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| 1 | Is this why I can’t find a guy?It sounds like you are into the DDLG lifestyle. Check out the BDSM r4r sub to find dominant men | /r/seduction | 05/05/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Stood a girl up and now I'm trying to get another dateJust a thought but sounds like you might be friend zoned already. It's really hard to salvage standing someone up as you already seem flaky to her. | /r/seduction | 09/04/19 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Girl is only available when it's difficult to close the dealShe might sense you want her for sex only and she might want something deeper Do vanilla dates or set up an innocuous date like going to the zoo that doesn't have sexual implications so she can see you like her. I'm 32F and all of my friends complain about men just wanting sex. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 06:51 PM |
| 4 | Trying to reconnect with girl who rejected me?Just ask her out again but do not come across as interested as you were before | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Number on the back of receipt?Do that or just slip him a note with your number. I've (F) done that loads of times and it works great. Some men are shy but once they know you are interested, they will do the work. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Want to date multiple girls, don't want to betray anyoneJust explain that you aren't looking for anything serious right now and that you will be dating other women. She will probably move on and meet a man who is more suited to her, and you can date around - everyone wins. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 08:52 AM |
| 8 | Girl replying late or after 30-60 minsYou sound needy and desperate. Replying after 30 minutes is absolutely fine. She has a life after all | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Female equivalent?Matthew is good. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Female equivalent?It's dead unfortunately. I'm also needing a female one but for advanced seduction | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 08:47 AM |
| 1 | [20M] Bored with casual, what advice do you have to look for something deeper with girls?The issue isn't normal - it is attracting the kind of girl who wants a relationship. You are still pretty young, the relationship will come organically but I would just encourage you to step out of your comfort zone. Go to art gallery exhibitions, go to wine bars when you can start drinking, go to book launch events - meet women who want things deeper based on their interests. | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 02:31 PM |
| 4 | Ex Cheated on her new BF with me - I want her backArgh can't believe I am going to share some female secrets here as I don't like sharing how our minds work but I feel for your situation a little but not really. Here it goes; she reached out to me saying that she loves me but she can't get back She wanted attention. I've done this with guys before in the past when I felt down about my relationship, got all the attention I needed from them as a sponge then dropped them when I was done. Not all women do this but women with options like your girl … | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Friend's ex is talking and I feel like is trying something?I talked to her about her response and all ( just movies ) and thing is we've been talking since and I can see that she's trying to make it sexual Does your friend know you are doing this ? | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | [20M] Bored with casual, what advice do you have to look for something deeper with girls?What would your advice be to start dating more seriously to a person who never went besides casual FWB at most? >> Think about the type of girl who you want to be friends and lovers with, not a girl who makes your cock hard. Do you want someone to share your hopes, goals and dreams with? If so, think about what qualities you look for and would respect in a woman who would bear your child in the future. FWIW, my now fiance told me he knew I was the one for him when he got violently sick and I did… | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 01:22 PM |
| 2 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.You are 100% correct. Glad you found my comment that helpful ♥ | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 04:59 AM |
| 3 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.Well said. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Is relationships easier for a man to achieve than a woman? Why or why not?Relationships with men who aren't dicks are hard for women but any relationship for a woman can be done. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Is relationships easier for a man to achieve than a woman? Why or why not?LOL. Accurate though. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 08:37 PM |
| 7 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.I can see why this is so annoying for men but it's just how the cookie crumbles. I am more turned on when a guy approaches. IDK I just love it. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 07:27 PM |
| 6 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.Right a lot of women won't approach. Especially the very sexy, gorgeous glamorous women that men on seddit seem to want. Why would they? Men approach them. I was always approached by men and I would not say I am gorgeous or beautiful but I am attractive, very confident in my sexuality etc. I have only hit on a few men in my life and even then, I just gave them my number and said something sexy like ''Make sure you call me'' and they always called. But those were rare unicorns and I was horny. Ra… | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:29 PM |
| 2 | I invited her to my place. What now.I can tell. Keep sharing. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 06:16 PM |
| 2 | I invited her to my place. What now.Kenic_In_MD gave excellent advice so I won't rehash what he said. I would just add that if she responds positively to his advice, please for the love of God have protection and don't make it awkward when it is time to put it on. When I was younger, I remember going to watch a film at a guy's house, just like you guys. I (F) expected to have sex and I think he did too but we never make it overtly clear. He made his moves on me - but then when it was time to find a condom, he didn't have one. He w… | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 05:56 PM |
| 2 | I invited her to my place. What now.you need to grab your nuts and close. I can't with you boys today, LMAO AF. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 05:53 PM |
| 3 | I invited her to my place. What now.I like to give girls the "grand tour" of my apartment when they come in. It gets them familiar with the layout and usually gives me an excuse to lead them by the hand. I like to also leave the front door unlocked initially and leave my bedroom door slightly cracked. It sounds dumb but it lets her know that she has the "escape" option. F here. You are very very good at this. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 05:53 PM |
| 108 | I don’t understand how people meet women in college.I never get approached and no women ever seem interested in me. Sorry not to be a bitch but as a woman, I don't think you understand how easy it is for us to have sex with who we want based off the men who approach us. So it doesn't really matter how good looking you are - women will expect you to approach them so please get used to that. Not all women but the majority of women still assume that if you are interested you will make the effort to approach. There are many places to meet women at un… | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 05:51 PM |
| 6 | Best place (other than a bar, party, or club) to meet girls on a Friday night?Open mic nights, events at book stores, house parties, dinner parties at your friend's house, art gallery exhibitions | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 05:44 PM |
| 2 | She friendzoned meThe only time I ever saw a guy leave the friendzone was when he moved on with his life and stopped being available to the girl. And in doing that, you will meet more women who are more gorgeous than her. | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 02:27 PM |
| 3 | Where to take a girl?I'd be more than happy to go over to a girls place I just feel like it's more of the guys responsibility to provide the place I am glad you mentioned this though I think things are changing a little bit. I probably wouldn't want to have sex in a guy's parents house just out of respect for his mother you know what I mean and I think other women might feel the same. That said, it is totally OK to go to her place while you work on getting your own place if this is possible (you mentioned that you a… | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Why would she ask if I’m impressed by her repeatedly?She's teasing and being playful. Keep going along with it. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 12:01 PM |
| 1 | First time a girl has been really interested in me... can't believe itLove hearing positive stories on here. She seems very interested. | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 11:59 AM |
| 1 | 1 year old situation (with a girl) makes me depressed even today...No it's not normal but the vagina is not going to smell of cookies and cream. That said, I remember a poster here saying they always allow girls to clean up in the bathroom before and have wipes with them. I loved this because this allows her to look good down there. Definitely have wet wipes in your home so she can freshen up if she wants. For technique, there are loads of things you can do but obviously you need to eat more pussy and sleep with more women. Personally I love when men draw small… | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 01:52 PM |
| 2 | 1 year old situation (with a girl) makes me depressed even today...A lot of the times, the inability to get hard is because of drug use and drinking too much. Just chill out with drugs or drink, or get out of your head. I would definitely decrease smoking weed because clearly it's having an effect. For a casual sex encounter, it would be disingenuous to say that you shouldn't get an erection. Of course you need one but if you are constantly stressing yourself out and overthinking, your dick ain't getting hard. Next time, don't add pressure yourself by telling t… | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 01:09 PM |
| 2 | I'm starting to date this girl. I have my life together more than she does, but she seems really cool and funYou are way overthinking this. Too much. With all due respect, life is full of ups and downs. Yes your stuff is popping now but that doesn't mean you will always be this way. Give her a chance and get to know her before trying to make everything so perfect | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | When she says she needs some space.It depends. One part of me feels like give her space but flowers are nice if you are genuinely sorry and you were wrong. I can't remember why but my boyfriend and I had a terrible argument once. I was crying etc. He really upset me and I told him not to call as well. He got me a bouquet of flowers and apologised even though I told him don't contact. It really depends on how long you've been together. If you have been together longer than 6 months, it's OK to "fight for her" and show her you care… | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | When she says she needs some space.Disagree but that's just me. | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | What to do if you're a virgin?Being a virgin literally doesn't matter for most girls. If anything, it would probably be fun to teach a guy better moves. My (F) first time SUCKED. What you need to focus on is maintaining your erection. Nothing kills the mood than a nervous guy who is failing to get it up. All isn't lost though - don't let the nerves take over your mind. Get out of your head and focus on the positives. Decreases wanking/fapping, focus on HER and how gorgeous beautiful she looks. This sounds kind of corny but f… | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | How do i start a conversation with someone i have no connection with?Just say hello and ask her what classes she is taking and go from there - ask her what music she likes blah blah, oh you like Travis Scott, I have Astroworld remixes blah blah would you like to listen to some? | /r/seduction | 19/02/19 06:29 PM |
| 2 | How long before contacting after good first date.Contact her tomorrow. 'I have been interested in many guys but if they don't text me first, I won't look thirsty and text them. Set up a date from tomorrow onwards | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 08:19 AM |
| 4 | Anyone else tired of picking up/gaming chicks?As always your comments are full of receipts and insight. | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Anxiety Induced ED Affecting my DatingAnother thing for some women, they think ED is because you aren't attracted to them. She's a mother, she probably knows better. It can be a little bit awkward if you can't get it up but the fact you are on here trying to figure out how to solve it is much better than some guys who get stressed out about it etc. Maybe tone down the drinking or drugs? Those can affect ED and just take it easy, spend a lot of time kissing and doing foreplay. You should also make it fun once you get the erection and… | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Anxiety Induced ED Affecting my DatingIt isn't a dealbreaker as long as the guy wants to fix it. Some guys get defensive, others want to solve it. She might see it like she made you so nervous and you liked her so much that you couldn't maintain it. Spin it in your favour and shoot her a text saying you would really like to do a repeat and this time you are in it to win it or something like that, make it fun. Get out of your head. Just focus on her and why she is a bombshell | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Anxiety Induced ED Affecting my DatingHow old are you? A lot of ED for guys is in their minds and heads. She might be busy and she has a child so don't take it too personally. Get out of your head and stop obsessing over being an incredible performer. Focus on her, why she is so hot to you and how you can't wait to dive between her legs. I dated a guy with bad ED once. He slowed down drinking and worked out and ate better and later was able to maintain erections. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Think I gave her the wrong number but don't want to come of as creepy...Thanks <3 | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 05:54 PM |
| 9 | Think I gave her the wrong number but don't want to come of as creepy...No you don't need to justify that IMO. You can just say hey that you guys clicked at the club and you wanted to get her number since you can't remember if you gave yours properly. If she replies, she is into it | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 05:31 PM |
| 9 | Is Ryan Reynolds the king of cocky funny?He is just an actor. Who knows what he is like behind closed doors. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Think I gave her the wrong number but don't want to come of as creepy...Send an IG DM. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | (18M) My acne is becoming a problem with my game - will make up help at a club? Do other guys where any to conceal acne?You haven't been to good dermatologists. I am a skincare addict and know a lot about it. Neutrogena has a fantastic face wash for acne. Do NOT WEAR makeup. Please. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Advice on getting with an older woman.I am in my early 30s now, F. I remember a younger guy trying to fuck me (he succeeded). He was persistent as fuck but very respectful and mature. You need to be mature and thoughtful and still be yourself I think. If she is attracted to you, she might be into fucking you but to get her comfortable, it requires you having to be mature. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 05:14 PM |
| 2 | If you are able to invite girls over to your place, make sure to have optimal logistics when you are there.This is extremely accurate | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you not catch feelings for a FWB?She didn't really miss you that was the first earning sign. Me and my friends used to do this all the time -- find the guy we knew liked us more than we liked him and used his attention to get our confidence back. Don't reply now and bonus points for never speaking to her again. You avoid catching feelings by just focusing on sex. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Just found out my girl of over 5 years cheated on me a long time ago.Find someone else and move on. I know you want to confront the guy but it isn't worth it | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Birthday wishes?[Name] Happy Birthday! is enough | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Finally breaking out of my shellWell done on changing your mindset. With that attitude, you will have a girl in no time | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 08:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being insecure and needy?Focus on yourself, get hobbies and be good at a few things. This will make you less likely to see attention from others because you have built up your own self confidence. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Birthday wishes?Send the message the morning of her bday - short and sweet. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Interesting predicament. Complete noob on casual hookups, but tonight may be my first.Just be relaxed and be yourself. Even though you want her for sex, she's a human being with interests so chat to her about that. Have a glass of wine and watch a movie together, wine makes some of us girls horny as fuck then go from there. Even though you want her for fun, she might be an expert in crosswords or writing poems, find her interests to show sincerity. If she's horny and likes you, it's a done deal. I love when guys use intellect to get a girl horny. | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 08:18 PM |
| 3 | How do I get a threesome?She's the key. She's the magnet. If it's meant to happen, let her bring the girl along | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 08:13 PM |
| 2 | I think I'm an irrecoverable case.Maybe you are too keen and spamming her a bit? | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Being liked only by big women and gay malesI'm 💀 at this comment. Harsh but accurate | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 12:03 PM |
| 8 | List of date ideas?Wine tasting events, museum guided tours together, sip and paint classes, going to a concert together, going to a cooking class together, jazz bar nights, open mic nights. You don't want to overdo how cool the date is though because then she could be overly focused on the activity instead of you | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 01:24 AM |
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