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That’s what he means duh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:36 AM
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That they’re just as bad if not worse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:39 PM
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We don’t have a lot of charismatic school shooters
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:38 PM
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If not worse
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:03 PM
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Who said he’s a genuinely good person? Awkward people are just as shitty if not worse than anyone else. They often have inaccurate ideas of themselves to go along with it because they live in their heads instead of in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:56 AM
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Why does it have to be easy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:28 AM
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Because a relationship requires social skills. If what he wants is a relationship, he needs to understand how to interact with people less awkwardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:40 PM
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Get on what lol You weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:34 AM
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I don’t have any issues though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:31 AM
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Because I would seek help
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:27 AM
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Did you get any help for that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:23 AM
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You’re disabled?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:20 AM
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Does autism make you talk like this or is this just who you are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:18 AM
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Duh lol well I hope you get the help you need
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:15 AM
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Too bad most guys here think vagina is better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:14 AM
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Wait you said you were just awkward. You’re autistic too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:14 AM
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There has got to be a Korean guy out there somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:11 AM
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They’re gonna die alone and sad. My family left our dad to die alone in a hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:10 AM
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What about your awkwardness do you refuse to work on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:08 AM
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What about uni is not working? Do they not have parties and such on your campus?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:07 AM
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I agree. If you know how to have a good time with people society really opens up to you. I think the issue is the dudes in here never really got socialized properly at a young age so they feel it’s some insurmountable obstacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:06 AM
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Yeah dude sex isn’t even the best sensation you can get at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:04 AM
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I don’t even recall the names or faces of most of my casual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:02 AM
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I don't have stats to verify this, but how are we even measuring sociability haha. The most popular people I knew throughout my life also ended up all going to Ivy leagues and becoming doctors or startup founders lol. The quiet nerdy kids who sat in the corner kind of stalled out after they hit the real world. Socializing is a skill. There are obviously people who are born with a lot of charisma and are naturally social, but smart people can learn this skill easier than dumb people can.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:37 PM
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"White collar homeowner" is literally a run of the mill category lol. I'm talking about how smarter people (whichever way you want to quantify that, via raw IQ or a more holistic approach) tend to be more social. Maybe it's better to clarify that I see IQ as being the aptitude you're born with, but being smart is if that IQ has been developed properly to handle not only pattern recognition and problem solving tasks, but also social interactions with more wit and confidence. You seem like you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:23 PM
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Maybe women don’t like to remember certain ones either. I don’t even know my own body count lol. I don’t even remember their names or faces for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:32 PM
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Why are you people insulted so easily just by people pointing out your flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:29 PM
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Yeah, we have that in society. In modern society you compete economically and socially rather than violently. You’re just avoiding actually competing because you aren’t competitive to begin with. You wouldn’t have done well in the caveman days or dark ages either because you lack the ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:04 PM
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What about guys who lie being just insecure whereas women are trying to protect themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:00 PM
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I think you’re just confusing yourself. You overrate the intellect of those working mid level jobs in Silicon Valley to begin with, which I think is the problem. They aren’t as smart as you think lol. Most of them are just pencil-pushing corporate types. The guys I’m talking about don’t need to be passport bros because women genuinely want them already haha. Passport bros are rejects from their own culture and dating pool. These guys already can date the most attractive and successful women in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:46 PM
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Or it could show you what they’re able to overcome, but I guess it comes down to perspective. Those institutions don’t have the resources to analyze people with that kind of nuance. They just apply a formula to see if you make the cut. Relationships should be exempt because you aren’t looking for a student, borrower, or employee lol. You’re looking for a person that will make you happy. I’m asking would you fuck you if you were a woman who knew everything only you know about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:40 PM
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Why is everything based on stuff they did in the past instead of who they are in the present? If you were a woman, would you fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:20 AM
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I don’t think you understand what VCs are lol. These guys aren’t trying to network with engineers. I don’t think Silicon Valley women are better either. The guys I’m talking about don’t need to worry where the women they date live. They fly them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:43 AM
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I would say they give you access to the most exclusive dating options. Some folks are quality over quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:25 AM
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I mean the dudes who make big money (VC’s, founders) are networking all the damn time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:41 AM
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Where’s the insult lol He proved my point. I’m a guy btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:27 PM
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Dude I can’t read for you. That’s your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:21 PM
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Hi
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:19 PM
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If you say so lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:12 PM
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These aren’t insults if they’re true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:10 PM
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What’s the truth lol Do you like the truth that you’ll likely die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 08:07 PM
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See? You sound illiterate and antisocial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:45 PM
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Lol I mean if you’re gonna go immediately to heroin addiction as an example the outcome of irrational decision making, you’re not very intelligent. Look, we both know that nobody comes to you irl for advice because they don’t respect you. Get over yourself and try to understand what I’m saying to you. It’ll help you immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:02 PM
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lol what’s the long term benefit of eating at a nice restaurant or traveling someplace new?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:06 PM
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Why must it be in benefit in the long and short term? Do you not see how this drastically reduces the choices you can make in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:45 PM
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You’re acting like there is a superior way to behave haha. What does “make sense” even mean? Is there just an objective standard we must follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:36 PM
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Or joy and fulfillment. People who are rational become completely miserable and regretful too lol. That’s just part of being human. I’m saying at least the irrational ones may also experience joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:24 PM
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Not if they want to be happy no. Attraction is the least rational thing possible lol. You can’t control that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:10 PM
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Women like intelligent men if they were socialized to use it properly. Like any other talent, it needs to be developed via adolescence to truly shine or else it can become a crutch or hindrance. For example, women love witty men who can listen and communicate well. These things require some IQ to pull off at a high level. Most of the guys who come here may or may not have the IQ but definitely seem to have missed the developmental aspect of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:09 PM
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Imo, raw IQ is like any other talent. If it’s developed properly through the formative years, one can become charismatic and witty in social situations. Women are attracted to this. The majority of people you see here are either underdeveloped socially or just not very smart to begin with lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:01 PM
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Rational based on what? Metrics? People don’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:51 PM
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Idk I felt like smarter people tended to be more social.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:44 PM
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Only really naive guys try to rationalize their way through life. It oversimplifies a complex thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:44 PM
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I guess that's kind of a good thing they're less capable of being mean lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:24 AM
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Men die younger because they take more risks. They require less access to care and can make money more easily without an education than women can. Would you fuck you if you were a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 11:13 PM
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Of course they have, they’re human. The issue is that guys like you don’t realize how much easier life is for us men. The nonstop complaining is a massive turnoff for women. You wouldn’t fuck you if you were a woman and read all the garbage you post on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:18 PM
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I feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:50 PM
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If that’s how you see it. Women have always seemed more than fair to men in my own experience. I think they can be even more judgmental and it would still be okay. The guys I know who complain about women in this way have some critical flaws they’re too lazy to address.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah that there are guys who go as far as self diagnosing as autistic to avoid working on basic social skills. Didn’t think people could go to such lengths to avoid personal responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:10 PM
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Lol for real. Most of these guys just need more irl interactions with women instead of coming here to read stupid shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:08 PM
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Hey at least Shrek had a mind of his own and was mostly independent. The guys here are lemmings who parrot the same bs pretending to be deep thinkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:03 PM
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If you say so man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:37 PM
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I think it’s because men don’t have much value to begin with no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:34 PM
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Oh do you not think fat guys are unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:22 PM
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Lmaooo what’s an MRA Isn’t that the stuff you eat in the battlefield I would hate to settle for an unattractive woman because that means I’m an unattractive man and I can’t accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:52 PM
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Yeah it’s great for self esteem and sets one of a great path for relationships. That’s why regions that more strongly encourage adolescent participation in sports like Texas has less of an incel culture than someplace like South Korea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:13 PM
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Whatever you say man Btw why are you obsessed with me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:07 PM
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Why do you sound illiterate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:50 PM
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It’s like being born rich. Or more importantly, not being born in a poor country with meager options. The dudes here are most likely from pretty privileged backgrounds all things considered. They just want to complain it was not even easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:47 PM
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That’s how life is sometimes. Crying about it don’t change it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:41 PM
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That’s why I think it’s more imperative now than ever to just go with your gut and ignore what you see. Do or die might as well fail on your own terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:34 AM
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Kinda feels like the economy is the biggest cockblock of all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:29 AM
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That makes sense. Is that a new thing? Sounds like a pattern we’ve held for a while as a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:21 AM
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People who don’t go on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:16 AM
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I’m sure you can but she better give you everything else besides attraction haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:15 AM
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Ugly woman is the next level of hard. I think the difference is that ugly guys complain more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:14 AM
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How are there more single men than women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:13 AM
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I don’t know if statistics are a good way to define human behavior either. It can perhaps help predict it, but not analyze it beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:09 AM
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The thing that I’d be more weary of is if they were with maybe one or two guys but are really hung up on them and it changes whether they can fully enjoy sex with you as much as they did with their past partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:47 AM
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Dude I think you got it perfect. We need dudes who are able to appreciate ugly women. Maybe then they can start appreciating ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:39 AM
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Do you want to know as much as possible then? Like what kind of sex they had, if they liked it, everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:38 AM
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The thing is if you didn’t know someone’s sexual history, you would enjoy the sex more. What if it was just binary then? Virgin or non virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:32 AM
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It is the most humanizing thing of all lol. These are human traits. N count should do nothing to hinder sexual enjoyment (if kept ignorant) while the other factors are obvious at every step of the partner selection game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:31 AM
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Yeah so if you want women to stop caring about those traits you gotta stop attaching characterizations based on them just enjoying sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:27 AM
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I mean did they get fucked so thoroughly hard it changed how you saw them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:22 AM
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Evolutionary criteria isn’t a bad thing if guys do it? The preference for height or someone not autistic can also be seen as driven by evolutionary forces. I think these can be taken care of if we viewed sex as purely recreational and not something so meaningful you need to tie your personal worth to its attainment (or lack thereof).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:12 AM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:48 AM
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I think the body count thing has more to do with insecurity about another guy having “used” a woman for sex before you could. Imo it usually says more about the guy’s dysfunctional understanding of sex than the woman’s. We all love sex bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:42 AM
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I come here to on Reddit to talk about video games and shit bro. It’s not crazy deep what we’re doing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:39 AM
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You’re still seeing things from a guys perspective. They don’t care so much about accomplishments when it comes to a relationship. Would you respect and want to fuck a guy who regularly comes on Reddit to talk about topics like this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:29 AM
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idk I found it helps to see them as people who enjoy sex as much as we do Hard to blame them after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:25 AM
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Try aiming for a niche instead of just generic hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:24 AM
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Hey I think we gotta see it from their perspective though. Would you respect men like you if you were a woman? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:19 AM
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Dude I’m a beta male just like you. Listen to what she has to say
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:17 AM
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He was talented though. Probably one of the most charismatic rappers to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:12 AM
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That’s a sad story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:43 PM
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What happened
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:13 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:12 PM
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Btw having hobbies isn’t what makes your a fun person. You probably are not easy to be around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:04 PM
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Do your friends come on here to complain as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:58 PM
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Do you have a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:55 PM
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The way you talk kind of hints at you being a boring person though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:47 PM
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No, I don’t think you’ve actually figured out how to take care of your own needs first. That’s an important part of being able to have surplus. You’re talking about guys who are desperate and needy for somebody to come along.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:29 PM
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Don’t give up my friend you’ll find yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:51 AM
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Have you had a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:48 AM
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Not all offspring reproduce. Being born doesn’t really make you special lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:41 AM
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I’m not talking dating, but a role in the community in general. There are always ways to contribute to such things, even if it’s to support family.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:38 AM
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I mean I got very far with it. It’s just who I am, though. Maybe it doesn’t work if it doesn’t come naturally to you. Doing this also helps me be happy and relaxed, which makes being around me more fun. When’s the last time you thought a guy was “fun” when trying to get laid. Women are smart enough to see through that veneer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:57 AM
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I don’t think women do. If you’re trying to prove a point I guess I see that you don’t feel motivated or care about being pro social for the sake of it. This will leave you to die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:19 PM
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I mean I found the motivation to be intrinsic. If you don’t feel that you may have deeper issues to resolve lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:15 PM
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I don’t think socializing signals neediness unless you’re trying to have people fulfill a role they cannot play. The thing is we got a bunch of guys who are so deprived of basic social skills and lacking a casual social circle not consisting of other lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:14 PM
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They can do whatever they please lol. Even if it’s just enjoying the ride. Never expect sex or anything like that. It’s not a transaction but a duty you’re fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:10 PM
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Oh don’t worry I help plenty in the vibes department
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:38 PM
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I’m not even talking about meeting women. I mean guys just sit and home and don’t really belong in the community aspect of life the way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:37 PM
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I think it needs to just be a one way road from men to women. This assumes that you already took care of your own needs first. Obviously you can communicate when something isn’t feasible. The goal isn’t to be a people pleaser but to find pleasure in helping people and letting them know when you aren’t able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:36 PM
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If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:19 PM
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Are you so smart that it hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:18 PM
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If you want to put a label on it go ahead. Patriarchy came with a lot more strings attached and the motion that women came as ancillary pieces around a core patriarchal provider. I’m saying we as a society need to just tax men more and provide for women. Women can work and provide for themselves while still getting the resources they need to thrive provided by men with no strings attached. That explains why you seem so out of touch lol. Look, I’m Asian but barely ever studied or put forth the ef…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:18 PM
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Not just volunteering, but actively looking to solve problems in the lives of those around you. Volunteering you’re just told how to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:14 PM
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You need a way to demonstrate surplus empathy. Go help strangers if need be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:08 PM
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You sound lonely my man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:07 PM
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Pursuing ones passions is fine. Just a disclaimer there are some life experiences that are not available without weaving oneself to a greater social fabric. Men who expect to be treated well should be able to take care of themselves and others as well. That is how you make yourself a target of attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:53 PM
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Oh no if I’m not on this team I’d rather just not have a job
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:49 PM
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Now that you mention it my current team is definitely the most attractive I’ve been on. It also happens to be the best educated (CMU, MIT, Waterloo grads, etc.) and most productive. I think we’re just extremely selective though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:27 PM
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I hope so! Working at a place that’s 100% ugly STEM dudes would break me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:20 PM
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Shit that’s not gonna be good for the guys on the right
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:15 PM
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What’s that on the left? I know the right has to be a Reddit meetup or something
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:10 PM
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In an ideal world, men and women come together to provide resources for women and children. As a man, it’s my job to be efficient and self-sufficient so that I can provide with the surplus of my labor for those I care about. I shouldn’t need or want much. That’s where the man children of 2023 are really stumbling lmao. They want to buy toys and jerk off all day then complain women don’t want them. Bias does apply to Asians, just in a different but also negative way. There’s a bias that asians ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:08 PM
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I know it seems opaque from the outside looking in but I assure you it is really that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:55 PM
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Yeah lol there’s no way to comprehensively frame raw input and output in a way that makes sense for how it would be to work with an individual. Who you are is too big of a factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:45 PM
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We generally should strive to favor women over men as the default state of the world. We historically showed biases (e.g. “saving the women and children as a priority”). We don’t face quite the same perils today in terms of danger, but economically I think the same should apply. The world changed and so should we. Also, yeah lol I say this as an Asian myself, we are not assessed in the same light as other minorities, in both good and bad ways. If we champion the cause of underrepresented minorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:44 PM
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Yeah I think guys who aren’t outgoing have a hard time finding a role in society. It isn’t so much about quantitative status like wealth, but whether they have people they take care of and make sacrifices for. Few men can say this lol. Most just sit at home and wallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:39 PM
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I’m not talking about you either. I’m asking are articles like this what you base on your world view on?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:35 PM
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Is this what you base your world view off of lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:31 PM
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Glad I could help lol. I figure most of you guys never really see these institutions from the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:30 PM
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They can get some very hot women. Few women are looking for the absolute hottest guy. They care more about the narrative aspect of the relationship and how you fit into their story. This means you can get pretty far as long as you pay attention to the role they’re trying to get someone to fill in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:58 PM
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The ones who do well in STEM have social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:26 PM
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Total anonymity isn’t helpful. I doing think you understand how this works. We need context.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:25 PM
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You would be surprised man. Just be raw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:33 PM
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I’m sure attractive guys do better in a lot of scenarios. Not sure if what they’re doing matters so much if they’re already attractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:30 PM
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If you want to keep excusing yourself for having zero luck talking to people, yeah go ahead. It’s unlikely that it is due to your unfathomable intellect though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:27 PM
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I have almost a decade in the field lol and I’ve worked at some pretty massive companies. My conclusion is from mountains of observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:26 PM
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Hey I’m just saying what I’m seeing. Also as an engineer in tech. Maybe you guys don’t hire very good engineers to begin with lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:23 PM
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Biases were heavily entrenched so we had to do some hard realigning. Like wearing braces to straighten teeth out. Asians aren’t the minorities I’m talking about here lol. They are represented just fine and having more of them do not help our goals. Diversity is the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:19 PM
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That’s too small a population to even worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:16 PM
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Yeah it actually is lol. I’ve interviewed too many dudes who shit the bed and came in unprepared.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:16 PM
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Less bias not zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:09 PM
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Oh I don’t think the guys I work with were marginalized. The most mediocre among them benefitted heavily from never having to compete with women until now. Thankfully we’re cutting the dead weight and hiring with less bias so finally seeing some good engineers (women/minorities) come through the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:41 AM
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Yup the first few steps are the scariest, but things should get easier with time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:19 AM
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I don’t think that’s a result of high IQ so much as low EQ. Most of the smarter people I meet (I also work in STEM) tend to be well rounded. The worst ones are the ones dumb enough to try and rationalize everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:06 AM
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Never too old to slang that thang brother. You can get the MILFs howling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:01 AM
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I get it, you don’t meet confident and smart people often. Take this as an opportunity to learn from someone who is both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:01 AM
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Yup, I think missing milestones throughout adolescence and puberty (having a girl you crushed on like you back, getting together with her and doing stuff you’ve fantasized about, physically being intimate at various degrees of intensity, etc.) are detrimental to the confidence building process. Idk how a fully grown man goes about reconciling their lack of even mild intimate contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:59 AM
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Yeah my intuition is pretty spot on. Look at you, man. If I had any doubts before, reading this verbal diarrhea you wrote helped me erase them. The people who follow that stuff are neither very smart or articulate. It’s fine. That’s how social media finds its reach. Go interact with people in person and you’ll learn something called nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:54 AM
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Time to spice it up. Wear some fun colors or patterns. Color your nails black. Go for the manwhore aesthetic. That works well for guys that aren’t much to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:47 AM
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Are you not super good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:39 AM
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You do not get a say in those things. That’s one facet where I feel bad for some people. Some are also just born more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:39 AM
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Successful people I know aren’t dumb enough to go digging around for generic life advice from influencers. Like seriously the only type of people I know consuming that garbage were and still are losers. They all say the same shit then flame out after they realize it’s not gonna happen for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:35 AM
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I think the most important kind of confidence is in being able to interact with people comfortably.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:31 AM
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If you’re not very confident as a grown adult, you most likely had limited investment in your upbringing by your parents and community. It really comes down to being loved first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:28 AM
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Men who know how to be useful get lots of sex. Incels are rarely hardworking or useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:26 AM
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I don’t think the dudes who can be independent and successful need social media to teach them how
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:22 AM
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Nah women are independently competent enough without us expecting anything of them. Men on the other hand need to be brutally conditioned so they can be useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:21 AM
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The whole point of redpill is to improve yourself in hopes of having more sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:16 AM
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It’s crazy you say that because I actually find the women I work with (STEM job) to be more competent on average if we have to break it down by gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:14 AM
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I mean grandma didn’t use those terms exactly but she understood people better than the dumbasses redpill gurus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:10 AM
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I think we should expect even more of men and nothing of women. A society with stressed women has the least sex bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:09 AM
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Gymbro incels are hilarious lol. They are the most stressed looking guys at the club just standing there tense and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:06 AM
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I mean it’s a romantic narrative for sure. Some women have very strong intuition that gets them ahead. It’s a fantasy about having said strong intuition to see the potential in somebody, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:20 AM
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I mean legitimate domestic instability definitely handicaps you no matter how low the bar is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:44 AM
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I don’t know about victim worship, but it is an indicator of resilience and aptitude if they went through such hardships and still managed to thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:39 AM
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Money. Money money money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:34 AM
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Being brings what you would seek. Dating is fun but when augmented with loneliness can become a game of compromise. Ideally we would all be around precisely who we want and where we want. It always hurts to hook up with a girl only to find out that they’re more into you than you are them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 08:08 AM
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Because I like to be helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:54 AM
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You need to work on your depression bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:47 AM
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You just seem so limited
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:37 AM
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What failures? Are these terms you’re that used to hearing? Lmao I can’t imagine hearing shit like this all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:33 AM
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Can’t help it man. You guys try so hard to ruin it for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:24 AM
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Have you ever thought of manhood as something others can’t take from you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:19 AM
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I’m just so tired of guys crying about the same old shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:19 AM
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This kind of attitude makes me embarrassed to be a man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:44 PM
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Don’t give away all our secrets
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:03 AM
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Idk that’s quite the sacrifice for the sake of science
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:56 AM
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I don’t believe they went that long
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:51 AM
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Yeah the dudes who do well always look relaxed. Short guys trying to stand on their tippy toes with a stick up their ass for maximum height are never the ones that give great energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:02 AM
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Important if the guy is gonna be insecure about it. There are two types of short guys. The kind that are insecure about their height ends up going far worse than the one that isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 01:01 AM
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No like how do they test whether they jerked off or not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 12:54 AM
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How did they test the second one? I would never trust a guy who says they haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:35 PM
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Why lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:13 PM
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Nah no one wants to marry a plain girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:31 PM
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Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:27 PM
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Would you not go for the hottest women if you could
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:55 PM
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Would you pick a wholesome plain girl when you could have the horsecock equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:00 AM
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You think most men do these things? I disagree my brother. These are very rare traits that most men probably think they have but do not lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:56 PM
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Indirect communication is just a social skill you need to master in general, not just in the dating space. It’s the difference between telling someone what you want vs. creating an environment that can produce the situation where they give you what you want without you having to ask. Think about it as, would you rather have money to pay for expensive things or have friends that give them to you for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:55 PM
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What do you consider treating women well to look like
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:50 PM
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That’s life I guess. Weather the storms so you can enjoy the 🌈.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:47 PM
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That’s the passport bro motto lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:55 PM
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Nah they were all pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:22 PM
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I met and slept with lots of girls without meeting any of those criteria either so don’t give up. You could definitely afford to come off less dorky
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:48 AM
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Lmao if it’s easier for you to believe that you can only be friends with men go ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:41 AM
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Can you read
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:29 AM
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I am an average looking man lol. Dating apps worked fine for me. If you aren’t having the same success it’s because your personality sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:28 AM
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Kudos to you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:04 AM
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I don’t think they’re just picky about looks, just the individual in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:18 AM
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Yeah lol guys need to realize that and embrace the idea of competition for women. We would all be better off if these guys got over their fear of competing against one another and actually tried to achieve every ounce of their potential. Women would naturally find these guys desirable as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 04:09 AM
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I don’t think men understand how much trust it takes to be vulnerable with them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:54 AM
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You would be too if you could be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:42 AM
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Girls do not find half of all guys attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:38 AM
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God damn dude you fall for half the girls you see?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:35 AM
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Would you not go for the hottest women if you could
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:30 AM
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Don’t even consider it approaching. Just talk to people in general. It’s called socializing but awkward guys turned it into some perverse circus.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:30 AM
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Is it really that bad? Meeting women is one of the more fun activities I took part in
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:28 AM
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Men who are successful with smart women are friends to women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:27 AM
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Who cares about research lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:26 AM
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If you were a woman would you want a bunch of horny dudes trying to get up in your face all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:23 AM
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Nah that’s a cop out to avoid self improvement and accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:21 AM
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Pretend you’re a decent looking woman on a dating app and every guy on there more or less wants the same thing from you. Would you not be more selective? Would you honestly approach it the way you think women “ought” to approach it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:21 AM
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🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:37 AM
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70/30 is fine since men are physically stronger. It’s the mental game that’s lacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:13 AM
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As a man, I agree. Most of these chores are so much easier done by a man. It frustrates me how dudes never want to make full use of their biological advantages. They assume women are sitting on their asses just like the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:58 PM
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Wow that sounds like a hard time. How complex do things need to get before it’s hard for you to verbalize?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:24 PM
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What’s an example of something that you find difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:17 PM
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Yeah I think the most important period is 23-27. That’s the make or break point where you decide if you’re looking good going into your late 20’s (and beyond) or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:16 PM
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Nice, maybe you can get some more experience talking to people. There’s gotta be a way to overcome your limitations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:13 PM
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People struggling in their 20’s now don’t have a very easy path toward getting their lives together later on. Most of my friends who got stuck in their 20’s flamed out and are in deep depression now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:17 PM
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How are your social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:16 PM
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No you can control the quality of your life experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:03 PM
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Hey man maybe try having better anecdotes then
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:35 PM
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Nah but if she grew up in abject poverty with little to no education and could barely speak the guys language, I could maybe see it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:24 AM
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Idk man I would rather be rejected because of factors outside of my control. Way easier pill to swallow. Personality you can work on. If you get rejected on that basis that means your decisions suck and you suck as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:23 AM
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You just said she’s broke Does that mean something else in the country you’re in
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:11 AM
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I guess this is par for the course when you’re relying solely on economic leverage to meet women. End up meeting mostly women that make terrible choices. I would not feel great in that kind of environment but whatever floats your boat man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 07:03 AM
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There what is? You would rather form your opinion off of stuff you read online?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:35 AM
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My intuition
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:52 AM
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Lol I feel like the dudes posting this garbage just stay in and watch porn all day. They are so many levels beneath just “unattractive”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:32 AM
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Yes dudes in here just grappling with their own lack of self awareness lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:26 AM
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I like my Greek yogurt the way you like your women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:24 AM
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Yeah not everyone has the right temperament for commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:18 AM
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You give this site too much credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:17 AM
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You don’t understand how women think. In their minds, it’s nicer to just say you rejected someone based on a characteristic like height or wealth rather than their personality. Almost all guys being rejected are being weeded out on a personality basis but are given reasons that they can understand and hopefully live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:17 AM
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Yeah but that’s Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:20 PM
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See dude you’re just proving my point. How are you gonna expect somebody to tolerate how you talk to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:45 PM
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Oh then they aren’t acting like one. They are little bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:39 PM
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I distanced myself because they seemed weak. Can’t have that around me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:37 PM
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Not to me usually but I’m a guy myself lol. I do tend to distance myself from guys who complain about such things though. There’s nothing I can or will do to help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:32 PM
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Idk what “opening up like a little bitch” means then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:30 PM
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Or the stress of keeping oneself looking presentable, compromising to accommodate others, staying on top of basic home upkeep (dishes, laundry, cleaning around the house). These comprise most things that guys will complain about. They can’t even clear these basic hurdles but expect another person to respect them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:28 PM
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Oh yeah just doing what you’re told is the worst way to get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:03 PM
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Oh I don’t mean crying like tears crying. I mean whining and being unable to cope with baseline stresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:36 PM
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They’d rather voice their half-baked yet strongly held opinions than keep an open mind and listen to people whose life experiences may be different from their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:34 PM
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I see. Seems like an oversimplification of a nuanced topic. Just like everything here lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:32 PM
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I mean think of all the things guys want. You know they aren’t gonna get everything at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:02 PM
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It’s more of a prerequisite than a way to stand out. Dudes on here like to conflate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:01 PM
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I love a good harem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:00 PM
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Gotta have an edge
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:59 PM
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What did you learn in middle school then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:58 PM
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Ppl here like to ramble on. Can you imagine dating one of these guys haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:58 PM
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Who’s they
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:56 PM
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Obviously their personalities have to be right for the role. Most guys just have severely underdeveloped personalities. Like imagine how tough it is as a woman to find a guy who’s both attractive and not a total dumbass. It’s impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:54 PM
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Crying is okay bud
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:51 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:50 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:50 PM
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Aww I’m sure you’re not a worthless loser man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:10 PM
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I think it’s more the shit that men cry over is usually off putting in how irrelevant it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:06 PM
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Women honestly don’t care about most of these things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:04 PM
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Yeah lol lots of aspirational stats on there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:01 PM
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What a catch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:19 AM
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I swear lol some guys just would rather be single than to listen to what women want
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:37 AM
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Guys who don’t smell like shit or blame others for their own lack of drive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:20 AM
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It’s his algorithm we’re just living in it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:19 AM
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Duh you’re 30
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 07:30 AM
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Hey man I wouldn’t downplay these guys’ mental disabilities. It ain’t easy out here for our autistic brethren. I don’t think you understand what women are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:42 AM
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Nah for men the social aspect is the most important. Women on the other hand just gotta look good for the most part haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:35 AM
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Hear you loud and clear, it’s tough out there and only getting more complicated with how the world is changing. Fewer opportunities for those without a great support system.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:18 AM
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Yeah lol nothing about single motherhood sets a child up for success I can agree on that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:01 AM
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That’s an interesting point about the presence of a father. As somebody with a pretty terrible relationship with theirs (he is now estranged from our family), I always envied friends with strong father figures. I think I also lucked out in a way though, I was naturally social and did well in school, so I got to where I needed to be, but I can see how it can be difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:00 AM
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That’s true. A socially inept guy is at the bottom of society’s totem pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:51 AM
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I don’t understand how so many dudes are coming out into the adult world in such terrible shape for life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:44 AM
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Shit lmao it sounds like she had a pretty awful time with some of you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:43 AM
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But why are they able to date non autistic men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:42 AM
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Why don’t you guys date each other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:58 AM
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That makes sense as a social species. Can’t have everyone go around independently verifying an individual’s qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:48 PM
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Never said easy haha. Just that it isn’t hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:45 PM
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Yeah, and that’s where I think women have a lower bar looks wise for a man they would date vs. who they would hook up with. A hookup would have to be attractive enough to elicit arousal in a less vulnerable environment like a bar or something (where women have their “guard” up) whereas a boyfriend just has to be nearby when she’s comfortable and lounging.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:44 PM
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I don’t think it’s supposed to be hard for a properly socialized person. I think the people on here are just in the minority that struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:37 PM
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Women enjoy sex too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:35 PM
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I value slutty women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:34 PM
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Why do a lot of women want him to begin with? Because women want him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:33 PM
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What’s hard about having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:32 PM
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Huh when did I say it is decoupled. I said it’s not always about love. Do you always think about how much you love someone before you think about having sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:21 PM
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The reason you want to have sex doesn’t come from how attracted you are to someone, but moreso how aroused you are in the moment. Love is good for building a relationship, but sex is just another thing entirely that might come about from being in proximity to someone while you’re aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:20 PM
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When did I say we should detach them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:18 PM
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Sex is not always an act of love. Sometimes it’s a frenzied ritual where bodily needs are met. Men and women both attach too much meaning to the act and less so the intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:26 AM
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Nah it’s easier for men It’s just that significantly less men actually know what they’re doing so the perceived difficulty might be higher for them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:45 PM
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Nah I’m a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:09 PM
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Are you saying you don’t think it’s easy to have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:11 PM
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Oh come on man it’s not that it’s impossible, it’s that women got better at choosing who they want. You could do it if you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:07 PM
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Idk what you’re debating anymore lol. Do you not think casual sex is easy for men or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:59 PM
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Anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:56 PM
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Men have more sex dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:51 PM
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Men have sex really easily
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:45 PM
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Who’s having the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:23 PM
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Making them drunk off of your swagger. Owning your imperfections.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:26 AM
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Who is giving them the sex? Other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:01 AM
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Shit if it’s even easier for them it must be pretty damn automatic since I already feel like it’s pretty easy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:32 AM
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To get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:31 AM
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Casual sex is one of the easiest things you can get lol. I’ve had restaurant reservations that required more effort than hitting a girl up for casual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:10 AM
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Hell yeah this would solve all his woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:45 PM
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Haha shit maybe 19 year olds just love me then
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:55 PM
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I mean I found it almost automatic when going for a younger woman whereas older women or even women my age might have different standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:23 PM
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Hold me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:02 PM
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If I’m dating younger women between 19-22 it’s for their insane sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:53 PM
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He needs to get over his own struggles lol. She needs a hand more than he does
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:52 PM
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Depending on how young it’s a lot easier to date younger. Might not have much in common besides wanting to have lots of sex together though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:46 PM
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Looks are only one factor too. Once you start fucking each other you hear/see them differently. Static photos can only reveal so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:01 AM
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If a guy knows what he’s doing she will have a very hard time not giving off involuntary signals to escalate as you call it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:53 PM
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I mean if it’s just nervousness guys are dealing with here I think this whole fear of rejection thing is overblown. It’s something that even kids have had to get over talking to their crush. Off putting to see grown men crumbling under the so called pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 04:35 PM
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I see them all the time at clubs and bars just looking around lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:37 AM
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I could see that being the case for women who only get accosted or something. I don’t think any woman actually wants to be hit on in public. I understand that sentiment as well. I think men should try talking to women the way they talk to each other. It sounds more genuine and less creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:33 AM
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I think it helped a lot to be less sensitive of others’ opinions. Especially over things I can’t really control. I just spent time doing things I enjoyed but also took time to grow as a man. I took jobs in sales and such that required me to talk to lots of people and become accustomed to saying what people wanted to hear while also being authentic to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 08:27 AM
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Unlike women, who truly are mostly at the mercy of how they were born looking, men have a lot of power in how they can shape their lives to attract and accommodate just about any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:57 AM
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I just think, from a woman’s perspective, there must be so few actually attractive guys that using that solely to compare men is not effective. That’s why I think average looking guys have a very real shot at just about any woman as long as he becomes more intentional about who he aims to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:49 AM
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I never said they were successful yet haha but I guess we’ll see if they are. Are you just like vaguely familiar with this story and just being annoying on Reddit about it or actually invested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:40 AM
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Chadfishing doesn’t get the same results as irl charisma though. You get way more play being a normal-ish looking guy with a fun outlook on life vs. a dry rubbed Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:38 AM
1

I mean before puberty not a lot of guys had success with girls haha. I think these things matter more as you become an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:31 AM
2

Studios had to stop production. If they could be replaced they would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:30 AM
1

Are you hideous or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:22 AM
1

Yeah but the things a woman might like about you are going to be less superficial than what you like about her. If you want to be appreciated for facets besides your looks you better get good at sharing those facets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:14 AM
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Hey time to get comfortable with yourself first. You’re the one who teaches women how to appreciate you not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:02 AM
1

I think a lot of guys just live in so much fear of how they’re perceived they always feel the need to act tough and serious. You’d be surprised at how an average looking guy with a relaxed smile on his face can get vs. some rigid Adonis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:01 AM
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Yeah man it’s a lot of subtle tricks but I assure you you aren’t gonna get any worse at it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:54 AM
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Did you grow up fairly introverted? Maybe you got to just get some practice at it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:54 AM
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Hey man that’s why you gotta exist by your actions and not by your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:53 AM
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Damn that’s a rough statement. Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:52 AM
1

There are good photos and bad photos of every individual. You can see that even when you go on Instagram and see someone else’s profile. There are ways to take better photos of oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:49 AM
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It’s every young man’s coming of age experience or so I thought. It always felt so good when a girl in class in HS/college I fantasized about would later let me know they felt the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:48 AM
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Yeah because they won’t be paid for their likeness anymore haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:47 AM
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Maybe it’s less stressful for you to talk to men because you operate more genuinely and not from a place of ulterior motive? I think it helps a lot to see women as just people first then think about what you want from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:46 AM
1

I’ve been called deformed before. Didn’t stop me from getting what I wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:45 AM
1

A good photo is useful just so they know what they’re working with. Girls aren’t sizing you up the way you think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:43 AM
1

I mean if they really can replace them why is the strike so effective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:42 AM
1

Yeah for real. The more I read on here the more I realize very few people had the experiences I did as I came of age. How many of you had a crush like you back?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:40 AM
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Being invisible is an advantage lol. Go use that to have an interesting life and then you’ll get the women you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:39 AM
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Why do you see communicating with women as being so different from communicating with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 05:37 AM
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Yeah one is an underdeveloped person who is pretending to care about certain things out of ulterior motives. The other is a genuinely empathetic and mature person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:40 PM
1

Oh you’re gonna be annoying about it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:45 PM
1

Is this something you saw? Where are you from lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:24 PM
2

Is this something you’ve found commonplace in real life? My experience is that everyone, both men and women, has much more moderate opinions than those you find online because people here try to hold inflammatory views for attention. Face to face, people tend to be much more reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:20 PM
2

Nah, the Internet unfortunately puts certain people without adequate social skills on an equal footing with those who do by giving them a platform. It’s not the same as talking to someone charismatic in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:27 PM
2

Oh bro that’s the Internet lmao. Don’t tell me that’s how you base your world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:06 PM
2

Really? I felt like women are very welcoming and nice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:47 PM
1

What are all these contrived examples haha Dude you definitely have a very unproductive way of viewing the world. Especially viewing Trump like some model of confidence lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:05 AM
2

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:52 AM
2

The couple knows if they’re trying or not lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:50 AM
2

The kind of sex we talk about here isn’t the same as the sex of a couple trying to procreate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:46 AM
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Those church guys prefer them younger and more vulnerable I think. Isn’t it ironic that men who feel so shamed by sex also seek out the most perverse forms of it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:45 AM
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I don’t think we have the same understanding of the word insecure lol. It isn’t some catalyst for positive behavior. It is insidious and often very destructive. The only way to really deal with it is acceptance. Trump definitely cares about how he’s perceived. The crowds at his rallies are as much his audience as those criticizing him in the media. He wants a lot of attention so he can then use that to his own ends. This was the textbook strategy other nations’ right leaning politicians followed…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:42 AM
3

If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:33 AM
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You can just tell people you have had the socially acceptable amount of sex. Like, who will drill further into that? Some weirdo?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:32 AM
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I’m not sure what kind of self improvement you’re talking about, but it takes a lot of confidence to believe you can improve yourself and then apply some sort of plan or strategy to do so. The things you’re mentioning don’t solve the underlying insecurity, just masks it. Actually trump is exactly the kind of guy who obsesses over how he’s perceived, and most importantly that he is perceived. Is that not insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:30 AM
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I feel like either party could easily lie about this lol. Doesn’t really feel like a stigma if you can control it so heavily
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:20 AM
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Confidence doesn’t mean you aren’t open to changing yourself lol Trump isn’t confident. He’s an insecure narcissist buoyed by privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:07 AM
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That’s usually what most people want as well. I think it makes sense to be flexible on things like that as well just to try something new
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:56 AM
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Yeah, sex is sex! I think people need to stop putting it on a pedestal and just start enjoying it for the activity it is. For most of us it is purely recreational. Not different from dancing or playing video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:38 AM
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Why are either of those facts something that others need to know about you at all though? Like who in “society” is wanting to know this so badly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:35 AM
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Women are so mean to each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:33 AM
1

Sounds good for genetic diversity!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:32 AM
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Not all sex is equal though. I’d argue that it takes women a lot more effort to have satisfying sex than it does a man. As a guy, I can more or less have a good experience with most attractive women. As a woman, it would be much harder to find a man who’s attractive and also knows what they’re doing so that we can both enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:12 AM
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My nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:33 PM
1

Did they lose
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:33 PM
3

I see
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:16 PM
3

I’m a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:13 PM
3

Dude go get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:10 PM
2

Have you made a woman orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:52 PM
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Is it pretty common?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:50 PM
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Yeah who decided that was average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:47 PM
2

Why is that a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:11 PM
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You’re
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:11 PM
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Do you think your mistake ridden rambling post is fooling anyone lol This is a cry for help
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:06 AM
2

Why are they getting divorced
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:58 AM
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It’s funny you liken your struggle to get laid to being a conscientious objector of war.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:57 AM
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As they should have been. It’s war.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:51 AM
9

It’s not a new concept to do whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:50 AM
4

Sounds like we always had these guys then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:49 AM
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Why did they need an entire campaign if men were already playing that role
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:45 AM
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Do you think being a selfish man is a new concept
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:42 AM
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Why stop at divorce? You can probably find lots of data that happens to correlate with that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:30 AM
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It’s fine if you like movies. Just don’t go trying to force an analogy from some old movie to match your contrived little narrative. You didn’t experience trauma brother. You just experienced being hornier than you knew what to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:23 AM
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Marriages that didn’t end up in divorce were probably more stable to begin with. Obviously a child would do better from a more stable household.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:14 AM
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I guess it does make sense that someone stuck in prolonged adolescence can only try to describe their world view using terms from their childhood action movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:02 AM
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I think any kind of participation in society that’s productive helps boys become healthier men. Most guys on here just seem like they barely know how to communicate with other men let alone women they’re interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:41 AM
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I don’t think we’re talking about men here but more like overgrown boys. You clearly don’t really know real adult males lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:54 PM
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Fuck survival I want to live the way I want lol. See you consider that living and that’s sad. I do exactly what I want to and that gets me the results I seek.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:24 PM
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and who wields that power? It’s those perceived as intelligent and confident, which men often are. Do you not seen how respect and power works in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:10 PM
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Maybe someone without security. It really does come down to physical power in a lot of ways. Also, your male relatives will be persecuted for doing so and you’ll ruin not only your life but theirs as well. Doesn’t sound like power to me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:50 PM
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I mean if the extent of your power comes down to how men perceive your lack of power, I don’t think you have the same leverage as those possessing the means to take action. I’m not sure how much we as a society even care about the safety of women. Are you familiar with any victims of domestic violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:36 PM
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I don’t need to act smart or confident because I’m already perceived that way. If I do the bare minimum about my appearance I get praise whereas women must invest much more time and effort just to not be judged negatively. Standards are low for men lol that’s why I’m able to live a great life with minimal stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:55 PM
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No but I get a lot of stuff for minimal effort that they need to work hard for. I never have to second guess myself. It’s a huge perk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:39 PM
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What am I a victim of lol I’m a guy. I love my life because it’s so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:23 PM
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I mean do you think they have that much power?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:25 PM
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Lol you believe women have enough power to abuse? If you were given the chance, would you try being born again as a woman and living your life over again?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:03 PM
1

I guess friendship with a loser like our guy in question is really not worth much anyways huh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:58 PM
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What’s her desire lol It’s just friendship god damn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:53 PM
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He sounds like a flaky little loser then. I can’t imagine this guy is taken very seriously by those around him lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:53 PM
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lol I’m sure this happens all the time as you get to know people better. Doesn’t mean it’s worth throwing away the friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:44 PM
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What’s the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:41 PM
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Yeah but a lot of men seem to fail at relationships for very similar reasons lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:39 PM
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Why are you not upfront about what you want? That’s what mature adults I know do. They tell you at the very start what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:38 PM
1

Are you his incel friend
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:58 PM
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Defend us from our shitty healthcare system and broken down infrastructure instead of joining a jobs program for underachieving young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:22 PM
1

What does being used mean to you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:45 PM
1

Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:24 PM
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Who hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:20 PM
1

Lol that’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:19 PM
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Idk man maybe you just aren’t worth helping
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:06 PM
1

You pretend to be stupid? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:06 PM
2

Shit maybe I’m working at the wrong tech company but mine is full of incompetent men (socially and technically).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:50 PM
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Why don’t you dream bigger lol You can do this as a hideous man as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:42 PM
2

Idk man I’d rather be robbed than raped
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:19 PM
4

If you are who you sound like then I don’t think you would get very far as an ugly woman lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:38 PM
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If you say so my man. I think happy women mean more sex for society as a whole but you seem to think it’s about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:37 PM
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Koreans love commenting on your weight. It is basically a greeting for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:30 PM
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How am I coping lol I’m just a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:27 PM
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Nah lol everyone knows what it’s like to want something they can’t have. It’s just that incels are unwilling to work for anything at all because they can’t have exactly what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:27 PM
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I’m a man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:25 PM
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I don’t think you would enjoy the kind of sex most women are getting lol, let alone that of unattractive women with limited options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:25 PM
2

I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:24 PM
0

That helps! Also, the wealth could also be a result of successful integration.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:07 AM
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Maybe I’m biased from my time in the surrounding area like Federal Way or Lynnwood. Those Asian communities are tough to break out of imo. It might have been nice for first generation immigrants, but it can’t be good for those born here who are at a disadvantage because they don’t really get to mingle with greater society as much as they should.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:02 AM
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Nah Seattle Asians still like to cloister in insular groups. I wasn’t even born in the states and I felt less foreign than those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:54 AM
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Lol fapping is such a horrible substitute for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:51 AM
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Race matters if you struggle to assimilate. If you act like any other guy of the region you’re trying to date in though you will face less obstacles based on race.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:48 AM
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Sure lol I don’t care about that either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:44 AM
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It’s true though incels’ opinions on sex should be discarded outright lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:41 AM
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Parenting is a big factor as well. They can make you feel insecure and less confident by focusing on superficial aspects too frequently (even if it is not directed at the child).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:40 AM
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Yeah I agree. Asian men do have a pretty easy time nowadays standing out amongst the competition. I think people like OP probably watch a lot of porn and don’t actually observe people in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:16 AM
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I mean I see plenty of unattractive women irl. Maybe you’re just horny my boy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:13 AM
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Please don’t use the term hot boys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:12 AM
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Yeah but those are easier to address than being ugly lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:58 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:30 AM
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Personality is a big part of my success with women. I like to listen actively and try to help them feel relaxed and safe sharing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:19 AM
8

Just be proportional and charismatic. These two work better than any single metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:16 AM
2

Idk man maybe we use different scales lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:08 AM
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It’s the component women are judged most critically on by both their own and others. Men have a wider variety of characteristics they’re judged upon, but none are as crucial as looks are for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:06 AM
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Being an unattractive woman is harder than being an unattractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:01 AM
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Nah man having beautiful platonic friends is the way to so much more
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:20 AM
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Idk about you but as a man I got some higher standards than those you described lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 11:00 PM
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Lol the Texas method. Yeah religion and lack of education can get you far. The children are going to lack any real opportunities to go beyond their parents though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:20 PM
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Yeah dude the best part is to make someone ELSE orgasm. If it was just about yourself you can just do that at home lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:17 PM
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Yeah there definitely needs to be more sex in the world. I think once you see it as a casual fun thing you stop being so obsessed with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:16 PM
1

Then just keep cruising until you can retire without hurting your QoL
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:10 PM
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Tbh there’s no incel that’s a bad listener
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:30 PM
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Yeah and I feel like the ones who do it are too socially lacking to understand the virtues of cooperation and teamwork. Like nobody alone is that special. Even the strongest of men required both other men and women to help them achieve what they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:26 PM
1

Are we talking $500k-$1m or like $150k? If it’s the latter I’d just stick to worrying about my own retirement while continuing to maintain a financially comfortable household.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:14 PM
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Because that’s the closest they have ever been to success
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:05 PM
1

They’re losers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:32 PM
1

How much porn we talking my man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:12 PM
1

What if you had to start over as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:36 PM
1

Would you rather be a woman then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:25 PM
1

Is this your champion?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:23 PM
5

vampire BDSM never hurt nobody
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:21 PM
1

Tell us your last two unanswered texts for reference
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:19 PM
4

Can you read lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:15 PM
1

98% of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:20 PM
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Isn’t it what used to kill women the most even during very arduous times like the Middle Ages? I’m sure those women weren’t pampered and they still couldn’t make it through childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:18 PM
1

Thanks for describing your ideal breasts. Do you watch a lot of porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:16 PM
3

A lot of sexual abuse happens via family members and those you’re already vulnerable to and trusting of anyways. Random rapes off the street is not a huge portion of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:15 PM
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What do they need surgery for if it isn’t genetic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:08 PM
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I think they’re facing the consequences of men being rapists moreso than they themselves dressing attractively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:07 PM
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Yeah men in general have a lower emotional bar for tolerating pain and rejection throughout life. I think it’s because they can exhibit antisocial tendencies without necessarily feeling unsafe whereas women still need to show an ability to tolerate those they dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:03 PM
1

True. It is because they don’t want to admit how much work women have to put in to be presentable to men. If men had to put in an equal amount of effort, I think they would be less hypocritical and also have better luck being seen as more sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:00 PM
1

Lol you hate thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:38 AM
1

Cmon answer it. You seem pretty unhappy as a man. Why not change that for good?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:35 AM
1

That’s not an answer. Why not a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:33 AM
0

You sound pretty miserable as a man why not try being a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:31 AM
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If you could be born again, which gender would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:22 AM
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