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| – | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menWell what I wrote is exactly what is happening in Blacked, at least to my eyes, strong, raw, muscular and endowned men are taking tiny little pale girls. Men watch that and imagine they are that guy and they are overwhelming those fragile girls. It's masculine vs feminine interactions in its purest form. Nothing homosexual about it at all. Boys don't watch football, for instance, because they like sweaty men running, they identify with players and act it out in the yard with friends. Same mechan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 01:37 PM |
| – | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menThat's the current nugget, just fire up Netflix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 01:31 PM |
| – | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menSure, but it talks about a totally different matter than you are trying to imply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 01:27 PM |
| – | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menYou are citing someone's opinion on nature. The text linked talks about the possibility of genetic precursors for homosexualism, it doesn't explore whether it's an important evolutionary mechanism as you try to present it. Actually, if it proves to be genetics, it's contra productive to evolution and continuity of our species, for obvious reasons. Down's syndrome is in genes, doesn't make it a good thing. I don't claim to know where homosexualism comes from, genetics or the environment, I mean n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menI think it's about domination, that's why you see so much of a male in porn, we personify with those men in porn, in our fantasy we are that man taking that woman. Or it could be that the producers are trying to kill two flies with one hand, make universal porn for straight and gay, beats me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 03:07 PM |
| -1 | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menOf course not, it's on an individual level, but as a worldwide trend (read western) the propaganda is so strong almost as if heterosexuals should be ashamed of not being homosexual (same goes for being white it seems). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menIt's a lot more complex than that, context is very important, because porn is only partly what you see on screen, a lot more is happening in the brain - fantasy. It's because of novelty, porn addiction pushes you further and further into things you previously found repulsive, it's a dopamine chase, it has nothing to do with natural sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 02:59 PM |
| – | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menYes, men want more vaginas to play with, because it's novelty, it's mystical, they don't get to see it at will like they can see their penis. Gay men are men, no? They have penises too, so where is the novelty and misticism about liking more of what you already got on your body? Nothing strange about animals being gay too, their brains function just like ours, it merely explains that intelect has nothing to do with sexual preference, as we already knew. These are not peer reviewed scientific pap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 02:47 PM |
| 0 | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menBut it' s been normalized long ago and we have now made a full circle, now straight people get dehumanized, cancelled, and fall victims for uttering any kind of perceived negative comment towards homosexuals. I have a few gay friends, but I won't let anyone shower me with propaganda that it's all cool, trendy and above all more natural than being heterosexual and traditional. It's become an entitlement being gay these days... I have a fetish, sexual preference, but I don't go around eubbing it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 02:35 PM |
| 0 | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menFor straight men, male and female homosexuality are different worlds. Sexually we need a feminine female to be a part of it, at least one, the more the better. Watching a man have sex is only acceptable if there is at least one female included, then it makes it bareable and rational. Lesbians pose no problem at all, we don't care what they prefer in their heads, we get to see more of the stuff we like - vaginas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 02:23 PM |
| 0 | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menSure, we like our own penises, but we are absolutely repulsed by other men's penises. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 02:16 PM |
| – | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menWhat has masturbation and heterosexual anal stimulation have to do with homosexuals? They should like vaginas because they don't have them. If they like penises, they already have their own to play with. It makes zero logical sense, it's just an extreme fetish. They are gay because they developed that kind of fetish in childhood, just like I developed nylon and feet fetish. Though my fetish is not extreme and is logical, it's part of the opposite sex body and attire. And yes, exposure plays a ro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 02:14 PM |
| – | I can’t understand the mindset of gay menYou can't reverse it like that and pretend it's logical. He is not attracted to penis because he already owns one in his pants. If your body and mind aren't in sexual sync, there is something fundamentally wrong with one of them. I get trans, something went wrong in development, I don't get homosexuals, I can only explain it as a very extreme form of fetish, but socially it's given so much attention, exposure and value for one simple fetish. Then all other fetishes should be given the same treat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 12:40 PM |
| 1 | There is no excuse to let yourself go in a relationship.So basically you have to look good to be loved? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Dating/relationship education should be mandatoryEducation does not take away liberty, it informs. Negative people will object it to hide their negativity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Dating/relationship education should be mandatoryThis is a very sane proposition, given that our natural purpose is to continue our species, it shouldn't be totally ignored in education, unless of course the powers that be want it just that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 08:39 PM |
| 2 | If you are fine driving a used car you should be fine with having a relationship who is settling with youYour logic is backwards, it's not the car settling for you, it's you settling for a used car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 08:37 PM |
| – | The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be thereAnd they rarely know how to drive properly at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:41 PM |
| 2 | On the topic of who pays for datesIt should be absolutely the same as if you go out with your friends. Everyone offers to pay, it's common courtesy, who pays in the end doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:40 PM |
| – | What is your thoughts on couples having their social media profile pictures together, rather than the solo individual?Pictures? Ok. The joint profile, absolute cringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesDon't sacrifice your authentic self for a little sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:37 PM |
| 1 | There are two ways of talking to women: 1) treating them as people and 2) treating them as people you want to have sex withThese are the guys that are afraid to sexualize women by any means. They never verbalize anything sex related in those talks, they never demand what they sexually want. They either think it's socially unacceptable or are simply anxious to bring it up in fear of rejection or frawn. They wait for women to make the first (verbal) move about it and that very rarely happens. They tend to stick to that one woman. These are the guys that simply verbalize what they sexually want. Do they get rejected an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 10:26 AM |
| – | Men here have high standards.Men want many, many women, yet they are only able to squeeze sex out of the small number of ones they don't want it from. Women want sex from small, small, small number of men and they don't want to give it to the vast, vast, number of men that would give them. That's the difference. Men compromise for sex, women almost never. For men, sex is essential, for women it's just one small aspect of their man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How does one deal with rejection, negativity, lack of desirability, and female affection?One works hard to gain lots of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do people say Tinder doesn’t work? It’s just an interface that mirrors real life dating preferencesIt does not mirror real life, it's an aid for those who can't cope with real life. Tons of dudes who have no courage to approach and some women who don't have courage to make themselves approachable. Of course there are also sharks, validation hoes, and players looking for easy prey. Just go out and approach if you see something you like, don't expect to find quality people on dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Expecting men to pay on the first date is the same as expecting women to have sex on the first date.This topic has become so tiresome. Can't you (USA) people think of a date that doesn't include eating or otherwise spending money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 03:22 PM |
| 0 | The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest.I did too, but 8 out of 10 guys I know just didn't have a gut for it back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 05:15 PM |
| 0 | The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest.I simply can't agree, what I experienced is totally different, so we must agree then that a culture/country must play a role in our different experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Housework splitThe sole core of this discussion is usually just to mock the tradition and traditional male-female roles around the house and to superficially prove that the roles can be exchanged just like that, at a feminists wish. Sure, there are females that had to adapt to male chores or simply enjoy them, and sure there are males that had to adapt to female chores or simply enjoy them, but those are exeptions, and some men and women are so set to make it a new tradition, despite males and females genereal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:48 PM |
| 0 | People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub.This is not elementary school, no one bullies people for their physical appearence. We do dating problems here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest.No, not at all, I was alive back then, I have a rather good picture of how it was through female friends and family. Back then, a guy needed to have courage to approach a girl in person, he needed to have some social connection, to find some common ground (friend), to try the waters etc, it never was an easy thing to do. Today, guys hide behind their phones and message any girl they find even mildly attractive. Women actually had to get out of their way to signal attraction to a guy they liked, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:26 PM |
| 0 | People tend to misunderstand female body positivity on this sub.There is nothing to understand, it's a construct, illusion. You are either attractive or you are not. Some men can some preferences, like my friend prefers overweight girls, but that's just one guy's fetish, the rest of our crew is disgusted with overweight girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:57 PM |
| 2 | The biggest issue with modern dating is how technology made dating way easier for a small percentage of men, and way harder for all the rest.The biggest issue is how technology made all women feel like superstars because of the attention they get online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Women look better in minimal makeup, and they look even better with no makeup.The strongest agree ever. Without makeup they look better, sweet, cute, younger, makes me want to cuddle. With makeup they look slutty, the only thing that comes to mind is sex. So makeup for bedroom, no makeup for everything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Housework splitYes we can split, I repair things, do regular service on our car and clean it, cut the lawn, keep our computers and phones tidy etc. you can cook and clean the house. I go to work so you don't have to if you don't want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 01:48 PM |
| – | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageI must have been very lucky then to be able to pick just the unusual ones, a lot of my close friends too, with age gaps all the way up to 16. But we are not your usual bald accountants in suits, we are all mostly videographers/photographers, musicians, producers, grapgic designers etc... Closing in to our 40,s, we dress as we always did, we listen to music we always did, we have fun as we always did, we hike, we drive fast, we camp, we get drunk in the woods, we do road trips, we fish, we go to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Women's SMV is the highest in history, when will it come down?It will come down when the market collapses. But I guess not in our lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:54 PM |
| 0 | Are men not also hypergamous?Nope, we are polygamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:47 PM |
| 2 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupFair point on hookups and ONS, I'm refering more a ONS I guess, one sexual act and the end. Casually just having sex with one person on regular or irregular basis is totally fine with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupI mean, I had those, not on purpose - it just didn't work out, but yeah, not optimum at all, I have specific sexual preferences that I can't posibly expect a total stranger to meet in a one off. And again, I'd really rather masturbate than have sex with a condom, which I find totally necessary with a total stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 04:08 PM |
| 3 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupThat's totally legit. But one time sex with a total strager makes zero sense to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 06:45 PM |
| 6 | It's important to distinguish between looking for a relationship vs looking for a hookupHonestly I'm rather oblivious to hookups and why people do it. Sure, there are uninnended hookups, but why would you want on purpose to have one single introductory sex act with a stranger, even worse, with a condom - you guys are seriously having fun with a condom? Isn't it a lot better to have more than one time sex with someone so you have time to explore all kinds of nasty stuff in bed and get to know the person enough not to have to use a condom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Why haven’t more men quit the market?Give it time. A lot of men still give into natural urge and do it over and over again until they dig a bit and find out what's really going on. This is all a very new state of things, consider all of human history against a few decades of internet and social networks. One day, this sexual pollution will be taught in schools. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Every single man can immediately significantly increase his desirability to women by rescuing cats and kittens.This is a joke, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Who said we think it's wrong? If anything, it's just more transparent. But there's a big problem here I see, as far as I'm concerned sex with a condom is barely sex and it's mandatory with sex workers for obvious reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Why most marriages failBecause it's normalized. Marriages are nowadays treated as any relationship, no weight to it, it's totally devalued and people don't fight to make it work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.If you enroll in a mixed gender hobby (hiking for instance) it will actually work great to meet other single people. The quality is, at least physically is, of course, questionable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Social media's effect on women is 10x worse than porn's effect on men.We obviously have to reconsider that designation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 05:48 PM |
| -1 | Social media's effect on women is 10x worse than porn's effect on men.I stand corrected, I was thinking about men, 30+, not boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Social media's effect on women is 10x worse than porn's effect on men.These are not men, they are a new generation of boys raised like girls. I guess you are right if we are counting them in, I was more thinking about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:25 PM |
| -9 | Social media's effect on women is 10x worse than porn's effect on men.Not really, men have a lot less urge to be socially accepted and are a lot less socially active. A men can go live in the woods on his own and many enjoy just this, women not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 01:25 PM |
| 1 | I often hear only Women are "Monkey branchers" i disagree fully, i believe man are as bad or even worse then woman in Monkey Branching.Not really, men are perfectly capable of having practically infinite number of wives if given a chance, they don't go into hate and disgust mode towards past lovers just because they happen to also like someone else too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | If women simply admitted that they were privileged and only because men were way hornier, it would eliminate more than half of the grievancesEasier to just pull the plug on internet and get back to simpler life, if that's what we want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 07:53 PM |
| 2 | If you bring nothing worth sleeping with, you should not be surprised when you don't get laid. This is not woman's faultWhat's the worth of sleeping? What's the currency? I'll tell you what's men's currency, you are either Vvisually sexy to a man or you are not. I imagine your currency has nothing to do with how sexy a man is. Do your calculations internally, we don't care how you come up with a decision to sleep with a man or not, we only care if you do or don't and we are out and on to the next one that will. End of story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 07:32 PM |
| 0 | What percentage of men and what percentage of women do you think would be promiscuous if they are already in a happy relationship and they are “allowed” to be promiscuous by their partner?The relationship is only truly happy in the honeymoon phase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 07:24 PM |
| 2 | How hormones trick men into thinking they like women more than they do…You can't look at it like that, deep down everything is a trick. It's the nature of reality. In the end you die and absolutely nothing matters anymore. Enjoy the ride. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 08:06 PM |
| – | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.Culture is only dictated by the system itself. In capitalism almost any given (anti)cultural thought of single human with crave for or enough money, can grow uncontrollably out of proportions and harm the whole nation/culture. I come from a country that went from modified socialism to modified capitalism. There were cultural boundaries, inteligence was the elite, now the rich are the elite and they shape the culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?Except, we are talking about the opposite genders of friends, not the same. But I totally get that women see their male friends as gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?The left is seriously under average, the right is average. But dude, what's up with their eyebrows?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.We are simply more alienated, it's just the illusion that we are closer with technology. All great inventions eventually get abused for bad things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How wise and intelligent would a woman be if she planned and wanted to marry a rich man and had children with him and divorce him to get alimony, assets and a good child support?Prostitution with extra steps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 02:34 PM |
| 23 | Maybe this has been said in here before, but one thing I think is overlooked. Women were not like this 15 years ago.Capitalism got perfected, everything is for sale, so why not love too? Internet/social networks, women don't meet men in real situations and fall in love, it all happens online, and with such broad selection, practically world wide selection, everyone is more picky, some don't even pick, why settle for one when the whole world is potentially yours... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is cold approaching seen as a "better" alternative to dating apps?It's the same as swiping reels and going to the cinema. What has more impact on you and what do you remember longer, a good movie or a good instagram reel? Simple as that. In person interaction hits way harder than chatting, you see each other's full bodies, no filters, smell, watch body language, etc... I don't even know why you all sold to dating apps and made it a norm, it's only helpful for socially awkward couples to find each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:03 PM |
| 1 | 'Looksmaxing' can't push your attractiveness much above your baseline level.Agreed, beyond aesthetic surgeries, you can do whatever, you can train your body, but if your face is ugly it stays ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 11:54 AM |
| 5 | Why does it seem women are a little more pushy with marriage than men?Because they want children, they want to be mothers. They need a husband, not only to make a child but also to care about them and the child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?Arousal doesn't necessarily need a workout on the men's part, women can be aroused without it. I'm sure countless men can attest being jumped on by women without doing anything in particular to provoke it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?Of course mood is always a factor, men are not always in the mood too, exactly as you described it. But the original tone of the post was that men are kind of obliged every time to get women in mood if they want sex, which simply isn't true in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?That is right, but not by me actively working on, whatever is suggested here we should be working on, to get them turned on. They either are or not. Here it is suggested that men are obliged to do some kind of startup procedure to get women turned on. I call that BS, cause there are plenty of men getting regular sex just by existing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?That is true. But you don't stick around trying to cook them up to the idea, if they don't find you sexy enough to have sex with you, you skip and go on the one that does, and there's plenty of them. Sometimes you even find ones that want it even more than you, that's a good vibe, not trying to be a clown just so the entitled lady gets worked up for the idea, just an idea, of having sex with you. It's a huge waste of time and never ends well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?Or just have sex like usual not being bothered what internet people think you should do to have sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?Actually I have plenty of sex, just by being myself. Truthfully, I never had to turn anyone on to have sex, nor would I bother with such a person, as I stated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?I am a man, I don't have a clue what kind of twisted complicated mechanism women have inside of them that needs to startup for them to be turned on, and honestly I can't be bothered to care. All I need is to see something sexy, as much as a naked female leg and a little imagination to be turned on instantly. So no, it's not my responsibility to turn anyone on, they should find it within themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 03:23 AM |
| 6 | Porn is not the problemRegarding relationships: If my sexual desires are not met I will revert to porn, for a while, then I will end the relationship. I know what I want in sex and how I want it, if we are not on the same page we should start looking elsewhere, sex has to be perfect, nothing else in a relationship can substitute that, end of discussion. I don't think any man reverts to porn if his sexual desires are completely met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:50 PM |
| – | Autistic men should accept that autism is a serious condition and people have the right to not want to date an autistic manWait, what? Autistic people are aware they are autistic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Sexual fantasies and how they possibly affect dating?I don't agree that women should be openly public about their sexual preferences. That harms the nature of mating that's been around since the dawn of time. Women should be secretive and feminine about it and keep those talks reserved for their partners and close friends. Otherwise they could open a lot of cracks in their gatekeeping, to say as such, and probably repel potential quality mates that most usually highly value the low number of past partners. We are actually witnessing this at work i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Sexual fantasies and how they possibly affect dating?You are trying to equate men and women yet from just another angle. Men and women are different genders and have different natural and social gender roles. A whole lot of things will be and work differently for men and women, sexual fantasies being one of them. Also, I wouldn't call them fantasies but preferences, because they are nothing fantastic, just some preferences and are usually acted upon, at least at some point in a lifetime. Women are usually silent about it because they are gatekeepe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:26 PM |
| – | Women logic: quick sex for men with red flags, good men must waitHow did you end up in PurplePill without not knowing the most basic stuff of the original RedPill? They don't want sex with weak men (good men, or whatever you want to call them), they don't crave it sexually, they just use it to get what they want out of these men. So you have to be her good boy for a while before you can unwrap that starfish sex you've been waiting for. With strong men (red flagged men, chads, douches) they crave it on a primal sexual level, just like you crave porn stars and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 06:14 PM |
| 0 | Field Report Analysis: What Happens When You Show Women Too Much Interest During a Cold APPROACHWtf is woman doing in gym? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/24 05:35 PM |
| – | Around 1 in 50 fathers are unknowingly raising children that are not theirs. Should we normalize paternity tests?Absolutely, we are shamed upon if we even ask. It should be mandatory as soon as it's safe to do after the birth. And the legal penalty for fraud and emotional pain should be in place if the test shows it. Should be awarded to both biological father and deceived partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | “Girls night out “So RP teaches bros to approach, yet when they do we call them retards? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/24 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Q 4 Both - How important are things like clothes and body language to your attraction?Clothes are important to me, I can usually get a lot of info from it alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious factThey aknowledge. What do you think they are doing over there on Onlyfans, making burgers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | What is your experience chatting with women?Why would you even want to chat with girls that aren't committed to you? Just stop chatting with women, talk in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Women in their 20s don't want to settle downAnd they shouldn't, don't lock down beautiful young women away from us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to tastefully display your wealth while dating?Yes, have expensive things for your own pleasure/hobby/work, something women completely don't understand or have interest in, don't have useless expensive things just to impress women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is...It's not a matter of allowance. Men are not a thing of beauty to begin with, so age doesn't change their appearance much, if anything, makes them look better, of course if they don't destroy themselves with obesity and similar things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 05:14 PM |
| 0 | We talk about women selecting toxic men a lot, but we hardly seem to glance at the thought of men actively selecting toxic womenWe take what we can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 03:05 PM |
| 3 | "Gold digging" has been completely replaced by sugaringYou are just inventing more names for prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 03:05 PM |
| – | A question for menThis. Doesn't ring a single bell. The only famous thing I can associate with Davidson name is a motorcycle company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 03:03 PM |
| – | Men struggle so much because they are in constant contradiction.You are overcomplicating it, we just want sex, everything else is just social barriers and traps thrown at us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 03:01 PM |
| 0 | The reasons divorce sucks for men are social, not financialThe reason why it sucks for men is because men create an environment, women just fit in, then they just decide one day and go to another environment. Men are then left with an empty environment, with replacement female citizen nowhere on the horizon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Madonna/wh*re complex is why so many marriages end up being sexless.You are delusional. Marriages end up sexless because the sexual attraction wears off, for one or both of them. Men couldn't care less if the women they want to whorebang is called their wife, girlfriend or the queen of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Men only have importance to women as providers.Finally something that makes sense here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Prostitution won’t work (change my mind)What is happening right now is a prostitution and social networks are catalogs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 03:37 AM |
| 8 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateIf you are alone in the forest there is nobody to see you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 03:31 AM |
| – | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenLooks to me like you are seriously ill and put on strict expensive meds and diet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do women ask "Are you seeing other girls?"It just makes me want to puke when I hear "exclusive". You are "exclusive" until proven otherwise! And if you are proven otherwise you should expect nothing else but getting dumped. That's the dating that went since the dawn of time until about ten years ago americans decided that being promiscous is such a cool and trendy thing. Up until then there was no declaration of "exclusivity", you date someone it is assumed you are exclusive and that you fell for each other and that's it, she's your gir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Unsolicited dick picsThough it's true, It's still a very stupid mechanic - not being turned on visually by other gender's sex organ. It's not like men are walking around with their penises sticking out so that women got desinitisized by the view of it. Beats me, nature is strange. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it easier for the average girl to get laid and sleep with other woman than it is for an average guy?Well because the mouth is not a sexual organ, nobody ever reached orgasm with their mouth, it's a one way stimulation. Traditionally in most modern societies it's not even considered sex: "Did you sleep with him? No, I just gave him a blowjob" - and vice versa. It doesn't matter who is doing the actual thrusting. So, I go to a Thai massage and a lady there gives me a handjob, we both call it that we had great sex? No, she merely masturbated me. (Not trying to demote Thai women, just making a poi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it easier for the average girl to get laid and sleep with other woman than it is for an average guy?That's what I've been saying all along, it's merely impossible because females don't have penetrative sexual organs. Clit stimulation is all fine but it's not sex as human anatomy has it designed for procreation. Well it's neither in gay males, but at least the penetration happens and one of the participants does penetration with an actual organ and the other one is penetrated. So, so, still not impressive. We could argue that oral sex is sex, but we all know that lucky participants would only c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Is it easier for the average girl to get laid and sleep with other woman than it is for an average guy?Very simple, penetrative thrusting of one's sexual organ into others, as per design. Strapon is not a sexual organ nor does it have nerve endings, they as well may sit next to each other and masturbate with two separate dildos. At best, that's mutual masturbation. Scissoring will get them closer to sex, but then again, their vaginal canals are still not put to any work, as designed to do. Me and my friend penetrating a hollow plastic tube from both ends doesn't make it like we are having sex. We… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 04:56 AM |
| -2 | Is it easier for the average girl to get laid and sleep with other woman than it is for an average guy?It's pathetic. Gay men can at least have proper anal sex without Aliexpress toys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 04:45 AM |
| -1 | Is it easier for the average girl to get laid and sleep with other woman than it is for an average guy?So? Those species use manufactured rubber objects to masturbate themselves and call it sex too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Is it easier for the average girl to get laid and sleep with other woman than it is for an average guy?You can take a deodorant can and shove it up your vagina, doing it with a friend doesn't make it sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Is it easier for the average girl to get laid and sleep with other woman than it is for an average guy?Just as with both female and male masturbation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 12:57 AM |
| -2 | Is it easier for the average girl to get laid and sleep with other woman than it is for an average guy?It does actually require both penis and vagina, as designed by evolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it easier for the average girl to get laid and sleep with other woman than it is for an average guy?As I said, assisted masturbation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 12:52 AM |
| -5 | Is it easier for the average girl to get laid and sleep with other woman than it is for an average guy?And how do you propose they get penetrated if none of them have penis? Without it, it's just assisted masturbation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with?When she can't relate to a single thing that constructs my vision of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with?Absolutely different perception of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 12:44 PM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill didn't lie to youBluepill works just fine until a certain age. That age is when girls stop being girls that fall in love and start being women who think too much about finances. You know, you Americans have one big problem, you marry too old. Of course your dating situation is horrible at 40 years old, you are some 10-15 years too old for dating and getting married. The social situations thin out, no more crowd of highschool and college, no parties, no nothing to find and choose your mates naturally, you have to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How important is penis size in modern dating? Are men getting the wrong ideas about Penis size as a result of porn and vindictive women?Dude, by the time she sees/feels the size it's over, she's been nailed, mission accomplished, who cares, she can cry about it all she wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 01:13 PM |
| – | One of the most insanely frustrating things is how women very rarely make it entirely clear when they are interested, making approaching them unnecessarily stressfulUnless they feel like they are getting old and their girl friends are all getting married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 12:13 AM |
| 3 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?You can meet some, but you won't like what you meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Predictions for how the dating market will look 100yrs from now?I think the male sexual revolution might be coming in the future, men can stop the world if you provoke them enough. And it's gonna be back to square one again (think islamic cultures). Either that or we all both men and women end up slaves of the elite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Men want new pussy very quickly after getting a girl (no matter how good the sex is) and they don’t like admitting it because it’s unpleasant. This makes it hard for girls to get validation from sex.Wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 03:29 PM |
| 4 | Read this to get FILTHY RICH.Are you by any chance related to a certain Prince in Nigeria? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/24 09:07 PM |
| 6 | Why is it so hard for taken women to ignore other men who show interest in her?If she is able/thinks she can, at any given point, she will be looking for a better catch. Some have stronger morals, some lower, at the end of a day she will find a moral intellectual way to tell you why you are not enough if she feels like it. They just don't love unconditionally, never, actually there's always a ton of conditions. Best case scenario, she offs her social networks on her own will because she knows why it's important. If you have to fight about it it's already a lost battle, she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so hard for taken women to ignore other men who show interest in her?Because they like the attention and their man is weak and allows that kind of behaviour. Just like that dude that told you it's not a big deal. It will be a big deal when she eventually jumps trains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 05:46 PM |
| – | I Think It’s Okay To Reject A Girl Based On Her Weight.They obviously do, in huge numbers, the best looking women are actually with the worst looking fat men. $$$ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 04:48 AM |
| 1 | If modern dating just a cycle of: infatuation, get bored, cheat/leave?Not sure why you are asking this since the subject of the post is of different matter. Anyway, it's rather easy, if she looks up to you with crystal clear eyes as if you were some kind of demigod and anything your twisted mind can think of goes, she didn't settle. Anything less than that, you can bet your life she settled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | If modern dating just a cycle of: infatuation, get bored, cheat/leave?Exactly how it goes until you are old and have zero options so you just put up with it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Alpha Widows and Dead Bedrooms is not entirely a choice for them.It's a good read. But I'm sorry, don't take away the blame from women. We don't know if we are the owners, they know it, yet they still let us in regardless. They let us waste our time, energy and emotions all while knowing we are not the owner, by the time we know the damage is already done. I actually have a deep respect for alpha widows that keep it to themselves (and their cats) and stay away instead of ruining other innocent men. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/24 04:50 PM |
| – | Is it wrong for an inexperienced older man to prefer younger women due to them also being inexperienced?You don't need an excuse to prefer what you prefer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 04:56 PM |
| – | One of the biggest eye openers of Tinder is seeing how rapidly women ageI have no observation on vaping, it's too new and I know too few people that actually vape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't large age gap relationships the norm?Simply because they go to different places and rarely cross paths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:22 PM |
| – | Would you date a single mom?Unless she is a widow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:20 PM |
| 2 | did something along the way go wrong for human societal development?It did, capitalism, where everything is allowed for the sake of gaining wealth. There is just no limit in anything as long as it sells, zero moral control, zero core values, zero trash censorship, zero decency... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Debate Most Women aren't "trash wh**es", but it seems that way because off all the Redpill content/Podcasts where trash women get handpicked to make views.I agree that redpill podcasts always pick absolute women trash as guests or as examples. They always come half-naked with tons of slutty makeup that I would straight out just call them prostitutes. Now, those podcasts are mostly based in the USA, maybe most of the women look and think like that over there, I wouldn't know. Also there are lots of women of color that look like they pulled them straight out of some god forsaken thrash ghetto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Should people just give up and learn to be happy alone?It's a valuable skill, just in case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:06 PM |
| -6 | Do you think older, single, childless, "cat ladies" are largely happy or not?They are probably largely alpha widows, so I guess not very happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Do men feel "threatened" when a more attractive male enters the room?Not really, any woman that finds him more attractive is free to choose him, I have my qualities and if you don't appreciate those exactly you don't belong with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:01 PM |
| – | One of the biggest eye openers of Tinder is seeing how rapidly women ageThat's what I'm talking about, I suppose harsh winds do a similar thing with constantly drying the skin. That's what I observed in people who live in the countryside, who otherwise live and eat healthier than city dwellers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 03:48 PM |
| – | One of the biggest eye openers of Tinder is seeing how rapidly women ageI don't mean to argue, I got nothing from it, but in my experience smoking has nothing to do with looking old, I now so many people that smoke and look young or are constantly complimented to look younger. On the other hand I know many people that are heavy drinkers and do indeed look older, but above all they look swollen all over, fat if you will, but more like swollen. Also, the worst cases of looking older, I noticed, are the people that work outdoors, I suspect because their skin is constan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:08 PM |
| 3 | The Rise Of Male Subcultures is Disheartening.Take any subculture and you will find 2 girls on every 20 guys, smart guys. Take anything mainstream and you will find 20 girls and 2 idiot guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:38 AM |
| 10 | Why doesn't pre-selection affect men too?Most of women basically follow trends all of their lives in all life aspects. Most men take pride in avoiding trends and being individual and original. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:26 AM |
| 0 | Why doesn't pre-selection affect men too?We don't need anybody to take care for us, we want someone to take care for. Women don't have to prove anything to us trought pre-selection, it actually shows us that her choice is wrong, it's him, not me, it's our ego if you will. We simply don't want other men around our women, not before us, during us, or after us, no never. Seeing her with another man disqualifies her on the spot, she has chosen wrongly and she's spoiled forever, game over, I'm not taking in that guy's leftovers, he knows he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 05:09 AM |
| 2 | The more you understand women, the less you'll fall in love them.We all know those couples too, women can't shut up, have no respect for their man, they have next to zero sex and both have next to zero options etc... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 04:44 AM |
| 1 | What would it take for the world to recover from the modern degeneracy (i.e feminine men, hypersexual society, hypersexual media, etc) that impacts men?Worldwide natural catastrophe of some kind to put proper strong men back in the driving seat. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | What is a the bitter truth for men about dating over 30Small towns don't work, like at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 04:13 AM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex?It's funny how general consensus shifted over the decades from "women don't like sex" to "women like sex as much as men" to "women like sex more than men" and now to "men like sex more than women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 04:42 AM |
| 2 | [FR 9] 10/21/23 Got my first same night lay from cold approach and couldn't get hard.FR9 10/21/23 what are you, a fuckin car tyre? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/23 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Had 8 year long redpill relationship with highschool sweetheart. Maintained frame like a boss until I didn't. Would like to know your thoughts.Dude, her body craves a carousel, you should too. 8 years, aren't you bored to death? Let it go, go explore other women, school sweethearts thing is over. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/23 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Quitting sugar will change your life.I have a friend with basically zero sugar intake, his life is a mess. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/23 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Why girls don't want a househusbandWhat why? What is so strange about that? That's how the nature and evolution orginized it since dawn of time, ni amount of propaganda and social gibberish can change how things work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Dating for men is a race to the bottomDon't go for her unless you internally say "wow". And when I say go for her, I don't mean type her a message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | The gym is a waste of time.There are so many better and more useful ways to keep fit then pay to go to go some place with car just to lift heavy stuff for the sake of lifting it. Waste of time, energy and resources. Thou I get it that a lot of you guys live in huge cities and have no other way to do any physical work. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/23 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Why women think men suck at relationshipsSurely it works for some time, but then we get bored and look for a new thrill. And of course, some men are weak and put up with relationships they don't truly want anymore, but deep down we know what they would do if they only could. Everybody in this world is alone in his head and dies alone, anything else is a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Shows signs of investment, then double-ghosts me? After 4 great datesWhat part of "Hell yeah" that RP provided you did not understand? Go for the next one and then next one again until you stumble on "Hell yeah" girl. Don't waste time my brother, you need to have girls that dreamed of being with you and feel like you were god sent to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/23 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Why women think men suck at relationshipsBecause we do, relationships are not in our nature, we are lone riders. Surely we can pretend for some gains but that's not who we honestly are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage?No it's not, why is it so hard to comprehend that outside the US these things are rare? You don't need a government to know your people. Your cops randomly shoot people as soon as they try to run, cops here don't even pull their guns out unless shot at, which itself is such a rare occurrence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage?Yes they do but the statistic is so thin that if you actively think about it and avoid such situations then it's called phobia. Just like if you wouldn't use cars because you could end up in a fatal car accident. So to have such a significant number of women avoiding dates because of it, then it must be a hugely prevalent occurrence in your country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:31 AM |
| – | Women and Men weigh sex differentlyIf the sex is bad and woman doesn't have a clue what she is doing or is passive, I lose interest in that woman and I know I'll be better off masturbating, if she's good I want more, simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women?They aren't even into non-fat guys... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Should a woman who has lost significant amounts of weight give men who did not want her a chance after weight loss?That's a strange one, I don't think you can erase this obese version of you from men's heads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage?This must be some american thing, who the hell attacks women on dates and how often does that happen over there?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menThat's mostly true, the ones that usually do are the ones that 30+ guys rotate, so not very quality. Decent young girls don't just go out of their social circles to date random attractive 30+ year old guys that are at a completely different stage in life and complete strangers to them. The ones that do usually for some of the reasons didn't get coupled with someone in their social circle, either they don't want anybody (problematic) or nobody wants them (unattractive). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Serious question. What will you do with your lives if you don't find anyone?You talk like we will be here for eternity, you wander this Earth a bit and then you die like everybody else... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | why do women do this?Indoctrination. They'll look away until you own a yacht (insert anything valuable to them), then they'll all look your way and want to talk to you. They want to avoid your interest because you are a "loser" to them, you are the same age as them, you go to the same college as then, you are the same level and they are all dreaming of some dude at a higher level. Another theory being that they are just doing the importance act, because, imagine, a God has created them a woman and they automatically… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/23 10:11 AM |
| 1 | She asked: “How Many Girls Have You Slept With?”Never been asked such a question in a relationship, they know they'll only get upset for no reason. With fuck boddy, sure, ni emotions involved. If rabdim woman is shittesting you like that, you better pass her altogether. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/23 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Field Report at a "hotel"I never dance anything, the whole concept of dancing is feminine, what are the gains of dance for a grown man? What am I supposed to feel except like a clown? Women dance, men do other stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/23 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Field Report at a "hotel"Tbh you lost me at dancing, what kind of grown man dances like a little girl? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Fucking FemCells in The GoblinPussyArtificial wombs can't come soon enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/23 03:12 PM |
| 2 | My last 4 dates were basically identical.What in God's name is Photofeeler?! Please don't tell me that's some app that tells you how beautiful you are? I really don't want to come out as rude, but if there is such an app and you are using it, everything else about you is probably vibing out just as autistic. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Ghosted after 2 good datesYou could have got some if you took her to your place. She wasn't that much into you to let you inside her home, that's too private for casual sex for her. You pushed dates but didn't have logistics to close in, she might have been down for casual sex but you might have radiated the relationship, she's insta hoe, when they smell lockdown they run. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/23 09:18 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Ghosted after 2 good datesShe likes him some, but not even close to Hell yea. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/23 09:11 AM |
| 1 | I dont want to take the red pill, but its hard finding a reason not to.Morally, they could be faithful just fine, but jump branch at any moment anyway and the outcome is the same, you got fucked over. You are literally competing with the whole world on social networks, you just happen to be the best she can do at the moment. A girl having a social network account is a ticking bomb, we don't know when exactly but no doubt it's gonna blow up. Game her all you want, when a familiarity kicks in and the other gamer rises on the horizon you are done. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/23 08:02 AM |
| 1 | I dont want to take the red pill, but its hard finding a reason not to.There were none to begin with. There were just girls that had limited access, their limited social circle. Party girls had a broader social circle and we used to call them hoes. Now, there are social networks, cheap flights, fast cars and trains, the world is their playground and they all want to "visit Dubai" before the wall hits and when it hits they want a reset with even heavier makeup, more gym and surgeries. You want to play a game that doesn't exist anymore. Don't, you'll only get hurt. D… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/23 07:57 AM |
| 3 | Nuclear shit test exampleDon't waste time competing for pussy, around the corner there is pussy that will have respect. All waste of time, it's just pussy like any other. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/23 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Unreasonable Disney-like Expectations of a 40 year old Single Mother in 'The Case for Marrying Mr. Good Enough'What do you mean, some of us are nearing 40 and life's never been better. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/23 06:26 PM |
| 1 | My intolerance to shittests has grown out of proportion: weak frame or it just comes with maturity?It's not got much to do with covid, online crap is progressing exponentially, and they are using it strictly for validation, you can't come through to them through their inbox. Gaming in person can only hook them. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/23 05:45 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.Buying her a Ferrari and picking her up in Ferrari are completely different things. Now not everyone owns a Ferrari, but to most guys their shitbox is like a Ferrari and if she enters your frame, she will see it as Ferrari too. My point being, picking her up for a date as per se is neither alfa nor beta, it's just a mode of transport, if that is something that is going to make her like you or not, there is no attraction at all, so lost cause anyway. But, taking initiative by telling her that you… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/23 04:57 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.Picking her up wouldn't technically violate anything if only it was his idea originally - where do I pick you up. His car, his frame, he's in the driving seat literally. But tbh I suspect from everything I read so far that we are dealing with a kid here who doesn't own a car. The least manly thing to do is come here and write a post about it. Other than that, all true words man. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/23 05:55 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.You are expecting respect from a random Tinder girl you never saw in person? If she signals low interest, where is the holdup? Cut her off. Is this the last girl on Earth? I absolutely know what I am talking about, it's you that don't understand it, you are too busy and wrapped up analyzing that girl and her bitching. You have to move a level up, up from analyzing girls and their every move in fear of getting used and played. You fear getting played by a girl? Really man? You want to command dom… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/23 05:43 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.It's not a business discussion, you don't discuss, you act. He already did that. She agreed to come before started acting flakey and playing games. He didn't do anything, the date never happened. And that's ok, but then why ask here about it? if you called me as your friend to get a coffee at 8am I'd send you to hell with your 8am and grocery stuff and tell you to meet me in the evening for a beer. Chicks love breakfast dates. There's absolutely nothing wrong with them if you're both early riser… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/23 05:32 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.You originally wrote this: "That's some betamax preaching just to sound alpha." Hope that clears it up for you finally. Nope, you are rather agressive and with an attitude, at least for someone looking for an advice. You are looking at it from the small picture angle. Look at it this way, why are you even bothered by some rather to you unknown girl over simple logistics? Why are you arguing with this unknown person over the phone over this trivial thing. If you don't like what's happening just c… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/23 05:11 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.Whatever suits you man, you asked for analysis, I gave you mine, do with it whatever you please. I'm suggesting that you be flexible, take initiative and not be reactive. About beta/alfa: you started labeling me, just because you didn't like my response, that's reactive and immature. You got me confused with someone else, I don't have a clue who you are, I rarely hang here, I have never deleted a comment here in my life... See, again you are trying to label me, while I'm trying to give you sugge… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/23 05:26 PM |
| 9 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.It's not a business discussion, you don't discuss, you act. It's not about her or females, if you called me as your friend to get a coffee at 8am I'd send you to hell with your 8am and grocery stuff and tell you to meet me in the evening for a beer. You are sending out upright vibes. Meet her in the evening and go pick her up as a proper man, not because of her, but because you take pride in your car, your driving, your initiative and being a man. Be adaptive and improvise, only if she really en… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/23 05:08 PM |
| 20 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.Picking her up is not a red flag, he should have done it before she even mentioned. "I'm picking you up, we are going to my fav cafe for coffee". He was doomed from the beginning, trying to dog train a girl he never met. This guy is bitching about time, forcing her to come to some god forsaked cafe he nitpicked, talking about time restrictions because of grocery shoppong lol... | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/23 05:23 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Girl that was supposed to meet with me at 8 AM at a coffeeshop suddenly bailed and tried to gaslight me to thinking it was my fault.I am with the girl on this one. Look at this post, you are bitching online, I can only imagine how it goes irl. 8am date?! 10am grocery?! If you don't own a car and don't know how to be a gentleman and pick the girl up at her place, you got the whole RP thing wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/23 05:14 AM |
| 6 | will this way of getting girls workI'd suggest you first work on your writing skills, you are barely comprehensible. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | TrustPersonally, I'd move in with a girl only after the wedding day. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/23 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys think "creepy" guys exist?So? You just proved a point by describing what you don't like about them. I didn't catch you writing something like "This cute rich ripped attractive guy in the gym was looking at my ass and I found it really creepy". Men want sex and you want to shame them for their basic nature if you don't find them attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | After date everything changedThis is the Red Pill not primary school dating advice. Find a next one. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/23 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Are women leeches?I don't agree that women never marry broke guys, beautiful women don't marry broke guys, usually. To elaborate on it, outgoing, loud guys marry all the time, even beautiful girls. Broke introverts never marry. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Being asked about past relationship experience and LTRs.You own your shit and tell the truth if asked. Avoid details as they bring no value but gossip. If you are afraid of what you can tell her, you got this whole thing wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/23 10:06 AM |
| 1 | What is 1 specific thing The Red Pill is wrong about in your eyes?Yes I agree. But 90% of the practical talk (on all main RP boards and yt channels) seems to revolve almost strictly around big cities in highly developed countries, not to say USA and LA/NY specifically. It's completely useless if not outright dangerous in other kinds of places. I kinda get it, given the popularity, it's written by US citizens for US citizens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | What is 1 specific thing The Red Pill is wrong about in your eyes?That's the core of life, not RP, RP didn't invent that. RP is very specific in its application to LA problems almost exclusively at this point. Core values mean nothing without exact application, it's empty philosophy chiichat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What is 1 specific thing The Red Pill is wrong about in your eyes?It assumes everyone lives in LA. In other words it completely disresgards different locations and cultures, yet claims the whole thing comes from a caveman instincts. For a small simple instance, it suggests consistent daygame approaches, do this a few times in small town and you'll be labelled as desperate or weird, if not as pervert. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Are most men here looking for short term relationships?We are looking for valuable women, anything else comes naturally. . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.Sign the papers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?I just want to kill some time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | If men were less horny, what would happen?Women would feel useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is not healthy for Red Pillers or the women with them.Marriage is rarely healthy in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 06:23 PM |
| 2 | What does the average experience of an average man in the dating world look like?I fap then I don't have sex and then I fap again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 06:21 PM |
| -1 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalBeing educated and working isn't the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Exes.You didn't say when this happened, it still needs time, you need time to forget and stop caring, it's ok to feel but the point is not to act on this nostalgia or let it drag you down. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/23 12:28 PM |
| 1 | 90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypesAnd still, when Ville Valo enters the room all the panties get soaked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themThis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 02:52 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themClassical case of people not minding their own business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do men hate open relationships?I'm sorry, you lost me, what boyfriend? You are married and you have a parallel boyfriend you are sleeping with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Why do men hate open relationships?So you are trying to find out why your husband won't like.the idea of you having sex with someone else? Interesting. Welcome to the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do men hate open relationships?That is correct, why do you ask such questions then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Why do men hate open relationships?It's an hours difference, if you already find it arousing and hygienic to share her intimate parts and consume some other guy's ejaculates, just save everybody's time and do a gangbang, intimacy goes out of the window anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Why do men hate open relationships?If a guy likes the idea of sharing a girl, why not just call the other guy and make a threesome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | The primary cause of singleness among men is simple yet overlooked.Those clubs are full of not very attractive women, they are there because nobody wanted them. Sad but true, nature is cruel. There are men in those clubs and they are even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | The primary cause of singleness among men is simple yet overlooked.No, I'm closing 40. It doesn't matter what they do if it doesn't socially connect with men. The most common place where these worlds clash is in the nightclubs on weekends. It's actually the only place where women actively seek men and are open for romantic advances. They don't do a whole lot anyway, name any hobby that isn't beauty related and it's dominated by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Always was and will always be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | You are responsible for your orgasm. CMVOk mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 03:09 AM |
| 1 | You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guyOr just go out and date irl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do overweight women have such an easy time getting sex, but a very hard time finding a relationship?Because some dudes will have sex anything with a hole or two, but walking it in public won't happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:19 PM |
| 4 | The only reason the concept of the redpill is popular is because it actually gives tangible solutions.It opens eyes and gives a different perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 05:09 PM |
| 36 | The primary cause of singleness among men is simple yet overlooked.The primary cause is that some men prefer doing things other than getting wasted in the clubs. They do manly things where women simply aren't present, so not much opportunity to meet in the first place. If you want to meet women you have to force yourself to go parting and doing other stuff you are not interested in, cause sure as hell girls won't go ahead of themselves to meet you at car races (or similar places). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:58 PM |
| 11 | Newbie Question: Why does it seem that Girl's "party phase" is actually from 18 to 24 maximum? The Manosphere groups makes it seem like its 18-30 but Experience has taught me otherwise.Their party phase starts at around 14 and ends when, if, they get married. It begins again when they divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Porn, High body count, unfair criticism and the red pillIf it isn't already self-explanatory, it wouldn't be possible to explain in one single Reddit comment to someone oblivious to it and human nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Porn, High body count, unfair criticism and the red pillCall it whatever you want, I wouldn't touch a woman that has been double penetrated, slapped, spit on, pissed on, had her anus and vagina turned inside out, double fisted, gangbanged, deep throated to puke and all that filmed for the whole world to see, including her current and future family, as well as her future children. If you find that attractive, I don't judge, whatever pleases you. For me personally, that's the least desirable woman I could think of, I wouldn't even consider since there … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Aside from "Women's standards are too high or No more good men" Why do you think YOUR single?Why do you think MINE is single? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:34 PM |
| 4 | Having different sexual partners on a regular basis is setting yourself up to be a cheater. Agree or disagree?You can change a million sexual partners without ever cheating on a single one. Cheating is a matter of morality and weak/bad personality, it's not about sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?Pop pimples on my back? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?This is a general question, so my response is general. Sure there are men that prefer Porsche or Lamborghini, or even a Prius or Tesla, God forbid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?They do thin out, we are talking about average men, not millionaires. What is a man going to do, go out clubbing with a college bunch to meet girls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?That's right, because most men don't have a red Ferrari and access to unlimited sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:11 PM |
| 0 | The lower a man's body count, the lower his threshold for labeling a woman as promiscuous.Virgins? I've been with a few back in the days. But there are no legal virgins today, if there are they are probably not worth mentioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Average men settle down because of social pressure, the current feeling of being in love and because the options get thinner as they get older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Honest and genuine question. What is it that women actually want?Men are all individuals, but most of us want unlimited hc sex with an unlimited number of women and a red Ferrari. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Seems too many people think that having amazing dates or an amazing relationship should automatically lead to marriage.They lead to even more amazing breakups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 01:21 PM |
| 37 | The lower a man's body count, the lower his threshold for labeling a woman as promiscuous.Men with high body count know what's up from personal experience. Men with low body count are oblivious to what's happening behind the closed doors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Intelligence and attractivenessIn my humble experience, dumb women react pretty much the same as dumb men when you say something they can't comprehend, dumb men want to fight you, dumb women flee. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/23 05:05 AM |
| 2 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?I'd say it will, as the saying goes, they don't love you unconditionally, they love you for what you do or can do for them and with cash you can do many things for them. I think it inspires a true reaction on some level, they don't go "nah I don't like this guy, I like his money", they go "he's cute, good natured, blah blah" and I do believe it's truly how they feel, despite the guy being absolutely ugly fat retard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you care about a women's career or level of educational attainment in a partner?No as long as it's not interfering with relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:07 PM |
| – | Is it inaccurate to say "men basically built the world"?It isn't. Mothers gave us those men, but they built the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:05 PM |
| 0 | The average man is fine, it’s the below average men who are genuinely struggling.Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Do men view everything through the lens of sex?Only when lacking sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | How can an average-looking dude inspire visceral attraction in women!?Cash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:57 PM |
| 3 | What are signs that a person is using you as second choice or is settling for you?Or a runner up effect from last night's sex with someone else. Basically she's feeling sexual again, but the other guy woke it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:57 PM |
| 5 | What are signs that a person is using you as second choice or is settling for you?Lack of obvious desire. You aren't being actively and persistently pursued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Who is generally viewed more positively by society, a single man or a man with an unattractive girlfriend/wife?"a family guy", understandably by females, men are more like "who the hell can he sleep with that?!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:50 PM |
| 1 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?The what?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?Yup. You can't hurt feelings if there are none. But it must be rare. But it's more common that one side just pretends that it's ok just to remain in contact in hope of getting back together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Does the fact that a guy friend would bang his female friend if given the chance mean he's not really her friend?Of course he isn't. Friendship is a totally different dynamic and requires the same sex participants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you leave the seat up? Or do you put the seat down?Why even pull it up? That bad aim? Or if you must... Why argue about it? You pull it up, she puts it down, it's even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:44 PM |
| 4 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?Because even the most unintractive women get male attention and eventually score some kind of a man. On the other hand, you can have a fine looking man, smart, situated etc but if he is socially stale, he practically does not even exist to the females, he won't even have a simple "hey" message on social networks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | The obsession the manosphere has with "single older miserable women" is bizarre.I'm not following, the wall is not about happy single women, it's about unhappy single women. Happy single women pose no threat to men, so I don't see why men would hate them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 06:20 AM |
| 1 | The way men get porn brain, can women get “attractive guy they had sex with” brain when it comes to sex with future partners?First off, why are you mixing sex and porn in your statement? You could have easily used sex with a very sexy woman in the case of a men instead of porn. Secondly I don't think that's how it works with porn, it has more to do with sensory perception, how it's delivered in case of porn (mostly visual as an observer) compared to real sex firsthand experience, that can't be as visual as watching porn as an observer. Those things are not really memorable after a while, how someone looked naked, so i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?Not very true. Most men would give themselves entirely to a woman, especially the "incels". You'd be their only friend, their whole world and they couldn't care less about having other friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?Well we don't like women that much either if you look at it like that. All the truly fun stuff we do with other men, we make businesses, we race cars, we go fishing, we fight the enemies, we cook, we play in bands, we fix stuff, we break stuff, we watch sports, we play sports, we play video games, we prank each other, we go on the road trips, we go clubbing, we go golfing, we go camping, we argue about brands... Sure, we can and do some of these with women too, but you always have to tip toe abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Everybody gangsta until your 19 year old daughter starts dating a 40 something guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4a How sexually demanding are you in relationships?Usually she wants it more often, I want it more kinky. If she's only or mostly vanilla I get bored quickly, especially if she demands it often, I'm not really interested in simply thrusting into her vagina (cmon we are not in highschool anymore, that sh*t wore off a decade or so ago). Relationship usually goes downhill from there. Sure sometimes they try to act kinky, but if it's not in their nature, it shows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Are women more content with being sexless?Do you honestly believe people that say sex is sick and twisted more than people who say they regularly have sex and enjoy it? Come on, are you just finding excuses for not having the amount of sex you want? And no, I'm not mocking you, look harder for a woman that will enjoy sex with you to the fullest, it's easier than you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:06 PM |
| 1 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?I guess many of us, if you are close enough to them to know. It's not really a thing you go around and advertise, for obvious reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:38 AM |
| 3 | The obsession the manosphere has with "single older miserable women" is bizarre.It's not huge at all, you can pick any subject online, post a few links and claim it's huge. It's not, it gets mentioned and that's all. It's one of the many fundamental principles of the RP, practically not very significant. Now I wonder what is in it for you to make this huge post about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers make women not want to date menGenerally women don't care about Redpill, more often don't even know about it, some of us might dwell in these spheres, but trust me, women are mostly oblivious to them, especially outside the USA. So in isolated cases some women, who probably struggled with relationships for some reason or the other, might be additionally revolted by RedPill, but generally speaking I don't think RP has any significant effect on women. Many men on RP also don't want to date women anymore. It's the most usual rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 03:24 PM |
| 2 | What is considered a “High Body Count” ?A number of sex partners that is significantly higher than her number of LTRs. Sure, it can be higher for a few, to compensate for some of the failed initiations of LTR or a drunk night or two, but anything that suggests a regular casual sex is a run flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | For guys that *really* care about body count, do you ask?I might ask about LTRs or it just comes out in the getting to know phase, no more than that. You can do the math. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:47 AM |
| 13 | She can dish it out but she can't eat itOk, fine read, but uneventful end. The moral of the story is to not let bitchy women walk over you? One thing annoyed me in the beginning for some reason, you wrote 8 of you were working, concluding that's why you were overworked. But we don't have a clue how big is this place you work at, 8 sounds plenty to me for a bar. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/23 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Define undateableNothing special really, anal, dt, swallowing, dressing sexy, just don't be a complete vanilla. No bdsm stuff... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | How would Women feel about a man who wears Make Up / Enhancements.Works great if you are a rock star, not so much if you are a random dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Maybe this is the male birth control we need.We already have men's contraceptives. And if you are gonna lecture me how not finishing in vagina is not totally effective, I'll gladly ask you what were you doing there without a condom if you are not willing to take that risk? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Define undateableLooks are a must, I must like how she looks, as opposed to general standard. She must be kinky or willing to become, vanilla is out of the question. If she is a city dweller and thinks that nature is just an annoying place full of bugs, well it's not gonna work. All else could be aligned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 05:48 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when 'Chad' starts flirting with you and you are in a relationship? How do you feel?So basically nobody in this group went for Chad. Poor Chads never got to cash in their Chadiness. I can tell you from a guy's perspective. We worked together, she's been in a very LTR, she said it's wrong and that she is confused but still ended up having sex with me. They are now married with a kid. Dude never found out. So I guess she went home to her boyfriend after all, and all was well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the majority of women are significantly more open to experimenting sexually depending on a man’s perceived status/value?Yup, from my experience directly tied to how much she is attracted to me. The ones that stalked me for years are the ones with whom anything goes in bed. Simply put, they'll do anything in bed just to please you and keep you around. Completely normal and logical. Here and there you might stumble on a woman that is just simply into kinky stuff anyway, but those are rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Starting again?You have the most valuable asset, youth, 25 is childhood stuff. Call your old buddies and go do something fun with them, you don't need more than that right now for a start. I know that tendency is to try to mask it with chick and sex, but that won't heal you, quite the opposite. You need a tribe right now, the tribe can potentially generate ideas, be it work or just fun ideas and plans. If you don't have anyone from back then, meet new guys, force it if you have to, smuggle yourself into some t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you rather have casual sex with an average in his 20's, or a fit, handsome man in his 40's?Dude, I'm a straight dude and I would fuck Oscar in that pic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | LTR admits to lies and secretsSo in conclusion, she's a female. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/22 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Power Games and Shit TestsI'm just saying there is too much standardization going on in the US, everything is branded and spread across the states so universally and everyone runs to these brands to the point that any freeminded person should just feel a natural urge to just boycott it all and not go with a system. It's mostly caused by capitalism and consumerism I guess and people just go along with it, not really caring about the deeper meaning as long as it serves their purpose and doesn't rock their day out of its us… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Why You Need Instagram in the Modern Sexual MarketPlaceYou don't, you can go out and approach girls (with instagram) and be miles ahead of all the guys in her instagram following. Sure, sometimes someone gets laid on instagram, but if you actually go out, and have half a looks, half a brain and half a game, out of three approaches, one is spreding her legs sooner than later. Instagram is not a marketplace, it's just a validation tool, so not a place for a MAN. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Power Games and Shit TestsThat is a sound argument, but I don't think it's true. I'd say it has more to do with US brandname and herd mentality. Even grabbing a cup of coffee in Starbucks is that in itself. Why not sit and enjoy the coffee at the local cafe and support a small cozy local place instead of going with a herd into a branded multi state chain... Why not get a Samsung or Xiaomi or whatever, don't you feel stupid having the same things and going to the same places everyone does? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | I feel like following RP advice will make me a monster.You can play the game the way you want, it's just important to know the basic rules and not to be outside of it and unaware of it. Be yourself, but be the best yourself you can be and don't bend to lesser people, including women. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/22 05:29 PM |
| -12 | Power Games and Shit TestsWhy do you americans always need to specify the brandname of something you mention instead of using a regular umbrella term? Like "my iphone" instead of "my phone". "Airbnb" instead of "apartment"? "Uber" instead of "cab or taxi". "Snapchat" instead of "chat"... or "we grabbed a coffee at Starbucks" or "A sat in my Tesla and drove there"... Who cares what exact brand of service or device or whatever someone uses? Anyway, it's a great write, to the point amd true. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Sex is different than I thought it would beIt's just how it is, it's the game before it that's more exciting. You can say the same about jerking and porn, it's about finding the perfect video, when you do, the fun is over. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/22 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Reminder- Never make her your focusGuy is damaged, not even your regular bluepill. Nothing to gain here, guy's a serious cuck, I don't blame her. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/22 05:01 PM |
| 0 | For all this talk of “the Wall”, I think in big cities (certainly London in my experience), men need to be alive to the fact that there are a lot of women out there who are totally fine with remaining single well into their thirties and potentially foreverTheir loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Guy getting gaslit for 16 minutes straight (Breakup video)This guy had a bad one, but he might recover and be better off. I want to see that desperate mf that fell for a mother of 4. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/22 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Why women get into temporary relationshipsWhat do you mean? All relationships are temporary, hell, every single thing in this world is temporary. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/22 06:35 PM |
| 9 | [Success Story/Field Report] FINALLY fucked a hot girl! Thank you so much TRP!!!I don't mean to be harsh or anything, but there's nothing red pill about it at all, it's all a good old highschool bluepill hookup and you are way past highschool. Condom blowjob? Should have showed her the door. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/22 04:37 PM |
| -1 | A sperg negged my friend and failed.You lost me at the dance class. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/22 02:07 PM |
| 66 | Trying to be Setup with Single Mom ✋🏽🛑Not even for a million dollars. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/22 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Need Help Gents!I don't even understand why they migrated from instagram to snapchap like it's some kind of level upin intimacy or something. What was wrong with instagram? Doesn't it serve the purpose of instant messaging? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/22 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Is porn ruining average sexual experiences for men by raising their expectations on how much sexual women should be with them?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How many of RP men have literally no other hobbies, ambitions other than attracting female attention?True RPen don't care about women because they have them plenty. You don't crave what you have plenty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Does sleeping with someone really attractive for a period in your life ruin sex with other more average people?If someone is really attractive or not does not mean that much in sex, what's being done and how is much more important. Not to make it a rule but I had much better sex with less attractive women, some would say they are compesanting this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach DiscussionMen on Tinder are incels because they game/approach women over the app and not out there, so they lack confidence, are desperate for women because they use a specific app just for chasing women and making dates. Women can't be incels, because it's not their job to approach, the ones on Tinder are just damaged goods, either ugly and desperate, pure attention whores, damaged, boring, simply low quality or you name it. I assure you I'm not an idiot, why do you feel need to resort to personal insult… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach DiscussionThis page exists so men can go out there and get women, not get cosy in the confort of their rooms and use Tinder. Girls who use Tinder are low quality or damaged, for the sole fact that they need to use Tinder, same goes for men. Not all girls on this world are low quality, neither all them use Tinder. The only girl I know in my life that uses Tinder is damaged and always ends up with incels from Tinder. I'm here to have fun, I never in my life had problem interacting with girls or lacked sex, … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | women on ppd: "wOmeN DO nOT fIND 80% of MeN t0 bE uNaTTraCtiVE tHAT'S jUST a myTH PeRPETUAtED By meN ON reddiT": also women on reddit:Problem is, her "truth" might change overnight and you'll get shocked, don't bite it and you'll lose nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?They'll revert back to being women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Guy on the left will help with household chores, comfort you, listen, nurse you when sick, and is loyal and loving...guy on the right will cheat, gaslight, abuse you but is really exciting and the best sex you'll ever have, who do you pick?Guy on the left has a mean look in his eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 02:58 PM |
| 3 | women on ppd: "wOmeN DO nOT fIND 80% of MeN t0 bE uNaTTraCtiVE tHAT'S jUST a myTH PeRPETUAtED By meN ON reddiT": also women on reddit:And to let us know that her man is pErFeCtttt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 02:55 PM |
| 2 | women on ppd: "wOmeN DO nOT fIND 80% of MeN t0 bE uNaTTraCtiVE tHAT'S jUST a myTH PeRPETUAtED By meN ON reddiT": also women on reddit:She's a liar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 02:54 PM |
| 0 | women on ppd: "wOmeN DO nOT fIND 80% of MeN t0 bE uNaTTraCtiVE tHAT'S jUST a myTH PeRPETUAtED By meN ON reddiT": also women on reddit:Or simply put, men just aren't that attractive by nature and women aren't "programmed" to look for beauty in men, like men look for in women. It's RP 1/1. Now imagene how badly homosexual brains are tangled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himCan't tell about the dude, as a man I don't have a sense for it, looks ok to me, but a girl is a shipwreck, she's not even close to average and none of the guys I know would even consider her for anything romantic or sexual. Thou if you are coming from UK I can get it if this is your average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 08:37 PM |
| 43 | Mental Fog: Lazy & Unfocused. Diagnosis and Cure.First thing that helps me instantly is taking a good shower, shaving (including down there), fixing hair and going right out, even to just take a walk around the city, sometihing more social if possible even better. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/21 04:23 PM |
| 2 | The unlucky spinIf you played well, they'll both come around in no time. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Aspire To Become An Alpha Male--Game For BetasNot universally correct. I live in a poor country, any guy, any absolute retarded incel, with a rich daddy is drowning in pussy. When living in borderline poverty, money fixes everything. Women here are reprogrammed like that. All you have to do is have money or act like it (thou it doesn't work for long). | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Nofap changed my mentality in a weekEven if you limit it to once in three days you are going to se positive effects. If you don't scroll to 86th page of pornhub even better, not using porn at all is the best. It simply makes you want to stand up and take action, sexual or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/21 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Cold Approach DiscussionBecause they don't need to, they get hit on out there in real world and on instagram and facebook more than enough. They don't need dating apps, all you will find in my region are ugly ones, incels and grannies and of course real prostitutes and a bit of validation whores. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/21 03:12 AM |
| 14 | Cold Approach DiscussionI can't believe you guys keep discussing Tinder on these pages, on and on, must be a regional western cultural thing, I can't see why and how a quality female speciment would even consider using or having a need to use such platform. In Eastern Europe it's exclussive to prostitutes and incels. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/21 09:22 PM |
| 66 | Oh shit they figured out our resilience method of identity (re)construction. "undertheorizing is the communicative construction of resilience in precarious and problematic spaces online"I did not understand a single word of that title. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/21 09:16 PM |
| 2 | The 1,000 Rejection Approach--Overcoming Your Fear of Rejection By Leaning Into ItLol, we've all seen their members. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/21 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Mission Impossible: BPD and Alpha Widow at the same timeIt's not this subreddit, it's US, BPD is fashionable there. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | CMV: most men are secretly attracted to fat womenNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Just lost a plate to erectile dysfunctionIf it happens again, pop one bromazepam (or equivalent) pill. You'll need just one, that one time to prove that nothing is wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 08:27 PM |
| 8 | How I picked up a professional modelProfessional models usually look like crap, skin and bones, alien face, no boobs or ass and never made a coffee in their life. No man, our dream is to anally fist our sexy elementary school teacher. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | TRP men have unicorn fallacy about Muslim girls and I am about to destroy it with realityCouldn't care less about muslim girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Word To The Wise -- The Biggest Little Mistake You'll Probably MakeOk, fair points, but this is plainly common sense when it comes to sex, we aren't in primary school here. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 02:55 PM |
| 7 | A girl LITERALLY chased after me in a mall to get my number.Yup and who knows in what state the life of that girl is in or if her personality is extremely rare. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | What She Wears, Says A Lot About HerI don't see a problem here, usually all they catch are low quality men. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Explaining the Alpha / Beta Dichotomy of the Red Pill and women’s dualistic mating strategyGreat read, keep it up, looking forward to new chapters. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Are promiscuous women as reliable in LTR as non-promiscuous?No they are not and will never be. Women are the keepers of sex and man are the attackers. You are a good attacker if you score a lot, she is not a good keeper if she gets scored a lot. But I hear you say, women also like sex, yes, true, but they can't spread offspring with multiple men within a year or less, man can with multiple women daily, in theory. It has a biological background and you can't simply deny it. Something is wrong with promiscuous women, on some level or other, every man that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Dating sucks because single people are like real estate - the best ones taken off the market quicklyI don't see a problem then, it's always your tier that's left free. If you are the best then you are taken by the best. If your logic is true. If not, then the whole post is false and irrelevant. Unless you suggest that the is significantly more of one gender than the other, then it's not even dating, it's a bloody battle for scarse goods and if ain't a warrior then don't come to battle and whine how you never win, go and find goods that are easily avaliable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/21 02:18 PM |
| 9 | They don’t even love the alpha, they love themselves and what you do for them.These words here, that's what happens everytime and just by looking at the all new boyfriend and the way they announce "love" on social media you see he is the Lord Betacus. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/21 05:39 PM |
| 3 | We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other.Not really, they hate each other only after the divorce, childbirth included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | what makes a man regret sex?Stalking afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Does the red pill truism that "women would rather share a Chad than have a beta to herself" have any actual evidence supporting it?Lots, at least where I come from, a high status guy (money, bad style, not very smart, bad music taste, loads of confidence, goes to popular clubs etc) always has at least two girls fighting over him, and I don't mean agruing, I mean fighting and he just doesn't care, he prefers to get drunk with his mates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Why n count matters in women and the marriage analogyIn the sea of N's, you are not significant, you are just the last one to the party (not even that). | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | What is more important for a guy: sex or money?Money, sex is sideeffect of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 01:30 PM |
| 2 | The stupidest, saddest Field Report you will ever readUp until now I assumed all girls are like this in NYC, hell, in the the whole US. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | The 2nd biggest dating problem for men is the obsession of wanting instant sexual gratification.Black and white is logical thinking, not taking any grayarea games. Logical thinking is doing what is working out. If you are memorable at sex he will come for more and relationship will begin. It's a deal with cards on a table, nobody wants a blind deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 11:27 AM |
| 0 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.How come? I enjoy watching porn with all my girlfriends and it's good fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:34 AM |
| 1 | What's with PPD's obsession with sex, and not the other wonderful parts in a relationship?It seems you are either very young or never had a proper sex session. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:31 AM |
| 1 | The 2nd biggest dating problem for men is the obsession of wanting instant sexual gratification.So logical thinking and fullfilling the purpose of dating faster? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:29 AM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenIt's not that much about initial attraction, it's all nice at first, in any of the combinations, it later in LTR, if you had enough LTRs and observed other's LTRs, that you realize the pattern. This pattern is what they reffer to as AWALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Just STAY OUT on the front lines and cold approachOnly if you are bluepilled poorfellow. If you have a high hit rate in a logical setting and even get approched you don't need to cold approach like an idiot on the streets. It's not at all retarded, it might save some poor fellows ass in a small town. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | A Woman Will ALWAYS Have A Hoe PhaseSo all girls on this planet go to college? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/21 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Just STAY OUT on the front lines and cold approachIt's all fun and games if you live in big city, try that in a small town and after two weeks you'll be labelled a whackhead and you can say goodbye to your sex life. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/21 01:28 PM |
| 2 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenWrong, because you realize AWALT long before you even find out about any of the pills on the internet. Unless you were never able to attract women before these pills stuff, then really don't have a clue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Is Dating Hell?You westerns really like to standardize everything. You have standardized dating, hell you even have a specific term for it (dating). Go grab a coffee, go to movies, go to dinner in a restaurant, have sex with condom (might as well masterbate into a plastic bag for the same experience), change chick and repeat. No wonder girls are bored and want a bad boy to take em on unpredictable adventure. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/21 03:06 PM |
| 0 | If we accept that looks are the most important thing when it comes to attraction for both men and women, then why do we look down on plastic surgery?Simply because it never makes anyone more pretty, if we are talking pumping up lips and such. Nose surgery can do a great job in someone with really bad nose shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Psychology of women almost never rejecting a guy outrightFor a moment i wanted to say that it's plain fude to just say "no", but to keep it going for a month is plainly parhological. Psychology behind it? Virtual orbiters. You boost her ego so it can be all pumped up and ready to deal (so she thinks) with the likes of Chad when he appears (and he won't since she's 5/10). When her hopes for Chad eventually dry out she might even give you a call, be sure to ignore it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/21 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Don't Get Mad She CheatedI get what you are saying. It's about the break of continuity of LTR, yes you are always "tasting someone's load when you kiss her" but we choose not to care and judge, it's fresh start with "fresh mouth". It only matters if the continuity is broken, your load, his load, your load is a terrible mix. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/20 07:08 PM |
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