advant525 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
48	Conversations with an average man with an above average sex life OP is dense and oblivious	/r/seduction	07/04/20 06:23 PM
2	What is the difference between being direct and coming on too strong? OP's still young... so nothing wrong with those kind of girls at his age. It's just having to keep everything new and fresh that's challenging, which I thought was a fun experience. Just gotta treat it like a new experience yourself...	/r/seduction	04/04/20 07:01 AM
2	What is the difference between being direct and coming on too strong? Lol sounds like a girl I dated. Sounds like she might not be interested in going to where she's been... Pick a new location for another date of a diff hiking spot, but sell it like there's something intriguing about this other location. If she shoots that down then move on.	/r/seduction	04/04/20 05:34 AM
1	What is the difference between being direct and coming on too strong? No context to go off of... How did you open in text? How did your in-person end? How long have you known her? There's no right answer without context... All I can tell you is "yes," but also, maybe "no."	/r/seduction	04/04/20 02:30 AM
1	How often should you text a girl? There's no right answer... If u just got her number, maybe once or twice a week depending on how she reciprocates... If friends for a while then continue at the usual pace... Rly depends on the condition and the girl	/r/seduction	28/03/20 10:33 PM
1	How can you be and sound genuinely interested in her in convo while not sounding overeager to learn about her? By interacting in a normal manner and treating her like a normal person... If you're not catching interest then she might not be the one... "Sound genuinely interested" can literally not be genuine if you actually aren't...	/r/seduction	29/02/20 09:15 PM
5	Her opinion of you, does not matter. Valid point, but your post is more so for people in relationship already -- whereas this sub is for people still approaching others	/r/seduction	29/02/20 06:22 PM
16	Her opinion of you, does not matter. This is the most incel post I've seen lol... Changing your personality because of one person is not necessary... but in the specific case of this sub, after a number of rejections, one should do some self-reflection and ask maybe it's not the other person... it's yourself.	/r/seduction	29/02/20 06:20 PM
1	Dont chase women This is the worst advice without context... Women wouldn't notice you unless you're flashy or you make the approach...	/r/seduction	18/02/20 08:47 PM
4	First cold approach!! Yes, ignore me. Just go out and talk to everyone that's busy with their own thing and annoy them. You're totally not starting off the interaction on a negative first impression.	/r/seduction	07/02/20 06:23 PM
59	First cold approach!! Good job on having the courage to approach... but next time, keep in mind that if they're occupied or seem to be in the middle of a task your chance of getting a positive feedback will not be likely... it's best to approach them when they're not busy or move on... It's one thing to shoot your shot, it's another to shoot your shot at an unlikely target.	/r/seduction	06/02/20 11:07 PM
1	Leave your excuses at the door Pics or never happened.	/r/seduction	02/02/20 09:22 PM
1	Kiss at the end of the Date/ Rule of Thumb Depends on the girl ngl this just threw everything you said out the window lol... but i understand ur point and i'll keep in mind. def a nuanced perspective that isn't rly out there.	/r/seduction	01/02/20 09:53 PM
1	Kiss at the end of the Date/ Rule of Thumb I think both of you have good points, but OP is more so referring to a long term relationship and your point is more closely related to pick up or ONS. Don't mind me if I'm wrong, I'm still intermediate at this whole thing...	/r/seduction	01/02/20 08:52 PM
3	Kiss at the end of the Date/ Rule of Thumb Ah thanks! We've been chatting almost every day since our date and I feel like its pointless chatting since we're just flirting. Definitely needed your input regarding the whole optionless perspective.	/r/seduction	01/02/20 07:41 PM
3	Kiss at the end of the Date/ Rule of Thumb What if escalation happened, and I mean it really escalated (but not to the point of banging but just lots of touching and making out). Who should be the one setting up the second date? I followed up the weekdays after our date and been flirting over text, however, she appears to be dodging a second date or at least appears to be. What's your assessment of the situation at this point? Should I disengage for a bit?	/r/seduction	01/02/20 07:31 PM
3	How Being Introverted Can Get You Girls There's a diff between being introverted and being a wimp... I'm introverted and I don't approach people/strangers unless absolutely necessary. However, once I know someone, I begin to get comfortable... It's all about breaking your own personal barrier initially... Then you can retreat back to your own cave.	/r/seduction	30/01/20 06:58 PM
29	She told me I was boring. What are some tips I can do to change this? She might just be testing u, by offending u... Take it with a grain of salt, don't let it affect u. If anything, next time just go with it, and repeat (not literally) her insult with sarcasm and dry humor. Edit: I'm pretty boring myself... But I have boring hobbies like studying philosophy, building computers, researching investment and the market, politics... Etc... As long as u can own ur hobbies and talk about them you're not boring.	/r/seduction	22/01/20 11:58 PM
5	[FR] Getting Past "Let's Just be Friends" No just let her go or do one word replies like "k" or "cool" or just ghost her. She wants an reaction out of you.	/r/seduction	22/01/20 09:52 AM
0	[FR] Getting Past "Let's Just be Friends" I wish this post existed earlier last year when I was dating this really hot girl and she was throwing me all these signs... Altho we were in a relationship, I could've used some of these reminders to sustain it...	/r/seduction	22/01/20 09:45 AM
3	Where to have sex when living with both parents and not having a car? I live at home because I travel for work. It doesn't make sense for me to pay rent at a place I don't live at majority of the time. The right girl wouldn't mind and would appreciate that a guy is financially savvy. It'd be a different story if the guy lived in the living room or garage... I've had ONS's in my parent's house, I've done weekend getaways, airbnbs. It's w.e the situation calls for...	/r/seduction	16/01/20 03:44 PM