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I have had insecure men talk about how they dated a ''model'' -- lies or exaggerations, most likely.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 01:14 AM
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For now I just want to say I got a lot out of what you said, nothing offensive at all (tho don't agree with everything). Sometimes the most important thing is to understand how we are all basically the same, whether male or female. It is great for establishing friendships with other women, which is harder to do than male to male friendships.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/17 01:14 AM
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I'm very impressed by all your self-awareness and knowing what you want, at the young age of 21. That type of assertiveness and analytical mind is wise. Well the kind of thing I'd hope for my nieces at your age. This lifted my spirits today. Thanks for sharing in detail. I'm seriously in awe, not kidding.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 03:04 PM
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Why do you think that he told her she doesn't have his ideal physique? and u/sheikha4teddies -- Why do you think he told you so? I've read a couple other women say the same thing. I think it's very odd that a man would mention something like that.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 03:00 PM
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If you vetted for a good man, yes. No kidding. Where are all these older men with young women? I never see them. I suppose some keep their mistresses tight away, BUT... there are actually few women looking to be side pieces to old ''sugar daddies''. Unless you live in LA or some shallow metropolitan that actually does mirror the most superficial aspects of humanity.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 09:42 PM
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sounds like he is comfortable providing for you and you just have to become comfortable with receiving.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 09:19 PM
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answer to thread topic: not care. move on.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 06:32 PM
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Yeah, we want life partners not life coaches. You must have noticed there's a ''the man is always right'' gaggle of hens around here. That would make a good REDDEST RED women satire too ;)
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 09:32 PM
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Simply ask him: ''What are you afraid of?''
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 09:54 PM
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Long video or not, if it's about sex it has my attention!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 09:49 PM
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I think people in LTR's can give up genuinely seducing the other person. But few people are actually good at seduction, instead relying on the hormones and new relationship energy (as if it will never end)...then when that wears off, where does the spark come from? It's important to learn how to seduce ourselves first lol Sounds funny but it's true.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 09:48 PM
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I'm not sure birth control stats take in account how often ppl have sex. I would bet women using fertility awareness actually have more sex than many women on hormonal birth control, so the efficacy could be a lot greater.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/17 03:52 PM
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I read women burn carbs vs fats at different points in the cycle. Unfortunately burning fat is easiest during pms when some of us are more fatigued. Women are not just smaller, less hairy men. Cant ignore that our hormonal cycles effect our lives in more ways than just pregnancy potential.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/17 03:49 PM
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You must take good care of your health. An adventurous spirit doesn't age with the vessel lol. It's usually gals in their 20's scared of aging most I noticed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/17 03:23 PM
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I know that when I feel charming and/or play coy seducer I start to feel aroused, more feminine, more nurturing even. Other women must be the same? Getting in touch with feminine power, leaving that place of weakness behind...
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 09:40 PM
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hmmm...Try this? Stand close to him, stare in his eyes, and run your finger across his manly chest and (pouting a bit) in your most sensual almost-moaning voice say: I'm so so sooooo sorry I've let the stress of life and work make me treat you poorly. You deserve better...but...I'm confused, just not sure what to do from here. (continue to run your hand on him sensually) Let him feel like a man by being a woman who takes responsibility for the emotional life.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 09:39 PM
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and do men really want a girl who looks like she's trying overly hard to impress a guy she hardly knows? Dressing up a bit nicer is for the second date. Unless he's taking her somewhere fancy. The worst thing to do is to wear an amount of make-up to make him think he can't see what she really looks like, plus unnaturally over-dressing to the extent that if they become a couple he's going to start to think she stopped trying. What do you think?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 09:18 PM
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I didn't mean to imply gals should show up frumpy and entitled.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 09:11 PM
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Am I the only woman who would conceal her intentions in the beginning to let a man's true colours show? A lot of men are smarter and more adaptable to appearing as what a woman wants than they seem ;)
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 11:04 PM
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Go as you look on a usual day, maybe slightly nicer. Don't show up like you auditioning for a part on Broadway. Let them impress you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 09:59 PM
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Since when does this community encourage trying to change a man's behavior? People compromise and change habits for relationships all the time. It's a part of them. This community isn't about women adapting to their SO's more than their SO does for them. It's up to her and him to decide what habits are reasonable and which aren't, not some ''average'' based on stranger's habits...as if two showers a day is unusual anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 05:40 PM
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lol! and I'd be out of a boyfriend, so the risk would be all gone!
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 04:52 PM
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I can't take BC either. Plus it gets rid of my sex drive so it's useless then!
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 04:05 PM
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Invite him to have shower sex in the evenings. or somethin' like ''I have this weird quirk; I really prefer the bed to be ultra-clean, feeling like a hotel room. Thats why I shower before bed. Can you indulge me in this weird quirk. It would make me happy.'' Ppl responding saying you aren't justified in this are making molehill out of a simple preference --we all have those.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 04:03 PM
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Yes, all the exaggerated power of oxytocin is superstitious myth science
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 06:26 AM
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Who are you counting for?
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 04:57 AM
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Say he was to propose to you tomorrow, would you be crying from happiness or sadness because you know you're dooming yourself to a man who won't take care of you?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 02:45 AM
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Yes! Hands age first and the worst. I put sunscreen on my hands too.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 01:50 AM
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Funny thing about him being ''MRA'' is that he's totally using YOUR vulnerability as a mother (of a baby, yet!) to get away with being a cheater and making YOU compromise in ways you absolutely would not if you weren't the mother of his child. You should tell him that. What the hell is he going on about ''rights'' for, like he doesn't trust YOU, what's he scared of? OH, his own self and bad deeds that lead him to project distrust on ''women in general'' and the ''court system''.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/17 06:36 PM
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Sorry, I need a man. Sandwiches just aren't as tasty when I just make them for myself.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/17 05:30 PM
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Why should I foot the bill? Because there's men who will and are proud to do so. When a woman is desireable she's highly competed for. Doesn't mean men have to accept women who come off as users. Just means that the competitive environment for men means more men are willing so women can demand these things to an extent.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/17 03:07 AM
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There's no better remedy for anger problems than a sore, tuckered asshole.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 11:21 PM
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Continue to be vulnerable (a good time to express your perceived insecurities and be upfront about flaws) and tell him what you like about him so he's not confused as to why you want to spend time with him. The genuine stuff. Shyness has to leave in one way or the other, if the shyness isn't laying on a pile on the floor with your clothes it has to go in some other way :) You're charming online so I think you shouldn't underestimate yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/17 04:51 PM
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What kinds of problems is your sex drive causing? Is it seasonal? OMG Summer. I just want to do dirty things with my bf like nothing else matters.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/17 04:01 PM
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Maybe your difficulty is the high sex drive being new and not being able to handle it. Likely it's perfectly healthy, so long as it's not making you do things which cause you pain or interfere with your life. I know it feels weird to be a woman and fantasize sexually about random attractive men, but it's normal and I think a lot of women less comfortable with their sexuality have the same thoughts but turn it into a type of neurosis or something instead. If you have a good partner and sex life a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/17 03:58 PM
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Sounds like they need to tough it out and spend less time together, which could simply = no or fewer sleep overs. It's hard but better than messing up sensitive routines and getting grumpy at each other over F-All.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/17 07:39 PM
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I've heard that people find age differences enticing. So yeah, tons of young women are very likely curious and wanting to experiment with older men. Then when those women get older they want the younger men sexually. You see, nature abhors a vacuum. There's just no need to talk shop about how 35+ women can bang 18-23 year old guys. That would be straight to the erotica section, not self-help.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:55 PM
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On the other hand, a fresh young 21 year old? Bright, fun to be around, easygoing, up for anything, delighted when I get them a flower or take them on a sudden trip? Yes, I can handle a girl like that. Her being at the peak of her sex appeal is just a bonus. So not as ''sexist'' as some might say. It's not too much to ask for a pleasant and charming lover/s.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:29 PM
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Just tell him you're not a strong/big/muscular (whichever suits ya) man like he is and couldn't possibly eat as much. You can also straight out say that you're sensitive about being teased in that manner.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 01:47 AM
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No. Being completely independent turns my life into chaos. I need a man.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 05:39 PM
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Guys have a habit of thinking in math. Even if they're bad at it I like that caveat. Some guys get delusionally convinced they are being logical cuz they are using a logic-based method.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/17 10:41 PM
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How about the mating habits of fruit flies... Fruit flies undergo a prelude of dances prior to mating. The dance begins when the male approaches the female slowly and vibrates his legs on her head. The next stage of the courtship dance begins when both flies drag their legs from side to side while facing each other. This seems to boost the male’s confidence. He then spreads his wings and twists the leading edges downward. This simple gesture signifies the male’s official intent to mount the fema…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/17 02:52 AM
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A groundbreaking study on flies! Studies on rats (another mammal) aren't even enough to claim something true for people.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/17 02:50 AM
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Everything I listed is the advantage of an exclusive relationship not necessarily a marriage You're not necessarily wrong. It depends on the woman. Some women won't feel free and open to give their all without the significant and symbolic commitment of marriage. That would cause problems in a relationship, subsconcious or otherwise. I'm not saying marriage is a good way to fix relationship problems generally, but I think it makes bonds stronger for certain people definitely. Just another reason …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 09:07 PM
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Yeah, it also doesn't speak to whether the people are in happy marriages just because they're not divorced!
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 08:53 PM
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If you don't know where you're going you can end up places you don't want to be. If your employment, financial and housing situation is solid, then go ahead and give up control and take things day by day. Sounds like you can stop worrying and go meet new people (men?) who do interesting things and not care about the outcome.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 04:12 PM
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It's just funny to me when a guy thinks he's informing us about how we feel during various points of our menstrual cycle. Slow clap for OP
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 11:00 PM
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don't cut your hair! long hair is ideal! some bitches be jealous, just enjoy that lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 10:36 PM
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Thanks for the public service announcement.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 10:00 PM
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I prefer that my bf decides where to eat most of the time. I hate deciding. It really shouldn't be a big deal to anyone, how can they fear a wrong decision in that regard, especially if there is no wrong decision according to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 04:10 AM
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Oh that note from his father made me teary eyed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/17 11:18 PM
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I'm still figuring it out myself. It actually takes more work/energy than I expected to figure out what I would like in that regard. Well he usually drives. He pays most of the time for lunch and what not when we spend time together. Those are simple, standard things tho they count and make a difference. My problem is more that I don't know what to ask than that I have problems receiving or any guilt with it. Maybe you have to work on that? Oh, and I ask for massages, but often don't have to ask…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 03:12 PM
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lol wouldn't that be a sight
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 01:09 AM
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I like Lauren and her mission, she is a good role model to young women. But she is wrong on a few points here, for one, using rationalist data to measure something such as ''happiness'' (which is not quantifiable!) that has the correlation/causation fallacy as well as the self-report fallacy. It's wrong to make claims as to how people should live using ''data'' to back it up. This is a fundamental problem with rationalism tho --masculinity/femininity paradigm is not rational, so all this scienti…
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 02:53 AM
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I do not clean my boyfriends place, aside from tossing a used condom in the waste basket. I never will clean his place. I'm a guest there. I've cooked for him, some really good stuff, but not so much lately. Currently I'm plotting things I'd like him to do for me, which i would appreciate and would make him feel close to me. Men bond by doing and giving more than receiving.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 10:08 PM
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That comment, pure gold. A gal's gotta learn to sense out the details! Also if a man's home looks a little too domestic it seems he just got divorced. There's a balance lol
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 01:15 AM
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Good! That really bugs me!
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 03:34 PM
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"'Im just here to read this conversation piece which I can enjoy on it's own or with conversation''
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:25 AM
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spent my youth going to shady places with shady people in shockingly bad neighborhoods on heavy amounts of lsd For some of us, the only way to live is to live fast and somehow not die too young. I always found it way more fun to see if I could meet a compelling sex partner-in-crime out in the town over doing so online. But the risks and the likelihood of finding a man fitting the fantasy matched very rarely. A few times, I just may have cast a wider net, and been pleasantly surprised. There's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:24 AM
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Yes. and they are very Chadey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:09 AM
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do you have other hobbies aside from being a Chadist?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 06:23 PM
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Did you have lots of sex early in dating/marriage? If you do your best to make yourself beautiful and full of vitality it can remind him why he married you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 04:38 PM
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Women were (maybe still are) more symbolic of sexuality than men. It's symbolism becoming intertwined with culture, projected on to actual traits of people. So when sexuality became more 'policed' by culture, it was women who became the 'sinful temptresses' because of male desire. A basic equivalent is a young man blaming a woman for his arousal simply for her presence. The story of Helen of Troy is to some a tale of how women inspire men to action, often great actions and (more modernly) to som…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 01:22 PM
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I have no idea why men's lack of concern over female achievement bothers some women. They deceived themselves. Not that men don't care about a woman's value outside sex. They do. It's just not status/finance based. So fuckin obvious this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 03:47 AM
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It really baffles me how women do no-strings then want a relationship with the guy. duh. It is so unfulfilling to have sex without attachment. Just scratching an itch, hardly worth the time. Nothing validating about it. I had this guy lose it on me for not texting him back in a few hours, when I was super busy...he kept whining about it. So I said goodbye. He emailed and emailed. I didn't respond. A year later he emailed. That was creepy. That's what I got for trying to make a lousy encounter fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 03:35 AM
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Why bother giving a strange man your number. I think you should get out of it by politely declining, saying you prefer not to give out your number at this point in time, than give him an anonymous email address and say you'd like to meet up soon. Don't make it too easy on him just because it's hard for men to go fishing online!!!
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 03:09 AM
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It irks me when captain is used so loosely as well! It's important to separate the men who just want to be a ''dom'' in the bedroom and/or domineering outside it, plus those men who don't want women to expect much (the hidden reason why guys say they're into 'equal partnerships') What character traits are most important to you in your quest for a captain? Abstract, but of top importance; he believes in masculine-feminine polarity. Being more concrete: Not just accepts, but highly appreciates, fe…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 03:03 AM
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That is a player move. It's like the dudes who say ''call me'' after a date. Mild red flag. I'm being generous.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 12:41 AM
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That's not a comic. It's a fuckin' saga.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 06:45 PM
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Good. That's not an easy thing to do. Sorry if I came across as blunt in my responses.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 04:06 AM
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Yeah. "Don't want to be a plate'' + has man over for dinner on date #2 = FAIL Dinner involves plates.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 05:18 PM
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You're not supposed to cook for guys so soon. That counts as pursuing. No house dates! may as well say ''netflix and chill''
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 05:13 PM
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Interesting insights, I like: In either case the missing element is reciprocity. Neither gets seen or validated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:40 PM
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It's obvious that you agree with me but are uncomfortable with it!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 09:30 PM
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feeling jealous is kinda sexy, and similar to the feeling of being dominated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 09:16 PM
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fuck Im laughing so hard at this one. rough laughs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/17 08:26 PM
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I would want to know and want it to involve me or know about it/who it is and give my 'ok' on it. Or not at all. I was reading through some 'cheaters caught' posts online, out of schadenfreude...a lot of people were saying it's wrong to get angry at the affair partner more than the SO. But I think the affair partner usually knows they're with someone who's taken. I'd fight another woman over it, for sure. I'm not so jealous about sex but some slut having a secret with someone close to me who I'v…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 03:55 AM
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I'm not a fan of the alpha/beta category. I understand the need to name things but overall I think it's so simple it's shallow...and a bit offensive.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 03:47 AM
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Shit, I'm skeptical of human nature, but if you want to live and love with another human it requires trust. If I can't trust him to lead, I can't trust to sleep next to him at night either. How else is a 90 year old woman supposed to defend herself against a 25 year old man? For a skeptical person you're certainly naive. Her age don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 03:45 AM
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I'm not saying women should be subservient and without opinion. I sure ain't. It's just a relational negotiation. Few people want or can manage a complete power exchange (as far as I know that's just a thing in the BDSM world).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 03:28 AM
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I vote Drita. https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/84/81/62/8481628d4f31dfaa4c73a6516d5a5e3b.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 03:19 AM
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You basically described a traditional dynamic; that men feel more actualized expressing their will on the outer world and women gravitate more to the home and family (ie. complimentary roles). It's more a function of society that the person who handles the external life stuff is considered the 'dominant' partner. There are women who are the boss/veto power on every factor even if they are a SAHW. The reason it's seen as better for women to relinquish control is that managing domestic and externa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 01:03 PM
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It's more about potential for successful violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 12:51 AM
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I dont know what a kratocracy is. Why do you think psychopaths would thrive more in over-civilized times than any other? doesnt seem to me there'd be a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 12:44 AM
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This is a good one too. I would change the beginning and remove feminist to make it more general-phlosophical meaning of a poem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 11:25 PM
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anything in excess can make someone lose their mind.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 11:13 PM
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I like that one, poetry bot. Here's a related meme: http://static1.businessinsider.com/image/51a52696ecad046d0400000c-960/american-express-audible-facebook-rape.png
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 10:33 PM
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Yeah, it's likely if my current personality had many times the testosterone such person would be very aggressive and self-interested. Just being honest about the dark side.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 10:08 PM
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I'd be an ugly male so long as I'm at least 5'10 and built stronger than average. I would not take ''no'' as answer when ''no'' one is looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 10:04 PM
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What about rape? Past alpha-warlords were rapey and had many kids through rape. Are warlords of ISIS more alpha than a Western 1% CEO?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 06:18 PM
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Does it matter if they have children? Ghengis Khan had a lot I've heard. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Descent_from_Genghis_Khan#DNA_evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 06:07 PM
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Access to women for sex is access to women for sex. Not having children doesn't have anything to do with it. The basic opportunity is there. Nowadays it operates more from female selection rather than necessity of women's (and her children's) survival and war spoils. This cant compare it the past ''alpha male''. That's like asking who is the modern Ghengis Khan. Putting up skyscrapers in his name, dropping bombs on the Balkans or Mid East isn't the same as conquering tribes and territory through…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 04:39 PM
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have you found a female trainer? or a super obviously gay one yet? (ie. not bisexual lol) That would be the RPW way to go.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 04:23 PM
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It's a rare person who is content with having lots of sex as a 'hobby' or in the absence of love. The latter is more difficult and it is scary and risky. Pursuing sex has an opportunity cost too, and that is the cost people balance/rationalize more than others in everyday life, often subconsciously. Does anyone ever regret time spent on a good book of their choice? They can be more life-changing than sexual experiences.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:25 PM
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Literally A PICTURE OF A HOT GIRL made those dudes just assume she was a bitch and would rudely reject them. Both men and women are more likely to attribute negative traits on beautiful women; instead of shy she's snobby, instead of reserved she's 'cold'. Insecure people 'opt out' psychologically to jusifty their fear of competition and comparison.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:15 PM
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Nice to hear! There's a lot of silly prejudice against older women with younger men (by more than five years anyway) where people think it's less likely to work as a lasting relationship. My bf is four years younger, not significant age difference, but I like it. I like it a lot. :D
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 02:30 AM
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Yeah you gotta get your mind off that man then. Let him come to you, or not at all ;)
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 01:31 AM
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Look through the old posts in this sub, there's lots of discussion on that. The crux of it is you have to really internalize you are no worse and no better than anyone else. I suggest counselling if you can. I did that for years and it helped a lot. Likely your trainer noticed you have self-esteem issues. Opening up to him and telling him that his training/feedback has helped you with that would probably become a very fulfilling interaction in itself for both of you. That's part of why he chose …
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 12:30 AM
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You need to take it slow and become less invested in him before you think of dating him. Get the fantasy future out of your head. date other men. He's interested but it takes time to know whether just for sex or what. Just keep working on your self-esteem so you can date without feeling insecure. Take your time with this fella.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 12:07 AM
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he will know that you are interested if you keep talking to him when you have no reason and look excited to see him. he has a social job he can read people. Just don't have sex with him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 11:44 PM
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If I'm not my boyfriend's type, he has me exceptionally well-fooled. Take what you want from that comment.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 11:17 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 09:30 PM
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When you care about someone and get to know what is important to them, what their talents and aspirations are, it is not manipulative. Manipulative is exploiting someone's characteristics at their expense for personal gain. If you are in a relationship -- a good one -- you should both end up more fulfilled in a year together than when you met. There's just a surplus of selfish fuckers out there from either gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 09:17 PM
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Maybe you're not used to that type of male attention? you said you have a low self-esteem....honestly, a lot of women wouldn't think too much about his charm.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 08:56 PM
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Get a new trainer. Then obtusely tell him it's because he's smokin' hot and get him to take you out on a date.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 08:54 PM
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Yeah it's a weird two-way street. RPW is basically about treating men like men. When men have space to self-actualize most of them do. Men are as weak as women let them be; whether it's mothers who coddle them and take away their fathers/male role-models, SJW's who tell men that masculinity is 'toxic' and rapey, or wives that beat up their husbands self-esteem with doubt and control-freakery. Men have an intense vulnerability to the approval of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 06:46 PM
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That's one of the tragic things about SJW feminism, more and more young women distance themselves from feminism in general and forget the history. My grandmothers sure liked to see that their daughters and I were living in a world with more freedom than they had. They told me. There's no such thing as ''good ol' days'' for anybody, men or women.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 03:57 PM
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The prevailing view on that sub appears to me that women who sleep around are rightfully slut shamed. No. It's just not advised to most young women who go for advice there. Young people don't always make the best decisions and there is a lack of role-modeling these days, sadly.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 06:39 AM
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Yes SJW feminists try to desexualize men and unpolarize sexuality and relationships yet obey those laws of attraction often.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 01:17 AM
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I heard/read a TRP man say a good test of a woman's character is how she treats men who aren't attractive and/or high status. It's true. If she snubs a fat nerd as someone not even talking to she doesn't look for value in people that isn't superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 01:12 AM
1

That's incredibly cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 01:03 AM
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Physical/Personal strength, muscles, and cool hobbies = sexiest thing True as fuck that if a woman is looking at earning potential/career she is thinking about security first, so who knows what priority she ranks sex. But she will know men want it for sure. Women want fun, romance, sometimes companionship with sex. Agreed that men should be who they want and not sacrifice that in the rat race, especially not for misguided ambitions of what women require. Doesn't mean he won't get a good paying j…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 12:51 AM
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I will consider threatening to charge him with rape if he doesn't rape me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 07:22 PM
3

Bingo, black jack, full house.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/17 07:04 PM
1

Thanks for noticing! I really enjoy Nolan's Batman Trilogy, villains, and the colour pink.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:50 PM
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I share your weakness. It's actually a strength because men with ''nerdy'' qualities are the best partners. The only really dateable types if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:45 PM
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I'm with the ''for their age'' crowd. Theoretically I'd go for it if I was in my 40's or 50's and single. The first man is younger looking and exceptional masculine features. He needs different glasses, those ones detract from his chiseled face. I would date him probably. But I'm too horny for old bones in an ltr. I can't tell if he still has exceptional boners for his age, without medication. I suspect many women who much prefer older men have lower sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:43 PM
1

Those scientific developments you referenced are really interesting. I guess some people anticipated the demand for women having their first child later in life and acted accordingly. Another misconconception is that women only started having babies later in life recently. Women always had kids later. Average age for last pregnancy was 42 in the 1920's. Plus everyone concerned with truth should know that humanity lacked statistical practices and modern record-keeping technology for what is compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:30 PM
1

''men are visual creatures'' is repeated often, as if women are not. It's like a redundant reminder to women. so redundant it's become cliche
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:00 AM
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He beta-paid them beforehand for the vid. I can't be the only one who doesn't believe everything they hear, see, watch. Some days it feels like it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 04:04 PM
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One of those partners likely took on a masculine parenting role. I'm more like an uncle with my nieces than and aunt, honestly. Still all woman!
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 03:32 PM
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I think women who aren't choosing to be single later in life, had other issues with commitment, relationship, whatever leading to that. The ''I have all the time in the world'' is a rationalization for personal issues. Everybody knows they lose their youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:35 PM
0

I realize it's about how people act. the topic nears meaninglessness as so what is the solution --get married? marriage doesn't stop aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:18 PM
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Yeah, that's a fair assessment. Women who are average looking in body/face are attractive in their 20's for their youth mostly. It's the above average (objectively beautiful/fit) women who retain options with age. If a plain woman ages and puts on weight, far, far, far less men will see her as a sexual being, tho there is never a shortage of single males of the same value and women have the pick of that. Regardless, I think if people choose a life partner on primarily shallow criteria, they shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:42 PM
1

The underlying cultural assumption is that most men are always willing, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:09 PM
1

Did he tell you about meeting his ex? How did you react?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 01:03 PM
5

Yes. Nicely said. Heart-warming, too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 11:44 PM
1

It's more masculine to pay. Seeing as more males than females are willing to pay for sex...even if it's involved simply in the process of getting sex one day, it's the manly thing to do (statistically speaking).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 11:41 PM
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''Laura explains how Karla can use her feminine gifts, and why a wife with Intimacy Skills trumps a mistress every day of the week and twice on Sundays.'' Oooh, now that's juicy knowledge. Can't wait to watch it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 10:59 PM
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The best part is the ''misogynistic'' part. Stop running from conflict and hardship. You are not a fucking woman, whose sole purpose in life is to birth babies and be comfortable. You are a man. Your potential is infinitely greater than that of a woman. It's funny because it's true in a general way. And it's extra funny for women who aren't as risk-averse who have observed how most women are so to an extent that is, in fact, deserving of ridicule. Tho it makes sense for pregnant women and mother…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 09:32 PM
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I think that's why men need to be more understanding of it. Men don't like crying women, not because men are cold to it, quite the opposite. Most feel like doing something to help and then wrongfully feel it's a manipulation attempt. But yes it's not appropriate to cry at just anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:47 AM
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You are not listening to the signs in yourself that say ''I'm not into this man.'' Wish I had been able to myself in the past. You should be really wanting him to kiss you by the third date or so. That's a good way to tell if you like him. I found dating exciting when I was in my early 20's. Then not so much. Men decided I'd do because I was a woman and attractive enough by their standards. That's what I was beginning to think was out there to settle for. But then I met my hero. I knew fairly ea…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 03:24 AM
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We often have to cry. It's not an act. We do it alone a lot more. It feels good, it's not a negative thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:49 AM
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WTF. What did they say? This is a common thing men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:29 AM
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I'd be less creeped out if he kept a drawer of dirty panties that may or may not be from women he's legally gotten them from. Sentimental shit really gets to me. I'm not sentimental about past lovers. No pictures, souveneirs, nothing. Unless it's among my stuff by accident. The future can have just one love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:24 AM
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It would bug the shit outta me. I wouldn't break up tho. The conditions would be he watched me burn all the ''mementos'' with a demented smile on my face. I'd be really happy about that scenario after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:20 AM
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I have those scars too. Nothing to be ashamed of. I think normal guys are boring. I think men who are unique appreciate the nuances of personal psychology more and know their own flaws (unusual people often have higher intelligence). It's important to feel accepted, and when we do it we want it in return. Your friends don't sound wise, just materialistic. I don't know you, but I'm sure the conventional type of guy wouldn't hold your interest.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 10:50 PM
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Don't talk to them about your relationship. They aren't supportive, they are undermining...jealous, perhaps. Some women, I swear. Why would you think they know better than you what's good for you? It's not like he's an addict or doing harmful things, right. You trust him completely then go ahead and move with him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 08:19 PM
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fuck that is funny and some classic: ''fuck anything with a pulse I'm thirsty as a cock in a desert''
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:04 PM
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Fuck this just reinforces how lucky I am. Feels good. I got a never married one with mad skills. There are lots of stupid women out there waiting for some Don Draper-like motherfucker to knock at their door I think...eww. But thanks, ladies, keep doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:52 PM
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You can carve a fuckable vagina, but you can't build a working penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:47 PM
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If two people willingly fuck without a condom, there's no coercion. Both know and are responsible for the risks. There are risks that the pill won't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:45 PM
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What if you like the guy rather than just observing a strange guy, how does that affect things? That would piss me off, actually. But I'd figure he's definitely the sexual variety type of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:41 PM
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Yeah, I'd have to beat the crap out of her clearly. Can't have people violating the good-looks hierarchy!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:39 PM
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I'd go hermit for the most part and find a good man. That's basically what happened to me. Oh and ''pulling out'', maybe anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:32 PM
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I heard that stress can alter ovulation. Well, no method is for everyone. I wouldn't want companies to stop developing the pill. I think there should be more talk about fertility awareness from doctors tho. Guess it's a liability thing, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:30 PM
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That's awesome, not often I come across someone who thinks the same way. Four kids, four abortions, both are four pregnancies and usually accidents. Just a matter of choice. Abortions don't wear out the vaginal muscles or otherwise drastically change a woman mentally/physically or destroy the environment, create more morons etc. They should be free everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:28 PM
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I think the male temporary birth control that's being developed is said to have few side-effects, but that's usually the line. It's a man's choice if he wants to take it. It's my choice if I want to take the pill. Simple as that. I'd prefer he do that over getting snipped. There's some instances where getting snipped has sexual side-effects. For something like that, even a slight risk is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:19 PM
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I had a horrible experience with it. Bleeding lots all the time. WTF. and the doctor said it would go away in a few months, after a year the doctor kept telling me it would ''go away'' Fuck hormonal BC
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:14 PM
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The side-effects are downplayed. It's really pushed on women. Fertility Awareness when used right is just as effective as the pill and etc. Women can only get pregnant around ovulation. Makes no sense to take a pill when we know enough about hormones, ovulation symptoms. Birth control advocates to women: ''you are too irresponsible to monitor your own body'' I think a lot of it also has to do with abortion controversy. It should be avoided but abortion has less risks than pregnancy, it's just mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:11 PM
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I dont think a monetary analysis has anything to do with it. Just because a man pays a woman for sex doesn't mean he values women. Maybe youre just making shit up as you go...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:03 PM
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I hate the cliche of ''men are visual creatures'' but women ''not so much''. Donkey shit! We're all visual. Except for fucking blind people. Muscles look fantastic and looking at them is arousing for women. Arms > abs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 06:07 AM
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I selected RPW
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 06:03 AM
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I'll try. I like that it's a place to talk about sex relations, society, love, whatever except everyone around hates political correctness with a passion. Can't find that offline. Not wise to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 05:54 AM
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This is golden... If there's a pattern in all my advice, you'll notice a lot of quotes. A lot of canned monologues to throw at your wife. Compare that to a more archetypical marriage you'll see from an MRP noob, which may sound something like, "my wife mostly just lets me do whatever the fuck I want, she just won't let me fuck her." That guy doesn't need canned monologues, he doesn't have a boundary problem. In fact, his wife's lack of attraction is very likely because she sees how, in return fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:18 AM
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A good man (who's also compatible) really is hard to find. Men can be incredibly self-sacrificing for a woman. Men are satisfiers. They are loyal. They enjoy feeling needed by a woman they care for. I think red pill is sometimes too black and white about females, but it's right on about a lot of women not appreciating those attributes in men. Also I suspect it's true how so many women won't love a man the way he thinks she will, women being totally blind to what a man does/sacrifices for her. Of…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 07:19 PM
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are you considering becoming a gigolo or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 06:43 PM
1

Maybe Snidely Whiplash was really Dudley Doright in disguise, who ties the girl to the train tracks to engineer a scenario to save her. DreadTrain rollin' Moustache twirlin' baller, who is as well a true Gentleman-Hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 06:40 PM
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Yeah, that's why sleeping around in itself doesn't make someone happy. Cuz to have a high number most men have to ''cheat'' in some of those ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 06:37 PM
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Some people just don't get how important sex is to men. Women who understand so are happier in relationships and more thoughtful. Men who don't understand have low testosterone or are lying to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 06:36 PM
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I think some extra weight on either gender still classifies as fit. Being ''athletic'' looking is above average. Nice shoulders and biceps, manly hands. That's fit. Fit for my liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 06:27 PM
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You have to tell her off. She's more afraid of 'losing' you than you may be of losing her financial and other support.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 03:36 PM
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Excellent username!
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/17 03:24 PM
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Women's rape fantasies wouldn't seem so weird if men were ''allowed'' to admit to rape fantasies without being charged with a criminal offense or otherwise socially banished.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 04:44 PM
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There's no way to prove a rise (or fall) in any type of fantasy. Unless it involves dressing up as furries. But there were pagan cultures which had holidays where men wore wolf-skins and chased the girls around so...is that a precursor to furrie fetish or enacting the beastial aspect of human nature? (which is rapey)
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 04:37 PM
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'Conflicted man', ambivalence and confusion can make people unhappy. If you tackle what is causing that, you can move forward into feeling content most of the time. as TheGreasy said: Do you know where you want to get to ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 03:57 PM
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I might, what part dont you get?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 04:31 AM
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Because ivory tower/SJW feminism is just another moral system. And one of the most compelling moral debates is the sexuality of the indespensible gender. There's something generally egalitarian about rape; it's the historic spoil of war, and most men can over-power a woman. So in ways rape fantasy is an antithesis of feminine hyper pre-selection. Before anyone says ''but a woman's forced-sex fantasies only involve high value men''...remember it is an evolutionary throwback, a true primitive urge…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 12:40 AM
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Yes, essentially these issues are just another variant of ''the personal is political'' bullshit. It's become entrenched in cultural philosophy to a tragic level. It's replacing things like religious guilt. Some people might wonder if they are going to hell for having dirty thoughts, some wonder if they're a ''real feminist'' or a closet sex offender instead. I don't like religious moralising, but I think it's a lot more healthy to confess to a priest than to politicize sex fantasies in the publ…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 12:16 AM
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"internalized misogyny" is a bizarre and unintentional sexual innuendo. For feminist-misandrists, a cock IS the symbol of misogyny. In that line of thinking, any psycho-sexual play women might enjoy, becomes symbolic of degradation and subjugation. The reality is, for any gender, sexuality has a 'dark' side and is always intertwined with aggression. Sex fantasy often has little to do with how people live outside of the bedroom or after they orgasm. Attributing porn habits as evidence of reality …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 07:42 PM
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People are telling you to leave him but they are insane, and either want him or want to be him. Because... The important point is: Your man drives a helicopter for a living and has a need for speed. He manly as fuck. Seriously, is his cock ever soft, even for a second? Doubtful. KEEP HIM. Everyone is a challenge to have a relationship with in some way.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/17 03:40 PM
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Yes, he sounds like he needs to do some psychological work on himself. cant imagine he'd take the suggestion easily, he must be full of androgens and adrenaline between flying a copter and imagining he's Valentino Rossi.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 03:25 PM
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Good to read a guy take the piss at the douchebro Roosh
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 02:31 PM
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Would you know what to do with or have anything to offer her if you found her? Or do you just want to reap whatever you perceive as the benefits?
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 12:51 PM
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Yeah, talk about leaving your options open.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 07:54 PM
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Oh girl, you got to drive his ex out. Grandma is happy to have her grandkid around often, and his ex is milking that. You respected boundaries well to start, but now you gotta employ a better social strategy. Unless he's not worth the effort.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 12:59 AM
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Yes. Nothing unusual with that. We're all a bit Freudian. But if being with an older partner in itself makes someone feel secure, it's definitely subconscious freudian that they are justifying. Which going by just one impulse like that may land someone in a situation they hate as that aspect grows out of their personality.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 12:15 AM
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Would you want your kids to be like this man?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 12:13 AM
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No opinion on your choice, but I'll give my tangential one on age differences. I think there's a prejudice towards young men not being 'real' men or adults yet. Just because they're young doesn't mean they haven't had trials and experiences or that they won't rise to challenges. It's easy to mistake enthusiasm and a sense of adventure for 'immaturity' or risk. It's easy to mistake cynicism and conventionality for 'adulthood' or security. There's benefit into just fitting into an older person's l…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 12:04 AM
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It's sad. I think those men have the same problems as anyone else; personal growth is hard. All types of men find a girlfriend or wife. Those who don't failed to cultivate personal strength and accomplishhments. getting caught in ''poor me'' and ''blame women''
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 08:28 PM
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Outliers can seem threatening to some people. Not everyone plays by the same rules -- maybe that's why my life isn't fair...
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 08:03 PM
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Definitely. Many people don't want thinking tools and knowledge; they want validation or rationalizations for their feelings, experiences and decisions.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 07:57 PM
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You aren't self-interested enough.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 07:47 PM
2

Whats the problem? Specifically. As in examples. perhaps this thread is concern trolling.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/17 11:06 PM
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It's better to regret not having them. Since children are individuals. A child born to an incertain mother is at a disadvantage. Any type of neglect can really affect them badly. I think people romanticize children a bit too much, like magic hormones during pregnancy turn every woman into a happy, attached mother. There's nothing modern about choosing to not have kids. Aside from we don't have to join a convent or something to not do it. I like your comments in this thread. As usual.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 01:02 PM
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She's right, it's a good thing. You still have your whole 20's ahead of you which is rare for people who get sucked into negative circumstances, actually. I really believe you'll be surprised how quick you recover. Sounds like you naturally have self-actualization as a priority and now you know personally what happens to people when they don't cultivate discipline and confront their mental problems. You've got ''immunized'' ;)
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 03:06 PM
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Have you asked yourself why you were attracted to someone with those strong addictive and self-medicating tendencies? Has a therapist or anyone mentioned codependency to you?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 02:58 PM
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It's only baggage if you let it effect your relationship and life negatively. If it causes positive change and strength of character, it is not baggage, it's life experience.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 04:06 AM
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It just sounds like a good way to learn to really listen to someone and express opinions respectfully. There's really not that much to it. People naturally tend to care more about different things, so he makes some decisions, she makes some decisions. You are already imagining disagreements. Imagine a man whose opinion you share and trust instead. Way better. State of mind is a powerful tool
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 12:24 AM
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There's no point in keeping score when there's no end to the game. It's not about fair. It's about bonding. Plus, I asked what you'd prefer, not what you think is fair/moral/equal, etc. which is it?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 12:10 AM
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Yes. It's the same with me. The less stress we feel, the more love we can give. Let the ones with testosterone do that stuff, any woman should realize they find it fulfilling. It's sad to see women who don't ''get it''.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 12:06 AM
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It's about enjoying being a woman in a relationship. You just let go and you can better see if you got a good man...a masculine one. Granted, if you like more neutered roles, then go for a guy who isn't traditionally masculine. Practical question: Would you like to be the one who does most of the driving everywhere or chill in the passenger seat mostly?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 11:55 PM
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You worry too much. A man is good for stopping that. Why are you viewing relationship dynamics in terms of control?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 11:32 PM
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5) is especially wise.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 10:14 PM
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Yes, more like 'increase your value' and 'become more appreciated' is what 'dread' is but the men like to use masculine exaggerations lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 09:13 PM
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You ARE the guy who ''gets it'' :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 09:05 PM
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I used to. It was ok. I focused on my self; as the man was a douche... so if you love this one...trust him when he says you're doing enough.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 08:42 PM
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The captive audience opportunists are the worst. Especially if there way of holding frame is to not STFU --Ever. Did you ever waitress? I learned a lot from that. Dudes have an excuse to talk to women in that context, often seeking dining out just for that, and it's relentless lol
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 08:40 PM
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Apparently any man a woman selects for sex is a Chad. We only sleep with Chads. Thank you, male TRP, for clarifying my past.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 05:58 PM
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Only Chad takes her easy. All others take her hardly. I'm on a roll today. Testosterone spike this week. BF will be extra happy ahahaha
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 05:36 PM
2

Some men just jizz out red pills from blue balls.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 05:28 PM
3

My heart is racing alpha beats.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 04:24 PM
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You're a true Mistress in the Classical sense. Runnin' a household ain't easy. Organization is a talent. I lack it, and find these posts very helpful. It starts with focus on the simple things.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 03:50 PM
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I should write a whole post on that. but I also want to satirize that vice article. Good thing it's a cold day out. Excuse! Pyjamajammin' typing frenzy wooooo.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 03:42 PM
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Yeah. Ok. Alright. Our red is more pink. We're women we see more shades of colour.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 03:15 PM
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he is possessed by a redpill demon, vomitting 360 degrees like the girl in the exorcist.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 03:10 PM
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We decide, not you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 03:09 PM
1

Well you just did. MGTOW is pretty good entertainment overall.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:36 PM
1

The problem is that when the threat is executed the symbolic construct of authority is eventually destroyed. Cut the balls of those in power and hold your own. Don't hold Chadenghis's balls to keep them undusted as he ''rapes'' (wink wink) your Vagina Person. https://youtu.be/80X0pbCV_t4 Ambiguously rapey sex is hard-soft power. Ruin her make-up, wet her pussy, mess her hair, wrinkle her outfit; after hours spent getting ready she'll not want to do it again. In any situation it says ''woman, you…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:29 PM
2

Chadula sounds about right.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 02:14 PM
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You know what you want in certain terms, he's a lucky man for that. I think men need clear desires from women to know what he can fulfill, know his role. Reward and praise is better than outright saying most things. Then it's his idea, no resentment, he can lead. Some thoughts on your specifics: You can give him more blow jobs to inspire him to feel sexually dominant. I can't assume what you do now, but if you give them freely, 'randomly', without expecting anything back, that has a great effect…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 01:31 PM
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That's interesting, I want to read through it....except the spanking stuff, my gawd, can't stop laughing... ''Why a spanked wife is a happy wife'' lol! Well everyone has their kinks of sorts is all.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 12:25 PM
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What about sexiness? Do you portray some element of fun seductress in your presence? Doesn't have to be overt. Masculine (testosterone functioning) men will be drawn to that. They will consider it a need. The female equivalent of a ''beta'' male is portraying that same type of sterility. I don't think alpha/beta makes much context out of sex. ''Alpha female'' isn't women who are ambitious, it is the most sexually alluring (mysterious way) who have some healthy feelings of competition with other …
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 11:52 AM
3

Because there's more of them.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 11:36 AM
3

Can you describe how that would look in a situation? real thing that you witnessed or imagined. I'd like to offer you suggestions and am as well interested in how other women view/perceive such traits in men. might vary more than I assume.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 09:19 PM
3

Simple summaries and simple generalizations towards people do not make great relational tools. Helps for comprehension. We aren't here for just the basics tho :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 08:50 PM
6

What do you want from it?
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 08:46 PM
6

My concern about this was, how do you in a modern age get a girl to see why n=0 is a solution to her It's more realistic and pragmatic to teach her to select reliable, trustworthy masculine men and how to avoid the destructive types and 'losers'. And to teach her how to treat a man the way he likes to be treated. Then she will have good monogamous relationships, which will last longer, even if not a marry-a-virgin fairy tale. A woman's father has a great influence. Just being there for her and c…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 08:06 PM
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You have to take the mental health of your kids and who they associate with seriously. Test them for signs of good/bad mental health and self-knowledge. Doesn't matter how you raise a kid if you don't do that they will have to go it the hard way (which is good for personal strength, but it will take it's toll through their 20's) Depression and worse is very common. Also if someone is disagreeable they are less conditionable and are not easy to influence. So there are cases where it's wasted effo…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 08:00 PM
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The team is true. Genuinely caring about each other, both psychologically/physically/goal-wise...with mutual self-interest...it's golden. The woman you described doesn't seem to care about the man too much.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 05:59 PM
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There shouldn't have to be the game of not 'looking desperate' with someone you'd ltr/marry. Damn. I think a lot of people lack self-awareness. How hard is it to encourage each other's standards and expectations? Like relationships are just magic. 5'8 isn't even short. Wonder if he is genuinely crazy about her for who SHE is tho, and not just having a relationship with a woman. Does he 'see' her? That's common for men not to, and mistake things for love which are not love.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 05:44 PM
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Exactly; Machiavellian traits aren't inherently bad, they're essential life skills at times. Selflessness isn't inherently good, it's self-sacrifice which also can be overdone. Ultimate self-sacrifice is death.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 05:08 PM
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LMAO Chad is eternal. Apparently they make that dude in a factory and every man on reddit knows ten or more of 'em.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 03:37 PM
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These are people who avoid conflict, who take nothing personally Not taking anything personally, keeping frame of mind is meaningless if someone constantly avoids conflict. I suspect many people lie to themselves of this often. Just another form of untested strength. Way too many underwhelming fuckers walking around.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 03:31 PM
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The best combination is if he has some of those traits for his dealings with work and life and they are not directed at you. Sales is a good example. Picture someone trying to get the best deal. That is goal-oriented social interaction, so some Machiavellianism is required. It is fine to even aim to get the best price at the expense of the other person, and to be as uncompromising as you can get away with. Whether someone is aggressive or assertive and friendly while they do this is a function o…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 03:03 PM
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Someone who cares for you will have mutual self-interest in mind. Someone behaving machiavellian-psychopathic will only have their self-interest in mind. But you want practical ways to tell. That starts with knowing what you want, what is your self-interest and how you like to be treated. If you don't know that, you better learn now. How he makes you feel is important. He won't confuse you or make you feel bad. It's easy to think that some degree of conflict is normal and get caught in it. The t…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 02:53 PM
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I enjoyed this. It has realistic character. The Story of Carol is more like a revenge fantasy lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 02:07 PM
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It's very charming how you validate my advice within your comment. Yes, stick to it. There's a lot of pain and distraction in the world.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 04:20 PM
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I can be quite abrasive, and I'm also loud. I have a loud laugh and weird humor as well. Should any of this be curbed in your opinion? The contrast of femininity with some quirky humour and abrasiveness can make for an alluring character. You have to do what makes you have self-esteem, because the reason aggressive traits isn't attractive in women is when it comes solely from insecurity/resentment. Sewing is a great skill that's becoming less common. It is also a hobby that will give you a sense…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 04:02 PM
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Any perceptive white woman notices there is no wall because there's always Indian and Asian guys. They dance with their arms above their heads waving "here, take my money."
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 10:56 PM
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Do you love him?
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 10:45 PM
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Nope. You're not nearly as perceptive and insightful as you think you are, sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 09:38 PM
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I decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 08:13 PM
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Hell yeah. Some casual friendships within context for groups/hobbies is fine. But any girl getting closer, if I sense covert intentions, is going to fear my snark. It would be a snark attack so bad she'd flee far away.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 07:19 PM
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If you are woman, you don't need ''plates'', unless you are looking to have fun and/or material things paid for. If you are keeping men around for sex you are just an idiot wasting energy. Not that any uninvested cock is worth pining for, but most men you can go without contact for a year and call them up randomly for sex/company with no problem. No chasing men = Girl Game fucking basic. Only men who are highly interested in you exist as potential partners. ''She's a woman, she'll do'' is a basi…
/r/askTRP21/04/17 03:53 AM
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Can't have a scorched-earth policy partnership with a man she can't beat in an arm-wrestle. She probably has him do weekly weigh-ins to make sure he stays in her weight class.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 03:25 AM
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Insults do often show what people most value. It is a good 'any good publicity' stunt and her vegetarian philosophy sounds like a clever crypto-slander satire of feminism too! It's all richer than Sheryl Sandberg.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 02:12 AM
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Camille Paglia. Philosophically, anyways. She's gay IIRC
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 01:02 AM
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Wouldnt be surprised if the author made Lauren up. Hence lack of quotes.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 09:38 PM
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Nope, what matters most is the man and your compatibility. The man's personality and sense of responsibility is dependent on his character; not his age, wealth, etc. You can always tell a man by his actions. People used to marry in their early 20's more often, both men and women. The level of maturity of the woman also means a lot. If she expects the man to just make the relationship work than it won't. You have to inspire a man to commit and support him to achieve things if you want both. You c…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 07:05 PM
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It's a life skill. They just adopted it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 06:22 PM
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That defines the mentality here very well. This is a great group of women online, who are sincere and really do look out for other women's best interests in the topics we discuss and advice given. It has made me feel more accepting of being a woman in tandem with my less feminine interests/personality. I never had that in life, it was so confusing. I was skeptical when I came here as I was biased that it would be women sneering down at other women who made 'modern' choices to feel superior (but …
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 05:40 PM
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It'll take me a bit, but I'll shoot for the next three days. It won't be point-by-point (as that would be getting into their frame)
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 11:55 PM
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cut and past 500 words ? why not?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:52 PM
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You can't just type what comes to your mind? We're all anonymous here.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:42 PM
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from where, who and how? I just can't believe what you're saying. The only pressure to have sex that I feel is from within myself.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:29 PM
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Ask yourself why you are perceiving that there is a pressure to have sex!
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:23 PM
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Because people care too much about women and sex. Sort ourselves out. If you want someone, know yourself, what you want, and what you have to offer them. Forget about sex for awhile is required.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:22 PM
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Yes! It's feminine to talk a lot about whatever is on the mind and relate to people. I know I enjoy that quality in other women very much. 'stfu' is only about nagging or taking too much control. It's more like MYOB or 'let him handle it' that is effective. That being said, feel free to share more about your experiences or needs in that regard if it suits you. I'd benefit from it a lot, personally. and I really enjoy the Charisma on Command vids too, it's very creative how he uses examples from …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 09:09 PM
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Chad will be so upset when he finds out he didn't get mentioned at all. Chad lost out to LMR. That's a first. Chad always beats LMR.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 07:53 PM
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Least you got paid to read it. Snarky me did enjoy sticking my thumb to my nose at reading it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 07:51 PM
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Terribly misconstrued and biased as expected. Just some author virtue signalling how much she cares and knows about women's rights and responsibilities at heart.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 07:43 PM
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If you learn how to listen it will work. Learning what you're lacking and need to add is the way to go about change, not looking to suppress and restrict yourself (thats just the best way to find the wrong man!) I'm as always, speaking from experience. I'm an anxious and impulsive talker too. I have to count to ten and take big breaths not to interrupt (my thoughts race). But I haven't found any complaints so long as I am interested in him genuinely. It hurts to recognize that I'm a chronic inte…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 06:51 PM
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Find a man that likes women who talk a lot. Self-Esteem is right, you might actually be very fun and pleasant to listen to! Go figure! :p
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 12:50 PM
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Not alone. I have held out on cooking for men. Cooked more for this one in a week than I did for my ex in years. That means much more to me. Would it have been better if my cooking skills were none and that I was so self-conscious of it as to save some awkward fumbling through food deeds for three months into the relationship? :D He's sure happy. Funny that (sometimes irrational) fear of over-investing applies to more areas than sex, even more strongly. I found that my experience has me better a…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 04:34 AM
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I'm not sure if it's normal. I suspect it's like every mental pathology, mild parts of it can occur in all people. But damn, I know falling in love is majorly effin up my head. Reading your posts, sounds like you and I have lots in common psychologically.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 04:21 AM
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A few experiences here to illustrate my opinion... There's a time waiting worked out terrible for me, as it was because it was not so much deliberate, but with a man doing the snake-in-the-grass ''be friends'' first thing. I was never really attracted to him and capitulated out of familiarity and some sub-par built-up attraction. We weren't sexually compatible. I didn't respect that he never was overt with his intentions. It annoys me thinking about it. On the third date with the man I'm with, I…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 12:38 AM
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Mansplaining is not just a feminist snipe. It does exist. Let that stuff slide and you'll get men here explaininforming how our moods change at different parts of our cycle. Because gina-tingles!
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 12:21 AM
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the 'gorgeous glutes' one sounds fabulous.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 09:33 PM
3

Yes. Happened to me. but may not be the same for everyone!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 04:33 AM
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go to asktrp if you want advice on texting females.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/17 03:20 AM
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If you don't have a bf, may as well get one. Then stop using it when you have a worthy bf. at least until/if you decide to use them together. If you don't have a man than satisfying the 'vacancy' is better lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 11:21 PM
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yeah, toys can ruin sensitivity, if it's vibrators right on the skittle. It's much better to feel the desire of wanting a cock inside you, but I recommend a dildo over friends with benefits anyday. If you're that horny get a dildo until you get the right man lol If you already enjoy masturbating and are sexual you are already a potentially fun lover for someone.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 10:31 PM
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BTC? bio clock? oh hell no, hard no. lol
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 06:03 PM
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TY and I will. Sounds like you dodged a bullet in human form ;)
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 05:44 PM
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He's giving you dickhead advice, I reported it to mods. Some men don't like that women do have a higher inherent value, in a general way. Women and children first and all...
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 04:53 PM
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How and when did you decide to enjoy that lifestyle? were you raised in rural communities?
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/17 04:50 PM
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That farm lifestyle sounds like a set-up where you'd always appreciate your man. I have a theory that tending animals, closeness to nature and permaculture can solve many character weaknesses. Strength-bulilding all around! What you think? Concrete jungle has caused me much mischief.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 02:49 PM
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Your life with cows sounds great. I intend on having at least 10 kids to love. Kids being baby goats.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 02:37 PM
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If you want three dont you want to be young and adaptable and have the energy? harder having them into your 30's
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 07:06 AM
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There's strength and weakness in loving someone. Overall I think the strength outweighs it too. I'm glad to read someone disagreeing with the cynical side. Personally, my bad choice in past relationship was due to my upbringing (over-critical mother) and other psychological problems. Definitely was no gina tingles there, just self-abuse. It's hard to get over the fear of getting hurt. I don't know how to let my man help with that, as being vulnerable in that regard is hindered by the very fear. …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 06:34 AM
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Better decline expensive dates, if you aren't cool with them early on before you're invested in him. I have confused men like that too. Learn to have a bit of a mean-spirit, you don't have to act mean, but you don't owe people shit. It's their choice to give too much too soon.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 05:43 AM
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Found this interesting (and morbidly funny) article which explains a lot: Do You Suffer From Philophobia? Philophobia is defined as the abnormal, persistent and unwarranted fear of falling in love. Every year, the phobia causes countless people needless distress and so many abstain from getting emotionally involved. A restless feeling of being betrayed in love pricks you and unrests your mind. You do not feel emotionally secured in life. This eventually affects the quality of life and pushes you…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 04:17 AM
1

I was recently reading an article by a homesteader about how a rooster fought bravely to the near-death. Always sneaky foxes in the hen house.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 04:10 AM
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Sex-Copter is surefire glory.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 04:07 AM
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Bisexual people exist. It's weird that she shared her drawer of sex toys tho. There's girls who fake being bisexual and only kiss other girls. I do think that some strict 'anti-feminist' chicks are trying to curry favour with men, yeah.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 03:49 AM
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is bisexual, makes out on regular with another girl how is that a point for slutty? women don't count. they have no penis.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 02:58 AM
1

Be a man and kill her with your bare hands. Your revenge fantasies are girlish.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 02:55 AM
1

It helps to write down my fears. You have my fave username. It's very fitting and humorous too.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 02:26 AM
1

What if I don't want to give my opinion? Is that rejecting? A phrase like ''I'm afraid I'd give terrible advice on this topic''
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/17 02:18 AM
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If you pick apart Penelope cruz's features she sounds ugly too. Strong jaw, strong/furrowed eyebrows, big stubby nose :p She ugly? http://s3.r29static.com//bin/entry/7a0/0,411,2000,1050/x,80/1631752/image.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/db/6a/d1/db6ad1c8f3dcc06928eaba48fff279e0.jpg
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 07:19 PM
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I also have a big nose and some strong features. The great thing is that men who like exotic looks totally go crazy for it. It's better than just being symmetrical basic pretty. Why be simply attractive when you can be adored?
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 07:05 PM
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Chubby doesn't mean ugly. Do you get your eyebrows done? we all have ugly eyebrows. I remember being a 20 year-old girl and being insecure because I had straight eyebrows and hooded lids, I thought it was ugly. But the truth was the exact opposite. It can cost a woman a lot if she doesn't realize her value and looks. A lot of men were mean to me or awkward/stand-offish around me. Terrorized me, even. I value that because I'm now a strong-minded person for those experiences. My frame is unshakeab…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 07:02 PM
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Men are more likely to get super awkward and quiet around really good-looking women, actually. Some even get angry towards beautiful women. It's actually more common than people expect. People expect the opposite, that good-looking women get more privilege, but it's just as, if not more, often they get more hate from both genders. Go to the gay bar and see how lesbians treat you if you want an accurate test.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 06:50 PM
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Why do you think you are ugly?
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 06:47 PM
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It is super confusing. I just ended up telling my man that I'm happier (and hornier) when I don't have to think much. Those cute feminine exaggerations work well. :D
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 06:35 PM
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I dig that line. I've gotten to the level of crusty where I might say something like 'sorry, I already sucked a lot of cock today' and take the chance that he's the type of guy repulsed by female vulgarity rather than encouraged by it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 06:30 PM
1

yes, or you get hit on by other married people looking for affairs. heavy sigh.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/17 06:25 PM
1

Wonderful questions. There's no reason to feel self-conscious about period sex. It's unlikley a man would care, but women have to lead with that and bring it up. Best time to bring it up is right during that time of the month. No need to use a tampon with sex (in fact, you shouldn't, it's uncomfortable and not good for you) Maybe during oral. You don't have to ask, just say 'I'm taking my tampon/cup out' and see. Nothing wrong with having a straight-up convo, but you only need to if he doesn't g…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 07:43 PM
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Those of us who know the true natural order of things just smirk evil grins when deluded guys try to sell us on 'the wall' concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:05 PM
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But this has nothing to do with the original post. :) This is a woman's sub, we can go wherever the thread takes us.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 07:02 PM
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Not on the radar, indeed. To find male friends, I use Gaydar only.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 06:53 PM
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So long to him. I heard it's raining men this time of year. https://youtu.be/ZvzLGlaCoRM
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 04:14 PM
2

LOL Talk about picking the hill we wanna die on! It's a very sexy hill.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/17 03:38 PM
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That's beautiful. More women would be happier in life and love if they were less materialistic. I can't speak for others, but on this I'm pretty certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:20 AM
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5'5''
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 11:39 PM
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Jon Snow. We either go off to live far from civilization in a cave together, or he sacrifices love for duty and I still love him too much to kill him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 11:38 PM
0

That leukemia joke made my online day.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/17 11:34 PM
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That sounds like a fulfilling sex life. I also want to use the natural method for birth control, I think it's underrated. Not being on hormonal birth control is possibly part of why you maintained a high sex drive. Do you agree with that?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 11:16 PM
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I like that 'I will prob try again in 30', it's got masculine charm. How long were you with your ex for that you had sex every day/multiple times? Did you live together?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 11:13 PM
1

Huffington Post blogger Brittany Gibbons shared her story of having sex every single day for an entire year on her blog, where she expressed a boost in confidence, excitement for life and overall happiness. At first, Gibbons’ commitment to sex each day changed her normal routine, and she felt like it could be adding another unnecessary stress in her life. But once she and her partner started hitting the sheets, everything started to change Read more: http://elitedaily.com/news/world/sex-every-da…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 11:04 PM
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Check out this amusing excerpt from Psych. Today 'The 4 Hidden Reasons Some Men Don't Want Sex': His inner world outvotes the caveman. A reticent, kind, male patient who struggled with low libido finally opened up about three aspects of his libido: One part was an awkward teenager who felt anxious about initiating. A second part was a 20-something, feminist male who thought sex was degrading for women. The third aspect—a caveman—was horny and hungry for sex. He said that the first two characters…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 10:49 PM
1

It's you who is butthurt from reading this truth about Taylor un-Swift.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 09:58 PM
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If they ask for your hobbies, make sure to give many intelligent ones and sports regardless if they're true or not. Not sure how it works but think the women read about the dudes like a catalogue for baby-daddies.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 09:20 PM
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Shit, got a better idea. Break into a sperm bank and replace the sperm with yours. Now there is a way to cuckold women. You heard it from me, first. If crimes could be patented...
/r/askTRP13/04/17 09:07 PM
1

Had no idea I'd end up with such strong opinions on this topic LOL
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 08:59 PM
1

“The truth is, it was the Fourth of July and a public holiday and we were playing a game and I slipped and hurt my back. And I wanted to protect the graze from the sun and said, ’Does anyone have a T-shirt?’ And one of her friends said, ’I’ve got this.’ ” The friend pulled out the "I ♥ T.S." tank top that Taylor’s friends are contractually obligated to own. “And we all laughed about it. It was a joke.” that's from an interview with Tom Hiddleston. Shame. See what Taylor Swift let go instead of q…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 08:57 PM
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She had Tom Hiddleston following her around everywhere like a little puppy. She's a betch who undignified a very handsome, alluring man who endless women dream of marrying. Taylor Swiftbetch. To hell with her. She has really pretty eyes tho.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 08:45 PM
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see if you qualify for a sperm donor clinic.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:42 PM
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ask (tell) her to stop texxting that ex and see how that goes; excellent test of her loyalty/character/respect for you.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:41 PM
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See if her character has loyalty and value, if you aren't so much bothered by her past that is your choice. Or good luck finding a woman who is sexually adventurous without you prodding for it AND simultaneously has little sex experience. If she's crazy about you she'll worship you in ways. The real risk to that relationship is how young you both are. Accepting someone and seeing what comes doesn't have to mean being naive. It's fucking life.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:40 PM
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If they have no money they can't pay. Especially if child support is split between a few kids and different mothers. Oops.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:32 PM
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Maybe she is bisexual. It sounds like a night of bango.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:16 PM
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No prob. I enjoy vicarious plotting more than my own I think that you are noticing these things because of your interest in machiavellianism, and it is prob not conscious behavior in the roommate. I think getting the other room mate to pay up would be a good practice. He is probably thinking that because of her lawsuit money she ''doesn't really need it'' -if you're thinking it, someone else prob is too! And same with the girl, she might feel slighted about someone feeling entitled to her money …
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:05 PM
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That's not so bad. My dog is a hundred pound devourer of money. You should get them some soup bones if you haven't done it before, it keeps them occupied for a long time if you ever need them out of the way to get some work done. My dog gets so possessive of it tho, until the meat is off it, I don't take it away from her lol there's no kids around so I don't worry about that behaviour. Life is better with dogs. I love talking about them :D
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 05:58 PM
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You can take advantage of this and anticipate her needs --but I don't mean to please her. It's likely she is passive-aggressive and not so startegically machiavellian (ie. she is uncomfortable asking directly and/or views it as rudeness). Get your other housemate to pay her the money he owes too if you can. Then use this as leverage in your dealings with her around the house. Try to run the house like you own it. Make sure to outwardly act oblivious to her hints (you are getting into her frame i…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 04:32 PM
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Try pushing your limits in the evenings for a bit. then try for morning orgasms at a time in your cycle when you're ovulating or another time when you're most sensitive. and getting yourself off in the mornings consistently would get you used to it maybe, if you havent been doing that
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 05:20 AM
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They are both self-absorbed douches, going on reddit telling their he rationalizes/she rationalizes happy horseshit kinda thing.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 02:15 AM
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Seconded!
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 02:13 AM
1

How many orgasms do you have when you get together in the evenings?
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 01:55 AM
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I meant before they even got married!
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 01:53 AM
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they didnt have the right discussions and ignored shit. the guy sounds like a douche. doesn't mean the woman has no responsibility, but that guy is an arrogant cunt.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 06:33 PM
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I did read it and posted my thoughts. The married couple were so wrong for each other. Mistakes were made.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 06:32 PM
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that was my first thought about the first paragraphs.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 06:22 PM
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That he said/she said story really hammers home why you have to do the cliched future plans discussions, and then some. That is all. what do you want in life? where you wanna be? what kind of lifestyle? do you need to go to a lot of social events to be happy? do we allow same sex friendships, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 06:18 PM
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Is it usual for a man to feel that his woman kissing another woman is cheating? I'm incredibly confused.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/17 06:08 PM
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that sounds like good erotica.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 02:28 AM
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how big are your dogs? for treats i buy beef or chicken liver and cook/chop/freeze it in baggies. soup bones are good for chews, they have all the natural bone and meat a dog needs, last a long time and are 3-5$ a pack. I give those raw frozen to avoid bacteria, but they're not much a worry since not ground. avoid raw pork for dogs. the happiest dogs are ones eating raw meat and bones, or green tripe.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 05:59 PM
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Baking saves some money. For easy-made delicious bread I like this: http://allrecipes.com/recipe/16947/amazingly-easy-irish-soda-bread/ If you cook/bake things which have similar ingredients and are easy to buy bulk it is simple to save some money. There are also lots of options for 'healthier' flours (heritage grains, gluten-free) Vegetables are cheap. You can blanch and freeze seasonal veggies yourself to save a bit of money and retain those nutrients in them. Farmer's markets rule! Beans, len…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 05:36 PM
1

I just pay no mind to those things. I watch a movie with Michael Fassbender and his hot body instead.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/17 03:47 PM
1

Things like cooking are motherly, just because theyre (still, at least) traditionally womanly, but are not mothering. We emotionally support all people we care of, dont we, not like a child. sounds good.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/17 03:43 PM
2

That's good, I think there's a lot to being loyal, but being loyal to a fault when we only have one life isn't right. Hope that he recovers, and it makes your relationship stronger if so. He's lucky to have a woman with your values and fortitude.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 06:41 PM
-1

Maybe he is being blackmailed/extorted some how.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 08:05 PM
2

So how are you doing? Have you decided on a plan of action?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 09:06 PM
6

If you portray to him that you think he's 'perfectly great' while he feels he is not at his most actualized, it will never feel real to him and you risk lowering your own value in his eyes. Support him in specific things he does. He's a man, not an infant, you're not suppose to make sure he feels comfortable emotions at all times.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 06:59 PM
2

Support him as he does what he is choosing. Sounds like you already are! Maybe feeling like he could do better is a good motivator for him. Some people work well with negative emotions that way. I'm not sure why you are complaining about an ambitious man feeling discontent with not fulfilling his ambitions.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 06:33 PM
5

Not sarcasm.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/17 04:39 PM
5

1st: You have a vagina. The world is your oyster. Don't be so worried. Always cool to see a male give objective advice relevent to women on here.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 10:20 PM
5

I learned so much about myself from this, thank you TRP! It has changed my life. I realized I'm too fucking stupid to branch swing, and I'm concerned it is causing my fallopian tubes to collapse. Will they heal themselves by the time I'm 45? Or should I just steal other people's babies and keep them in a storage locker as trophies of my traditional womanhood? I figure if I can show a man how much of a mother I can be with such low effort by pickling infants in jars (I even add some dill to show …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 09:57 PM
3

If you're a really good and fun lay it goes a long way. With the right man who's a match for you in other ways. Plus, it so satisfying.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/17 08:09 PM
3

Men like to take the role of satisfier. The good ones to be in relationships with anyway, but I think it's universal even if hidden. If they feel they are failing that and don't have what it takes to make a woman happy they start to give up. Is your husbands psych health and everything good? He sounds really fatalistic, which is why I say 'overwhelmed' as that is what leads to saying 'ok whatever, let's just find any solution' (ie. getting another man to be a dom) Maybe he'd actually like to be …
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 03:37 PM
2

Did you sort out why you had a mental health breakdown? I understand these are like physical illnesses, but often there is some thoughts and feelings that precipitate it. If this situation isnt good for your mental health you may end up being literally self-sacrificing.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 03:32 PM
2

Yes, if she's totally honest about her fears and reasons, it could be easier than it seems psychologically.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 03:30 PM
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He sounds overwhelmed by the knowledge bomb that he hasn't been truly satisfying you for years, in and out of the bedroom. Some consistent, frequent reassuring words of personal responsibility (for the past) sounds right.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 07:52 AM
2

Do be sociable in every single setting but don’t ever let yourself become common within a group, setting or place (one of the 48 laws there – yep, I read it) Can you elaborate more on how this one has worked for you/implementation? (or anyone reading) Sounds like a way to optimize introverted tendencies, which can often be a handicap in the area of social capital.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 07:49 PM
4

Chad Thundercock = Tyler Durden
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 02:45 AM
6

I genuinely think you are on point describing Chad as a symbol.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 02:43 AM
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You really got the mythology down. Chad Boogeyman, Thundercock God, Lord of all Biceps, maker of crying mothers, cucker of cucks, spreader of legs and seed, and so on and so forth
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 02:17 AM
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Good genetics go a long way too. Just look at your older relatives right.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 10:28 PM
6

Well said, sister. Especially the last lines, right on point.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 01:50 AM
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There's so many different types of people in the world; men come in more flavours than "Chad, Alpha, or Beta". The unhappy women in their 30's rushing to have kids and having a laundry list of requirements for a man exist, but it's just another stereotype. No one cares about the happily single women and Red Pill men don't like to believe they're content. You sound like a well-adjusted person, you can believe what you want and continue to feel fulfilled in life on your own terms. Yeah, some man o…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/17 01:47 AM
1

I will think it through so I can describe it well.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 11:57 PM
6

It's hard, cuz so many creative endeavors are done by men. And men assume admiring talent = sex attraction. Or they feel it does when their girl mentions it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 11:39 PM
1

Those are really good insights. These types of behaviours can be subconscious, and insidious. Along those lines, is if it's our guys doing that thing to give the benefit of the doubt that it was unintentional, if it's one-off kinda things.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 11:35 PM
1

but do you take the vape from her forcefully and pull her head onto your cock? cuz maybe it's time to escalate.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:39 PM
1

lol! on point as always. Wrote the same then scrolled down and read this.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:38 PM
1

Suggest she relieve her oral fixation by blowing you more?
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:37 PM
1

It's good you get into a few fights. That's better than boy scout badges. But it still didn't change how i felt about myself, i felt like a bitch for not doing anything. Cuz you were right. I have really aggressive thoughts and I just ride them out --right from the act to a gruesome death to showing up at the victims funeral, no one knowing I put them there as I smile mischievously while their loved ones cry. Sounds silly, but trying to suppress those thoughts and feelings just make it into an o…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 08:35 PM
1

a propensity for violence is not always attractive to women either. There's no middle ground for that and women either love it or are totally afraid of it. Violent men aren't necessarily violent toward their women...likely even more protective. (ie. excuse to fight)
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 08:26 PM
1

To each their own, indeed. I don't know what else is genuine and lastingly interesting in men aside from nerdy qualities!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 07:59 PM
2

Right! He said he's 16 in one. Sounds more like a mentally ill 25 year-old imo Well I reported the other post he made.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 05:12 PM
3

He wants to be a snake in the grass and trick women of his true intentions lol
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 05:07 PM
2

Always assume it. That's why this sub advises not to have sex too soon. Then see his character by how he acts.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 05:07 PM
10

Multiple orgasms are the most dominating thing you can do to a woman. What other moment does a woman lose all control and mind get blown? Aside from death, of course. la petite mort and all that.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 03:30 AM
1

But what are those hobbies? You can find out before assuming. Philosophy, music, art, politics all attract nerdy types. Doesn't matter if he also plays vid games...they pretty much all do! Just my personal observation, but I've found the plainest/uninteresting guys were the ones who didn't like vid games. well superficially they were interesting but damn did they lack layers. The more 'nerdy' qualities a guy has the better, I say. but doesn't mean he looks like something from 'Revenge of the Ner…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 02:53 AM
1

Go hit on the shy looking girls in a library maybe? I realize that could get super awkward but...why not try
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 12:51 AM
1

What does mature mean anyway? There's douchebros of every age. I think the maturity thing can be an illusion, a man can look 'mature' and be perceived as such, just as men mistake a woman's neoteny for innocence of character. Nerdy young guys are the best. They are not yet cynical and they are passionate, full of drive, have many hobbies. I guess on the plus side, if I ever find myself single again I can count on the 20 something market of men to be wiiiiiide open. So go ahead, young ladies, tak…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/17 12:49 AM
5

Staying with her would be selfish.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 10:42 PM
9

Listening like there's no wrong answer. It's also what men view as respect.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/17 10:39 PM
3

Sounds like good instincts. Maybe you're not an asshole and ppl have stupid high standards of 'niceness'. I mean if you're not getting into physical violence or close to on the regular, what's your real problem?
/r/askTRP25/03/17 07:21 PM
15

Isn't there a computer science department at your college? Just walk down to that side of the building. Approach a guy who looks like Elon Musk in his early 20's. Easy.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 09:09 PM
9

Find a man in trade school or who's just done it. Don't have to date older. have lunch at the local technical college.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 09:08 PM
1

Pretty sure he was tougher than that. Sword stabbings and all.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 06:59 PM
3

lol that's a creative take on it. Also if he's shit at pulling out.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 09:45 PM
5

Ghosting's often a side-effect of not giving a fuck and/or having options. If it's easy to forget it's easy to ghost. If you don't give a fuck about something, the natural tendency is to pay it no mind.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 09:15 PM
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We're all natural sexual, except maybe a very small minority. It's become stigmatized to behave sensually, and men have risks as extra hurdles to overcome. I mean, even touching people during coversation in North American culture is seen as flirting. No wonder so many of us are confused how to proceed in social situations. If sensuality is in the undertones of social interaction, how can we be freely ourselves and relaxed.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 06:33 PM
2

The only disturbing part of it would be how easy it is to do.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 06:18 PM
0

Why Angry White Men Love Calling People “Cucks” A couple simple reasons: It is a short four-letter word, much like 'shit', and also rhymes with 'fuck', and is an insult. Is there any other such word? No. White people are imperialistic. We built empires so the lands and resources of the world didn't get ruined by inferior races. Cuck is just a microcosm of this process.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 05:41 PM
3

It's not murder, it's LARPing Grand Theft Auto
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 05:14 PM
10

For sure. She was fucking with him.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 03:59 AM
5

Screen a woman for if she grew up with bio mother and father and her parents are still together and dad worked more than mom when she was young. Not sure what else you can do to meet women like here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 03:54 AM
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If she isn't your biggest fan, DUMP HER ASS. WALK. GHOST HER INSTANTLY WITH NO REGRETS. And if, at any point in the relationship, she ceases to be your biggest fan, walk, same as above." Wisdom. She'll just be looking for a different guy to worship.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 03:22 AM
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Put some shades on the llama like it's trying to hide it's not a dog.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 12:10 AM
3

It's fuckin' sad how people waste themselves in the status'n'goods game when they don't even know why they're playing it.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:00 PM
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And again, I don't have to accept that because I know what you are. I know most guys are omegas pretending to be betas because they got their finger wet once last year. LOL Well put. Too bad his finger wasn't.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:23 PM
2

If you have the same values you want to spend and save money the same way! Screen for values and interests. Men concede too much in matter of household decor and etc. then wonder why they can't buy something when she buys functionless decorations for twice the price. 'Well, my house is so cozy and inviting' he rationalizes.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:21 PM
2

That level of thoughtfulness you have is high value. Its getting more likely that men and women make about equal incomes now. Even if it's not feasible for someone to find a spouse who they can love, who is also around the same income, there are still ways to become indispensable to each other, in ways which are fulfilling for both (and masculine-feminine traditionally). I totally respect if men don't want to marry and advise others not to. But christ, live a little and figure it out on our own.…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:11 PM
2

Choose a woman who has a salary similar. Plus, if you don't want children, the rest don't matter.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 09:29 PM
2

Possibly he did get action. It's cringeworthy and self-deprecating, tho, so if he doesn't live to slay puss than what's he doing selling himself like a SHAMWOW?!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:15 PM
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Rob a bank on the way back just to keep the world in balance, would ya? Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:10 PM
1

I have to have it. I'm not complete without DAT ASS. Most of the time Alpha behaviour is a conscious act. It doesn't really exist. It just gets women horny and scares weaker men.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 06:08 PM
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Nah, most misogynist sounding stuff is just anger. TRP is males doing what males do; categorizing (alpha/beta, 1-10 scale), finding 'formulas' (game), mutual insult rituals. Masculinity has a boyish charm just as femininity has girlish charm. Learn to like it or lock down a limp-wrist.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 06:03 PM
2

What's your idea? I'd love to hear it. That's nicely encouraging. I'll work on a post and get the thoughts out there.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 05:52 PM
15

It's fucked how there's more polarisation between men than between men and women.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 05:41 PM
7

Conditional sex once a month. Or a 'dead bedroom' where he happily shares how he's so supportive of his woman's low sex drive. While his performance at work deteriorates and he is conditioned to misery via self-deception. These women are called 'enablers'. What are they enabling? A man's stunted development. I think many women feel inadequate and insecure so they discourage masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 05:21 PM
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A man who'd replicate doing a dating resume (cuz 'chicks dig buzzfeed') is like the mustache'd dude in the boat here: https://youtu.be/gCx0NeffRfI DON'T GO TOWARDS THE LIGHT OF CASTRATION!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 04:57 PM
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Reading that made me puke up my lunch. Bet if I tweet him he'll send me a giftcard to compensate for the loss he caused me. This is the reason some women date criminals. When she has to choose between complete manginas like this and criminals. C'mon.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 04:48 PM
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Has she ever been to therapy/psych. doc to talk of her past issues or to see if she needs medication? A lot of the red flags (no condom, rough sex) combined with the green ones say she may be indulging more risk-taking behaviour than her actual character, due to some psych issues. Early 20's is where they start to hit hard. Likely not a personality disorder, that's more rare. Your choice if you're cool with that. Everyone has problems. But this is how men get burned in a way that is damaging and…
/r/askTRP22/03/17 04:34 PM
1

free blowjobs every couple of days why is everyone bein so wasteful these days LOL That is one of the best things I've read on here.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 04:22 PM
4

Touch her body everywhere, do what you feel, be instinctive and don't think. DON'T THINK. That's how to get 'em addicted to your sex. One way, anyway. DON'T FUCKING THINK. What's the need to?
/r/askTRP22/03/17 07:51 AM
2

Yes. That should be intuitively true to anyone. People believe what they want though, we all do, it's a hard skill to truly think critically.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:35 AM
3

One's petty criminal activity should always be proportionate to what one has to lose.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:08 AM
1

If she's had few cocks, she may settle for lame sex and think it's gross to have a tongue between her legs. To each their own. Needless curiousity that a random dick will be better can end a good relationship too. No one likes to be shamed. Sometimes slutty behaviour shames a man, sometimes people shame slutty behaviour. I heard some promiscuous women fear losing a good partner because it means having to go back searching again and enduring shitty sex when progressing with a man she otherwise li…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:00 AM
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OH ZING, twist ending. On point.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 06:50 AM
1

This sounds harsh, but it's right that you should screen him harder and don't be naive! don't be too trusting and eager to believe all hetells you, Please don't. But go ahead an continue to find out and have fun, why not?
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 06:44 AM
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Loved cooking for my man and hearing him say 'I feel like a king'. That's what it's all about. Hate cooking just for myself. That is something to brag about! As is your nurturing nature. Glad that you enjoy cooking, it's a staple of a good and stable life. You got yours ahead of you and great to hear a young woman feeling enthused of learning new things and bettering herself!
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 06:41 AM
2

It's good to know the loss of love and respect can be prevented. Perhaps a post on some advice on what it means to make your partner (man) a priority and how to encourage him to reciprocate isin order? (over long-term) I have an idea,but I've never actually done that. treading new ground here, as I'm sure many of us here are.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 06:35 AM
3

I'll take Ape Tits.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 06:28 AM
2

TIL I'm an asshole with a heart of gold. How you like them crappholes?
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 06:28 AM
5

Fuck yeah. He works with a bunch of whiney assholes anyway.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 05:35 PM
2

Oh damn, I read this title and got excited. Because you can go FULL MACHIAVELLIAN. Do it very subtletly with much subterfuge. Make them feel like you have some mild omniscience. Make them slightly uncomfortable. Just figure out what you want out of it first.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 05:34 PM
3

Yeah, even bisexual women don't want to feel the female equivalent of being 'cucked'. When a provider-husband starts behaving badly, and his dependent-wife responds with a great show of affection,I suspect she's doing so in the interest of protecting her meal ticket Yup.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 03:42 PM
5

That's an attractive attitude. I think sex drive problems are caused by choosing the wrong man, kids, life stress. Tho I love the idea of other women wanting my man as much as the rest, I would end up in jail were he to go spend time with many loosely-defined female 'friends'
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 03:39 PM
3

I had similar problems. Now I found a better man, who is younger than I, sexy, educated and we have so much in common. I was too fucked up mentally in my 20's to achieve this, or know it was out there. All men started to seem the same so I figured 'meh' good enuff. I was afraid so settled for men just to feel secure or share vices. I worked very hard to improve myself psychologically and developed thoughtfulness. I guess the plus side is the wisdom gained from shit experience. And I know how to …
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 03:28 PM
3

Yeah, someone might bitch me out and I'm prepared to not give a fuck.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 07:09 AM
3

I have this problem too. I can't be natural in convo while at the same time not having wandering eyes. So I just don't worry about it and know I may face social consequences.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 06:28 AM
3

Is a first night lay really what you want? Not trying for sex on the first date makes a man not look desperate or forced. Sometimes it may leave the woman wondering if the man thinks much of her (many women aren't smart or secure enough to know that just being a average-at-least woman is decent enough qualification)
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 06:19 AM
1

Almost too bangable. If a girl who looked like that hit on me I'd be extremely suspicious.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:49 PM
1

Easy to stare at that photo. Her lips are vaginalicious. It's like she went to get lip injections and said to the doc "make my mouth look like a fat pussy"
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:44 PM
1

How are they gonna know you've never dated? I sometimes feel like people can see more of what I am than I show,tell, or is even possible --then I remember that most people aren't that perceptive and often too self-absorbed to even try.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:31 AM
3

He certainly sounds like he's fucking her like he owns her. Otherwise she wouldn't give him her best. So he may as well say it. If it feels awkward, just imagine you're quoting lyrics from death metal (it works, serious)
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:40 AM
6

Depends what you want from the girl. I'm curious as to how she would respond if you grabbed her by the waist with one hand, leaned into her ear and said in a commanding, sexy voice: "I know I'm giving you the best fucking of your life." Then slap her ass and walk away. So that's what I'll suggest doing. Report back, please.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:33 AM
2

I remember a lot of BP men I dated thought it was strange I would act this way. They wanted a woman who was more prissy polite and high and mighty. Yeah, I noticed that too. Those dudes think a woman has a low self-esteem for treating a man well and being deferential at times. They are all dying for a woman to make it easy to prove their 'worth' as men. Because if a woman acts 'hard to get' or 'hard to please' then the man doesn't have to offer worth psychologically.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 01:44 AM
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That's when it begins for real. Late 20's on. No one under 25 knows shit about themselves or life.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:39 AM
3

School is for chumps. Being proud to be an adult? Yeah, fuck you, we all have to do it and endure the consequences of our decisions and bank account balance. Award for being Mature&Responsible = just another award for breathing that millenials expect.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:37 AM
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Who the fuck talks about life as some phase as during and after college...American thing I guess. Oh shit, I never went to college, that's why I don't get it. Proud loser.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:34 AM
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Women can tell if a man is getting the best sex at the time or even in his life from her, whether or not he says so. Women will always eventually lose interest and resent a man who thinks he 'loves' her just for that alone.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 01:27 AM
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This community isn't scientific evidence for anything. I'm not sure if it is in male or female best interest for people to pair-bond easily through sex. for one reason, that could just as easily result in future divorce. It can make a bond seem stronger than it is. The correlation of repeated partners w/ pair-bonding ability, that really just gives the illusion of causality. Illusion.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 12:39 AM
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Hamster's long dead. Just grinding gears left.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 12:26 AM
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If you had an intellect, maybe you could make a proper analogy. Clearly, if you're already on the plane and they tell you that, they're messing with your head -but people like you believe anything you hear if it involves risk!
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 12:22 AM
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Oh that sounds really ominous. You're taking way more out of that data then is there. No one should believe anything is 'scientifically proven' unless it's elemental facts. I get it, people are afraid, they want to find ways to avoid what they fear and replace it with the idea that something can be done about it (whether it's your lover's betrayal or a shark attack) but who wants to make fear-based decisions and is adopting fear-based beliefs good for anyone, especially men...
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 11:35 PM
1

How do you know her ex was a red pill man?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/17 09:23 PM
1

Few men have any idea of how attractive they are.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 08:20 PM
1

Yes! It's amazing. I recommend it - especially to women who hate planning and only respect their man if he (primarily) takes lead. What a lucky and wonderful life if I don't have to plan much or make needless decisions. Definitely worth putting in the charm and effort for! My man can just take those burdens and dissolve it in testosterone or whatever it is you menfolk do. And I'm definitely no shrinking violet or submissive personality. Misconceptions, away!
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 08:16 PM
1

That's what my bf keeps telling me; 'you're intoxicating' and 'I'm completely intoxicated by you' Now I know more of why. Lovin' it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 07:44 PM
10

He's a douche. Should be ROD = Regrets of Douchebros
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 07:28 PM
1

a vehicle can only have one driver at time. Good one. I'm going to find a way to slip this line into convo. with my man, in a way which he'll know what I'm implying. Be thoughtfully implicit, ladies.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 06:34 PM
1

Not really. Influencing is active, not passive. It actually takes some strategizing and A LOT of conscious effort. I find it adds much pleasure to being in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 05:44 PM
1

This is all so true. Who is down-voting this? Damn.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 05:20 PM
1

Exactly. The less a woman asks the more a man wants to give. I like encouraging my guy to make decisions. I told him I hate planning. He likes that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 05:18 PM
1

Tell him 'it's sexy when...' he does things you like. Even if it sounds silly.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 05:08 PM
2

You're welcome. Glad it's working out for you. Subtleties done right. Having a dog is also one of the best things in life.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 05:06 PM
1

How do u know so much about them? and do you have a crystal ball? You can tell if a man has drive and ambition by his personality, not just accomplishments he already has. If marrying a bank account balance makes u happy you'll be the first.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 05:02 PM
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If women are single, it's usually voluntary. I agree with all you wrote here. Options change and vary between people, but all women always have a relatively large amount of options. Even in the old folks home lol
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 02:42 PM
2

Marriage never was the only way to get sex. I suggest you look up an historical account of sexually transmitted infections.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 02:32 PM
5

It's the 'somebody think of the children' belief, usually. Regardless of whether nuclear family is best for kids, civilization isn't crumbling because of single parents, divorce, or common-law couples. Just chicken little shit. Maybe humanity has been over-civilized. Why should people be suspicious of bachelors? Why should men have to get married to further their careers? Many conservatives idea of civilization is that everybody play by the same tight set of rules. It's a false sense of security…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 01:58 PM
1

Find a niche 'market', like a unique hobby, or subculture to join. Sorry if you're in Seattle! lol
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 03:35 AM
7

Talk about how the apartment is inadequately large and a pain to take care of. Make it all about the apartment. edit: Find some apartments you'd like/can afford and just talk about how you adore them for reasons unrelated to cost
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 03:15 AM
6

What's bothering you? Something specific?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 02:49 AM
5

Exactly. Competition wouldn't be so fierce if all single women were childfree, hot and at least decent to talk to. But this is why it's possible to get a sugar mama nowadays. Not enuff young men do that to pass the time and get sex while they work on themselves. Sugar mama ain't gonna ask questions. And a decently fit 20-something is their only standard pretty much.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 11:46 PM
2

The contradiction of men being charming and skillful when bedding women and yet women just easily sleep with muscular Chads who don't have to do anything. Everyone knows fast food isn't the best, but if someones knocking on your door offering you some shit meat burger constantly, at some point they catch ya when you're hungry. There's a reason why it's called 'getting lucky'
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 10:38 AM
3

and materialistic. Sometimes people forget that there's more to materialism than consumerism. Pursuing sex for the sake of it is no different than buying shit for the sake of it. Sex is base without a spiritual component, and it's hard to find genuinely fulfilling, other-worldly sexual experiences. But sure, justify having the drive of chimps and bonobos. Only someone who hasn't had much meaningless sex would write some rant like this thread!
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 10:22 AM
4

hey, that's why we're all here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 08:39 PM
4

Ha! Yes. I had one like it. I can't be more of a man than my man. That's awful.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 08:33 PM
0

Yes teasing is super fun! That's different,you are initiating and being playful. different from withdrawing
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 08:32 PM
0

If a man never initiates sex he ain't getting it from me. He can even get it elsewhere for all I care then. Doesn't mean I always expect him to initiate.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 07:27 PM
5

I hate sissies as boyfriends. But what woman doesn't. We aren't doing a man any good accepting them as sissies. It reinforces it and then stunts their personal growth and ability to succeed as a man in the world.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 07:25 PM
1

Hey, maybe a bit of extra cushion can feel good on her clit! Sometimes that stupid 'simplest explanation' platititude is on point...in that post-hoc way of personal experience.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 07:40 AM
6

I'm rather hardened. Oops. but still, when I'm with my man I'm a vulnerable mess of 'I need you'. Because the world is mean and is hard and I just want to be a woman, but for no one else. It makes it special. Everyone else gets my crust! It's pie crust, at my nicest, but still crust nonetheless.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 06:41 AM
35

Sounds like it's a legit need for plastic surgery. There's no guarantees with kids. Formula doesnt kill them, you can get preggo at the same time as a friend and have her nurse, all kinds a shit. Worry about your self-esteem and getting a man.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 11:50 PM
1

just dont do interviews, talk about fun things like movies, etc. Be freeeeeee enjoy. Let him lead with personal stuff yes. If he doesnt mention anything of it, thats a flag
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 11:46 PM
1

Does he tell you about himsef and his day yet at this point? If he's interested he will lead with those kinda things.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 03:18 PM
2

Trying to build a rocket to Mars is a good one.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 03:13 PM
11

Exacty. People liking to think they work on logic and rationality are just fooling themselves. All our decisions work on emotional component. reminds me of a study on stroke patients, certain parts of their brain for emotion were damaged, they couldnt decide even what they waned to eat.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 04:24 PM
1

Nah, you're right, can't just let moods justify acting out. I get badass PMS. I manage not being bitchy to my guy. And he is understanding and helpful so far through it. Listens to me complain about the anxiety and such. Being bitchy is uninspiring.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 10:20 PM
2

You rule! Perfect rebuttle. Or the gals could always take advice from 18-21 year-olds...not that they don't give solid advice time to time but some things only experience can teach.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 09:21 PM
3

the title of this post needs a meme
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/17 12:24 AM
2

Go see the 'deadbedrooms' subreddit for the misery being with someone you're not attracted to can entail.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 08:58 PM
2

The 'if it's action it's good' niche. :P True classic.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/17 08:58 AM
5

Haha!!! Barfing on a couch tho --some dudes really dig that.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 04:41 PM
2

not because you're less interesting than tentacle porn, Oh please, is anyone more interesting than tentacle porn? The absurd charm of the cognitive dissonance it inspires is hard to compete with.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:58 PM
7

Girl, you got a kinky and creative-minded one. There are men out there who are the opposite, who can barely bring themselves to try anything fun in bed. That's worse. You don't sound enthused about that bj. 'no big deal, we have done this before' I imagine that would be a turn off if you just dutifully slobbed his nob with that attitude.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:56 PM
17

Get him to marry you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:35 PM
3

Single was never part of my identity (when I was so ). I think since relationships actually are a part of our identities, people try to equate singlehood in the same way. It makes no sense. Otherwise it's people who are only somewhat voluntarily single trying to deceive themselves that they are happy that way. Then there are the people who enjoy the total uncompromising independence of forever singlehood --the ideal way to exist as single person. What happens to them? that question, means nothin…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:28 PM
3

That's great line. Makes me wanna eat some epic level cheesey lasagna tho.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 09:17 PM
8

You don't need a degree to be cultivated. A woman can have intellectual/artistic interests without going to university to pay to read free shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 06:06 PM
1

You are in love with her. She has feelings or would not be mad at you. But it sounds like destructive hormone driven love, maybe not healthy for you. Seeing as you've lost friends
/r/askTRP07/03/17 08:50 AM
6

I think that's the main problem with it, they make women out as an archetype and worship that. If he is truly inamoured by you it's very different.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 08:19 AM
0

Fabulous. Heightens his value in my eyes and inspires me to worship him back just the same.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 08:18 AM
1

Good points.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 10:32 PM
1

People say the weirdest things. Did you save sex for your 50's Willow? ;) lol Men just get mad because it's uneven game, mostly.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/17 03:09 PM
2

Exactly. It's not masculine to be over-concerned about the bill, whether or not he earns a lot. The right kinda women are inspired to be more feminine under those dynamics. Obligated only meaning to make him feel like a man, appreciated, be a relief from life = priceless. I think women who don't let a man pay because they 'feel obligated' just don't get it
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 11:52 PM
3

I think it's inspiringand polarising when a man pays. I just can't get into it if going dutch. big difference from 'using him as a meal ticket'. I think it's insecure as fuck to constantly be on guard against 'being used', even if just for a 40 buck date!!!
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/17 11:47 PM
2

In other words, if you never done 'as friends' crap, you'd not have this issue. Maybe pull back a bit and see how he leads.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 08:27 PM
1

I never have split dates, except with one 'friends first' bf (hate that way, it ends up unfulfilling for me). What I DO DO is make sure the dates are modest price and at a place where it shows I want to bond with him, and I give him my best charm and appreciation!
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 08:27 PM
12

Men have a lot of social value for building connections, pursung hobbies. It's a lot easier for men to make friends with other men than it is for women w/ other women. Should use it. That's one of the areas that it's actually a 'man's world'
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 05:53 PM
4

Hey Girl. I did all those bad things, some probably worse, and I'm twistedly proud with it. It's called 'making peace' as u/NittanyLioness84 said. Still got a high quality man. Guess what? He had wild times and obstacles in life too and we relate. It also makes us value the same things and know what's important in life. Unentitled attitudes come from suffering. I won't commit to a man who hasn't suffered properly. edit: tho I have not had near triple digit sex partners. But don't hate yourself, …
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 05:44 AM
4

Men who don't like blow jobs = red flag. So good you nexted that. Men who have issues with sex and your purity often have a Madonna/Whore complex and that causes issues, often dead bedrooms after babies (usually blamed on women)
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 05:34 AM
2

Trying to direct him and nagging him about stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 05:27 AM
1

vit e is too sticky
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 08:50 PM
3

He moved closer to me (he lived about two hours away) specifically to be with me and I don't regret anything in our relationship. Sounds great to me. Is any man ever good enough for a mother's daughter. Or do some old ladies just itch for some vicarious experience?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 08:48 PM
5

No, many mothers like to undermine their daughters
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 08:47 PM
2

It's rational in an immediate way.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 08:09 PM
1

This is some great implementable advice!
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 07:44 PM
4

Be a Lover, not a Mother. Why anyone wants to mother a man who ain't their son is beyond me. I think it happens accidentally, copying what we see from our families and others. Shouldn't even mother kids that much!
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 07:42 PM
4

You're putting way too much significance on this man's interest in you. He's just another swingin' dick at this point. Go flirt with men outside work and you'll realize. To me, your lack of social confidence is a big red flag that your subject to being seduced by some mere sexual interest.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 07:34 PM
1

It's fucked how so many girls and women haven't figured out that attention from guys generally has no meaning. It's cute and fun to flirt, in person, to learn charm and social skills. The internet becomes reserved for exhibitionism from the safety of behind a computer, yet sensuality becomes 'serious business' in the outside world. Hence things like 'street harassment.' When women think that male attention means something, they're gonna think flirty things like cat-calling means violence.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 07:19 PM
4

Youre 23, it's ok that you giggle and can't hold eye contact ;) That kinda thing so charming!
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 07:07 PM
6

Use those feelings of awkwardness and vulnerability. Femininity is actually 'being yourself'* That's why it's so lovely being a woman. We do have many privileges. Men have to worry about how to portray themselves. *but not your pyjama wearing, home alone self, be your best social self ;)
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 07:05 PM
1

You're a stallion among the donkeys. Time to go out to stud.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 12:57 AM
2

What you are saying throughout your thread here also illustrates why women are attracted to 'thugs' and criminal types. Men who live in that world have no choice but to learn to stand ground and impose their own boundaries. Being a man becomes a matter of life and death; whether it's from being around other dangerous men or having no means to acquire resources aside from crime (with the associated risk and violence). Just as in war. I think the movie 'Fury' does a good job portraying a harsher m…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 07:59 PM
2

With respect to male-male competition generally - what Red Pill seems to never acknowledge is that it's not all appearances, there actually is a male hierarchy out there. There are some guys who move it beyond a game and insist on destroying you if you don't submit to his imposition of will Yes. That must be a really uncomfortable, even terrifying, truth for some young men. In some ways we all revert back to comfort and safety in the face of these aspects of life. The battle never ends.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:52 PM
7

"time served" The prison term is apt. Good ol' Love Court
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 09:25 PM
1

She really has to address that issue, because it is unusual to think that she 'put in the time' before even meeting this guy. It's a character flaw to examine outside of sex. Maybe pride, mixed with some self-shame she has to overcome.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 09:23 PM
13

The problem comes down to how women see sex. Femininity is getting in touch with our instincts. Over-analyzing and tally-taking sex is what messes up relationships. Women get a lot of messages about sex, and our varying level of desire allows for these messages to take hold (especially for impressionable young women). One of those messages is that sex should be a means to an end --and to the worst extent, that it's ok to stop having sex once gaining commitment. She could get on her knees and pla…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 09:13 PM
3

Well played, sister, well played.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 04:42 PM
1

You want to know how physically attractive you are?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:25 AM
2

That's also showing protector qualities, you are saving her from over-drinking.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 01:36 AM
6

Bad Mate-Guarding: Pathetically interrupting any male or androgynous female having a conversation with your girl Good Mate-Guarding: Plausibly deniable condescending words towards a man overtly hitting on your girl; bringing him into your frame. Getting angry at the right time is a display of testosterone. Full "No Mate-Guarding" is Full-Retard. It's hamstering excuses not to compete with other men. Men Compete
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 01:34 AM
2

Men are better off to learn how to diffuse violence, interlocutors, etc. with subtleties and/or humour. Don't men make fun of each other for having their girl handle their shit these days? "He was a real big guy, good thing your girl went to get the bouncer for you." I know I've been taken the piss at for not standing my ground with someone twice my size. edit; Essentially what you're saying is a woman should make her man feel safe with her. That's not the same as respecting him. A woman respect…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 01:16 AM
1

I think the effectiveness is when there is the prospect of male aggression, maybe violence. So that's why the man who expects his girl to deter males who hit on her is seen as insecure, or at worst, a coward. Would he expect her to finish his fights?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:51 AM
2

Enjoy your virility and the insipiration and energy it gives you. As you said, putting off a sexual vibe works for you. Because we are sexual creatures, seduction works in all facets of life. And that person who has charisma, that is just sexual energy channelled in non-sexual ways.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 12:04 AM
3

I love talking to a young man while wondering if he got a half wood in my presence.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:09 PM
14

I think gym class especially should be segregated. There are no co-ed adult professional sports anyway. I recall being in high school in a girls only gym class, we took the sports competition seriously amongst ourselves. But on the for-fun co-ed day, the girls didn't play as hard, because they couldn't keep up with the boys or they felt uncomfortable. And the boys were more likely to fight and hurt each other with the girls around. I'm certain most of the problems boys have in school is because …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 08:43 PM
11

These young gals just don't get that it only matters relative to what they want. For women who don't seek status through a man,who don't want children, this problem doesn't exist. The female peak isn't controversial to me because I know it's really just the one solace that the testosterone fueled gender has in a sexual marketplace that very much favors women. Young frustrated men deserve to have their hard work pay off and the tables turn one day.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 08:25 PM
9

It's true that most people pick partners within their age. I think Wikipedia has collected data on that. As we speak of again and again, there's more important things than youth. All men (and many women) appreciate the beauty of a young woman, but its not the deciding factor. There are many double standards of data in TRP, such as the women's N-count and divorce link, which as someone has proven in another thread here is really loose correlation. Yet an age gap increases divorce likelihood much …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 08:04 PM
1

...I've been hit on and pursued by all types of men in my day, but I don't ever remember feeling 'revolted'...so sounds like something else is going on with you, sis
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 06:12 AM
1

What is making you feel revolted?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 06:11 AM
2

LOL yes, that's what will add some humour to it. Why? =Why not? When?=Whenever
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 02:19 AM
5

I'm afraid that might violate the 'don't give away anything that can identify you' rule here. It's that good. Jokes aside, what should I call the post; "Blow Jobs; When, Why and How?"
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 12:48 AM
1

Would it be better for your personal growth, values and self-esteem to just let her go and find someone else who is ready for kids? If she will wait for you is fine, but are you content to string someone of her values along just for sex/comfort.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 11:43 PM
26

Unrequited love is not true love. Time to learn to forget.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 04:18 PM
17

Chocolates, dinner for me, blow job for him. I'm a fabulous head mistress, and damn proud of it. I should probably charge young brides for lessons.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 04:17 PM
2

do u shave?
/r/askTRP14/02/17 10:57 PM
33

Here's an analogy: if my favourite fruit was a kiwi, and I've never tried anything else - how would I know that I wouldn't like apples or oranges more? You find nothing out by fucking around. At the most you'll get a preference for cock size, which doesn't matter, because you can't base a relationship off that. Muscles and broad shoulders will get you wetter. Most men have or can work on that. You can just date men and see what you prefer. If your reasoning to fuck around is to test drive types …
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 07:38 PM
3

If the guy made it past the third date, and I thought he might be Mr. Right, I'd drop the FWBs and give the relationship a whirl. Exactly. It's not the stereotype of some asshole getting sex while Mr. Treats-you-Right has to agonizingly wait.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 07:12 PM
2

If wanting to rack up a number of partners is a fetish of yours, it is also a potentially dangerous one. Any man could strangle the life out of you easily. I like risk-taking so it's very hard for me sometimes. I feel like a werewolf that has to be locked up under the full moon. Point of me mentioning that: what about fuckin' around do you think would make you happy? I don't think it is what you think it is. It's better to get a motorcycle or take up a thrilling sport for kicks...but that takes …
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:58 PM
2

+voice of reason It makes sense that it's so easy. The police can't do much for you otherwise if some nut shows up at your home, work, kids daycare, etc. And you never know when someone can resort to violence. "No, but he keeps calling and texting me. He said he'd hurt anyone that got between them and threatened to kill himself if I didn't come back." Oh that doesn't sound serious...to a naive person...
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 06:50 PM
14

That dude is sure catastrophizing. How can a man get cucked by pussy. Some folks here just see cucks everywhere. Their brains got cucked. Cuckopia.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:27 PM
2

You are just going to get even more horny into your 30's. Sorry. I will think of what I do. Aside from diddle my skittle. One way is to just find a regular sex partner. Or another woman...I know it's not that same, but she can't get you pregnant and STIs are unlikely.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 04:14 PM
4

too evasive isn't always effective.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:01 PM
2

She wants to know if you're on the rebound or not. The rebound minimum is less than a year.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 10:00 PM
1

Tell her to her face. She's a woman, probably has never had that happen to her before!
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:34 PM
1

aaaaaaaaaand the downvotes commence. Not surprised that most women can't think or take responsibility for themselves in this matter.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 08:38 PM
0

I'm not saying they're wrong, they just are required to recommend the standard methods as professionals. It's completely controllable by a woman who decides to use it.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 07:58 PM
-1

No there's only a small window of ovulation, more days when sex is safe. For some women the routine of it is better than taking a pill. The human error is just the doctor responsibility that caused that to be the standard recommendation. You dont need to use cervical position, temp and mucuous works fine. All it takes is a thermometer reading and a finger.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 07:55 PM
1

It's completely bizarre to take a tally of partners. Men like to remember those things, women forget lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 06:40 PM
-1

They all downvoted me like crazy for suggesting that fertility awareness method was effective as any external birth control. Because it's not seen as preferable for women to have a natural hormonal cycle, when the standard of pushing contraceptives plays the value of that down. A lot of them think if you aren't getting sterilized then you're not really committed to being 'childfree.' It's bizarre how against abortion some of them were for people who don't want kids.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 06:13 PM
8

Yes, I think waiting til marriage gets more cynicism than it deserves. It is just too late for that for those who've slept with more than a couple ppl.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 07:15 AM
1

I might make it a side-mission of my life to thoroughly analyze the elusive rape fantasy and publish my findings. Let me know if you think of a witty pen name off-hand.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 04:27 AM
9

'Drive' with Ryan Gosling is good for an example of a stoic, masculine man. It's interesting to examine why we like the traits in men we do --to me, that's more important than anything else.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 02:34 AM
5

My N-count is over 9000. I put the 'O' in cunt.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 02:24 AM
13

You have to fuck before marriage, you have to marry a man who you absolutely love fucking. You have to know that the sex can always get better and how to get yourself off and be free with him! This is important for all, but especially women who've been bad, bad girls!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 02:22 AM
2

I read books on or watch nature vids about predators, especially wolves, lions, tigers. They just do what fulfills their instincts. They can't rationalize, yet how they act works out in their best interest. The animal world seems undisciplined but it's not. We all become our circumstances. But animals get direct feedback from their environment -despite the inability to analyze. They are out in the elements.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:16 AM
1

You should just get to work on perfecting your rape skills. You won't be the first or last man to come to terms with the challenge of sex this way.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 02:01 AM
1

Rape fantasies are actual rape fantasies. It's that the man is desireable. Not always that the woman is so desireable he 'just can't help it' (when you think about it 'just can't help it' actually sounds feminine, right). Rape fantasy is about the man who takes what he wants in the ultimate primitive form. And on the woman side the release of primitive instincts in response. Many women are just too fearful or proud or whatever it is that blocks the fulfillment or even acknowledgement of the fant…
/r/askTRP12/02/17 01:54 AM
2

This sounds like more real, experienced-based advice than the one that received the most upvotes in this thread. No one wants to go to suicide watch.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 01:09 AM
2

I know that I see things more clearly than pretty much any other human I'm likely to meet. So some braggadocio in my mind puts me in that space. It's the inner predator trying to tear loose. It is only being constrained for the benefit of civilization.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 01:02 AM
2

Maybe he's just nervous about that meeting. I'm fucking nervous about introducing anyone to my matronly and matriarchal mother lol!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 10:08 PM
11

He sounds like he's very concerned about behaving honorably towards you and keeping his word to provide. Frankly, reading your story about him was very heart-warming. Just a comment on what it looks like from the outside. Sometimes us women let our fears for our security get the better of following our hearts. That much I know. Has he given you any indication he wants to date other women?
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 09:40 PM
2

He is partly right. But it's not about blaming him, you wouldnt even be debating it if you werent taking responsibility for your feelings. What the male is right about: Do you wish you had that chemistry with him? You can make it happen if you want. Are you dating exclusively? Hard to know if the chemistry you think you need exists elsewhere if you don't date a bit. From my perspective as a 32 y.o old gal, this guy sounds like he has what matters most. But I just found one for me at my age now, …
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 09:33 PM
5

You're not being resentful. You've got the right instinct here. Considering his actions, he has willingly deceived you (his past intentions are irrelevant). He didn't fulfill his very important promise to you. He got what he wanted, has a woman, kids, and instead of feeling motivated to step-up and be a man, he wants to remain a kid. so be brutal and give me your worst. Be brutally honest with him. Not insulting, but you gotta tell him he's broken his word and vows.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 09:05 PM
1

It's a paradox that SJW's (and others) would think TRP negative and misogynistic. If anything it's preventing some disillusioned males from culminating to violence, instead to seek self-responsibility and self-improvement via their natural masculine narrative. Nanny state efforts to make 'more sensitive' men fails in ways no need to elaborate on here.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/17 06:00 AM
1

Depends, Are the qualities you've decided you're looking for are what will lead you to a fulfilling relationship? Or are they from concerns for status and security? And a struggling artist with drive who's a perfect match for you in other ways is preferable than choosing another man because he's more 'stable'. If you close yourself off for superficial reasons, you may not realize what's really important to you. Because that's what these checklists are about, right? When we doubt our instincts an…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 03:55 AM
1

I like that style myself. A lot of women's clothing is so tight and uncomfortable, with scratchy material, and over-priced. Some nice jeans and flattering t-shirts are cool. Is that what you and your SO define as feminine casual? I like the styles of Buffalo and Guess but don't like to spend the $ unless on sale. Guess pants are always worth it tho, they last a long-time and fit great.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 11:36 PM
1

yeah, as if all those generalities would apply to you, even if they were true! I think your tight physique must have come from all those female quotas in various non-specified assumed industries.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 09:26 PM
1

No need to worry about 'dressing alternative' because the man who's best for you might be into that look. So in some ways you should always be yourself. No use wearing clothing we don't feel confident in. But yeah shifting away from all black all the time isn't much of a compromise. Too aternative looks teenage. It's super fun to be bit of a tomboy and then get all dolled-up for a special man, the look on his face will be a memory for a lifetime. Every time. If he knows you're dressing up for hi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 07:33 PM
2

You always have solid wisdom.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 07:28 PM
2

love the punchline at the end of that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 07:27 PM
1

Marilyn Monroe is forgiveable. but since Jackie seeks power in bed (as she says), I bet she knew that such proclivities would make JFK even more pliable to her whims ;)
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 06:40 PM
2

NEXT DAT FOOL. I only read the title. edit: cuz reading the rest isnt necessary
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 12:27 AM
3

Me too! I have nexted a man over Pokemon.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 05:40 PM
2

My friend was engaged to a Phsychopath with a big P. lol how many inches?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:04 AM
3

Yes. People get horned-up over age differences in general. Just go for it if you want it.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:01 AM
2

It's the warrior archetype, the most primal of all male archetypes for women. Aggression issues are masculine too. Some women are just easily frightened lol. Doesn't matter. There's a reason women are more likely to have hook-ups with muscular dudes. it's not the same as the looks factor for men, it's a higher psychological/symbolic factor with women.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:45 PM
2

Why do asshats try to break up girl fights? At most anyone should do is pulling a chick off if she's viciously beating one on the ground. most chicks can't punch hard, no one's gonna end up with a broken jaw. instead this guy ends up hand-cuffed cuz the police have to. he would probably still try to break up a chick fight again lol
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 06:40 PM
2

Sex is an instinct. Just follow it. You have no other choice.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:26 PM
3

If your body is hot put a pic of it up on an online dating site, write that you do MMA in your profile, no kids, lie about your age ~25 nothing much more needed. Chicks in their 30's looking for sex are more likely to contact ou than other guys. MMA is panty remover.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:16 PM
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It's true. it's good if a man has those things, but a lot of issues come from women wanting a ready-made successful man (what was wrong ith him when he was a struggling 20-something, right? He was the same guy) Pretty much all men have drive. It's easy to tell the ones who will go to work everyday from the grifters.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 06:00 PM
1

On dates men have never asked me what I do for a living. If they inquire I can tell they are just making conversation, and getting to know my character and interests, not my status and ambition. I believe that's true for all women. It is usually a post-hoc justification that a man likes what his woman does as a career. Men are happy to hear when a woman has hobbies and passions (value-creating activities she'd not give up if a man was financially supporting her basically). Some men with status a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/17 05:57 PM
1

so, "I want him to make the simple decisions" why not difficult ones? There's no difficult ones to be made yet. This is fresh. I want to make the best out of the NRE. Best to find out earlier if I can rely on his decisions. The coding analogy works. It's less intimidating when put that way. I will be able to do that. I just hope he gets the message that it's not necessarily what decision he makes that makes me happy but more that he made the decision on my behalf. So a woman straight up telling …
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:45 AM
1

When you text her, just tell her something instead of asking her about her week/how she's doing. Like tell her about a movie you watched, whatever. Only example I could think of. Any question you ask a girl is no different than a text that says "sup?"
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:34 AM
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Are comments like "I trust your decision" and "I like everything you do for me" too ambiguous for a man or are they encouraging him to worry less about my opinion? Is there a way I can bring up that I would love him making decisions without my input in the form of a story or example? like "I can't decide what to eat when I'm hungry" --can man know that I mean he just pick something? Because saying outright "just pick me something!' is actually being a harridan, direct women only sound good in th…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:28 AM
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I want to know how a woman can inspire a man to behave more dominantly. I know that being direct and telling him is not the way to do it. but I don't know how to best assist him in fulfilling that aspect of his masculine polarity. He does have natural dominant tendencies. I have succeeded so far in the sexual aspect, that is easy just by being responsive, but outside of sex is more difficult. I was hesistant to have my question be from a woman so it was unclear. I want male advice, with straight…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:45 AM
1

Humour.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:09 AM
2

does she like if you pull her hair when you fuck her from behind?
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:08 AM
2

You are self-conscious, is the problem. Stop thinking. Thinking in terms of fear just perpetuates the over-analysis. Focusing on not caring/over-thinking is easier because you can just think for a mantra or simply the word 'stop' whenever you catch yourself. It's easier to learn impulsiveness rather than curb impulsiveness so theres the upside to your problem.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:00 AM
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between now and next week throw a fish text to gauge her level of interest. nothing needy; statements, not questions. Dont think about her otherwise.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:44 AM
2

It is really hard to not look at a man's chest, stare even, when it's a strong one. It's pantie melting, frankly.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:39 AM
8

Another day, another brick in the wall, ooohh wooooes
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 09:10 PM
3

The rape fantasies are high in the SJW women. They just don't admit the darker aspects of sexuality, especially their own, so instead they see 'rape' everywhere and thus 'rape culture' is born from the shadow of the feminine psyche.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 09:32 PM
1

I've always had issues with moralisers and ppl who only see things as they want them to be and not as they are. But now it's because I'm a 'red piller' (according to reddit history)....go figure. [–]applefae 8 points 2 days ago You think not expecting men to do whatever they can to get sex shows lack of empathy? Edit: I just realised you're a red piller, never mind, it's suddenly clear why you think this way. [–]radioactivities9 Not just that, but naivete.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 08:23 PM
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Yes, when she starts to be in her sexual prime he will be in decline. I'd find it really hard to stay faithful --it ain't easier for women, some women just never have to find that out lol. But to each their own.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 06:15 PM
1

Watch Larry King interviews. Steal Larry King's question style. Use sparingly, dont want to actually make ppl feel like they're being interviewed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 06:10 PM
5

Test: see what a chick thinks of the term 'man handling' --does it make her hot and wet or inspire her to spout political diatribe?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 07:52 PM
14

Nope. Sassy is playful and feminine, you're obviously doing it right.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 04:53 PM
1

I don't know where to start. What should an absolute beginner do? Like just to begin the habit and learn? I think a lot of women would benefit from a discussion on it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/17 03:06 PM
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He doesn't give a fuck what you do for a career. Just pick something when you're ready.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 11:15 PM
4

tranny could never get an ace like that. her body makes her face respectively irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 08:31 PM
1

"I'll just talk to you like you dont get laid very often"
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 08:28 PM
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Yeah, worse that happens is a woman ends up single. Never involuntarily celibate. If you are gonna be unhappy single and 50 you'll be unhappy married at 50. The Wall-Worriers end up partnered out of fear, the 'I coulda done better than my husband when i was young' type. Worse than singlehood. Besides,what's so bad about being a single older lady and having sex with frustrated guys in their early 20's? They accidentally call ya 'mom'? Point is: You're alright with who you are or you're not --no i…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 07:27 PM
5

Could you write something about lifting for women? That know nothing about it. I really need to. For my future job if not for myself.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 07:21 PM
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Still turning heads and trying not to break hearts at 32 goin on 33. It's fucking great to be a woman! I never thought so until about 28.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 05:12 PM
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Nope. She just sounds too risk-averse to go fuck Rando Muscles. Men tell themselves "I'm enough for her" cuz it feels good. No one is completely monogamous, people make the effort.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:41 PM
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No tipping point. Some women are fine to be single forever, but the type bragging about what men are (supposedly) buying them are likely not that kind to end up content about it. Telling you about it, yet showing naked pics...she's def saying she thinks those guys are suckers. The facade of showing you her superficial 'expectations' while she's doing so with disdain for them. She'd keep it private if she respected, appreciated even one of those guys and herself. Tell her what you think of her ri…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:17 PM
1

In the alternate version, where the banjo player is a dumb Chad instead of a 'full retard'
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:45 PM
3

This. Takes the pressure off leading and allows girl to get over the laziness. It's laziness that makes women not like it.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:43 AM
1

She will be more hurt by breaking up than by cheating, were she to ever even know. You apply man think to woman think. No good. You'd be more hurt by cheating than a break-up, but not women. Not even married to her! She has a plan for dental school. She could make more money than you and divorce rape less likely then. how many dentists like that around.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:36 AM
1

DUH just cheat on her and sow your Wild Otis to save your relationship you enjoy with this near-perfect girl. See if it calms down the feeling before you do anything rash like breaking up. Why do you think you'll stop the urge to sleep with multiple women some day? Good lord. If she knew, would it devastate her that bad? Not that you should tell her. You'll shake your head at your choice to break-up if you end up a 40 y.o man with a mistress in three cities anyway, with a wife who doesn't apprec…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:21 AM
2

I'd fuck more Chads! --this will be my response to every 'fear of the wall' expression I hear. Really, gals gotta realize there's a vacancy in the sexual market that those young women aren't willing to fulfill LOL it ain't love and marriage (but who knows) ...sometimes you have to choose between money or honey and stability or exciting memories that will make you smile mischievously on your deathbed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/17 06:30 AM
2

Fuckstick - you can get rid of it, Or keep it around for years! Fucksticks, fucksticks They're fun for girls and queers.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 05:41 AM
3

You must first prove yourself worthy to enter the unicorn forest, and then again prove yourself worthy to cross on the unicorn path, and again prove yourself worthy to pass the trees of the unicorn, and then prove yourself worthy to approach the unicorn shade, and then again prove yourself worthy to enter the unicorn sun, and then prove yourself worthy to find the unicorn cave....but then by the time you do that Chad's already got there.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 05:29 AM
0

I'm certain that muscles can remove male virginity. I've never been more certain of something. One problem is some young men don't have that metabolism to build muscle.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 05:18 AM
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Don't qualify/explain yourself it ruins the tingles.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 05:14 AM
4

That's psychological arousal, not comfort. Extraverted people may get energized from interactions, but if it was about feeling 'comfortable' it wouldnt be so. Alertness to status and danger. Everyone has it to some degree. Risk-averse and socially anxious ppl tend to dislike the arousal, and so determine it in terms of discomfort. Comfort is the feeling of cuddling in your blankets at night.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 02:10 AM
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What should be comfortable about being a man? it's potentially violent in many different atmospheres, physically or not. Guys are often trying to one-up the other, show dominance, especially when women are around. How is 'chad' being his comfortable self? With his muscles? is building muscle fucking comfortable? what else does that strength imply...
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 01:11 AM
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Can't really know or say whether someone's SMV is fine over the internet. Some men are here because they aren't natural pantie soakers. "please don't just be your comfortable self" is a prayer in the minds of women when they're out with men.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 11:53 PM
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Tall, attractive, military man....duh...strong, silent type. Tingle Town. Less words is more. Put your hand on the lower back and guide a girl. Look at her calmly, in the eyes, before speaking slowly and she will wonder if you've killed a man with your bare hands. I'm writing erotica here.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 11:03 PM
8

Reading this got one of those genuine girly "awwww's with a smile from me. I should be so lucky to know such a thing in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 05:34 PM
2

I like his vids too! Haven't watched his in awhile, this one I need. Will think of a top 5 in the next 24h.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 05:17 AM
3

Critiques of feminism and any 'ism' or that matter are needed, always. Though I think that these changes that you mentioned, affecting men, are from the changes to civilization in general. Rites of passage have slowly dwindled through history; for both men and women. Modern jobs and tech leave ppl mentally/emotionally drained and lacking physical hobbies, etc. Often whats considered 'feminism' is the opinions and influence of women in general; women never had influence in professional and politi…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 05:15 AM
2

When I was in high school one of our female teachers had the situation where her husband stayed home with the three children. All us kids made fun of this. Her kids, all boys. Now I think it was the more preferable arrangement. Maybe especially that it was male children. It's a useless prejudice. It should be logical for many women to be amenable to stay-at-home fathers, as it's a better way to have children and work; 'have it all' as the modern female conundrum-lament goes. There's their soluti…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 04:30 AM
1

The men who pursue you. You have to be open to meeting men, chat with them and flirt. even something typical like hair twirling and touching their bicep --it don't matter, if it's female romantic intention it's good by the men. They are more self-conscious of your opinion than you are of theirs. But you can make shyness and nervousness work for you by letting it show and a man will see that as 'green light' to ask you out. If your self-esteem is low you're likely imagining the part about 'men yo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 02:58 AM
1

a hobby that involves proficiency leading to the asymptote of mastery. Write, share.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 11:56 PM
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Please write that, there is not much out there from that perspective.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:45 PM
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She wants the same for you that you want for her. She wants you to be a strong man, with options and mastery of his life, who doesn't take shit. You are an example to her, even tho you're a man.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:43 PM
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Young, Virgin has high SMV, watch out for the guys who will lie through their teeth to take it is more your priority than 'raising your SMV' edit; I fear for young womens self-esteem sometimes. And I'm starting to feel like the 'do as I say not as I do' wild, IDGAF, beer-drinking Aunty
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 11:35 PM
2

He is so lucky to have found you. And so lucky that you're interested in enhancing yourself for his fetish. That's good enough. There will always be bigger, juicier butts out there ;)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 10:28 PM
1

Fear of incompetence fucks men over all the time.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 10:01 PM
2

You can show your uncultivated, easily-offended friends this: https://youtu.be/ZGWKKI2ky8w Mockery always wins. Consent politics is kinda like requiring a 'permission slip' for a 'play the field trip', isn't it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 06:14 PM
2

Men doing manly work is my kinda 'porn' too :D
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 04:12 PM
1

LOL This made my day
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:55 PM
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Just means more potential husbands for you to choose from.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:40 PM
2

Do you have anal sex? Maybe he's hinting at more butt involvement in your sex life and lingerie. Sorry if that's crude, 'butt' I'm serious. :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:35 PM
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Are you going to try to do everything he jerks off to in porn? There's no bar to meet where you're headed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:33 PM
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Seconded. You can meet any kid of man at a beer and wings night, but wouldn't it be better to meet in a context where you can learn more about him (and him you) through action. You have lots of 'excuses' to talk to a man then. And FFS stay away from Tinder
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 03:31 PM
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For some men it is a thing of pride to get slapped in the face by a woman. Like in those old movies, where a man gets a bitch slap and then does a shitlord grin. A bottle is too far, sure. Truth is she was just hoping to get wet panties over seeing men fight.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:05 AM
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I think that RPW is about the truths we follow and believe, not what degree we live our lives for that. Women have to think hard what she wants before just getting married and having kids cuz it seems the thing to do. Because you can't stop a woman from figuring out that life is not for her the hard way (and the hard way for her kids/husband). But I would not advocate a woman to take up lovers and be fine with her man having mistresses just because I would. That's the difference here. Feminists …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 12:23 AM
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If a man tells his girl how she's going to get fucked by another man, he can have his wild times on his terms. In another room...alone...no.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 11:51 PM
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What u/MsSadieDunham said, and it's not so easy to tell someone to change their habits, excercise more, and we are not their doctor. I don't think men like judgemental women in general. 'If she's judging them, even if most people would, who else is she judging? Me? Where does she draw the line? '
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 11:35 PM
1

Do you have a girlfriend you could go out for drinks with at a nice restaurant lounge or something. Preferably at lunch time in a business district or right at work end hours. Practice gettin your flirt on, no concern for outcome, maybe meet someone maybe not....no desperate or lonely vibes! you'll attract dicks with those.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:20 PM
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The way the men at school/work see you shouldn't matter. They are doing good by you if they see you and treat you as a peer and admire your accomplishment. It's up to you to show your vulnerable side to a man you're dating. That's not by complaining, just venting about an insecurity that is not superficial, for example. If you want to meet men, take up a social hobby that you'd like it if a man is into. Avoid yoga (for dating purposes)
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 06:17 PM
2

and who failed to see his only daughter was the only one of his children who 'got it'
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 04:59 AM
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She needs to bring value to people outside of her home, I think you're right. That is another cornerstone of a fulfilling life.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 12:12 AM
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I know! It's hilarious, or sad. It makes me think its trolls sometimes. But I enjoy the discussion so contribute my piece anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 11:15 PM
2

Yes. All the masculine, successful men were men with potential who strove to meet it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 11:13 PM
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It's sad because he is good-looking enough by male standards that combined with success makes him high value. The 'friendship hug' says it all. Waist hug, not shoulder hug. Touch makes the biggest difference. Sex is touch, any idiot should figure that out. Polarity is achieved with touch easier than any other way! It's fucking easy. Romance/sexuality first, 'friendship' in relationships exist but isn't the same. Building on a 'foundation of friendship' is the beginning to an unsatisfying relatio…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 09:10 PM
2

Especially if he wins at gym. A man could only win at gym and win poos.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 07:19 PM
2

The problem here is women are totally lying about wanting to be empowered. To have power, one must have independence and be self-reliant No. Even women who just score power by snagging a powerful man share that power.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 06:24 PM
2

do you try to sell your art online?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 06:06 PM
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You still need a hobby. No matter what you do in life. Do you have one?
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 06:01 PM
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Figure out what men share your level of attractiveness and go for them. Men usually have a good idea about their own attractiveness to women since we're more picky about sex. Find those guys, date them, have them charm and compliment you. I think you're just missing out on that. The therapist can help with your genuine self-esteem, internet strangers not so much. Good move with that.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 05:44 PM
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The thing with 'white knights' is that they are being helpful for their selfish gratification. They do things for women to feel like they are the superior nice guy. No different than the man who wants to walk you to the door to try and get in for a lay. "White Knighting" behaviors are fine. Like acting like a protector of women when is needed. When it's heroic, or otherwise giving when needed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 05:36 PM
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'you sexy mountain of a man' is the only part of that anyone should ever say LOL
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 05:21 PM
1

If a woman isn't worried about an LTR or marriage, it's not going to harm her. But the same things can apply to searching for a long term man. It's not just 'alpha' guys who are romantic, passionate.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 05:00 PM
1

That is a good point. I think women should stay away from men who don't have at least one hobby that involves achieving mastery. It's a part of a good self-esteem. So compliments should definitely revolve around his hard work, his actions, or individual character.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 04:51 PM
2

i believe in abortion til 24 months LOL Well, the more abortion laws, the more babies left in dumpsters is true. They used to tax single moms at some point in history at the same time as condemning abortion, before modern abortions. Wtf. I don't think society will get passed the strong moralising about pregnancy and fetal remains, least not any time soon. That's a big part of the problem, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 02:37 AM
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Free Market. If your product don't sell, whose problem is it? The SMP works fine enough that our society isn't violent. It's worse for men in general when polygamist males run the joint. Those guys will cut of your balls and make you babysit their harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 02:28 AM
1

I'd jokingly accuse him of rape every time he touched me even casually. It would be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 12:39 AM
1

I sure would. Negativity comes from people's personal psychology, not their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 12:38 AM
1

fuck that's funny! I wouldn't care if Michael Fassbender reads or thinks I'm shit-testing him -RP truth :P
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 12:07 AM
5

I love her, in The Fall she was great too, her voice was so soft and feminine yet commanding. wooow
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 12:01 AM
1

I don't usually doll up as we do casual dates. But since you say that, I will dress up (to a modest but noticeable degree) for the next one even if we're going somewhere chill. Good stuff :D
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 09:51 PM
1

I would like to thank you folks for the responses and good advice, even if I don't have anything specific to say back.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 09:50 PM
1

LOL yes those damned undertones of frustration and entitlement
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 09:04 PM
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Aphrodite and women from mythology. Can learn a lot from the myths -- otherwise why would they become such prominent figures, their character traits/meanings still found in modern tales movies, literature. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bellona_(goddess) I wonder what archetype Hepburn is.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 09:02 PM
5

This comment really gave me the warm fuzzy feelings. She sounds like absolute blessing to know and have as a grandma.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 08:59 PM
1

Totally true. There was a misunderstanding there I'm glad you pointed out. I mean that there are some women who aren't adventurous in bed and unwilling to budge on that. The 'starfish', as the menfolk say. Some men are ok with that but the type of this post usually aren't. And that there are some men (and women of course) who just can't do monogamy, so sometimes it's a trade off. If a man has always been very sexually oriented he won't change. But a man can be less sexually oriented (ie. not his…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 08:56 PM
1

Thank you. I'm glad to hear you and others found value in it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 08:50 PM
5

I'm drooling in indirect dread. lol New motto.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 04:30 AM
4

Hell yeah. The reason guys think women in their early 30's arent attractive is because they mistake them for mid or late 20's.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 04:28 AM
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Don't think about the wall. Go for younger men who like older women. They're all over the internet. Just post that's what you want on your online profile. If that's not what you want long-term, just try it to get your romantic groove back. I don't know what you want aside from that you cant to judge something that's subjective. If you do want kids, a younger man will have the extra energy for it you and an older man wouldn't have. Please don't listen to the male TRP negativity about female aging…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 04:23 AM
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'The wall' stuff is really funny. It's a gradual decline in fertility, not a steep drop.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 01:04 AM
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Don't post pics on a rating site. Don't. That's coming from a place of low self-confidence and fear, even if you think it's out of curiousity or will help you 'calibrate' what your expectations of a man's qualities should be in comparison to your own. And men like to use those kind of sites to either insult women from a safe space (ironic right) or the same old 'tell her what I think she wants to hear' type guys, who think they could possibly meet a gf/lover off reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 12:58 AM
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So qualifying a compliment with "I love that trait in a man" is ok? I'm not sure if such a statement is perceived by men as a comparison.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 10:53 PM
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I've seen it work on men. Not with flirting with other men, or directly saying "I'm dating other men". Though there are men who are aroused by that and like it! We must use our feminine intuition and attentiveness to tailor our charms to their individuality. It has to be in his mind of his own free will. As Nittany 'accidentally' did. Her man heard it and felt competitive. Now he's a protein shake lover who's into fitness. Sometimes TRP men decieve themselves about what really 'works on them' ju…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 09:49 PM
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Nice. I was thinking using a bit of dread game in that manner in combination with making him feel really good and admired. I think I will use that exact lumberjack line, as it's got some charming innocence t it. Just something that slipped out of my mouth.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:38 PM
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Think up some lines to say about typical things people ask you about. Practice diverting the topic back to them or about neutral topics until you get more open. I often prepare before social outings, thinking of stories, jokes and what to talk about before I attend.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 08:02 PM
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I still have some groundwork to do before the direct approaches are respectful. For now I may just visibly drool down my chin when a ripped guy is on TV
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 07:56 PM
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That's bullshit, troll back-pedalling! Thx for the laughs tho, enjoy your sweaty nutsack foreplay.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 07:46 PM
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I like that phrase. And the idea, even if it is covert nagging :D
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 07:26 PM
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more importantly, do you feel intimidated that women care whether a man works out?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 07:05 PM
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I like that. We don't live together and aren't in an LTR but nag by example can still work. I want to know if he can do it before committing to him. Because I want to keep the attraction and help him be the best man he can be.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 07:03 PM
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Does that work with your boyfriend?
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 06:57 PM
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They are totally full of shit or insecure. When guys attempt to qualify themsevles that way, they are giving away that they think the woman theyre talking to is out of his league.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 04:25 PM
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That is sweet. I think I might to the cake baking thing to. Do the maternity lingerie, just mention to your husband that you feel embarassed and awkward, then let him reassure you. I think that's what would happen in most cases. Ah pregnancy seems so tough.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 04:17 PM
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Do men like to receive a gift on valentines? I have only been dating him for a month, haven't got a guy a V-day gift before and never had them care. Not sure what to do here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 04:17 PM
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Exactly! And all the more reason to see if he asks. Because men are unlikely to bring it up seriously if they don't want that, but plenty will humour women to keep them around, which is easier than bringing up the subject. Especially if they're getting sex. It not always works out to delay sex until a serious commitment in everyone's situation. So there has to be other ways of handling things aside from holding out as long as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 04:10 PM
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Sounds like your guy friend may like you as more, or wants to, anyway. Ask him to take you out and watch him talk to people. I was naturally shy introvert into my early 20's. I got a job as a waitress, and was terrified, but that forced me to overcome social anxiety and I learned most people have some social nervousness anyway, and no one can really tell as we all tend to focus on ourselves. You could try getting a job that requires working with the public, or volunteering at a place that does, …
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 02:44 AM
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She needs to make him feel wanted--a god among kings. Yes. Beautifully put, the whole post There is a proverb that "when a woman loves a man he's like a god, but when she falls out of love he's less than an insect" We have to keep investing ourselves in our men, continuously, as that keeps us conscious of the love within us and we always naturally value what we invest in.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 01:27 AM
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I think shared interests and hobbies are the main requirement for male-female friendships. Because that's how men bond with genuine friends. Just meeting to discuss life over dinner is for girlfriends, gay friends, or otherwise it's a date. I don't get the men and women can't be friends crap. Maybe it's true for hormonal teens, twenty-somethings. But it doesn't matter if the man WOULD have sex with you, if you're not having sex, you're just friends. Funny how a lot of men seem to think the oppos…
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 12:35 AM
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If a man says straight out he's not dating anyone else and is trustworthy and direct, he deserves that in return I agree. My mother told me about how she committed to my father. She was on a date with another man, and my dad saw them together. He went up to them and told my mom she had to choose between him or the other guy. This was also in a time when it was expected that women weren't sleeping with a man she was dating. It's the opposite assumption now, which kind of complicates 'playing the …
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 12:29 AM
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That is good advice, I think it has to be done very early in that case, as you stated, right off the get-go. As it's not so much about him but what the woman wants at that point; then he has something to STEP UP to, not something he's being pressured by. Then it's like it's his idea! Tried, true, classic. The more subtle approach are men a bit more afraid of commitment, not quite ready for commitment, but maybe open to it at some point (most are, frankly). I would never advise a woman to get ONE…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 11:52 PM
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Gals, just after writing this today, I get a man I've been seeing asking whether I'm looking for a relationship at some point in our future. I'm not bull-shitting to make my advice seem valid. It's why the topic was on my mind, I seen it coming. As much as it makes me smile, it makes me sweat. The answer to him is that I do. But I have to find out what it means to him. I'm not sure what his sensibilities are about monogamy. I'm def not going to ask that at this point tho.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 11:38 PM
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Yes, I thought that question was completely fucked up. It's a huge redflag!!! What's next, they are going to require GPS on you lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 11:30 PM
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Passive-aggressive is a good point. They might hear an ultimatum in those types of hints. Men hate those generally.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 11:29 PM
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If you've read Art of Seduction, please let me know which archetype you're most interested in discussing. edit: this goes to men reading too, if you want to discuss that aspect of feminity or read a chick talk about it from curiousity or whatever.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 11:10 PM
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Your father and mother know they are just jealous. I experienced a similar thing. Bitches sometimes try to live vicariously through their female relatives. No man will ever be good enough from that jealous, meddling state of mind! Fuck 'em.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 08:50 PM
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And this is where the entire Feminist movement tries to drag down the average level of feminine beauty so they aren't losing in a competition. Never thought of feminism that way. It makes sense that early anti-sexuality/anti-polarity feminists were ugly, where as young Camille Paglia, the pro-polarity feminist critic, was hot. She makes a good point about feminism being formed by these upper class sentimentalities. Most have been raised in unusually polite society where no one raised their voice…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 08:19 PM
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Cheers to that. To some women, that's the red pill. Not all of us are worried about ending up being alone. We may even prefer it. There's also the social expectation that a single woman is a 'waste' and a childfree woman a 'waste' of a womb. So what if us 'take it or leave it' types are cake-eaters in a way (yum). And since that's easy for women to do, there is some resentment of women going their own way. Also fits the femme fatale type that is scary to some men. She does not give a fuck either…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 09:13 AM
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You choose where you want to go if you didn't have a boyfriend. You are too young to make such a sacrifice. Because he is young and not yet a man. You may love him but you don't know who he really is yet and what kind of man he will become. And you will change, for sure, as women always do! If it can't work long-distance for awhile, than how could your love withstand other trials of life?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 01:17 AM
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Hello! I'm a ~30 y.o. gal with lots of field experience. I differ from some RPW basics, in that I'm not concerned about extracting commitment in the marriage sense. I am childfree and don't want my own any day. Naturally, I'm a feminist in the traditional sense as I value my freedoms extremely! BUT Feminism shouldn't have anything to do with our love lives and the nature of femininity/masculinity. That's why I'm here. Women have so much power. It's fantastic. Nothing to be afraid or ashamed of!
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 01:11 AM
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"so RPW works toward keeping women from squandering sex while working towards obtaining commitment, and TRP works toward keeping men from squandering commitment while working towards obtaining sex." I don't give a fuck about snagging commitment or squandering sex.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 09:31 PM
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My bro and I outright told my mom she is solipsistic. She didnt say anything. She's not as bad as what your mom sounds like tho.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 07:21 PM
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Does she have grandkids, if she is at that age? If not, are you the only one that could make that happen for her? I think my mom is miffed that she doesnt have grandkids when many of her friends have. She feels it's something people have to complete their lives. Entitled to, perhaps.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 07:17 PM
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His dad is probably thinking AWALT anyway. So he is being fatalistic too. Ultimatums like "momIm not going to be around when you are old and gray if you keep acting like this/dont get help' might work. But yeah a young man has his life ahead of him, should not worry too much about anyone other than himself.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 07:11 PM
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Yes she might also have issues from aging, whether she feels losing power or even options. She might resent marrying him and still think she could have done better. Some older women all they care about is getting their bathroom remodeled, some bizarre extension of the nesting instinct run amok. I don't know, maybe the lowering hormones make the feelings of love and bonding leave. Some older women are cruel. It's like the archetype of 'Evil Queen'
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 07:05 PM
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I was thinking he was just looking for sex with her. Sending another message doesn't take a lot of time.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 06:36 PM
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Guess they're too scared to alienate their audience, their cash flow. A man with muscles and a sense of timing will get laid often. I guess those ads that 'say this sequence of words and any woman will love you' exist for a reason. The power of wishful thinking.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 07:08 AM
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For all we know his dad got tired of it and his mom is just relentless. Sometimes people have underlying problems, reinforced by years of taking them out destructively. It can't be solved by assertiveness on part of the abused person. But it's true his dad did accept it. He thinks he's being a man. This is passed the point. Yelling at someone over the dinner table is far beyond nagging. He would have to insist on her getting therapy. His mom likely has mental health issues that can't be solved b…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 06:55 AM
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I've somewhat the same issue. My mother can be really tyrannical. She has a bad concept of boundaries, if any. This partly came from being a mother and making all the domestic decisions. So she likes to especially take her neurosis out on me (her adult daughter, therefore her extension of herself) in ways which the specfics don't matter. During one heated argument I told her: "I'm not your husband and I'm not your son. I'm a woman. I don't care how happy you are. I will fight with you. I'm not g…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 06:24 AM
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yeah, they basically seduce men with the idea that there's a system for seducing women. Straight men seducing other men. Often for money. Playing the numbers game means nothing. Is what it is, hit or miss.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:29 AM
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You're right about the waiting game and older women. We don't give a fuck that way. At least the type who has hobbies, tats, no kids. But sometimes we forget about men real easy for no reason. Part of it is what the guys here say is 'abundance' mentality, related is there's no fucking glory in going on a date for women, and we're just older and have other priorities. Like someone said, she probably just changed her mind, or is on okcupid 'not knowing what i want' meaning: she's not at all invest…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:10 AM
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That happened to me with a guy I genuinely loved. He never accepted that a woman would still love (and desire) him if he showed weakness. They were weaknesses in his mind and not mine. Sometimes you have to let your guard down and believe, trust the other person. Otherwise RedPill ideas become solipsism too. This is what causes both men and women to treat each other poorly, even if only from emotional neglect. It's better to focus on how the other person wants to be loved and satisfying that how…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 03:36 AM
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yes, considering societies were never matriarchal, it was men creating the conditions that lead to fewer men reproducing, not female 'hypergamy.'
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 03:10 AM
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