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This thread has some good insight. It helped me at least: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/15vwyu/closingescalating_on_gigsconcerts/
/r/seduction04/02/13 12:10 PM
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Congrats dude, I know the feel. Almost the same to me, but I was married and she still believes I have the flaws she made up. Still, some months after the separation she wrote a long email wanting to get back. I replied saying there was no point, since she was still the same. I also used to believed the defects she accused me to have: lazy, socially awkward, disorganized, dirty. Now I have girls to my place, and they say I am a clean freak, funny, perfectionist, etc. Most important, they don't m…
/r/seduction21/01/13 06:04 PM
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I have a 6yo daughter and I spend at least 24h hours a week with her (I am 33 now). After I separated, 7 months ago, I started to read about seduction, started to put myself out there, working on myself in every area, and now I have 4 casual relationships. The level of the girls is improving and the age is dropping. I know this situation won't last forever, and in part I did it (and still do), because I came out of the relationship with a crushed self esteem, desperate for validation. As far as …
/r/seduction04/01/13 01:51 AM
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Good job brother. I don't know how your LTR ended, but for me those first hook ups were invaluable for me to regain my self esteem. Even if they were 7s or 6s, things will get better fast if you work in yourself. And if you are happy with a 7, go for it. I won't mind settling with one if I think it will work long term. Hot chicks are mostly status anyway.
/r/seduction04/01/13 12:47 AM
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Thanks for the tips. This will take some confidence, but I can handle it. I started this thread with scepticism, but the advice has been great, there is something for each context.
/r/seduction04/01/13 12:35 AM
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hahaha, "Approaching from behind" was my default game before I had any game. It works sometimes, but the odds are heavily against you. Seems like a really defensive way of approaching, looking at it now. It is a good thing to recognize an environment is not that great for pick up as it looks at first glance (music, alcohol). It is, nevertheless, not an excuse to giving up. As you said the trick is having fun first of all. Thanks for the tips.
/r/seduction03/01/13 03:04 PM
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When sarging at a clubs alone, what is your process ? Do you try to make friends to get social proof? Do you go for small sets?
/r/seduction03/01/13 11:31 AM
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Making a good Risotto, right there, on the spot. I learned it on a Android App, from Jamie Oliver called 20min Meals, but I think YouTube must have good videos about it as well. It never failed me. I think quick recipes, you can do while making conversation, are great. Makes you stand out from 95% of the other guys.
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:01 PM
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I will be in Europe next year and Lisbon is a possible stop. So I am saving this. I am always curious about other places dating culture. Not sure about your experience so far, but how would you say Portuguese people are to escalate physically? I mean, making out happens fast in a club? One night stands happen?
/r/seduction22/10/12 04:02 PM
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It is funny because he is fat!! - but serious, good job.
/r/seduction24/09/12 04:16 PM
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Ops, got busy and forgot to answer. It was a long time ago, weird times. I was 17 or something. I was in my gfs house and we were in her room, making out, the door open, we weren't fucking yet (we never did). After de make out I took a little nap on her bed while she was doing homework or whatever. After that some more making out and I left. In the next days she started to treat me different, and saying that her family was pressing her to break out. And then she told this story, that on that day…
/r/seduction15/09/12 02:04 PM
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I lost my first girlfriend because her mother found jizz in her toiled seat, but I never talk about this item with girls I'm hitting on. Also, I write comics... that comes out sometimes.
/r/seduction13/09/12 05:43 PM
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Get there early.
/r/seduction01/09/12 10:38 PM
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A little late to the party here, but are girls in Malaysia, on average, hot too?
/r/seduction09/08/12 11:12 AM
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The thing is making her break the contact first, preferably by looking down. It does not need to take even a full second, it is a message you pass, that you are interested.
/r/seduction03/08/12 08:20 PM
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there
/r/seduction03/08/12 07:41 PM
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http://www.simplepickup.com/
/r/seduction03/08/12 07:25 PM
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Try watching Simple Pickup on YouTube. Try some irony.
/r/seduction03/08/12 03:52 PM
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Being funny is not everything, but very important. People go out to have fun. I think anyone can do it with practice and theory. The internet must be full of resources about it. There are various kinds of humor, you need to experiment, even if it sounds forced at first, then keep whatever works best.
/r/seduction03/08/12 03:49 PM
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Good job man! Your description of the night sounds a lot like what I have been doing lately. Talking with everyone, playful, in a way it makes people feel better is the way. Can't go wrong.
/r/seduction02/08/12 08:05 PM
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^ This. I am in the same situation and even when it comes out they don't care. In fact I seem to care more than they, most of the time. I enjoy more conversations with girls that have careers, have had serious relationships and know how the world works.
/r/seduction02/08/12 06:00 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I have been in this LMR situation with a girl, and it is not an easy decision. In the book Bang, the author advices just what Luc did: keep pushing, keep the heat on... but as the hours start passing, even yourself will lose momentum. And if it is not fun anymore, what is the point?
/r/seduction02/08/12 05:15 PM
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I miss Montreal...
/r/seduction02/08/12 03:51 PM
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Good points bro, thanks for sharing, I feel the same way. That said, sometimes you should not mind is the compliment is generic or even if conveys low value. Specially for guys still is fighting AA, they can't think of what to say on spot, so still need canned lines.
/r/seduction02/08/12 11:52 AM
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I don't think this is the right subreddit for this. That said, I think it depends on what you want with this girl. If you want to keep it serious, and think it is worth the effort, I would say you just unfriend your ex. If she is burning bridges so should you. Of course, this can make her believe she can always use this card to make you do whatever she wants, so it is tricky, depends on the kind of person she is.
/r/seduction01/08/12 07:51 PM
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I was just giving an ironic example to the other guys... crap...
/r/seduction01/08/12 04:24 PM
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Yes, but as an AFC I don't want to make this effort.
/r/seduction01/08/12 01:43 PM
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I am 32 and get around 25-27 most of the time, but I don't mind giving my real age, it does not seem to affect. Usually I start the age talk saying I have a rule where I don't hit girls born before 91, because once I... then I tell a story.
/r/seduction01/08/12 01:19 PM
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NP brother. It was a good surprise for me how many guys here had serious relationships in the past that went really bad and could relate. When I first found seddit it looked like there was almost only guys around 22, which made me feel late to the party. I am also still "transforming". There is always room to get better, now I want to start getting 9s and 10s, better day game, lots of things...
/r/seduction01/08/12 12:27 PM
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I think we are pretty much on the same page, and we the only thing we are arguing about is choice of words. You are single for a week, I am for 2 months. I am still sexless too, the max I got was a hand job so far. Sex will happen eventually, matter of time. This was not a FR, but I posted one last week.
/r/seduction31/07/12 05:26 PM
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Now sure about the relevance of you question, but I don't want a serious relationship right now. What happened with my friend was a one time thing. I really don't feel bad about it, but, like I said, I won't do it again too, since things can get messy, emotionally speaking.
/r/seduction31/07/12 05:00 PM
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Maybe that part of the text was a little ambiguous, but I k-closed her. We opened many sets, but it was for the fun of it, we were felling all the people in the bar were there for our amusement. I agree she was not a target that night, but that is the beauty of it, I gamed her just by having fun. I kept things sexual on the talk and escalated kino while dancing, but it all felt very natural. I just wanted her to have fun.
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:31 PM
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In short, they are being AFCs... sad.
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:23 PM
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It is an interesting thing, just when a guy sacrifices all his dreams for a woman. That is the moment she loses attraction to him. It is a trap. Now I know that this story repeats itself all the time. There is a quote from Chris Rock that describes the situation I had: Fellas, when you wake up in the morning, you should look yourself in the mirror and say, "FUCK YOU! Fuck your hopes, fuck your dreams, fuck your plans … fuck everything you thought this life was going to bring to you. Now let's go…
/r/seduction31/07/12 03:58 PM
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First time December last year, second time last Friday. Little more than seven months.
/r/seduction31/07/12 03:50 PM
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Going out on my own was the practical part, the most important IMO. But I have also read some books. From the top of my head I remember: Bang, Day Bang, Rules of The Game (did some missions), Models (from the PostMasculine guy, very recommended) and some other small ones from Amazon and online. Seddit, of course. One month ago I had a one hour Skype consultation with TonyD, from AbsoluteAbility, very nice too, since I had to spend some real money. I had been losing weight for more than a year, a…
/r/seduction31/07/12 03:44 PM
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Can you name some actors of our days that have this kind of appeal/communication?
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:35 PM
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Very nice man! If one day I am around Sweden I will pm you. It is important o get a little early on the places when going out alone. It is the best start.
/r/seduction20/07/12 01:22 PM
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Nice FR. Sometimes people undisclose location and nationality, but I really like to have this perspective. From your experience so far, how would you say the irish girls compare to n. americans in terms of opennes and overall?
/r/seduction06/07/12 01:27 PM
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I just came here to say that if picking up girls was as exciting as baseball, I would be gay. Good text, have my upvote.
/r/seduction25/06/12 01:21 AM
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Yesterday night I didnt go for the kiss in a bar because her sister was with her and I already had the phone. Why the rush? Left for today. Today we texted and she will be out of town for some days. feels-bad-man.jpg
/r/seduction22/06/12 09:12 PM
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Used to do this in my beta days. And also low volume. Bored the girls to death, poor girls...
/r/seduction22/06/12 12:54 PM
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That was the best reply here and got downvoted and deleted. Go figure...
/r/seduction17/06/12 10:37 PM
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You will need to open a lot, the sooner the better. Pay attention to any questions that come to your mind and ask others. Things like: When will the good dj start? Do I need to watch my wallet in this place? Suggestions of good drinks Where is the cloakroom ? When you are warmer you can start with more direct stuff.
/r/seduction15/06/12 08:18 PM
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I try to remember a night that I has doing great, and the mindset I had back then, how I "played" the situation and all that. I also have an imaginary button in my arm I push when I want to change, it works sometimes. Lastely I listen to some high energy music, like the Justice live album (Across the World I guess).
/r/seduction05/06/12 12:35 AM
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Great job! I have some tatics to get into a high confidence state, but to do like you did there... still a long way.
/r/seduction04/06/12 05:11 PM
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This is day game right? The estimate os a little better than what is in the book Day Game, but I guess it depends on the venue and etc. Not sure about the comfort building being useless...
/r/seduction28/05/12 04:45 PM
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I think London rocks.
/r/seduction25/05/12 04:29 PM
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This thread may be useful http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/i5tkj/dj_fuji_here_to_answer_your_questions/c2190ej
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:00 PM
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Good point on do it for yourself first. The rest will follow. During the workdays I like to have a "power" look, e.g. Tony Stark. On a recent trip to London I bought some tailored-fit shirts with cufflinks. I just feel way more confident the days I have the cufflinks on. Aslo, since nobody uses cufflinks here in Brazil since, I dont know, the 50s, it stands out on and helps a lot on conversations. It is depressing to see that many guys buy the cheapest shirts they can find, just because the comp…
/r/seduction08/05/12 04:08 PM
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I can relate to that. And I would saw it works because it removes the overthinking and takes the target out of the pedestal. Afterall, if it all comes down to dick touching, why worry?
/r/seduction08/05/12 12:50 PM
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