Being attractive isn’t enough

Novalis79 · 2019-01-29T17:26:56+00:00

Looks like he’s a professional dude and doesn’t give a damn about you feeling entitled to preferential treatment.

shellbross · 2019-01-29T17:38:36+00:00

Have you ever consider that he's not interested in you? He doesn't care about your job, about your sport routine, about you at all. He's polite and answer when you ask him something, because it's his job, but that's it. He doesn't have to make you conversation, his job is to make sure everything is in order and help people if they have difficulties with a machine. If he's as attractive as you say he is, he probably have lot of women throwing themselves at him on a daily basis, he doesn't have to bother mixing work and pleasure as it often end badly for the dude...

jasonmiles2014 · 2019-01-29T17:57:29+00:00

Begone, THOT

XavierMalory · 2019-01-29T18:44:27+00:00

So you asked this guy about himself TWICE and were surprised when he talked about himself? If he'd hit on you first I might understand your irritation, but that's not the case (from what I'm reading).

Then you complain that he didn't address your gym infraction in an "emotionally intelligent" manner. Was he rude? Did he yell or talk down to you? Perhaps he was curt because he's busy?

Personally, I get the feeling that you think this guy should've been eager to engage with you because you, as a self-proclaimed good looking woman, came up to him first, on more than one occasion. If he's as attractive as you think (that you'd start a convo with him), you can rest assured you're not the only woman to approach him first. On top of that, if he has half a brain in his skull, he knows that trying to pick up women at his place of work is nuts, when he could likely just as easily pick up women at a bar or a club.

Bottom Line: Yeah being attractive isn't "enough".

It's also "too much" when you're self-centered.

RedPilledLife · 2019-01-29T17:42:37+00:00

Maybe the dude doesn't like you and your entitled behavior, this whole peace is about me, me, me.
What I think, what I expect, blah blah blah, looks like you're going to get ghosted soon by him and by just reading this post, who can blame him?

Upyourasstoday · 2019-01-29T18:43:35+00:00

"Like today, he greeted me when I arrived and then came at me to ask me to remove the weights from the smith machine because I didn’t do it the other day (I didn’t know that we had to remove plates from the bar when we are done. Most people leave them I think ). "

Yeah, putting things you bring out back to where you found it, so other people don't have to clean up your mess, is so inconsiderate and such a turn off.

You are a special kind of stupid aren't you.

" This isn’t how you correct a behavior without triggering people."

???? Serious, so if a police officer intervened you from breaking the law, and you felt triggered, would you give the police officer the same bullshit?

Again, you really are a special kind of stupid.

traceviral · 2019-01-29T17:25:24+00:00

Being extremely friendly isn't enough either. Hundreds of girls i've introfuced myself to think i am friendly. Any of them think i am dateable? No. Bring attractive is enough, anyone that says otherwise doesn't get that attractive men and women have people that want to date them.

Svartanatten · 2019-01-30T06:26:41+00:00

Love how the entitled snowflake removed her whining when people weren't sympathetic towards her need of special treatment.

XimcahCosmaos · 2019-01-30T14:29:56+00:00

Have you tried being attractive?

Title	Being attractive isn’t enough
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	26
Date	January 29, 2019 5:16 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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