/11 04:18 PM
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WHO ARE YOU? I feel like we have so similar thoughts about these sort of things and the more we talk the more we can find out about the opposite gender. These sort of interactions need to happen more.
/r/seduction06/09/11 05:50 PM
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Your responses are equally as therapeutic for me. I have a hard time shaking the fact that girls indeed too get nervous and have desires for guys who aren't mindblowingly hot. Hell, when I get nervous I get this ridiculous belief that the girls I talk to have NO attraction whatsoever to me, even if they could be crushing hard.
/r/seduction06/09/11 05:33 PM
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Honey, guys getting stupid nervous about this shit defines why subreddits such as this exist. Sigh...
/r/seduction06/09/11 05:12 PM
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Was I the only one that thought "I wonder if this is in joking retaliation to this? I've been on Reddit too long. lol
/r/seduction06/09/11 05:00 PM
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It's a bit tricky. If he says, for example, "no there are no other girls haha" that lowers his value a bit, for it demonstrates a lack of preselection. But if he says "yeah haha I don't remember whose number this is so many girls text me" a girl could just lose interest. Now that's at an extreme, but it's an example of something a little too cocky. Perhaps something less cocky while still maintaining that frame and then throwing in a little "just kidding" would work perfectly. Honestly, though, …
/r/seduction06/09/11 03:08 PM
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Let's call it a bit of both. She's still gonna react if you fail the shit test, whether she knows it's one or not.
/r/seduction06/09/11 02:51 PM
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I remember now. I did read the Mystery Method and Mystery DOES talk about Style a lot. Thanks for the correction.
/r/seduction04/09/11 02:33 AM
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wouldn't you say SO MUCH of the material, even most, in the community today originates from Mystery? People may be building off what he said but the very foundations of practically everything comes from Mystery, I've noticed.
/r/seduction04/09/11 01:39 AM
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When you say "transformation," how did you start off? Who were the first mPUAs you talked to, what made you change from "no game" to whatever you were today?
/r/seduction03/09/11 05:37 PM
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Related: Ten Hour Rule
/r/seduction31/08/11 02:40 PM
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"TotallyInappropriate"
/r/seduction30/08/11 02:28 PM
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looks at username Successful troll is successful.
/r/seduction30/08/11 02:14 PM
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The same exact way. No, really. It's just a lot easier since there's no AA.
/r/seduction29/08/11 03:46 PM
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