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MALE DEPRAVITYCosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:06 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYCosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:33 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTECosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:32 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYCosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:51 AM
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NAH, SISCosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:05 AM
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DISCUSSIONCosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 04:56 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTECosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:03 AM
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DISCUSSIONCosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:30 PM
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SEEKING ADVICECosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:19 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYCosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:03 AM
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NAH, SISCosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:17 AM
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DISCUSSIONCosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:54 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTECosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:18 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?Cosmictears83/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:40 AM
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When it finally clicked how unsanitary it was to sleep with men (even condoms don't provide much protection from HPV and HSV not to mention Guardasil only works for some strains) I decided that celibacy was the only way. It may sound drastic but there's no drama or health risk or herpes problems in my life. Also with the current attacks on reproductive rights its not worth the risk even on birth control. A disappointing hook up isn't worth the colposcopies. 2000s pick me self would have thought …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:57 AM
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Britney is a modern example that exploitation and erasure of women with mental illness or not happens even now. Back in the day women who "didn't act right" were institutionalized and abused. She is a victim now because she was incidently wealthy. Abuse of women like back then still happens. And if they are wealthy from hard work all the more reason for scrotes to take advantage. And the scrote is her own dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:41 AM
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It's more important for you to block him for sure. It's not an overreaction at all. Him getting incidently banned from the app is just a consequence of his own actions and may prevent at least one other woman from being hurt. As you learn and grow more in FDS values and set boundaries, which will show in your family and friend relationships too, there are people who you will anger or make uncomfortable and they lash out. Expect your sister to turn up the pick meisms to 100. It's her problem. A n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 02:11 AM
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15 Million Merits episode of Black Mirror is pretty much already happening in a lot of ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 08:43 PM
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Why is he acting like this is rocket science? Does he think women all attend a secret PhD program to learn how to braid hair or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:12 AM
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An update to my post on misogynistic Facebook censorship. I just spent 3 days in fb jail for saying I prefer to date women now because men don't have anything to offer me. It's definitely not someone I know reporting at this point. Apparently my account/IP will always be under fb scrutiny for initially saying I got s3xually harrassed in a game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:57 PM
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I'm 80% sure I figured out who because my insta following is so small and only a couple men overlap between there and Facebook. I also remembered the suspect asked if I was a f3min%zi back when we were young. I dont think it was any women friends as I've purged a lot of pickme over the years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:50 AM
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Reminds me of the infamous Homan Ardalan who is in court now. Look him up. Tiktok scrote who is being called out everywhere. The top youtube video of his name is hard to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:07 PM
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That ring is so pretty and unique!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:47 PM
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Same here. The more PUA tiktoks and videos I see the more my brain equates a man touching me with disgust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:56 PM
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I still follow Tiffany and she seems in a better place in life. I think she genuinely liked him and I was like 🤢.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:20 PM
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They can't even handle the word manchild on reddit without a meltdown but can have whole subs with bitch in the title.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:22 PM
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My Ex was always claiming to be funny. In fact when I ran across his profiles on dating sites he bragged about how "I can make you laugh". The thing was he was always using jokes from famous comedians and I honestly think he was delusional that they weren't his own thoughts. I'm familiar with a lot of stand up and would be like :/. And of course, one of the only traits of mine I will brag on is that I'm legitimately hilarious. Not "sarcasm" but I have a well developed sense of funny due to a rou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:33 PM
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I can't lie though, that Enigma song is amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:51 PM
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I feel like nature is kicking our butts right now and life is just paused for everyone except those who don't really care. I've read pandemics historically last 2-5 years and since we are far more advanced now (like 2 effective vaccines hitting in the next few weeks only 8-12 months into a pandemic) gives me hope we will be back to some sort of normal next year, by summer hopefully. (I think masks will be part of life for longer which is what it is) I've seen too much disturbing things in OLD as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:24 PM
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TIL I'm selfish for minding my own business and keeping to myself lol. Also my love of 90s rock instead of "soft music" makes me too manly. BRB gonna go download Pure Moods volume 1 to balance my hormones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:39 PM
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Well, I've been DSC for years but not really shaving in quarantine.... my card recently expired and I hadn't updated it and now never will. Edit: went in and officially canceled. Cited reason "other" and mentioned this article.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:10 PM
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I'm also staunchly childfree with no step parent plans. I get those guys that try to hook me in with "I hardly ever have them/I dont have them at all" and well, I judge them even worse because they don't realize they're outing themselves as crappy parents according to an actual court thus LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:57 PM
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The whole article was scrote fantasy that made my eyes roll but the one quote: "A man's scent can contain coded information about his hormone levels, fertility and even his genetic compatibility to you." Always something that has made me paranoid as someone with congenital anosmia (can't smell). I wonder if its caused me to waste time on wrong people because I didn't choose based on something subconsciously important. Does that make sense? Any other non sniffers out there who wonder the same thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:14 PM
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Every guy who has wanted to move to Kik for me has ended up being scammers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:56 PM
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There's no way I would survive the service industry. I'd be fired at first situation. Not ashamed to say my bipolar removed my filter for inappropriate situations and I don't play well with creatures like this. The shit we expect women to smile and put up with so some scrotes won't write a bad yelp review for our employer and so we can feed our families.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:57 PM
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All of those "am I pretty" algorithm apps/sites are bogus and problematic. They subtract from your score if you don't have a thin nose. Do with that info what you will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:59 PM
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Divorce, and take him to the cleaners. He can be a broke scrote left with his porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 05:57 PM
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He claims he's beating off 20 year old women with a stick at his scrotely dusty age... doubt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 09:45 PM
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I didn't need to see that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:18 AM
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Yeah im the person from the infamous neighbor sexual harrassment letter post. Cracked me up seeing his friend beg to get the post removed because his bro had "brain damage and can't help himself" Fds mods never fell for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:25 AM
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I kept my married name after divorce because of professional reasons. It would be too difficult and pointless trying to deal with it. I wish I hadn't changed it to begin with just because I got married. If I ever do re marry, whomever the guy is will just have to accept the fact I'm not changing my name. Or he can go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:54 AM
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In the military going into formations we have the tallest in front. So lining up the leader says "if you're taller than the person in front of you, tap their shoulder and move forward". I can't tell you how many times some tiny shorty guy would tap my shoulder to get in front of me because they were delusional about our height difference. I'm 5'7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:01 AM
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My first thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:30 AM
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The only game ads that can get a laugh out of me at all are the Lily's Garden saga. Which apparently has nothing to do with actual game play but is the most ridiculous soap opera of an ad series I've ever seen. Who is writing this stuff?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:17 AM
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Ooh. Too similar. Just dumped and blocked a narc friend because I was tired of constantly being insulted and verbally jabbed. The tattoo reference was me pointing out an instance where she insulted the crap out of my tattoo at a get together. She was definitely never joking with all she pulled over the year or so I knew her. The last straw was when she spent an evening making crude jokes about me being bisexual at yet another get together with other people around after I confided in her I went o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:34 AM
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FDS didn't just help me say no to men, its helped me dump a narcissist friend that had her claws in. The constant put downs, her horrible life values (I mean evil), the definition of a pick me who wouldn't accept I didn't desperately need a man like her and would make jabs about that. Recently I dyed my hair red, and she who never has immediately did too, posting a picture going "Ketchup hair!" I was like okay its getting weird. I started slow fading her a month ago while trying and failing the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:03 PM
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There is so much that alludes to like this in Craigslist ads for renters/roommates in all cities. Check out your areas, you'll find at least one scrote offering $0 rent for women only and for "stuff". Craigslist Los Angeles alone is a goldmine. This is result ONE in my city and its outright prostitution solicitation https://oklahomacity.craigslist.org/roo/d/oklahoma-city-any-women-need-some-cash/7228742114.html Oh God this one is sick https://oklahomacity.craigslist.org/roo/d/seminole-looking-fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:39 AM
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When he spit in that horrible teacher's face I was like YES. Not condoning any assault but as far as in the fictional tv universe I was cheering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:46 PM
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I enjoyed feminine or scary costumes as a child. I have never worn or enjoyed sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:59 PM
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Still alive and kicking after the creepy neighbor incident. He's been basically gone because we have an ongoing power outage in my state. I heard some commotion the other day that may have been some light moving out, so fingers crossed. But of course, we now have some drug dealing scrotes that have taken over the apartment laundry room so im working on getting that addressed without getting shot. I'm currently lightly house hunting but the outage the past week put a damper on it. I hope all of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:23 PM
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I saw a LOT in my 14 years Air Force but one thing that stood out as far as the audacity these military men have was when we went to the base theater to watch "The Yellow Dress" play that was touring bases. Basically a play where a woman is excited to wear her yellow dress to a party and gets assaulted or something. Sexual assault/violence training basically. There were men, on duty in uniform in the audience who started yelling and catcalling SEXUAL things at the poor actress right in the open.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:05 AM
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Oooohh I know how much that response would destroy them and I want to see it in action one day. I'm gonna use it if I ever get the chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 09:25 PM
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Even with all the burden it comes with, if reincarnation is a thing I will always want to be a woman every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:48 PM
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If you have their phone number the VoteWithMe app may easily out them too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:42 PM
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I'm late 30s and overweight and in quarantine I've been going down to my car in Walmart leisure covered in cat fur with unbrushed greasy hair and hairy legs. I'm actively looking repellant. I've still been approached by a random scrote in the parking lot and got a sex request letter from my neighbor. If you even look like you have a vagina you are not safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:37 PM
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I'll never forget wearing shorts one hot day as a young teen to school. Just normal shorts. Then a teacher started screaming for me to come over to measure them from my knee to were they started. She yelled in front of everyone they were an inch or something too short. I got in trouble. She made me feel dirty and disgusting as a kid. School dress codes are 100% against girls. A teen boy literally has to wear a shirt with a swastika or something to get in trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:36 PM
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Now I cant... update So between youtube, me being a bit wild. The cops came. He called them because he was scared over youtube and me or whatever. I had to speak to the cops, explain everything. Show them the letter. He had friends over that were telling him his letter was ill advised. We did the usual spiel of speaking to law enforcement and settling things. We in different apartments agreed we would not speak to each other etc. No idea the fall out when propery managers may hear of this. It wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:55 AM
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Thankfully I never needed the training on my middle east deployments. I went to decent places like Qatar and UAE. Now my ex husband did the half year in Baghdad and was shot at all the time. Omg I was dying the whole time when he called.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:55 AM
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I was hot garbage at the Air Force M-16 (I think they use something else now) hot shells flying back to your neck 🤬 still it was fun to use burst setting I find handguns better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:38 AM
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I've never had a better feeling than when I was shooting my ex husband's Kimber Eclipse pro Target 2. Even I couldn't miss one can with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:33 AM
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I'm very solitary. I could never do a roommate especially with my menagerie of cats. At my age especially (37) I refuse to backtrack even more than I have by moving to an apartment in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:17 AM
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Thank you for saying that and plus, do you really think I need this from some kid right now when I'm minding my business?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:15 AM
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These incels never fail in their stereotypes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:13 AM
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Girl I'm liberal, but as a vet I'm pro 2a as fuck. Theres a reason for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:12 AM
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I just got this heebie jeebie he looks up at my window. I have sheer curtains in the main room because there's a giant tree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:04 AM
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I write him a No note and said I was uncomfortable. The landlord asked for confirmation. I may have had some wine and taped some extra notes for him on my door a few hours ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:02 AM
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Thank you. I actually have bipolar and live with a stigma of being inherently dangerous. I'm not. Some are most aren't. My disorder is not an excuse but it can be a catalyst for the wrong person. If I meet a fellow severe MI sufferer I suss them out as far as their core personality and temperament and treatment. I've met the sweetest schizophrenic people, but met people with Cluster B and psychosis who went on to murder. But on the whole, its the nuerotypicals with average IQs who commit murder.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:48 AM
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I am worried, but I'm also very prepared for self defense if it came to that. It's a matter more of, I shouldn't be in this position in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:42 AM
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For fucks sake... I'm talking about this in fb groups and the pickmes are all on me "he said he'd respect your chooooice" Is FDS the only sane place on earth? Humanity, we need a big conversation about sexual harrassment, and pickmes need to sit in front.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:34 AM
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Should see the ugly rose he drew on the envelope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:09 AM
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Its good to hear a talk down thats not bashing me so thank you. I have had a schizophrenic neighbor before, he'd mostly come up and beg for water because he thought his was poisoned. I felt bad for him in particular. Its the sexual part I cannot make accommodations for in any circumstance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 04:18 AM
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Yup. I'm approximately 40 feet from him right now. ☠
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:57 AM
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Tbh mine is really bad. I have to write slow to make it pretty. But like, its not this BTK killer font
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:45 AM
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I'm actually in Oklahoma! But a really weird area demographically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:50 AM
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I'm so sorry that happened especially when you were already in a bad space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:43 AM
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A kind lady in this thread said she'd do a background check for me. A creepy thing I discovered the other day and confirmed today is he goes by 2 names. His real one, and one he made up for himself. Like full on made up a new first and last name that he uses with people he meets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:56 AM
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The funny thing is I'm not so much shy I just didn't like talking to him 😂. If I saw him coming across the parking lot I would book it back up to my apartment. I guess he interpreted that as me being all UwU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:48 AM
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I wish they'd taught us more self defense in the Air Force. Like how to get out of holds etc. Anything would help. I guess at least I know weapons stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:36 AM
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Our doors here are absolute garbage, I think they're 1943 originals besides the doorknobs. I once thought my door was unlocked, but stuck so I gave it a good push and splintered a small section.... uughhhhhh. Even I could kick one of these down. Yeah that pizza guy thing is scary af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:23 AM
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Yeah its him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:15 AM
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I've found his facebook and youtube. Although this letter looks whack, he manages to type long religious diatribes and produce half decent looking youtube videos (of religious diatribes) so I'm not buying his gee golly shucks I'm an innocent shit. https://www.flickr.com/photos/190721611@N04/50511654352/in/dateposted-public/ Seems cognitively there enough to me to know not to sexually solicit the neighbors
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:34 AM
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I've found his facebook and youtube channel. So its interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:32 AM
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I wrote a new note, should have photographed it. I know he got it because its not at his door anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:07 AM
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Tell the lady in this thread who pulled an r/relationships BuT dId YoU CoMuNniCatE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:56 PM
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Well thats one hot take. My safety and not being sexually harrased at my home is more important than whatever he's got going on. "Innocent love letter" He asks for a sexual relationship And im sorry for your kids, but you're the biggest fucking pickme I've seen in my tenure on this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:51 PM
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I've got like 5 cats and 2 parakeets. No one to watch them either. I really CANNOT afford to have this scrote upending my shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:22 PM
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Here's my headspace and a bit of backstory. I did 14 years in the military. Witnessing rapes, being assaulted, being stalked, abusive marriages to fellow troops between me and my friends, some worse than others. Sadly I'm no stranger to any of this extreme male danger. Then came a tornado which almost killed me, destroyed house and cars , thisclose to dying, and found out I was severely under insured after, which put me in a financial hole. I developed bipolar and ptsd after (was also going thro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:20 PM
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I'm looking into it recently anyway because as it gets cold we have homeless people come upstairs into my unit area, try to break in, sleep and smoke stuff etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:41 PM
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The letter is so weird to in other ways too. Like, if I wrote a love letter I would be writing about the attributes and such I loved and admired about that person so they knew where I was coming from. Notice there's nothing really about me in the letter? He doesn't know me. Its hollow, empty, could put it at anyone's door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:33 PM
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Oh its on my mind. I've already got ptsd from something else so I haven't slept. I'm usually a night shifter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:28 PM
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Unfortunately I'm not financially in a place to relocate at the moment, and have no family in the state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:04 PM
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I have a pretty heavy duty survival knife. The kind you need no muscle to put deep in someone. Someone else here linked me to a survival store so I got a stun gun multi tool, and some new pepper spray as mine is about a decade old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:44 PM
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You know, I just noticed. He wanted my response yay or nay written on this letter and returned back. Almost as though he didn't want me to retain possession of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:41 PM
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You see the sneakiness in him wanting my response written on the letter and returned, as though he didn't want me to retain it? Or am I giving him too much credit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:38 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:35 PM
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https://www.flickr.com/photos/190721611@N04/50509703238/in/dateposted-public/ Here's a screenshot of the letter so you can see how creepy it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:05 PM
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I've thought about it as crime has sharply increased where I am in the past few years (college town with a massive Population of homeless people and drug addicts that commit crimes around my immediate area.) Usually if I go down to my car I'm on alert for them as they use my apartment parking lot as a stop through and will hassle me for stuff. He was literally the last person on my radar. I do keep a giant ESEE survival knife near the door area. I just need to stick it out about 2 more years to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:17 PM
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Now I'm freaked out because our idiot mailman misdelivers our mail a lot. Just the other week this guy left a medical letter that the VA had sent me at my door that they put in his box. Now I'm scared he's just gonna read my mail if he gets it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:03 PM
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They had me send in text that I had indeed told him no etc. I'm assuming for reasons as you've stated above, to have a paper trail in case, at least on their end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:34 PM
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I have spoken to the property manager this morning and texted them a screenshot of the letter. I'm wondering what they're going to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:21 PM
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Horror story for your October... hoping there's no sequel. We are just not safe anywhere from men. I had this much younger male move in the apartment across from me after my brother moved out of it. Only 2 units on each floor. Had a neighborly convo here or there, mostly he told me about his religion. He was clearly not mentally okay in general and admitted he was on disability for some mental thing or another. Seemed harmless though. I wouldn't even call him an acquaintance and generally avoid …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:50 PM
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Absolutely not. Too much to lose, nothing to gain. I can hire anyone for anything I may need in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:18 AM
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And I think predators are definitely using that whole "house date" "park date" thing to their advantage due to public places being closed or unpopular due to covid in online dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:47 AM
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Rewind 2 years ago... I was a mess after a devastating breakup. I was Pickmeisha-ing rebounding everywhere. FDS and self respect was but a dream I could never conceive. This dusty takes me to Braums because he was "broke". We order just sodas and then he BACKS AWAY from the register. Guess what my dumb self does for us?! 😭 the story gets worse and worse and WORSE but it's so bad I won't even share it anonymous. Suffice to say, it was a rock bottom time in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:46 PM
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I've gotten the most hate for my comment here that I don't like small dicks, to the point I had to turn off push notifications (keeps you from seeing hidden comments with no flair on your phone)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:28 AM
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I do enjoy the uplifting HVM examples we get here or there. Especially since I'm in such a negative head space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:20 AM
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I looked at their Twitter. One woman responded "Never" and the company had the gumption to go "Ummmmmm. Explain."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 11:53 PM
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Omg he's sooooooo original. I NEVER see men talking about their sarcasm and bluntness and how you need a sense of humor on every other profile. EVER. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 03:51 AM
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I could only go so far with CBT worksheets I've been given over the years because they all come down to "all your thoughts are wrong. You can't trust yourself".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:36 PM
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Modern men have no clue what a hard life is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:17 PM
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I would not give him an out by letting him know I was pretending he didn't just say what he did. There's no guiding these men, only a war of boundaries they learn to play but are still the people who thought they could hit you up for sex off the bat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:40 PM
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Update, yet another has reared his head and so far, as always the first three convo parts have already come true again, but I'm ignoring his post awful selfie this time. Men who you've had 'fwb' with ARE ALL THE SAME. Don't do it its not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:24 PM
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One thing I like about my VA hospital is that they are very accommodating to the women patients when assigning Doctors. If you are a woman, you go to the woman's clinic where your GP is guaranteed female. There are only female gynecologists working there, they tend to keep you with a female psychiatrist or therapist. When I go to the ER, there are male Dr's, but I had to have a lookey loo once in the ER for an extreme burning UTI, and a female nurse had to be present. If you go to a specialty cl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:11 PM
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I had a male psychologist (or psychiatrist) ask me if I "masterbated frequently" when I was first being diagnosed with depression. It just seemed off and irrelevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:42 AM
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Their hatred led me to staying in, and having a stellar career until I was medically retired. I've seen a lot of fds comments mention avoiding joining because of misogyny, but fuck them (not the fds, the men). We make our way by forcing ourselves in their space and succeeding, even if us early women catch hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:55 AM
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Omg this triggers a memory from when I was military. We had only 2 women in the shop at the time including me. But other women passed through and used our restrooms. I guess a guy I worked with went into the women's bathroom for something (we stored random cleaning products in the bathrooms) and saw a bloody pad in the trash. He was SUPER OFFENDED and complained to our of course male shop chief. The shop chief brought me and the other woman in the office and interrogated and yelled at us for put…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:37 AM
19

Its more an online incel thing they made up to keep judging harsher, although I've seen posts in Vindicta about it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:52 AM
19

The space in between your nose and top lip. A long one is considered 'undesirable' and even on those awful rate me subs they get judged for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:43 AM
48

Notice how we have a pretty small amount of basic things we prefer physically, and men have the longest list of demands on this green earth. They even make things up online now to add like "her philtrum is too long".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:40 AM
102

I've never wanted to feel dainty personally. It makes me feel physically vulnerable and I don't enjoy that, so tall guys were never a specific preference of mine. But when I see balding/bald guys my biological urges disappear completely. I won't even swipe on guys who wear hats in every photo because I know what they're hiding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:30 AM
34

This just made me wonder. What if we did have famous women who lurked FDS? Does anyone have any ideas as to who they could be? Who else seems to follow the principles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:59 PM
23

If you truly want to see how depraved men are getting (or rather being open about) check out the Whisper app sometime. I go in to see what people are up to, but frequently I will see posts asking about animal sex, incest, and the worst one was Whisper where the scrote said his daughter was "looking like a snack in quarantine". I report everything like that I find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:42 PM
65

I had a guy friend from work who was always normal, until the day he said "single women that have large dogs are having sex with them. For sure"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:36 PM
7

Another thing scrotes do indirectly that physically endanger women around them is when they get into fights. Men literally do not care about their surroundings and turn into a wild ball of violent toxic masculine energy. I remember two scrotes exploding into a fight at a nightclub I was at, and I was thrown into a bar table, painfully smashing my abdomen into it. They just kept at it, destroying things and hurting bystanders until the bouncers finally did something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:29 PM
14

So many times I swear I blocked someone from my stupid pickme casual phase last year pre FDS but they pop back up. Every conversation is the SAME and I only entertain them to remind myself that these men are all the same and don't forget it. Him: hey how you been? Me: who is this? Him: its (whomever) just thought I'd see how you're doing, its been a while since we hung out. (Sends awful selfie so I can remember them) Me: yeah I'm only dating seriously now. I don't have time for casual (expletive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:17 AM
18

As long as I get (buy) my own house in a few years, survive covid, and don't develop any serious diseases, thats all I genuinely care about for my remaining (hopefully) decades. Honestly the only thing a man could provide for me of use right now is basically guaranteed ride home from surgery if I needed it. Maybe pet sitter. Those are the only things that I really care about aging as a woman who otherwise has everything I need, thanks to myself. Yes being in love is fun and extra, but I just hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:05 AM
5

I bet if a woman's username was No Short Men, she would end up with stalkers and being harrased.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:24 PM
1

Omg I just looked up the DDLGS hashing on insta.... yup they aren't in denial. Its 90% image texts of imaginary conversations they would have with a "little" and its HORRIBLE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 03:00 AM
71

That last part is so true. People pressure women to have children young for health reasons while older men think they can put their dusty crusty sperm in a 20 something when they decide to "settle down" But science says: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/05/190513081409.htm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 02:22 AM
21

Their buzzwords keep changing or evolving with their kink spirals. It started with the Dom looking for subs left and right. For a while they were all looking for "Hotwife lifestyle", then the DDLGs started appearing. Now this is the third time today I've seen a self proclaimed Hedonist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:28 AM
80

Its because they don't want to get stuck going back to Panera Bread with him and his crappy personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:52 PM
12

I would NEVER sit across from some uggo and listen to them talk about whatever uninteresting/potentially sexually innuendo things for 40 minutes just to get a free Bloomin Onion and $15 entree at Applebee's. Only someone who was literally starving to death do that. I'm not trying to dig the gold of some guy who probably makes less than I do and still has a roommate at the age of 39.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:14 PM
46

This is every man who has a Hot Take in my local Facebook political groups, after I go peek their profiles 🤣. This or the "Be the lion" photo quotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:50 PM
38

This. And not just biphobia in the community, but 1/3rd of profiles after you open to women are couples trying to sexually exploit you. Some of the women won't reveal their crusty boyfriend until after you've been talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:53 AM
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If only all DD men would just admit they were pedos. They are usually so in DENIAL. "Its about creating a safe space and being a caregiver" is the usual lie they tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:50 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:44 AM
42

Witness: the biological male remove himself from the gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:42 AM
3

Probably one of the kindest, most humble and hard working people I never officially got to meet but admired from the stage. To see her only get to enjoy a few years of success after a tough life and be robbed like that was tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:01 AM
5

Yup. I was a huge Chi Chi fan. Lucky enough to see her live here or there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 07:57 AM
6

Very true, I used to look at Blockshopper Los Angeles at celebrity real estate for fun. Most of them use trusts so you don't know what mansions they bought, occasionally they buy houses in their real name and this is how my friend found Adam Levine's house in the Hollywood hills and we did a drive by on vacation by like weirdos. Imagine if we had bad intentions besides being looky loos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:10 AM
3

Yeah my registered party called me the other day to ask how I'm voting, and I didn't know how they got my number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:03 AM
61

Scrotes will be extra triggered because he's kinda cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:55 AM
16

I got lucky the very first time I went on an app years ago (or so I thought) and had an ltr. Now I'm like ew, im supposed to be attracted to men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:52 AM
14

Even going on okcupid in its golden days and sorting by doesn't have/doesn't want was 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:42 AM
4

I'm a theistic agnostic, I'm unsure about a lot of things but I fully believe something happens with our awareness and energy when we pass over, just due to my own experiences. I don't often tell people, but I lived in a house (my parents house) that we believed was haunted for various reasons, and once I visited after moving out and I saw something that absolutely cannot be explained, and its why I lean Theist. I'm very rational in thinking and accept explanations when given. But even after wha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:25 AM
2

And im sorry about your last part of your comment 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:08 AM
4

I was retired for issues relating to mental health, and my lifestyle has been so AWFUL in my 5 years after getting out it has directly contributed to things I'm dealing with now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:07 AM
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After I got medically retired from the Air Force I've been getting fucked left right and center with health problems. Most people my age are pretty spry still and I have so many limitations. It seems like I'm being seen for something new twice a year that gets diagnosed. Lifegoal: reach 60.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:55 AM
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Yup, there's nothing more humbling than what happens to your body as you age kids or no kids. Some of us older and some of us younger. I have a friend in her 20s that was very upset she had to go on one medication for IBS and I was like, just wait it gets worse. A minor celebrity I loved just died at 34 from a rare autoimmune disease that had left them unable to fully work in the last 2 years. You don't know what's going to happen so you should be grateful as long as your healthy instead of laug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:36 AM
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I've seen it as a childfree woman so I'll rant too and hope I don't offend anyone. There is a lot of toxicity in childfree communities online so I wasn't in a rush to go back to them after I made new accounts. I know some childfree people can go through a phase, particularly if they have dealt with a lot of judgement in their personal life, when they first find communities online and just let loose their frustrations on people who have had kids in ugly ways and I just find it very juvenile. I me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:07 AM
2

My brother is a III and my dad is a JR, my brother is a shady criminal so sometimes his legal drama is pulled up alongside my dad's name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:29 AM
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There are so many of these shady sites they must be making good money off us. I know in other countries where they cracked down on citizens online privacy and rights, most of them are banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:27 AM
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Oh yeah, on another note as far as your phone contacts seeing your business, there's this app called VoteWithMe that will look at your phone contacts and tell you what party they are registered, every election or primary (and what party it was) they voted in. Not so much dating related but still very creepy. Doesn't say who they voted for as that's private and not tracked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:21 AM
3

My parents have/had Comcast (I think its now Xfinity there), and they have the most info public which is interesting because they don't do social media or anything. In one of my other comments I mentioned one of my 1990s emails is attached to my dads information that I used on their computer back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:17 AM
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I'm right there with you! Until these main ones are wiped that I opted out of today, if I were to give the wrong man my number right now he could be at my house within minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:59 PM
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From what I've read, a lot of this is sourced from voter records/registration which is public. So apparently that is one loophole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:54 PM
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Some of the info goes back so far, they listed an email address against my dads page that I created to make a celebrity site on Geocities back in the 90s 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:35 PM
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The sites that had my full info today: Nuwber FastPeopleSearch - the worst one VoterRecords Neighbor.Report - this one encourages people to leave 'reviews' of you. Imagine rejecting the wrong lvm, and he puts something about you on here, and a future employer sees it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:11 PM
34

I absolutely hate the opener message "so do you date 'X race' guys?" And will immediately next someone for asking this. I have no racial preferences either way, and even if I did, all they would know is that I would never respond to them no matter what their opener was. So the question is pointless at best, and insulting/annoying at worst. And I just know in these men's thought process I didn't respond because they were X race or ethnicity. Yeah... thats the reason 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:58 PM
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On a side note... I noticed that my rare post submissions never show up in the past few months, i ended up just deleting the last one that never got approved a bit back or what have you, so I think I may have a shadowban going or something! I never post anything not in line with the sub, nor sub or comment on any subs that may cause this. I reached out to a mod a bit ago but haven't heard anything. Anyone else have this happen before? Maybe my user is tagged to some sort of spam filter? Edit: it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:29 PM
34

I'm so excited for 100k. I remember finding this sub in December or January which at this point feels like 10 years ago. I'm pretty sure it was through someone trying to draw negative attention in a comment that lead me here, but I was immediately taken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:26 PM
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All I can say is 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:38 AM
4

Omfg.... This just explains everything about a guy i finally just blocked who I had kept around as 'just a friend' for months. Probably one of the most alluring and charismatic people when he wanted to pull you in, when he wanted to lash out it was insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:34 PM
3

I like the softer faced dark haired guys. Like a young John Cusack genre of men. Clean shaven is a must. Not too muscular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:26 PM
36

Someone (scrote) made a collage of FDS users a while back like it was a gotcha moment... All of the women were obviously pretty so we were like okaaay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:15 PM
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I haven't been talking to anyone online in ages and it's so nice to not have sexual harrassment as a regular everyday feature in my life anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:13 AM
14

Before I turned off push notifications for replies, I was still recently getting notifications of angry men commenting to me about me not liking small dicks from months back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:58 PM
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But he values a certain type of female body part so much he goes and makes a whole username out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:15 PM
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I would have blocked him at 7:23:05 seconds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:19 PM
9

You don't produce child pron to show that child pron is wrong. It makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:01 PM
19

If you feel a mental illness is not something you could handle in a relationship then don't pursue it. We all have our limits with what health problems we could not handle long term. I have a hard time with close relationships with Cluster B personality disorder sufferers, and won't do romantic relationships with them, but I know they can still be H or L value like anyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 06:13 AM
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A mental illness is not an indicator of a human beings value. How they deal with it and treat others is what matters. Whether you personally want to go on that journey with someone is what matters. Thats like asking if a person in a wheelchair or a person with cancer can be HV. ~a bipolar 2 lady who is well cared for and makes a "suitable partner"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:44 AM
10

All their posts are very iffy. One from 9 days ago is clearly bait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:01 PM
9

I was trying to quote the whole airport story told from a woman's view and it triggered automod. But yeah that whole section on helplessness was the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:11 PM
2

I just looked again and it said "your default username for login is your email" or something like that. So I logged in with my email and it worked. I had been trying with my username 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:04 PM
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I tried to quote part of the article but automod identified me as a scrote? Tf? Anyway the whole airport story is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:41 AM
9

Trying to sign up for the site has become an impossible task. The first time I got all the way to the approval email but my login still didn't work and said check email. I tried to figure it out but was told there was no record of me signing up. I tried again last week using Instagram info instead but I haven't gotten an 9 digit code. Edit: its fixed, I figured it out and I'm a total dolt 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:31 AM
124

I'm childfree and fed up with childfree men. They don't want ANY responsibility in life. Most I've encountered shun everything else like marriage and home ownership too. They all just wanna be able to dip out when they're tired of their forever girlfriends with no ties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:59 PM
7

Some naively think, maybe I'll get some foot massages out of this, but it turns into them controlling what color you can paint your own toenails and wearing uncomfortable shoes. Plus I always imagine to myself these guys end up with severed feet in their freezers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:57 AM
9

OkCupid is completely destroyed. Most recent changes are the worst. Can't really search now and it's a glorified swipe app. Percentages are based on nonsense as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:59 AM
35

"Where's the bathing suit?" BLOCK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:01 AM
49

Once you're aware of the cliche things they seem to say when they circle back, you can't unsee it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:28 AM
230

Casual: Only when he contacts you. Never when you want it. No orgasms likely, no real physical affection. You just have some dude penetrating you. Of course they'll get theirs. And they will immediately get dressed and leave after. He's probably sticking it in other places too. STD risk skyrockets. HPV and Herpes don't care about condoms. Just try texting them friendly banter sometimes. They'll barely respond. Because they ain't your friend and don't gaf about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:08 AM
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I don't let strangers tell me what I want in life or how I feel, so none of this means anything to me. I prefer being left alone and it would take a very special person for me to allow them a role that big in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 12:17 AM
4

He doesn't even have teeth 👴 Also he's ugly and talks like he stopped at 8th grade to shingle roofs while drunk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 01:39 AM
11

Imagine wanting approval from reddit basement dwellers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:10 PM
14

Meanwhile he's been out there sticking his dick in everything. He went after Courtney Stodden who honestly doesn't need anymore NVM orbiting her. When she posted the hot tub video of them on insta he got pissed because he was already trying to move on to a model and thought the video would ruin his chances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:53 AM
5

I live in a more recently legal state so its all people being extra af about weed being LIFE. Every other profile lists job as 'budtender'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:17 AM
41

Anything 420 with pics of them with weed plants as a plus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:45 AM
2

Sounds like they were mostly guy personalities and interesting how he navigated it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 07:47 AM
61

This picture gives me anxiety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:32 AM
6

I had no luck on Hinge. Like, I get hit up on every other app as women do, but on Hinge I was invisible. I keep meaning to delete it because i keep getting that "your most compatible has updated" because I'm assuming the other person is passing on me. But its the same damn scrotes I see on the other apps so I'm confused. Maybe because people look more at the profile there and see I'm a childfree liberal agnostic where they tend to ignore that on every other app (I'm in the Bible belt where a nor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:44 AM
5

This reminds me of an episode of Netflix Dating Around season 1. Scrotes behavior and the woman running from the date inspired an article. https://www.glamour.com/story/netflix-dating-around-review/amp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:41 AM
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The last was a stubborn af Taurus. The ex husband was a fellow emotional Pisces. Lots of drama there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:12 AM
8

I've considered it but I've got so little experience with that side of myself that I feel awkward and a teenager again. When I do look at that side of the apps its couples looking for bi women, lesbians who exclusively want lesbians, or bicurious women who only want to hookup (a lot of those being married women). Then that leaves me with the same small handful of people I am not interested in, or are far too young for me. I feel defeated either gender I'm looking at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:01 AM
4

So Milo Ventimiglia isn't really mine? 😢 jk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 05:02 AM
8

His commander should really see this shit. They frown on acting like an ass on public social media in uniform.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:58 AM
2

"Ask me for my Fet Life" is another code to lookout for in their profiles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:44 AM
23

Possible but not probable. Especially during a pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:19 AM
4

One look at their profile and I assume they're a 15 year old scrotlet whose parents don't know dont care what they do on the computer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:19 AM
4

It sounds like a LARPing troll post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:59 PM
6

I get annoyed by the more elitist tech business types who need to FinD ThEmSelVes and take expensive trips out of country to use ayahuasca, a very serious and culturally important hallucinagen. Now they're so enlightened about making better business decisions after their 'trip' 🙄 And on the lower end 420 is not and should not be a personality. I'm glad people can medicate in most places now but its taken over as the most important thing a guy can say about themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:34 AM
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Craigslist is full of men using the roommates wanted as a dating service slash way to exploit women who need housing. I just peeped the Los Angeles area and these 3 were on page one: "Special offer for a female I am offering rent free for a nice lady must be clean and friendly No drugs no drama must be willing to help I am located in Hollywood area Qualified person can move immediately you can call me you can text me you can email me It is OK short time stay I promise to answer and" "I have a re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:03 AM
20

Maury is such garbage. I would watch it on sick days or summer days as a kid and its just him making a sick gleeful smile at guests being trashy. I remember phobia episodes where someone would be scared of balloons or something so they'd parade out balloons and while the person was screaming he would get that sick smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:18 AM
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Every reason I dislike average men and avoid them is based on pure factual experiences. Multiple irrefutable experiences. Everything from sexual assault, to abusive marriage, to dealing with being a woman in the military. What's my retaliation? Is it violence? No. Is it legislation that takes away their rights? No. I simply don't give them sex or attention anymore. I stick to venting my experiences in a women's sub and learning how to avoid the worst of them for my safety. According to reddit me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:10 AM
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I posted about this the other day but it got removed for some reason. I noticed I was getting pms again and went to desktop and saw the settings looked slightly different and had to switch back to 'nobody'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 08:44 AM
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And they literally materialize out of NOWHERE sometimes. Just the other day I went down to my car, and a scrote just appeared out of thin air. I could tell he didn't live in my complex and was passing through on foot. He proceeds to sit down next to my car and start asking invasive questions. "So you got a boyfriend?" Etc. I booked it out of there and watched from upstairs as he sauntered away from the complex. He was a weirdo at best and a potential rapist at worst. Men don't get that even at h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 04:33 AM
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You don't have to have a relationship with him. A dad thats knowingly friends with your rapist and shoves him in your face is no better than a dad who had done the deed himself. Blood means nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:10 AM
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All of my friends in relationships seem to come to me with their constant problems. Like every week. Oh ANOTHER fight? Oh he's still doing that same thing as the week before and the week before? But then on the flip side they want to harp on me to date more and find somebody so I can "catch up" with them. Why? So I can be constantly in conflicts like they are? That they will never fix or walk away from but just want to b**ch about so they can keep a man? Shout out specifically my fellow FDSers o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:10 AM
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I'm an Old Millenial (near gen X) and something happened between my last time dating over 6 years ago and now. Wonder if it coincidences with swipe culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 10:03 PM
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I've learned that them asking that question means they never read my profile, and are not looking for anything serious. So now I unmatch as soon as its asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:22 PM
38

A screenshot of a dating profile with the photo being his wedding picture. Typical "she knows I'm here" bio. The poly sub descended upon us. Got the post locked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:25 PM
51

Its not my job to waste my precious time on Earth turning a trash can into "greatness".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:55 AM
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I can't stand the people who whine on reddit that the advice on relationship subreddits is to break up. Um, hello do you read the awful inexcusable things people are trying to get help for? People aren't on there for minor disagreements. Its usually abuse, or people being complete failures of human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:18 AM
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They'll (the reddit polys) probably get mad triggered about this post like they did the other poly one a few days ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:11 AM
196

Just poly things! 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:51 AM
18

Omg I remember this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 05:54 AM
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A bald, short, serial killer looking creature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:55 AM
4

Yup had this happen in the past few weeks and even posted the screenshot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:42 PM
11

Unfortunately Curves was founded by a scrote who monetarily supports tons of anti women health issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:40 PM
6

I've had good luck on Bumble BFF mode, and I'm a pretty introverted person that sucks at the small talk. Safe socially distanced interaction upfront, and its possible you could find a friend you eventually feel safe to meet in person (considering covid). On a side note this reminds me and makes me sad, I'd just found a friend on there to go to out drag queen bars with and had a fun outing, the week before lockdown started. Now we've been relegated to Facebook friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:30 PM
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According to his post history, probably because his family beat him so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 03:20 PM
26

Mayonnaise 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:04 PM
4

They just shoot themselves in the foot. They actually manage to have someone agree to meet them and what do they do? Say some stupid sexual thing and ruin it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:51 PM
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I'm a bit older, late 30s and don't dress my age. Its band or drag queen shirts, a visible tattoo on my arm, a nose piercing, only slightly interesting hair color, and crazy Betsey Johnson purses. I have no interest in being anything I'm not, but would obviously dress appropriately for a real date. I just understand that I need to vet a bit harder with their intentions and know I may also attract other alternative people. I ensure my dating bios are mature sounding. At the risk of being hypocrit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:58 AM
17

There was a follow up where she's getting out of the relationship thank God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:43 AM
47

I ditched 4 fwbs after finding fds because I was so 'involuntarily' celibate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:13 AM
27

Honestly 99% NSFW male profiles trying to talk to me, sending weird sexual questions. Absolutely no women messaged me, since its a sausage fest subreddit that waits specifically for women to post. Its a trap!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:11 AM
30

I made the mistake of using a friend making subreddit the other day. Even with my much older age and requirements listed, can you guess what I predominantly got for responses?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:57 AM
22

My ex husband would literally surprise me with diamond jewelry but was extremely verbally abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:05 AM
22

At the risk of sounding gloomy, dating apps are now just a social excersize for me. Due to pandemic, quality of men, and where I am in life currently I know the odds of even finding one I would meet in real life right now is next to nil. I converse out of social isolation boredom, and to see how quickly I can identify their red flags that I've learned since joining FDS. I unmatch/block at least 2 everyday. My weak spot was always the men who overshared traumas. As a person with my own baggage my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:06 AM
17

I already knew (about men) and I didn't want to face it. FDS helped me reach acceptance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:10 AM
5

There's 2 things I've learned to never share with men. What's going on with my eating habits/exercise, and what I spent if I bought a car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:08 AM
23

Its frustrating because its true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:05 AM
38

Why would you feel inferior for not being a Pickmeisha and getting low quality attention?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:40 AM
65

Nothing like literally murdering your children for 10 minutes of a woman acknowledging your ugly scrote ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 07:33 AM
3

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:25 AM
5

Well I'm sure to be banned somewhere at some point because I talk too bluntly on reddit at times. But guys get away with saying sexually inappropriate things while trolling subs similar to this and don't even get their comments removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:45 AM
4

Negging... And btw, thick hair is so beautiful. I have thin straight flat hair. Anytime I watch early 80s movies where they had that thick wavy wild natural hair i just fantasize its me. Im talking Heather Langenkamp aesthetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:25 AM
24

I had a long comment but reddit crashed:/ Yeah, its bleak looks wise out there. Especially in the era of the ugly unkempt beard. I've only genuinely been physically attracted to 2 men in 2 years of online dating. I also live in a state where guys naturally run ugly and age bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:17 AM
9

I talked to an uggo once out of boredom and he immediately asked if he could bring alcohol over and hookup. I'm very realistic about my looks but he was leagues far below me. I think i actually posted the screenshot on my old account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:52 AM
133

What, like gave her high risk hpv and she died of cancer in her 30s? So many reasons not to reward men with sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:24 AM
139

I just really don't like men. Its such a damn shame my brain is predominantly wired to be in relationships with them. What a waste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:57 AM
80

Ah, a good old fashioned upfront neg. I haven't had one in a while but I'm sure I am due.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:06 AM
44

Same. I never understood the whole being divorced as a red flag in later years. At my age if a man has never loved a woman enough yet to propose and marry I know he won't magically start with me unless he's desperately settling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:40 AM
81

Personally if he shows resistance to paying I will pay for mine and immediately ghost him. I won't immediately assume he's not paying. I'll just let him look like an ass when and if he doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:47 AM
54

Mmm mmm. No. If a woman agrees to marry you, she's likely going to carry and birth your children and you'll still be rewarded with YOUR last name being slapped on the kid and not being expected societally to do your part in labor raising the child. Just pay for the ring and shut the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:20 AM
34

I've never understood the thought process that because women have less upper body strength we should never work up our muscles at all and that muscular women are unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:00 AM
22

They are symbolic and mean what you both assign to them. You both have to be on the same page and hold to it. On another note, I thought promise rings were something only teenagers did?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 12:57 AM
29

I can't tell you how often scrotes assume I'm jamming sweets and pizza down my gullet because I'm fluffy. I've been told to "put the twinkies down" by a male doctor even though I don't touch desserts. I actually only really eat once a day and slowly thanks to a hiatal hernia and still have issues with how slowly I lose and how quickly I gain. I'm sure if I followed smaller meals frequently throughout the day my metabolism would function better, but I just can't eat when my stomachs not cooperati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 12:39 AM
6

I have dating app profiles open and occasionally may look and see who is on or have conversation. I've noticed that the guys trying to actively date right now want to meet up and go to bars and are not taking covid seriously. If you thought the landscape on the apps was bleak before, its only the most LV of the LVM out meeting strangers right now. We are in a public health crisis affecting all of humanity not seen in our lifetime where people are literally separating themselves from family and i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:40 PM
6

I'm not into it. And at some point I know they're going to pressure me to get on the back. Which is never going to happen. Not even when hell freezes over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:22 PM
7

On ACCIDENT in a serious relationship is excusable. Some people are more flexible. I personally grew up in a gross family that thought it was hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:40 AM
1

I hate tryhards. This weirdly reminds me of being in the military, we were in the desert deployed and sometimes we get celebs to visit us. We had this guy come who wrote for the Chicken Soup For the Soul series. He was a big life coach person with so many life achievements. He made sure to list them for us prior to visiting. Skydiving from the moon etc. (I'm not being serious). We all just ended up being annoyed and pissed at him before he got there. He seemed very full of himself. (Before you w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:36 AM
23

Once they have your phone number, they have your address, something to keep in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:58 AM
13

I am so glad I'll never be this woman again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:22 PM
8

Omg he sounds like an utter piece of garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:12 PM
141

I know they're just brainwashed but the Pickmeishas piss me off the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 10:11 AM
27

Including their phone number somewhere in the bio 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:44 AM
4

But not really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:30 PM
15

I would have blocked him at his 'joke', because those are never actually jokes but disrespectful boundary tests.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:08 PM
119

Most of the comments are "man PEOPLE are really fucked up" or "PEOPLE are this or that" No its MEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:10 PM
48

Oh SolitaryBeast.com again. They're still obsessing about our sub too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:45 AM
2

I'm still having login issues with this username, I got the verification email but when I go to login it says to double check my email.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:37 PM
53

Its in the top lies I see in online dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 10:01 PM
25

I'm so tired of men on dating apps whose lives revolve around marijuana. It's really bad where I live where 1/3 guys on the apps actually even work at dispensaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:37 PM
3

I think match requires a lot of money spent to read or send messages, which may not be worth it if all you want is some flirty conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:39 PM
122

I think I did just fine as an aircraft mechanic. My specific subsystem even made it to Dirty Jobs on Discovery Channel. Didn't seem to need a penis to do it at all. Also its never men in 'manly' jobs who bring up these points. Guarantee he works at a gas station, or Uber.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:54 AM
160

But we are called girls no matter our age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:17 PM
20

I get asked about my undergarments on average once a month. Recently a scrote and I were having normal conversation playing a pick one type game and he suddenly came out with "thong or granny panties". I told him that made me uncomfortable. Did he apologize? No. He replied "so nothing then :p" BLOCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:32 PM
6

Thank you all for confirming what I thought! I blocked him, as well as the Pickmeisha (or male larper) who tried to throw her 2 cents in here lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:06 PM
116

She looks unwell in the face. You know how some men have that look that makes you cross the street, or when you see a sex offender smiling in a mugshot? She's got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:16 AM
81

Her song Girlfriend is about wanting a taken guy to pick her too. Things I'll Never Say is like her secretly wishing a guy will propose with the singing of the lyrics being cool girl sexual innuendos of oral sex (seriously listen to how she sings the chorus). Her music is so stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:47 AM
20

Imagine hating yourself so much. Next time I start slipping into thinking I have no self esteem I will remember this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 05:02 AM
36

Oh lord, another SaPiOSexUaL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:33 AM
46

I'm enraged by how he's holding her in that picture by the neck. Jfc. Some scrote must have done something to me in a past life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:18 PM
44

I like how the last part is him trying to get you to match him by asking for a yes or no confirmation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:23 AM
20

I like how they can't go one thread without mentioning that they want to r*pe women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:00 PM
53

Between these modern men and the pandemic, procreation seriously needs to be put on hold. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:24 AM
57

Why is divorce not a good option? Are you financially dependent? I used a lot of excuses to avoid divorce from my crappy marriage of 10 years but truth be told once it happened, no contest no kids just filing paperwork, I couldn't believe i wasted my time like an idiot. Yeah it sucked taking over an expensive rent when he moved out but why live in hell like that biding my time any longer?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:18 AM
4

They just don't try or care to be worthwhile people anymore, do they? This is the dating pool in our day and age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:41 PM
5

The comments calling it wholesome................ comments saying they masturbated to the post........ Reddit is truly the most disgusting male centered place on the internet now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:22 PM
17

Very exciting! Just sent a code request through Twitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:53 AM
377

Women with standards are a very real threat to your average low value men. They do not want us congregating and talking about them and warning each other. It has to be one of their worst fears it seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:18 AM
12

There is one but the other day for security reasons it was made unsearchable and completely private with no posts. Hopefully when things get better it will come back up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:21 PM
31

True that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:13 AM
12

Courtney Stodden just called him out for sexual assaulting her in clubs on IG so the list goes on and on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:13 AM
116

As a plus sized women they still try all day to have sex with you no matter what they look like so it never ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:11 AM
64

My ex husband had an off-putting personality and had no friends. I got along with my work center and got invited out and over all the time, him included. He was very jealous and talked about how he didn't want to see these perfectly nice people and didn't want me seeing them. He wanted me at home miserable with him where he could yell at me and have me waiting on him hand and foot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:11 AM
3

Yes! I think about FDS when I hear this song now 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 01:38 AM
72

"Giggly girl" 🤢🤮 Reading more of her Twitter, she would absolutely hate a woman like me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:08 AM
104

Whoa I read it as they were the ages he had sex with them because im so jaded to these scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:33 AM
1

Reading Facebook comments from average scrotes and 99% are pedophiles/pedo apologists leaning opinions and blaming her. Men should not be around children alone point blank.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:48 AM
65

Am single with 5 cats and can confirm I'm happier than my 10 year miserable marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 02:12 PM
2

Throw them in the trash 🗑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 12:37 AM
5

I take the bio at face value so when they say they have STDs I believe them. I don't care if they say they're joking after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:26 PM
17

I'm late 30s and get men from all walks of life steering sexual in the first conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:22 PM
34

I check my states court dockets once I have their last name!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:43 PM
85

Certain behaviors are just unchangeable. Like being a serial killer, rapist, child abuser, or domestic abuser. Thats why I check for past DV charges always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:29 PM
21

Probably volunteering. People who give their time for good causes tend to be more well rounded, sound minded individuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 06:43 AM
104

I can't stand small dicks. Can't do anything with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 06:41 AM
84

I've noticed they dangle maybe serious one day to give naive women hope. Lots of guys put "not looking for serious BUT NOT OPPOSED MAYBE IF IT FEELS RIGHT" hoping it'll dupe those women who think they could be the ones and keep them strung along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:47 AM
107

Ew.... my ladybits just crawled up into my stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:40 PM
70

Thank you. I'm careful when sussing out profiles and I STILL get sucked into conversations with weirdos and sexual harrassment in the end, because a majority of scrotes SUCK but can hide it upfront to get a match. I tell my stories and get blamed for attracting them and told how I'm doing things wrong. Edit: There's a scrote in here commenting. Report It.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:06 AM
188

FWB does not benefit me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:20 PM
8

I find it very touch and go.... i worked in a VERY male dominated career field with all associated horrors but did befriend a portion of them over the 14 years. However~ after a breakup 2 years ago it was disturbing how many came out of the woodwork to hit on me now that i was single vs who was just supportive. You can maintain what you feel and hope is a platonic relationship with a man your whole life but you NEVER know what actually goes on in his head. Its a matter of if he is respectful eno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:53 PM
33

'Phone Issues' just sounds like such a cliche vague excuse, personally would not give him another chance. The minute, the second, my phone doesn't work or charge anymore I'm getting a new one even if its just a lease in this day and age. And it's not like I'm rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:30 PM
99

Yup, this is scary af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:57 AM
1

Is this what the youngins go for now? Ughhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:37 PM
26

It was hidden from his profile but certain language made me question outright and I got this answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:19 PM
10

I can see my blocked messages on Android, can't help but peek ocassionally, and they become so obsessed like stalkers when you block/ghost them. Still I will and do block at the drop of a dime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:57 PM
2

Her username alone was enough to give me pause...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:13 PM
2

This guy is a hard no with a block lol. Audacity to the max.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:56 AM
61

Let me guess what his love language is 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 12:27 AM
9

I honestly get so icked out that I mourn nothing after the fallout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 10:26 PM
1

I'm not even going on that site, but even just reading some of the stuff people said was on there made me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 10:02 PM
1

Long story short, had to restart reddit due to doxxing. Be careful out there ladies! Now I have to get my newbie flair back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:50 PM
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