Conversations with an average man with an above average sex life

SCLegend · 2020-04-07T17:32:18+00:00

Your 6' 2". Everything else you said was true but I will promise you online dating wouldn't be so easy for you if you were 5' 9".

advant525 · 2020-04-07T18:20:06+00:00

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1xltP3mgkiF9 · 2020-04-07T18:06:09+00:00

I'd love to look average rather than very ugly.

__sad_but_rad__ · 2020-04-07T18:58:57+00:00

I'm 29, 6'2, 90kg.

ok chad

stonedlawstudent · 2020-04-07T17:58:38+00:00

This isn't really related to the post, but what do you do, as a career?

I ask because we seem to have a lot of the same interests.

shabaad · 2020-04-07T18:24:36+00:00

I'm very curious about your opening chess move on tinder. Can you elaborate on that?

On the rest, well done! You surely inspire confidence from your writing!

G3RDAS · 2020-04-07T17:54:26+00:00

Isnt the hearing affected due to live concerts, standing in front row and not wearing earplugs? Thats the way I found out about my hearing problem..

Undiscriminatingness · 2020-04-07T18:59:21+00:00

Kudos to you ( OP ) for your hard work.

If you are truly a "skilled and generous lover" just be SURE to keep the noise in your parents basement down to a minimum.

okay?

Sincerely, Mom & Dad

awwhorsefeathers · 2020-04-07T18:06:46+00:00

This is very solid so pay attention to this if you are hurting in the dating game. I agree with pretty much everything he says and run my game in a similar way. I’m happy for him and the wins he has.

Buddy_MK · 2020-04-07T18:08:27+00:00

What strategy or skillset do you use in your online dating?

__am__i_ · 2020-04-07T19:09:35+00:00

Thank you, OP for making this post. It's important to listen to criticism but ignore the hatred which is coming towards your way-- and it aligns with one of your strategies too.

I am 5.7'' but in a different market where the average height is around that and all the points, you have said ring bell to me. I forgot about these in last few months, this post was the required nudge to be back at work.

BenitoCamelasVG · 2020-04-07T19:51:38+00:00

Do you have a guideline on what makes you skilled at sex?

jooocygrl · 2020-04-07T22:12:41+00:00

I don’t know if a woman’s opinion would weigh much on this post but I think it’s worth a try. I’m a 5’0 Latina and have dated both men that are 6’0 and men below that. I’m engaged to a man who’s 5’5-5”6ish I never had this hidden agenda to date a man who’s significantly taller than me. And I know some will say that height won’t matter to someone who’s short for like LOL but still... I can only speak for myself, but I recognize how women will joke about men’s height the way men joke about women’s weight. BOTH aren’t ok. But I hope those of you with lack of confidence because of your height understand that who you are, your personality, humor, etc. will speak for itself when you’re with someone who’s not a superficial ass. That being said, online dating IS a purely superficial form of dating that relies on looks. I feel with the advancement of technology things will continue to become more superficial and coming generations will fixate on looks but I still strongly encourage to meet people in person instead. Best of luck y’all! 😊

ragesbastardson · 2020-04-07T18:48:08+00:00

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seedster5 · 2020-04-07T18:59:59+00:00

Used to live this lifestyle in my 20s. It gets very tiring. I'm also very introverted too. You wouldn't be able to tell as I lift, camp, hike, reluctantly party, and lived in a frat house for 4 years.

ragesbastardson · 2020-04-07T19:12:12+00:00

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vishnj · 2020-04-07T19:13:21+00:00

So a 6/10 is really good to be honest. Try making your profile a 4/10. You wouldn’t even get a quarter of the matches you got previously. The point I am trying to make here is that in the online game you are only as good as what your profile is. If you can’t get a match, the rest does not even matter. For a genuinely 4/10 person it will definitely be harder no matter how good of a lover or how enlightened and intelligent he/she is.

kamakeleh · 2020-04-07T19:14:04+00:00

You got a snapchat? dm me I need help if you can spare it.

BenitoCamelasVG · 2020-04-07T19:17:30+00:00

Can you give me real examples to avoid being needy or pushy while trying to date someone you actually like?

EZPeeVee · 2020-04-07T19:49:20+00:00

I have game irl. I've slept with literally hundreds of women most way above average. My online game sucks. My opening lines are always weak and I put my foot in my mouth when I'm otherwise eloquent. If they get to know me they want me but I think I make a weak first impression online.

Cmdrj-nice · 2020-04-07T19:49:42+00:00

Where did you get your hearing loss from

Mr_CoolBreeze · 2020-04-07T19:52:13+00:00

How would you rate the women you slept with on looks?

K0oligan · 2020-04-07T20:15:06+00:00

dark humour is a strength?

Goruto1334 · 2020-04-07T20:19:10+00:00

6’2 automatically gives you an advantage especially when you say most of your success comes from online dating. If you have a 5 in the left column as a guy. Girls don’t give a damn what you have to say. Not to say that you put no work in because I’m proud of the success your having but online dating is a MUCH different ball game when you are average like me at 5’9 and I don’t even want to know what it’s like for my fellow Kings who are shorter than me because I’ve had 0 success in about 5 months of online dating and I’d probably classify myself as a 6/10 as well. Keep your heads up kings, it will happen, just keep on keepin’ on.

TheMailmanic · 2020-04-07T20:19:32+00:00

6'2, 90 kg

Consider myself a 6/10.

Yeahhhhh I'm gonna stop you right there lol. Not saying height Is everything but especially on tinder you immediately get a big boost.

0001none · 2020-04-07T20:20:04+00:00

the simple fact is, if you do well in online dating, you're at least an 8/10. Women under 4 get ignored and men under 8 get completely ignored on tinder.

you're underestimating the impact of your height, and I doubt you'll ever agree because you've never been deprived of that advantage. see "This Is Water"

UC18 · 2020-04-07T20:40:02+00:00

Hey! I'm also into the same stuff you are (hell, I'm studying music composition and screenwriting in college), my only problem is that I'm 5'6 and slightly chubby (my height's never a drawback, rarely comes up and my ex girlfriend of two years was taller than me. Gained weight from a depressive slump and I'm working my ass off to get back into shape and it's going well). I have major anxiety talking to people and sometimes I literally RUN out of stuff to talk about. Ik it's not nerves or anything, cuz it happens with friends and family as well. I just don't talk much, over text or otherwise. Any tips on how to steer conversations in my favor or get someone to talk/open up more?

Sometimes things go well for me, like the other day I talked to this girl almost all night long and then my mind blanked and I didn't know how to bring up anything and after sometime she bounced.

ragesbastardson · 2020-04-07T21:16:04+00:00

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berryblend11 · 2020-04-07T21:22:14+00:00

"6'2, muscular but slightly chubby, broad frame"As if this wasn't enough.

"Funny, sarcastic and dark humour, Very strong with the written form"I find that very hard to believe with how much humble bragging you do.

"Matched with over 3000 women in online dating.Have had 300 phone numbers given to me.Have been on 200 odd dates.Had sex with roughly 70 women."If your goal was being a completely fake person that has meaningless sex with people, congrats. I love that you keep count.

Like whats your end goal? Just to manipulate woman for the rest of your life?

"Full disclosure, I can be socially awkward. I chalk that up to living with depression and anxiety. This means, I've chose to forgo any form of real world day game."
It's almost as if woman can tell you're a creep and you haven't had time to infect their brains.

Stable people don't do this. Idk if your goal is to be stable, but if you think learning mind tricks is going to make anyone trust you, youre only kidding yourself.

gucciwillis · 2020-04-07T21:39:26+00:00

wait is being tall really that much of an advantage?? these comments make it seem like being above 6ft pushes you straight to a 10/10. good time to be 6’3 i guess

BenitoCamelasVG · 2020-04-07T21:49:39+00:00

Can you elaborate more on your first date tips & tricks? Thanks man, very inspiring.

sungotti · 2020-04-07T21:50:44+00:00

Damn this was actually helpful, good shit dude

JohnnyButtonlips · 2020-04-07T22:11:43+00:00

6'2 is not exactly "average" my dude.

Fuck-Face · 2020-04-07T22:20:09+00:00

You've had sex with "roughly 70 women"

What was the average attraction rating on a scale of 1-10? Was it like anyone who would let you?

BenitoCamelasVG · 2020-04-07T22:25:40+00:00

Can you give us the top resources which improve your game? (Podcast, books, blogs, etc)

Disturbed_Aidan · 2020-04-07T22:30:39+00:00

How many STDs have you had?

ghlibisk · 2020-04-09T22:59:50+00:00

Fuck all these haters. Don't understand the "you're 6'2 therefore I can't get laid" logic. Good on you if you're killing it.

Some questions:

Care to share pictures of your profile? (feel free to blur out your name/face)
What apps are you using?
Are you paying? If so, which app is most bang (heh) for you buck?
Do you have more success with the fast swiping apps (Tinder/Bumble) or the slower more messaged based apps (CmB/Hinge)?
For your profile text, is it more informative (hobbies, likes/dislikes) or funny (a joke, remark, or observation)?
Is the text long or short?
Does your profile text even matter?
For your pictures, how do you order them? For instance, I put a full face (no sunglasses) and body picture first, then a pic with fun friends, then a hobby/activity pic.
Do you change your profile often?
Do you change your profile to reflect topical events? (a joke about Tiger King, a picture of you with a crown sitting on a throne of toilet paper, etc)
Have you found ways of gaming or tricking the app's algorithm? For instance, I think Hinge's app hates me because I take forever to respond. Hence I'm getting significantly more unattractive girls come up in my feed lately
How quickly do you respond after matching?
How long do you chit-chat before you set up a date?

When crafting a profile, I've found you can cast a wide net with a lower % conversion ratio, or cast a lower net with a higher probatility of success. Ex: if you say you're Jewish, you might automaticaly be a hard no for girls who go to church. A raunchy joke will scare some away some tender sensibilities. However, if your profile is too non-controversial, it will be too vanilla and attract nobody. Obviously it is counter productive to not have a profile that depicts your actual self, but how much "creative non-fiction" is too much?

Cheers mate

PeruvianPuffPep · 2020-04-07T19:13:44+00:00

All I heard is you’re 6’2

ciaeric2 · 2020-04-07T19:34:04+00:00

Im sorry but all of your credibility flew out the door when you mentioned you were 6’2”

The last thing you are is an average man at that height

Many people have to work a lot harder just to have the same physical presence as you

whocaresde · 2020-04-07T17:59:33+00:00

So whats the point? Fucking 70 but having NONE

2020-04-07T18:26:24+00:00

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SugarAndSpice87 · 2020-04-07T19:15:27+00:00

This guy’s a joke. My bf is 5’5, prematurely bald and has been with as many women as he has. My man is confident, charming, funny and sexy as hell. THAT’s how you get women.

Akz0_ · 2020-04-07T18:27:46+00:00

When someone's never been in your place, and that person tries to suggests you shit about his experience, I always prefer not to take it, learnt it the harsh way.

ragesbastardson · 2020-04-07T18:59:16+00:00

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Title	Conversations with an average man with an above average sex life
Author	ragesbastardson
Upvotes	292
Comments	210
Date	April 7, 2020 5:28 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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