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Lol, I understand exactly why, my lived experience threatens their blue pill safe space. I'm done with this place, waste of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 11:12 PM
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They removed it, it was reply to the daily
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:52 PM
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Recruiter reached out recently about working at a HFT. First message includes compensation at 1m$+ a year. I declined to respond, because I'm worth more. Let's see it mods, remove my post, is this ai generated or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:27 PM
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They can't be using a functional tool, it wasn't AI, it's my actual life, written by me. Lol, oh man, how embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:15 PM
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It's genuinely insane. I'd share my EIN as proof, if these mods weren't out to actually get me. No AI talks like me, I'm one of a kind. I guarantee it's a butthurt mod that is mad I can blow money on my girl and travel to places like Singapore. They can protect their safe space, while I live and win. My relationship, might be not wanted out of reality, but it's low-key satisfying seeing how mad these mods are about it, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 10:10 PM
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Lmao, mods censoring my posts, which are 100% real btw, as AI generated. Haters gonna hate, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:59 PM
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It's weird 'succeeding' with women now, but still listening to and knowing all the feminism/misandry/gender war related issues. On dates, I plan, pay, listen, appreciate her for just existing, and expect nothing in return. My startup is succeeding and I have enough money to accept massively unbalanced relationships. I don't care about equality or 50/50 anymore. In the relationship, she has no responsibilities, no accountability, nothing. She is supposedly smart and on paper accomplished, but I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 09:21 PM
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Simultaneously horrified and not surprised. https://np.reddit.com/r/WomenAreNotIntoMen/comments/1v3pc8v/they_dont_want_to_feed_little_boys_either/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:03 PM
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Another 1%er, oh my god? Well, I'm cool with standardizing genetic testing that includes paternity for all children. I make enough and pay enough in taxes that it seems reasonable and prudent to me, and I'll vote that way when it shows up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:49 PM
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Lmao, You post on here all day. I got friends family and a great life. PPD is like a zoo I like to watch from the outside. I shouldn't have commented, y'all are weird. Maybe you are just old or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:35 PM
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Do you really think you are normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:31 PM
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Why can purplepill reply to question for redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:29 PM
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Lol, whatever helps you sleep at night. They need to find a way to move all the people that think like you away from the normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:21 PM
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One more 1%er. God. Yes, tell me more about that One Guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:13 PM
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Another 1%er, smh. They can do other testing as well along with paternity and inform the parents of the results. The cost of testing is probably completely covered by the cost to support people with other genetic issues, that are identified.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:12 PM
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That's wild. What a selfish take. False paternity does exist, ~2%, of the time, but when a man questions paternity, it goes up to ~20%. So if a good man in a relationship does hypothetically want to confirm paternity, 1/5 of the time he is not the father. I standby what I said originally. Women that are unwilling to get tested are low quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:00 PM
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Right, so if he had asked, what would you have done?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:45 PM
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Were you asked to get a paternity test?*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:41 PM
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Were you asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:39 PM
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Can y'all stop being so weird? Especially the top 1%, go outside, talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:33 PM
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It should obviously be government mandated. I wonder about the quality, status, and reputation of the women that suggest anything otherwise and are unwilling to get tested.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:23 PM
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Proud to be an American man. Things aren't perfect, but men and women are more equal now than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:23 PM
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Guy working at Mcdonalds: "Yeah, I'd date my coworker." You: ^
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:28 AM
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Reddit today: Men that didn't watch Supergirl are misogynists. Fantastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:50 AM
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There is a lot of discourse about how "Men are the problem". If you want, I can find an article that relates 'any societal problem' and how 'men' caused it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:43 PM
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Men like me are not responsible, accountable, or take ownership of whatever women are up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 08:33 PM
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Lol, men are so done, they aren't even debating anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:53 PM
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Not really, all it's really doing is ostracizing you socially. Everyone else in here understands the social norms. You should act like the Blue Pill men here and 'betray' men. Say things like "Not all men, but always a man". Don't think too hard about things. if you learn about like forced conscription in ukraine/men dying or w/e, don't bring it up or think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:43 PM
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Women can't commit anything by definition. What are you not understanding? Why wouldn't we celebrate women, they deserve to be celebrated. Stop trying to make words mean things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:34 PM
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LOL, No you can't. The words you are using to type this out only make sense to communicate within society. If you want to participate in society, you have to use words correctly, which means not being able to flip the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:18 PM
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No, Misandry is not more prevalent. They really really hate men. Sure some men who are hurt by women will hate them, but misandry is enforced by women. If you are not a misandrist, you are called pick me. Women blatantly project hatred towards men to the point of dehumainzing them. Not really, Society can change the definition of words through social messaging. So they can say define "Women" as the class as being unable to "hate" the class of people defined as "men", which means your argument is…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:00 PM
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I write smut for women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:49 PM
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Doesn't really matter what others think. At the end of the day, you get to decide if you want to be pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:03 PM
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For me, it's okay if we have different understandings of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:59 PM
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gg
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:57 PM
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That's okay!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:53 PM
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As long as they are making it work, they are doing a good enough job. It will get easier with time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:48 PM
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In ecology, fertility and reproductive are markers of population health. I don't really care to argue with you about this. We have different definitions. If we can't agree on definitions, whats the point debating, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:47 PM
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I think it's much much better to consider the men and women in secular, equal, and high access to contraceptive locations, that don't want kids to be psychologically unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:43 PM
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No, I'm saying: People that don't want kids in the most equal society we have ever had are psychologically unwell and its good they aren't having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:41 PM
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It's fine dude, it works both ways. The women that never want kids, under any condition, are also getting selected out. It's really nbd.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:38 PM
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Let's just agree to disagree. I think any population of animals that can't pass on their genes is definitionally unhealthy. You think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:37 PM
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Ah! The person who holds the exact opposite view as me! Or, having kids is bad for your physical and psychological well-being, and people with greater autonomy choose to opt out of harming themselves. I disagree! Having kids is psychologically healthy!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:29 PM
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That's a surprisingly binary view of poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:25 PM
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they do need fixing, meds, therapy, whatever. If the person is able to fix things on their own, then they are sufficiently healthy. I just wouldn't advocate for society to 'fix them'. Like, rounding up suicidal people to make them not suicidal is not a reasonable long term strategy for a population. Better if they are able to solve their own problems. People that don't want kids, are like suicidal people that don't want treatment. It's unethical to make them do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:22 PM
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Yes, that has been happening. Global inequality is also reducing with time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:15 PM
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Exactly, the current state of equality is selecting out psychologically unhealthy men and women that are unable to be happy in the most equal society that has ever existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:14 PM
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I don't think being psychologically unhealthy is shameful. For instance, I don't think it makes sense to shame suicidal people. They have a psychological issue that prevents them from being healthy. It's not in their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:10 PM
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This is unhealthy from a population perspective, because it requires a difference in two populations to promote an increase in birth rate. I do agree that it would work, but again, it would only be temporary, until the differences in the populations normalize. After which, women won't move between populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:05 PM
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Healthy animals pass on their genes. Psychologically unhealthy animals are animals whose brain is acting in a way that stops them from passing on their genes. For instance, a suicidal animal is psychologically unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:02 PM
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So, he doesn't provide for you? You act however you want, does that mean you want a man without needs. He respects you as you are. —- You have a magic wand. You can create a guy that wants to do x,y,z for you and wants a,b,c, from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:59 PM
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I'm trying to understand your emotions. I'm assuming you feel more than one thing at a time about it, but i would love to break it down if possible. However, I felt guilty as fuck cuz I never loved, or really cared about them except for being a human being. You felt some guilt for portraying yourself inauthentically, like GFE without literally being his girlfriend. Its just part of the industry, that the women are being paid to preform your fantasy and ignore all of her needs "all" of your needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 07:45 PM
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The regular posters here don't date and don't know what is real. - you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 11:48 PM
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I'm done with PPD. There is no paradox for me anymore. Red pill is about what is true, Blue pill is about social acceptance, and everything else is either on the dimension of truth and/or social acceptance. The tinder experiment is reality and PPD is unwilling to accept it. The regular posters here don't date and don't know what is real. This deleted comment on that post is correct. I think if there was ever a time for the guys on PPD to get off here and find somewhere else to go where they can …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 11:11 PM
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Oh... The original got removed. Of course, it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:47 PM
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Does anyone have a link to the PPD experiment with the guy creating a woman account and getting 8 matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:39 PM
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https://youtu.be/ae4JmMbu9oo?t=227
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:46 PM
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Dude, you aren't playing! You aren't in the game! I'm playing, you are shouting from the bleachers. Do you get it? Do you understand where you are right now? You have 0 personal experience with modern dating. Do you understand that? When is that going to get through to your brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:38 PM
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I know I know “buuuut muh tinderrrrr statsssss!” In the year of our Hinge 2026, You are so cringe. Unironically an unc. Seriously, have you ever swiped on hinge or tinder? Have you ever got a dirty snap? You are honestly embarrassing. "Our Hinge" yeah, ok boomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:30 PM
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Good shit dude! You got this!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:54 PM
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How long has it been for you? 20+ years? How dated is your perspective? Let us know!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:52 PM
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When was the last time you went on a first date? Seriously, why do you think anyone should listen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:37 PM
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Ah yes, the easiest person to ragebait on PPD has arrived. What's it like for you to actively participate in a forum, that is 100% based on labels from that movie, and then disparage those labels from that movie? You are somehow 0 on both social acceptance and truth. It's like you are stuck in the "Just be yourself" era of Blue Pill, without realizing the world has changed around you. How old are you again?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:26 PM
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I've figured out PPD. Red pill is about what is true. Blue pill is about what is socially acceptable. They are on different dimensions, like color vs intensity. The idea that you have to pick between one or the other is the lie. It used to be that saying "I find strong men attractive" was socially unacceptable, but now it is completely acceptable. Then: Blue pill was against it, Red pill was for it. Now: Blue pill is for it, Red pill is for it. I think I can categorize most dating/relationship s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 08:15 PM
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Yeah, idc anymore, good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:59 PM
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I've cited a book and the RP subreddit, and you are coming back to me with random individual men that have a RP flair. okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:54 PM
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Lowkey, I feel bad for you. You sound so intellectually insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:40 PM
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You are objectively wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:34 PM
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80% of success is showing up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:27 PM
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"Jokes, chads, and popular kids" perform for social acceptance, which is very agreeable and conscientious, making them nicer. You still need to be hot/attractive/loyal and treat her preferentially, but being a class clown shows "good" social traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:21 PM
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- me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:17 PM
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????? That's exactly what red pill says. what is happening right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:16 PM
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That's the exact red pill talking point. It's like you are reading from that subreddit right now. To be entitled means having a right to something (like a benefit or privilege) or, more commonly in modern use (especially "self-entitled"), feeling you deserve special treatment or rewards without earning them, expecting things to go your way, and getting upset when they don't - Axis You have zero innate value after you are born. You have to work for your success in life. Successful people believe …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:14 PM
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It's not entitlement to want something. I can want a ferrari, but I don't feel entitled to it. Stating a need is not entitlement. Like if i want children, I want to date a women that can have children/is fertile. I'm not entitled to fertility, but I will only date women that can have kids. It's a need, It's not entitlement. I don't feel entitled to it. I'm asking for it. What is going on right now? Do you understand the difference between "Stating a (sexual) need" vs "Feeling entitled to somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:08 PM
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This is also another Red Pill talking point. If you search porn in the RP subreddit, this is almost exactly the same perspective. In the book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy", there is a chapter on limiting porn
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 07:03 PM
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You are here because you are a feminized boy. You think you are entitled to happiness, success, wealth and sex. Red pill is the opposite. They don't think men are entitled to anything, not just sex, but also happiness, success, and wealth. What is going on right now? Where are you coming up with this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:58 PM
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One of the biggest parts of Red Pill is "You are entitled to nothing."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:52 PM
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Okay, so like calling someone cringe doesn't mean they are wrong. You just think they should be shamed socially right? Because talking about porn preference/sexual preference is like historically 100% a Red Pill talking point. It's just cringe when Red pillers do it? because they are saying it when it isn't socially accepted? whereas now, it feels more socially acceptable to you, since you did it in your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:47 PM
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Why though? What’s wrong with the other pills? Is it because they don’t work or because they aren’t socially accepted?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:41 PM
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Is this blue pill or red pill? I remember this forum 10 years ago, talking about past preference, porn preference, or dating a guy that watches porn was all bad news, from the blue pill perspective. Red pill was indifferent, because if it works it’s red pill. It feels like Red Pill just liberally explores dating/relationships based on what works, and blue pillars pearl clutch holding onto what is socially acceptable. Is it possible that red pill and blue pill are measuring things on different di…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:34 PM
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What does your tag “retired promiscuous woman” mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:39 PM
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So true! But it’s also okay to have needs. If your girls disrespects you when you state your needs though, “find someone who will” All of that just turns into, hey have options, just in case. Women do it too, I’ll link a study if anyone is interested. Backup boyfriends, preselection, etc. Just copy and paste the female strats, you got this!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:41 PM
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Sigh… no one replies when people xpost fauxmoi, fds, 4b. Good for Tatum, star of magic mike, live your best life dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:36 PM
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Democrats are too anti-male and anti-merit for me to vote or support them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:57 PM
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4B is nice Women self select themselves out if they aren’t interested in dating, marriage, sex, or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:03 PM
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But Christmas is this year
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:00 AM
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Sounds about right, HeForShe in 2014 was when I first noticed it. I doubt social media bans will change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:40 PM
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Women will vote for a society that supports them, “loving them even if they were a worm”, and distance themselves from anyone that threatens that support, “choosing the bear over the needs of men”. We just need to outlast this generation of female voters, because those “girl failures” will 4B themselves out of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:02 PM
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Men too. It’s on purpose, being vague means they don’t have to face reality. They get to play make believe within their constructed reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:41 PM
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How much would you bet that they were honest and acted asexual from the start of the relationship? 50/50 odds? 1/10 she lied? 9/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:37 PM
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Do you think it’s possible the woman lied?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:22 PM
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Ah shucks, I guess society is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:16 PM
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👋
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:12 PM
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Suck at dating Are a bully Like to bully the bullies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:05 PM
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I have seen it. Most of the adults I know discuss politics + business.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:00 PM
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Many don’t, I imagine most stop caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:58 PM
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Why would I summarize?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:56 PM
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Why are you incorrectly summarizing what I posted? Is it on purpose or is it a mental issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:46 PM
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Holy, based
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:40 PM
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Social media post from the top 1%s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:39 PM
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Stay safe, stay legal, have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:35 PM
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It’s because they identify as unsuccessful and they can’t imagine why someone would post in this forum, if they are successful. They don’t realize that some of the 1% posters are sociopaths that want gloat about how little empathy they need to show now that they have won, that they are insecure that their daughters might be taken advantage of within the weirdo culture they have created, that they are trying to rationalize how to settle for short poor men, that they overall feel insecure about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:30 PM
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Fantabulous
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 04:10 PM
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She has a need, that is normal, but she wants to be special, so she doesn't want to call it a date for one reason or the other. He indulges her in that delusion, which she appreciates. Its like the "would you love me if I was a worm?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:20 PM
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Nah, women settle for a lot less. For instance, prostitutes settle for just money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:00 PM
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lots of women enjoy guys that are more supportive than honest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:51 PM
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Yeah, most advocacy groups do that. UAW was for "Manufacturing in the US" but suppressed Electric Car manufacturing and subsidizes in the US. It's an advocacy group, despite anything anyone might say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 07:05 PM
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What is gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:40 PM
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Probably not horny, just excited to see some boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:19 PM
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It’s the women are wonderful effect!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:14 PM
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I don’t support delusional women. Anyway, I’m 5’11”, don’t really care about this other than laughing at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:12 PM
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It’s a female advocacy group, not a morality club.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:09 PM
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Instead of being weird about this, you could just drop your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:02 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:49 PM
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I don't really care what you do. I just like watching women aim for 1st, settle for 2nd, then say they liked 2nd all along and that they didn't even want 1st. It's like when men ask out a girl, get rejected, and then say, she wasn't hot anyway. It's funny, the weird fragile ego logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:48 PM
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Do you think muslim women get 72 male virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:45 PM
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Aw shucks! You are right, getting interrogated for 4 hours as a 19 year old is totally fetch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:31 PM
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When you get SA'd as a girl, but get married later. "See! Men are completely fine!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:26 PM
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Scientifically, attraction is not a choice. However, many women lie about what they are attracted to, stated vs revealed preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:15 PM
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Nothing better than coffee and ragebait in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:01 PM
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No research links and they remove posts where people literally test RP theories IRL. lol, I just come here to laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:58 PM
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Ah! You are totally right, I should listen to you personally, rather than a massive meta study of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:39 PM
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They aren’t happy, so they want others to be unhappy. I like revealing that. It’s fun
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:05 PM
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lol, when you accidentally get caught supporting red pill, mald_and_meek
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:03 PM
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The study shows that, on average, men who are 5 feet 6 inches need to make an additional $175,000 annually to be as desirable as men who are almost 6 feet. The number increases with shorter heights, with men who are 5 feet, for example, needing to make an additional $317,000 in income.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:01 PM
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The majority of PPD regulars are here to get validation for their life choices. They want to talk about how they have their cake and have eaten it too. That’s not possible though, so they it’s post here and try to come up with rationalizations or justifications to ignore the cognitive dissonance in their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:58 PM
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“Trust me bro, it’s definitely true, it’s 100% not that I am a tall woman and I feel insecure about dating a shorter guy and I’m definitely not here on PPD to change society so that I can feel comfortable having short children”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:50 PM
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Do you think Charlie, the girl, is blue or red pill? What type of behavior is she critical of from Andrew? Blue or red behavior? Which person are you supporting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:46 PM
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You nailed it. They get off on bad faith debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:11 PM
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This took like two seconds https://youtube.com/shorts/hndV93sMFBk You support Charlie, the girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:45 PM
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Can’t decide between Harem-maxing or Haram-maxing in 2026
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:31 PM
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Is this sarcastic? Or do you really not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:18 PM
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Yes skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:06 PM
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Just from talking to my female friends and sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:52 PM
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Nah, both look great
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:49 PM
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It’s going to sound stupid, but if you get your hopes and dreams crushed, you can always make new hopes and dreams. It sucks to have to go through that, but if you keep learning, things get much much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:40 PM
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lol, me when I listen to Forever - Chris Brown
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:37 PM
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Nothing better than coffee in the morning and ragebaiting old geezers on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:36 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:21 PM
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People like that clearly have issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 04:17 PM
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It sounds like you read this or were told this. The gen z women I know are very anxious, often on SSRIs, and are incapable of trusting men. How confident are you? Out of 100?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:58 PM
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Ah, you don’t want to date as a gen z woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:50 PM
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I wonder if gen z women are upset with millennial women for nuking dating
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 03:38 PM
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It's their social programming. They think that if they ask for anything from women, that the women won't sleep with them. So they say it's okay to be anything/anyone. I like paratha, I'm sure your future husband will like it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:01 AM
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hbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:00 AM
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Alice Eve, Candice Patton, and Julia Louis-Dreyfus
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:54 AM
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Male feminists don’t like women choosing to be trad wifes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:49 AM
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I lowkey feel bad for normies, they are so paralyzed by social conventions, they never really get to live. I bet half the people here, like me are really out there, I bet the other half wishes they could be out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:33 AM
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No problem dude! Stay safe! Follow the laws! Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:26 AM
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It’s getting too boring, I should start a harem. Do you have a nye resolution?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:24 AM
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It’s like a social tariff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:22 AM
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Are you calling OP a racist old geezer? Do you think men shouldn’t have standards while dating? Do you think adult women can consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:20 AM
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PPD really does have a crabs in a bucket problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:17 AM
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Another one! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:14 AM
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There it is! Ahhh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:14 AM
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Ah no! Stop the free trade/globalization!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:07 AM
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Why are you mad? More American women for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:02 AM
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I like how you said “passport bro in training”, badass to identify the type of relationship you want and going for it in a legal safe way. I’m excited for the crabs to reach out and try to stifle your happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:49 PM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:27 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:25 PM
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Ran on grass this morning
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:23 PM
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I'm my mixed gender friend group, not one person voiced your opinion. If i said to a female blue pill friend, that I went on a date with a girl who said some "unhinged and insane" things and then told the same story, she would say, you have to give these women chances. Female in group bias is much much stronger IRL, than in these forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 06:27 PM
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I had a woman unprompted say that good men don’t have a preference for female appearance. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:04 PM
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I care and I don’t associate with people that don’t care or tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:47 PM
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I’ve had the exact same experience, faster 🚩 identification.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:59 PM
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The cost of being disagreeable to hypocrisy IRL without experience is too costly socially. These forums are echo chambers, but the real world is worse. Think about how odd it is that legal methods of getting sex exist, yet discussions about them can’t occur, while there are people getting real trauma from identifying as sexless. Online debate is like easy mode for IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:53 PM
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Does this logic apply to women that post about “Man v Bear”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:43 PM
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I disagree, I think it’s important to listen to online debate. I posted the other day that sexless men can get sex if they pay for it. That’s objectively true, undeniable, real. Witnessing the responses from both blue and red pill that attempted to shame or tone police was helpful to identify manipulative language. Keep in mind that these are the same people that don’t care that Hasanabi has visited potentially illegal brothels Listening to online debate is important. How else would it be possib…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:34 PM
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AITAH if I dont tell my husband his daughter isnt his?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:16 PM
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Slut Shaming still alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 09:26 PM
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For women, Is it more important that a man is honest or supportive? Would you love me if I was a worm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 09:04 PM
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https://www.amherst.edu/media/view/239672/original/Alexander+%26+Fisher+%282003%29.pdf Womens self-reported partner count differs based on whether they are hooked up to a polygraph or not. Mens does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:57 PM
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Overall, I feel like you kinda skipped past many controversial things, citing information related to your profession, rather than actually answering the question, if women lie more than men, why is that? What explains that difference? Is that biological? Is that societal…? Why? You never answered this question, unless your answer is that women don't lie more than men, because men and women are the same. In which case, your hypothesis is not supported by science. --- In my personal experience, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:10 PM
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Neurologically there are only small average differences in brain size proportional to body size, but no consistent or clinically meaningful sex differences in intelligence or general cognitive ability. Most traits show far more overlap than separation. Brain structures with men and women are similar, but there are differences, for instance, men and women on average will both have an amygdala, but there might be sex-related differences in the amygdala. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC415…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:09 PM
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My question was, if women lie more than men, why is that? What explains that difference? Is that biological? Is that societal…? Why? My direct answer was about "Concealed Ovulation", but I'm going to read and respond to everything you have posted. I'll have a more complete answer at the end. Sure, okay. I’m here in good faith. I’m a doctor btw (I work in public childcare health and children’s development from fertilisation until adulthood is kind of my medical specialty). So here’s what I know t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:09 PM
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I promise to answer after you do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:54 PM
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No, it’s really not a both sides issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:44 PM
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Women are so disappointing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:41 PM
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Are you asking me whether men and women have biological differences? Do you think men and women have biological differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:34 PM
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I’m completely open and honest in all my relationships. I don’t need to lie to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:31 PM
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Conversely, women also don’t need to hide it, but they always do. I’m sure that’s just an odd coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:13 PM
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Depends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:07 PM
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You are also allowed to be honest and transparent, aka the foundation of a trust based relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:59 PM
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When you are against transparency, you are against building healthy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:38 PM
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Another example of a women attempting to deceive men because they can’t bring more to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:38 PM
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When you are against transparency, you are against building healthy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:32 PM
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Who needs a study, when countries like France ban genetic testing to systemically discriminate against men attempting to establish paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:28 PM
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Lie by omission
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:24 PM
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This person is shaming people that want transparency. Why? Usually only manipulators and exploiters advocate for less transparency. Are you currently being manipulated? What feeling is being utilized to override your natural desire for transparency in your community.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:21 PM
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Two disappointments. 1. Yes, because she didn’t fuck him. 2. Because she withheld information The first is bad for a romantic relationship The second Is bad because you can never trust that person again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:11 PM
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When talking with women, on PPD or otherwise, you should ask, “does this person advocate for more transparency or less?” If the answer is less, they are likely currently engaged in social deception or shaming. The argument then is just asking someone who is deceiving you, “are you deceiving me?”, which they have no reason or benefit to answer truthfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:06 PM
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Women are designed to get investment from men. Sometimes it’s through deception, sometimes it’s through shaming, sometimes it’s by being upfront, sometimes it’s by competing against other women. Anytime a woman is doing anything other than having kids or taking care of children, she is likely engaged in this behavior. Her lying to him about her default behavior, is equivalent to a guy lying about commitment to girl he has fuckzoned. It’s the sign of an insecure woman that is incapable of pursuin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:02 PM
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My ex doesn’t deserve me No one deserves or is entitled to anything or anyone, I don’t think someone should suffer the agony of being in a relationship with me tbh. Why are you treating others badly? He posted himself strolling a festive event for Christmas and he looked happy I'm happy he is happy. If he truly loved me he wouldn’t be happy without me, Love is a personal choice to want to reciprocally fulfill the desires of each other, It's not the feeling of being incomplete without someone els…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:21 PM
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Flair change time or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:10 PM
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Yes, It isn't an absolute representation, but we don't live in an "absolute" society. You can pick and choose how you want to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 02:04 AM
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Having a personal definition of relationship doesn’t mean you can enforce it onto others
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:32 PM
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I may have ragebaited the men, instead of the women today.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:30 PM
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It doesn't have to be so ego driven. It could just be wanting sex and having money. You could make it about ego, but it doesn't have to be. You could make it entirely about ego as well. It's your choice, you get to decide what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:29 PM
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Literally no, many women aren't interested in money. As an example
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:23 PM
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That's their choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:21 PM
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Forget the blackjack too, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:21 PM
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If i prove you otherwise, by showing you laws, what are you going to do? Bitch and cry about something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:18 PM
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Yes! Exactly! I am not making a general statements that include specifics in relationships. I made a general statement about general relationship dynamics. Then, I made a specific statement about a specific type of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:15 PM
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Usually people only say ___less, when they are describing a need they want fulfilled. Asexual people are usually described as people that don't desire sex. While it's true that asexual people could be described as sexless, it would equivalent to describing a retired person as jobless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:06 PM
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Why frame it so passively and negatively? Literally just the reverse of your statement is. It's a good strategy, because you are capable of building attraction with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:02 PM
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Not sure why you downvote me just because my personal experience as someone who grew up in Germany doesn't align with your bar experience. This is like 99% of PPD. Lol, I'm sorry you have to go through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:00 PM
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True, This is the more general answer to the equation. For some men stuck in the mud though, I did want to solve the problem for the specific case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:59 PM
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Yeah, see that's the issue with your world view. Just because your girlfriend doesn't want money, doesn't mean all women don't want money. You took your girlfriend and superimposed her mindset onto all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:58 PM
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It is extreme and if you can't concede that, you are being disingenous. So your advice is to just go be a permanent sex tourist? Is literally the extreme version of, It's possible to travel to have sex legally. You are like a child saying, If you love it so much, why don't you marry it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:55 PM
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Not all people want a sugar relationship... Didn't we already have another post like this yesterday? I agree not all women want a sugar relationship. The women on those subreddits do though. That's who I'm talking about in the post. Why are you talking about all people?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:52 PM
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I think you are making a lot of assumptions that can just be cleared up by dating individuals and seeing what they want/what they don't want. All I'm saying is, If the lack of sex is an issue in your life, go ahead and talk to someone that wants to give you that experience for something you want to give as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:51 PM
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Aren't you guys always talking about women's past mattering? Not all men care, I don't care, for instance Why should that rule apply to women only then? OH! Right men are innocent angels and only expect the best for women lmao. Doesn't apply to me I guess. I think the black pill guy above, the one that doesn't want to pay might care a lot about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:48 PM
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You don't understand life. Last comment from me to you, probably forever. Not only are you wrong in your example, where women have to first choose to hookers and then post themselves, but also, there are websites where sugar babies can search for sugar daddies, flipping the choosing aspect of the dynamic you have created.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:41 PM
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lol, I have to laugh to keep from crying. It's honestly tragic comedy. I'm the kindest nicest most accepting guy and he is unable to just climb up the ladder that society has put in front of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:37 PM
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First of all, Are you mad at me? Why? Second, You mean, like a relationship? Do men not desire time, energy, attention from a partner? Yes, I said "In reality, It depends from person to person and relationship to relationship." The purpose of the post is to point out that a standard relationship type does exist in reality where a man can literally pay for sex with women. Third, to directly answer your question You mean, like a relationship? Do men not desire time, energy, attention from a partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:33 PM
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Why is it "Hire a hooker" where the man is making the decision, instead of "Choose women that choose to be hookers"? Why do you do that? Do you think women don't have any agency? So weird man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:27 PM
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I'm just going to call you out. You are arguing about a physical cup of coffee, rather than the service industry that surrounds the creation of coffee, to avoid debating about how natural of a conclusion it is, to consider that in a liberal society, men and women are capable of consensually engaging in a transactual sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:16 PM
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It doesn't have to be so abstract and top-down. You don't have to think in ideologies and then superimpose those thoughts and behaviors onto individuals within society to explain the world. It takes away from the primal emotions and thoughts that drive independent action within a society. It's much better to assess the individual best action within a society and then work from there. It's more human, natural, and results in better predictions of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:09 PM
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When feminists hit you with the "All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:05 PM
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They are not required, but they consented to make your coffee after you ordered coffee. No one is requiring anyone to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:02 PM
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Coffee is not always available. It's kinda fucked up that you are just blatantly dehumanizing the people that consented to work at starbucks to make coffee for you. You sound like someone that doesn't tip, isn't kind, and doesn't acknowledge service workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 07:02 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:58 PM
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TEA - Time, Energy, Attention, is what red pillers usually say, In reality, It depends from person to person and relationship to relationship. --- The more direct answer to What sort of investments are you referring to besides money then? Whatever the woman says she is looking for. Sometimes that is money, sometimes its TEA, sometimes its a BF to post instragram photos with, it changes depending on the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:54 PM
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If you like coffee, does that mean you should drink coffee every day for the rest of your life? Straight up, I'm not trying to be a debate bro here, but most of your arguments involve taking what I have said and "appealing to its extreme". If X is true, then Y must also be true (where Y is the extreme of X). Why are you doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:50 PM
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I would say this "Women are the most happy when men invest in them". It doesn't have to be money, but it CAN be money for some women. It's much easier for me to prove the opposite, which is that I have never met a woman happy with a man, that doesn't invest in her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:46 PM
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So like, in your world, if a restaurant doesn't give you a free meal, you should feel horrible?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:44 PM
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A lot of decently attractive guys will probably choose to bang a below average woman who’s clearly attracted to him over an attractive escort. Prostitution, especially if it’s illegal, feels “icky” to some men in the same way casual sex feels icky to some women. That's because they aren't looking for sex, they are looking for validation. That's why it's easier for them to get validation from "below average woman", who are grateful they are getting attention from a high value man. It's not "icky"…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:43 PM
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Oh, I'm not making a statement like "All women are Sugar Babies", but more "Some women are sugar babies" I'm just saying they exist, the same as I mean "Some people make coffee at starbucks"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:36 PM
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That's like saying I'm a hungry man, because I choose not to eat. Hungry is just a temporary state, its not a definition of you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:33 PM
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Just remember if you pay once, that is all you will likely be to that woman from then on. I'm not against men who pay or sex work, but men who act like it solves a probem for them are in for a surprise. Why should someones past affect their future relationships? Also, stop watching Myron, he just got his first girlfriend last year and already lost her to a roller blader, they also never had sex. He is not who he pretends to be. I like watching Myron. It is funny how lost and confused he is. He t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:32 PM
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lol, Are you under the impression that the women posting for advice on other subreddits on how to get a Sugar Daddy are doing so without consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:28 PM
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I don't advocate for doing anything illegal ever. You can always travel to where it is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:26 PM
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Just because you aren't drinking coffee right now, doesn't mean starbucks isn't open.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:25 PM
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You can travel to where it's strictly legal. You wouldn't say this about women posting on that sub. This isn't a response to the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:19 PM
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But aren't men are stronger and better
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 06:08 PM
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Nothing makes my Tuesday mornings better than coffee and ragebaiting the PMSing women on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:37 PM
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if you don't have empathy for men, idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:00 PM
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How long after sex, did you wait to open PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:38 PM
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Were you responding to my messages earlier while fucking him? Weird, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:35 PM
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You got an amazing husband, and you want to spend time debating incels about the friendzone online? Spend some more time with him!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:31 PM
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That's it? You got the whole day, don't let PPD stop you from pleasing your man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:27 PM
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You are mad, because you aren't pregnant, and you are taking it out on Incel men, by telling them to get good enough to get you pregnant. You think you have to be all this "Do something productive / Go to work " - You You attract what you are so Good, I might meet an empathetic woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:21 PM
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Why aren't you fucking your husband? It's a happy cozy sunday morning for you right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:19 PM
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No research either, It’s a clown show
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:56 PM
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If I have to be taller, richer, more clouted, stronger, smarter and better than every woman I date AND I’m somehow not the prize? I have to give them time, energy, attention, and money? then I think pms’ing is just divine justice, If women have no empathy for men, then I have no empathy for women. We can either laugh together or cry together,
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:41 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:39 PM
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What’s the issue with this type of picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:23 PM
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It’s not complicated. For narcissistic women, men stating any preference is an ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:22 PM
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I’m just laughing. OP is so narcissistic, she is mad after expecting all the fishermen to provide her with the highest quality bait catered to her, so she can pick and choose. Heaven forbid the men are trying to catch other better fish
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:16 PM
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Date whoever you want but declaring your preferences to a date is cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:54 PM
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When telling men to "go get a hobby" is your hobby, you actually need to go get a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:53 PM
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is that you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:39 PM
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so true, queen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:28 PM
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oh I just copy-paste, replied that comment to every woman that replied
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:22 PM
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I agree, They should make a profile curated for you. They should really be showing some level of attention towards what you specifically like.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:21 PM
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Nothing makes my Sunday mornings better than coffee and ragebaiting the PMSing women on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:19 PM
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I like the irony, I've realized most of the women here post more about once a week every month. Pretty interesting, makes this subreddit make a lot more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:17 PM
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Yeah walk off those calories
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:16 PM
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Wow, So tall hot rich high-status guy that is generous with money, time, energy, and attention. That's a pretty unique taste. I can see why men have a hard time making a profile curated for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:15 PM
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Wow, So tall hot rich high-status guy that is generous with money, time, energy, and attention. That's a pretty unique taste. I can see why men have a hard time making a profile curated for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:15 PM
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Wow, So tall hot rich high-status guy that is generous with money, time, energy, and attention. That's a pretty unique taste. I can see why men have a hard time making a profile curated for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:15 PM
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- No Promoting Research Links or Subreddits Similar To Purple Pill Debate lol, It's all just social signalling masturbation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:06 PM
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ITT: Why don't men make their dating profiles about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:04 PM
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lol, what do you want in a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:56 PM
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Why not? It's anonymous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:55 PM
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What day in your cycle are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:46 PM
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When did you decide that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:45 PM
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Whats the purpose?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:43 PM
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I've read the book, non violent communication
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:17 PM
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I think you should break it down line by line. Ask is the guy fulfilling a need or stating/implying a need? If you go through it like that, I bet every “shamed” line is one where the guy states a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:24 PM
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So do you report posts like this as well? https://np.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/hcij7y/aita_for_leading_guys_on_to_demonstrate_my_value/ https://np.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/b32m8b/aita_for_leading_a_guy_on/ Keep in mind, this is a debate sub, where people discuss ideas. In the above posts, women have already acted in this way on purpose. What do you think about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 07:11 PM
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lol, then why are they running?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:15 AM
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so true, there is more to life than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:14 AM
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lol, you didn't even answer the question? and do you really think I sound anything like those guys? Those guys are stupid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:57 AM
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They are the ones running after the ice cream truck
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:45 AM
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lol, I’m not any of those
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:39 AM
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Nah, I’m just not going to catch them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:38 AM
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I’m not TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:31 AM
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lol, it feels a bit more like women tripping into their own shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:27 AM
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I mean, I’m not responsible for what women think
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:22 AM
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Hey, maybe women should stop relationshipzoning me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:12 AM
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It’s not my fault if they choose to be lead on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:41 AM
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Learning <3
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:38 AM
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Report me, I’ll speak with lawyers if it comes down to it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:23 AM
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🤣 lol, answer my question first
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:21 AM
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Hold on… lol, do you think Schindler was centering the Nazis?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:11 AM
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Oh well!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:04 AM
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<3 love of the game
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:03 AM
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Because I advocate against breaking any laws, and following the rules? I don’t advocate harming anyone? Lol, there are no social laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 02:02 AM
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I’m reading about that rn, apparently women already have a term for it “vampire men”, because they suck the fertile years out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:56 AM
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If they make laws against thoughts/debates, that will be amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:46 AM
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Oh interesting, you are saying I could go for married women. I hadn't even considered that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:27 AM
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Lol, it's going to be so easy. Is your hubby still impotent?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:18 AM
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Lol, if you treat men worse than animals they'll act like them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:14 AM
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Lol, I got one life, I'm not spending it as a slave. There are no alpha males in the pillosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:07 AM
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Amputation is the solution
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:03 AM
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I'm here to discuss sabotage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:02 AM
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Maybe, check out mensrights and leftwingmaleadvocates for legal biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:01 AM
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Center the laws, not the relationship. That's like saying Schindler centered the Nazis by sabotaging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:51 AM
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Lol, sure thing, When you get a chance let me know what the leftwingmaleadvocates did wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:49 AM
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Exactly, you work with women, nothing changes, you work against women, nothing changes. That's why sabotage is the only option. Destroy things, until things change
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:47 AM
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Lol, watch me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:43 AM
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Prove me wrong, change the laws
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:42 AM
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Yup, love of the sport. Volunteering + donations, but way less than others. Check out leftwingmaleadvocates for the real failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:33 AM
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I already that in the past, doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:29 AM
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Does it really matter? if the systems haven't changed, Sabotage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:27 AM
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You should say that to Oskar Schindler. Don't punish the Nazis by failing to utilize slaves!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:25 AM
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"I won't look at the evidence because" blah blah, cool cool, Sabotage :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:20 AM
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I'm not holding onto bitterness. I just know that doing more of the same continues to perpetuate the status quo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:16 AM
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Just because someone states reasons for their biases, it doesn't mean that those reasons are justified. If you ever want to work on your cognitive bias, you can't rely on reasonability, only evidence. How do you know that this isn't retrospective rationalization? What evidence or research do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:11 AM
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Nope, I have advocated for women politically, personally, professionally, but I don't really feel the same level of support back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:00 AM
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Yup! That's why until the laws change, sabotage is the only option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:58 PM
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You might be right! I'll post here if it's not like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:56 PM
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Do you think the mensrights way and the leftwingmaleadvocates way worked?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:55 PM
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Feminazi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:54 PM
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lol, Is there a reply I could say that would change your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:53 PM
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It's not, it's just women that don't advocate for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:50 PM
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That's okay, you can always get better at sabotage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:50 PM
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I've already locked in on the sabotage idea. So, idk, maybe someone will do something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:49 PM
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What else could be more meaningful than changing laws that would allow men and women to work together? Every study shows we are headed for population collapse. To say this is meaningless, I wonder what you think is meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:46 PM
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Can I find a sympathetic Nazi? Yes. Is that what you decided to narrow this down into?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:41 PM
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lol, until laws/society changes, I don't see any reason to believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:40 PM
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It's wild, but if you want it would take me two minutes to find evidence of Show me the feminists who are actively rising to power with the intention of committing a literal genocide. and that's not even the point. I don't even care about those women, and they 100% exist. No greater harm can come to men, than perpetuating the unfair system that systematically harms men. The effects of one man on himself are negligible compared to atrocities committed by the system every day to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:32 PM
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Yes, except they absolutely do push for those issues, if you want evidence, talk to any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:27 PM
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No! Don't separate, sabotage, it's way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:23 PM
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I did let go of the hurt, and when I look at life as it is right now, it's really really not great. I can't support a system that systematically drives men to suicide, self-harm, mental illness, etc, through policies that can be easily changed. I totally understand that women don't owe men anything, but the reverse is true as well. And if men can't be equal winners, then I am okay with being equal losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:21 PM
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When you change your mind, Sabotage will always be an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:11 PM
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I honestly think that it's much much easier to plan for and avoid false accusations and such, when you distrust women. I'll read "Unwanted Advances" for sure and I understand there is a risk, but I can't think of a different type of risk I would want to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:07 PM
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Atleast me. Who knows who wants to secretly follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:04 PM
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I 100% don't think its the same level. However, I know men that no longer exist due to the issues I have mentioned above, so I don't think they are incomparable. Also, you are absolutely right. Nothing here benefits those men. It's just a different strategy than, "Improve yourself" "Take your ball and go home". It's "Pop every ball"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:03 PM
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I used to! Has it changed anything at all? I put in my time advocating for and trying to do it the right way. I think you would be surprised by how much I have advocated for women both personally and professionally. I'm realizing now that helping women in this way, probably empowered the feminzais, and is probably partially what led to this mess in the first place. I don't really care if you are discouraged. You being encouraged has done nothing for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:00 PM
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Do you think we aren't in population suicide right now? The entire basis of your reality is fundamentally flawed. No group of people is replacing themselves, outside of people on welfare. Your whole world is built on a fundamentally biased view of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:58 PM
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I am planning accordingly. Of course, I'm not interested in doing anything illegal or anything even remotely related to that. I think there are more men than you might expect that resonate with what I am saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:55 PM
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Are you the good feminazi?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:52 PM
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I'm really not advocating violence. It's sabotage, completely different. It's really the opposite of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:51 PM
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Why would I want children? Imagine having a boy and talking them through all the systemic issues they will go through as a man. It's stupid. It will just perpetuate a culture of abuse over many generations of my own family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:49 PM
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I don't think so. Purposeful sabotage would absolutely affect more women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:48 PM
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Systemic bias will trickle down and affect you just as much as it affects me. The best personal protections can't stop the system from abusing you. What's your strategy for burning everything to the ground? Doing illegal things? What a stupid, ill thought out, self serving ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:36 PM
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I don't think you could guess anything about me, tbh. I honestly doubt you could conceptualize or empathize with anything I have to say. You are lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:29 PM
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I will!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:27 PM
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most men won’t go for this Idk, I genuinely don't feel empathy for women when they choose to enable systematic abuse. It's like saying, the jews will seek approval from the nazis. I don't buy it, sounds weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:26 PM
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yo, you still here? wild, don't you have to lift or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:24 PM
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I think i did feel bitter in the past, right now, I feel like I'm fighting for equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:22 PM
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genius some might say, some may might say something else, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:19 PM
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It is better to be alone, than being with someone who makes you feel alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:18 PM
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that's like trying to make the Nazi fall in love with you. well feminazi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:15 PM
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No! not 4B. Interact with women, just sabotage them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:14 PM
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At this point, it's not really a hypothesis whether men are being affected by systematic issues, these issues have been discussed by many many people in many many threads. Do you think Oskar Schindler was just in his sabotage to the perceived inequality he witnessed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:11 PM
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Not really, laws won't change as a result of the feminazis self-destructive tendencies. There needs to be a much much stronger reason to reform some of these systemic sexist policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:08 PM
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I thought this was my blog www.creedthoughts.gov.www/creedthoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:04 PM
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I will report back, after trying it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:03 PM
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The goal isn't to attract women, it's to destroy feminazis. If attracting women is the way to make that happen, that's a subgoal that needs to be accomplished towards the larger goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:02 PM
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Freedom to financially, socially, educationally abuse. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:00 PM
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What happened to lurking? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:58 PM
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Yes, definitely. It's pretty easy to get fit when you have proper food/diet, and its not too important for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:57 PM
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Post got removed, because women wanted to respond directly. Weird but okay. I wrote this as a "Question for men", so w/e
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:55 PM
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if you aren't worried, why are you commenting? Just ignore it and move on,
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:51 PM
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ahh!!! you got me! impressive deduction, /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:48 PM
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Get educated, or not, w/e, I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:45 PM
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lol, are you worried? chill out dude. everything will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:45 PM
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I think that has to do with a lot of gripes they hold onto as a part of trying to get a girlfriend. Trying to be understand, be accepted for who they are, etc. If they give up on those, it's pretty straightforward how to attract the largest number of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:43 PM
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Happy slave life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:41 PM
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Maybe, we will see.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:40 PM
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You can go to any of the male advocacy subreddits. Below are just some of the issues. Child support should have a cap and it should be paid by both parents, 50/50 custody by default. Paper abortion should be legal wherever abortion is legal. Assets shouldn't be split in a marriage, You own what you earned. Gender differences in incarceration rates for the same crime. In school, boys are graded lower than girls even when their standardized test scores are the same. Selective Service Workplace Fat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:40 PM
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I will! I'll report in regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:38 PM
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I disagree, I don't think it makes sense to be best <Looks, Money, Status> man to empower a system that disenfranchises you. It's like competing to be the best slave. Whats the point? Collateral damage isn't sexy, but I'm not trying to be sexy. The goal is to burn everyone involved. Honestly, Acting like a perfect man is really not that hard, just maximize LMS, while acting kind, caring, and interested with your partner. Plan events together, be attentive, etc. The bar is pretty low tbh, the iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:38 PM
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There is no winning in an unjust system.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:32 PM
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Kind of. If you become a passport bro, come back to the US, and she is relatively fine, your children will still end up living under these systemic problems. Unpopular opinion but this passport bro movement is westernizing women in other countries There are posts about this, so I think it might temporarily make sense to be a passport bro, long term, systemic issues are still going to be an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:31 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:26 PM
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Just the quoted section, so the men don't have to watch the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:16 PM
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It reminds me of the hinge scene in Schindler's List. The gun jams because the prisoners were purposefully sabotaging the guns. They do what they can to take as much power from their imprisonment as possible. Women want men to be perfect prisoners being perfect fathers, husbands, boyfriends, etc and what about the women? They can do no wrong? They are the table? As long as the laws remain the same, Sabotage is the only form of empowerment within this system. Men should act like perfect fathers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:52 PM
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Men pay the price in a society that is kind to only women and children. Child support should have a cap and it should be paid by both parents, 50/50 custody by default. Paper abortion should be legal wherever abortion is legal. Assets shouldn't be split in a marriage, You own what you earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:38 PM
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<image> Women ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:37 PM
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I like that thought. The capacity to hurt others by becoming so good that they want you, but they can't have you because of their own rules. If I could achieve that before I die, I will have a degree of solace. And my life will have had a modicum of meaning. I totally get this. It's like ironic justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:31 PM
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Wishing rn, ill make a plan soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:26 PM
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Perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:20 PM
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So true! But she will be thinking about me, when she is with him. I hope she is really lost and confused, that would be ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:50 PM
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Maybe one relationship per username, but I'll try harder to lead her on depending on how vile each of you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:40 PM
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I could be more specific! What race/age are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:13 PM
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I'm bored and a bit pissed, I can get matches. What would be the most devastating?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:01 PM
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Is it healthy if, Everytime I witness a woman acting misandrist here, I take a girl out to a nice restaurant, love bomb her, treat her like a princess, and then ghost her? Edit: M, 30, $300k/yr, 5’11”, 165lb, Indian,
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:50 PM
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Paper abortion should be legal wherever abortion is legal. No. In the United States, 9.7% of men and 8.4% of women experienced any RC by an intimate partner during their lifetime. Men reported more commonly than women that a partner tried to get pregnant when the man did not want her to; women reported higher prevalence of partner condom refusal. This is how you get baby trapping. It's fucked up to even suggest paper abortion shouldn't be legal. Why create a child that has a father that doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:35 PM
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Prenups don't apply to child support. Reproductive Coercion is a thing. True, but some women lie. Absolutely, I love children. Liars exist, get over it, fix the laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:24 PM
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Yeah, its part of the self-victimization complex some women have. They self-sabotage, don't take responsibility, and expect society to pick up the slack for their mistakes. You just can't associate with women like that. Leave them behind, move forward in life, and make laws that stop that type of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:15 PM
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Yes! It's so trivially obvious, yet culturally and socially taboo. I don't see democrats or republicans talking about these issues. Yet, they are foundational to the continuation of the union. Literally, as a society we are fucked. Men can't enter into relationships confidently and it is breaking capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:08 PM
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Yes, the deception. You are absolutely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:06 PM
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You are right. Men pay the price in a society that is kind to only women and children. Child support should have a cap and it should be paid by both parents, 50/50 custody by default. Paper abortion should be legal wherever abortion is legal. Assets shouldn't be split in a marriage, You own what you earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:00 PM
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Fun fact: In the United States, 9.7% of men and 8.4% of women experienced any RC by an intimate partner during their lifetime. Men reported more commonly than women that a partner tried to get pregnant when the man did not want her to; women reported higher prevalence of partner condom refusal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:52 PM
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Accounting is much easier problem than reproductive coercion. In the United States, 9.7% of men and 8.4% of women experienced any RC by an intimate partner during their lifetime. Men reported more commonly than women that a partner tried to get pregnant when the man did not want her to; women reported higher prevalence of partner condom refusal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:51 PM
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Do you deserve an answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:34 PM
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Child support should have a cap and it should be paid by both parents, 50/50 custody by default. Paper abortion should be legal wherever abortion is legal. Assets shouldn't be split in a marriage, You own what you earned. These laws are all gender neutral and fair. Do you support them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:32 PM
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There it is! AGAIN! When women get raped or abused, We can create laws for that. But when men get abused. No! They have to learn! Maybe they are just clueless and stupid! Imagine if you were advocating for anti-rape laws and I said "If women feel ill equipped to properly vet for rapists, or if you feel such a relationship is impossible, than I think the solution is not to enter into committed relationships." I give up, you are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:28 PM
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Things will find a happy balance. Christian nationalism will die sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:05 PM
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So you concede that it doesn't make sense to force people to marry within their tax bracket isn't a good solution? If so, what solution would you propose? That prevents both men and women from being financially abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:02 PM
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True, I have always identify as a Liberal, not a leftist. Weird to be voting Republican in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:32 PM
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wow, you are so cool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:30 PM
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You think transactional relationships are gross, and your solution is to force people to date such that the transaction is equal? Why not remove the transaction element entirely? Instead of forcing people to enter into relationships based on money? You think I should be forced to date women making $300k+/year?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:29 PM
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Isn't this the same logic Pro-lifers use for abortions? Why do you need an abortion? Why not just be more responsible?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:21 PM
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You may not be a gold digger, but gold diggers exist. They lie about what they are like to get what they want, and when they enter a financial agreement, they abuse it to the best of their ability. OP is clearly calling out the laws that allow women to act this way Socially and legally women aren't held to account for breaking their commitment to a man Why aren't you supportive of changes in laws that would prevent men from being financially abused? You are providing cover for all the bad acting…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:14 PM
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Did you read what I wrote before responding, or just regurgitate what was most prevalent in your mind related to these issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:12 PM
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You don't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:09 PM
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Yes, they are, because of my occupation, I get many marriage proposals from family. No, I already know you wouldn't act that way. Why are you defending the women that would financially abuse men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:08 PM
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Yes, some beg for commitment for financial reasons. Not all women are like you. Why are you defending women that knowingly abuse men financially?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:02 PM
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Learned from their experience here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:52 PM
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You are right. Men pay the price in a society that is kind to only women and children. Child support should have a cap and it should be paid by both parents. Paper abortion should be legal. Assets shouldn't be split in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:47 PM
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You are right. Men pay the price in a society that is kind to only women and children. Child support should have a cap and it should be paid by both parents. Paper abortion should be legal. Assets shouldn't be split in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:45 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:32 PM
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The best part about ppd has been witnessing the slow changes that have occurred to people. Some people have definitely learned and moved on, others not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:15 PM
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Saying that a strange man is alone in the woods with a woman is less predictable to that woman than a wild animal is truth. I’m sorry you’re just now realizing men are more cerebral (deviant or otherwise) than the standard issue wild animal. If that’s misandry so be it. There’s been worst things said and done to women by men. That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I di…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 08:10 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:08 PM
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No it isn’t, I am agreeing with you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:40 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:38 PM
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Probably right, but I wasn’t successful until recently and women weren’t interested back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:36 PM
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They are just girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:20 PM
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I didn’t want her to have to work if she didn’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:06 PM
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Because I’m stupid, probably too many Bollywood/hollywood movies tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:04 PM
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College, friends, friends of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:04 PM
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I used to be so blue pilled, but disappointment after disappointment in women have really shifted my mentality. I always wanted to have a wife and kids. I protect/provide, she nurtures. I spent so much of my life trying to be the man that could earn enough, be empathetic enough, and be helpful enough to make it work. In return, she, whoever she is, would be respectful and nice. The amount of women Ive met that don’t want to be nurturing, respectful, or even just nice to their partners is honestl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:53 PM
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100% sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:05 PM
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Lowkey true! I like to show appreciation for Women, that I like, that choose to like me. You? I don't like you. I don't want you to like me. Why would I pay for you? 🤢 Honestly, weird to even suggest it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:56 PM
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Might be helpful for the woman, especially during the end of the luteal phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:39 PM
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100%, More truth is always better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:38 PM
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ew, why would I pay you? 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:35 PM
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Top 1% Commenter, should be Top 1% Gaslighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:27 PM
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Every time you post here hiding the truth, you are participating in some weird fetish roleplay as an average woman in an average relationship. You might be enjoying yourself, but you are harmful to everyone around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:22 PM
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Flairs for men should include, [age,height,weight,income,race,medication] Flairs for women should include, [age,height,weight,income,race,medication, time of the month] If you have a partner, their stats should be included in your flair, [age,height,weight,income,race,medication]
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:08 PM
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I don't know how to explain this to you. I am 100% uninterested in talking shit about you or your husband. I'm only interested in helping the loser men here figure out how to function within society. When you are making statements about something like about your husband being uninterested in other women, without disclosing that he is taking medication that suppresses his libido, you are misleading everyone. I wish I could make a poll in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:05 PM
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Are you a flower or a weed? cause you aren't sounding like a flower.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:04 PM
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Some people are weeds that need to be cut down to make the garden healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:58 PM
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Nah, you have a problem. You absolutely generalize. This comment for instance by itself Men who are actually successful with women also give up being with other women when they settle down 🤷🏻‍♀️ VS. if you gave you real background. My husband and I got married in 2008. He has BPD and one of the drugs he takes suppresses his libido. We are the only people in my friend group that don't have kids. Men who are actually successful with women also give up being with other women when they settle down 🤷…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:52 PM
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It's not advice, it's weird statements about reality. You are stating your personal relationship dynamics as if they are the standard social norms present in society. Your husband doesn't have a libido. Some women might not always be in the mood for sex and find that as a part of their relationship, they have to figure out how to "WORK" to put themselves in the mood for sex for their husband. In return for that, they want to be treated well. They want to be a passenger princess and have their ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:40 PM
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I can/have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:39 PM
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Why are you gaslighting the incels in this forum? For your relationship to be average, every loser man here would need to take BPD meds to suppress their libido. That's not close to realistic. Men have libidos, they like sex. There is a natural balance for this in the dating market place, and your relationship is no where near that average. Why are you acting like your experience is anything close to typical? The first comment was 100% right. Why do women seem to treat this sub as though it were…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:20 PM
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.... Do you think your relationship is typical/average?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:11 PM
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No, I'm just realistic when it comes to relationships. Does he make more than you? Does he like sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:07 PM
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You not considering that work, doesn't make it not work. It just means, you don't label it as work in your own mind. Sometimes the work is made easier, by you wanting to do the work. Other times you don't want to do the work. You are never going to 100% want to do everything your partner wants you to do. That's why they say "love is work". It's an ongoing choice, a commitment towards satisfying each other. For the median man/woman, statistically, that choice/commitment starts with the man paying…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:58 PM
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Because you are both working to make the other person happy? Have you ever dated anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:51 PM
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lol, I run marathons. bitch pls
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:45 PM
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It's still sex work, You are just working for each other, for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:42 PM
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hot (enough that it doesn't matter how much he makes) or not. If he isn't spending money on you, he is out of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:37 PM
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Then you have probably just been fucking guys out of your league!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:34 PM
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lol, women desire men that want to give women money. Beta men give them money. Alpha men are a fun challenge, to make them give the woman money.(Can I fix him?) These men are idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:16 PM
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Chicken soup? For me? Wow. You are something else. Someone special like you deserves the best in the world. What more could a man ask for, than a woman like you? Here is my bank account information, feel free to have fun. - BookTok Protagonist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:13 PM
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Then they are just delusional about paying for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:05 PM
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LOL, Tell them to get a job and pay for a girl that looks better and treats them better that the shrew women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:03 PM
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If you can't pay, you need to leave. Would you like to try a Snickerdoodle Cookie Frosty Fusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:55 PM
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Maam, this is a Wendy's.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:43 PM
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On average, sex is paid. If it weren’t, free market prostitution would be completely balanced, but it isn’t. Male prostitutes exist, but there isn’t a large market for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:50 PM
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Does he make more than you? Does he like sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:44 PM
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Yes, that is correct, but it doesn’t happen on average
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:41 PM
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Are you asking like, is that possible, or is that likely? Like my regular coffee shop has given me free coffee once, so it’s definitely possible, but it’s not likely, atleast in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:32 PM
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Alas, I’ll have to find another woman that accepts me for my whorish ways, lol. I hope you find what you are looking for!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:29 PM
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independent women still like being treated
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:24 PM
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The store has other customers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:14 PM
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Why wouldn’t you want a man interested in sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:11 PM
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When I buy a coffee from a store, I have money and the store has money, but I still pay for the coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:10 PM
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Do what? Want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:09 PM
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No I agree, I’m just not surprised men want to pay less. I bet some naively hope to be accepted, just the way that they are. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:08 PM
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I’m not interested in lying. How is it gross? It’s the most natural thing a man could want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 04:05 PM
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In my experience, if you stop treating her, she stops being interested. I think it’s biological, women just like when men treat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:57 PM
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Because I’m Indian, it’s much much harder for me to get free casual sex. However short term dating and a hooker are pretty similar from my point of view. I message the girl, she vets me, we figure out logistics, and I pay for the experience. I’m also not really using women for sex. They are more than happy to participate in dating or being an hooker, otherwise, they wouldn’t participate. What’s your issue with men wanting sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:55 PM
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If you aren’t hot enough to get (free) casual sex, women are only interested in you as a wallet. At that point, all sex is paid. No difference between hookers and other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:42 PM
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Because they want to pay less for a date than a night with a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:27 PM
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When I’m elderly, I want to be just like you! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:22 PM
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Alzheimer’s must be tough at your age
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:09 PM
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doesn’t even try to deny it, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:02 PM
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It’s pro-social and good. Make sure to date a girl that wants to turn you on and gratify you as well, Otherwise it’s an unhealthy dynamic. Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:58 PM
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It’s genuinely surprising how Jasleen, by herself, validates such a large portion of Red Pill. It’s why men have to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:56 PM
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lol, you should post more often, 10 hours a day is rookie numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 02:54 PM
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"Back in my day, I walked downhill both ways"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:08 AM
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Yes, too many losers and simps here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 03:17 AM
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She is still young, she can get remarried
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:18 AM
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I think if she breaks up right now, 50% of the last 3 years would be enough to be independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:11 AM
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Check the flagrant2 subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:07 AM
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That is true, she isn’t truly financially free yet. They don’t have a prenup and I’m not sure at what point half of his income would result in financial freedom. I meant more that she doesn’t have to earn/think about money in her current relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:00 AM
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I agree, men are fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:28 PM
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What about this one? https://www.vogue.com/article/is-having-a-boyfriend-embarrassing-now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:24 PM
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YAAS QUEEN
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:21 PM
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Where are my Jasleen Singh posters?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:15 PM
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Don’t get too butthurt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:05 PM
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What about child rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:44 PM
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Exactly, why would you be?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:42 PM
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Are you upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:31 PM
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At 3k, it seems like you can just fly normal women out. To me brothels seem exploitative and noninclusive. I’m not really interested in ex porn stars. Go on one of the websites and try it out. Pretty sure they are legit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 04:17 PM
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How is your relationship now? Are you primarily providing for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:46 PM
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Oh, yes, you are right, I meant charge, not make, idk what the net profit is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:20 PM
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Idk what you are saying. These are market rates. I could pay and meet these women. I could set up a profile as a guy and charge my own rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:01 PM
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I can’t link websites that show rates. It’s not a statistical average, I’m just sorting by women within 30 miles. Edit: the lowest I see is 250, average is like 550, the highest is 1500 Edit2: the 1500 girl is basically a model, she looks flawless and from her profile seems grateful, agreeable, and easy-going. Edit3: to be clear, I don’t use this website, but I figure I should be able to pay ~$400 on hinge dates if that’s the market standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:49 PM
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Where I live in California, women make $400 at least, up to $1000, based on attraction & kink(GFE, massage), etc. I think there are plenty of women that are enthusiastically picking this option over dating. They can screen clients and choose how much they want to work, while maintaining other hobbies or professions. I think they consider it to be a better alternative to short term dating. To me picking a client that pays a $1000 seems really similar to looking for a guy that can plan a date, pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:42 PM
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Why does this read like criticism or a warning? Polygyny is natural and is beneficial to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:17 AM
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That's a basic problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:53 PM
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I think you are wrong. Males are more violent not just because they are more physical. Gun violence takes zero effort and it’s largely perpetrated by males. Males are more violent because they have a genetic or hormonal or evolutionary predisposition for violence that many of them have to fight to temper.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:46 PM
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You know how at the end of Scooby Doo cartoons the “scary monster” was usually some dude/sometimes a woman? It’s like that. The “scary bear,” aka “the monster,” is how a lot of people feel about “random stranger male stuck alone with away from others.” I’m not saying it’s right but enough people have had experiences when, for example, a male they trusted did something “scary” toward them when he thought he could get away with it hence the hypothetical “alone in the middle of the woods.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:41 PM
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For sure. Do you understand why to many “physically vulnerable people especially females” a stranger man alone in the secluded isolated woods elicits similar visceral parasympathetic responses to a bear alone in the secluded isolated woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:39 PM
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Do you understand why to many “physically vulnerable people especially females” a stranger man alone in the secluded isolated woods elicits similar visceral parasympathetic responses to a bear alone in the secluded isolated woods?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:38 PM
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You should have called the Popo on all those incels. You don't owe them anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:30 PM
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Thank god we removed Prince Charming from Snow White.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 05:46 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/iPZc06w.mp4
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:32 PM
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Why did Mackenzie Scott divorce Dan Jewett?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:35 PM
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Everyone talks about Lauren Sanchez, no one talks about Dan Jewett.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:12 PM
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Who is excited for the booty boys in 2028? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:21 AM
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Y'all are cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:00 AM
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No, the format of this paper wasn't to determine which factors affect lifetime partners, even though the data could be used for that purpose. They created distinct categories for masculinity and then mapped those categories onto SES and substance use. All of the variables are hidden within the categories they created. It's improper to create groups and then say the groups predict the variables that comprise of that group. Other studies show that only men in the highest and lowest SES and substan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 07:31 PM
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You are as bad as the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:24 PM
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Wow! You read it too! That's amazing. I got a different conclusion though. I agree that 'The primary difference between Sex Focused and Misogynistic, was that they don't do IPV(Intimate Partner Violence).' However, based on this study the highest overall correlation related to sex was substance abuse Substance Abused Problems: Normative: .42 Norm/Male Activities: .43 Misogynistic: .52 Sex Focused: .66 This study is likely saying that poor people have 'substance use leads to' more lifetime number…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:41 PM
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No one reads anymore We named the fourth group, the smallest identified at 4 % of the sample, Sex Focused. These men’s endorsement of traditional masculinity ideology and their hostility toward women were low to moderate, similar to those of the sample average. Committing IPV, using controlling behaviors with partners, or perpetrating sexual assault was low in this group. In contrast, sexual sensation seeking levels were high. Sex-Focused men reported low desirability of a traditionally masculin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 04:20 PM
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Are you baiting a man to mansplain?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:57 PM
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Be friends with women. Throw house parties for women. Do chores for women. Time, energy, attention. Keep it going gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:21 AM
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Should have asked if they would have children and how many
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 12:53 AM
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The first video girl is confused. Male and female gaze isn’t about attention directed from men and women towards women. It’s how men and women see men and women. The first girl thinks gaze is only towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:41 PM
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“Then Let Me Be Evil” is so accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:28 PM
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Just be empathetic Sexiest occupations for women = ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:02 PM
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Can you do a gender flipped version?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:52 PM
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Love yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:26 PM
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If that works for you, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:05 PM
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I'm not asking for basic human decency; I'm just shaming those that lack it. Irl, I don't expect basic human decency. If i don't get it, I just leave. Sometimes, the most pro-social thing you can do is to leave and spend time and energy on developing a better group.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:45 PM
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In my experience, many women exploit this strategy to get time/energy/attention from men. They will dress nice, be flirty, be giggly, but only to get more time/energy/attention. Near the end they will say "You are such a nice guy, I love talking to you as a friend!". If you are interested, just ask them out on a date. It's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:39 PM
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lol, "I don't care about your feelings", is hilarious. I'm grateful everyday that I have the freedom to avoid people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:25 PM
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Girls have blatantly hit on me at work, but I keep those conversation private, because I'm not a scumbag. Should I have spread that my coworker grabbed my ass, while we were just playfully flirting? Idk man, you are weird
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:23 PM
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OP might not have the EQ necessary to understand what occurred. OP had a private well meaning conversation with a coworker. Then the coworker spread the content of that conversation to others. As a result, others have changed their behavior around him. OP is right to feel betrayed by his coworker and distrustful of the office. What would you think if the situation was reversed?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:12 PM
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I've found that if the "Queen Bee" doesn't like you, the others aren't allowed to like you as well. I still think my strategy is better, if inconvenient. Seize your own destiny!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:01 PM
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And if I did, you deserved it. If any man is that sensitive that they cannot handle a woman telling him she does not want to date him or finds him unattractive then those men are not mentally ready or emotionally healthy enough to be dating in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:58 PM
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Gender roles, "Man up!", are part of nature and as such, after social failure, men should be socially ostracized?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:50 PM
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I agree with you. Isn't it surprising that you are the only person here who is critical of her behavior? However, I think it is better to focus on what OP can do. Social acceptance/validation is important. People shouldn't feel uncomfortable around their coworkers. I think focusing on what OP can do, aka leave, is a better use of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:47 PM
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male nature so tldr; man up?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:35 PM
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Yeah, I've found that when men post in this forum, there is a distinct lack of empathy from the readers. It feels like the reader starts off assuming that the readers feelings are the only ones that are valid. To me, it feels very narcissistic to not consider the feelings of others when they post. The OP asked out a girl, which is pro-social and good. However, due to a series of events, he feels bad. We should feel sorry for what happened to OP; He didn't do anything wrong. I don't know why that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:22 PM
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That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it. "This could end up much worse for you OP but glad that it didn't go down that way." is wild. His future promotions and salary will be affected by his ability to socialize at work. This contextualization minimizes the real world effects of social ostracization. Money is just one easily quantifiable factor of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:16 PM
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you are just self-reporting that you work to fuck women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:15 PM
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She has destroyed your reputation in that group. I'd leave and form my own company, or join a different workplace, preferably with mostly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:10 PM
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That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:05 PM
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Yup, I've discussed it with parents/sister, but they don't like the idea/aren't supportive. At this point, I'm just leaving with or without their blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:02 AM
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She misses Indian culture now that she is married to a white person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:43 AM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:39 AM
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Yeah, I gotta leave this hell hole. Guess who hates the idea of me moving out of state?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:29 AM
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Yeah, I might be wrong, but in California, I've only seen Indian women settle for Indian men at like 30. The most negative things I have heard about Indian men have always come from indian women. However, data is data and I only have anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:26 AM
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Indian women in the US are very different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:09 AM
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Nah, my sisters agrees if other people talk shit about me. She hates my dad and me. I think because my dad worked like 60 hours a week for 30 years, she thinks he is a loser, like other Indian men, including me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:31 AM
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My older Indian sister hates all men other than her tall white rich husband. She was a staunch leftist feminist until she saw Usha Vance and now she is a full on Tradwife SAHM. Fairweather women. I was red pill before red pill existed. Thanks sis.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:22 AM
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Cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 11:08 PM
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Man, I really feel like participation in this forum has gone down! There used to be such a diversity of opinion! What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:12 PM
2

Kill All Men, Drinking Male Tears, HeForShe, Teach Men not to Rape
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:12 PM
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Already have
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:32 PM
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Leo how do you know that the male "friend" stuff you are talking about is not "relationship" stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:29 PM
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I did not interview men for the first four years of my study. And it wasn't until a man looked at me one day after a book signing and said to me, "I love what you have to say about shame, but I'm curious why you didn't mention men." And I said, "I don't study men." And he said, "That's convenient." And I said, "Why?" And he said, "Because you say to reach out, tell our story, be vulnerable. But you see those books you just signed for my wife and my three daughters? They'd rather me die on top of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:16 PM
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Free emotional support is a great bargain
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:07 PM
1

Stay in italy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:33 PM
1

RP is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:01 PM
1

I guess I’m as stupid as your twin
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:00 PM
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Fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:39 PM
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You don’t deserve him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:27 PM
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Send me his number, so I can tell him he deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:22 PM
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I ended it because I wanted to travel full time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:10 PM
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So… I’m hot… emotionally? 😅 Why do you think some women want endless support/validation? I honestly thought they would fill the void and grow up at some point. I grew out of those friendships, but I never understood why they were emotional black holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:41 AM
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Women are so overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:01 AM
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Yeah, go on onlyfans
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:59 AM
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If she feels insecure, she should do things to make herself feel more secure. It’s not the guys fault she doesn’t know how to keep/secure men. I’m sure yelling and correcting men is the way to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 12:56 AM
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Whoa, dude. Shouldn't we empathize with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:39 PM
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I’m curious what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:58 PM
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It’s cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:53 PM
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Why is it toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:52 PM
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Why that rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:35 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:30 PM
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This sub is just narcissists vs normal people. If you got offended, you know which you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:41 PM
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OP is right. Every comment is a version of the narcissist prayer, which spreads faster through social media, than any real facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:14 PM
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“I aM tHe TaBlE”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:50 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:20 AM
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I’m declining every aging Indian girl my parents are sending me to date. You are hiting 30, so now you want to settle with a tall rich brown boy? lol, good luck on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:52 AM
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Lmao, kinks are freeing, but not a great basis for a relationship! Good relationship + kinks -> happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:38 AM
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I gave constructive criticism to a junior level coworker at my previous job and she said I was being disrespectful. If she complained, maybe I lose my job? I don't know. I used to advocate for women, help promote them, and support them. Now I don't. I have a small business now and there isn't a chance I will have that problem in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:27 AM
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Why use many words, when few words do trick?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:54 PM
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Feel free to spank some youths in the name of✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:12 PM
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Congrats! How are you feeling about the gender wars?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:07 PM
0

Are y'all unemployed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:46 PM
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Okay, but is it wrong to use different words? It might help some people to better distinguish between good friends and bad friends. Some people unironically think, It's better to have bad friends than no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:28 PM
1

I agree, people have lots of free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:26 PM
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Honestly, true. I've found that the friends that have stuck with me for over a decade are a lot more like pseudo-coworkers that I like to go to parties and events with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:24 PM
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Like half the girls I held hair for while they were vomiting at some party are now successful in their own careers or finishing up medical school or grad school. Lol. I'm a guy, no holding hair, but I also had a similar experiences. I've noticed "the half" of friends I have, that were "successful in their own careers or finishing up medical school or grad school" are much supportive and respectful as I start my own company. It's much much easier to plan events, hangout, etc. The vibes are better…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:19 PM
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I agree with you on the destination, "finding a life partner who generally aligns with my goals and values", however, I think making a distinction between friendship and camaraderie can help people with the journey. I think people spend too much time supporting circumstantial friendships, when they could be directing their energy towards building deeper connections with people that already are aligned with them in life. A comrade is like a friend, that would share the burden to reach a common go…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:07 PM
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"Im_rarely_wrong", doubt and humility play a role in the development of a healthy ego and allow for healthy change throughout your life. Please do some self-reflection whether you value your ego over change and happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:47 PM
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You should get help. It's not natural to not care about how you live, even if we all die.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:41 PM
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Thank you! I’m glad this was helpful! Now more than ever, it’s difficult for boys to build trust in society when society doesn’t have a shared understanding of fairness and equity. I think deep down some of the commentators here know that the man and the girl are at fault, but choose not to say that because they are willing to sacrifice trust in society for their personal benefit. I think recognizing these bad actors and learning how to live in a world with them, through a fair system of values …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 01:47 AM
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I don't care if it hurt their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:54 PM
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do you think your comment was remotely appropriate in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:50 PM
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Flip the gender and this is how you sound to me How exactly did the man deceive the woman who wanted to get married to him? I dealt with women like that in my mid 30s several times. They were creepy, and I don't care if it hurt their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:47 PM
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yup
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:35 PM
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Girl says to his face he is sweet, but calls him crazy behind his back.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:13 AM
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Right, I am talking about marriage desirability, not relationship desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:10 AM
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If my friend called me insane behind my back, and then said I was sweet to me directly, I would 100% feel deceived. If you don't think that, then I think your point is valid and we live in two very different worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:57 AM
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Would you say the same to women trying to get married? You can't just tell him you want to get married. You will have to try and make a move in the normal way gals do, with all the attendant risks of rejection. I personally do agree with both statements, but the reality is that since "normal" changes, its difficult to pin down "moves", especially for more naïve people. I think it's easier to just communicate state what you want and explain that "If they want to, they would".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:47 AM
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Didn't use chatgpt for anything here. I did cherry pick this topic to talk about it here. Have a good one dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:31 AM
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We should teach men to distrust women through Yes, It's black and white for the prepositional phrase "through" and its followed by - "Not all women but always a women" for these types of situations. It's not unconditional, which is even more apparent for the next statement We should teach men to verify expectations from women - "If she wanted to, she would" Which implies that you should trust what women do, if they do do it. Overall the goal of the post is to point out how to socialize men to di…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:25 AM
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When people say, you should do something, that isn't them attempting to brainwash you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:08 AM
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I wonder how fucked up you have to be to believe any of the bs you wrote. Imagine he does commit suicide and you are here supporting the person that deceived him. Linked the quote btw, feel free to reread the linked post more carefully. Literally at the end of the first picture <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:05 AM
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How much brain damage do you on a scale of 1-10? The title says "to start off distrusting", not "trusting everyone nor distrusting everyone". Next time read and then respond. You are arguing a completely different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:57 AM
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Thanks! Weird that people in this sub are supporting the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:52 AM
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Do you think its justifiable for the man to not tell the woman that he didn't want to marry her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:51 AM
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She agrees with the person; they are similar mentally. Why would she, and you, consider that an attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:50 AM
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Do you think the girl hid anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:18 AM
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It’s just thoughts. If your mind can’t handle thinking of more than one thing, you probably shouldn’t be on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:16 AM
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How so? I compare lying in a friendship and lying in a relationship. Also do you believe the girl is a good person? Do you believe the man is a good person?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:15 AM
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It’s helpful for me to understand how evil people can exploit others. I wrote this for myself first and others after. It shouldn’t matter where I come from; the value of my words should be looked at separately from any appeal to authority. I am us citizen though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:14 AM
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You are defending the girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:10 AM
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Yes, they should specifically say “if she wanted to she would”. That’s how we should socialize boys. None of the comments imply that line of thinking tangentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:09 AM
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No, I have decade old friendships with women, but yes call me… a misogynist? Nothing I wouldn’t expect from someone like you. Call me a creep and insane as well. That’s what the other girl did.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 03:06 AM
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I think you two are cut from the same cloth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 02:35 AM
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That's great. I hope it's not where the boy and the woman lived. I'm sure they thought they lived in high trust communities prior to their experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:54 AM
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I hope the boy is not dead, but if it is, I'll remove the post when that is confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:46 AM
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Yeah. I only made the post to reaffirm my personal stance on this issue in my own life. The entire text exchange really goes against the narrative here. That women are blameless, men should be better, etc. No one ever demonstrates the method through which women exploit the social fabric for Time, Energy, Attention, etc, but I feel I have expressed that well enough with the post. I think the boy is dead. I don't see any updates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:46 AM
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She should have told him then at some point in the 4 years of their friendship, in the same way the man should have told the woman at some point in their two year relationship that he didn't want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:42 AM
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I think “not all men but always a man” is fine, but I think we should also use “not all women but always a woman” in other situations. fair is fair. If the goal is better communication and these phrases help, it doesn't matter to me if I catch some shit from other dirty men. I can hold my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:40 AM
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Communicating your needs in a relationship is not becoming needy and desperate. It's just communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:38 AM
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In the way that having a friend means you don't call them insane and a creep behind their back, while telling the friend that they are nice and sweet. The girl can choose not to be interested, that isn't the point of this. The deception is in the expectations of the relationship and the progress of that relationship with time. The woman deceived wasn't entitled to marriage in the same way the boy deceived wasn't entitled to a relationship. However, the lying affected their current relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:37 AM
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lol, this is whole story is the epitome of "no attraction" aka "husband material", We weren't really sexually compatible even when we were dating, but it was still OK...and my priorities at that time were getting married and starting a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:53 PM
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He might just be super religious. Did her wants change? I don't think so. She clearly had unfulfilling sex from the start of the relationship, but she misrepresented it, to get married and have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:51 PM
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Idk, all I know is that he has stayed consistent. If anything she is madonna/whoring herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:49 PM
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I mean, has he betabuxxed her? He has been pretty consistent with his priorities. She is the only person that misrepresented her priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:42 PM
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Did he do a dual mating strategy? Who was the other girl he dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:35 PM
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Idk, I just thought people would become more mature or something. You are right, I'm just being delusional. At this point, I should just be over it. Just shout at some clouds in the morning and just continue on with my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:33 PM
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This woman is 45 btw. 45.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:31 PM
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Askmen: Is wanting "vanilla" sex super common for men?? My husband is super vanilla in bed... and for many years, I thought he was an anomaly, because I've had a number of partners before him, yet never experienced that before him. .... 45F, husband is vanilla... okay... Let me see her post history I'm worried that he views sex as being for procreation only, and that's why he doesn't want it anymore (because we're done having kids). Why does he think sex is for procreation only? I (45 HLF) have …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:27 PM
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Thanks for sympathizing, I appreciate it. I agree and do that in my circles today. They feel much better!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:05 PM
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I commented in another reply, but one example was laughing at my interest vs not laughing at the same interest in someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:53 PM
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It's definitely a basic feeling like being happy or sad, so to describe it is difficult without a situation. Mutual respect feels like a shared acknowledgement of value in each other. But a handshake may not feel like 'respect', even though it's "respectful". Its a feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:50 PM
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That's what I thought at the time, I've made other friends since then. In the new group, we banter but also gas each other up. Everyone is super chill, supportive. No one shames anyone and everyone is looking out. Im not sure if I want to be part of a group that teases my appearance, hobbies, or interests. I don't want to be treated like their SO, but for basic communication? It doesn't seem that hard. I remember once a girl laughed when I talked about investing, and her current husband is a rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:41 PM
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Yeah, one of the girls was significantly worse than the others, but the others definitely enabled her and liked what she said and how she made them feel. There was no one who would have said anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:15 PM
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Yeah, the husband's are actually really nice, when I've talked to them they were cool people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:04 PM
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No, at the time, I assumed it was incompatible banter and said "w/e, it's just a difference of communication", i didn't feel disrespected until after I realized they don't do talk like that with their s/o.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:51 PM
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Thanks. You are a real one. I needed to hear that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:38 PM
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Nothing overt, but laughing at quirks, opinions, thoughts. I like to work and gym and they would make of my having a routine. I remember a male friend asking me what I was doing at the gym, and the girls would laugh at my talking about counting macros, sleeping, and having having a lifting routine. They'd make fun movies, franchises games I liked. They'd make fun of the type of work I do, tech. They'd make fun of pretty much everything I did, but in like a mean girls way. One girl was super into…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:36 PM
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I was in a friend group with guys and girls. We hung out, went to concerts, things like that. The weird thing was, none of the girls respected the guys. At the time, we, the guys, just thought that's just what girls are like these days. W/e One girl got a boyfriend and w/ how she acted, we all realized these girls do absolutely understand how to respect/support men. They just chose not to with us, even though we would for them. This was right before COVID. During COVID, we didn't hang out irl mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:11 PM
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Me too 🌑
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:49 PM
1

Letting me take care of you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:23 PM
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🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:20 PM
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Honealty, why bother? Just let them live in delulu land while you date girls that aren't delulu. Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:18 PM
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Yeah, I'm not a psycho. conditional empathy will result in incels hating old women though. Protected vs unprotected class.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:16 PM
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It's one comment... w/ 3250 likes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:39 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@hollygildea/video/7136568213164281131 First comment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:35 PM
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Either I win, or it's not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:25 PM
1

whales ☕
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:56 PM
1

Have you ever thought about dating whales?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:46 PM
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Condition: Medium Flesh, Fleshy Fertility: Tested Fertile, Will Guarantee Fertile, Not Tested, To Be Tested
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:40 PM
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New dating app idea https://preview.redd.it/h5x46apjdjle1.png?width=324&format=png&auto=webp&s=05315d5bb32872f9ad3610624e96ebbc7c484c09
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:38 PM
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Wow, cows live to about 20, but the dairy, beef, and bulls are slaughtered at 6, 3,and 4 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:35 PM
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[I got you.](https://www.livestockmarket.com/listings/bulls-for-sale?Animal=171001&ClassificationCategory=171005|171018|171031|171043)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:27 PM
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it's an ick to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:25 PM
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What's not relevant? Empathy? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:21 PM
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what a distorted view of the world that you are projecting. No sweetie, not everyone is like you. People get chosen because they are worth it. If people is alone and no one wants them, there is a reason. Probably they deserve it. It's your comment. I just copy pasted... Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:44 PM
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yup, disgusting, I remember reading this when it came out. There are also so funny great quotes by Hillary Clinton, "women have always been the primary victims of war"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:28 PM
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Lack of ‘economically-attractive’ men to blame for decline in marriage rates, study suggests
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:13 PM
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A lack of clarity creates an environment for exploitation. Everyone should always ask for more clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 06:02 PM
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If she is alone and no one wants her, there is a reason. Probably she deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:30 PM
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sheesh, they'd come out looking like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:25 PM
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Lmao, I called this out years ago. Did you know all California Cryobank donors are required to be a current student or graduate from a 4-year university – with most being recruited from top schools including Harvard, MIT, Stanford, and UCLA? In fact, dozens of California Cryobank donors have gone well beyond their undergraduate studies in pursuit of their Master’s Degree or PhD. And women say men are anti-social, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:23 PM
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You should always ask, "hump, help, or hug"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:42 PM
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Men! Go suck life's dick today! Slobber all over that shit! Get that shit!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:37 PM
1

Sheesssh, I got you right here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:25 PM
1

😏😏😏😏😏😏🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:23 PM
1

Do the other 6 know about us?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:17 PM
1

Yes, yes. I worked on it and we homies now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:09 PM
1

I'd ask her how she feels and probably think it's ppd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:04 PM
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https://youtube.com/watch?v=CY8E6N5Nzec She already got you hook line and sinker. You give attention, you get nothing. She says don't mess it up, it's working for her. You should get out of that one-way friendship, she don't respect you. And if the group you are part of doesn't respect you, you should get out of that group as well. Both relationships are toxic and one way. You give time energy attention, you get nothing. Don't question why, just adapt
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:36 PM
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Decenter women and recenter yourself. Center of your life is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:23 PM
2

Tubing is fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:33 AM
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I don't have a problem with DEI, but I think it hurts the people it's supposed to help. People should be helped before hiring/tests/admissions. It's way too late in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:31 AM
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✊🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:52 AM
1

I leave it open on the counter, but spray disinfectant on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:49 AM
2

You are right, don't let the haters stop you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:47 AM
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Make a top level comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:00 PM
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So true! Create groups that you can moderate personally. There are tons of ways with technology to create private groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:03 PM
2

Then answer the question about your blue pill experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:57 PM
1

Nice tone policing! Men this is why you need to create private groups and protect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:50 PM
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It's a mens issue not a women's issue. Women shouldn't comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:41 PM
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Google "modern day indentured servitude" and you will find every country has some version of it. Where do you think we get lithium from for our phone batteries?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:28 PM
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Labor, indentured servitude. Y'all acting like this isn't happening rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:18 PM
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I don't care. I have a group of guys I'd go to war with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:06 PM
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Men shouldn't support people that don't support them. Financially, physically, emotionally, etc. There is no point supporting someone whose primary job is to disrespect and exploit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:43 PM
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The problem isn’t what’s happening to men. The problem is giving men the “victim” status. If women start off thinking, “I deserve help because I’m a victim” and then a man says, “im a victim, because I’m a man”, then by that logic women have to help men. However, women don’t want to help men, women want everyone to help and care for women, probably due to female in group bias. That's why you will see "HeForShe", but never "SheForHe". The specific issue doesn't matter. Men could have higher suici…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:27 PM
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Gen z women missed the time of dating where they could be strong independent, but expect traditional partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:19 PM
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So, guys should go for dumb bimbos?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:15 PM
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Like a dumb himbo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:48 PM
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There should be toggle on hinge that says $: you pay, 50/50, I pay Anything that adds clarity is a good thing I don’t need to know justification. I would just acknowledge that this relationship is conditional on my paying for it. Yes I don’t care about paying, but I do care about clarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:53 PM
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Just state your needs and breakup if they aren’t being met. It’s not that complicated. You never need to commit to someone unconditionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:36 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/shorts/cBR4rJ5QSSw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:15 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/shorts/cBR4rJ5QSSw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:14 PM
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What do you think about shivon taking grimes baby name? https://np.reddit.com/r/Grimes/comments/1fimldn/so_thats_why_she_wrote_that_poem/ Edit: also grimes tweeting at Elon about medical emergency for their kid? https://np.reddit.com/r/grimezs/comments/1iu9svs/grimes_trying_to_reach_him_too_through_x_her_baby/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:44 PM
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Elon having a dozen kids to like 5 women is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:00 PM
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Which freedoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:25 PM
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Individualism supports freedom choice to build community. Individualism just doesn’t force you to be in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:02 PM
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I do want to cook healthy for me and family. It’s one of my goals
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:00 PM
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Make them build the rockets!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:57 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:25 PM
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lol, bet Post this on ppd and some other subreddits “I make my daughter watch ‘cooking with Kya’ videos to be a good person”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:18 PM
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Lol, Would you say the same if the genders were reversed? A video about a wife making breakfast for her husband and the top comment says, “I’ve made my daughter watch this to be a good person”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:06 PM
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What happens if the knife was in a pocket? A small knife like a box cutter? Or a shiv? Or a screwdriver?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:58 PM
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And what happens if he was carrying a knife?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:50 PM
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lol, so did the above homeless person carry a knife/gun?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:47 PM
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I don’t think he should complain in the first place. Fix the issue, don’t complain, or find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:45 PM
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He is teaching his son to endanger himself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:42 PM
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Are you for real? I've made my son watch this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:41 PM
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What are you saying? They shouldn’t complain? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:34 PM
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What? Title says Man saves Woman Top comment says teach son Comment here says guy How is that gender neutral?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:29 PM
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Objectively better? lo It’s a choice when you are an adult, it’s not a choice when you teach male disposability to kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:17 PM
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Its socialized female privilege to expect men to die for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:11 PM
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Homeless starts harassing women. Man steps in to stop homeless man. Reddit views recording. (Top comment)[https://np.reddit.com/r/nextfuckinglevel/comments/1itwb22/comment/mds9vp1/ ] by TheRealCybertruck Huge respect to the guy for stepping in—most people would just walk past. He’s a true upstanding citizen, and I’m glad the lady is unharmed. I've made my son watch this; I want him to learn and become a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:02 PM
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Should keeps being used in two ways "Should" - prescribing action that is acceptable socially but not done due to societal shame. People should divorce people that make them feel bad. "Should" - prescribing action that illogical brainrot, People should "be smarter"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:28 AM
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No amount of financial empowerment removes self-interest. To think otherwise is delusional. To think it doesn’t apply to women is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:10 AM
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You could have the same criticism for people that get vaccines. Paranoid or just dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:02 PM
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Even your ideal relationship is inhumane because it presupposes a lack of pathological human greed as a prerequisite to building trust and cooperation. Alternatively, my worldview is humane consistent and fair. Continued cooperation is based on self interest. I accept pathological self interest as normal and use it to build stable connections in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:36 PM
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If you believe in Marxian economic theory then you believe all labor is inherently exploitative and you would believe that this type of relationship even if the participants choose it of their own free will is wrong/exploitative. There hasn't been a stable Marxian economic system in history and assuming that applying Marxian economic theory to dating would work when it hasn't for capital is ridiculous. Labor/employer mismatches The corollary for this is partner/partner mismatch, and the efficien…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:16 AM
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Yes it is not
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:55 AM
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Men can pick either role, both are good and necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:57 PM
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I actively do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:03 PM
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This starts of pedestalizing one type of relationship over the other without any metric to support that belief. Why are you categorizing a relationship breaking up as a failure of the system? Do you think quitting a job is a failure of the free market? Your worldview is biased. What metrics do you use to categorize the health of people and their relationships? Longevity?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:17 PM
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I agree. No one is more important than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:14 PM
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Yes, I agree with you that "one annoying behavior doesn’t make the person you are with bad partners". However, I also think that if the negative behavior is worse than the benefits of the relationship, I definitely think you should feel free to break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:13 PM
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You shouldn't even shame women who expect perfectionism. The market will set expectations naturally over time. Things will work out without us having to shame anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:09 PM
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And having a voice and opinion in your relationship doesn't depend on whether you're following or leading. I never said otherwise You're essentially saying "followers" (which is a stereotypical feminine role) can never "review" and hold standards, and that men are absolved of being shitty partners because the woman can just find better. Men are absolved of being shitty partners. Society doesn't need to correct their behavior, they will just be single. Who would work for a shit company or hire an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:07 PM
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But relationships are different than jobs because the point of a “follower” complaining about a “leader” in a relationship is to tell the leader that “overall I like you (for whatever reason), but there are some things that I think that you should change about your leadership style or the choices that you make. Agreed, Follower can complain In an employer situation, this is not possible, because one employee does not have the power to change an entire organization. Disagree, Employees don't chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:47 PM
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There are plenty of bosses with one employee. One person can date many people. The dynamic is the same in all situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:29 PM
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If relationships aren't mutually beneficial, we probably shouldn't be in them. If a woman is in a toxic relationship, with a horrible husband, she should definitely leave. The behavior you are describing, shaming women for choosing the leave, is harmful and stupid for people trying to create healthy relationships. The only people your shaming benefits are those that want unhealthy exploitative manipulative relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:27 PM
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no relationship that has a leader/follower dynamic is gonna be healthy People can pick whether they want to be a leader or a follower in their relationship. It's definitionally equitable and fair. If you don't believe the leader/follower dynamic can be healthy, do you think that dancing with leader/follower is unhealthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:20 PM
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It's only adversarial when the roles and responsibilities get jumbled. Both follower and leader are important and I think it's completely fair for people to pick whichever identity they want to hold in a relationship. In well functioning teams, leaders and followers are both happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:15 PM
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This is only an issue when there are a few number of organizations. Employees can just quit and get jobs at other similar organizations if there are enough of them. Followers/employees can always complain or quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:14 PM
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We can agree to disagree. For most people "Quitting" and "Firing" are distinct, which is probably why we have different words for them. For most people "Complaining" and "Reviewing" are also distinct, which is probably why have different words for those. I think you are removing the nuance of unequal relationship dynamics to misrepresent and obscure the roles and responsibilities of the participants. If you don't believe in this, feel free to fire your boss tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:08 PM
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Those men are acting like leaders right? A good leader says feel free to leave. Those men that are reviewing that behavior, leaving, and classifying it as "bad" are bad leaders and bad men. Followers should always be able to leave and find someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:01 PM
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My friendships and coworker relationships don't have this dynamic, but I have noticed that when dating, a follower/leader relationship comes up often. I'm happy with either role, but there are plenty of bad leaders and bad followers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:58 PM
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No, I think "nagging" in that scenario is exactly what I think is unhealthy. If you are a follower, you can change your circumstance by picking a better leader leaving If you are a leader, you can either fix the issue yourself or delegate the task. If that doesn't work you can dump them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:56 PM
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No, You missed the point. They are entirely distinct. An employee can't review their boss, and a boss can't complain at their employee. It's not right. A boss sets the direction of the company, the employee picks where they want to work. These are distinct too. Idk how, but you missed the entire point of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:53 PM
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Men should try less and just do what they feel like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:04 AM
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I thought most women were the same, Exploitative, self centered narcissist, etc and they would go for men that were the same. I’ve now realized that these people get off on feeling like “they got away with it” and I hated that it felt like they had. I was bit envious and frustrated. After more reading, research, and talking to people, I’ve realized that… they don’t really get away with it. They are “proud” of exploitative behavior and as such fail at forming genuine relationships in their life. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:35 PM
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Dump her and move on. Exploitative relationships should be pruned from your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:15 PM
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This study was retracted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:47 PM
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Yup, it’s still unequal. Men have to draft to vote, women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:42 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:42 PM
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lol killing is like a permanent contract, which I agree is very concerning Divorce and marriage are definitely not permanent. People even get divorced and remarried. You can’t get rekilled!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:17 PM
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If the option doesn’t exist, it isn’t a choice! A slave isn’t committed to farm work, they don’t have a choice. That’s why divorce is always an option
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:04 PM
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lol, I see your point of view, but I’d rather have a partner that decides every day to love me. I’m not going to hold up a contract and say you have to love me! We have to go on vacation! I have faith im good enough, I have faith I’ll be good enough, and I have faith things will work out one way or the other. You can’t have both freedom to choose and permanent commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:51 PM
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lol, why is it terrifying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:43 PM
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lol, you have a great username
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:40 PM
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That’s like asking why bother planning a trip, if you can always cancel it? lol, because I want to go on the trip obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:39 PM
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What about as the default? In Sweden the default is 50/50 no custody
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:35 PM
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Ngl, My pasta is 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:29 PM
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Bet, but, your perspective < reality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:24 PM
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Is he implying otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:21 PM
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It’s nbd, just a contract
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:19 PM
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I trust people to act humanely in those situations. Yes, your needs aren’t being met, but it’s not on purpose, which is entirely forgettable. The men divorce sick wife thing was a mistake btw. https://np.reddit.com/r/OptimistsUnite/comments/1dprzly/men_divorce_their_sick_wives_study_retracted/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:16 PM
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For 50/50 custody, no need for child support though right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:12 PM
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Meh, I think individual safety, through prenup, lets you cooperate more freely, like in marriage. I’m still pro marriage, but not at the detriment of individuality
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:53 PM
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Some women liked being pedestaled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:51 PM
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True, honestly humanizes woman a lot more though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:49 PM
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Prenup makes sense though right? If you do have assets coming into a marriage and no child support for 50/50 custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:47 PM
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Why can’t people be free to divorce or terminate any relationship where their needs aren’t met. I think it’s perfectly acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:19 PM
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It’s not a matter of intelligence. Sometimes the other person stops cooperating even after clear communication with them. it makes sense to divorce. It’s really not that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:18 PM
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Agree, divorce is healthy Edit: prenup and no child support for 50/50 custody are also healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:12 PM
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lol, give it more context. A guy on purplepilldebate is has posted a question for women entitled “”, using definitions created by ChatGPT. The first comment says “” and the OP said “”. What does this say about the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:02 PM
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In the United States around 1800, voting was largely limited to white male property owners. Estimates indicate that roughly 6% of the total population was eligible to vote at that time. This low percentage reflects the many restrictions in place—women, most African Americans (enslaved or free), and Native Americans were excluded from the electoral process, and even among white men, property ownership was a key requirement. By 1900, that number was 15%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:29 AM
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Being deliberately ambiguous or advocating for ambiguity and against clarity is shady af.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:27 AM
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What does me being an activist have to do with you calling me weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:11 AM
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Wow, what an interesting question! I don't know. I've never really thought about why I personally care. I just feel grateful about being a citizen. I feel a sense of civic responsibility to do my best to understand perspectives, movements, and policies. I do feel like "America is an Idea" and I honestly just care about doing my best for myself, my community, and my country. I guess if you can't relate to that feeling none of this would make much sense and would be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:24 PM
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Okay, I hope things work out for you and your loved ones!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:01 PM
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Different colours of paint aren't contentious lol, I think this opinion is contentious For anyone. But we're discussing feminism which is about women Is there any other work that you would consider not empowering?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:57 PM
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Oh I meant Why not just feel happy in society then?*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:45 PM
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Why not just feel happy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:43 PM
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What do you think about in the 1800s when only white, tax-paying men could vote? The "difference in biological power" would be the same between tax-payers and non-payers or black and white. I can see how saying "farm work is work" is not empowering pre-1800s, but what about after?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:42 PM
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I don't think hoping attitudes change is akin to wanting to control anyone. I agree, but I am trying to figure out in what society you would be happy. Overall, no. Do you feel empowered in your personal relationship? For instance, are you meeting people that have the same attitudes towards women as you do? You don't have to interact with people that don't have your beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:38 PM
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You hate me and all men. What incentive do I have to care about your opinion? No matter what, you aren't planning on associating with me. Why would I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:12 PM
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Can you give an example of policies that you advocate for, but most liberal groups wouldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:01 PM
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Do you look for contention to help you differentiate other things? Yes, my ability to discriminate or differentiate based on contention helps me in life. For instance, if I need to repaint a section of a wall, I might use a paint swatch to help me differentiate between which paint I want to use to repaint my wall. I don't agree that any choice a woman makes is feminist just because its a woman making it. I don't think sex work is empowering. For both men and women? or just women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:00 PM
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This is liberalism, right? Liberalism – A political and philosophical ideology that emphasizes individual rights, personal freedom, and equality under the law. Most Contentious Take: A just society can be achieved through gradual reform within existing political and economic systems, without requiring radical structural change. Ideal World Order: A democratic, meritocratic society where individuals have equal legal rights, opportunities, and personal freedoms, with minimal government interferenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:53 PM
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Not to be more weird by asking, lol, but why is it weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:51 PM
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As a (mostly) libfem, do you have any policy changes you would like to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:47 PM
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Do you have an example of legislature or simple education you would like to see?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:45 PM
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Thanks! I'm getting downvoted, probably by my haters, which is a bit funny. If you have a better more accurate statement, feel free to provide it!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:44 PM
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I'd like to see a major revamping of how public schools are funded. Do you have an example of a change in policy at the state or federal level you would want to achieve equal opportunity? How are you measuring equal opportunity? Side-Note: have you seen this video on "Liberal Hypocrisy is Fueling American Inequality"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:42 PM
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Are you advocating for controlling individual attitudes? In a liberal society, there likely will never be a consensus on individual attitudes. The best you can do is associate with people that have the same idea of gender roles as yourself, which I think you can do now. Are you currently happy in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:34 PM
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Do you feel like the parts of patriarchy that are bad will eventually go away on their own or do you think there are certain changes we need to make to make it happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:24 PM
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How? Do you want a change in policy? Can you give an example? Alternatively, how do you know that we haven't already accomplished your goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:17 PM
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Is this a good definition? Intersectional Feminism – Recognizes that gender inequality is interconnected with other forms of oppression, such as race, class, sexuality, disability, and more. Most Contentious Take: Mainstream feminism has historically centered white, cisgender, middle-class women while ignoring the struggles of marginalized groups. Ideal World Order: A society where all forms of oppression (sexism, racism, classism, ableism, etc.) are dismantled together, ensuring true equality f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:13 PM
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Why would you need contententious issues to help differentiate? For me atleast, it helps to differentiate between different types of feminism, by looking at differences beliefs and policies on those issues. All of it. Can you help me differentiate between Liberal Feminism and Non-Choice Liberal Feminism? What would you advocate for differently than a libfem?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:10 PM
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Everything else should go out the window. What is the mechanism through which this occurs? I think I understand the end result, but how do you want to get there?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:51 PM
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The definitions do that. It definitely helps me to differentiate. I hope it helps others. But I disagree with some points, especially choice feminism. Choice Feminism – Emphasizes individual freedom and personal choices as the foundation of feminism, asserting that any choice a woman makes is inherently feminist if made freely. Most Contentious Take: Any choice a woman makes—whether embracing traditional gender roles or rejecting them—is feminist as long as it is voluntary. Ideal World Order: A …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:42 PM
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Probably this , but I don't think they alone are enough to fix gender inequality issues Can you expand on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:30 PM
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A mix of all of them. Each of them do differ on important areas. Do you preference for one over the other? The "contentious takes" bullet is to help differentiate between the three types of feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:28 PM
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I asked chatgpt to help differentiate. Chatgpt: What would be a question that would help differentiate between the two? "Do you believe gender inequality can be solved through legal and policy reforms alone, or do you think the economic system itself must be changed to achieve true gender equality?" If they believe legal and policy reforms (such as equal pay laws, anti-discrimination policies, and workplace protections) are sufficient to fix gender inequality, they lean more Liberal Feminist. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:25 PM
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Eliminating all gender roles. I would love to live in a world where absolutely nothing is assumed about me based on my gender. Can you expand on this? What does this look like in practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:19 PM
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Thanks for your response! To me, each of the above feminist points of view could be interpreted as "Garden variety equality of the sexes", by proponents of that feminism. After all, who would advocate against equality? I asked chatgpt to help clarify: Can you make three sentences, one for each type of feminism, like "I believe in 'garden variety equality of the sexes', in that ___" to help someone determine what type of feminist they are? Liberal Feminism: I believe in 'garden variety equality o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:02 PM
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Are the radfems you don't vibe with, TERFs for instance, against your libfem values? As a libfem, which parts of radfem do you vibe with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:47 PM
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Yeah, it's weird to see women act so antisocially, but that's where we are today!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:21 PM
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Found a new fun subreddit, femaleseparatists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:12 PM
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You should read their other history, for instance, their comments in female separatists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:01 PM
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Recently I've come to some self-realization that lib fem isn't something I can subscribe to anymore, mostly because of the inconsistency in certain beliefs. I’ve also become skeptical of social feminism and whether it carries any real meaning or utility. I often joke that rad fem is the only acceptable form of feminism, even if I don't 100% agree with it. For Lib Fem vs Rad Fem, why are you leaning towards one vs the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:41 PM
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Hello again u/ExcitementLow4699 ! Accidentally happened upon this. The person you are talking with doesn't believe you have the agency to make these decisions for yourself, nor does this person think you are capable of feeling things correctly. That is the "New Left" position of the past, or far left socialist position of today. The Moynihan report was a good example. The assumption was that fatherless, mother-dominated families were a "bad thing." (Implying the converse 'mother-dominated famili…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:25 PM
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Oh. I don't mean variance in price by experience, I meant variance of price per experience Variance is a statistical measurement of the spread between numbers in a data set Comparing apples to apples, in this example girlfriend experience to girlfriend experience, the variance is lower in a free market than in an underground market. This is like buying heroin, when it was a component of Bayer cough medication legally, vs. buying heroin, on the street today. The price of street heroin is signific…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:08 PM
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When they charge what they like, is there a lot of price variance for equivalent services? Like sex is $100 typically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:58 PM
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If you are talking about food, I’d hire a meal prepper for 6 days /week and eat out like once. If you want other cool things you can get like a wine tasting monthly subscription or something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:53 PM
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It’s legal for male work to be packaged this way. You should make this company if you like the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:56 PM
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Sex workers have irregular pricing due to government interference. In free markets, sex work ends up normalizing in price.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:47 PM
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Why all-in-one? Who would hire an all-in-one plumber, mechanic, it guy, policeman, firefighter? Better to split services by specialty and market individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:23 PM
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I’m saying they will trade 10 years of standards for 10 years of standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:55 PM
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I’m saying those men already date women that have spent a decade working on standards they set in high school. What are you saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:42 PM
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Wrong comment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:22 PM
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The guys that have money realized bills and expenses were important in high school. They pursued competitive fields in college and only start making real money after a decade of work. They set their income standard in high school. Do you think those men should pursue women that set their standard now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:26 AM
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I think we are talking past each other. I understand your argument. Men are abandoning children. When you survey divorced men in custody battles, most don't fight for custody in court. Therefore, it's just for the court and government to step in and enforce child support on the father to provide for the children. What am I saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:57 AM
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I think she is incredible. I like that she is open, empathetic, and honest. She paid even even when the other girl asked her out. Was able to see the other side of inappropriate jokes. Didn't make a fuss after the other girl was misleading about her needs. I think maybe you just have a different communication style and that's a fair reason to swipe left on anyone. I'm sure she would think the same for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:39 AM
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What? I was saying bisexual women sometimes agree with RP talking points. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:15 AM
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Dating women made me understand men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:04 AM
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Do you think that men inherently want to financially support their children? Yes Do you think these men are more likely to financially support their unplanned children if the child support laws suddenly went poof? Yes Yes, I know it feels counterintuitive to you. After all, how can advocating for less, create more? However, I have described the nuanced historical version of the argument above. There are biological versions of this argument and even personal versions. Can you answer one of my que…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:14 AM
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If you are talking in good faith, why are you starting off with this “ whose lives they choose not to be a part of”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:36 AM
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I'm happy for you and I respect your life choices. "Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" doesn't look the same for everyone. Truth, Justice, and the American Way :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:55 AM
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god we are so fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:18 AM
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People are regurgitating propaganda, without realizing it. If you are basing your stances by what makes you feel best, you have probably already been infected. Your stances on social policies should be based on evidence based socioeconomic research, not what makes you feel best.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:05 AM
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I don't think you would understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:55 AM
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The Moynihan Report on "The Negro Family: The Case for National Action" was where the misinformation started. The report talks about how after the AFDC, desertion in black families increased. In the beginning, the number of AFDC families in which the father was absent because of desertion was less than a third of the total. Today it is two thirds. HEW estimates "that between two thirds and three fourths of the 50 percent increase from 1948 to 1955 in the number of absent father families receivin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:48 AM
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You are citing racist propaganda which was used by whites to villainize black men in black communities in the 1970s after AFDC destroyed black families from 1930s to 1970s. Why are you talking about enforcing policies instead of nurturing innate prosocial behavior in men and women? That innate prosocial behavior in the 1930s led to better outcomes for children than today. We fucked the system through welfare programs like the AFDC, then blamed black men, then men, and now capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:58 AM
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Yeah, I don't think you understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:57 AM
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The government incentivized women to leave men to get more benefits I hope you can understand, but even if you can't, I'll try to make it better through laws and advocacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:50 AM
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1900s. As in 1900-1910
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:38 AM
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No, it's not natural to abandon your child and men did not do so. Yes, child support is as unnatural as sex slaves In 1970s, the AFDC program tended to treat households with a cohabiting male who was not the natural father of the children much more leniently than those with a resident spouse or father of the children. This feature created a clear disincentive for marriage and also a clear incentive for divorce, because women who married face the reduction or loss of their AFDC benefits. The gove…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:37 AM
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What about in 1900s when the single motherhood rate and teenage pregnancy rate was significantly lower? Why start in 1970s after 40 years of welfare through the AFDC that destroyed men in black communities? You don't know anything about the 1970s or welfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:26 AM
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Nope, I think men in healthy relationships want to contribute to their own children and their spouses. Why create laws for natural human behavior? You don't create laws for sex slave prostitutes, why this? Are you implying that men shouldn't be trusted? Why? What did you do to them? https://preview.redd.it/kxwaa5zwb0ie1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=55d24e40a86b3cfdf52cf2eeda0bab9a95545cef
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:22 AM
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Why don't you think "Current child support policies are incentivizing people to be irresponsible?" What evidence do you have to support that people were always irresponsible? For instance, if you were right and our current policies are helping, why is single motherhood going up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:15 AM
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I agree people should be responsible, but do you think people weren't responsible before child support existed? Why not trust people to provide support?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:57 PM
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Why are so many women against removing alimony/child support? Do they not realize it makes them appear as if they want to keep men trapped in awful marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:52 PM
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should be provided by society 'Should' is debatable. 'Can' is more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:51 PM
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Healthcare, Social Security, Welfare, and Education is not a need, so no, we're not going to set up a self-service of doctors, tax payers, social workers, and teachers as slaves just so you can be healthy, safe, not poor, and not dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:44 PM
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So OP's point is completely irrelevant, even if his (faulty) premise is accepted, which makes the entire "debate" he's trying to have moot. Really? What is my point and what is your point? Please explain!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:43 PM
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The linked Supreme Court decision states that Education is not a Fundamental Right within the US. States can decide what they want to do at the state level. Regardless of that decision, we still have a Federal Department of education. Education is not a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:33 PM
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Aw, do you feel similarly tired when Feminists talk about needing governmental childcare to participate in the labor force?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:27 PM
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There's a grain of truth in every joke. c:
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:24 PM
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I'm not advocating for sex to be a human right. Education isn't a human right either, but we still want an educated population.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:23 PM
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When we say, "Hey, I need someone who can learn how to become a diplomat for the US government", do you think the Department of Education is creating a class "US Diplomacy: Job Function"? No, the department of education provides tools, through classes like history, english, writing, math, that can be used for people to succeed to then achieve societal needs. If the government looked at sex/friends, it wouldn't fill the need directly, but indirectly through similar mechanisms. The book "Of Boys a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:16 PM
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It's insane to say that capitalist markets create "perverse incentives", when the origin of that term is from horrible government policies that create perverse incentives in the free market. However, I agree that need/want/human right can cause confusion for those that don't understand those words and how they interact within the larger context of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 07:02 PM
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Technically, I agree with you, but even education is not a "human right". We provide it in the same way we provide water, because we value it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:57 PM
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By what logic? You think doctors should be slaves to make you healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:52 PM
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I agree. "Healthcare, Social Security, Welfare, and Education" aren't human rights. We might feel like we "want" them, but we don't "need" them and we are certainly not obligated to receive them from the government. When we talk about modern societal structure, we are talking about a complex interplay of wants as a relation to the society we are in. Pre 1930, welfare was primarily done through private charitable donations, it wasn't 20% of our tax dollars. People might want welfare, and feel it …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:51 PM
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You are so totally wrong. Vivek Ramaswamy suggests Department of Education will be ‘deleted outright’ by DOGE
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:40 PM
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Do you think we can outlaw fat people?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:35 PM
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Yes, exactly! Nothing is a need! We as a society have no obligation to one another, we are free to choose how we should set up society. So... Lets get rid of it all! Healthcare, Social Security, Welfare, and Education, send that shit out the window! Feminists shouldn't complain about any of it! None of it is a need!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:29 PM
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You don't have a right to immortality, the government doesn't need to give you cancer treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:21 PM
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If you can classify sex as a need, there is an obligation to provide it No. There is not a need to provide it. The supreme court has ruled that education is not a need, yet we measure and monitor the education of our populace, because education is "needed" by our society. Is sex and gender relations "needed" in our society? We measure the education of our students, should we measure the sexual/gender health of our population?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:17 PM
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It absolutely ties in. How can we talk about the interplay of gender relations in a society without discussing 4 out of 5 spending criteria. If someone was posting about government spending for transgender surgeries would that be appropriate? If we can discuss the micro level issues, why can't we discuss the macro level issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:12 PM
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Immortality isn't a need, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:08 PM
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C: I wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:00 PM
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Would you say the same for Feminism? No parts of Feminism play a role in Healthcare, Social Security, Welfare, or Education? Edit: These are political issues, deeply rooted into Philosophy. From a certain point of view, it's all philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:55 PM
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That's not what taxes are for. We chose those set of taxes based on our past society. We can change all of that, whenever we want. Most taxes are paid by men If society isn't catering to men, why should men cater to anyone at all? Back to the elephant in the room, Sex is not a need, so no, we're not going to set up a self-service of woman sex slaves just so you can get laid I'm not advocating for woman sex slaves. I'm saying why are we advocating for Healthcare, Social Security, Welfare, and Edu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:51 PM
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All 4 of these categories play a huge role on Sex and Gender in society. Healthcare Gender/Sex related surgeries Social Security Impact on family planning and especially old women. Welfare Welfare Queens Education Relationship between schools and female labor
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:44 PM
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Would you say the same as criticism of Feminism? Feminists shouldn't play a role in Healthcare, Social Security, Welfare, or Education? Past posts that talk about this Healthcare Social Security Welfare Education It would be insane to say these 4 topics have never come up in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:43 PM
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Oh. My. God. Is this satire? I'm literally mocking people that are evaluating the value of an individual need without the context of society that it is in and you just doubled down on it. Edit: Do you understand the problem highlighted by the original proverb is neither "the lack of warmth" nor "the burning down of the village"? The proverb is about the feeling of the relationship between a society and its people?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:50 PM
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“A child not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.”- African Proverb "WaRmTh Is NoT hUmAn NeEd" - PPD Geniuses
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:13 PM
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You don’t sound conservative, you sound like a marxist/socialist or a SWERF. I’m definitely over it. I’m just trying to be considerate and try to understand your perspective before I advocate against you and your ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:02 AM
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I don't get it. Your illiberal ideology will lead to an unregulated underground sex market, without OSHA, labor laws, benefits or anything else. Some percentage of women are going to truly be exploited. Furthermore, some women might love sex work and you are taking away the opportunity for them to thrive within our liberal capitalist system. Without other evidence, I suspect you want to monopolize sex through marriage, you fear losing that power, and are willing to sacrifice both liberal morals …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:28 AM
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1) Women say “Sex work is work” 2) It’s a debate subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:54 PM
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PPD is great. I am getting much much better at identifying signs of narcissism, sociopathy, conditional empathy, illiberal ideas, and other bullshit. Horrible people are truly everywhere. Digging through this shit is a pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:13 PM
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No, consent to access someone’s body can not be bought. Yes, it definitely can. For instance, in the case of sex work, where participants consent and want to exchange sex for money. Married women obviously consented to a sexual relationship too. No, Married women are not engaging in a sexual contract. Marriage is a legal and financial agreement, not a sexual agreement. They’re still raped when they “consent” to unwanted sex. If by "consent", you mean "consent under duress", then yes, that is rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:09 PM
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An ounce of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:52 PM
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The "shift" is only occurring in your mind, because you have never considered the notion that women might consent to sex work in the same way men might consent to high mortality work. My stance hasn't shifted and I'm still asking you, whether you think "I don't believe true consent can be bought" For instance, "If someone wants to do sex work"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:40 PM
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I didn't say "saying yes". I said if someone wants to do sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:26 PM
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You can't consent to rape and as such, it isn't applicable here. I'm talking about wanted sex. For instance, if someone wants to do sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:14 PM
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Quote which part is about sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:49 PM
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Thanks for this comment. It's upsetting to see pedestalizing of sex work in comparison to other work, especially work that can lead to death. The conditional empathy for work done by women or lack of liberal agency allowed for woman is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:33 PM
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I hope you have many sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:26 PM
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Yes, that's what I am saying. You can't consent to rape and as such, it isn't applicable here. The woman picked prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:25 PM
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Is something entering your body worse than death?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:23 PM
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If a woman can pick between Mcdonalds and prostitution and she picks prostitution, how is that not consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:21 PM
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If I did, would you say those jobs shouldn't exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:19 PM
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Right and many men are forced into working at jobs with very high mortality rates. why don't you believe that access to their body can be sold. Wouldn't you say they would be laboring for free if they really wanted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:02 PM
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It's crazy that there are people that call sex workers consenting to sex as rape, but say yes, the mortality rate for logging is just fine and definitely not exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:00 PM
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So, then if someone chooses to be a sex worker, they are getting raped when they are having sex? Someone choosing to have sex isn't rape. There's a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:59 PM
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Based on your other answer, Yes, you can't just stop the process of physical trauma from working at jobs with high workplace mortality. You can die from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:55 PM
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Is that what happens when you donate plasma?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:52 PM
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What about jobs with high workplace mortality?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:50 PM
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None, but that's changing the subject, because rape is inherently nonconsensual. I don’t believe that true consent can be bought. I'm trying to understand whether you think "People can't consent to contracts that exchange labor for money"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:45 PM
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What do you think about financial contracts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:26 PM
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We agree that neither party should feel exploited. I think you have an arrangement, one that doesn't involve the state, where you both do not feel exploited. Great! I'm happy for you. If something changes and one of you now feels exploited, how do you reconcile the difference in feeling? Let's say your boyfriend starts having issues at his job. He gets laid off and when he goes to the doctor, he discovers that he is developing early onset alzheimers, which runs in his family. Due to this conditi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:14 PM
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Google “Rockefeller Feminism”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:05 PM
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No, I didn’t want her to be interested. I just don’t understand how she became randomly interested in me after I cut her off. Seems really weird. She should have showed interest a decade ago, when I might have been interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:38 AM
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You're acting like I don't provide emotional support for women. My female friends have anxiety and love to talk to me, because I can listen, understand and help. I'm saying there other things I do, that I'm required to do, as a part of society, that is absolutely unrecognized, unappreciated, and taken for granted. I'm treated as 'one of the girls', until I need to step up as a man. Maybe there was a way to resolve it, but I stopped hanging out with my female friends. The level of support I provi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:37 AM
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I go out with some girls and they get into a fight with a guy. I stop him potentially at the cost of my safety/security. How are they going to reciprocate? This has happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:15 AM
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I’ve realized women are absolutely the ones that ask for help in social settings. They ask me. If you don’t have anything to offer, stop wasting my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:09 AM
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Spoken like a narcissistic sociopath displaying conditional empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:57 AM
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Like accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:34 PM
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:|
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 09:34 PM
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Reminder: each man pays an extra 5k/year every year to society more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:43 PM
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That’s descriptive of how fuckbois act. Redpill is about figuring out how fuckbois get women. Y’all are fighting shadows rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:30 PM
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I totally disagree. The only times I feel happy in my relationships are when I can trust the other person. If I am being exploited, I can't imagine feeling happy. I can imagine that she wouldn't want to feel exploited either. I'm not interested in a marriage built on foundations that erode trust and cooperation over time, even if I am currently feeling happy. So for me, equality matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:36 PM
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You know, I'm happy you are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:23 PM
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It's called a Push Present. If I was romantically happy in a relationship with a woman, and she wanted to have an equal marriage, I would happily pay for a push present or a surrogate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:20 PM
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I'd easily pay for a surrogate, if it meant an equal marriage. You can use the monetary value of the work as basic benchmark to define the "Tit for Tat" and in a healthy household it should end up even. If you advocate against tit-for-tat, I assume you are picking a strategy that either opens you up for exploitation or opens up your partner for exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:11 PM
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Did you go 50/50 when dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:00 PM
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When I talk to Victim Women, sometimes I get the impression that they think if life is fair, it will also be easy, and since life feels hard right now, it must be unfair. Life should be fair and not easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:57 PM
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Doesn't this read like "Deny, Defend, Depose"? What in the fan fiction? Deny Now, a lot of times, circumstances like traumas, religions, and socioeconomic resources can distort someone's "equal partner" filter. Defend Yes, it does seem like there's a shortage of people who are able to adult and handle responsibilities. Depose
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:55 PM
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Do y'all think Cal from Titanic was resentful because he was an incel that couldn't get girls or because Rose lied to him about being interested/attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:40 PM
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It's okay not to support people that don't support you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:35 PM
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My sister socializes concepts against men of my race. So if anything, she is actually worse than most women I meet. I hate her and other racists.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:52 AM
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Yeah, I understand loneliness, but I would definitely not be happy in a friendship/loveless marriage. I am going to try to find someone I feel romantic with and see if we can work on friendship/marriage after. It's weird. We are close, but also extremely far apart. I would say "Yes, smelling nice is more attractive than being calm" You would say "Yes, being calm is more attractive than smelling nice" and we would both think we are right, because we are referring to different goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:30 AM
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TLDR; My personal disposition is to prioritize personal happiness even at the expense of marriage. Most people would choose to fulfill traits that predict stability and children, and I don't blame them for that. I just think it makes more sense to try to be happy for my sake and for the sake of my children. By default, for me, the answer to "I want women to be honest about their preferences" is to personal happiness, not to stability/marriage. I want my wife to say, "Yes, smelling nice is more a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:18 AM
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I come from a culture that also says to prioritize marriage over personal happiness, but... my experience is different. My father worked 10 hours a day for 30 years to provide for me, my sister, and my mother. Yet, my mother has never stopped berating my father for failing to make more money, be more social, buy a bigger house, or w/e. My father would work hard to make more money, buy a bigger house, but my mother was never happy. I never understood why my mom wasn't more kind to my father. I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:29 AM
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Ok I guess you don't want non-biological kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:12 PM
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Okay, I totally agree that those are two separate goals. To me, it's like my goal of "being healthy" and "running a marathon". To me, I'd like both and there is considerable overlap, but if I had to pick between them, I'd pick "being healthy" over "running a marathon". Why? Being healthy resonates with me fundamentally, biologically. Humans created marathons and there are a lot of marathon runners that aren't healthy. For you, if you had to pick between fulfilling "requirements that predict roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:08 PM
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Why do you think the "requirements for dating" are different than the "requirements for marriage"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 10:25 PM
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Can you say the words "Yes, Smelling nice is more important for dating than being calm and emotionally stable"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:34 PM
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Honesty(#5) is actually important and not being able to understand(#7) that is so weird. Wouldn't you want to support(#3) men and tell them its more important to smell good(#4) than be calm, emotionally stable(#20), if you want to get a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:53 PM
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I honestly don't get it. You posted the table. I highlighted the difference and picked a bar, an absolute magnitude of around 7, based on what I felt like would highlight the biggest difference between stated reality and perceived reality. I don't get how you are downvoting and attributing malice towards literally subtracting and highlighting the maximal difference???? Edit: I checked my fucking math. Mean is 4.228571429 And guess what, 1 Standard Deviation is 8
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:29 PM
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<image> u/leosandlattes , This is why guys say "Women don't really care about emotionally stable, calm men, they care about guys that are attractive, sexy, and have a nice body." "When women say 'confident' what they really mean is hot." Many guys will be like. I went to the gym, I got more attractive and less confident because I developed body dysmorphia, but I get women now and women will say "no! thats not possible" Edit: Patient is -8, that's what I get for trying to do the math in my head -…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:21 PM
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Yeah, I agree, but it'll be worse for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:53 PM
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I'm starting to forget about breast cancer, can we get some pink costumes for the next Avengers?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:44 PM
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Depends on which fraction of people you hurt. Bottom 5%? Mostly men. Bottom 50%? Mostly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:29 PM
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Trump is bad to men, but leftists are worse to men. Trump is the lesser of two evils.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:27 PM
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Where do you live? Mars?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:22 PM
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May this type of love never find me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:06 PM
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Don't worry, I'll be gentle I'll edge you until you are begging for it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:36 PM
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I love and respect you. I promise to provide and protect you. ew You are the least worthless woman I have met. If you fuck me like a good girl, I might pay attention to you when you have my kids. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:21 PM
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He just did! The OMB has frozen all grants.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:05 PM
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Why do women 'fuck around', and then enjoy 'finding out'?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:03 PM
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"attacking" -> "Not funding"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:48 PM
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Women put up with it, because they know they get trips, food, gifts etc. They can decide later to marry someone that is less thoughtful and more consistent. Whats the value in picking the safe option first? It's just less exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:25 PM
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Call to action to what? Return to a social norms that is already exploitative? There is no win condition for those men. When trump says shit like, "what do you have to lose?". https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/video/2016/aug/20/trump-calls-for-black-votes-what-do-you-have-to-lose-video He isn't talking about me, who has a life, 401k, and other prospects. Or you who is concerned with women's rights. He is talking to the 40% of men that have been absolutely destroyed in society. Men, like me, ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:28 AM
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Lol, OP would probably respond, "wElL mOsT MeN aReN't CrImInAlS" 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:03 AM
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Only topics that allow women to socialize and virtue signal are allowed from men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:46 PM
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That's Female in group bias definitionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:42 PM
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Who cares? Find someone who will
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:36 PM
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Wow an example rather than an answer. You exemplified female in group bias and exploitation of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 07:34 PM
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No go back to making fun of them! That'll work!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:57 PM
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Approximately $5k a year is stolen from each man in taxes each year. Men pay more into society but collect much fewer benefits. Life is like a bar, but girls play for free and men pay $15 dollars a day. https://avoiceformen.com/featured/research-finds-that-as-a-group-only-men-pay-tax/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:42 PM
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Yes, shame boys for... "Being wrong ever"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:24 PM
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Have male friends if you want male friends. Don't do it because you should or w/e. Do it if you want. OP is trying to gaslight you into thinking she can breadcrumb you into creating and supporting a social fabric that women can and do exploit. Men create friendships, spaces, events -> women force their way into male spaces -> women start socializing rules to pedestalize women in those spaces -> men leave -> repeat OP wants you to create those spaces so women can exploit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:17 PM
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No, if the genders were reversed the top comment would be to call the cops
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:12 PM
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At its core, the narcissist's manipulation of memory is about control. They rewrite the past to protect their ego, maintain power, and keep others dependent on their version of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 10:56 PM
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Just leave, other girls want that too. You are trading your time energy and empathy for nothing. Male friends with similar life goals are a better usage of your time. Don't wait, someone that is exploiting you will never want to see your point of view. You have real value that is being exploited
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:21 PM
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They feel guilty using you for emotional and societal validation, while providing nothing to you in return. You should feel exploited. Leave them and go on dates. It's better to be around no one while being authentic than being around people that don't support you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 07:13 PM
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https://youtu.be/7z6YTyvCxRY?si=2_XngG_6PXtWD8u5 The woman in the clip likely created the single motherhood problem for you. She managed welfare in your state. It's like an origin story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:58 PM
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They do care. They want men to struggle privately and have the losers die out quietly so that they can get the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:54 PM
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That's not a problem. It's how women are designed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:46 PM
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What do you think about the welfare system destroying black culture? https://youtu.be/2GklCBvS-eI
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:28 PM
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If you form a group, don't tell women. Definitely disguise it using an activity like 'gym'. Otherwise, they will find a way to shame it, emasculate it, and erode it over time. Women don't want you to be happy without them. They will do whatever it takes infiltrate the group if they want a partner or destroy the group if they don't want their current partner to find happiness. Women want you to only socialize and work for their benefit. It explains why every new hobby and group that men form is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 05:54 PM
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what you are doing is actually disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:56 AM
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Okay, so do you care more about the stolen wealth from men, or from billionaires?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:52 AM
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Its 560 billion dollars a year that is taken from men. No one has that kind of generational wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:46 AM
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lol, except when you need to pay people for services that are good for society? Are you delusional? The money men pay literally goes towards things that are considered good for society. You just want to hide the work men do for society through the tax code
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:37 AM
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lol, what are you talking about? people that are taxed more are literally doing more for society. Everyone else is leeching off of them. If you don't want to judge, you should set a flat tax that affects everyone equally. like $1k per person per year. Like admission to be a citizen in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:30 AM
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How are you defining productive? Is it going to be another definition that devalues the work of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:17 AM
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In reality, that would tax men more and more, further discriminating against productive people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:12 AM
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What's your ideal financial system?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 04:02 AM
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Yeah, I already took that seat. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:50 AM
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I'm against selfish, unproductive citizens. Don't you think it's discrimination to tax productive citizens for the benefit of unproductive ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:50 AM
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What about only on male kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:43 AM
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That's true, being a SAHP is pretty selfish from a tax perspective, but I guess what people do is their own personal choice. Do you think the excess of mens taxes should be used only on services that help men, because they are contributing more?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:41 AM
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looks great! Careful with tuna, there is limit you can have per week or if you are pregnant. https://www.allthingsgym.com/seafood-infographic-omega-3-vs-mercury-levels/ I mostly eat salmon
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:37 AM
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"Why should I care about you, if you don't even care about you?" -> resentment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:44 AM
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Rich. I'm rich, dating someone poor, wouldn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:35 AM
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Taxes collected by men and women should be equal. As in the net amount of taxes from men should equal the net amount of taxes collected from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:30 AM
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golden rule
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:24 AM
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That seems a bit irresponsible. Men, even when they have power, pay the majority of taxes and contribute to the military. Do you think men shouldn't do those things? For instance, would you be okay with men and women paying the same net taxes in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:23 AM
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Rich guys like women that make them feel like they have value even if they weren't rich and gold diggers are happy to virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:15 AM
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highly-attractive supervillains
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:09 AM
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It's wild right? I feel so many responsibilities as a man, and women want equivalent power to me, but without any of the responsibility? I'm planning on screening women I date with questions like this. Honestly wild
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:27 PM
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Right, that's all great and I'm all for it. I'm saying now with that power, what responsibilities do women have?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:01 PM
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Can you give an example of a social responsibility that women have now that they didn't in 1950s?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:45 PM
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To continue building power for underserved women, nice! What about responsibilities to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:35 PM
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Exactly, what's the responsibility with that power?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:34 PM
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That's using power to get more power right? Economic and legal power?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:31 PM
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If the "power" in "with great power, comes great responsibiity" is feminism, what is the "responsibilit"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:16 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:08 PM
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I think that's it! It feels like if we lived two very different lives, but developed in such similar ways, with such similar principles. It really feels like we went through some sort of convergent evolution! This type of contract feels like the natural evolution of our upbringing and what we should pass down to the next generation. Let me know if you agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:51 AM
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Lastly, the New Social Contract. In my other two comments, I attempted to breakdown the traits of quasi-autism into an "unusual starting state" and "development response". I think a New Social Contract should start by minimizing unusual starting states in society, attempt to maintain the best principles that we have independently discovered, and lastly develop a way to build incremental trust and value through this contract. The Contract We agree to work towards developing usual starting states …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:41 AM
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Development Response I think some of your key elements for your development response are principles that I abide by as well. I have intrinsic value "everyone has intrinsic value regardless of social value, and that these things are different" I am willing to embrace failure to eventually succeed "I've always been willingly going outside of my comfort zone" "Some will call this "masking" but I see it as learning, personal growth and genuine change" "I pushed myself to practice and fail repeatedly…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:11 AM
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Your word choice and conclusions for pivotal moments of your life are very similar to core principles I've found to be true in my life as well. It's not in the same order, nor are the circumstances the same, but it's shockingly similar. These are some parts that resonate with me. On your view of Autism The paper I linked above suggested two key elements of Quasi-Autism. The first was an "unusual starting state" in life. The second was the unique "persons development response" in the face of that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:46 AM
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My theory is that me and you, while of a different sex, maybe were undersocialized, missocialized, or dissocialized between the ages of 0-5. It's possible that we had to organically assess how we feel, compare it with rules in society, and figure out on our own our place in the world. There are obvious downsides to how I was brought up, but the biggest positive is that I am significantly more authentic and confident in myself. I identify first as myself, then as a human, and then as man. I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:50 AM
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Reading this comment and some of your other comments, I finally feel like there is one other person out there who can see reality for what it is. I want to break the fourth wall of this subreddit a bit and see if we, the two of us, can create a fair social contract from the ground up based on the liberal, in terms of individual rights, society we are fortunate to be in. Before I get into that, I want to talk about why I think we are the best people in the world to do this. Quasi-Autism vs Idiopa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:50 AM
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https://www.cbsnews.com/news/meet-the-man-behind-a-third-of-whats-on-wikipedia/ A bit i think. Definitely a bit saturated with focus to create background blur
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:18 PM
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Rate - Steven Pruitt Bio - Steven Pruitt is an American Wikipedia editor and administrator with the largest number of edits made to English Wikipedia, at over 6 million, having made at least one edit to one-third of all articles in the edition. Pruitt first began editing Wikipedia in 2004. He has also created more than 33,000 Wikipedia articles. Pruitt was named as one of the 25 most important influencers on the Internet by Time magazine in 2017. Pruitt edits under the pseudonym Ser Amantio di N…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:12 PM
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You should seriously mastrubate. They make great wands, you can buy them online. And there are a bunch of online romance novel catalogues. I think literotica is one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:29 AM
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Because if you don’t respond to the plan, then it is unenthusiastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:27 AM
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do you read smut? do you mastrubate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:46 AM
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Yes, my ex would read books like, A court of thorn and roses, and then call me over. 10/10. Responsive desire is not an excuse to make men feel like they have to work to earn sex. If you like sex, you like sex. Also, "If she wanted to, she would"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:26 AM
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You are describing the logistics of how to set up a maintenance schedule to ensure proper function, rather than genuine feelings on both sides of wanting to care for one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:19 PM
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Maintenance sex to keep it working 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:17 PM
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Even if you can live up, i don’t think it’s worth it. If you can’t naturally succeed, you are setting up your progeny to face unnatural struggle. Lowkey fuck that shit. Make bank, go on vacation, have fun. Fuck working to work to work to work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:20 PM
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This is a troll account right? No way women are this stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:06 PM
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Conditional empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:04 PM
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I don't feel tired. I feel empowered. I feel like I am understanding, which will make my goals easier to achieve and make life better for me and my community.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:23 PM
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Sounds like you're talking about individual women being frustrated when they pursue top guys. So yeah, that's true and I agree with you. I think they will be frustrated both when they pursue the top and when they settle for the bottom. Without a goal, they don't have a way to regulate their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:54 PM
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It definitely is part of the game and it is priced into the market, but I don't think there needs to be a comeuppance or consequence. People are free to pick what they like and it's going to be obvious which people are picking out of fear and which people are picking out of freedom. Like wanting to travel, because that's what all the girlies with rich boyfriends do, vs. actually enjoying travel. Only one of these is healthy and the other is... delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:40 PM
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Women are going to crash out when they realize going for the top 1% guy doesn't make them happy, nor does settling for the 99%. Having a purpose and goal for existence and then discovering what you want from someone, who can join you on that goal is significantly more important. That shit aint happening and women are too anxious and insecure to make it happen. Women susceptible to mate choice copying are going to have it the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:24 PM
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Conditional empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:46 PM
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rip social contract
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:18 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c14vfq3jqpo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:07 PM
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Idk are those animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:01 PM
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Just stop. Every animal is motivated in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:49 PM
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PPD is where manipulative women go to practice manipulating men into becoming what they need them to be so that women can feel safe and secure within society. They created every Steven Pruitt in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:45 PM
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What happened with Thomas Matthew Crooks? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:22 PM
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Aren't half of books smut? Use your imagination! Also there was another half of the question "Answer which guy is the more risky choice and which guy has the female gaze."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:20 PM
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Is that how you would categorize the "Q4M: Would you rather be the Risky choice or the Safe choice in a woman's eyes? Why?" post as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:14 PM
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How come you didn't answer the question then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:11 PM
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What are you trying to say decent/safe is not attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:10 PM
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lol, I don't need moderation to enforce my point of view
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:05 PM
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Feel free to answer how you wish, but be sure to answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:02 PM
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Removed the photos, so it isn't a "looks post" now. I thought it was getting a bit too chummy in here with the safe/risky and female gaze post lol Also, isn't first comment supposed to be an answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:00 PM
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Then why is it that the exact opposite of what you said has proven to be true with chadfishing and just life in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:59 PM
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lol “this is where you have it wrong”, proceeds to explain in detail how it’s right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:35 PM
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