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| 1 | What does the opposite gender that you desire/interact with look like?I've always had the biggest weakness for people that are brilliant, somewhat introverted, will play board games with me (I love twilight imperium, iron dragon, Puerto Rico, netrunner, and basically anything made by fantasy flight), who are enjoyable to be around, tend to be more theoretical than practical, are also genuinely kind (not fake nice), and care about the people around them (even if sometimes have difficulty expressing that). The vast majority of my relationships have been with these t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 09:40 AM |
| 0 | Redpillers, have you considered Mormonism? After reading the side bars for your subs, it seems like it would be a good fit.Isn't there an emphasis on women having a low body count, and males finding a high value partner, and then being monogamous? I'm not Mormon, or redpill, but it seems like an easy solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.So the infertility rate for women 35-39 year old is around 18%, which is up from 8% from women aged 19-26. So they're 8% more infertile. When the man is 40 instead of 35 though, the infertility of a woman 35-39 goes from 18% to 28%, so again a 10% increase. So male infertility is already included in the 18% of women aged 35-39 who fail to conceive. Therefore you're wrong that male infertility is at 0-10%, it is at least 10%. And more likely, it's about equal for men and women. And just because 1… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.Ah, see during this interaction, I assumed that you actually read articles before commenting on the contents of them like you weren't a fucking idiot. My mistake then, mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.Which men also experience. Sperm quality goes down significantly after 35. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.newscientist.com/article/mg21929275-500-mens-sperm-quality-decreases-at-age-35/amp/ So that's a human trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.The average age of menopause in the USA is 51 yo, not 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.There are numbers of people being in the study and the percentages are based on that... Did you actually read it? Or do you not understand how percentages work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.More like removed for posting science that doesn't support redpill ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.35 year olds have a much higher rate of surviving pregnancy and delivery than 18 year olds do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.Ancydotal evidence isn't evidence. This doesn't claim that men are infertile at 35 (neither are women), BUT it does become more difficult for men after 35 than women of the same age. Here's another read about that: https://www.newscientist.com/article/mg21929275-500-mens-sperm-quality-decreases-at-age-35/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.They have slightly more trouble making babies than younger people, but not significantly more. More than 75% of females won't have any trouble in late thirties. However sperm starts deteriorating rapidly at about 35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.I'm not sure where you're getting the men infertility being so low as that's not what the study concluded. "Starting in the late 30s, male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years. The estimated percentage of infertile couples that would be able to conceive after an additional 12 cycles of trying varied from 43-63% depending on age." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Study concluded that infertility was at 18% for women 35-39 years old, however starting in the late 30s male age was an important factor, with the percentage failing to conceive within 12 cycles increasing from an estimated 18-28% between ages 35 and 40 years.I'm not sure how the op would indicate that it either would or wouldn't be ideal. If a woman is sterile (and that's only about 1% of women) it's not a significant increase with age and still well under 25% in mid thirties (so the vast majority of mid thirties women wouldn't have an issue). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.You already had your opinion about mgtow from the start. True, I did. It's literally written in the OP, that you didn't take 3 minutes to read before commenting on. My assumption was that there would be interesting content because relationships take up so much time and energy. You are here to have them reaffirmed. I was proven wrong actually in that it wasn't a very interesting sub, which ok that happens. The Borg thing is amazingly funny and I've been trying to connect/assimilate into the hive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.You ignored the info page, searched for a few shocking rants about women, decided those were the defining tenets of mgtow, then posted your "research " here. Did I? Where did I say this? Please directly quote that non-existent statement. You were right about one thing. I didn't read the info page, but I also did not search for anything. I went through the first 3 pages of new and top posts. Are you suggesting that they were abnormal yesterday or that the general top posts aren't typically the vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.<You are an outlier, which isn't a big deal, so what? Am I? Are there actually studies backing that up? I genuinely don't know. Most of my female friends also have ADHD because it's easy to meet other weirdos when you are one (in general), and ADHD does cause hyperfocusing and obsession so it's possible that my examples are all outliners, but are there statistics for this? It's kind of hard to say because anything could be a hobby if done this way... Even liking mugs. Sure, owning mugs isn't rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.I have no issue with people choosing this for whatever reason, but the sub reducing women to a collective hive mind while repeating their beliefs and reenforcing opinions is generally amusing. People who don't get married or waste time on relationships and have more time to focus on hobbies and interests makes a ton of sense to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.Why? Did you expect people here to be negative towards mgtow? There are similar aspects, which is why I asked here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.I am confused. Having read the rest of your post, this is obvious. Men choose not to marry or not to date and are pretty open about it, what is the problem? With that? Absolutely nothing. Why would I care what consenting individuals do or don't do with their time? I don't. With accusing women of having a hive mind while reenforcing each other's perspective in a bubble? Even your post which is full of projection and assumptions based on things I never said while trying to tell me that my opinion … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.That is also funny, but mostly my point is that it's amazing to be considered part of the borg. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 09:02 AM |
| 6 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.That's the most reasonable answer I've seen so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.For all you know I'm in a kitchen right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.Neither, I'm obviously here for the entertainment. I could ask you the same question, seeing as you hyperfocused on one tiny part of my op, decided that's what to argue to "change my mind" while literally ignoring the rest of the content despite a tiny bit of reading comprehension showing that my post is clearly not about hobbies alone or how different genders may experience said hobbies... I could tell you that I have very deep hobbies including trains, strategy board games (mostly twilight imp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.Ok boomer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/19 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.Ah, well in that case I'm fully on board with people having personal autonomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Mgtow ideas are pretty amusing.Oh shit, there's a wgtow? That's got to be a ridiculous sub also. I'm going to have to check that also, you know....for science. A cmv of why it's not ridiculous though, I guess? Are there mgtow redpillers? I thought so, but based on your response I may have gotten that wrong. I'm not really sure why they think women care that they're "going their own way"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How to make and sustain friendships (regardless of gender)?Not really.... I talk to a lot of random people first, which is why I've been invited to coffee. I have no problem talking to a lot of different people, but I over think how to interact. I've had an entire conversation with someone I didn't know about blanket octopus. They were fascinated because I enjoyed the topic and asked me to hangout . I don't have a problem starting and holding an entire conversation and hanging out with people... But that's different than knowing what I'm expected to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How to make and sustain friendships (regardless of gender)?especially since the common definition is sufficiently broad to include acquaintances. Fair point. Personally, women as “friends” are one of the best ways to get laid. They can speak highly of you and you will skip levels in the game immediately from them doing this. This makes a lot of sense, and I'm not sure why more people wouldn't consider it. Friends help me move, have my back, self-sacrifice for your well-being when the time calls for it. I kind of agree here. I have people who would absol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How to make and sustain friendships (regardless of gender)?That's funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine?What about kilts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/19 07:24 AM |
| 2 | Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine?Buddy, modern coding is incredibly easy. You can currently take an 8 week python bootcamp and get a job coding... You're actually suggesting that mathematicians who laid the ground work for computing had an easier job because they were female? You're suggesting that women who created coding languages had an easier job? With a straight face? I'm an egalitarian, but your point is ridiculous. This isn't to say that all of the work was creative or required being analytical, of course. Is modern comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine?The first algorithm intended to be executed by a computer was designed by Ada Lovelace, who was a pioneer in the field. Grace Hopper was the first person to design a compiler for a programming language. Ida Rhodes was a mathematician that was a pioneer in the analysis of systems of programming, and with Betty Holberton designed the C-10 programing language in the early 1950s for the UNIVAC I. She also designed the original computer used for the Social Security Administration. In 1949, the Depart… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine?Ah, so you were taking this post which is clearly about historical changes in gender norms and reducing it to be about hair and clothes? That doesn't really make sense, but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine?Either really. I'm curious about different perspectives in regards to history changing and why they do or so not matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Which gender norms do you think should be followed, considering history changes what is feminine and masculine?Current culture may push back on anything you do regardless of if you force yourself to change or not. I don't see that as a good reason to do anything, but if someone else does they can. As far as "that's just how humans work" I'm not actually sure. Do you have sources for that? Using dating sites as an example, two people could be rated a "7" consistently. However if the majority of the population sees them as a 7, they're actually at a disadvantage compared to people who half of the populatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 April 2019)Ah I've seen it around here in some threads such as this one: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/bjgz5r/what_do_you_do_in_your_free_time/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 April 2019)So it's not a thing, but you asked why it's suddenly a thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (28 April 2019)Haven't you heard, reading Chronicles of Amber, Anything by Tolkien, or Neil Gaiman, or any sci-fi/fantasy classics are a massive mistake. You want to be alpha. Play more rugby. Read less. Don't like good storylines. Ignore the fact that humans learned through story telling for thousands of years. God forbid. That's how you become a beta cuck. /S | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Women with masculine traits do you look for men with feminie traits or men who are so masculine they make you more feminine?Yes, I basically look like Jane Lynch and am only attracted to men who look like 16 year old lesbians. /S | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 09:10 AM |
| 3 | What do you do in your free time?I'd just stare and say "I'm actually a colony of a thousand crabs from the planet Truliago, studying the habits of humans. Do you have a minute to talk about Herdra the crab god, today?" But that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 09:01 AM |
| 1 | What do you do in your free time?I'm keeping a bee garden, composting with worms, obsessed with trains and model trains, I love board games and host a weekly board game night (usually Twilight Imperium, Iron Dragon, Game of thrones board game, Lord of the rings board game, Lord of the rings risk, if we don't have a lot of time for whatever reason than settlers of Catan, rune age, ticket to Ride, Dominion, net runner, the disk world board game, and if really no time something like flux), I also like video games (mostly things li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 08:57 AM |
| 0 | The increase in socially incompetent men is often brought up. What about women?Not really true. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 08:39 AM |
| 3 | The increase in socially incompetent men is often brought up. What about women?It's a thing. I'm in the 99th percentile for ADHD. So you know that stereotype of the 12 year old boy that gets up, runs around, disrupts class, misses social cues, brings up his love of Tesla coils and trains and then talks about them without stopping for 20 minutes all while the rest of the class is staring like "wtf is your problem?!' and he doesn't get it? Yeah, that's basically my life as a late 20s female. I'd argue that it wasn't the internet or any specific thing that made me this way, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/19 08:38 AM |
| 9 | Why do some women exclusively date men way older than them, but men don't?No idea. I've never seen the appeal of dating some dude significantly older than me. Men typically die younger than women. I don't want my husband to keel over 15-20 years before I do. Also statistically marriages have a much higher rate of success when there's no more than 5 years in either direction. My husband is 3 years younger than I am. It's a good fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/19 03:02 AM |
| 1 | The effects of hormonal birth control on womenThank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/19 12:20 PM |
| 1 | The effects of hormonal birth control on womenI have a severe contact allergy to several metals including copper. I did ask the doctor if it would matter as it's internal, but she said that is something I absolutely don't want to test as it can cause a bad reaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/19 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Advice: Do men lose anything by putting off dating?Hints the "she's still 'past the wall' by rp standards" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Advice: Do men lose anything by putting off dating?It did work out well for George Clooney though. So if you happen to be George Clooney you may be able to get a gorgeous and brilliant human rights attorney that represented Julian Assange, but I guess she'd be "past the wall" by redpill standards also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Advice: Do men lose anything by putting off dating?Women typically out live their spouses. I've never had that desire. I signed up for a best friend/lover/roommate when I got married and I want that shit for life. My husband is 4 years younger than I am. We have a good chance of living to the same time statistically. That may not be important for you, but it was worth considering for me. I'd have never had a serious relationship with someone super old when I was 18-22. And I would have considered 29 super old then. I met my now husband at 26. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 10:12 AM |
| 1 | From whom do you value compliments the most?I want to be famous, but like drummer from Coldplay famous. He has a shit ton of money, and still anonymity. No one knows who the fuck he is. It could be any of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 09:58 AM |
| 1 | From whom do you value compliments the most?woman & I value compliments from people who are knowledgeable on what topic they're complimenting me about. I don't really like looks based compliments at all. It can be amusing if it's something unusual like "I like how your nose scrunches when you laugh." Because then it doesn't come off as generic as it still probably is. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Older women who never had children.Alternatively, I know some older women who were stay at home moms and now regret having children. Like anything else, it depends on the people. I never wanted kids. I accidentally became pregnant. I have a kid. It's interesting seeing the kid learn and develop a personality and interests but the first year was the most boring shit ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 09:50 AM |
| 3 | The effects of hormonal birth control on womenAlthough I will add to my previous comment that I had many friends while in highschool on birth control who weren't sexually active. It can also be used to help regulate periods, address large amounts of blood loss, severe cystic acne, reduce migraines and things like this. Puberty is weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 09:32 AM |
| 3 | The effects of hormonal birth control on womenhttps://youtu.be/Hr8BYCHfbEs Yes. I've always responded terribly to hormonal birth control. I'm naturally extremely level headed, no mood swings, no depression, direct/not passive aggressive, etc. The pill isn't something I'd ever take (any of them) as I'm super ADHD. There's no way in hell I could remember to take it at the same time every single day, and that's the only way that it is effective. I'm 29, my husband is 25, and we have a baby and neither want more. I tried to have my tubes tied a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men what would you do if your wife/ girlfriend demand that you spend equal or more amount of money on her than you have on any other woman before?I guess I can kind of see this depending on what it is. I don't really mind splitting dinner or whatever, but if he payed thousands of dollars on plane tickets to where she lived or flying her to him or something like that, but wouldn't want to travel an hour to see me when he could that would be a deal breaker. My husband did this. We lived on separate continents and he bought several plane tickets to visit me or bring me to him. I was willing to pay mine, but he still did. We split things more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Jumping on the Bipolar question: if you're one of the men that describes a large amount of your exes or women you know as bipolar (which seems common around here), why do you buy into trp or tpp as they're suppose to be strategies for the majority of people and bipolar disorder is very rare?No they really don't. I am a woman. I have female friends. I've only heard any of those in rare cases where it was warranted. I think: 1 crazy ex possible, 2 crazy exes really pushing it, 3 or more and you're probably the problem regardless of gender. If someone did actually attract crazy people and was fine then that would still be unhealthy in who they're attracted to. If a large amount of someone's exes are crazy, jerks, losers, narcissist, bipolar etc that's a massive red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on equal rights?Do you disagree with my post? What about it? | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Jumping on the Bipolar question: if you're one of the men that describes a large amount of your exes or women you know as bipolar (which seems common around here), why do you buy into trp or tpp as they're suppose to be strategies for the majority of people and bipolar disorder is very rare?If a woman is a "screetching, emotional beast" on her period, she should see a gynocologist and be tested for pmdd. It's not really normal. It is not a fact that it is. Different women have different types of periods, some barely bother them at all. Some have excruciating periods, but that's usually Indicative of a problem such as fibroids, cysts or pmdd (or other things.) Women are not bipolar by nature. That's not a fact. 25% of women are not bipolar, that is not a fact. I don't remember the l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 04:43 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on equal rights?A very rational centric response. I agree with you. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 04:39 PM |
| -6 | What are your thoughts on equal rights?Do you have statistics to back this up? I've certainly seen this sometimes from "feminist". I just don't agree that it's the majority. Anyway, what is your opinion on equality, gender rights, gender roles and what needs to change in society? | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 04:38 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on equal rights?Okay, so who should have which rights? | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Jumping on the Bipolar question: if you're one of the men that describes a large amount of your exes or women you know as bipolar (which seems common around here), why do you buy into trp or tpp as they're suppose to be strategies for the majority of people and bipolar disorder is very rare?Huh. Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Jumping on the Bipolar question: if you're one of the men that describes a large amount of your exes or women you know as bipolar (which seems common around here), why do you buy into trp or tpp as they're suppose to be strategies for the majority of people and bipolar disorder is very rare?Can you expound on this a little? It seems like a lot of the "redpill game" is set up to make women insecure and then feed on that insecurity for a power in balance. Someone pointed this out earlier in the thread and it does appear that way to me also. Can you tell me how that's inaccurate/how your relationships are healthier now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Jumping on the Bipolar question: if you're one of the men that describes a large amount of your exes or women you know as bipolar (which seems common around here), why do you buy into trp or tpp as they're suppose to be strategies for the majority of people and bipolar disorder is very rare?Being invested in factually accurate information does not mean someone is triggered. I'm arguing with you because I enjoy debating. It's that simple. I do agree that men are more likely to be jailed then women even when that should not be the case. I support equal rights in all things. More men should be teachers if they want to. More women should consider stem. More men should get care for domestic violence/ abuse when they face it and be taken seriously when they seek treatment for things like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 03:10 PM |
| 4 | Jumping on the Bipolar question: if you're one of the men that describes a large amount of your exes or women you know as bipolar (which seems common around here), why do you buy into trp or tpp as they're suppose to be strategies for the majority of people and bipolar disorder is very rare?Men can be bipolar also. It's not a "female specific disorder." Most studies even report an equal amount of men and women who are bipolar. Women can be autistic (often caught later than men with autism, but not always). Considering the percentage of women on anti-depressants, and higher probability for women to develop mental disorders in their adult life rather than in childhood, every man should be mentally ready for the moment his gf suddenly goes nuts and apeshit. That's really not how that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 01:47 PM |
| -1 | Anyone else grew up thinking shared interests were a major cause of attraction?Maybe people notice but find it very amusing? I know someone that does that. I don't think he knows that we know. It's hilarious though. I ask a lot of questions like I take him seriously. He may actually think I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 01:36 PM |
| 6 | Jumping on the Bipolar question: if you're one of the men that describes a large amount of your exes or women you know as bipolar (which seems common around here), why do you buy into trp or tpp as they're suppose to be strategies for the majority of people and bipolar disorder is very rare?That actually makes sense. Thanks. Damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 12:37 PM |
| 1 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.How the fuck can you diagnose a child with ADHD reliably? They're a fucking child. How can anyone look at a 5 year old and decide if they have a neurological disorder or not? If it is something more blatant like autism I get it, that shows itself in more obvious ways, but ADHD is pretty subtle. All kids are hyper and don't concentrate. Seriously, tell me, how do you tell if a kid has ADHD in any reliable form? But considering I did actually get diagnosed with ADHD twice that is the only one that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 12:28 PM |
| 3 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.Wouldn't that go against trp idea of women liking "bad boys"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Jumping on the Bipolar question: if you're one of the men that describes a large amount of your exes or women you know as bipolar (which seems common around here), why do you buy into trp or tpp as they're suppose to be strategies for the majority of people and bipolar disorder is very rare?Honestly, the most interesting part of the advice I've seen here is that I've had guys do really weird shit and I didn't know why and didn't respond how they expected. Reading the side bar/advice given is like realizing what they thought was happening/trying to do and it didn't work. A really small/not big deal example was I saw something like : "don't get too close/be mysterious" (which totally makes sense & is good advice with someone you don't really know/don't blurt out your life story or wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 11:58 AM |
| 1 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.Have you looked into autism? May as well at this point, right? It can be pretty hard to diagnose apparently in some very high functioning people and sometimes only spotted after first anxiety/depression/bipolar/ADHD or sensory processing disorders. It's not uncommon for someone to be diagnosed with several things before that kind of clicks. Also what psychiatrist are you seeing for half an hour? Dear God the shortest I've gotten is 45 mins. I want all my time back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Jumping on the Bipolar question: if you're one of the men that describes a large amount of your exes or women you know as bipolar (which seems common around here), why do you buy into trp or tpp as they're suppose to be strategies for the majority of people and bipolar disorder is very rare?Glad you asked. The pirate party. Want to join? We're setting sail at noon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 11:44 AM |
| 1 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.Weird. I married a super level headed/sane/ if anything super mild autistic guy. I have enough crazy, not looking for more crazy. To each their own though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 11:42 AM |
| 2 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.It makes far more sense that you were easily diagnosed as you were diagnosed as a child. 5 makes sense, ADHD isn't a mood/behavior disorder. It's a nuerodevelopmental disorder (somewhat similar to autism actually) that's one reason brain scans show a difference. To have a diagnosis as an adult you have to have these symptoms your entire life, not just suddenly or It's for a different reason. Is it that easy for someone in England to get a diagnosis without a history? 10 mg 4x a day isn't really … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 11:39 AM |
| 5 | Jumping on the Bipolar question: if you're one of the men that describes a large amount of your exes or women you know as bipolar (which seems common around here), why do you buy into trp or tpp as they're suppose to be strategies for the majority of people and bipolar disorder is very rare?Okay, I'm not asking why people use trp/tpp strategies overall, but if the majority of women that you've been attracted to (mom and aunt hopefully not included) exhibit the same symptoms, wouldn't it make more sense to examine that rather than apply it to the population at large when the population at large does not consistently exhibit these symptoms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 11:34 AM |
| 1 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.To get dexdrine in the Netherlands I had to see so many people first and take so many tests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 11:21 AM |
| 2 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.Bizarre. Maybe you are the one true unicorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 11:19 AM |
| 1 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.Depends what you're planning to do with it. Break up/stop seeing them? Okay sure. Whatever. Stay together or still see them and treat them bipolar: can be super damaging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 11:09 AM |
| 1 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.How many have you seen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 11:08 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else grew up thinking shared interests were a major cause of attraction?As a female, yes. I've never been attracted to someone that couldn't keep up in an interesting conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 10:58 AM |
| 1 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.It depends what you plan to do with it. If break up then it's fine. If you want to stay with the person then it matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 10:52 AM |
| 2 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.Maybe in your country. I was diagnosed like that when I lived in the USA. Not so when I moved to Europe. Also ADHD can absolutely affect relationships in serious ways. Are you kidding me? Exhibit A: https://youtu.be/LcZuL1jQJuM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 10:51 AM |
| 2 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.If this is true, and you had no other reason for them to believe so (provided that you don't have a long history with this doctor with them observing you) then you really should switch psychiatrists. And if you actually suspect that you do have ADHD get a second opinion. As far as "it's not exactly a hard science" that very much depends. Maybe you just had to fidgit, but a fair amount of psychiatrists will have patients go for a consultation, qb test and the like. Maybe you and your friends just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 10:43 AM |
| 3 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.So, you're specifically attracted to a tiny amount (2.7% at the highest including all genders) of the US population? If that's true for most dudes here (as this term is thrown around so often) then you really shouldn't be looking at strategies for "the majority" of the population as you're apparently really into outliners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/19 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4women. Why do you nag?I literally don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 07:35 PM |
| 3 | I have a question about women and asking guys for money.I've asked my dad for money. That's about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.There are so many factors here. You say "nutty", but in what way? Can you talk to each other typically? How well do you get along overall? Is it right before her period consistently? Has this been a consistent life long issue? Likewise, Do you think calling her bipolar is going to help her seek treatment? Would you seek treatment if she was mad at you and kept calling you bipolar? What if she googled bipolar and treated you like you had it? Would that help? I'm guessing not. There are many ways … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Out of all romantic/sexual relationships you've had, how often were you the one who did the initial approach?He sent dank memes. I asked if he wanted to fuck. So really, who knows? Been married 3 years. It's great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 07:01 PM |
| 3 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.If it's something like pmdd, just going on hormonal birth control could completely fix it. If it's another medical issue it could be easily fixed also. If it is actually a mental illness therepy and treatment depend heavily depending on which one. If you call someone bipolar who isn't and use it as an excuse for when you're mad or whatever, they're probably not going to seek the help they probably should. Bipolar isn't very common. I'm assuming you would go to the doctor if you had bruises that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 06:53 PM |
| 4 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.Alright cool. Armchair diagnosis = the new antivaxx mom. I'm sure you've done your "research". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 05:40 PM |
| 5 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.I'd hope you'd consider basic reason. If you're going to arm chair diagnose people, then you should at least be familiar with which conditions can look exact the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 05:34 PM |
| 4 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.any intelligent human with an internet can read and study the symptoms and presentation of personality disorders and sufficiently diagnose others in order to deal with them No. You really can't. Even IF you're right and manage to notice the symptoms perfectly, it still could be Borderline Personality Disorder , Schizoaffective Disorder, Unipolar Depression, or Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder. It can also be ptsd, other anxiety disorders. On top of that, suspect medical conditions include various… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.So you observe everyone you've ever called this, look at all of their history (even as a child), made sure they behave this way always and not just in very specific situations, or with specific people, made sure she had enough symptoms for a long enough period of time, and have ruled out Major depressive disorder, PTSD, Borderline Personality Disorder , Schizoaffective Disorder, Unipolar Depression, and Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder? I'm going to go ahead and call bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 05:22 PM |
| 5 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.You can see a broken leg. Even IF you're right about the symptoms of BPD it could still also be: Borderline Personality Disorder , Schizoaffective Disorder, Unipolar Depression, or Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder. Your comment is more like saying "you can tell if you have overactive thyroid, you don't need a doctor to tell that for you". No, you can probably tell that something is wrong. That doesn't make your guess right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 05:15 PM |
| 3 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.How is psychology "anti male"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 05:13 PM |
| 3 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.Haha no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 05:10 PM |
| 4 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.There are significant factors to consider, many symptoms overlap, it has to fit a specific amount of symptoms and a certain amount of time to actually be diagnosed as a personality disorder. Just like being sad doesn't mean you're depressed, losing your keys once doesn't make you ADHD, having low blood sugar once doesn't make you diabetic etc it has to fit more than that. My diabetic father looks bpd when his blood sugar drops. He does not have bpd. Even IF you're right and manage to notice the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.I've been called autistic in this sub a few times. a crazy woman. :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 05:02 PM |
| 5 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.You actually do. Most disorders require behaviors for a specific amount of time and during specific conditions. A loner may not be skizoid, hyperness may not be ADHD, being sad isn't necessarily depression, mood swings may be caused by something completely unrelated to mental illness, etc. There are a lot of factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 05:00 PM |
| 7 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.How does this go against op though? You know a lot of women with mental illness. That doesn't mean that someone behaving in a way you dislike means that they have a mental illness. Sure you don't have to spend time around them or whatever, but how does your point contradict the OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 04:57 PM |
| 8 | BPD isn’t another word for crazy ex. It’s a real personality disorder, do not throw that word around unless your ex has actually been diagnosed by a psychologist. Odds are, you aren’t a psychologist. Stay in your lane.There are so many armchair psychiatrist on this sub it's ridiculous, despite also telling dudes regularly not to get help for depression or whatever. Yeah I don't get it. I'm diagnosed with adhd. I wonder if any of my exes talk about their super ADHD ex. That would be funny just because I've really only seen the "all women are bipolar thing" around these groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 04:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women need to start approaching or stop complaining, and here's whyYeah makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 04:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women need to start approaching or stop complaining, and here's whyYou're saying girls only approach their friend zone to date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think you're flirting with them when you're not & how do you actually flirt?What is the difference between you being nice to someone you like and flirting by being nice? Are you nice to everyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:52 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women need to start approaching or stop complaining, and here's whyIf I was into a dude I've asked him out. I think it's common enough based on friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think you're flirting with them when you're not & how do you actually flirt?What? No it's suppose to be a question for others to determine if people assume they're flirting when they're not and also what they do if they're flirting. I just gave an example in relation to myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think you're flirting with them when you're not & how do you actually flirt?If you like someone or what something more with them how do you approach it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people flirt as an ego boost?I love when dudes who are on fourms validating each other's game, views, ideas, bodies and workouts and such make this claim. Very amusing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people flirt as an ego boost?People think I'm flirting when I'm being nice. Ironically how I actually flirt: "what you just said is stupid. Let me explain why..." I'm sometimes supprised any guy has ever dated me and that I'm now married. I've been asked out by the people who thought I was into them because I was very nice though.... Yeah no. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Does social media actually "validate" you?It really only validates my opinion that I'm funny as fuck. That's a view I've always had and I've always laughed at my own jokes though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Do you believe in God(s)? Do you believe in true love?1.) "I don't believe in God, but I miss him." 2.) Absolutely 3.) Absolutely as long as they respected my views 4.) I believe we have a consiousness. I'm not sure how long that lasts. It's possible it's progresses after death into something as the law of conversion of energy seems relevant. I've considered quatiam theory, but it kind of scares me as it's one of the few theories I came up with independently before discovering it was actually a thing. If it helps: I'm married, female, and no pill I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the rule that you work by the most? And the one you think governs the Male/female relationship? And according to you, if well followed, one can achieve satisfaction in dating life.Don't waste time on someone not interesting. I have never been able to be attracted to someone I viewed as boring or uninteresting regardless of status, attractiveness, whatever. I have a wide variety of weird interests. I like having actual conversations. I've tried dating a guy that was "super hot" but not interesting once. It was awful and I broke it off in less than a week. If someone can actually hold my attention and curiosity then I don't care about much else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Looks or HeightOption C: just be fucking interesting. (But I'm probably an outliner or whatever) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Off Topic Thread: Whats for Dinner ?(02 February 2019)Fill the inside with blu cheese | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?At that stage in interaction, attachment style will determine set outcome and we don't really cover that but I'm working on it. Interesting. I guess that does make a lot of sense as different people may respond differently to the same behavior. Maybe you're onto something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Off Topic Thread: Whats for Dinner ?(02 February 2019)I'm going to make Julia Child's French onion soup. Mostly because I had a ridiculous amount of onions and carmalized those a couple of days ago. It just so ridiculously long to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (03 February 2019)Wouldn't every comment be off topic in this thread? Cmv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (03 February 2019)Yeah my husband has mentioned that one of his older friends has made comments about how he doesn't play video games as much or whatever and then assumed I'm the reason. He finds that funny because the amount of time I've told him he should play them more because he likes them, have a bad civ addiction myself, and such. He just likes hanging out with me more. I started a game day with friends because I love analog rail building games, dominion, risk, rune age/ rune wars, MTG, netrunner, pretty mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Makes sense. If you're going for someone, but the strategies aren't working (outliner in anyway), do you in general move on to someone else? Or approach it differently? (Just curious) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (03 February 2019)Anyone else excited about Hungry in Civ 6? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Did you think it was run by MIT or what? What??? This isn't what my professor meant by discussing things on the online pharmaceutical group??? Damn it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Not surprised that you don't care about facts or statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Making men fall in love - Your moves?Uh....I've made a life long habit of only really being attracted and falling hard for intp nerds. You could try that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?90% of white Americans are Irish descendants and Irish Where are you getting these numbers from? Is this like "if they had some relative somewhere in their gene pool that was traced to Ireland." Which you could do with basically any country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?According to the UN Office of the High Commissioner for Human Rights: Intersex people are born with sex characteristics (including genitals, gonads and chromosome patterns) that do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies. Intersex is an umbrella term used to describe a wide range of natural bodily variations. In some cases, intersex traits are visible at birth while in others, they are not apparent until puberty. Some chromosomal intersex variations may not be physically apparent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?I don't think that's how that works... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?According to the UN Office of the High Commissioner for Human Rights: Intersex people are born with sex characteristics (including genitals, gonads and chromosome patterns) that do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies. Intersex is an umbrella term used to describe a wide range of natural bodily variations. In some cases, intersex traits are visible at birth while in others, they are not apparent until puberty. Some chromosomal intersex variations may not be physically apparent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?I'm still not going to either for the same reason that I don't need to dig out source after source after source to prove that the Earth is not, in fact, Right, because Flat Earth memes and peer reviewed scholarly articles and scientific journals are the same thing now. Got it. I have explained quite clearly why I'm not going to do this (you would ignore any sources I produced) and also what the problem is with your producing a mighty TWO sources. No you actually haven't. You haven't given anythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?You could have just stuck with "I'm a dick" but alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?I think it should be noted that Feminist Activists have a different digit ratio than your average woman, one that proves they've been exposed to higher concentrations of androgens in utero while their brains were being wired The paper you linked does not "prove" that feminist we're exposed to higher androgens in utero. Did you read it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 11:02 AM |
| 1 | do you feel offense when I say girls have to put less effort into dating?I grew up very religious and sheltered in an American small town where social expectations and gender roles were strongly expected. I never fit those. In middle school I "dated" a guy from church. "dated" meaning that our parents took us places and typically came with us. We kissed. Like once. In highschool age 16-18, I regularly had guys come talk to me and say things like "I thought you were really hot, but you talked and you're too weird." Granted, I am weird, but why tell someone you don't k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 10:51 AM |
| 2 | do you feel offense when I say girls have to put less effort into dating?No I think "that's just like your opinion, man" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/19 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Not really sure what "the left" has to do with this. I'm a right wing libertarian, personally. RP makes specific claims about how men and women work. How do people who believe in RP view intersex people (remember same statistic probablity as redheads)? Would it change game if hitting on an inner sex person (the person could look like a specific gender, but have traits of both, or only one despite chromosome differences.) Would intersex people be viewed by redpill as having both hypergamy and sta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?And yet you keep just saying I'm wrong while not linking to a single paper that supports your suggestion the number is much lower. But I'm just supposed to believe you? That's not how any of this works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Again, this may seem small but it evens out statistically to about 1 in 60. That's not as small as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?You're just repeating "the numbers are inflated" without posting anything more modern proving that is true. You haven't posted a single scientific source (and I've given you two). I really have no idea why you'd think that would be a logical way of trying to prove your point, but as you said "honestly I don't care enough." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?A similar, slightly higher, statistic was also reported in, “How Sexually Dimorphic Are We?”, by Blackless, et al, in The American Journal of Human Biology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?The 0.6 is actually older. There was a 1.7% estimate by Professor of Biology and Gender Studies, Anne Fausto-Sterling, of Brown University* “The belief that Homo sapiens is absolutely dimorphic with the respect to sex chromosome composition, gonadal structure, hormone levels, and the structure of the internal genital duct systems and external genitalia, derives from the platonic ideal that for each sex there is a single, universally correct developmental pathway and outcome. We surveyed the medi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?I'm not actually meaning to make a criticism. I just want sure if it was ever considered. Thanks for your response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?subtler forms of sex anatomy variations Are literally intersex also. When you were discussing this were you only referencing one specific sub group in this category? also as far as a "20 year old study" that's still significantly more recent than the prior research that concluded 0.5%. You still haven't linked anything. And you clearly haven't read the link. Even if you're right and the older research is more correct, if only 1 in 2,000 persons is intersexed, then intersex is more common than cy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Thank you! Finally a clear answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Cool. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Are you concerned with what I'm curious or concerned about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?I dare say there are papers that make such claims, but there are also doctors who side with anti-vaxxers and microbiologists who side with creationists - it doesn't mean they're right. That's a fair point. Did you see what I linked though, by chance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?RP makes specific claims about how men and women work. How do people who believe in RP view intersex people (remember same statistic probablity as redheads)? Would it change game if hitting on an inner sex person (the person could look like a specific gender, but have traits of both, or only one despite chromosome differences.) Would intersex people be viewed by redpill as having both hypergamy and status drives? Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Fausto-Sterling, Anne (2000). Sexing the Body: Gender Politics and the Construction of Sexuality. New York: Basic Books. ISBN 0-465-07713-7. . * The Intersex Society of North America (ISNA), 1993-2008, popularized the “1 in 2000″ (.05%) statistic, but clarified on its website: “Here’s what we do know: If you ask experts at medical centers how often a child is born so noticeably atypical in terms of genitalia that a specialist in sex differentiation is called in, the number comes out to about 1 i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?There is a 1.7% estimate by Professor of Biology and Gender Studies, Anne Fausto-Sterling, of Brown University*. A similar, slightly higher, statistic was also reported in, “How Sexually Dimorphic Are We?”, by Blackless, et al, in The American Journal of Human Biology: “The belief that Homo sapiens is absolutely dimorphic with the respect to sex chromosome composition, gonadal structure, hormone levels, and the structure of the internal genital duct systems and external genitalia, derives from t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Other types of physical disabilities wouldn't change hormones. If 1 in 60 people are born intersex the rp/pp if real wouldn't really fit them. It presumedly would someone without legs. RP/pp make specific claims about how men and women work. How do people who believe in RP/PP view intersex people? Would it change game if hitting on an inner sex person (the person could look like a specific gender, but have traits of both, or only one despite chromosome differences.) Would intersex people be view… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?So people shouldn't be curious? K. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Do you have a source on this? I've seen a lot of medical journals and statistics that break it down to a probable estimation of about 1 in 60. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Thanks. Could you address this: RP/PP make specific claims about how men and women work. How do people who believe in RP view intersex people (remember same statistic probablity as redheads)? Would it change game if hitting on an inner sex person (the person could look like a specific gender, but have traits of both, or only one despite chromosome differences.) Would intersex people be viewed by redpill as having both hypergamy and status drives? Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?No, op is just interested in biology & statistics and overall a very curious person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?RP makes specific claims about how men and women work. How do people who believe in RP view intersex people (remember same statistic probablity as redheads)? Would it change game if hitting on an inner sex person (the person could look like a specific gender, but have traits of both, or only one despite chromosome differences.) Would intersex people be viewed by redpill as having both hypergamy and status drives? Etc. Also note: It is not at all the same as trans. "Intersex people are born inter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Basically redpill idology is so black and white but again this is 1 in 60 people not fitting that narrative. Assuming all people visibly not of their desired gender are removed, and all people who don't like the redpillers gender are removed that's a statistically higher number in their potential dating pool. Keep in mind that some people who are intersex never find out they are. Some people find out at puberty. Some at birth. It's not always apparent and does happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Okay so basically "they don't consider it?" There is the probability if dating or having sex with 60 women they've already dated or slept with someone intersex. Obviously that's not the majority of the population but still seems a high enough number that I was curious. Would most redpillers not be willing to date or sleep with someone intersex despite her looking completely female (with and without clothing)? If so that seems strange as some people never know. I guess if it's super worrisome the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Some intersex people are born with normal female anatomy and breast. They could have internal testies or different hormones and different chromosomes. There have been athletes who had no idea they were intersex as their anatomy was normal until they were tested for different androgens for the Olympics. If you're assuming there is typically a dick or it would be physically apparent in any way that's not actually true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Yeah it would be interesting. I stumbled on this today and thought it was way more rare than it actually is which makes me wonder. 1 in 60 isn't incredibly rare. On top of that, I'm interested because some people who have this never find out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Or were you meaning to reference the cases that aren't apparent or the person doesn't know until puberty or maybe never knows? Because in those cases, shouldn't the hormones in their bodies still effect their traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Considering that some of these people have no idea and even for the ones that do, it's always physically apparent, how would he know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Did you just edit it to say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?1 in 60 people is pretty relevant. "An intersex person might be born appearing to be female on the outside, but having mostly male-typical anatomy on the inside. Or a person may be born with genitals that seem to be in-between the usual male and female types--for example, a girl may be born with a noticeably large clitoris, or lacking a vaginal opening, or a boy may be born with a notably small penis, or with a scrotum that is divided so that it has formed more like labia. Or a person may be bor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Gingers make up less than 2% of the population, and an estimated 1.7% of births are of an intersex child, so they’re occurring about the same amount of times, statistically. Besides, being intersex isn’t always apparent at birth; some intersex people don’t realize it until they hit puberty or try to conceive. 1.7% is not a massive number until you realize that evens out to about 1 in 60 people. That's still a number you'd interact with on a regular basis. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Intersex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Fair enough. I was just curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?It just seems like an odd view. If someone only made video content then maybe I could see where you're coming from. It just doesn't make sense when the majority of their content isn't video based and they'd probably be less noticed if they didn't embrace video content as it's so expected these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?That's funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?They're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?RP makes specific claims about how men and women work. How do people who believe in RP view intersex people (remember same statistic probablity as redheads)? Would it change game if hitting on an inner sex person (the person could look like a specific gender, but have traits of both, or only one despite chromosome differences.) Would intersex people be viewed by redpill as having both hypergamy and status drives? Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?RP makes specific claims about how men and women work. How do people who believe in RP view intersex people (remember same statistic probablity as redheads)? Would it change game if hitting on an inner sex person (the person could look like a specific gender, but have traits of both, or only one despite chromosome differences.) Would intersex people be viewed by redpill as having both hypergamy and status drives? Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?RP makes specific claims about how men and women work. How do people who believe in RP view intersex people (remember same statistic probablity as redheads)? Would it change game if hitting on an inner sex person (the person could look like a specific gender, but have traits of both, or only one despite chromosome differences.) Would intersex people be viewed by redpill as having both hypergamy and status drives? Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?What about with gender differences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Intersex people are statistically as common as red heads are in the usa. How does redpill/purple pill ideology deal with this?Is this ever addressed in terms of differences between gender, especially as it can be up to 1 in every 200 people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?So you didn't try to imply that women creating content would be successful assuming that this is only a YouTube channel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Are you suggesting that's why people follow the financial diets advice? They've written books too. I doubt it's all just pictures of women. Is that why they have copius amounts of content in blogs that aren't just pictures? Example: https://thefinancialdiet.com/6-random-frugal-tips-to-save-you-hundreds-per-year-that-you-probably-havent-thought-of-yet/. Maybe you're only capable of "reading" picture books, but not all of us are. There is far too much content generated in text in comparison to pic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Why are men’s dating preferences easily disregarded?From personal experience, I've seen a lot of dudes list size and attraction requirements while being super fat, never showering, and only playing wow. Then calling women who may be interested in them as fat or ugly. Maybe it's related to that? Note: yes women also do this. Note; I don't actually care what anyone's preference is but if you only will date Heidi klum look alikes and look like Danny Devito then yeah it's amusing when you complain about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/19 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Guess I'm a dude then. I hate browsing. I want in and out as efficiently as possible and if there is a self checkout where I don't have to talk to a human that's even better. Haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Thanks. I've heard of fire but not the others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Idk I found all of that and I don't/have never had have this problem. Some of these were suggested in ecconomics pages I follow (an interest of mine) so some people stumble on them that way. And again, maybe I'm an "outliner" or whatever, but at what point does that become statistically relevant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?That's literally what I just said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Yeah. I explained in the edit but apparently I took "awalt" too literally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Differences in eating habits between men and womenThey think it's beneath them or something or a waste of time or don't enjoy it to the point where they refuse to learn how to do it well. My mom hated cooking. She did it but never enjoyed it. My dad liked it and was really inventive about it. We had carry out a lot also. (not like fast food). It all worked out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Differences in eating habits between men and womenI enjoy food that tastes good. I'm ADHD and on stimulant medication and rarely hungry so I eat for health reasons. I then try to make that food taste good so it's more enjoyable. Meanwhile my husband is a garbage disposal that will eat everything, twice. Luckily he has an incredibly fast metabolism and bikes most places otherwise he'd be massive. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 04:19 PM |
| 11 | "Are you fat? I don't really do fat girls."Eh, everyone is allowed to have preferences. At the same time, he could have been nicer about it. More importantly, why should I care or have an opinion about this? Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?I have never watched or read a "Why I became a minimalist" story where they didn't say they used to own too much stuff or were addicted to buying new things. You've clearly quoted one part and thrown away the part right before this to fit your narrative. Some are financial advisors/ economists that choose a carear based on something Are you suggesting that vloggers who decide to make a channel about whatever are on the same level as those who have a degree/choose a carear in that topic and also … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Marie Kondo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?No, it isn't. It's extremely rooted in Shinto beliefs and culture. She's been obsessed with minimalising and getting rid of things since she was a child based on the wiki. Many of the Americans on the show that may be true for, but not the method itself. Also i randomly picked an episode and the dude was basically a horder and the wife wasn't. I don't know if that's the only one, but even if so that's 1 episode out of a season. If we reasonably assume that the rest at least have crap from both p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 03:46 PM |
| 0 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Why is creating a financial blog attention whoring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?I'd rather be passionate about hobbies that I actually enjoy than care about what randos think. To each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | According to this doctor & fertility expert, not only do some women become super fertile in their 40s, but women can improve their egg quality and perhaps quantity through lifestyle changes.Dude is a board certified md. Look up the studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 01:56 PM |
| 0 | According to this doctor & fertility expert, not only do some women become super fertile in their 40s, but women can improve their egg quality and perhaps quantity through lifestyle changes.He's literally a MD and an expert on this topic. There is research proving what he said. Use Google. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | According to this doctor & fertility expert, not only do some women become super fertile in their 40s, but women can improve their egg quality and perhaps quantity through lifestyle changes.That's true, although it's not as much as you'd think. Women 18-26 were shown to become pregnant 50% of the time when timing ovulation. Older women became pregnant 30% of the time when timing ovulation. Sure that's a decrease, but only by 20%. It sure isn't the 80% people around here pretend that it is. Look at the actual research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | According to this doctor & fertility expert, not only do some women become super fertile in their 40s, but women can improve their egg quality and perhaps quantity through lifestyle changes.Apparently it does as he's done research that shows the quality of eggs can improve through lifestyle choices. This obviously changes the statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?No they weren't. Some were, sure. It's not a general consensus though. Some are financial advisors/ economists that choose a carear based on something they've been doing their entire lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Ugh depends on the man/woman. I grew up with a mom who had to go get groceries because my father would come back with $100 more of things we didn't need/wouldn't use. My dad accumulated junk and my mom let him use the basement for his shit/ wouldn't throw anything away he didn't want thrown away etc. Their basement is a crazy horder den and the rest of the house is nice (due to mom). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Thanks I'll check it out! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Thanks for the summary! It's an interesting perspective. I'm not sure if it's accurate or not and that's problematic as it can not really be refuted. If 43% of a demographic don't fit something the majority of a demographic do/don't do than of course it could be because of "fighting their impulses". It could also be other causes. However if you say "it's nature" and there is not a scientific way to measure that then obviously it can't be proven or disposen. So ultimately it seems meaningless. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Oh i didn't mean to imply women statistically don't shop more. I tried (not sure how successfully) to summarize the question in a clearer way in regards to outliners and awalt. Like at what percentage do outliners start to matter? Because as I said in the edit, there's a huge difference between 90% of women doing a certain thing and 54% of women doing a certain thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?I'm not familiar with this one. What is leanfire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Interestering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Consumer spending also includes groceries and the like though. Aka: If women shop for their families food/family items etc that's all included in the numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?And 40k doesn't have skaven... What's the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:32 AM |
| 0 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Close. I have ADHD. Not autism though. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Okay so my bad then. I've been reading this literally and have been really confused why it's an idea around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:29 AM |
| 0 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Okay so, not "awalt"? I'm legitimately confused on this point. I'm not trying to pull out a few examples that go against a narrative to say it's not true or something like that. It's just that I've always been interested in ecconomics and follow many things that have linked several of these blogs and I started noticing the trend that it's often women. However it does make me wonder that if there are provable outliners in this area, does that mean there are in every area? And then at what statist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Okay but how does that work with "awalt". Is this an example that goes against that narrative then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Also just to add, I'm not disagreeing that women don't buy stupid shit or even that it's most often. My issue is that there are countless examples that go against this. If it was seen as "a minority" I could even live with that. It's just that the same people typically say "awalt" about everything and it just obviously isn't true about everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Warhammer fantasy is significantly better. It has amazing lore and is an all around better game. That's all I can judge this comment on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:16 AM |
| 0 | Is there a reason red & purple pill claim women love shopping/spending money despite the vast majority of minimalist blogs, youtubes (including things like the financial diet) are started and ran by women who dont want those things?Thank you. This is interesting and I will look more into it! However, it still doesn't negate the amount of women who literally make their jobs the opposite of this/ are working for others to learn fiscal responsibility and having less of a consumerist culture. If the idea is "all women are exactly the same"/awalt etc this doesn't seem to fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: is “competency in things she finds interesting” an alpha or beta trait? Is it more attraction or comfort?I personally think more attractive overall. Even for friendships with my own gender. Dialogue tends to happen when individuals get together and if someone can't hold my attention I just don't go around them again. I don't have many friends for this reason, but honestly, I'd rather have real, interesting friends than many that are not interesting. The same goes for relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: is “competency in things she finds interesting” an alpha or beta trait? Is it more attraction or comfort?I mean... A guy willing to talk to me about blanket octopi, evolutionary algorithms, simulation theory & plasma physics and play MtG/Netrunner/Iron Dragon etc with me would always be superior to a guy who talked to me about what....the weather? Some reality show I've never watched? It kind of makes sense that people are attracted to people who have things in common with them, doesn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 01:39 AM |
| 2 | What should marriage-strategy be for someone who REALLY wants to scheme/plan/strategize, REALLY wants to think long-term, and REALLY wants to optimize their big-picture life-results (get the BEST spouse they possibly can and OPTIMIZE their potential)?Hmm well my husband sent me dank memes. I said "dank memes, wanna fuck?" We're going on 3 years married it's pretty great. I was 26 and he was 23 when we married. We get along super well and everything in our house is chill. We have a best friend/roommate/FWB/happen to be in love situation. He puts up with my ridiculous hobbies. I put up with his love of video games (just kidding I love them too). Uh yeah shit just works. Find someone you could easily go on a 5 hour road trip with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | How cognizant are you of the amount of eye contact you give to men?Personally I make eye contact. Maybe too much. Haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/19 12:27 AM |
| 0 | People take the nice guys bullshit too far.There's a difference between nice guys and fake nice guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | PrenupsI like how this entire post but in particular this last paragraph has some weird gendered idea about how this happened as if males don't sign prenups and what not. I don't think there's a wrong or right answer. If it came off that way, it wasn't my intention. I was mostly asking about this senario in that phrasing because of what I've seen in this specific subfourm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | PrenupsWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | PrenupsI don't know the laws on this. I only see it somewhat making sense in the case of children (just so kids aren't spending time in a pent house half the time and a tiny trailer the other half of the the time.) I don't really understand it in cases without kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | PrenupsIn my opinion, that does seem more logical. Of course, we weren't worried as we aren't planning on divorcing. However, things do happen so I don't judge people who do consider it as a very real possibility and plan for anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 01:16 PM |
| 2 | PrenupsAs far as I'm aware (and I could be wrong), that depends on state (in the us) and independent country laws (if not in USA). In my husband's country, all property/assets become common as soon as you marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 01:02 PM |
| 3 | PrenupsWhat about protecting yourself from your spouses worst impulses? (I'm not sure if this applies to you at all, but as I said in OP I've both seen men in the manosphere saying they wanted prenups, but also not a career woman and also justifying men leaving their wife for younger, hotter women. So what about men who do this?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | PrenupsWould you have been open to it if one of you had? Alternatively, do you see it as potentially problematic if one of you becomes rich? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 12:23 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of male feminists?My grandfather was a feminist in the sense that he cared about female education, equal rights, voting etc. My grandmother believed men should be paid more than women, but my grandfather disagreed unless the man was actually doing more work. He signed up for a class taught by a woman and grandmother was so annoyed because "a woman shouldn't be able to teach a man." He argued that he'd take a class from who was the most educated to teach it, not because of their genitals. He taught me physics, mad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 11:46 AM |
| 1 | If you could remove all desire to be with women, or men sexually or emotionally would you do it?My husband is my best friend. I don't think that would change. I do like basically having the coolest roommate ever, but I also like being in love with him and fucking him so no I wouldn't give it up and yes I think it has meaning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Redpill Women is toxicI know this is anecdotal, but from my experience this is true. My first serious relationship was a terrible fit. I was pretty young. A slightly older guy at my university who I occasionally studied with some times and often argued with told me that he had feelings for me. He was one of my TAs. The problem was, I was the complete opposite of what he thought he wanted. I was spunky, argued, intelligent, had a back bone, etc. This man was raised really traditionally. He believed women should cook a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/19 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Are celebrities/well known people exempt from "women wanting status/men wanting beauty"?Asexual...with children? Where are you getting this from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/19 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Awalt is a hilarious concept when you consider your mom.My mom has always hated people. She's legitimately antisocial. My dad "picked her up" by becoming friends with her father and being at her house a lot and she eventually talked to him with pressure from her parents. I don't think she was out trying to find dudes to date or fuck. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Awalt is a hilarious concept when you consider your mom.Well as I've said she's probably autistic. My dad has said the only really annoying thing about her is that she's overall not very nurturing/ very analytical/ wants to solve problems instead of taking about them etc. So you think it applies even to non neurotypical women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Awalt is a hilarious concept when you consider your mom.Okay, then please educate me. I'm simply saying how I've seen it used on this fourm "awalt" after "I was cheated on", "this girl wants social media approval" etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Awalt is a hilarious concept when you consider your mom.Well maybe nothing, but if she doesn't fit the narrative (which mine does not, and I don't think I'm alone) it doesn't make sense. Unless I'm taking all women are like that too literally. Is it more like "some/most women are like that?" If so, terrible phrasing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Awalt is a hilarious concept when you consider your mom.My mom isn't very typical. I assume I'm not the only one who had a not typical mom. She's always been incredibly logical and isn't very nurturing, but she loves my dad/her kids. Wouldn't "awalt" apply to every aspect of life and not just sexual? She and my father have at least had sex a few times (myself and siblings) but when she gave me the sex talk, it was incredibly clinical/not emotional/etc. She's mentioned (now that I'm an adult) that it's more something she does because she loves my dad.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Awalt is a hilarious concept when you consider your mom.Do you even realize your entire "argument" is basically one big appeal to emotions fallacy? I mean honestly, what DO you even know about your mother's sexual history? Generally this is not something you discuss with your parents. Do you even realize this is cmv? I'm absolutely open to the idea that people think this actually applies to all women. My argument is not an emotional appeal, it's not even an argument. It's a question. What do you do if there is a dichotomy between your own mother/and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Awalt is a hilarious concept when you consider your mom.At least you're consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Awalt is a hilarious concept when you consider your mom.Yeah, in that case I could see it more as a blame/observation and projecting what they preceive as their mom's failures onto others. I'm just curious if there are men who are TRP and had good moms that don't fit that and how they deal with the cognitive dissonance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 03:01 PM |
| 2 | What does a man in his 30s have to gain from dating a woman in her 30s versus dating a woman in her 20s?Have you met a woman in her 20s haha. Wanting to fuck a 20 year old makes sense to me. Wanting to date her and try to have a relationship does not. Unless you like being on massively separate pages, and not being able to have a conversation about anything important. In which case sure go for it. I wish more men here did actually date super young women. They'd probably get over the desire to pretty fast. Personally I married a 4 year younger man. ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Women who date assholes in their youth don't deserve sympathyI don't understand why any one would be attracted to assholes. When I was young, friends tried to be cliquey and tell me who I could date. I said fuck off and dated nerds. I married a nerd. Now looking at their choices vs mine I'm really happy I've always liked nerds and my husband is legit awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/19 02:43 PM |
| 4 | CMV: radical redpillers and radical feminist are two sides to the same coin.It's hard to believe redpill personally when as a woman I've turned down a majority of men redpill would call "alphas" for nerds that could keep up in conversation, strategy games and such and married a nerd I met on a fourm. I know that's horribly anecdotal, but at the same time if I exist then there have to be many similar women as I don't think I'm rare in my preferences. So with this accounted it's hard to take it seriously. I don't think most men who post here hate or look down on women, no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 11:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: radical redpillers and radical feminist are two sides to the same coin."feminism wouldn't exist without men" was not the controversial part of that statement. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 07:36 PM |
| 5 | CMV: radical redpillers and radical feminist are two sides to the same coin.I don't think that's how consensus reality works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 07:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: radical redpillers and radical feminist are two sides to the same coin.You misspelled "libertarian" :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 06:33 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Men aren't out of touch with their emotions; men are simply more emotionally matureUltimately, like everything else, it depends on the people. I like Carl Jung's idea of cognitive functions for this very reason. Everyone thinks and everyone feels. What kind and in what order vary depending on the people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Why is RP obsessed with borderline personality disorder?My mom is antisocial. I find this fucking funny in comparison with redpill's "awalt" assuming that all women want attention and drama and such. I've seen her turn her chair around when a neighbor came up to talk to her. Haha. I think redpillers may be more attracted to women with border line or bipolar, considering how many threads are about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/18 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a mentally ill woman?I have pretty bad adhd. It gets annoying sometimes. I've been broken up with for it before, but that doesn't really bother me. I think it's better for someone to realize something like this is too much for them before any serious commitments were made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/18 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Should Marriage even be a thing?Not exclusively. I'm from the US, my husband is from the EU and it was way easier for both of us to move with marriage. Although for the EU, I think being in a "committed relationship" is typically good enough. It isn't for the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/18 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Should Marriage even be a thing?It's easier for burrocracy with international relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/18 02:24 PM |
| 4 | This Christmas, give your wife a cheat pass?!This is absolutely bizzare. If my husband suggested this, I'd be very confused and then we'd have a conversation about what our wants and expectations are in the marriage/if they've changed as we both signed up for monogamy. I'd ask where he got this idea and then we'd laugh at how stupid this is and probably play a board game and continue with our lives. If this was something I "needed" or even wanted I wouldn't have married him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 12:49 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Baby It's Cold Outside is a perfect example of LMRHaha, didn't realize I was playing chess with a pigeon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Baby It's Cold Outside is a perfect example of LMRLet me just clarify, I'm not saying this song is absolutely about rape. I think an argument can be made for it, but there are also arguments against it. However, the argument "there wouldn't be mainstream, cutesy songs about it" is probably not the argument you want to go with. It's ridiculous and there are mainstream, cutesy, upbeat songs about all kinds of things people don't actually realize all the time. Examples are: Robin Thicke's Blurred lines, which is cringeworthy at best, Foster the Pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Baby It's Cold Outside is a perfect example of LMRThat's hardly an argument. I could do a cutesy Christmas duet to "Mr. Hanky the Christmas poo", that hardly makes the song any less about shit. https://youtu.be/SCWa4Y0lmcA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 04:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Baby It's Cold Outside is a perfect example of LMRI bet no one does that in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 03:58 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Baby It's Cold Outside is a perfect example of LMRIt doesn't have this effect on you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 02:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Baby It's Cold Outside is a perfect example of LMRHmm how do you separate if she's being nice or very interested in a specific topic from if she wants to hook up with you through nonverbal queues? (Apart from obviously coming on to you?) Like if you're at a party and bring up something like lord of the rings (as an example, just hear me out), and she gets enthusiastic, maybe even touches your arm or whatever, it's possible she's really into you. It's also possible she's read all of the Lord of the rings, the histories of middle Earth, and The S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 01:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Baby It's Cold Outside is a perfect example of LMRSo how do you tell who is who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 01:33 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Baby It's Cold Outside is a perfect example of LMRI told a guy no very clearly, he assumed it was "lmr", but I'm a very clear person. He kept progressing. I punched him in the face. He finally got the message. I wouldn't assume she's just resisting you if she says no. Not all women will be suckered into fucking you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/18 01:00 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: Why do nice guys consistently lose out to men like this?Consistently? Why do people phrase these questions as if every female has 4 kids with some dude and now wants to meet a nice guy? I turned down plenty of dude bros and married a guy who can sometimes beat me in netrunner or MtG. That's all I ever wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/18 02:16 PM |
| 9 | Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV.This does also happen to plenty of females though. My point however is simply male birth control currently exists (condoms) and even things like spermacide (although I think it's less "safe"), and they're expanding on types/testing other things. So basically: the op makes zero sense trying to say men shouldn't have to take responsibility just as women don't by using protection, except that by using protection those women are taking responsibility. So men who don't want a baby or responsibilities… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/18 01:53 PM |
| 14 | Thanks, birth control day spawned a series of tweets by women espousing why they're thankful for birth control. These exact same reasons justify enabling men to terminate paternal rights and support obligations (also known as "male abortion" or "paper abortion") CMV.Are men incapable of using condoms and therefore not having access to birth control? Because the implication is that men are hurt by birth control because if they get someone pregnant (by not using birth control) than they have to take responsibility. Obviously that's incoherent and your point doesn't make sense. I'm all for a male birth control pill. They've tested one, but men complained about mood swings and such. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/18 01:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: High casualty jobs being primarily occupied by men is not evidence that men have it unfairHonestly, I'd rather work long hours doing strenuous things than be a stay at home mom. I say this as a stay at home mom. I previously had a job where I had to be on my feet 10 hours a day, didn't get a break and would often work alone, sometimes in really cold conditions. I could push myself to do it because 1.) Money 2.) Seeing tasks completed and writing them off gave a sense of purpose. Now I'm forcing myself to do this because it's best for the kid, but it's so much worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/18 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Men want to be players not because it's their ideal lifestyle but because it is necessary to be noticed by womenBecause he didn't go into it with "We should date", he went into it with "I'm in love with you and want something serious with you." It worked out really well, but I didn't actually want to rob him of the freedom of trying things and having those experiences. At the time I was worried that he might regret jumping in so seriously. He assured me he knew what he wanted and that was fine, I just didn't want to hurt him or make him miss out. I'm not sure why you see that as predetermination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Men want to be players not because it's their ideal lifestyle but because it is necessary to be noticed by womenNo... Like I'm actually diagnosed with autism. However, not an incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Men want to be players not because it's their ideal lifestyle but because it is necessary to be noticed by womenFuck. I blame the minor case of autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/18 01:51 PM |
| 5 | Men want to be players not because it's their ideal lifestyle but because it is necessary to be noticed by womenEven if it's bullshit and the "actual average is like 9 or 10", (which I'm curious what your source is), it still wouldn't support the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/18 01:40 PM |
| 4 | Men want to be players not because it's their ideal lifestyle but because it is necessary to be noticed by womenThis isn't true Haha. I'm the only person my now husband has had sex with. He admitted to having feelings before we dated (but we were best friends). I suggested him dating around or trying casual sex before jumping into a relationship with his best friend, but he didn't want that. We dated for a year and half or something like that and then got married. We have a super happy, functional marriage with very regular sex. I couldn't be more into him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/18 01:36 PM |
| 6 | Men want to be players not because it's their ideal lifestyle but because it is necessary to be noticed by womenStatistically most women have 7 sex partners in her life and most men have 5. Your numbers are significantly off. https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/average-number-of-sexual-partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/18 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Are women more assertive than men?Not really... I was too eccentric I think, so they just assumed socially inept or something, but they'd tell me not to be so blunt or forward or sit that way or insert every other quality of my personality haha. If I didn't have adhd I'd probably have been seen as more of a bitch instead of just some "space cadet" who maybe just didn't get it. Then again, people may have said and thought that. I'm often unaware of things like this. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/18 10:28 AM |
| 5 | Are women more assertive than men?Well school boys are punished for being assertive, while women are encouraged and rewarded for being assertive. Easy answer don't put your son's into government schools. As a woman with ADHD who is pretty assertive, I'm not sure where you're getting this. I was constantly in trouble and told to turn it town, act "ladylike", not punch boys in the face for pulling my hair etc. My brother was allowed to be "a boy". We went to the same school. It was great for him and hell for me. Like most things, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/18 09:09 AM |
| 2 | Are women more assertive than men?Like all things it depends on the people involved. My mom is antisocial and hates everyone. She's hilarious. If you've watched 'Black Books' that's basically my mom. I've seen her walk away from someone going up to ask her a question and the like, while my father is really chatty and social. So I've always found it amusing when people over here make comments about how women are social or need validation from friends. At the same time, it's an interesting question and I do wonder how much age com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/18 09:03 AM |
| 1 | What's it like being in a relationship with someone who is busy all the time?My father worked out of town often and missed lot of things I viewed as important because of this. We were close and I know he did this to give us a better life which I do appreciate the idea of, but I personally value quality time much higher than money or materialistic things. I purposely married someone who doesn't really care about those things either. He's a computer programmer but works 4 days and then 5 days every other week. This works well for us. We have a daughter that I stay home wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/18 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Are relationships and by extension women worth the effort?I'm of the opinion that it depends on the people involved. If you're grouping "women" together as one similar category and just hoping to snag one without really caring what she's like then no, it probably wouldn't be worth it anymore than a girl dating you just because she wants a boyfriend and not to be lonely. I don't think anyone wants that. If you meet someone you genuinely like then it could be worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/18 01:43 PM |
| 1 | You can’t complain about “nice guy tokens” if you try to use “sex tokens” for commitmentDo people actually do this? I'm female, but have always gone for the be direct and honest approach. If I wanted commitment I'd use these things called words to explain that, the other person and I would then do this crazy thing where we talk about it and come to a decision. I like nice guys. I do not like face nice guys who pretend to be very friendly so I assume we're friends and then they've gotten mad they were "friend zoned" after never communicating they wanted anything more. That's differe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/18 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Should everyone be looking for a real partnership from their relationship?Never said I did. I'm just really competitive. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/18 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Should everyone be looking for a real partnership from their relationship?I'd be fine. I'm keto and ADHD and forget to eat all the time.... You'd lose this. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Should everyone be looking for a real partnership from their relationship?I have a fun new topic to research. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/18 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Should everyone be looking for a real partnership from their relationship?How? In my case it means a lot of analog gaming and interesting theoretical conversation. With someone that had completely different interests I probably wouldn't care and would be bored. I don't see how most people enjoy those completely opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/18 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Should everyone be looking for a real partnership from their relationship?I think if my husband went redpill it would be impossible not to troll the shit out of it. "sorry I was going to cook, but the oven is a power tool so you have to turn it on for me. Also the mixer..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/18 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Should everyone be looking for a real partnership from their relationship?I've never understood this idea. I've dated people who were different than me in strengths and weaknesses and overall they were annoying, we fought a lot, the situation sucked. I ended up with someone fairly similar to me (although of course there are some differences) and yet it's easy, it's enjoyable, there's minimal fighting, we understand where the other is coming from etc. Sure, if we're both bad at remembering to pay bills that can be a negative thing. However, with two people watching for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/18 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Should everyone be looking for a real partnership from their relationship?The perfect relationship in my mind is like a best friends with benefits situation, so for me absolutely yes. It's the only way I would have gotten married. It really depends on the people involved like anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/18 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameIf data convinced women then there would be no more feminists. It doesn't, so I am not gonna try to prove to you that sky is blue and water is wet. Your argument was this. You keep changing the topic. The burden of proof is on you and when asked for it you trolled asking for studies and brought up stem fields. http://www.esa.doc.gov/reports/women-stem-2017-update as of 2015 in 2015, about 25% of stem jobs were occupied by women and the number is rising. 1/4th is a minority, but still a significa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameThat you haven't answered the question asking for data or a study? Yes, look above where you didn't link any. It doesn't seem like you're going to, so I'll try to find some. If you do have anything to back up your claims besides random observations I will read those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameI was in a stem program... So again sorry but I don't think this is consistently true. There were other females in the program also. A good friend of mine just finished a degree in engineering to make prosthetics... She's doing quite well. None of this matters though, you still haven't answered my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameWell I'm a woman asking for data and facts who is an egalitarian so please humour me. Do you have any? I prefer science to random oppinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameI'm genuinely curious about this. Do you have any data or studies suggesting this is true? Any research more than observation. I'd love to read them if so. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameIs disagree as a woman who doesn't really get subtleties. If I did get it, I would say something. I'm not passive aggressive and I don't expect my partner to be. If they can't have open, honest communication like an adult it would never work. If someone tried 1-4 dread on me, I'd just assume they were taking care of themselves which I think is good. If it escalated without him telling me something was bothering him I'd ask him what was wrong and why he was being passive aggressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/18 02:55 PM |
| 1 | What are some dating/relationship "traditions" that need to die out?In the Netherlands if you asked a girl on a date then tried to pay for her, she'd probably be annoyed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 10:17 AM |
| 1 | What are some dating/relationship "traditions" that need to die out?I used my grandmothers wedding ring. Its sapphire and diamond and husband just paid to get it resized which was less than $100. I spent more buying his ring. Lol but it's something I prefer more than a new ring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameThank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/18 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameThank you very much for your response. It really breaks this down better and you're likely right that I'm full of optimistic hope having not experienced this myself. I didn't mean to suggest this problem is only hormonal, however. I just meant to suggest that could be a factor. The examples you gave do of course happen, but even still seem like a lack of communication. If someone is uncomfortable watching tv marathons with their SO or see them gaining weight and not taking care of themselves why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameMakes sense. What about "passive dread" in good relationships though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Question about dread gameFair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameHonestly, I'm terrible at feelings and prefer logic and from a logical perspective I cannot see how this works or makes sense. This is the reason I'm posting and I do understand a bit more of the reasoning and appreciate the responses, but it still seems much more like the gum in a leaky dam example I gave instead of fixing the issues causing the dam to leak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameYou really don't want to go down the logic path of "if an advice columist writes an article on something, it's clear that it effects enough people." There's enough terrible advice given. Otherwise these would be great advice for sex as they were written by a sex advice columist so enough people would be into these suggestions, right? http://www.pajiba.com/pajiba_dirty_talk/a-thorough-breakdown-of-the-worst-sex-advice-in-cosmo-history.php I'm guessing not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameTo be fair, I don't understand these problems, as I've said, which is why I'm asking the question to begin with. The link says in the title its "passive aggressive" women. Are the majority of women this way? I don't actually know. Do you have any statistics on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Question about dread gameAs far as I know (unless I'm somehow "broken") women also crave sex. It's something humans do. If people aren't having sex there's probably a reason to figure out so I'd say none of the above but d.) Ask what the problem is and try to fix it. C.) Shouldn't really be necessary imo because both people should be doing this anyway to be healthy. Dread game would obviously say c, but I don't understand how it gets to that point or how people let themselves go like this in a relationship. It makes sen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameWhy would anyone say "do this or no sex?" Also not to be crude, but I enjoy sex far too much to ever do that. Like wouldn't a woman doing this also miss out on sex?...or is redpill coming from a perspective that women don't like sex? And that isn't true if so. I'm doing social media wrong apparently as I just post cute pics of my cats. Old friends can just be old friends or does redpill not think men and women can be friends? My oldest friend is a male. We grew up together. Neither of us has eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Question about dread gameJust throwing it out there but eould an open relationship be something you two could try if you want it to work and you could also sleep with other people? Anyway good job on making a shitty situation positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Question about dread gameThat sucks so bad. I'm sorry that happened to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameThanks for clearing that up, and I understand this perspective much better now. I guess I'm one of the odd outliners that doesn't like "donuts" as listed by rp, but that doesn't matter as it would only need to work fairly consistently and there's evidence that it does work for enough people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameOk so is this geared for people who are dealing with passive aggressive people then? Like "how to be passive aggressive and manipulate back" or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameThe main issue i have with the dread game post is that it’s all stick and no carrot. Like yes turning into a whiny softboy who expects choreplay and flowers to melt her panties off instantly is naive and counterproductive, but the middle focus on seduction seems like OP is waving away that specificity for PUA manuals. Nothing about connecting to her internal thoughts and needs. I more don't understand how it gets to this point or what is recommended before it. However I do agree it seems to be l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameOkay so that's what I was most confused about. I still don't understand how it gets this far. As far as "minor dread" if someone is actively trying to make an so in a healthy relationship jealous then I don't understand why. If they're just taking care of themselves and having hobbies and interests that's different, but that's just focusing on being a healthy person imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Question about dread gameI guess some people do this. Idk I never have. 1.) I'm a female, but I don't really need anyone else to see why the person is attractive for me to find them attractive. 2.) I don't do this. I treat relationships like a roommate/best friend/fuck buddy situation and it's working out pretty well. If someone would rather have some skank at the office then they don't deserve my time anyway, no harm no foul. 3.) Uh I don't relate. So again, maybe these are generalizations, but as I don't relate to any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameBP wisdom says your marriage is over, do marriage counseling (which never works) or get divorced. I could see counseling not working if both people aren't honest and actually trying to reconcile, but if they are why wouldn't it work? It saved my parents marriage. When I was around 10 they had some issues and went to regular counseling and learned how to communicate better with each other. Both started contributing much more and both made less and less rude comments. They're much happier together… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameWhile I think self betterment is good, doing so just to keep an so who doesn't want you doesn't seem like it would work very well. Someone could leave at any time regardless if they're doing any of these steps or not though. Someone could be fat, lazy, not try and still find someone else if they really want to. Sure, don't take your SO for granted but if someone is going to leave they're going to anyway. I don't see the point in "adding drama" unnecessarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gamePersonally, if someone flirts with my husband I find it amusing. I don't really get jealous or want to jump him Immediately or anything and I've never really cared what other people think of.... well anything however it would be funny. If he flirted with someone else in front of me I'd more view that as him being disrespectful and I'd tell him I didn't like it. Granted I realize that I'm strange and most people tend to react differently than I would (but again, that's why I'm asking.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameWhy does self care and improvement have to be a "game" at all through? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameOk I've read your post and I'm now understanding that dread game is more about when things are in a bad place already (as you've already said.) I guess I don't understand why basic communication isn't suggested anywhere. Is that supposed to be something that obviously happens before this? I've never withheld sex as a weapon or out of anger so I don't personally understand how things get this far. There was one time in our marriage where I wasn't really open to having sex. I was pregnant and the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Question about dread gameI can't speak for everyone but yeah I don't see why not (although to be fair I'm not sure I believe in hypergamy either. If my husband didn't take care of himself I wouldn't look for the next person I'd try to get him to see someone about depression.) I gained some weight after having a baby. It bothered me. I'm following keto and walking/biking more often. My husband doesn't actually care/it wasn't that much, however in my opinion it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameI agree with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameI've never done any of these. It's the reason I find the idea of dread game so interesting. If something bothers me I tell my husband and we problem solve. If something bothers him he tells me and we problem solve. I can't remember a single time when either of us were passive aggressive to each other or hinted at anything or where one of us didn't share something important. As far as self betterment/taking care of yourself/ having hobbies and interests outside of your partner - that just sounds … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/18 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameInteresting so it does work on you? Is it still dread game if it's unintentional/natural? I'm curious because if someone is following the steps I'd see that as different than someone working on self betterment for their own goals. Is there passive dread game or something like that? Like not the above mentioned list for if things are bad, but something in normal situations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameThanks I'll read your link and then get back to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread gameI love the bot name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread game?I'm hoping in your example they are just dating and not married. If married why not counseling ages ago if things are bad? If dating, not everyone is going to work together or have the same goals. I found this (which is what I'm commenting on) :https://www.google.nl/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/#ampf=undefined And my thoughts are: 1.) Learning to get your so in the mood isn't bad, but it comes off very manipulative. This could al… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread game?At least it's consistent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Question about dread game?Is the target market more 18-20 year olds? If so that seems worse. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Question about dread game?Yes, even if it's not manipulative (in a negative way) it reads that way to me. Or maybe disrespectful almost? Idk not appealing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | All That’s Left For Normal Men Are Rotten WomenMy problem with fat shaming isn't that it's "mean" though, my problem is that I value science over random internet meme bs, and there have been several studies indicating that fat shaming has the opposite effect in the majority of people. I have yet to see one study showing that the majority of people are motivated by it. Of course there are health related risks at being overweight and those shouldn't be ignored, but if the method used to "reach" the general population makes the majority of that… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 01:34 AM |
| -1 | All That’s Left For Normal Men Are Rotten WomenFor instance, I don't understand why disliking fat shaming would come from it limiting possibilities. If I'm not over weight and the theory works for everyone, shouldn't I like fat shaming as it increases my possibilities and decreases other women's possibilities to be with the types of men we're both suppose to be into? If fat shaming worked I'd be for it. A healthier society is better for everyone. I'm against it because of the amount of studies suggesting that when people are fat shamed they … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 05:27 PM |
| -1 | All That’s Left For Normal Men Are Rotten WomenOh I wasn't suggesting that you or anyone else was trying to do that. I simply meant I probably wasn't redpills idea audience. I find it interesting, but mostly from the idea that alpha/beta theory was taken from wolves in captivity and moved to humans despite studies debunking the ideology as far as I'm aware. I've seen some sociology studies that may indicate redpill ideology works for the general public, but also realize that sociology is like economics in studying human behavior, but isn't m… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | All That’s Left For Normal Men Are Rotten WomenWouldn't it help my possibilities, provided that I'm not overweight and don't plan to become so? (Although I'm happily taken and have only been interested in fellow nerds who can hold a conversation, like physics, mgt, netrunner, rune age, Warhammer, starwars etc so probably not your target audience.) I'm disappointed in the lack of humor in the response. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | All That’s Left For Normal Men Are Rotten WomenBecause that's the only reason anyone could possibly point this out. Maybe she is just fat. Idk. I don't know her, do you? If she's famous or some shit ok, but if not it you have no idea. Also, I can get close to pussy whenever I want. I only have to reach down about 3 feet. So now I guess this is you are predictable and say I must also be fat, or maybe you're more interesting and the insult will at least be funny. Who knows. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 04:36 PM |
| 2 | All That’s Left For Normal Men Are Rotten WomenFor all you know, they're married and she just had a baby. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 02:43 PM |
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