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the short-term tactics work, gave an example, and said they’re lame. ???? what the fuck are you trying to say here????? i literally have no idea what you're saying
/r/seduction19/03/20 05:38 PM
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wow. this is probably one of the better value post i've seen on this sub in a long time lol but yes i do agree with everything said here and i believe it to be 100% accurate. emotional value are chicks looking for boyfriends/long term relationship partners. material value are gold digging chicks, sugar baby girls, or a girl that may want some emotional value but priorities money and resources as #1 so she really wants material value. and girls that are horny is pretty self explanatory. club slut…
/r/seduction19/03/20 05:04 PM
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what the fuck are you saying. re-read what you wrote. you're literally talking out of your ass, straight up
/r/seduction19/03/20 04:27 PM
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man this is all bullshit. fucking just armchair fag talk. literally NO basis in reality whatsoever. just a guy pontificating about approaching girls when he has never actually DONE or tested any of the stuff he's saying
/r/seduction19/03/20 01:28 PM
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then remain a loser then. no one cares what happens to you. you don't care either so just go rot in a hole like a piece of shit. carry on now
/r/seduction19/03/20 01:15 PM
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well then step up. you're never gonna get laid if you don't do approaches, since you refuse to pay for hookers. you're literally putting yourself in a box on this one. now you're forced to make something happen of a cold approach or online lol good luck
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:22 PM
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pay for a hooker
/r/seduction19/03/20 11:49 AM
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you would understand then. the answer is simple, don't date girls that you aren't attracted to. i'm not attracted to just hot girls, i like all kinds of girls. you make it sound like you can only date hot. i can date cute girls, thick girls, slimmer girl, etc. i have a wider range
/r/seduction19/03/20 02:49 AM
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you'll understand. go out and get that hot girl. once you have her, you'll realize that it's all just fucking bullshit. and the most important part is who you're actually with as a person. sounds cheesy as fuck, but it's the sad reality
/r/seduction19/03/20 02:34 AM
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that's stupid
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:58 AM
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basically yeah. that's how it is for all of dating and sex
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:56 AM
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i had to delete my comment cause it was getting out of control
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:56 AM
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you gotta balance it. don't go cold turkey without some sex. if you do, it's very easy to slip into low vibration at that point
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:55 AM
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in my experience you usually have girls that you see that are fuck buddies, and serious gfs. with fuck buddies there really isn't any deep connection, you both are there to have fun and fuck. there may be some small talk but that's not rly the back bone of the relationship
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:54 AM
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oh believe me, i'm fucked pleeeeeeeeeeeeenty and plenty of hot chicks. i'm pissed off cause it's not even all that. it doesn't feel like this epic and stellar thing like when i first started game. now it's just like normal bullshit
/r/seduction18/03/20 09:44 PM
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i know what you're saying, but i'm talking about fuck buddies here. having a legit girlfriend is another thing
/r/seduction18/03/20 09:41 PM
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rsd are faggots for doing this. i stopped watching all their shit recently. they're just so irrelevant now. no more pick up. basically a bunch of gay shit horse shit. it's so retarded. practically zero value. never got into rsd for love yourself, woo woo shit. which is basically what it has become
/r/seduction18/03/20 09:25 PM
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yes i've banged a lot of white girls. slim, thick, blonde hair, perfect asses, etc it depends where you live, i'm in the US. obv if you're in japan the type of hot chick there will be different
/r/seduction18/03/20 08:18 PM
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there is a traditional hot chick that most guys like. blonde, white chick, slim, nice tits, round ass
/r/seduction18/03/20 08:12 PM
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cause it's not what it's all cracked up to be. banging hot girls is portrayed much differently on the media and society compared to actually doing it. real life it's not like that. all it is, is a quick rush of excitement, then you're done
/r/seduction18/03/20 08:07 PM
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depends, not all hot girls. some hot girls can still be good at sex. some average/above average can be great as well
/r/seduction18/03/20 07:53 PM
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no, you're missing the point. the point is to understand that fucking is just a short term burst of entertainment, that's all it is. obv fuck attractive girls/girls that you are in to. no one said to fuck chubbies
/r/seduction18/03/20 07:53 PM
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you can bang all the hot girls you want. you're gonna just get numb to it. it's pretty dumb when you think about it too. sure for like 15 minutes you're fucking a hottie and having a blast. then you nut and it's over. it's super retarded to make fucking girls a central part of a guy's life. and A LOT of guys do that
/r/seduction18/03/20 07:18 PM
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No models doesn’t go in depth about these things. I’ve read the book, I know. I’m 25
/r/seduction18/03/20 06:06 PM
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That’s a good question. You can still bang hot girls. It’s just an understanding that it’s just short term entertainment. Some ppl make it their whole life. I did that for a bit like 4 yrs ago. Today, not so much. I think if you’re starved of sex it’s just natural to wanna do that
/r/seduction18/03/20 06:03 PM
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a comprehensive guide on 1) the 4 methods of meeting women 2) the best methods in terms of what your situation is 3) how to actually do your approaches properly 4) the importance of volume 5) why you should track your results 6) how to text, go-to opening scripts and follow ups you can use 7) how to plan dates 8) scaling up your efforts 9) maybe a bonus section on how to properly fuck the girls
/r/seduction18/03/20 04:53 PM
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i've read models. i didn't think it was that good. for someone who is intermediate and seriously looking to improve their results, i would not recommend models at all. it's MAYBE an okay book for a beginner who is 100% new to game. other than that, the book doesn't have much value. harsh to say but it's true
/r/seduction18/03/20 04:27 PM
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the book is bullshit. it gives you advice akin to "just be yourself". he gives you like a dozen or so "just be yourself" tips. complete shit. no practical advice whatsoever. nothing on working volume, where to meet women, how to progress your sets, etc. it's just all one big steaming pile of shit. a waste of time to read imo
/r/seduction18/03/20 04:20 PM
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It’s a process that takes time to cultivate internally. that's why he's bullshit. he's selling you on some fantasy end with exactly 0 structure on how to get there. i read models, it's such a bullshit book. maybe for a beginner it's good. but for anyone whose been in this for sometime, models is absolutely useless
/r/seduction18/03/20 04:18 PM
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i don't really like models. it's too much armchair theory. not enough practical advice. no game plan or step by step process on how you can actually start getting results NOW. it's just general bullshit in my opinion
/r/seduction18/03/20 02:43 PM
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sounds fun lol. i met with a fuck buddy of mine yesterday. she has gigantic, huge, all natural K cup tits lol. i literally titty fuck those massive fun bags twice a week lol. i'm rly lucky to have a girl like this locally tbh
/r/seduction18/03/20 02:41 PM
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sex is over rated. it's all bullshit. the media and society has lied to you. sport fucking hot babes gets boring. much like everything else when it comes to dating and sex. it's all just a game to feed yourself with short term bursts of entertainment. i guess that could be said about a lot of things in life though
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:49 AM
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i made a post about this a while ago and this post is an example of why i am 100% correct in what i said. women don't feel attraction the same way as men, which is why you make such statements: " if I want to get off, I'll just do it myself?". if a guy hasn't gotten laid for a while, that would sound nonsensical to him. being around women and dating a lot has allowed me to see very clear patterns in how they think, it's bright as day
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:47 AM
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now is the perfect time for that. make an excuse "hey coronavirus is crazy, let's stay in and hang out" puts you in a place where sex can happen. even if you don't bang, you can still progress this way, you're still going on dates so you're moving forward. keep that up
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:43 AM
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who the fuck are you lol
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:37 AM
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not true. met with 2 fuck buddies the past few days. i met them online before coronavirus i guess so that's probly why. but still, i would still try for some online action, success rates may be lower but oh well
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:36 AM
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i personally wouldn't be texting at all. i don't text girls like that unless she's a serious girlfriend. only people i text like that daily are best friends. with girls i haven't even met or am trying to set dates with i just text to set up the date, that's it. so essentially, within a few days of actually meeting her
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:31 AM
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maybe. even if he looked like brad pitt she still wouldn't have fucked him though. women don't work like that
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:27 AM
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i don't text excessively. i find out if a girl is interested, then set up plans. come date time, text her. it looks like you have a "texting buddy". honestly, you may be fucked on this one. i think you should get more girls
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:25 AM
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walk up beside her, put like 1-2 feet of distance between you two as you're walking. she will realize your presence while you're next to her. that's when you open. she won't be surprised
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:23 AM
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in my experience most girls don't give indicators. you basically go up and open. you do a combination of vibing + screening. sure indicators help but i don't really care or look for those. if i see attractive girls, i go up and open them
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:16 AM
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you just gotta do it. that first approach is the hardest. once you start doing approaches it just becomes normal. you aren't as phased because it's just routine to do an approach during the day
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:14 AM
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Yeah that’s probably true tbh. Girls that whore full time, probably seeing a huge drop in clients
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:52 AM
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Yeah unfortunately success rates are probly gonna go down around this time. Chicks are just gonna be less receptive cause of coronavirus
/r/seduction14/03/20 04:50 AM
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i wouldn't shake any girls' hands while you're cold approaching. do knuckle touches and make a joke out of it. in general though probly not a good time to walk through city centers to do daygame
/r/seduction13/03/20 03:00 PM
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You sound like an immature brat and when you can't win an argument, you just start lashing out and attacking the person, rather than the argument. that's exactly what YOU'RE doing though. you literally can't win this argument against me. so now you're lashing out at me personally dude...
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:39 PM
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i'm the one who COINED that statement. from the beginning i've said it, there are only 3 ways to meet women: online dating, cold approach, and social circle. said that shit for years, now people are catching on and using it btw. looks don't matter as much as you think. there's a looks threshold, not that high
/r/seduction07/03/20 07:34 PM
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you're talking in circles. you don't actually understand what you're trying to say. you're making this way too convoluted and complicated, like a little keyboard nerd jerking off on the keyboard because he thinks he's discovered gold here's the deal, women don't feel immediate sexual attraction. it doesn't exist for them. end of story, period.
/r/seduction07/03/20 06:06 PM
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it's not likely. most girls don't operate this way
/r/seduction07/03/20 05:31 PM
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yeah OP got fucked out. had to seal the deal right then and there. beer guy took him down
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:59 PM
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no i'm not. my stance has remained clear from the very beginning. don't be upset that you've lost the argument
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:38 PM
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Women certainly DO get attracted just from looking at a guy. it's not the same way that men get attracted to chicks from looking at them. that's what i'm saying
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:16 PM
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you wouldn't understand. we're in the business of improving our dating life. meeting, dating, and fucking high quality women. this sub isn't for you
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:12 PM
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no one is saying anything about a side of beef. this about getting results. we want to date high quality women. absolutely nothing wrong with that
/r/seduction07/03/20 04:01 PM
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there's a looks threshold. just don't be fucking ugly and you're good. most guys pass the threshold. little bit of style and hygiene and that shouldn't be a problem. looks is only a problem on bullshit apps like tinder and the like. you go out to cold approach and that shit goes out the window. maybe in bars looks have a little more weight. but honestly you have to be really good looking for it to matter anyway
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:39 PM
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I see men and immediately fantasize about them and I know I'm not alone in this. that's not common women behavior. i'd say about 80%+ of girls don't think like that
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:33 PM
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Absolutely look at a guy and think of fucking. you're not in the majority of girls then. most girls don't think like that at all. if you tell them that, they'll think whatever about it, but they wouldn't want to do that themselves also, i don't think you understand game. game can be manipulation, but the fundamentals of game are not. also, manipulation isn't a bad thing. we're manipulated all the time in this world. whether it's to buy particular drinks or food that are unhealthy for us. or whet…
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:15 PM
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emotions are important. that goes hand in hand with having good game. good game means you understand social situations and can provide good emotions. but i wouldn't necessarily say that is the main focus. be positive, move things forward, calibrate. no need to worry about finessing emotions in chicks while you're in set also, it is a number game. you can't deny that. you NEED volume. even the top guys understand this. you have to go through tons of chicks, it's simply the reality. the more volum…
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:09 PM
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you're an idiot. we all want to date quality girls. nothing to be ashamed of
/r/seduction07/03/20 03:06 PM
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tinder is garbage. uninstall that shit immediately
/r/seduction07/03/20 01:27 PM
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you should be approaching and/or doing online game. you will never "get" a certain girl. it doesn't work that way. you carpet bomb the female population with mass approaches. then you select the hot girls that are receptive. it's never about getting 1 specific girl
/r/seduction07/03/20 12:28 PM
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you're a jackass. game exists in many parts of life. it's not just about getting girls. game can definitely help you with that. you're saying game is stupid? wow. that's like saying social interaction is stupid
/r/seduction07/03/20 12:26 PM
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It wasn’t even the he wasn’t their type. The dude LITERALLY interrupted their convo and would not fuck off lol!!! It was so cringe. Like Todd would just not go away. Like a retarded cringe loser
/r/seduction28/02/20 02:11 PM
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I’d feel so embarrassed to upload that video. No idea what the fuck he was thinking
/r/seduction28/02/20 05:42 AM
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you gotta admit, this video is GOD awful. like complete cringe
/r/seduction28/02/20 02:48 AM
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The few good things they say are taught by others who are far better and more genuine human beings. RSD has a different spin on the same valuable content. anything that can further my game and is good advice, i'm all ears. don't be such an ass hat, be willing to draw information from all sources
/r/seduction28/02/20 02:34 AM
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ok kid
/r/seduction28/02/20 02:33 AM
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i'm just pointing out how CRINGE this is and what NOT to do he should have left FAR earlier. this was god awful
/r/seduction28/02/20 02:32 AM
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This is probly the worst pick up I’ve ever seen. Holy shit. So fucking cringe. Literally the definition of an obsessed PUA loser freak creep bitch that will not fuck off no matter what. And it’s Todd V LOLLL. Holy shit. This is so god awful
/r/seduction28/02/20 01:56 AM
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Like I said. Take the good from their content, and then move on. RSD has a shit ton of videos. There’s little bits and pieces of info in there that is fucking ROCK solid. Things like man to woman, qualifying, shit test handling. All I’m saying is take away the good stuff from them, and throw away all the bullshit
/r/seduction28/02/20 01:52 AM
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Lol really? 2 days ago I was fucking my hot blonde white girlfriend with a perfect thick bubble ass lol. Literally looks like a porn star with her body And you get laid more than me? Yeah, sure lol
/r/seduction28/02/20 01:47 AM
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Not many good ppl tbh. Most are pieces of shit and give incorrect advice. Even Todd sucks dick lately. I wouldn’t watch Todd tbh. He jerks off to his theory too much and spouts bullshit
/r/seduction28/02/20 01:44 AM
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Holy FUCK LOOOOOOLLLOL. Can someone please post this video everywhere. Dear god. This is fucking god awful. We can only pray that he’s improved significantly over time. I don’t recommend Todd tbh
/r/seduction28/02/20 01:43 AM
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Fuck off. RSD, like many other PUA resources, has good things and bad things to it. It’s called separating the good from the shit. Take the value you can from their teachings and leave the rest behind. You don’t have to follow every single thing they say. They do have some golden nuggets of information in their content
/r/seduction28/02/20 01:09 AM
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You’re a fucking idiot
/r/seduction28/02/20 01:07 AM
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You’re suppose to suggest it “you can touch me you know” Build up to it, until you’re asking him to make out with you and fuck you
/r/seduction27/02/20 02:13 PM
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So you’re getting instant rejections? This happens. As you open more girls you’ll naturally get smoother at it. Keep opening
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:52 AM
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Sounds stupid. Cold approach is cold approach. Spend less time jerking off to the idea of it and go actually do it
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:50 AM
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... then don’t do it on a college campus? Or go to a campus that you don’t go to school at?
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:49 AM
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Right now the girl I’m seeing and fucking is taller than me. She’s like a 6 foot tall blonde white girl with a thick bubble ass and D cup tits I’m a 5 foot 11 dude. So yeah, you can be with girls taller than you
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:48 AM
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You should’ve deleted the text convo and make sure she’s always the last one to text you. Makes you look less invested
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:45 AM
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You fucked up by asking her “am I wasting my time”. That’s dumb. You should feel disgusted with yourself for asking that You shouldn’t be that invested. Ask her to meet up, make clear what you’d like to do. If she’s ignoring you or giving you problems, delete the text convo and hit up other girls. Re-initiate with short ping texts “?” “Hi there”. Never send confronting or reactive texts like what you did. You can’t be bothered by this shit
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:37 AM
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Only nerds and dudes that don’t know what they’re doing go into that much detail
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:30 AM
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Just try again the next day
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:27 AM
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This is stupid
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:21 AM
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Yes you did. Keep it simple. Shouldn’t have texted that. Stop being so invested, this will fix itself once you start getting laid more
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:16 AM
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Doesn’t matter. Approach girls
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:14 AM
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I’ve read that book. It sucks. Doesn’t give helpful or practical advice. Just armchair mental masturbation and feel good stuff. Probly good for someone whose never heard of game
/r/seduction27/02/20 03:37 AM
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You’re overthinking it. Approach more, suggest to meet up, be clear and forward in your intentions
/r/seduction27/02/20 03:36 AM
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Dan bilzerian isn’t relatable to the average dude
/r/seduction27/02/20 03:28 AM
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I would rather do daygame tbh
/r/seduction27/02/20 03:27 AM
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you're literally pulling numbers out of your ass. are you serious right now? you're really trying to estimate a bunch of shit off of 27 approaches? wow. you're really dumber than i thought 27 approaches is nothing you idiot, there's a thing called variance. can't believe you're actually saying such stupid shit right now. everything you say just keeps getting worse and worse
/r/seduction26/02/20 05:43 PM
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So? Nothing to do with what I said
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:33 AM
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This has actually gotten me laid lol. If I haven’t met a girl and she’s giving me shit over text I just delete the convo. Sometimes she hits me up days later
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:31 AM
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No, op has the right to try
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:31 AM
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Not pushy. It’s called calibration
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:29 AM
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Chode. Sometimes a little push can be effective
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:22 AM
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Push for the number. If she still says snap then whatever. Take it or not
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:19 AM
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Approach, chit chat, suggest plans, try for the number Standard way things go down
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:18 AM
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Ask for the number anyway. Unless it’s very obv she doesn’t want to meet you again
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:06 AM
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with this large volume ... i only did 27 fucking sets. are you dumb? the reason i get offended is because you make such egregious statements over and over again. it should be a crime to be this wrong time and time again
/r/seduction26/02/20 12:01 AM
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either or. sure it's weird to go out and specifically approach girls on the street. sounds strange, i agree. but will it get you results? sure, will just take a while
/r/seduction25/02/20 10:29 PM
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look at what you wrote. you were bashing daygame cold approach tremendously. you shouldn't shit on people that do daygame
/r/seduction25/02/20 10:28 PM
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i am the OP you fool. And with that little original interest, dates are going to be an even bigger hurdle. wrong. if you can't do well on dates then that's cause your game is shit. don't blame cold approach for that
/r/seduction25/02/20 10:27 PM
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I already have other obligations. I approach on my days off from work and sometimes after work for just 20-30 mins before the sun goes down
/r/seduction25/02/20 05:35 PM
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Fuck her a few times until you get bored, then move on. Sounds “dick-ish” but this is what I usually do
/r/seduction25/02/20 04:58 PM
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It’s not a frustrating 2 hour session to me. I have no emotional bias towards this stuff. It’s just numbers. I get laid plenty well already. I’m doing this cause I want results I’ve been in game long enough to not be fazed by this stuff. I understand it’s a numbers game
/r/seduction25/02/20 04:52 PM
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Ya. Ppl can shit on daygame and cold approaching all they want. But it’s worked for me. Nothing’s gonna stop me from continuing to cold approach
/r/seduction25/02/20 04:16 PM
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“Let’s split a cup of coffee at my new place, do you like sugar or no sugar?”
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:46 PM
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Your ego is too big to see anything else. All you can do is insult the process and insult cold approaching. You say that most dates from cold approaches won’t lead to second dates or sex. That’s YOUR problem. If you’re dates aren’t converting to second dates then that means your game is shit. Most dates should move forward, if you set it up properly. You’re saying you need several dates to get a result. So doing daygame approaches is pointless? How about not fucking sucking at game and being abl…
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:30 PM
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I didn’t do these approaches in one sitting. Most guys don’t get many IOIs per month. Most guys get zero
/r/seduction25/02/20 02:43 PM
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Most guys can’t replicate what you’re saying. It’s a lot easier for guys to do daygame cold approaches. And these cold approaches work. I’ve witnessed results from it. Dates and got laid in the past You just like to shit on cold approaching. You can’t see the value in it cause you’re bias. You’re a very judgey and hateful human being. You ridicule and make fun of people who cold approach because you think you are so above it. Asshole. Cold approaching is a form of meeting women. If you think it’…
/r/seduction25/02/20 02:41 PM
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Streets
/r/seduction25/02/20 11:48 AM
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I’ve only same night fucked from night game. That’s cool and all but I want dates and repeat girls. Not one night stands
/r/seduction25/02/20 11:48 AM
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40-60%? yeah go fuck yourself you should feel ashamed spreading false information like that but I’m guessing mine is in the 40-60% range. yeah, you're GUESSING. you've got nothing. i've got the data to back up everything i say. fuck off
/r/seduction25/02/20 04:12 AM
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but how do you measure that? how are you verifying that and really making sure your chances are increasing?
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:57 AM
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again, we're full circle. i told you, i want to scale up. what you're suggesting, i can't scale up with that
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:51 AM
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i've already self improved myself enough. i need to actually get started and stop making excuses. that begins with approaching girls as often as i can and trying to push things forward
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:38 AM
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Gaming the girl in the food court who’s been checking you out yeah so let's say that happens about once a month. you're gonna try to make progress with 1 approach a month? good luck
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:35 AM
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but what's the ALTERNATIVE you say classes. you say "spontaneous daygame". but you can't SCALE these things. you only get a few opportunities per week. because it is very passive and SLOW do you not understand what we are saying here? cold approach may be bullshit, it may require fuck tons of volume. but it WORKS. and you can scale the fuck out of it. and that's why people should still do daygame. any other reason to not do it is just bullshit excuses, noises, and mental masturbation. literally,…
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:33 AM
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i want to hit more volume though. i want more opportunities. i don't want 1 opportunity per week. i want 20 per week see the issue here?
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:29 AM
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it didn't take me that long. i just make a quick note after each approach and tally it up at the end
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:25 AM
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I just think that your time could be better spent on other things like investing in yourself which would lead to finding people with common interests cool. now how do i approach girls? where are the girls? how do i get them in my life? see the problem here
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:25 AM
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It sounds weird to set aside time just to approach girls on the street. But who cares. That’s just being judgey. If it works and I get results at the end of the day, I’m fine with it
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:13 AM
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It’s worth it. You may not think it is. But to me it’s worth it Btw, that 6 hours is on me. Some people can knock out approaches quickly and get it done in half that time. I’m not that good so I spend time bullshitting when I should be opening. The rate of approach depends on how good you are
/r/seduction25/02/20 03:12 AM
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I’ve just started. I’ve only done 27 approaches dude lol
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:30 AM
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I’m probly improving a little bit as I app. It’s just numbers, sometimes the girls react well and I get get a convo going, then go for the number
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:30 AM
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I don’t care about my “self worth”. I know who I am. I have value. And I still get laid a ton. I’ve gotten plenty of validation and love from girls already
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:25 AM
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I’m the chode? Yeah right. You have no idea what you’re talking about. You’re acting like an arrogant jackass. You don’t know what in the fuck you’re saying. Just raging like a bitch and making a lot of assumptions based off your fuck up mindset and way of thinking. Most of what you said is judgey and opinionated bullshit. Has no basis in reality and all in your fucked up head
/r/seduction25/02/20 12:23 AM
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Idk. Maybe I should start doing college campuses instead. I’ve done them in the past. Have gotten some dates and a lot of numbers. Mostly flake numbers. I feel the results are near similar. Maybe a little but better from college campuses
/r/seduction24/02/20 11:29 PM
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Everything I said is legit. Better to take action than wait passively
/r/seduction24/02/20 11:21 PM
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Terrible advice. You know, you actually had me at the beginning. I was listening. I was waiting for you to give an alternative, then I was disappointed Your advice is basically: stay on the side lines. Yeah that’s awful. Waiting around is a huge waste of time. Would much rather be actively taking action even if the success rate is low You can either wait around like a chode or actually make an effort to get somewhere. It’s not needy or desperate, it’s called taking action
/r/seduction24/02/20 11:02 PM
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Another problem with college chicks is flakiness and non-seriousness. College chicks are mostly 18-22. I much prefer a chick 23+ or she has a full time job already. It’s complete shet trying to make plans with a girl that’s in school cuz she usually puts school above meeting with guys
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:53 PM
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just looking for 1 solid chick. idk why i'm not doing campus approaches. what i'm doing right now i can do year round. college campuses you can't do it during breaks when ppl are away
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:38 PM
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no i didnt say collecting data will improve your game
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:25 PM
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what you're suggesting will probably have less of a success rate. you're saying to walk up and compliment her, then walk away. that's stupid. the girl will just continue on her way, you've rejected yourself by leaving and have gotten no where. that's not gonna be more effective then what i'm doing which is staying in set you're not gonna get IOIs on the street. go out and try it. walk down a busy city center. girls aren't going to lock eyes with you. i know 100% that you don't even do daygame. y…
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:24 PM
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we're trying to actively get results here. not be on the side lines the whole time This is the kind of advice that’s not helpful to guys at all. You’re basically trying to keep guys from getting results. Telling them to just wait on the side for an opportunity. That’s awful
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:21 PM
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daygame works for me. i've gotten dates from it, i've gotten a lay from it. so i know it works, it just takes a lot of volume
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:19 PM
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my style, haircut, facial hair, etc is all standard. i know how to dress
/r/seduction24/02/20 09:17 PM
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yeah i think it's cause there's a lots of newbies here. this is kind of like poker. 80% of hands you throw away and not even play them. 85% of approaches result to absolute nothing. online makes this process tons faster cause 1 swipe is like an approach. unfortunately for me, my online results SUCK lol
/r/seduction24/02/20 08:36 PM
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i'm doing daygame in a busy city center, street game. you know guys that get numbers from 50% of the girls they approach. if they're located in the US that sounds like bullshit. that's way too high instant rejections at 37%, could be lower. i try not to linger behind the girl as i'm walking with. i usually keep side to side with her. most girls won't make eye contact with you before you approach, you gotta just go for it. i will say that i give girls a few seconds to acknowledge i'm near them be…
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:16 PM
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that takes too much time and would get me less dates. all the time in between waiting for opportunities at several clubs is not effective. doing this takes a lot of time but i can scale it up
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:09 PM
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Why not join a co-ed activity, meetup, or class where meeting women with something you have in common would be much less forced? sure, of course, sounds lovely and fantastic. now how do i scale up? those salsa classes only meet once a week. so i go to 2 sessions and approach the only hot girl out of 10 girls there. guess what, she has a boyfriend. awesome. so gotta find a new salsa class. guess i gotta wait til next week now. so i'm 4 weeks in, done 1 approach. time for my second approach at the…
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:07 PM
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how long have you been in game? this sounds like a terrible approach what is the value of a relationship to you? how much effort are you willing to exert to get in a relationship with a pretty girl? if it takes you 88 or 150 approaches before you get that girl, is it worth it. these are questions that we decide to ourselves. some may say that of course it's worth it, and that doing approaches is not a waste of time. some may say that it's not worth it and if they can't get success quickly then t…
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:59 PM
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plan dates better. have your dates at the end of the day after she's done errands. if she tries to meet you in between stuff, tell her you wanna reschedule when she's all done. you should only need 2 hours from the start of the date and you'll be good
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:33 PM
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non instant rejections were usually "not interested" "no thanks". and a few "i have a boyfriend" "i have a fiance" my first 15-18 approaches i had more instant rejections. but now i have more rejections. so definitely as you do this more, your confidence grows, and your instant rejection rate will go down. i guess the girls can tell or you'll be a bit more calibrating to at least get a small convo instead of rejection off the bat
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:25 PM
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yeah, sounds about average. a 2.5% approach to date rate from cold approaching in a busy city center. that's not even that bad tbh. 2.5% for a date? fuck, it's better than like a 0.8% success, now that is fuck low
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:20 PM
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what's the alternative? there is none if you're past college/university and still no long term relation, you have no choice. you have to approach, there is no other way
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:17 PM
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I think daygame is better for me because I’ve gotten dates and 1 lay from it. So it works for me, it takes a lot of time and volume though Nightgame all I’ve gotten from it is same night fucks. Never gotten a day 2 from nightgame
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:58 PM
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Bi racial, ethnic, not white. 5’11” average/slim-ish build, not “ugly”, like 5-6/10 face
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:57 PM
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Ya when I was starting this I was mostly getting instant rejections. I was getting more instant rejs then standard rejs. But after a dozen or so apps it tipped over to just rejs. So I’m getting better. Less instant blow outs
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:53 PM
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I’ve tried nightgame. Got 20 numbers over two weekends. Zero dates from that Where are you getting that 1 out of every 10 numbers will go to a date? That hasn’t been proven by the data. Respect the data and follow what it says Also, what is the value of a relationship to you? What is considered too much work? In exchange for a long term relation with a pretty girl. It’s all up to YOU to decide if it’s worth it
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:51 PM
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Average success rate. Maybe leaning towards bad
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:29 PM
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Depends what you want. If you don’t think it’s worth it then sure. Other ppl think otherwise
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:26 PM
3

I’m not new. Have been in game for 5-6 yrs
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:25 PM
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i only approached girls i was attracted to. 6-7s and up no girls that i couldn't see myself being with long term BTW: these approaches are in a city center in the USA. i'm not approaching in "warmer" environments like college campuses. this is literally street game in a busy area. college campuses may give you less instant rejections and more phone numbers, but one problem is you can't do college campuses year round
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:02 PM
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every day? gonna be tough. do you work? i remember when i was in school and had spring breaks i could go out literally every day to cold approach girls. had TONS of free time. now though i work full time. can only go out on my days off or certain days for like 20-30 minutes before it gets too dark to approach
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:42 PM
1

you went out and got rejected for 7 days in a row?
/r/seduction23/02/20 09:37 PM
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nah, 100 is nothing. 500 is a decent amount for tracking data. and 1,000 would be an excellent amount
/r/seduction23/02/20 04:01 PM
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the best way to know if by keeping track of your results. let's say month 1 you do 100 approaches and get 10 numbers. if next month you do 100 approaches and get 15 numbers ten boom, improvement. track this for several months and you can see if you're rate of return is gradually going up or staying the same
/r/seduction23/02/20 03:23 PM
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no she's not. i've seen hot blond girls walking down streets after leaving the nightclubs. the hottest, slimmest, beautiful, blond haired white girls. walking and talking down the street. when i see that i don't think "they're better than me". i think "they are different from me". they're hot girls, i'm a solid guy with business acumen and other strong abilities. we are different in our value/strengths
/r/seduction22/02/20 02:38 PM
1

Not that easy.
/r/seduction21/02/20 07:12 AM
1

Everyone’s success rate is different. What I’m saying is that 5 min numbers can and do turn into dates
/r/seduction21/02/20 06:57 AM
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Explain what? What exactly are you asking. If you’re talking about converting 5 min numbers to dates, then it’s simple. You go up and chat. If you can tell she’s on a time constraint, then you get the number. Text to meet up, boom she responds. Stuff like that happens. This is game/pickup. Anything can happen, don’t see what you’re asking about tbh Btw, I just re-read this. You’re saying you’ve done hundreds of approaches. I’ve done thousands. I def have a lot of first hand and second hand exper…
/r/seduction21/02/20 05:29 AM
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Nope. Not bullshit. Everything I’ve said is true, no lying nor nonsense
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:18 AM
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Then you’re retarded. If all you want is sex, you are wasting sooooo much time, just get a hot hooker If you want an actual relation then it’s gonna take a while. And honestly, if you’re doing this for short term purposes, in my opinion, you are retarded
/r/seduction21/02/20 03:03 AM
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Yes you can get dates from 5 minute numbers. This happens. It’s not surprising I talk about whatever comes to mind, there is no magic answer here
/r/seduction21/02/20 02:59 AM
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i have no idea what you're trying to say
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:45 PM
2

...and thinking every bad outcome is your fault is a winners mindset? nope. never said that what i'm saying is this: don't make excuses, try to make changes, go out and approach. don't get lost in a defeatist mindset
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:44 PM
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That’s just an excuse, it’s a loser mindset
/r/seduction20/02/20 08:05 PM
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Rejection (in all of its forms) is meant keep people who don’t belong to each other apart and if someone rejects you it chances are it has nothing to do with you. nah bullshit. if you get rejected while your on a date then you've fucked up. even on the approach if you come in weakly and act beta then that's your own fault
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:30 PM
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not that simple
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:29 PM
0

0.2% success rate means you get a gf after 500 apps. 0.5% success rate means after 200 apps not unrealistic. i did 25 daygame apps in the past week or so, ZERO dates from that. 200 apps is not a lot not sure what kind of success rate you were hoping for tbh
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:24 PM
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If you can't stop her at all during the whole interaction, she's almost guaranteed to flake. again you're wrong. that has nothing to do with whether your numbers will flake grossly inaccurate
/r/seduction20/02/20 07:14 PM
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wrong. you don't have to stop her "to have any reasonable conversation". bullshit. you can have a conversation by just walking and talking. stopping a girl is hard. no one likes to be stopped when they're already in motion. don't try to do that because it'll fuck up your odds. if it happens then great. honestly though, i prefer approaching and walking with, it's more natural and makes the set appear less like a pick up you don't have to talk for 15 mins+ to get a solid number. you can chat for 5…
/r/seduction20/02/20 05:21 PM
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how many pick up dudes that are doing cold apps do you think have value funnels? i get what you're saying but it's hard to build an authentic and valuable IG profile. unless you plan to fake it by paying for staged pics of yourself, fake followers, etc. a value funnel works but almost all guys doing pick up will not be able to pull it off the right way
/r/seduction20/02/20 03:26 PM
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this video is fine. guy is obv new, never done approaches before. what i would suggest is just work on appearing more confident. he needs to do some breaking rapport tonality. in the video most of the time his voice is high pitched "oh okay!!" like he's trying for rapport. this isn't attractive. he needs to sound a bit more "commanding". also, he needs to work on being more smoother and relaxed in set. when going for the number: just suggest an activity then naturally say "awesome, i can take yo…
/r/seduction20/02/20 03:19 PM
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retard
/r/seduction20/02/20 03:10 PM
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walking with them is fine. what the guy did in the video was fine. approach from the side, and WALK WITH. no problem doing that. if she wants you to fuck off then she'll just not answer you or tell you no
/r/seduction20/02/20 03:09 PM
2

"a value funnel"? lol. in all my 5-6 years of doing game have literally never heard that phrase. what the heck do you mean "value funnel"
/r/seduction20/02/20 03:08 PM
1

That’s good, right now I have no friends I text or hang out with. The only social interaction I get is from cold approaches, co-workers, and girls I’m trying to bang/am banging
/r/seduction18/02/20 01:40 AM
1

i know you're on sugar daddy dating sites. using money to get girls is stupid. sugar daddy sites are just for having fun and fucking around. wouldn't consider them a serious source of a long term relation
/r/seduction17/02/20 04:36 PM
4

I approach because I have to approach. If I don’t do this, then I know I’m fucked and have no chance at a solid LTR. Essentially, if I don’t approach, then I’m resigning to defeat
/r/seduction17/02/20 01:13 PM
3

Yeah basically what I was gonna write. Dude just assumes a fuck ton, then says to stop assuming rofl
/r/seduction17/02/20 08:39 AM
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Ya that’s true, some would say that what I’m doing is pretty extreme. But I’ve already decided that I’m willing to do whatever it takes for however long it takes. So I can’t stop
/r/seduction17/02/20 08:34 AM
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whatever you do, don't stop going out. just keep going. even if you can only do 1 approach in an hour. or even 0 approaches for the day. just keep continuing to go out. and trust that you will keep trying no matter what
/r/seduction17/02/20 05:00 AM
1

it's cuz askwomen is sexist. they don't like men
/r/seduction17/02/20 04:58 AM
0

if you want to meet women then do cold approaches. make it a habit to go out and approach girls
/r/seduction17/02/20 04:36 AM
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Yeah nightgame I can approach but I just can’t get day 2s from it. Got like 20 numbers, none of them converted to dates. I’m at 3 numbers from daygame right now, maybe once I get a dozen or so numbers I’ll have a date Went out today and did 4 apps in an hour. Gonna go out again tomorrow. I went out yesterday. Lately I’ve just been going out daily. Like literally, it’s become routine, roaming the city center and trying to open lol. Better than staying home and playing video games tbh
/r/seduction17/02/20 12:28 AM
1

Get a life kid
/r/seduction16/02/20 09:02 PM
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Ya you’re a lost cause. Blocked Go try salsa clubs, approach 1 girl every month doing that lol. Jackass thinks he’s above the process
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:53 PM
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YOU think it's desperate. because YOU are trapped in your head and are a slave to your emotions
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:45 PM
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Also ending every sentence with idiot is not a good look you sound like a dumb teenager. i have to do it cause you make such egregious statements instead of chasing after them and putting them on the pedestal. where did i ever infer that in my post? i never did. again, you've perverted this post in your head into something that it's not. massive fucked up psychology and inner game you have. also toxic for others trying to learn and don't think in a fucked way like you do
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:36 PM
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where did i ever say a 4 or below was going to be the result. i never said that, idiot
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:27 PM
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approaching girls is desperate? lol idiot
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:15 PM
1

i can tell you that i've done 13 daygame approaches in 2 and a half weeks. shit is hard
/r/seduction16/02/20 05:48 PM
1

if you're miserable after going on dates and not fucking the girls it's cause you really just wanna get laid. go out and fuck some hookers for a few months. come back to game when you're 100% ready to connect
/r/seduction16/02/20 05:45 PM
0

I don’t give a shit about your little anecdote claims. Most ppl don’t have matches skyrocket
/r/seduction15/02/20 09:45 PM
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Yeah. Difference is back in the day you could kill or stab someone and take pussy by force. Nowadays it’s basically courting, screening, and not fucking up
/r/seduction15/02/20 08:42 PM
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Photos will not help you online. You will know right away if you have what it takes
/r/seduction15/02/20 08:39 PM
1

Women are already winning because they would rather choose inaction vs possibly getting laid. It’s only the men that suffer cause they badly want results, so they swarm dating apps and bars
/r/seduction15/02/20 08:38 PM
1

Yup. That’s just how society works. Bars, clubs, dating apps. They get swarmed with tons of men looking for pussy lol. I wonder how women feel about it tbh
/r/seduction15/02/20 08:35 PM
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It’s cause the truth is hard to swallow. Some guys may try to do right by not swarming dating apps and not being desperate. But the truth is, the male gender will always grovel when pussy is up for grabs. The dating apps reflect this
/r/seduction15/02/20 08:34 PM
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knew you were going to say that, they always do again, i don't care about your results. get it through your thick head. i'm talking about the average male. now go on, proceed to tell me about your results that i don't care about
/r/seduction15/02/20 07:15 PM
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stop spreading false information. online dating is shit for the average male. i don't care what your experiences are on it. take off the rose goggles
/r/seduction15/02/20 07:02 PM
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Already knew this. Men swarm these apps in the pursuit of pussy
/r/seduction15/02/20 06:00 PM
1

In reality it's the looks that get you laid. It's 80% looks, 20% game. game isn't about getting laid, so your argument crumbles game is simply about refining your social skills so you can behave much more naturally and at ease when talking with girls. whether you get laid or not is a bonus
/r/seduction15/02/20 04:52 PM
5

Ask open ended questions. Plow for a bit as you were doing. If still nothing then move on
/r/seduction15/02/20 03:58 PM
0

basically. you can fuck the girls for free but it's more inconsistent and a bit difficult that way
/r/seduction15/02/20 04:26 AM
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Try seeking arrangement game. You basically pay the girl’s groceries or give her dinner money and she fucks you. Borders on prostitution but it’s safer and more fun
/r/seduction15/02/20 12:16 AM
1

someone that genuinely doesn't want to be approached Again you don’t KNOW that 100%. You can make all your assumptions. But you will never know 100%. You’re lying if you say that. You don’t know what’s going to happen. Which is why you approach to find out for sure
/r/seduction14/02/20 11:41 AM
1

even in that second example you give, you should still approach. you just don't know what's going to happen. you will never know for sure. the only way to find out is to actually approach
/r/seduction13/02/20 11:12 PM
3

how much effort does it take to approach girls that don't give you IOIs? if there are girls around then there's no reason not to approach
/r/seduction13/02/20 09:10 PM
1

there are times when someone legitimately wants to be left alone and being approached could be the thing to set them off. but you don't know that for sure. unless you know with 100% certainty (which you never will), then you should approach
/r/seduction13/02/20 09:09 PM
1

Depends, are these online girls or cold approach?
/r/seduction13/02/20 02:51 PM
2

I’m already doing all that. The reason I’m keeping track is I want to see the data when I have a lot of volume. It’s not affecting my interactions
/r/seduction13/02/20 02:48 PM
1

yes, i had to go through that. 3-4 years ago i wasn't interested in an LTR. all i wanted to do was get my dick in between a pair of extremely huge J cup titties. now that i've done that, as well had fun with tons of other girls that have huge tits, i can say that i'm comfortable slowing down it all depends on you. if you're very interested in sexual activities growing up like i was, then it may take you longer to not make it your sole focus. the thirst and desire never truly goes away, but it be…
/r/seduction12/02/20 10:27 PM
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1000 rejections? lol. rejected by the world?
/r/seduction12/02/20 10:19 PM
1

Interesting. Lol. I like how she calls herself a whore. But anyway, awesome. Bout to have sex soon 👊🏼 will write a lengthy reply later
/r/seduction11/02/20 10:06 PM
1

are these solely online girls? i would keep trying until you have a number of cases like 10+ of this happening, that way you can rule out bad luck
/r/seduction11/02/20 08:15 PM
3

you shouldn't "ask" to take a girl home, you just do it. "hey this was fun, let's go" then start leading
/r/seduction11/02/20 07:24 PM
1

where are you meeting these girls? online? cold approach?
/r/seduction11/02/20 07:20 PM
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you're probly coming off too pushy/thirsty. what's your goal here? are you looking for a fuck buddy? communicate that early. these girls may want an LTR type of thing, but see that you're behaving like a fuckboi and thus get uninterested after a few dates. are ALL these dates from online?
/r/seduction11/02/20 07:17 PM
1

limiting belief, limiting belief and more limiting beliefs try seeing light in a different lens. your game will thank you for that. i can already tell your head is so far in the wrong place. you probly can't even climb out of it tbh. very unfortunate
/r/seduction11/02/20 02:08 AM
1

good shit. it's super easy and fun right. what did these chicks look like? white girls? fat asses, huge tits? i have a girl that i'm currently seeing. black chick with that perfect round bubble butt, juicy thighs, decent waist, flat stomach. she's basically 100% okay with coming over 2-3 times per week and letting me pound her pussy to my heart's content. all she asks is i pay her groceries every week which is like 100-120 bucks. it's so fucking awesome
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:13 PM
1

how has it been? how long have you been on the site and how many girls have you fucked? i remember when i got started, was fucking a girl on day 3 of being on the site. it's literally a dream come true
/r/seduction10/02/20 06:07 PM
1

how are you getting these numbers. is it college chicks just giving you a number cause you approached on campus. or are you hitting up streets in the city center. when i was doing college apps it was mostly flake bullshit numbers that never respond, was easier to open tho
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:48 PM
1

40% number close rate? that means if you do 10 approaches you get 4 numbers. sounds like complete bullshit
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:43 PM
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no, look at what men write here on this sub. most ppl are bitching about tinder and saying it doesn't work. which means this is the more valid opinion. only a few say it works for them and btw, i've tested tinder already for years due to being in the game. it's a shitty app
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:40 PM
1

yup, cause 1 personal anecdote is so valuable. yup ofc good lord the quality here is going to shit
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:38 PM
5

fuck off. stop promoting your piece of shit facebook group and start working on your game. your theories and ideals are nothing more than armchair PUA bullshit. close the books, get your ass in the field, and stop bitching
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:34 PM
2

honestly you shouldn't wag your finger at ppl that are looking for quick sex. we've all been there. when you're at a low point in life and haven't gotten laid in a while, getting quick sex feels like a blessing
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:32 PM
2

that's cause this sub has been devolved into a pile of shit. you have women like the above coming here will all this dumb bullshit and spreading misinformation. it's sickening. i'm glad i was on this sub YEARS ago when i was learning. for anyone that is learning right now, i feel sorry for you
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:30 PM
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you're just rationalizing now. you can't keep poking holes and grasping at straws forever. at one point you have to stop and admit to yourself that it's not the pics and that tinder/all those swiping apps are literally bull shit again, as i've said. from what i understand, the best way to get a result is A) be decently jacked or B) have some gimmick type photos all this other bullshit about particular pictures will not help you
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:28 PM
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nah. don't be so afraid of the reality. tinder is shit. i don't have to tell you that, just look at what the majority of men are saying
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:26 PM
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nope. that's not a gimmick
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:05 PM
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i said A) being noticeably jacked or B) using some type of gimmick no where did i say "having something going for you"
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:59 PM
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i paid a dude that shot pics for cosmopolitan to take pics of me in his studio with his high tech gear. basically an extremely experienced professional. the pics look great, makes me look like some news anchor celebrity, but again, didn't significantly increase my match percentage
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:58 PM
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like i said. online game is shit for the average male. i've tried it with pro pics, it doesn't work. the only way to MAYBE get it to work is to post "gimmicky" types of pics to get attention. basically making your first pic with a dog or white male friend that is attractive. i haven't tried this cause i'm too lazy. but the point is, in order to actually get matches as an average non white dude, you either A) need to be jacked/have a good noticeable body or B) use some type of gimmick as your fir…
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:15 PM
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ehh. try not to have such limiting beliefs. it's hurting your game
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:11 PM
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then continue grinding
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:17 PM
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based of what i read from you, i can say unequivocally that you are indeed a retard. there's not a doubt in my mind, you've literally proved it to me in just a few back and forth msgs we've had here
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:16 PM
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i've been in the game too long, i already know what everyone there is going to say. i'm telling you, it's not the profile pics or bio. online is just shit if you aren't a white dude in america. ppl can't understand this
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:15 PM
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it's cuz you have no experience. approach more and set up more dates
/r/seduction10/02/20 11:49 AM
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in my experience tinder has been shit. no matches and i have pro pics. it just doesn't work for some guys. there's no reason to keep purporting these apps are good when the reality is they are shitty for most guys. the only way i can see it working for an average dude is doing some type of gimmicky shit. but even then results may vary
/r/seduction10/02/20 11:45 AM
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you're a retard
/r/seduction10/02/20 11:41 AM
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Because it’s dumb. If your goal is to meet girls and fuck or get into an LTR, then you should be approaching. Not figuring out how to get 1 new social circle a week so you can meet the women in the circle
/r/seduction10/02/20 11:06 AM
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Ya that’s a terrible mindset to have
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:29 AM
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To be fair, ALL of this shit is an endless grind lol. Online and cold app, you can’t escape putting in the volume in order to get a result
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:22 AM
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You can’t scale social circle game. You need to do a lot of apps before you get a result with chicks. It’s not rly practical to find social circles in order to meet girls
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:19 AM
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Another reason why cold app is superior. You’re not limited to fucked up online chicks
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:18 AM
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Tinder is shit for the average guy. Just a waste of time cuz you can’t get matches at a decent rate
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:17 AM
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Can’t share that. Trial and error. SA is very fruitful, but can’t let it get too out of hand with newbie guys screwing it up
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:15 AM
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Cold app will give you more yields than online tbh. Better quality girls and you’ll actually get interactions/some dates. Instead of online where you swipe a bunch of 6/10+ girls that you’re never gonna meet with lol
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:14 AM
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Idk about you but if you’re in America and aren’t white then you’re gonna have a rough time on tinder Btw, everything you wrote is just a big fat excuse. Cold approach works and can get you results. If def takes more effort than online, but it still works. Social circle is cool and all but you can’t scale something like that I recommend cold app tbh
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:13 AM
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Yeah you gotta slow down. Work on that. Try to pull and close on around date 3-5
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:08 AM
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i disagree. i've invested a few hundred $ into pro pics and they didn't boost my results by a noticeable amount. online is rly shit if you're average looking or not white. i don't recommend it, unless you are doing seeking arrangement game which is a whole diff ball game
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:32 AM
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online is actually really shitty for the average male. cold approach is much more yields compared to online
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:28 AM
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dates from daygame are usually more slower. expect light physicality on date 1, and fucking by date 3 or so, could take longer. it's not like online where the girls are very primed and eager to fuck you on the first or second meet
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:18 AM
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most of this post is very whiny and defeatist. like a little baby bitch that is butthurt about women online dating is for the most part shit. stick to cold approach. if you must do online then do seeking arrangement game
/r/seduction10/02/20 02:16 AM
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this is all bullshit and dumb. people reading, do not listen to this idiot
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:22 AM
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game is skill tbh. some people are just naturally talented at things. don't be fooled though, most guys SUCK at game. the average guy is god awful and doesn't have the drive or motivation to get better. you can get pretty far from the average by just studying social dynamics and doing some approaches
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:21 AM
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i honestly have no idea. i've tried it hardcore for 2-3 weekends in a row. approaching like a mother fucker and implementing the shit out of all the content i've learned. walked away with like 20 flakey numbers and decided i just can't figure out nightgame. maybe nightgame works for a particular type of guy, idk. obv people are fucking from nightgame, but it doesn't work for me, and i went hard as fuck i do daygame now
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:18 AM
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directions are the wooooooorst way to open bro. best way is somewhat direct, but indirect such as complimenting her attire, style, etc can also work btw, i'm doing street game approaches. no IOIs are given out here lol. will spend eternity looking for them. the name of the game is to simply approach and let whatever happens, happen
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:08 AM
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6 months and you only had 1 date? just approach more girls dude. this 1 girl shouldn't be a priority when the situation is such shit
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:04 AM
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stack more dates simple as that
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:03 AM
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i'm prob not helping my case too tbh, cuz i'm approaching some girls that have headphones in or are looking at their phones. it's just my "approach all" tactic to get over fear. but ya it's def gonna decrease my number rate in theory though, apping more means my mins per app will go down. so i'm getting more apps in per hour. which means my number per hour rate will improve. so basically, i'm doing a lot of approaches, but i'm doing them quickly so it'll look like i'm getting numbers at a decent…
/r/seduction10/02/20 12:00 AM
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social life is pretty much non existent. only social interaction i do is with co-workers on the job, the girls that i'm banging or going on dates with, and the girls that i'm cold approaching that's literally it
/r/seduction09/02/20 11:47 PM
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basically daygaming on the street. pretty standard. i go to the city center, walk around, try to open. it's a viable way to find a partner for a long term relation. just takes a lot of time, effort, confidence, and mental fortitude. so basically, it takes a fuck load to pull it off
/r/seduction07/02/20 07:01 AM
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Well, ik that I’m gonna at least try. Regardless of the results. Going out every week to approach will satisfy me. Even if I struggle a lot to open any sets
/r/seduction07/02/20 04:47 AM
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What choice do you have? Would you rather just die alone? No relationship, no kids? Literally the rest of your life as a single man
/r/seduction07/02/20 04:18 AM
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