Are PUA products for beginners only?

PickyPanda · 2011-12-24T21:31:32+00:00

It depends. I'd stay stuff from love systems is not a good direction to be going. For some reason Savoy rubs me the wrong way, he's so outer game focused. And I've read Magic Bullets as well as watched two LS's DVD sets.

Maybe it's brand loyalty, but if you are going to buy any PUA product please let it be Blueprint Decoded by Tyler Durden from RSD.

I've watched many payed for products, and this would be the best hands down.

mileshigh_23 · 2011-12-25T06:13:31+00:00

I'm absolutely against the "go out and just do it" mentality because I have been in field and did cold approach before reading any PUA stuff and it, most of the time, ended up diasterous. It's great advice to give someone who has read books and books of material but still aren't getting results, but for a bare bones beginner it's terrible advice, a little theory and a game plan goes a long way, especially things about opening, logistics and pulling.

I don't dislike magic bullets, but I'm not a fan of "tell her cool stories about myself for the first 20 minutes" style of game, but it's very well written, easy to understand, and made for absolute beginners, and it's very compact and to the point, it doesn't waste any space, and I give it a lot of love just for that.

RSD's free 2 hour audio you get when you sing up for their newsletter is really good. I'd also suggest Foundations but Tyler from RSD has recently hinted he's going to put out an entirely free video seminar made entirely for beginners, they did filming for it recently, can't wait for it.

Blueprint Decoded IS the best course on inner game and probably my favorite seminar, it has changed my life. But it's not for beginners. If you don't know how to approach or what shit-tests are, Blueprint won't (directly) teach you about. Personally, I didn't start getting any success until I listened to blue print, but I did know how to approach.

Fudgeworth · 2011-12-24T21:45:30+00:00

I started out by reading The Game and The Mystery Method. The fact that I could learn to be better with women was mind blowing. I started to read a lot of psychology books as well. My goal switched from meeting women to learning how to meet women. I think it's important to realize that the end goal is being with actual women (dating, relationships, one nighters, whatever).

mileshigh_23 · 2011-12-24T21:49:36+00:00

I've read more "systems" than I care to admit. Every single guru has a different formula that seems to be the polar opposite of the next guru's. Here's my take: if you want to get some basic ideas on opening and attraction, do a google search. There's a ton of free material online. Much better to get out there on the sidewalks, campuses, bars, and clubs. Just start opening. Make it your goal to become unafraid of rejection. If your goal is to fuck hotties right away, you may be in for a sobering reality. At least, that put a lot of pressure on me and gave me major AA.

handoverthebanana · 2011-12-24T22:30:06+00:00

You don't need any of that shit. Everything you need is in the sidebar. Seriously!

-a satisfied seddit customer

urfaselol · 2011-12-25T00:52:42+00:00

Reading it is easy. Going out there and do it... The experience, especially handling the emotions that comes with it is whats the hard part.

ShowcasePUA · 2011-12-25T05:53:31+00:00

Absolutely not. While being in the field will solidify and refine your game, you need a lot of theory to get started and begin working on inner game. It doesn't matter if you've approached one set in your lifetime or you've had a threesome with two playboy bunnies fighting over your dick, all PUA's must maintain a student mentality. Read it all and look for the theories that pop up multiple times. Then go out into the field and find out what works for you. When you've done that, study some more and incorporate new things into your repertoire. That's why you're here on Seddit.

You must be willing to expand your mind and challenge conventional ideas. Read each of the mPUA's and look for ways to challenge their theories. The only way that the PU community can innovate and improve is if we constantly challenge each other.

2011-12-25T05:22:10+00:00

Most stuff is bullshit. Same caveman 10,000 BC crap they always keep referring to. I pirated all sorts of stuff and if you're looking for good shit, most of the stuff you can get for free. The best stuff that I read that changed my game was 60 years of challenge. Amazing stuff completely different from all the same regurgitated concepts.

Listening to a friend who is good at this helped me more. Going out to do it is the hard part.

Title	Are PUA products for beginners only?
Author	SpiderFan
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	December 24, 2011 9:12 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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