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purpleventrilo/r/Divorce_Men24/04/23 11:41 PM
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I had a great weekend :) got out of my shell and went to a few bars. Had someone halfway approach me TWICE but I was too dumb to realize until a friend and his wife enlightened me. Plan to spend the whole week in social situations before I have to go back to being single parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:54 AM
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Idk I feel like I am an outlier. I'm a single dad earning 200k a year. I do all of the household chores (cooking, cleaning, laundry, dishes, shopping, maintenance, etc). I support my kid mentally, emotionally, and physically. Daycare is the other parent here of course. I don't get child support or any help from family (distance) and most of my "friends" are business related. For me, having a partner would just add more work to my plate. My priority will always be my child, and I would feel bad i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:13 AM
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Off topic, but what do you do that let’s you do that? Serious goals just chilling with your kids all day.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/23 04:42 PM
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Not to be pessimistic. college is over for me and my workplace is old rich people. Friend groups are shrinking or extremely rare to break into lately. Bars have always been bad places for me to meet women. I’ve been going climbing alot and that’s helped. The gym actually works well too. The age old “just do what you love and you’ll find people”. Idk. Just seems like a strange time for socializing. Unless I switch careers to a medical field lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:03 AM
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Numbers game… what are the best mass exposures though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:53 AM
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Yeah I’m slowly trying to do that. Any suggestions? I’ve thought about moonlighting as a bartender. The classic “join a group” is so awful for my area. It’ll be a 10-to-1 ratio of guys to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:08 PM
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For me Bumble and Hinge were infinitely worse. No matches for months.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:43 PM
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I definitely appreciate the reinforcement. I’ve had some good luck in the past year but it seems like I just need to get out there and do the things I enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:42 PM
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Like 5-10 and most aren’t worth pursuing. And I think I’m just being filtered out. People my age want older and people younger want younger lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:41 PM
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Just being optimistic: no good matches on Tinder yet, but I did get out of the house and go climbing at a gym. Didn’t end up talking to anyone but it’s nice being around people my age. Not sure how I’m gonna end up meeting anyone. Post-divorce I feel kinda cursed. Turning 28 soon. “Where am I going. What am I doing” is stuck in my mind. Does it matter? Just have fun. But for me, I’ve sucked at enjoying things alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:06 AM
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I just don’t understand why you would HAVE to leave unless the court order said you follow her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 01:00 AM
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Why would you have to follow?
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 02:18 AM
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What branch?
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 08:10 PM
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It’s both as of right now. I won’t ever get clear answers. It doesn’t benefit her.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/23 04:06 AM
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At a gym? I rly think it’s impossible. Outside with real rocks? Definitely. You have to have a spotter constantly moving the crash pad and even then… why risk it. Gyms are much more funner imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:24 AM
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Went bouldering for the first time… honestly I think it has a lot of benefits. 1) fun and keeps you in shape 2) almost everyone there is friendly and in shape 3) you don’t have to talk to anyone if you don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:22 AM
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