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[–]brenobnfm 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
She wants space because she is tired of your beta ass and you wanna give her flowers? Disappear for a while and give her the space she wants and then give even more, give her uncertainty, dont allow her to have the privilege of knowing you're waiting, go do some shit with your friends.
And when she talks on sunday, for the love of god don't answer on the same day, if you do, you're screwed. Wait till tuesday preferably.
[–]whatbreadmakesyoufat 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm going to agree with this. Don't allow her to think this is acceptable behaviour. If you let her know it is by your actions, it will give her incentive to do it again, and again.
[–]WhatsReddit123456 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The fact that the gf is the one asking for space (and the guy is thinking about sending flowers), it's pretty obvious who here is at fault in the argument.
[–]WhatsReddit123456 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They're already in an actual relationship. There's no need to play head games here.
[–]brenobnfm -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're clueless, the game never stops. His whole situation is an ultimate shit test.
Haha, the game never stops...right. smh
[–]ScorpyScorpy 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No.. Just focus on your life, Act like you don't rly care even if you're hurt.. Once they feel like you're moving on (if they genuinely like/loves you) they will always come back smh
[–]Knerwel 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Also, r/relationship_advice would be better.
[–]bolxrex 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That sub is trash. Dont listen to the trainwrecks there.
[–]pussypoppingbitch 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Disagree but that's just me.
[–]HelpyMcHelpington1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I went there with a throwaway and the best piece of advice I received was downvoted. Chances are you'll be told to just break up for any argument/problem/etc in a romantic relationship. Context and nuance? Pfffft
It depends. One part of me feels like give her space but flowers are nice if you are genuinely sorry and you were wrong.
I can't remember why but my boyfriend and I had a terrible argument once. I was crying etc. He really upset me and I told him not to call as well. He got me a bouquet of flowers and apologised even though I told him don't contact.
It really depends on how long you've been together. If you have been together longer than 6 months, it's OK to "fight for her" and show her you care.
It depends on her personality as well. Some girls hate when guys don't listen but some girls love persistence
[–]Knerwel -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You should respect her wish for space and wait until Sunday.
[–]Kenic_In_MD -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you fucked up, bring flowers apologize and squash it. If its an actual legitimate argument wait it out and see what she says/does.
[–]WhatsReddit123456 -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you love her, then just give her the flower (but don't stay long, she did say she need some space). It will show her that you are thinking about her.
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