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questionac/r/askTRP20/11/16 08:02 PM
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http://www.thejerd.com/http://images.thejerd.com/2014/03/How-To-Measure-Your-Body-Fat-Percentage-Mens-Body-Fat-Infographic1.jpg It's the calorie deficit that's important, with the calories you have left you have to get every nutrient you need. People take supplements because they need the protein and vitamins with as less calories as possible. From there, it's just a matter of time, 500cal deficit is about a pound of fat lost per week.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:52 PM
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It's comforting that the highest value males in the world have settled with non virgins, or got dumped. If they can deal with it, how choosy can I be really.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 05:11 PM
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I see it all the time. The girl had her fun with Chad in her younger years. She gave her best life riding the cock carousel. Having threesomes. Getting sodomized any time the guy wanted to. Then she approaches 30 and a man takes her in. After her prime years are gone. "When I was young I never needed anyone And makin' love was just for fun Those days are gone" This song took a whole new meaning after TRP, I'll tell you that.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 06:27 PM
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The only way I can explain some couples is superior frame. Or a huge dick, but I can't know about that.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 05:43 PM
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Superior frame is number one, and that's not genetic. Although it can come easier with certain genetic traits, like height.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 01:52 PM
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Would I be exclusive? Obviously not. Would I move in with her? Obviously not. Would I propose? Obviously not. As an LTR, I mean being exclusive and all the rest up until possible marriage, so she has to be eligible for that. That's the definition of LTR for me, that's what my comment was about.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 02:27 PM
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Anything else is bullshit. I don't think so. What if she was a prostitute? What if she's post wall and fucked all the other men in town and you are the only one left?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 01:57 PM
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Some people just don't care about things like hygiene. I care.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 10:26 AM
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I think it's about what you're "selling", as mentioned in another thread. If you say no, it looks like you're selling a relationship maybe.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 04:40 PM
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TRP are the Vanguards and authors, not the newcomers who make up the vast majority of members and viewers. None of those people can compare to them and their success in getting high value quality women, not the ugly ones that frequent those places, a difference they likely intentionally overlook. That's like saying a gym and their instructors suck because fat people are joining, aiming to lose weight. And that's coming from more obese people that don't do and are not willing to do anything to lo…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 12:32 AM
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I don't think there are high value males/females among them, so I don't care about what these people say or think. I don't think their reality can back up their internet persona. Oh no, average Jane said I need friends and to get a life. I wouldn't even look at her in real life, why would I care about what she types in a forum and about the other 10 average Janes that support her. You can't fight those hyenas 1000 to 1 in a forum, and it doesn't matter, in real life is where it's at. And there, …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 12:31 PM
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Because they like them more. You don't. You're all fine, it only becomes a problem when you make it a race issue. It's not a race issue, everyone is an individual. There is not x vs x, it's x individual vs x individual. What transpires or doesn't between those two has no impact and no effect on people of x or x race. A black person's achievements are not yours, it's his. A white person's achievements are not mine, it's his. Same with nationality and everything really. So if they're trying to get…
/r/askTRP13/01/17 11:05 PM
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Got an std? Get another one. Just kidding, upvoted.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 08:37 PM
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She probably found something less popular to invest in and make money out of. Which is not bad, but I don't see what she has to offer. Endorsed contributors and authors know more than she does.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:31 PM
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If he had options, she still wouldn't be attracted to him. A poster said in this thread would date girls who were similar to me but would blow off their girlfriends for me. Which means they had options, and dated girls of similar quality to her. She was their best, not only option. It made no difference. If she was attracted to him, she would overlook flaws like byproducts of scarcity mentality and beta traits. It's all about frame, a beta move would look alpha if his frame > her frame. They had…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/17 05:21 PM
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And a bigger physique is? They need all those things to make it happen in a few months, you do it in 1-2 years. It's not hard to sustain that volume, and you don't lose flexibility and agility as much. My point is, bigger is not better after a point. You don't need to break any record in lifting, no need to push higher and higher and break personal records. Once you get your ideal target body it's over, sustain it and focus on other things. If you can have your ideal body by squating 200, then s…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 11:29 PM
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I wasn't commenting on abundance vs scarcity, but the reason of the rejection. "Lack of options" is not what women are thinking about when they reject a man is my point. How a lack of options influences the whole thing overall, sure, but women don't define it until after they reject someone.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 10:34 PM
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I’m sorry, I’m having a very hard time understanding what this means? It means that his options are an afterthought, not the reason of the rejection. Which is why saying someone without options is unattractive is pretty much pointless, all it does is make a second chance less likely, which is highly unlikely in the first place. You're just not attracted to him, that's it. Bottom line: if she’s not willing to reciprocate, then move on. Agreed, but women should just say that they're not attracted,…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 09:34 PM
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Not his best option, his ONLY option. Which is the impression he's giving by hanging off of someone who's showing they're not interested. So lack of attraction precedes his choices or lack of them, they're irrelevant. They play games. It's not as simple as she's not attracted to him, sometimes her own personal issues and feeeeelings get in the way of her acting on her attraction in a normal way. So it's a lose-lose situation. You don't make any further move, she won't make a move, it's over. His…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 08:24 PM
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Then you have to take other people's word for it, and do your thing while you wait for it to get out of your system.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 05:10 PM
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Sure, but I am seeing a lot of exceptions to the rule lately. Maybe it takes time for the exception to become the rule.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 09:11 AM
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If alphas rule the world, why does this happen?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 09:03 AM
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adjust your macros to ensure you get a gram of protein per pound of body weight. That seems a lot. http://bayesianbodybuilding.com/the-myth-of-1glb-optimal-protein-intake-for-bodybuilders/ There is normally no advantage to consuming more than 0.82g/lb (1.8g/kg) of protein per day to preserve or build muscle once you’re past the novice level as a natural trainee. This already includes a mark-up, since most research finds no more benefits after 0.64 g/lb. Optimal protein intake decreases with trai…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 10:01 PM
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Nah, Chris Hemsworth's body in Thor is the "biggest" someone should get proportion wise, anything more than that is not more attractive. Keep lifting and do 400, 500, 300, Chris Hemsworth's body will still destroy yours and he'll be considered the most attractive even if you lift twice he does.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 09:33 PM
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Go to a professional nutritionist, calculate your metabolism and body fat % and get a few weeks diet programm with the target of fat loss. Tell him how active you are, and what your training routine and target is so he can calculate that to your metabolism. Follow it if you want to and continue with his programs, but the point is to know about what sort of food you should be eating, how much and when. You can make your own then as it suits you, but if the diet says 3 fruits, don't eat 6. It may …
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:53 AM
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From "The book of Pook". Read it. https://bookofpook.neocities.org/#ch-70 When you start to change your life, people will notice it. They will not like it. We all get used to placing people in certain 'categories'. You're showing them that there is more to you than they thought. That instead of letting life define you, you are defining life yourself. You're literally fighting for life and this makes them uncomfortable because they didn't (and once they realize it, they know it is too late!). End…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:36 AM
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Coolest? Ninjutsu. Dirtiest? Krav Maga. Overall endurance/offence/defence? Probably MMA/Muay Thai I don't think it really matters though, so long as you master the art. No simple trained dude will be able to go against a master of any martial art. So I'd pick what I like the most, what gives me the body I like the most, and master it.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 07:15 AM
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I would explicitly say to the boys I didn't want to date them after constructing an image of myself that they saw as "perfect". If you actually said that to them, you lied. You just didn't like them. That was not what made them unattractive, it's what it implied that only added to you not being that, or at all, attracted to them in the first place. They knew I didn't want them but my actions would send them signals that I did, which gave them a false hope. Which actions would they be? Why give i…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/17 08:10 AM
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So you had no idea and did not rationalize anything, you just weren't attracted to them. You didn't say "you just don't see the real me! Else I'd like you!", you said "yeah...I don't like you. At all. You're just unattractive, it's sahara desert down there".
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/17 08:04 AM
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Throwing around words like "beautiful", "gorgeous", "perfect" from the get go or any indication of possessiveness too early on (we're talking a few hours from the first talk) are also massive red flags and turn-offs. Why red flags?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 06:10 AM
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Because he has options, he has an abundance mentality. So women don't think they're good enough to be his best option. And he thinking so is weak. Ok. If a dude is texting me non-stop when I'm not giving him anything in return, he is basically telling me "I'm investing a lot of energy into something that is giving me nothing in return". And if he doesn't what would a woman do? Nothing. Because it's a man's job to make a move. So it all comes down to "she's not attracted to him", everything else …
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 05:55 AM
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Imma PM you the other half of this to explain my stance of why they did not truly want a relationship with me. I am interested about why that is aswell.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 05:18 AM
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Also they did not want a relationship with me, they just liked the idea of being with me. In high school, I was basically a mirror that reflected what any boy wanted in a girl (this is called impression management and I did this to an extreme), but the image they saw was incomplete and they were too blinded by ONEitis to see past this. How did you reach this conclusion? You read about it afterwards? Were already RP? Something else?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/17 05:07 AM
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Makes sense. I read in another thread, you have to sell something. If it's a disney fairytale, she'll act like a princess that for some reason will not fuck you. Correct?
/r/askTRP07/01/17 04:17 AM
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Maybe people accept some things harder because people don't explain them as good as others, and there is less quality material for it. When you see an issue raised over and over and over again, it's either because it's hard to find in sidebar, not explained in a satisfying way in sidebar, or people responding are not giving solid answers. Maybe the sidebar needs an update.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 03:36 AM
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If she doesn't give a shit about you, it's pretty clear what she's doing. I agree with what you said, you must be the dominant one in the relationship. You need her less, you care less, you're more willing to walk away etc.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 07:05 PM
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If you can't get that leading role because she doesn't care about your punishment, it's time to next?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 05:56 PM
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How about many mornings of awkwardness and a night of loneliness.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 05:40 PM
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Then the vast majority of women are not LTR material, since most of them have been pumped and dumped, and that girl had been less than others. How many "pumps and dumps" are acceptable?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 05:26 PM
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So she must make a substantial move first. I see. If the girl wanted the validation, doesn't that imply that she considers him high value? Why would she want the validation of a low value man? So if she considers him high value, why treat him like shit?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 04:57 PM
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Why not? I have seen it before.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:34 AM
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Say he endured and she didn't pull the beta out of him. After which point would him showing interest, would not be considered him being beta again?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 06:10 AM
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"Her having 100 dicks is as easy as you having these bag of chips" Patrice O'Neal
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 04:56 AM
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Why women feel the need to compare an average dick that "knows how to use it" and a big that "doesn't know how to use it". Either they both know or they both don't, then you make your choice. Don't be that guy. If she's old, you're most likely that guy. Before TRP I had some respect for single women 25 and over, but now I just see them as CC riders who will always pine for that one alpha in their younger life. You have no dreams, no plans for the future, no goals. You just want to "live", "have …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 04:50 AM
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Won't they consider it a relapse if the response is not only favorable, but very favorable? So hot and cold, reward good behaviour is the answer, not cold or indifference?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 04:00 AM
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But he's obviously a high value male. Don't women want someone to be nice just to them? Why can't Brad Pitt be nice if he wants to? But if someone demonstrates that he doesn't give a shit about anything, but cares about that particular woman and is nice to her, will he still fail?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:57 PM
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But rest assured even Brad Pitt could screw that up royally by being a wussy, clingy fedora wearing wimp. So a nice guy is the ultimate turn off. Got it.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:53 PM
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If you've been clingy and needy, is anything salvageable? Ever?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:51 PM
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So there is no alpha behaviour, just alpha mindset. It's all about frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 04:05 PM
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What if Brad Pitt was clingy and needy? Would he get rejected?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 03:36 PM
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That's good and all, to prevent it from happening. How do you get over an already failed investment though?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 03:35 PM
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If you went from a 5 to around an 8/9, sure. That's what the "user" said. You're pretty much the only one here saying it's impossible.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 06:48 PM
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You can change someone's perception of you, nothing is absolute.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 04:29 PM
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No, a 10 is a woman better than a 9. Because she can't be a 9. She is a high 10, because she's too good to be compared with other 10s. Because a scale of 10 doesn't have enough range, as the range of beauty.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 05:59 AM
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Exactly, her worst stylist. And her worst are still better than other women, because what makes up her whole are the best. There are other 10s, sure, I don't see why you think you wouldn't see any 10s. They exist.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 05:52 AM
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Yes. Her worst are much better than others, still, and still better than 9s. When a woman is out of 9s league, she's a 10. Easy. She is a 10 of the 10s.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 05:43 AM
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As I see it, the point is to reach the highest possible level. What would the top value males do? What would you do with women of lower value than you, wouldn't care. So the reason you care, is because you think that either There are no others like her. You can't get others like her. None of those options are acceptable for a top value male, so TRP suggests you become that high value and have that frame, that abundance mentality is up to the point that you won't care like they don't. It's the be…
/r/askTRP01/01/17 08:37 PM
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Even more needed, and I don't like 8.1 as a rating. Besides, Alexandra Daddario is a 10. So there's your 10.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 08:02 PM
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Happy new year!
/r/askTRP01/01/17 12:17 PM
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Yes there are. Those who are too hot to be a 9. A scale of 10 is too small if anything.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 05:16 AM
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I think it should be first, because it states the best mentality to have. Then you'll fit the details and knowledge others offer in that frame. That guy had some serious revelation, but unlike others, he paints a nicer picture. He's a good guy. He's happy, he's successful, he's free. He has humour. Other people are right in their own way too, but they paint a darker picture, which although realistic in many cases, it really depends on you whether your life will be a comedy or a drama, to a large…
/r/askTRP01/01/17 04:06 AM
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The book of Pook.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 03:49 PM
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Getting married kills hope, it's what keeps the attachment alive. Why would you still have hope? Even if you become Brad Pitt she'll be married, with children. She's gone, I think once you realize it you won't care anymore. Maybe after she gets married you'll realize it.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 06:37 AM
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Than a lot, sure. Than the top models? No. Potential and frequency. It's a "race" thing because the races have different features in variety and in frequency. I don't think it has anything to do with promotion, in fact coloured people give more value to white than white people and the media do.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 05:04 AM
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Why would you think bigger is better? Lean muscle like Brad Pitt and Chris Evans is the way, all the top dogs have that kind of body. Male models have that kind of body. I don't see why people want to be huge and how it benefits them, when we already have a clear image of what is best visually and what most women prefer.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 04:22 AM
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Yep, she beat you, that's it.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 03:37 AM
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I get the concept, I don't understand how they can think like that anyway. I don't give the slightest shit about preselection and I would never share a woman.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 08:14 PM
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You give and expect nothing in return, and you're OK with that. So beta orbiters who just want to love them, want but don't expect or force or ask something in return, truly love them.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 08:08 PM
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I don't get it in the slightest. Not even a little bit.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 08:00 PM
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You have to be selling a particular type of relationship (ONS, fuck friend, casual, boyfriend/girlfriend). Don't stick to girls whose expectations are totally different. I now am thinking about how I may have missed ONSs, fuck friends, casuals, because I went for the boyfriend/girlfriend. Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 07:27 PM
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That's like saying alpha widows set their frame in having provider beta husbands, but we all know they are settling. If you once had a 10, you must replace it with a 10 else it's settling. You settled for something less and easy going (beta), that is better in other fields other than looks and femininity (beta), because you can't get a better 10 (alpha). What do men want? A 10. That's it. A better 10 than before and without red flags? Sure, but a 10. Everything else is settling. Depedestalizing …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 06:29 PM
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Compared to a less attractive woman, still better.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 06:30 AM
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Doesn't count, she has to be better than her when you got her.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 12:20 AM
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Would you rather a landwhale with a mustache doing that instead? She's still better than the rest.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 11:21 PM
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she kept throwing in my face how I'll never have someone as hot as her or good in bed as her again. Was she right? Because if she was, there's not much of an argument since you'll get bored of the ball too eventually. I'd rather get bored of having a gold bar than a piece of wood.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 11:06 PM
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That's true, everyone who had more than one "oneitis" should see it, since he can't feel anything for the past one(s). Yet that doesn't stop him from feeling for the current one. Stupid brain.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 07:39 PM
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This post wasn't to say that she is bad or that I don't enjoy time with her or anything of the sort, it was just to say that putting a girl on a pedestal will make it hard to see her for who she really is and cloud your decision making ability. Sure, but you said She may be better than my other plates in terms of well roundedness And I'd bet she's better overall than all your past women, which is why you can't say it was proven she wasn't. She's not that better, or has everything better, but she…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 07:22 PM
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The question is, was she better than all the other girls you had? All the previous oneitises? Who would you choose if you had to and why? That she's not perfect is not an argument if she's still better than everyone else. Also genetics and physical qualities are very important.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:07 PM
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He has enough expectations that I can't use him as an orbiter but low enough value that I can't risk having sex with him An orbiter has expectations too. The difference is that he's not letting her know? So basically if you make a move, she won't try to make an orbiter out of you unless she specifically ljbf you? So those guys are supposed to be removed from her life, no place for them in it. Right?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 10:42 PM
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Right. The way I heard it was that she meant to disqualify him beforehand.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 09:09 PM
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Why would she aim to disqualify him?
/r/askTRP27/12/16 08:54 PM
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Average preferable by women, nothing else matters. Quick google. They found that the average length women preferred for a long-term relationship was 6.3 inches, with a girth of 4.8 inches. For one night stands, women preferred a slightly longer penis, with a length of 6.4 inches and a girth of 5.0 inches. "Women preferred a larger penis size (especially a larger circumference) for one-time partners as compared to long-term partners," the researchers wrote in their report. "While this preference …
/r/askTRP24/12/16 05:10 AM
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I am just curious on what TRP guys think about the social media part. Endorsed people mainly.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 11:33 PM
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And you'll want to be with a 20yo of equal beauty, will you? If you will be, she's done. If not, what's the difference? That you worked your ass off for it and she was born with it. That she got fucked royally in her prime, and you were working so you might do the same after your prime. And she can still do it anytime she wants. Beautiful women can't lose, unless you're the best they ever had, or become the best they wish they had.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 03:50 PM
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The only way to get over someone is to be better than them beyond any doubt. That can happen in two ways. You go up She goes down Just accept it Oh! I never thought about it like that! Seriously now, this is like telling an alpha widow to stop being an alpha widow. It can't happen. At the very least you must know beyond any doubt that you can attract women of equal beauty, even if it doesn't work out either. Then you can get into a "sometimes it works, sometimes not" mindset and out of the "I am…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 03:30 PM
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Can't think of anything atm.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 06:02 AM
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So it's like that but for way more than 2 weeks. Now you know :D
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 05:21 AM
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You never liked one woman so much that you didn't even care about the others? Weird, I'd think most men had it at least once in their lives. Maybe you are a natural, and were already in a place some men are after TRP, so you weren't affected by a hot little minx :D
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 05:06 AM
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At first I just wanted the "dream", pure love fantasy. I just want one woman really, don't need another. But then I learned that women can't love like that because of their nature, so now I can't love them like that either. That guy in that other thread, he was great for 15years and what did he get for it? That was just disgusting. The thought of such a thing happening to me is terrifying, as I got "crazy" over losing a few weeks of investment on a girl, imagine 15 years. To be arrogant to think…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 04:51 AM
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No, it's because of feature variety. Listen man, what colour do you like looking at? Blue? Green? Brown? Black? Guess who can have it in abundance. What hair do you like in women? Straight? Curly? Who can have it all in abundance. You like tan, pale, pink complexions? There are the options. That's all there is. The options. The supermodels are not there to brainwash us into liking them. They're there because we like them. Put all the fat ladies you want in the media, nothing will change.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 04:33 AM
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I hugged a woman goodbye like that, we were hugging and moving around for a over a minute, could feel her boobs and she had her face on my chest. Wasn't sexual, we just hanged out a lot.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 10:19 PM
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Stop acting like you're the "secure" ones when your actions show the opposite. Noone buys it. Besides, there is no "collective" SMV, but a personal one. You think because Leonardo DiCaprio fucks a new supermodel every month that MY SMV is higher? No. What people of your "race" and "nationality" accomplish means nothing, only what you accomplish applies to you. You get no credit for other people's achievements. Get the fuck outta here thinking that because you grew up white and priveleged that yo…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:14 PM
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That's like saying supermodels are being promoted more instead of other women. You can't brainwash attractiveness into someone, that's bullshit. No, they're not. It's not about stereotypes, it's about VARIETY. It's not about "promoting", if they promoted others then caucasians would raise in value as they would be seen as more uncommon and exotic on top of genetic variety. I am talking about a purely objective genetic factor, if people still want to see "racism" or "stereotypes" or "propaganda" …
/r/askTRP22/12/16 01:43 PM
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No they don't. The top alpha males are all white. Chris Hemsworth, Brad Pitt... Noone can match these guys. Can an Asian have blue eyes and compare? The hair? The size? The eye and skin colour combination? Can black dudes have such colour variety and combinations? The hair? Mixed black women are not considered more attractive because of lighter skin per se, but because they inherit features not availiable to darker skin women, like hair, eyes, lips, face structure, colour combinations. Asian wom…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:45 AM
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It's all about genetic variety, nothing more. So long as caucasians have the most genetic variety, they'll have the most potential, therefore the highest SMV. Nothing to do with "racism", nothing to do with nationalities. It's all about genetic variety. You can't have the combinations caucasians have. Certain colour/hair/height/face structure etc are just very rare to impossible for non caucasians, while caucasians have a huge range of feautures and possible combinations.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:32 AM
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Most of the replies I read go against preselection and some TRP stuff. Is just seeing that other women find him attractive and him actually sleeping with other women equal in social proof and preselection? What about his past, if he was a dork and unattractive and haven't had many women, wouldn't that not make him a natural alpha and therefore not a good partner, bad genes etc? Are your men even the best you ever had, or you just settled and wish you had that one guy that had 100 women? I don't …
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 01:03 AM
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I'd say 6'3 to 6'5 is probably the best height all around, but I am not sure heights above it are better than below it. I'd rather be 5'11 than 6'8 for example. I am not sure 6'8 would work better for women than 5'11, unless they too are very tall. Also, most guys are ugly. I've seen many tall people that are just ugly and their body sucks, just like short guys. I don't think their height gives them an edge and women certainly are not impressed by height alone. But if they're both good looking a…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 10:45 PM
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I don't think people mind being told they're being a little bitch and clueless. People mind being told just that, then read the sidebar. Like you take the time to tell a guy what to do while calling him names, but not why. Even if it's just as short or shorter a sentence, or a link away. People who are clueless can't change the way they think just because someone said so, but want and have to base it upon a solid foundation. Not saying they shouldn't read the sidebar first, of course.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 01:19 PM
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So it's good to do it once or twice, you know what you're dealing with.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 02:24 AM
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Who knows, it just seems sickening that males are jerking off to their wife being banged. Didn't Patrice O'Neal do that? Isn't he supposed to be alpha and red pill etc? Well, he wasn't married but still, LTR.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 12:46 AM
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You're upset about the fact that your mythical unicorn has been and will be deep throating dudes. I get it. Worse. Much worse. The sooner you get past that (the pedestalization), the better. It's not helping you. I know enough to prevent it in the future, but not enough to completely erase the past.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 12:08 AM
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I don't think men in (ask)TRP are talking about issues with women like her though, but women similar to that other girl in the link, and as you can see she ain't crashing any time soon. It's hard to believe such women are getting attention, maybe they confuse friendly behaviour with IOIs as men do.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 10:05 PM
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If you could fuck supermodels or whoever you wanted in your prime non stop, would it really bother you that much that in your "retirement" years you settled for less that in the worst possible case, they'd still take care of you and you'd keep fucking models if you felt like it? I don't think attractive women ever lose, plus they get everything by being born alone. Men have to put so much effort that pays off much later in most cases, and still their prime mostly goes away with nowhere near the …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 07:11 PM
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lol
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:44 PM
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It's beyond easy to get over an HB5 that you made out to be an HB10. The problem arises when the HB10 is an actual HB10. And she won't fail, but will get a guy much better than you. Or worse, a guy much worse than you. Not that you should have feelings of revenge anyway, but an example of failure means nothing. Just going to keep raison my SMV while hers plummets and I couldn't care less at this point. Yeah, it will plummet compared to younger beautiful women. But will she be worse than what you…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 06:26 PM
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And Nah, someone who rejects me isn't going to be great for me. Why? This? https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 02:20 PM
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Maximizing your chances can mean getting them from 1% to 2% and from 1% to 90%. With women and their chaotic and impulsive nature, there is a hard cap on that %. And it's singe digit at best, even lower if you take out the majority of women who just like you because you're out of their league. Your presence would increase my chances. To what? Get any woman? That's easy. Get the woman you want though and you can lose to someone beneath her and beneath you and against everything you know, which is…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 02:04 PM
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I usually just be like "My loss momma," and fist bump the bitch or something. Give credit where it's due man. Her ass was tight enough to draw your interest. #Respect. If it's a shit test, why say that? Does it work?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 07:49 PM
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And for all you know she could be great for you. And while you keep searching through the psycho bitch trash for the next months, another guy hit the jackpot you missed and is having the time of his life. Who is the loser? I can only name one out of the three involved. But I have to agree with what you say, the problem is investing in her. If you don't invest anything, you can't lose anything. Well technically you still lose, but it doesn't bother you, you get over it fast.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 07:38 PM
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but at that particular moment, Suzie Slutbox just wants to get railed by a guy with missing teeth and a bad meth habit. And that's why SMV is pointless unless you and she wants to settle down. But that's not what we want. We want to be the guy that they would ride the CC with. And for that, women are the only ones that dictate SMV and it has NOTHING to do with SMV, hypergamy, dating up or even basic hygiene in some cases. It's whatever they feel like and depends on their mood.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 07:22 PM
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Actually it is your loss since you're the one that wanted what she could offer and you can't have it. And that's why it bothers you so much, because you lost and there's nothing redeeming about it. No 2nd place. You took all the risk and she took all the attention and validation, and you got nothing. 200% win for her, -100% win for you, because before that you theorytically still had a chance and now you're lower from where you started. You're not any better in her or anyone's eyes, it's just yo…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:14 PM
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Obviously, there is "something". My point is, that this "something" can be something little compared to the overall SMV TRP is preaching about, which is a combination of many things. As you said, maybe he has a fat dick. Out of everything people are saying about SMV and how to raise it, and sure a fat dick surely contributes to it a lot, THAT is the deciding factor. That's it, the fat dick. You have looks but he has a fatter dick, you lose. You have a fatter dick and looks but he has more money,…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:54 AM
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Doing cardio after lifting is encouraged for people seeking to lose fat. Why? They're still a few more calories burned, right? Is the time investment and getting more tired worth it if you're also lifting a lot? And also, wouldn't that help losing muscle mass if you're already in a cal deficit?
/r/askTRP19/12/16 01:39 AM
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She needs to see both to compare. And a fat dick, wow, so much about SMV and all those TRP advices and women's evolution and behaviour and dating up and hypergamy. Fat dick, that's hypergamy. I was born with it, suck it buddy! Whatever.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:15 AM
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What is there to learn except "you're unworthy, suck it up"? This doesn't comfort me at all. Especially when somebody obviously inferior was successful where you weren't. I don't mind losing to Chris Hemsworth, but losing to freaking Quasimodo with nothing to show for? Fucking hell...
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:12 AM
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Sure. Now define SMV and you'll see that most of it doesn't matter either, what matters primarily is being masculine and how she feels about you which you cannot control at all. Not even have an alpha frame or be good looking, you just have to appear masculine. Then even if you act like a beta, she thinks it's just for her benefit, because the overall impression and appearance is that of a masculine man. The guy in the example, preselection probably does wonders for him. He probably knows how to…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 01:05 AM
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Don't treat her like she's perfect because nobody is and she knows it. Women know this by default and some or most men need somebody else to make them understand it, and they resist it too. Women are indeed the realists.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 09:06 PM
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Which is different than what people mean when they say "increase your SMV" and "improve yourself". What is the point of wealth and status and attractiveness and education and everything, when you're just going to lose to a brute that his lack of everything will be perceived as extremely masculinity and alpha behaviour. We're talking about the TOP SMV women here. Noone cares if the same woman in 5 years will look to settle for you and your money, the goal is always the young and beautiful. You're…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 12:31 AM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 07:57 AM
1

Mind sharing the titles of the books?
/r/askTRP15/12/16 01:35 AM
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And it also goes against women "dating up" and hypergamy. A fat slob with nothing to show for and no potential is not "dating up" no matter what his frame is.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:56 PM
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But it can never be "equal" frame, someone will be better and that's all that matters. So all you need is frame then, that's SMV. Frame. All the others are only there for yourself, first impression and settling down. Women will always pick the strongest frame, no matter your other qualities, good or bad. If you have better looks and status she might give you the chance she didn't give the other guy, but as soon as she meets the other guy you're done.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:54 PM
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And that's why I said it's chaotic. There are no constants at all, but how she "feels" like. She gets the feels from a fat slob, game over. You have the genes and have been working out 2h a day for years, means nothing. That's why i feel all the traits mentioned of SMV, are just for getting one to settle down. Young beautiful women just want someone to fuck them like an animal, and he can be whoever and look however, so long as she "feels" it.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:34 PM
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Agreed. So status/wealth/attractiveness mean nothing for a young, beautiful woman which is the target of most men. So they're pointless by themselves, they only come of use when the above not young anymore beautiful woman has ridden so many dicks that she feels like settling down.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:27 PM
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I am talking about the case where she doesn't pick the one rolling up to a club with a hottie or more, but instead the fat slob sitting in the corner alone.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:25 PM
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But when someone is wealthier, has a good job, he's more attractive by typical standards, has better body etc, and the woman chooses someone who is not only below her availiable choices or her current companion but she's also a 10 and he's a 6. What I answered above, basically when a woman's choice is against hypergamy and SMV. Like a man choosing a whale when he could have a model.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:21 PM
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I am not talking specifically for "fixer uppers", but based on this. Women determine the Sexual Market Value of a man, not you. Which is true. But when someone is wealthier, has a good job, he's more attractive by typical standards, has better body etc, and the woman chooses someone who is not only below her availiable choices or her current companion but she's also a 10 and he's a 6.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 10:18 PM
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twenties women only give a fuck about the manifestation of bad-assery and masculinity in ones' image, not ones' skills. So SMV means nothing for young beautiful women. Only post wall women, which we don't want anyway. Why are we raising our SMV if it doesn't matter? To make a post wall girl settle for us?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 09:17 PM
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What is the point of SMV when women ignore it and against SMV and against hypergamy, choose someone who not only is not their best option but also below them in SMV aswell. Just to increase your average success rate? Everything is so chaotic.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 09:11 PM
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Education, family, communities, homogeneity... And not as much influence from media, movements...
/r/askTRP09/12/16 02:31 AM
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I don't know if they are, but culture is the only answer. What else could it be?
/r/askTRP09/12/16 02:09 AM
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So I should practice on average girls? And what if they say yes. The problem is that beautiful women like me...until they talk to me. I don't want to fuck 100 average girls...I can't even flirt with them. I just like that they like me is all.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 08:21 PM
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Yeah, I was thinking about this too, because Patrice O'Neal said things that sounded right, but after I learned that he let his girl fuck another guy in front of him I don't know anymore. I don't think it's alpha to tolerate cheating either, unless you never agreed to commit.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 08:05 PM
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How many rejections can a man take?
/r/askTRP08/12/16 07:53 PM
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And if you do and it backfires, you might've lost a good LTR that would otherwise work. Just so if things go to hell because of her you'll be able to come out on top. It's like betting on disaster. Sounds like an unnecessary risk, it's like vetting women for accepting you as a cheater. She doesn't have to know, sure, but doesn't outcome independence cover you in case she does what you don't? You already do know what she might do any time. If things go to hell, you will look back and say "it's go…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 01:39 PM
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I see. Still I'd think that although you have to flirt and have options and she should know it, cheating is unnecessary and you don't have to include it to your life, unlike flirting and having options. So the question is, how does the OP make it so that his gf knows another woman wants to see him, he responding to her but not fucking her, and all this without creating problems with either of them.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 01:22 PM
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And commitment is something women value, not men. Men want their woman to be faithful and are not open to sharing as women are. Isn't this contrasting to what you said?
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:32 PM
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In the case of a man I see it as more of a concern not to fuck up his relationship with his gf for a fuck, but in the case you mention I see it as her being excited and "asking" for encouragement to go for it. Maybe the "lol" you added makes the difference. But still I think the difference is this. OP is just considering another good fuck right? But the girl is considering a BETTER fuck, which she wouldn't if her bf was better. Could be wrong of course, but those are my thoughts.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:22 PM
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That's what I did and I understand it now. Only that my case is nowhere near as serious as the OPs, which makes me happy that I got to find and learn TRP by paying a very small "price". Now it just looks like a joke how much I cared about something that unimportant that cost me nearly nothing, it was all in my head, but benefited me immensely. Percpective.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 09:52 PM
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Do you see decent or beautiful women side with extreme feminists? That's your future. Alpha males will never side with you, because they actually get the women. TRP can never become mainstream, but it can help people that want help. What will happen is you'll have 90% of men and women having fun and enjoying each other and a bunch of 5%s on either side bitching about the other sex.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:27 PM
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MGTOW seems stupid to me. If you don't like women just say so. Also I bet if the women you wanted were easy for you you'd want them and wouldn't even think about MGTOW, which leads me to believe that you're just cowards or something that don't want to put the effort. MGTOW is like the opposite side of the same coin with extreme "women need no men" feminism, and see where that led those women that followed it. If you like that future, have fun.
/r/askTRP07/12/16 08:11 PM
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Well, some people may like fucking animals, it's my common sense that that's wrong. I am not going to respect their "subjective" preferences. Since we reached that point, I don't think there's nothing more left than agree to disagree.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 09:50 PM
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How exactly is a woman with high value past partners of low value? Because they are many? Maybe she is forced or has chosen to move a lot around the world in her life, making it difficult to find few long term partners. Because men don't want a small town "paying their respects" in their woman's vagina. There's no point talking about the 0.01% of possible exceptions either, the vast majority of men don't want their wife having many "miles". Men don't respect or want these women, and women don't …
/r/askTRP05/12/16 07:22 PM
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So you mention two low value women and tell me you'd rather get the hot one. Bad example. Why would noone want to sleep with the non slut unless she's unattractive? It's weird to me that you care about preselection, I couldn't care less. Value is not just physical looks. I did not use the "slut" tag on my previous post and neither did the thread opener. You just jumped into false conclusions because of the way you processed what I wrote, due to your very limited point of view. It's a good idea t…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 03:15 PM
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A slut is of no high value, even if she's a 10 physically. Same with porn stars and prostitutes. It has nothing to do with insecurity, you don't want a woman like that as a mate no matter how attractive she is. What a man does is positive, simply because women think it's positive and act accordingly. When they stop, those studs will be treated the same with sluts, but that's purely for women to decide and act accordingly. I don't know why you would think so, but this is one of those things that …
/r/askTRP05/12/16 12:03 PM
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Women are the ones that give value to studs. Why wouldn't men respect them aswell? They get what they all want. Men don't give value to sluts, and women don't either. Yet when a man gets a slut he gets high fived by fellow men, while a woman that sees a man get a slut feels attracted to him and dislikes her. It's contrasting that women want a faithful stud. While men are rational, they just want a beautiful woman, no preselection. It's all on women and their preselection I think, they have only …
/r/askTRP05/12/16 09:19 AM
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Since it's instinct though, isn't it safe to assume that "some" of your failures will not be received as failures or be recorded as such, unless she actually takes the time to analyze your behaviour? Because the way peope talk about shit tests, is as if there's a computer interrogating you. It's a game though, and the overall impression you give must not be one of a failure. Right?
/r/askTRP04/12/16 10:22 PM
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This gives me great hope.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 10:13 PM
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anything? Boring too?
/r/askTRP04/12/16 10:09 PM
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Are they doing it on purpose or is it instict or something? It must be part of "the game", part of it subconscious, they can't possibly be bothered to plan all those shit tests.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 10:08 PM
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Men are not like women. There is no preselection and we don't care for your experience if it comes with the numbers, and intentions, of a porn star. So how and why you got such high numbers means something. No, wanting to a experience a fivesome is not a good reason for a potential mother of your children, and it has nothing to do with insecurity. Why not take a prostitute if she's now faithful and clean. I bet you'd see no reason, but men do. Women make their choice and ride the CC in their pri…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 10:02 PM
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Do you really think a 25 year old woman who is a 7 will be a 4 when she's 30? How I see it. It's relative to the "new" 10s and new 7s that come of age. You always count from the top. Because of this reason, I don't think a scale of 10 is enough. So no matter what, age and "miles" and "baggage" and stuff will make a 7 drop 3 points alone compared to a younger 7. Sure, they're more attractive than other women of their age, but they all collectively "go down" and younger women collectively take the…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 09:42 PM
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Since your previous reply had featured that phrase Wasn't me. something that takes away that insecurity that in fact I had never had with any woman I've dated before There is no "secret", it's your frame. You can't fake this. Even high SMV men, alpha males, walk when things don't go their way. They get with hot women, 9s and 10s, but more 9s and 10s still reject them. But they don't care, they move on. Someone said above Preparing yourself for this possible reality will also make you more alpha …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 12:24 PM
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I have this stupid feeling that for some fucking reason a guy that's clearly worse than me in every aspect (intelligence, physique, attractiveness, culture, politeness etc.) still would have a bigger chance of fulfilling her more than I do and would sweep me away just for the fact of being a man. And you would be right. Read. https://bookofpook.neocities.org/#ch-21 Why would she go for the ugly guy, why would she go for the rude guy, the uncultured guy, the uneducated guy, the poor guy, the no f…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 10:52 AM
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I agree. I hate it, but you gotta do what you gotta do.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 06:06 PM
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Still seems stupid to me, but what can you do.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 05:54 PM
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I don't understand it though, me as a man I wouldn't mind, in fact I'd prefer that she hadn't even been touched by another man, ever. And there you have women, basically holding against you why you haven't had your dick in many vaginas, why they haven't sucked your dick, why your tongue wasn't in their ass... Don't they imagine what you did to other women, doesn't it bother them? What the hell. Yes, experience, yes preselection, I don't give a SHIT if you've been preselected by other men and I'd…
/r/askTRP24/11/16 04:31 PM
1

If she doesn't react positively, why do you think she did all that touching in the first place?
/r/askTRP20/11/16 11:51 PM
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There will be no more touching, that's for sure. This "hot/cold shower" pisses me off.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 11:42 PM
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Well, except that it was the point of the thread, noone.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 11:37 PM
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That I can believe, but I also like my money and not having to worry about dropping the soap when I shower. I don't see how she'd mind simple stuff but accept ass smacking. Have you actually had this happen to you before? You can't touch her hand but you can slap her ass? Is that a thing? Seems weird to me.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 11:18 PM
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Then why is she even stroking my chest and shoulders and biceps like that, looking me in the eyes and smiling? Aren't women supposed to not want to touch men they don't like? She's touching me all over and I can't touch her, what the fuck.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 11:02 PM
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Why would she not respond well to a more mild form of kino and say fuck yes to a slap in the ass? Also, I don't want to be in a position to be charged for sexual harassment or something O.o
/r/askTRP20/11/16 09:11 PM
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"then she still doesn't respond well to your kino." I would think squeezing her boob or slapping her ass will make her respond even worse.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 08:59 PM
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Well, that escalated quickly.
/r/askTRP20/11/16 08:30 PM
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