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| -1 | Being attractive isn’t enoughOh, I thought those were rhetoric questions. My bad! 1) i didn’t like the fact that he talked about himself this much and when he asked me something about my work, he would not listen to what I said but would just keep on talking. Like, he talks a lot to the point it messes up with my rest time x) 2)no he was not rude at all but I think he saw that I didn’t like that he comes at me. He went at the end “other than that, how was your day ?” With a smile. I shortened the convo. He wasn’t busy eithe… | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 07:13 PM |
| -4 | Being attractive isn’t enoughHe asked me about my job but didn’t really listened to my answer. All he did was talking about what he knew about my job x) . People love talking about themselves ! I never wanted to date him (but he has a great ass). Even the day I joined the gym without talking to him I thought “he’s attractive but has no charisma”. Then when he talked I had the confirmation that he was self centered. This post was more about “it’s not because you are physically attractive that you have nothing else to do “. I… | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 06:56 PM |
| -2 | Being attractive isn’t enoughWhat’s that ? | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 06:43 PM |
| -9 | Being attractive isn’t enoughOh yeah ! He’s very professional but like, he would talk forever aBout him. When he asked me what I was doing for a living, I replied with a short sentence then he did the whole talking. He did Not shortened the conversation like any professional would do. I’m the one who left. This is why I think he’s self centered and don’t find him attractive at all ! | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 05:54 PM |
| -9 | Being attractive isn’t enoughOh I’m not interested in dating him at all. I don’t even know his name and don’t want to know x) He’s physically attractive when you see him the first time but this is where it stops. He has 0 charisma. This post was just regarding the dudes I see here thinking that being attractive would make all the girls be crazy about them but don’t invest on their personality | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 05:51 PM |
| -5 | Being attractive isn’t enoughI totally agree! Being nice has never been the answer. Being assertive is! I’m a girl (with an extremely fitbody (think Brittany perille on IG (and a different face obviously) and a brain) so it’s not like Finding dudes to hook up with was hard. I have high standards when it comes to the personality. I truly like having nice interactions etc not just seeing your pretty face. Remember, we are a bit more cerebral. I don’t have to accept any behavior because you are attractive. If you are rude you … | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 05:46 PM |
| -20 | Being attractive isn’t enoughI don’t expect a preferential treatment, I expect people to know how to be with people. Emotionally intelligent people are very rare ! The only think I think about him is “I don’t like this dude”. Not “he’s so professional “ no matter how great the gym is. | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Notice abundance where you see it | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 03:10 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]This!!!! I have it with English words! Then I start to hear them everywhere and wonder why I never heard it before. Keep growing your mind 🙏 | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’m reading some of those ancient Greek philosophers essays and I’m realizing that they were all into the law of attraction/power of the mind. Nothing surprising since it’s the absolute truth | /r/seduction | 29/01/19 03:08 PM |
| 6 | How to game on snapchat?She already thinks you’re cute . Don’t be too sexual directly. Maybe send her the stuff that makes you look cool and wait for her to send you stuff too. Don’t push things | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?Because you don’t love yourself :) The more you love yourself the better your life will get | /r/seduction | 22/01/19 07:09 AM |
| 1 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?It works for whatever goal you have. If you want a serious relationship it will work if you want fun, you will get that too. Remember only you yourself decide the life you want . Check r/lawofattraction Good luck! Now that I love myself more, I “hate” myself for those days when I was full of self hatred and self doubt. Life is so much fun when you love yourself and tell yourself positive thoughts and that you’re your best friend | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Leased an apartment to the most amazing human. How can I make a move without being a creep ?This! So easy to see when a dude is interested. At my gym I found the owner kinda cute but when I tried to talk with him and engage in a friendly conversations, he only talked about himself and didn’t ask me any question about me. It turned me off immediately and showed me that he was self absorbed | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Leased an apartment to the most amazing human. How can I make a move without being a creep ?Love your last paragraph | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Leased an apartment to the most amazing human. How can I make a move without being a creep ?I like this! Or if she goes out with her friends ask him to join. So that it doesn’t sound like a date | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Leased an apartment to the most amazing human. How can I make a move without being a creep ?If you do it politely and understand the no it’s not harassment. She’s not saying “have sex with me upfront ekse I kick you out” . If she acts as if she’s just a friendly realtor that cares about her tenants it should be okay. She should pretend she has a life like “ I’m meeting my friends in 10 mins but since you’re my newest tenants I needed to check that everything is fine with the flat. “ Then when they meet talk real quick about the flat then she can be more personal ask him more about his … | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Leased an apartment to the most amazing human. How can I make a move without being a creep ?We all want attractive partners. I used to be shy with men so when one liked me back and was hot, I used to put up with a lot of crap because I would not know when the next one will come. This is a lot of crap! Then I learnt to love myself more and have standards. I never let anyone treat me like shit (same with friends). The funny thing is that as soon as I started to communicate those standards more people wanted to date me. (And my friends never dissed me again either ) | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 03:28 PM |
| 5 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?People pick up the thoughts you have about yourself. Do you think that you are a great dude to date ? This is not some hippie things to say. It’s the truth. We are all attracted by confidence. Maybe playing guitar makes you feel confident ? Then keep on doing that. Do you like muscular bodies or do you prefer to stay thin? It doesn’t matter what most girls like what matters is what you like. You are attractive when you do things you love. If it’s painting then do that. If it’s hiking then do tha… | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 01:03 PM |
| 18 | Leased an apartment to the most amazing human. How can I make a move without being a creep ?asking a guy on a date without going full on crazy chick, and honestly, if you're hot some guys will even tolerate that for a time. This!! It amazes me how many men forget who they are and put up with so much crap when the girl is hot. One of my male friends had a crush on a girl (she was very attractive). He was supposed to work at 6am so could not really go out that night and the girl says “if you don’t come with me, I’ll find another man”. And he went! I was shocked. This isn’t the kind of gi… | /r/seduction | 20/01/19 12:57 PM |
| 1 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?Vulnerability is strength but it’s true that someone who talks about his insecurities all the time is super annoying. As long as you’re willing to work on the things you can control and be supportive with everyone around you , you’re super attractive and fun to be with | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?This is so cool. Compliments are great for everyone. I feel like dudes don’t get them enough because we assume that you don’t have insecurities the way we do but it isn’t true ! I have many male friends and when you spend time with them you realize that they have insecurities too ! Edited ! | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?Even when I just want to hook up, I still need to feel comfortable around you. It doesn’t matter how hot you are. That’s the same rule when I hook up with a very handsome dude or a more average dude. Remember, girls are a lot more cerebral and we let lose in bed when we feel respected and listened. We like seduction at every stage. The words you tell us before meeting us build excitement. Words seduce us . Not just your looks. You see the fact that your friend says that tinder is free prostitute… | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 10:45 AM |
| 1 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?I reply thanks to this but it’s true that I never turn the compliment back. Btw, I feel like dudes don’t show that they enjoy compliments . Like, when you compliment them, their face stays neutral. It’s hard for us girls to compliment you also. We don’t know what to say | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 09:05 AM |
| 1 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?A lot of girls date average dudes. I like handsome dudes but I know very hot girls with below average dudes because the dude has an amazing personality (or earns good money) or the girl doesn’t know how attractive she is so, has a low self esteem. I’m not saying@ go for the insecure girl “because confidence is extremely sexy. (I decided to stp talking about my insecurities online or even with friends because I’m a lot more fun /attractive when I focus on things I like)But just know that an avera… | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?Most dudes that do this to me are very handsome. They certainly know it. But I don’t feel respected when I receive it. Respect is the first criteria I check if I have to sleep with someone. Hot+ respectful isn’t too much to ask | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 08:57 AM |
| 2 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?That’s a good ROI !you must be cute! I don’t mind meeting the dude after 2/7 days but it can’t be the same day. Even if I have nothing to do. I want to pretend that I’m busy and have a life. One dude from Ireland wanted to meet me fast (I feel like he was on this sub 😂). He was in my country for work so I didn’t mind meeting him faSt . What turned me off is that as soon as the date was set he stopped messaging me. I don’t like it. For me you have to keep building the excitement until the d day. … | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Weird dilemma - feel almost like my standards are just too high :(Get your female/gay friends take pics of you | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?😂😂 oh it’s just an app I go to every 4 months when I’m bored. I’m more motivated to meet online people when j travel. It’s a lot more fun | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?Yeah! A lot of dudes here are very rude and not supportive. No wonder they struggle with girls. We are attracted by respect and support. Anyway. The dudes who replied helped me understand a bit that behavior :) (It wasn’t an important request. My standards are set and just unmatch disrespectful dudes :)) | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 08:34 PM |
| 0 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?It’s true that we lose interest fast since we are able to talk to so many people while looking like shit in the sofa haha. But if I matched you , you already have more chances to hook up than those I swept left. The dudes who say that are usually extremely hot in the 10% so that’s a shame! I wonder if the hot dudes struggle to find girls IRL. I always ask myself what they do on tinder when I see them (before IG was popular). Now it’s more an opportunity for them to grow their IG apparently. I’m … | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Weird dilemma - feel almost like my standards are just too high :(True! And most men don’t know how to take flattering photos. Some are cute irl but look very average on pics | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Weird dilemma - feel almost like my standards are just too high :(If you workout post pics that look candid. Like you’re on the beach, playing soccer but we can see some abs if you look at the pic | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?😂I wasn’t even offended by this question. Some friends of mine are still dating their tinder match 2 years later. It all depends on what you’re looking for and on your standards :) Tinder is the internet you have all kind of people. I have my standards and stick to it and that’s it | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 06:47 PM |
| 3 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?I met normal/respectful dudes as well. Writing in my bio that I wasn’t okay with it helped tho. I receive less messages like this. I just avoid matching guys that only post pics of their bodies only without showing their faces. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 06:08 PM |
| 5 | I’m a girl and I receive a lot of if “hi, do you want to hook up” on tinder. Out of curiosity, does it work sometimes ?In person it’s even worst I think! I think dudes try it online because they are behind their phones. But it works in the Gay community. I have a lot of gay friends and they send each other’s nudes immediately 😂 One dude was really really hot on tinder and said that to be. He was the hottest dude I’ve ever seen in my life. He could sleep with any girl without opening his mouth. Maybe he didn’t know how to flirt and didn’t know how hot he was and that by being respectful it would work in no time ! | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 06:04 PM |
| 5 | How can I get a Boyfriend?I love him | /r/seduction | 13/01/19 09:22 PM |
| 1 | The Definitive Guide To Abundance And Scarcity With Women❤️❤️❤️ Right now I’m getting some financial education so I’m reading books from Victor kiyosakis (RIch dad series). What about you ? | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | The Definitive Guide To Abundance And Scarcity With WomenWhat’s attractive to me is not necessarily attractive to you and that’s okay. Being picky doesn’t mean anything to me. Some girls don’t like muscular dudes some dudes don’t like skinny girls. With 7,7 billion people on earth, we can all find someone that we find attractive . Im not lacking confidence! I’m quite attractive (think squat butt /tiny waist etc) and I have certain level of emotional intelligence and travel a lot, read a lot etc. The only standards I ask for are those I live by myself.… | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | The Definitive Guide To Abundance And Scarcity With WomenOh yeah then I understand the difference. But just meeting a woman isn’t enough. She has to be great! | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 01:12 PM |
| 3 | The Definitive Guide To Abundance And Scarcity With WomenThat’s the thing. It doesn’t matter if it loses it meaning to your conscious mind. That’s your subconscious mind that you’re trying to influence NOT the conscious mind. What you currently think of yourself have been deeply ingrained in your brain (subconscious mind) so It takes a lot of time to unlearn and often times it means repeating those affirmations all the times even when it loses its meaning /and on days when you feel like you ain’t shit. | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 01:10 PM |
| 4 | The Definitive Guide To Abundance And Scarcity With WomenOf course! Greatness is what you think of yourself. If you feel great because you can paint then paint more often. If you feel great because you are a great singer then do that. I feel great for various reasons . What society dictate doesn’t have to be my truth. Do you and be your true self. You might attract less people but you will attract the good ones . | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 08:03 AM |
| 1 | The Definitive Guide To Abundance And Scarcity With WomenIt’s not because a lot of men want to date you that you want to date them as well. Some standards have to be met ! You have more attractive girls than attractive men IMO (this is subjective of course but the other day I tried to count and i liked only 2-3 men out of the 30 that came on my profile. ) Then when they are attractive /muscular it s not going to be sufficient (unless you just want to hook up for a night). If you want a bit more (not necessarily a long term relationship but more like a… | /r/seduction | 11/01/19 08:00 AM |
| 5 | The Definitive Guide To Abundance And Scarcity With WomenBecome great and self sufficient. Have hobbies thT you love and tell yourself daily that you love yourself unconditionally 20-30x when you wake up. Repeat it as fast as possible so that your brain doesn’t have time to think. I’d love to hear how it worked for you in a week or two ❤️ | /r/seduction | 10/01/19 09:18 PM |
| 2 | The Definitive Guide To Abundance And Scarcity With WomenGreat post! Girls have a scarcity mindset too! One dating coach for girls say that we should be playful/flirty even with people we don’t find attractive so when we meet that person that we truly like, it becomes natural. He also says to learn to be turned off by anyone who doesn’t like us back as fast as possible. Like, you can’t pick who you are attracted to but you can pick who you are investing on. When you stop investing in them and learn how to choose who Nd what you want to think about, yo… | /r/seduction | 10/01/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.You gonna receive a lot of compliments soon !! Can’t wait to hear how you upgraded your game 🙏 | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.It’s not a link. It’s a username. He asked for the kissing tips :) so I mentioned him in my answer so that he could see it | /r/seduction | 07/01/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.I replied already :) scroll down when you have time :) | /r/seduction | 07/01/19 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.I like muscular men just like some men like curvy girls, but also skinny girls etc. If you don’t like muscular arms that’s not a problem at all. There are 7.7 billion people on this planet. The perfect match exists :) | /r/seduction | 07/01/19 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.I’m a girl so I don’t know if it will help you. But most (muscular )men love compliments on their biceps. I’ll just say something “you have an amazing body”/“oh you’re so sexy”/. For the biceps I would just run my fingers on them and look at them then the dude with a pleasant smile. Or grab their dick firmly and say that I can’t sleep without it or Touch their hair (on the head )and say that I like it. Any compliment is great compliment. For girls compliment their body, tell them that they are s… | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.Compliments are everything in bed. It’s never enough !! | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.Lmao | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 08:09 PM |
| 4 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.It works very well with men! Like, we have to teach that you have other sensitive body parts. Once the whole body is ready, the dick is ready effortlessly | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.😂😂😂😂 you’re too funny! (I’m sure you will find someone . You just need more confidence. Tell yourself daily that you’re great and visualize all the girls wanting to date you. It works!) | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 08:04 PM |
| 8 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.Watch this. They explain it very well. Watch the other videos they made as well. You have different things to do. I always do what they say when I kiss someone. It feels incredible ! https://youtu.be/CTqTYmrUw0s u/fytku | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 07:43 PM |
| 5 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.huh, in that case with you it would be smarter to tease you to almost come, but not completely. You know me well! | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.I’m off to the gym. I’ll send you some tips once I’m done | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 04:48 PM |
| 34 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.About the get her to come first, that’s great advice but as a girl and when I come, i don’t really feel anything afterwards. It’s great for the dude as it’s warm and wet but I’m completely dead after I came so it’s more like “okay do your thing”. My body just can’t move My ideal suggestion is to ask the girl to touch herself as you penetrate her. Clit+ dick is the best combo for 90% girls. It’s rare to have women come with the penetration only. Discovering my clit changed everything and most gir… | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.It’s rare to have men that know how to kiss. When the dude is hot we assume that he’s a good kisser but it’s rarely the case. I think only 10% of men are excellent kissers. 30% good and the remaining 10% average and the remaining 50 %awful. If you can master your kissing game, she will want more. A bad kiss means bad sex for most of us (although it’s not necessarily true but some of us would avoid the passionate French kiss because of that ). My friend managed to educate her sexfriend once. I ne… | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 04:30 PM |
| 3 | One of my funniest tinder experiences.I thought what she said was some kind of jokes. Like the are you a pop corn person or an ice cream person. And if you reply ice cream cream I say “oh , then you aren’t invited anymore”. But like a joke . Do you think it was that or do you think she was serious ? To be fair with her sometimes we need to see the dude on social media to be sure that he isn’t a weirdo. Back in the days, I would not go on dates with anyone I meet online without seeing their Facebook . It’s more about security . We wo… | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Don’t have one in mind right now but as soon as I see one, I’ll update you on this | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 10:32 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol! Don’t you worry ! | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 10:31 AM |
| 1 | 3 Logic Based Rules for "Being Good in Bed"Thank you ❤️🙏 When I was reading your post , I thought “he must be good in bed!! Where can I find him ?!” 😂😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 07:13 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Hmm maybe because you said “great that there is a nice girl” something like that. Sounds a bit flirty I guess. Don’t pay attention to this. People downvote for everything and nothing here 😂 | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 07:13 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]There are good advice but some dudes are trolling a bit and giving shitty advice to some of you. I wouldn’t say that I saw anything misogynistic (so far). But I saw a bit of discrimination against women of colors but it happened just once. But overall you guys seem supportive with each other’s. I’ll pay more attention to this sub and update you if I notice other things | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 07:11 AM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]I like reading this topic and it’s interesting to see how different we can be :). Other girls are here but we don’t comment much :) | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 08:38 PM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]Lmaooo ! I have a lot of gay friends and it’s a lot easier/faster for them to hook up.They just send each other dick pics and they decide if they are fine with each other’s. Some straight people do it as well tho but the success rate is a lot smaller | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 07:04 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Yes. Sorry I didn’t mention it | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | If you want an extraordinary dating life you must do extraordinary thingsI just assumed he was a party animal but you’re certainly right about the networking thing. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys tend to be picky when doing approaches?You got this 💪 there are plenty of great girls looking for you! | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 04:01 PM |
| 54 | [deleted by user]The story tip is great ! Some dudes do this to me and it feels more natural. And although I’m not interesting I don’t mind answering as long as they send me something related to my story. If the dude is fucking hot, follows me and send me a DM, i won’t mind at all. The dudes that message me aren’t my type so I simply ignore them | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys tend to be picky when doing approaches?Yeah, go for the hottest girls you can get (with a great personality too) | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 03:31 PM |
| 5 | If you want an extraordinary dating life you must do extraordinary thingsHe says that he goes out 5/6 nights a week. I assumed he goes out to party | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 03:30 PM |
| 2 | 3 Logic Based Rules for "Being Good in Bed"I read half of your post last week then closed it. It was good but I thought I’ll come back later :) This is such a great post! I’m a girl and I didn’t know that for you guys it was really about how it felt physically but it makes so much sense now. I experienced what you mentioned “the dude is having the best time ever but I wonder why he’s happy when for me it’s that shitty !”. We simply experience it differently. And you’re right about the technique. I learnt a lot of tips on some forums with… | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Dating Really Fit Girls: How Do I Overcome Feeling Insecure About Being Overweight?I am tho ! But it’s true that I pay a lot of attention on your behavior. If you’re cool/respectful etc | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys tend to be picky when doing approaches?Wait a 8 is fucking attractive!!! I don’t know a lot of dudes that go beyond the 8 mark. But I understand op. If he doesn’t like the lifestyle of the girl he can pass out and find someone who suits him better | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Losing virginity on Tinder - QuestionGreat answer. Seriously op is stressing over for a 20 min train ride ?! I thought 20 miles were hours! Anyway. This is more than doable op. You can also take Uber if you think it’s faster | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Losing virginity on Tinder - QuestionThis !!!! And kissing for hours is also great ! | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Quick question on hugs and hand placement.Are you from the US /UK? Because in continental Europe we don’t hug. It’s pretty intimate Hmm, if you’ve been flirting with the girl already you can put your hands close to her hips (but not butt ! Unless she allowed you). If nothing happened then do the friendly one around the shoulders but hold her tight | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman to go out with in Tel-AvivGo on Couchsurfing . You should find foreigners to party with :) | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 02:23 PM |
| 2 | If you want an extraordinary dating life you must do extraordinary thingsI don’t see going out partying as being greater than the average population. You become great because of your skills and competencies and because of how great you make others feel. Nothing to do with being a party animal. Great if he’s able to have the girls he wants :) | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 02:19 PM |
| 1 | It may not be a big deal to most but I walked out on a date who was late.I’m late all the time too but I work on that. But if this is a deal breaker for him (he’s in the army so I guess he’s strict on most stuff lol) then maybe he should date girls that have the same standards | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 02:16 PM |
| 2 | It may not be a big deal to most but I walked out on a date who was late.If arriving on time is important to you I understand that you are upset. Yes for self respect but when she was flaky maybe she was just tired or in pain with her knee stuff. But seriously, if she’s a great girl (and you knew her before that date. It’s not like a tinder date ), I don’t think arriving 30mins late is dissing. I live in a big city so if I miss one train I can be 30mins-1 hour late and I’m always late (I try to work on that because it’s annoying for the person waiting for sure ) . Bu… | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 02:14 PM |
| 2 | How To Be Cool (in a woman's eyes, at least ;) )Great post! I laughed at the salmon dance 😂 I would add treat others well. I see a lot of trolls here but then they come for dating tips when all they do is dissing others or being arrogant when someone has a different point of view. No one wants to sleep with someone who is so insecure about themselves that they need to take someone down to validate themselves. Talking positively about someone behind their back is sexy as fuck. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I have just realized....Yes! When you are a great person having people attracted by you is just the byproduct. You first need to work on yourself then all the great things come effortlessly | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 10:25 AM |
| 6 | I have just realized....I also became more attractive when I learnt to love myself, communicate my standards etc. I used to be so afraid of this thinking that the dudes would leave if I was too direct. But there is a difference between being assertive and being too direct. I say what I want in a loving way and I would not sleep with anyone who doesn’t understand that I’m allowed to protect myself :) | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 10:24 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Do you see a therapist ? It will be great to have someone to discuss with. We all have our insecurities but we have to accept that that's the only body we have. Some will like us the way we are and others won't and that's okay. You can't please everyone and we' all like different things. Focus on the girls that like you back and respect you To be more confident in myself, i Repeat daily affirmations and I read self help books to help me explore my mind etc. Being hot isn't just physical. Work … | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupI see your point and it’s true that in club if we say to ourselves “tonight is my night!” Then we are more open to dudes and more open to make the first move too. But it’s true that we already make up our minds most of the time . But I never met a dude doing those pua tips religiously irl. I just know that if I felt attracted it’s because he was physically attractive and was charming in his personality. I just fall when I hear myself think “I’m having a great time with him” and start to think /f… | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupI feel like ONS makes only sense when I’m on the road . With the excitement of fucking a foreigner, I can easily get turned on but at home I need some sort of connection (unless I’m drunk in clubs ). But I love going on dates, the flirts, not knowing if we really like each other’s. And there are plenty of stuff you can do to build up the sexual tension before having actual sex. I think I just love the seduction part. This is why going fast doesn’t work much for me but everyone is different :) | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupHaha ! Thanks! I think it’s great to have female friends when you are a (straight) dude. And watch how they behave with men. Girls should do it too. I learnt a lot by being good friends with men. | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupHahah that’s their problem not yours if they interpret it in their own way. I want to put pics where I look at my best so yes I’m attractive but I have other qualities too. I will not date a dude who cannot understand that I’m not just a body. Are you also looking for a guy who lifts ? (I do! I don’t want a dude who doesn’t work hard on his body. I feel like he will enjoy my hard work more if he also trains 😁) | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupHaha really ?!!! That’s funny . I put some pics of me in bikinis (I’m a fitgirl so I’m very proud of my hard work). But for me putting bikini pics doesn’t mean anything but some dudes think that if you do that it’s just because you want to hook up. This is why I usually tell them before even meeting them that I’m not looking for just a hook up. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupWell right now I want something serious. So I tell the guy before having sex. When I wanted something more casual I was okay with just hooking up as soon as I felt comfortable around the dude and after a few dates too! Some people don’t need that to hook up. And you can also hook up the first night and get serious with them . There are endless possibilities. But I notice that with the kind of guys I attract (super hot dudes who don’t seem to need tinder ) , telling them upfront what I want works… | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupYeah. I unmatch pretty fast too. I actually wrote in my description “no “hey do you want to hook up ?!”” . It works well although some dudes don’t read it and try their luck 😂 | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 07:10 PM |
| 6 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupWell, my friends and I usually set a certain amount of dates before having sex so if you are willing to invest your time a bit and don’t mind making a connection before there is no problem | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupHi you! We talked once x) This is not what I’m saying at all. I’m just saying that for those who want something more serious (like me and the friend I mentioned), we need more time to make connection | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 06:51 PM |
| -1 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupTrue some girls do it tho. But even if I just wanted sex, I still need some sort of connection and I know it won’t happen if we go directly to his place! Also when you tell them that you don’t look for a hookup but they still invite you home... I find it a bit weird. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupI don’t recommend going to their place the first time. That’s super dangerous ! | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupMy friend would chat for 2 weeks before asking for a date. That’s a way for her to make sure the guy doesn’t want to just hook up. When dudes just want sex, they don’t message you for that long and don’t have a lot to say either. A week is a great length for me tho . We are all different. | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling.My dms are open if you need a friend. Good luck :) | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 05:19 PM |
| 9 | When should I call the girl from the airport?Message her first and see if she replies. Calls are great and show that you are really into the person but if you don’t know her timetable maybe she will be busy. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Went Clubbing Solo Yet AgainMaybe do daytime activities instead ? You meet better people and it feels more natural to talk to strangers since you are all there for the same activity . If you really like night stuff, go to language exchange meetups if you live in a big city. Everyone goes there alone so it doesn’t feel weird :) | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling.I’m so sorry you feel this wAy and I think it’s a good reminder for men to be respectful even when the girl says no. Some are respectful at the beginning but get offended and rude the minute you tell them no. No is complete sentence. If the girl doesn’t feel comfortable around you leave her alone. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 10:08 AM |
| 49 | 53 years old...out of the game for years: is it all over?It all comes down to how you see life. If you think life should be boring after 50, you will do boring stuff. If you think life should be exciting after 50, you will look for exciting stuff to do. You have to define the person you want to be first and work on it. Then you will get whatever you want :) | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 11:40 AM |
| 0 | Married woman wants to see me..I know that you’re looking for some people to say yes to you and others to say no. No one has the answer. There is no logical answer here as it comes down to your own moral and values. I can sleep with someone in a relationship if I don’t know the girl they are dating . I don’t mind either if other girls try to sleep with my man but I mind if he cheats. Some girls would never sleep with someone who is engaged with someone else. No matter how unhappy they say they are. They believe that you have … | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 11:35 AM |
| 2 | What's a socially acceptable level of chase? Girls of seddit, share your opinion.Oh I didn’t know some people were this flaky after the date has been organized. It’s hard for men to get dates so I’m surprised. It has never occurred to me as we usually exchange number and talk a lot prior the date. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | 27 year old never been in a relationshipI’m not judging but paying for sex isn’t really having sex with someone . I mean , from what you say, you want the girl to invest in you as well, to think you’re attractive etc . Just become the best version of yourself and do activities you love doing alone but find social version of it. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | 27 year old never been in a relationshipWhat’s your ideal girl? Do you have a lot of female friends? If yes, ask them to introduce you to some of their friends/invite you out etc If not, go where travelers go. Like meet ups etc or become a traveler yourself and stay At backpackers :) so easy to meet people there. Good luck | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.❤️ | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.The goal is to never offend anyone. I feel like everyone is entitled to their emotions. I’m no one to say if other people emotions are legit or not. But if they tell me that something offends them, I ask them why/where it’s offensive then I use better words to express what I truly meant. All that in a respectful way | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and yes some find them attractive and others don’t and that’s okay. But my point was just that I found it weird/and offensive that OP put those examples when those two groups are often victim of discrimination I feel like a lot of dudes on this sub don’t have much brain then they wonder why they can’t get laid. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.Exactly. I don’t care if someone find black and Hispanic people ugly but saying this this way and on a thread like this is offensive. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 12:52 PM |
| -3 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.Why do you use the example of black or Hispanic girls when you mention unattractiveness ? I know that we all have our personal preferences but those two minorities are often the victims of discrimination when it comes to beauty etc. I’m sure you didn’t want to offend anyone but I think putting criteria that are more neutral would work best and won’t offend anyone! | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 11:17 AM |
| -5 | Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About TinderI did the test the other day (I’m a girl). And sometimes I swipe left to 20dudes in a row and I swipe right only once during that time. I’m looking for someone who is muscular and with a cute face with something to say. So if I’m not convinced by your pics I say no. If I doubt, I’ll check your description. Then your Instagram . If it’s still no then it’s left | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About TinderI never do! But I check the text when I’m not sure. Definitely take good quality photos. If you don’t have beach pictures post on in t-shirt where you can see your arms. I look for someone with a fit body so I check the arms/legs. Most men look better irl than in pictures so ask a female friend to pick your pictures | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Virgin guy how do I get laid (or at least attract women)I knew some tall guys with some small socks tho. It has more to do about feeling protected I guess. I know it’s sexist but some ideas are still deeply ingrained. Not everyone is like that. Some friends don’t care if the guy is short as they are also short so anyone is taller than them anyway. Also those that are really really tall accept the fact that some dudes will be smaller . You can also think that a girl is too tall/short for you. Comes down to personal preferences :) | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Virgin guy how do I get laid (or at least attract women)No! I’ve dated guys that were not as tall as I’d liked. But they were incredible hot ! My ideal man is tall tho | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Virgin guy how do I get laid (or at least attract women)Even in real life! I check the height. It’s important for most girls. If it’s just for sex I care less about the height to be honest. No one sees it in bed x) | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Virgin guy how do I get laid (or at least attract women)Lmao ! | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:06 PM |
| 5 | Virgin guy how do I get laid (or at least attract women)So many dudes put their height on tinder. That’s too funny! But a lot of girls care btw! I didn’t care much to ask in the beginning of the chat but I’m quite tall so the size matters to me. If I was shorter it would be fine It’s good that you guys give him good advice. Attracting great people starts by becoming great yourself | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Dale Carnegie's Core Principles in "How To Win Friends and Influence People" are incredibly useful for everyday interactions with everyone. Try incorporating one of these each day.I love this book! | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 11:10 AM |
| 1 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?How many dates do you have a month ?! That’s huge. Usually you just need to pay for a drink so you should be okay with $20 max for 2 people/night! It’s not about money at all. You could go for day dates and just offer an ice cream or a coffee (way cheaper than cocktails ) Wait for the bill and see if she acts like she’s gonna take her wallet. Most of us do that although we know that the dude will pay for the first date (most of the time). She should still act like she considered paying. I can’t … | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 07:10 PM |
| 3 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?Best analyze ever! All the dudes should read this | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 06:50 PM |
| 0 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?Some use it just to have followers in Instagram or Snapchat 😂. With their “oh look at my 6pack. I’m not here often so make sure you follow me on Instagram if you want to chat” | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 06:48 PM |
| 2 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?I feel like some dudes are just there for validation as well. The hot ones with great bodies are just there for sex. I mean, as a girl we think that if you are this hot and are on a dating apps, it’s just a faster way for you to get laid but IRL it isn’t hard for a hot dude to have girls . I’ve never matched a hot dude who wanted anything else than sex 😂 | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?For matches and people you meet IRl, do you have a clear image of the kind of girls you want in your life ? I don’t have a lot of matches either because I know exactly the kind of dude I like and I don’t see the point of talking to 10 guys at the same time and I d rather talk to one great one only. Well, generally, we have less work to do that’s true but we also get ghosted and some dudes that we match don’t reply to our messages. Sometimes we don’t know if you really like us. Most girls are ins… | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 05:59 PM |
| 1 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?Lol! But same for you no? You just don’t want dates, you want dates with great people | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)You need to check what they do, not only what they say. Those same men want to sleep with all the girls yet, they don’t respect them . Do you know what this dude was looking for? One dating expert says that the rule is to talk about the kind of relationship you’re looking for before having sex with them | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 05:45 AM |
| 3 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)I’m a girl and I kinda like this sub. Now that I’m a lot more confident in myself I don’t overthink stuff anymore (just like you). Also, hanging out with a lot of male friends helped me a lot. I’ve been ghosted by some dudes and it would get to me. But by hanging out with my male friends I just learnt that it meant that they were not that into me and that’s okay. A guy who truly likes me will act like he actually cares. I don’t play hard to get I just show that I have standards now and that the … | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)It’s great that you have more money now to live better 💪 Tips for those that have a small budget: it doesn’t need to be a cocktail. An ice cream is great too! Or coffee as well and it’s cheaper | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 08:38 PM |
| 3 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)Yes! There is a lot of cultural stuff going on! And it also depends on your standards. I’m not surprised by danish girls willing to pay for their drinks. But yeah it should not be an issue anyway. If you want to invite them do it, if they want to pay for their stuff let them pay. (In case you date non-danish girls when you travel ). | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Anxiety on campusDo social activities it’s easier to talk with people ! Just saying hello might feel weird to them as they don’t know you. You usually say hello +ask something. Unless you enter a room. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)We like seeing gesture of kindness tho I mean if you’re kind to others she will think that you will be even kinder with her. Well, some dudes are like you and they don’t see money as an issue. Just a way to do stuff and live life. Some of my male friends tell me that they don’t like paying tho 😂😂 ( they still do it but it’s not a real pleasure ) | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 08:18 PM |
| 1 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)Really? You should think about being sweet with strangers. It makes you attractive . Like if you say something nice to the waiter in front of her, she will think you re cool. And not even for that we are supposed to be nice to anyone we don’t know | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 08:07 PM |
| -2 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)I don’t know if that’s entitlement. Usually when you want to split the bill with your friends you say to the waiter « I’ll pay my part in cash ». You don’t directly say it to the other person But during a first date if it happens I’ll think that he was not that into me. But if he wants to see me again I’ll think he was just cheap (or that’s a beginning of a great friendship 😂). But if he’s just cheap that would be a turn off for me. I want to buy him plenty of stuff and I never want money to be … | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)Well don’t have sex with any dude that doesn’t respect you in the first place. I’m lucky because I attract feminist men. I’m completely turned off by dudes who think that slut-shaming girls is okay. I feel like the dudes of my environment are more open minded as mature | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)But you paid yours too! And you didn’t oblige her to come. I mean if she was meeting one of her friends he would not think of reimbursing her. I mean, if you don’t mind paying that’s fine, but you don’t owe her anything. You do it because you want to be sweet with her | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 07:50 PM |
| 0 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)😂😂 | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)It only works when you are both extremely attracted to each other and you clicked prior the date | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 04:50 PM |
| -2 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)Hahha! That’s the thing since I’m in this sub! When a guy does something I wonder if he got it from here as well 😂😂 Then I do something to teach him my rules haha. I notice that when the guy is super hot (like a 9/10), I’m just here for his looks and don’t care much about his great personality . Like it’s just mesmerizing I only think “oh my god he’s hot! Oh my god” 😂 and I just want to sleep with him and don’t care if he talks with many other girls . But that’s also bad (and good) because the m… | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)No i was just traveling there! I’m from Cameroun. But I’m pretty sure that even if I had grew up in Africa, I would still be a feminist x) | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 04:37 PM |
| 6 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)I agree with you as it matches my character as well. But if I have an extreme connection/chemistry with the dude or I’m travelling so my time is limited, sex on the first date would not be an issue | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 04:35 PM |
| 13 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)For 8 I don’t think it’s about being slutty. Everyone is different but I really need to feel great with the dude if I decide to have sex with him and I’m never relaxed enough after talking to the guy for the first time. Sex on the first date could happen if he’s super hot and we drank a lot during the date | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)This topic is super interesting indeed. I remember when I was working in SA with African colleagues from abroad , they find it completely normal to pay for the cab but also the phone credits of the girl . It’s very common in Africa to pay for the airtime of the girl you try to date but when we were talking about this with my colleagues from Europe (black or white) they were all “doesn’t she work too ?” 😂😂 I would never let a dude I barely know pay for my cab. I mean, I’m African as well so I kno… | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)But I watch one video from a dating coach (for girls) and I was shocked to see that some girls were expecting the man to pay for the first 3 months. Guys: never date a girl who never pay/cook for you at least once during those 3 first dates. I’ll link the video for you guys if you want to hear it but I loved what he said. When you date you want to treat the other like your best friend. You will never say to your best Friend “pay this!” That’s the same thing when you date. Also, it depends on whe… | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 03:49 PM |
| 4 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)About the money stuff, I notice that some of the guys who just want to get laid (not everyone! Some are still super generous ) don’t spend money on the girl for the first date. Like, they avoid any paying activity. 😂 For us girls it’s just a way to see if you like us. When it’s time to pay we take our wallet then the dude usually says “that’s fine it’s on me”. If we like the dude back, that’s an occasion for us to set a second date and pay for him the next time. (Guys should pay attention to thi… | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?Sorry that this triggered you ! It wasn’t my attention at all. It’s true that most men are very sensitive /insecure when it comes to comments on their sexuality | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 02:50 PM |
| 2 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?True! Your personally plays a huge role as well | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 04:09 PM |
| 2 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?I never spend 2 hours on tinder. I swipe for 5 minutes then move on with my life lol Also some men match me but never reply so I guess we all have the same issue But I think I understand where you’re coming from. One of my hot male friends was on tinder and it’s true that even for him it was hard to get matches. And he wasn’t picky at all (as long as the girl was thick lol). The other friend was getting even less matches and he was super picky. But like even when he was lowering his physical sta… | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 02:24 PM |
| -2 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?Hi there! So, you talk about people having mental issues on dating apps but you’re here saying racist stuff on the internet. While you think you were funny just know that your comment is extremely offensive. Just know that telling stuff like this is a crime. Next time you think about making comments like this, open a biology book and learn why your skin happens to be lighter also learn about history and the consequences of your way of thinking has on humanity. Have a good day. I still have love … | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 09:55 AM |
| 8 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?I think you idealize a lot about the life of a hot girl. It’s not because you’re hot that everyone wants to date you or you get invited everywhere receive tons of DM all the times. I mean, more people wants to sleep with you but that’s it. I also have hot female friends and while they do get hit on, it doesn’t mean that they don’t struggle when it comes to having a high quality person in their lives. I mean meeting someone is easy but meeting someone who lives up to our standards is hard. On tin… | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 09:49 AM |
| 3 | In general, are girls on dating apps just lower quality?I agree with this! You just have to stick to your standards. I could also say that the average man on those apps is lame but you have lame people IRL too. Just stick to your standards and don’t compromise on things that matter to you. Some of my friends met their boyfriend there and they are still dating after 2 years. Good people are everywhere :) I’m notre quality at all! Tinder etc makes meeting new people faster | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 09:42 AM |
| 3 | 21 year old kissless Virgin, idk how to change this.Love this | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 07:49 AM |
| 3 | 21 year old kissless Virgin, idk how to change this.I’m sure you don’t look that bad at all. You sound like you have a very low self esteem. Having a low self esteem changes the way people perceive you. You certainly don’t smile much, don’t speak positively of others etc, don’t take good care of your body etc. Most people find themselves Attractive when they hit the gym, buy trendy clothes, find the haircut that suits them or grow a beard. Try to check this out first before looking for someone to date. I’m sure you want to date someone who is con… | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 07:47 AM |
| 1 | 25V horny girl in bed, kill meSpending some time with her outside would help. Having someone you don’t know in your very private space is weird and intimidating so I’m not surprised by how you feel! If you start kissing outside as well you start to build sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 09:03 AM |
| 3 | 25V horny girl in bed, kill meForget everything you see in porn!! That’s the best advice I can give you. You won’t fuck for hours she won’t scream forever and you won’t do 1000 different positions. You are really nervous about it maybe you should relax first... you have nothing to lose and even if the experience isn’t too great for both of you that’s okay. I doubt you could walk perfectly the first time you tried. If she’s experienced and super horny I guess she will initiate the thing. But you can let her know that you like… | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?Oh okay! Well ignore my message then x). It wasn’t informative anyway! Have a great day ! | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?Sorry if you got offended! That wasn’t my intention | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?I’m super mindful and i check my energy before doing anything. Even at work. If my energy is low I stop everything and go deep breathing. I don’t want to do anything when my energy is low | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?I was joking ! | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?As long as you’re both happy that’s fine | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?I like the auto suggestion part. It works with all the areas of life | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?You can still have diseases. Make sure you both get tested before having unprotected sex | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 05:28 PM |
| -1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?Haha 😂 so, you prefer the feeling you get from your fist ? I thought guys liked the warmth of the vagina | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?So much yes to the lubricant. Something I learnt as a girl is that we never have enough hands nor enough saliva (for oral) | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?She just has to be beautiful ? I think men come fast the first time as they are nervous but they get comfortable with time and when they learn that sex isn’t just dick in the vagina | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Had sex for the first time and doesn't feel good?I’m a girl so I don’t know if we experience sex the same way but here’s my 2 cents. Maybe you don’t have a connection with the girl. You can feel a chemistry when you kiss/talk etc but once in bed nothing happens. There is a huge psychological part when it comes to sex. I started to get pleasure/orgams only when I started to masturbate and learnt how my body actually works. If you already have a lot of pleasure when you masturbate I think the problem comes from your partner/the connection you ha… | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 05:16 PM |
| 4 | 25V horny girl in bed, kill meHey, I’m a girl and you should relax . I’m also a traveler and what I learnt about traveling is that you can be whoever you want and also you don’t see the people you meet on the road again. I lost my virginity on the road as well as I didn’t tell the guy. I was also super nervous just like you are. He noticed that I was virgin actually (it’s easy to tell for a girl as I was not relaxed at all and he was a jerk anyway!). I was still doing a lot of foreplay to him and he loved it. He sucked in be… | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | How to start Friends-with-benefits (FWB) relationship with one of my friends?And sometimes we’re just horny but when the other person says” I just want fun”.It turns us off when we realize it’s not really our thing | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How to start Friends-with-benefits (FWB) relationship with one of my friends?Exactly. | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How to start Friends-with-benefits (FWB) relationship with one of my friends?This!!! It’s better to do it before sex. So that you both know what the other person is looking for! | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 04:20 PM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.You give a lot of importance to your past experiences and you thinking that something always turns bad at the end is the reason why they happen. Do yourself a favor and read some books on auto suggestion. Repeat daily affirmations in front of the mirror daily even if you don’t believe it st the beginning. Fake it and pretend you believe it. Say “I’m confident “/“girls like me”/ I love going on dates/ we always have a great time/ I’m attractive etc. Say this day and night and also during the day … | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 05:32 AM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Of course but I’m talking about making yourself interesting ! He has a low self esteem so this would help | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meOh I see know why you were all upset lol Well no I didn’t explain myself correctly. My bad. For me the order didn’t make much of a difference . But yeah first the dude hits on me, then I tell my friends. Then if I’m not interested we can stay friends . And if he asks the number of my friend No problem for me. But the dude won’t look too serious in my eyes and also in the eyes of my friend. That’s why I said to someone else that it’s okay to try with many girls at the same time but make sure they… | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meOh, we tell each other’s immediately when a dude is hitting on us. I guess you tell your friends too when a girl likes you So, if he says “I like your friend “, my friend would already know that he used to like me too. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Never heard of this. Thank you | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Lmao yes! My friend had to stop her salsa lessons because all the dudes were going there just to hookup. I still find it crazy that the same kind of people have the same ideas. That’s telepathy I guess | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 03:18 PM |
| 2 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Lmao ! I agree on the last part. It’s like those dudes who go to the gym just to hit on girls | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 02:19 PM |
| 7 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.You sound like a great dude so you could date me lol! You have a high level of self awareness and that’s awesome and it’s great that you take care of yourself. You should not fantasize on other people relationships/lives. You don’t know if they are truly happy. I used to be into that party life a while ago but I stopped since I workout too and want a healthier lifestyle. But I noticed that I love partying during the week. Not an heavy night tho. But more like an after work party as people tend t… | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 01:30 PM |
| 20 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Do you go where the younger people go ? Do you look serious or still "young" ? I'm 24 and got hit on by a very charming 40 yo dude. But like he was a personal trainer, very playful etc (and hot for his age). When we date older men we want someone who is extremely mature emotionally and very charming in his behavior. Like, knows how to flirt, confident in himself, makes us feel extremely attractive ... If this helps | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 12:29 PM |
| 2 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.I love what you say about day time activities. You see people at their best. You can have a proper conversation without the loud music etc | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 12:25 PM |
| -1 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meThat’s okay if my message came this way. I know myself and I know what I meant. No problem at all :) | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 05:45 AM |
| 2 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meYou don’t understand me I think. I don’t mind at all if he tries with other girls. I actually feel better if he moves on fast so that I know that I didn’t break his heart. I’m just saying asking ME to introduce him to MY friends sounds a bit desperate but I’ll still gladly do it . Even if he starts with flirting with my friend gets rejected and then tries with me. I will feel the same way: he’s trying with every girl/he’s desperate /none of us are special. One dude at the office was doing that. … | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 05:44 AM |
| 1 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meI’m so sorry if my answer offended you. I didn’t want to sound like I know better than everyone. I totally understand the need of having someone. I’m just saying that you make yourself more attractive when you act like you aren’t desperate. You can be longing for that relationship but in front of girls it’s better to show that you aren’t. That’s what I meant! | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 08:32 PM |
| -2 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meThat’s okay. Do what works best for you | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meI agree tho 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 08:11 PM |
| 2 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meYeah! I understand the issue with OP :) But about the wingman thing, as a girl, I think it’s more suitable for friendships were there is no attraction since the beginning . I mean, i rejected one dude and we became friends, but like every time he saw me with a female friend, he would ask me her number (which I gladly give since it makes me laugh (in the right way, I’m not dissing him at all )but the guy looks desperate. Like I think “he tries with me, then with my friend). He’s a great dude and … | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 08:07 PM |
| -4 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meYou look less attractive when you sound desperate . Maybe that’s why some of them have to go through 100 of nos. You make yourself attractive by showing that you actually have standards and know the kind of person you want in your life or not. (We don’t like guys who try with everyone. Don’t forget that we are girls and we like to feel special and desirable. I’m not saying it’s right, I’m just saying this is how most of us work) | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 08:02 PM |
| 0 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meI totally advocate the move on thing when you get rejected. You also reject some girls and they also move on... I’m just saying asking a girl who rejected you to introduce you to other girls sounds desperate. Like what would you think if a girl who rejects asks you to introduce her to your other male friends ?! Btw, we are all responding with our emotions! Guys too are not always clear | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 07:59 PM |
| 0 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meThat’s not what I’m saying at all. Read my post again | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meNo no! I will if he asks. But he won’t look too serious. I will think “he wasn’t really into me”. I mean, what would you think if you reject me then I ask you to introduce me to your male friends ? | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 07:56 PM |
| -1 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meYes I agree with that. But if he asks ME to introduce him to one of my friends. I’ll find it desperate. But I’ll still do it. It’s great if it works for them but the guy will look like he’s just trying with everyone. | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 07:55 PM |
| 0 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meOh not at all my ego ! I know myself! If I say no to a dude it’s that I’m not interested at all! That’s just what I’ll think of the guy. But like, I’ll still give the number of my friend and tell my friend that that guy who tried with me like her too 😂But I will think that the guy is desperate. If that makes sense | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 07:53 PM |
| 2 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meI pretty pissed with this btw. I always introduce girls to my male friends but they never introduce me to their friends ! | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 07:00 PM |
| -13 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meI thought you were saying “ask her to introduce you to other girls(after she rejected you)”. I gladly introduce girls to my male friends that never hit on me but introducing girls to a man who wanted to date me (but I rejected), feels like the guy wasn’t that into me. I was just a girl among many others. Like he tried with me, I say no then he asks me to introduce him to my other female friends sounds a bit desperate xD. Like , i stayed friend with that dude tho. But I still think that he just w… | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 06:52 PM |
| -6 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meWell, if he uses me to meet other girls after I rejected him, I would think that he wasn’t that interested. He’s just trying his luck with a bunch of girls and I happened to be one of them I’m not saying I’m right, but this is just how I would perceive it with my emotions (Btw I love this subreddit I feel like you guys are the sum of all my male friends that I miss very much. I loved listening to them talking about girls. I learnt a lot !) | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 06:52 PM |
| 6 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meWow! She’s a bit crazy then | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 06:50 PM |
| 4 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meFrom what you say you just don’t enjoy her presence at all. So yeah, getrid of her asap | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 06:48 PM |
| -5 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meA guy who does this to me I’ll just think that he just wants to sleep with a bunch of girls and that he didn’t really like me. (One dude did this to me actually. )I wasn’t upset at all. Just thought he wasn’t serious with girls. I would tell my female friend about this and we would all agree that he just likes girls in general. You aren’t special to him if he hits on you. | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 06:43 PM |
| 0 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meI don’t know about that last part tho. I’m attracted to the hot guy all the time do yes all the girls want him 😫 But at the same time, some of my female friends can all be attracted to the same average guy (doing impressive studies, playing guitar etc), but I’ll still be “meh! Why do you all like him ?!” | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 06:40 PM |
| 6 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meYeah. You never need to be petty/mean even when they are. Kill them with kindness | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 05:55 PM |
| 10 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meLol I’m a girl maybe this helps x) but I appreciate the compliment. Thank you. Tell her that on Monday you will go earlier since you have some stuff to do. Same on Wednesday and Friday. The following week you do the same for 2/3 days in a row etc. Do you want to stay friend with her btw ? | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 03:40 PM |
| 55 | How to get rid of a girl that friendzoned meStay friendly with her but firm. Start by talking to her about other girls. I’m still wondering how she can hang out with you if you don’t want ? Does she know your timetable by heart and just follows you around ? | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | The real reason girls don't sleep with you (and what to change to spark intense, sexual attraction INSTANTLY)There is a time to be innocent and a time to be sexual. But when you are attracted to each other those moments come naturally. Be cool, make her feel confortable etc. We never know if you find us attractive if you never compliment us/tell us that you love spending time with us. Once you make sure that she knows that you think she’s great, the rest comes naturally. Make her laugh like best friends but also be sexy Make it more about her than about you. Think « she’s so desirable », instead of « g… | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 06:17 AM |
| 0 | The real reason girls don't sleep with you (and what to change to spark intense, sexual attraction INSTANTLY)Oh then maybe in Asia it doesn’t matter. I don’t know. Btw, is casual sex common in China ? The image we have of it here is super conservative . I remember once I read in one magazine that It took a couple 3 months to kiss on the cheeks lol | /r/seduction | 11/08/18 08:15 PM |
| 8 | The real reason girls don't sleep with you (and what to change to spark intense, sexual attraction INSTANTLY)Really? Some dude did this to me and it turned me off. I guess we are all different. Where I’m from, you make the other person believe that you only see her even early on. I know that in the US you have many stages but we don’t. Like, if you see other people don’t mention them at all! | /r/seduction | 11/08/18 07:50 PM |
| 2 | The real reason girls don't sleep with you (and what to change to spark intense, sexual attraction INSTANTLY)Hahah! One of my male friends was talking about his date with a girl and my other male friend asked him in our WhatsApp group if they fucked . He replied “no it’s super hard you know. I’m not like you. Sleeping with them in no time and cheating on them already. I don’t know how to do that”. It’s true that my other friend was more physically attractive (I used to be attracted by him when we met), he’s also more confident in himself and a lot more sexual too! Like, I send him my booty pics all the… | /r/seduction | 11/08/18 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)Btw, I thought about what you said here x) You should make sure that the girl knows how busy you are during the week. It’s sexy. I like knowing that you have a life. You should use it to your advantage so that when you write her, she knows that you’re actually making time for her. And that week end is less busy for you and that it’s playtime Like, give her just enough during the week so that she sticks around and you can still focus on your hobbies. Text her when she doesn’t expect it just to ch… | /r/seduction | 11/08/18 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)Oh! I think I talk about this concept indirectly in my previous answer. I’ll tag you now | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)Great that my insight helps :) Calling sounds so grown up seriously! I can hear your voice, you show investment. Like not too many guys called me early on but when it happened I thought “waow ! He’s so into me “ I would also add that I love flirting via text . That’s what I meant with the “ I don’t like the casual chats for the whole day”.like, show that you can be sexy via text message then I’ll be dying to see you ! (Well, don’t text anything kinky if you haven’t met yet IRL and didn’t build s… | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)Maybe she just didn’t feel the same way about OP. You don’t need to meet someone else to become single again. At least not when you’re confident in yourself | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)Yeah! You don’t want the other person to see that you were giving them more attention than they actually deserve. You’d rather see that her behavior isn’t great early on than later when you’re hooked! | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)Would you go back to a girl who changes her mind a few months later after saying this to you ?! For me it’s just a “next” because I have a big ego 😝 | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)Great! You’re doing great! The right girl for you is on her way. Those experiences are just there to teach us what we want or not. Now you know what red flags turn you off. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)It’s just different for everyone. You’re answering from your male point of view/experience/cultural background and so am I. Also I’m a girl so I guess I perceive things a bit differently (some girls would agree with you too) You should always try to label the emotions of the other person. Whether you’re right or wrong. I’m sure the girl didn’t feel too great either on her side | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 07:53 PM |
| 6 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)Some girls like it. I used to love it too actually when I was less mature emotionally, now I take a lot of pride showing to the guy that I actually have a life and he needs to step up his game to have my full attention 😋 | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 07:49 PM |
| 5 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)If I send you “we should stay friends”, I know clearly that you want more. What I expect from a dude telling me that is just to respect my decision. If I change my mind I’ll come back on my own. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)I don’t like texting for small talks at all. I don’t have time! Like, drop the funny memes, let’s laugh a bit but that’s it. Use your phone to call me when I’m available or plan dates x) | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)Give me a call sounds desperate no ? I mean you should leave some doors open if you really care about that person but you don’t need to sound desperate | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)What’s kino ? | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 07:39 PM |
| 43 | Thanks Seddit! (Back story in comments)Great that this didn’t destroy you. I understand that you got upset that this didn’t work. I’m on your side but I still feel like you’re angry when I read your message. Telling me “I have already plenty of friends “sounds aggressive. You should always show the most confident /sexy version of yourself no matter what. Your energy should always be high but you can play around with your investment and don’t invest on flaky people. An answer like “I understand that you aren’t feeling too great about … | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.Argh! then it’s a lesson for next time to go for it. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 11:20 AM |
| 2 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.I talked with a dude this week end through tinder and I asked him what he was doing on his spare time he replied “nothing, I play video games and that’s it”. I blocked him! Another dude told me “I read books, I love learning about X, I exercise”. Now we have a date this week. I really need to make sure that you’re a fulfilled /willing to grow individual . I’m not a child I’m growing myself and I’m giving up 2 hours of my day to have a drink with you so i need to make sure that you’re worth it | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 06:31 AM |
| -1 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.Oh yeah I see what you mean. The physique will make that I am more willing to engage the conversation with you but even a 5-6 who comes to me first and I’m not instantly attracted to him physically could win me over with an incredible personality A 9 will beat a 7 with game in clubs or if I don’t plan on going on a couple of dates before sleeping with him (a very spontaneous attraction). But like, he would just be a body/a human sex toy I still need to see if the dude is respectful, would unders… | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 06:23 AM |
| 1 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.Hehehe ! You have to convince me that we should go out together first before I let you buy me drinks 😝 | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 06:16 AM |
| 3 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.That’s my energy ! Took me awhile to cultivate! Thank you for this amazing compliment! I love getting compliments on my mind | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 08:24 PM |
| 6 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.Haha! Which part ? You would do anything to get laid or if you don’t chase the girl it’s just that you aren’t interested ? | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Would you date yourself ?I think it’s a good question since most people here want to seduce someone else. It starts with yourself first x) | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 07:40 PM |
| 13 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.I know a lot of women sleeping/dating men that are 4.5- 5/10 (alcohol /not having sex for awhile/amazing personality change everything you know) I tried this once as I was always attracted to the hot guy (but douche bag) and thought that if the dude wasn’t too hot, then maybe he would behave better. That’s not the truth at all. So I went back to the hot dude and focused on the one who has a great personality. Looks arent everything! I know some very hot dudes with no charisma (interesting thing … | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 06:36 PM |
| 6 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.Great that you’re happy in your marriage ! I loved hanging out with men. I had a confident boost by hanging out with them. They encourage me if I decide to hit on a guy, my female friends are way less encouraging (or would judge any initiatives). With them I understood how much they loved girls and that they could do anything to get laid. now I know that I don’t need to chase men too hard, beg or anything. If a dude doesn’t show interest I believe him and move on | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 06:27 PM |
| 37 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.Lmao !!! Yes no a 4 with a great personality is just a friend (unless I’m drunk then I get horny and less picky 😁) Like I like to fantasize about my man, send each other pics etc. Btw I have so many male friends that tell me that in clubs they don’t dare to go to the hot girls but then when they see the hot girl leave with a guy that isn’t attractive but just confident , they don’t sleep too well | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 06:12 PM |
| 42 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.I’m a girl but I enjoyed reading this.(I don’t know if girls can post here) Yes! I enjoy having interesting conversations with dudes, especially when they make jokes that sound like they are intelligent. Don’t know how to explain this . I care about how they look (more than my other female friends) but it’s not everything. (I look good myself think Squat butt/toned body etc ) The only qualities I ask in the opposite sex are those I have myself . I’d rather date a 7 with an amazing personality (r… | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | I began meditating in order to move towards banging a ton of women all the time, but now after about 5 months of meditating I am more interested in just finding a girlfriendRead self help books . Think and grow rich is a good start | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 11:31 AM |
| 2 | I began meditating in order to move towards banging a ton of women all the time, but now after about 5 months of meditating I am more interested in just finding a girlfriendYes! You come from the abundance mindset. When you stress out about something it’s because you feel lack and limitations. Once you know that everything is found in abundance and you don’t need to worry, it comes to you | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | I began meditating in order to move towards banging a ton of women all the time, but now after about 5 months of meditating I am more interested in just finding a girlfriendThis isn’t surprising at all. When you meditate you become really attracted to having a strong connection with others. Not only in dating but even with your friends, people you work with . You don’t just want “friends”. Also you become aware of what is really important to you and what really brings you happiness and what makes you vibrate higher. Nothing wrong with the people who just want tons of sex partners. We all have different needs :) but your sex energy is connected to your creative ener… | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 11:24 AM |
| 1 | I did it. I approached 2 girls. Just gave compliments and walked away. Gotta crawl before you can walk before you can runMake the questions about her. Not about you Tell yourself that you are making a new friend (it should remove some of the stress than thinking "I don't know how to flirt") You can work on this by auto suggestion: tell yourself when you wake up and before sleeping that you are confident in yourself, that you can talk to girls you like with ease. You are interesting and care about others. During the day cultivate your mind and try to gain as much knowledge as you can. Also gain new skills. We all b… | /r/seduction | 21/04/18 12:32 PM |
| 4 | What to text out of the blue to show you’re not ghosting?Send her something that made you laugh. Or something about her passion (I'm a girl ) | /r/seduction | 19/04/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | My little research on my Tinder deckHello, My advice was to help those who struggle with Tinder (I know many do). If what you do is already working please continue. But I'm sure there are some valuable piece of information in my message. I learnt a lot by hanging out with men and you would learn a lot by taking advice from other women too.We are all different but not so different ;) What I said was what I think/prefer of course but also what a lot of women prefer. "Do you want to hook up?" is literally the kind of messages we rece… | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 09:01 AM |
| 3 | My little research on my Tinder deckI feel like there are mainly men on this sub. I'm a girl and I hanged out with 2 men that were on tinder. 1 hot the other one very average (body and face). It was really hard for both of them to get matches but the hotter one was getting more likes tho but it wasn't flowing all day either. Like they were celebrating every new match. As a girl I was matching like no one business . On this app there are more men than women. Here are my tips if you are a guy: no pic of you in a group. We assume you… | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 03:47 PM |
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