11 year relationship and the only proposal is a threesome — “My[31F] long term boyfriend [45M] refuses to marry me unless I have a threesome with his friend.”

TheOGJammies · 2020-06-07T22:27:54+00:00

Removed - this is a troll post

puppypugs · 2020-06-07T20:40:22+00:00

OP is in an 11 yr relationship, with no proposal.

They met when she was 20 and he was 34. First red flag!

Now he says he’ll only marry her if she agrees to a threesome. So in 11 years, the only proposal he made was a threesome. Sis, time to take out your trash 🗑

Delicious-Scholar · 2020-06-07T21:19:12+00:00

FDS rescue mission!

woldielocks · 2020-06-07T21:29:30+00:00

"but he didn't hit me or anything"

What a saint.

Truth is her BF should have been ready to get married at 34, when they got together. Instead he chose to prolong his adult adolescence by getting with a 20 y/o. Now she's aged out of the "let's see where it goes, but let's have extremely kinky sex in the meantime" stage because she was a young adult when they got together and matured. But he was fully formed so I don't know why OP expects him to change. He is who he was when they got together.

The first comment is right. He doesn't love her. He's still the same child, just older and balder.

ApprehensiveMeaning0 · 2020-06-07T22:01:07+00:00

You've been with this guy since you were 20yrs oldish... Is this the kind of Husband you want? A threesome with his Friend?!?! Let's say you have kids with this guy. Can you imagine his friend you had a threesome with at your child's first birthday party?!? You have a wonderful opportunity to GET OUT! GET AWAY! RUNNNNNNNNNNN! YOU CAN DO IT. PRAYING FOR YOU❣️

musubiqueen · 2020-06-07T22:07:21+00:00

I agree with everyone’s advice but based on the OP username I feel this might be a joke or a troll.

Cosmictears83 · 2020-06-07T21:13:57+00:00

Her username alone was enough to give me pause...

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Title	11 year relationship and the only proposal is a threesome — “My[31F] long term boyfriend [45M] refuses to marry me unless I have a threesome with his friend.”
Author	puppypugs
Upvotes	21
Comments	11
Date	June 7, 2020 8:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/gyjzly/11_year_relationship_and_the_only_proposal_is_a/
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