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Thanks for the links, I'll read them and then try them out!
/r/seduction30/10/18 09:26 AM
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Thanks, so how do I make myself the cause? I'm trying to project a good vibe already.
/r/seduction30/10/18 04:21 AM
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I don't get it. If she's feeling high or good after talking to me, why does that feeling prevent her from answering an SMS a couple of days later. I always try to radiate the good energy that you're talking about..
/r/seduction29/10/18 09:04 PM
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Thanks.. I tried insta-dating sometimes but time doesn't always permit. As for inside jokes, I don't really have any, although I could refer back to something we spoke about together.. if you think it's a good idea.
/r/seduction29/10/18 09:02 PM
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The simple fact that you go to the same uni means that it's a warm approach rather than a stone cold approach. Having said that, you'll still need to show value and the right kind of game to get reproducible results. Like, being able to ramble about uni life and your course, what you like to do for fun, etc. Don't just do interview style question after question. You must have something to connect with each girl on, so use that as a way to find common ground. For example, talk about the clubs you…
/r/seduction31/07/18 09:08 AM
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Indirect Indirect Indirect Did I mention... indirect? You need to make her feel relaxed as many girls get their guard up at the gym, they assume all the guys are rapey. But if you can make 10 - 15 minutes of small talk, or at least 5 minutes talking about her exercise routine, then you can segue into talking about her life, your life, passions, interests, hobbies and travel, etc. After small talk, just casually mention that she seems cool and you'd like to have a coffee but you're leaving in a m…
/r/seduction30/07/18 08:20 AM
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Yes.. just assume the sale. You need to take the frame away from 'buddy' as soon as possible. Behave as a sexual creature so you can reframe yourself away from being through of as a friend of hers. Should not be too hard to do so, since you've not seen her in a long time.
/r/seduction30/07/18 08:16 AM
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Yes I think a healthy dose of daygame could be just what the doctor ordered for this young fellow. All kinds of interesting girls go to bookstores, and you can meet any kind of girl you can imagine in the street. OP, get out there and do some indirect approaches on girls. Even if they are not your type, just talk for practice. After a while you will become supersocial from talking to so many people.
/r/seduction30/07/18 08:15 AM
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Haha.. could be.. Well it seems for some guys, they can't even fathom how we could approach a girl we have never seen before and start a conversation. Maybe it's best to not stay in one place for too long? It's harder to get caught if moving around after every 1 or 2 girls..
/r/seduction03/06/18 09:21 PM
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Maybe "invading a safe space" or "public heterosexuality"? But in seriousness I double-checked, and unless you're involved in violence or outright harassment, e.g. shouting at people or following them around, there's no offence committed. The problem is that the supermarket is private property, and a representative of the owner can ask you to leave with no reason at all. Haha thanks. I don't feel big balled though.. after doing so many approaches, talking to a girl is about the same anxiety leve…
/r/seduction03/06/18 01:09 AM
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If she's non-ugly then I would go for it. If she is very physically attractive then there is a chance that she'll act like she's too good for me, which is normal, it's a test. I know it's a BS test because they even do it when you've got badass hair, good clothes and look like a rockstar. Heh.
/r/seduction02/06/18 10:52 PM
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Hey man I was having the same problems and am now on the road to recovery. What I'm finding is that a lot of the standard PUA advice about game can be toned down (or in some cases even ignored) if you are already alpha mindset or just naturally confident. Girls were finding me intimidating so I started smiling more and being nice. Other guys will say that this is beta behaviour, in their black/white thinking, but actually I'm getting more sex with this approach than when girls thought I was a st…
/r/seduction28/03/18 09:16 PM
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Oh I get sarcasm. But I choose to pick on the funny part of someone's reply, rather than feeding negative energy.
/r/seduction26/03/18 09:21 PM
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Haha, sure but it's mostly selfies.. if you're into that sort of thing..
/r/seduction25/03/18 08:11 PM
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This is awesome advice and basically what I figured out after a bunch of trial and error. There is so much bunk info out there when really, being able to hold a conversation like a normal human being is the most fundamental part of the whole thing!
/r/seduction25/03/18 06:39 AM
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Your advice really helped. I did 6 hours of daygame yesterday and made an effort to smile more and be more excited, with a slightly elevated energy level. The difference is like night & day.. so thanks a lot.
/r/seduction18/03/18 06:06 AM
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I think you're right. I went out today and talked to about 6 girls, five of them went well and it never felt like a natural time to ask if she had a boyfriend. I just said I thought she was an interesting person and left it at that.
/r/seduction16/03/18 07:20 AM
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You'd need to have good rapport already, in order to pull that off. Or, use it in the night time. I tend to agree with some commentors who think it is risky in the day..
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:14 PM
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Very good post. Thanks.
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:41 PM
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Cool OK, this is logical. I understand the reasoning behind building rapport before selling something, but why limit to 15 minutes? If I'm talking to someone for 30 or 60 minutes, surely that's even better?
/r/seduction15/03/18 04:56 PM
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Maybe a rapport break. Especially if it was brought up out of context. But if, for example, they're talking about family & circle of friends then it might not be so bad.
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:18 AM
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One who had a boyfriend and another who might have had one, but I'm not sure. They were both overseas from their native country at the time. All the others were (ostensibly) single.
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:11 AM
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Four combinations: "I'm single", lying = she wants to be seduced "I'm single", truth = she wants to be seduced "I'm taken", lying = she is not interested "I'm taken", truth = she is probably not interested
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:04 AM
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This thread is posing a question, not making a declaration. I'm asking what everyone thinks and presenting the evidence available.
/r/seduction15/03/18 11:02 AM
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Fair enough. But if she is the kind of girl who cheats, she'll probably lie to you anyway.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:28 AM
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My old flatmate said it worked. I have not tried it yet, but might. Also there's some articles online talking about how great it is, for what that's worth.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:26 AM
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With statement of intent, or some other clues, yes. But I think a lot of them just do not get the "it's on" feeling from indirect game without something extra. In principle I agree with your point, but girls sometimes seem to feel like the guy is just playing with them or mucking around. On the flipside, I've spoken to chicks in the past who assumed I was interested when I had no interest at all. So it really depends on the girl.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:24 AM
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It's good to think positively but in my experience, most women in a happy relationship are not willing to cheat. Some yes, but those are an exception. So a single man's interests are better served in spending time with women who are single too.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:12 AM
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When I'm standing in front of a woman being 100% real and she can see there is absolutely no nervousness or awkwardness.. I'm already meeting her as an equal (or better) and can talk in a witty and interesting way.. then suddenly this question makes me low value? It is to laugh.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:11 AM
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No, the asker isn't necessarily worried about competition. It's common sense that single women are easier to seduce than women who have a boyfriend or husband. If we put ourselves in her shoes for a moment, what does she think? She probably thinks "he is interested in me". She would not think "he is weak because he only goes out with single women". Do you see?
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:08 AM
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What is confidence masking?
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:01 AM
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Interesting.. yet some guys swear by this approach. They say it helps to create an "it's on" moment with the girl, and helps to fight potential attainability problems. Funnily enough, they say that it displays high value, if anything. I find it interesting that the two camps are drawing polar opposite conclusions.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:00 AM
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I disagree. It does give information, specifically, whether she is single or not. For point 2a, yes sometimes they would feel uncomfortable telling a guy they have a boyfriend when he is running indirect game. Unless.. he opens indirect then makes a statement of intent later. But asking about her relationship is a sort of statement of intent in itself, anyway. As for insecurity, I don't see how a question like that betrays a level of insecurity around ones SMV? Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction15/03/18 09:36 AM
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Could make sense. Could save a ton of time. I'm interested in why some guys think it is weak to do this? If it was delivered in a casual way, it doesn't seem like such a weird thing to ask. Especially if the implication is that I'm interested in getting to know her.
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:54 AM
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So it does matter if you ask? Or doesn't matter?
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:51 AM
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Thanks. The whack thing is that I ask if they want to hang out, and they say yes and then flake later. Sometimes they even fail to respond to text after I arranged the time and place and logistics for the date!
/r/seduction14/03/18 08:30 AM
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I don't get it. If I have an uptight, "I need a LTR" vibe then why do they assume I'm a player? It's the opposite. Text is a basic "nice to meet you" followed by some logistics texts as required, if it even gets that far. Usually they don't respond.
/r/seduction14/03/18 01:21 AM
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I still think you have the wrong end of the stick. I'm very happy to start things on a casual basis and am 0% nervous or 'needy' around these women. Due to my work, I can talk to a 10/10 supermodel and literally have no nerves. Anyway I have not put any pressure on them at all, beyond saying that "We should have a drink, I know a great place". But thanks for your comment anyway, I know you're trying to help.
/r/seduction13/03/18 08:17 PM
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It's still an issue because most girls, especially hot girls, want commitment from a guy (eventually). I've had some flings with girls who are on holiday and only here for a few weeks, which is fun, but it'd be nice to see a girl more than a couple of nights..
/r/seduction13/03/18 08:13 PM
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Thanks! I'll look up comfort game and the video suggestions you gave. Did some research online, apparently even some natural attributes like 'bedroom eyes' and deep voice will make girls assume a guy is a player! So in addition to your suggestions, I'm going to experiment with these things and see if they make a difference.
/r/seduction13/03/18 08:11 PM
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I think it was always there. My dad taught me that only women have emotions and nobody respects a guy who shows any. So, it's probably going to take a bunch of work to change something that is part of my base personality. But worth it, and probably not just for meeting girls.
/r/seduction13/03/18 11:12 AM
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Thanks for taking the time to reply. You've included a lot of info and covered the situation at hand, instead of just accusing me of being uncalibrated or something. It's appreciated. You've given me some food for thought.. it makes sense. Sometimes people seem to think I'm cold or uncaring just because I'm not sensitive. But I still care about other people, just don't have very strong emotions myself. So it's probably a good idea to try to portray a softer side.
/r/seduction13/03/18 09:59 AM
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How's it possible? All I say is "Let's grab a drink on Tuesday". What is not casual about that?
/r/seduction13/03/18 06:15 AM
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I think you misunderstand. At no point have I mentioned LTR to any of these women, or anything other than casually hanging out during the week. They have the impression that I'm a sex maniac or something. Hence, they do not respond to my text after meeting them, even if I organised the day & time of the date upon first meeting..
/r/seduction13/03/18 06:13 AM
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Thanks for the comments guys, but I think you've misunderstood the situation. I'm looking for a potential girlfriend, and am not putting pressure on them at all. However they seem to think I'm a major player even though I'm not using game techniques or trying to tease them or any of that. Am I to assume that shy girls can't be picked up in the day? I get their numbers but they flake nearly every time. BTW, I'm not being intense at all. I just don't understand how they could think I'm a player in…
/r/seduction13/03/18 05:45 AM
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Tonight was brutal. I met this girl 2 days ago and talked about 20 minutes, lots of smiles and two-way questions. We set a date for tonight, meet 8pm, I asked where to meet and she even said the train station was better than picking her up, because she works near there. It seemed like a good sign that we were so detailed on logistics. I got there and waited around and she never showed. What the hell is wrong with these chicks?
/r/seduction12/03/18 09:50 AM
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OK, so you say something like "let's go on a date"? Then they will start thinking about it more..? I do get them to agree to meet again but I don't explicitly call it a date. So perhaps that is an issue. I just think it's so weird that they agree to see someone again and in some instances seem really excited about it, then completely ghost.
/r/seduction11/03/18 08:01 AM
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Huh, I didn't think of it. Does it make much difference? You do it?
/r/seduction11/03/18 12:58 AM
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