Cliques form quickly - usually in about 2-3 weeks. Invest hard in your social life at the beginning of the school year, especially if you can catch up later on school, moving, etc. An hour building your social circle now is worth thirty hours in November.
Not all friends are created equal. One of the principles of Social Circle Mastery (created by Braddock - a man who became a college legend himself) is that "value connectors" and "social connectors" are hugely important to introduce you to beautiful women and to help you build a lifestyle that desirable women want to be part of. You'll even have women hitting on you!
(There's no way I can do justice to all of the Social Circle Mastery concepts in this article. If you're not good with the different kinds of connectors and how to spot them and influence them, then just do this: Try to make friends with guys who are very social and make you look cool and don't hit on every beautiful woman you see. Attractive women tend to be friends with other attractive women - keep some as friends so they can set you up with their friends all year.
Another breakthrough from Braddock in the Social Circle Mastery DVDs is that you are - in many ways - the sum of the five people you spend the most time with. College is not like a nightclub, where everyone is anonymous. Anyone you meet on campus will know someone who knows someone who knows you. Expect women to know (or find out) who you are and what crowd you hang out in, and expect them to look at you differently based on what they know.
That doesn't mean dumping your old friends. But Braddock is right (the man speaks from experience) when he says that to be a master on campus, you need to know how to manage your perception. And that sometimes means different friends for different things.
Also, do whatever it takes early in the school year to set up your logistics for later. I was talking with Nick Hoss (who does most of our college game training) about this the other day. E.g., in a lot of courses, you can sit where you want on the first day but wherever you sit, you're stuck there for the whole semester. If this is the case for you, sit next to the hot girl. I don't care how freaking awkward it is when you climb over 12 people to get to the empty seat beside her. In a week, no one will remember. But you'll be next to her every day for months.
In sum...
You're only in college or university once. It's the single best opportunity most men ever have to date a lot of beautiful women. When I look at feedback forms from Love Systems training, one very common thought is: "I wish I knew all of this when I was in college."
Not "when I was younger". Not "5 years ago". No - it's specifically "when I was in college". Because men who have experienced the Love Systems transformation know how completely ridiculous their life would have been in college with Love Systems skills. So take action!
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