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look up how to do the 'hub'.
/r/seduction10/06/16 07:04 PM
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Just more infeilds and variety in general. Loud clubs. dates. Long interactions. Different styles of game.
/r/seduction20/04/16 01:40 AM
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Sweet, looking forward to your work. Consider doing an AMA here sometime, great way to get exposure. Your old colleuges Brad and Julien have done AMAs here.
/r/seduction17/04/16 10:39 PM
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What the? I didn't know you were alive and kicking. I didn't you still did PUA stuff. After you left RSD Tyler made an announcement that you are no longer doing anything pick up related.
/r/seduction14/04/16 01:22 PM
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yes, everyone does. within the first month implanted hair falls out and new grows in. i have a big scar on the donor area lol. i just tell girls i had brain surgery lol at first. though i eventuality tell them i had the tranplant.
/r/seduction17/12/15 02:54 AM
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It I started seeing new growth within 4 months, and it was enough to cover up a lot of the balding look so I was pretty happy. But to fully grow in? 8-11 months. It was a bit botched, some if it doesn't look too natural, which is another reason why I don't recommend john diep, but it good enough to get the job done. It costed like 4k but this is during the recession. might be more expensive now. Again, I love mine, I love being able to date younger girls. but I may regret in a decade. Listen to …
/r/seduction17/12/15 12:53 AM
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also, check if you can reinforce the middle, the middle will go eventually if the sides are down
/r/seduction16/12/15 03:06 PM
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i just went online and found them on my area, got a quote from each. i went with john diep who i would Not reccomend. the day of my surgery, he asked for more money to implant any extra follicles they got from my donor area that wasnt in the quote. Otherwise they would be thrown away i later learned that all surgeons implant all follicles taken from the donor site, since they are fucking precious, we only have a limited number of them.
/r/seduction16/12/15 01:45 AM
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i have. i love mines, love love love it. but in 10 to 15 years ill need another one lol, and that's if the sides of my head dont get bald, otherwise I'm fucking screwed. as you continue baldibg hair transplants begin to look obvious and bad. like bad plastic surgery. Im betting on stem cell hair transplants beeing a thing in 10 to 15 years.
/r/seduction15/12/15 12:39 PM
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grinded bottom row off? what did that mean? and congrats, i bet you're really liking forward to gaming
/r/seduction15/12/15 12:35 PM
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you may be acting lame but good looks and nice personality
/r/seduction18/10/15 09:29 PM
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lol i didn't say anything about self help. that's probably due to then running out of stuff to say about game.
/r/seduction15/10/15 09:09 AM
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I do them. I only reccomend them for those who are high on income, low on time. 2k isnt too much to me, when i have about an extra 20k each year. I used to do RSD but not anymore. In the last couple years they have gotten lazy. Instructors goofing off during bootcamp, and having the assistants and interns run the program. Tyler treating his hotseat as a medium for him to record more speeches for his youtube channel, instead of showing the god dam infeilds. Sometimes you sign up for a program wit…
/r/seduction14/10/15 11:29 PM
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in that case, keep thinking about it. let it change you. If you repress it can manifest in unhealthy ways, which can be triggered at inappropriate times. keep thinking about it and eventually you'll get fatigued and board of it. but if you try to forget about it the pain will actually last longer because you never to process it
/r/seduction12/10/15 12:25 AM
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so you molested a girl? i really have no idea what to say.
/r/seduction11/10/15 10:14 PM
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As a UCSB grad, I know that feel.
/r/seduction13/09/15 08:38 AM
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For a majority of people, bootcamps are for people in their late 20's who are high on income low on time. The reason why these bootcamps are so expensive is that a lot of the wealthy got really really wealthy in the last decade. So 2k for someone making 6 figures isn't a whole lot. Guys in their early 20's would do better to find wings and develop a lifestyle.
/r/seduction18/06/15 09:20 AM
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Then post infield videos of non flash game? Actually what's been going on with love systems? I think they were the most active pickup company at some point.
/r/seduction04/06/15 01:52 AM
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There are plenty of 'wingmen' who get laid 3+/month using cold approach, they aren't hard to find.
/r/seduction02/06/15 08:41 PM
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It means she doesn't want to have sex on the first date and never see the person again. She wants 'normal' dating.
/r/seduction18/05/15 12:38 AM
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I'm all the way in california. I would def recommend finding people, anyone, willing to meet up with you. You can try there. Try a bunch of the pua forums. Simple pickup forums. RSD forums. PU facebook groups. I think PU is the only community where people are supposed to be honest about your social skills.
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:22 PM
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If you're like me, you may have a mild form of aspergers or autism. I was able to see how I was putting people off after hundreds of interactions. Maybe thousands. First off, make friends. Find people who have a shared interest. There are tons of people in the 'seduction' community you can make friends with. Ask them for their feedback. Even at my most socially blind, I was still able to make friends. They were also socially awkward. 'anime club, magic club, etc.' but they were people who I coul…
/r/seduction06/05/15 06:50 AM
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id like one two!!
/r/seduction12/03/15 03:21 PM
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supposedly Julien molested a bunch of girls in Japan and Tyler raped a stripper.
/r/seduction15/12/14 08:33 PM
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I meant /r/TwoXChromosomes . Although they may not have the most detailed advice, just from looking around there. Now info on how one conducts themself as a women is really intriguing to me. I mean, the average guy or 'average redditor' would be like 'just be a girl hurrr durrr'. Or even guys who are good as women, who probably just go out to clubs a lot probably may not notice it, cuz women who tend to go to clubs a lot tend to have their flirt game down. But from my perspective, there is diffe…
/r/seduction10/12/14 07:43 AM
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I think maybe twox or askwomen. Perhaps find women irl who are good with men and ask them. If you were in college i'd def reccomend joining a sorority. Glancing at /r/fPUA, there isn't a whole lot of amazing advice.
/r/seduction10/12/14 01:22 AM
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Amazing. I don't use tinder, but reading that was great because it reflected a deep understandng of principles.
/r/seduction27/09/14 09:30 AM
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Cuz our parents made us study instead of do sports and party. Sexy indian guys I know do as well as sexy guys of any race. You probably arent that sexy. . . Yet ;). Or maybe you're in alabama or some racist state Source: Am Indian.
/r/seduction21/08/14 08:24 AM
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It doesn't matter what you say, if she's horny she's horny. So get better at making her horny. Get better at making out and touching her. How you do it is a preview of what it's like to sleep with you. OR. Maybe you need to let go of sex of an outcome. And be guinuinly interested in having come over to your place to hangout, and if sex goes that way, cool. She may have logistical issues. Her friends are there. She's too far away. Needs a ride back in the morning. Find out what her logistics are …
/r/seduction21/03/14 11:57 PM
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I was in the exact same situation. Most people actually switch their friends' circle 2-4 times throughout their college years. Try -Living in a social house, people who party. -Living in the freshmen dorms. -Join a buttload of clubs. As many as possible. -Be honest about yourself. You didn't meet people your first year, and now you're going out to meet people. The awesome will invite you to hangouts and parties. -Talk to girls everywhere, mention what you're doing later (some club) and invite th…
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:11 AM
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I'm not Julien, but 17-22 I would highly reccomend isla vista, ca ; santa barbara. Cheap and full of hot women.
/r/seduction08/04/13 04:06 AM
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If you're in a large uni, there are probably are social circles you haven't discovered. Find them.
/r/seduction19/02/13 02:56 PM
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What's the best way to see if your friends and acquaintances are down to be FWB? So far I just tell them I'm into that, and that I'm comfortable being in that situation with them. But none seem to follow up.
/r/seduction05/01/13 08:04 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction02/01/13 09:38 AM
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Cool
/r/seduction02/01/13 05:52 AM
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How long into the movie do you put the hand on thigh? How long into do you do you make things heavier? Do you even finish the movie? What movies do you pick?
/r/seduction02/01/13 01:30 AM
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How did you get to know the staff?
/r/seduction02/01/13 01:26 AM
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lol dunno
/r/seduction22/11/12 09:00 PM
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I . . .can't argue with that
/r/seduction22/11/12 08:00 PM
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Well, I think the generalization is to compliment her on what she does, not things that are inherent to her.
/r/seduction18/10/12 01:27 AM
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ah, just go to hulu, they're all up there.
/r/seduction18/09/12 03:56 AM
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hulu
/r/seduction18/09/12 12:39 AM
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They're listed. The only 'famous' one was Cajun.
/r/seduction18/09/12 12:39 AM
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They're on Hulu, and the episodes have the same title as the contestants. There's only 3 seasons, so it shouldn't be too hard to sort.
/r/seduction18/09/12 12:38 AM
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I think I did, whoops if I didn't.
/r/seduction18/09/12 12:38 AM
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hulu, it's in field footage
/r/seduction18/09/12 12:37 AM
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hmm, so 5 bucks for around an hour, not bad.
/r/seduction17/09/12 06:45 AM
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There tends to be a few super friendly people at every party who would be down to talk all night. Just go back to them if you run into awkward moments.
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:15 AM
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Nice, i'd love a full field report.
/r/seduction10/09/12 07:47 AM
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Cliques form quickly - usually in about 2-3 weeks. Invest hard in your social life at the beginning of the school year, especially if you can catch up later on school, moving, etc. An hour building your social circle now is worth thirty hours in November. There is truth to this. But A LOT of people who miss the 2-3 weeks thinks it's 'impossible' make new friends, and this couldn't be farther from the truth. Yes clicks form and every day it gets a bit harder, but keep in mind that people are cont…
/r/seduction07/09/12 11:22 PM
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That sounds like butthurt. She wouldn't say that to unless she was interested and knew he could take it. She didn't mean any harm, it was a playful tease. She probably won't even remember she said that 5 minutes later if you continued the conversation. Knowing this, you could: -Move on (default for any shit test), change subject, act like it never happened. 'whaaa. so anyways'. 'Relevant, so anyways'. Cold read. Random story. -Have fun with it, be agreeing and exemplifying. That was what she was…
/r/seduction27/08/12 03:30 AM
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Don't know, but teenagers are much more open to approaches than older people. Because teenagers don't approach, but creepy old guys do.
/r/seduction19/08/12 05:30 AM
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Walk away.
/r/seduction19/08/12 04:26 AM
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That's fine if you're looking to casually date some girls. But for long term, most guys who largely go after looks will have fucked up lives eventually. Especially if he get's married, the woman has a lot of power at that point.
/r/seduction18/08/12 07:52 PM
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lol. No offense, but your reading comprehension is pretty awful. One day he talked about his father’s funeral the year before.
/r/seduction18/08/12 07:48 PM
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Well, he lost him over a year ago at the time of the test. He is going to tie feelings of this father to some girl he's dating in high school. He needs to be seeking comfort in family and close friends, not some high school girlfriend. Maybe if she was 1000% comfortable and committed. Anything less than that, she needs to stay out. But that's a huge feat for a high school kid.
/r/seduction18/08/12 04:51 PM
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Pro-tip: You can and should shit test women. Sometimes it's the only way to know if you're dealing with some psycho. Don't feel motivated to shit test women? Look at the many many divorce threads where men's lives were fucking ruined because the woman turned out to be unstable and/or some psycho. I feel the last story, what that women did was needed to be done. That guys had some issues, and filling them with that girl would have fucked him up even more.
/r/seduction18/08/12 02:41 AM
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lol, I cringed. I mean, it would be awesome if it took off, but it's pretty ridiculous to think women would actually buy this shit.
/r/seduction15/08/12 09:42 PM
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Well, I would never got to where I am if I had that attitude. I'm a feedback addict, the more the better. I don't give a fuck if someone is being disrespectful. 'OH Noes, paper instead of ACTUAL words!! Somone I don't know INSULTS ME?? NOOOES!'
/r/seduction15/08/12 09:40 PM
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Ubuntu ಠ‿ಠ
/r/seduction15/08/12 09:37 PM
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Whoa, there are still AMAs here. Somehow I'm not hearing about them. I'm subscribbed, and in the past the AMA annoucements would make my front page. I haven't seen that for the last 3. I'm guessing people don't upvote the shit outta the annoucment like they used to do.
/r/seduction12/08/12 11:31 PM
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Just what I'm looking for
/r/seduction12/08/12 06:17 PM
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ahh. Yeah, get some dude or dudette who likes going to parties and take them with you.
/r/seduction05/08/12 11:48 AM
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It seems you think have to impress people for them to like you. People start the get the vibe that you need something from them. Try holding back on the stuff you do to make yourself life of the party. Instead, focus on just being cheerful and being able to keep an enjoyable conversation going. How do you get into parties of people you don't know? I find it helps, a lot, if you have a good friend to stick by you throughout the party.
/r/seduction05/08/12 11:23 AM
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doesn't matter, doorstep fuck
/r/seduction30/07/12 12:05 AM
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Well, it looks like skills in reading people are at a begirners stage. Start slowly kino escalating, and see how she reacts and initiates back. Look up more intimate forms of kino. Admit that you think she is really awesome and is glad she came out tonight, then mention you're trying really hard not to kiss her. If she smiles, lean in a bit and pause for a sec, then go for the kiss. I'm not sure if it's fool proof, but there will be plenty of opportunities for you to have solid evidence if she's…
/r/seduction15/07/12 08:56 PM
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If nonsexual comments were masturbatable, I would need to be in my bunk.
/r/seduction18/06/12 06:51 AM
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Good stuff, but I don't think it should be a foundation except. just knowing your local city's main website for events (it is a great feeling to know all of the options for what is going on in a weekend, and people are impressed with someone who offers unique suggestions that break the mold and jolt people out of their comfortable bar/setting) Develop passions, have new experience, have new friends, do stuff. Talk about you. Talk about them. This should be your bread and butter for conversations…
/r/seduction17/06/12 02:19 AM
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The way you carry yourself actually does affect your physical appearance. Chin up, strong eye contact, raised upper eye lids, happyness that raises your cheeks.
/r/seduction15/06/12 12:46 PM
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=2+girls+teach+sex
/r/seduction26/05/12 09:22 PM
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"Hey, quick question: is it weird that one of my balls hangs lower than the other two?" "HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA!!!! cricket noise HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAA
/r/seduction22/05/12 05:43 AM
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Some dating tv shows like blind date might help.
/r/seduction18/05/12 03:57 AM
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This was it for me. Also, I had some misconceptions, that high value people are really judgmental. Now this shouldn't matter at all, but when you're esteem isn't developed yet it can be hard. So it's good to keep in mind that most high value people don't compare themselves to others, everyone is just people. I remember when I got a bit of value and I notice some people would get nervous and I would be like 'no it's cool! I'm just a person :)'. Actually I do things to help people become stifled a…
/r/seduction06/05/12 08:55 PM
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Most of the seddit stuff, but there are areas where we wouldn't be able to help you. Women have to emphasize more on screening men, finding out which ones won't go psyco, clingy, etc. Then after they do find a quality guy, he probably has a lot of options. Some of those guys may just go for the hotter girl. Others may look for other stuff. Take improv to help you bring out your humor and lose yourself in the moment.
/r/seduction08/04/12 11:36 AM
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what was the least attractive person you asked out? describe her physically
/r/seduction08/04/12 11:31 AM
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He said he would be down to do an AMA here later on.
/r/seduction27/03/12 12:33 AM
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Cool!
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:02 PM
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props! TofuTofu: LOL, I like you. High five. HB-CSI is locked and loaded. I go back to HB-pornstar and talk some more. She's extremely receptive to my advances - no resistance at all. I'm How was that transition? Did you just say 'i'm going to check on my friend' or something?
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:18 AM
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Cool. So you just meet up with them every now and then?
/r/seduction17/03/12 12:04 AM
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Awesome. What's your relationship with RSD btw? I know you've meet up with the guys a few times in the past.
/r/seduction16/03/12 09:32 PM
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Guys, learn from my mistake. When they say strong eye contact, they mean with the other persons eyes, not there genitals. Do wonder my last job interview went so badly.
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:56 AM
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Girl, let me hit on your otherwise I'll cry. If I could take you on a date, my heart with fly. But if you're not into it, i'll say bye
/r/seduction11/03/12 03:53 AM
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My cube game is getting girls to go play my game cube while I eat them out!
/r/seduction11/03/12 03:50 AM
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Hmm, what people, either real life or characters, would you recommend people watch for getting vibing and making friends?
/r/seduction11/03/12 12:27 AM
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Awesome, thanks man.
/r/seduction11/03/12 12:04 AM
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How do you make more friends on a campus setting? I usually invite people to stuff I'm doing throughout the week, club events, and/or get-togethers that I throw. Is that basically it? How do I deepen friendships that I already have. I go to hangouts, but I don't really feel that I have a strong vibe with some of the people at the hangouts, a lot of the times because they've spent so much more time together than I have with them. For example, they're all in the same major and in the same classes,…
/r/seduction10/03/12 08:48 PM
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This covers about 5% of the amazing benefits of drama, theater, and improv
/r/seduction02/03/12 10:33 PM
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YES. GROW KOJOPOLLS. GROW!
/r/seduction28/02/12 03:38 AM
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Something is wrong here. How old is everyone involved? You don't have to take him aside. Just straight-up tell them that you're uncomfortable with the way they are acting around you. If it keeps happening, get new friends and coworks.
/r/seduction25/02/12 09:55 AM
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Awesome, thanks man. Love and appreciate the awesomeness you spread on seddit.
/r/seduction21/02/12 07:48 PM
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This blew my mind. I never send two texts in a row when it comes to plans, even when I know she's still into me. if she's flakes, I don't think of it as a big deal, nothing's really a big deal to me. I feel that this attitude has given me a lot success, girls can't go as far as they want with me and just have fun in the moment, rather than worry about what's gonna happen next, or if it's gonna get weird. Would you send a text like this for these situations? I tell a girl about a party I'm going …
/r/seduction21/02/12 03:00 PM
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I still don't get something. Replying with the line seems sorta reaction seeking. I mean, I believe it works but I still don't understand why. Sending two texts in a row without a response inbetween seems low value.
/r/seduction21/02/12 02:47 PM
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You can say that about most skills. Hard to get in the 1%, easy to get into the 10%
/r/seduction21/02/12 07:29 AM
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Were you straight-up blunt about being FWB. Or were there some inbetween the line reading?
/r/seduction18/02/12 01:33 PM
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my sister is quitting her job to avoid this guy (she's a temp and he's a full-time employee, and the company is going out of its way to protect him). Wow. FUCK that guy. If I were her I would bring up some federal lawsuit or some shit but it's easy for me to say that sitting behind my computer.
/r/seduction31/01/12 06:47 AM
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And on the right women. So might as well try anything you want. I mean, why not?
/r/seduction28/01/12 12:00 PM
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I read this, then looked at the paged, then LOLd
/r/seduction28/01/12 11:54 AM
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That. . .just makes me feel very disappointed.
/r/seduction27/01/12 10:41 PM
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yeah, my bullshit senses jumped up. Well, it's not really senses. It's just blatant.
/r/seduction27/01/12 10:39 PM
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Dam, I'm late to the party. But right now I'm working on projecting my personality and exploring my personality. Tips for doing that?
/r/seduction19/01/12 12:45 PM
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The balance is you're not thinking of the balance, you're just doing what you want to do. From a place of doing what you truely want do it, not reacting to social pressure and such.
/r/seduction19/01/12 09:04 AM
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making fun of the top voted comment here
/r/seduction17/01/12 11:42 PM
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no no no. It's because she flys under the radar! That's obviously the only reason why she can do that! /noob
/r/seduction17/01/12 10:54 PM
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check my post history.
/r/seduction17/01/12 11:55 AM
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Yup. The girls you are looking for have personality. How do you develop personality? By unstifling. Everyone is born naturally unstifled, but around puberty or earlier, people become stifeled because they are afraid of making 'mistakes' and are being hindered by social pressure. In every situation, look deep within of what you want to do, and do it. A lot of the times you will come off looking like a moron. Because you are doing something for the first time (in this case, exploring a faucet of y…
/r/seduction17/01/12 11:55 AM
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Yeah she's pretty awesome. If I were a straight girl I'd definitely be charmed by her lol. Lets get some more comments in here, I don't think she would do one unless there was a ton of interest.
/r/seduction17/01/12 08:46 AM
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It seems a lot of PUAs have a path to develop healthy attitude towards women. Unlike some redditors who feel like they know everything there is to know about women, just from sitting at their computer. God, those friendzoned posts. . . . But yeah, being a part of the party scene at my college campus, I'm sorta familiar with the shit someone these guys try to pull off. It's way worse in Asian countries though, start watching about 35 minutes in http://glogger.mobi/comment/domcomment.php?filePrefi…
/r/seduction11/01/12 01:51 AM
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Are there any mPUAs who do it. I feel that slut shaming is going to limit their success with women, most guys I know who are good with women don't slut shame. Most of the guy I know who do it are those who can't get laid. Probably due to them being angry that these women don't have sex with them, they need an outlet. Or, women who are jealous of other woman. 'The only reason why the guy chose that girl over her, it's because she puts out.'
/r/seduction11/01/12 01:21 AM
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Good stuff, and a foundational concept for many PUAs. I remember in his field report book, he had a conversation with a girl who looked down upon promiscuous women, it was similar to what the 13 year old was talking about.
/r/seduction11/01/12 01:17 AM
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I laughed my ass off when I read that.
/r/seduction10/01/12 03:13 AM
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It needed to be said. . .
/r/seduction10/01/12 03:13 AM
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Invite all of them. If you feel they might flake, you don't know them enough for things to get hairy.
/r/seduction08/01/12 09:57 PM
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Good advice, thanks.
/r/seduction05/01/12 09:01 PM
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Like what people traditionally view as a boyfriend girlfriend couple. The people you date are from your social circle right? It seems when that happens, there is a higher expectation for an exclusive relationship to happen.
/r/seduction05/01/12 08:30 PM
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How do you manage expectations? Most of the girls I've run into seem to be looking for an exclusive relationship.
/r/seduction05/01/12 08:32 AM
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You obviously have never met the Spiderfan.
/r/seduction03/01/12 11:17 PM
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oh, that's just my pick up persona.
/r/seduction03/01/12 08:13 PM
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what? It's all true.
/r/seduction03/01/12 06:53 PM
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woot woot! CAN'T WAIT
/r/seduction01/01/12 11:19 PM
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Check out how youtube channel, a lot of good free stuff
/r/seduction01/01/12 04:32 AM
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Awesome!!! Perhaps afterwards, you can do an IAMA like this one http://redd.it/ibvyv
/r/seduction31/12/11 09:27 PM
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Whoa, how did you find this thread? Anyways I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to see the long ass stuff from your videos. I love making fast friends and bonding very quickly with people. I have a huge appreciate for the seemingly more 'boring' aspects of bonding. I feel it's most important part; about being genuine, not about being super entertaining all the time. I think posting the extended editions would help spread word about your work. The 'seduction' community is pretty large and internet savvy, if t…
/r/seduction31/12/11 01:20 PM
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I understand you're frustration, you just need someone to break things down a little more, check out my other comment. Ask questions.
/r/seduction31/12/11 06:01 AM
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I have ton for this. But basically whenever you guys have a good vibe, you don't need to think of what to say, it just keeps flowing. But what about before that, when you just met the person. Talk about yourself. Talk about what's interesting to you, your hobbies. Well first ask them what they're hobbies are. And transition it to your world. But what about if you guys don't have a good vibe, or do have a good vibe but aren't in a social mood. Another thing is don't ask questions, make statements…
/r/seduction31/12/11 06:00 AM
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Yes I'm sure, I know a few guys who are good at getting comfort and rapport quickly, the way this guy played with that women remind me of them and how they engage people. Maybe it was staged. Regardless, he has a really good characteristics for getting comfort in a short amount of time. Focus on his character. His emotional states. The assumptions he's making. How he engages her. Why is he saying the things he is saying. I would love to see transition stuff too, we should contact him and ask him…
/r/seduction28/12/11 09:40 PM
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I think if you're at an intermediate level, all the important parts are in the video. to a beginner it would be hard to explain what to look for. But try this. Pause the video at certain parts and ask yourself what would you do next. Then unpause and see what the guy does next.
/r/seduction28/12/11 08:38 PM
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You can learn A LOT from that video.
/r/seduction28/12/11 08:35 PM
2

It is for me ;]
/r/seduction28/12/11 12:10 AM
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Yup. Stronger frame wins.
/r/seduction27/12/11 05:12 PM
2

Disney must have some kinda of hyper attractiveness training. I mean, look at the guys who come from the disney channel. JUSTIN TIMBERLAKE
/r/seduction27/12/11 04:42 AM
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you can however, look at actors and there interviews from real life. They're not acting, but there body language good
/r/seduction27/12/11 04:41 AM
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I would imagine not so much for r/seduction. There is a term 'the self is always coming through'. As long as you get rid of your low-status esteem issues, a girl's attraction for you can only increase. If you can establish a sexual relationship early on, you will get rid of a lot of low status behaviors. And she will have this imprint of you which ignores many low-status behaviors. But for guys who still haven't fleshed out their esteem issues, being around someone who you like over an extended …
/r/seduction20/12/11 02:49 PM
1

Good advice. I would ad another point. Girls like small but intricate/expressive movements.
/r/seduction16/12/11 04:36 PM
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Mirroring is for comfort, not attraction
/r/seduction15/12/11 10:34 AM
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Restraining order. Now.
/r/MensRights14/12/11 12:07 PM
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A better one would be a woman who has cosmetic surgery on her vagina to make it look better.
/r/MensRights14/12/11 11:48 AM
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I agree with everything above, I just don't think this article provides a strong argument about the prevalence of rape culture.
/r/seduction14/12/11 11:45 AM
2

Even the girls at 2x criticized the article
/r/seduction14/12/11 11:42 AM
1

Yup, walking away can spark a girls' attraction.
/r/seduction13/12/11 01:50 AM
2

Didn't we already have one with those guys? Either way, DO IT!!!!
/r/seduction12/12/11 03:05 PM
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wtf is this 'just be friends' shit even mean? This video seems to imply the following. -That if there is some attraction going on between the two, and if it wasn't there, they would affect the quality of the friendship. Probably only to those with alterer motives, and a lot of desperation. I would say for most people this isn't true. It's about the vibe and shared experience between the two. If one of my hot girl friends was a guy, I would still be friends with that person because that person is…
/r/seduction12/12/11 03:11 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Is there anything I should look for when predicting how they would react? I have experience, but I haven't developed what those guys have, rapid playful sexual escalation. I think my kino escalation is ok. If she's into me, I can sexual escalate. If it's on, I can playfully grab her butt. However, the guys I mentioned, it didn't seem that it was on, it's just that level of sexual touching was normalized somehow.
/r/seduction09/12/11 11:37 PM
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How are some guys able to sexually escalate so quickly? I remember back in high school the 'cool' guys would regularly spank girls, and put their hands up their skirts. I remember this one guy. This one time Girls would go up to him and be like 'I like your chest" and poke him in the chest. And then he would be like 'hi, uh, i like your boob' and poke them in the boob. Laster on, I was like 'wtf', and one of the girls was like 'oh, it's funny, cuz he's socially awkward, and that's what a sociall…
/r/seduction09/12/11 05:09 AM
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I'm just not there yet. The mind can only think of 2-4 concepts at a time. After that, it's either in your instincts or isn't. I have a lot of issues with esteem, and it takes a lot of practice for me to rewire my head so that I can live in reality.
/r/seduction05/12/11 03:53 AM
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Only the losers.
/r/seduction03/12/11 08:26 PM
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Lol, sorry dude. I was making fun of as an inside joke between the other sedditors. I'm sure one of the other comments explained how off your perception of the who seduction thing is.
/r/seduction03/12/11 02:03 AM
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Exactly. No girls like sex. All the girls who ever had sex were tricked into it.
/r/seduction02/12/11 11:22 AM
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secret? It's two guys being fun and genuine. That's been known forever.
/r/seduction02/12/11 11:21 AM
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Guys, I wouldn't trust this guy unless he posts an academic email. This post seems to reek of bullshit.
/r/seduction01/12/11 11:21 PM
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yeah, maybe he said he felt the same way as a defensive measure
/r/seduction29/11/11 08:39 AM
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Wow. Well some guys with low self-esteem take not being sexually attracted to someone personally. You can tell by some of the friendzone posts on facebook. Maybe that's what was going on in his head.
/r/seduction28/11/11 09:26 PM
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Watch the Social Circle Game product from Love systems. It is EXACTLY what you need right now. It's really detailed about how to make and get into new social circles. One tip, in almost any social circle there are a few who are always down to make new friends more easily than the others. Figure out who these people are, and focus and the friendship between you and that person. Eventually the rest of the social circle will want to be close friends with you.
/r/seduction28/11/11 09:08 AM
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I end up ignoring them, not because I'm mean, but because I don't appreciate being treated like a cheap slut. I don't think girls who go for that sort of thing are cheap sluts. Some girls like courtship, some girls are too busy for that. Neither of them is a "prude" or a "slut". So when guys do things like that, it doesn't mean they think anything less of you, it's just that they're looking for something that may not necessarily align with what you're looking for. Tell us about the pump and dump…
/r/seduction28/11/11 09:02 AM
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which college do you go to? What city? With everyone's friend groups set in stone That mindset really fucked me up in college. It's not true, at all. You need to reframe that, fast friends are always possible. But it's hard to make connections at a bar. Look up your school's organizations/clubs and go to as many clubs as possible. Join as many sports as possible. Bring your 5 guy friends if you can. Have FUN as those events. Learn to be descriptive, describe the other clubs/sports to other peopl…
/r/seduction27/11/11 08:37 AM
1

Well yeah. No matter how much a girl is attracted to you, in general the guy has to make the first move.
/r/seduction18/11/11 08:54 PM
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You should look up the reddit user warlizard http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ihmu5/warlizard_the_natural_xpost_fromrbestof/ . He is very similar to you. Guy who never learned any techniques, was good at women by being genuine. Anyways, less arguing, more useful info. Those 135 upvotes are probably from your awesome advice, not the debates about what the pua community really is.
/r/seduction17/11/11 09:28 PM
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I don't think he's saying that. For some of us, verbally and physically escalating on a girl whose attracted is still hard.
/r/seduction17/11/11 09:23 PM
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how would you feel if some guy "attracted" you for your friendship. he sat at home making lists about how to do it. don't you think that's weird? Well, there were some guys who were being kinda clingy, or weirded out my other friends, never talked, stuff like that, and I didn't put much effort into hanging out with them. I wouldn't mind if someone was teaching someone how to be receptive, bring out their fun innerself, be socially calibrated, explain more normal people think, etc.
/r/seduction17/11/11 09:19 PM
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. In conversation, it came up that she likes to tie guys up and be in control and that she'd never be comfortable being submissive. I said, "I'm exactly the same way." So we never go How did you get her to talk about that?
/r/seduction17/11/11 01:35 PM
2

Can I get a Pm to your blog? How do people find your blog? In your transition, how do you go from friendly-friendly to man/woman/sexual stuff?
/r/seduction17/11/11 01:32 PM
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Excellent stuff! If I can't tell, I put them on the spot with physical affection. Usually, I'll either just hold their hand or maybe kiss them on the neck a few times when they hug me. If it wasn't clear before, this always makes it so one way or another. Again, If there is no attraction, I move on as if nothing happened and just let it be a friendship. Do the women ever get creeped out or feel awkward after? Should I add a few more points? Go for it, everything you've been dropping has been gol…
/r/seduction17/11/11 01:29 PM
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hmm, now that I think about it, whenever a girl has answered a phone in a similiar situation, she always said sorry. I thought it was unneccesary, but maybe that's the protocol for texting in situations like these.
/r/seduction01/11/11 09:22 PM
1

hmm in the video he only checks it once for a few seconds.
/r/seduction01/11/11 09:12 PM
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He did a pua iama here, look through the links on the right side. eh, what the heck, here it is http://redd.it/g4u45
/r/seduction28/10/11 03:12 AM
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I think it's awesome this movie showed reality for what it really is, instead of fulfilling the wants of the creators. Duckie was unintentionally being controlling and manipulative. Always hiding his intentions. He was a good guy, he just doesnt understand that forcing a connection results in the opposite effect.
/r/seduction28/10/11 03:11 AM
1

I think they give money back no matter what if requested?
/r/seduction22/10/11 11:40 PM
1

I think we should throw away the term alpha male. There are so many definitions attatched to it.
/r/seduction22/10/11 11:39 PM
1

all these responses are gold
/r/seduction21/10/11 09:55 PM
1

Awesome stuff. Good thread
/r/seduction21/10/11 09:52 PM
1

Assuming attracting is a principle to sharpen your traits, it's not just one static thing to assume.
/r/seduction18/10/11 07:10 AM
1

I would like to add art of charm. Very high quality stuff, covers everything.
/r/seduction14/10/11 08:15 AM
1

Finally, a place where people get it. It is so pathetic, have some self respect!
/r/seduction30/09/11 05:54 PM
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Another reason might be that you telegraphed interest, but didn't make a move. As a man, that's a pretty unattractive thing from a women's point of view. Either all or nothing. Maybe it might not seem like a big deal to some guys, but thing about the things you're telegraphing: Afraid of your sexuality. MAJOR turnoff. Not comfortable with yourself. Being very confident is a plus. But the bare minimum is that you have to be comfortable with yourself. Telegraphing interest without making a move sh…
/r/seduction30/09/11 05:45 PM
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Only like 5% of women do this. Well, it depends on how/where you meet your women.
/r/seduction29/09/11 01:50 AM
2

Compliance tests > IOI's
/r/seduction29/09/11 01:26 AM
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just be honest. Tell them that you want an EXCLUSIVE relationship. If they're not into that tell them to stop wasting your time, your time is valuable to you.
/r/seduction19/09/11 07:28 PM
2

That is some good stuff
/r/seduction17/09/11 02:31 PM
2

Theirs a concept called hoops or something. Basically, say stuff that's mildly sexual and see how they react. If it's good, bump it up a little. It's its bad, calibrate to their personality. I think Braddock talks about it in his humor audio, and Jeffy also mentions it in one of his videos.
/r/seduction16/09/11 05:08 PM
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10/10 on the title. You should file a sexual harassment claim against for all the shit she said to you. Seriously, don't let her get away with that shit. If she does it to you, she might do it to other people. She basically tried to get me to implicate myself by asking me what other stuff I said to women, and to how many women I said it to. I told her that I said things like that to almost every girl I knew They might use that shit against you. You should've pleaded the fifth. The fact that I ha…
/r/seduction16/09/11 05:06 PM
4

One of the best phrases in the community " you signed up for awkwardness"
/r/seduction15/09/11 02:47 AM
1

Spend 5-6x time going out to time spent reading material ratio
/r/seduction10/09/11 08:43 AM
2

This is like when someone watches a elite level BJJ player like BJ Penn dominate someone 'wow is it really that easy?'. I dunno dude, can you easily do that to another elite BJJ player? It may seem easy, but it took thousands of hours of work to get that skilled. Well, picking up chicks is different, because for a lot of guys it can really that easy without that much practice. But for a lot of guys, it will take a lot of hours to make it seem that 'easy'. I watched a few episodes of keys and spe…
/r/seduction09/09/11 02:41 AM
1

Brilliant
/r/seduction05/09/11 09:06 AM
1

That's a pretty good video, Gonna be watching the rest. Where did you find this?
/r/seduction05/09/11 09:06 AM
1

Hmm. extremely happy. Everything's all good. Hmmm this is hard. . . But being in this mood alone, I am able to display my best self better. A lot of the things I think about normally, I do automatically. I'm also oblivious to any external stuff that's going on. Everything that happens is win-win. Has nothing to do with excitement levels, although if very calm, can reach an excited level easily. Very comfortable with everything going around. Feeling easy. Playful, interactive. Actually, this vide…
/r/seduction04/09/11 07:58 PM
1

huh. I always thought state was just an extremly good mood
/r/seduction04/09/11 08:50 AM
2

Any plans for in-field footage? I learn way more from those than anything else besides in-person instruction. Tips for social circle game?
/r/seduction03/09/11 07:57 PM
5

It's the same when you tease girls, she's trying to keep up with you
/r/seduction03/09/11 07:40 PM
2

You can only control yourself. Say what's in your heart. There is nothing wrong with just having sex if that's what everyone wants. If she doesn't want, so be it.
/r/seduction03/09/11 06:24 AM
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You have my full support. There is wayyy more demand for in-feild videos than there is supply.
/r/seduction03/09/11 05:57 AM
1

Wow. omg.
/r/seduction03/09/11 05:55 AM
2

Yeah, a lot of the concepts that are considered 'new school', where discussed in teh video. They were always around, but it looks like Mystery saved his best stuff to those who paid to go to his workshops. Then Tyler used those concepts to promote RSD as a new way of thinking or whatever.
/r/seduction03/09/11 05:53 AM
1

it's on youtube somewhere. or look up 'put all rsd mastermind links here' and maybe a certain forum will have it.
/r/seduction03/09/11 05:51 AM
1

with your cock
/r/seduction03/09/11 05:47 AM
2

props, awesome advice as usual thedude
/r/seduction03/09/11 05:46 AM
1

1000 POINTS TO DNLMICKY!!!
/r/seduction03/09/11 05:44 AM
2

I see a trend with a delusional sense of self and success.
/r/seduction30/08/11 07:10 AM
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More like training wheels. They help develop instincts of how a conversation with a women should go. A lot of my conversations share the same principles of these 'routines'. They can't be made into routines because they are in the moment of whatever conversation I was having. Where as routines are like McDonalds or Starbucks, they are appeal to everyone while being not totally great.
/r/seduction20/08/11 06:27 PM
2

Nice, that really good stuff. Thanks for doing the AMA man. "Queen bee", now that's gold.
/r/seduction19/08/11 03:05 AM
2

Respect. How do you talk to women you date about your other girl chasing activities?
/r/seduction18/08/11 02:03 AM
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i approve
/r/seduction18/08/11 01:40 AM
0

hells YEAH
/r/seduction17/08/11 07:48 AM
1

You are way better of a PUA than I am. I offer no insight. Personally, I would say "Wow. Last time I'll ever put out on the first date."
/r/seduction16/08/11 04:42 AM
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does this kind of study of social interaction have any kind of name? Not that I know of. If you find one, please message me. do you know any places to learn more about improv on the net? I mostly browse youtube. Me and a friend have been practicing these exercises http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QblJbevE3Ak
/r/seduction05/08/11 11:11 PM
1

I know. But why did her number have to be printed. Why couldn't she write it down?
/r/seduction02/08/11 10:28 PM
3

One time a flirty waitress had her number on the receipt. But it was types along with the other stuff. I assumed that was the restaurant's policy or something.
/r/seduction02/08/11 04:47 AM
2

Should I be saying it "El Oh El!" or "LOWL"
/r/seduction02/08/11 04:37 AM
2

Brilliant advice as always dude.
/r/seduction02/08/11 04:36 AM
2

Try thepiratebay.org, or 'magic bullets rapidshare', or megaupload etc. Use the dates function in google to after it came out
/r/seduction31/07/11 07:45 PM
1

"After that first impression you're always on the ladder on which you are placed." For cold approach where you only have the night, yes. For social circle game, first impression doesn't matter a whole lot. I've given the most low value first impressions to have the girl IOI me in a few weeks.
/r/seduction31/07/11 11:54 AM
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be lazy texting
/r/seduction31/07/11 11:46 AM
1

Wow, good stuff
/r/seduction29/07/11 08:16 PM
1

What? that was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo not sarcastic.
/r/seduction29/07/11 07:44 PM
2

It seems that NLP is mostly just tools of effective communication and empathy, re-framed in way to make it seem more mysterious ("ooo, I can MANIPULATE SOMEONE!") than it really is.
/r/seduction29/07/11 05:05 PM
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I think I know exactly how it was received. It was sooo powerful, it caused him to delete his comment, then have a fit of violent diarrhea.
/r/seduction29/07/11 05:02 PM
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I would use this, but I HATE the way this is framed. The framed intent is control/manipulation, "tricking" someone into liking you. Why not ask this question with a genuine intent to get to know and connect with the other person? Getting to know a person's emotion is important in any relationship, and this is a great question for that.
/r/seduction29/07/11 10:58 AM
1

You can only control yourself: This is going to be one of the most important principles you ever learn. Every week reflect on this principle and see how you can incorporate it into your decisions. I'm STILL in the process of fully embracing this principle.
/r/seduction27/07/11 08:42 PM
1

So far my favorite one is the Value one.
/r/seduction27/07/11 08:19 PM
1

I've been looking over your post history, you link some pretty good stuff.
/r/seduction27/07/11 05:40 PM
1

You can only control yourself: This is going to be one of the most important principles you ever learn. Every week reflect on this principle and see how you can incorporate it into your decisions. I'm STILL in the process of fully embracing this principle.
/r/seduction27/07/11 05:35 PM
2

that's what i mean, there was a typo
/r/seduction22/07/11 04:32 PM
1

wtf, your perception of PUA is so different from mines. The reason why the art of pickup works is because women are not aware of us working our magic and majority of other men are AFCs Maybe in 1995-2000. But if this is your perception then there is something very wrong.
/r/seduction22/07/11 04:02 PM
1

From what I've seen location matters A LOT. Most of the friends people make are those who are a few minutes walking. People randomly go to each other's room's and hang out. Sometimes people spontaneously make plans to do something and only the people who are there at the time know about it. I'm not saying you won't make friends. But quantitly/quality goes u Perhaps live on campus for 2-3 months and when you get your social circle established then go back home.
/r/seduction22/07/11 04:00 PM
1

Great post, I hope to see you post in seddit more often
/r/seduction22/07/11 03:55 PM
1

yup, but do it outside your social circle if pushing it too far
/r/seduction22/07/11 03:54 PM
1

I'm the only one who believes Ariel Hawani out-alpha'd rampage jackson. Ariel held through to his principles, got Jackson to qualify himself a lot.
/r/seduction20/07/11 10:47 PM
1

Fucking very well done article. I gave up the stereotype alpha notions because that shit doesn't cut it in the real world. This articles nails it, author needs to do a Seddit IAMA
/r/seduction20/07/11 10:44 PM
1

nice, just what I needed. I seem to have trouble grabbing attention. Especially in groups.
/r/seduction19/07/11 08:19 AM
1

hmm, sorta feels like it's preventing my from looking around too much. I recently saw a vid of me and my head was looking around wayy to much, looked very nervous.
/r/seduction19/07/11 06:33 AM
1

good stuff, thanks for your contributions. Sometimes I do feel like putting my hands in my back pockets.
/r/seduction19/07/11 06:31 AM
1

da fuck? They're probably associating us with the rest of the seduction community, which is full of manipulative people. The people on seddit are pretty awesome.
/r/seduction18/07/11 06:34 AM
1

huh, for some reason I thought thumbs/hands in back pockets was sorta feminine, i usually see girls do this.
/r/seduction18/07/11 06:22 AM
1

The newbie will learn and absorb what he can, while the experienced person will learn, too, but has bias based on what he already presumes to know, and will filter out whatever he thinks he doesn't need. Which would be easier to teach? Again, what you're talking about sounds like some sort of pseudo-science. but has bias based on what he already presumes to know, and will filter out whatever he thinks he doesn't need Those biases will build up if they're approaching or not. You said it yourself,…
/r/seduction17/07/11 09:15 PM
1

at least from a retail perspective. My manager would prefer to hire and train someone without any retail experience rather than someone with some experience already to ensure that they don't carry over any bad habits from their old store and to cultivate good ones. I would guess that's probably because of the entry-level hiring fee. There is a reason why those with more experience tend to get paid more. Or maybe your manager is kinda off on this area. Whether it's a psychological ploy or not, it…
/r/seduction16/07/11 09:57 AM
1

I don't think that's the video, he doesn't go over any conversation stuff. I did skip to a random part and I cringed when he said the hardest people he has to train are people who spent MORE time in feild, 2+ years, something about when they go out in field they do the same bad habits over and over again and it's hard to un-do them. I mean seriously, can it not be any more obvious he's using a psychological tactic to get people to buy his bootcamps? Pretty much everyone knows that most problems …
/r/seduction15/07/11 11:28 PM
1

Sucks doesn't it? But she is a crazy. I'm mean, it doesn't matter if she comes back to you, is super sorry, and let's you be her fuck buddy, sooner or later she will fuck your life up. Considering my experiences with dealing with girls like her, I would avoid her, she's the female equivalent of a creepy stalker. Don't pick up her calls. If she calls, text a while later saying 'im in a loud area, what's up'. If she wants her card back tell her that you're super busy and ask for an address to mail…
/r/seduction11/07/11 11:57 PM
1

haha, that's some fun stuff. Out of curiosity, how's your book coming along. What's it gonna be about again?
/r/seduction11/07/11 10:34 PM
1

Lol, supply the dick. Thanks for the reply.
/r/seduction11/07/11 10:28 PM
1

Have you ever had one of those experiences where a girl 'shares' you with her friends? If so, did you initiate it or did she? Either way, what did you do to initiate/ make her comfortable enough for her to share?
/r/seduction11/07/11 05:09 AM
1

Have you ever had one of those experiences where you a girl shared you with her friends? If so, how did you go about that?
/r/seduction11/07/11 04:42 AM
1

My emotional connections have always been pretty strong but I'm looking to take them to a whole new level. I'm gonna pick up Neil's latest book, everyone loves you when you're dead. Do you have any other book/product recommendations for advanced emotional connections? Thanks again for your contributions.
/r/seduction10/07/11 05:10 AM
2

What kinda disqualifies do you use?
/r/seduction08/07/11 10:27 PM
3

What pick ups have you been doing? Social circle? Cold approach?
/r/seduction08/07/11 10:03 PM
11

Wow. Can you give stories of the japanese Amoging you've seen?
/r/seduction08/07/11 10:01 PM
2

cool, do I need kindle to read it or can I just read it off my laptop?
/r/seduction08/07/11 09:42 PM
2

Good thing I read this, I was just about to buy your first book. Link to the amazon site?
/r/seduction08/07/11 05:29 AM
2

Exactly. How the heck can we blame someone for thinking pickup is creepy. I love PUA, but c'mon guys.
/r/seduction08/07/11 05:26 AM
2

Yeah, I found this guy a few days ago, been reading mostly reading his posts in my free time. he has a blog/book http://warlizard.com/
/r/seduction08/07/11 05:26 AM
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If that was their intent they would probably calculate like crazy the interaction from beggining to end before it even happened, instead of just being in the moment. For the super social inept that's overwhelming so what this is doing is breaking it down to baby steps, they have less to think about since all their doing is slightly pushing their comfort zone. Next approach he will escalate some more. And then more and more.
/r/seduction08/07/11 05:11 AM
4

Interesting to look at. There is A LOT of bullshit in the pua community.
/r/seduction07/07/11 12:57 AM
1

Have a thesis, give a short summary of what the story really is, then tell the story. Have you tried reading a paper without a thesis? It's like you're looking something blind folded, it;s like 'where are he going with this'
/r/seduction05/07/11 04:22 AM
3

i meant an exaggerated confused look. As if you were making fun of the situation.
/r/seduction01/07/11 05:45 AM
20

LOL. "We're lesbians." confused look "Yeah but I'm Batman"
/r/seduction01/07/11 05:33 AM
21

I lol'd. This one suits my personality perfectly. Edit: I think I'm going to use this for every shit test from now on. Ever.
/r/seduction01/07/11 03:26 AM
2

quik feedback, i have a A LOT of interest
/r/seduction29/06/11 03:02 AM
3

gold
/r/seduction29/06/11 03:00 AM
5

I see one of your areas of expertise is emotional connection. What do you feel are the principles of creating emotional connection? A year ago I would have asked for emotional connection routines, but I'm trying to break away from that and looking at underlying principles.
/r/seduction29/06/11 02:14 AM
2

First off, thanks for doing this. -I'm seeing some girls I met through my cold approach game, but there are some girls in my social circle game who are interested as well, who I would like to see. In the past sometimes seeing other women have rubbed others the wrong way, but I didn't really care, I am what I am take it or leave it. But there some girls in my social circle who I'm really interested in ( I can see us being exclusive), but I don't want to break it off with my other girls in case th…
/r/seduction29/06/11 02:09 AM
1

When dating multiple women, should I avoid it with my social circle. It seems to be rubbing some the wrong way.
/r/seduction28/06/11 10:49 PM
1

And imagine if she loves it, you found a pretty strong match.
/r/seduction27/06/11 01:22 AM
2

I guess I did come off as a little crass, I apologize. But there are tons of good looking white guys who plain suck with women, mostly due to not having a good social circle.
/r/seduction27/06/11 01:21 AM
2

what city?
/r/seduction26/06/11 06:31 PM
1

Saying whatever is fun to you.
/r/seduction26/06/11 11:08 AM
1

don't challenge, have fun with it. That's the same when you're being cocky funny.
/r/seduction26/06/11 12:12 AM
1

Yup. I estimate this will take about 5 weeks. I'll be at r/kittens in teh meanwhile
/r/seduction25/06/11 03:33 AM
1

Yup. Don't get me wrong, I love RSD's inner game. But the claw had me really disturbed when I first heard about it.
/r/seduction25/06/11 03:32 AM
1

In her defense, RSD does teach some date-rapey tactics.
/r/seduction25/06/11 01:41 AM
1

I'd say Rich individual. Personally, anyone else, I would just go and seek out people who are better than me. They will accelerate your game at a very fast pace. Theirs tons of pua Internet forums that have meetups all over the place. Personally, It's hard to imagine any type of summit or bootcamp teaching me more than some of the friends who I met in college. DJ Fuji who did an IAMA here also said something like that. Maybe you don't feel it's as glamorous. But keep in mind the people at these …
/r/seduction23/06/11 11:04 AM
1

the good-looking white guy who just needs to get out of the damn house. How about you get out of the dam house and get some real life experience instead of spouting out how the world seems from your limited experiences? Unless you live in China or Japan or any of those other countries where white people are exotic. But in America it doesn't really cut it.
/r/seduction23/06/11 11:02 AM
2

Regular pick ups weird and pretty bad if you're in high school or below. But I think there are a lot of concepts that pretty safe. Perhaps they can be compiled.
/r/seduction22/06/11 11:46 PM
2

how can I get in touch with this crew?
/r/seduction22/06/11 11:42 PM
2

. . .huh?
/r/seduction22/06/11 11:40 PM
1

It depends on the individual if it's worth or not. Beware, it seems all the PUA companies are posting on the internet these days. Except very polar reviews, either really negative or really positive.
/r/seduction22/06/11 11:38 PM
1

Good stuff, the way I do it is different. It doesn't matter if she's into you or not. Always test the waters.
/r/seduction22/06/11 11:36 PM
2

perhaps google 'dancing monkey, pua', there should be tons of info on this. I think you're need for approval and ability to seduce are two different things. Perhaps work on kino escalation and attraction stuff to get laid. Read up on 'reaction seeking', 'outcome independence', 'self amusing' from PUA material for the other.
/r/seduction20/06/11 08:03 AM
5

If you're broke and really want to hear the rest, you can google you're way to a free copy.
/r/seduction20/06/11 08:03 AM
2

Thanks man!
/r/seduction15/06/11 06:18 AM
2

Brilliant!
/r/seduction15/06/11 04:58 AM
2

How can you tell the difference if a girl in your social circle likes or if it's just that she's getting more comfortable around you?
/r/seduction15/06/11 04:36 AM
1

Thanks man.
/r/seduction15/06/11 03:33 AM
1

Right now I'm working on being one of the more talkative person in a group. I know some guys who whenever theyr'e in a group setting, most people pay attention to them naturally. I'm trying to figure out the principles behind that.
/r/seduction15/06/11 02:43 AM
1

Yeah but we're redditors, we deserve it.
/r/seduction12/06/11 05:17 PM
1

whoa thedude dropping all sorts of gold here
/r/seduction09/06/11 09:40 PM
1

How do you define "Master". What seperates Neil and Adam apart from other PUAs?
/r/seduction08/06/11 04:36 PM
1

Cool thanks again. I think in the category of outter game techniques, this IAMA is the best one we had.
/r/seduction08/06/11 04:27 PM
1

Hey, I think it was a rule that we shouldn't bring up drama/gossip related questions on these IAMAs. This isn't the place for that. They tend to lead to long-winded discussions that aren't really helpful to anyone.
/r/seduction08/06/11 04:25 PM
1

Say girls that you meet though your group of friends or through a club/organization that you're in. Since I'm going to seeing these girls on a regular basis no matter what happens, I'd imagine theirs a different way to go about it vs the rapid stuff that happens with cold approach. I see you're spending a lot of time on a 2nd day. I think this is the first PUA IAMA where someone did that. Thanks man.
/r/seduction08/06/11 07:40 AM
1

What are the most important factors in attracting a girl in your social circle?
/r/seduction07/06/11 09:54 PM
2

Yeah Sticking point. Awesome IAMA btw, props.
/r/seduction07/06/11 09:50 PM
1

Awesome Stuff, thanks.
/r/seduction07/06/11 09:49 PM
1

It was amazing back when I was first introduced to the game. But looking back, that dude got issues. He never really got over all the times he's been hurt by women.
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:40 AM
2

I read it. At the time it was pretty mind expanding. At the same time it did a pretty shitty job at describing what attraction is. Makes it seem that it's about manipulation and scripted lines. I feel it was done on purpose so that more people would turn to PUA companies.
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:37 AM
2

-Have you learned anything in the past year regarding male/female dynamics? -What do all the PUA's at stylelife do? Develop pickup further? Or make the stuff that you guys already know easier to digest? Or more business/marketing related things? -I can get in a talkative mood almost whenver I want, but what if you're in a group that doesn't feel very talkative. Anything you could do to bring them into a talkative mood? -What was the last blind spot that you discovered, and what did you do to fix…
/r/seduction07/06/11 10:19 AM
1

I heard companies that have several instructors. . .some are better than others. Do your homework.
/r/seduction05/06/11 04:16 PM
5

Actually, if you look at the frame control of this and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wDAsB3O_W5E . Ariel did quite good regarding frame control. Obs it was still Rampage's frame, but not much you can do, fans are there to see Rampage, he's the big star, Ariel is the nobody. But what Ariel did have to work with, he did pretty well: -Body Language: kept direct eye contact, Rampage wasn't able to hold direct eye contact and was often not able to meet Ariel's eyes. Ariel had a Calm/happy facial exp…
/r/seduction03/06/11 09:19 AM
5

That's what supposed to happen. . .
/r/seduction31/05/11 06:54 AM
1

RSD hasn't done anything in particular. But some of the tactics all the big PUA companies do (Stylelife, RSD, LoveSystems) don't sit well with me. But I just keep in mind that it's childplay compared to the shit other corporations (pharma/MIC/oil/sugar/etc) pull off.
/r/seduction31/05/11 05:42 AM
1

I don't work for RSD, just a fan of the PUA industry in general. Some of the stuff they do is pretty unethical, but the info in their products are life changing. Yeah, I wish I had the time to do a intern for a PUA company. Seems like you work for free but they barder for seduction skills.
/r/seduction30/05/11 04:35 PM
1

I don't think there any rules against this. But anyways, there seem to be healthy torrents on piratebay, one video and one audio. Anyways, Blueprint is one of the best PUA video products I have ever seen. Tyler fucking nails it.
/r/seduction30/05/11 05:31 AM
1

Cool, just asking. Great to see people from different schools of thought migrate to seddit. I don't care even if they're interns/paid posters, as long as they contribute.
/r/seduction30/05/11 05:28 AM
1

ever heard of the pirate bay?
/r/seduction30/05/11 02:00 AM
1

Cool stuff. Out of curiosity what motivated you to post this on seddit rather than the RSD forums?
/r/seduction30/05/11 01:58 AM
1

I remember a few months ago we were at 15,000
/r/seduction29/05/11 04:43 PM
1

Sorry to hear that. Yeah, it's best not to practice the negs/disqualifiers/anything with even the slightest possibility of being offensive in social circles. I would recommend skipping the negs altogether until someone is very social calibrated. And regardless of social circle or not, he should escalate his personality more slowly and calibrate. If it was the right sort of people, they would have loved your brother. But these people were more 'normal'. For example, mention one meme, if they don'…
/r/seduction29/05/11 04:40 PM
7

noooooo no no no no no no nooooooo non o Don't take large leaps with a friend. And if you do, do it through actions, not words. Have intimate conversations. Touch her more. If she likes it, she will do the same. I'm not saying it is 100% impossible to make this work verbally. But there is no reasons not to use actions instead. It is way more romantic to use actions.
/r/seduction29/05/11 09:30 AM
1

Yeah, it's still around. No homo.
/r/seduction27/05/11 08:12 PM
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I known girls who way more overweight hookup with some pretty hot guys, no homo. Just being a bit friendly, and initiating a few conversations will get you far. Look up flirting tips. One of the top pickup lines for women is "hey, you look familiar, do I know you from somewhere?".
/r/seduction27/05/11 07:57 AM
2

I give this a 10/10. I'm thinking of using it after we share a good moment. A buncha laughs or whatnot. What are your ways of bringing this up?
/r/seduction26/05/11 02:54 AM
60

This dude knows whats up.
/r/seduction26/05/11 02:50 AM
1

GOOD JOB YEAHAHAHA
/r/seduction24/05/11 12:00 AM
1

But most of these guys couldn't hold on an interesting conversation for their life, sure, they where great at creating attraction but once after that, nothing good to be seen. Not sure where you're getting this from. I think the PUA industry has given you a very limited view on female/male dynamics and if something doesn't fit your world view, your mind doesn't accept it. i found myself cringing at the terrible stuff they tried using and how that even worked for them. You seem to be experiencing…
/r/seduction16/05/11 11:50 AM
1

I'm guessing you're one of those theory guys who doesn't go out a lot. I love have PUA marketing has brainwashed some into thinking that you need PUA tactics to pickup chicks if you're not good looking or something. There were a lot of guys who were good looking but flat-out failed. Try watching them again and try to analyze their mindsets. The risks they take. The emotions they're feeling. How they project their energy. Their subcommunications etc.
/r/seduction11/05/11 08:28 AM
1

look up 'keys to the vip' on hulu
/r/seduction09/05/11 09:27 PM
3

I believe you. I also see nothing wrong with someone associated with a pickup company promoting their art and hardwork. It doesn't affect their credibility. Especially for a guy like the OP, who is a quality contributer. maybe there's those 'ooo, here's just here to spam us with his agenda!' type people. But I think seddit mostly smarter than that. Anyways, I never said that I was certain that he was associated with a pickup company, I was just making a comment about his posting style.
/r/seduction26/04/11 11:30 PM
1

How is the format? Does it read similarly to Jeffy's 9ball and tucker's books?
/r/seduction26/04/11 11:24 PM
1

That would be amazing. I'm not sure if everyone knows who Brad P. is, but for those who do there is definitely more than enough interest. Apparently seddit is backed up a little right now. It looks like there trying to mix up the superstars like Nick Savoy and Brad P. with some of the lesser known PUAs. But send a message to tofutofu, I believe he's in charge of scheduling. http://www.reddit.com/user/TofuTofu
/r/seduction26/04/11 11:23 PM
1

huh?
/r/seduction26/04/11 11:15 PM
1

haha alright. It's just that your posts sounds like one of those yelp-style grandiose type reviews.
/r/seduction25/04/11 08:50 PM
6

haha alright. It's just that your posts sounds like one of those yelp-style grandiose type reviews.
/r/seduction25/04/11 08:46 PM
8

Cool, bookmarked for later. Are you can intern for Brad P? If so, ask him to consider doing a AMA IAMA PUA series on seddit.
/r/seduction25/04/11 08:40 AM
1

i think you can use a proxy ip address or something using some firefox add on or something
/r/seduction24/04/11 11:06 AM
1

Oh, there are plenty of ways to bypass the US server. Google 'watch hulu from canada' or 'watch hulu from australia'.
/r/seduction24/04/11 03:36 AM
1

part 1. first guy: -good on oppupying any open spot in a circle when opening. and then it went down hill. 2nd guy: -great opener. 'this is so embarassing, i almost wore the same thing tonight.' Saw the opportunity to hug/kino while saying that. Good at doing a nonsense conversation, 'im wearing those pants underneith'. Good flirty comments and mixing it up with comedy 'nice jeans sweethart'. I have those, i'm actually wearing them underneith.' Good facial expressions, making serious faces while …
/r/seduction23/04/11 09:36 PM
1

Brandon the Wizard, mark the karaoke kid, and Nick Dundee, there were others too. Donny Danger.
/r/seduction23/04/11 07:29 PM
1

How long are they up for?
/r/seduction23/04/11 07:28 PM
1

which country you from?
/r/seduction23/04/11 07:26 PM
2

These are awesome. Cajun did really good on that show, but there were several who did better. Check out the episodes with Brandon the Wizard, mark the karaoke kid, and Nick Dundee.
/r/seduction23/04/11 07:24 PM
2

If you are going to join the lair, you should stop looking down on the people who are in it. You kinda seem like a douche.
/r/seduction23/04/11 07:13 PM
2

I don't think it's never ending. After a certain level of mastery you just kinda see the matrix.
/r/seduction23/04/11 07:08 PM
1

I saw it. It's good. It's unique advice, a refreshing approach to pickup.
/r/seduction20/04/11 09:48 AM
1

Thanks Rob. Hopefully we'll see you in the IAMA PUA interview series in the future.
/r/seduction20/04/11 09:47 AM
1

haven't really seen any of his personal material, but his infeild videos of various puas are a really good product
/r/seduction20/04/11 04:43 AM
1

with a joke.
/r/seduction20/04/11 04:42 AM
2

wtf. I spend 2-3 hours trying to hack the comedy network to watch it from America it's just right here?
/r/seduction20/04/11 04:42 AM
1

rsd has some floating around on their various channels. Mehow has some great infeild products, my favorite one being with Sinn. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q4ay0KCBgOE http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ZxIHI9tP9E&feature=player_embedded
/r/seduction19/04/11 11:29 PM
1

That's it, that's the best video on the internet. Everyone can go home now.
/r/seduction19/04/11 11:20 PM
2

I think he calls them retards
/r/seduction19/04/11 11:16 PM
1

For those of you who don't know, Brad Branson was the 3rd in our IAMA PUA interview series. He offers some great advice: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/g4u45/brad_branson_of_rsd_here_to_answer_your_questions/
/r/seduction19/04/11 08:22 PM
1

This sort of gossip/personal life bullshit belongs on puahate.com. It's good to offer direct criticisms of their techniques/marketing, but please don't post this sort of garbage here.
/r/seduction19/04/11 05:04 AM
2

Tina Fey didn't lose her virginity till 24.
/r/seduction17/04/11 09:23 PM
1

Great. Go to near the bottom right corner of the page, click on messege the mods button. Give each other their contact info. Reccomend to mark that he announces his IAMA on his newsletters, twitters, etc, so they can prepare and bring their best questions. IAMAs so far have shown the PUAs on the best of their abilities and these IAMAs make great promotional stuffs to really get the know the PUAs. I'll be looking forward to it. I'll be bringing my best questions.
/r/seduction17/04/11 09:09 PM
43

All I have to say is, what the fuck is this shit.
/r/seduction14/04/11 07:11 PM
2

From my latest research, there are such things are micro behaviors, such as split second facial expressions, which are based off your emotions. Many people can't do anything about them unless they're a great actor or, they truely are a happy confident person.
/r/seduction12/04/11 06:24 AM
9

I'm not saying the article is wrong, but it's pretty freaking shitty. No citations of any peer reviewed scientific research, it's basically just opinion. "Girls like alpha males like billionaires and doctors, and deep voices, so they must like inequality!" Again, I do believe women love assertive guys. It's just that this article shouldn't prove that to anyone who has a reasonable level of skepticism.
/r/seduction11/04/11 07:44 PM
1

So are we looking at local people, or random people all over America? Also, a lot of the pictures look stolen. Too many good looking people.
/r/seduction06/04/11 04:43 AM
3

yeah, this is a classic passive aggressive line. You have to make sure it's not too pointed.
/r/seduction03/04/11 01:15 PM
1

Good stuff. I wish there were more examples for some of them. I like how that site has a 'recommended an article topic section.'
/r/seduction03/04/11 01:13 PM
3

Well, as for spotting it. A lot of times they aren't consciously shit testing, it's just that life throws you test. Same with 'neg hits'. When you're getting to know a girl, you'll find out somethings that are unflattering if you want to neg hit or not.
/r/seduction28/03/11 06:17 AM
1

I like that site. There is a lot of bullshit in the PUA industry. That being said, the advice given out by PUAs are mostly legit, it's just that when it comes to marketing and creating a cult-like following does the PUA industry waver. They are desperate for your money. Style was talking about how RSD used manipulation tactics on their clients in The Game, I've been in stylelife and his company does the same thing. I mean, there were similiar tactics being used by Scientologists and MLM marketin…
/r/seduction25/03/11 08:26 PM
3

haha yeah. Plus the really famous international models are meant to appeal to women, not men. The women in Maxim or FHM look different than Gucci and what not.
/r/seduction17/03/11 02:09 AM
0

see my response to frogma. Like I said, very attractive people are pretty open to who they hangout with as long as you meet them through friends.
/r/seduction17/03/11 01:54 AM
1

haha yeah. If you're social and outgoing even the most AFC person will have very attractive people in their social circle. Hell, theirs this one foreign guy who never even talks that rolls with us sometimes. I'm not claiming the 10's will date them, it's just that he's in the group. Very attractive people aren't elitists when it comes to who they hangout with, especially if they're met through friends. If you meet them in a club though, that's a whole nother story, because their looks are probab…
/r/seduction17/03/11 01:52 AM
1

Good stuff, props
/r/seduction17/03/11 01:47 AM
2

That was some dam good advice. Props.
/r/seduction16/03/11 10:44 AM
1

lmao @ this. I live in California. I'm guessing you live in the south or midwest?
/r/seduction16/03/11 09:47 AM
1

That youtube video is gold.
/r/seduction16/03/11 04:18 AM
4

good stuff, mind-expanding. Thanks for all the time you put into this.
/r/seduction16/03/11 04:16 AM
2

Your 'what would puff daddy say' frame is fucking money, can't wait to try it. Got any other fun frames?
/r/seduction16/03/11 04:01 AM
2

Off the top of your head, what's one of your favorite improv games?
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:57 AM
1

heh, I love the puff daddy example. Can't wait to try that. I've seen the blueprint 5 times, and don't remember that part specifically. haha no way. I took that concept beyond conversation and applied it to how I see life in general. I'm definitely able to get a lot more depth and truth out of the world.
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:53 AM
1

I meant for breaking rapport in general. Stuff like stopping in the middle of a conversation to send a text, and not reengaging the conversation after I sent the text. I didn't reengage cuz my mind was distracted, but it definitely had an effect on her. Or this other time we were sitting in class, she was talking to me. I was tired at the time cuz I pulled an all nighter so I decided to sleep for a few minutes instead of talking to her before class. At first I was worried that those may come off…
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:47 AM
1

Another RSD concept, from the blue print. When you're listening, you should avoid judging, comparing, labeling, and interpreting . I get the first three, not the last one. When someone is talking, you're not supposed to be interpreting what they're saying, you're not supposed to be relating what they say to you. Then what do you do with it? If I don't interpret or relate to me, then it's just In one ear out the other; I just feel like a tape recorder. I can't really have a conversation if I do t…
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:31 AM
3

Breaking rapport, something that I noticed very recently and so far it seems like powerful stuff. There are a lot of 10's in my social circle, and I realize they do it to me a lot. And recently I've done it a few times on accident or lazyness, and I could see the effect. However, since it's my social circle I don't want to risk taking it too far and getting a bad reputation, but could you give some outter game/ practicalities on this principle. I think I first heard about it on the Jeffy Show bu…
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:26 AM
2

Out of curiosity, when you're by yourself, what's going on in your head. The reason I'm asking is because I realized that most of the time I'm thinking about nerd stuff (starcraft, MMA, anime) and that's probably making my thoughts less relatable to people in general, which makes me more introverted. So I'm trying to figure out what do cool people think about when they're not thinking about their job or what not.
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:10 AM
2

heh. So when they say 'all i want is a nice normal guy', do you think that they really believe that and it's just that nice/normal guys are a rarity, or is it that they feel entitled to having a cool guy all to themselves?
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:00 AM
3

I do the whole don't respond to every facebook and text. But I still doing get the underlying principles behind it. Especially if the last one ends in a question.
/r/seduction16/03/11 02:52 AM
3

I used to be really introverted and I've make a lot of progress in being able to converse. But for some reason, a lot of times in group conversations, I have nothing to say. I try all the mental tricks ("don't think, just say", "make statements, not questions", "yes and") but my just stays blank. I think a part of that stems from having less opportunities to lead the conversation, and it's more about going with the flow. Really tricky sticking point, I know.
/r/seduction16/03/11 02:49 AM
1

I've known some high value girls who never seem to have trouble getting a boyfriend. On the other hand, I know girls who are also high value, but never seem to get a boyfriend, always just hanging out their their friends on valentines and stuff, and it isn't by choice, they would love to have a boyfriend I'm guessing the latter are more 'pickier' than the former. Any idea what they're picky about. Both types are in social circles with decent guys in my opinion.
/r/seduction16/03/11 02:40 AM
1

I've known some high value girls who never seem to have trouble getting a boyfriend. On the other hand, I know girls who are also high value, but never seem to get a boyfriend, always just hanging out their their friends on valentines and stuff, and it isn't by choice, they would love to have a boyfriend I'm guessing the latter are more 'pickier' than the former. Any idea what they're picky about. Both types have social circles with decent guys in my opinion.
/r/seduction16/03/11 02:38 AM
2

I know you guys are pretty committed to improving the quality if your boot camps. Was there anything in the last year or two you guys did to improve the overall quality of bootcamps. Like, where there a meeting an someone was like 'I just had an epiphany about such and such that we should be doing in our bootcamps".
/r/seduction16/03/11 02:32 AM
6

Edit, I see you've answered in below, thanks man. How about this: off the top of you head what's one of your most favorite transformations you saw during one of your bootcamps
/r/seduction16/03/11 02:06 AM
1

I'm pretty much gonna be clicking refresh
/r/seduction16/03/11 01:59 AM
3

I get that from his marketing. But if you read his book or see his workships, he much more normal. For some reason the manipulation/magic bullets marketing works really well in the PUA world
/r/seduction16/03/11 01:05 AM
2

He called Mehow out on it. Neil Strauss also mentioned that phenomena in the forward. I never really got it till I saw the leaked workshop.
/r/seduction16/03/11 01:01 AM
1

ohhhhhhh baby
/r/seduction15/03/11 07:28 PM
3

Mystery isn't the best for marketing himself to the mainstream. His marketing leaves him open to pot-shots (like pretty much every pua company). He is still the god-father of pickup. Similar to how lesser known fighters talk trash and call out champs to get their name out there, look at who every PUA company takes pot-shots at: Mystery. You don't see LoveSystems taking pot-shots at RSD and vice-versa in their products and blogs. Both of them direct them to Mystery. I was surprised at the leaked …
/r/seduction15/03/11 07:10 PM
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A lot of what I've seen passed of as modern seduction theory seems to be the stuff Mystery only told those who paid for his advice.
/r/seduction15/03/11 07:04 PM
1

Are you meeting them in a club or bar or a 18+ club? I'm 25, I would totally date a 35 year old. People like to explore.
/r/seduction13/03/11 11:10 PM
1

Yeah, PM me that stuff. I would love it.
/r/seduction13/03/11 11:03 PM
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My take on the video: There was a lot of advice in the video that a lot of PUA companies (Including the big well-known ones) use as the foundation of their 'core principles', but as the same time dismiss Mystery's stuff as 'old school' and how stuff has 'evolved so much from 'the old Mystery days'. I honestly didn't know that a lot of the concepts Mystery went over were already developed back in the day. From the marketing of a lot of these bigger pua companies, it seems that this stuff has been…
/r/seduction07/03/11 04:32 AM
1

You can't deny that it works. He highered the value of what he was going to say by saving it for later. If he just told us I would have forgotten it by now.
/r/seduction02/03/11 07:56 PM
1

There is a reason why the FBI came to him to teach the very best manipulation techniques.
/r/seduction02/03/11 07:55 PM
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Ever heard of reverse psychology? This is exactly what he wanted. I mean, it's a public emailing list for crying out loud. But anyways, he also does this when his company has a sale. 'We're doing you guys a HUGE favor, so PLEASE, don't TELL anyone about this sale. Please don't use instant messenger or email or briefly mention it to your coworkers at the water cooler tomorrow!'.
/r/seduction02/03/11 07:50 PM
3

What little things are preventing people with attractive personalities from being abundant with women?
/r/seduction02/03/11 07:47 PM
2

What do you think of this post (warming, long as read but you can skip hte first couple paragraphs, a quik skim should be good enough) http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ftwax/introversion_vs_extroversion_and_why_it_matters/
/r/seduction01/03/11 12:21 PM
2

Awesome post. Agree with most of it. Flirt with other girls, it makes you look sexy. For some it does, for others it doesn't. It works for a type of girl I like to call 'Alpha-Desperate". I work on letting my natural alpha flow through and it's normal and natural for girls to enjoy alpha traits. But the ones that tend to be desperate for them tend to have a madame bovry complex. Not fun.
/r/seduction27/02/11 10:04 PM
3

At first I was like 'self-sabotage??? man up pussy'. but as I advanced, dam, it can be tricky to deal with.
/r/seduction27/02/11 02:02 PM
2

TofuTofu this and TofuTofu that!!!! When is it going to be time for spiderfan this and spiderfan that????
/r/seduction27/02/11 02:00 PM
5

That's mostly in the begginers stage. After a while you're just being yourself. Having an attractive personality is not a 'pua trick'.
/r/seduction26/02/11 03:17 AM
3

Hopefully they will come. But I'm pretty excited for Brad right now. I noticed that he seems to have been working pretty hard as of lately; he's still emerging and he's hungry. so I suggested him over the other RSD guys.
/r/seduction25/02/11 11:56 AM
5

I like RSD. They've been generating a lot of attention with all the rsdfreetour vids on their channel. -Did you have any 'aha' moments in the 2 years regarding female/male dynamics? -What are the most common blind spots do you see on bootcamps with intermediate level guys? Advanced guys? -The RSD concepts I'm having the most trouble is drawing state from within. It feels like when I do that I go inside me more, and that makes more more introverted and less social. It seems to be in the moment, y…
/r/seduction25/02/11 09:44 AM
1

the youtube video on that article isn't working
/r/seduction25/02/11 09:24 AM
1

I won't be able to make it. Please ask the following questions for me: In the last year, have you had any 'aha' moments regarding attraction? In the last year, what have you learned about conducting bootcamps? What are you currently studying/reading?
/r/seduction22/02/11 11:37 PM
1

tofutofu, the guy who made OP. Actually we've already been discussing you as one of our potential candidates since you have some products coming out in the future. I've been a little out of the loop so I'm not sure if the mods scheduled anyone else after David Wygant, but I'll show the mods this post.
/r/seduction22/02/11 06:32 AM
1

(1) Non-submissive eye contact -no darting of the eyes when you look at her, no breaking eye contact first. My problem is probably opposite, I probably stare too much. In high school this one guy took my aside and said I kinda freak him out with all the staring. I'm trying to find that sweet spot between too much and too little eye contact. I want to display that I'm totally comfortable with the other person, but at the same time my state doesn't depend on that person. Should I be makeing eye co…
/r/seduction22/02/11 02:58 AM
1

Great article man. Thanks for helping us out here. Seddit is doing bimonthly MPUAs IAMAs, I'm sure everyone here would love to see you be in the series.
/r/seduction22/02/11 02:51 AM
1

That is certainly one of Love Systems talking points whenever they discuss the show. But has there been any evidence of this? They never even mentioned how they know that they were haters. And one of them seemed won over by one of the LS guys, if they really were haters she probably wouldn't have given them a chance.
/r/seduction20/02/11 08:32 PM
1

My thoughts: Wow, I didn't know these parts existed. I thought the segments that Love Systems put out on their youtube channel was all that was covered about seduction. There was a whole other segment with Ross Jefferies, and he tried to use NLP to character assassinate love system and make himself look like the good guy. All he did was make himself look like an uncalibrated social retard and made both him and Mystery Method look creepy. Love systems always complained about Dr. Phil but througho…
/r/seduction20/02/11 12:49 PM
1

social circle game is my main game. Alliances being my bread and butter.
/r/seduction19/02/11 06:56 AM
3

What a great start to the interview series. Thanks Nick.
/r/seduction17/02/11 05:09 AM
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We get free advice, they build a better reputation for their company. Win win. I hope we use this opportunity to ask more advanced questions rather than noobie questions are questions about drama in the seduction industry. We want this to be as high quality and unique as possible.
/r/seduction11/02/11 07:53 AM
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props to Love Systems. From KtVIP, Dr. Phil, to Tyra, they ain't afraid of tough questions/challenges.
/r/seduction11/02/11 05:03 AM
1

Well, flirting is supposed to be ambiguous. Escalate a little verbally, physically, see what happens. Get a 1 on 1 hangout, do it some more, see what happens. If everything's good, kiss her.
/r/seduction10/02/11 11:13 PM
1

Bootcamps are for outer game. Inner game is either all you or maybe with therapy and other forms of professional help.
/r/seduction08/02/11 07:34 AM
2

Great find tofu
/r/seduction07/02/11 12:50 AM
1

It seems most guys who are without abundance when it comes to girls would have sex with someone whose unattractive as long and his friends don't find out. Is this the same with women? Or is attraction always needed with women? And say that it was a highly desired guy, would she still need to prevent letting her friends know?
/r/seduction25/01/11 09:17 PM
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I was going to ask 'around what % of girls have access (not necessarily sleeping with them, just the option to) to a Natural/mPUA/Alpha Male'. But then I realized this would vary a lot between lifestyles and locations. So lets say for a college girl who not really a partier but goes out maybe once a month.
/r/seduction25/01/11 05:02 AM
2

I would take one basic (for example, non-reaction seeking) and find as many traits they have that are reaction seeking. This will teach them to be on the lookout for incorporating the basics to the very details.
/r/seduction23/01/11 07:55 AM
3

you'r evolving
/r/seduction19/01/11 04:53 AM
2

Yeah, that's the whole point. Not probably, they will plug their stuff. And for an IAMA they dam earned it.
/r/seduction18/01/11 06:40 AM
2

yeah, but they're plenty of us who can tell the marketers from the real deals. And it's a IAMA, if they don't know their shit they're gonna get called out. Reddit's system is pretty solid against spam. I think the seddit subforum will hold up.
/r/seduction17/01/11 06:28 AM
2

i'm down
/r/seduction17/01/11 01:31 AM
1

There are some good general advice on here. But here's some more technical details: -Don't be afraid to be boring. Just be talkative. If you notice other people, most of the stuff they say isn't high entertainment stuff, a lot of the time they're just stating the obvious. -All you have to do is be a little bit silly or a little bit funny. But deliver it in a way so that people don't have to laugh. For example, someone was talking about Michael Jordon and I was like 'man, that guy was good at bas…
/r/seduction14/01/11 04:54 AM
1

I would like to join. I'm a guy but psychology, game, and sexuality are deep passions of mine. Look at my comment history to get a better understand of what I can contribute.
/r/seduction07/01/11 09:10 AM
-1

Cheap tricks and tactics can only get you so far. You need to become a more at-peace, receptive, exciting, fun person.
/r/seduction26/12/10 06:23 AM
5

i prefer to offend both, at the same time.
/r/MensRights29/11/10 11:20 AM
2

It's easy to accept a simplified and glorified world fed to them by the media and music rather than to work through the nitty gritty details of reality. Especially in the ghetto, reality is very hard and sometimes you feel very hopeless, the possibility that your life is only going to get worse seems VERY plausible. It's very temping to give up a true perception of reality and just accept the version fed to you via rap music, than shit is like crack. The are weaknesses and strengths associated w…
/r/MensRights05/11/10 10:31 PM
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I'm a guy and I downvoted that comment. Why? Because I can afford it!!!
/r/MensRights15/10/10 12:02 PM
2

It seems that the blueprint is especially for the newbies, which means it would cover the same basics as stylelife, lovesystems, mehow, etc? Pretty much all newbie products cover the ever so essential basics. Pook is some good reading. But it seems that he never got over the hurt from girls when he was an AFC. IMO he's not up there with the other top PUAs. What's Jeffy Show like? What's some of the best advice you gotten from that? For Flawless Natural, it was thinking 'how can I make this fun' …
/r/seduction02/10/10 10:24 AM
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