qovnowon Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	What do you get out of your marriage?		qovnowon	/r/askMRP	23/05/17 02:55 PM
8	Worried about wife's depression		qovnowon	/r/askMRP	23/03/17 04:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What do you get out of your marriage? Yes, I have considered that. Thanks for the link.	/r/askMRP	23/05/17 05:29 PM
1	What do you get out of your marriage? Exactly. It sounds like you and I are in a similar position. BPP says you can change the sexual behaviors with dread game and its true, but I wonder if I could change her into the kind of person TFA describes above. I know I can change myself, and I am changing myself for the better all the time, but I don't accept her how she is now and the only reason for continuing the relationship is if I believe she can become that kind of person. Of course the source of this problem is not understanding an…	/r/askMRP	23/05/17 04:30 PM
6	What do you get out of your marriage? Thanks so much for this great reply. You have given me a lot to think about.	/r/askMRP	23/05/17 04:22 PM
1	What do you get out of your marriage? Thank you. I appreciate your input on this. I'm definitely indecisive about this. Its an incredibly important decision and I know the men here have great insights into these issues!	/r/askMRP	23/05/17 03:43 PM
3	What do you get out of your marriage? Do you like her? I mean, is she your friend? This is something I've been thinking about because the answer isn't immediately obvious to me. I care about her and consider her to be a good person, but I really don't crave spending time with her anymore. Stop being a pussy. What am I being a pussy about? Go back to fuckin r/divorce I'd prefer advice from men who are on this journey, not beta males and women. I don't think they can give me insightful answers because they lack awareness of red pill t…	/r/askMRP	23/05/17 03:32 PM
1	What do you get out of your marriage? I want sex and feminine company, but with other women. I am not attracted to her anymore. I think having a series of different girlfriends is what will be best for me. I don't see the value in an LTR.	/r/askMRP	23/05/17 03:25 PM
1	Fed up dad looking for advice Do you have any kids?	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/17 06:56 AM
1	Fed up dad looking for advice Its probably for the best. This long after the fact, if its still an issue, there's little reason to think it will get better.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/04/17 06:56 AM
1	Worried about wife's depression I always want to focus on improving myself, but I'm having trouble understanding the details. Let's assume I am progressing through the levels properly...6, 7, & 8 achieved, moving on to 9: Soft Ultimatum. Do I change the wording away from sex towards the above four concerns? If so, how am I showing her that her behavior doesn't bother me? How do I focus on improving myself and make clear to her what exactly it is that I don't accept about her? And if I change myself to accommodate behavior that…	/r/askMRP	24/03/17 05:02 PM
3	Worried about wife's depression Get her started on therapy now as you prep to depart if you at least want to say you got her a legitimate support system. Great idea. Thank you	/r/askMRP	24/03/17 04:45 PM
4	Worried about wife's depression Some really great points here. Thank you! Would she stay with you if you stopped earning money and couldn't pay the mortgage? Yes, she would care about you, and she'd be gone in a heartbeat. You can care about someone and still observe, "this isn't right for me." This is what I need to remember most of all I think.	/r/askMRP	24/03/17 04:44 PM
2	Worried about wife's depression So I am shielding her from the consequences of her poor mental health. But with a drug addict, my choice is clear: stop helping her live as an addict, demand that she quits, and leave after a reasonable time if she doesn't. She then has to make that choice for herself. But with depression, can someone say, "Stop being the kind of person who would become depressed if I leave, or I'll leave you!" I'm sure I'm not fully understanding your point.	/r/askMRP	24/03/17 04:41 PM
2	Worried about wife's depression Thanks for replying to me! Do you think its possible to change these kinds of personality traits with dread? Notice that sex isn't on this list of complaints that I have. When I got to level 6, we were having lots of sex and I'm sure I could have kept that up, but its all these other factors that make me not interested in keeping the relationship. If its not possible to change these things with dread, and AWALT, then I just should never have gotten married, and sure as hell won't ever again.	/r/askMRP	24/03/17 04:26 PM
1	Worried about wife's depression Maybe 3 or 4 years ago. She started putting on weight and I began improving myself at a rapid pace, which only accelerated when I found Red Pill. She hasn't shown an interest in getting on my level unfortunately.	/r/askMRP	23/03/17 07:01 PM
3	Worried about wife's depression Thanks for your reply. What types of info would you want? My main issues with her are that she has gained a lot of weight, leaves the house a mess, complains too much about daily issues, and isn't very interested in going out meeting new people or doing exciting things. All of these things made some improvements over the last year, but my gut is telling me they will never improve enough.	/r/askMRP	23/03/17 04:18 PM