qweenalexandria Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
340	The results of doing the work	MOOD FOR LIFE	qweenalexandria	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/20 05:28 PM
32	FDS AMTA/ support	SEEKING ADVICE	qweenalexandria	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 02:54 PM
29	Recovering pickmeshia fresh out of relationship and seeking support during healing and transformation	SEEKING ADVICE	qweenalexandria	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/07/20 04:56 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The most FDS song ever was written in 1997. Fuck. Yes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 02:58 PM
3	The results of doing the work For me theres a difference between idealizing falling in love and wanting a companion w whom I'm in love with. It's the mindset of nothing's missing. Love doesnt come from another person, some of the greatest poets and philosophers speak on this often. "The most important aspect of love is not in giving or the receiving: it's in the being. When I need love from others, or need to give love to others, I'm caught in an unstable situation." -Ram Das He was also known to say that when you are in lov…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 01:28 PM
2	The results of doing the work You, too, can have the life of your dreams!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 01:27 PM
2	The results of doing the work Online	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 01:24 PM
2	The results of doing the work I've lived all over the country and I've been dating for ~15 years. In many ways I was a serial monogamous w a few polyamorous situations w (mostly) hot men who were talented in some way. I've enjoyed deep connections and mind blowing sex that took both participants straight to God. It's not that I don't like men but they're no longer at the forefront of my mind and I am not motivated by the above mentioned thoughts or ideals. In my codependent and serial monogamous recovery I am enjoying gettin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 01:10 PM
3	The results of doing the work CoDA stands for Co Dependancy Anonymous. It's a 12 step program like AA or NA. Fortunately it's a younger group so theres a lot of open mindedness surrounding the concept of a higher power	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 04:45 AM
3	The results of doing the work Thank you 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 12:12 AM
7	The results of doing the work I also feel like it's time to stop putting up with and validating LVM. The future is matriarchal and feminine 💜	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/20 10:27 PM
3	The results of doing the work Yas qween!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/20 10:27 PM
5	The results of doing the work Absolutely, feel free to PM me if you want any advice or have questions. The CoDA meeting I'm in has been paramount.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/20 10:25 PM
25	The results of doing the work Yas!! I'm a sensitive empathic artist and my career is fitting for that. Instead of craving to share that with men, I crave to use that to build a community of like minded women!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/20 08:39 PM
2	When he doesn't really care, he's just making a show Yuck. This reminds me of my x who pleaded and begged to take me out for my birthday. I had to work late and didnt want to go. But he insisted on doing something special and was "hurt" I didnt want him to do anything. I worked at a restaurant and he showed up AFTER we closed (if you're in the industry you can understand how embarrassing that can be to your co workers) but still had guests, a whole hour after he was supposed to be there. He was busy making my "gift." He had no dinner planned and I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 03:13 PM
9	Tomi Lahren Has An FDS Epiphany It was a large high school with over 2k kids. I was friends with everybody, the preppy kids, the drama kids, the sports, the science nerds, but I wasn't friends with her small krewe. I dont remember much besides her air of pretense and "my shit doesn't stink" attitude of not talking to anyone that wasnt white or well off(large native American population). No one really liked her.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 06:22 PM
5	Tomi Lahren Has An FDS Epiphany I went to high school with Tommy Lauren lolololol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 04:31 AM
2	FDS AMTA/ support Thanks all! The situation is intricate as we have a lot of mutual friends and acquaintances. I blocked him on all accounts because I realize further communication is not worth it for me. I let him know that I would be taking distance and that if he absolutely needed to contact me he can reach out to my friends to get the message across and that I would contact him in a month or so about returning things. It feels empowering to block his access to me and I feel more at peace not having to anticip…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 04:37 PM
3	FDS AMTA/ support He also gave me some appliances and when we broke up he said he didnt want it anything back from me. Now that he's angry, he wants it back. Keep or give back?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 03:10 PM
21	OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: What Have YOU Personally Done to Be Less Trash At Sex? We need more men like you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/07/20 07:09 PM
1	Recovering pickmeshia fresh out of relationship and seeking support during healing and transformation Update: In spite of being out of his league, I realize the man I broke up with was the kindest, most giving and loving man who was 100% committed to me. But because of my past of not facing the music, I was unable to function in such a relationship. Self worth, playing the victim to my life circumstances (even when I thought I was done with that roll), lack of trust in myself, self betrayal, resentment over giving up time, etc. I was unhappy w myself and projected that onto someone that was noth…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 01:36 PM
1	Recovering pickmeshia fresh out of relationship and seeking support during healing and transformation Thank you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 04:18 AM