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| 16 | Is it just me or do older men (35+) on apps really make no effort.The subtle negging has been my experience too! Luckily I’m confident in myself and tell them to fuck off. Then they say “it’s a joke”. I’ve noticed it’s only ever a “joke” when you call them out on their behaviour. It’s literally a script which keep repeating! I’ve had this negging with almost all guys over the past two years 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 03:00 AM |
| 28 | I wish I was illiterate (x-post from r/AreTheStraightsOK)I just caught a UTI!!! 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:37 AM |
| 6 | HVM behaviour!!Yes exactly right! You said it perfectly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:15 PM |
| 58 | SeNd mE bOoTiE pICs oR iLL DIEOn a serious note: please never allow yourself to be objectified like this. A man who respects you for more than your body would never ask for nudes and use his illness as leverage. We are all Queens and we need to leave LVMs like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:00 PM |
| 37 | HVM behaviour!!Yes I agree! It reiterates that our standards aren’t too high. They are realistic and we will all find a HVM who adores us and treats us like the Queens we are! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 05:44 PM |
| 74 | Polgár was Women's World Champion from 1996 to 1999. On the FIDE rating list of July 1984, at the age of 15, she became the top-ranked female player in the world. In 1991 she became the third woman to be awarded the title of Grandmaster by FIDE. In chess, she is a master, in life she is a queen!My ex and I play wrestled one time. I used to do Brazilian jiu-jitsu and I ended up winning (even though he was physically much bigger and stronger than me). He got so upset, sulked and threw an tantrum and we never ever wrestled again :/ It’s okay if he wins but god forbid if I win! It really showed me the difference between LVM and HVM. A LVM will tear you down when you’re flying high because he’s insecure and feels more powerful by dragging you down. A HVM will bring himself up to reach a hig… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:30 AM |
| 9 | I saw a post yesterday on another sub by a woman who has been raped. Now she's wondering why "rough sex" with her boyfriend triggers her so badly that she breaks down crying.Thank you Queen! I agree! Investing in yourself is the best thing anyone can do! That’s an investment that can only increase in value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:16 PM |
| 18 | I saw a post yesterday on another sub by a woman who has been raped. Now she's wondering why "rough sex" with her boyfriend triggers her so badly that she breaks down crying.Yes of course, I didn’t realise those rules, I apologise! And thank you for your kind words it means a lot! And thanks for FDS! I’ve only been here for a month, but in that month I’ve enrolled back into school, started my business again (it was temporarily closed due to Covid) and I’ve enrolled in gym classes and started painting again. Oh and I dumped that NVM ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:31 PM |
| 92 | I saw a post yesterday on another sub by a woman who has been raped. Now she's wondering why "rough sex" with her boyfriend triggers her so badly that she breaks down crying.This reminds me of my ex. I had been sexually assaulted and the police investigation and people not believing me (mainly women) and also the actual act of being sexually assaulted was so so traumatic for me. A year later I met my ex and when I felt comfortable I told my ex and he didn’t really say much just “sorry about that”. I thought that maybe he didn’t know how to react. I just wanted a hug in that moment and for him to say that he’s there for me. Anyway, a week or so later things in the be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:21 PM |
| 95 | Husband is a porn addict who ejaculates in the shower and doesn’t clean it, leaving the evidence for his pickme wife to clean. He lies and gaslights. They now have a child and he’s doing it in the child’s bathroom. He’s also not attracted to her post baby body.I’m pretty sure he’s leaving it there deliberately and gets off on her cleaning his dry, crusty, smelly cum. I think it’s a sick form of domination by degrading her and making her clean his disgusting mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:04 PM |
| 50 | Husband is a porn addict who ejaculates in the shower and doesn’t clean it, leaving the evidence for his pickme wife to clean. He lies and gaslights. They now have a child and he’s doing it in the child’s bathroom. He’s also not attracted to her post baby body.I didn’t know that definition of “pony jar” either, but I googled it and this was the urban dictionary definition: “The Pony Jar was a meme back in ye old days of tumblr that originated from a man who made posts about his “pony jar” which was a glass jar with a singular my little pony toy in the middle. And he would put his semen in the jar to cover the toy” Again it’s disturbing with this child element and the NVM doing these acts in the child’s bathroom. I’m quite disturbed by this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:02 PM |
| 168 | Husband is a porn addict who ejaculates in the shower and doesn’t clean it, leaving the evidence for his pickme wife to clean. He lies and gaslights. They now have a child and he’s doing it in the child’s bathroom. He’s also not attracted to her post baby body.Link This NVM is DISGUSTING. Leaves the evidence of his cum, deliberately for her to clean. I’m sure he leaves it there to show her that his porn gets him off but not his wife, as some sort of sick power move. Also getting her to clean it is also some sort of sick form of domination. He lies and gaslights saying it’s “shampoo”. The red flags were all there. Yet she stayed and now she has a baby with this sick NVM. Now he’s doing it in the baby’s bathroom and refuses to clean it?! Thats psychopat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 02:42 PM |
| 88 | If a woman is subjected to this it’s “BDSM”, if a dog is subjected to this its psychopathic behaviour. Interested to hear any thoughts on this.link The picture was a screenshot but appears blurry. The link to the original is attached. Look at all the comments condemning the person who put their hands around the dogs throat. This really opened my eyes up to how messed up BDSM is. It would never ever be tolerated in any other aspect of life, unless of course it’s violence against women. Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:28 AM |
| 152 | To date a Sentient Petri Dish 🦠I feel like I’ve got a UTI just from reading this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 09:45 PM |
| 27 | Husband is sexually attracted to teenage babysitter and is jealous of his own son for having her attention. “My husband hates our neighbour’s daughter (16F) playing with our son (7M)”This though crossed my mind too! This porn absolutely fuels these sick thoughts and desires, it also normalises them and makes these pornsick men more likely to act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:08 PM |
| 44 | Husband is sexually attracted to teenage babysitter and is jealous of his own son for having her attention. “My husband hates our neighbour’s daughter (16F) playing with our son (7M)”I agree. OP said here that the police were called a few years ago when the husband and the babysitter went to soccer practice. His behaviour must have been very concerning if the police were called. Also, that happened a “few years ago” meaning that this has been a serious problem for a number of years. So concerning that members of the public called the police. What are her parents thinking? I’m concerned for both the babysitter and his son. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 05:12 PM |
| 90 | Husband is sexually attracted to teenage babysitter and is jealous of his own son for having her attention. “My husband hates our neighbour’s daughter (16F) playing with our son (7M)”The husband is sexualising the 16yr old babysitter. He comments on her short skirts and is jealous of her 16yr old boyfriend and even his own son for having her attention. OP made a comment saying the police were called when the husband brought the teenage babysitter to practice. This is why we MUST look for these red flags and dump these men. Imagine if this guy had a daughter? Would he be sexualising her too? Also the way he talks about women being objects for men is disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 04:36 PM |
| 37 | 11 year relationship and the only proposal is a threesome — “My[31F] long term boyfriend [45M] refuses to marry me unless I have a threesome with his friend.”OP is in an 11 yr relationship, with no proposal. They met when she was 20 and he was 34. First red flag! Now he says he’ll only marry her if she agrees to a threesome. So in 11 years, the only proposal he made was a threesome. Sis, time to take out your trash 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Severely abused woman reports her Pakistani abusers, is being charged with 'perverting justice'. We need to talk about this #JusticeForEllieWilliamsIt’s a change.org petition so I believe anyone worldwide can sign. I’ve signed petitions for the USA and I’m a resident of the UK, so I believe it’s okay. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Severely abused woman reports her Pakistani abusers, is being charged with 'perverting justice'. We need to talk about this #JusticeForEllieWilliamsYes it’s the UK way of saying lawyer or attorney:) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:16 PM |
| 14 | Severely abused woman reports her Pakistani abusers, is being charged with 'perverting justice'. We need to talk about this #JusticeForEllieWilliamsIt was a struggle to find anything about this online, but here’s what I’ve found: PLEASE SIGN this petition . People are signing this petition demanding the Independent Office for Police Conduct and the National Crime Agency take over the investigation. UK Guardian Article: Here Crowd Funding for Ellie: Here The money being raised is to get new solicitors and a legal team who specialise in these horrific crimes We need to get this case heard and get this poor girl justice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:50 PM |
| 44 | Severely abused woman reports her Pakistani abusers, is being charged with 'perverting justice'. We need to talk about this #JusticeForEllieWilliamsHi, Forgive me, I’m hijacking your top comment to post this, as my comment was buried. It was a struggle to find anything about this online, but here’s what I’ve found: PLEASE SIGN this petition . People are signing this petition demanding the Independent Office for Police Conduct and the National Crime Agency take over the investigation. UK Guardian Article: Here Crowd Funding for Ellie: Here The money being raised is to get new solicitors and a legal team who specialise in these horrific crime… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:49 PM |
| 19 | Severely abused woman reports her Pakistani abusers, is being charged with 'perverting justice'. We need to talk about this #JusticeForEllieWilliamsIt was a struggle to find anything about this online, but here’s what I’ve found: PLEASE SIGN this petition . People are signing this petition demanding the Independent Office for Police Conduct and the National Crime Agency take over the investigation. UK Guardian Article: Here Crowd Funding for Ellie: Here The money being raised is to get new solicitors and a legal team who specialise in these horrific crimes We need to get this case heard and get this poor girl justice! Edit: link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:45 PM |
| 39 | Let's count all the red flagsNotice how he said he could control his flirting when his wife was around. Also he’s incredibly delusional if he thinks calling someone a “cute-cucumber “ will be effective. Notice how he was completely unaware at how uncomfortable the SIL was. I bet he’s made a lot of women feel uncomfortable with that cringe ass flirting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:32 PM |
| 19 | “I’ve been hospitalised with severe complications from IVF and my husband has decided to go out for his birthday tonight. I don’t know how to feel”Also let’s say he does buy some £5 flowers and says a quick “Sorry”, that’s does not excuse his L/NVM behaviour. Words and gifts are cheap and mean nothing without actions behind them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:50 AM |
| 33 | “I’ve been hospitalised with severe complications from IVF and my husband has decided to go out for his birthday tonight. I don’t know how to feel”Yep, I agree with you. Story time: I’ve been sick recently with a very serious bacterial infection. I’ve been admitted to hospital for intravenous antibiotics and I’m at the doctor again on Monday. Basically I’ve been very ill. The guy I was seeing sent me a message yesterday asking about sex and I replied that I wasn’t in any position to have sex due to how sick I was. He threw a strop and has ignored me since. Well I’ve dumped his ass. I can’t tolerate that behaviour otherwise I’ll end up in a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 12:37 AM |
| 29 | “I’ve been hospitalised with severe complications from IVF and my husband has decided to go out for his birthday tonight. I don’t know how to feel”This is why when we see red flags early on we must leave. We can’t excuse their behaviour otherwise we can end up in situations like this. Thanks for noticing the other post history! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 12:30 AM |
| 67 | “I’ve been hospitalised with severe complications from IVF and my husband has decided to go out for his birthday tonight. I don’t know how to feel”Imagine seeing your wife go through all of this and you decide to go out for drinks whilst your wife lays in hospital seriously ill?! They don’t need to try for children because he is the child. He shows his true self when she needs him most. Let’s hope she leaves him and doesn’t have a child with him! Disgusting behaviour. This is why we must look for the LVM red flags early so we can avoid situations like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 12:03 AM |
| 38 | It’s so refreshing when a guy is nice and there’s no dramaYep, reading that exact line really resonated with me and confirmed to me that I need to end things with the guy I’m seeing atm. He never cares about anything I do and never asks my opinion on anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:17 PM |
| 50 | STAY WOKE, ladies. Unless you’re The One to him, men have no problem stringing you along and playing mental gymnastics. Also, no answer is also an answer.Thank god for this subreddit, it really makes me realise my worth. Also makes me scream and how much crap I tolerated for years 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*He is absolutely cheating and didn’t want any evidence of you at his place for the other girls to find. Glad you dumped him sis!! You’re better than this! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:30 AM |
| 11 | Good luck, sis.My ex was like this. And he cheated on me with a girl he didn’t know in a PARK. Makes sense I guess for a man child to cheat in a park 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 12:25 AM |
| 7 | I don’t even know what to say, just reported the siteYes queen! I’m with you! We can never stop and we will never be silenced! 💪❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 11:29 PM |
| 27 | I don’t even know what to say, just reported the siteI didn’t click on it but I read the comments on the other post. That’s absolutely depraved. This is what happens when we have incest porn trending and seen as “normal”. People want to recreate it with their own daughters, mothers, sisters etc. It’s deplorable and disgusting. I feel sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 11:23 PM |
| 22 | Ladies! How many red flags can you spot in this one-sentence bio? 🚩🚩🚩Meanwhile, what is he offering? Probably looking like a sweaty toe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 01:59 PM |
| 15 | “I need help understand why men watch porn when in a committed relationship” Bf never initiates sex due to his porn addiction and gf feels unattractive. Most of the comments are telling her she’s insecure and that it’s normal for her bf to watch porn.No worries! We must stick together to win! 💪❤️ If we divide they conquer! It’s a long battle but we will win ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 11:16 PM |
| 37 | “I need help understand why men watch porn when in a committed relationship” Bf never initiates sex due to his porn addiction and gf feels unattractive. Most of the comments are telling her she’s insecure and that it’s normal for her bf to watch porn.I do feel people are understanding the dangers of porn. I agree that the fight is tedious and long, but I do feel it’s worthwhile. I am beginning to see more comments of people who understand porn addiction and it’s effects of causing huge dopamine surges and causing addiction. I also see more posts about sex trafficking and underage rape how PornHub refused to take down the videos until lawyers got involved. Also the practice of drugging actresses before violent scenes to make them more complia… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 11:12 PM |
| 85 | “I need help understand why men watch porn when in a committed relationship” Bf never initiates sex due to his porn addiction and gf feels unattractive. Most of the comments are telling her she’s insecure and that it’s normal for her bf to watch porn.The vast majority of the comments do not acknowledge that the bf has a porn addiction and that’s why he isn’t initiating with his gf. This makes the gf feel unattractive and unwanted. The overwhelming majority are endorsing the porn industry saying it’s normal and healthy in a relationship. PORN IS GROSS! It’s causing OP body image issues and big insecurities and it’s STILL somehow her fault?! This is insane. Porn is not normal is a disgusting industry which profits off rape and sexual trafficki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 11:01 PM |
| 48 | “My boyfriend (28M) might be setting me (19F) up to be used sexually by his friends or strangers for some fetish.” Decade older bf grooms his teenage gf to satisfy his rape fetish.She’s been groomed :-( He deliberately chose her as a young, naive teenager. She’s perfect grooming prey for him. The fact she is inexperienced and doesn’t know what’s right and whats wrong — what’s a kink and what’s a crime is why he chose her. I just hope when she reads the comments she realises how bad his actions are, and that she’s in a very dangerous situation with this predator. Edit: just making dinner and was thinking that porn normalises this rape culture too. Rape is NOT a kink it’s a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 08:17 PM |
| 25 | “My boyfriend (28M) might be setting me (19F) up to be used sexually by his friends or strangers for some fetish.” Decade older bf grooms his teenage gf to satisfy his rape fetish.Yes I agree. It’s good that most of the comments are telling her to run, and I agree that “talking to him” is absolutely not an option. He’s a predator who’s been grooming her. Anything he would say would be lies and further grooming. She needs to run like yesterday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 08:13 PM |
| 40 | “My boyfriend (28M) might be setting me (19F) up to be used sexually by his friends or strangers for some fetish.” Decade older bf grooms his teenage gf to satisfy his rape fetish.Completely agree! He’s a predator and it’s incredibly disturbing. Absolutely disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 08:10 PM |
| 111 | “My boyfriend (28M) might be setting me (19F) up to be used sexually by his friends or strangers for some fetish.” Decade older bf grooms his teenage gf to satisfy his rape fetish.“Sounds like this guy preyed on you as a young, naive girl and has been grooming you for sex trafficking. Get the fuck out.” This comment sums it up really. I have no words . . . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 07:59 PM |
| 9 | “My (24F) [pedophile] husband (38M) keeps sexualising my childhood trauma even tho I’ve asked him not to.” Further analyses of the husband in the comments are even more disturbing.Omg yes! I just commented this on another post! This was my take on this too! Incredibly disturbing and the post was very difficult to read because it was so disturbing. He’s a sick predator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 07:38 PM |
| 75 | Reminder that older men who go out of their way to date vastly younger women need to be AVOIDED AT ALL COSTS and this is whyYes I agree! And this guy?! Pffft! Imagine sexualising someone’s sexual abuse and trauma for your own sexual gratification?!? That’s so fucked up! So so selfish and highly disturbing behaviour. I think when she was younger in the relationship, that was his kink. He got off on the fact she was so young, and basically still a child (although legally an adult). Whereas now she’s older so his kink has changed to sexualising her previous abuse. Incredibly disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 07:36 PM |
| 38 | Reminder that older men who go out of their way to date vastly younger women need to be AVOIDED AT ALL COSTS and this is whyThis was very disturbing and difficult to read. I really hope she can see that she was groomed and he was not her saviour. And of course the age gap is a HUGE red flag 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Dumped a ScroteYou’re very strong! Keep going! Proud of you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 01:02 PM |
| 8 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?Yes! Ghost his ass! He will probably come back again and message you in the future but do NOT reply. You’re a queen and you know your worth! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 01:54 AM |
| 21 | Is this too early to diagnose a LVM?Absolutely ghost. 👻 He does not appear interested at all. If he was interested you would know. He keeps making excuses to not see you and also ghosted you for a day when you asked him to pick you up. Trust your instincts because they’re correct. In my opinion you were trying way too hard to force the date. When he effectively stood you up the first time and he asked your plans for the next day do NOT say that you have no plans. You’re asking to be stood up again. I personally would have ghosted … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 01:25 AM |
| 100 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?Yes. How long does it take to send a message? Typing “Hi How are you?” Took 10 seconds. If he cannot find 10 seconds in over 7days he doesn’t care about you. It’s most likely he started talking to someone else and she dipped and now he’s coming back to you. Girl, you’re better than this!! You are not trash to be dropped and picked up again at HIS disposal. NO. You ghost his ass!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Guy got his ancestry DNA results, discovered he was very distantly related to royal lineage, and is now too royal for his gf.The comments are overwhelmingly on her side which is great that people recognise his LVM behaviour as ridiculous. I thought this was hilarious and I hope it’s appropriate for this subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 12:11 AM |
| 24 | Husband(43M) is depressed and angry his wife (30F) is the breadwinner so spends all day sabotaging her progress and throwing tantrums. Made her pay 50/50 even when he was making more.Yes absolutely! He expected it of her when she was earning a lot less than him but now it’s “unfair” of him to expect to play by his own rules. Pfft this guy is trash. 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 09:51 PM |
| 82 | Hating misogynistic behavior = / = hating menShe’s desperate for male validation, that’s what that whole post is about. She’s probably waiting for the comments to come in so she can bask in the male praise. This is the same type of woman who bitches about other women who have successful careers or look attractive. She’s internally misogynistic and desperate for male praise. Quite sad really. Edit: if this is even a woman? Sounds like a LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:53 AM |
| 47 | My (26M) girlfriend (26F) drunkenly told me she was starving herself to be more attractive to me. I’m devastated and don’t know what to do.This LVM is so addicted to porn he stores pictures and wanks off to these instead of making love to his actual girlfriend who loves him. The addiction is so bad the girlfriend develops an eating disorder and starves herself to try and be more attractive to him. And he STILL doesnt acknowledge he has a porn addiction. Pppfttt. Porn is evil. I have no words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:41 AM |
| 6 | My (26M) girlfriend (26F) drunkenly told me she was starving herself to be more attractive to me. I’m devastated and don’t know what to do.“My (26M) girlfriend (26F) drunkenly told me she was starving herself to be more attractive to me. I’m devastated and don’t know what to do. TLDR: girlfriend got drunk and said she’s been not eating so she can be petite like the girls I masturbate to. I’m not sure if she even remembers telling me but don’t know how to bring it up. My girlfriend and I have been together for 6 years - classic college sweetheart romance. I love her and if she believed in marriage I’d put a ring on her in an instant… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:37 AM |
| 10 | What would happen if all women using dating apps... stopped? 🤔Hehe thanks! It’s all thanks to this subreddit! FDS has made me fierce and I tolerate no shit anymore. It’s MY way or the highway 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:56 PM |
| 53 | What would happen if all women using dating apps... stopped? 🤔I deleted all my dating apps years ago and it made me feel so much better. I meet people in normal life now when I’m socialising, and I can tell straight away if I click with them, and if they’re being transparent and genuine. Any bad vibes I move on immediately. I’ve invested no time and I’m able to make a much quicker assessment on whether I like them or not. Also in person I can see what they look like straight away, I’m not looking at a decade old photograph. 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:31 PM |
| 2 | It can't get simpler than thatI really hate how the word “porn” is used as a synonym for something great or amazing. No. Porn is humiliating, degrading and disrespectful. Nothing good at all can be associated with porn. Even using it as “Word Porn” and posting a great quote, you’re still endorsing the porn industry with the connotation that the word porn is great. Porn is evil and sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Can you reschedule a date?Glad to help! Give us an update too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 03:47 PM |
| 19 | Can you reschedule a date?What is convenient for YOU? What do YOU want to do? Put yourself first. If you’re going to be jet lagged that’s totally fine to reschedule the date. It gives the impression you’re busy and that you’re not dropping everything in your life to cater for him. Put yourself first and do what makes you comfortable but be confident! Don’t apologise for rescheduling. Tell him that you’re rescheduling. Be strong and confident in your decision. It gives the impression that you’re busy and your time is valu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 03:01 PM |
| 103 | AITA is full of these abusive, age gap relationships. His comments are infuriating too.Notice the ages too: 34M and 21F. He deliberately chose a young girl because they’re easier to manipulate and use. An older woman would never tolerate his crap. At the end he also says that she does all the cooking and cleaning and he doesn’t know what to do without her. He’s a man child who’s abusive. I’m glad she left and I hope she never returns. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:46 AM |
| 94 | Damn straight! Cheating is the ultimate sign of disrespect - dump them immediatelyThis is exactly it! My last two ex bfs saw sex like this. I was their possession and sex was something they did to me, rather than an enjoyable experience for both of us. My orgasm was never important (and never happened). The sex was degrading and disrespectful. The first one I left because he cheated. He was pathetic and begged me for another chance. It was okay for him to cheat but not me! I laughed and left!! The last guy, he was into BDSM and I saw his sadistic side. I stumbled across this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 09:10 AM |
| 11 | DON’T BE BORING.... Proceeds to be the most basic fuckboy imaginableI bet this guy loves to travel too. Lol, travelling between women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:33 AM |
| 21 | Nominee for Pickmeisha MVPI legit saw this and thought it was cute she proposed to her dog. I thought the 72 was in dog years!! I was thinking I’d take my dog over any man anyway too! Omg can’t believe this is actually real and the strip club part is gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:30 AM |
| 115 | Told him I don’t cook for boys and that I don’t like giving massages... he won’t be getting anything from me. The audacity! We have only been talking for 4 days.This level of entitlement!! He believes he’s entitled to your unpaid labour of massages and cooking. Meanwhile what is he offering? Nothing. He doesn’t see you as an equal, merely an object for his convenience and at his disposal. This is the type of guy who would expect you to work full time, look after all house duties and also all childcare duties too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:21 AM |
| 31 | Ugh just throw them all awayMe too. FDS has changed my life and I will never tolerate LVMs again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 03:50 PM |
| 63 | Boyfriend finds out woman had anal sex in the past and throws a complete fucking tantrum because she doesn’t want to do it with him. Reminder to never tell men your sexual history and drop Pickmeisha friends who “accidentally” put your business out there.It’s all about domination and power. They feel entitled to our bodies because we’re only sexual objects to be used (to them). They want us to be humiliated and in pain and they “get off” on that pain. Men feel entitled to “access” all areas of our bodies so they feel like they fully own us and full dominate us. Anal is always about complete domination. I’ve always said when I man asks me for anal, “I’ll do it if you do it”. Lol! I’ve never done anal!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 03:04 PM |
| 82 | Ugh just throw them all awayTHIS! I had a terrible abusive childhood and I was also sexually assaulted as a teenager which I’m still dealing with now in my mid 20s. My ex was fine with my trauma in the bedroom. He’d be extremely dominant and I’d feel pressured Into agreeing. (I now know this is called “coerced consent”). I felt that I could only be loved if I was subjected to these degrading and disrespect acts, because I’ve never known love without abuse. He took advantage of my trauma for his own sexual satisfaction. Whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:47 PM |
| 14 | Getting a UTI just reading this 🤢He prioritised his laziness and convenience over your comfort. Says it all really. We deserve better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:32 AM |
| 9 | Getting a UTI just reading this 🤢Agree! Part of me was thinking he may “get off” on the fact he’s forcing me to be a bit more submissive by making the bj even more gross. Like he’s more dominant because he’s making me lick his dirty cock, and making me suffer a bit more. I don’t know if that was the case but it was certainly a thought because he was heavily into BDSM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:20 AM |
| 13 | What kind of man gets off on beating his wife until she’s unconscious? A pornsick one.My first thought too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 11:14 PM |
| 6 | Getting a UTI just reading this 🤢I had an ex who’s dick always stank of urine. He’d want bjs but I’d decline because that would just be disgusting. My mouth isn’t toilet paper. Anyway, the last time it stank again after I’ve told him to wash (and I’d suggest washing together so I’d physically wash his penis, so I’d know it was done correctly). He said he was fine and didn’t need to wash as he’d washed that morning. At that moment I had a powerful “Eureeka” moment and I was like wtf am I doing here?! I said I needed the bathroom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Definitely used to be a weakness of mine, until this sub. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be like other girls!Thank you! I just bought this book! I was sexually assaulted a year ago and all my female friends expect three believed the attacker. What’s the worst is that they said they believed my events but they felt that my reaction was dramatic. I was drugged and then he wanted to use my body for sex. He took away my phone so I couldn’t message anyone and locked me on his basement. The female “friends” and lots of Male “friends” said that this sometimes what happens on a night out!? It was normal and I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 09:46 PM |
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