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Go get them Wayne Rooney.
/r/seduction24/10/21 10:30 AM
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Break your flippant comment down further for me.
/r/seduction15/04/20 07:33 PM
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Read my post again. Look at the image of Charles Bukowski's face I linked. A man can reflect on himself, and see only his own face's weirdness. But what is that man's relationship to his physical form? Because that is also a signal that a woman picks up. Does she see a man in paralysed shyness, because of his weird face? or Does she see a man OWNING his weird face, lifting it high and proudly? I have big ears, a weird mustache, the beginnings of a widow's peak coming - but I carry myself with pr…
/r/seduction15/04/20 07:31 PM
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Straight out truth? I'm talking to too many other women to care. If I want to reactivate though, the worst thing I can do, is make it super dramatic and serious. That's a weak behaviour to signal to a woman, and will only repel you more. Truth be told, there could be heaps of reasons why she isn't replying that are rational or irrational - but they're not your business. I can say, unless it was my girlfriend or wife, I wouldn't bother creating a drama about it. It's not worth it. Nobody owes you…
/r/seduction15/04/20 06:26 PM
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Much appreciation there brother! The haters only hate themselves because of how unsuccessful their sex life, and how desperate they are. They're impotent to their own way out. This just all stems from pain and toxicity. That is a very detailed set of questions. I might have to make a post about this because of how long it will take me to invest in answering you. I will say though, I've never been an intensely analytic person when it comes to dating. I feel that by being hyper-analytic with datin…
/r/seduction15/04/20 05:49 PM
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Ok bruh.
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:24 AM
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Ok bruh.
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:24 AM
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That's because you're a size queen.
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:48 PM
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REMEMBER THIS - It is entirely, and only, your fault that you are not getting laid. Not the women. Not other men. Not your dick size, height or salary. Nothing. Nobody. Only you. Simple.
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:45 PM
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Height, dick size, and salary is all that matters.You're delusional if you think otherwise or if you think you're average. This is literally the delusion, right here folks. The fact this man, can't see through his pain and bitterness, what it actually attracts to improve himself and seek a mate.
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:44 PM
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0, same with pregnancies.
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:38 PM
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I can be the happiest, most confident guy in the world, it's not going to make women like small dick manlets. That's because you aren't the happiest, most confident guy in the world. If you were, you'd attract women. Your mindset is all fucked up and toxic. That's why, I'm even repelled to reply back to you. Yet, I'll swallow my fuckin' pride, because this is the right thing to do by my morals and values. This is a demonstration of my character. Put either put the fucking positive work in, RIGHT…
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:37 PM
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Patrice O'Neal - everything this motherfucker says... LISTEN TO. He will change your opinion on male / female dynamics, whilst laughing your fucking ass off at how much of a chump you were. The Game. Obviously a good starting point, even if it's an overrated classic. Any books on sexual technique & performance. Wes Watson is sick for mindset training. Same with David Goggins.
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:29 PM
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You still believe that height is such an overwhelming advantage? Or that a negative, bitter mindset/personality is more repelling? I find it hard to understand why you defend the height paradigm, so rigidly. It's literally one factor out of many, yet every incel and his dog has jumped in here. Why? All traumatised from a lack of female contact, because they don't put the work into self-improvement, not because they're under 6 foot.
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:27 PM
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Incels don't want to hear that attracting a mate, requires them to look in the mirror and put in work.
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:22 PM
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Already answered this in another comment.
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:20 PM
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You're demonstrating your own insecurities & toxicity by giving this power. You need help.
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:20 PM
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If that is all true, and I am in the top 5% of all men in the world's dating pool, then why am I not fucking Victoria's Secret models? Why do billionaires and celebrities get all advantages of online dating? Does that sound familiar? Because it's the same pessimistic outlook that holds people back. Physical attributes, and the insane scrutiny men hold themselves up to, by comparing themselves to it, is what holds them back in dating. If you don't believe I'm an average guy, because of one or two…
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:58 PM
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Can you elaborate more on your first date tips & tricks? Thanks man, very inspiring. About to hit the sack. I will reply back soon!
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:52 PM
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sungotti, my pleasure brother. If I can help people out with my experiences, that's the reward in itself :)
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:52 PM
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lmao Yall motherfuckers are retarded AND bitter. That's a combo GUARANTEED to repel women from you.
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:49 PM
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You need Black Jesus in your life bro. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rTEJiLvKOfQ
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:45 PM
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Except it is true. You're dismissing someone, based on one factor. You height obsessed people are like a cult lmao. Holy shit.
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:35 PM
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They? Who is they? You mean every single woman, out of the 7.6 billion people on earth, are all looking for a 6 foot tall man? You can't engage in a conversation with ONE of them, no matter how confident, successful or charismatic you are? The fuck is wrong with you? Get rid of the simp mentality. Not only are you becoming baby boy, but you're pussying out of the REAL work you need to do. You aren't offering anything demonstrative of value with your profile or photos. The lack of self respect is…
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:33 PM
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lmao. I like you. You're everything I warn others about <3
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:23 PM
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Did you bother reading my post? What part did you invalidate with yours?
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:22 PM
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Yeah, nah. This simp mentality - this disempowering victimhood bullshit, is what stops men become greater versions of themselves, getting laid and getting dates. If you're going to throw out statistics, then recognise this principle. The more work you put in, the greater the fruits you receive. Full stop.
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:19 PM
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You can see why minimising attraction, to physical attractiveness like height & facial features, is a net detriment, right? They don't matter "a lot". I'm always going to pull people up when they say this shit. They're a factor - but they're not even by far the most important factor. Therefore, they're also not even worth putting mental energy and focus on. There's far more net positive areas to put that work into
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:03 PM
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All in all, you've wasted a ton of energy into defending the height paradigm. Women pick up on that very readily.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:59 PM
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You realise how ridiculous you sound? Why would I want to find a better career, when I'm in the career I want? My chosen field takes years to develop. I walked out of a digital marketing career where I was making $70 to $100k. For what? 50 hour work weeks, crippling stress and unfulfillment. To you, I should've stayed in that field rather than invest in my freelance business. People like you, will always choose short term security over long term investment. You believe that, because your priorit…
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:59 PM
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I have major anxiety talking to people and sometimes I literally RUN out of stuff to talk about. Ik it's not nerves or anything, cuz it happens with friends and family as well. I just don't talk much, over text or otherwise. Any tips on how to steer conversations in my favor or get someone to talk/open up more? Start researching into the art of conversation & interviewing. It helps to put more energy into asking questions you're genuinely curious about, as well as actively listening (which is a …
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:51 PM
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I've got heavy tinnitus & am probably due for ear aids lmao Life's can be a cruel mistress :)
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:44 PM
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I'll do it on one condition. For a few weeks, you try overcoming your insecurities about height, by not spending a minute of mental energy on it, and instead placing your energies into your text game / mindset / gym / inner game. Or is this is all talk?
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:43 PM
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0001none, if Isaiah Thomas had that attitude, he wouldn't have made it to the NBA at 5'9". Instead he maximised his technique, skills & strengths to not only play the game, but play at an allstar level. You're overestimating the impact of height. My profile doesn't even mention it. I didn't get laid consistently, until I started putting the work in. Put the fucking work in & quit hiding your inner game deficiencies behind uncontrollable variables like height. It's an excuse, and one that women p…
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:41 PM
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Yeahhhhh I'm gonna stop you right there lol. Not saying height Is everything No, I'm gonna stop you right there. I literally just said height isn't everything lol My profile doesn't even mention my height. Stop fixating on it!! That's the bitch test that women throw out at you. The moment you bite on their subjective height requirements, you fail the fucking test.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:35 PM
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Goruto1334 - my dating profile doesn't have my height in it. Why would it be a success? Brother, I want you to get laid. Simple. Women however, are emotional creatures. They will pick up, the slightless, unconscious attitudes that you have. The relationship you have with yourself, is the most important one of all. If you have any slight embarrassment or feel less of a man, because you are 5'9, TRUST ME, women will scrutinise that more than they will your height. Now, you can't control height. BU…
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:34 PM
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Born on 2nd and thinks it’s just as easy for everyone. Who said starting out in dating was supposed to be easy? You think it was for me in the beginning? lol
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:29 PM
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Thanks metalhammer69 - much can be conquered with the right attitude, that's for sure!
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:28 PM
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No, but it's a strength of mine. I don't shy away from humour that is sexual, edgy, perhaps mildly insulting, glib & sarcastic. But that doesn't matter too much. What makes it a strength though? Because I've made it a strength. I've refined this in my textgame, like a stand up comic would. I'm not embarrassed if my jokes bomb. I don't care if I'm unmatched by a wayward punchline. I use something authentic - my taste and sense of humour, and bring it to the dating table. Women, the ones I date, w…
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:28 PM
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I'm picky. I have pulled back and rejected women based on a lack of attraction. But, it is hard to rate the women I've been with... Sure, I could say mostly 6s to 8s with the odd 9's and 10's... but that negates that I have different tastes in women. My criteria is... - Presentable - Well groomed - Not overweight or fat - Cute face If they don't tick those boxes, I don't meet them, because I know I won't be turned on, and it will be an awkward waste of time.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:22 PM
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Online gaming & ipod's from 14 to 18. Then nightclubs & concerts from 18 to 20.
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:21 PM
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My pleasure brother. The beer may not happen, but always open for messages if you get stuck!
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:20 PM
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Here's a few bulletpoints Only once, but it happened. I made a woman orgasm, by only playing with her nipples. This doesn't happen without finesse and skill. It's not magic. It's basic anatomy. understand that it won't happen with every woman I sleep with, and neither will squirting (as some women are anatomically incapable of it). Every girl I have had sex with, I've made it a point, to bring them to orgasm first. I'd say 80 to 90% of the women I've slept with, have orgasmed with me. I know the…
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:19 PM
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The last thing you are is an average man at that height And here lies the mythological weakness that stops you from getting laid.
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:51 PM
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I'll be honest - I could possibly start memorising opening lines, but my textgame isn't predicated on that. It's more Jazz, than Classical Concertos I'm turned off by standardized approaches, as although they work, I don't feel it falls into my strengths. One size fits all approaches, can start to feel stale. And when they feel stale, the women will feel the lack of care & effort that is being placed into it. I'm more of a Bobby Fischer, than a Boris Spassky :)
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:50 PM
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Don't have snapchat, but feel feel to private message me mate. Happy to give advice
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:47 PM
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Is your boyfriend, Neil Strauss lol That's exactly right.
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:46 PM
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A tough question... Let me answer it like this. Being needy & pushy, is far better being tackle as a mindset. I mean, what does having sex with this person mean to you? What would it mean if they rejected you? It's like being in the Champions League Finals. You perform at your best, when you're not worrying about the final result. You place faith in your training, your knowledge, your tactics and you respond to the game as it unfolds. I feel like when you can read a woman, and respond to them au…
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:45 PM
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I am not the person who will break through to them. In fact, they may never to see their shortcomings, but I do pray for their benefit, that they can move past it. I thought toxic masculinity was just a catchphrase that rabid feminists threw out to castigate all men - but no. It does exist. It is real. There's a massive swell of men, who have in their unresolved trauma, turned to unhealthy ideologies like incels. We need more pathways to developing far stronger & healthy demonstrations of mascul…
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:40 PM
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Exactly! Now - I'm not a Jeff when going out, but then again, I don't need to be. My dating game isn't the best in a group environment, but it excels in 1 on 1 situations. This is where online dating has made things so much easier for me. When people throw the height out as an excuse, it's so they can use it to hide the work that their personality & lifestyle require. This is where the lack of confidence & toxicity come from.
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:37 PM
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You're a good man Undiscriminatingness, just don't be afraid to set aside yourself some 'me time' & accept help when it's there!
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:34 PM
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Started out as an actor 8 years ago, then purchased my first camera 5 years ago and started taking an interest in photography. This then lead me to filmmaking. I worked very hard at these, part time for 3 years, then 14 months ago I quit my job and went out as a freelancer full time. Then the coronavirus struck, and now business is suspended ;)
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:32 PM
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Going to keep it to my chest, as I'd like to not mix business with pleasure :)
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:30 PM
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That is a fair critique. But then, by what criteria are assessing average? I'm not rich, not model material, don't own a home, don't have a stable, 9 to 5 job, bring a below average income home. How are these traits not average? There's a myriad of factors here. By those factors, I do consider myself to be average - but, I don't dwell on them. They don't sap my confidence, nor do they hold me back in life. But it isn't about becoming confident (which is absolutely possible for most average guys)…
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:30 PM
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Thanks mate, appreciate the love. I don't mind diving into the criticism and hatred though. The art of debate & rhetoric, make you a far more resilient & thoughtful person. If I have to defend my thoughts, then it allows room to re-assess them and understand them better. I'm really glad I've been able to, in my own small way, nudge you back on track. It's all there for you mate, you simply need to take it. The act of self-development and growth, are all motivated from the dark, painful times in …
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:19 PM
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Yes - but what is a 4/10? If I didn't begin to value myself, and force myself to grow from my suffering, nor invest in my fitness, grooming, public speaking & photos, I would be of less perceived value. The point I'm making is, anyone can get a match. But who do you want to match with, and what are you personally willing to do, in order to attract those matches into your life?
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:15 PM
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Brother, that's the culmination of thousands of hours of swiping and testing since Tinder first got released to the public in 2012/2013 (I was using OkCupid before that). The idea that any one person is a fixed number rating is wrong. It's fluid. My self assessment being a 6/10 could easily be someone else's 10/10.
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:12 PM
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Cheers mate. Living with parents isn't a sign of weakness or moral failure, but you do you do pal ;)
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:10 PM
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Your height must be a thorn in your side still. You'd be well and truly a more successful person in dating, if you simply overcame your mental relationship and maxed out some personality points. Thanks for chiming into my Ted Talk champ. Subscribe to pewdiepie.
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:09 PM
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Ladies and gentlemen, witness the makings of an incel.
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:06 PM
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I'll give you an example shabaad. Last girl I sealed the deal with, had a Polish football scarf draped around her. I made a simple opening which was "Football hooligan feminists are a real kink of mine these days". It's sexual without being needy or pushy, it's topical so it shows that I've paid attention to her photos, and more importantly, she replied. Her followed was "Hahah yes. I'm also a tradie. So we have that in common" Getting laid is like feeding a cat. If you want it, you don't sprint…
/r/seduction07/04/20 07:05 PM
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If you're as toxic and repelling with women, as you are in /r/seduction, then god help you mate lol
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:59 PM
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See, that's the thing. You have to rise above the average. How did I get muscular? I worked my ass off and motivated myself, by learning that happiness & health are correlated. How did I get into boxing? Because not only do I love it, but the momentum of loving it, carries through to wanting to consistently train. How did I give myself bad ass passions? Because I stopped lying to myself than being financially successful, with an office job, a mortgage and a family would make me fundamentally hap…
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:58 PM
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There are far more perceivably attractive men out there, that have had less partners than I have. You're as focused on height as size queens are. This is disempowering for you.
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:54 PM
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Guys & Girls - this is the golden rule here.
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:52 PM
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I would like to ask you to think about this in another way... how could you improve your textgame passively? Imagine, how good your text game would be, if you started reading more, taking an improv class, doing drama, learning stand up comedy etc I've been very grateful for actively pursuing my career in the arts, because it has helped me immensely in this regard. If you feel an overwhelming need, to constantly put your persona forward, it can cripple you. Instead, the best dating comes from rea…
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:49 PM
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I could. But it wouldn't necessarily get me laid, because I'd be demonstrating untrustworthiness by weirdly lying about my height. Would it get me more matches? Probably not, unless I made a joke about it and showed extreme ownership of being at my height. When I give away my confidence by buying into that paradigm, it does nothing to maximise my strengths and minimising my weakness. Ultimately, it's the different between NBA players Josh Smith & LeBron James. Both had similar physical stats, ye…
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:41 PM
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But I really shine in person. Then you my friend, are already demonstrating the fundamental principle of maximise your strengths. I don't shine cold approaching in person. But, I do have a great charisma in translating a text convo to first dates. However, don't settle for the fallacy that because you aren't good at something, you won't be able to excel at it ever. Text game is a skill that anyone can lean. I'm sure I'd be able to excel at cold approaches if I tried - it just doesn't interest me…
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:35 PM
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iPods, online gaming with headsets & loud concerts in my 20s. Within 5 years of acting a fool, I lost 50% of my hearing. Tough loss, but I made my bed and now I lie in it. It's a challenge, but I overcome and have plenty of other worthwhile pursuits to chase down :)
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:33 PM
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But let's quantify ugly, really is? I've seen a lot of aesthetically pleasing women, who have ugly personalities, and frankly, I would only date or have sex with, if it was put on my lap. What you deem ugliness can be physical, mental, hygiene, personality, behaviour. All of these items can affect the perception of attractiveness which is also highly subjective. One person's ugly, is another person's hot. Get the gist? You would be surprised at how much physical attractiveness is based on person…
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:32 PM
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Thank you for the kind words my friend. It's been a hell of a personal development journey in this time. I feel immensely proud of myself for taking the initial steps all those years ago. The growth speaks for itself, as I'm sure you can attest :)
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:27 PM
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So whats the point? Fucking 70 but having NONE Because I value my goals & career over a long term relationship. This is the sacrifice I make for my career. Each of my 3 relationships lasted over 1 year each. Yet - I'd rather be single right now, than be in a relationship with an incompatible person, who wants something different. Do I want a long term, loving relationship and to start a family? Yes, I do. But I value myself, and thus, I'm patient. If the right woman comes along, she will have to…
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:18 PM
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I'm a freelance artist. Primarily make my living as a videographer / photographer / editor, but also work as an actor, director & cinematographer. Not a glamourous life, but fun, exciting with lots of free time (especially now!)
/r/seduction07/04/20 06:16 PM
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Your 6' 2". Everything else you said was true but I will promise you online dating wouldn't be so easy for you if you were 5' 9". I'm not going to insult you and say that there isn't a modicum of truth here... but the mental paralysis & fixation on height, coupled with the brutal hit on self-confidence, is far more unattractive to women, than the height itself. I can assure you, if I were 5'2, I'd still be dating, but with a completely different segment of the dating pool, with a completely diff…
/r/seduction07/04/20 05:41 PM
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No, that would dishonest. I only want to share truth with my Seduction peers because the truth made me the interesting, improved version of myself. But don't get it twisted. It is far closer to 20-25 as an average than it is 40. I get 40 on an amazing day like public holidays or weekends
/r/seduction22/08/16 12:41 PM
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Not concerned enough to go to the effort to prove it
/r/seduction22/08/16 03:47 AM
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Every country and city has a different Tinder culture. I went to Sydney this week and had less matches, but ended up with an F close because the girl knew I wasn't staying for a weekend. But why less matches? - Every city has slightly different needs and wants. My profile & pics worked for Melbourne than it did for Sydney as Melbourne isn't as extroverted. Sydney women are much more about status and wealth as well.
/r/seduction22/08/16 03:12 AM
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3rd party apps might but just need to be aware. I agree though.
/r/seduction21/08/16 10:30 PM
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Not in Australia lol
/r/seduction21/08/16 10:30 PM
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I identify and look white but have a mixed anglo / middle eastern background
/r/seduction21/08/16 10:30 PM
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Or Tinder Plus and a good profile. Don't put glass ceilings or attach limiting self beliefs. Where are you from?
/r/seduction21/08/16 10:27 PM
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Yes. And it's a shit service admittedly, but with the fact that male online dating dynamics requires us to swipe a broad number and engage first, it's necessary. I wouldn't do it if i wasn't hungry to grow. But I so the price of 2 bar drinks is worth it.
/r/seduction21/08/16 06:34 PM
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Average 20 to 40 matches a day, but I swipe on anything Will engage or message 75% of those. 2 to 4 dates a week. Look Tinder is like Online Poker. It used to be easy as shit, now only the naturals or hard workers will succeed. I continue to push on forward with text and date game while others quit. Make it easier for me. Same thing with Bumble and Feeld/3Nder
/r/seduction21/08/16 05:21 PM
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I really like your field reports man. I can tell you have a great heart inside of you for having the strength to embrace your masculinity, without needing validation. Keep it going brother, reading these always puts me in a better mindset for text game
/r/seduction23/07/16 04:48 PM
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This comes down to a basic human respect not pua. If a person explicitly tells another person not to touch them, their wishes should be abided by
/r/seduction05/07/15 02:47 AM
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If the comments are anything to go by, the polarisation is definitely working
/r/seduction27/09/14 08:01 AM
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Of course there are other cues you make take into consideration - tone, behavior, past actions - but the fact stands. If a girl flakes on you, do not lower your value by trawling through mud to get to her. Simply move on
/r/seduction27/12/13 07:56 AM
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Have an upvote friend. There are many auteurs that need this advice, and I'd imagine a few downvoting you could still learn from it.
/r/seduction27/12/13 07:55 AM
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Approach her with a mildly playful invitation based on your shared lack of enthusiasm for anything Christmas. I probably wouldn't invite her to your familys place unless she is Jewish, they all get along and it wouldn't be a big deal for either of them.
/r/seduction24/12/13 09:46 AM
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All parts of in the act of seduction have a role in how a female responds to you. I think the only debate is as to what extent they played a part. Ask yourself this question - would it have panned out taking out one technique over another? Variance is crucial!
/r/seduction11/12/13 09:19 PM
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Even small variances provide a multitude of different opportunities in any given scenario. It's still possible it could've played out the same way. I thought you played it very admirably, and the MVP clutch play was this "well because if I didn't, then I would probably seduce you so bad and make you want me, but I don't need to, I'm okay with this" /slowclap
/r/seduction11/12/13 09:06 PM
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Take some DMT or Psilocybin mushrooms, OP. You'll soon see that all your fears are for naught. Every single ounce of you wants to excel and approach life in an optimum fashion. However, like everyone, there are irrational fears that hold us back and cause us to stray. Do not worry! Concentrate on the good qualities that seduction brings you. Approach women as a new opportunity to show your best self.
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:24 PM
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Out of curiousity, was there an age difference between yall?
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:13 PM
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