pureextc Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do you handle your friends? Yea time to duo with a female wing, nothing is gonna beat a wingwoman who is gorgeous and let your friendship with your buddy be just that, go play call of duty together and go find a lady with a lady.	/r/seduction	29/07/26 02:51 AM
7	How do you handle your friends? Exactly. A numbers guy, his confidence isn’t the greatest either but he knows if he goes in blindfolded and swinging, he’ll snag one or two, even if one or two you had your eye on.	/r/seduction	29/07/26 02:49 AM
1	What is your go to line when wanting hookup? Lol	/r/seduction	28/07/26 01:30 AM
5	What’s it like smashing a big girl? If she’s looking to just hook up, hook up. Don’t make her weight weird, don’t be a dick about it etc, be smooth like butter; ask for intentions and do what you gotta do. If you really must visualize, check out some thick girl porn, for reference.	/r/seduction	25/07/26 05:42 AM
2	What’s it like smashing a big girl? She works next door. Ok genius.	/r/seduction	25/07/26 05:40 AM
10	50/50 dads. Can we be friends? lol dead ass laughed my ass off on the Hillary paragraph “didn’t read it cuz fuck that shit” hahah. But yes, it takes a village indeed. Right on!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 06:34 AM
1	Finding a decent gf nowadays feels like mission impossible Soon as I read Euro Truck Driver, I stopped reading with my American inner voice and started over reading with Sean Connery’s James Bond voice. Sorry I have no other input for seduction.	/r/seduction	19/07/26 07:54 PM
3	When kids ask about the divorce… Yea brother, that is some solid advice. My kids are 6 and 10, so so smart. As mentioned previously too, making them feel loved, not fighting in front of them and never talking shit about mom to them. Out of all the shit my ex and I been through, the fact she respects the fact I’m their father and lets me be that to the best of my ability, I am forever grateful. I know it’s not the case in many divorces where the men become so villainized etc.. your 14 yr old may understand it a lot more, just co…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/26 03:50 AM
3	Not doing ok anymore Not alone brother. Married at 20. Divorced at 39. Talk about identity. I only know how to be married and a dad.. and apparently I wasn’t good at either so here we are. Been 7 months and I’m just now getting out of my drunken stupor. Inspired to try and live for myself for once and be the best co parent in my earthly powers. Get the help you need when you can man. In the meantime, you’re already on the right track. Don’t drink to get fucked up and go numb. Really sit and reflect on your sadness. …	/r/Divorce_Men	17/07/26 12:03 AM
2	Getting Pussy is too hard Great questions.	/r/seduction	15/07/26 03:25 PM
9	Getting Pussy is too hard All of them.	/r/seduction	15/07/26 03:22 PM
3	This divorce is killing me daily and I only have myself to blame for that. We. We are on this journey. Same time frame. November served and December 12th I moved out. End of May/Beginning of June is when I finally got out of my massive depressive spiral and started working out. I’m on week 8 straight of not missing a single gym day, I’m feeling better, looking better.. stopped drinking to get fucked up, I’ve lapsed once or twice but I went from drinking fucking daily to almost not at all (that’s probably the best thing I did) the alcohol was making everything so much w…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/26 09:36 PM
2	Love after marriage This doesn’t fucking help. Jesus Christ are we doomed? I feel the exact same way about my ex as OP mentioned. I am at such a colossal road where some smidgen piece of my mind thinks my ex will see and reconcile but she used the literal words “I don’t want reconciliation” which has in a way helped me just … move on. I am so sad when I think of a future with another woman or another life without her. I got married at 20 and divorced at 38, I been with this woman longer than I been with my parents …	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/26 10:55 AM
1	Selling the house Crazy thought. I always figured ownership beats renting 10/10 times. I’m renting in one of those mega apartments 10 minutes up the street from the house I bought in May of 2025 only to get divorced and move out in December of 2025… a year lease… I was like “what’s the cheapest fucking apartment you got in that place. 1200? Bet.” Problem is I own a home in Louisiana, (under ex wife’s VA loan) and the house here.. which is under my VA loan is where she and my kids live.. so I don’t have a VA loan …	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/26 05:58 AM
1	My wife (32F) told me (44M) she wants to separate — 30 hours after the kids and I joined her in Spain Spaniards are Spanish and not Latino, Europeans if you will. Actually they hate us Latinos fam. Racist if you will. Look up flamenco and ask a Spaniard what they think of bad bunny. It’s wild. But I digresss.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/26 06:51 AM
3	How to deal with aggressive female cockblockers Solid reference.	/r/seduction	10/07/26 07:51 PM
2	I think I’m done I feel your pain and I appreciate your words. That was painful to read because the lord knows I have done and thought the same and only ever pulled back when I realized I didn’t have a post final decision plan, and the planning to make sure all that happen should have well been enough to ensure you reel all the way back. When I realized it went from just a random thought to an entire plan on how to go about doing things, I knew it was time to talk about it and time to get the help. I’m still in …	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/26 07:26 PM
8	As a woman… I just wanted to say I’m sorry and I see you I wouldn’t say disgusting, she truly just doesn’t get it, I think it’s nice she’s trying to be nice on this end, but I think this is a good teachable moment for her. OP, just take out the laughs, be sincere, appreciate you, but take the words of us and these folk more serious. This shit is awful on everyone involved.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/07/26 12:02 AM
5	only attracted to women who are as fit as I am Phoenecians unite	/r/seduction	05/07/26 03:35 AM
13	only attracted to women who are as fit as I am Hahah I just took a sweet guess. I’m recent divorced 39, in Goodyear. I have zero dating advice but I will watch this thread with great interest! 😆	/r/seduction	05/07/26 01:25 AM
50	only attracted to women who are as fit as I am My man’s got the ASU pickings. Nice.	/r/seduction	05/07/26 01:06 AM
4	Bad night This message is power. Ruminate is the word the day folks. God I ruminated and sat in my feelings and then just said fuck it and drank.. and drank and drank. I hated my life when I moved out in December. But in the midst of my 18 year marriage over, I still somehow enrolled into a masters program online.. actually found some work, and began building a routine again. Ex took house, kids, most of the money, she took it and I felt so self loathing and like such a loser. I’ll admit I contemplated sa…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/07/26 04:54 AM
6	Anyone Feel Loneliness Even with a Solid FWB? Read and learn from here but don’t make things that aren’t over just yet a reality. I’d give anything to go back up to the final moments, I pushed it over, but I wasn’t in a good place. Maybe this needed to happen for me to begin my growth, as I couldn’t do it with her. If it’s on the rocks man, suggest therapy and genuinely put your heart and soul in working out issues you guys have. That is if you still love her. I know some people are just so much happier after their divorce, but for lots of …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/26 01:12 AM
3	Is there difference between good social skills and”game”? I feel that’s how you get security and or HR involved. But also.. yes.	/r/seduction	01/07/26 05:25 PM
1	What is ur most effective opener you've used Kinda funny. Ha.	/r/seduction	01/07/26 05:23 PM
1	What is ur most effective opener you've used No	/r/seduction	01/07/26 05:22 PM
3	Divorce is finalized Yea. 7 months post moving out and I don’t think it’s gonna be easy. Still a piece of me wants her to just say “come back” but as each day goes on I keep seeing her truly not want that and moving on while I sit here.. reading these posts from the fellas. Tough man.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/07/26 07:42 AM
1	Our anniversary is 4 days before the divorce is final. Any ideas? Brother my anniversary was 6 March for 18 years then the divorce was finalized in 13 March of this year.. you think I said “hey uhh.. happy anniversary” ? Nah. The comments are hard.. but the truth of the matter is.. it’s done. The court was in zoom for me.. literally admin. “Yessir.” “Yup” “concur.” “Ok” “thank you goodbye”. Brutal day man. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/26 04:49 AM
3	I think I’m done boys It will get better. I had to quit drinking and spiraling to realize it. I’m clear headed and sad and just sitting in the feelings though. Facing the problems. Trying to learn the lessons from the universe. Spiral up brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/26 08:09 PM
4	I think I’m done boys Yea bro. We in this together man. I applied for a job in Italy. I live in the states. 10 minutes away from my ex and kids. Being here and watching them live their lives without me is incredibly painful. If I decide to take the job and it all works out; I’m putting my stuff in storage, giving my ex my truck, and moving to Italy with my clothes and a laptop.. starting over in fucking Europe.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/06/26 08:08 PM
5	How do you survive this? No matter how hard I try, definitive exit seems like a solution more and more Fuck. Bro. Thank you.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/26 06:23 AM
5	Just had the talk Underwater car? Hah. Nice! Bro sorry. My divorce finalized 13 March. After 17 years married 20 ish together. Sucks man. Today she let me have it. After a great day yesterday I think it triggered her a bit so today was a bombardment of how I failed and threw away a perfect wife and perfect life. I’m actually still reeling back from it as I type. But hey, amicably divorced is good, no hate just hurt. That’s different for sure. Folks here speak from true real experience where it can get messy and y…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/26 04:48 AM
16	Those who have success at night clubs, whats the proper mindset? Tip the bouncer? Like shit.. “hey bro.. don’t let me get fucked up?” Or wha?	/r/seduction	20/06/26 04:25 AM
1	27 yrs You are speaking to me too. I love you rare psychology 8853. 🥹	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/26 05:52 PM
1	3 weeks of dating haven’t been ideal What’s the dating app to use? I’m not there yet, 6 months post divorce myself but I’m beginning to rebuild and believe the ex is not going to take me back so I want to get myself sorted properly in the next 6 months or so.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/26 03:46 PM
1	3 weeks of dating haven’t been ideal I think maybes this guys response was the OP and not you, he means the OP posted this in wrong sub. But I concur with you, DEF should not be dating instead working on inner workings.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/26 03:43 PM
18	Cold approach has changed my life How do you determine if they got a boyfriend or husband? Assume they’d tell you?	/r/seduction	17/06/26 03:54 AM
4	Wife told me she wasn’t in love with me and wanted a divorce end of march. I moved out 3 weeks ago. Tonight she cried and asked me to move back in Heard, 6 months later i have finally finished spiraling crying myself drunk to sleep cuz i miss her and my kids and my life for what it was and having the clarity of it all. Now im just sober as fuck and lonely.. but working out and managing to get through the days with a smile and laughing and just a great attitude. Wild. My ex is up and down, mostly she’s super robotic with me, texts back simple yes and no’s and keeps it strictly about old bills or the kids. Every now and again, I get some hum…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/26 04:12 AM
1	Wife told me she wasn’t in love with me and wanted a divorce end of march. I moved out 3 weeks ago. Tonight she cried and asked me to move back in Jeeze.. I mean welp indeed. Fuck bro.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/06/26 04:09 AM
2	IVE HAD ENOUGH! Can someone please teach me how to Text better?! Bro you these comments are banger. lol so funny.	/r/seduction	12/06/26 08:19 PM
2	IVE HAD ENOUGH! Can someone please teach me how to Text better?! Lol	/r/seduction	12/06/26 08:19 PM
5	Ex Wanting Intimacy Damn. Opposite for me man. I still want her back I want to get my life in order and get the mother of my kids back. She grew and I stagnated but I think I’m starting to get my shit together now.. 6 months later. She told me the doors closed and she doesn’t want reconciliation and that crushed me but I think that was the final catalyst that made the internal switch change to grind my life into something respectable. Sigh. Sorry mini vent.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/26 06:40 PM
3	I’m wrecked Sounds like she has opted for a downgrade. Stand proud in your father ship and absolutely keep records and professionalism in all interactions and keep your emotions here.. with us, with a good network of help. What is helping me now is pure sobriety, no foggy cloudy judgement, no long text messages anymore telling her how I’ll always love her.. just coming to terms with the reality of my life and being ever positive and present for my kids. My ex doesn’t even want my help around the house anymo…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/26 08:47 PM
3	Entrei pro grupo 🥳 Sucks man. I’m sorry. Me too. Been alone for a little more than 6 months and I’m cooking a sancocho soup right now. It’s tough to deal with it but I’ve cut all the vices that were killing me. I sit here always thinking of doing things differently. I just want my life back. You’ve come to the right place. Vent, let it out. We got support in each other. 🫡	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/26 07:59 PM
2	Be careful guys Happy cake day!	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/26 02:35 AM
1	Be careful guys Yea huh? However I think there’s a communication service provided for non amicable splits. Through the courts or something. Maybe that’s what he’s alluding to.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/26 02:35 AM
2	How do I heal from this I just commented on another post in here a little while ago, you’re not alone in this feeling man. Literally not alone, every thought, feeling, you name it. We all have our own battles but we’re all on here together fighting it. Some men are so glad to be out, others feel betrayed, hurt, and we don’t talk enough about our feelings to understand it all. Even to ourselves. Another commenter in this post said “you’re getting to know yourself now” brother that is the beauty, the silver lining if any…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/26 03:21 AM
4	Weird question, how do you guys find the motivation to care for yourselves? Bro I got married at 20. Divorced at 38. Which is where I am now… same fucking boat dude. I been binge drinking and wasting away in my little apartment since December.. then something clicked a few weeks ago.. and all those speeches I was told about “show up for your kids, put in work, lay off the booze” all came swinging at me like a ton of bricks. After my third 12 pack of ronas in 3 days.. I finally woke up, stared at the mirror and actually saw me.. the real me. Not the fearful, miserable, s…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/26 02:41 AM
3	In my new place. Hate my life now. Brother, I went through the same exact shit in December, suffered with no regulatory person being my “rock” for 6 months. Walked around my shitty empty apartment staring at the mirror. I’m finally beginning to take my life back. I am bringing back the real me and if she sees my growth and wants reconnection, great! If not.. well I’ll be in a better place for it regardless. I’d be sad and drink a day or two if you want, but that’s it… lay off it completely preferably. Sit in your sadness and lone…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/26 09:43 PM
2	How do you safely sleep with hoes? All hail.	/r/seduction	03/06/26 03:44 PM
56	How do you safely sleep with hoes? Brother, if you’re thinking about being with promiscuous girls, prepare to deal with the promiscuous problems that come with it. All flavors. Oral and genital herpes will get cha. With a condom, maybe no aids.	/r/seduction	03/06/26 03:43 PM
2	Good pick up lines/Openers lol. I was boarding a plane few weeks back… cute flight attendant pulled out her phone at the entry way and I was like “yeah.. it’s” and began to give her my number. Got a real good laugh from her was like I’m just playing.. sorry funny anecdote this reminded me of.	/r/seduction	30/05/26 03:21 AM
4	Putting myself out there on some dating apps recently Makes sense. I get it. I pushed my marriage to divorce because i felt that it had already happened long ago. I’ve been divorced 6 months and I finally got told “I don’t want to reconcile” verbally and that was a super gut punch but.. I knew it and just probably needed to hear it. I’m scared of dating apps man, no clue how to even start dating again.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/26 05:50 AM
4	Depression made me a chick magnet wtf? Damn.	/r/seduction	15/05/26 07:54 AM
0	She said "I've never done this before"... Do they usually say that? Happy Cake Day 🍰 DrewsterTheSeducer	/r/seduction	06/04/26 01:28 AM