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Then find one here to show us that approximates her look. http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/heightweight.html
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:04 PM
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Are you kind of easily replacable in terms of your SMV compared to hers? She's not going to do it just because she likes you, she's going to do it because she wants to keep you.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 10:39 PM
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No man owes you jack shit when it comes to what he does with his dick.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 03:47 PM
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She's 32, crazy, and has only had one kid. He's proven preselected for both SMV and for willingness to stepfather. Well how bad would things turn out for you if he knocked the bitch up?
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 11:48 PM
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Many of them would not be second string if they'd been born into wealthier circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 10:50 PM
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Go get your nails done. http://www.nytimes.com/2015/05/10/nyregion/at-nail-salons-in-nyc-manicurists-are-underpaid-and-unprotected.html?_r=0 She won't have much time for dating which leaves you plenty of time for other plates, and because she doesn't have much time she'll get down to business real quick. Might want to make her the exception to the rule you don't take girls out for dinner, she's not going to be a bitch about it if you take her to somewhere cheap that isn't fast food.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 10:49 PM
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I find it hard to imagine that caveman watched other guys fuck chicks in their tribe, or hiding behind bushes trying to see some titty action. Well, if they did, then they weren't the alpha dudes. I'm sure they did, even the alphas. The information gained would have been invaluable in a world where chanted songs and cave paintings of animals and hunting were the height of information technology. The opportunities to watch sex would have been very rare and they would have fapped to the memory of …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 11:20 AM
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Men who fap compulsively are like obese women, they damage their ability to accomplish things of actual worth by indulging themselves to the point of actual damage. Just like overindulging in calories, overindulging in masturbation creates a condition that can not be immediately reversed. If you've been needing a steadily tighter grip... stop fapping. If you've been needing to change porn scenarios several times during a fap... stop fapping. If you've been spending more time fapping than you spe…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/15 01:23 AM
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Same people who pay now when there's no useful father on the horizon.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 05:40 PM
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Look upon it like squeezing the toothpaste tube in the middle. Some of the toothpaste goes in one direction, some in the other. Some women will become more traditional in approach, others will opt out altogether, some will bite the financial bullet and be working single mothers or live on welfare.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 05:39 PM
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I think that they don't have a lot tied up in encouraging women to actually conceive deceptive pregnancies, such things occupy a neutral position in their ideology, neither good nor bad. Most of what seems to us like they are defending such practices is more about them vigorously defending women in general from being accused of such practices. They'd rather save one wrongly accused woman from censure, at the risk of selling ten deceived men down the river. Thus Vaselgel doesn't upset them.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 05:37 PM
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There's not been much sign of them opposing it. A few doubts here and there but only about as many doubts as I've heard from men. The general concept seems acceptable to them.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 11:18 PM
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In the world we currently live in, there are the two strategies I mentioned above for a woman to have a baby: babies born with or without committed fathers. In the future world of pervasive Vasalgel, the latter strategy vanishes. Really? I agree it will almost eliminate sudden oops pregnancies on the sort of men who will man up and be a father, but I can't see it being all that difficult just to get sperm once vasalgel is introduced. Trip to a different country where such procedures are too cost…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 11:13 PM
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MTE. She's just been speaking to OP the way women speak to each other about men and the way men speak to each other about women. The moral of the story is women don't belong on pedastals because they are human. She doesn't sound too bad as young women go. She knows she needs to work at finding what she wants, she's not slutting it up with every cock she can find, she's started her search while she is still relatively youthful, she's not an o-beast even if her weight does fluctuate. Could do with…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:28 AM
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If you want to be able to reign her in should she attempt to cock carousel through your friends then you'd be wise to accept that not going after her friends as plates or ONS is a reasonable boundary for her to set on you. Billions of people in the world, there's no reason siblings should be fucking each others friendships over.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 07:07 PM
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You ever been near a woman who was theoretically attractive but somehow she just didn't seem right for you? The pheromones are wrong or something. She reminds you too much of your sister or your mother. Her laughter grates too much. You noticed how her nose looks like a chicken nugget and it can't be unseen. Well that happens to women too. Ever been around a woman whose SMV is so low you'd normally never consider, but she has something She smells right. Her timing is perfect. Dat Ass. Well that …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:42 PM
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No human being has a 100% accuracy rating. Sending people off to counselling has never been in favor here, but I think you could benefit from some form of behavioral therapy. You need to stop doing this and I doubt that will happen without someone consistently making you confront the flaws in what you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 03:56 PM
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It isn't rape that is considered worse than murder, it is being a rapist that is considered worse than being a murderer. That's because rape is a crime of pollution, of soiling, the reaction isn't just anger it is anger and disgust.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 06:53 PM
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shrug He's spent the last 20 years eating too much and doing too little. This is what happens.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 11:22 AM
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By losing his zest for life and outcome independence while she experienced a lull in attraction due to childbirth he's done the male equivalent of gaining 80 pounds and ceasing to shave his legs. She has adapted to the natural repulsion she feels about this by squashing her libido down so the relationship can continue for the sake of the kids. Can't say I blame either of them more than the other. They both suck.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 03:47 AM
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I somewhat agree with you. Cold approaching can work, is a good learning exercise and should definitely be attempted. But if a man isn't living his life so that warm approaches are frequent and varied, the bread and butter of his game, then he's not doing the best he can for himself. To wake up one morning and think "I'm going to go out and make ten cold approaches on the street before grocery shopping" is at least doing something but the man who wakes up and thinks "Hey I'm going to Steve's par…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 11:08 PM
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Good luck. Keep in mind that there is always a small risk of recanalization. Any time you get a young fertile plate who you think might be determinedly trying to get pregnant I suggest get yourself checked to see it is still all juice and no seeds. Similarly after any infection, trauma, inflamation or other changes in the area of your balls and urinary tract.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 08:45 AM
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Improve your SMV, to be attractive enough to make the risk that you'll pump and dump an acceptable risk. Improve your RMV, to look like you've got prospects for having that little bit of beta-ness to offset the alpha. Make your dates more fun so she wants to go on another date just to have fun, then work on her from there.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 03:36 AM
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50 years ago he would have been set. Things change. Life is harder for men in many ways but easier in other ways. The "and then I'll be set" mindset kills masculinity in any era. You will NEVER be "set".
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 08:07 PM
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The shortest distance between you and being ripped is lifting heavy things and being smart about your diet. Hie thee to r/Fitness/ and read their sidebar before posting. The shortest distance between you and where you want to be socially and financially is taking a job in sales... the sort of sales where you have quotas to meet and have to close deals. Cars, big ticket whitegoods, furniture, carpets etc. This will put you way beyond your current comfort zone as a retail droid but it does not req…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 10:34 PM
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I divorced in the early nineties in Australia and I doubt the system was all that different to that in the UK. Those sort of divorces, where the assets aren't really enough to make a legal fight over property worth it? They are like bread and butter to the divorce courts, dozens going through any one sitting day. The judge has a damn checklist and it is tick tick tick down the list and a telling off and stern lecture when you miss one of the advisable but not legally obligatory steps. Dude made …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 09:20 PM
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You don't even need a lawyer when you're both broke-ass broke or close to and have little to argue about, the pro bono legal advice available at the courts and the help of the court clerks in getting the paper work done is enough for a motivated person. Back before computers maybe you'd end up flinging someone a few bob to type up the documents.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:37 PM
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Even if he couldn't be bothered accessing the various sources of free legal advice available in the UK, in court the judge asks divorcing parties what they are doing about property settlement. The judge always pushes people to properly finalise the property aspect of their marriage, even destitute bums like they were. Either he didn't listen or he didn't care or he thought he'd be better off this way (maybe he thought he'd win by keeping all their meager assets instead of half... there was an ol…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:21 PM
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You got negged. A neg targetting RMV not SMV.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 05:09 PM
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Unless you want to be joined at the hip 24/7 the rapport has to break a little sometime so you can both do things like work, go take a dump, sleep etc. It is not a shit text if the reasons for the break and the manner of the break are normal, natural, polite and reasonable. Before you consider what you should do next consider this... what the fuck do you want her to do when she's chatting to you but she's got work to go to? Keep chatting, lose her job, blame it on you and be asking you to suppor…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 11:37 AM
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She's trying to get pregnant and wrest him away from his marriage. The rainy day insurance is ammunition to prove to his wife how long it has been going on for, so he can't say it was a one-off.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 06:04 PM
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Lost wages and medical expenses are very reasonable things for her to sue for, in decent countries these are covered under general workplace injury compensation provisions. As for the rest... well that's just how America's legal system works isn't it? The system makes people either risk everything to sue or commit most of their payout to the lawyer as payment, so they want as big a payoff as possible. She's not predatory (well no more so than any other woman) she's just being American.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:20 AM
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Solid rule if you're seeking a stable LTR and you're going for as good looking a girl as you can pull. Too much of an age difference and you can run into problems, if you're 40 and she's 20 and HB9 then that's a lot of guys aged 19 to 40+ who are still tempting to her and you're going to look a lot like beta bucks compared to many of the 26 year olds. Utter nonsense for ONS (she's pumped, dumped and forgot... afterwards who cares how old she was?) or if you're willing to accept a useful SMV gap …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 02:08 AM
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She has her children. Combine that with the general loss of hormonal function that comes with menopause and the extensive if somewhat shallow social circles that most women run, and many women do find it appropriate to give up active participation in the sexual marketplace if made single after about age 45. Besides which, many of her friends will be getting divorced too and therefore it is easy enough to find a housemate. This is one of the reasons why divorce was traditionally hard to get, the …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 10:22 PM
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If she's doing well materially there is no urgency for her. She has reproduced (multiple times) and is now sterile or very close to. It doesn't matter all that much for her genes whether she never has sex at all ever again, and survives off fantasies and self gratification. You and your brothers are the ones working to carry on the line now, and indeed if she shacked up with a low quality man she may even jeopardise your ability to inherit financial assets from her and your ability to use her fo…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 02:12 PM
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The natural way of things is you're supposed to be stronger and more attractive than her right now, and the marriage is supposed to have a bunch of kids to keep her busy. Things are not how they should be and she instinctively knows it and is increasingly under pressure from her sense that something is wrong with the household, hence shit testing. Find her something to occupy her and fix yourself up. Make the decision about whether to continue the marriage a few years from now.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/15 06:07 PM
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The most important thing to both of them is being the centre of attention, and this way they both get more attention. Their divorce makes perfect sense.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 04:51 PM
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Finalise everything financial/legal with your ex. If she's the one with the income right now and you aren't asking for anything in the way of support or settlement then you'll probably be able to persuade her to pay all the costs of filing, getting things fixed up so both of you can go your own way. Try not to hate her. Her dreams went to hell too. If you can avoid being bitter about your ex it goes a long way towards staying sane and stable and not falling into victim mentality after a breakup.…
/r/askTRP28/02/15 12:45 PM
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Jewishness goes down the female line. Mostly Israel is run by Orthodox Jews who are very tough on conversions and prone to spontaneously reversing them individually or en masse if they decide they don't like the particular rabbi or Beth Din involved. For a conversion to stand it you might as well say the woman who converts is going to have to perform not just Jewishness but Orthodox Jewishness at 100% accuracy the rest of her life and be willing to reconvert if her conversion is anulled. So Jewi…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 10:15 AM
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It seems more like she just figured out which women were popular and emulated them. To me it seems like she took what they were doing as the starting point and improved on it so she'd go further with less work.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 05:36 AM
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She's literally turning her profile into a commercial for herself. That's what dating profiles are.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 01:26 PM
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All her profile did was get her a date... a date which was likely to go very badly if she deviated too much from the reality in writing her profile. Everything else after that required her to present well personally. I don't see this as predatory.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 01:25 PM
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You're on a downward slope too as far as attractiveness to the 20 year olds you really want goes. Look at the graph. She wants a 23 year old and all other things (money, game, alphaness, your willingness to commit) being equal she will choose the 23 year old. Self improvement is essential, not an optional extra... unless you really want to follow the general pattern of picking up a 29 year old at the wall when you are in your early thirties and being her beta bucks.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 01:42 AM
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Does it matter? Is it even calculable? Set your course for as much improvement as is reasonably possible and then see. It isn't as though the improvement will be wasted if you still can't pull hot white chicks on the regular. You'll get to the enjoy the improvement.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 08:43 AM
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Young slim pretty white women have high SMV, possibly higher SMV than is warranted and they also perceive your SMV as a nonwhite man to be lower than other women might see it. The advice will always along the same lines. You can build your SMV and game until they are up to the task of banging hot white girls regularly. You can acknowledge that AWALT and that white women are overpriced for something that is in essence the same thing in a different wrapper and decide to go for women who are more r…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 09:47 PM
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Scenario 1. She's looking for a decent beta and she wants you to take the edge of her sexual desires in the meantime so she can deal with the fact she's not all that attracted to betas. Scenario 2. She just doesn't think the breakup was a good idea, wants to ease back into it without ever arguing that point. So what do you want? And how does what you want go with each of those scenarios?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 02:59 AM
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If you want a traditional family there is inherent risk, if you've decided that's what you want anyway then you aren't comparing her to the joys of remaining single you are comparing her to other women you could wife up. You're a lawyer so you're easily able to wife up a pretty young thing from a poor background who wants a nice house and security. Does she seem a better deal than that?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 09:49 PM
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I regret it so much now. Well tough shit hamster, your parents knew what was best for you when they signed that permission slip.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 01:50 AM
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More than 23 million doses were administered nationally since the HPV vaccine was licensed in June 2006. The 32 death reports were reviewed and there was no common pattern to the deaths that would suggest they were caused by the vaccine. In other words, some dumb bitch takes the vaccine and later that day she walks under a bus like dumb bitches do, and that's the vaccine's fault? Stop hamstering your fear of needles. Cancer is what you should be scared of. Christ, TIL that we've got antivaxxers …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 01:48 AM
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and has a history of killing & maiming young women. You need to back that up with links. The vaccine is a significant public health measure intended to reduce death, disablement and medical expenditures. When you suggest people should not participate in it you need to show why.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 11:34 PM
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HPV is implicated in mouth, throat and esophagus cancer too, and you can't totally avoid it by not kissing or going down on obvious sloots, because women lie about their history. Anyone who can get the vaccine should use it.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 11:28 PM
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There's a huge difference between slumpbusting with the occasional single enthusiastic HB4 after a fairly typical and pleasant club pickup, and the sort of antics omegas are willing to get up to.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 12:06 PM
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We had a long weekend together, and she had actually asked me out finally a week or so ago, after her being a plate of mine for about a month. There's something wrong with that sentence. Also sounds like she planned the deletion. You haven't by any chance at some stage said something to her that is approving of revenge porn? Because if you have, there's the trigger for it. She wants the porn out of your hands and she's willing to kill the relationship to do it.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 11:36 AM
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Omegas in general would fuck anything anywhere. AWALT, they are what they have evolved to be. By sending omegas away with great force she preserves herself a little from being impregnated with inferior sperm should she ever be too incapacitated to resist, and her husband approves because although he may occasionally want to be on friendly terms with an omega the last thing he wants is an omega hanging round who just wants to fuck his wife. On the other hand it is in the interests of a husband to…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 05:40 AM
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The hot blondes are a symbol of winning in direct competition against white men. A large victory in that regard (owning and running a company where he has the power to hire and fire many white men, being elected to a public office that is usually held by a white man, winning a major award that usually goes to white men, buying the biggest house in an upper class white suburb) may see his desire for hot blondes wane a little, until it is similar enough to his desire for other sorts of hot woman. …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 04:43 AM
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It means that although your girlfriend is quite capable of providing individual acts of support just like your mother did, what she is not going to do is endlessly provide that support based only upon the fact you exist. She didn't decide you should exist, she didn't carry you in her womb, you do not carry her genes forward to the next generation. You do nothing for her by merely existing and her instincts damn well know it. In fact, by merely existing as a man known to have had sex with her you…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 11:43 PM
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Surgical abortion requires one clinic visit instead of two and cramping/bleeding at home is minimal compared to hormonally induced abortion. If she's hiding it from a husband, parents or room mates then a surgical abortion is the practical choice. It probably says something regretable about the standard of the company I've kept most of my life that I know women who have done both.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 10:54 PM
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It is a minor surgical procedure. The clinic probably asks that the patient make the journey home in the company of someone and not drive. That's becoming a fairly standard liability precaution for same-day surgery because they don't want anyone coming to grief then blaming the doctor. The deal is you walk out with someone or you get into a taxi or you get billed for staying the night. I'd bet good money the OP got used so abortion sloot could save a few dollars while keeping her abortion secret…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 01:51 AM
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22 m she's 24 f, .... 36 f and l had sex .... (gf) caught me texting her .... I went to jail .... Because of past stuff between us she believes him more. You need to do better, but probably not with your current girlfriend. She's too smart for you.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 12:13 AM
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Bullshit advice. Look top quality, all the time. Take out the girl who best suits your needs at the time. If she looks better than you, make mileage off the preselection. If you look better than her, enjoy the passive dreadgame.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 12:08 AM
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Your SMV was high enough for her to stay a plate while you were around all the time but wasn't high enough to keep her as a plate while you went away to college. Accept this fact. Stop looking for validation from her. Improve yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:58 AM
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Australian women have always liked a tipple as a "reward" for a long day being just another goddamn housewife. Before it was wine so much it was beer, many was the 1950s housewife who had a longneck of beer (with or without her husband joining in) at the laminex kitchen table, every night after putting the kids to bed. The only reason this is news is that the baby boomers are turning into empty nesters, and being a bunch of self cetred hypocrites they are starting to not enjoy seeing younger peo…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 08:34 PM
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It might be a good thing for both men and women, to be quite brutally honest. Very hard for anyone to hamster their way around the fact that they just don't measure up. After everyone learns how to game the system to the best of their ability there will still be plenty of outraged low level betas and fat women. Maybe a little outrage will be good for them. Take it as a wakeup call, you've got to improve.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 08:05 PM
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She didn't get you fired. Sure maybe they are using her complaint as a reason, but if they'd wanted they could have just written you up for it. They fired you because they wanted you gone and she was a convenient place to lay the blame. I have no idea why they wanted you gone. Hopefully you can keep your act together enough to convince them to write something other than "fired for misconduct" on your paperwork. "Lack of available work" is a good one.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 07:26 PM
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Orbiters are gonna orbit. College is the worst time for them because it holds the most opportunities for girls to hang out with men without it being overtly sexual. Letting your girlfriend know this worries you is a bad idea. It is part of the twisted warped normality of college and you don't want to look like you can't handle normality. She'll put you in the same class as the men who won't let their wives walk five minutes to the corner store alone to buy milk for fear she fucks a random behind…
/r/askTRP09/02/15 09:42 PM
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Can't care for a kid? Won't care for a kid? Orphanages and lunatic asylums for the rest of the kids life unless the kid is lucky enough to be picked out by someone wishing to adopt or the parents or another family member has second thoughts and pulls them out. And there aren't all that many locals who adopt because everyone knows those are places you put kids when something is wrong. They've the taint of deformity and misfortune all over them. The children of families where something went wrong.…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 09:30 PM
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In many parts of the world it has been standard procedure to dump disabled children onto the State, so much so that any couple who does otherwise will be regarded as having caused injury to the entire family. Very common in anywhere that has done time under the Soviet or Chinese versions of communism. Nasty surprises like that are maybe something to consider if you're searching for a wife outside your area of cultural competency.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 06:31 PM
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why should the mother only have to carry that expense. Because she's not obliged to offer the father the choice of doing that child caring work himself. And generally she doesn't offer. And a lot of the time that's because she doesn't want the father building up a history of primary caring. No competent parent should have to pay for their child to be in the care of a stranger despite being willing to assume that care themselves.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 12:02 AM
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There's already a formula for working out child support, a custodial parent should pay for their childcare out of that. Getting extra for parking the kid with strangers is the biggest load of nonsense ever.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 07:03 PM
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Paying half of daycare is such a bullshit deal. Each parent should have a separate daycare account with the daycare provider and pay for the daycare that occurs within times they have care of their child.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 10:12 AM
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Having sex in public is a criminal offense anyway and likely to get you on a sex offender register, public sex with an unconscious woman who can't run away with you when the police show up to bust you both is beyond stupid even if she doesn't want to press charges. Someone a little less stupid can have his university place and that's fine by me.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 02:12 PM
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Damn right. Flirting is a procedure designed in part to weed out autists and shut ins who take everything too literally and too seriously. And this is why lifting will never completely replace the need to have social skills. Now everyone who took her seriously even after reading "MLA format please" needs to take a long hard look at themselves and their need to get out and socialise more. Dammit.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 05:04 PM
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He reckons that he worked for 30 years while I didn't provide at all, so 3 months is not a big deal. Does he want to preserve the marriage? He's got to lose that attitude for a bit if he wants to preserve the marriage. From her perspective it is a huge thing, as big as it would be for him if he had to take up a job selling vacuum cleaners door to door and learning cold call selling skills and making quota after a lifetime in manufacturing. She's having to take up new behaviors and face new chall…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 02:01 AM
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Most things that build good solid SMV are also good for you outside of the sexual marketplace. If you're thinking of going MGTOW purely because the task seems so enormous you're selling out on yourself not just turning your back on women. I suggest you make your decision on whether to go MGTOW forever when you have improved most aspects of your SMV that also have benefits for you as a MWGHOW As for the criminal well yes being a bad bad guy is one way to get pussy. But a lot of the pussy he'd be …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 08:12 AM
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Send her a pack of cloth diapers and a card saying "Best of luck."
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 05:41 PM
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There's a saying amongst the poor "a wet pussy and a dry purse don't match"
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 05:14 PM
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A lot of women who are very poor try to make money off sex, not always through outright prostitution but definitely by getting money off their hookups. You've got a lot to learn about the world if you "can't believe the nerve of these hoes" its a tough old world out there and minimum wage is bullshit. Deal a little drugs, shake her arse a bit, grease a few knobs, get her dentist bills paid so she don't end up with a mouthful of rotted out teeth and no future. Her husband is probably a loser alph…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:14 PM
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I think you're just going to have to suck it up and hold frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 07:36 PM
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I'm fine with it. It funnels a little money back into the demographic who are pedalling as hard as they can to stay middle class.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 04:30 AM
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What she means is "you aren't any more attractive than the sort of young guys I can attract who still have higher T and are still naive enough not to gatekeep their commitment fiercely should I decide I want it" shrug Approach more girls that age and if all of them do it that's a sign you need more work on your SMV in general.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 04:57 PM
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I'd take her to a cheap hotel just the once and be careful not to get her pregnant. Block out a whole day for it and let her do her best to impress me. And I wouldn't feel in the least bit bad about doing so.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 04:09 PM
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Houses become full of reminders of the past. Women are very sensitive to these things, their memories are far more emotional and contextual. Your house is evidence of how well you have led and how well you have provided. The chair you broke under your fat arse and then couldn't be bothered to fix so she fixed it. The scratch or dint on the wall where you were carrying a heavy piece of furniture, it slipped and you swore and threw a hamsterish beta tantrum. The garbage bin you always said you'd t…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/15 08:47 PM
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2111329/How-Picasso-called-women-goddesses-doormats-drove-lovers-despair-suicide-cruelty-betrayal.html 163cms.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 05:23 PM
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We partially deregulated the sexual marketplace when we allowed no-fault divorce. As often happens in a deregulated marketplace, the capacity to be a roaring success or the capacity to be a dire failure both get increased, and the amount of work those in the middle of these extremes must do gets increased. Hence lack of satisfaction on the part of both men and women. Yes, women too. A middle class woman used to be able to pretty much rely upon her husband allowing her to quit work several years …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 10:25 AM
1

Presumably blood transfusion could give a similar result. Anyone who feels this means their kids aren't theirs despite being certain they were the only sexual partner over the relevant period of time is stupid. There have been millions of paternity tests done and only a handful have turned up chimerism as an issue in paternity/maternity... and in those cases the scientists involved have been fairly sure that the chimerism has been due to the gonads involved belonging to a vanishing twin as per t…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 03:06 AM
1

The % given on a DNA test is a statistical calculation of how likely/unlikely it is that another random man's sperm would give the same result. While your total DNA profile is probably unique to you if you don't have an identical twin, the profile of those few sites that get examined in a standard DNA test may not be unique to you. DNA can of course be tested more thoroughly but the standard paternity tests are designed to be adequate for most purposes, and a good compromise between accuracy and…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 02:54 AM
1

Even getting knocked up by a guy from a bar in another town who she only knows the first name of and will never see again would be a more ethical choice than unilaterally putting a man she supposedly cares about on the hook for raising another kid he doesn't want. Not much more of an ethical choice but at least not immoral enough that I'm not willing to let it go under the "sexual strategy is amoral" rule.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 02:09 AM
2

I wouldn't if it was me. OP isn't friends with the guy, and the guy already has more than enough info about Kathy to know he's in a danger zone. Also its OP's sister, not Kathy, who made that suggestion.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 10:49 AM
8

It goes without saying that this is only a viable solution for a man who has all his ducks in a row on both SMV and financial security. Without that, one retrenchment or stockmarket crash and he could very well find himself in a similar situation to that which is common amongst those single mothers who do not know who the father is and thus get no child support... unable to earn enough to provide decent childcare, desperately in need of a partner who wll make a suitable parent but with very litt…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 07:24 PM
2

Conflict is change, conflict is opportunity. She sees you are having a conflict with her friend, in the context of her work environment, so she scopes out the territory without committing to anything. Why? You didn't get to know the specifics of that, may never get to know the specifics. Maybe she was working out whose side to be on. Maybe she was establishing friendly relations with you so that if the poop hits the fan you'll try to avoid dragging her in. Maybe she was after material to give he…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:41 PM
6

She was collecting information because you became relevant to a part of her social context she actually cares about. She got the information she wanted and the situation changed so you were no longer relevant.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:28 AM
1

Take up at least one hobby that brings you into contact with other men and is not regarded as typical of Indian men in the society you live in. Around here I'd recommend fishing, but that may vary depending on where you currently live. You'll find that works very well for you on a number of levels. Hard to explain but just trust me on this one. And I agree with soccerplusaviation when he says you should add "approach girls" to your list. Even if you're aiming for a largely monk-mode existence yo…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 05:41 AM
1

You give your LTR the best sex she's ever had and then you start worrying you've screwed up by doing so. I'm shaking my head at you boy. Stop feeling you're going to have to do that sort of sex for her every time. Just tell her you think she needs to recover between bouts like that so she doesn't get loose, and then give her that sort of sex when it suits you to do it.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:11 PM
1

Clock it all if you're base grade and performing with at least average efficiency. If you're crap at the job, you might want to work extra and hide it until you can improve. If you want to build value, one of the best ways in a large workplace is to start a social club and organise "wholesome" social stuff while not on the clock. One of the large workplaces I worked at in my youth there was a post-wall woman who did nothing special other than run the social club and I swear, when it came to staf…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 04:22 AM
1

If he's a high school kid, third base is pretty good. Intercourse is about as difficult to get in that peer group as anal is difficult to get for employed guys in their late twenties. If a high school kid had a bunch of girls letting him go to third base I'd have no problem with him calling them plates.
/r/askTRP12/01/15 05:56 AM
1

She's having NSA sex with you and was amenable to taking a break because feelings were creeping in and she didn't want commitment? Don't hold your breath waiting to see if the relationship progresses, she hasn't bonded with you and was happy taking deliberate measures not to bond with you. You are not her "Mr Right" you are her "Mr Right Now" on some nights by virtue of being readily available even when she can't be bothered picking up someone at a bar. It doesn't matter whether she fucked a doz…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:42 AM
1

Very sensible post. Many of the things women find unattractive can damage sperm quality or erection quality Being a fatass, not exercising, never making the effort to be successful or passionate at anything and therefore forgoing the testosterone improvements that brings, drinking, smoking, spending all day sitting down.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 03:12 AM
3

You're just in high school? Go to the concert. High schoolers should go to concerts. It is a special time of life and you'll remember all the concerts you go to in high school. If you get to slide a hand under her blanket and get a bit of stinkfinger while watching the show, all the better. Because this is high school kidstuff and you'll leave each other behind in a very short while it doesn't matter that she's trying to manipulate you... what matters is that you've started noticing things like …
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:23 PM
1

If you're going to want/need plates who are exclusive, you've just upped the difficulty level of what you're attempting. Non-exclusivity is the one upside that plates get to enjoy in exchange for never being able to get commitment. So I guess build your SMV. Either you've going to need enough SMV to have plates who are OK with being exclusive to you even though you aren't exclusive to them or you're going to need enough SMV to lock down a unicornish sort of girl. And if you don't have more plate…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 11:58 AM
1

There is such a thing as white Hispanic. Just she's not it.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:43 AM
3

Really? With that face? She's got native blood and a few drops of black. Clear as day. There's photos of her at the funeral with their sons http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2889184/New-York-City-Police-Commissioner-rift-NYPD-Blasio-hundreds-uniformed-officers-turned-backs-mayor-cop-funeral.html The profile shot clearly shows her little bit of black heritage and the shot of her clutching the flag shows her native heritage pretty well.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:39 AM
6

Ramos is clearly mixed race Hispanic Why are you calling her white?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 03:23 AM
0

shrug Either she can swing it or she can't. Sexual strategy is amoral.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:27 PM
2

Universities are sort of like private clubs. You know how you think of it as "getting a degree"? Well the official historical way of referring to it is you are "admitted to the degree of..." So the club doesn't have to let/keep you in if it doesn't want to for some reason, including morality. Of course its pretty rare to turf people out once they've been admitted to a degree, that would make people very unwilling to get degrees at all, if they could end up as doctors or lawyers with their entire…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:03 AM
6

He's lost her attraction now, and as much as I think legs are best shaved I can't help but agree her loss of attraction is correct. Fucked her for a year with no shaving no problem. Then his friends decide to tease him. I mean what next? They get to vote on what outfit she wears? How high her skirt is? Woman wants her man to be a rock. He's not a rock. He's a little boy who can't take teasing. That doesn't make a woman feel safe. It makes her feel he's letting her friends own her too.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 02:34 AM
1

Talk to her mother about your concerns for your child's welfare, then listen to what her mother has to say. If her mother is very worried about her unstable daughter having sole custody and wishes she could take that baby herself, you might be able to go to court and apply for joint custody with her mother, possibly get child welfare involved too on your side. Her mother is going to have all the dirt on how cray cray her daughter is. You might still have to pay child support (I don't know Canada…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 05:45 AM
3

Frame the need for discretion as being for her benefit. Tell her you wouldn't want to mess things up with her ex considering there are kids involved, that it doesn't matter how much a guy says he won't mind his ex moving on he almost always does mind, and that it would be foolish for her to risk the stability of her parenting relationship for something that may just be a fling. Might be difficult finding a venue, since your place is watched by neighbors and her place is watched by kids. Cheap ho…
/r/askTRP30/12/14 07:16 AM
2

Hence the invention of the term "basic bitch" to try to get you looking at ordinary middle class white girls and wondering what's wrong with them. Nothing's wrong with them that isn't wrong with women in general. Pumpkin spice doesn't harm vaginas any more than collard greens would.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 06:03 AM
0

If you like black chicks then you're lucky, they are generally seen as low SMV and are therefore as thirsty as hell. If you're white you've satisfied the hypergamy right there without doing a thing. Sportiness does not disqualify a girl from being called basic as far as I've seen the term used. Hippy and stoner girls, well see what I said about black girls.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 05:25 AM
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I thought it was a term invented so ghetto hoes had something they could say to insult those middle class white girls who elect to live simple decent ordinary lives, abiding by society's conventions and enjoying simple wholesome pleasures. I mean how does a girl not be basic? Multicoloured dreadlocks and a liking for trance music. Dumpster diving for groceries. A fifth of vodka instead of the pumpkin spice latte. Nude selfies not gym selfies. Next time you see a list of what "basic" girls do, th…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 05:07 AM
3

Less sympathy and allowances made than ever before for men who get a girl pregnant. That's going to be the main result.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 04:32 AM
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They have hobbies and interests that don't interest most men. Sewing, knitting, quilting etc. A lot of them put these interests on hold during their college years because dorms are not the best environments for those activities, and many do not take up those interests again after letting them lapse in favor of CC riding. If you want your daughters to maintain their feminine interests during their college years, live near a decent college and don't let them move into dorms.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:50 AM
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She's standing in the street alone, no backup, and you've been asking her a bunch of questions and have given her a canned story. Then you want her name. Next time, introduce yourself at that point. Give her a little something to even the scales.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:14 AM
1

Why would women find attractive a total rejection of participation in the society they live in? Doesn't sound like a good survival trait. Even criminals and sociopaths tend to only reject society's rules (and even then, in a selective way) not participation in society in general.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:26 AM
1

IMO fat women have a tendency towards narcissism AWALT.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 04:49 AM
2

Then by all means, return to Asia if that's where you've found the best prospects for yourself.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 03:29 AM
1

The fat chicks on OKCupid are no more narcissistic than the skinny ones. They are just doing the same thing everyone does, applying an amoral sexual strategy. In this case they are advertising the fact that they may be fat but at least they fuck.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 03:27 AM
0

Men need to stop enabling women to be obese, misbehaved sluts Sexual strategy is amoral. Low value men are not obliged to do without the sort of women they can get just to improve things for other men.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 03:03 AM
0

Why would you want to avoid acquiring something as important as conversational skills?
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:58 AM
1

The general standard of human beings is shitty now. There are plenty of low value men willing to give them commitment and the occasional high value man looking for a slump buster. If you're high enough value not to have to fuck them then who cares? If you aren't high enough value to avoid fucking them, then get your head out your arse and become higher value.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:53 AM
0

It is kind of a given that any plates who have a decent SMV will eventually cheat, branch swing and in general be on the look out for a step up in life. Being a cheat doesn't rule a girl out from being a plate.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:46 AM
1

eyebrow raise That's ridiculous. Keep an eye on the bottom line of course, but if she's a productive and diligent sort of girl a lot of her goals are going to be thoroughly worthwhile ones that help the household.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 08:47 PM
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He's made his decisions. How is it, as a legally adult man, living off another man's beta bux in his home while he puts you through college... all the while holding that man in contempt for the way he pays for everything? My suggestion is stop bothering him, he's got enough problems and you're still one of them.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 08:26 PM
1

Flipping the script totally is counterproductive and not possible except maybe with very high SMV young men being courted by elderly fat rich women. Men are not women, women are not men. If you flip the script too much she would be the one dictating where/when you went. It would be coffee and a doughnut at Krispy Kreme while she grills you about your suitability as a LTR prospect. Remember, she wants commitment and you want sex. You will find yourself in a commitment decision situation much as y…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 08:15 PM
1

If you really don't like how a room mate behaves then you should definitely consider finding another living situation. Both male and famle room mates can come with their peculiar sets of problems. Now maybe I'm just a silly old fart with low standards, but OP's problems seem small as room mate problems go. If she was doing things like getting drunk and trashing his stuff or not paying her bills or giving his friends herpes he would have told us. So far her wrongdoing seems limited to talking abo…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 06:58 PM
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She is reaping the benefits of the stability that she knows she has with me, just fucking living together, when there has been absolutely no thought of consideration in regards to a romantic relationship. Sharing accommodation with the intent to be more financially stable is why most people have room mates. If you don't like that she makes little remarks when you bring girls over then you need to work out how you will deal with that... you can tolerate it, you can try to change it in some way, y…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 08:18 AM
1

You stay friends with most of them, but you end up spending very little time around them randomly hanging out because hanging out is a time thief. You invite them to parties, barbeques etc at your place sometimes, if they've managed to keep up a level of presentation and value that isn't totally out of line with your own. Sometimes they'll invite you to parties too, and you'll go, and occasionally you'll meet someone interesting that way. Some of them become bitter, old, decrepit before their ti…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 06:42 PM
1

Just fade her out. Increase the gaps between contact and decrease the intimacy of the contact until you're at a distance that works for you. If you're having trouble doing this, keep a log of contacts with her. That way she won't hate you and if you've got any use for her in future you won't have burned your bridges.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 12:13 PM
0

You don't fix the consequences of having taken the path of least resistance by continuing to take a path of least resistance. Just get the fuck over it and move on.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 11:26 PM
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Anyone have any other tips for those poor guys stuck in a marriage 2.0? Man up and be the sort of man who she wants to please.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 10:07 AM
6

You've only been dating a month and a half. What the fuck is there to "break up"?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 11:46 AM
1

His ex-wife has blood on her hands, as does the system who let her win. Be angry at her for making his offspring instead of the offspring of a better man. But jesus christ on a low-carb cruskit, how could anyone blame her for getting her children the fuck away from him, or the courts for letting her? Guy was a violent loon. If my daughter was married to someone like that I'd kill him myself and save the divorce courts the trouble.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 04:57 AM
3

Not everything is redpill or bluepill. Long-distance relationships being fukked up is everythingpill. Distance gets in the way of everything no matter what paradigm you are working from. Trying to show value and fuck her good and hard? Trying to be the bestest bluepill emotional tampon ever with cuddles and gazing into her eyes? Both equally screwed by long distance.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 10:25 PM
1

If I was straight out of highschool again in 1987? I'd do a trades apprenticeship then work in mining for half a decade. Then back to civilisation with my savings to start a franchise of some sort.
/r/askTRP27/11/14 09:51 PM
9

Long distance relationships are for chumps. In this case I admit my sympathies are 50% with the woman. 9 years and no baby, and no public commitment, and no regular sex, and no shared household. What does he expect a relationship to run on in the long term? Skype and dreams and seeing each other for holidays? A woman is reproductively good for maybe 20 years and he's had half of it and she's got nothing. It is no surprise that at this point she starts looking around for an alternative to him. Mo…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 09:34 PM
1

He loved his wife, his son, his daughter. Treat them with the kindness and dignity he would want for them in their time of grief. Say goodbye and leave.
/r/askTRP21/11/14 01:55 AM
4

Exercise. If money is short here are cheaper options for this than joining a gym. Diet. You need to get a handle on controlling calories. Maximise your current job, whatever that means in the context of what you are doing. This might mean being more responsible, and getting on better with people. It might mean putting more of yourself into it when you are there. It might mean cleaning your workshoes more often. It might mean a bunch of things. Start interacting with other people in social contex…
/r/askTRP21/11/14 01:41 AM
6

Not really strange at all other than that she said it rather than just thought it. She's obviously an alpha widow. OP isn't the best she's had, not by a long shot. She swallowed that other guy's cum and was damn grateful. And that's why she's a plate, she's amusing herself and honing her whorishness until she finds an alpha better than the guy who made her an alpha widow or decides to settle for a useful beta. She's interested in getting better at the mechanics of blowjobs, but it isn't the OP s…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 01:19 AM
10

She's just a plate. Chalk it up as a data point, that plate has a bit of a wobble to it, she likes the sex but doesn't think it or you are special, she doesn't think you are the prize. Get another one of your plates to blow you. If you don't have another plate who will blow you, get one.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 09:26 PM
2

Let's use logic here. Is there a theoretic situation in which a woman would feel that continuing with a man is worse than being alone? If the situation exists in theory thed someone would have done it in practice, there being billions of human beings. I have to say yes. If he's not being alpha (attractive) or beta (provident) or a combination of the two, and he's costing her resources, and she doesn't feel a sense of hope that things will change, and she lacks an organised moral framework that s…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:04 PM
3

It used to take two people to run any sort of household worth living in. Single men lived mostly in boarding houses because that way they had support for regular meals and getting their laundry done.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 12:55 AM
1

Of course she does. Some omega is going to get lucky. How is this a problem?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 12:41 AM
2

Keep in mind what the waitresses provide the business that the waiters don't. Part of their job is to get hit on, and they take a bit of damage to their SMV from that. To date a waitress is to date someone who has heard almost every pickup line and had her bum patted several dozen times by strangers. You, on the other hand, get to lift heavy objects and get paid for how it improves your SMV. It would be good if you could at least get paid minimum wage for it though.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 01:53 PM
1

They are great for meeting women This is only the case if they are a social hub. Social hubs are the connectors between people, they tend to be in everything and constantly organising social events. If you meet anyone, male, female, indeterminate, or little blue asexual alien who is a social hub ferchrissake find a way to stay friends with them, the social whirlpool around them is a thing of great beauty and opportunity. Even better if you can be a social hub yourself... alas that would definite…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 09:37 PM
1

Overall the losses were male jobs, but there was still a phase when women in service industries lost their jobs. What was most notable was the relative lack of job losses to female white collar workers, everyone else was getting hammered and they were going along fine.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 12:55 PM
1

Should have stuck with the dancer, made it a LTR and pulled some married guy game on her, see if you could turn her into someone who respects you properly and is worth wifeing up. She's 6 foot tall, which means a guy with her genes would be 6 foot 6. You'd probably produce sons who are 6 foot tall. What a huge gift to your sons those genes and a TRP informed father would have been. You could have a home gym set up and start them off right from the very start. And if it turns out you can't turn h…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 12:48 PM
-1

There was a phase at the height of the GFC when a bunch of low paid workers, mostly service industries, and mostly women, lost their jobs. This looks to me like it could be part of the recovery from the GFC. What the impact will be on you will depend upon where you are situated in the sexual marketplace. If in general you have been spinning plates who have their shit together (the most stable sorts of plates usually do) or having LTRs with fully employed professional women this won't change anyt…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 09:55 PM
7

So let me get this straight. The lease is in her name. You were not initially intended to stay there this long. When it looked like you would need to stay longer, she lets you stay and suggests a relationship because she thinks you're kind of attractive. You declined. Many months later she's starting to find you cramp her style, she wants her room and her privacy back so she can get laid easier. In front of her you boast to your friend about having disposable income and how much the current livi…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 04:37 PM
2

Ah, Craigslist personals. Because they are free, anonymous and somewhat transitory and made use of by those who have persistent sexual marketplace problems, most people who use them have multiple ads, all with a different angle to them. Those three ads could all be the same woman. Men who use craigslist behave similarly... an ad that pitches him as a dom, an ad that is all about the beta qualities, an ad that is for the girl he really wants, anything to get a bite. Anyway, since the ads cost not…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 11:57 PM
3

Gas- Some sort of transport costs are indeed the price of not installing yourself permanently on the lounge playing da vidya games. Just calculate the cost of any trips longer than you regard as spare change and think twice about them, and you'll be fine. This is a standard cost of not being a shut in. Food- If she's your girlfriend and not just taking you for every beta buck you got, she should be up for eating at your place or you eating at her place before you go out. Expensive cell plan- The…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:01 PM
4

Plates screw around, for fun and to look for an advantageous branch swing. Their ease in doing so is one of the few perks of being a plate not a girlfriend, of course they are going to take advantage. This way they get to fuck you AND not waste time that could be spent looking for a lucrative beta. If you only want plates who spare your fee fees about this, then next her. If you're keeping her I suggest make a neutral or mildly positive comment on something about the setting or even something tr…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 03:02 PM
3

Maybe their photos are misleading, Maybe they are holding out for rich ripped doctors. Maybe they are covert about the fact they are looking for a man willing to marry them while tolerating some set of very specific requirements they have from their life such as running a cat rescue from home or continuing their job as a stripper. Maybe they are loners and have joined just to shut their parents up about getting married and making babies. Maybe they like it when betas buy them dinner. Maybe they …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 09:18 AM
6

They might ask you to do an exit interview. That's fairly common nowadays, with larger employers. You can of course decline to be interviewed if you wish, but presumably because you are still in your two weeks notice, you're still being paid and are still theoretically at their beck and call. This is something you should be aware of if you're planning on treating your resignation like a performance. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Exit_interview
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 03:55 PM
1

The statistics in those sort of studies are all fucked up by the fact that different studies use different definitions. Some of them focus on marriage and some focus on whether the couple reside together and some focus on whether they regard themselves as a couple.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 09:45 PM
13

I'm willing to take her word for it that the pregnancy was a surprise. At age 41 and with a history of infertility the chances of pregnancy must have seemed remote. Bet some guy is wishing he'd used condoms. That's the lesson. If a woman tells you she is infertile then use condoms anyway, she's never going to abort a pregnancy.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 06:16 PM
2

Go running, find something heavy to pick up and put down, apply for jobs, volunteer somewhere, offer to work around the house and garden to help your family. Gaming gives you nothing other than a sedative effect. You'd be better off growing vegetables in your parents backyard than you would be playing games, it would improve your physique more, improve your real world problem solving and ability to handle frustrations more etc.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:54 AM
-2

A bit of a tangent but ever since I read this I have thought it may be relevant to your interests. http://www.smh.com.au/world/wife-confesses-to-ordering-hit-on-australian-robert-ellis-in-bali-20141022-119mnt.html
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 06:48 AM
2

Quit gaming and fapping. You'll feel plenty attracted to the lower quality women who you actually have a chance with right now. You still won't like the idea of doing less well than you possibly could and how they reflect on you and your SMV, but that will be overridden by your desire for entertainment and release. Get your dick wet, accumulate a few low SMV plates, then reassess the situation in light of what you have learned. OR Monk mode. Stop trying for sex altogether, eliminate or reduce fa…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 11:04 PM
6

But its still interesting to see... No. Gamergate is not interesting to watch. Circlejerking with feminists is boring enough when one loses one's common sense and does it oneself, watching other men do it is mind-numbingly tedious.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 12:17 PM
1

Because her presence in the club is still an overall plus to the club and she should be encouraged to be willing to come back. The guy who danced with her may have been working up the courage to approach other women, or wanted to show off his dancing to other women. Or even dreadgame his girlfriend, point out that any time he wants he can be fucking a butterface. Butterherface? Yes butsheservesabusinesspurpose too. During the time she was at the club countless AFC's could have looked at her and …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 02:19 AM
13

Photographer should have spared her feelings and snapped a few with her in them to make it less obvious he was going for pictures without her or that she could reasonably be cropped from. It is only digital storage space, and only until he can delete them. Even the ugly chicks fulfill a role in the life of a club, a few hours later in the night.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:53 PM
1

Women liking hypertrophy is like men liking tits. Too much can be a thing when you're looking at an individual's preferences, but looking at the range of opinions found in a large group for each "too much" there's several who are saying "more please" End result is, women still get breast implants and men still build muscle mass to raise SMV.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 02:49 AM
3

Never spend any significant amount of money before the sex and probably not even then. Never spend any significant amount of money you wouldn't have spent otherwise before the sex and probably not even then. Fixed that for you. It's still OK to take a woman on a weekend holiday with hopes of sex just so long as you'd be doing it if there were no hopes of sex. If you genuinely want someone to look at tourist shit with, or to help you put up your tent, or because you just hate empty hotel rooms, a…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 09:30 PM
0

She still wants him to not replace her with someone else in her role as mother of that child. So long as he's being a father to that kid, the connection still exists. He's still got dread game leverage over her emotions that way just as she has cheating leverage over his emotions when she dates someone the kid might be tempted to call Daddy. The maternal instinct is more irrational, so he's got the advantage in this. This is how divorce/breakup works for couples with children. It blindsides a lo…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 09:22 PM
1

You're in a fairly good position to dread game her, believe it or not. If you see her dating girls who offer good LTR prosepects she's going to see some other future baby momma ready to take part of the child support away from her. If you have a good solid relationship with a nice girl then she'll hear of that girl behaving motherly when you have access visits, and it will chafe her like nothing on else on earth does. Be scrupulously polite to her, date a bunch of girls until you find a nice one…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 11:47 AM
8

Covert contracts to purchase sex are the work of a man who hasn't got the stones to hire a whore and call the transaction what it is.
/r/askTRP20/10/14 11:36 AM
3

"But everybody does it" is not an excuse, it is an unpleasant reality. Just like TRP is an unpleasant reality. And they will continue to do it because it makes solid economic sense. I tell you what, I'll give you the disclaimer you want to appease your precious moral sensibilities, now, once and for all, on behalf of every industry that has freelancers doing this sort of reviewing work for pennies plus what they can scrounge from those who make the products. THIS IS HOW THINGS ARE DONE. There. N…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 10:19 AM
1

The corruption (if you could even call it that) is built into freelance journalism about consumer items. Everybody, both the publishers and the producers of product, wants to get the reviews and articles for free, and since that's not possible because writing is work, they offer things to the writer instead of money. This is true in games, in motoring, in literature, in music, in review of tv shows... those are the fields I have personally witnessed it in going right back to the mid 1980s, but I…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 09:44 AM
-1

Bunch of virginal betas threw a tantrum because instead of the usual compensation of free samples, insider rumors, being taken out for a beer and occasional invitation to press only events, five freelance gaming journalists got compensated for their reviewing efforts with sex from the sort of girl who sees purple hair as the height of self development. Move along now, nothing for anyone who actually gets laid on the regular to give a damn about.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/14 08:10 AM
1

Lift. It will harden your face. Quit fapping so you can get it up for low quality women, then find a cougar bar and bag a few fat ugly 50 year olds each month to take the edge off and give you more experience. Work your way up to better as much as you can. Plan towards positioning yourself so if at some stage in future you decide to get a woman who is hitting the wall to have your kids for you, you can pick one of the better ones who got there because she was simply too busy actually working, an…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:58 PM
1

They beat the crap out the of the mistress because subjecting her to a prolonged and humiliating attack in which she receives benefit of no defense from her lover attacks any perception she has of her lover as being an alpha who can defend her. Bye bye tingles, all the mistress is left with is the fact she's providing sex and getting money in return. Far harder to hamster that away than it is to hamster merely being called a whore. Show don't tell. Quite ruthless but quite sensible.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 11:46 AM
0

The only man I personally know who does that is an author. But not everyone can be a successful author although many attempt it.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:35 AM
9

From her point of view, you've become unattractive. Jacking off to porn three times a week probably isn't helping, between the fact that it drains your testosterone and the fact that women always seem to know if you're doing it. Stop fapping so much, that will help fix your alpha game. She's got a one year old kid and she's working and bringing far more resources into the family than her man does, and studying so she can do even better. That is a deeply unnatural situation which can not be fixed…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:10 AM
-2

Most women are sluts, but they are no more or less than most modern men deserve in their current state.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 11:02 PM
1

Nope. When the poop hits the fan I don't want to look bitter or as if I still think about her. Even though I obviously am and do, because otherwise I wouldn't give two shits. If I wanted to spoil her plans I'd work out who I could find who would be thrilled to do the deed, and see if I can put the idea into their head without it seeming too obvious. Did her boss's wife eventually find out about the cheating?
/r/askTRP10/10/14 07:21 AM
2

Is your career likely to follow the common pattern of needing to move to an employer in or very near the city as your career progresses? If so, I say definitely live near your current work for now. You'll get to try the city later.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 12:28 PM
1

She sees you as FWB, you see her as a plate. There are subtle differences in the paradigms. Being invited to the occasional dinner party with friends is still within the bounds of a FWB relationship where the F aspect of the relationship is strong, but is a bit more than one expects in a plate spinning situation. So she may or may not be trying to convert you to being a boyfriend. Maybe she wants everyone to assume you are her boyfriend and then you've got to refute it or let it pass? I'm way to…
/r/askTRP08/10/14 12:20 PM
2

Common sense says that there are some girls who have only had a handful of partners. She doesn't get to go from zero to 100 without passing through 1,2,3,4,5 etc therefore there are girls who are relatively new to the carousel or for whom the carousel turns slowly who have that lower count. If you want them, then you've got to be willing to at some stage accept that they exist and it is you who are responsible for holding your cynicism and anger in check long enough to work out whether a girl is…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 12:03 PM
3

Whether you can or can't shouldn't matter to your actions. What is undoubtably true is that putting in the effort improves your situation.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 03:08 AM
2

Tell me how you see yourself and your situation in five years if something happened and it became just barely affordable for you to walk out. And tell me what of that is not possible if you stay. And tell me why it isn't possible. Specifics.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 11:44 PM
5

She's crap in bed despite the fact you've taught her everything she knows. You're leaving because you are better than her but then again you aren't actually going to be physically leaving because you can't afford it. It isn't about sex and even if it was you could open up the marriage, it is about your life slipping away and your inability to make something of yourself while you have a 100% supportive wife at your side. Says it all really.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 10:33 PM
1

I get the distinct feeling this app is for when a woman is willing to go for a beta because she's got no hope for getting what she wants with an alpha, but wants to trickle-truth her details (weight, age, appearance, n-count, trans status) to make sure she is not rejected in public at a date. So HB2 to HB4 women, going up to maybe HB7 if she's at the wall and in a tearing hurry.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 06:36 PM
1

I can imagine that unattractive women (maybe HB2 to HB4) will use it because they are in a similar position to betas and desperately want to make approaches but are reluctant to handle the shameful feelings public rejection at a date gives them. This way they can chat a long while and trickle truth the details of their weight, appearance, mental health etc. Once the app has unattractive women there then the lower-level betas will show up, because no matter how shameful it feels to have a profile…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 06:32 PM
2

I don't see a problem with it ending up as an app for extreme betas and omegas to use. Likewise the women who have the sort of SMV that rightfully positions them at that end of the market. shrug Even beggars have to eat sometime, right?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 03:04 PM
-1

Yes, there is also a very real difference between the amount of sympathy that should be extended to a man whose wife leaves to chase better and the amount of sympathy that that should be extended to a man whose live-in girlfriend leaves to chase after something better. If that formal public commitment to forever has not been made, then the rest of the world is quite reasonable in assuming that whatever you had together came with the expectation of an experiation date to it. To complain that the …
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 04:24 PM
1

That's why you rent if you want to share a home with a girl who is not a forever proposition. At the end of the lease you get a new lease somewhere else, without her on it. Bye bye girlfriend! I'm not saying you should or shouldn't share a residence with her. Just that it is possible to do it in a limited manner for a limited time, if you're firm about some things.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 06:40 AM
1

AH. Well that would be a problem. If you wouldn't mind a year or two living with her but think more is too much to take on, tell her that you're willing to help her move to your town by sharing a lease for a year if moving to your town is what she wants, but you're not looking for commitment right now, and it is quite possible you may never be looking for commitment. This may cause her to dump you altogether rather than shift, but if you've got some affection for the poor girl I guess you can fo…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:47 PM
2

You're a man, you've got longer to play with than women do. And renting is just renting, it is ended when the lease ends if you want it to be. Are you scared of oneitis, that you can make a logical decision now but won't be able to after cohabiting a year? If the oneitis is not an issue and you're willing to do this on the basis that it is a trial, may only last one lease signing and she is not to expect that it creates a permanent situation for her, then I'd be more concerned that you were movi…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:36 PM
2

The primitive agrarian life. Betas are better farmers because they bend themselves to the yoke. When the beta farmers can get together and give support to a single alpha who will protect them by organising and repressing the other alphas, then aside from taxes the betas have protected their wealth pretty much all of the time and their women most of the time. If they raise on average ten kids and two of those are the offspring of alpha fux, it isn't too bad for them, since when you are working th…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 09:12 AM
2

I don't think she holds this against me since she had wanted to do something like that beforehand in order to save money for a house. Now her hamster has got your hamster going. Of course a person is going to be pissed over agreeing to do something difficult and awkward to get a significant benefit with an end goal in sight, then ending up having to do it for the foreseeable future just to survive. She wasn't agreeing to live with her inlaws because she loved the thought of it, she was agreeing …
/r/askTRP27/09/14 05:20 AM
7

Considering that all available evidence indicates that the ecosystem exists to keep 80% of guys from having sex at all, fuck the ecosystem.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:43 AM
10

He's a fat puny single beta in his fifties. She's his age but has obviously taken care of her looks and works what she's got. Sounds like she's pretty much precisely his league, just as a bit younger (maybe forties) but fatter/uglier women would be in his league. This is why TRP suggests self improvement. He's not going to thank you for cockblocking him with a women who is fairly evenly matched to him. Let them have their fun.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 09:51 PM
4

If your SMV isn't substantially above hers, you won't.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 10:54 PM
2

The people who do have the money you are talking about frequently react to divorce from a person who does not have their own money by systematically removing that person from their family, including making sure that you never see any minor kids again. Stories of being declared insane and institutionalised (amazing what expensive lawyers, family doctors, and the soon to be ex can do while working in concert during a breakup) or being sent to prison on trumped up charges are not uncommon. If you t…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 11:53 AM
6

But she's gonna take you for $100k when that's her monthly allowance? The rich don't get and stay rich by giving a sucker an even break. Daddy hands her the $$$ under the table and she still hooks into you with a lawyer for your pennies. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2714084/Bristol-Palin-fighting-child-support-Levi-Johnston-earning-ZERO-income-two-years.html
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 12:51 AM
2

Then go do it. Find a way to meet the girls you're pining for and bang them. Set up as a tutor. Or go back to do a further degree or certificate. But don't be surprised if it fixes nothing more than any other sort of bang fixes. The past is the past. Life goes forward.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 07:40 PM
3

You were unattractive in that situation. Be that by your behavior, your body, your level of wealth or by your race not being the favored one in the place you were. Attractive girls who behaved flirtily to other guys, had banging bodies and were of the favored demographic did not want to fuck you. That is the universe being in balance. You've got no more right to complain about it than fat or ugly girls have a right to complain that they only ever get pumped and dumped by attractive guys. It was …
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 01:27 PM
1

Just keep sexually teasing her for the next 24 hours.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 11:07 AM
2

How you get a girl is usually how you lose her, because it is how anyone could get her.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 11:00 AM
1

You don't need every girl, you just need enough girls. I suggest playing to your strengths and finding some sort of gig you can do during your time off work and justifies you wearing eyeliner, acting like an artsy degenerate and gaming every halfway decent looking alternative girl within sight. Musician, artist, actor, sculptor, writer whatever plays best to your natural aspy obsessiveness. Start lifting but initially try to aim for a wiry sort of strength not hypertrophy, think Iggy Pop in his …
/r/askTRP16/09/14 04:49 AM
1

I have no Applebees specific experience, but usually there is a set of rostered times, to start, finish, and have breaks, but those are more of a suggested plan based upon projected sales justifying per hour wages costs than anything else. No customers? Half the staff get sent home after a couple of hours work. Too many customers? Everyone stays late, first to serve the customers and then to get all the cleaning, prepping and restocking work done that wasn't done because everyone was too busy se…
/r/askTRP16/09/14 04:28 AM
1

Why are you even arguing with women about feminism? I can't imagine a more pointless venture.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 04:30 PM
1

Chlamydia is asymptomatic in most girls.He'd have to prove she actually knew she had it when she had sex with him.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 04:28 PM
1

He fell in love with a huge slut, she's fat, she used him, His problem not yours. took his virginity, Oh no, not his PRECIOUS VIRGINITY! Exactly how much is an 18 year old man's virginity worth? Here's a hint, it has negative value. In this she did him a favor. cheat on him with her ex, gave an STD Chlamydia to my friend, dump him again because she wanted to have more freedom to go clubbing with her friends and despise all the stuff I told him, he's getting back with her. So your friend is young…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:09 PM
6

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Panel_van_%28Australia%29 This is how generation after generation of Australian young men have found room for a little intimacy. Make sure to have an excuse that gives you plausible denaibility about why you need a vehicle you can sleep in, and you're good to go.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 04:58 AM
2

They've known you as a boy. Probably an annoying boy who used to fart on the lounge for amusement and dob them into the parents over trivialities. Now you're trying to step into some sort of fatherhood role with them. It ain't gonna wash. They are of the age when the man who is going to step into that role for them is a man they are fucking.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 04:37 AM
1

acne.org you don't need to buy their products, similar are available at most pharmacies.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 04:26 AM
3

Does it matter? Coffee is no big deal. If it turns out she just wants a beta orbiter you know how to avoid falling into that trap in the long term. Maybe she's not keen on you but other Olivia is and she's playing wingman. Go for coffee, find out.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 05:12 AM
1

Do you have two more plates? If not, then you don't have the upper hand.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 07:03 AM
2

Where is your own jersey/team uniform? The uniform of a darts team that plays at local pubs is more of a draw than the jersey of a famous well paid team you don't play for. It shows you have contacts, are relied upon in a team situation.It shows that you do things. Of course there are times and places. To wear a bit of fan type gear... a jersey, a beanie or a scarf... to an actual game or to a party you've thrown to watch a game shows you know about dressing to the situation. To wear a jersey th…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 06:56 AM
2

By having a high enough SMV that she's willing to pay the price... or by giving her the commitment she's asking for.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 07:21 AM
1

The crew often have headsets and can hear what you are saying to the drive thru girl. Two or three other staff members might hear what you say... those crew members could be of any way of thinking, blue pill, sjw, maybe even someone who has oneitis for the drive thru girl. She's not going to give you her number unless she is willing to look like she's an easy pickup. And if you say anything to her that upsets the crew, your food may get tampered.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 11:04 PM
2

There's a theory that when people breed at a natural rate without modern medical care, menopause is perfectly aligned with the maths of at what stage it becomes more rational for a woman to devote her energies to her existing children and her future grandchildren rather than continue to risk her life producing children. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grandmother_hypothesis#The_grandmother_effect
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:05 AM
8

He takes the bits of red pill theory he likes, grinds them into powder, mixes the powder with his own jism and uses it to cement together large blocks of compressed bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:23 AM
5

thatincelblogger is a muppet, is there any particular good reason why you are inflicting his nonsense on us?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 02:58 AM
1

You're right. She knows she's never going to get the money for failing the class. She also knows her ex is going to start lying to the judge to save his reputation as soon as the breakup starts being talked about, and that he's going to lie so badly he's very much going to shoot his credibility in the foot over and over. Judge isn't going to give an inch on anything she's actually entitled to once he starts lying and proving himself reluctant to take responsibility for his actions. Usually judge…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:28 PM
1

She's sexually frustrated by the LDR, she thinks your SMV is acceptable in general but lower than her LDR so she doesn't want to branch swing, she's opposed to infidelity in general but her moral compas wavered and she let you make out and finger her (probably the physicality of the dancing made it waver... not just the stuff you did to her but the moving and the music and the beat) but thought better of it later when the dancing ended, she's keeping you round either to be a beta orbiter or as a…
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:40 AM
1

If it is a legitimate reason it is a legitimate reason. Just take it in stride like you would if one of your siblings cancelled something for a legit reason. Find something else to do, whether that's going out or working out or whatever.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 04:17 AM
1

There is no wall when it comes to being beta bux, women will marry ninety year old men quite happily. There is a wall when it comes to alpha fux. Look at Rupert Murdoch... he's still alpha of course in terms of holding frame, having options etc, but Wendy Deng was off looking for a bit of something slightly younger. Alpha fux is about your ability to make her instinctively feel you'll protect her and being a frail old man does not do that.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 10:25 AM
2

It is usually a bad idea to take a girl's virginity unless you're going to date her and give her attention and support for a bit afterwards. This is especially a bad idea if alcohol is involved. They often have regrets and second thoughts, and people they talk to for support will have a deep suspicion about the whole situation because no matter how society tries to say innocence isn't a prize, everyone deep down still knows it is and are suspicious of a guy who doesn't attempt to stick round at …
/r/askTRP31/08/14 12:55 AM
9

You start supplying her with a level of rewards closer to what you think she is worth. Ignore a lot of her hints, don't follow up on a lot of her suggestions. Either she sticks around when you do that, or she doesn't. Either she puts more into the relationship to try to get more, or she doesn't. If she outright confronts you that you aren't doing a particular thing, spout some nonsense about "well we're all older now and slowing down" or "I thought you'd got yourself sorted out by now... we're b…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 12:34 AM
0

You don't beat him up to change him or others like him. You beat him up because it forces her to support him or you. And there you get the truth, which is always nice to have from the point of view of closure.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 02:30 AM
4

Makes sense. Average girls often have lower counts and know they can't afford to lose any more SMV by slutting it up, so they shit test you to hell and back to make sure you're worth the loss. Hot girls constantly get initial attention from high value guys and put out to keep the attention, by the time they realise the difference between a player and a keeper, they've got their numbers right up to the level where one more won't do much damage.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 01:12 PM
2

Stop being boring. Just do something that will involve her. Renovate an RV on a tight budget, go on a holiday in it, then sell it for a profit. Open an online shop. Plant your yard with olive trees and plan on processing and selling them yourself. Do stuff, do stuff, do more stuff, do new stuff. Keep her interested in life and feeling like you're always going forward as a couple led by you, she'll keep you interested in sex.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 10:46 AM
2

I don't get it either. It is and should always have been obvious what she is. Her exboyfriend is a bag of whine and hamstering. Obviously when she went into business for herself she brought to the business her whole self, just like people always do when they go into business. Self employed is not the same as working for a wage. The mentality is different. You're "on" all the time and your attempt at success can take over your entire life and demands everything you've got. If you're self employed…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 01:11 PM
1

I agree. Female game developer paid some workers in sex not cash, who cares, she probably didn't have enough cash but she had an endless supply of sex, they went for the deal and at least sex is not taxable. Boyfriend makes obvious slut his girlfriend, goes all out for revenge when obvious slut remains obvious slut and is not rehabbed by his amazing magic dickwand... who cares he's a moron with unrealistic expectations of obvious sluts. Obvious slut schmoozes journalists by fucking them instead …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 07:27 AM
8

YES. If you're going to go after pussy from work, losing your job is on the cards. There are dozens of different ways it can go bad and get you sacked. Some of them don't even involve her being a bitch, maybe the boss is after her and he sacks you to get you out the way. Might want to give it a miss unless she's very high value and interested, and the job is not important to you.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 01:03 PM
27

The sheer number of zeros on her settlement is a testament to the ridiculousness of the divorce system, but if I had to nominate a Hollywood wife who deserved a full ride post-divorce it would be her.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 11:49 AM
1

"k, some other time maybe" And then just leave it. You now know she thinks the SMV gap isn't enough to get her dancing to your tune. Disheartening, but she's allowed to assess that gap however she wants based upon the few times she has interacted with you. Don't take it personal. Either increase that gap or slay some other pussy. You aren't going to increase that gap by harping on at her to go dancing and looking like you give a damn.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 08:31 PM
1

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2726635/No-no-no-I-want-leave-police-claim-Warienna-Wright-ASSAULTED-begged-leave-Gable-Tostees-apartment-fell-death.html The police are cooking with gas.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 05:03 PM
1

Sleep on the couch, it is no big deal, sleeping next to a crazy bitch isn't something worth fighting for. Buy your own damn mattress. Stop fucking her. Go out without her that weekend, fuck some other girl. Look for somewhere else to move into when the lease ends, or if you have the money to handle it, look into whether you can break the lease right now.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 01:45 AM
69

Your frame is as crap as hers. Arguing about air in a mattress, holding the mattress out her range like middle school kids arguing over a ball. This isn't being alpha, this is being juvenile.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 07:52 AM
1

Presumption of parentage dates to prior to genetic testing when it was not usually possible to tell who a child belonged to, and divorce required a finding of fault. Under those conditions if you'd allowed parentage of the children of a marriage to be challenged, challenges could have been used to attempt to disrupt marriages that the aggrieved party did not wish to see disrupted. After all, why should a husband be expected to go through an embarrassing court case brought by his wife's exlover (…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:30 PM
3

Yep. That's how insurance works.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 03:13 PM
1

If all you want is to be able to contact her sometimes, ask occasional minor favors etc then orbit. We'll just be friends, let me take you and your bestie out for coffee and that stupid chick flick blahdy blah. You know the drill, we talk about it often enough. Girls like orbiters. They don't fuck orbiters but they like 'em.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 11:17 AM
1

It is probably where most of the benefits observed during therapy come from.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 12:48 AM
2

So can time passing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 07:35 AM
2

Most therapy for just about anything that happens in the mind is just designed to keep you spinning your wheels until maybe time passes and the situation changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 04:19 AM
2

A guy's beta-bux buys him less anywhere the cost of living is high. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 04:15 AM
2

Why? Kids. An intact family just works better.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 10:44 PM
7

Absolutely. Years of neglect can not be overcome overnight. You may know that you've stopped messing about and are going forward in life, she has no reason to trust this is not like all the other half-assed attempts you've made over the years. Alpha and beta are relationship patterns, both of which have advantages and disadvantages for the person who chooses to practice them and the person who is in a relationship with the person being alpha or beta. If you wish to save your relationship, then w…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 10:19 PM
3

I think you need to stop caring about any aspect of the situation other than that she is sloppy and doesn't clean.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 12:41 PM
1

"Friendship" is a concept that covers a lot of ground, if you've got a good sense of boundaries (both for yourself and for her) it is possible to make a play for a woman in your overall large friendship grouping, be refused, and then both carry on as if nothing had happened. Trying to be besties as a poor substitute for being lovers is what you shouldn't do.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 12:02 AM
5

shrug And what men are overwhelmingly interested in from women is sex, attention, and having a bit of arm candy to show off as a sign of success. This is the most painful thing about the redpill. Women are shit... all the "true love" we are used to looking for from them and in us comes down to hormonal states and getting your/their instincts played with just right, and when you're just getting used to that idea and starting to get outrageously angry at them for not being endless fonts of love, y…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 11:46 PM
-2

There's 6 months age difference between him and Bristol, and from the reasonably credible story she tells about losing her V card to him it doesn't seem to me like he wasn't a helpless child who things "just happen" to. If he's old enough to play a man's game like that, he's old enough to carry a man's load. About the only thing I can see wrong is if she's seeking maintenance in arrears for years when she wasn't earning much but he had no idea of that fact at the time and that he might end up wi…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 11:33 PM
1

This is close to the correct answer. Either you can get the whores, in which case get them if you want them though that rather rules out shaming them if you don't want to look bad by your proximity to them. If it is very clear to all through your demonstrated value that you can get them but don't want them, feel free to shame them. Or you can't get the whores, in which case don't try to shame whores because there isn't anyone going to react to that any way but thinking you've got a case of sour …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:46 PM
0

Cautionary tale though... which indirectly points out the need for self improvement in many men http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Fox_and_the_Grapes Don't get me wrong, there needs to be less whoring, but the whores are only going to care about your opinion if you've obviously built enough SMV that you could have them if you wanted them. If you haven't, you're just going to look pathetic because every halfway educated person in western culture knows the fox and the grapes.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:40 PM
1

Hire one to test your woman's fidelity.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 04:00 AM
8

He was a fool for fucking with that family in any way whatsoever, unless he was going to play the role they wanted for him. Also... his second kid looks like she's wearing mascara just like mommy. He sure can pick 'em.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 03:47 AM
4

Well, there's waiting and there's waiting. If she's not making you take her on expensive dates to keep her attention, is hanging out with you only for mutually interesting activities at mutually convenient times that don't destroy the rest of your social life, and not insisting you be exclusive when you haven't slept with her yet, then that's an entirely different sort of "waiting" isn't it. If you've firmly dealt with oneitis and orbiting as issues which are never going to bother you again, you…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:06 AM
6

Taking on a single mom tends to be expensive for what you get (pay for someone else's kid, get a slut of a wife) but I wouldn't always say it is blue pill per se. It depends upon what other things she brings to the relationship, what you want out of life and how high you can reasonably raise your SMV. Redpill is a way of seeing the world, not a prescriptive set of actions you are obliged to take about what you see. There are probably some single mothers who are good value. If she's 22, not a slu…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 04:22 AM
2

I'd bet good money she's kinky as shit and likes the domme role. Ask her whether she has ever tied a guy up and blown him and watch the light of madness in her eyes.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 04:04 AM
2

He's a new friend who is flirting with her and building rapport but always managing to keep it below the level that triggers her awareness that he's aiming for her pussy rather than just friendship. He's got all the time in the world to build this thing up, he works with her and everyone else in the office is a boring loser. He's probably slaying pussy left and right outside of work hours whenever his wife turns her back for a second, and attempting to get an affair from your wife is just the be…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:35 PM
1

Just nod to show you've heard her, and then escalate as and when you were always intending to. Either she'll be into it or she won't, if you're escalating right she'll certainly have the chance to break the flow and make good on her previous statement but probably won't want to. Her telling you she always does something is talking about the past or her idealised and cleaned-up version of the past. Your concern is the present.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 10:09 AM
1

You didn't ask her what was likely to get in the way of her coming over, you went straight to the ultimatum. Which is cocky and demanding and a lot of girls love it, but it isn't equally effective with all women at all times. In this case I think you are still in the early days with her, she likes you but not yet in any special way beyond just wanting some company, and therefore you are still quite replacable. Combine that maybe with her actually having a legit reason why something last minute m…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:29 PM
-4

You're going to lose it all within the next hundred years anyway. We'll all be dust. I'm not a big fan of marriage for a bunch of reasons but let's not get too worked up about the losing money aspect of it. The objective is to live the life you want. One way or another that's going to cost.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:56 AM
3

So which of the boyfriends were you?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:08 AM
-1

(though she has to work more hours since he makes way less than me, we actually could have afforded to let her stay at home but I wouldn't let her) Not letting her stay home may have been a mistake if you wanted to avoid a divorce.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 09:22 PM
3

As an aspie you might want to work up slowly to clubs, by visiting a few venues that aren't that great for game but will let you get used to the noise, lighting and crowding. I'm thinking maybe the sort of pubs that do open mic nights for local indy bands. If you can find a somewhat local place that doesn't have a cover charge, then once a week going there for an hour and drinking one beer while you watch some acts might be a low investment low effort way of getting you halfway towards being abl…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 09:00 AM
2

You'll have less chance keeping a mail order bride in line if you don't get some practice in on other girls first. I'm not saying marry a local girl, but definitely get with the program, improve your SMV and start attempting to game them.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 10:44 PM
1

It sucks not to have had a male role model who maintained frame. But at least your mother seems capable of maintaining frame. I know that may sound a terrible thing to say but just imagine growing up in a house where everyone was yelling, getting upset and losing their cool. Imagine growing up in a household where arguments are won by the person who shouts the loudest, acts out the worst. A world where frame doesn't even exist. Horrific.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 09:34 AM
1

The stupidity of hamsters in the face of alpha fux, the guy pretty much drove his last woman to suicide through dread game, and yet still they won't stay away.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:12 AM
5

It isn't just women. Looking good makes social everything easier.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:54 PM
2

Look at some of the progress pics over on the fitness communities. Facial masculinity improves as a man puts on muscle and loses fat. If you get to where you need to be in terms of your body and still don't like your face and think it lets you down too much, a lot can be done in terms of surgery... but you should think about that once you have done all you possibly can by other means.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:53 PM
2

True. It is both Red Pill AND Blue Pill accepted wisdom because EVERYONE can see it even the people who see very little else. To not be seeing it a person needs to be doing some grade A hamstering. Even the fat acceptors who are so strategically trying to over-ride the need for a healthy weight will agree that a nice hairstyle or fixing bad teeth is a sensible move. Although there are things other than physical attractiveness and presentation that go into a person's SMV, there is literally no si…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:49 PM
-4

They are thinking of banning men from being full-time residential care workers (i.e., live-in roles) for kids in state care. They don't get to live in and run group homes, in other words. Most of these group homes house at-risk teenagers of both genders who in many cases will have already shown signs of risk-taking and sexually problematic behavior. I have zero problems with this. Women in general are just better suited to this role, that requires them to very much put their own sexuality and se…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:28 PM
4

She doesn't need a man with cash, the base salary for Australian senators is AU$195,130 pa and there's usually more on top of that in allowances, for living away from their primary place of residence. Also she presumably still has a Veteran's Affairs pension that they haven't managed to take off her yet. She's quite an infamous sort of character though, I'd even say Dark Triad in a hamsterish sort of way. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jacqui_Lambie
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 06:34 AM
15

So he's a beta orbiter who actually gets sex and gets to have a plate or two on the side when he feels like it. Well, he's doing better than most of them. Still sucks to be an orbiter but let's be realistic, how many orbiters have spent all that money and got nothing at all.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 05:33 PM
1

Hmmm. If you were already successful with that business you could probably bring her in on some sort of working visa, as an employee.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 01:32 PM
2

I think much of the fear of occasionally lowering standards is fear of oneitis. Fear you will find the fat/crazy/ugly girl who smells just right and seems to reach right into your soul and twist it, and then you end up married to a fat/ugly/crazy girl and having a bunch of fat/ugly/crazy kids. But whatever, young men may not believe this but there are worse things than that happening, if it does happen it is not total failure it is instead only a partial success, and it doesn't have to happen if…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 12:28 AM
3

You did use a condom? Tell me you used a condom. Calling you up suddenly at what seems like an unrelated time weeks later for perfunctory sex seems to me like she could have set you up to want to fuck her and then been waiting until she was ovulating for the actual sex. You may just have made two lesbians very happy, they have sperm and probably a future child support claim. Do the people whose party you met her at know whether she has a history of rugmunching? If you get the feeling someone is …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 05:03 PM
0

So what if she is trying to increase her SMV? You're a guy, if you aren't lazy you should be able to increase yours faster and for longer.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 05:17 PM
1

It is obviously what he wants to do though, might as well get it out his system cheap.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 02:51 AM
13

Don't cite the gym as something selfish she does just for herself. You enjoy the benefit of that work.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 07:08 PM
1

He should have found a cheap antique ring and spun her a line about it being a ring with incredible family history. You see great grandfather was going off to war and he'd been wooing grandma for two years but her family didn't want...
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 09:08 AM
2

That's fairly typical for the rich. Never judge a rich kid's intrinsic worth on their job or their education until you've got a better idea how much of a part Daddy played in getting it for them. I've known more than one well off family to buy a business purely so their wastrel kid can avoid a gap in his/her work history. Squash courts, a newsagent's shop, a sportsgoods store. In Australia we've even got the example of one our Prime Minister's daughters getting a clearly unearned scholarship the…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 09:03 AM
1

Right now? The cuckoo's strategy. Egg donation. Eggs are heavily in demand, and only the reasonably well-off can afford assisted reproductive technology so she'd know her offspring are going to have a good material start..
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 10:59 AM
6

At least she's being upfront about it, if there is a guy out there who would be genuinely happy with this I hope she finds him.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 06:11 AM
2

You don't. Staying high value and showing her a fun time occasionally can delay it, but women often want LTRs and there is not a damn thing you can do about it. Not every women is going to let you spin her until she hits the wall, despite how we like to steretype them as oblivious to their schedule of mating many of them know very well they shouldn't be wasting time. Also, there is always someone better than you out there and if she's hot she might one day trade up to being spun by a guy who is …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 06:45 AM
2

Pay attention to whether it can be worn with an ordinary wedding band or needs a specially shaped band. If you need a wedding band made to order that will be $$$ more. Don't buy a diamond if she doesn't want one. Make sure the stone you buy is a hard one because it will (hopefully) be worn for decades and endure the occasional accidental impact.
/r/askTRP14/07/14 07:18 PM
45

All this article succeeds in doing is making me feel intensely sympathetic to black men for the bullshit they've got to put up with from black women.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 06:00 PM
1

You're right, he's not uncomfortable right now. He's a short guy with an ugly face, living alone, he feels there are no prospects for women for him anyway, it is making him antisocial, and he's quite comfortable with being antisocial. This is exactly the sort of comfort zone that a man needs to step out of at least occasionally.
/r/askTRP14/07/14 05:45 PM
5

And yet I'd bet good money you've got a Tinder profile.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 12:55 PM
1

Only do stuff for them if it is trifling stuff anyone would do for anyone. They'll get the picture quick and put their effort into making other guys into orbiters.
/r/askTRP14/07/14 10:22 AM
1

I'm not telling you not to do it... but if you can go for a six month lease instead of a one year lease that might be a good choice.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 10:14 AM
1

If you've never done any sort of travel or visited a resort before, and the money is not a big deal (you won't need to go without something you're really wanting or needing) then do it. It will be worth it just to have a different experience and being part of the wedding will at least give you some context to explain to people you meet why you are there, which will make you feel less out of place than if you decided to go totally alone just because you want to. It will be a good chance to make a…
/r/askTRP13/07/14 02:50 AM
1

Start asking yourself the question "what's in it for me" more often.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 05:54 PM
1

Don't feel afraid to move to a degree that has less academic credibility. Physical education/fitness, agricultural science... people get jobs out of these too. Look through the list of courses your university offers and imagine what life is like for people with those degrees.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 05:52 PM
5

You're a fool if you hit a friend, relative or lover over the fate of a pair of cheap work gloves. Next them possibly, if the incident is the last straw. But not hit them. That's just stupid.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 05:00 PM
4

You know she works minimum wage. She has every right to assume that if you wanted to go dutch you'd have invited her somewhere more in her price range.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 04:56 PM
17

*She says you can't use these gloves to pull those deadly nightshade or you'll get the poison on your hands. I tell her they're fine and I'm comfortable doing it.* At this point I'd probably have pointed out why I preferred them and asked her why she thought they wouldn't do the job well enough. Then we could talk about the work and the gloves. Obviously she has an opinion on this practical matter, she's probably wrong if she doesn't go pulling up poison nightshade herself all that often, but on…
/r/askTRP11/07/14 04:49 PM
1

Nope. I'm not kindhearted, so I wouldn't date or LTR me. I'd spin me as a plate though.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 03:24 AM
1

He tried to take some guy's Oneitis girl, big fucking deal, he's doing the guy a favor. Oneitis is the cause of the pain, not him. Trying to game a friend's acknowledged girlfriend is kind of rude, at a club or on facebook. Obviously if a friend's girlfriend makes advances that's a different matter, screw her and get back to him to drop her. Trying to take your dropped plate means nothing. I mean what's the reason you want her to be celibate for a while after you drop her, it makes you feel more…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 03:10 AM
2

I suspect you'd have to get whatever device is used up somewhat close to the chip. But if you've got access to the area close to the chip for an extended period of time and the right equipment I can't see how it can't be hacked. Doesn't look like there's a lot of processing capacity there, even if it had a code it wouldn't be a good one. I'm thinking hide the equipment in an armchair the girl sits in.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 04:13 PM
1

You are FWB, she owes you nothing in the way of exclusivity. She is not LTR with you for good reason, you're not going to be around. The other guy is a fairly new relationship, she may not even have had the "is this exclusive" talk with him yet. Yeah it hurts that she's dreadgaming both of you like that and not attempting to be anything other than a plate when you'd wish she'd show more of a LTR sort of level of interest in you as a person and respect for you. But she's not doing anything that r…
/r/askTRP10/07/14 04:07 PM
2

Or inlaws who want a grandkid. Or anyone with any sort of gripe, revenge fantasy or even a weird fetish.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 01:41 PM
1

I don't think having that button in their hand is really going to change much, I mean right now they just stop taking the pills if they want an accidental pregnancy. If anything this invention reduces their plausible deniability in that direction.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 01:39 PM
0

I'd be wary of this being hacked by anti-contraception religious extremists.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 06:39 AM
2

You give a girl you are in an exclusive relationship with flowers that other people may see if you want to set things up so she's going to have to actually explain it to people if she dumps you or cheats. Or if you want all her friends to think you're already fucking her... that's why girls get shitty and make accusations of stalking when the "creepy" (ie, low SMV) guy gives them flowers... he may think he's laying claim or showing he is romantic but from their point of view he's just lowering t…
/r/askTRP10/07/14 01:20 AM
1

Why would she flirt? Same reason men who are naturals often flirt with women they aren't trying to sleep with, gay men flirt with women, orderlies in retirment homes flirt with the old biddies. To practise, because it feels good, for the ego boost of seeing someone react, boredom, often the target enjoys it. Are you still suffering significant levels of crush/oneitis? If not, then there is no need to change anything. You asked her out, she's busy with another guy, its all cool, totally understan…
/r/askTRP09/07/14 11:52 AM
3

Now is when you really want to have made great friends out of her parents.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 11:40 AM
3

How do you know it isn't just the fact that fitter guys can pull higher value (and therefore younger) women... and the fittest women don't need to marry up in age to get the sort of sex and provisioning they want in marriage? What about this study is making you to think the causality is the way round you say it is?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 11:35 AM
1

She can pay up. The rules about child support are about creating a society in which all children have the financial support of those who should have known better than to bring them into being if they weren't willing to pay... not about delivering absolute fairness to all. Unfairness is rife, and that's just the way it has to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/14 10:36 AM
3

And she spent the 15 prime years of her life totally miserable and sexless because of you. You're a bit of a screw up. Chances are right now you are just finding a different way to screw up.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 01:58 AM
3

If your wife was a virgin when you got her you are 100% responsible for the mess you've made of her sexual development.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 01:33 AM
2

I think it is profoundly misled to think that downgrading one's wife is the equivalent of pressing a reset button on one's wife and there will be no adverse consequences as a result. It is also profoundly misled to think that shame at the thought of being the first to break faith does not play a huge part in keeping people faithful and that a downgraded wife's faithfulness will not be lessened at times when it is tested... maybe she won't go out of her way to be unfaithful but when someone attra…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 01:30 AM
1

The impression I got is that the main form of favor that gets doled out involves not so much marks, as calling in favors from other staff and putting pressure on other students to name the protege as a co-author or contributor, or to reference the protege's work, or to put the protege on a committee etc. That's the sort of thing that puts a grad student ahead of his or her peers careerwise. My father was an academic and did most of his research back in the fifties and sixties and because he's re…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:09 PM
3

For her age she wouldn't be too bad if she grew her hair and got a nosejob.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 05:35 AM
2

Their house, their values, their goals, their rules. Can you look at it from their point of view a moment? They want you to eventually get your shit together and be capable of supporting yourself in the long term... which means you doing a lot of the provident earning stuff betas do. Only it isn't to be provident for a wife and family right now it is to be provident for yourself so they can enjoy their old age in peace without their kids failing to launch. They aren't stupid, they can tell that …
/r/askTRP08/07/14 05:30 AM
2

Are you from a culture where it is common for kids with jobs to pay board or provide financial assistance to their parents while they live with them?
/r/askTRP08/07/14 01:33 AM
1

There are places where some of the local men do that for female tourists from Europe. Usually the guys are black and the customers are white, it plays into that fascination with getting a bit of strange. http://www.cwfa.org/is-this-the-new-face-of-sex-tourism/
/r/askTRP08/07/14 01:17 AM
1

Get offline, go do the dishes, buy flowers for your mother and visit your grandma or whatever the equivalent is in your household. Just give them a big injection of the son they expect to have. Ain't nothing wrong with doing that. Parents never understand but will always be your safety net at least into your 40's, it is OK to give back a little to them if it makes the world run smoother.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 01:07 AM
1

If you think she's safe, won't tell everyone, you'll be able to get it up, will not get oneitis and will maintain whatever simple human respect you have for her (she's fat and ungly but she's still a human being) and yourself afterwards.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 01:03 AM
1

Maybe he can sleep with students who clearly won't be studying his subject .
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 12:56 AM
2

Yup.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 05:40 PM
2

It isn't that great for guys either, when the prof is screwing one of his female grad students and likely distributing favors and preferences to her that others don't get. There are only two people getting what they want out of that sort of arrangement and everybody else loses. I'm willing to side with the resentful women on this one.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 03:25 PM
2

So you're willing to tell her you don't intend going to strip clubs either? Then it is possibly something she'll adapt to as being fair and just the way the world is going to work for her from now on. Watch out for her friends though, they'll be badmouthing you for spoiling the "fun"
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 03:20 PM
0

If you maintain that you have the right to see strippers and she does not she won't just accept this is how it is from now on, get used to the new way of doing things and regard it as just the way the world is, a starting point that is fair to all. Girls aren't like that. They tote up everything. She's always going to regard it as a cost of the relationship and apply it against your SMV. You pretty much "spent" a chunk of the difference in your SMVs doing this. Let's hope it was worth it.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 03:14 PM
1

ERECT YOURSELVES! This is a pisstake right? It has to be a pisstake. Edited to add: Oh I see you edited out "ERECT YOURSELVES!"... which was right after "Tear down the statues of pussy from their decadent pillars. How about instead of posting something badly written and generally laughable, then editing it as the crappy bits get pointed out, you find yourself a nice likeminded radical MGTOW editor who is good with words, and ask him nicely to correct your boring polemic for you? Also while you a…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 12:44 PM
5

She's going to divorce rape your wallet to hell and back.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 10:18 AM
1

If she doesn't want sex with you that's a problem. Fix your body, you're going to need to fix it whatever happens. Read up on married game. There's nothing wrong per se with younger people having a LTR where they live together, have sex, are mongamous but aren't terribly enthusiastic and don't necessarily see a future together. For those who don't enjoy pickup culture, the cock carousel and all of that it is probably the best option. In my opinion a lot more people should do that. If beta men ar…
/r/askTRP07/07/14 10:16 AM
2

What do you mean by "meet up" with her? If she's going on what is more or less an orbiter-date (coffee and emotional tampon duty) with you then that's very different to if you're going round your buddy's place and she might just happen to be there. Have you been orbiting her and being an emotional tampon or is she really nothing to do with you other than you've got oneitis?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 08:05 AM
0

Stick with the marriage, read as much as you can about married man game and game her as well as you can, have as many babies with her as you're going to want, then insist you both get sterilised. Then suggest opening up the marriage if things are have not improved. Don't be surprised if the land whale gets more sex than you do. Some things have consequences, getting married and getting women pregnant are amongst those things.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 07:03 AM
18

You had a sore spot your sparring partner didn't know about, that sore spot got hurt during some friendly sparring, now you're ready to make it real. The answer to this sort of thing is usually break the ineraction, calm down and do something else. I'd have told her she's got a very nice arse and seriously, all joking and teasing aside, I'd be quite willing to spank it. Don't go all out dominant with her or try to prove you're a dom because if you have not a lot of experience at that you're goin…
/r/askTRP07/07/14 04:52 AM
53

She's better at teasing than you are.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 04:29 AM
1

If those were different clubs it could be that they attract a different crowd.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 09:12 AM
2

For some people getting well thought through gifts that indicate appreciation of their unique tastes, qualities and aspirations is more important than others. There's theories about how people communicate in relationship, and some of them suggest that for some people gifts are important. Not my scene but it is common and I'm not about to say those people (who are mostly women) are wrong or fucked up or even gold diggers, so long as they aren't all that fussed that the gifts be expensive or not. …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 11:55 PM
1

On the one hand, she's grabby, demanding and altogether too comfy with nitpicking rather expensive gifts. On the other hand, he does sound genuinely shitty at giving gifts. You don't buy someone whatever they want whenever they want it, but if you're going to give gifts at all you should have some idea of the recipient's taste and take it into account. Doesn't matter how much a handbag cost you if she thinks it is ugly.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:04 PM
2

True. This sort of thing is why women have to be the way they are. She has to love the future kids she is going to have enough that she doesn't have them with a guy who doesn't provide at the very least one of alpha fux or beta bux, preferrably both. Which of these is he providing? Neither. He says he needs 8 years to sort himself out. He offers her at best, if all goes perfectly, a future of being an elderly mother of a couple of dumbass kids with no strong drive or capability inherited from th…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 05:07 PM
2

Or she could be a fairly average sort of working-class girl who wanted to have a traditional male-headed family and kids at a reasonable time in her life and fell for his bragging about how smart he is.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 04:11 PM
15

Yup. Her assessment of the situation is not incorrect. She probably feels humiliated herself that she didn't see it sooner.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 04:05 PM
4

I'm not sure I'd call her post-wall. In one of the comments he said she was 25. I suppose technically it is getting close to the wall but still. If she hung around for the 8 years he says it will take him to recover then she'd definitely be post-wall.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 03:44 PM
1

Red pill is definitely My Ex-girlfriend's Boyfriend by Machine Gun Fellatio Blue pill Tell her about it by Billy Joel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/14 11:37 AM
1

You might have left it to late and done too much overt dread game to go to a LTR with her. Dread game is all very well but if used too heavily it stops working as intended with smart girls. Smart girls either come comfortably to terms with you having other women and no longer dread the idea so the dread no longer keeps them on their toes, or they get to the stage where no matter how good an alpha you are the repeated instances of dread suck so much for them they'd rather not bother with you. The…
/r/askTRP05/07/14 11:31 AM
3

That's their problem, concentrate on surviving it until your schooling is complete.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 11:19 AM
7

You need her to forget about you until the statute of limitations is up on whatever you did. Offload her one some other poor schmuck. Suggest she rent a room to some guy with a good income to help out her financial sitch. Tell her you'll help screen them. Pick the biggest sookiest blue pill foreveralone guy you can find in her age range. Bon Voyage!
/r/askTRP05/07/14 11:14 AM
2

I would then be denied the extra credit Nah, you'd get offered an alternate assignment, wear a bra, carry a handbag or something like that for ten weeks.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 10:03 AM
10

Yup. Women are ruthless when they find out a partner has cheated, they extract every last bit of resource from him while preparing to branch swing. I've known women admit to having had plastic surgery on their soon-to-be-ex husband's dime because they saw a new set of tits or a straight nose as fair compensation for the betrayal. Getting him to buy them a new car or take them on holiday before they drop the divorce bomb is fairly ordinary too.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 08:40 AM
1

Next time she'll roofie her victim.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 06:39 AM
1

Ten weeks? Easiest extra credit ever. A bit harder for the guys than the gals but really... ten weeks shaving who gives a damn.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 06:32 AM
1

She's flakey. Nudge her over into a part of your social circle where it doesn't matter if she's reliable... group of friends that go to the same coffee shop every friday, the list of people you invite when you have a casual games night, that sort of thing. Don't make her your girlfriend, don't date her or worry about her but flirt if you feel like it, fuck her FWB style if she gives you the chance.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 05:06 AM
1

This all feels very dubious. Maybe she just wants some sex and was avoiding you before because she'd found a steady boyfriend or had an attack of religion. Maybe she is going to take you to an Amway sales meetup. Maybe she's on meth now and she knows how much you carry in your wallet. Meet her at a coffee shop.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 03:40 AM
4

Tell him. With that much info, shamelessness and the internet she'll find him eventually. Knowing early makes more things possible... for example the courts would be more likely to give him shared custody if he gets in while the kid is still young, he's more likely to manage the marriage situation well if he knows well before his wife does. For all you know he may be quite willing to leave the horrible woman he's with for this one... doesn't sound like he really likes either of them and one has …
/r/askTRP05/07/14 03:32 AM
1

Exactly. The legal prohibition against prostitution is one of the few remaining legal protections of the married condition. When just about everyone was married, most of the customers would have been married men. Prostitution under those conditions represents a sexual betrayal by a man of his wife and a financial betrayal by a man of his children. I'm conflicted about whether prostitution should remain banned or not in parts of the world where it is banned. On the one hand, more choices for men.…
/r/askTRP05/07/14 02:46 AM
3

It doesn't quite work like that. You will have people in the outer part of your social circle who you don't much like but it would be more trouble to evict them than let them stay there. This is because your social circle overlaps other people's social circles.
/r/askTRP04/07/14 12:05 PM
1

Ask the question "Did I do good today?" and always be able to answer it with "Yeah I done good" because you've actually done something. Even if the only thing you've done is you've exercised or you've practised making approaches, you still did something. So. Have you done good today?
/r/askTRP04/07/14 07:48 AM
1

Have her stay. Either it will be OK or it won't. You'll learn how to make it OK and then can do similar either with her or other girls.
/r/trpGAME04/07/14 07:09 AM
1

She wants to go to a quilting and embroidery conference.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 07:04 AM
1

Rich girl gone wild. He needs to talk to Daddy, and Daddy will crack the financial whip.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 05:42 AM
1

If she does it occasionally then its a sign she particularly wants to do that activity. No harm. If she does it all the time, desperately, many more times than you do, its a sign you're not leading her where she wants to be and she has taken that burden on herself to be an example to you of what she wants/needs. She'll lead for a while, then if she's the sort of girl who'd rather be led (like most are) she'll get depressed, then she'll get angry, then she'll get out around about the same time yo…
/r/askTRP04/07/14 12:03 AM
2

Your list has left out what I call the "girly" end of male SMV because it is the stuff girls mostly focus on for their own SMV. Haircut, clothes/accessories, teeth. Putting the polish on what your work has built. Also if there are any deficits in the situation you would bring a date home to, try to fix them as much as is reasonable.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 11:49 PM
4

I think the focus is more on protecting women in existing relationships than on keeping men available for future relationships with currently single women.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 11:35 PM
1

Most people actually are already doing what is probably best for society right now... serial monogamous LTRs of some years duration leading to eventually the woman deciding in her mid to late twenties that she needs to have kids with the guy she is with or she needs to find a different guy because he's not good/eager enough for that. Most guys who are dumped for a better reproductive prospect get several chances via LTR to be the better prospect. The number of women determinedly riding the cock …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 11:27 PM
1

They can probably still have a geeky guy at any age right up to when the gender related mortality differences start having an impact, if they pick one without much money or muscles. shrug If they avoid morbid obesity or other extreme things that will put them into the bottom 1% or so of womanhood carousel riders are never totally out of options.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 10:57 PM
5

It is not possible to have a system that is win/win for every member of both genders. A lot of people have unreasonable expectations and will always perceive themselves as having lost when what they got was just what could have been expected. There were people who missed out badly in the 1950s when expectations and behaviors were more red pill. The red pill is not a cure for unhappiness, it is a cure for delusion.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 08:51 AM
1

Nothing more ruthless than a single mother short on cash.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 08:25 AM
3

She's looking to get knocked up.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 06:59 AM
1

Well you're going to have to muster up a bit of "interesting" or you're leaving all the being interesting to her, right? And what women wants a man who promises a lifetime of her having to be the interesting one for possibly a whole family? Go do something different with her. See some live music together. Go camping. Anything. If there's an online service that sends notifications of what's on in your local area, subscribe to it.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 06:45 AM
1

Pack her stuff, if you have her pack it she'll pack some of your stuff too for sure. She'll probably want to check over the house to see that none of her stuff is left behind. Don't go making any sort of fuss or trying to make any sort of point. She's going/gone. You stay stuck in the past or you move on. Making trouble just to make a point while she's trying to get her shit together to do the practical stuff of moving out is counterproductive. What do you care whether you make your point to her…
/r/askTRP03/07/14 06:34 AM
5

Girl has frame that's for sure, tells you to go spend time with the other girls. If her frame's that good you ain't shifting it, go off and hold frame with some other girl just like she toldya.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 05:57 AM
2

Well... do you prefer her to tell you or not to tell you when this happens? Or are there times you'd prefer she doesn't tell you and times you would prefer she does? Because if she's at all young and good looking it is going to happen. There are good reasons to be told (if a guy later causes problems and you know she's been rebuffing him it adds a lot of context) and good reasons not to be told (you don't like being dread gamed) so what do you want her to do when some guy approaches her?
/r/askTRP02/07/14 01:53 AM
1

A lot of the time UTIs are e. coli, which are naturally present in poop. An STD screen isn't going to pick that up. Has the urologist told you what the infectious agent was? If they do cultures they should know and if it is e. coli they should know right down to what antibiotics that particular strain is resistant to. You and your girl need to get serious about hygiene and not doing dumb stuff like sticking a finger or toy in her ass then into her vagina. It will help if you go relieve your blad…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 12:56 AM
1

For your own peace of mind and ability to find closure I don't think you should end a ten year friendship without some sort of process of testing to see whether it could improve... but you do know you probably will have to end it. Start inviting her to fun cheap healthy things like trail walking and camping, working out at the gym (maybe yoga would be good for her) a walk along the beach, walking a relative's dog, that sort of thing. Don't have pot for her, you've run out and haven't bought more…
/r/askTRP01/07/14 11:06 PM
1

Nobody made you drive anywhere. You chose to do that.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 10:32 PM
4

"You're a great girl babe, but we wouldn't be good together. Too similar. There isn't room in one relationship for two people like us and you know it."
/r/askTRP01/07/14 09:23 AM
5

You must have a busy life reading texts if your wife is expected to tell you every time she goes somewhere and you don't just give her an allowance for frivolities direct into an account of her own and leave it at that rather than make her ask every time. I mean if that's how you want to organise things because you enjoy it that way then fine, I suppose, but 90% of this bullshit could be avoided by giving her an allowance and accepting that when you're out of the country she's probably going to …
/r/askTRP01/07/14 04:01 AM
1

Can't see the sexual strategy angle on this one bro. Breast cancer has a great PR machine and are shaking their donation cans as hard as possible, and so do a lot of other diseases/disorders that aren't so heavily gender based. I spent what seems like half my childhood doing the MS readathon. Just about everywhere you go the Blind Society or its equivalent kicks ass. If they want money for research into old men's dodgy prostates and smokers' busted lungs they gotta get out there and hustle, matc…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:16 AM
0

Can't see any reason why not, if they've got really good well thought through reasons for not wanting you as a LTR and you've got enough other plates to avoid oneitis. Outside of that dynamic its probably a bad idea.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:06 AM
1

They are props designed to make you look like you've got hot girls around you all the time. Take them places you can be seen with them (but don't spend too much) flirt publicly, make sure to tell everyone she isn't your girlfriend she's just this girl you know. If she sleeps with one of your friends just shrug and tell him there's plenty more like her out there. You'll be exuding abundance mentality and have had really good value from the attention seeker. Preselection, right?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:40 AM
3

Anytime women want to start rejecting "slutty" men, they are totally free to. There is no double standard. Everyone is free to prefer what they prefer.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:35 AM
1

*They always feel like they are too late, behind the ball, will never get what they want but make no moves to changes things. * Describes most of humanity, unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:29 AM
1

Smoking is an addiction and many people say it rivals heroin in how hard it is to quit. If you hate it so much you can't stand your GF smoking in another room of her own apartment, don't date women who are addicted to it. It is that simple. If you date them they are always going to be running around hiding it from you... you've set up things from the start so that sneaky is how she has to operate.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 09:17 PM
1

One of my friends has wifed up a crazy cat lady at the wall. They've got 5 cats and are looking for more. She doesn't intend having children. He quit the tech business he had been trying to get started for the past five years and got himself a day job so they could buy a nice big house for them to fill with cats. She barks orders at him all day. And the really sad thing is he's happier than he's ever been because at least he'd getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 08:20 PM
1

Let me guess, your desire to make the wall harder for women involves other men giving up some of their options, having less sex, having fewer women to choose from. yeah fuck that for a joke
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 07:26 PM
2

I've given this some thought, how the wall is in reality softer for women than at first glance it appears it should be. I think it is down to one of the very things that makes the wall exist in the first place... women's shorter reproductive spans. A lot of older divorced guys 45+ are still out there looking for sex and remarriage when their ex wives really can't be bothered any more because their hormones have changed and they've either accomplished their reproductive mission or given up on it.…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 09:52 AM
1

At a bar they are selling two things... drinks and access to drunk women. If they've got drunk women they can be sure of an endless supply of guys. If all they've got is guys, they are screwed and the bar dies. She's valued stock and you're not. Being a land whale makes no difference, she's still the reason some loser guy has a chance of getting his dick wet that night. Of course the bouncer is going to throw you and your friend out if he didn't see the incident. This is just the sort of thing t…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 05:33 AM
1

How many kids do you want? How old do you want her to be when she is finished up having kids?
/r/askTRP29/06/14 11:45 PM
1

You've got other plates who aren't whores, right? That whore is not your girlfriend? So how is this even a question? You like wiping your dick on the same rag every loser in town who can't afford health care but can scrape up a few dollars to get laid gets to use? Wrapping it up is all very well and very sensible with any plate, but it doesn't protect against everything always. She's going to be having maybe a dozen other random guys a week, compared to the average plate's extracurricular activi…
/r/askTRP29/06/14 11:35 PM
2

At $70k a year, just buy a damn machine to do the dishes.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 10:13 AM
2

Why bother? Someone gotta pay for the girls' drinks if you want them all nice and relaxed, and if girls had to do it themselves there wouldn't be so many at the club. shrug
/r/askTRP29/06/14 10:10 AM
1

She's not real keen. Stop thinking you're going to get to fuck her, you probably aren't. If there's something you can ask her to that involves a mixed bunch of all your friends and can be presented to her as not a date but just hanging out going dutch and meeting people, then do that. Maybe she'll accept and maybe she won't. Maybe she'll perk up when she sees you in your usual surroundings, maybe she won't but will go off with one of your other friends or join the group in general giving you the…
/r/askTRP29/06/14 10:01 AM
1

Well shit, what did he expect if he wasn't fucking her and they weren't committed to a marriage, what did she expect? Morons. I'd even go so far as to say that under these circumstances it is OK to be unfaithful BEFORE dumping someone so long as the dumping happens promptly. There is no sexual relationship to betray.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 10:17 AM
1

She's never going to let you near her phone again if you confront her.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 05:18 AM
2

Old style patriarch, this is how it works.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 05:13 AM
2

You know that friend she always said was creepy? He lives on your couch now.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 04:30 AM
2

She's attracted to you (drunken sexual invitations) she also likes your personality (wants to be your friend) but you don't meet one or more of her criteria for a publicly acknowledged boyfriend type situation. Maybe you aren't as impressive to her friends as she'd like or you don't have the future earning potential she wants from a beta husband. Maybe you want kids and she doesn't. Or maybe you don't want kids and she does. The bad news is she's going to make someone a shitty slutty unfaithful …
/r/askTRP27/06/14 01:41 AM
0

A woman putting on lipstick is the sexiest thing ever. Please don't discourage them from doing it in public.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 12:32 AM
4

The whole scenario is kind of bizarre and circular. Surely if she was going to cheat she would have texted him to say she was home safe, tired and going straight to bed so he wouldn't try to contact her. Surely if it was a rape the guy wouldn't have called police. Surely if it was cheating she wouldn't have put some trousers on again afterwards just to snuggle with her lover. Surely if it was rape the guy would have left earlier. Etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 10:24 PM
2

Absolutely. True for everyone. Doesn't matter how talented you are there is always someone just as talented who is working harder. Hard work is unavoidable if you want to be competitive.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:59 PM
1

Which meant if he want ahead and lost weight, after a bit of grumbling she might have followed so he would stay. Don't get me wrong I think he's got every reason to end the relationship if he wants and thinks he'll have an easier time if he does, it wasn't like he'd put a ring on it and had committed to attempting to work things out. Just calling someone fat like it means anything when you are fatter than them is bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:25 PM
1

If she does it she's gonna pretend it just happened without her trying. That's how girls work.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:19 PM
2

My guess is English Lit. Bright but batshit upper middle-class girls. The same basic sort who do women's studies degrees but smart enough to know even in their first year of college to avoid putting that label on themselves. They are the ones who carousel ride like there is no tomorrow then actually find their beta at the Wall with zero seconds left on their clock, and swan off to a life of lunching with their friends at trendy cafes. You don't want to go there.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 09:02 PM
3

Even worse, he risks her losing weight due to the stress of the breakup, no longer having too cook so often because she's alone and now spending more time doing stuff with friends, while he stays a fat-arse. That would be... regrettable.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 02:18 AM
1

Eh, if she's been fucking you regularly despite your own fat gut and you haven't bothered to lose any of that weight yourself before nexting her it is a bit of a dick move to use the "no longer attracted because weight" line. I mean fine next her for being unsupportive of your goals if she won't change at least enough not to undermine you. Or lose some fat yourself without her holding your hand while you do it then next her for being fat. But don't next her just because you can't be bothered to …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 11:56 PM
2

And no matter how carefully you cover your tracks, never ever post anything that will see you put in prison or in the nuthouse.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 12:52 PM
-7

Would you swap it back down to girl-level then be expected to waddle round like a walrus with constipation and split your taint right open to reproduce? No? Then get over it and enjoy being a man.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 02:27 PM
-3

Yes men are disposable and women are not due to the nature of mammalian reproduction. And? I mean you wouldn't rather be a girl, would you, just so you can shoplift and spend less time locked up when caught?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 02:07 PM
2

As far as I can tell you gave her every reason to believe that you had nexted her. So why did you not expect her to have started flirting with guys again? Why are you so shocked? Single human beings look for mates. Do what you should have done the first time, next her and don't go back just because it is two weeks and youhaven't got laid.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 01:54 PM
1

With any ongoing major intervention in one's bodily appearance, be it dieting body-building or plastic surgery it is important to listen to a wide range of other people's informed opinions on how the process is going. People who do not seek and heed opinions can end up odd looking.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 11:57 PM
3

When they ask for that I always assume they just mean they want someone who isn't a mooch, they don't want a homeless drug addict looking to move into their home and cook meth there or an unemployed WoW addict trying to move out of his parent's house at age 41. Which is fair enough, they might be old but they'd rather be single than be a victim. The ones who want a beta above all else tend to use words like "responsible" and make references to liking quiet nights in and how important family is.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:46 PM
1

IDK I can see somewhere like http://www.siemens.com/answers/aunz/en/ going 50/50 possibly because of the customer service side of having so much in the field... one decent sized call centre can nuke a gender balance way over to the female side. But hey, you know best about where you work... if you say your workplace is going to be around the 75/25 mark for the foreseeable future I trust you on that one.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:18 PM
5

We all know that online most guys spam anything that meets their criteria even if they don't mean hers. So she's not losing anything by saying what she really wants.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:53 PM
2

Maybe she just likes you sweaty and exhausted.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:49 PM
3

So is the male change room large enough?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:45 PM
3

At the time I wrote it I thought he was having emotional affairs because he wanted more women hanging off him emotionally. But then he commented elsewhere and it appears he wanted to hang off other women emotionally. Which leads me to thinking maybe his wife had been discouraging that? Which on the one hand is shitty of her because she's his wife, but on the other hand, she probably just wanted to stay attracted to him and for him to keep being the guy she married, so she was limiting the amount…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 10:10 AM
2

It doesn't matter how good a reason you think you have, threatening murder, rape and mayhem is going to get you put away.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:55 AM
12

In her eyes, you're not the man she married. And she could handle that, unhappily, so long as you didn't demand she love you or feel passion for you. Now you've taken the redpill and want love and passion from her again. Of course it is stirring up all sorts of feelings and her hamster is going wild. Well good luck, you'll need it whichever path you take.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:09 AM
3

Dude, either she has forgiven you or she hasn't. Forgiveness does not erase the change in one's perceptions of one's partner.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:05 AM
23

My guess is that after some years of beta dumbassery on your part (your own wife isn't emotionally needy enough so you start orbiting multiple other women?) she doesn't want to let you back into the position of captain again and this is her hamster's cruel way of making absolutely sure that doesn't happen even if on some level she's enjoying the change. Every time you try to be alpha her hamster is screaming at her that you're not fit to be in charge. And then she fucks some dude. Because that r…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:19 AM
5

I'm amazed at the men who think this is a sensible option. Just because they are being presented to you as if they are products on a shelf doesn't mean that the usual cautions about where you find women don't apply. You need to think about what sort of women does this sort of thing, puts her hand up to go marry a man she barely knows in another country. "Adventurous" and "opportunist" are the least of it.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 10:40 PM
2

If your sister is old enough to also want a less childish bedroom, talk with her about making the whole room age appropriate. If she's agreeable to it, then work out a plan. I know you don't foresee bringing a girl back there, but best to be as prepared as possible, right? Sometimes family go away on holidays or to visit other family, you may even get a girl who is girlfriend material and you'd like to bring home to meet the parents... you wouldn't want her to see you living like that. Fixing a …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 06:46 PM
3

How good is your SMV, game and experience level? That's what it all comes down to. Obviously if you've been working hard for 25+ years at adding value in all areas of your life you've got more options than a man who hasn't. Also, there's nothing wrong with picking up a woman at the wall if that's what you can swing and you're choosy about things like sexual past. Not all of them have been fucking a different pickup every night, there are plenty who spent the time in LTRs with guys who didn't wan…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 06:01 PM
2

I don't think there's anything wrong with giving a girl you'd like to see again a tangible reminder of you. Don't spend too much, don't make it something that is not lasting, don't make it something utilitarian and don't let it become an expectation.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 09:57 AM
2

Then write the article you think is needed for men.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 09:48 AM
1

Yep. Stop spending time with your LTR and she's just going to spend more time with her friends. Human beings are social creatures and have social needs. Proactively taking control of the couple's social life can work out fairly well for a guy though. If she's already getting all she needs with him when they go out with mutual friends, then the girls night stuff is only going to be done occasionally so she can catch up with her single friends in person.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 12:02 AM
1

The number of them who would be willing to meet him in person would be a better indicator of Dark Triad preferences than the number who like his photo. Most people are quite capable of appreciating good looks on someone they wouldn't want to spend time with.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 11:36 PM
0

I totally agree with you. Not all lonely 30 year old women are sluts, and even the ones that are don't deserve loneliness any more than guys who don't grow a pair and start building SMV and making approaches deserve their loneliness. That's an integral part of the red pill, learning that being pathetically deserving of sympathy means zero towards actual outcomes. But you do know mods are probably going to delete you again?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 10:29 PM
4

Swole is great unless that's all a guy has. Then he's a meathead. Sad fact of life, it takes more than lifting.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 09:13 PM
1

If he knows she's a slut because you told him, that's the most you can do. You can't change what another man is or isn't attracted to, only he can do that. If he's the sort to have Oneitis he's always going to be wasting his time on someone he'll never get. If he's not the sort to have Oneitis, then he'll next her when he realises it isn't working out for him.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 09:01 PM
1

That's the spirit! You've pretty much set things up so if she makes "jokes" about you but not to you, your own rules say she gets away with it. So long as you can laugh thatt off and are willing to shed any friends who take her side, you're golden, let her do her worst.
/r/askTRP20/06/14 08:03 PM
1

So long as you can keep frame if she does similar to you. Can you? Let's say she texts some friends making jokes that you've got ED. Those jokes go round and come back to you. Can you handle it?
/r/askTRP20/06/14 06:29 PM
3

You're a computer-fixer and she's a semi-professional wrangler of AFCs. One thing you've got to understand about these semi-professional wranglers of AFCs is that it is a lifestyle for them. They know what everyone is good for. Not just when it comes to getting a computer fixed, but EVERYTHING. They usually have a couple of hundred "close" friends from a variety of different social circles, and more than one of those is going to fix computers. And if they are caught without a "close" friend who …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:07 PM
2

If you aren't alpha enough to trigger an alpha fucks scenario you can't win, the supply of guys willing to run round after her is too reliable. I suppose you could introduce her to people if you'd find her interactions with them amusing.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 03:15 PM
1

Well that's it, isn't it, the more control a guy takes over his woman's social life the less she is capable of meeting her social needs herself and the more responsibility he has to take for her having a social life that meets her needs. AWALT, she's going to want to have friends and wear nice clothes and do fun things. She's going to want to see her favorite band a few times, see a movie or two, go to the theatre, all those sort of things. And it is all very well to say "well I'm the boss and I…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 12:53 AM
1

In a world where "The One" does not exist, everyone makes their own compromises. If you maintain a high enough value to have options, and do not choose to compromise in that particular way, it does not affect you. If after experiencing a little more of life you choose to compromise in that particular way, then that's your choice. Another thing to consider is that some people just play the game better. And that goes for women too, not just men. The fat chick 4 with the halfway decent 7 guy... if …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 11:17 PM
1

Six years younger is definitely worth something.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 10:51 PM
5

From reading the story is seems like he may not have even been accused by the girl he supposedly had sex with. Could have been someone who disliked them both.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 08:44 AM
4

Men in general do have to offer more... why are we always advising self improvement if this is not the case? The average man is a skinny-fat guy with very few skills but what he does for his depressing job. He does have to do better if he wants any power in dating. Women do have to be pickier so they don't become sluttier and so they feel a need to work to offer more value themselves. Why would a woman bother at all with being pleasing to men except that she's got some degree of pickiness? You'd…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 08:29 AM
6

New Zealand is kind of small, a woman could theoretically ride all the carousel horses before she's done, a guy could theoretically fuck all the carousel riders. Fuck, that's depressing.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 08:12 AM
3

I don't agree that hashtags count as activism in the firstplace. They are nothing. This is super drama meta-nothing.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 12:55 AM
11

Because you made a baby with a girl who now accepts your leadership and who you think is wife material, and you have held yourself out to that child as his father for three years, and the only thing stopping you from giving your son a top notch start in life is you don't want to grow the fuck up and try to exercise a little self control and act like a fully grown man. You are prioritising holding on to the stale dregs of your own adolescence over giving your son the childhood he deserves. You wa…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 04:39 PM
8

You've got a son. Be a good man in his eyes.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 12:27 PM
12

The problem isn't necessarily that she wants to go to the club. Clubs have events and stuff, bands, DJs, etc. They suck because they are also expensive and full of guys looking to bone your girl, but it isn't as if there is always nothing there of worth other than the pick up scene. The problem is that she left it to the last possible moment to tell him, which looks 100% to me like she's trying to rush it past him and that's a huge red flag. If she'd told him earlier in the day with what she was…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 06:01 AM
4

Their SMV is lowered because you'll be paying more to get less in the long run. Whether you see that as a crying shame or a special discount sale price (or maybe even both) is up to you. Try to avoid complaining about how terrible they are because of the dynamics around them though, it makes you look like a man with few options. A man with options doesn't need to give them a second thought. A man for whom a single mother is unfortunately the best option and therefore takes that option gets the m…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:21 AM
2

They are going to ask you what "security" means and what exactly you are studying.
/r/askTRP12/06/14 03:52 PM
2

Shit test, and a perfectly easy and reasonable one in a newish LTR, at least in my opinion. If you've got the social comptetence to pass it, I suggest you pass this one by passing it on her terms. Take her to the club, dance, socialise, mate guard without being an asshole, don't flirt more than is socially acceptable for a man to do in front of his LTR, don't get drunk, don't let her get too drunk, act like you are enjoying it, take her home and fuck her. Social competence demonstrated. You've s…
/r/askTRP12/06/14 03:37 PM
2

Either she just wants to carousel ride, or she genuinely sees the relationship as a barrier to her sorting herself out, a source of lazy numbing comfort when what she really needs is to face some pain and hard work. Lets be kind and hope she's going to fix herself. Don't get angry that she used you for comfort all those years. You got laid in the age range of 16-21, that's priceless, you are a more competent man for it. She was less than ideal, but she gave you a gift. It happens. 16 year olds p…
/r/askTRP12/06/14 03:07 PM
1

If she had evidence of him trying to hook up with girls of higher SMV than her the relationship would come under stress and she'd increase her efforts (dread game) then eventually bail if the efforts persistently fail. If she had evidence of him trying to hook up with girls she thinks are well below her SMV, she'd straight-out bail. He also doesn't sound real bright and as though he thinks his relative value is high. Any chance that with a few beers in him to impair his judgment even more he'd s…
/r/askTRP12/06/14 02:38 PM
4

I'm surprised you even felt the need to ask that question. Women of the working class and middle class don't want to play Captain Save-a-Chump to single fathers any more than men of similar class want to play Captain Save-a-Ho for single mothers. When money is tight and more assistance is not available for every additional child, the reproductive disadvantages of raising someone else's child are very pronounced. The average single parent with two kids might (might) be persuaded to agree to anoth…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 02:25 AM
1

She's a plate, doing what she wants between spins is the only advantage her situation offers her. Just remember that.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 12:53 PM
0

No. Australian. White Australian. But it takes more than a bit of bum slapping and restrained jiggling to get me to be a wowser. That stuff's just dancing. Not even good dancing mostly, the sort of "hey let's dance" dancing that high school kids do at school dances because they can't work out anything better and haven't made their minds up yet to attempt to do it right or never dance at all. How do Americans dance if they think moving hips, changing one's level and taking up space with moving li…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 11:03 AM
0

The way you were carrying on about it I at the very least expected to see some daggering.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 10:40 AM
12

You got negged. Yup, that's what happened. And even though you're angry as fuck about it, you are still thinking about the fat girl, what you're going to say to her to prove your point. You're thinking about her even though she's not attractive to you. You might even talk to her again. She now exists, whereas she wouldn't have before she negged you. How Negging works 101
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:14 AM
-2

This is probably why she's gone for the plate lifestyle and not tried to get someone to wife her up. She knows she's harder work than any guy she actually wants to have sex with is likely to want to take on fulltime. So show a little sense, and see her as often as you feel you can/should given how much hard work she is. Either she'll still spin at that frequency or she won't.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:07 AM
0

"They further explained that if I didn't return the key, I would be arrested. I was admittedly stubborn and said that I would have to be arrested because I did not want to return the key, especially at this point since it seemed my wife only cared at that moment about her key and did not care at all about me as a person. So I had essentially agreed to be arrested because I didn't want to return the key, I guess stubbornly so, out of principle." On the balance of probabilities, going on what he's…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 11:14 PM
8

*By that I mean that if she sees the male's penis she's already decided that she's going to fuck him regardless of his size. If we were to go out clubbing with our dicks out, that would be a different story. * Ever been thoroughly fondled at a club? Yes? Congratulations, you've probably met an experienced carousel rider who favors size. They aren't totally devoid of common sense and the ability to learn from past disappointments.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 12:50 PM
2

If you're prone to oneitis don't share with girls under any circumstances, men with that tendency can end up stuck on a female housemate. All the disadvantages of being an orbiter but the girl doesn't necessarily like you even as much as most girls like their orbiters, and you get a ringside seat to her dating. Torture. Other than that, I suggest the most important aspect of a housemate is the ability to pay bills on time. If you are putting together a household of guys from scratch, don't delet…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:41 AM
1

Exactly. She'll get precisely the man who thinks she is his best option right now. Could she have had a different man if she'd made different choices this past 20 years? Sure. Could he have had a different woman if he'd made different choices this past 20 years? Sure. Should we be straight out advising either of them to "run" based upon the small amount of info in that story? No. Both of them are fully grown adults and there is no sign that either of them is an ax-murderer. Chances are that if t…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 02:39 AM
2

The "fault" lies with the beta men? As has been frequently pointed out to explain the sexual choices of alphas, sexual strategy is amoral. Mating has always been a game, there have always been winners and losers no matter how the game has been structured. It is not the job of anyone to surrender options to increase the playability of the game for other players. If a man fails to marry in his early twenties, and fails to become very wealthy or famous or alpha, and finds himself in an unfortunate …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 02:19 AM
1

Oh bullshit. She may not have thrown a tantrum that big before but there would have been major signs. Just look at the pictures on the dailymail story and do the math. She's probably a 7, he's about a 6. Unless he's considerably richer than her (doesn't look like he is to me) then that counter-hypergamy difference has to be accounted for by something less visible. He was obviously what she had to settle for because her crazy is worth maybe 3 to 4 points off her SMV in a LTR. A bunch of guys in t…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 11:08 PM
2

He's not so much a dick for posting it as a dumbass. Airing his dirty laundry like that. It is his dirty laundry as much as hers, see my first point, jokes on him he married her.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 10:52 PM
41

Joke's on him, he married her.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 11:32 AM
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